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Considering I make over 150k annually, am not an obese overload, and my N count is over 100 I’m pretty sure I’m doing just fine. People who want to have kids will have them. Those who don’t, won’t. The answer no is more than enough. Nice try broccoli head.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:07 PM
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No we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 07:01 PM
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Man wtf post of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 07:02 PM
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Uh no. Have you talked to women? Actually talked to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:32 AM
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I have but “hunter” in the 30,40,50s movies look like a deflated James Bond. Thus was an attempt to point out their inaccuracy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:38 PM
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I’d say there is a 99.5% (made this up) this person isn’t who they claim every man should be and is pretending to be He-man hulk on the internets
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:18 PM
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Post a selfie of yourself to show us how much of a hunter warrior man you have “evolved into”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 03:13 PM
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Just about every woman minus one (who I thought was marriage material) used any emotional connection we had and shared with strength as a way to fight dirty with a really bad dirty argument /verbal fight. Women don’t fight with fists primarily, they fight with insults and throw secrets and emotional trauma /wounds back into each others faces. Thus it’s sad to state be aware that what you share can and will be used against you with an attempt to protect themselves while hurting you emotionally at…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:07 PM
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You wish so hard for all men to want to date you, a transwoman with a Y chromosome, but alas you have lost the attempt at pointing “red pill men” towards wanting to date men /transwoman discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:03 PM
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I have no desire to date trans women or men. Good luck trying to convince those who absolutely refuse to do this. Men are men, women are women. Trans men are trans men, trans women are trans women. Trans woman biologically cannot be women as they have the additional Y chromosome in their dna. It doesn’t make anyone more or less than as all people are people, but trans women are technically still biologically men as we don’t a way to change dna and remove the chromosomes for a 100% transition min…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:20 PM
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Think of evolution as a basis. As humans and social norms and expectations grew and evolved overtime , it’s the same basic premise. Best presented human genes are desired to ensure healthy offspring
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:55 PM
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Upvote. Pin to top of thread. Close it. This is all it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:17 PM
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Sounds like a duck quacks like a duck guess what. Is a duck. Go outside, touch grass. Some parts of life are easy and some are hard. Complaining on the internet doesn’t win you support or cool points.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:41 PM
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Man go somewhere else with your doomsday incel perspective on life. You’re a teenager for fucks sake
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:37 PM
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Man wtf with this recent doomsday perspective posts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:29 PM
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Welp there you go. Mods have shown they worship LOB and if you post the same thing they do gaslighting them back they stand with LOB. What a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:34 PM
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I genuinely have a slow day at work so let’s make it entertaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:07 PM
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Yup agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:07 PM
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I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:06 PM
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Some are some parents. Quite odd to be transparent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:05 PM
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In my day job yes, on Reddit not so much
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:05 PM
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It tells me what the fox says. https://youtu.be/jofNR\_WkoCE?is=1E-25dliHr7SLSnl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:05 PM
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I am laughing reading folks get mad for reposting the same thing the other poster does but changing men to women, guys to women, Courtney to Chris. So stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:04 PM
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This is a 100% shit post copy paste of theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:04 PM
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I don’t have a good enough meme bank that can top this one 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:03 PM
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Always willing to be a child at heart. Paying bills and aching joints and bones suck 500%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:02 PM
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And you’re debating with me about this making you a weirdo too lol…one of us. One of us
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:55 PM
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I can too but it’s the principle
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:54 PM
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Ok cool. 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:54 PM
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I’m at work. Hello multitasking :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:54 PM
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Either way proves a point 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:52 PM
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Boosts means paying for it after they already have and aggregate your data. Yup, you are officially the product x2. They have your payment info and now your personal and email/phone too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:52 PM
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Be just as annoying as possible to force the mods to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:51 PM
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Nah it’s a little both. Because equality right ? So nonsense post and if it triggers the other side, well it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:50 PM
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Thank you ChatGPT
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:49 PM
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That takes too much work scrolling TikTok (blah) as that’s their source too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:48 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:47 PM
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If my debate gets removed the other needs to get removed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:47 PM
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Change your subreddit view to newest and as your scroll down it’ll make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:47 PM
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I agree with you but you either play the game or try to be ethical. Sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:46 PM
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You match and chat to show the apps you have a higher “dating profile score” and chat to waste people’s time to allow your profile to see more people. Seriously that’s the playbook. Sad reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:44 PM
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You don’t see the overall reason of posting this and what’s happening here…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:42 PM
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TikTok is my source as it’s the other persons source too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:42 PM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:02 PM
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Where are you u/wtknight ?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 03:00 PM
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Have an upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:43 AM
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Ah that’s unfortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:08 AM
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My post has more upvotes than the other one. Winning !
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:08 AM
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You forgot your /s 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:07 AM
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Not at all but let’s see what happens 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:06 AM
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I have no idea. Report it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:47 PM
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When they hop in the shower. Seriously WTF question is this for PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:35 PM
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they will never ban BOL....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:12 AM
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its a test. She offers to pay or split half. I am that person that tells them if this is a test I'm going to accept and verbally tell you contribute by paying for some or dessert/snack/a drink/tip. If I see her again, sweet! If I don't, I have another "half date money" in my wallet. edit- just realized down the comment chain this was answered more eloquently
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:52 AM
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I dated a couple people who think like you in this regard. 2 of the best relationships I've been in. Somewhat of a both of us invested in our time together including financially. Shows she understands the value of currency and it's a way to easily obtain respect from a man. I'm not hitting on a stranger on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:49 AM
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Sounds like you are the awkward Indian tech guy trying so hard to date that even common friends don't want to be a wingman/wing woman and introduce you to their single friends. You are going to have a battle dating outside of your race and culture with the negative stereotypes of dating "an Indian guy." Easy internet search shows Indian and Desi women not wanting to date the typical Indian man in the west because of those stereotypes and experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:43 PM
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Telling someone they aren’t attractive enough for the special privilege they seek is making things personal? Holy backflip Batman you are deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:40 PM
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Anyone who is “a serious gym go’er” or wants to be serious knows this saying from CT Fletcher. It’s not new slang by any means it’s a metaphor, either put up or get crushed by the world around you. Enjoy. CT Fletcher - ISYMFS https://youtu.be/MkiNCx3wiuI?si=yuwHuGSAiDepUIm7
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:40 PM
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Hit the gym too mod. We all can benefit from it. Arsenal fans are seriously known as gooners. You need to step outside the USA perspective: https://www.arsenal.com/news/why-are-arsenal-fans-called-gooners
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:53 AM
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No we bring back bullying and bully OP for this proposal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:55 PM
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It could be. Honestly haven’t dug into it enough to make an educated opinion. Doom and gloom isn’t how I operate 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:24 PM
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Have an upvote. WTF post by OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:17 PM
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Agree. Shame on OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:14 PM
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Yeah no not doing this. Pretty stupid to waste your energy this way. Wish you luck because this isn’t “red pill” this is “black pill doom and gloom.” Change your flair accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:14 PM
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This seems oddly specific. You want to date them go for it. If not you don’t have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:02 PM
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You’re being weird. You are sticking up for arsenal in your last submitted post here on Reddit. So much for “not being a fan.” My big 3 (bench + squat + deadlift) in college while doing distance running was 1300lbs. Wilks score as of today is a 317.02 (Bench 315, squat 365, deadlift 455). No idea on max reps or increasing the weight more as with my age I have no desire to go higher. Health is the biggest concern and I just enjoy the struggle at the age of 35. I have completed an iron man triathl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:15 AM
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No they haven’t. You just aren’t hot enough. Cold approached someone in the gym the other day and at the grocery because they kept sneaking glances. Go hit the mother fucking gym. Also women don’t like gooners aka arsenal fans. Arsenal fans are just that, arse’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:36 PM
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Skill issue can be your genetic makeup which generates undesirable physical traits. Yeah sure it's not the person's fault they were born this way into a world they never asked for, but the reality is, it's a skill issue even though its not a "trainable skill" if you have half a face or not working legs. Not doom and gloom, its reality for many people sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:01 PM
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Skill issue can be your genetic makeup which generates undesirable physical traits. Yeah sure it's not the person's fault they were born this way into a world they never asked for, but the reality is, it's a skill issue even though its not a "trainable skill" if you have half a face or not working legs. Not doom and gloom, its reality for many people sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:00 PM
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yup. have an upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 09:57 PM
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100% agree with you here. I don’t like to say it but dating literally is sales however it’s “selling yourself” to another person to want to invest their time and energy with vs other people. It’s so basic but people get caught up in the details. Rules of dating is the simple 3 rules. 1. Be attractive. 2. Don’t be unattractive. 3. Follow rules 1 and 2 for success.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 03:05 PM
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Yup. Another redditor saying we need this and that but have no plan. Figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:45 PM
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You haven’t answered my question with clear metrics how to solve this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:41 PM
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So let’s save the human race. How do we fix this if the world runs on a currency of some sort and there’s no such thing as “free lunch” ? Let’s hear your open to save the human race from it destroying itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:35 PM
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Again why is this my issue ? It’s not. I’m not responsible for the choices my country makes in regards to global population. If you want to make it a priority for YOU by all means go for it. In the USA it’s been beaten into me that USA is the best country in the world 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸. However all the actions of the people Voting in the government have proven time and time again they don’t care about their fellow man, they care about about being “right” and “winning” against the liberals and MAGA (conserv…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:31 PM
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And that’s not the women’s fault. Either step up and be a man that’s worth wanting or don’t play at all. The “naturals” understand how the dating game is played and that’s who women want playing the game. Not folks who took too long to be given the true rules of dating outside side of social messaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:23 PM
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You are looking too far into this. Women owe man nothing. Men owe women nothing. Both genders at the basic premise if you take society and expected social norms away from discussion. No one owes anyone anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 02:21 PM
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You keep moving goal posts. Wish you well with this odd dream of a dystopian world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:53 PM
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My response answers your question. No sex = no relationship. I’d rather be single and actively dating vs in a dead bedroom relationship and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:50 PM
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I need sex for me to be exclusive and actually have a relationship. Being asexual is a deal breaker. I don’t care if I was married to this person for 15-20 years. Change in physical intimacy of no sex (once a month is bullshit) makes us not compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:39 PM
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The American dream these days for most folks is what most immigrants do for a couple years and then leave. Stack up your savings and money, grind, buy your slice of heaven in another country and then move to it. America isn’t America anymore with this administration. It was a glimpse of how we could have been a proper powerhouse of an economy and actually SERVE the people that live here with access to proper education, healthcare, paternity leave, a universal health are system with private care …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:37 AM
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Neither because having kids suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 11:17 PM
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That’s what many folks have tried to say before but because TRP put it as rules into a side bar it’s “red pill and anti women” for these basic things that many folks weren’t taught growing up. Since undesirables are starting to be taught “game” publicly, it’s anti women for some odd reason. But women also benefit from this and are taught this by moms/sisters/family/etc openly and men it’s usually shunnedI if you speak about improving a “non natural” to have a chance for success at dating. Very o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:12 PM
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Sounds like you want to debate but keep moving goal posts. Submit your own post for people to debate with you over this with willing persons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:45 PM
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Meaning I don’t care about rollo and his personal life and follow him like he is Jesus or orange man Donald J Trump. Fuck that guy outside of the basic sidebar.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:37 PM
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Sure thing man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 05:26 PM
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No one cared what rollo tried to do to make this financially viable. Was stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:47 PM
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I don’t want to be an adult either. I have to work and pay bills. Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:15 PM
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Not blaming anyone, you find out as you date them. Thus the point of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:59 PM
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Fun fact, no one wants to be the actual responsible adult in the room, everyone wants to have fun and not be responsible. Gender doesn't matter for this. 99% of the time any woman I have dated they want to be the one to have all the fun and I am the one who is responsible if we go out, have drinks, party it up, spontaneous purchases or trips, etc etc. She just wants to exist. More than happy to flip the roles where I can just exist and she is the responsible one, however its only happened 2x on …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:57 PM
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This is what trp was before the blackpill , incels , and MGTOW subreddits were removed form Reddit before their IPO. Now it’s all this complaining and crabs in a bucket everywhere else. it’s not trp. It’s not reddits job to host a space for these social groups however, now that there isn’t a circular place, they spill over everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:34 PM
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Why should we listen to you asking for all these evolving and technical definitions which can change from day to day. Odd thing to spend your time on trying to convince the entire population vs actually putting in work to be happy + a chance at dating. Odd request.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:32 PM
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You are asking too much when people just want to date successfully and be able to pay their bills and just live.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:20 PM
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Insane Redditors I swear lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:20 PM
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This isn’t red pill related but it’s the same as another poster stated under the auto mod: “Easy: "only correct choice is choosing me 😃". That’s the entire basis put extremely simply.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:56 PM
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LOB is the person to engages in this the most but now is crying wolf because of it. I swear if mods removed LOB posts as fast as they do for men making the counter point to LOB this would be a better place. El oh el my transparency comment will prob get removed by one of the mods anyway. #lilithslop
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:56 PM
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Sure they can and DO for those they find attractive and have the urge to do so. You just have to follow the basic rules which aren’t pill related. 1 be attractive, 2 don’t be unattractive, 3 follow rules 1 and 2 for dating success. Just telling men to not be literal overweight obese Reddit overlord fat asses changes men and women’s life experiences in regards to dating, career options, and how the public who doesn’t know you perceives you by how you treat and take care of yourself. This isn’t a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:02 PM
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Many of the dating apps do this today. You can “block” all folks in your contacts to not match with them ever. Sad part is you have to sync your contacts and that becomes a data point those apps sell to advertisers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:07 PM
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More goal posts. I guess I’ll add you to the very little block list for being a doomer and cannot have a proper discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 07:02 PM
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I’ve had that too from other people. She just came over, I opened a bottle or two of 5 buck chuck wine and after 15 minutes of conversation we both didn’t have on clothes. Not sure if the goal posts you are continuing to move with each comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:59 PM
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Idk man I have 3 women right now in rotation. She pays I pay, each person we both enjoy each other’s company. She comes to me and I go to her. Not sure what you are expecting with your unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:55 PM
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You are pulling strings to continue to be miserable. I wish you good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:45 PM
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They dress up and look pretty and we BOTH find out if we have compatibility. Usually are physically intimate within 3-4 dates. Women take hours to get ready and you can tell right away when you see her if she did or not. It’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:41 PM
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Why are you such a defeated person? Go date another defeated person so you folks can take yourselves off the market with your miserable asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 06:34 PM
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Dating apps work well for me and others. Sounds like OP has bad photos, doesn’t meet the basic criteria of not being fat or tidy for their photos. People seem to forget YOUR DATING PROFILE IS YOUR “I’M AVAILABLE FOR DATING” and put in minimal effort to sell themselves when looking for a partner. sadly in life nearly everything is “sales” when you look at it. Why did you buy that shirt/shoes/house/haircut/phone etc etc? Same applies to dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 01:05 PM
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5’10 or 178cm or so. I can always ask her to bring crackers but I usually have a couple boxes around as a box of decent crackers for wine and cheese is $3-$5. Cheese you buy the block or wheel for $5 or so and slice it yourself as it tastes better that way and it’s somewhat “he knows what he is doing” and “maybe they are more interesting than showing early on” if you bring the cheese you want with a small cutting board and plastic disposable knives. Literally it’s “shopping” from my own pantry o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:10 AM
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Welp as expected, you responded with doubling down with more doomsday cope. Guess what !?!?!? If you are hot enough and she thinks so SHE WILL OFFER TO PAY FOR NEARLY EVERYTHING. These days I put in just above minimal effort early on and go Dutch or plane dates that costs less than $40 USD until we are physically active. You can date smart and get to know people without throwing one entires day salary for the chance to get to know someone. Hell some of the best dates cost less than $25 and long …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:04 AM
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Idk about you but I’ve seen autistic folks who understand and follow the advice above to become AS HOT AS FUCK date some HOT WOMEN as they follow the physical attraction is a requirement rule. On the other hand other autistic folks swing in the other direction and then don’t understand. So it really depends what development level of autistic they are
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 10:54 AM
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Height can be a cope and excuse if you make it to be one. I promise you 100% as long as you are taller than her by at least 2-3” (5-7cm) you will be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 10:52 AM
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Dating is fun and not much work if you meet the basic criteria. Don’t be fat, actually be upkept and tidy (nails trimmed and groomed), have a hair cut that fits your face, clothes that fit properly and arent full of stains and holes. Make sure to make enough $$$ to pay your bills + save for retirement+ have some spending money to have some hobbies and fun. Guess what as an extroverted introvert! Women used to come up to ME and make date plans because THEY thought I was attractive. you just aren’…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 02:05 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 05:08 PM
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…Found a bisexual male who is a part of the problem complaining but says they’re not….
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:44 PM
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And the world has changed so much because of it for the better. The angry old religious men who wanna keep things the way they were currently are the biggest problem to global relations. Yes DJT is included in this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:21 PM
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Honestly, if I said what I truly wanted to say in regards to sharia law, I would get banned from Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:06 PM
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And that’s why Indian and middle eastern women do everything they can to study abroad and NEVER RETURN to their families because of this potentially happening. It’s a sad reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:51 AM
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Telling someone that they were chosen, and then have no choice to say no to having sex, but they are also going to get beat up whenever I supposedly decide to “beat them” isn’t a wife nor being in relationship. What you have described is essentially A SLAVE. Slaves were chosen and bought. Slaves were beaten and forced to have sex with their owners and others without regard to them screaming no while being restrained and/or raped. Only part of said “wife” I’d want to “beat up” is to “beat up that…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:55 AM
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…We don’t do this with theoretical scenarios with gotcha traps placed hidden behind OPs post…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 08:41 PM
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This is a doomsday gotcha situation. Not playing this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 07:30 PM
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Unwanted sex with no matter who it is has the potential to generate trauma in individuals. Doesn’t matter if it’s a boyfriend or husband or soul-bonded marriage people. Unwanted is unwanted and can lead to trauma. This is part of the reason many women are diagnosed with vaginismus (body is so afraid of sex because of social conditioning [think decades of religious shame and if you have sex outside of wedlock/arranged marriage all the family shame] is more common than you think. Your proposal of …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:36 PM
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This question is a bad faith debate and is positioned to be never being able to “win” or have a decent debate and conversation. Within your debate request, it doesn’t state how said “wife to be beaten whenever but sex is guaranteed” was chosen/obtained. Was this forced marriage, arranged by family, arranged and setup by government, was it by courting, etc etc. No I have no desire to be DJT and Jeffery Epstein and any persons who raped people (adults and children) should be held accountable globa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 04:50 PM
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You must be an unwanted BiSexual man to chase me down all over this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:01 PM
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You can be attracted to whoever and whatever you like. Until you PHYSICALLY DO ANY ACTS and technically you would not be a “bisexual.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:57 PM
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You would think their brain exploded with this response. 😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:53 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:51 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:23 PM
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Damn near a good portion of all the bisexual men within the subreddit cry “oh my God, I can’t be chosen because I do bisexual male activities.” “Women, you are a homophobic if you do not include me in your dating pool.” - cries from bisexual men within this subreddit. People are people, do whatever you want. They can also exclude you from their dating pool if they choose to, for whatever reason they would like. that’s called filtering out your preferences for dating or sexually seeing another hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:21 PM
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I honestly don’t think they will care and respond to OP because Bisexual men within this sub cry so fucking much about being excluded from dating pools when it’s their own decision and choice to be and take part in male bisexual acts. It just means you aren’t compatible
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:19 PM
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Women are allowed to have preferences. Men are open to have preferences. Men can date men and women if they want to, if you’re a woman, you can date men and women if you want to. Humans are entitled to date whoever and what they want. If you are excluded as a bisexual man because the bisexual woman thinks bisexual men are gross and yucky, by all means she is entitled to her dating decision and it just means the two of you aren’t compatible so stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 09:16 PM
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Most of younger society doesn’t really care as long as you block out the stupid Trumpers and strong annoying religious people globally. They have the loudest voice but smallest amount of people who want to turn the world into following their stupid religious beliefs. “My religion says xyz is bad/wrong.” Many of us don’t care, follow your own beliefs, don’t attempt to tell us what we can and cannot do or you will see these hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:56 PM
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The US is like this if you’re part of the cool popular groups at high school /university/college.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:33 PM
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Finally, someone else who actually gets it and is responding in this post. Have a couple upvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:30 PM
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An LTR would be ideal in a perfect world but none of these women I’m seeing at the moment meet my criteria for being in a LTR and I’m ok with it. My 4 year LTR ended last year. If a woman showed up in my life somehow and we start seeing each other and it leads to dating and we get serious by all means. But as of today nope. Apparently since I’m not complaining this isn’t seen or thought of as an option too huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:19 PM
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You are more than open to do whatever the hell you want. You do not need to crowdsource your decision for your “dating strategy” of not wanting to date a woman who has had a hookup in the past. This decision is for you and for you alone. Very odd post.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 08:18 PM
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You can do what you want but as someone in their mid 30s I refuse to “save myself for marriage.” I’ve done that before when I was younger to be “each others true first” and we finally had sex and well, definitely crisis avoided because I am not a prude by any means and she was. Easiest way to avoid a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:48 PM
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I have a couple FWBs and I’m pretty happy where I am. no desire to have the government in my relationship by getting legally married and have offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:46 PM
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Everywhere if you aren’t a dewb afraid to ask and say “🎶 hey girl, how you doing? My name is Charlie, last name Wilson. I was wondering, if I could take you out 🎶” https://youtu.be/wa4wR4G-5eE?si=DhgtHEtJ43ZJfEEi
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:43 PM
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As someone who was a late Bloomer, and also a huge sexual person (my n count is over 100) how dare I try and attempt to judge other people for doing the same thing as I did. That’s being a huge hypocrite. All I ask, is that in her previous relationships she didn’t cheat on her partner while she was in a committed relationship, doesn’t have any “for life” STDs (think HIV, AIDS, genital warts and herpes HSV-1) and she did not create children. I personally have never cheated when I was in a relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:32 PM
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No one is angry <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 07:09 PM
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Guess what, women like sex too. Some will in a relationship and some will outside of relationships. Sex is an urge and need for men and women. I guess this is the equivalent of discovering sliced bread or something huh, that women enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:50 PM
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Basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:31 PM
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Because fuck them kids
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:31 PM
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Idk man many of the hottest women and men I know had FWB people on the side because they ALWAYS had options. Nothing was public and no one would know as being discreet is the name of the game to maintain “high value woman/man” status among friend groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:31 PM
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No shy phone, I would not have sexual relations with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:25 PM
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Why the fuck not? I’ve done it too so who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:20 PM
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You’re nit picking. Most adults don’t want to be adults. Any partner can be the one that keeps the other’s mood and emotions in check when they are over the top and going to be a decision they will regret down the road. Can be the man or woman or whatever gender they choose ( ffs be a purple crayon I don’t care) but both partners equally have the role of being the “adult” at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:57 AM
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Not at all. Women are people too. Note all the responses in this anonymous internet forum aren't spitting "blue pill/red pill nonsense." "To put a woman on a pedestal" is a euphemism for "being socially and often sexually submissive" to her. It means you're afraid to tell her "no", and that you will tend to defer to her to make decisions and to set boundaries, etc. Instead of treating her like another person that you happen to care about, you treat her like she's an unobtainable, perfect being t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:44 PM
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You aren't wrong. However many folks hear "he is an asshole" because he didn't bow down or bend over to all the demands of the female gender (not really sure how to word this). Simply removing all women "off the pedestal" many folks will scream from the rooftops that these men hate women, and are assholes. "He refused to buy me drinks at the bar. He is an asshole." "He enforced boundaries within our relationship so he is controlling and an asshole." See, the hot guy is an asshole. But was he rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:28 PM
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Not quite but that’s a HUGE REACH
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:46 PM
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I don’t have any hate or resentment, I’m just fulfilling the subreddit discussion points. I genuinely ignore people when they throw 💩.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:15 PM
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Let’s do the gas lighting thing not that I agree with it. Paraphrasing: “Men are too fat to date so we don’t like fat men. They deserve nothing and are a waste of oxygen.” Sounds like women hate men because they don’t want to date fat/overweight/obese ones and don’t want them to exist. This seems to be pretty common so until women stop “hating fat/overweight/obese men” the “hating single mothers” will continue 🤷‍♂️ /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:58 PM
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I guess saying no thanks to dating single moms means “men hate them” 😂😂😂 what kind of tom foolery upset Donald trump temper tantrum is this reasoning 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:34 PM
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lmao have an upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:59 AM
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The goal for most people is to meet as many people as possible to find out WHICH ONES are interested in me as I am them and then play the "dating games" of finding out compatibility and go on dates. Not gender specific. This isn't pill related at all as if the people you know aren't interested in dating you, what do we have to do? Expand our network/net of possible people to meet to find that one(s) who are interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:59 AM
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It’s always been this way. Even since I was a wee boy. Then again your post is a soapbox advice post not a debate so will be locked and removed by mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 01:53 AM
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For dating it matters how you look for the beach, not how well you can perform. As much as I enjoy lifting heavy and powerlifting movements, no women was turned on or wanted to know me because my big 3 was over 1200lbs. They wanted to know me more than a surface level friend once I looked decent in clothes and a swimming trunks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:33 PM
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Have an upvote. it's the damn truth. not sure why you are downvoted for this. Seriously many men and women would dramatically increase their dating opportunities and chances to have high quality dating success and fulfilling relationships if they were in shape and healthy, not overweight or obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:31 PM
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No problem here with how selective women are. you have to know how to play the dating game. That being said, Have you SEEN MOST MEN ??? Even as a man I don’t blame them. Fat, overweight, slob, unkept. Reminds me of a couple friends who complain about slim/no pickings for dating but have the stats I mentioned above. Even if you are overweight/obese, at least attempt to be presentable. Fitting clothes, no holes or stains, personal hygiene (mannered facial hair, hair cut, good teeth that aren't yel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:02 PM
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idk man, my comments in this thread all have more upvotes than this post submission. It sounds like the community agrees with me and disagrees with you...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:56 AM
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Yeah, sure thing man because if that was the case you wouldn't be on reddit making this post. You would be out living life having a blast instead of making a complaining post "WoMeN dOn'T wAnT mEn ThAt ChEcK aLl ThE bOxEs ExCePt iF ThEy DoN't ChEcK tHe AtTrAcTiVe EnOuGh BoX bEcAuSe LoNg TeRm ReLaTiOnShIp PoTeNtIaL mEtRiC bRaH."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:47 AM
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AND your whole post screams of complaining that YOU get no play/dates/relationships. Gee I wonder why your profile history is private and your comment karma is in the negatives... Respectfully shut the fuck up, delete Facebook + social media + reddit, quit complaining with your doomsday bullshit, and hit the mother fucking gym because it's your motha fucking set. either you can play the game and turn it around to have a chance or you can bitch and moan on reddit and get more downvotes from the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:36 AM
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Yea, yea OP did. Pot calling the kettle black…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:25 AM
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And men do this too. What’s your point/complaint? All is see is finger pointing that “they do this” and it’s wrong but it’s “ok when I do it”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:24 AM
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Men do the same thing. What’s your point? I can match emotionally, psychologically with fat Amy (https://cdn.justjared.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/wilson-lebron/rebel-wilson-lebron-james-fat-amy-praise-09.jpg) or Precious (https://a.ltrbxd.com/resized/sm/upload/0e/jq/fz/li/precious-1200-1200-675-675-crop-000000.jpg?k=1a54f917d5) however if I don’t want to put my ding-a-ling in her we aren’t compatible. I need to be attracted to my FWB, GF, Fiancé, Wife, etc. Same thing applies to women. Men c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 12:18 AM
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Nobody in real life uses so many dashes….
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:57 PM
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Reply as a human being and stop using chatGPT.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:45 PM
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“Isn’t this the entire point for both sexes?” Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:02 PM
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Where in my comments have I said this ? I don’t see it. Only assumptions on your end here. takes 2 people to make a child, so 2 people are responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:01 PM
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If you look at my comment I'm not excluding your premises. Women and Men both have the choice to not have sex. If you do and have the ability to do so with your partner to have physical and a closer emotional connection (emotions are optional to each individual) by all means, but the government as of recent has made it "you got pregnant haha now suffer the consequences" which is wrong when it comes to fulfilling human relationships. F the christian Taliban as your religion is yours, not mine. Do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:16 PM
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And this should be by default. Make smarter choices, or you are on the hook for the child you created. Of course there are scenarios where temporary financial assistance is needed, however it shouldn't be a full time benefit/subsidy. Which is btw how WIC/Medicaid/and Snap operate. Can't afford it, utilize contraceptives, make the smart decision to have an abortion if needed, or become temporarily sterilized/sterilized (tubal ligation, IUD. condoms, etc etc.) however this is another variable and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:58 PM
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Honestly with how the USA administration has been setup and the constant pendulum swinging of values and program funding, having the government be in charge or paying child support will be gutted by default. It's not that the USA cannot afford these things as they can, however take a look at public schools for instance. Every person should be eligible for a Public education. however there are "metric gates" which depend how much funding your school receives. household income within the area. how…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:54 PM
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Shut your non-speaking English ass up. Translate that into ChatGPT 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 03:28 PM
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Nothing really LOL or funny about this or her being a single mom. it's very ironic. what do we see: Pretty girl clearly showing off her hair and semi symmetrical face and obvious CLEAVAGE with multiple beauty filters. Don't forget the subtle but in your face touch of the cross necklace which draws attention to her chest and cleavage even more. Somehow she believes that women will be happier walking into a date as he paid for her date prep costs while looking constantly to the right and upper rig…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 09:54 PM
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If you step back they are saying the same thing you are. Seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 07:16 PM
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Nicely said
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:41 PM
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Why would I prepay a nonrefundable deposit to potentially but not not guaranteed go on a date with a single mom? Would you put down a nonrefundable deposit to potentially but not guaranteed go on a date with a single dad? Think about how absurd this request is for both individuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:15 PM
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I mean LOB does this multiple times a week without issue so this should definitely be allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:42 PM
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lol. Single mom. lol. Demands nonrefundable deposit to not waste time. lol she’s the one making demands. lol. This is basically “send me money at no risk to her and maybe she will choose me.” Yeah, no. This is the equivalent of someone putting their cash app or Venmo account in their social media profile. If you are a dumbass to send me money with no strings attached it’s your fault I have your money now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:41 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:43 PM
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99% of people who are attractive can get dates from doom scrolling, and messaging people from their beds. Yes, this applies to both men, women, and trans folks. take that into consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 12:29 AM
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Lmao it seems so within the last couple weeks with their submissions. How to do IP check
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:25 PM
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Apparently they are too picky if they don’t choose OP. Lolz.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:10 PM
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Many people claim “they are Christian and follow the bible” but when caring about your neighbors like brothers and stoning cheaters is where they draw the line. Instead it’s “I don’t like it so here’s cherry picked bible verses, you are going to rot in hell”. So are they Christians or not ? Same metaphor and concept
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:45 PM
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No what a reach
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:16 PM
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We can’t control the internet from TikTok doomsday scrolling and even after watching 1-2-3 videos posted in here I’ve learned to watch things in “incognito mode” to not fill my algorithm with this doomsday slop. but what OP has posted is what TRP used to be which is actually great advice
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:15 PM
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Being labeled an asshole is as simple as saying no. How do you determine when being labeled an asshole is warranted ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:51 PM
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TRP was never this, despite what TikTok, YouTube, and the spill over of r/incels and r/blackpill + r/mgtow . Thats all shitty people being shitty people: "and where my opinion differs from traditional red pilled stuff is that I dont think women are attracted to bad guys because theyre bad. i dont believe in any of the dark triad bullshit nor do I believe being an asshole gets you women. Being hot gets you women, and women are more inclined to ignore asshole qualities the hotter you are." It was …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:17 PM
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"the wakeup call isnt finding out women want good men for ltr. its finding out how far a woman is willing to drop her “good man” qualifications for a really hot guy. im not even red pilled but I work alongside mainly women and have heard some diabolical stories of them dating and hooking up with legitimately and clearly awful people." Pretty much. that said it's not even pill related, dating success is seriously just the 3 rules of dating. 1. be attractive. 2. don't be unattractive. 3. follow ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:52 PM
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usually the characteristic traits you mention are due to those folks openly and willing to have a respectful disagreement, admit when they are wrong, aren't afraid of conflict, and if you are willing to walk away when your needs and desires are met, you are characterized as all the things you state. "dark triad, sociopath, sexist and Mysogenist." not willing to chase her after asking 2-3 times for a date? not willing to do more than a walk and coffee or a drink and a light bite for a first date?…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 03:32 AM
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They aren’t wrong however.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:25 PM
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You aren’t wrong at all. I would say this will get closed by the mods as you aren’t LOB spitting misogynistic nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:49 PM
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Perhaps but I was ALSO the problem when my friends and family were the ones being pursued and they didn’t want to be my actual friend. I was the road block unintentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:41 PM
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Get out of the way unwanted friend. We want your hot friend not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 07:38 PM
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What the weird fake ass “field report” is this 🤣. There’s no debate here you are super controlling holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:58 PM
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Not at all. Usually my best relationships go this way because SHE said I want to be exclusive first and then SHE wanted it to progress to a serious relationship. Of course I had the right to say yes or no during this progress of our relationship, but it’s amazing to be wanted in that manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 02:23 AM
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I wish it was this but it’s just a music video from Deiisigner or however you spell their name.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:27 PM
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Thank you for explaining “panda.” I agree with your statement. I’ve done the same with women as well. Just caused headaches later down the road. My video is just a hip-hop rap song from nearly a decade ago. Was famous for the chorus being “panda panda panda” and something about “broads in Atlanta” Edit - Thank you OP for the downvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:11 PM
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What’s panda? I’m sure it’s not this: https://youtu.be/E5ONTXHS2mM?si=CI10cw4LH-8P4lCC
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:54 PM
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You mean, “LOL, okay dude.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:25 PM
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Ahhh a hidden post history account. No, you need to learn English. I recommend hooked on phonics. Take another downvote for doubling down on being incorrect. Gee, I wonder why your overall post submission has a negative rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:59 PM
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Yes you can. Now take your downvote for being wrong once again !
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 06:52 PM
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Women and men can have empathy and compassion for each other but empathy and compassion don’t make the opposite sex want to date someone else or “give them a chance.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:41 PM
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There is no "red pill" in this. This statement is not wrong however: "Think of a woman who is the same age as you. She has bunch of options guys like you, better than you, all approaching her, it is quite natural for you to get rejected. That's most men your age group cause they have nothing to offer neither looks not money. Being kind and generous will not make her wet it will just leave you in the friendzone." There is a reason we say welcome to the grind which is for those who didnt just "get…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:59 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:40 PM
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Lmao you should always report those posts as doomsday circle jerk posts because that’s what she posts all the time when she isn’t in a relationship anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:13 PM
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Most people ghost because it’s easier to avoid confrontation. That’s all. Gender doesn’t matter here. Men do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:57 PM
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Too long didn’t read.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 01:50 PM
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You are stating you are going to willingly go date this person knowing they have 5 kids from the beginning and before the first date? No you aren't quit pretending you would
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:32 PM
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Op, the person in your TT reference and your premise states she has 5 kids. Not one, not two, but FIVE. You are more than welcome to lead by example to date and show us "men" how a "real man" would date this person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:27 PM
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Honestly if you are hot enough and you don’t come in with very clear PUA lingo nonsense, she wants to be “picked up” when she didn’t expect to be. Doing errands, working out at the gym, you see her walking and you are out on a run, at a mutual friends party or get together, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 04:56 AM
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This YouTuber you’ve linked in the video needs to lose weight so it’s fitting she is promoting not cooking for another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 07:40 PM
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This is an odd way to say “Men, if you don’t take action and actually take care of yourself, you shouldn’t have a soap box to complain upon.” There is nothing with actually taking care of yourself to be “gay.” Your messaging is off for the debate you want to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:39 AM
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Perhaps but I want them to elaborate because it’s very unclear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:24 AM
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OP, what is presenting yourself as “gayer” to you ? Serious response from you requested here for clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:15 AM
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Water is wet. Women and men get heart broken from both kinds of pairings. What an odd post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 12:49 AM
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No need to pay. Just one of the OGs who learned quite a bit years ago and didn’t live and make my identity the angry phase of being “woken up.” There are some of us who contribute in here, others are truly blackpill or doomsday pill and just want the world to crash and burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:15 PM
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She wants him to have a life outside of just her after retirement. It’s possible your friend needs to find hobbies and things that keep him occupied so he doesn’t rely on her to be his “entertainment” and thus he won’t be able to annoy her all day and all night. It’s not an unreasonable request.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:56 PM
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Honestly, when I wasn’t fat. Ideally more towards a lean fit footballer/soccer player body figure got me the most overall. Body builder/fake natty with larger shoulders and making the “V” got me more gym girls and fitness women (think CrossFit, Pilates, indoor cycle, yoga, HIIT classes).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 02:44 PM
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Why aren’t you admitting to us that you want everyone to share the same fantasy of having sex with silicone robots? Come on tell us tell us. You might be in the Epstein files
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 09:07 AM
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Why are you mad people don’t want to have sec with silicone robots which is your fantasy ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:53 AM
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Exactly !
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:29 AM
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No you for posting such a stupid ass question.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:26 AM
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Because you are a weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:23 AM
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Hell yes. But only the parts of doing chores because doing them manually suck. Everyone will have a better quality of life if robots can take out the trash, wash dishes, sweep, mop, and dust. Make beds, etc etc. but none of the relationship things or sexual things. Want a human for actual relationship bonding and physical intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:12 AM
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Again this is all in your mind. Being a decent human being is not showing weakness. Very odd perspective you have. Serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:05 AM
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It can hinder your prospects, however you will have to set boundaries to not be taken advantage of. This is on you and the other. "nice guys" to state a boundary or deflect without being rude or combative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:03 AM
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Being helpful or willing to assist others is not weak. This is all in your mind. Serious. Rules 1-3 of dating apply no matter your morality or ethics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:02 AM
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There's nothing wrong with being a genuinely decent, approachable person, and someone who is willing to assist/help out from time to time. "Nice Guy" is also dating slang for being a pushover and doing everything they can possible for the opposite sex, however gets mad when the effort and help is not returned. Thus the "nice guy" was only bending over backwards to get something in return this the bitterness, insults and anger comes out thus bad mister "nice guy" was mad as he wasn't chosen to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 11:53 PM
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Sucks to be you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:37 PM
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It’s an odd thing which many girlfriends have said when they are seeing someone constantly and are in a monogamous relationship, they love the feeling of being cum inside. Last semi serious gf said she just loved the feeling. Felt really connected to me and even more when I came inside. Then again I’m snipped and she has the IUD so unwanted offspring wasn’t an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:35 PM
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Why as a male I’d want to have sex with an ugly male provider ? Quite frankly if this was my only choice as a woman but hr has income to allow me to change my lifestyle and class considerably it’s always a possibility. However if I have a choice and options? To the ghosted pile 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:31 PM
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I would disagree. Most of the questions and issues which you see on social media of men trying to understand the rules are due to socializing issues and not being taught to read between the lines. This applies globally. People have the ability to ask out men/women nearly everywhere within reason, however the messaging of “I don’t want to be asked out here, here, here” actually means “I don’t want to be asked out here in public unless you are hot enough and can strike up somewhat of a conversatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 05:48 PM
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In terms of the dating app experience he isn't wrong. The saying "only the top 10% of men have an active sex life" is referring to usually their social group or folks they know. Apparently as a man if you are 8-15% body fat, over 5'10", make 75-80k a year minimum, and don't have offspring or live with roommates, you are that top 10% of men who should have the ability to obtain sex easily. Many folks on reddit are overweight doomsday blobs and wouldn't even date themselves if presented the chance…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:23 PM
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/end thread for around ~90% of folks to put it simply.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:15 PM
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Being funny is a good trait and making money off it is even better. But you have to follow dating rules 1 and 2 to get in the door for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:34 AM
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by digging into someones post history and sharing this contradicting posts, results in comment removals from their previous claimed points is a reason for a "time out" or "comment removal" due to "witch hunting" which is listed under PPD rule 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:50 PM
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Get ‘em girl 😂. The mods would put me in “time out” for this but you got the blessing 🙌
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:45 PM
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The idea is to “max out your stats” as much as you can within your social circle to have the highest chance of sex. It’s not an absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:12 AM
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Within their social network, yes. Globally ? This scale will vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:11 AM
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I didn’t know we allowed people who have previously stated and posted on Reddit saying they are 50 years old, then claim they are 20 and struggle dating. What an odd day for the mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:54 PM
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Fair enough. I am a believer of individualism AND social safety nets similar to what happens in nordic countries (think Sweden, Denmark, Iceland, Finland). If folks are unfamiliar, thats healthcare through taxation, free education, focus on work life balance, and parental leave when starting your family if you choose to do so. Quite frankly within the USA we have the $$$ to do this and actually Make America Great Again by lifting up the country as a whole, however nope not happening due to many …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:49 PM
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"I have heard people (more on the left)" - I don't know anyone who is on the left talk bad about porn consumption more than "the right." this is odd insert politics here where its not warranted. nothing wrong with jerking it/jilling it from time to time to porn to release yourself of sexual pressure, however human to human interaction is best. and those who don't have access to a human(s) to do so in whichever manner (dates, relationships, escorts, etc etc) porn is better than nothing unless its…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 01:22 PM
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“A libertarian is committed to the principle that liberty is the most important political value. Liberty means being free to make your own choices about your own life, that what you do with your body and your property ought to be up to you. Other people must not forcibly interfere with your liberty, and you must not forcibly interfere with theirs.” Seems pretty self explanatory to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:58 AM
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Egalitarian = belief that all peoples are equal. Feminist = a person who supports the equality of women with men. Seems pretty self explanatory to me. Seems pretty normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:51 AM
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Cool thanks for the explanation!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:44 AM
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Depends what she claims as liberal politics/gender equality. . I lean more moderate conservative /libertarian however that’s “the extreme left liberal” these days compared to today’s MAGA/brexit folks. Only thing I don’t match with her list is me being bisexual. Not my thing, but if she is that’s ok with me too. Reddit isn’t a dating site, no I’m not going to message this person lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:41 AM
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What’s type A ? Genuinely curious as I am unfamiliar
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:57 AM
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Lmao love this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:57 AM
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As long as you can afford your bills, have some fun money, put money aside for retirement /investments, have your own place to have sexy time and it’s upkept and CLEAN that’s all you need. No roommates is a huge benefit. You are over thinking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:11 PM
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Sounds like op is projecting that they are an ugly, autistic, short alcoholic. What kind of doomsday “debate” is this ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 03:12 PM
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This is a low effort straw man attempt at a debate. Bring your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:02 AM
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What the actual fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 11:10 PM
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This is all a rant and nothing to actually debate. It’s essentially a circle-jerk post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:04 PM
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Honestly as you make some good points and some odd grey area points, this comes off as a rant and soap box. This will be removed by the mods. It’s not a debate or discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:55 PM
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What in the actual F is this madness 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 12:32 AM
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Quit your bitching
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:31 PM
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Both sides are upset because how dare your preferences NOT INCLUDE MEEEE. There’s ways to communicate this without being negative or shutting someone down and belittling them. However no one likes to be dismissed for the opportunity of sex because of XYZ. just so happens many men get so upset and frustrated that they beg beg beg the woman to reconsider or get physically intimidating because of biological physical strength decisions. Women usually don’t use size and nice strength to intimidate me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:43 PM
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And men do the same. Stop being a victim
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 04:55 PM
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Women and men don’t have to have kids for numerous amounts of reasons. Because they don’t want to have them is more than a good enough answer. Odd debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 11:27 PM
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Depends on the reason for said “virgin” for both sexes. If they are a virgin due to personal beliefs and religious beliefs. Cool, not really a thing but I’m sure it happens at times. If they are a virgin because they weren’t ever given a chance ? It’s going to happen for sure (not that I agree with it) but that means you are at the bottom of the list for dating and “hook ups” as you aren’t hot enough to even be given pity sex. Pay to lose your virginity ? Doesn’t matter had sex and got the big p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 03:41 AM
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The fact that you are wanting and willing to double down on this shows why you have issues dating. I’m dead serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:32 AM
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No and you are crazy for thinking anyone “not straight edge” is a “drug abuser”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:01 AM
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Humans and dolphins are two species that have sex for enjoyment and not only creation only. If you hate sex just say so and put on your dating profile + wear a r shirt in public that this is your belief and wonder why you are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:03 PM
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And that’s your opinion. However again the world doesn’t cater to you and your choices. Being straight edge does not get you a leg up or a handicap in the real world or dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:34 PM
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A drug deal of weed is “a psychopath leeching off their clients and lulling them into an accelerated death.” What. The. Actual. Fuck. No wonder you are single. THC is legal in many parts of the globe and many different USA states. Even medically. You hate everyone who isn’t straight edge. Good day sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:28 PM
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And thats your opinion. the "cool" drug dealer person has to be a genuinely decent person for them to build a sales base and be successful. the "cool" weed smoker has to be an interesting person to have folks want to smoke with them. Honestly it really really really sounds like you just want to complain all day because 'I can't have sex with the hot womenz because they like to have a drink or two or consume THC in some manner and thats not something I do."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:20 PM
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Genuinely sounds as if you are bitter that you had to put in quite a bit of work to have sex/obtain a relationship. It's common and thus people are complaining loudly on the internet and feel a part of a social group. Welcome to the game of dating and attraction to make dating as easy as possible for you. I got many many numbers where they would just not respond when I went to text them. It gets annoying after a while and the success becomes not worth having to tolerate the cowardliness of women…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 03:00 PM
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You have some odd views based on your responses. If you place your self into situations where you are around other people the chance for sex is drastically higher than if you aren't around other people. Sex is sex, if people get together to hang out and have a drink or two, smoke a joint or two, dance without alcohol/tobacco/weed the chance for sex and/or relationship is higher. It sounds like you think sex is only for procreation and a VERY LARGE percentage of people will disagree with you. How…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 05:09 AM
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If you are hot enough, put yourself in places where people congregate, and actually talk to people and flirt your chances are higher than proclaiming to the world you are “straight edge” and refuse to socialize. Alcohol (a drink or two) and other drugs (thc , mushrooms, etc) make inhibitions lower a bit but it’s not a requirement. That said real and true friends will honor your choices and still choose to hang out /invite you places.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 02:27 AM
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She only swipes on as many people as she wants to talk to on a weekly basis. Many women I know and have dated only “matched” or talked to 5 people at once. Once someone messed up or it was a dealbreaker remove one and add another. Eventually she chooses a relationship or just “spins men as plates” until she finds her unicorn in theory
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:25 PM
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Dating apps are more men than women. So yes women get a chance to be picky. Many women I know because of number 1 will pay for the app to have people to only be able to see their profile if SHE swiped right/like this profile. It’s a legit thing to solve the problem. Correct, however many folks will do the “I’m attracted to them/ maybe attracted /not attracted to the profile” right away this is seen as picky. This isn’t pill related but as always you folks rules 1-3 for dating and it speeds up th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 06:21 PM
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Look up a millionaires bacon recipe. Adjust the amount of cayenne pepper and black pepper to add a kick. As it’s candied it’s not exactly healthy but it’s delicious. Can make them into “half sized cut bacon fries” when you entertain as it’s a winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:38 PM
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No. OP has a ridiculous argument so debating with the same pointing fingers effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:43 PM
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On paper it’s the same. Man put effort to create. Woman put effort for inception to create. Why is man’s work valued less than woman’s work at inception? Women can technically just starfish and be “a wet hole” while man has to physically pump and “bury semen seed” into “wet hole.” This is a really dumb entitled debate but keep doubling down it’s entertaining
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 04:03 PM
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Sounds as equal to me as your attempted debate which screams wanting more resources and entitlement onto of the “I need to be given a handicap because feminism and equality.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:46 PM
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On paper man provided something woman provided something to create pregnancy. Seems 50/50 to me at time of conception
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:42 PM
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It takes 2 people to create a pregnant person. So why shouldn’t the man be paid as well for inseminating the woman? they put in work too to provide the dna and genres to impregnate the woman ? This is also a silly argument like the one you have proposed. If you are hiring a segregate to carry your fertilized egg, I would expect the surrogate to be paid by the couple/person for their efforts if not agreed upon by all parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:30 PM
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So lets answer this. I am more of a moderate conservative and my ideals for the last 16 years align more with Obama, Biden, Harris + Waltz. Please check for yourself (usa politics based): isidewith.com . I really have no idea why people want to worship CK when that man was basically a whiner who generated a following on social media. We live in a world where women experience sexual assault and harassment, largely at the hands of men. Many women tell stories of being harassed and threatened by me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 12:47 AM
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Not denying your experience and perspective, however at age 12 (middle school in USA) your mother took it upon herself to get you and your siblings to look well. I'm glad your mother took it upon her self to do so, however most folks don't get this experience. It should be different socially but now the internet is replacing parenting and folks are being tablet raised these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:20 PM
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It sounds stupid but many men and women aren't told to "be attractive" from their families during raising their children. The focus is mental and social development while being healthy first. Having your off spring worry about dating is an afterthought. Thus its always "be a good person, have emotions, do well in school to get into a good college to get a good job, etc etc." Most folks aren't told this while growing up until they are hit with insults from others in their peer groups and in schoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:18 PM
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I like many others was “BP” and grew up with the above. However that did not work for me AT ALL. So I realized it wasn’t about what my family said to do to catch a cute girlfriend and have “happiest with your person.” When you saw what everyone else around you was doing to be “cute and hot” and when they had their glow up (men and women) they got dates. Thus I learned very early on I had to meet what the market demanded before I had access to the internet (before AOL online days). That meant bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:55 AM
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Most people grow up from young into adolescence as just going with the flow and “BP ideals” as you are stating. It’s their interactions with the real world which push them towards one direction or the other. If you are successful, “BP” works for you and all the basic advice you hear works. “Be yourself, there’s a valid reason for this or that, etc etc.” however if an individual sees “just being themselves” isn’t working, they either look into the mirror to change to have the ability to date or c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:42 AM
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I don’t want to shut down your creative idea, but at the same time it’s not you who sets these dating parameters. it’s the market and everyone else around you who determines it all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 10:38 AM
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Isnt there different versions of blue pill or at least interpretations? not that I’m aware of. “That we could still be competitive and have hierarchies but it would be based on who is the smartest, hardest working, kindest etc.” This sounds like fantasy land. In the real world we live today, you are sized up within 7-30 seconds and determined pretty quickly on first appearances if you think they are attractive or not. Would you “have sex with them” with your 30 seconds assessment is pretty commo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:25 AM
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I don't wish for anything, BP sounds great and fun however you have to remember and take into account the persons around you. Animals and Humans are naturally competitive, thus you won't be able to have this be an equal playing field 100% unless everyone was placed into true communism where all stats and resources were the same to every single person. Once a child enters pre-school/pre-K, any sort of group setting, eventually comparisons and what is "cool" begins. S/he is taller, has color shoes…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:09 AM
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There isn't a one size fits all fits all answer here. What most folks online will tell you (not pill related for box sexes) is to max out all your "stats" that you have control of. Some you can fix right away, some take some time to grind away and the results will show for themselves (think weight loss, muscle gain, face and skin routine to fix acne, dental work, saving and budgeting). Ideally you do what you can to not be overweight/obese, don't be underweight, have clothes that fit properly an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:15 AM
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None of this is actually “red pill” per se. Be attractive Don’t be not attractive Follow rules 1 and 2 If you follow the rules above as simple as I have stated, you have a high chance a date(s) and finding your person(s). None of these are pill related.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:18 PM
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Only 15? Ban them from the subreddit so they don’t get their dating perspective ruined from so many folks screaming from the rooftop about it being doom and gloom.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:11 PM
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If you are hot enough you will always get in free. The girl you have linked from TK isn’t hot enough. Her Latina bestie IS.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 03:35 PM
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If you say don’t be fat/underweight on Reddit they hit you with the ban hammer when someone asks what’s the number 1 thing you can do to be attractive but it’s the truth. 99% of folks will choose a lean fit person over a drastically underweight /overweight person when it comes to initial dating stages. If a man:woman thinks you are very attractive but make a bit less money than they do, many folks will overlook it because HOT. Thus the basic premise of following the 2 rules of dating 1 be attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:26 PM
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Yes we will. I am one. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:26 PM
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Duh. Moving to another city 100% changed everything for me. Growing up in fly over midwest where there are 6 foot German caucasian Norwegian people were everywhere, my 5'11" tan self (I can become very tan in an afternoon just from working in the yard) was considered "the Mexican" even though I have 0% Hispanic/Spanish blood in my genes. Moving to a big city I "blend in" and was able to actually have dates, have relationships, actually feel wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:39 PM
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You aren't wrong, however the common agreed upon "dad bod" is someone who is 22-24% bodyfat. not the 18-20% most fitness and gym goers would state is the actual dad bod and peak clean bulk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:28 PM
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From my perspective outside of high school and living on the west coast, east coast and midwest, the highest percentage of women want you to look fit and healthy without being intimidating. In today's terms thats the "fake natty" or a soccer/football player. Ryan Gosling in Barbie is a good example. CR7 Cristiano "Siu" Ronaldo is and was a great example of this if you do an image search. him in a shirt shows fitness and lean of a runner but a little muscle for health. with a shirt off its a glas…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:20 PM
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No. Also you post in r/teenagers. Are you old enough to be this discussion ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:59 PM
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Kind of interesting to see the recent posts by the meanie lady mod repeating old TRP things (which aren't even TRP) and folks are agreeing to what was being discussed 12-14 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:10 PM
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The goal with OLD is to send 5-8 messages and setup a date after you perceive them to be "a normal person" and."don't want a penpal." Either they agree and you can setup plans to meetup and go on a quick no pressure date or they deflect and don't respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:09 PM
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Just about everyone (men and women) look dramatically better at a lower healthy bodyfat percentage. last time I posted this link I got bitched out at for stating this. face gains are definitely a thing https://www.boredpanda.com/before-after-weight-loss-face-transformation/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:26 PM
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You aren't wrong. I was in your shoes for awhile and as a late bloomer I became the persons I saw and took part too. Its quite an awakening when you play both characters and a true sad reality at the end of it all. "Ugly men are not supposed to see what I saw" - this is where I disagree. it's more of a kick in the pants. Get it together to be "marketable" for dating and having fun or sit out and don't play the game at all. Choose your destiny really.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:08 PM
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I just want to laugh at "BUT MUH CHAD" because you aren't wrong at all, love the verbiage choice here.. Ideally men and women get to the point of attraction where they have choice(s) and are able to live a fulfilled dating life and either pair up for long term/lifetime partnerships which has been shown to be the best for raising a family or the two peoples are happy being fulfilled with shorter term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:06 PM
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You are moving goal posts. Their goal is to have sex. That’s it. Nothing more nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 12:45 AM
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If your primary issue is you want to have sex and cannot have sex, escort(s) are selling a service to solve your problem of no sex. Its's that simple. Doesn't matter had sex. Do I want this escort to know my issues? No. Solve my problems? Give an escort $50 or less in a third world country and have at it. Redditor was suicidal and didnt want to live, but was convinced to go party it up in Tijuana instead just in case to be sure and changed their mind. obtaining and having constant sex can change…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:49 PM
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I personally don't have an issue dating, but many of my friends who refuse to put in the work to be attractive complain pretty much all year around. Not sure where majority of men are in relationships applies here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:53 PM
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Because they actually ARE posting for themselves and their friends. Cute attractive photo(s) is cute and attractive. if I meet someone out and they fancy me, and they add me on social media and interact with me from these attractive photos, its also a bonus. Social media is used for many things, but single folks use it as their "portfolio" for showing off their best angles + interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:53 PM
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Not overrated. You can YouTube “women reacting to bodybuilders” and you’ll see the female gaze. Usually men and women usually put on 10-15 lbs when in a newish relationship. After the 4-5 months they return to old habits and start to lean out again. Usually special media folks complain about height being an end all as with a semi-good face and you have the height, dating is on easy mode due to physical presence and/or potential to be a knock out as genetics determines height minus these crazy br…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:47 PM
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Culture doesn’t matter unless it’s Indian as they are taught to chase chase chase for years and maybe she will finally give you a chance or be forced/persuaded to do an arranged marriage with the chasing man and a large enough dowery. Every other culture says NO WAY and does what you have described above. Block exes/delete Facebook and instagram and TikTok/hit the mutha fucking gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:23 PM
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“The traditional model, where men approach, initiate, entertain, and continuously moves things forward, it's eroding fast. In its place is a dynamic that resembles ping-pong: serve and return. One person begins, the other reciprocates. If no one hits the ball back while taking one step forward, the interaction fizzles out.” This is how it’s always been outside of Hollywood and Disney movies. Perhaps you are finally seeing this with your own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 03:06 PM
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It’s hard to find one without RUST 😂. That’s the killer of those. But most folks in here don’t know what those are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:21 AM
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A good condition Japanese vehicle from the 90s-2000s to have it not appear 20+ years old is going to require time + effort + upkeep for it to not show its age badly. That "2k shitbox" is realistically 10k after time and effort and labor costs unless you have the knowledge and capability to do the labor yourself. On most German/English cars, the only special "tools" you may need is E-Torx sockets which you can get from the online rainforest or harbor freight. A whooping $20 of investment. Otherwi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:40 PM
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My question is this, guy has a busted up 2k project car, sure. But will that project car make you trust someone enough to allow you to see their "2k battle station" ? Most likely not within the first 2-4 dates unless there as a TRUE Compatibility on date(s). Also a BMW doesn't have 5k a month in repairs at the shop. The might be a typical shop rate these days is 150-350 an hour for labor. Anyone can use YouTube and do most basic maintenance in their driveway as enthusiasts will share and create …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 03:54 PM
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Thank you for responding ! Fair enough. As long as you keep it clean and organized by all means carry on. That’s all that matters for the most part
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:50 AM
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There is always context to things. Built it , restored it, raced it, painted it, etc. by all means be proud. But posted with it to make it your entire personality ? Well that’s not my thing and many women’s too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:37 PM
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Most men would like a women to be able to support herself somewhat. car would be ideal, to make meet ups/dates/logistics easier but depending on the city, train/bicycle/walking distance would work too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:58 PM
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you forgot the Vans, beard, and Vape associated with any gen but this gen WRX STI as its shit CVT LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:49 PM
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Curious about your perspective, what do you drive or have in your garage if I may ask? Not to debate just want to understand your perspective with the comment above
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:49 PM
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The point being is post a photo of you and your car if "said car doesn't matter." I like cars and fast vehicles and appreciate many other things. I have dated women who love that I enjoy cars and ticketing with them. I have dated women who hate that I'm a car person until it was time to do repairs to her own car, only then she cared otherwise it was a tool to get from A to B, see friends, do errands, get to work, put gas in it, etc etc. your other comments in here state you don't really care as …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:46 PM
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Most German engineering after 2015 is easier to work on than Honda and Toyota. As someone who grew up with Chevy, Ford, Honda, Toyota, Mazda and now work with primarily BMW and Audi's for family and personal car, German cars are easier to work on for most basic maintenance, more involving jobs the Japanese cars are easier. outside of engine stuff, everything is +/- the same so saying its a "headache" is a moot point these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:43 PM
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Ford fiesta vs Bentley isn't relatable as when new you are looking at a 18-25k car vs one that is 150k+ both brand new. For some odd reason a Passat ranks higher than a Honda Civic at least when it comes to dating and "prestige" even though cost is +/- the same. But it does play a small difference that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:40 PM
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That 2k shitbox wasn't a 2k shitbox at first. usually a 10-12k decent car becomes a 2k shitbox due to value and age. However you WILL have to maintain that 10-12k car even though it becomes a "2k shitbox" that its not actually a 2k shitbox. Am talking basic and deep maintenance, clean paint which isn't scratched to hell and back or fading/peeling clear coat which also applies to wheels, etc etc. Older video sure as an example, but this 1992 Honda accord was repaired + painted + all rubber trim a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:35 PM
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See. Someone complaining about car ownership and doesn’t have a car. What an odd soapbox post OP
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 05:03 PM
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You are avoiding my request. I grew up near stokie and old town. Not surrounded by Ferraris and other high end cars. Also, Your argument is off. After a 60-75k car the rest is moot. People don’t care higher than that but just enough to show you aren’t struggling. But you said Toyota vs audi. A used CPO Audi is 30k these days…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:59 PM
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You lived in Chicago suburbs my dude. I grew up there. If you had a German car /Lexus/Acura and it’s at least cleaned well and maintained, dating is 500% easier. it screams “generational wealth” to an extent. Guy driving the basic civic with tint and clean loses to the guy with a basic Jetta and tints and same condition of clean. Post yourself and your car. Come on let’s see if your car and you can win the Female gaze with this perspective on your soap box.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:48 PM
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Burbs and country people still want you to have a semi new car (within last 6-8 years) and have it well kept and maintained. There’s a diff between commuter car and working truck/suv for yard and farm work. It’s a perspective thing. But the human comes first, car and house and other things come second.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:45 PM
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Basically this. Op wants people to drive 6-10k shitboxes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:40 PM
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It’s more of a “you aren’t a fool and must be half way decent with your money to be able to buy this.” Not sure why you are downvoting me disagreeing because you are preaching people to drive a 10k shit box as it doesn’t matter for dating, work + networking connections when it clearly does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:40 PM
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This is an odd post. I got so much more respect and interest from coworkers, my bosses and women when I went from causal car to entry level luxury car. Didn’t matter it was Honda/toyota/mazda/nissan as long as it was somewhat newish however the instant swap to a basic VW/audi/bmw/lexus. Mind you I’m a car and gear head but it’s not my entire personality. Do what you want OP, but this is a rant not a discussion post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 03:29 PM
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Some do and some don’t. It’s not as uncommon as you are complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:35 PM
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If you were around the popular kids in high school, people usually dated for 4-8 months at a time. New boyfriends = new partner in theory if sexually active. Thus High school is common to have 2-4 partners a least if you weren't a shut in and were considered conventionally attractive. This applies to men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:17 PM
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Right. This person is odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:15 PM
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If you live in a big city or small town, it’s pretty common. Not quite to the extent that social media whines and complains about, but it’s “hidden” unless you too are of the “big popularity highly attractive groups and you won’t blab” to save face.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:46 PM
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for those who are upset about being "beta bux" this is a copied and pasted comment which explains why "beta bux" is upset to finally be given a chance outside of "peak relationship time" and experiences: Men who are bothered by this are usually those who were not chosen by women for sex in their youth. So they observed how sex is generally available to attractive men and most women, while they vainly desire it. This created frustration in them. Now that they are older, women want to settle down …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:41 AM
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Hitting the wall simply means a woman cannot keep the attention and simply gain a relationship/free stuff/dates just for walking into the room as other women are younger, hotter, and have desirable traits which make her not be the #1 woman in a room. Typically people want to be married before the age of 30 and grow together, thus if children is a goal, will have all their children before the age of 35 due to health issues which increase as age increases over 30 to put it simply.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:38 AM
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I will post two separate comments as you have 2 different discussions. I think you are looking too far into this metaphor which many of us have seen in real life. "alpha fucks" is a simple statement in which the woman will have as much fun and explore herself sexually and romantically with those folks at "the top" of her attractiveness requirements. Conventionally attractive, as enough money to have some fun, fun person to be around, has social proof. With these conditions being met, she will "t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 02:34 AM
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TRP sub is not what it used to be, and now is an odd place to look into if you do stumble into it as its censored and hidden within reddit itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:33 PM
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This is a very odd post. rant rant rant. faking it until you make it doesn't work. Rant rant rant about attractive guy doing PUA/Neg madness without building rapport. If you are doing it right the neg is laughed at by both people more of an inside joke. you can't just out thin air look at someone and stat "You aren't typically my type, but you'll do" and think this will win you bonus points with the opposite sex. Notice the end of your post you state "I think if you are at a party for instance, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:20 PM
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Usually people pay their own way. Occasionally we will switch, I pay for one, they pay for the next. Those folks who expect to be treated every time because invite and “I am a woman” aren’t ever asked to hang out again. They are still expected to pay. That’s not a true friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:09 PM
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Most of the points you are bringing up and pointing out are doomsday/black pill/MGTOW points. There is also the part where people prefer to complain vs do something as many folks are scared of change. Marriage: a lot of men preach to not get married and avoid it because women would take all of your stuff, BUT why not just get a ironclad pre-nup or post-nup so you don’t have to worry about divorcing your wife? This sounds great in theory and on paper everyone wins if marrying for love. However on…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 08:44 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:54 PM
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Exactly. You like opposites. Who cares ?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:59 AM
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Evolutionary wise, we are all wired to compete in some manner for dating and offspring creation. If everyone is perfect physically we would choose other variables to “choose”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:19 AM
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100% reasonable. You heard it first off the press.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:13 AM
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Have you SEEN MOST MEN ??? Even as a man I don’t blame them. Fat, overweight, slob, unkept. Reminds me of a couple friends who complain about slim/no pickings for dating but have the stats I mentioned above. Edit: even if you are overweight/obese, at least attempt to be presentable. Fitting clothes, no holes or stains, personal hygiene (mannered facial hair, hair cut, teeth, skin care, nails, body hair, etc),, have hobbies outside of getting home from work and doom scrolling social media /netfli…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:12 AM
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As a sex positive person I can’t really judge. And I’ve done quite a bit of things the regular person hasn’t. I have quite a bit of experience. If she does too and OUR sex life is awesome, I’m not complaining. We just have to let the other know who in their friend group have they hooked up with out of respect. Otherwise if you got tested and are 100% clean, doesn’t matter to me as aren’t as they aren’t known as the city bicycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:10 AM
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Some sadly do. Some unfortunately do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:04 AM
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What do you got ? Let’s see. My assumption is they are very reasonable. The black pill/doomsday folks I’m sure will disagree..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:03 AM
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"Don't be promiscuous." - Promiscuous males AND females/women. Fixed it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:02 AM
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I stated both genders. I am agreeing with you 🤷‍♂️. But yes, if he wants a hairless woman he can’t be hairy himself unless the hairless woman agrees to it too. Taller/shorter man and shorter/taller are preferences. Both parties have to agree of course. Masculine versus feminine. Same applies both have to agree. Dating is both folks meeting set criteria for what they want to “buy” and what they are “selling.” The buyer has to like the seller and the seller has to be desired by the buyer. (No pros…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 04:01 AM
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The folks you hear from most are the most outspoken uninformed and complaining folks. If you have requirements/standards you have them. However it’s uncalled for /hypocritical if you are the opposite regardless of gender. Don’t be fat - “I am fat”. Don’t be poor - “I am poor”. Don’t be have kid(s) from a previous relationship- “I have kid(s) from previous relationship(s). Have a masters degree - “I am a high school drop out and a waitress”. Have your own place / no roomies - “I live with my pare…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 03:49 AM
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How is this rant not locked ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:25 AM
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It seems so. It appears we should vote as a community to update their flair accordingly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 02:25 AM
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That’s a majority of the need, but not being fat = hotter than most overweight people unless the face was hit with the ugly stick as well. Genetics are a b word
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:28 PM
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I would like to know OPs answer to this as well as it applies to both genders. This is an odd post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:08 AM
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They are a bisexual man. So going into a gay night club men will talk to each other as they have admitted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:23 PM
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What in the hell post number 3 of today. Stop writing fan fiction and touch grass outside. Holy shit b
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 01:39 PM
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Women definitely think a high value man doesn’t worry about people who are obsessed with penis size.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:45 PM
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She asked 4-5x. She was really into him. He blew her off apparently. I would say she did too 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:44 PM
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I am agreeing with you 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:40 PM
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As a busy person this is exactly how it happens. “I have a super crazy busy schedule but will make time to see you for an hour or 3. I have XYZ time available .” Simple right ? Apparently not for this subreddit. And these people wonder why they are single and bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:39 PM
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OP states in her argument it was implied the woman asked 4-5x to setup a new date. He was always “busy.” 4-5x is more than enough asks to be rejected for date plans without a follow up and then go find other folks to date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:37 PM
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If someone states they are busy 2-3x no matter the gender, ideally you leave the ball in their court. “It appears you are always busy. I’m taking this as a soft rejection and wish you well in your endeavors.” Apparently this is unheard of and “against macho man she’s supposed to always and only fawn over me.” What a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:36 PM
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No one likes to be rejected. “Some men argued that he was busy and she should have waited for him to be available. But the guy could have easily set up another date for a week or two in the future. Usually, when someone says “no I am busy” to a date without offering any alternatives, it is just a polite way to reject the person.” Agreed. He didn’t offer a future date nor an opportunity to say give me some time to look at the calendar to set one up. This is on the guy 100%. No reason to complain …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 02:27 PM
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I don’t have time for this argument again. Let them get eaten by the bear. 90% of women choose the bear over random man. enjoy being food.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 09:13 PM
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We did the argument like 6 months ago. Let it die.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:44 PM
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You can't deny data. Straight from the CDC: https://www.cdc.gov/sti/about/about-stis-and-gay-men.html "Sexually active gay, bisexual, and men who have sex with men (MSM) are at greater risk for getting a STI." https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/data-research/facts-stats/gay-bisexual-men.html <image> PrEP and PEP are things and help with mitigation and assist with the limit of spreading HIV (which is awesome for the globe), however gay and bisexual men are still statistically higher to have an STD. no matte…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:43 PM
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for a Bisexual male, as a "top" you will still insert your penis into another man's anus and it bypasses the anal sphincter. All those micro tears in the bottom's small intestine can be present and hold various STDs. Thus as a Penis has an open orifice and you can contract bacteria and viruses this way. Unfortunately you keep moving goal posts. OP and myself will leave all the bisexual men for you to enjoy if you choose to partake. Good luck !
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:36 PM
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The acts of homeosexuality and sexual intercourse to me is gross. I understand it but it's still gross to me. People are people, let them live and be as they be, however you aren't going to be the gate keeper to say myself and others are "homophobic" or "biphobic" because refuse to date "bisexual/homosexual/genderfluid" folks. It's completely fine to not want to date anyone who is bisexual because of it. This is not an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:31 PM
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If there are 30 persons in a room and it was split 50/50, that’s 15 men and 15 women. If some of those men are bisexual is more than 15 men for that bisexual man to potentially date vs only the 15. Thus there is a higher chance for the bisexual men to date and increase their sexual partner count. This is just a numbers calculation. Bisexual men and gay men have a higher chance for HIV and AIDS transformation due to the act of anal sex and potentially small rips and tears of the small intestine a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 08:27 PM
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Go for it ! I wish you well in your endeavors
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 07:01 PM
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I guess I’m being downvoted by the bisexual men. lol I don’t care. I and many women will never date you out of our preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:58 PM
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No, it’s not. If I am a woman and I don’t want to date a man who has or is interested in putting male sexual organs into their body or put their sexual organ into another males bodies there is nothing wrong with it for any reason at all. This “forced” you’re “homophobic or biphobia” claim is madness thus is a part why Trump won the USA election when it’s more than ok to have these preferences to NOT date folks with this sexual orientation
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:40 PM
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If you are bisexual is highly possible to have a higher body count as you cater to both men and women. Of course not all men not all women, but by opening your sexual availability to both genders, the probability increases dramatically. OP is more than permitted to have their choice and their reasoning why.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:20 PM
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This is not biphobic. She does not want to be involved with someone who has had physical sexual acts with the same sex. she is welcome to have her preferences without catering to “bisexual men or women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:18 PM
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OP can date whoever they want and deny anyone they want for any reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:16 PM
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Not sure what you mean by “this is the game you guys play into.” The goal is to date and spend time with those who match with you on a human to human level outside of income. Attraction, personality, interests, aka chemistry. By taking income out of the equation you see who someone actually is and if they may be a good fit for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:06 PM
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I usually don’t put in more effort other than makes date plans 2-3x. After that I give up and let them reach out as I don’t have time for games and they appear to be “too busy.” Depending on the “ex” I don’t have to put in effort at all because “I am hot enough or sex wast good enough.” Nope, I may be the bad boy getting physical without all the other rules. I would assume others who are attractive enough to have the rules set aside for them aren’t putting in Disney level dedication effort. Dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:11 PM
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Pretty much the same experience from my perspective as well. I work in sales operations and make around 150-300k annually. But “sales operations” isn’t pretty on paper and I live as if I make 50-60k. I dated one person who thought I made quite a bit less than she did and we did great. However she found out how much I actually made and nothing changed outside of she wanted to do a couple things as recovery post covid wasn’t easy on either of us. We had an amicable break up (was not finance relate…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:06 PM
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The goal isn't to be defeatist, the point is you do what you can to showcase and improve what you have control over. It takes time, but you can get there. Have bad hygiene? Take care of it. Bad teeth? Take care of it. Severely overweight? Do what you can to take care of it and get to a healthy bodyweight. I don't know anyone obsessed with Kevin James/Eric Stonestreet/Anthony Anderson/Ice Cube however I know folks obsessed with Henry Cavill, Zac Efron, Michael B Jordan, Idris Elba. Just some quic…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:12 AM
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—- So only people who are attractive get dates and nobody average at all can get dates? Because that’s what you’re saying. —- I’m not saying this. The person you responded to isn’t saying this. A majority of doomsday folks are and are doing the crabs in a bucket mentality behavior and just points fingers screaming NOT FAIR!!! As if the world is to give them a handicap
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:28 AM
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Most of the people in here with “red pill flair” are actually black pill and doomsday folks who just want to complain complain complain and point fingers. Not take responsibility or have awareness for the world around them. Very unfortunate really. I hate LinkedIn for this but it’s pretty true. Dating is B2B sales, but in this case it’s person to person sales to be considered a chance a dating. Rules are still the same no matter the gender. 1. Be attractive. 2. Don’t be unattractive 3. Follow ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:09 PM
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This number is way too high. For the orgy I experienced in college it was around half an hour to an hour or so. reckless thing that happened in college, but was fun and we had plenty condoms to go around as it was wound 5-6 guys and 7-8 women in total. Not everyone “played” with each other, but condoms were a must for everyone involved or you go kicked out instantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:29 PM
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Lmao another one of these “men know your worth” posts. Only you can hold yourself accountable, for those men who finally got attention they will undercut everyone and anyone to keep it or a flimsy chance for access to a woman. Thus won’t work unless you become North Korea and control EVERYTHING and include the Indian tradition of arranged marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:05 PM
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They don’t owe you a reason either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:11 PM
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That’s exactly what she said in her original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:10 PM
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It’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:09 PM
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You are fine. People are mad they don’t get to tell you your sexual preferences. Reddit is an odd ecochamber at times
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:08 PM
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By all means I’m no one’s “God’s gift on earth” however this is my experience. Some were drastically above my league. Some were in my perceived league. Some are below. Some are drastically below. There isn’t a one size fits all here, however usually from a typical man’s perspective from ugly duckling to “HOT” goes the following: No attention -> obese women -> overweight women /women with kids -> women with kids/ single women who are average -> average /above average -> IG model hot. Some approac…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 12:39 AM
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Who cares. as long as you make your money, are able to buy the lifestyle you want and set yourself up for the future, its not a big deal. People looking for excuses to not date someone will find them. TRP does not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:20 PM
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I have no idea. this place is starting to be overrun by teenagers, people with the 'tism, and those who are obsessed with dick sizes...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:47 PM
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I can’t answer that for you as I don’t know nor follow only fans. There ARE other platforms which are available and were available for years before OF for content sharing and creation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:41 PM
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Women pay too. Myself and other men have had women pay for nearly everything if you are attractive enough. Hell I have an old fling pay for my flight to go hangout with her over the weekend. Sex sells, plenty of free things available but if you want niche and somewhat of a disposable income, both sexes play for things. Once you learn how dating and sexual market place works, you either play the game to succeed as much as possible from both genders or you don’t get to play at all. That’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:21 PM
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If a man really enjoys sex they will attempt to have it as much as as they can with their partner(s) or themselves. Same applies to women. If wo/man has no interest or desire for sex they won’t have it at all not even by themselves. Can’t point fingers and just say men like sex more than women. Women love primitive sex just as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:59 PM
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Both genders have been shown to enjoy sex the same amount when it comes to averages
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:35 PM
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Not at all. But if younger going to point your fingers and post a comment, please share your viewpoint. This is after all a debate subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:29 PM
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No no no prove your point. You took the time to claim “I am a weak man pandering to women” when as a fit man I refuse to give the overweight /obese woman a chance. Let’s hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:23 PM
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If as a fit man why would I date an overweight or fat woman ? The same applies if roles are reversed. It’s not the gotcha you have imagined
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:19 PM
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It’s as simple as this. If I am a 16-24 year old woman and I’m not fat, I don’t want to have an overweight or obese boyfriend /partner. Thus as a man you have to match her checklist here. Same for a man and searching for a woman. Is this really that hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 07:22 PM
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You are going too far into detail from the basics which keep people at a stand still.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:32 PM
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Most are open and very sexual with the partner of choice unless asexual or other underlying variables. Thus most women applies here and is accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:37 PM
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Being "attractive" can be summed up very vaguely into 3 categories: physical attractiveness Economic status (if shown or presented) socially known "presence standing" in the community/town/city/state/providence/country/globally/social media
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:12 PM
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Not at all. I love people, love women, have 3-4 partners a year as usually a relationship/casualship lasts 3-4 months unless we REALLY vibe well together. When you understand, its not anger, its not bitter, its not lashing out, it's using your strengths to have a chance in the dating market. Fat? lose weight grow some muscle (its not an overnight thing but a lower healthy body fat percentage is the #1 silent flex for life and dating). Applies to both genders. Scars and acne? Start a basic face w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:41 PM
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The people who actually take the simple explanation but apply it to their own lives aren't the ones complaining. It's an understanding of the cards which are given to you from birth + economically + socially and using those to leverage/change who you are to present yourself for the best possible chance for sex to happen. The complainers are stuck with the crabs in a bucket mentality and are also afraid of change as they have been brainwashed by the media (think disney, romcoms, romance movies) t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:18 PM
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Op asked about tall vs short and big PP vs small pp already. I guess OP is really worried about their height and weight status and Pp size. Odd obsession
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 09:03 PM
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Please show your source for men and 90% of crimes. That’s a strong statement
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 04:41 PM
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for the short term sure, then again for long term everything else comes tp play. however you don't get a chance at bat without meeting the attractiveness threshold first
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:32 PM
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it appears so. its truly unfortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:18 PM
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Op is a woman complaining. Last couple of submissions within the last 2 weeks. https://preview.redd.it/npqfggaeapre1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d6c74215583015683763295b2dee155b9fc1989e
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:56 PM
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Your entire response above is about being a negative Nancy. Go hate the world somewhere else and get help. you are role-playing. Your post history shows issues with your current “boyfriend” upset that you told him he wasn’t as big as your ex boyfriend. That’s another can of worms. So yes, maybe you miss your ex and your current boyfriend is/was a the backup safe option.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:48 PM
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I haven’t seen this. I’ve only had women trying to actively win ME over after we had crazy sex a couples times and actually we are casually dating. It’s not a true “trying to win him over” it’s more of she is actually being feminine by being around someone who’s provides that environment to BE cute and Feminine and feels secure. This has nothing to do with pills. Op stop LARPing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:40 PM
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Many of us have seen it in real life ! Then again it’s sad to see it too, as no matter what you do or who you are, you aren’t given a chance to be communicated with/found out of unless forced by school/work/some event. Otherwise the ugly and unattractive is invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:56 AM
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Typically you get a mixed with a little b as life is on easy mode. B usually gets the “women suck and women are the lesser gender” as they cannot live life on easy mode, thus become bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 10:08 PM
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I don’t either. I guess they really desire wanting to be loved, in love, and experience what a healthy relationship can bring. Without the need for offspring .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:03 AM
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Having offspring doesn’t mean you are automatically fulfilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:02 AM
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Maybe maybe not but this seems like you have OP correctly described ! It’s an odd day I’m actually agreeing with you here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 03:01 AM
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Omg. Another crazy post from someone claiming to be red pill but they are really someone who doesn’t see people as people and their definition of what a relationship can be or is. A family is anything you want it to be. Man and woman. Woman and woman. Man and man. Man and woman and animals. Etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:59 AM
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This is just OP being odd not realizing people can be in fufilling relationships and possibly even marriage without having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 02:53 AM
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You are overlooking this. From young as a man you are pretty much assumed and groomed to try and finish your education. Get a good job. Find a wife to get married have kids. Or also known as as the white picket fence a dream of every American. Or so they say. The basic premise of the ability to have sex shows that you are desirable and wanted. This is pretty much how we show other human beings outside of the work environment if we are desired, if we are high value, if our genetics are somewhat g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 09:55 PM
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Check their post submission history into this sub. This user is highly delusional about many things, only pops out of the blue once they are not in a relationship anymore with weird ideas. One example, this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:46 PM
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Simping works when you are actually in a relationship. Just starting out and have only been on dates 2-3? Haven’t had a heavy make out session or physical intimacy? Pump the brakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 05:39 AM
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Most women won’t be able to honestly answer this. Why ? If you are invisible you aren’t noticed. Heck for myself as a man walking into a Walmart, target, gym, office, work, if you aren’t attractive to me and I know nothing about you, you blur into the background 99% of the time. If there is something I noticed about you, then I do an evaluation. Can be something as simple as a t shirt, skirt, laugh, smile, or as detailed as her nails or ear rings which most folks don’t see right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:17 AM
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There is a lot of things that she says which make basic sense. She IS someone who stands up for various issues I believe in and some things I’m sure we disagree with. I am a moderate conservative and today’s “republican MAGA” is a cult from my perspective. There is also the fact she’s very relatable also pretty damn hot. That video of her dancing back in college was very relatable and down to earth. My type of woman. This also has nothing to do with PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:46 PM
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Pretty much this. Relationships are happier when folks aren’t forced into a role. “You must provide.” “You take care of offspring.” The only real debate comes down to date night for the married folks AND what do you actually get someone for a gift for birthday or Christmas or etc reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 02:55 PM
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There is a commonality amongst generations however OP is mad their period post is heavily downvoted, and what do we have here, the same response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 08:58 PM
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Right? The projection of OP not getting a chance is real
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:53 PM
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The “best and highest demand men” are “taken off the market fast” in the sense of all basic relationships. that man who makes 6 figures, 6 foot tall, 6 pack abs, and is pretty fresh out of college is usually “off the market” in the sense someone is trying to court HIM and get him to choose them, or is being entertained by a handful thus not lonely. Has nothing to do with marriage status.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:19 PM
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I have no desire to be homosexual, gay, non binary, a wolf pack, and whatever else is labeled these days to have more sexual partners OP. You do you, but this is primarily heterosexual dating debate subreddit if you want to call it a debate when we all just fling poo at each other. I am a heterosexual man with 100+ partners. I have had some successful relationships and they ended and more than a handful of flings. No need to cross the grey area of being bisexual or homosexual or gay or wolf pack…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 06:31 PM
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In an ideal world, both genders would be very picky with who they date and their needs and wants. However one gender (men) realized the other gender (woman) will still be just as picky. There was something said which made the most sense to me as a man, “If there is a woman(women) interested in me and I’m striking out, why would I not want to know who they are as I might be interested too. Swipe right on everyone let them decide as they will decide from their point of view.” - this was one of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 05:09 PM
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I don’t want someone who is fat, doesn’t workout, doesn’t cook or clean, doesn’t do the feminine things of shaving body hair or take care of her own appearance, doesn’t work, isn’t feminine, drinks and does drugs like a sailor. If you state all of these things you after 2-3 weeks it becomes to the norm and no more complaints when trying to grow or cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:46 PM
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Pretty much this. I was trying to explain to someone this exact scenario, and you have placed it perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:33 PM
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If they are both willing who cares. As it’s legal not my monkeys not my problem. Not sure why you are asking for external validation here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:04 AM
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I am one of those folks but I’m not putting my photo on Reddit. What was my key to being successful with dating ? Moving to another city which was full of diversity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:16 AM
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It’s both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:15 AM
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Average men and average women will typically get dates with online dating depending on location. However due to the ease of access to potential suitors, many folks are “thrown away” or “put to the side” in hopes of finding something better before date 4-5. This is applies to men and women alike. You have an odd take OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:40 PM
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Good thing you are a woman. Oddly enough when I had little to no sexual experience I wasn’t desired. After a bit of experience the inside friend group wanted to see what it was all about. Some turned into relationships and some didn’t. Very odd phenomenon but such is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:13 PM
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I have no genuine idea but I believe they are referring to attempt and become to have the body type of power lifter Eddie hall. Big neck big shoulders big traps big etc just huge muscle wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:18 PM
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Today thats considered just going with the flow. No pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:16 PM
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Exactly. But you can’t say that because my comment was removed by one of the Reddit mods. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:34 PM
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It’s quite an interesting and disturbing post history. I can’t say what I’d prefer to say due to the mods. actual feminists have some valid points, the biggest issue is when you use feminism to put down another gender (apparently we have 100s of these today), and prop just one up when ideally it would be equalizing out the “completion” in a sense not providing an advantage handicap over the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:57 PM
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Yeah, um, this is very odd Reddit account which wants men to become feminine and date/marry other men. Check the post history. By all means be you and other be themselves, but I and many others have no desire to become feminine and become dainty, cute, and or sweet. Most women and men want men to be traditional men to an extent, and women to be traditional women to an extent. There are some subcultures who blend genders or go non binary and all these other factions. This post as it’s written isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:47 PM
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It’s not. People are just screaming from the back because they weren’t chosen because they work 10-12 hours week and live in their parents basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:13 AM
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Yup. Fair game and fair expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:46 PM
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Pretty much. I wonder if OP is overweight and this is projection. It would be ideal if they posted themselves making these demands so we can put a name with a face + body type with all these off the wall post submissions within PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:41 PM
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We do if the signs are there. Say hello, have small talk, ask for contact info. She says no? I met someone and the day goes on. However this person all together, her other TT videos show she is CLEARLY being courted by another man. Dog hike videos, her travel video always says we stayed we traveled, we are here, etc. Why add to her free attention list?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:32 PM
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Women don’t want men to form real “male friend groups” to solve male loneliness. —- why should they? It’s not their problem —- Women’s naive understanding of male psychology is that the male version of “getting together with the girls” is men drinking beer instead of tea and sitting around to discuss problems. —-men do many things for companionship not just drink beer —- Men don’t bond over talking. And men don’t bond over problems. This isn’t what drives men to be with each other. —-yes we do —…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:37 PM
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this post isn't RP stuff, OP has some outlandish ideas if you look at the questions they have asked and posted here within the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 06:31 PM
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Thank you for not providing proof of the evidence I have requested. Good luck being miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:37 AM
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Please prove me otherwise about a non heterosexual discussion which was trending in this sub. Please provide evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:35 AM
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I’m not the one pointing fingers here complaining lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:33 AM
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Annnd look at the history of this sub. If it’s not heterosexual it’s ignored by the majority of the users in here. Better to go to that alternative subreddit and discuss to have an actual discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:33 AM
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That’s another can of worms this sub hasn’t debated. Birthed Gender, assumed gender, and all those subsections of the dating culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:00 AM
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As a natty outside of TRT (old people problems) I am still small and you can barely tell I lift with my T shirt on due to shoulders and slightly larger traps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:59 PM
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This has primarily been a heterosexual debate sub. If you are gay, lesbian, non binary, wolf pack, and all the others (idk all these things these days by all means be you), however 99% of the discussions won’t apply for PPD and an expected debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:56 PM
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Big 3 (dead squat and bench total) is 1200-1300lbs these days. Have done marathons and Ironman triathlons for fun. Now just lift and bulk/cut. Usually around 12-13% body fat when I’m at peak “lean” as below 13% I lose my libido. Bulk mode I get up to around 20-21% body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:51 PM
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I’ll put this into the same context as your question. https://youtu.be/gG3h749G6eY?si=lGwsR6y0o4NRsieH Maddy forberg (power lifter) in this video was perfect 3-4 years ago, but even thought she is still VERY Pretty she went too far for my personal preference. Mattie Rodgers is right at the edge for me within this video. Brooke is too far, Dana is way past my personal preference. Ideally a bikini Olympia category for bodybuilding. Figure is a hit or miss, but I’m not a fan of large lats on a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 11:39 PM
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And you are sounding like a complaining brat. Men do the exact same thing. Quit being a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:00 PM
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I wish you the longest period of time you have without external symptoms or issues. It’s not a pretty disease by any means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:49 AM
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Ah you got me and the missed part of my comment. Well played, let me fix it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:18 AM
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As a man, I won’t date a woman who: No job. Live with parents. Any noticeable physical disability (no thank you to missing limbs or wheel chair /signs of Cerebral palsy or MS). Not feminine enough. Has kids. Unkept. Not enough intellect. Not fit enough. Conflicting religious or political. No friends. Not my “type”. Etc…. Not sure why you are complaining. Perhaps you need to look into the mirror why you and most men cannot get dates. I don’t have an issue being average or below it compared to som…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 12:00 AM
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The idea is if you had a great father, he was someone who led his household to make the most stable decisions for the home as hr was the breadwinner. However there is a clear difference between being an active leader who leads, inspires, and directs the ship similar to a captain vs someone who wants to be a “my house my rules” dictator. Thus the question “where is bio dad” is a reference to what was the dynamic of your household to present your discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:24 PM
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In high school anything and everything that can be used as a metric is a competition. Most people don’t leave high school. Even as old folks at the age of 50 or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:35 PM
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Sounds like you have nothing to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 04:05 PM
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As long as I’m attracted to her and she’s feminine at home and when we are dating out and about who cares? I just don’t want to go places all the time when she is in her mechanic suit and covered in metal soot. Same would apply to an auto mechanic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:58 PM
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I would take a look over at the dead bedrooms subreddit and you might be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:48 PM
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just because you’re blue pill doesn’t mean that you’re an automatically a doormat. Not sure what to tell you 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:15 AM
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This is ideal, but usually when breakups happen people start to fling poo at each other. Thus the immediate “he is an asshole” comment is made and thus, he is branded an asshole from their friend group even if he didn’t do anything to deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:09 AM
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People are odd
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:23 AM
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Weird attempt to start a debate. Perhaps you should create a submission for discussion ? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:26 PM
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Not really. But I do agree that “ugly salad is ugly.” I’m only an acceptable truck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:24 PM
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Every man who doesn’t bend over backwards to please the women is he dating , utilizes the words “no,” automatically becomes “an asshole” when the relationship ends. Sad reality of it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 04:17 PM
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Unfortunately that’s a tough internally mental block. You’ll have to work towards being more open sexually with yourself and your partner to overcome that hurdle. I genuinely wish you luck !
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:46 PM
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I mean there’s ways to do it which don’t scream desperate. Hello to teasing and foreplay. Although getting that “babe I want to fuck, I’m coming over” text is always fun to receive form time to time. Also fun for her to take the lead from time to time and just sit me down, tease me, and go for it. Ask a man, any man, if they would be excited if the lady they are seeing just takes the initiative to start sex. 99% of them will be happy people. The other 1% are either gay or checking out of the rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:32 PM
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Because it’s tiring when you are the only one initiating sexual intimacy. After awhile it feels as if unless you initiated every time, it’s more of a chore instead of actual desire. It’s an amazing feeling to know someone actually likes and wants you back. Sadly many folks men and women haven’t experienced that. Thus FOMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:28 PM
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And I’ve pulled and slept with women who look like this with $30 dates because I had witty banter, looked good, and my profile was well kept. My n count is over 100. Still date women who are the tier of your photos. Never once did I have to flaunt I was making 100k+ a year in dating apps. They were happy with a I’ll bring a bottle of wine and you bring random finger foods so we can chat outside, or going to a dive bar for happy hour where beers and drinks were under $8 each. Odd flex here but yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 06:00 PM
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No one wants to date anyone they aren’t attracted to. It’s that simple. The biggest complaint I get is I don’t care if they make an average wage or not. Just don’t be fat and have actual hygiene, clothes that fit. One of my girlfriends stated to a buddy of mine which kicked him into higher gear, “If you cannot attempt to invest in yourself, why would I assume you would invest into a relationship with me ?” Thus you are invisible
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/25 05:18 PM
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You can be upset all you want, most women want all the same things. A guy who isn’t fat, who actually wears clothes that fit, good hygiene, and a somewhat clean appearance. As someone who usually ends up dating Colombians, Venezuelans, Mexicans, and Central Americans, appearance is HUGE. The least you can do is to make an attempt at it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/25 05:09 PM
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She said she THOUGHT that’s what she wanted. When in reality she wanted her own sense of belonging. 2 different statements. Why is refusing to be a punching bag mean she is avoiding shame ? Am I going to state I’m spending the holidays with my dogs AND my FWB/ person I’m casually dating onto a submitted work medium or social media ? Absolutely not. Something is wrong with you if you think that’s something to submit or talk about at work. Again, somewhat a separation from self and work. Would you…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/25 10:02 PM
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Where is your wife and kids? hhhmmm. Post them for all of us to see.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/25 08:47 PM
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Why is being married with children the "ultimate status" for people? I swear this makes no sense. At 37 it's not too late to find your sense of belonging. Doesn't matter if its within a relationship or a group of peoples. She stated HERE she is spending Christmas doing whatever she wanted to do, and at this time it's being by herself and spending it with her two dogs. She never said she wasn't dating actively and if I was commissioned at work to write article(s), would I put my current dating st…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/25 08:44 PM
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"Aaaah, Christmas. That magical time of joy, wonder and goodwill to all mankind. But is it, really? Surely I can’t be the only person to find being rammed into confined places with extended family, lame decorations and all the enforced cheerfulness, rather tense? Less “peace on earth”, more “silent relative rage,” perhaps?" This honestly sucks this time of year. Forced to see family and people you don't necessarily want to see. Genuine perspective. "I was engaged once to lovely Matt\, 22 years m…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/25 07:26 PM
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It’s an odd time compared to 15 years ago. According to the internet unless you are married and have a family unit you have failed at life. What a crock of shit.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/25 04:15 PM
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Agreed. This lady isn’t complaining. She was dating someone for awhile, got engaged, then thought it was odd they went to the Maldives and didn’t have sex at all in the bucket list of places. Called off the wedding as she felt something was off later on, dated 2 people afterwards and saw they weren’t actually single. Not one place is she complaining or crying wolf, she simply stated she was going to do Christmas by herself to have family forced to talk about something else other thank poking the…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/25 04:08 PM
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There is no "movement" however your comments and your communication style appears to be of someone who is 12 years old. sounds like you are too young for reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:47 PM
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Technically it’s both biological and the points you have stated, however it’s easier to describe and have this conversation when you exclusively talk about genetics and biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:40 PM
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It’s an investment for both parties, but at a hormonal and genetic perspective, if a man isn’t t chosen to be given a chance to procreate, it means he is at the bottom of the list or not on “the list” at all to spread his genes. Simple biology from an evolutionary perspective. Nothing more nothing less.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:39 PM
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This is hocus pocus. Had a date and had sex within 3 hours and we dated for 10 months. Had a a couple dates and we had sex after a month and we dated for 10 months or so. Thus your statement is hocus pocus if you haven’t lived it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:26 PM
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This is hocus pocus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:20 PM
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I’m my experience yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:19 PM
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I guess you are livestock.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:37 PM
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Wow, your responses make it extremely clear no wonder you have issues dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:10 PM
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So if people aren’t having sex with you they are sluts ? Got it. Everyone stay away from this person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:05 PM
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You can be whatever you want to be as long as you aren’t inflicting hate , spreading death and violence threats. Your relationship and sexual relationships are your own and not the government or communities business.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:27 AM
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Why should people have to be celibate? If they aren’t having sex with you then they shouldn’t have sex at all ? What odd perspective you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:20 AM
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That’s what you are implying. Someone gets pregnant and they never wanted to be pregnant. So it’s a get out of jail free card no matter who the person is and their circumstances
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:18 AM
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So why are we limiting the highest level of physical intimacy with your partner as only for creating offspring ? Why are those folks in your perspective not allowed to have sexual intimacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 04:11 AM
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You are more than welcome to adopt all the unwanted. No ? Them stfu please
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 03:54 AM
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My micropenis has no issues getting laid and being in relationships unlike you Reddit warrior who only knows I have a micropenis because they keep choking on it. Learn to deep throat already will ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:34 AM
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Sure thing 2-3 chin ups internet warrior 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:21 PM
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You’re probably some fat obese overlord on reddit. Yeah I didn’t need to hear your whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:31 PM
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the idea is to introduce and stick to a resistance training routine of some sort. resistance training has been shown for life long health benefits due to prevention of osteoporosis, muscle atrophy, and better cardiovascular health compared to not doing anything. 2-3 chin ups isn't enough for life long health benefits. the side benefit of health benefits of having more muscle and actively doing some sort of resistance training is more muscle mass and ideally a less body fat percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 10:19 PM
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Considering over 80% of the population is considered overweight or skinny fat (no muscle at all but pudgy and within "healthy bmi ranges" hitting the gym to build some self confidence + improve your looks fits 8/10 persons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:18 PM
2

I don’t blame you, and it was slang and a thing back in the early 2000s. Yes before the first iPhone was released.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:26 PM
1

if you put 304 into a calculator and turn it upside down.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:44 PM
1

Cartoons are cartoons. In person, red pink and standard hair colors are pretty common. If you go green and blue and purple, it really depends on the person and their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:38 PM
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You can be whatever subset culture of whatever you are into. At the end of the day an attractive person as an attractive person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:23 PM
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Most people would be a lot happier if they had more options. A lot of people are bitter because they get 1,2, or 3 options throughout their entire lifetime. If they screw it up or something goes wrong, it’s over. Thus for both genders your still attempt to follow rules 1,2,3. 1. Be attractive. 2. Don’t be unattractive. 3. Follow rules 1 and 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:08 AM
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There’s a very rare amount of people who actually want a feminine man. However, in order to be wanted, you still have to be attractive. just because you’re feminine doesn’t automatically mean that you have dating success. If you grew up an emo kid/scene kid you knew this very well. Rules of dating never changed. 1. Be attractive. 2. Don’t be unattractive. 3 follow rules 1 and 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:02 AM
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It really depends on the woman, if she’s hot and she knows she’s hot and wants to embrace it, She will dress professionally, but at the same time it has a sexy flirtatious side to it. If she doesn’t wanna show that at work or in a casual setting by all means. Political stance means nothing here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:00 AM
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I mean there are videos of “average guys” attempting to do online dating on YouTube 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 07:42 PM
1

What’s this have to do with RP core beliefs ? Sure there are whiners within this subreddit but then again it’s not an RP belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 01:22 PM
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What in the hell is this kind of “build your character” post 😂. At the end of the day if you are hot you are hot. Facial symmetry, bodily features, physical traits (not being fat or skinny fat has the highest attraction). The rest don’t get evaluated until you pass the physical trait list. This is not a build your favorite“Waifu wish list” from your post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 09:58 PM
1

Didn’t have issues dating other women with my career in a woman dominated field at the time. Think PA, nurse, dietitian, office admin work, nonprofit community out reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:16 PM
4

No. The answer no is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:15 PM
3

I don’t see a problem with this, fuck around and find out. It’s not like this a NEW thing. It wasn’t 100 guys in a day, if you are in the kink community, some folks LOVE gangbangs and having 3-6 partners did happen. But 100 in one session and recorded ? Yeah you are asking for the world to love you and spend $$$ to see it, but at the same time the world won’t be able to unsee it. Welcome to a Diddy Party but legal as it was recorded with consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:16 PM
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She can do whatever the hell she wants. She now realizes the consequences after she got her popularity and advertisement to her OF. You can’t just claim wolf after you willingly went out and did this knowing the complications. This is her “claim to become whole again” marketing stunt BS after she got the viewers and subscribers she wanted for OF. Hope it was worth it knowing anyone who fates your going further can google your name and find all this stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:29 PM
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On paper Andrew Tate has what most young men want to achieve in life before opening his mouth. 6 foot + lean man who has a fitness body + somewhat symmetrical shaped face, fame from reality TV shows + fighting career, and more than enough $$$$ to essentially do whatever he wants, buy just about everything what he wants. On paper this is being the ultimate chad and you meet all the criteria to date supermodels at least thats what it appears. Now the things he has said on social media and his enti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:37 PM
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This sounds like you would be a great candidate for a GLP-1 to assist with the need to fill that gap with food or something. It has been shown to keep folks from binging as well as reduce obsessive behaviors including food consumption. it's a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:29 PM
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You can have fetishes and kinks and all those things as much as you want. BSDM, free use, restrictions, etc., etc. etc.. Most folks outside of some random Internet groups don’t like to share their partner (hotwife/bull) or watch their partner, have sex with another folks while they sit in a chair in the corner (cuckhold/cuckqueen). Sounds like you enjoy watching porn too much, I need to stop posting with your dick in your hand Thinking most folks are OK with some of these dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 04:26 PM
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Sounds like OP doesn’t understand what money allows for. Physically turned on ? Nah. The lifestyle which comes with it ? Trips, experiences, brands, not worrying paycheck to paycheck, can have fun all the time instead of being in “grind mode” to pay bills, etc. No one outside of those living paycheck to paycheck wants to live to work to pay bills and have $10 left over as “entertainment money”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:43 AM
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OP has a history of posting literally poo perspectives demonizing men when they are single within this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:27 PM
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You can’t down vote me and then asked me to share lmao. But I’m not 6’ and white lmao. Considering your profile shows you used to or still live in Nashville, you are going to have to move to a more diverse city to have success with dating. Congrats on being able to squat 400+ for reps and sets.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:23 PM
0

lol no stop using it as a scape goat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:26 PM
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Your comment does not change the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:35 PM
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I’m not going down this doomscrolling rabbit hole. Nothing has changed for the three rules of dating 1. Be attractive. 2. Don’t be unattractive. 3. Follow rules 1 and 2 to be given a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:33 PM
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Online dating events, pretty much emulate high school. If you’re hot and cute, you immediately know by who within reason. If you aren’t, you will be ignored. You don’t have to go to a dating event to experience this, you can go to a brewery fest, you can go to an art showing or gallery, anywhere where there is a handful of folks to meet up and do something. You can meet men and women anywhere. Hell I ended up dating someone I saw who looked at me twice from target years ago and saying hello. A d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:30 PM
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if you have an unwanted pregnancy that doesn't mean you have to throw away your life, career, passions, identity. Yes I agree with this. However many folks in other countries are saying why take the chance at all of this happening. I am simply stating that if thats how they want to combat the laws put into place, by refusing to date men, all means go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:35 PM
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I never said they have to do anything. If they feel this way of following south Korean's 4B movement is their way of "sticking it to the man," they have the right to do so. It's not my job to tell them what to do or what not to do. I believe in bodily autonomy. Pro-Choice all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:26 PM
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They are within their right to do so. If their worth due to the law is now you are only good for being a baby factory and child rearing, I don't blame them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 10:17 PM
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Project 2025 itself doesn't call for an outright abortion ban, but if he decides to change his mind, he can easily ask for a law to be drawn through the house -> Senate -> Supreme Court and America has become "the christian Taliban of the west." It does call for the removal of the pill abortion and also sterilization for both genders. Project 2025 is a scary playbook / document none the less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:30 PM
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I wouldn't say the mass hysteria is ridiculous, however its very warranted just due to the historical things Trump has said + mentioned + who he has aligned himself with and the perspectives those folks he has appointed have shared openly with the start of this 2nd presidential term. I agree with Tim Waltz on this statement as in you don't create a playbook and then put it to the side. You will use it. Many of the people he has aligned himself with and appointed within his cabinet as of 11/24/20…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:17 PM
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This Is a response to the allegations and literal fling of shit saying Haitians in Ohio are eating the cats and dogs from one of the presidential debates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:08 PM
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as you should. carry on please
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:54 PM
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Pretty much OP doesn't see the hypocrisy in their own post submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:53 PM
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This is an odd take but lets break it down so you can answer things. Still with all that being said, in modern dating women still continue to struggle. Most women will say something along the lines of “the options in men are terrible or every guy I date is a liar.” What frustrates the average man (myself included) when hearing these sentiments is the extreme cognitive dissonance women appear to have. I am curious as many folks rant about their misfortunes, why are you frustrated? It is because y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:52 PM
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Sadly most folks only are on a 5th grade reading level for comprehension. it's a sad reality. it's a truly sad reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:37 PM
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A man controls his sexual-drive and doesn’t chase sex that much (getting him to have power over commitment AND sex), --- Many men do this. However this usually happens if you are considered a 9 or 10 within Religious circles or are royalty or something. However for a majority of the population outside of this subculture men don't have this option and would love to have "the power" of not giving her sexual intercourse to have power back over her. Stupid reasoning but it's a thing. If thats how yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 11:34 PM
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Nope. You are attempting to twist my response.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:38 PM
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Not exactly. It’s the fact you thought and took time to realize you were being manipulated “purposefully” or not. If you didn’t point it out or realize, would you still have the same issues today ? Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:37 PM
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I’m not being paranoid but you aren’t proving me wrong 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:34 PM
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Uh huh. Sure…if you say so…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:33 PM
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This is a very odd take coming from op submitting these to Reddit 2 years ago stating “my friends and I don’t follow pills” but have posted about them worrying about being manipulated. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:27 PM
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You can’t prove me wrong. Case closed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:21 PM
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Prove me wrong. No ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:03 PM
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Not paranoid. Just stating experiences as a MAN who had to go against EVERYTHING my family and parents told me to become someway attractive and have successes with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:00 PM
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Exactly. You are proving “rp” and “game” concepts correct. Never ask a woman how to catch my another woman. Ask a successful man. You would PREFER to have the man that “just gets it” You would PREFER to have the man that is attractive to you and thus “attractive to other women and your friends” By simply telling men that all women don’t like fat obese Homer Simpson men (without mentioning the extremely small exceptions), men improve men’s chances at dating and dating success. As a women mentioni…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:58 PM
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And with your response, you are part of the problem to try and fix those folks who do not have success in dating. All the exceptions don’t usually apply. That 0.000005% it does doesn’t change the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:50 PM
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so lets use a quick example as messaging people tend to ALWAYS look for exceptions to said "higher than average" observation: women don't like to date fat men. - this is pretty much an 80%+ known rule within single folks dating. vs. women don't like to date fat men, but there is always room for a chubby chaser or someone who looks like a bear. - this messaging if the person reading it will INSTANTLY think they are a part of the exception thus not work to improve their physical health + looks and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:42 PM
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Wait, someone used AI to say the are a 9 but not human beings? Riddle me shocked. Humans aren't AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 03:02 PM
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“The reason I believe this question might be of interest to If I may use myself as an unfortunate example: I have anxiety, still live with my parents, probably don’t have the skill to get a degree and most likely won’t even achieve an average income. I also think there are many men in similar situations. I would love to be good enough and meet women standards but I just can’t.” Welcome to the world of B2B sales or M2W sales. Either you figure out a way to change your situation + mindset + improv…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 03:22 PM
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🍜OOOHHH 🍜
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:20 PM
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🙃 make me 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:08 PM
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I can’t be a cunt unless I have one 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:06 PM
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I like my noodles with pesto. Are you a pesto noodle?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 06:00 PM
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I know what I am do you know what you are ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:59 PM
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Are you ink confused ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:58 PM
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Your flair says your a noodle
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:58 PM
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Do you have gender dysphoria ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:58 PM
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I swear people are fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:54 PM
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What in the hell is this? I swear some of you guys need to go out and touch grass. Stop the bitching and whining. “As a woman, in today’s current dating market, I a woman am the one being hunted. thus, if I am desired, I will have many persons to choose whom I decide to procreate with. If you do not meet my standards, I refuse to procreate with you. That’s all this is. “ “As a man in today’s current dating market, I am competing with other men to win over the approval of a woman who is also desi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 02:00 PM
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Have the body of baywatches Zac Efron and take off your shirt/have a skin tight shirt showing rock solid 6 pack abs while being very clean cut. Otherwise there isn’t an “on/off” switch for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 04:43 PM
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What in the hell kind of question is this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:25 PM
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As a straight man, this is spot on as another person who is in triple digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 01:46 PM
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OP has definitely done some mental gymnastics with this post
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:51 PM
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For real. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:51 PM
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Yeah, this post makes no sense by OP. It’s wishful thinking and appears to be a coping post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:50 PM
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Why does your post sound like the movie plot of “she’s all that?” This post is written like someone who hasn’t dated much either
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 10:46 PM
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lol this is already a thing, thus the current dating market to an extent. People who are complaining realize in order to play the game, you have to meet certain criteria. If I'm a non overweight/obese woman I don't want to date men who are overweight or obese If I'm a woman who makes at least 75k II don't want to date men who makes minimum wage If I'm a woman who pays rent/lives with friends I don't want to date men who live at home with his folks If I'm a woman who doesn't have mental issues, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:09 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/i2edsfvo8eyd1.jpeg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9220c23e7a581f54d95dddf3770bf740f9f1acb7
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:46 AM
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I have no desire for an AI bot. I don’t have an issue getting dates. The hardest part is filtering for having kids already and hiding it until dates 2-3, our lifestyles don’t line up, the interested parties are obese and only want to do happy hours and dinner dates instead of being active together.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 01:27 AM
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“They just want a man that has a full-time job; has a basic level of adult maturity and emotional stability; and is nice and pleasant to talk to.“ The kicker is they need to be attractive to them and win the approval of her friends, and actually be available. The people who aren’t attractive enough, they aren’t considered available. That’s all it is. Unattractive = invisible. Queue in mister cellophane
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:27 PM
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??? Makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 06:39 PM
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150lbs at 5’4” depends. there is a difference between being 5’4” 150 with a bit of muscle with leg, glute, curves at the same time there is also 5’4” 150lbs which is pure fat and there are no curves present which show leg and or glute growth. Aka skinny fat and still have a “spare tire” within their stomach. This is a cool tool to use for both genders. Some women look like a knockout at 150, some don’t. It all depends on lean body mass and genetics really. https://loseitirc.github.io/visualbmi/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 01:59 PM
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Most if not all of your responses to my comments on various posts within PPD "??? makes no sense"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:43 PM
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<image> This is what she is trying to backtrack from. Fairly decent internet example as a ranking list. I don't date or am FWB with anyone under a "5." If she wants me to settle for anything under a 6, this user can pound sand. https://imgur.com/rate-others-thread-pic-related-rate-other-users-on-r-teens-by-this-criteria-be-honest-s3KV8
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:33 PM
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You are out of your mind. what is this nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:17 PM
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I haven't seen a common trend with "RP" people posting this, but it's a good question none the less from time to time. It's too frequent I will agree however.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:16 PM
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You seem to like to follow my comments. What is wrong with having a preference with not dating an overweight/obese woman? Women do the same for men. This is one requirement. What's wrong with having this preference from your perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 12:39 PM
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Typically a man’s world and online dating is a, “hey, is she cute? Hey, does she meet minimum requirements?” Yes, swipe. It’s on her to filter out who she’s interested or not, Red flags or not, absolutes or not. Why as “the hunter” would you make your life harder than it needs to be? Overtime because of being approached so many times indirectly if you’re a somewhat attractive woman, little by little your requirements, go higher and higher up the ladder to date a “high potential high value man.” …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:12 AM
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Apparently I’m fucking Chad according to these stats but I know I’m not with real world interactions 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:00 PM
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There’s a clear difference between a submissive woman, and a woman who is a soft woman, but she’s not 100% submissive. This is a fact this subreddit seems to have an issue with as the blend the two personalities quite often. Soft woman are usually associated with being a “true feminine woman” which is what most men mean when they say they want a submissive woman. A true submissive woman is an entirely different personality. Not having a backbone and just being a doormat in a sense is no fun at l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 08:38 PM
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Pretty much. I’ve seen this happen and I’ve also seen them to dig their heels more into their religion and it’s gone the opposite direction. Coin flip really
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:33 AM
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I don’t live there anymore. Either way I have experienced what you are stating as well, but the percentage was dramatically a bit less than those expecting “princess treatment.” The ones who DID split things closer to 50/50 and we genuinely enjoyed each others company latest the longest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:32 AM
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Mind you my parents got together in the 80s. A lot has changed in the last 40 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:50 AM
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Unfortunately you are presenting a wish list/ideal relationship dynamic which does not occur most of the time. Most marriages I see without the rose tinted glasses aren't actually 50/50. My parents for example aren't 50/50. My mother runs that household. She might be soft spoken, but what she says goes. She is also the main breadwinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:19 AM
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No they aren't. They are asking for the SAME TREATMENT as a supermodel. Make a post within this subreddit and see the responses from the male participants on how many times can they count a woman went 50/50 while dating and if it ended up in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:13 AM
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I am as well. All I am asking for in order for me to approach is a face I'm attracted to, a women whom is somewhat feminine, 25% body fat or less (I live a very active lifestyle outside of traveling for work and hover between 10-18% body fat during the year due to bulk + cut thus this is reasonable), good hygiene, and a pleasure to be around as we can have a conversation outside of first date nervousness. These are basic asks/requirements. Not the BBL hypersexualized hoochie you see on trash soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 04:04 AM
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I know what an average overlooked woman is. I know what a regular average woman is. I was an ugly duckling growing up. Easy enough it's not hard to tell who are the diamonds in the rough so to speak. you keep attempting to think I am unaware of how an average woman can bring all these things to a relationship and more, and those attempts have been met with the same percentages I have mentioned in other comments within this very post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:56 AM
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You are still making assumptions which are not accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:52 AM
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Another woman Redditor making assumptions. In Miami, women expect to be taken care of. If you willingly split the bill 50/50 or may her pay, there's a 5-10% rate you'll see her again. Same happened in Chicago. Same in LA. Same in smaller midwest cities. Same in ATL. Just because you and a handful of people state differently doesn't speak for the majority of men inside and outside of this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:55 AM
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All I see is a whole bunch of assumptions you have made about myself and other male Reddit users, however you have not answered my question I asked the other Reddit user.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 02:52 AM
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Let’s play your game. What does a woman that wants 50/50 look like and present ? I know very clearly what I present and bring to the table. I also know what I’m attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 01:51 AM
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I have lived in Chicago, Miami, LA, and also smaller cities. The women typically don’t get money directly, however, dinners are paid for drinks are paid for dates are paid for. She will typically make it up for me to buy a dinner/pay for a date once or twice a month. This is all demographics and ethnic groups. It would be nice that it would be a different experience, but overall it hasn’t been
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:23 PM
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Honestly, I’ve dated more women than many folks have within the sub, and I can count on my hand the number of women who actually wanted to go 50-50 and owned up to it. The rest want to be a princess and essentially go 90-10. It would be nice for that experience to change, but in the near future, I do not see it happening or changing within social dating experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:19 PM
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Why not? If it’s her choice it’s her choice. If it’s an involuntary choice then maybe not. There are too many variables within life to know this decision and make a “determination.” If it’s religious, cool she’s a virgin and she follows her religion. Not compatible with me, but she still will be desirable to others. If its physical attraction reasons, mental disabilities, deformities, etc there’s a high chance that she may not be unless she makes a change that she is able to make within her cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:13 PM
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You are not the judge to determine things. FOH
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:49 PM
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Their personality, attempts to gaslight myself and other legit reasons. I would prefer not to put all of their red flags onto Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:05 PM
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Tell them today. Rip off the bandaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 03:00 PM
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How are you going to TELL ME what my situation with one of my FWBs. She seriously just comes over, has a drink or two and we have sex like bunnies. We don’t talk during the week outside of making plans to have sex. We don’t go on dates. She doesn’t introduce me to people I don’t introduce her to people. It’s a pure sexual engagement. Go away wannabe gatekeeping Redditor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:59 PM
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I get b without being in a relationship. That’s what you consider a FWB only. Super toxic person but add is wild. OP has presented yet another discussion with bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:42 PM
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Why, as a man, would I go to a singles event when I can experience the same thing at home with my best catered photos and be chosen or given a no ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:01 PM
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OP has no idea about what RP is and what MGTOW is and what the active crabs in a bucket mentality is. Cannot participate in this bad faith discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 11:33 PM
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Burn. Love it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:17 AM
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Immoral, no, but at the same time if you’ve never been given the chance as a man for a relationship or sexual intercourse, typically that means there was something wrong with you in the past, or your extremely religious.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:17 PM
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Society for the most part understands and acknowledges it, there is empathy, however otherwise society does not care. If you’re having a tough time, are we supposed to give you a dating handicap? What shall we make it easier for those folks today? what would you change? Please look around the globe at declining birth rates, and see that folks are opting out of relationships, marriage, and having offspring due to economic and social reasons. I have friends who are men, and who are women who have …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:53 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 04:22 PM
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Who cares. This isn’t a PPD question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 06:54 PM
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lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 01:56 AM
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-Good luck trying to get this to happen. You keep assuming every person will have implications.— “If a baby is not genetically yours. The DNA had to come from somewhere. And since you’re not accusing a hospital of fucking up IVF or baby swapping here, you’re accusing a woman of paternity fraud.” I’m not accusing any one of anything. You are attempting to make the argument that A + B = C when it doesn’t. A paternity test in the eyes of the law is only 100% accurate after a confirmed paternity tes…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 03:14 PM
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—-Let’s take emotions out of it.—- “Let’s take the emotions out of getting a paternity test done when you don’t think your partner cheated on you.” I never stated, assumed, or am not sure if someone cheated on me. Within our society if I am to SIGN DOCUMENTATION LEGALLY BINDING MYSELF to this agreement it would be a no brainer. This is the smartest thing you can do legally. “Oh wait. You can’t. Because it’s completely irrational.” This is your personal opinion, many folks here disagree with you.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 02:00 PM
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Let’s take emotions out of it. You can do what you want in your own private life. There’s no denying science, then again within society if you sign paperwork you are legally bound to the creation of said life and a human being thus you WILL be forced to support that human child. Thus in the eyes of court and law at birth “parents willingly signed documentation stating responsibility until 18 years old” at least within the USA. Not sure why this isn’t standard procedure if both political parties …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 01:19 PM
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I would prefer to make a decent salary to survive. The higher the better with work life balance. If she makes more than me cool, if not cool. If we break up/divorce/etc I STILL NEED MONEY TO SURVIVE AND SO DOES SHE so both of us need to make a decent amount of money in today’s day and age. Not sure why this is such a huge deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 04:40 PM
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This has nothing to do with politics. Conservatives and liberals and libertarians can all play this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 10:55 PM
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Unfortunately you can’t get one without the other. Thus you continue to play the game until you get a match
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 08:18 PM
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Lmao asking someone out 2x isn’t the end of the world. We can agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:17 PM
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OP does kind of look like this if you go into their post history funny enough
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:16 PM
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I have gotten many dates which turned into relationships due to asking the person out two times. As much as you disagree with it, it’s shown more success than not asking the second time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:14 PM
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Some women play the stupid he must ask me out 2x and then I’ll go out with them on a date to play “hard to get” and not be too easy. The 3rd time is more of a “Hail Mary” or last chance invite after some time in-between. After that it’s a waste of time and you delete information and move on. Ideally you don’t have to ask someone out more than once but here we are with stupid dating dynamics and making the other person have to “work for it”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:10 PM
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So you are saying if you asked your friend group out to go to brunch and one person said they can’t make it this time you wouldn’t invite her/him to brunch ever again ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:02 PM
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This is usually asked over social media or text message. I’m sure you have asked someone out 2x for an event or group outing to check if someone was available to get brunch with a group or people or solo. My cousin turned down the offer last week of brunch with a couple of us, but she might be available next week. Let’s see if she is available and send another message offering her out. Yes ? No ? Who knows. This doesn’t just apply to dates, it also applies to daily life, work, and event planning…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:49 PM
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Some people are odd. I always say no to the first date invite to make them “try harder or again”. Nothing harmful about extending an olive branch out 2-3x. After that you leave the other person alone. That’s not being a stalker. Perhaps they were busy, perhaps that time wasn’t right, maybe Mercury was invading mayonnaise, who knows. 2-3x asking someone out over time is harmless.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:40 PM
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lol at OP. Unfortunately you aren’t a super hero. What’s wrong with telling someone to hit the gym to lose weight, get stronger, get physically fit, and become more attractive ? What’s wrong with cleaning yourself up hygiene and upkeep to have a better appearance to be taken seriously at work, your community, and to the opposite sex ? What’s wrong for asking someone out 2-3x and after being denied say contact me if you change your mind leaving the ball in the opposite sex’s court ? What’s wrong …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 04:33 PM
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I don’t want them. That should be enough reasoning as the same for women who have decided to have their tubes tied. I don’t want children is all the information which should be required to approve for the procedure as long as it’s paid for. This should be in place for both men and women. Dating life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:42 PM
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Some of you folks want to consider every human being is miserable unless they agree with you 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:23 PM
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Watch to what people do not listen to what they say. “I’m not attractive to him but still have consistent sex with him 2-3x a week and it’s fun. We are also kind of dating. But I’m just not attracted to him.” These actions above from your original statement don’t add up. Listening is to say ok and acknowledge their communicated message, witnessing is to confirm actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:06 PM
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OP, I’m very confused. She is loyal, she is amazing looking, she was a virgin when we met. Now she is in a dedicated relationship with me and has sex with me 2-3 times a week. She got with me after getting to know who I was and found out how much $$$ I made to essentially make her a trad wife ? This sounds like a relationship to me unless someone is paying the virgin woman to be in a relationship with me with sex and companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:03 PM
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Change your flair to black pill. You don’t represent us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:48 PM
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It’s another user who seems to have 2-3 different user names to spit their crazy ideas of relationships and super marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 12:59 PM
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Nothing is going to change. Those who have the gold make the rules. Pretty much the standard since the beginning of time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 04:22 PM
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This applies to both genders. Funny enough I remember being broken up with, accepting it, and having her blow up my phone 2-3 days later that I didn’t fight her over it. She continued to chase me for weeks. Play stupid games, win attitude prizes. Gender doesn’t matter for this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:12 PM
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Where I live it’s not black rock but other firms who build entire neighborhoods and it’s a rent to live in this community with 4-6 bedroom houses. Think of Camden apartments but houses not apartments in a HCOL city. It is happening but it’s not as organized as people believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 03:10 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:29 AM
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This guy is clearly unhinged. If I say no and you say ok and we both move on, that’s ideal right ? For some reason this guy thought by turning you down you’d want him more or to try harder (typical woman’s game but he tried it on you instead. Fuck me right?). Now they are upset their “tactic” didn’t work. I guess throw this person into the block/ignore list and move on with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:49 PM
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Most women I know love abs or a lean muscular man within the beginning stages of dating, but expect him to gain the boyfriend 10-15 while seeing her to “take him off the market.” If he refuses she usually tries to guilt trip you to fend off her insecurity. When I’m 10-12% body fat the girl I’m dating at the time usually ramps up the PDA 500% (made this up) but it seems to attempt to show she is claiming me and fend off other women. Don’t let these women lie to you. https://youtu.be/0avuIqeergQ?s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:51 PM
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You’re a woman who complains about everything thanks to your post history. Good luck being miserable !
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:38 PM
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Have you had anal sex ? Or are you just complaining to complain
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:33 PM
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There are more nerves in the anus and rectum than in the vagina. Some girlfriends were blessed with the ability to have a female orgasm through anal play. Their reaction and body’s response to an anal induced orgasm was longer, harder, and more explosive vs standard PIV. Please note the anal canal and vagina canal is thin, thus it can be a completely new sensation to do PIV and have a finger or other or something on the anal side engaging those nerves creating a different sensation The more you …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:58 PM
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Some girls like it, some hate it, some are interested and give it a go and some folks say absolutely not. I’ve had flings and girlfriends who LOVE IT and demand it after the first time and/or couple times due to their pleasure is different and some of the kink is due to it being “dirty” and/or depraved. Blanket statement is that it’s always a relationship plus if you are dating someone who is into exploring sexual kinks with their partner and find out together something is fun or it’s not. Nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:27 PM
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Typically women are the most fertile before the age of 25. Would I like to be 25 and date a 19,20,21 year old again ? Sure. But at the same time as long as she isn’t fat, she has a workout regimen, takes care of herself, we have common interests and I’m attracted to her why the fuck not. I might ask her out and see if she gives me a chance. If she likes me, cool. If she doesn’t, cool. Where are you getting your data? I personally don’t want to start a family outside of dogs but dating someone my…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 06:31 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:30 PM
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Unfortunately you aren’t at that level yet it seems 🤷‍♂️. You are almost there but have to pass that boundary
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:12 PM
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When you have enough female friends, and they see you as a trusted source not to bitch them out or shun them because you know, they will 100% just share everything no questions asked. Takes awhile to get there, but when you are it’s a light switch
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:10 PM
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Fix your damn teeth. Do what you have to do. It is what it is. Braces > not taking action for your teeth regardless of issues. If they can, Invisalign would be ideal here. Otherwise sucker up buttercup and have better oral hygiene and better quality of life long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:38 PM
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This is a shitpost as much as OPs post is. Returning the same energy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:24 PM
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<image> Pretty much explains it 🤷‍♂️. People are people, treat people as people, but the above explains it pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:10 PM
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I’m not gas lighting anyone. Just stop complaining and change your dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:51 AM
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Foreign women bring a certain vibe to them. At the same time typically they are more driven than others. It takes a VERY PARTICULAR man to want to date a foreign women who isn't "a submissive housewife." TO ME personally none of the "men" from this video were actual working professionals and would be willing to bring the necessary attitude to LEAD a relationship. I think they were intimidated by her 100%. But hey, I'm just a guy who relates to the foreign blond woman with DDs. Either show up 100…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:48 AM
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I genuinely DO NOT CARE what race you are. everyone struggles to an extent. stop using your race as a crutch as to why you are unsuccessful in finding what you want, It'll help you in the long run for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:39 AM
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All I see from your comment on that video is woulda coulda shoulda but they didn't and they made their ranking accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:38 AM
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Zainib was rated 3/5 in this. I can keep listing links but it works. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NBJ2J5k5kRA
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:26 AM
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no. men don't like YOU it seems. as much effort as you have put into this post on reddit you could have went outside + loaded up a dating app + potentially matched with someone for a quick convo and plan a coffee date. But no, you want to debate with me and others in here still asking for a pity party. go be free and dance. Vybz was released from jail this week.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:20 AM
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you have made the following comments within THIS post alone: Virgin women aren't desirable - they are to an extent. black women aren't desirable - yes they are being 5'10" and 130 doesn't make me desirable - NUMBERS ALONE YES IT DOES COMPARED TO THE AVERAGE AMERICAN/WESTERN WOMAN I don't mesh well with black men even though they pursuit me - sounds like you have SOME OPTIONS available to you but you don't want them either way I wish you luck. if you want different results but only continue to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:12 AM
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well if you want a pity party and hope you'll meet someone on your couch while saying no no no to everyone who is pursuing you you'll have the same results as OP. "I'm single and complaining im not attractive waaahhhhh"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 04:01 AM
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If you are not fat (5’10” 130lbs), not ugly, and a pleasant person to be around you are considered the preferred woman. This is as basic as it gets. You don’t need to apply race here for these true and valid stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:59 AM
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There’s your problem. I guess you failed to mention you believe your face was unfortunately hit with the ugly stick. Please put this in the original post instead of trying to gain a pity party of generalization of getting this subreddit feeling sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:57 AM
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I am more than half black. lol try again
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:50 AM
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this is what I was getting at but wanted OP to see this little by little. but it appears to be the case. their own insecurities make them "not datable" by not getting out of their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:43 AM
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those stats are perfect for being a model or a wanna be model with social media. don't really see an issue here. the reason I asked for location as most folks who are biracial or POC will need to relocate to areas with higher areas of population and diversity. if you are in a flyover state/city (if you are in the USA) you might have to relocate (its easier said than done for sure). I am one of those people who had to MOVE to be successful with dating and given a chance at relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:42 AM
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Honestly All I see is excuses and you sound as if you are looking for a Pity party. Post your stats. Height, weight, location. We already know your age due to your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:15 AM
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Why do you see yourself not sexually attractive and not compatible with African American /black men ? I am curious for your reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:09 AM
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Let’s play the stats. Age 25 - not a big deal Race - African American /black - not a big deal. Do you, do what you want but usually this means you were a shut in, weren’t a very social person in high school/college, heavily religious, have high boundaries or are afraid of sex/physical intimacy. This is about as much of many of us can determine with the information you have presented. The last part might be people might be you aren’t attractive in some manner as your post history states. Your pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 02:48 AM
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In the “wild” if you will say, go to a house party and the taller guy as long as he isn’t buttfuck ugly usually gets more initial attention and opportunities for sexual and dating opportunities. I am 5’10”-5’11” on a good day, and my buddies who were 6’3” automatically got the stare walking into a room. It’s hard to unsee it but then again it’s like saying the pretty skinny curvy woman gets all the attention vs the average slightly chubby non curvy woman with social interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:34 PM
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I have done this, many men have done this as well. I have temporally "settled" for a season as it's better to not be single and have constant sex, companionship. we don't mesh as well as I would like, however im not going the extra mile either with this person I have "settled for" this season. women do this too. from my experience, women usually start to pair up around the middle of august - sept and carry that relationship towards thanksgiving and into Christmas. usually couples split around ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:26 PM
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There is a lot of insecure men in this thread. education or not isn't the threshold you want to use here. A high income woman is. To me it doesn't matter, however the CEO boss babe lady will have a higher standard. Over time if you actually are geniunely who you present yourself as, the ceo boss lady is a pretty easy relationship. You can use a "team calendar" to plan out date nights and time together where both folks phones and laptops are closed. most ceo boss lady types are direct and driven …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:23 PM
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there's a difference between being able to have dates and casual relationships and not having the ability to even get a date period. most folks who are in long term relationships want to go do things with other couples in long term relationships. its an indirect "hey we relate and can do stuff together" vs oh you are single and we are a couple. we want to do couple things, not single people things. the real winners are the couples who are open to being social with their couple and single and cau…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:15 PM
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This isn't pill related however there is a fantasy which has been presented to men and women separately. Women typically are raised and taught that looks and impressions matter, thus from a young age understand indirectly fashion + the need to understand how to dress for your body type while developing, and still appear feminine. Men are told they should study and work hard as the greatest blessing to a mans life is to have a woman in theirs. Thus if you hear a man complaining about not getting …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:13 PM
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Holy shit Lizzo. No wonder she is bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:22 PM
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Move to another city.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:10 PM
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She didn’t even considered the guy until she was 100% single. Not sure how this is being a backup option
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:17 AM
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More of this super married “extra high level” stuff to attempt to make marriage more of a competition 😆? This is unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:38 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:30 PM
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I’ve had this happen. Stopped and provided an environment to lay out, cuddle on chest, and speak what’s on her mind. Can be stress, can be external factors, can be I am brainless at the moment but want to make you happy, can also be the reverse and she realized this is the last time we are going to have sex as the relationship is over in her brain so physically she checked out. You never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:05 PM
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To be fair it's a pretty accurate "I'm going to give it the good ol college try" to see what male privilege was all about when she fake transitioned and saw what the common male sees on a daily basis. She went crazy and couldn't believe the stories were true. She saw basically for 18 months what the normal man goes through over a lifetime. Sadly it caused her to check into a mental facility after publishing the book, and she unalived herself not too much after. Aba and preach covered this as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:04 PM
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I've seen it to be about equal, then again there are a handful of people complaining in here about it, and women post about "potential" less so date me now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:55 PM
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I've seen this happen with both sexes. Overall both genders have the ability to be equally shitty to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:49 PM
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Sadly some folks need to have basic things said to them CLEAR AS DAY as being told for years "be yourself, you will make a great boyfriend/husband some day, etc etc." A huge motivator for men and women is to be seen as sexually attractive for their self esteem. Being more attractive gets you better treatment from folks, better career prospects, overall a better quality of life. By labelling it "sexual strategy," it basically says the non pill response of don't be fat, get fit, clothes that fit s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:48 PM
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This is a hetrosexual relationship/dating dynamics discussion subreddit. Trans people are Trans people, however we don't give a second thought about you and your dating struggles/self identity 99% of the time. If you look like a bro, act like a bro, sound like a bro, most people don't care. It's a very small minority of people shouting from the rooftops on social media about trans this and that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:46 PM
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I thought we ended this damn debate like a month ago. Let it die
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:01 PM
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Huh ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:05 PM
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This is a huge valid take. should be the most upvoted but its PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:39 PM
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As much fantasy as these books are, they hold some merit. please note this isn't doomer perspective, it has happened in real life. If you are seen as one of the trusted friends with other women, they will openly discuss this with you if they know you will not judge. Typically from young, Boy meets girl/girl meets guy. girl thinks boy is Hot/Tall/has a car/has tattoos/is known to have fun and take risks. Girl wants to get to know boy because of said thing(s). Girl decides to keep talking to boy a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:36 PM
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If you go through OPs post submission history, this sounds like it’s actually OP…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:46 PM
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You can do both at a the same time …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 08:43 PM
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There’s a difference from jokingly knocking someone slightly off their perceived pedestal vs going out of your way to insult someone. Fine line to be followed but I can be
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 02:22 PM
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However, he's not conventionally attractive and looks like a nerd, too. One time, I took him to a club, and a girl pushed him off even though I can say for a fact that he did not do anything creepy. He genuinely enjoys dancing and music, and we go to different places often. But every time I try to wingman for him, girls give him dirty looks or even call him a creep. ——- Figure out a way to slowly turn your true kind nerd to be semi attractive with an edge. Hair cut, clothes, shoes, new hobby, et…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:51 PM
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This is “black pill “ aka doomer advice. Nothing to do with TRP however thank you internet for trying to censor the actual TRP, this is now claimed “TRP2.0” when in reality it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:35 PM
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Basically. The advice isn’t sugar coated either or a back handed complement which is also an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:33 PM
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There are hundreds on Reddit alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:30 PM
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They do and an entire movie was made about it. You don’t hear them discussing it in PPD. https://youtu.be/Q7MkSpJk5tM?si=TooGUxfXkCJE_yUT
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:29 PM
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It’s not red pill based it’s most people, even those who don’t want to admit it. They (men and women) refuse to date someone whom they aren’t attracted to. If they do overtime historically it has been shown they resent doing so unless that person becomes more attractive over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:01 PM
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To put it simply in Japan you are to honor your family as much as possible, not stand out or be inconvenient to others, and basically dedicate yourself to your company. Add rising costs of things and generations are working longer and younger folks aren’t able to afford anything. It’s what’s happening in the USA but Japan had a 15 year head start. Add limiting workers immigration laws (you have to leave every 3 years and apply for visa AGAIN) and other societal barriers (shunning immigrants basi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:56 PM
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This has nothing to do with my response. Please note the #1 comment to that post and its 1st reply is what trp used to stand for 10 years ago. There was also some basic blunt as hell statements to tell you what you can do to be given a chance in the dating and sexual dating world if you were left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 09:12 PM
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As delusional as it seems, OP isn’t wrong with this experience. Ideally you date and match as people for personalities, attraction, interests, aka chemistry. When I’m single, the reaction I receive from strangers in public and friends with their single female/girl/women friends it’s a complete change. OMG some lady chose you ? Hhhmmm what do/did I oversee when you shows some interest but I indirectly blew you off? I must figure out if I still got it/were you interested ? It’s been known for year…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:06 PM
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Please note the end of my post: “Sure there are exceptions to this but commonly you have to be successfully and highly individual stable to be seen as a serious contender when dating.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 03:05 PM
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There was a basic version of this in many different places not wasn’t a living community per se, but it was “men only” clubs and the sorts. Nowadays events and groups can be women only and encouraged to be “men only” however women want to be a part of the good “men only” clubs and now the clubs and spaces are unisex. Also to be seen as successful, a man needs to be seen as someone who has “made it on their own” and without roommates. Woman as of this moment are socially accepted as having roomma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 05:54 PM
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One less person to worry about as “competition”. Thank you for bowing out of the race OP
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:19 AM
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Noted and my mistake. Agree on OP not realizing what this all entailed to find a women who essentially wants to “lead the relationship” in a way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:36 AM
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So other than stating the “yin to their yang” you have nothing. Only hopes and dreams. Yeah ok. Good luck mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:31 AM
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You don’t have to pay or “work” but you DO have to be useful. Those women who are propping up men ? They have some traits that the woman loves about them and wants to “fix them” or don’t want to “let them go.” Tell us op, why should a strong woman invest in you outside of existing ? Would you invest in you if you were looking in the 3rd person? No ? Figure out how to make someone see you as valuable and you may have a chance, but what you are looking for is very uncommon in today’s times.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:43 AM
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“Not good for the Health of society?” Please state your data supporting your facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:39 PM
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You are saying your opinion. Not saying it “like it is.” My friends and I haven’t decided to go to twin peaks because OMG there are pretty girls working there that are servers and bartenders 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 03:21 PM
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That’s a your option and problem for YOU OP. This is the equivalent of a raging super religious person pointing fingers that in my religion “this is bad mmmkkk Kay” thus you shouldn’t believe it do anything which I’m offended by. Please note, YOU can refuse to go to and support these businesses. For the rest of us, we will do as we please.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:56 PM
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uh in my area we have twin peaks, hooters, and if we really wanted to see naked women some of the hottest gentlemen’s clubs in the United States. Twin peaks is a damn decent sports bar. It’s way better than hooters. Would still go there even if the women covered up more because the speaker system + TVs + service is great for what the place is instead of going to a dive bar. Yay for pretty women and servers but then again I go there to hang out with friends and guys to watch the game. We see more…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:53 PM
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I have yet to see one man call another man a bitch/sissy/girl for actually utilizing the earned and provided maternity leave provided to them by their employer. Unfortunately it sounds like you are somewhere where people say you are feminine if you drive an electric car or because you eat vegetables you aren’t a man kind of brain rotted environment. Otherwise you are making it up and this is what you are expecting the reaction to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:59 PM
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It’s a struggle for both parties. If you are at a decent company within the USA, men receive maternity leave as well. Other countries have maternity leave for the men/husband as well. Thus usually a contractor is brought on to cover their role for said amount of time or the rest of the team has to cover and those folks who are always get stuck with providing extra coverage become resentful as being the go-to person
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:52 PM
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The other side of the coin is men who get married and have children with their spouse tend to work harder and work more hours to ensure food + shelter. It sounds stupid but those who are married and have children are more likely to be promoted as they are more “dedicated to the company.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:44 PM
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If I broke my vows you get to take half my stuff. If I didn’t break my vows you don’t get to take my stuff. If you didn’t break any vows no excuses of assets occurs. If you broke your vows i get to take half your stuff. Fixed it for you. The divorcing partner cannot be the only one who essentially has nothing to lose. This would help equalize the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:39 PM
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Not really. Love being a slut with those who want to be a slut with me and we both consider each other attractive. It’s a win win because usually after being a slut together you only be a slut together and it leads to a situationship or relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 09:18 PM
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Op most post a photo of themselves and their body fat to make this screen from the rooftop 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 07:24 PM
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I don't care. if it happens it happens, but for now loving the freedom. however I DO make measures to not reproduce minus getting snipped. I want vasalgel but the medical community wants it, big Pharma does not. I don't have any desire to stop those folks who have come to the conclusion that they don't want to have kids, cannot afford them and use birth control, early abortion procedures before 16 weeks preganancy. I feel bad for today's woman as it appears politics within the USA wants to go ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 01:20 PM
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There really isn’t a proper way to go about it, at the same time after awhile typically the man in question becomes numb about it all and realizes dating is a numbers game. Sure people sit and reflect about it from time to time on why you weren’t “good enough” but then they either figure out a way to find their edge from internet sources or decide to not play the game at all any longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:05 PM
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Shit filled diapers are gross
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 08:47 PM
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I can’t think of a better post that this applies to this week. Come again ? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 10:39 PM
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Quit skipping leg day and grow your calves !
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:41 PM
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As someone who has done test blasts for steroid cycles, my emotions and attachment don’t change more or less when I am at a TRT dose (natural dosage) vs my steroid cycle dosage. I seriously feel the same. I am however somewhat of a demisexual after the initial “damn she is HOT” and this is an individualistic trait. If we had sex right away cool stuff. If we took a couple weeks cool stuff. It doesn’t make me more or less attached either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:38 PM
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I am usually “Chad” when I am at 10-12% body fat come the fall/winter. I might actually care about the woman I’m seeing/having a sexual relationship with, then again the light switch of “I got him now he is boring” is real. Most women want to feel as if they were won over or they can “fix me” despite my past. Thus you don’t say anything and let it be her idea for things, however you still plan dates and make plans to do things like humans do. Please note being Chad doesn’t mean you hate women or…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:33 PM
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This sounds like an OP problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 03:36 AM
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Um welcome to water is wet? this is known as preselection in the dating pool. Oh man, my best guy friend is now dating someone? What does he see in her? Why does he suddenly have so much more attention from other women now that he is dating someone/seen with another woman? this isn't a debate, sadly and should be a locked thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:48 AM
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This is all hocus hocus. if you were a high value man, you would have women seeking you out and "hunting" you down to be chosen. Humans and women are not a business looking to hire someone. Sir this is a Wendy's
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 10:28 AM
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One of the boys will post/share something unless people ask them to not share porn. You have no idea just like men have no idea all the ins and outs of what happens in a woman’s cell phone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:42 PM
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—- Really? What I keep hearing is that men are all struggling and can’t ever get sex. Low-n men are not rarities. Most men haven’t fucked 10+. So no, I don’t think it’s rare for a man at 30 have a sub-5 count. —- In bigger cities this is uncommon. Please be aware there are more people complaining on the internet and in this subreddit than there are folks. —- That can be your belief. But I still really emphatically did not want a high n man, no matter if he said the right things to try to convinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:00 PM
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The 1 and only at 30 is rare and uncommon in the west. That means only 1 serious relationship. I understand some late bloomers, but this alone will make it extremely hard to date for both genders unless in very religious circles. As a high N count person, sex is sex, but when you have chemistry outside of just physical attraction sex is an entirely different experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:29 PM
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Lmao more soap box hocus pocus from the guy that “found a relationship on Reddit.” Most of your claims are opinions and rants. Mods should lock and close this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:26 PM
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My dude, get out of the anger phase. Thus is a rant and mods SHOULD remove this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:23 PM
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This can be difficult as no matter what you’re doing someone will post something in a group chat even if you are trying to avoid it. Hell my father is in his 70s and his old buddies from high school and college basically share porn gifs all day. It’s kind of crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:54 PM
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Depending on your age 6 might be difficult. Question, what’s a high N count to you ? I would think an average of 1 person a year if not in committed relationships would be “average” but then again who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:53 PM
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In the Midwest and south we do have a problem with fat people. They get mad when you are fit and they aren’t. Thus the screaming pissing matches by obese people regarding modesty. Gf at the time wore something like this back to the hometown for brunch and family meet and greet and got basically bitched out for “showing off” and “posting as a slut.” Gee I wonder why I don’t bring people to the old city and fam. https://www.guess.com/us/en/marciano/women/dresses-and-jumpsuits/rosie-flower-dress-bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:47 PM
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She’s reasonable. The only ones complaining are mad she’s out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:42 PM
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Her list is acceptable for another HVM. I meet this criteria. If you can’t match it no offense that’s YOUR PROBLEM. Thus her minimal standards list. Women like this have no issue dating if they live in a large enough city. New York, Chicago, Miami, Atlanta, Boston, LA, San Diego, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:42 PM
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At the end of the day, this is a metaphor. No one wants to be the responsbile person. No one actually wants to be an adult and pay bills and be responsible. everyone wants to do cool fun things and spend money freely . The "teenager in the house" is referring to making sure the head of the household keeps everything afloat + towards goals for stability and financial freedom as most women do not want to do this as "my money is my money, your money is our money" metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 11:45 PM
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When you’ve been both sides of it, there’s a yes and no. But everyone is different. Some folks immediately wanted to jump in bed after a date and wanted to stick around and we end up actually dating for awhile. Some wanted to do the 3-5 date rule thing and we dated for awhile. There are no absolutes. However when I’m not 10-15 lbs overweight due to bulking it’s a night and day light switch on which version of woman on dates I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:02 PM
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Not debating that aspect. But if a women sees a man they REALLY LIKE they chase him instead. Nothing has changed
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:57 PM
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It’s not RP men alone, most men hate the fact we have to chase to some degree in the first place. You don’t have to chase at all if you are a pop star and worth a fair amount of $$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:31 PM
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This is a rant. Will be locked by mod team shortly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:02 PM
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They are saying they don’t care that you and others have autism. It’s the autistic persons own struggle in life in regards to everything. “You should give the autistic persons a chance for dating.” Yeah no. My body my choice, my dating options my choice. At the end of the day it’s more productive for people to acknowledge it, and then tell you shut up because then you can do something else with your life instead of being a whining, asshole expecting a handicap because “austism.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:04 PM
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You can acknowledge grievances and struggles all you want,l for autistic men dating, but at the same time if you have a choice, do you want to involve yourself with those individuals? Absolutely fucking not for dating. Social life and working coworkers sure thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:58 AM
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“any time a woman is moderately attractive and autistic they are more guys competing to get with her not less. An autistic is seen as cutesy, naive, etc and some would say that's screwed up but these are general traits guys kinda want so these women at least with initial interest have a hyper inflated amount of guys trying to date them” This sounds like coping and fantasy land. Any woman who is moderately attractive is typically swarmed by men to learn about her unless she show signs of marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:56 AM
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I don’t care anymore as you are annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:19 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/hlf33jkfkf3d1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=705b8d244a0e7c5ff76966c3656543c5db090641 My dude, this is what you claim and then want to pick fights in the internet. No wonder you are having issues. “It feels like nobody wants to teach me how to socialize better, not that I am owed it, but rather that my ability to understand people's intentions, or even just people in general, is so broken, that when left to my own devices, I overthink and overanalyze to compensat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 09:09 PM
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Omg I got the autistic man mad at me 😂. I’m so scared 😱. Please attempt to try and educate someone who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:59 PM
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Gee I wonder why you have social issues and don’t know when you realize you cannot change the mind of another person. https://preview.redd.it/igoek5rxhf3d1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=911b8f852ab5882dd5587a68b4692930f553e8f9
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:53 PM
1

I mean the rules are no fatties as the car will scrape 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:44 PM
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I am qualified to know who and what persons I will willingly date. You cannot gatekeep this. You keep moving goal posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:43 PM
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“If I saw them as people I wound discriminate based on it alone.” People can deny others of being able to date them for any reason at all. It rained on our proposed date so nope never mind. Do they tie their shoe laces by doing “bunny ears” or “loop de loop.” Same metaphors and ideas. Your request is simply moving goal posts. Quite frankly I wouldn’t date you because 1. You are a GUY. 2. You are on the spectrum as you have self stated in out discussion. Not sure why you are worried about me not …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:32 PM
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The men who “just get it” know that one message is for those who one understand how the game works to have an attempt to keep face and the other knows how the other side of that person actually lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:23 PM
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Do what you can control. No one is obligated to give you a chance. Either you become successful and find your person /handful of individuals who are happy to give you a chance or you don’t. It’s the gift of hope and perseverance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:20 PM
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Dear Redditor, you cannot make me date someone who is autistic. I don’t care about the level they are on the spectrum. They are people, but this is a choice I have made. I am not required to give them a chance. We can be friends, but that’s it. That is a boundary I have set. You can be mad and claim we are all emotional assholes and lack emotional intelligence and don’t possess empathy. Being Autistic by definition IS a biological defect. Doesn’t matter if you are low-medium-high functioning, Au…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:18 PM
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Quite simply your problems are your own. I personally see autistic people as people, but I won’t willingly date one. I wish you the best grumpy redditor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 08:02 PM
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Nothing wrong with it. This is NOT gender specific, however it’s saying you took a chance with your 4-5th choice and not your 1-2-3 choice however didn’t stoop as low as your 8-9-10 choice. Over a couple meetings/dates you realize the 4-5th choice you “grew to love” and really appreciate the other person you vibe with. We call it “getting out of your own way.” At the same time it’s settling or a remake of that romcom “she’s all that.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 07:19 PM
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This isn’t pill based, but the two of you in a sense, settled. So the attraction to her had to grow ? Does that mean she wasn’t your first choice initially? Would you have chosen her at 20? Thats what it sounds like, settling. “The attraction did have to grow, however. I couldn’t deny her personality.” She’s attracted to you “but you fit her best.” I understand what she means to say, but it doesn’t come off off the tongue nicely. Would she have chosen you back in your early 20s?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 06:24 PM
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I was a late bloomer. Why ? Personality + qualities + socialization was there, I was just fat. Also folks who were open to dates and sex didn’t want to actually date they wanted to only have fun. I was initially seen as the “LTR Husband man” not the be wild, young, free and grow together man. I figured out my personality edge and it was night and day. I just “got it,” called common friends out on their BS as someone who understands the opposite sec to a degree, and those folks wanted to get phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 02:53 PM
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Most people don’t want to diet (let’s be honest most people don’t want to at all), at the same time they think they are doing everything right so it can’t be just them. Blame game goes around. Ozempic works simply as you get a 5 second injection once a week and you don’t think. Your body just says no more no more and almost gets you to refuse to eat more food depending on the dose. It’s a blessing and a curse.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 02:14 PM
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They can continue to drop weight but metabolism catches up usually. Yes your metabolism can vary over time. Thus you have to “reverse diet” and increase your calories until you gain weight, pull back just slightly, and hold steady for as long as you were dieting before. After that period you can diet and see results again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:18 PM
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Ozempic has been shown improvements for many things such as cravings, healing, and ultimately appetite suppressant. It is beneficial for many folks, bodybuilders use ozempic instead of DNP these days due to its safer and easier to run a larger a caloric deficit. This “debate” is straw-manning things as men use ozempic too. Please post your physique for us to all analyze.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:12 PM
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6 figures 6 feet 6 pack abs 6 inch Willy. Those have always been the standard 6s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 10:32 PM
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There is something interesting about pheromones but it doesn’t work the way someone above is referring to it I believe. If I’m around someone long enough I can tell genetically if my body says OMG YES PROCREATE WITH THIS PERSON or NO GET AWAY. It’s a very odd phenomenon to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 06:24 PM
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You can have all the things that meet her checklist but if she doesn’t like you/is attracted to you there’s nothing you can do. People scream from the roof tops personality matters more, but if you don’t pass the attractiveness threshold, you aren’t given a chance at all for her to know your personality. Just by meeting the 6-6-6-6 rule alone doesn’t guarantee your crush(s) will want to date you/ give you a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:37 PM
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All I want for starts is to date or have fun with those whom I am attracted to. Pearl is not seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:10 PM
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I’ve heard the same as I previously was an obese overload. But then again those SAME PEOPLE didn’t give me a chance when i was the obese overlord.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:31 PM
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My original comment applies to every age group “You can meet new people all the time, but are they dating material ? Are you attracted to them ? They they available ? I am very aware of the point you are wanting to make, however unfortunately it’s not that simple”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:40 PM
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Would you date a man in his 40s-50s as you are a woman in your 20s according to your flair ? Seriously the mental gymnastics you are presenting here makes no sense. Thus you write off /ignore those 40s+ age individuals at dating partners
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:32 PM
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If you are in your late 20s are you going to want to date the person in their 40s-50s ? Ideally no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:28 PM
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You can meet new people all the time, but are they dating material ? Are you attracted to them ? They they available ? I am very aware of the point you are wanting to make, however unfortunately it’s not that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:25 PM
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I would be more than happy to tell you that if you asked. Before I wasn’t attracted to you physically but now i am 🤷‍♂️. Thats rare in todays society though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:29 PM
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This is true for both genders. Not sure what Electric death is on about
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:22 PM
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Do what you want. Nothing wrong with this premise. However there is a huge resentment if you knew the girl when she was young and lived out her wild/fun/exploration years. It’s a slap in the face that you are good enough to get married and have a family, but NOT good enough to be young wild and free with, later transitioning to a serious relationship. Thus many men like myself will take the opportunity to have sex with and bang the hottie we had a crush on years ago, but not take her serious at …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:18 PM
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6” and I cleared 230k last year USD 🤷‍♂️. You wouldn’t know it as I spend my money wisely but I’m not a cheap ass if we last at least 6 weeks of dating. I prefer to not be covered in brands (I will spend the extra $$$ for the hidden brand logos but want the quality) , but if you know you know due to exclusivity and I guess the current trend of “silent luxury.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:57 PM
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Not sure these days. Before car accidents 5 years ago my big 3 was over 1200. bench 315, squat 405, deadlift 505
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:44 AM
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Your comment means you obviously have problems. This sounds like bargaining that you want to go with a below average woman because you cannot compete within the dating market, because if she is above average she will have men notice and prob hit on her from time to time. What games her WIFE MATERIAL is she clearly turns them down: “Second, you want a woman that isn't going to have every guy in the bar coming after her, but isn't so ugly you gotta put a bag on her head to make love. “
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 11:17 AM
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Lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:15 AM
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Nope but you clearly have issues wanting to transition then detransition. Thus we cannot take anything you say seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:14 AM
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Men AND women go for non average persons.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:13 AM
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No she is not. Maybe you need to make a poll question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:13 AM
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To her FACE we would say she’s not what we are looking for. No need to be rude or disrespectful to another person. HOWEVER, to boys and friends she’s not attractive or hot. That’s all it is. You are looking too much into this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:47 AM
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Let’s fucking do it. M 5’10” 210 lbs. 15% bodyfat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:42 AM
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Nothing wrong with being childfree :). People have choices. It’s not required to procreate. Unfortunately your opinions don’t matter here as you are NOT heterosexual in a subreddit that exclusively debates heterosexual dating. I wish you luck in your endeavors finding who you are and what you identify as, but clearly it’s not heterosexual thus this isn’t the subreddit for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:41 AM
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I am a normal person. We would simply state she is simply not attractive and we would move on with our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:37 AM
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Yes we would. You cannot gate keep this 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:34 AM
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You are 2 of like 30 people in here that think she is maybe attractive. Thus for the MAJORITY OF MEN she is considered NOT ATTRACTIVE. I don’t make the rules, just naming the current data.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:32 AM
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Nothing wrong with a 6’1” woman, Pearl is just not a tree chosen by most to be climbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:25 AM
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This is you right ? Please stick to subreddits that discuss non heterosexual relationships and attraction levels. Obviously your preferences aren’t to be discussed. thank you. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:25 AM
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You said her eyes to you are weird. And you can’t figure out her emotions. Sounds like you are bargaining aka cannot make a definite decision if she is “attractive” to you or not. Thus she’s not a “fuck yes she’s attractive” determination. Nothing wrong with her being unattractive. She just is 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:23 AM
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Would you go out of your way to say hello to pearl if you didn’t know who she was a house party? Pleasantries sure, but nothing more than that as if I was going to get her to choose me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:00 AM
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No she’s just not attractive. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:39 AM
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No it doesn’t. Her face brings it down very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:39 AM
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This is odd_add. They started off as a “man” then became a “trans woman” however it didn’t work as I’m assuming they weren’t attractive enough as a man or a trans woman thus detransitioned to a “man” again and want to only date women. Unfortunately this user is participating in a heterosexual sub and their post history stated 100% that they have no idea what they are/want to be/identity as. As much as a person and human being they are as anyone else, they are spitting nonsense as they have no se…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:35 AM
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She IS not attractive to a huge majority of men in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:32 AM
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That’s all it is. Nothing more nothing less. Tell the women we aren’t attracted to Pearl and they all get upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:31 AM
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Yes there are. And I date them. They tend to be on the more attractive spectrum as they figure out what works from young and are not whiners.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:11 AM
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I’m with you, OP is delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 02:06 AM
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This means nothing in regards to men having the ability to message first now instead of waiting on a woman to message. March group gave into bumble being “just another dating app” to keep shareholders happy with promise of growth with their publically traded stock is all as it’s at an all time low.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:52 AM
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Because Pearl isn’t what they want - she’s everything she, and they, hate. - not quite She’s closing in on 30 - don’t care not a virgin - don’t care independent - good quality self sufficient - good quality. outspoken - she believes what she believes which is good. opinionated - good quality. and career focused (her social media presence is her career) - good she has a great career thus far although I’m not a huge social media person and ambitious - good quality. She’s a grifter - social media i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:48 AM
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Why don’t you go wife up pearl then 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:44 AM
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Better than Perals. Then again I’m a dude so it’s not an apples to apples comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:41 AM
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Attraction applies the same way for women. It’s either a fuck yes, maybe, or absolutely a no. Peral Davis is just a no from my perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:32 AM
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She is ugly. It’s her face. Being tall isn’t even a thing to me to consider rating her here. I’m not attracted to her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:31 AM
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No she is below average aka ugly. No matter how much she makes good points from some of the random content I’ve seen, she is below the average minus not being overweight. But she is still ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:28 AM
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What big cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:14 PM
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I believed it said BMI not bodyfat before. But I may be mistaken but who says “body date percentage” 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 12:24 AM
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No it’s not. Jennifer Lopez here is 15-17%. Is that anorexic ? https://i2-prod.mirror.co.uk/incoming/article4413783.ece/ALTERNATES/s1227b/PAY-Jennifer-Lopez-showing-off-her-toned-abs.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:38 PM
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BODYFAT. Please note I said BODYFAT percentage of 15-20%. Crude math if BMI of 15 is 19% bodyfat anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:21 PM
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No woman won’t claim you to be a top 20% man if you attempt to cross off a “check list.” This is the same concept as putting money into the vending machine and expecting things in return after awhile You can do things to dramatically increase your chances at dating/flings, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:19 PM
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By definition a size 2-4 would NOT have a bmi of 24.8. Let’s go with “short stature” of 5’0” - 5’2”. 130lbs. https://loseitirc.github.io/visualbmi/ As long as you are under 25% body fat you should be good to go. To be a “knock out” you are between 15% and 20% https://duckduckgo.com/?q=body+fat+percentage+women&t=iphone&iar=images&iax=images&ia=images&iai=https%3A%2F%2Fwebassets-prod.ultimateperformance.com%2Fuploads%2F2022%2F07%2F15162943%2FFemale-Bodyfat-Comparison-WEB-1.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:12 PM
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Let’s play the game. On paper he has everything. Twin cities means Minnesota. There’s the problem. Social issues, quiet introvert, clams up with social interactions. Doesn’t help he has roomies if he “has it made.” If he REALLY wants to date he will have to get his own place and show his wealth off in a way. Clean/newish car, clothes that it, live in a certain neighborhood, actually live somewhere hip in the city where there are things to do within walking distance. Minnesota is also known to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 07:55 PM
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Post/link a photo of what you are asking. Doesn’t have to be you exactly, but ATS the same time brand to brand sizing is different and in the west a “2” is really a size “6” from 10 years ago. Old navy is outrageously known for doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:24 PM
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Anyone in the extreme left or extreme right of the political spectrum is annoying. If that’s the case it means you identify as politics. Www.isidewith.com is a great website to see where you actually stand. Please note this is America politics based. If you want to sleep around, sleep around. If you want to be super conservative be super conservative. If you believe some social safety nets should exist, then do so. If you believe everyone should be out for themselves and pull their own weight, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 04:18 PM
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Depends on the person. Obviously have hobbies they enjoy, a good supportive friend group and hopefully supportive family at home, be open minded for discussions and learning experiences , also make a decision and not be “go with the flow” to whatever he wants Aka don’t be a pickme. Pickme people are boring and energy draining. Otherwise standard physical attraction applies which applies to both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 05:13 AM
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What in the hell my brother? We don’t claim OP as a former RP man 😂. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 10:16 PM
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It’s still around - check the archive blog. “Andrew Tate is not your friend” Every once in a while, some new hyper masculine cock enters the public eye, and all the recovering betas here cannot help but latch onto the new thing that their enemies hate and wrapping their lips around it for a good hard suck. If bravado was the Red Pill, why does the Red Pill exist? If thuggish behaviour and pissing everyone off intentionally was so good, why are half the thugs you know either convicts or ex convic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:39 PM
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Some people are shitty, then again many times it’s seen as a “shit test” as in the woman wants to see if you are actually interested in getting to know her. Many women dig the entire scenario that “he wants to claim me.” Thus it’s a way higher percentage that you get a phone number and potentially going dates or do other things at a later time. It’s not my thing, but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 01:11 PM
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OMG this subreddit is going to break as this came from a woman /s. Like geez how many times does this have to be said to the rooftops for people to realize this and try to dispute this fact. it’s not pill related at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:14 PM
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I see 6 really cute women to me anyway I that first photo via face. Not sure your angle here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:06 PM
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I can gain 10 lbs in 3 days due to milk + water + manipulation. Make it 15 if I add beer/alcohol to the equation. Your claim was stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:23 PM
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I’m going to make a thread on this. 😂😂😂😂 you are so delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 05:18 PM
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Apparently you don’t have reading comprehension. “Looking like an actual gym bro, can get you in the door,” yes allows you to be given a chance to say hello as you pass the physical attraction test of not instantly being “an ick” “but you also need to be able to have a conversation” -yes you have to have the ability to start + lead + hold a conversation “and a personality outside of I lift heavy shit and put it down” yes you have to have genuine interests and goals and experiences to share to mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 04:08 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:18 PM
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🔥 legendary 🔥 🔥 saiyans 🔥 🔥 will 🔥 🔥 google 🔥 🔥 for 🔥 🔥 science 🔥 🔥 based 🔥 🔥 hypertrophy 🔥 🔥 bodybuilding🔥 🔥 research 🔥 🔥 studies 🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 02:11 PM
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Google that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 01:06 PM
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Looking like an actual gym, bro, can get you in the door, but you also need to be able to have a conversation and a personality outside of I lift heavy shit and put it down
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:59 AM
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20 pounds at 12-13 weeks. To gain 20 pounds in 13 weeks you need to eat at a bulk of 750 calories or so. You need to stick to a hypertrophy workout plan for 5 days a week. You actually need to PUSH AND PUSH LIMITS to grow. You also need to not get lazy. Just gaining 20 lbs doesn’t mean it’s muscle. It could be water + glycogen stores + fat mass as well as some muscle. In order to do this naturally you would have had to NOT lifted previously (your post states you have always been physical active …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:56 AM
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Adding muscle helps anyone who is a man and wants to date women. Adding muscle helps trans man, but doesn’t help trans women. This IS a primarily heterosexual subreddit. Unfortunately, your profile states that you are a FEM boy or attempting to become a FEM boy so you may not have this perspective when you’re ideally trying appear as feminine and submissive as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 11:37 AM
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I’m not here to debate percentages of this. You’re looking too far into it for this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 03:40 AM
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😂😂😂😂 cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:17 AM
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I’d prefer perfectly flat A cups than on obese overload. Fun fact, most of the women I date who actively workout and HAVE gotten to the leanness of they lose “the girls” tend to get breast augmentation anyway. Cool story bro, but it still applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:13 AM
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Maybe newbie gains, but it’s highly unlikely with the demographic of this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:09 AM
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Casey neistat has one of the most famous worst face symmetry. Cool guy and have some great values + content BUT there’s a reason why he wears the sunglasses he does most of the time. Take the focus to the sunglasses instead of his actual face. https://duckduckgo.com/?q=casey+neistat&t=iphone&iax=images&ia=images However 99% of women if they saw his face on a dating app or in real life, would write him off as not datable. The rest of his traits he brings to the table got him a wife + was able to …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 12:07 AM
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Symmetry matters until it doesn’t. If you are super confident post your noggin then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:08 PM
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By definition, you are saying someone’s face is NOT symmetrical. I know my face isn’t, but I know which angle to take photos so make that appearance that it is more than it isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:00 PM
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Not sure of your angle here. Everyone looks dramatically better when they aren’t overweight or obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 10:10 PM
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If you aren’t blessed with symmetry in the face department, there isn’t too much you can do about it. However a fit/slim face with actual bone structure is better than a circle blob and no neck when it comes to attraction headshots. Every single person/couple in here looks DRAMATICALLY better with said face gains. Please note not the only thing that comes with attracting a mate, but it plays a HUGE factor. https://www.boredpanda.com/before-after-weight-loss-face-transformation/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 09:44 PM
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As you aren’t wrong however this doesn’t fit this sub rules for a “debate”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:10 PM
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Please note NONE of this is pill related. It’s more a reaction to events which have occurred. I believe most men who have gotten the short end of the stick in regard to dating and short term flings all at some point had some sort of revenge fantasy. “Oh, I asked you out and I wasn’t good enough for you then, but now I am and have boomeranged into my life and are giving me attention? This is my time to shine!” Some will actually date that person, some will make the opportunity to pump and dump, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 03:40 PM
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The complainers have started to attempt to take over this sub. Its more “black pill” “doomsday” folks complaining loudly now as its trigger content for “yt shorts/tiktok/instagram reels”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:53 PM
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This has nothing to do with RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 02:51 PM
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There’s an unsaid saying that unless you are a naturally attractive person then keep those away from “just getting it”. Not pill related but in a nutshell it’s the common experience across the internet and real world situations. Most folks can’t handle the truth nor want others to improve as if your common friend(s) nor acquaintances approve, they have more competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 08:01 PM
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This is a rant. Then again with dating for BOTH genders you approach or send a message and flirt, then ask out. Thus your intentions are known right away. They respond and are willing to set a time for a date ? Cool. They kind of softly blow you off ? Cool. They don’t respond ? Cool. Thus you know right away where you stand and you don’t waste your time. End thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 02:16 PM
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I’m around 35. I date 10 years below and 5 years older. If it’s someone I want to have a relationship with I have a relationship. If I get the vibe she wants to have her cake and eat it too, I treat her as such and only do casual things and have sex. Thus a situationship. You’re results may differ with me and many other man who have my values at had depending on the energy you bring as well. Some men will tell you right away they don’t want anything serious, or some will say a relationship is id…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:16 PM
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They aren’t red pilled, they now think they know everything as they “found a relationship via Reddit.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:23 AM
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No. I am straight. Only straight. Having access to sex once you figure it out isn’t rocket science. It’s all the things people don’t want to say and admit is true. PS. I wouldn’t love you if you were a worm. A worm is shaped like a penis and that’s not heterosexual .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 08:58 PM
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What kind of weird ass scenarios are you guys gonna come with next time ? I swear some of yall are ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:29 PM
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I wouldn’t love you if you were a worm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:27 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:43 PM
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It’s not. People just want to fling poo at each other. However after a certain income level the amount of men and women making the same salary differ and when one person makes 100k or more and the other person does not, there is a barrier where “I make 100k, he doesn’t so I want a 100k man too.” However statistically there are drastically less of these people who are able to date available. Same applies for man looking for woman who makes the same amount if at a higher income. What you usually s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 01:51 PM
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Carnivor diet is not the end all lmao. It’s another fad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:56 PM
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Looks can be there, you can be the best fuck buddies alive, but if personality doesn’t match, you’re just in the fuck zone, not actual date and court each other zone. It sounds like you haven’t had much experience of being in just the fuck zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:35 PM
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What kind of weird self gatekeeping doomsday perspective is this ? This is how you tell me you don’t actually talk and interact with women. Basic way on how to get out of the friend zone for men and women? Simple. Reduce your friendship slowly with said person and do that slow fade. Improve your looks. Get an edge. Date other people. Have a “glow up” by the next time you cross paths. Usually this takes 2 months or so. By that time he/she will either change her mind or he/she won’t. But that’s al…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:32 PM
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I got you. Incoming shit post incoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:48 PM
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This person you responded to is obsessed with trying to sleep with their actual aunt and her offspring. Be aware.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:11 PM
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What OP wishes happened in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:20 AM
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Sounds like the proclaimed “soap box person” doesn’t want to show the world they are 13 and can’t pass reddits required age requirements to use the platform. Stick to Fortnite buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:03 AM
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Please post a selfie of yourself to show us how high value you are and your known experience of how to play this “game”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:58 AM
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Please note for this to happen you have to have actively having sex with them to happen. Not turn it down as soon as it hands in your lap. Please update your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:40 AM
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I’m still an ugly guy scientifically and analytically. But you do the best you can to max out everything thus your strengths offset your weaknesses. Your “total package” is what wins them over. Good luck ! And stop LARPing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:35 AM
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Unfortunately, when you’ve been in it for as long as I have, you either learn how to play your hand which was dealt to you from birth, or you can try and go against the system. I’ve been everywhere. The ugly guy, the average guy, the HOT GUY, and the guy who no one saw. My n count is over 100. Trust me, it’s easier to not try and fix the system yourself and find a partner(s) than to exclaim for men to be righteous and take their power back. As soon as the ugly/average man stands on their soap bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:33 AM
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This is coming off as a rant/soap box of listen to me. Is an opinion not fact lmao. Please get your preaching holy gospel “catholic” out of here to try and convert people to a dying religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:27 AM
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Sounds like you don’t have life experience nor actual examples for your “proposed take on having average and ugly men take the power back in sexual relationships” without making life harder for them instead. Enjoy LARPing bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:24 AM
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This is your discussion, prove me wrong please.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:22 AM
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Women do both things depending on the person. Boyfriend material, fuck boy, etc etc. it’s not cut and dry. However, it has been shown and proven that there’s a higher percentage of having sex on the first date, if you have the various traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:22 AM
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“Why do you wanna fuck so bad on the first date? By withholding sex from her, it puts the idea into her brain that she’s not good enough to have sex with on the first few dates. “ Yeah as much as in theory it sounds like you’re trying to take the power back in this dynamic, this isn’t how life works buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:21 AM
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OP has no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:19 AM
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So let’s play the game. If I was an average or ugly man, why would I make life harder for myself when she has already thought I was attractive enough and she was interested in me enough to have sex early on ? To be honest your argument makes no sense for the common man unless they want to suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:19 AM
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In this sub we discuss men and women. Not “amab or non binary or trans” or etc etc. people are people, but here it’s exclusively discussing heterosexual relationships. Aka man and women only. Sounds like this isn’t the subreddit for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 10:41 PM
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The person in the Instagram video isn’t whining, it’s OP about the comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 05:00 AM
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I’m not the lady in the instagram video 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:58 AM
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Please note I’m not gatekeeping anyone here. I am clearly only stating the typical. There are exceptions to these outcomes. Date for 2-3 years. Get engaged. Most people are engaged for a year. Get married. That’s 4 years if she found a relationship TODAY. She would be 36. Most people prefer to have 1-2 years of just “we are married life” and start their family. this pop out a child at 37 and one at 38 or 39.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:51 AM
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So let’s play the game. She is 32 TODAY. How many people do you know meet, get engaged and married within 12 months ? It happens but isn’t as common as the internet makes us believe. Most people want to date for at least 2-3 years before popping the question and afterwards make announcements and plan weddings. Why do people think this is outlandish ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:42 AM
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Her video clearly states in the beginning 32, not married, no kids yet. I personally believe have as many as you want, I don’t want any. More power to those who do and can afford them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:00 AM
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Because you chose to ignore it the first time. I CANNOT SPEAK FOR ALL MEN/KIDS/WOMEN/INTERNET TROLLS OF THE INTERNET INTERACTING WITH THIS USER ON INSTAGRAM.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:11 AM
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If you don’t want to interact with me, you don’t have to. 1 Noted. You pointed out that you believe she is pretty worthless and in turn, are justifying the attacks made against her. - She is pretty. She appears to be a fun person. However at the age of 32, her age makes it difficult to find a suitor and date with common time periods to get married and create a multiple children household as time is biologically ticking with minimal risk. Thats objective, not a subjective response. https://www.nc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:08 AM
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Today I learned grapes can have sexual intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:03 AM
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It sounds like you have motive for this discussion and am VERY UPSET for my response. I will bow out of this discussion as I cannot speak for all men/kids/internet trolls of the internet. good day. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:02 AM
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I have done absolutely nothing, why are you coming at me about all of man kind? I answered your question. I have no desire to get my fellow men and brothers together to have a sit down to do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 02:01 AM
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I am not insulting her by any means lol. I am not someone who does this on social media, I have other things to spend my time and effort on 🤷‍♂️. I have no desire to be SkankHunt42 aka Gerald Brofloski from South Park.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:59 AM
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No one has said anyone magically becomes infertile, however, typically over the age of 35, there are higher risks for geriatric pregnancies 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:57 AM
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I have no idea why people go out of the way to do this, but some of it is most likely sour grapes and bitterness because when she was at the most fertile period of her biological clock, she failed to secure a relationship, get married, and create a family . So it’s kind of like a backwards fuck you, ha ha ha it’s all your own fault. Now that she’s 32, she’s essentially looking for a unicorn as typically you date someone for three years, get engaged, get a married a year later, and at that time s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:54 AM
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If you don’t want to date an autistic person you are still a person who has just set boundaries. Doesn’t matter if you’re autistic or not. Why is this a big deal ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 08:41 PM
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The Book was basically story book + a couple instructions to build your confidence and you bought it over the counter from a local book store. Please note this was before the TV show and all that mess. I think I bought it in 2002. Haven't looked into it since/opened it over 2 decades ago, but it worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:20 PM
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The interesting part was to take things into consideration. When you went from getting no action at all to having a handful of women open to have conversations with me + actually go out on dates + actually get laid, the idea is this stuff works ! It does work, and those whom were struggling with finding a mate/date/hookup these "tactics" worked for you to learn how to cold approach someone and have a conversation. Most of the time you failed horribly but at the same time you learned dating is ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:14 PM
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There really and truly isn't a "pill" so to speak. Please note I'm only going to briefly touch the dating aspect of this as there are more domains. Typically anything that goes against the "women are Wonderfull effect" is deemed RP. Little by little the rose colored glasses come off and you realize you've been lied to for a majority of your life. "just be yourself, you are a catch, someone will be happy with you someday" - most of us were told this by our mothers + family members + friends. Howe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:07 PM
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It’s not a personal attack. OP is clearly one of the two and in their responses aim to say option 2 is better than option 1. this is a “make me feel good” post unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:48 PM
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The one who isn’t OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:32 PM
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Please note this isn’t red pill, this is a broad behavior that occurs across men and women when dating. I don’t know nor care. Usually the people who are trying to fear monger women to read the room are usually bitter for not being chosen. If you are partnered up, cool. If not, cool. If you turn me down, cool. If you turn others down, cool. I’m pretty easy going about it all. Thus would get complaints about me “not caring” quite a bit like Jerry Seinfeld. https://youtu.be/T9W_jW4e_uY?si=8-xBC264…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 03:37 PM
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I don’t care ? I don’t look up to these internet grifters or people ? Sex is fun and by having sex it doesn’t require you to be in a relationship or married. Abortion is healthcare. If you want to have kids then have kids. Either planned or by mistake. If you don’t then don’t. It takes 2 people to tango. Either make preparations to not have kids or be ready to deal with the possibility. Sounds like woman wants to have the kid and man doesn’t. Well that was a lesson that they will have to support…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:54 PM
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Simple. You treat people as people. If I’m not attracted then nothing other than a basic friendship can occur. She wants more and I don’t ? Sounds like it’s time to end that friendship. Women do the same thing. Not attracted to a mate ? All she has on the table is half hearted friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:22 AM
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I think all women hate OP because they don’t understand women/people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 05:19 AM
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Another WTF post of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 03:17 AM
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Lmaoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 02:29 PM
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Please point out your source for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:06 PM
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Op seriously needs to stop posting and just read and understand for awhile. Check the submitted post history not comments
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:32 PM
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It’s like 3-4 posters who keep using autism as a clutch and trying to understand things which do not compute to an internal checkbox system.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:31 PM
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Yes. I don’t. Theres a difference between understanding and respecting all people, but also drawing your line in the sand with your boundaries. Your friend isn’t RP, they might be semi attractive and point out their faults, at the same time women usually complain when a cute/hot guy just fucked me a couple times and left me alone like I was a piece of meat, and not a human being. Men sometimes feel the same way when they pay for dates or if you become hot enough you ARE the price to have sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:43 AM
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Please note I’m not disagreeing with you, but the Reddit hive mind downvotes me anyway because of said flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 08:31 PM
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Please note I am not the person who you responded to initially. I believe the goal is to optimally find your person faster and settle down instead of “playing the field and becoming jaded by your options.” Please note I don’t believe in this and 2 people should date because they want to date, not because of external forces or the need to survive. Trad marriages don’t exactly mean 100% what the man says goes, but the final decision is made by the man after discussions. The household I grew up in …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:22 PM
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I love being downvoted. Come on, let’s have a discussion. This is a fantasy book, but holds some truths, if Christian Grey was an ugly man with no money, he would be rushed to the cops asap. But since he is an attractive man with money and status, she gives him a chance. If a beautiful guy asks a girl out and tracks her down to interact with her and get her attention, it’s seen as cute and attractive. If the ugly guy does the same thing they are seen as a stalker. If he’s hot she’ll try a couple…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:30 PM
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Yes and no, but you have compounded questions here. Higher percentage of unhappiness if married early and she hasn’t “figured herself out and what she wants.” Male dominated marriage is a trad marriage. Then again many people want traditional relationships and marriages, some don’t. Depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:09 PM
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I don’t have a distain for woman. Many of the quieter TRP people don’t either. Not sure what you are going on and on about. More or less it’s all about knocking those rose colored glasses off those people’s faces who think all women can do no wrong and the “all women are wonderful” nonsense you are basically drilled into your brain as a child. Be aware everyone can be shitty. Be aware these things do happen. Stand up for yourself and don’t be a doormat. Depending on how high you are on the attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:07 PM
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I used to go and still occasionally go to clubs with friends. If I meet someone I meet someone. However if you are actively on the scene to pick up a mate for the night, your chances are slim. The club is real life tinder. You get accessed within 15 seconds of looks, wealth, social standing, and if you can make a conversation happen. 99% of men in here won’t be successful. Please note this was pre tinder, pre the emergence of online dating, only thing you had was Facebook. Most of the time if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:13 AM
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This sounds like a rant not a debate lol. Mods lock this up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:35 PM
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You realize most of the generic drugs we get aren’t made in the USA right ? So if you take any ibprofein or other generics most of them are made in Asia and Europe. If you really wanted something you can catch a flight to Cancun and get buy these things over the counter for cents on the dollar. “"About 80% of generic drugs were finished in foreign countries, and an even greater percentage had their API made in foreign countries," he added. "In contrast to brand-name drugs, which are largely made…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:40 PM
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Idk man. Being able to have spontaneous sex for the total duration of 3-5 hours is crazy fun sometimes, those old people know about it thus they spread STDs like crazy in the villages and on swinger cruises…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:22 PM
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No they aren’t lol. But ok spend $30 a pill. It’s $3 a pill from HIMS/roman/bluechew and that’s the legal route….
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 10:01 PM
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It’s $2 for a 10 pack of generic 20-100mg viagra pill from India. Just need to have a regular script to cover your ass. You are welcome. Otherwise there are local generic company’s that sell this in the USA for a little more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 09:43 PM
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TRT and steroids is not the answer. lol yall just want to point fingers about any inconvenience of life of why you can’t get laid or meet the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 08:51 PM
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I might be in meetings in a manager of a team, and all this other things. Might also be traveling as well. However, I don’t hit on anyone who I actually do business with. This comment sounds like someone who wants to LARP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:41 PM
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I’m not sad, I’m not resentful, at the same time, Once you figure out the formula to be able to have pretty much sex on demand within 2 to 3 dates, everything that you’ve learned to be in a relationship and actually have access to consistent sex, it’s all bullshit and a smoke show. The hardest part is finding emotional and personality compatibility, however, at the same time, if you don’t push for flirting and physical touch and sexual relationship early enough during dates, you left behind and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 04:11 PM
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How many times is the same person going to make different user names and post hoe_math YT in here ? Do yall go outside and touch grass?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:17 PM
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It seems that most companies nowadays want to make sure that they have a even 50-50-ISH men and women in leadership, however the men aren’t retiring, and when they do, they’re being replaced by women. Nothing wrong with that, but now you see why men are usually pretty upset when they should be a shoeing to be in management, and some new grad comes in, is given the opportunity just on the sheer fact that they are a woman. Thus many people complaining men aren’t being chosen now due to diversity a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:12 PM
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This is it. End the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 05:35 PM
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Please note your added “variable” doesn’t change my comment. I have no desire to list out every single variable nor location to be “above average” because if I did, I would sell it and never work a day in my life. For starts, you can aim to be “just not fat” and you are ahead of the curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 01:31 AM
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“Just because blue pill men put women on pedestals does not mean that red pill men hate women. Most red pill men still want to be with women.” Finally someone understands. Not putting another human being on a pedestal doesn’t mean you hate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:33 PM
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Your response to my comment screams “INSECURE!” because you were afraid that I was excluding other people when it was not the case. Perhaps you need to actually “touch grass” like you told me too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:30 PM
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More options means everything. Doesn’t exclude anything. Sounds like you agree with me 100%. Cheers. 🥂 OMG did you agree with a “red piller?!?!?!?!” I guess your week is ruined huh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:22 PM
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Duh. Did you even attempt to read my entire comment or just want to debate because of my flair? The more attractive you are = the more options you have. It doesn’t mean if you aren’t average you cannot experience these as well. It just means Jenny team captain of the cheerleaders, or Josh quarterback of the football team has a lower chance of giving average a chance. You don’t even have to look far, you can look 100% into Hollywood and find examples with the media goes crazy because the person t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 09:00 PM
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In a sense yes, however, on a society basis & biological basis, the men always chases or hunts the woman to spread their genes. So the hunters are very upset because they aren’t even given a chance, as they now have to compete with social media and your dating prospects are outside of that smaller social circle of middle/high/college, and anyone can be “swept off their feet” by a billionaire from Saudi Arabia across the globe, thus making the “a prince will find you Belle” somewhat plausible. At…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 07:02 PM
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Basically, one person gets the actual relationship, if the hot person was looking for a relationship, but at the same time, the rest are just single. However, if someone is not deemed to be part of the people grouping, was able to hook up or date someone who was in theory out of their league, their new minimal dating/hooking up standard is set to be the hot person, and they refuse to settle or “date down” until hit with reality as this is an entirely different conversational together, but it doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:58 PM
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Basically, in terms of having relationships and social clout, nothing has changed since the middle and high school. For example, the cheerleaders want to date the ball players and be class king/queen. Most boys in the school wants to date the hot cheerleaders. Most women in the school wanted to date the ball player/popular hot hunk. People get left out and obviously people date, but the hot cheerleaders and hot ball players get their pic of the litter in a sense. Some just want sex, some want a …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 06:55 PM
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I mean you have a preference of choosing overweight women as average and who should chance them. Call me shallow Hal. I didn’t workout for years to be considered above average and have “average options.” You can be the best person on paper to have a relationship and be committed/married/raise a family/etc but you cannot negotiate attraction. First link maybe the red sweater. Not to the other. Second link they are clearly in a relationship so no. Also lot my type. Third link is a not my type eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 11:10 PM
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“I’m not an option so THEY can’t have options !!! I want them to feel my pain!!!” That’s all it is. Find a way to be an option and make it happen, otherwise it sucks to be you and you can go your own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:33 PM
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I think you just wanna have a debate with me because of my flare, and think that you won against the red pill person, when I am in agreement with you. Sheesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:05 PM
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You are trying to have a discussion about your individual algorithm, when every single person has a different algorithm. I have seen a common trend in the women that I date. Just because your algorithm is different doesn’t mean that you two have stumbled upon some videos that you would just watch and see no harm to them, but it is considered “rage bait“ because it gets you engaged to watch a video for more than 10 seconds to check that viewed mark to send you ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:56 PM
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You are trying to have a discussion about your individual algorithm, when every single person has a different algorithm. I have seen a common trend in the women that I date. Just because your algorithm is different doesn’t mean that you two have stumbled upon some videos that you would just watch and see no harm to them, but it is considered “rage bait“ because it gets you engaged to watch a video for more than 10 seconds to check that viewed mark to send you ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:56 PM
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Not one single person has the same algorithm, even if they’re under the same household. This has been proven. The algorithm just has to work hard to figure out what you will continuously watch, and you’ll get sent those videos nonstop with advertisement breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:51 PM
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Sadly, no gender is against rage bait. Women typically get it with some bossbabe things, but the big kicker is how to use XYZ make up /how clothes fit to the most effectiveness in my experience. I can be dating someone, and her social media feed is automatically about family planning, how do use use make up, different, tutorials on eyeliner, blush, or foundation, or XYZ. Hell I’ve seen so many people do different insert brand here haul, and a video showing how it fits on them. Thus a view, and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:48 PM
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I don’t think you are understanding what I’m saying, but I can’t believe I have to say it.. If he’s ugly, he’s going to have to settle for ugly. Same for her. And that’s fine. We aren’t all hot as balls, no matter how we feel we’ve “leveled up” or whatever, no matter how we’ve trained our gonads on Hollywood and porn. the Woman/other partner has to be willing as well. It takes 2 to tango. We, men, should understand this. This is common sense. At some point the “can’t lower muh standards” folks a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:41 PM
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Unfortunately, you are not understanding my point. Yeah ok if you had a friend state they had a cool friend that they wanted you to meet up with because they were looking for a serious relationship as well, but they looked like deebo from last Friday, Kevin James (mall cop), would you give them a chance? For a men’s perspective, that would be equivalent of someone asking me if I wanted to go on a date with precious, Adele before she lost a whole bunch of weight, or fat Amy before she lost weight…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:22 PM
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You can be alpha or beta bucks, you can want a family and be a Sol provider, none of these are an issue. If you arrange traditionally and pretty much stayed off the Internet, it was expected for men to work very hard, make as much money as I can, have a woman, decide that you, as the man are the the person that they are going to allow to court, and ultimately you’ve settle down and have kids. However, if you do not pass, the looks threshold, first, you won’t get anywhere. You may or may not be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:12 PM
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In theory, this makes sense, but unless you pass a certain attractiveness threshold, you will not be recommended by your friends for anything. This is obviously an individual assessment and you have to pass the gatekeeper of your friend first in order to get a recommendation. Ideally, your friends invite you to other events and you meet friends among friends. If you hit it off, cool, if you don’t cool. It’s not exactly hey, I have a friend for you, here’s a photo of them and let’s set up a date …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 03:09 PM
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Sure. If you want it and you felt she met your criteria why not. Usually this is 5-7 dates in. Maybe before maybe less after being sexually active with said person. Usually the second time of sex happening, sex exclusivity comment comes up quick. But dating exclusivity is another conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 02:34 PM
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Many men and women do want relationships, but it really depends on your locality on what is expected for various ages. I was someone who wanted a relationship since forever aka 14, but was not needy or demanding about it. However everyone else just wanted to have fun until about 26 it seemed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:05 AM
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I don’t want to follow you on IG. The fuck. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:32 PM
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So watching your instagram story =/= dates. Only a whopping 3-5 dates. You got more relationship experience(s) from in person interactions. Sounds like you proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:20 PM
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How many dates have you gotten from social media. ? How many actual relationships have you gotten from social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:17 PM
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You fell for the social media is your brand image BS. Unless you are trying to use your social media to date it’s 100% unnecessary
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 09:02 PM
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People want people to be treated with respect and to genuinely be kind and aware of others. At the same time people forget that being chivalrous and kind doesn't mean you have racked up a bunch of points to redeem during times in your life to receive affection, relationships, and sex on demand. So yes, have manners and show respect. Open/hold doors if they are within an arms reach, say please and thank you, treat service workers and others with respect. However you don't go out of your way(run a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:17 AM
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stop posting in here about it, we aren't going to help you. you need PROFESSIONAL HELP. nothing a Redditor can do for you to overcome your internal insecurities. this isn't red/blue/blaclk/purple pill related, this is emotional and mental health related. thus I repeat, you need professional help.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:26 AM
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Didn't you clearly make a post previously about you are a man but want to be the woman in a relationship and deleted it? Clearly this dynamic you wish for happens, but it's not common. You have internal issues to work out due to having fear and insecurity. Nothing wrong with muscle mommies/death by snu snu women, but at the end of the day most of them want to be the little spoon. Sure I've dated plenty of actual Boss Babes and C suite/VP managers in companies women who are extremely driven. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:06 AM
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I’m an asshole. I get women here and there not all of them. Being an asshole is when you stick by your morals, and you set your boundaries. Just about every woman that I have dated, has stated I am an asshole, because I did not move from my boundaries and clearly defined them during the duration of our relationship. “Assholes” go for what they want, and aren’t afraid to say no and agree to disagree. Because an asshole doesn’t bend over backwards because someone is a woman and they are pretty, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:35 PM
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Typical conservative women are in theory “to hate sex and only have sex to have kids.” The other thing is most left over women” VERY ACTIVE in their church are overweight. The ones that DO like sex aren’t on the market. Yes this applies to those who were sheltered for years and be young wild free rebellious aren’t looking in the direction of those who are “struggling to get dates” Conservative Christian’s typically have the highest divorce rates due to doing what your religion + parents say to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:08 PM
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None of the answers OP wants is pill flared. You can make all the money in the world, be amazing in your community, kill it at work, but if you don’t pass the looks threshold you have to figure out how to get there. It’s kind of like being shrek (not literally in terms of looks), but people won’t get other people a chance unless they have some sort of forced interaction to actually get to know them. No forced interaction/common group ? Not given a chance, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:18 AM
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Going out and being more than halfway decent ? I enjoy it. I enjoy clothes and textiles which are clean cut and very presentable. Please note I’m not a fan of being a walking billboard. I guess hidden luxury is my fashion type. 99% of the places I do frequent daily don’t require this unless I’m in customer and business meetings. Otherwise I can easily get around with a decent and good fitting pair of comfortable jeans + clean shoes + fitting clean T-shirt. Shave weekly as i hate being a captain …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:51 PM
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Depends what you really really really want to do with it. Issue is that it’s limited my ipadOS heavily. It couldn’t do 1/4 of the things I wanted with a proper laptop. Otherwise just think of it as a huge iPhone with an optional keyboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 08:09 PM
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Chicago is a huge anomaly in the Midwest, any other major city, or any surrounding states was a completely different story. I actually had some success in Chicago, everywhere else, nope. Wisconsin, Minnesota, Michigan, Iowa , etc. Chicago was the one place I had somewhat of a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 04:59 PM
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Please note, I’m not trying to make my comment sound as if I’m whining and complaining, however I am trying to paint a picture of how it really is. If you are a POC and have the opportunity to leave the Midwest for college, a very high percentage of them do not return to live. Midwest, even though they don’t say so, is racist to an extent. We call it Midwest nice. Midwest nice also hides a lot of segregation and racial terror. I could always be a friend with benefits, or casual hookup, but could…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:45 AM
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No. A Midwest 10 is a Florida 5-6 depending on the city.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 01:24 AM
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You’re not wrong, at the same time sometimes it’s just reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:30 PM
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I went from a community college -> big 10 school -> largest public school in Florida. Leaving the Midwest alone I was actually given second looks and dates. Midwest I got like pity dates it seemed. Location determined almost everything for me as I wasn’t 6’0” German pale human. A little tan and I look south/Central American. Location plays a huge factor outside of “looksmaxxing” to the best you can. If you aren’t attractive for the area, you might have to move to be able to play the dating game …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 12:49 AM
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You’re not wrong at all. People who aren’t apart of the cool club throw sticks and stones and yell from the roof tops because they aren’t a part of the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:15 PM
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Honestly it sounds like you are LARPing or are some young ass kid on the internet. Have no idea how to present yourself as being attractive or have been chased before. Your post history shows this. No wonder you are jaded. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:59 PM
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It’s a huge overreach. Leggings are comfy. So the lady friend is happy to wear them and put on a shirt + sweater + flops/sneakers and go do errands. OMG SHES SOMEWHAT ATTRACTIVE BUYING XYZ AT TARGET SHES TRYING TO GET ATTENTION OF OTHERS AND I DONT LIKE IT !!!! Seriously people need to get over it. Attractive people will be attractive no matter what the wear as long as it properly fits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 06:29 PM
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I’m lying about leggings ? Ok let’s play your game. Workout attire is shorts. But to have great mobility for weight lifting and things they need to be above the knee by 3-4” or so otherwise things get caught by knees. However I don’t want to show that much of my legs for whatever reason so pants /sweats are a considered alternative. But I can’t move as well in sweats and after 20 minutes I’m dripping wet and uncomfortable, thus dry-wicking leggings are the next best alternative as they keep me c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:56 PM
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Women will approach and message and ask out men that they are interested in. If you haven’t been one of those men, it’s unfortunate, but at the same time sucks to be you. Figure out how to be approachable to be asked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 04:29 PM
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And you don’t need a big pick up truck. You don’t need cialis or viagra. You don’t NEED Reddit. You don’t NEED internet. If we are taking about needs 99% of the products on todays market would be gone from shelf’s. People are open freely to make the choices they do for how they want to express themselves and how they want to spend their earned money. If you disagree with their choices by all means disagree but no one cares what YOU think as your no king, no dictator, have no army. Thus you speak…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:58 PM
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I don’t care who Caitlin Clark is. If you are comfortable + it supports you where you need it to be while working out out in public who fucking cares. Stop being insecure because something is form fitting and doesn’t limit mobility due to being improperly fitting for the associated movements desired. Men and women BOTH wear yoga pants/shorts for mobility, cardiovascular training, and strength training. Men and women BOTH wear various tank tops for mobility and strength training. Women need a spo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:47 PM
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Women dress like this all the time in gyms after 2010 or so. It’s not exactly “new”. The surge of leggings and dry wicking stretchable material became huge mainstream when under armor was started to be massively available and kept you cool or warm. Believe it, or not, by your definition of women, wear leggings, and this activewear more in common than you believe. Jeans aren’t jeans anymore they’re hybrid, stretchable material now with the appearance of denim.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:24 PM
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So if men dress well are they dressing provocatively for women ? Properly fitting clothes + cool colors that match skin tone and a nice pair of shoes + watch/bracelet + proper skin care and haircut ? lol OP has confidence issues and thinks women shouldn’t leave the house unless they are covered in a balloon suit or cover up completely like a hijab and robe. OP, we collectively have decided we aren’t going back to the stone ages because you care a Reddit obese overlord uncomfortable outside weari…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:10 PM
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These women are in regular active wear. Nothing sexual about it. It’s comfortable and breathable which MAKES IT IDEAL FOR ACTIVE WEAR. Maybe someone is upset that they can see a slim stomach or something. People are odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:07 PM
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No we don’t want to be put on YouTube or TikTok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:54 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:17 PM
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Lmaooo wtf have I just read. Too much internet for today.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:13 PM
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It’s just this post. Otherwise once someone has flairs people fling poo at each other and refuse to actually have a discussion. It would be great if we could have more discussions like this. When I was flared as no pill people listened and were willing to discuss. Purple pill less good discussion but it still there. Flaired red and I get people coming out of the wood work to try and tear me apart without bringing their data. Go figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:35 PM
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The houses being built these days don’t appear to be for first time home owners. They are for those who are established and are looking for a 2nd/3rd home to buy and rent out. The high prices being asked for them are being bought by investment companies to secure annual revenue long term. Aka houses built today aren’t for sale, to common families and people. They are for rent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:32 PM
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You are avoiding answering the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:11 PM
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Blah blah blah. Quit moving goal posts. Answer the question. Sex before defining the relationship, is it casual or not ? Yes or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 06:16 AM
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Draw a line in the sand. Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 05:42 AM
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We don’t use Facebook for social media official anymore. Theres usually a hidden small post on IG or something somewhere mentioning them. Either way if they still stay officially single on their social media but are in a relationship/kind of seeing someone they just want attention or are looking out for something else BUT don’t want you. Walk away, maybe they change their mind. Put 100% of your effort into other people and if they swing back draw a line in the sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 03:07 AM
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So I went on 4 days with the lady. We had sex a couple times. Didn’t start our relationship until date 9. Is that casual or not ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:49 AM
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You can have sex and not be in a relationship while dating with intention. Is that not casual sex as you aren’t “official” Your hypocrisy doesn’t end
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 02:03 AM
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You got it pretty well. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:38 PM
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This is your make believe opinion lol. Should women be locked up and away from folks until they get married ? You can date with intention and still have sex within your relationship. Or things get to that point and two people decide to have sex. What is your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:48 PM
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This is your personal opinion. GOOD WOMEN have casual sex all the time. Usually they have 3-5 people in rotation as FWB and old boyfriends so they don’t increase their body count. Men do this as well. If you aren’t in the selected group, “any woman who has casual sex but won’t consider me in that selection isn’t a good woman.” This is how you sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:03 PM
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On a basic level that premise isn’t wrong. I want a Lamborghini. Can said man buy a Lamborghini ? No. Thus exclusively it’s the persons fault for not having enough money to buy said Lamborghini. Please note people aren’t commodities, but if you don’t have what the other person you want is asking for as bare minimum requirements, it’s your fault alone. Thats taking emotion out of the equation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:57 PM
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You are using your opinion to determine for men what would lead to long term happiness. Everyone is different. Of course you want the best for your child(ren) as you too want them to have a family of their own. However if your son does NOT want to have kids/get married are you open to this as well ? Each body is transporting a soul with different ideas + values + goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:23 AM
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I think you are perceiving marriage and kids with the best outcome for long term happiness and fulfillment. This isn’t everyone’s goal, regardless of gender. Marriage =/= automatic happiness. Marriage with child(ren) =/= automatic happiness Edit : something you are overseeing is TRP never was about establishing relationships and getting married. It’s a tool box to be used how you want, but at the same time it makes it as clear as day how increase your chances as high as possible to be a particip…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:14 AM
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You’ve obviously missed the scarasm. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 03:00 AM
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Some women want to wear hijab and burkas willingly, some do out of religion. Ultimately it is men in those countries which are trying to control women under the guise of religion. The USA is trying to do the same with birth control/abortion/marriage/and other things however women in the USA appear to be stronger in numbers and actually are fighting back. Go women, our old people and religious nut jobs need to realize they can rule their own land, not my house, public schools, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:19 PM
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Strict Christian families don’t go to the extreme sharia law is. Sure the strict Christian attire for women is a blouse + skirt. Women never allowed to wear pants almost basically if you are looking at seventh day Adventist if I’m not mistaken. I’m sure there are more. Islam historically women are to cover up 100% as men and women should focus on worship and for their work to be seen as virtuous and women not recognized for their beauty. Some of it is religion, some of it is old tradition. Some …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:15 PM
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No one is attacking anyone. They have posted this openly within PPD before.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:11 AM
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Do it, I triple doggy dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:23 AM
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We don’t care unless you’re pretty. If you’re not pretty, please stay covered up. Rules of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:22 AM
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Unfortunately, this is something that OP fails to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:22 AM
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What does red pill have to do with you crying to the world than a “18 year old ugly girl has more value than a girl older than her” when this is OBVIOUSLY NONSENSE. Please post a photo of yourself so we know who is ranting on the other side of the screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:20 AM
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What did I just read. There is no debate here. This is a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:18 AM
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Sometimes covers this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 07:19 PM
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The person you are responding to has never had a relationship at the age of 40+ via her post history. Thus they are bitter. Save your energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 06:07 PM
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Or vice versa. Sometimes there can be physical attraction but some kind of emotional block occurs, or one party is using sex as a rewards like cookies.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:56 PM
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How are relationships too sexual? Typical loving relationships, have sex multiple times a week. It doesn’t mean you kiss someone five times and bend them over every time you see them. if you aren’t having ANY SEX there are issues. Otherwise you are just glorified roommates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:54 PM
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It’s OPs fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:41 PM
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How ? You like what you like b
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 09:35 PM
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Damn, I was called out by someone who wanted to shoot me down and they refuse to provide their data. Sucks to not have data to back up your claims huh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:56 PM
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I asked you first
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:52 PM
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SoMeOnE iS bAcKtRaCkInG. All growl no data. Coward
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:49 PM
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Bring your data. A triple doggy dare you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:45 PM
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We cover slut shaming already. Not going to repeat myself. Man and women it’s common to have money problems after divorce. What about the 70% of men who have financial issues after divorce after kids + child support + alimony ? We can play statistics games all day. No point for this conversation. Tradcon and Redpill are two different things. Taken from another Reddit post in this very subreddit; “/where_do_tradcons_fit_into_all_this/“ “Trad cons online are not like the ones I see at church. Inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:41 PM
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we covered slut shaming above. many people result in poverty after divorce. this isn't women exclusive. RP doesn't like non educated women - more educated a person becomes the more they are aware of the options around you for anything. this is a Tradcon ideology to keep women at home to be caretakers for the nuclear family instead of trying to climb the corporate ladder and giving up the caretaker role of child raising.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 05:58 PM
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Again you are screaming RP when none of this is RP exclusive. Slut shaming - not exclusive to TRP. Enjoy having sex and encounters with the perceived person who likes sex, just don’t try to lock down the bar slut. Just ask your mom, grandma, family, and friends. Women slut shame a lot more than men do. Divorce - not exclusive to TRP. People file divorce for any reason these days. Sometimes a man is willing to work and try and fix things, sometimes a woman is willing to work and try and fix thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:31 AM
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I sat for the Rd and was an official licensed RDN aka registered dietitian. I’m not going to post my certificate to dox myself. That was years ago as I left the profession as making 50k a year doesn’t survive in a high cost of living city. My numbers aren’t coming out of my ass Google keyboard warrior.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:15 AM
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Idk any TRP who is trying to go backwards. TRP is telling you this is how it is, this is how you can position yourself to be successful getting dates, maybe getting lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:05 AM
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Hard to determine. Right now the tradconers have a larger social microphone as “prime time” of TRP was 2010-2016 or so. You weren’t supposed to discuss TRP and just follow it. Also TRP isn’t anything new if you’ve listen to music at all. In the gran scope of things, we are approx a decade afterwards. Please note those who aren’t feeling left out aren’t asking for all these changes and raising their pitchforks. Some men are complaining and want traditional relationships and values back because pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:08 PM
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Please note you are NOT staying on topic. No one cares what YOU are attracted to in this discussion. We are discussing if a woman who is 5’10” 125 lbs is healthy or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:02 PM
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This is your personal opinion on if they are sexually attractive and not discussing if they are "healthy or not." please stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:59 PM
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so lets play the game. Taylor swift is 5'10"-5'11" and is between 125-130lbs. is she underweight? NO. Zendya is 5'10" and approx 125 lbs Kendall Jenner is 5'10" and approx 120. Irina Shank is 5'10" around 125 lbs. all of these women are beautiful. all of them are healthy. none of them are underweight due to their BODYFAT PERCENTAGE. ideally a woman to be healthy and not underweight is between 14-16% body fat to be considered a knockout. the high side of body fat percentage to be healthy is 21-22…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 02:42 PM
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Lizzo from the photos I’ve seen she is pretty in the sense her facial structure and facial symmetry is there. However the issue with Lizzo is that she is obese. Lizzo is 5’10” and anywhere between 260-360 lbs. that’s the size of 2 women. Rule of thumb for a healthy body weight for women medically is 100lbs for the first 5 feet and 4 pounds for each inch of weight +/- 10%. So in theory a 5’10” woman whom isn’t an athlete. Is supposed to be between 126-154 or so. Exceptions are made all the time b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:44 AM
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You don’t HAVE to do anything. I’m using basic statistics here. More physically attractive = higher percentage to get date(s). If you don’t ask/talk to people this percentage drops to nearly 0 unless the opposite sex/who your attracted to talks to you first. Being physically attractive =/= automatic dates/relationshops. However this is the BIGGEST FACTOR of the first step of dating. Do you pass the other persons attractiveness bar to be given a date if asked/prompted/they ask or invite you out s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 06:49 PM
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