A few weeks ago, I wanted to start a weekly (daily?) thread addressing specific topics. Then I completely forgot about it, so it's been a few weeks since I asked the last question. My bad.
Today's question: Let's say you get a girl's number, or fuck her, or whatever, and now it's been 3-6 days since then. You haven't talked since (maybe you texted/called her once or twice but didn't get a response). What do you do now?
For the comments, I want to see responses from guys who have been through this before and have had success from whatever "method" they used. If you haven't been through this before, and/or haven't had success with it, please don't give your armchair-psychologist opinion (but please feel free to ask questions about the situation).
To give a bit of my opinion here, I don't think you should try calling/texting again for at least a few days. After a few days (or a week, or more), I text with some callback humor, and basically wait for a response again. If nothing, I basically let it go. If I get a response, I almost always immediately invite her to some event where we can see each other and do some shit. If no response, I'll basically wait as long as I can, so if she doesn't text within a month or so, I'll eventually text her again with some more callback humor or some sort of jokey text that obligates a response.
Give me your thoughts. Ask questions. Ask why it's better to wait instead of immediately texting. Or come up with a similar hypothetical situation of your own, and ask about it. Or give examples of how you've dealt with it. Anything goes.
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