What’s wrong with me?

agileipa · 2022-02-19T18:51:44+00:00

You know what’s holding you back more than anything? Expectations!! You have some fucked up expectation that if you had someone that was committed to fucking you then you would be happy. This is exactly backwards, trust me as someone who has been in several relationships, married, fwb, all the different dynamics.

You have to embrace being alone, build yourself up and truly create value. Once you have done this, then lots of women will have no issues committing to fucking you.

I hope that makes sense.

2022-02-19T19:51:44+00:00

Rejections, dead ends, having only 2 girls at the age of 22. Know that all of this is normal, and know that men tend to exaggerate their actual sexual successes by a LOT.

For an FWB relationship, I think you generally have to be much higher value than the girl. Either you’re much more physically attractive than her, or you’re in a much better position in life. I’m not physically attractive, and the only FWBs I had were those who seemed to look up to me on an intellectual and social level.

The only 22 year olds I know who were banging a lot of girls were tall, handsome and physically. The good news is that you’re really quite young, and you have a lot of time to build yourself up physically, emotionally and financially.

xodkifkdsk · 2022-02-19T18:23:38+00:00

You prob just need more experience. Do 10 girls.

xodkifkdsk · 2022-02-19T18:20:28+00:00

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jayfoxpox · 2022-02-19T20:45:15+00:00

Sounds like you just long for a deeper connection (serious) relationship, just focus on being their friend on the next one and know that you're able to escalate it sexually when you want.

Bladelazoe · 2022-02-19T21:33:55+00:00

I just want a normal fwb or gf/bf relationship without having to deal with this bullshit.

What do you want? Do you want something casual or do you want a committed relationship? Do you want to have a lot of sex with different women? Define that first.

AdDesperate2498 · 2022-02-20T00:04:26+00:00

There's plenty of people on here who haven't fucked anything beside their hand. Sounds like you're doing ok.

South_ParkRepublican · 2022-02-20T05:29:56+00:00

Yo, just wanted to say I'm 23 and in the same boat as you. had 3 sexual experiences that were basically one offs and a bunch of dead end dates...

I'm trying to focus on my hobbies, my career, and trying to date as well, but its definitely tough and I have the same feelings as you.. I'm confident we will both figure it out in time though. My goal is to just keep trying to meet more people and talk to more girls utilizing both online dating and my hobbies and social network

2022-02-20T06:39:25+00:00

Well, you need to search in places where stable, big personality girl may find herself in :)

Many girls are not interested in going into relationship in certain periods, especially if she is using some Tinder, Snapchat, Instagram apps to get male attention. To get some longer relationship, you should make a deeper connection within first few meetings, don't get straight into shallow body pleasures and make your progress in a way that she will be waiting for your next date with trembles. Don't conclude your dates, make promises and view of pleasurable future to look for. Then maybe she will hook up, and there will be no point for her to look for newer model, as your relation is so much better than random hookup.

Title	What’s wrong with me?
Author	xodkifkdsk
Upvotes	9
Comments	12
Date	February 19, 2022 6:17 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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