(This is about texting girls you met at a party or get to know thru friends not just girls you meet on tinder)

Hey so recently I watched my friend snapping girls and it really got me thinking about my texting game. He is the guy that gets all the girls and that’s why I thought I should implement some of his strategy’s into my own texting game.Right now Im investing into the conversation thinking about what to say and telling extra things they didn’t ask for. I try to keep the conerversation going and to make it fun. I feel like if I try to text like him I am just mean and would change my personality. For example the girl would tell me about her music taste and I would text her: omg I need you’re Playlist. Instead my friend would send ok idc and change the subject. I guess this makes him more in control of the conversation and makes his attention valuable for the girl. After that he sends a joke or a message to sexualize the convo or just asked for something directly like nudes or lets fuck. I think it’s ridiculous how he gets away with this. I guess this is partly because in my age group things we learn thru selfimprovment like a goal in live isn’t an important trait for girls.

Here’s an other example: one time me and other guys snapped this girl and one of them made out with her and they became really close but he didn’t even know that she used to live in the states. And then there’s me i have 3 inside jokes but o making out whatsoever. (I guess this is caused by not creating sexual tension or non polarizing) I feel like if I try to text like him I am just mean and would change my personality.

My idea would be to keep my texting style or at least make my attention more valuable for girls by not answering lame questions. What do you guys think about this? Sorry for any misspelling or gramma errors englisch isn’t my first language.