I've been trying to expose myself out there to more people. I scrapped online dating because I didn't feel like I was making any real connections. They felt very unauthentic.

I frequent EDM clubs as I am a big fan of the music. I always hype myself up right before going regarding just having conversation with people. Women in particular. However, when Im actually there. Im in my head a lot and dont actually make any progress. Im friendly and average looking enough that ive been approached in the past so I truly believe my problem is onternal. But I want to feel comfortable and just flow with the conversation.

I hear the 'just do it' advice but thats harder than it sounds. Do you guys have any advice on just getting out there and be charming?