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AI should be considered low effort.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/25 12:32 PM
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Everyone is born alpha. Kids naturally are self-serving; therefore, they are alpha. When our parents, teachers, society and later your wife/SO tell us that putting our needs after some greater good, we grow up to become beta. Betas are taught to find validation in this amorphorous greater good. It could be your grades, job, wife, kids, but it's always something that isn't YOU. The naturals bucked the programming sooner, but that doesn't make it better. A lot of naturals are cursed to peak in hig…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/25 02:29 PM
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I am egalitarian, since I believe the law should be blind on things such as gender, that the draft as it exists today is unconstitutional because it only targets men, that there should be abortion rights and workers rights as long as both men and women are protected, etc. Yet, I'm not against feminism, actually I was helped by an institution created by feminists. After I got a restraining order against an ex, I got recommended for personal therapy by my advocate at my local women's shelter. So w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/25 01:58 PM
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You should think about feminism as such: I believe in women's right to abortion as much as men's right to abortion or I believe in maternity leave as much as paternity leave. Get it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/25 05:56 AM
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No man should tolerate villification for simply being born a man. You're supposed to stand up for yourself. Even if all men got henched, women still have preferences such as height, weight, etc. Any more advice is simply beyond the scope of left wing advocacy. It would be dating advice.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/25 05:51 AM
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I agree with you that women need to be a part of the solution, but the bourgeoisie and the proletariat, the rich and the poor, the class struggle is foundational to Left politics. My own personal opinion is that capitalism is good as long as it's regulated, and the government is the vehicle tasked to regulate corporations and to represent the people. Ultimately men's individual greivances are second to the class struggle of today: How capital has capured our government. When big money can drown …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/25 09:57 PM
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We agree on the same thing that men need policies that benefit them. I just won’t tolerate blaming women and minorities when the rich are the real problem. Edit: Because any real left movement requires the participation of men, women, and minorities alike. It's a socioeconomic struggle first.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/25 08:35 PM
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there was a Twitter scandal that revealed most of the right wing grifters are not from the United States, but the countries that I listed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/25 08:34 PM
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Are you a Russian, Israeli, Pakisani, African plant? If you think TACO and friends policies are the solution, then what are you doing here on a leftist space?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/25 07:43 PM
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I think calling men pathetic is too much, but Tate is correct in recognizing that men have more agency in their outcomes than they care to admit. I'm not advocating for Mr. What color is your Bugatti. You can't be a leftist if you're going to blame women and minorities as the problem. The wealthy are the problem: They're not paying their share of taxes, but they disproportionately benefit from subsidies and legislation like tax breaks and tax loopholes. Male leftist need to vote for progressive …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/25 07:08 PM
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Look, if women already have everything except a man, then they will choose the most attractive man they can get. The fitness part is your own responsibility, but the politics and policy, you hae control over. Don't tell me that being masculine and leftist isn't compatible when Gavin Newsom exists. Yes, he is exceptional and not all men can be him, but men can certainly vote to elect men like him.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/25 06:36 PM
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If any of you have dabbled in the manosphere space, then you know that manosphere squarely puts the blame on the self for not being social nor sexual. whether or not you believe society should have a respinsibility to raising men -- I think so -- Manoshere doesn't. There isn't a 'We are evolving': It's a personal failure to choose to be social and sexual. Male perceived attractiveness is tied to his physique and wealth. What progressives should be advocating for is more opportunity for men to ge…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/25 06:21 PM
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Women never say the quiet part out loud. I want a provider (who is attractive). He needs to be kind (to me only, but more importantly who is attractive). Ultimately, I want a good guy (who is attractive). After you understand this, then you can reclaim your agency and power by becoming the best version of yourself, becoming attractive in the process. Or you can continue being an ugly troll inside and out. Choosing not to improve and victimizing your outcomes is your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:53 PM
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It's possible, but the kind of woman that makes a great mother is focused on mothering rather than having great sex.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/25 04:08 AM
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You must respect the mother, or the whole family unit falls apart. Even in a regular ltr, your girlfriend requires enough respect to feel secure in the relationship. Falling in love is inevitable. You're body will produce bonding hormones that make you a sappy loser. Just recognize the process, and you must protect your frame. Love and respect run totally contrary to sexuality. Great sex requires a frantic anxiety fueled by uncertainty of not knowing when you'll see this woman but you want to pl…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/25 01:42 PM
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could you expand on the "especially after a kid or two", what do you think changes after that? In a healthy relationship, the mother of your child(ren) demands a certain level of respect. You want your child(ren) to listen and follow her, so by your example as the father she must be respected. This respect runs totally contrary to sexuality. Sexuality runs totally contrary to respect because it requires objectification and degradation. You can't plow your children's mother, but you MUST plow you…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/25 07:14 PM
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When I was younger, I went through a string of tattoed promiscuous women, muses. The kind of women who drove you crazy with their undiagnosed bpd, but the sex was incredible because there was a thrill in believing my dick could fuck the craziness out of her. Eventually I realized that these kind of women dangled sex in order to control me because they needed me to take care of them. It's too time consuming being a full time caregiver, and my purpose is greater than that. That is why I have relat…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/25 02:25 PM
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Why are you here then? There's enough stories of men who go through divorce and report that their ex-wives became someone they didn't marry. Just read up on the Light Switch Effect.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 06:48 PM
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Feels are for your male friends after a couple of beers, and you ask them for advice. Don't open up to your woman because she will inevitably weaponize those emotions.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 06:33 PM
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It happens man: You're human. You got some feels, and that's OK as long as you maintain your frame. Yes, you can spin other plates, but you already pointed out that you derive no joy from doing so; therefore, stop going on these shit dates. My advice is try seeing her less: Maybe once or twice a month so it gives you room to do things important to you like fitness, career, hobbies, friends, etc. Maybe this girl is Miss Right for Now. She does everything right at the moment, then it's OK to push …
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 06:22 PM
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What if you find a good woman who listens to you and supports you, but you lose your libido? Are you suggesting I find a new plate and toss her to the stack because there's more nuance than that. Any man who has dealt with enough women knows that desire naturally wanes as familiarity develops. She could be as hot as 2000s Jolie, and after 6mo or a year, you will inevitably lose your libido. It's your job as a man to lead the relationship with novelty and combat complacency. If you're having a re…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/25 01:15 PM
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Go ahead. Flaunt your status like Tate and Bilzerian. If you're here, then you're not as successful as either men, but you'll be as corny as them. 🤡
/r/TheRedPill14/10/25 01:07 PM
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Cater your socials towards a professional online presence. Do not flaunt status to attract women.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/25 02:08 PM
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A man saying blondes have more ego is as asinine as a woman saying Taurus are more stubborn. A woman's attitude is a shit test, and OP is simply not passing.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/25 02:24 PM
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Y'all need to shut the fuck up about DEI hires. If it's beyond your control, you need to care less. A woman's privileged attitude can be met and fixed by a man with a stronger frame. If she won't oblige to such a man, then that woman is far too delusional for anything meaningful and long-term. Put her back in the plate stack and keep spinning.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/25 03:59 PM
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Yes, but you should be asking yourself what YOU do for yourself tha makes YOU happy, not what an outside force does for you. You need frame.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/25 03:02 PM
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It's your fault if she feels too safe, too comfortable. It's because YOU gave in to her natural perogative to weaken you inorder to make you subservient to the relationship. Hold your frame and you'll never feel this pain.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/25 08:09 PM
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How he fuck do you have the energy to sleep with 8+ women, have a career or business, workout, eat right, have time for yourself, etc. I have a roster, and I see each girl on the roster once a month; otherwise, she'll happily take my time and energy away from my priorities. Having a roster means you're successful at casual dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 12:55 PM
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Stoicism is simply overrated among the tools in the red pilled toolbox: A philosophy that asks us to act within our capabilities and radically accept what is beyond our control. It is popular not just within the Red Pill community, but the mainstream in general; unfortunately, stoicism has been diluted and corrupted by popular psychology. The pop stoicism we espouse is entirely devoid of substance: The stoics believed a virtuous person can become resilient; consequently, such a person can live a…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/25 03:49 PM
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Do you know the Myth of Sisyphus? Sisyphus is tasked to roll a boulder up a hill, but he is cursed because the boulder is fated to fall once it nears the top. Like Sisyphus, men wake up everyday, tasked with duties such as career, wives, family, friends, etc. Like Sisyphus, we are tasked to do our duties until the end of our days. Men can cope by philosophical suicide such as vice, depression, or religon. Or like Sisyphus, we can radically accept the absurdity of our condition and choose to live…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/25 05:42 PM
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If you do chores with an expectation for your wife's validation, then it is a covert contract. u/redpillschool understands this. You do your damn chores because you don't want to live in a pig sty. If it gets to the point where your wife doesn't fuck you nor does chores, then buddy why the fuck are you trying to stay married? Stop playing house, and you might motivate your wife to play fucking nice; otherwise, divorce her.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/25 04:23 AM
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Most women can't handle 7+ inches daily because most don't want to have their cervix bruised daily. That's not a problem for 5-6 inch guys which makes it the perfect size for the affectionately named "boyfriend dick." I have a 5.5 inch member and have never been told I was small, but I've been repeatedly told by different women how amazing I am in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:53 PM
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Just say you're doomer black pilled bitch bro. You do the work for yourself so you don't need the approval or validation of any woman. If she says no, then find someone who will say yes. It'll be easy since you've aleady done the required work: It's that fking simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:22 AM
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Men are stupid. They won't even take their own medicine in the trp subreddit. It's better to be a pook.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:27 PM
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Yeah I am RP. It's pointless to debate this that money and status can get women: Look no further than Tom Leykis. Question is are these fat wealthy high status men getting hot sex regularly? What she is talking about is desire, and men here will give excuses to do everything but become hot. Everything she's saying can be simplified as sexy men get hot baby making sex: That is congruent with reality, and reality is simply red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 03:05 PM
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ITT - Men mansplaining what a woman should be attracted to after she explained herself. Do better guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:11 PM
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You lose when you give a shit. If you like Messi, then you like Messi. Simply state it as such and stop DEERING. You must DARE.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/25 03:51 AM
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I suppose, but I want to fuck my wife and have her bear our children. Can't do that with a surrogate or she would be my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 01:40 AM
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If she looks like a woman and had the surgery, yeah. I could date her, but I wouldn't marry her since I'd like my own biological children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:29 PM
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Nope, I do not. If a draft is to exist, both men women and fluid genders should be required to be drafted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:47 AM
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Being a male feminist is easy. Men get drafted: Women should get drafted too. Women get maternity leave: Men should get paternity leave too. Men vote: Women should vote too. Women should have abortion rights: Men should have abortion rights too. EZ.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 08:22 PM
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No, I like looking at women who wear makeup for me. I’m a very pareto-betterment leaning person but what you’re describing here is a zero-sum game. It’s very easy to understand that it’s not morality or a prosocial attitude that’s motivating you. You and Vermillion-Rx just have to disagee on the moralizing.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/25 01:45 PM
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Good in the context of society is prosocial behavior. Good without the context of women society etc is acting in one's self interest. Yes, a man can be good in absence of the context of society. You might be wondering why I just made a big stink about the phrase "good person." The reason is simple: that is a controlling term that's used to hijack the male psyche into serving others. The very idea that serving one's own interests is bad and that the only way to be a "good person" is making sure t…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/25 05:46 AM
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That's where you're wrong, bud. If being a good person isn't required, it's no wonder why media paints TRP as ruinous and villanious. Take accountability for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/25 04:33 PM
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We need to take responsibility for the bad actors and cast them out. Yes, be self-interested but not in the expense nor harm of others. TRP can't be normalized if we advocate for harm.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/25 04:21 PM
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'I did not marry you because you're the hottest woman. I married you because you have a great personality for the mother of my children.' should be the end of the discussion. That statement would make even the most beautiful woman insecure and doubt her security within the relationship. She would feel reduced to just a mother rather than being a woman; likewise, men would feel reduced to a husband rather than being a man. Edited: Wording. I wanted to make it more definitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:29 PM
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Nah. Don't be a man of dubious character. Save your time, money, and sanity by ending the relationship if the woman isn't reciprocating your effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 08:22 PM
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It's a longitudinal study that measures the effects on long term relationships including marriage and cohabitation. Nothing is this article talks about its effects on men, so where are you supporting your ludicrous claim? Results show that most women recovered from their initial economic declines. Although initial losses were common and often sizable, large fractions of women eventually returned to or exceeded the household income expected in the absence of divorce and separation. Recovery was f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:05 PM
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You could take her to McDs as long as you're attractive. Spending money doesn't make you more attractive, it makes you a better provider. That's the entire difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 04:00 AM
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Yes, the age of articles does matter because current research often disproves older narratives. Here's a recent 2024 study from Duke U that suggests women do recover from divorce by either re-partnering or working. Here's another 2022 study from UNSW that suggests women with better financial literacy fare better post divorce. Here's a 2020 study from the Journals of Gerontology that suggests that older men face a more persistent decline in wealth than older women since they don't have the re-par…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:12 PM
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The article is more than 16 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:58 PM
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Men need sex as much as women need marriage. Men don't need to stay in a sexless or sexually ungratifying marriage. If sex is important to you and you're in a sexually ungratifying relationship or marriage, leave and find someone who is interested in fucking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:27 PM
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Reread what I wrote. We agree. Morality and practicality can converge to the same conclusion. It's simply practical advice: Deceit will make even the most healthy woman neurotic.
/r/askMRP29/10/24 06:44 PM
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If you are in long term relationship or marriage, you must honor your commitment because you gave your word. Your word is your frame. If you want to quit or open the relationship, then do so transparently. Just don't cheat behind your SOs back. It's deceitful and destroys any credibility that you have.
/r/askMRP29/10/24 06:05 PM
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The wife stealing from a shared bank account to fund her shopping addiction is a problem. Getting a family pet really isn't. He’s having an emotional tantrum because his wife didn’t consult him. I'm hard on him because he's asking what's the rp response. He is LARPing.
/r/askMRP26/10/24 05:49 PM
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How do I 'oak' getting a dog, red pill? If you don't want a dog, set a boundary. That's it.
/r/askMRP26/10/24 07:54 AM
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The main question was catered towards the perspective of how to perceive those who have wronged you when they are back to being nice to you You still don't get it. You're still trying to explain your feelings instead of actually doing something meaningful. If you want your wife to interact with you, then she must desire your attention. You get that by becoming attractive, but your behavior is clingy, desperate, and dramatic. Take accountability over yourself. Why aren't you socially calibrated? …
/r/askMRP25/10/24 07:07 PM
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It's happend enough that I can confidently say if she wants it to happen, it will happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:03 PM
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I like sex parties. Hurr durr. I like directing. Horr dorr. /s Have some self awareness OP. Your vices are for yourself. It shouldn't be included in RP advice.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/24 10:03 PM
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Hey RP, is it naural that my wife wants to spend time with her siblings that she doesn't get to see often? JFC Why aren't you socially calibrated? Why are you so miserable that you can't keep yourself company? Why does your wife have to do anything for you? First, stop fking whining. Read. STFU.
/r/askMRP20/10/24 07:49 AM
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You can date whomever. You only lose when you agree to involuntary celibacy. When you let women control your sexuality: Who where when you have sex. Why do you need to be in a monogamous relationship to have sex? Why can't this woman just be one of many of your partners? If you're monogamous, why are you staying with a prude who isn't interested in fucking you at the quantity and quality you want?
/r/TheRedPill19/10/24 05:22 AM
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When Diddy tells you he wants to party, you got to tell him no. -Sun Tzu
/r/TheRedPill18/10/24 04:52 PM
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Why are you putting up with women like this? It's your damn fault that you're even trying to convince her to bring something to the table. If she wanted to, she would. Stop trying to wife women who don't want it with you.
/r/askMRP11/10/24 02:32 AM
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Do you know why you need to be alpha? A: Being alpha means being desirous. Do you understand why being alpha as default can be problematic for an ltr and marriage? A: Being alpha does not make a relaionship stable: Being beta or providing comfort does. So if you act alpha as your default state, be prepared to get comfort/shit tested often. If I shouldn't be just alpha nor beta, what should I be? A: Really start acting beyond the alpha beta dichotomy. It's dumb as fuck to beholden yourself to a s…
/r/askMRP09/10/24 05:32 PM
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Invite her over to stay the night and get pounding. Sex IS comfort. Women get dates when they show up and are good company. If she complains, remind her she cancelled the date. She's more than welcome to take you on a date if she really wanted to.
/r/askMRP08/10/24 10:06 PM
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In high school you had a bunch of girls trying to fuck you b/c you were preselected by talking to to a volleyball captain. Young women like a skinny ed sheeran. Women talk and they decided you were the prize. It was a status game for the women, and you were just a trophy. Now you're just some guy. It's all fucking context, and you were that situational alpha in highschool. Go read Rational Male Vol 1. It talks about Alpha. Edit: Clarity
/r/TheRedPill06/10/24 03:22 PM
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No man should try to convince a woman to have sex with them. It's not a behavior a red pilled man would endorse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:31 PM
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There are benefits. Just none from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:20 PM
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Men please explain why ‘sexual compatibility’ is a valid reason for women to have sex with you before entering a relationship? From a logical standpoint it doesn’t make sense to me but perhaps I’m missing something deeper. Does being honest with women and simply saying “Ngl, I just find you really attractive and want to have sex with you” typically not work out so you have to go down the ‘sexual compatibility’ route because it sounds more thoughtful and receives better outcomes and reception? Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:03 PM
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This is called the process of betadization: Unconscious or conscious, it is the process of women putting their men to work. You respond by trying less which gives her the motivation to contribute to the relationship. Stop taking her to expensive dinners and go back to taking her out to Thai street food. Instead of financing a weekend trip to Paris, you take a day trip to a local museum. You reward your partner with lavish gifts because she has been treating you correctly. She's cooked home meals…
/r/askMRP29/09/24 05:10 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 03:59 AM
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OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:25 PM
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Says the feminist woman entitled to your wallet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 08:22 PM
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Your 2nd point doesn't make any sense. The bulk of the income will go to the union or family. Most men don't indulge their hobbies or passions in marriage. They're free to do so as bachelors. Edit: Seems like the og post was edited. It originlly said men had more disposable income due to two incomes within a marriage. Now it's changed to how it benefits women with no mention on how it would financially benefit men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/24 05:41 PM
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It's not that serious guys. Use OLD for what it's made for: Hookups. If a relationship happens, then you have a different set of problems to deal with. Enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/24 06:27 PM
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Why are you playing phone games? If it's not face to face, the tools don't properly work. Schedule a time to make a call. You're a fucking adult: Don't be a neglectful captain.
/r/askMRP24/09/24 03:49 PM
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I'd rather work out, read the sidebar, or touch grass then ask myself if I am artistic. How the f do you work on being artistic?
/r/askMRP23/09/24 12:05 AM
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If you have to ask, then yes, yes you are.
/r/askMRP22/09/24 02:57 AM
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Some women don't want to be touched: It could be trauma related, but that's not your problem. Why do you care if she doesn't want to cuddle with you: Are you validation seeking? You should be seeing multiple women, so if one doesn't want to cuddle with you, you can have another who does.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/24 03:39 PM
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It's not just a shit test. All the signs indicate another guy.
/r/askMRP18/09/24 06:27 PM
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Borderline Personality Disorder, BPD is characterized by two phases: Idealization and Devaluation. A person w/ bpd hopes they can get all their needs met by their partner: They create an idealized version of their partner. It's an impossible standard: You're never going to meet all her needs which leads a PwBPD to devalue you. BPD women test your resolve in the relationship by hurting you. If you can overcome the pain inflicted upon you, then you can overcome her pain and are worthy of being in …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/24 08:18 PM
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Creating and maintaining an LTR is a different skill than seduction. Too much alpha and you'll trigger your woman's BPD tendencies. Too much beta and you'll be friendzoned within the relationship. LTR is redpill in hardcore mode: You must be calibrated. You must balance alpha and beta--desire and comfort. Her attraction to you must inspire her to be valuable to you. Your comfort is the tool to manage her and women's innate BPD tendencies.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/24 06:38 PM
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You're too much in your head. Most people have skeletons in their closet. Even the vets here have experienced the one that got away, but they know better than chasing that one. An alpha widow is a woman who experienced a man that left such an impression that all other men are compared to his standard. These men are scarce. Focus on yourself, don't let yourself be compared to another man's frame.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/24 06:01 PM
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They're not all valid. Statement 1 and 4 contradict each other because you can't be monogamous and cheat. Although statement 3 can imply cheating, it makes no affirmation to cheat. Statement 1 and 3 can both be true if you are on your MAP. Read: Don't Rambo.
/r/askMRP05/09/24 03:24 PM
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Do you want to be monogamous? I want to be in a monogamous relationship, so I don't want to cheat. vs. My wife would divorce me if I cheated. My family would be disappointed in me. My friends would hate me. Do you understand the difference in frame, and how about this? I give my wife first crack at my libido, not ownership. vs. She doesn't fuck me like I want, so I can cheat. If you don't know the difference, then you must read before you actually do anything.
/r/askMRP05/09/24 05:53 AM
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It's difficult to create attraction if you're always within proximity of each other. You're simply too comfortable. The distance creates the anxiety to motivate her to have sex w/ you. You need to have some seperation, so get out of the house.
/r/askMRP29/08/24 08:06 PM
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You're only paying half? Sounds like a good wife, good mother, just not a great sexual partner. re you creating attraction throughout the day? Why are you alwas cooped up at home to work? Do you have friends or hobbies? Are you courting your wife?
/r/askMRP29/08/24 06:47 PM
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This is absolutely YOUR FAULT. She has all the hallmarks of an insubordinate first officer because you've been a negligent captain. She shouldn't be talking to you like this. She shouldn't be talking to your family like this. You permitted her bad behavior instead of saying No or setting boundaries. Your job is to convince her to have sex with you: Her job is to convince you to hve a relationship with her (note). Why are you accepting this behavior? She's a feminist who doesn't even contribute 5…
/r/askMRP25/08/24 07:02 PM
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Bro, big dicks look great for porn, but in general are not more pleasurable than average. Only size queens are stimulate by the size of your member. Average sized dicks don't bruise the cervix, have the length to stimulate the g-spot, and the mons pubis (fupa) can simultaneously stimulate the clit. This means you can have pain free sex more often: Perfect boyfriend dick. The last two points can be countered with subscriptions such as BlueChew or HIMs. Still, you need to fix your diet, sleep, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:48 PM
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The man's carrot is the relationship. You match her enthusiasm for sex with your effort in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 03:44 PM
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This is patently false. We've seen and heard plenty of stories of women having sex for reasons other than relationship quality. Do you believe all women engage in ons because he might be relationship material? Do you believe women won't engage in sex in order to get resources, a place to spend the night, or a raise/promotion? All of these circumstances require little in intimate relationships. Women simply chose to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:35 AM
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By definition, you can't be a sex addict in a dead bedroom. It's a crazy projection to absolve themselves of their responsibility and culpability in creating the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 04:27 AM
1

Then men like me are not for them. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:30 AM
1

Maybe. I totally disagree that taking it slow is a red flag. Rushing into a relationship is a major red flag. You really need to vet someone before you commit yourself into a relationship. For myself, I know if I'm attracted to the person within the same day of meeting someone. If we have sex, it pretty much confirms the potential for a long term relationship. I then use a slow dating process to vet that potential. Six months is a bare minimum before I start seriously considering. Dating should …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:20 AM
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Of course. The answer is always going to be a variation of taking it slow. Yes, it can be stringing them along, but I always let them know I'm strictly casual. I've lost some relationships and I've ended a couple relationships because it became too much for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:22 AM
2

Yes. Men and women should be upfront with their intentions. That said, I've never disclosed my others partners even when asked. We're not exclusive so no one else needs to know my business.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:16 AM
1

I'm completely honest with women. I have a couple women in my life currently. One I have sex with and very much attracted to, but it's simply inconvenient for the both of us to develop further. Another woman has a great personality and is always making the effort to see me. We haven't progressed further than kissing, and I don't think I will. She is admirable, so I'll just enjoy her company. I've told all the women that I am dating casually, but they've all responded that they're adults who know…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:50 AM
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Its fine. You said more than you needed to say, but it was congruent with the principle statement: I don't want to be here. You don't need to be perfect all the time. Perfect is boring. Explaining becomes a problem when she uses your explanation to shit test you. You shut that shit down.
/r/askMRP15/07/24 03:46 AM
18

Don't go out of your way to be a jerk, but don't go out of your way to be a Nice Guy. Good advice.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/24 03:47 PM
1

Mary doesn't want sex until after marriage. How do I know she'll want to have sex after we're married? Susan is high-strung and has a bad attitude: Not relationship material at all. Jessica can work, but only sees me once a month: So our relationship will be casual. May likes to have sex 1-2 times a week, but has single woman tendencies. I'm not going to be controlling and tell her to stop. Our relationship will be casual. I'd casually have a relationship with Jessica and May.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:34 PM
3

It's a number game. Out of one hundred women, you'll f*ck a quarter of them and 2 could be relationship material. You're not spinning enough damn plates to know.
/r/askMRP07/07/24 12:10 PM
12

You make the frame for the relationship. If it's shit it's your fault. Who cares if the woman is good, bad, Madonna, or whore. All women will despise you if your frame is shit. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/24 01:06 PM
2

She shucked you off after dropping the D bomb. Keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askMRP26/06/24 05:27 PM
12

Why are you insecure over her behavior which is causing you to get the sex you want? If you want a Madonna, don't expect the nasty sex of the Whore. You need to fix this covert contract.
/r/askMRP25/06/24 02:15 AM
1

You shouldn't force or coerce a partner to do anything. You should set a boundary by defining what behavior is or isn't acceptable to you and establishing how you'll respond to the behavior. If the behavior is truly bad, then the only acceptable response is to leave: Don't cry nor beg for your partner to change. Let the loss of you be a lesson that disrespect is never tolerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:38 PM
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Sounds like you need to learn the hard way. You should marry her: Sex is good, BPD, Lots of guy friends. Forget the prenup too.
/r/askMRP20/06/24 03:56 PM
3

Youre living a life of quiet desperation. You said no to one of your two biannual pity fucks. God, when are you going to get angry enough to act upon it?
/r/askMRP18/06/24 09:43 PM
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Its dumb as shit. The whole point of red pill is to give you tools to live the life you want. It's not to analyze Beauty and the Beast. Rule 0: Fuck reddit. Go outside and touch grass.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/24 04:00 PM
1

You're asking your wife to dominate you sexually. Maybe, but think about how that would that affect her as a wife, mother, and lover? You think such a woman wouldn't try to dominate you in other aspects of your life?
/r/askMRP17/06/24 07:51 PM
2

We chastise women for believing in these Disney fantasies that cater to the consumer narrative, and now you're telling me to disregard that. You're saying men should seriously reconsider watching Disney films because the masterminds in the house of mouse are trying to convey a covert metaphor to men instead of selling pop fiction to the consumer masses. Got damn. You might be extra regarded.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/24 03:45 PM
14

Its a Disney film, and its absolutely just fiction. Don't be regarded. There is no red pill here.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/24 02:26 PM
2

Why did you decide to marry someone so needy? That's your fault. Tell her No. Go read When I Say No I Feel Guilty and No more Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/askMRP11/06/24 02:45 PM
1

Jesus espoused caring for the sick, weak, and disempowered. Yet todays righteous right despite quoting his teachings, they would have surely crucified him for being a brown socialist. You can watch that content and still think for yourself. Take what is useful and discard the useless.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/24 03:00 AM
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Told her I was old enough to be her father (she said “so where does that leave us?”). I forget what I replied. Why would you say this? This alone could convince a woman to stop dating you.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/24 02:24 PM
14

Another one of these posts about worshipping the pussy. Why is she in control of the finances? Are you a little boy that mommy need to make decisions for you? Women want to fuck men not boys. Your first step should be STFU, then regain control of your treasury. Why is your wife consulting family first before she consults you? If things go bad, she'll pit you against the family. Fix this.
/r/askMRP08/06/24 01:40 PM
13

You're not even in your own frame: You're in her frame negotiating desire. STFU. Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men are the gatekeepers of the relationship. If she wants to be romanced, then she needs to make you want to be in the relationship. Stop talking to your wife and act like she's already dead. STFU.
/r/askMRP06/06/24 11:50 PM
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You give a gift because you want to, but don't expect anything in return because that's a covert contract. Just buy the damn microwave for yourself, but don't disguise it as a gift for her. That's disingenuous, and she can see that.
/r/askMRP06/06/24 06:46 PM
2

Once you're competent, knowing the right people and being liked will more likely get you the promotion than mastery. You need friends. Being friendly has a greater ROI than being competent.
/r/askMRP06/06/24 06:05 AM
1

A woman's word has value. Don't take her words at face value: Her words are a reflection of her emotional state. Observe her actions and the emotions behind her words to ascertain her intentons.
/r/askMRP05/06/24 03:39 AM
2

Youre regarded. Why the fk did you get into marriage without a prenup and why did you let yourself get caught if you cant afford it? OYS
/r/askMRP04/06/24 01:21 AM
7

I have continued to up the kino, game since MRP. However, now I keep hearing these words "All you care about is sex. You are a sex addict. I feel cheap and objectified. Feel scared to come to bed". I know that I should really be looking at actions vs. words as bunch of it is just emotional vomit. However, she keeps saying this a lot. She is a feminist, which does not help the case. My first instinct is that I am not "attractive" enough and continue to mostly read, lift and stfu. Case in point: d…
/r/askMRP03/06/24 10:05 PM
2

She can want whatever she wants, and that man can just say NO.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 03:45 AM
4

You reap what you sow. Take accountability. Do you want to stay in this marriage; otherwise, divorce.
/r/askMRP02/06/24 04:42 PM
10

OKI get your points, but that's not my problem. My problem is that it took 3 fucking times Before she finally did after. I've been doing this for over 6 moths. Have you been doing your required readings? Just because YOU think you've been red pilled over the last 6 months doesn't mean your wife should want to fuck you. Your whole act is a damn covert contract: You've gone from pedastalizing the woman to pedastalizing the pussy. Maybe you're regarded because this shit takes time.
/r/askMRP01/06/24 05:00 PM
16

Maybe your wife is regarded, but you just need to STFU. Look, if you do that she decided to fuck you.
/r/askMRP01/06/24 04:20 PM
1

Why are YOU planning the vacation? Because if I was in your position, I wouldn't. Your wife is hormonally sick and you have a newborn, so why are you going above and beyond for a family that curently has problems?
/r/askMRP01/06/24 01:12 AM
1

You need to have different women who fufill different roles in your life. Very few women can be your wife AND your friend AND the mother of your kids AND your lover. It's nearly impossible for anyone to do each of those roles perfectly because they affect the other roles. Imagine a baby, the pain of plopping it out, its constant crying for food and attention: It's your damn fault for stuffing this kid into me thinks your wife. Imagine after a long day of work you don't put away at least your dis…
/r/askMRP30/05/24 02:57 PM
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My wife has been diagnosed with a hormone problem after coming off breastfeeding a couple months ago. She has been seeing a psychiatrist and a therapist. Her cycle is all messed up too. Are you a doc? Do you know more than a doc? Why is she seeing a therapist and a psychiatrist for hormones? Wny not an endocrinologist. Do you know what they're giving her? Sex is at about once a week, maybe less. Mostly unenthusiastic but once warmed up gets into it. She says “I feel pressured to have sex, not yo…
/r/askMRP29/05/24 04:06 PM
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Youre a fking man. Why don't you make yourself dinner when you want to eat? Don't even fix her a plate. She's an adult. Why are you becoming a needy whiny bitch by giving your wife a responsibility that she can't be trusted to make on a timely manner? Don't let your unmet expectations become a covert contract. If your wife is useless, treat her like she's already dead. She'll realize she either needs to get on the ship or she needs to get off. Edit: italics
/r/askMRP28/05/24 08:20 PM
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Do you think threatening to get a gun and pull a knife is a reasonable response to passing shit tests? Passing shit test is supposed to make a reasonable woman like you more. This is absolutely not that, and I'd care more for my own safety than cultivating desire. This woman is insane. Leave her.
/r/askMRP28/05/24 07:15 PM
2

Bro, every unhappy wife is a grape victim.
/r/askMRP02/05/24 08:36 PM
1

Stop. You don't game your wife. Game is for flings and casual relationships. You use your frame and dread in relationships.
/r/askMRP02/05/24 01:38 PM
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Everything points to you being too much of a nice guy: Moving to her country, deep cleaning the house, getting a job dring your vacation. Too much comfort through talk or presence leads to loss of desire. Only thing you can do call her out on her incestuous desire and leave her. That isn't wife material. 5'10 180lbs and 10% is fking ridiculous if real btw. So what exactly is your brother?
/r/askMRP01/05/24 07:58 AM
1

Join something. Whether that a sports club, cigar or whiskey lounge, or church, find a third place where other men gather that's convenient for you. I joined a boxing club were I spar daily with the boys. Nothing builds camraderie like boxing. Do what you want.
/r/askMRP26/04/24 11:32 AM
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If you've been Captain Rambo, then it will take time for your First Mate to submit under your leadership. In the meantime, STFU and wait for her to ask, "Where is this going." That's when you know you have a first mate.
/r/askMRP23/04/24 07:43 PM
1

Are you serious? We didn't talk because we weren't talking. An early 20s knows what an older man wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 08:41 PM
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Her words may be saying "you you you", but her actions clearly display "me me me". The woman is losing attraction and checking out of the relationship. I've been in this position myself because I was too needy and too validation seeking. OP needs to do less, and only offer comfort when she seeks it from him.
/r/askMRP20/04/24 07:59 PM
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When you pass a shit test, her attraction should go up, but these aren't shit tests. Treating comfort tests like shit tests will push the woman into the arms of another man. That said you're acting like an insecure needy bitch. Why are you asking for pics aka validation? If she wants to send pics, aka validation, she will send them.
/r/askMRP20/04/24 07:37 PM
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If you're beside each other 24/7, you can't cultivate desire. Things that you can do from easy to advance: Lift, workout, gym STFU Deflect, agree and amplify, repeat, exit aka WISNIFG tools Instigate small fights
/r/askMRP18/04/24 01:45 PM
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Keep doing what you're doing. Don't DEER. A good first mate eventually falls in line with the officer. A bad one gets dropped off at port.
/r/askMRP17/04/24 02:32 PM
2

It's not a problem to teach your k14 a lesson. Why do you have to do it in front of your wife or other children? JFC, your wife is probably neurotic because you're being emotional during the story. Be honest. Where is your frame?
/r/askMRP15/04/24 10:23 PM
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Paraphrasing Rian Stone "An endorsement means the contributor usually gets it right. When you have two differing opinions, you should listen to the endorsed contributor." I agree with your opinion. Hold your frame.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/24 08:32 AM
1

Neither is attractive to me, but if it were someone I needed to deal with like a coworker or cohort, it would be the masc presenting with fem personality. Most cis men want fem presenting and fem personality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:18 PM
1

Exactly, good girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 07:21 PM
4

Why would he go on a date with a feminist when he's too busy spinning plates. When he has multiple women who are willing and consenting to having fun, why settle?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 01:56 AM
6

I suppose, but a man shouldnt be paying for a feminist woman's share.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:49 PM
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Honestly, I wouldn't ever date a woman unless she offered to pay for the first date. I'm content spinning plates before I'd jump into commitment. No shot is a relationship worth your sanity and freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:35 PM
0

How are we men to express our desire for women? Fucking? For you, maybe self-felatio. Should we temper are desire? Yes. Be discerning. /thread
/r/TheRedPill29/02/24 05:34 PM
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If you believe she will not fucking other dudes behind your back, this is beyond naive and in a massive denial. It's not like high bodycount and hookup culture didn't exist huh. I disagree. I trust her to be faithful: She only has one chance to prove me wrong. In reality, a woman who has her best option secured aka a tall very attractive man, who is the best fuck of her life, who works, who does the basic house chores with her, who is conscious she got the full package, will absolutely not share…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/24 06:58 PM
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Maybe it is our objective purpose as men to procreate as nature intended, but don't let some 'Saving the West', Tate, Shapiro, or cuckservative convince you to become something or somebody you didn't choose to be. They have a fucking agenda that doesn't give a shit about you: They only care about what narrative they can sell. Fuck them and own your frame. You must make that choice for yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/24 12:10 AM
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Add Way of the Superior Man by David Deida and 3% Man by Corey Wayne. Paraphrasing: The 3% man is one of the 3 out of 100 (men) that a woman meets and is drawn to (him) because he understands who she is, and better yet understands who HE is. Your problem is you derive so much of your identity from your wife's validation. You feel slighted b/c your wife didn't reciprocate your hug: She could be actually stessed over dishes, the kids aren't doing well at school, or maybe you're an unattractive bit…
/r/askMRP14/02/24 06:56 PM
4

Why are you making problems for yourself? Just wait till she forces the question on to you. You'll know then if you want to continue.
/r/askMRP12/02/24 04:16 PM
44

I am one of the guys on the red pill space, but I do identify with the left. I feel that I am not contradiction, and that my views on intersectional dynamics, do not contradict my views with leftism, liberalism, and politics. for example, the overturning of Roe v. Wade is emotionally upsetting to me, but I feel that it opens the door for a more balanced discussion that can favor men as well as women. As the law was written before, Roe v. Wade only protected the women’s right to abortion. I feel …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/24 10:53 PM
21

You're quoting Tate bro? Gtfoh. Read more sidebar. Why are you mate guarding a plate?
/r/TheRedPill07/02/24 03:31 PM
1

Treat it like a job and let her know where your priorities are: 1. Yourself 2. Your business 3. Finding a place 4. Your family/friends 5. Her. If she blows up, she's a bitch. A good woman becomes a higher priority because she adds value to your life.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/24 03:55 AM
5

Im bning facetious. Who would take advice from a psycho.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/24 07:09 PM
3

Thank you u/selfawarepsycho for the financial advice.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/24 06:38 PM
10

How far to push my jealous gf? The “worst” I’ve done was tell her I booked my flight to go to Cancun with a buddy to go on a boat he rented and she guessed there were going to be prostitutes on it (I found out later she was right) - I canceled and didn’t go because I pushed her too far and I literally told myself it would be morally wrong to go. Honestly, I'm not a fan of prostitutes, and I would not partake myself. If the boys had other actvities and plans, I would have still gone, but if the w…
/r/askMRP23/01/24 01:58 PM
1

That's just one big cope. Sure bro, you can practice spirituality for yourself, but as soon as you participate in organized religion, being told what to do to be 'righteous': You lost your own locus of contol, frame. It's fucking laughable how Christianity is pervading itself in the US politics, Christian Nationalism. It's fucking terrifying that american christians persecute muslims and other religions, but they're oblivious that imposing their lives is much akin to Sharia law. Fking hypocrites…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/24 02:21 PM
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You lost me on the bible. Religion is the biggest feels good cope: Just a big fucking illusion to manipulate men as tools for the Church. Put yourself before any magic sky daddy belief. Ubermensch.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/24 04:50 AM
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I'm not going to moralize and tell you not to cheat, but you have two essential rules. Don't embarass her by fucking friends, enemies, frenemies, coworkers, etc. If she finds out, she must retalliate to save her image, and this is most true for the good girl types. Don't let anyone you know. Your friends family coworkers etc are not to be trusted with a secret. It's even fucking better if this is done in far away states.
/r/askMRP18/01/24 03:42 PM
1

What does a nuke even mean to you? Wife, if you don't stop berating me, I will nuke this marriage!!1! I'm a rp man now, validate meeee!!1! Does that even make sense? Deflect, agree and amplify, repeat (fogging), exit (STFU).
/r/askMRP06/01/24 03:06 PM
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Advice, criticism, shit tests, manipulation, etc: Keep what is useful, discard all else. Your wife wants a new BMW for her birthday vs. Your wife suggesting a new Tesla to replace your 150k mile civic. Both are manipulating you, but only one really warrants a serious consideration. For the mental model, fake it until you make it. That insecurity simply means you have more work to do. That said, there are many men that have accomplished more than me, but I will never tolerate disrespect. You shou…
/r/askMRP05/01/24 04:52 PM
0

A nice guy can STFU and ignore his wife's criticism is because he still is a good provider, a good husband, and a good father. So when she accuses you of being a negligent asshole, you can laugh at how ridiculous the statement is. So when your wife IS criticizing you, are you still a good provider, husband, father? Is there truth in her statement when you are just leaving shit around the house and not being attentive to your kid? Have you been just fking off hours at a time to go gym instead of …
/r/askMRP02/01/24 09:48 PM
1

Has she talked about being attracted to other women? Either way, she doesn't seem to be attracted to you despite you being on your MAP.
/r/askMRP02/01/24 06:52 PM
3

How often do you have sex?
/r/askMRP02/01/24 05:46 PM
2

Red Pill is not just pick up and seduction. Wake up.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/23 04:31 PM
5

You need to be congruent with you interactions. If you want sex, you must woo her as a lover or she will dissociate.
/r/askMRP19/12/23 11:34 AM
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Fault of us men alone. Speak for yourself bro. It was our mothers and grandmothers who were raised and influenced by feminism that taught women how to be today. Women must take accountability for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 07:26 PM
1

Men are not a monolith. What the pill has taught men is that it's simply becoming the kind of person you want to attract (exclusive) or accepting the people who will accept you as you are. This advice is true for all genders. It's a simple heuristic for men to be men in order to attract women who are women. My advice for you is to look for men who are not so interested in being The Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:41 PM
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A woman asking women why men stop approaching, instead of asking men. Please womansplain to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 06:48 AM
2

I suppose, but it will onlybe a matter of time before a similiar Rowe v Wade case. I'm just saying women can get a right if and onlyif men as a whole can gain a right as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/23 06:15 AM
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Cover charges are men subsidizing events that both men, women, them attend. I was being facetious when I mention cover charges, but the point is there shouldn’t be discrimination based on gender even at the personal level.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/23 07:55 PM
33

Paternity testing at birth. Paternal leave. Paper/financial abortion. Equitable family court. Abolishing club covers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/12/23 06:16 PM
6

Women with Borderline Personality Disorder or BPD are extreme women. Make sure you understand the difference b/w Borderline and Bipolar. A pwBPD will depend on you to regulate her if you become her favorite person. Initially she will idealize you, but she will get disappointed eventually when you fail to meet that mythical standard. Disappointing her means she devalues you: Talks shit to you, to her friends, to her family, to your fiends, to your family etc. Her ultimate goal is to alienate you,…
/r/askMRP12/12/23 03:57 PM
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Smarter men would never agree to a relationship unless he's already sufficiently sexed. Wise men would never agree to marriage unless sex is on the prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:30 AM
4

Yes, I did get my karmic retribution: I got zeroed out because I committed to such woman thinking I could manage a blue pill fantasy with red pill tools. Bro, stop moralizing. Adults recognize that morality is simply more than black and white. She was in the relationship, She was cheating, I facilitated the cheating, but I had no responsibility to the other guy. You know what, she fucking enjoyed every moment of it. I was the alpha, and I ultimately widowed her. All the red pill praxeology happe…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/23 08:27 PM
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You need to find the right woman, one who is so disconnected from social norms that she seeks security through pleasure. She needs to be dissatisfied with her guy but too insecure to leave him. You need to dick her down so thoroughly but leave no intention that you want something serious she'll still hit you up on the low. Congrats, you're the side dude, but don't fall in love with this girl. She'll make you believe your dick can cure her, but those that stray easy, leave easy.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/23 06:34 AM
37

Fuck her bro. Enjoy the decline.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/23 06:16 AM
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Nothing teaches this lesson better than being a side guy: She's giving you her sexual best while still being 'in love, with her man. Really opens your eyes on how women can operate at their worst.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/23 08:17 PM
12

Did you give men a chance when you were younger? It's no wonder that disenfranchised young men become desperate enough that they turn to the red pill and that they start ignoring older women. No, you reap what you sow.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 03:10 AM
10

Exactly. I support abortion rights, but only if men get financial abortion too. Either expand the right to all genders, or don't even enshrine it to law at all.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/23 05:29 AM
13

I want Men's Rights, but I'm also a feminist. If you want men to get paternity leave, then you need the support of women; therefore, you must also support maternity leave. I believe registering for the selective service is ridiculous; therefore, women should also be registered so they have skin in the game, be motivated to abolish it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/11/23 04:25 AM
5

Virgin: I go to the gym to get laid. Chad: I go to the gym for my overall wellbeing. Women are are a consequence, not the cause nor purpose of a well lived life.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 06:01 PM
3

Apologize for what? Fogging is literally just agreeing. You think apologizing is going to make her more attracted to you? Pressure flip and deflect by calling her out on her shitty attitude then exit if she escalates.
/r/askMRP24/11/23 07:43 PM
7

I'm very torn about this situation. On one hand, I feel good because she chose me over him, but on the other I want to destroy shit every time I think about the possibility of him fucking her. I told him face to face, that, despite me allowing him to do this, I wanted to punch him, but that I was obviously not gonna do it because this is entirely my fault for letting him do it. While telling him about it did relieve some the tension, I still feel like I'm gonna explode at certain moments. You fu…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/23 08:01 PM
15

You're pathetic trash. No one here is telling you to abuse women to maintain a relationship. That shit is not frame: That's just DV. My advice is to honestly listen to yourself. GTFO of red pill space for 60 days, and then just read, lift, sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/23 03:15 PM
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Bro you're a fucking mess. You didn't even try to ask her out. Read Lesson 1 of Book of Pook. You didn't try; no surprise, she fucks billy. Your fault! You're still considering committing to her when she's shown her proclivity for branch swinging. Oneitis! The thought hasn't even occurred to you she just wants some fun on the cc and it's your turn. You're gonna try to captain saveahoe and fumble.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/23 02:33 AM
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I'm a feminist, but in a very literal sense. Women should have access to biological abortion: Men should have access to financial abortion. Women should have maternal leave: Men should have paternal leave. Men are registered in selective service: Women are registered in selective service. The list goes on.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/11/23 04:33 PM
25

Punish? This could be misconstrued as financial abuse in court. The strategies of the red pill are NOT the same as the strategies of the married red pill becuse there are legal ramifications. The only thing you can take away are your time, attention, and commitment. Is she a good mother? No, then she is neither a good wife or mother: Divorce her.
/r/askMRP21/11/23 07:17 AM
1

Women like hot men, and said women have relations with said men. Not all of these women can get these hot men to commit. The other men choosing to opt out because they don't want to pick up the pieces is THE consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:15 PM
1

It doesn't matter how attractive you get, she'll always think you're the same fk up. If you recognize you fked up, ask for forgiveness; otherwise, it's over.
/r/askMRP16/11/23 02:13 PM
3

Bro. If you're passing these shit tests these last two years, and your wife isn't more attracted to you: Something is wrong. You need to review shit tests and comfort tests. Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a new result.
/r/askMRP16/11/23 02:40 AM
5

Needing more is just female manipulation. Internalize this: If you give her a roof over her head, take her out to great experiences, and create a space for her healthy emotions, you are a good partner. Don't let her or the next women tell you otherwise. That is simply the betafication process.
/r/askMRP15/11/23 02:12 AM
48

If you're really serious on no marriage, then plates will break, and there is absolutely nothing you can do.
/r/askMRP14/11/23 08:10 PM
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I disagree. Military should be considered a job like any other job, but enlistment into selective service should not be restricted by gender. Everyone should be enlisted at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 07:00 PM
50

If you're old enough to to enlist, by extension die for this country, you're old enough to do porn. This statement is true for a lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 03:52 AM
3

One, making her a better engineer is taking her further away from making her a better wife or mother. You sound like a total jackass. Do you make enough money for her to stay home and focus on being a wife and mother? Otherwise, she should be motivated to do well working than staying complacent. ​ Two, I do this shit for work, so at home I need a different topic. Chitchat. It seems to me she's just starting conversation because she doesn't know what else to talk about with you, like if she had r…
/r/askMRP09/11/23 06:54 PM
24

If your wife is asking for encouragement or guidance, give it freely. You will have less problems if she goes to talk to you first before she goes to her friends family or other men. Just fucking act like youre listening and say yes every once in a while.
/r/askMRP09/11/23 02:54 AM
3

Sure, but OP says they're both too busy, and he has his head too far up in his ass to even bother creating such a frame at home. He needs to deal with his covert contracts. He needs to restructure his frame. He needs to prepare and build opportunities for sex at home.
/r/askMRP09/11/23 02:23 AM
5

I'm not kidding. Paraphrasing Practical Female Psychology, if she is a good girl, then she may defer sex because she values her image and her responsibilities. Consider a woman raised by conservative religious parents who shamed sex as a sinful activity. She may be an excellent mother, but as a wife she may underperform because of her attitudes towards sex that was conditioned by her childhood. Ultimately, you must love women for who they are, not what you expect them to be. Rian Stone on Good G…
/r/askMRP08/11/23 10:38 PM
10

My question is we have short trips away together for her work. She is super feminine and we fuck like rabbits until I literally am not interested. We then come home and it all stops like a tap has just been turned off. We are super busy with our businesses, work, kids etc. I get it. When she's away from home and responsibilites, you fuck. But for example the sex literally stops for 2 weeks after returning from these trips. she has said she needs more to be MORE connected emotionally. This is fru…
/r/askMRP08/11/23 08:36 PM
2

I wouldn't give other 30s first crack when I'm in my 30s, and why should I? I was single in my 20s, and they didn't pick me. I would have loved to settle down and build something together. Now that I've worked and built something of myself, I'm more marketable. They can get in line with all the other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:10 AM
15

You must strive to act like the perfect, ideal archetypal alpha male who can. In other words, you must talk and act as if you have infinite resources, the highest status of anybody in the tribe, the power to give everybody orders, and the power to defeat any challenge. Obviously, this will not be true, but your behavior should reflect this ideal, not your reality. Therefore, to hold frame you must understand how this perfect, archetypal alpha would act. Do you need to be perfect, to act perfect?…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/23 03:44 PM
1

Ldr is all the responsibilty of a relationship with none of the benefits. Stop it.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/23 03:54 PM
1

Cuddles ain't free. She can have her cuddles after you have sex. But that's the problem though: She's strong, adhd, but depressed. Change takes time like the 1000 foot tow rope, but this woman seems too depressed to do anything. You are already acting as if your wife is dead. What value is she actually adding to your life?
/r/askMRP04/11/23 03:57 AM
5

Too many red flags. She couldn't be bothered to keep her phone on? You're not married to her, which is a legal obligation. Break up with her.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 07:02 PM
16

You can't use red pill 'strategies' for a blue pill frame. That's not how this works. Let her go.
/r/askMRP01/11/23 05:16 AM
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Bro, it's ok to say verbatim: "I do love you (the wife), but you make it difficult for me when we don't have sex since it makes me feel unattracted." As long as you recognize that complaining doesn't entitle you to sex (a covert contract), you can say this since she already thinks you're a fuck up. This gives her a 'choice' in the relationship. She does nothing because you've done nothing, and you resent her. She gives you more obligatory sex to placate you if you don't become more attractive. Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/23 08:02 PM
1

Do you actually love your wife? It's OK to express your love for her if the feeling is genuine. It's NOT OK to lie to your wife with the expectation of sex or other form of validation. When you start the process, we tell you to STFU in order to kill the previous frame of the relationship. You are taught to refrain from reacting to your wife which is frame, and STFU is a tool in itself to create dread. BUT, you can't STFU forever. A relationship requires communication, so begs the question: Do yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/23 03:31 PM
2

You're asking for the impossible. You want her commitment because she's convenient, but plates are inherently supposed to break. Break up with her, and let her figure it out.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/23 03:34 PM
2

I'm not against returning to loving exes if they didn't do truly evil shit such as cheating or defamation. In your case, no. You need to fix your oneitis before you return to this woman. You can't blame women for acting up you're weak. That is their fucking nature: They test men. Even in your weakness, you must be in control of yourself. That is frame.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/23 02:38 PM
3

I think it's shit: Everyone else thinks it's shit. If you want to wear a black fedora, own your frame.
/r/askMRP18/10/23 04:21 PM
2

You can trade attention/friendship for other tangibles besides sex such as social proof by association, access to other women by proxy, and women just dropping red pills by girl talk. You don't need to bang every hot woman.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/23 07:26 PM
3

If you're really a nice guy, then you have absolutely earned some 'villainy'. When they accuse you of being a jerk, your actions say to the contrary. IE: She calls you selfish for working out, but that's ridiculous because you're a diligent provider, a caring father, etc. You don't even need to explain yourself because the reality contradicts the belief (this is frame), just agree and amplify and get on with your workout. Recognize that being 'good' ENABLES you to be selfish. You need to integra…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/23 05:42 PM
6

I disagree and think this advice is simply red pill misapplied to oneitis. If your hesitation/mistakes turns her off, whose frame are you really in? Honestly, if she is truly interested, you can make the dumbest mistakes as long as you are attractive. Why are you wasting time with women who are so low interest that they will make you jump through hoops to just make YOUR experience tolerable. I've learned a lot from easy lays: Women who are much more interested in me. They hammered the concept of…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/23 05:22 PM
10

Don't eat the fucking paint and end up in jail because you listened to online men saying ooga booga caveman. You deal with this by one step forward, two steps back and cuddles ain't free. Read up.
/r/askMRP12/10/23 05:01 AM
5

You’re acting like a whiny bitch over your wife's last minute resistance. She's literally straddling you.
/r/askMRP11/10/23 10:16 PM
8

Game is game.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/23 05:24 AM
22

Bro, you can't be seriously suggesting marrying your cousin. Roll tide and layoff the stepsis porn.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/23 05:10 AM
9

It's 5 months. I would have broken up sooner.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/23 07:56 PM
2

I disagree. It's not your job to fix infantile and/or fatherless women. We are not Captain Save-a-hoes: Just let her go.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/23 06:31 PM
18

O weary men, you shall win by ignoring such a mistress despite her much protest.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/23 07:51 PM
7

Damn, how much more cringy can I get, BB? Let's turn it up to 11 ;p
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/23 07:19 PM
6

Yes, my online nemesis who is dependant on a woman to provide chores, income, and housing is a paragon of alpha and masculinity. What you suspect is correct: You're just too proud, too invested in your idea of alpha. Alpha and beta are necessary constituents to become an integrated whole. Being integrated is greater than the individual parts. Foundational readings like Way of the Superior Man, Married Man Sex Primer, and No More Mr Nice Guy talk about this. You can heed my advice, or the wisdom …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/23 07:07 PM
7

Sure bro, here are examples of too much alpha leads to problems or dissolution of an ltr. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2z765d/on_getting_too_many_comfort_tests_is_there_such/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4lgjjc/being_100_alpha_with_women_is_good_mixing_alpha/ https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/ozcu8d/explaining_the_alpha_beta_dichotomy_of_the_red/ There is a user here, u/_RPeed, who is exactly as you described. The dude is choreless, jobless, placeless, …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/23 06:04 PM
6

That's the point isn't it? I gave an example that contadicts your claim: Some women, whether by the man's choice or her's, are unable to continue the relationship because he is 100% jerk (no beta). Some of those women we call alpha widows, and (them) pining over alpha men does not negate the aforementioned statement. Beta is completely necessary in a long term relationship. How would you pass comfort tests otherwise? More alpha would cause bigger comfort tests, and repeated failure of such tests…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/23 05:31 PM
27

I haven’t found this to be true. Thousands of relationships have been dissected on here. Many girls have ejected because of a lack of attraction. Yet not a single one due to lack of comfort. As such, we now know that the latter half of this mental model can be safely ignored. Ask yourself what kind of women you will commit to you when all you give is crumbs, not comfort. No well adjusted, HSE woman would tolerate this: Only traumatized, LSE woman would. Imagine the sort of life you will live for…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/23 05:00 PM
78

Women are the harshest teachers, and every single one of them has given me a lesson. Waste time with them, but don't pedastalize or place them as your top priority. For myself, women are 5th or 6th behind otherthings like sports.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/23 02:06 PM
32

Bro, if they haven't asked for your number, they're not interested. Better yet, ask them out yourself. Your time can be better spent doing anything rather than fretting over women. Stop staring: It's weird.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/23 06:25 AM
20

Honest to god, you just need to meet the wrong woman to never trust women naively again. Experience is a better teacher than whatever a therapist can tell you. Watch some PsycHacks
/r/askMRP05/10/23 02:20 AM
30

I'm glad that you can differentiate between relational equity/provisioning is beta while attractiveness/desire is alpha. Too many people here would have advised you to sprinkle more alpha when you were a depressed 0% alpha 0% beta. That is wrong. You recognized that your wife had given the relationship a second shot because you built a foundation based on your beta. You also recognized that alpha is necessary for her to seek your validation which leads to more sex. You've created a MAP which int…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 03:52 PM
10

If she's passive aggressive like most women are, you STFU. When she's up in your face, belligerently disrespectful go ahead and be upfront. If she's using overt communication to belittle you: She thinks you're a total fuck without a spine. Show and tell her (off) otherwise.
/r/askMRP03/10/23 02:49 AM
2

Nothing is more blue pilled than religion. The church's perogative is to facilitate marriage and counsel couples away from divorcing. Guess which narrative the pastor will take?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/23 05:44 PM
51

Inconsistent with her treatment of children then blameshifts when her spawn are poorly raised: She is a horrible mother which will cause resentment from your own children. Your own children will hate you if you commit to this woman. You can pick a woman better than this. Calling out a woman's poor behavior is not DEERing.
/r/askMRP25/09/23 02:42 AM
3

Look, the wage gap as it is understood is not real. On its face, if it were really the case that women earn 80 cents to a man's dollar, no business would hire men because it is simply cheaper to hire woman. This is patently false because 1. it would be discrimination and 2. We see both men and women hired and working. The wage gap exists because women choose jobs which pay less and choose to work less hours (less overtime and maternity leave). (I'm a big proponent for expanding women's wages. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:02 AM
40

You straight up talk too much. 'This was fun. Can I get your number/snap/insta so we can do this again later.' She gives you the social: She might be interested. She doesn't: She's not. Don't overthink this.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/23 05:05 AM
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It's feminine solipsism: Women's viewpoint is the only (important) viewpoint. Why is a man's income, career, status, social important if she can have her own? If she's not dependant on her man, what sort of value can a man bring to her: The answer is looks, companionship, and intimacy. It's pretty bleak for the average guy, but it's never been easier to be above average. If your looks and sex game is not enough, then you must be a more giving, charitable partner. Don't hate the players: It's jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:56 PM
1

Bro, I just wanna get my dick wet. Like this is too much work for a ons/hookup/fwb. All I check is if she looks like her pictures and she'll drive to me. Ain't no damn way she's a spy if she's a US citizen. Stop being paranoid.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/23 01:47 PM
1

Where the hell are ya'll learning your red pills? In an ltr, you must blur intimacy and sex.
/r/askMRP17/09/23 01:02 AM
14

So are you ONLY sexual when you initiate sex? Women need to be courted throughout the day. Kiss her good morning. Rub her shoulders when she's doing dishes. Tap her ass when she goes to drive the kids. These little things count as a reminder that you still value her as a sexual being. That said, how's your attitude? Do you act like a resentful fuck when she says no? That's a covert contract. It's more than being stoic and outcome independant: It's being loving in the face of adversity. Strong en…
/r/askMRP15/09/23 08:21 PM
17

If you like your life, why fix something that isn't broken or why manufacture a problem that doesn't exist. It seems like the spark is gone; therefore, the best advice is to increase your desireability (alpha) without fucking up your life. That doesn't mean stop doing chores (your home needs to be fucking clean), but it does mean if you want an extra session at the gym or a brand new suit, go for it.
/r/askMRP15/09/23 08:02 PM
1

Fake account(s)? Like how much time do you want to waste if you're vetting like this? Do better but be authentic.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/23 07:14 PM
3

Only the naive and dillusional truly believe life is fair. Nothing is truly equal or equitable. As soon as you accept that fact, you are better positioned to face reality of which includes dating and relationships. Play your best hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:12 PM
3

It's the lie by omission, man. You're disgusted by such a woman because you need the rest of the context before deciding to commit to a relationship. Likewise, imagine how a woman would feel if she didn't know her boyfriend only previously had casual relationships. Edit: Let me put it this way man: Not ONLY do you have a past, but you're a liar too. That's two nails in the coffin. I'm sure there are women who could do it, but not all of them. That's why you need to try your best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:43 PM
2

No. You need to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:13 PM
2

What exactly do you want ? If you want a long term relationship, then yes, you must absolutely be honest. Such an omission would be similar to finding out your couple months girlfriend was sleeping with other men while you weren't exclusive. Do your best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 02:47 PM
1

Bro, this is just a movie. Even if he did get rejected, Ryan is Kenough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:57 AM
35

Lets ignore all her flags and focus on you. You set a boundary and the girl accepted it by cutting ties with an friend. Now, you're fucking waffling even though you say she's a potential 'ltr'. Your frame is weak because you don't even know what you want. Stop wasting her time and your time.
/r/askMRP03/09/23 09:09 PM
2

On the one hand, this statement is right. Set the boundaries you care about. On the other hand, you’re missing the bigger problem, which is that OP is in fact acting like a bitch by caring so much about this. Maybe, I don't see this post as him whining. That said, if he is actually whining, bitching, then he must stop. Since his woman is responding with hysterics, I'm inclined to believe OP was probably level-headed if not stoic. So in general, I am disagreeing with the thread that the answer is…
/r/askMRP31/08/23 07:18 PM
3

If you don't want to be called a bitch, you set a boundary which is exactly what you did. Men and women look at apologies differently. Men think the behavior is a problem, while women think YOUR feelings are the problem. If she can change HOW you feel, then she believes you'll change your opinion of her behavior: This is female solipsism. She was crying to manipulate you, but you did the correct thing by staying stoic. By removing your emotions, the only obvious thing that is making you upset is…
/r/askMRP31/08/23 12:41 PM
1

Listen to yourself man. You sound like a nice guy. I'm not telling you to emote. I am telling you to lead: Treat your wife like a dad treats his little princess who made a mistake. Sit her on your figurative or physical lap, sternly but lovingly lead her to do better.
/r/askMRP27/08/23 04:38 AM
3

Why don't you want to get angry? Is it because you want your wife to see you as an oak? That seems more like a boy scared of disturbing the peace, seeking approval and validation, aka a nice guy. Your shit stinks, but your wife's shit stinks too! At some point, you must assume leadership within the relationship, so how are you going to expect improvements if you're bottling up your dissatisfaction? You're still operating on a covert contract if you think just alpha-ing up means wife will fall in…
/r/askMRP27/08/23 04:21 AM
0

How does that help anyone? He's here because he has no idea. The advice you're giving is no better than be yourself.
/r/askMRP27/08/23 03:14 AM
0

Sprinkle more alpha until she becomes a stepford wife, complete submission? What do you think he should do then?
/r/askMRP26/08/23 08:36 PM
0

Generally, you're not doing enough of this, you're too much of that is a shit test; on the other hand, I feel like we're not close is a comfort test. In the short term relationship, you don't need to provide comfort since you can spin other plates. In the long term relationship, some comfort aka some beta behaviors must happen. Alpha is why she fucks you. Beta is why she chooses to stay in a relationship with you. Maybe your woman can handle you at 70alpha/30beta. Maybe she needs a man who is 50…
/r/askMRP26/08/23 04:10 PM
3

Honest to god, the drama from YOU has got to stop. If you're not having fun or benefitting from the relationship, then quit. This is a literal frame; otherwise, keep whining, keep bitching, beep signalling you're some sort of martyr that YOU willing choose to be, to continue to be.
/r/askMRP25/08/23 03:03 PM
4

Stfu. All your advice is literal ass, downvoted to shit because it'll have men commit crimes.
/r/askMRP24/08/23 08:21 PM
31

You Rambo'd bro. Rambo is when you've been a drunk, disinterested, negligent captain and decide to fix your marriage. You stumble upon trp and read you should try to sprinkle more 'alpha.' You stopped doing the things that made you valuable to her: your comfort in attention and duty (chores). Instead, you've sauntered off to fuck where and provided no guidance, no leadership when she needs it. This is providing 0% Alpha and 0% Beta. Now your wife is saying you're a jackass and rightfully so.
/r/askMRP24/08/23 04:22 PM
1

When any woman says no, it's because she thinks you're a fuckwit. You don't get the sex you want, so you then proceed to double down and be a fuckwit. Continue bro, I'm sure she'll fuck you eventually. Stop focusing on sex when you're dependant on your girlfriend's daddy money. Of course she thinks you're a fuckwit.
/r/askMRP24/08/23 03:59 AM
0

Fair enough. As long as men don't Rambo from the advice you give, I'm chilling :) ;P
/r/askMRP23/08/23 09:48 PM
7

If you want short term, then being only alpha is sufficient, but We're in the married red pill. You need a balance of alpha (desire) an beta (comfort) to sustain a long tem relationship. Comfort is why she wants a relationship with you. Desire is why all women want you.
/r/askMRP23/08/23 09:36 PM
6

You can expect sex and avoid covert contracts as long as you communicate your expectations. I'm not telling you to do dishes, clean house, mow the lawn in orderto get your wife to fuck you. I'm also not telling you to hang up a calender and have your wife fuck you on agreed upon, scheduled days. Like all things, relationships require nuance. You can avoid all this bullshit by being as attractive (alpha) and as valuable (beta) as you can be.
/r/askMRP23/08/23 08:02 PM
0

Working is not optional. WTF. That's exactly the reason why there's a wage gap because women work less. If the wage gap was real, all buinesses would only hire women if they could just pay 78 cents to a man's dollar.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:08 PM
1

Maybe, but it's usually more than that. Women want the bad boy who is kind to only them: The guy who can lead them through life and their emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 01:50 PM
13

Just say No. You literally cannot afford it, and that's your fault for being a negligent captain. You've known your wife has overspent for weeks, each of those instances was an opportunity to say No. On being an 'oak': That's cool and all, and we tell men verbal intercourse is optional, but if you're getting sex, you should at least ty to entertain your wife's emotions. Where's the fking joy in the relationship otherwise? Having a death in the family is a perfectly good reason to be a leader, pr…
/r/askMRP18/08/23 09:53 AM
4

Shit takes time. You've been a fuck up for 18 years, and you think a couple of months of trp fixes that? Be grateful she feels some sort of way with you, that means you can turn her dissapointment into admiration eventually.
/r/askMRP12/08/23 08:29 PM
-1

What a more roundabout way of saying 0 alpha and beta. DEERing instead of DAREing. :)
/r/askMRP10/08/23 12:13 PM
3

You're an idiot. No wonder noone i giving solid advice when mods know jack. Rian Stone on rambo.
/r/askMRP09/08/23 11:08 PM
7

Betas are men that provide only comfort, little to no desire. Alphas provide desire, no comfort. While you can have short term flings as an alpha, you can't be only Alpha in the relationship. Healthy long term relationships require a balance between comfort and desire, alpha and beta. So when you're interacting with women, think about your goals, just dont be 0% alpha and 0% beta: That is going Rambo.
/r/askMRP09/08/23 09:44 PM
3

You didn't even try to empathize. Here is the story of Michael who felt gilted by the current sexual market.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:11 PM
21

Sure but rewrite the whole scenario with Timmy's and Peter's perspective. Hone in on Peter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:20 PM
1

Take her to the beach and have a couple of photos of you two together. If she posts none of you together, ask her why. If it's some drivel, you have your answer
/r/askMRP03/08/23 05:31 PM
1

A man is anyone (male or female) who can stand on his two feet and can weather, flourish during the trials of life. A great man is a man who supports and uplifts others. You don't need to be great, but you must become a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:28 AM
1

Why didn't you just fog or agree and amplify instead of getting angry, losing your frame. Now you've come off as insecure, validation seeking BITCH. Stop hanging out with your girlfriends friends. You didnt say it, but youre weak ass frame already lets me know your gf treats you like a wallet.
/r/askMRP31/07/23 04:11 AM
9

Why are you surprised? Your gf told you she doesn't want to go, and you wasted your own time and money buying a ticket she did not want. Buying the ticket in hopes of making her go is a covert contract. It's not attractive. Take someone else.
/r/askMRP28/07/23 01:07 AM
3

Stop explaining, DARE not DEER. ;) :) :P
/r/askMRP26/07/23 01:29 AM
4

OWN YOUR SHIT and apologize. Afterwards why do you care so much? You can't make her forgive you: That's her own perogative. I hate validation-seeking, frameless men, and I'm 100% positive your woman hates these men more. Stop being spineless and get back to your MAP, Male Action Plan.
/r/askMRP26/07/23 12:57 AM
3

Sure, she don't need to pay half AFTER she has MY kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:48 PM
1

Every unhappy woman is a struggle hugging victim - Rian Stone This isn't a shit test. If it was a shit test, she would be more attracted to you after you passed. Some things you haven't addressed, have you been a drunk captain, have you read and practiced the sidebar, how long have you been on your Male Action Plan?
/r/askMRP18/07/23 05:45 PM
1

This is far from a main event. She doesn't want to keep you, she wants to destroy you because you've gone full retardo aka RAMBO. You misapplied the red pill jackass. If you want to be a captain, beg for forgiveness from your first officer. You pussy. If you want your marriage to implode like the Titan sub, continue misapplying the red pill.
/r/askMRP17/07/23 02:38 AM
12

She's 18, you're mentally 18: It'll work out. Close the thread boys. This boy won't do the necessary sidebar to make meaningful change.
/r/askMRP16/07/23 11:47 PM
1

Without context of what kind of girl she is, I would not risk: Good girl, Adventurer, Materialista, Low Self Esteem, High Self Esteem, Low Libido, High Libido. Ho many times do we hear stories of bp men saying they got blew off by a girl cuz she spent the night with Chad. All you need to do is give her the option.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/23 04:21 AM
2

I disagree man. I don't want even my casual relationships to cuck me. Would she turn down an evening with Brad Pitt? That's the test, let's you know where her allegiance is.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/23 12:40 AM
25

Like you said at the start, you've decided to not be exclusive, so why are you so hung up on a woman? If I was in your position, I would have invited her to stay the night instead letting her go. You can test women too. Get it?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 02:59 AM
1

No, getting a better job is simply making you a better provider and has little if any affect on desire. If anything, providing is to comfort as comfort is to beta. I think we both know the answer here, that the woman you picked is probably just not as sexual as you are. Weigh the costs and benefits with this woman: You may have to resign yourself to a lower libido woman (which I believe is the wrong answer). If you have your shit together and an abundance mindset, you'll find a woman better fit …
/r/askMRP07/07/23 07:54 PM
1

In terms of sexual dynamics, an LTR and marriage is the same, but marriage has legitimate/legal repercussions and to a lesser non -legal degree social and financial repercussions . Marriage is simply the state recognizing a union through a contract, and things such as monogamy are expected but not explicitly written in such contract. In my opinion, cheating to create dread through competition is always wrong because it destabilizes the trust in a long term relationship. There's really no answer …
/r/askMRP07/07/23 06:52 PM
6

Ignoring your wife is passive aggressive. It was a total missed opportunity to tell the wife she looks good in the hairstyle he picked; therefore, defer to generic compliments. Men need to act kind yet ambivalent/restraint in order to create plausible deniability to get to the main event. Edit: u/STG77SD The main event, the Mother of All Comfort Tests, is the ultimate goal of married men red pill: Rule 0 is get the sex you want. You get their by getting on your Male Action Plan, purpose, STFU, e…
/r/askMRP05/07/23 01:38 PM
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You went into this with the expectation of anniversary or special day sex: This is a covert contract. Even if you got sex, it would be out of obligation rather than genuine desire. You were mostly correct up until leaving YOUR bedroom. If you haven't got any for a year, why are you acting absolutely butthurt? If you want sex, you should be creating the environment and behaviors that it happens regularly. If she asks, give her the most absolute bland compliment: It's nice. Move on with your day.
/r/askMRP04/07/23 11:34 PM
2

Honest to god, a man is only as good as his word.
/r/askMRP27/06/23 09:09 PM
34

SAHM with no kids and no domestic responsibilities? She's worse than a loser: A leech. Good for you, and hopefully you've learned to choose better.
/r/askMRP26/06/23 08:43 PM
3

Protein bars/brownies/cookier are inferior to steak and hash. I'm gonna let her cook, but I won't let her get in the way of my chicken breast and rice.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/23 04:27 PM
2

You can't really ignore the wife without her risking infidelity. She 'wants' kids but is a stay at home wife, while he's focusing his attention on a business. To me this looks like the wife needs validation, and women love to be validated through vigorous passionate sex. This is comfort, and OP can provide comfort by talking instead of sex. Talking through feelings or in such a way as a girl friend. This is precisely why we tell men to STFU.
/r/askMRP22/06/23 03:39 PM
1

Do nothing is the wrong move when it's obviously affecting you and your health. Leave her because these are her problem to deal with since you aren't even married to her. Provide a solution such as adopting the kid until he's 18. This allows her to cutoff contact with toxic family.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/23 04:17 PM
8

Im gonna advise against involving your SO/wife with your business. Look what happened to Athol Kay. Edit: What happened to Athol Kay cred to Rian Stone
/r/askMRP18/06/23 06:48 PM
41

Have you tried talking to your wife, not in the logical 'I can't run a business if you keep tying to fuck me', more like 'why are you feeling this way?' You keep ignoring and frustrating your wife, she'll resent you. Risk getting c*cked too. It's your responsibility as a lover.
/r/askMRP18/06/23 03:51 AM
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Then what's the point? It's MARRIED rp. If you can say 'we're not married, so nothing matters' to an internet stranger, no wonder your ltr treats your relationship like shit. It's your indecisive ass' fault. Good Day!
/r/askMRP13/06/23 05:54 PM
25

Its not good enough. Women can really ruin your life so you must vet. Why are you giving your time, attention, and commitment for just nice ass? Date around, don't commit until you've vet.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/23 04:06 PM
30

Why would you want a relationship man? You don't even know her.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/23 03:58 PM
75

She wants this: She wants that. What do you want, and why are you living in her frame?
/r/TheRedPill13/06/23 03:49 PM
5

Hasn't everything up to this point been 'war' on her part? She's been undermining the marriage by shit-talking behind your back, and siphoning off finances in for divorce. WAKE UP.
/r/askMRP13/06/23 05:04 AM
22

Shit talking behind your back, duplicitous with finances, why are you loyal to a woman who isn't loyal to you? Honestly, I would divorce and start over for my own mental health. Stop the gifts. Stop the vacations. Stop being so damn nice. Be the best father you can be, and pause being a husband until she's willing to be a wife.
/r/askMRP13/06/23 01:04 AM
7

Impossible. Either she's damaged or you're not good enough. Neither are good
/r/TheRedPill12/06/23 01:11 AM
10

Nah man, as long as people post to OYS, this community lives.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/23 10:44 PM
16

Have you ever told her No? Honestly, you need to grow a spine because whether your marriage survives or not, your wife will continue to disrespect you, and your children will learn to resent you as well. Read No More Mr Nice Guy and When I say No, I feel Guilty.
/r/askMRP26/05/23 08:02 PM
23

For 12 weeks your girlfriend has pointed out you have a drinking problem, and you continue to binge. You ARE the problem.
/r/askMRP24/05/23 12:46 AM
8

Shaming men for having sex is not sex positive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:57 PM
2

I suppose so, but not many men or women stay virgins because they don't value maintaining their virginity today.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:28 PM
2

Congratulations on your marrage, but still it was sex on the first date. My question still stands. If you're a woman who won't have sex, won't court a potential suitor, what would you do to keep him interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:07 PM
2

Honestly, what kind of man do you want, and how do you realistically get him to stay committed if you're going to hold off on sex and not court him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:57 PM
3

Thats the point. Don't expect men to be meal tickets or chivalrous. They are fuck boys because that's what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 07:17 PM
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I would not be offended, but I wouldn't be serious. Edit: Hes young and believes he should be paying for dates. Hes a great boyfriend: He's attentive, communicative, kind, but she says theres no spark. They break up, only for him to hear she has gotten together with that jerk she always complained about. Of course they break up and she comes running back. She's complaining about how he was abusive. Our good guy doesn't take her back. The next time he goes on dates, he tells them no boyfriend exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 01:47 AM
1

Patrice talked about this (explicit warning).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 01:09 AM
2

Male Action Plan.
/r/askMRP30/04/23 09:58 PM
45

You did all of this to be petty, which is antithetical to a man with a purpose or mission. L
/r/TheRedPill27/04/23 04:09 PM
25

Some men can forgive a past, but no man can forgive a lying woman. The omission of a past is a bigger betrayal than having a past. Don't be duplicitous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:00 AM
19

Imagine your first 18 years being considerd a child, then your parents decide you are finally an adult! They kick you out, you must find a career, a place, a stable partner, and a child within 6 years in this economy? You're also saying that's enough time to have fun? Nah, the more sensible thing to do is wait till you can afford to have a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 02:02 PM
14

The best way for men to leverage their sexuality is actually for men to care less. When the prospective partner isn't trifling, is serious, then you could care more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 06:50 AM
2

Historically men have dated and married women who are the short end of thes stick: Prospects that are shorter, weaker, less educated, less financially secure, etc with little to no problem. Now, when the roles have flipped, women refuse to uplift men as they had historically done. Something has to give, or we're going to continue this trajectory of a few select men holding a monopoly of most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:11 AM
2

It's at the top: I'm the best at being me and no one else. Action is better than abstraction and conceptualization. Just practice being a better you.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/23 02:05 PM
2

Be unknowable, but be as regimental as Patrick Bateman? I like the theory, but your example is not coherent.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/23 01:59 PM
1

In terms of career? Yeah, men's wages have stagnated and they're not as educated. Historically, haven't men always dated women who are less educated, less financially secure; so, why is it when the roles have reversed women refuse to step up in the name of equality and equity? That's not very feminism, isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:04 AM
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Its from Practical Female Psychology. 'Genuine desire' is when a woman decides to fuck you for whatever reason (competition, esteem, lust, etc.) It is not when she capitulates because you have been bitching and whining. See the difference? You're in married red pill. Marriage is one outcome as well as divorce and a sexless marriage is. Do you see why outcome independence can not be the guiding pinciple in marriage? Since you're not even married, why are you sticking it out with someone who doesn…
/r/askMRP10/04/23 04:19 PM
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Geuine desire doesn't exist? Ok bud, if your ok with having your needs fall second to a job, don't let stop you. A person can only serve one master, and if she wants that job more, let her.
/r/askMRP10/04/23 08:36 AM
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Becoming apathetic with your wife when she withholds or rejects your advances for sex is a natural response. A covert contract happens when you have an unmet expectation that leads to resentment. You have neither. Why are you continuing the ltr? It sounds like your ltr cares more about her career than meeting the needs of her boyfriend. If I was in your position, I'd be looking for an out. Her lack of desire is her problem when you're on your MAP. Edit: marriage -> ltr
/r/askMRP10/04/23 04:12 AM
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Bro, you are too entrenched in your position that youve become emotional. If you cant recognize that there exist some RP (such as Rian Stone), which refutes your claim that RP can't be used long term, then you're just unreasonable. Good day.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/23 02:49 PM
6

Married red pill exists in order to get the sex you want in the context of marriage. It can be applied successfully over the long term.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/23 04:38 AM
2

A kid(s) is essentially an immortality project. They require an immense amount of resources, while men today are struggling financially, vocationally, and romantically. Why bother with kids when life is already a handful?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 05:38 PM
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For every 4 men having sex, they are having sex with 5 women. Assuming sexual relaionships are heterosexual relationships, that means without a doubt 1 of 5 women are engaging in polamory. Does that mean 1 in 4 men and 2 in 5 women have a polyamourous relationship? No. Maybe a single man, has 2, 4, 8 ... women who believe they are in a relationship with him. Either way, it is women choosing to polyamorous.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:52 AM
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Both men and women are experiencing unprecedented amounts of singleness; however, more women are disproportoiately in relationships than men are. that means women are knowingly or unknowingly are sharing men. According to the general social survey, 1 in 3 men under 30 has not had sex in the last year while only 1 in 6 woman under 30 has not; consequently, 20% of women are sharing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:12 AM
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Bro, this isn't exclusive to just black women. By and large, all women are like this: AWALT. Accept the fact and move on productively. Thats the point.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/23 08:41 PM
1

The detractors who say 'he/she hasn't experienced enough' are just moving the goalpost. If it is between consenting adults and not abusive or worse, then it's perfectly fine to have differences in age. The relationships that occur are often based on these differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:11 PM
7

Why do men need to convince modern women to go back to traditionalism? It's a losing proposition. Quoting Reverend Cole, "Don't save her, she don't want to be saved."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:07 AM
1

Not sure persistence is the correct word. Resilience is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:54 PM
4

No, the man wants to larp a dom-sub relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:17 AM
1

A modern woman's career will literally ask her to submit more, and she would sacrifice gladly. The irony is completely lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:30 PM
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I am RP. My relationship with my mother has improved as I've gotten older. My parents divorced when I was younger. I barely talked to either growing up because they spent most of their time fighting or working to support two separate households. My childhood was dysfunctional. I was raised to be a people-pleaser by my father: My parents orders are absolute. Growing up, I hardly talked to parents unless they needed me to do chores, errands, or some extracurricular activity. My father also made it…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:11 PM
0

RP != Trad. Although the tradcons have adopted the ideas and rhetoric, they're interpetation is a misrepesentation of what RP is. Trad's have an agenda: RP is a praxeology which is devoid of such. RP simply reports reality for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:50 AM
1

Bro, your premise alone is wrong. Men who are wealthy, fit, handsome successful, and not old exist but in fiction: Christian Grey and Edward Cullen. High value men are attractive/desireable and has the ability to provision.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:07 PM
12

Bhai, get out of the anger phase. You can't progress with women if you hate them for their inherent nature. When women talk about what they look for in a partner, they list virtues like nice, kind, etc., but being nice, kind , etc. is optional. We know this because women date jerks all the time. Why? Example: A scantily clad woman walks by a man and woman. The man remark that he has a fatass and nods in agreement with the statement. The woman says the same but side eyes then puckers her lip to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 04:39 PM
1

Why would you want your kid to be in that situation? Why didn't you take your kid to class or drop her off at daycare? Are you going to complain to your wife? Would that make her respect you more even if you're right? (it won't) Which of these behaviors are attractive? If you're not attractive, you will be low priority. More work.
/r/askMRP06/03/23 05:30 PM
1

Once anyone threatens or proceeds to assault you, it's over. Record the situation. Escape, and if you can't, get to a safe place. Lastly, call the cops.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:03 PM
17

Women in general are not more mature than men are. They mature faster than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:44 AM
1

Read Esther Vilar's The Manipulated Man. It is a satirical yet insightful essay on the nature of gender dynamics written by a first wave feminist. Her words ring more true today: Women antagonize men in order to manipulate them. If he is attractive, then a woman does not necessarily expect him to listen to her. She will have other men who will listen, and those men will provide her with utility. The attractive man provides her comfort, but if he fails, then she can find comfort elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 06:44 AM
0

If it works it works. Find yourself a masculine woman, and both of you need to read The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida in order to better understand the roles of the masculine and the feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:54 PM
0

I had a double take, asking myself if I was in the wrong subreddit. You shouldn't reduce women to madonnas and whores. Take it from an RP aware man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 04:30 PM
1

They are good because they are less sensationalism and inflammatory like F&F. They need women like Pearly or Jedidiah in the space because women today would never take advice from men. RPW does not equal RPM.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 05:28 PM
1

Man, it's not that difficult. Women often respond like this to test if you are witty and have a backbone. She wants cheeky banter. If she's really not interested, she'll double down. That's your cue to walk away. Edit: Ya'll are too focused on the cheeky banter. She will make it very obvious that she's not interested with cues like not giving hr name, short answers, and 'I have a boyfriend' type reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 06:44 AM
9

Sis. Most good men want any woman who want them. We don't shame men when they find love abroad when the women at home are trifling and frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:21 AM
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This sounds exactly like the 3 F's: Fit, Friendly, Feminine. This man has probably listened to Kevin Samuels. A man hopes this would screen women like when women put no man under 6 on their bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:00 AM
1

Did she really need your help and guidance, or did she want you to listen and validate her feelings? Next time, don't set boundaries after diffusing a situation that upset her. Just walk away when a boundary is crossed. When she asks why, that's when you do it.
/r/askMRP06/02/23 11:48 PM
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Because all of that is just playing games instead of using that energy for something productive. Do any of these, and it will trigger a comfort test or even a main event. This is literally play stupid games and win stupid prizes. I'm glad that RP has evolved simply beyond gaming women.
/r/askMRP02/02/23 04:35 AM
14

Hello struggling noobie. Is it a test or a legitimate concen? Imagine telling your wife you lost your job, and she attempts to deescalate by amused mastery. Have you just started asserting your frame? If you just started, how ae you getting your wife to trust your leadership if you've been a negligent captain. Read more material. Work on yourself. STFU. Any other advice we would give, you would likely misuse.
/r/askMRP01/02/23 04:08 PM
0

Have you ever considered dating 5, 10, 15 years younger? Any 30-40's man having trouble with dating is because they restrict themselves to their age-cohorts who are divorced or had kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:19 PM
0

'Traditional' as the norm is delusional. RP isn't even advocating for traditional relationships: Plate Theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:45 AM
17

Average woman is prettier than the average man, and she's guaranteed to have a clean past. We take those.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:53 AM
1

Try to get married young. Most YA have high libidos, and they will engage in premarital sex. Marry sooner before your eligble partners evaporate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:30 PM
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Why should men be loyal to a woman who rejected us when we were young, broke, and climbing, but wants us now that we're older, wealthier, successful. She had her chance, now us men want to forget the lows and start fresh with someone without the drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:40 AM
16

She wants to be attracted to you. Don't make this harder than it needs to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/23 05:23 PM
4

She's LSE. LSE become neurotic because they need validation through attention and good dick. Make yourself more available, but have her do the work by driving to your place. You ever hear women complain how they did everything for Chad? Be that guy.
/r/askMRP21/01/23 05:03 PM
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Sounds like a low self esteem woman. If you keep playing stoic for too long, she'll find her feels from somewhere else. Guess what? She'll monkey branch. Your problem is you on't understand the difference between comfort and shit tests. Asking for your attention is a comfort test. Making you feel bad and saying sorry is a shit test. See how failing an easy comfort test became a an uber shit test. The solution for next time is to tell her or any LSE woman to come over and enjoy each others compan…
/r/askMRP21/01/23 02:29 PM
3

Late 20s. Growing up, I was brought up with dating with the intention of marriage. Failure through my teens and young adulthood has turned me to red pill. I won't reconsider dating with the intention of marriage until I've accomplished cetan oals for my life. I imagine I around 40-50.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 06:16 PM
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If it's gotten to the point that asking out girls has become a maladaptive behavior, yeah you need to seek cognitive behavioral therapy. Whats the point in continuing to ask women out at your curret state? 2/400+ is misery. What if you were Tom Holland just asking for coffee?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/23 11:49 AM
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Why? This woman has had a series of boyfriends that get cheated on and then replaced by one of her affair partners. Do you see the pattern? She emasculates her men.
/r/askMRP17/01/23 05:25 PM
1

Women should enlist in the selective service. It ain't feminism otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:33 AM
11

Rule Zero: Get the sex you want. for not helping me with my goals, such as sleep, knowing I cant get to sleep while they are up reading etc Your wife doesn't respect you. Where she has decided not to help you nor fuck you, you can decide to stop making her life easier. Put the marriage on pause. She's an adult who can take care of herself. Use that freedom to focus on improving and exploring yourself. Workout. Get out of the house. Chat up old friends. Chat up new friends. Pickup old and new hob…
/r/askMRP12/01/23 09:29 PM
2

Yes. RP is more than just attracting women. There's a whole sub dedicated applying RP in the context of marriage: Using RP as a framework for a healthy long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:50 PM
11

She wants you to say, "Baby, I'll be your compliant little simp even if we don't have sex." Trust the path that you're on, and it will lead to a main event. She will break because inevitably she must choose to step into your frame or the marriage ends. In the meantime, take care of yourself, stop talking about sex, and get your house and finances in order.
/r/askMRP11/01/23 12:42 AM
9

If a guys truly invested in his life, he would never have the energy to do this. Playing games is not RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:22 PM
2

u/GayLubeOil How the fuck do you know me so well? Well done.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/23 03:56 AM
1

A post like this would get you banned in trp. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:36 PM
7

Barring preferences, she would be considered pretty by most men. AWALT is like setting up a guard: It's better to be prepared than caught unaware. The men who chastise women like this are caught in their feelings, anger, and it would better serve these men to just ignore these women. She's not high value. She's an independent modern woman. She should be treated as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:35 PM
2

In terms of physical beauty, both men and women peak at the same time. For what is valuable to potential suitors, women peak from 18-30, while men peak from 30-50. The ranges are generous and suppose that the person actualizes their peak.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:11 PM
1

I'd hire a help. We both would need to destress and a date. Maybe make another kid. Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:38 PM
8

You are seeking validation throuh sex. Even when you get it, you qualify it as good sex, bad sex. Bro, this sounds exhausting to me, and I'm sure it's miserable for her. Gaming is supposed to be fun for the both of you. Back to the basics.
/r/askMRP05/01/23 04:22 PM
0

Depends. I had a girlfriend who was always receptive to sex. We did it once often times more than once everyday. This happened for 6 months until she had a psychotic breakdown that led to a RO. I think maybe my SMV was too high while hers was deteriorating: The dread reached critical. Maybe I could have done more, but there's really no point in ruminating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 09:50 PM
6

By principle, threatening your partner destabalizes and destroys the foundation of the relationship. Fuck me or fuck you never works. Divorce theats are stupid because what's next if she calls the bluff?
/r/askMRP29/12/22 09:41 PM
2

There are stages in every form of game. The point is to play.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/22 04:52 PM
1

It depends on when we met. Let's say we were young and struggling together, but we relieve ourselves by having hot sex daily. The other option is a partner who has her shit together, has a career, some savings but is always bitching, wanting more from me. I'd much prefer and would be loyal to the first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:20 AM
2

Hey man, why are you in a rush to get married when your value as a man is pretty static as long as you're on your purpose? If she's a good girl and the relationship is fun, let it take its natural course.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/22 06:15 PM
8

You can continue dating her, but don't ever consider marrying her unless she changes her mind on kids.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/22 05:51 PM
143

This has gotta be a joke dude. Buy your wife a ticket to see her boyfriend before you break the news that you lost your life savings on TSLA stock. Make sure you pack a plan B in her stocking stuffer too. Happy holidays.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/22 05:29 AM
8

Sidebar bro. Read Practical Female Psychology.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 04:35 AM
20

The stats for military relationships/marriages are not good. It's better to break up.
/r/askMRP23/12/22 02:14 AM
3

"No is just a word, and jail is just a room." Deescalate, and if she was joking and interested, she'll escalate. My opinion is its too easy for a woman to accuse you of making her uncomfortable. It's not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/22 06:41 PM
5

Exactly, your LSE woman is being dramatic because she needs your validation. Give her comfort however you want, but I always go to sex.
/r/askMRP19/12/22 07:58 PM
3

TLDR: OP take control of the finances. Get a lawyer and make an exit strategy. Wife is hamstering HARD to make it all on me. My anger. My rage. My thoughts not being right. I thought I was going insane. MC sessions (1st and 2nd therapists) were wife was telling therapist I am yelling in front of the kids ( easy dunk), watch porn, record conversations. Full fucking court press to give frame to her. But I give myself credit, ( again crayons) but I was seeing her plan of action unfold but could not…
/r/askMRP19/12/22 07:56 PM
6

You know sex is a comforting behavior, a beta behavior? In the book, Practical Female Psychology, women act out because it makes men anxious. This anxiety increases a man's desire to have sex. You need to fuck her good. Make her believe she is enough for you.
/r/askMRP19/12/22 06:36 PM
2

Women should complement your life by adding more benefits than problems. This dynamic happens when men are masculine and women are feminine. Check yourself and check your girl if you both are doing your roles. Leadership/stewardship/guidance is a core masculine role, and you must lead your girl. If she's boss babe/men ain't shit type, drop her. You can't lead a girl who is antagonstic. Number 1 rule is make sure you don't end up resenting women for being women. Women are a lot of work. You must …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/22 01:57 PM
2

Here it is dude. You might not be able to retire at 50, 60, or 70 like the men who had their shit together at 20, but you're only 30. All you need to do is choose to live for yourself, and life will figure itself out. I didn't hear no bell ring.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/22 03:11 AM
4

Everything here reads like you're a sperg. Yes, you're allowed to flake on Sarah. If a girl flakes, she is low priority. Next time you should arrive late on your date or don't even show up at all. Why are you so insistent that Mary come over? Be honest. It's because you have a scarcity mindset. If you had other plates, you wouldn't give a shit if one of them has some cold feet.
/r/askMRP14/12/22 04:05 PM
6

Bro, just become a self-made man then, and you'll realize this is the ideal we all strive for. You need to reconcile with masculinity. The person is scum, his masculinity does not make him so. You only think this way because you're told and taught that men are defective women.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 02:07 AM
0

Women initiate 70% of divorce. College educated women initiate 90%. Yeah, who is the more loyal gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 03:21 AM
8

Yes but Doordash
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/22 11:15 PM
8

Yes, all people age and become less beautiful with time, but our memories never fade. If a woman passionately fcks a man enough times while young, she will always look that hot and beautiful to him. RP calls this phenomena "wife goggles". This is one of the important reasons for men to seek younger women, and it explains how men stay loyal. That said it can be broken, and once broken, the wife goggles are irreparable. Edit: Wife Googles by Rian Stone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:02 PM
2

Nah bro. Some noobies take the redpill way too far. Being aware of female natue doesn't mean becoming a domineering asshat in order to maintain frame. Thats going Rambo. You take the pill in order to make better choices and get better outcomes. None of it says be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:43 PM
8

I'm a progressive, and I would date/marry traditional and even feminist women as long as they are fit feminine friendly cooperative. Edit: It's more like if she wants to play housewife, I'm game, but if she wants that equality, I'm also game. I'm secure in my masculinity where I could move with either tradcon or modern life, so long as shes feminine. u/thesandninja
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:18 PM
9

A woman can have sex with Chad once, and think that's her league. No ma'am, sex is not a relationship. Your league is the kind of men you can keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 05:58 PM
25

I mean you're gonna have to settle with women who don't desire ambitious men. They have their own set of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 07:03 AM
4

Nah bro. Pookie and Rayray don't have power and status, yet they get women. Women have sex for many different reasons because it is their primary agency. Pookie and rayray get women because they got game. Game is the understanding and utilization of emotion. Women want to feel good most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 07:22 AM
4

You sound like a nice guy, but your wife sounds like a total brat. It seems like your wife will do domesticated tasks after you bitch to her. It also appears to me that she needs to be tamed like a dom/sub.
/r/askMRP27/11/22 11:00 AM
2

You meant Chads in their 20s and 30s dont want to settle with you. Beta Billy is more than happy to build a family together with his woman, but none pick him.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:10 AM
1

Deflect, agree and amplify, repeat, exit? You are supposed to DARE not DEER.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 09:39 PM
1

Look, expecting men to pay for dates is antiquated. This was for a time when men were the only earner, men and women were courting exclusively, and it was a treat. The following is advice for men: On the first two points, women are earning their own money, and they are dating non-exclusively. Hard Rule 1: If you're not in some sort of exclusivity, don't offer to pay unless you feel generous. Hard Rule 2: Dates are a treat/reward. If she's been cooking, cleaning, making your life easier, then goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:34 PM
2

The problem isn't whether the wifey is hot or not, she doesn't fuck you enough, she nags too much... Etc. The problem is that you derive so much validation from your wife. All I see is you bitching about someone else when this whiny post writes bitch all over it. Stop bitching because you sound so fucking stupid right now.
/r/askMRP24/11/22 07:04 AM
1

Bro, you can't stop discourse. u/KayRay1994 made a valid example. I refute your argument because the 26 year old can provide the 18 year old the wisdom of experience through guidance. Of course there's a power imbalance, but I don't believe that power needs to be equal as long as its consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 06:23 AM
8

Where's the question bro? If youre asking for examples of short men who succeeded, look at RDJ and Tom Cruise. They made up for their height through good looks and career. Do whatever you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:14 AM
1

Guess, I'm gay/s I used to lose so many plates by trying to speed run to sex. It made me look desperate. It's about balance.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 11:30 PM
0

Pain is an objective measurement of spine health. Your body is literally telling you, youve strained or have an injury. Talk to a doctor.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/22 05:12 PM
2

Bro, most girls who don't have last minute resistance during the first or second date are red flags. Good job.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/22 05:05 PM
13

Bruh. Women want to play the game, but your autistic ass has to ruin it. No you fucked up and sound insecure. How's a woman supposed to be sexual when you're shaming her for it? Ask her about her fantasy, and use her sexual energy for your own pleasure.
/r/askMRP22/11/22 05:10 AM
3

Define success? Weall know Nick Cannon gonna buss his load. Nice guy is gonna find someone, but he aint getting play.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:08 AM
4

Sure bud. You can extend an invitation, but you know, we know that you're not the priority, her divorce is. Don't expect much in terms of a reply. Was this a test? No, you all needed to leave after security caught you. You handled the situation well, and my only advice is to get a room in a different town. Don't fuck this up by being clingy: Keep spinning other plates.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/22 06:14 PM
1

Just dick her down. Its that simple. Edit: I don't want you to waste your timeand energy tracking a woman/women's period when you could be more constructive like career or hobbies. None of that matters when you have sex daily
/r/TheRedPill20/11/22 11:50 PM
1

Money baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 04:43 AM
5

Nah bro. Calling women naive is insulting. They know exactly what they're getting into to. Jada, August , and Will is the prime example of RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:58 PM
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You are confused by the alpha and beta dichotomy. Beta behaviors provide comfort, while alpha behaviors motivate desire. Providing financially, emotionally, etc. is by definition a beta behavior. With that understanding, you will recognize that sex is actually a beta behavior. Edit: Yall are confused. We tell men to STFU, lift, hold frame because it creates discomfort and uncertainty for the woman through distance (physical and emotional). In her head, she questions the mans commitment when he d…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 07:06 PM
1

There was a senior endorser who essentially became swingers. Ask and own the aftermath.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/22 05:02 PM
1

Bruh. A guy not make a move cuz her menstrual cycle is as stupid as a woman not eating meat cuz the stars arent aligned. Wtf bruh.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 10:24 PM
41

Wtf bro. This is straight degenerate.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 06:16 PM
1

No, marriage rates are at an all time low and divorce rates have indeed stayed high. People are not getting married nor staying married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:27 PM
1

Lusting != relationship != marriage Most women can get sex. Less of them can get relationships. Fewer of them can get marriage. Age does not help women with any of these.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 04:59 PM
3

Yeah, but he would say he would take away his attention. I wouldnt. Id just break up if you say no too many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:21 AM
1

At the start, treat your date if you're feeling charitable; otherwise, don't. If you don't get a second date, then bullet dodged.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:40 PM
1

Past trauma cannot define the present, or there is no future.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:01 PM
62

You fucking Rambo. Flip the genders, and guess what you sound like: A remorseful alpha-widow who rode the CC. Yall need to get it out of your head that monogamy is not BETA: Being a simp is. If you want to spin plates do it. If you want a monogamy do it within your own frame. You destroyed a good thing by being a wish washy and incongruent. Fuck your victim puke.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/22 08:10 PM
3

Why shouldnt men have a right that women have? Equality was the whole point of womens suffrage and the feminist movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 05:10 PM
3

Hot take warning, men would be more supportive of expanding abortion if they also have the universal right to abortion. Gating a right to abortion behing a gender is sexist! I support feminism which means equality between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:00 AM
8

Youve been on your map for 3 months, but how long have you been a drunk captain, letting yourself be pushed around. It going to take a longer amount of time to fix YOUR neglect. Are you actually establishing boundaries or are you being a passive aggressive bitch? You told her once but that doesnt mean you continue to nag her every time she disrespects you. You need to walk away and let yor action speak. That is setting boundaries rather than controlling her. Focus on what YOU can do. If she is a…
/r/askMRP04/11/22 04:22 AM
1

Youre delusional dude. Askmrp would not exist if providing comfort means sex. Thats the most insidious covert contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 09:01 PM
0

Bro comfort does not equal sex. Askmrp and dead bedrooms exist because men are acting beta by providing too much comfort. Did stacy at the pool party fuck Chad at the pool party because hes desireable or comfortable? Why did the once prude housewife start fucking her beta Billy husband after he started working out and STFU? Your fundementals are wrong!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 08:26 PM
29

Good dick makes women fall in love. You should prioritize sex before comfort
/r/TheRedPill03/11/22 08:20 PM
1

Sure bro, but in the context of a healthyand normal sexual relationship, sex is necessary to bridge the gap of comfort. The whole crux is that alpha men dont do other comfort behaviors because theyd rather have sex. Thats it. Beta men might have more opportunities to have sex if they reduced the comfort they provide. Thats the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:43 PM
2

You are very wrong. Sex is a comfort behavior. When we have sex, we release oxytocin. Oxytocin is the pair bonding hormone responsible for intimacy and closeness which is necessary for comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:38 PM
5

This is explained so poorly. Alpha behaviors induce desire, while beta behavior induce comfort. Sex is actually a beta behavior, but "alpha" or alpha prone men prefer to comfort women though sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:27 PM
2

Who hurt you queen. Ill protect you from these lecherous but fabulous older bachleors like Leo. We can't havemen rent entire theatres and enact the entirety of Star Wars. We must have men live properly!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:48 AM
2

Head over to subreddit askmrp to see what happens to men in long term relationships who are too "beta".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:20 AM
1

Alpha and beta describe behavior. Women respond to our behavior. If we're too alpha, that makes them insecure and eventually will make them leave the relationship. You need to balance alpha behavior with beta comfort in doses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:15 AM
2

How much compassion though? Too much and you're a smothering beta. Too little and you're a insecurity-inducing alpha. RP men need both alpha and beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 02:06 AM
3

Women don't need men to provide when they are better educated and catching up in terms of income. This is why attractiveness and game are more important after overcoming a base income theshold. Women want sexy men with some cash to spend on them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 01:47 AM
9

You are ridiculous. For her to be in your frame, she needs to choose to follow you. Youre just her warm dildo and youre addicted to some capt. save-a-hoe fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/22 07:45 PM
10

Its outlandish to expect loyalty from a woman cheating on her husband.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/22 07:30 PM
1

Domestic abuse is by definition violence. No where does RP say be violent because it has fucking legal consequences. Stop being disingenuous. The crux of RP is setting boundaries not controlling others. It is setting up rules with the intention of fostering a healthy relationship, and if such rules are crossed, it establishes how the boundary setter would act as a response. Notice how the boundary setter does not coerce or threaten the other in the relationship. The whole focus of RP is how men …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:39 PM
8

None of the tools we could recommend would address the crux of the problem. Honestly guy, you self-imposed all the responsibilty of a boyfriend with none of the benefits. Whats the fucking point? A proper long distance relationship is when she drives 2.5 hours every weekend to fuck your brains out. If she really wants you, she'll make it work. Wake the fuck up.
/r/askMRP02/11/22 03:29 PM
3

None of RP says to terrorize or assault women. RP recognizes that violence is not a viable strategy because such behavior is rightfully punished. You might contend folks like Myron Gaines aka Fit says put her in her place by nexting her. None of what he says is violence. It's setting boundaries, and men should never deal with women who can't respect his boundaries. Edit: Setting boundaries is not violence. Any women or person who says otherwise is trying to gaslight you and manipulate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:29 AM
2

Yas queenie ~>~
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:43 AM
1

I point that out with the reply. Any guy who uses this language to vet is a spurg.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:15 PM
2

From what I've seen, most men that ask this question want to point out women are delusional for thinking that they are attractive because they act like the men they want and are uninhibited. It's to one up. The other men who actually use this with the intent to vet are socially inept. They are the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:15 PM
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It's a rhetorical question for combative women. Either they list traits they find attractive in men, or they list traits that unattractive. It's a blunt question without tact, but it's a qualifying/vetting question. Women qualify/vet their men. Why shouldn't men do the same to their women?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 09:09 PM
1

Dark triad men are not neurotypical, and they can do well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 08:13 AM
10

Youre already perfect King.
/r/askMRP28/10/22 03:14 AM
3

Are you gonna put her into timeout for bad behavior? Just stfu and grind
/r/askMRP22/10/22 05:28 AM
2

In these short casual things, anything could have happened, but most likely there was someonejust more attractive. Just get over yourself. This is askMR, so plenty of guys here could dissect what happened in your LTR. Get that advice because it sounds like you have gotten over her.
/r/askMRP22/10/22 02:15 AM
3

Most women get their bodies by serial monogamy. Only really low self esteem women are truly promiscuous because they equate sex as validation. No, college women as a whole arent anymore promiscuous than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:06 AM
7

TRP is descriptive and perscriptive. Hypergamy, social dynamics, et al inform the former while seduction, game, dread, et al inform the latter. Men not seeing results are just not doing enough work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:51 AM
2

If you want your wife, your kids, or anyone to continue doing a behavior, you must compliment them.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/22 04:24 AM
-1

I happily could and did have a relationship like this. I'd be looking for strange if it slowed down or stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:14 AM
6

Fuck off. RP is about men trading notes. This fuck is newly initiated, has no understanding nor application of RP. It's totally pointless to give more advce than Read Sidebar. You are a total fuckwit.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/22 06:03 PM
21

You see the problem, sidebar has the solution.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/22 05:36 PM
1

u/Master-Edward-3 Bro, when in history was this not the case: They were kings, conquerors, cult leaders, chads. Sex was violent and coerced. Today, Chad doesn't need a fucking title, land, wealth. He just needs to be hot and have good dick game for consensual sex. Reality is red pill! Edit: fine print
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:43 AM
7

Never before and never again will sex be this liberated. Thats mens advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:47 AM
1

Hey guy, youre literallly rewarding her with your time and attention when you push. What are you going to do when she does this shit, LJBF again? Push more? No, you pull your attention. If she is actually interested but testing you, shell stop the test. You need more reading.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/22 01:58 PM
13

Her: Lets just be friends. You: Thank you. Let me know when you change your mind. Women are the gate keepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of attention and commitment.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/22 05:05 PM
1

Youre probably right. This was my approach during my 6 month relationship. She was alwys receptive towards sex so i escalated. My advice then would be to ascertain if shes talking about HER feelings. If she FEELS insecure, then comfort. Otherwise its shit so DARE or takeaway your attention.
/r/askMRP05/10/22 09:42 PM
0

TLDR: OP read a couple articles and thinks going rambo makes him red pill. u/PussyBandit2 Why are you in a committed monogamous relationship if you're gonna act the fuck boy? It's incongruent; consequently, you're creating unnecessary and avoidable problems. Stop guy.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/22 06:35 PM
24

Fuck the same crazy chick everyday for six months, everday sex marathons, then break up with her. She will harass and assault you because she has become dependant on your good dick energy. You'll realize that sex is not worth your peace of mind and sanity. Kill the thirst bros.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/22 05:10 AM
-8

Maybe I'm a dumbass, but I'd try to lead her to the bedroom and provide comfort through sex. If she's obstinant, then I'd change course since this is now a shit test. I'd respond with DARE or remove my attention.
/r/askMRP04/10/22 10:33 PM
23

TLDR: OP rambo will inevitably lead to Zeroed Out Guy, if women say you make them feel unsafe "insert place here". You need to fucking take notice now. Women feel entitled to feeling safe in the workplace, in bars and clubs, in coed sports. You hit on the wrong girl and she will accuse you of sexual harassment. You will get ZEROED OUT, and it's not fucking worth shitting on your reputation for some mid women. How do you mitigate this? If you become so fucking attractive that women must appoach y…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/22 09:48 PM
0

Guys who marry a women like this are fools not scumbags.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 07:54 PM
1

Hey guy, just post a field report in 3 months. Youre going to destroy this good woman.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 10:48 PM
5

If you want a tradcuck life, then get married to her and expect to play by tradcuck rules. Be prepared to pay when you cheat because marriage is a Government contract. If you want to spin plates, just don't get married.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 09:48 PM
20

Guy, you suck. You have everything, yet here you are with Oneitis for a 5.5, and one of your options is an open marriage. Break up with girl. Shes not for you. Don't get married guy. Its not for you.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 09:29 PM
8

Sorry u/VasiliyZaitzev. What the fuck is this proselyting shit: Women love evil. Yes, the worst women glorify a gay serial rapist, but they are the worst examples of women acting according to their nature. When we men expect women to act better, we men internalize the most problematic covert-contract of them all: Madonna-Whore Complex. How do you let your woman become the freak if you are chastising her for being a whore? Next time she discloses her fantasy, lead her to the bedroom, indulge it, …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/22 03:06 PM
1

NMMNG Practical Female Psychology and Rationale Male are foundational. What Women Want When They Test Men, The Way of the Superior Man, and How to be a 3% Man are perscriptive solutions. F--cfiles and Book of Pook are meta. They have insight of men who practice rp.
/r/askMRP29/09/22 02:40 PM
1

Have you read Practical Female Psychology? Your soon to be ex expresses Low Self Esteem LSE. No amount of comfort is ever enough to fix their LSE. When the honeymoon stage of your relationship passes, her tests will always be hysterical at best or destructive at worst. She uses these SHITTY COMFORT tests to gauge your commitment, and the further you comply the more she will control and abuse you. Its not your job to fix her: Hand her to a therapist.
/r/askMRP27/09/22 03:45 AM
1

Hey guy, there's no point in explaining to someone who doesnt actually care. Shes hysterical because youve been a drunk captain for the entirety of your marriage. Of course she doesnt trust your frame. More DARE not DEER. Stop seeking validation in the form of approval from your wife.
/r/askMRP27/09/22 03:28 AM
1

STFU means dont explain yourself, you act. You still have this covert contract that sex == validation: This isnt outcome independence. Give her a peck on the cheek, call her lovely, and move on to do something meaningful.
/r/askMRP26/09/22 04:45 AM
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Sorry guy, she's gone. You need to recognize that the wife you have idealized is NOT the reality before you. Talk to a lawyer, and start getting your ducks in order. You have the receipts to prove infidelity and divorce her.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/22 04:02 AM
11

They kill themselves, metaphorically or physically. RP talks about the consequences of men when they zero out and it can be fatal. Men will kill themselves or opt out of society. Those that opt out may live without women or without contributing to society, MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/22 07:04 PM
0

Would you rather he use porn or step out of the marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 02:19 PM
2

No. It's a misnomer. Alpha and beta should describe behaviors, not the people. Alpha behaviors increase sex hormones and desire. Beta behaviors increase oxytocin and comfort. Attractive behaviors increase dopamine. Missed opportunity Sigma is the concept of prioritizing self-actualization before pleasure. This is monk mode. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 04:04 PM
15

Its a long way from gaylubeoil, but I appreciate these posts that dont take itself so seriously. Good.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/22 05:17 AM
7

No, women engineers and professional women must communicate rationally. When they go home and call their friends, they do not. Lets not be pendantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 04:58 AM
3

Plausible deniability? Any obtuse communcation is to put fault on you the man. All you can do is give or take attention, affection, commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:39 AM
3

Thats not the point. Its to exchange feels. When shes talking to her girlfriends or orbiter billy about her feelings, shes looking for attention and validation. Shes not looking for reason. Thats why she calls you boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:51 AM
5

Men and women prefer to use communication differently. Men reason while women feel. Women can reason, but it's not how they prefer to communicate first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 01:48 AM
3

Nah. Women should also enroll in selective service, and both men and women shouldhave access to abortion rights. Expand rights for everyone so no one has exclusive rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:46 AM
3

For the men, communicate in this way if she is attracted to you. Emotional communication is comfort, and comfort does not precipitate desire. For the women, how has your day been going, honey?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 02:36 PM
1

It would be nice if one of you guys insulted me or tryed to talk me out of theses thoughts.... It would be even better if I got some useful advice. Or some more books like the female psychology one or sex god. A recent divorcee, who is too addicted to sexing up his low self esteem girlfriend with a nazi father, wants to baby up said dysfunctional woman, and I'm supposed to believe he knows the difference between reality and delusion. Keep spinning the hamster.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 05:08 PM
0

Kids aren't expensive? Each one is a 200k lump sum. Whoremaxxing? Trying to turn a hoe into a housewife? Tate is one kind of redpill, but he's far from the kind that Rian Stone is. Even if you're financially set to afford such a lifestyle, I'm reading so many inconsistencies in this post. You're incongruent: Your frame is a mess. Look into OYS and see the shit married men deal with. More reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 04:36 PM
1

Men need to understand that the alpha or beta, lover or provider, player or simp dynamic are biologically driven. Our actions create desire or comfort which manifests as hormones. He was hot, and it happened! - Testosterone and estrogen Hes cute! - Dopamine He makes me comfortable. - Oxytocin Men need to recognize that their actions have a corresponding biological response which manifests as feelings of attraction or not. Hes nice but ... Not enough Testosterone and estrogen Hes hot but ... Not …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:28 AM
14

I started watching your stuff, and it helped me realize RP is more than nuking every relationship with mouth frothing rambo. Thank you Rian.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 08:33 PM
1

She can't be self destructive or vindictive. She can trust me to lead. She enjoys sex with me. Ive given up on the idea of peace. It's in women's nature to test their man and that's usually through a little drama. It's how we handle these tests through our grace and maturity that allows women to appreciate a man's leadership. She wants you to pass these test.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:13 PM
1

What a cope: Roles and traditions? Original feminists are rlling in their grave. Women ought to propose if they want to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 03:41 AM
1

AF can give you grandkids. AF also can have baby mamas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:11 PM
2

No, youre the boss and your wife is the employee. This is the drunk captain dynamic.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/22 07:26 AM
12

Most men have real cognitive dissonance in this regard. Women need to be accepted for who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:11 PM
2

The essence of masculinity is his sexuality. There's no polarity between the feminine and the masculine without sex.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 03:38 PM
1

Practical Female Psychology What Women Want When They Test Men Mating in Captivity Ooh Say it Again How to be a 3% Man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 06:00 AM
2

Beauty, fitness, youth Demeanor and attitude: Most of our interactions need to be generally positive and fun Im a 20s man, and most women like this are 20s too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:49 AM
1

u/gorillaman30 Women communicate through their feelings. Men communicate through their logic. Does she want to be dominated? Maybe intimately, but most women want to be assertive themselves. No shame. Man or woman can have whatever body they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 12:23 AM
2

With your standards, you should hire a matchmaker. Their job is to match your criteria, but you will most likely meet material women. Just make sure you set YOUR frame that they MUST earn material stuff by virtue of being helpful to you aka CHOREPLAY. Likely other men will give her things too., and you must be secure in your masculinity by recognizing that she is in a relationship with you because you are her LOVER first before her PROVIDER.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/22 05:18 AM
0

No. We don't do this because that is the most absolute way to get cancelled and zeroed out. Women feel they are entitled to feel good at work as they should. Dont do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:13 AM
1

Hey, losers who live at home that have nothing that do nothing can still get women. They are Pookie and Ray Ray, and they have frame. You can chase tail or work on yourself: One improves your life absolutely.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/22 01:52 AM
22

Being the lover is better than being the provider. She cheats with a lover, not another provider. Be the other guy.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/22 02:29 AM
1

Men need to be lovers first providers second because women can provide for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:35 PM
1

You lost me at tattoos and parties. Only low self esteem place value these. Its not worth the heartache or potential legal jeopardy to associate with LSE. You should behave in a manner that attracts the women you can get now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 02:24 PM
1

Luck is when opportunity meets preparation. We tell men to focus on themselves because they are often ill prepared and leading deficient lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:06 PM
12

Theres husband material in dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:31 PM
1

They say youre trying too hard becaute theyre not attracted to you but they like keeping men on the hook for free attention and validation. Ultimate rule is if she wants you, she will make it easy for you. Women dont call men creepy if theyre attractive example Ezra Miller.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 05:24 PM
2

Trying too hard for a stranger is creepy. You're not acting creepy. Women can have wishy washy behavior. They break rules for the guys they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:07 AM
1

Theres a balance between people make mistakes and should have done better. Find that balance because this mindset is doing bad for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:23 AM
8

No way. The men in the friend zone have no reasonable chance in becoming anything more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:00 PM
17

Im sure theres someone out there for him but its gonna be costly. He should broaden his scope by moving to a different town or dating internationay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:43 AM
6

Women should be able to set a boundary and men must respect that; however, men are under no obligation to be or remain exclusive to women who withhold sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:39 PM
15

Rapport is simply: 1. be as kind as you are comfortable with 2. don't let others take advantage of your kindness. Life is so much easier when people generally like you: Tristan Tate. Machivelli was a prick.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/22 09:44 PM
5

For him and myself, love is a powerful motivator since it inspires us to do better and be better for the sake of another. I've never learned more about love and relationships than from my partner. That said, Id still be single than be miserable or abused in a relationship. Healthy relationship >> single >>>> Bad relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 05:18 AM
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Bros and ladies. Consult a doctor before getting any potentially life altering medication or treatment. No, getting a vasectomy won't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/22 02:26 AM
3

She probably has a stable source of income to support her spouse. She probably is more mature overall. She probably has her own priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:21 PM
3

I would use a match makig service. The guys are looking for a relationship and are vetted by the match maker. I think cold approach is pretty much dead becaue most guys need MORE than indicators of interest to even bother to approach. Its not cold approach when there are IOIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 01:27 AM
2

I agree with everything that you said: Women value men who are strong. I should clarify that men are allowed to show emotion and vulnerability, but they are not allowed to be defeated by it because the only real belief she needs is that you are a winner and you are better than her. You can express emotions as long as you are a winner b/c hypergamy. That said im not saying to do it all the time. Use moderation. I just cant agree with the idea that men must be stoic unemotional beings. If a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:52 PM
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Jesus bro. As long as youre consistently solid at critical moments, you're allowed to show emotions, vulnerability, even weakness. If your woman can't empathize, you didnt vet her, you chose wrong, and its your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 05:05 AM
1

What's wrong with a solid frame? As long as the man is dependable, a woman can rely on him and defer to him. That's a solid frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 04:30 AM
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I'm purple pilled. I take a more egalitarian stance that women are my equals. It does not mean that I don't treat her when I can. It just means I expect her to also financially, emotionally, etc. provide too. I do a little more by providing a solid frame she can securely attach to and correcting her when she's disrespecting me or misbehaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 10:30 PM
1

States and even counties will determine the availabilty and quality of planned parenthood. If you believe in planned parenthood, its more imperative to live in a blue state and county. You need to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 02:48 PM
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Huh. Have you had sex? From what Ive gathered, she teased you as a consolation prize for the trip. Now shes business as usual. If you want to stay committed and rp, then go to married rp for dread game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:47 AM
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Relationships can provide happiness but thats not the point. We choose to be and stay in relationships for practical reasons that are more important than feeling happy. Happiness is fleeting while the person you choose should not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 04:10 PM
1

Sure, but its going to be a coffee date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:49 PM
1

I have a three date rule, but most of the time I don't even bother going for a second date. Just be civil about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:47 AM
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Younger men and women in dating dont often have an agenda. Their willingness to try new things and their sincerity is refreshing. Ill define whats interesting to me. Tyvm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 07:13 AM
1

Hygiene 👍 Simpery 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:28 PM
1

Love is when she drives 1.5 hrs to see you and doesn't ask for gas money. Yes babygirl, we're having that korean pork dish that you like and I'll make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:27 PM
1

I am RP aware but am willing to get married to the right woman. The current woman I'm seeing says shes open to becoming a stay at home mom. Im not opposed to it, but neither of us are quite there to realize that. Im dating her seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:43 PM
1

A fool would leave a great partner whose only flaw is NOT perfect appearance. Apperance is my easiest comprimise when she looks good enough (physically arousing).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:04 PM
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Black women are the most unmarried women, and other women are following suit. I don't understand how you are denying the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 08:00 PM
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Modern men know modern women want traditional marriage, but modern women would rather choose to live independently in search and in waiting for Prince Charming than build a happy life with Mr Good Enough. No wonder the majority of men are disillusioned and noncommital. There is no honor for responsibility. TLDR: Modern women broke the relationship contract: Modern men refuse the relationship contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 07:37 PM
6

You can be together without being married and entangled by the state. Why should women get married when women unanimously initiate divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 06:40 PM
0

She can pay for herself as she should.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:46 PM
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Modern men have a duty to themselves first. I have no unreasonable expectations for modern women, just be civil. Marriage is an outdated institution, but if you want that, then you may have to practice yesterdays relationship roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:44 PM
1

BDSM isn't for deviant sexual behavior. It exists because it is fufilling a meaningful need such as trust, communication, and surrender. I never had sex with my first partner, but she instilled a poweful lesson that the foundation of BDSM and kink culture is respect. This lesson carries into all my relationships today.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/22 07:06 PM
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She doesnt have to have sex on the first date, but by the second or third date, id consider lower priority or next.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 12:57 PM
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Guys need to understand the dinstinction between love and desire. When you're boyfriend/husband, you're stirring love not desire. If you want to arouse desire, you need to act like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 03:47 PM
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r/ShittyLifeProTip No. Your time is more valuable than coin flipping on a chance with romance even if it's free. If you need companionship, get a pet or even better, cultivate an actual friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:46 AM
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If they have a step-child, they will never come first. Check any OLD app looking for single moms and check for the phrase "My kids are my world, and if you can't handle that, fuck off" or similar. This is your answer. That's fine when things are good, but when they're not, just wait for that "YOU'RE NOT MY REAL DAD!" to come flying out of kid's mouth. A real fear and concern. If men assume the responsibility of step fatherhood, then they must have the agency and power as a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:10 PM
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Red pill doesn't argue against that. Maybe Blue pill believes that when they have the mindset such as 'be yourself'. Redpill say women want physically attractive men until they hit 'the wall' when security and finances become more attractive. That is why RP advocates for men to work out since it is the easiest form of building attractiveness through power and agency. Men at all ages value physical attractiveness .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 10:28 PM
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Getting touched and grabbed isn't a signifier of interest for you? Dating is hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 04:24 PM
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I can't tell if this is real or sarcasm; consequently, I can't decide if I should pity you or applaud you. I upvoted either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 07:37 PM
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Like anything, you get good through practice and that applies to sex. The only men who practice a lot are Chads. Not all women can marry Chad, which is why some but not all women experience sexual dissatisfaction in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 06:46 PM
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A post epiphany phase unemployed single mother who is ready to settle down has the same RMV as a virgin genuine kind male making 6 figures in his 30s. That's how stacked the deck is against LVMs. I disagree. To put it nicely, single mothers require a set of responsibilities and circumstances that disqualify them to most men. effort expended and risks so high and value/reward so negligible that staying single is the preferable alternative, as much as it sucks to be in that position. Entirely true…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 03:42 AM
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Do what you want, but don't expect others to want to DO anything with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 03:50 PM
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This isn't redpilled. Men should pay for dates when they feel like it. It is a courtesy. Both men and women work. None are entitled to a paid date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:25 AM
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Hear hear. You men are undeserving of love because you are emasculated by estrogen and feminism. Nevermind feminism was founded on the basis of egalitarianism and equality despite sexual dimorphism. Major satire. Aubrey never misses.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:53 PM
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to have the right to more power, or be treated decently. That's the literal definition of empowerment. the process of becoming stronger and more confident, especially in controlling one's life and claiming one's rights. What narrative are you pushing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:14 AM
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In this thread: Sex workers are empowered. Shame on men for for supporting sex works. The dichotomy of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:18 PM
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More like, how to identify a loser. You're an alpha because your pack recognizes you as a leader. You become responsible for others. Being a bully is antithetical to an Alpha mentality. Fuck this edge shit.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/21 05:46 AM
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Alpha and beta dichotomy is how men, women, and society treat a man. If they respect the man, then he is alpha. How he gets that recognition is through looks, money, and status. Mindset is important too. A man can use resources and be alpha ie: Christian Grey.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 08:40 PM
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Right. I am RP aware, so I know very well women would eventually resent their husband for this. Probably only the most egalitarian of feminist women could live like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:56 PM
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Do modern relationships need roles? Yes. Does it need to be gender normative? No. That said, gender normative roles are easier because they play to traditional strengths. As long as the roles bring utility, they are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/21 07:48 PM
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Neurotic women may be the more vocal minority, but who said a wholesome woman can not appreciate a put together man? The whole point of Red Pill is to become put together so you're generally attractive to ALL women. If such man engages with neurotic women, then he assumes the risk. There is no paradox.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 07:01 PM
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So her basic argument is that it is a new world, in which the typical woman is actually more adapted to than the typical man. Women need to marry up in some ways because an equivalent man is actually below her now, at least until you get to the very top tier where things may get a bit different. Anyways, was an interesting discussion with her. Interested to see what PPDers think. Hypergamy what? Isn't a partnership and marriage about uplifting each other as equals? Winning isn't one person's acc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 08:28 PM
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Men dont have anything as valuable or pleasurable as pussy and all over this site is THOUSANDS of men asking "where do we meet women women dont let us talk to them anywhere" Reducing women's value to pussy is awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:40 AM
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We understand that. You give most of your effort to the men you want. u/lateralanouncer says: If we aren't that man, we won't reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:35 AM
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Nah. Most men have a method ie: he's a wine and dine type or a coffee date type. A date should be within your means, and don't treat a stranger you're meeting for the first time to something extravagant. That's just weird and signals easy to take advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/21 05:32 AM
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Damn. I'm expecting women to get down on a knee and propose because it sounds like they'll never get married otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 02:56 PM
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Fatherhood is one of many roles a man can take. It is not THE role to be measured. A man must define for himself what is important. What a shit take.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:47 PM
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I think so, high value men and even average men are gatekeepers. When we say gatekeepers, it's in the context of marriage. Men are still expected to buy a ring and propose, and men still do it on their own timeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 02:55 PM
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Older people are set in their ways and are resistant to change such as a new relationship. Feminine women allow masculine men to lead with their trust and consent; otherwise, it's abuse and coercion. You have a lot to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:55 PM
1

Well what's the equivalent exchange? You're allowed to have a preference but you're not entitled to that kind of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:39 AM
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Sure, but the journey should have started when you were both young and naive, not older and wearier. We don't want women who refuse to be lead and are set in their ways. So the answer men want when they ask this question is women must bring femininity. We want feminine women who allow us to be masculine men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:35 AM
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Looks: 6 Success: 3 Status: 3 Social: 7
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 12:05 AM
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Lol. "Where did all the good men go?" You mean where did all the good men that I passed over for Chad in my youth go?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:41 AM
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No. The ultimate win is building together when you're both young.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:55 PM
2

I refuse to pay for dates until my partner makes me feel comfortable; otherwise, it's financial coercion. It can take months. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 08:06 PM
0

Asking the fish rather than the fishermen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:03 PM
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Hire a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 05:21 AM
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Im not interested, and I'd never date you. There's no way to misconstrue that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:37 PM
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Isn't he like 24? He looks his age despite some of his facial structures looking young. Though, I'd imagine these adventurer types would be like late 30s, maybe Jake Gyllenhaal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:11 PM
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Huh? No. Women simply choose not to commit to marriage when they were young. It's their choice, and they must reap the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:42 AM
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If society collapses, I'd expect the Handmaid's Tale. It's never getting to that point because we're headed towards something more akin to a Brave New World.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 03:37 PM
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Strong correlation is not causation because I'm literally looking at stats that say the top 4 states are the top 4 states for no fault divorce. It seems this is more nuanced than just domestic violence. https://worldpopulationreview.com/state-rankings/no-fault-divorce-states Where's the study? Mods Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:22 AM
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Yeah, that works under the assumption that all humans are rationale actors at all times. We're not. We make decisions based on fleeting and frivolous things like emotions. Lastly, women destroyed the traditional marriage contract as we knew it. Women better get ready to step up to the plate and become the breadwinners under your scenario since women are projected to become the higher educated, higher career oriented in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/21 07:16 AM
2

Oral sex is sex. Making out is not sex, and I definitely agree with your conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 12:44 PM
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NO. Making out does not mean "I'm open to the idea of having sex with you." Women make out with other women all the damn time in clubs, bars, etc. It means shit. If she's fucking you, she's sexually interested: this is the same logic where yes means yes, and no means no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 05:17 AM
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No, do whatever you want with your life, but don't put women, girlfriends, and wife as your first priority. Put yourself first because her feelings for you may change, but your can not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 11:26 PM
0

Huh, can you imagine if the genders were reversed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/21 12:46 PM
2

Consensual but hate sex? I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:31 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7293001/ Here's the full article, and its conclusion. Consistent with our findings of a decrease in sexual activity at least weekly among married men and women living in the US, decreases in the mean sexual frequency among married or partnered individuals have been demonstrated in previous analyses of the General Social Survey (1989-2014, individuals aged ≥18 years)16 and in national surveys in Finland (1999 vs 2007, individuals aged 18-54 years),21 A…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 05:15 PM
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Hey she has a thing that works with her man. We shouldn't shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 12:35 AM
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Serious: Sex is necessary, but sex alone is not sufficient to maintain a relationship. Purge: Your exes cheated on you because you're an intolerable bitch. u/LillthOfBabylon
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:47 PM
1

You get wifey and a mistress.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:07 PM
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This is literally Will Smith. He is an accomplished and desired man, but that didn't stop Jada from cheating and even making her entanglements public. WTF. Do not get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:13 AM
1

Men initiate. Women chase (the winners).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:46 PM
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Women have nonverbal cues, but the easiest consent is when they straight up tell you to fuck them. Don't mess with women who make your life harder than it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:34 PM
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You can be empathetic but you don't need to be married. No one is entitled to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:41 PM
0

Why should a man take care of his equal, when she's capable of taking care of herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:25 PM
1

Never push for sex that it makes her uncomfortable; however, if she shoots down the majority of your advances she's either: Not interested in sex with YOU Sexually incompatible Just break up. Don't let your girlfriend stop you from finding your true love. Stay single 👑👑👑
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:53 AM
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Men have no business committing to women who kick them from their lawful homes. Stay single fellas 👑 Don't let wifey stop you from finding your true love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 08:36 AM
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2 is false. Boys deal with bitchy girls. Men come home late or not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:06 AM
1

Your husband is literally 6 years your senior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:04 AM
3

They say love is dead 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:03 AM
1

Bro what? She has a point, and that whole point is redpill. Rise to the occasion or suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:33 PM
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Serious: Men will settle when they feel they have their life in order. They need to have a secure job/business, a house, and a retirement plan/future before they believe they are ready to add another responsibility such as marriage. Purge: You are an ugly bitch inside and out with no respect for men's time tables.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:14 PM
1

There's nothing wrong with waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 12:12 PM
1

If he's just holding out because he's waiting for someone better, let him go. If he's holding out because he's not in a place where he wants to be in his life, consider how reasonable his goals are and how he's taking steps to realize those goals. If he's trying and making progress within a reasonable time frame, then consider staying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:41 PM
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Self sufficiency, responsibility are good virtues, but the choices and behaviors they engender do not necessarily make you more attractive to a partner of a similar or higher caliber. I don't believe go getting alpha men want to date go getting alpha women. Go getting men want relaxing feminine women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/21 06:38 PM
2

Most men are realistic with their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 01:25 AM
1

You sound like an absolute joy. I'm sure you'll do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 01:09 PM
0

Reducing men to an investment 👍 I wish you well in all your endeavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:48 PM
1

Feminine Attitude Healthy BMI Moderately Attractive Healthy Libido Median Income Earner Associates Education There are exceptions, but they are not the rule. 1-4 is mandatory, 5,6 are nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 03:10 PM
2

Masculinity and femininity are better expressed through performance of roles rather than attitudes. This is more true for men because they are defined by their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 03:24 PM
2

There she goes: insults. Men really love your condescending attitude. Please illucidate us.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 05:01 AM
2

Right, please womansplain how a man should be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/21 04:50 AM
1

What no. Lol. I'm a young man and I understand where I'm at. I need to build myself and the red pill has told me how.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 03:22 AM
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Because older men have accumulated the resources to settle, while no men at ANY age should settle with older women. Young me are worthless to MOST women because they're all potential, not proven value. This is red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:52 AM
5

Look, men would marry young but women aren't interesting in marrying men who is still figuring stuff out, in school, or starting his career.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:07 AM
1

Kinda like you is pretty hard to tell. Likes you a lot is easy to tell because they actively and enthusiastically want to be with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 06:44 PM
1

Can a robot provide an income?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 06:19 AM
2

That's Rule Zero which everything is built upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 03:46 PM
1

No. most men can't afford to be the sole income. Maybe it's time to redefine what is a traditional relationship and fix the broken marriage laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:23 PM
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Like any addiction, it's a maladaptive coping mechanism. Regular porn usage is OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:28 PM
1

No. I'm saying for a healthy and equal relationship there must be an equivalent exchange; otherwise, commitment is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:37 PM
1

It should go both ways, and the weight of the responsibility at well as the responsibility should be equal for an equitable and just relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 03:18 AM
1

Sure, but let's be reasonable. If you expect that much, then your partner can also expect that much. Are you willing to provide 50% of the income to the shared household AND remain sexually faithful? That's the responsibility of fidelity in ALL aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:09 AM
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Normally yes, but that's changing. Men's education, wages, and careers have stagnated. Women are now the more educated gender, earning similar to men, and working similarly intense careers than men. Do modern women really need a man's financial fidelity? Let the women decide, but I'd rather not commit in the first place. Why commit, be responsible when you can just do no strings attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 08:01 PM
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We're designed to cheat. The vast majority of mammals have visible indicators for ovulation: baboon asses in example. Human women hide their ovulation cycles. This is why we have institutions like religion and marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:53 PM
2

Look there's a difference between sexual fidelity and financial fidelity. If we polled women, they would much prefer financial fidelity than sexual fidelity. Imagine this scenario. You are married to a man. He is going on lavish trips, buying cars, and paying rent for his affair partner. He is cheating, but not sexually. Women would much rather forgive sexual transgressions than their man taking potential resources from their household. This is why there is this dual standard. Men value sexual f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 07:50 PM
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A woman's income is of value to men in the relationship if she contributes substantially to the household income aka if she was unable to work, car is repossessed, house is foreclosed, we declaring bankruptcy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:25 AM
2

Use the Leonardo DiCaprio method of dating. Date women from 21 until they turn 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 06:10 PM
1

If we're talking about 1 income, 50k for 2 is lean. It's certainly not enough for a family. Modern and traditional women want a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 08:25 PM
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Their late night show is pretty much Red Pill magnified. Women being honest about their nature, but it's the same show every night: women expressing the worst of themselves. It doesn't create a healthy image of people. I stopped watching for this reason. Watch their day content. They provide advice on grooming, finances, and law instead of dating and entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 10:32 PM
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Easy lays are like cheeseburgers. Both are sustenance, but neither are particularly healthy. Chad has plenty of both, and it doesn't make him any less of a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 07:49 PM
3

Bbs have to provide. Most men aren't in the position to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 08:36 AM
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It's a contributing factor. If you're not putting yourself out there, you won't make friendships or relationships. The biggest factor for men is not having his purpose. The biggest factor for women is not dating with a purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 11:12 PM
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Don't listen to her words, watch her actions. More often than not, she'll respond sexually when her man resumes holding masculine frame. It's not even being hard or alpha. It's setting ground rules that both of you can respect, and walking away if she can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 04:04 PM
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No male privilege. There are certain laws like abortion that neither men and women have full right like financial abortion and my body, my choice, but the law pretty much applies to men and women equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 03:58 PM
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It is false. If a man earns equal AND/OR less than the woman, then he is a manchild. In a reality where most men and women are earning similar annual incomes, stagnant wages, and education/class disparity, this would make most men = man children which is a ridiculous premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:44 AM
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You can make a claim xyz. I agree that xy is true, but z is false. I can shred the whole argument because your last premise of the whole is false. It's called formal logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 01:48 AM
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I said the premise was sound: A manchild is not entitled to an attractive woman, but you're being ridiculous by saying a man who is equal to a woman is a manchild when we are a more educated, more equitable society.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 08:42 PM
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You mentioned men earning the same as his partner is a manchild. Is not the average woman equivalent to the average man? what's your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:50 PM
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The premise is sound, but defining a man who is equal to a woman as a manchild is stupid and unreasonable because this is a post-feminist society. Isn't equal and equitable what we aspire for? What a clown take 🤡.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:39 AM
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I'm not against dating a feminist. If she actual believes in equality between the sexes and pays/does her half, then I'm 100% eschewing trad roles. I would never tolerate the FDS mentality while dating, and I'm sure the feeling is mutual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:19 PM
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Surely there's a nonzero amount of men who would go for it. The kind and caliber of man who would wait for sex is not "alpha", "high value", or desirable. It goes completely against RP: women want a man who other women desire and who other men aspire to be. If she's not willing to wait for such a guy, then the tradeoff or risking pump and dump is worth it to her The aforementioned man would drop her after he figures this out. Time is not on her side. Why should a man ever commit to a woman who h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 09:11 PM
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They do care a lot. Both men and women have casual relationships, but this dynamic changes after they develop feelings. Women believe they can change men through sex, but don't realize that most men won't change their mind. It doesn't help the woman if she withholds sex because sex is so free in this dating market. If she won't someone else will.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:37 PM
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Wild, you're not going to get a genuine response from women. Just observe their results.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 04:49 AM
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Kpop, eboys, and the Beatles have a lot in common in terms of attraction, a pretty boy aesthetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 01:51 PM
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Kpop stars are still select men. They have the preselection through status, and like the boy bands before them such as Jonas brothers and the Beatles, they cater to the pretty boyfriend trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:55 AM
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Nah. Dining out is reserved for the wife. It's supposed to be a treat from our shared responsibility of making dinner and cleaning up. You're not entitled to pass the cost of your beauty on to us men. If she wants to make herself up, she's doing it for herself. Because we as men know that women don't make themselves up for us but to empower themselves. We at men don't owe women shit nor do women owe us shit. You do you sista.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:15 AM
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Men don't pursue friendships with women because women don't put nearly as much effort as other men in the man's life. Women are flaky and backstabby even amongst their close female friends. This behavior does not change when their friend is a guy, but men will treat each other as equals. Women do not. I'm not against platonic friendships with women, but I'll only mirror their energy. Tit for tat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:37 PM
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Gentlemen, there's a dual nature for both men and women. Work on yourself and ignore all that distracts you from achieving your purpose and greatness. If you don't work hard, you may have to settle for a bitter hateful woman that sounds like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:48 PM
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Women explaining how men need to be as father's is womansplaining. Men don't need to be or do anything when women refuse to submit to their authority and stewardship. You all fought hard for your right to be our equals. We will not infringe on your right. You are responsible for your own slutty behavior, respectfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 02:27 AM
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What. Some ;p my best relationships had passion fr;m the start. We built from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:09 PM
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Weight that affects a normal menstrual cycle is too skinny or too overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 08:07 PM
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There are levels to this. Assuming we're talking about the 10% man who excercises options, sleeping with him is the easiest. Getting into a relationship is harder. Getting him to stay monogamous is even harder. Getting him to commit himself to marriage is the hardest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:20 AM
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No, but I don't assume exclusivity until we've had a conversation. I've also ended relationships because I was not ready for exclusivity with them. Be ready for any outcome after that conversation!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:39 PM
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Men have two expressions of communication: how they talk to women they like versus how they talk to the world of other men. Women are surprised by the difference. Personally, I reserve the former for my mother and family only. There won't be a free trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 02:57 PM
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Op is talking about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:40 PM
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It's the author's hypothesis. Per his article: As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium. Very harsh. On the other hand, when it comes to actual messaging, women shift their expectations only just slightly ahead of the curve, which is a healthier pattern than guys’ pursuing the all-but-unattainable. But with the basic ratings so out-of-whack, the two curves together suggest some strange possibilities for the female thought process, the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:09 PM
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Physical attraction is necessary for passionate love. If you want love that is passionate, intimate, and committed, then physical attraction is necessary. The primary purpose of OLD is not to make friendships. If you read the article, the author who collected the data that the OP is citing measured general attractiveness. He took data from OLD online dating. It statistically significant because he captured data of 1000> okcupid users over a period of time. 1000 is certainly representative of our…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:58 PM
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The images and data you're citing literally come from this man's article. He's making a conclusion with the data he collected. You're terrible and disingenuous. I'll give it to you. He's saying that women use apps and respond to unattractive men because at best she thinks she's doing charity work or at worst she inflates her ego with free attention. Either way, she's not responding to unattractive men for romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 05:44 PM
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You're omitting the author's conclusion: But with the basic ratings so out-of-whack, the two curves together suggest some strange possibilities for the female thought process, the most salient of which is that the average-looking woman has convinced herself that the vast majority of males aren’t good enough for her, but she then goes right out and messages them anyway.” It goes with my experience as well. Women would happily take my time and attention if it's free. Cite the whole source.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 03:14 PM
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I'm gonna need a study chief because today's research indicates women are either rationalizing their sexuality or not being honest with their attraction and arousal..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:45 PM
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It's men's collective fault that marriage isn't an option? Women do not have an equal share of accountability? That's cool, I'd rather wait to get married to a woman who wants to be an adult. In the meantime, I'll play the field like most men since marriage really isn't a priority for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 06:07 AM
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If x then y. If you use a nice guy personality to attract women it's no surprise you attract AWALT women. Your premise is omitting the fact that men can not hold modern women accountable. Men should be self-interested first. This principle aligns better with being a jerk than being a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 03:09 PM
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Skincare is mandatory for both sexes. DEFACTO the easiest investment a man can make to set him apart from other men. All he needs is a day tinted moisturizer preferably with SPF and an evening/night moisturizer with retinol or Tretinoin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 12:52 PM
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Time is very unkind to women. Marriable men become less available to her as she ages because these men are more likely married and her income more likely outpaces the remaining men. If you plan on having children, do it before seriously investing in a career. I'll always be dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 03:15 PM
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As a guy, I'm against cold approaching. A woman should send some IOI signals first; otherwise, I keep the conversation strictly professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:16 PM
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Sex is important. If that's the only thing you have to leverage my interest, you will get ghosted. Until sex happens, there is no possibility for commitment from me. She can be a part of a long list of 'friends' that I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 12:45 PM
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I'm happily single, but I do casual dating on the side. Im not relationship material yet and I have other priorities that are more important than a relationship; therefore, I don't bother. I'll probably ready to settle down when I'm 40. That's probably the greatest perk of being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 07:46 PM
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Most guys need to get their life in order before women seriously consider you as relationship material. If men want flings, they need luck. Luck is equal parts preparation and opportunity. They need to do their part in looking good, and being at the right place and right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:55 PM
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You know what's more important than looks? Her attitude is more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:56 PM
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Envy will ruin you. Stop interacting with trifling women and focus on what you got or you building.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:09 PM
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He's an advocate for traditional gender roles and marriage. That's pretty BP. He's a very crimson shade of purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 03:59 AM
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Next time this happens, just leave her on read. Don't acknowledge ridiculous behavior.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 11:36 PM
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Good for them. I'm not going to begrudge women who can get free validation through attention or resources. The question is how long can the free ride last? C'est la vie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 10:51 PM
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f that's the kind of life she wants but you can't provide, let her go.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 09:13 PM
2

Kevin Samuels is charismatic enough to bring red pill awareness to the mainstream. He's not totally red pilled, but most of his advice is practical reality based.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:04 PM
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That's pretty depressing, but yes. Wanting your girlfriend to be slim is a high standard by virtue that it disqualifies a majority of women. That says more about the state of the dating market than your preferences.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:22 AM
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For the majority of human history, marriage was practical. It's purpose was to create families and consolidate wealth. Love as the primary reason for marriage is a recent phenomenon; consequently, we're also experiencing the highest incidence of divorce. Are relationships supposed to be devoid of transaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:06 AM
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If you don't want kids, then there's very little reason to get married. I'm fine with both.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 11:16 PM
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Women have clubs. Men have video games. Live and let live.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/21 04:01 PM
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If you honestly struck out 50 times, then your time would be better spent working on yourself or asking lower value women.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 03:47 AM
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Pookie and Ray Ray literally out there domming women just on masculine energy alone. Their finances be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:52 PM
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Bro, stop. If income and wealth are the only things you can provide, she will take advantage of you regardless of whether she's financially below or financially equal to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:06 PM
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She just tells on herself. 😩😩😩
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:16 PM
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You sound like an absolute pleasure to be married to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:34 AM
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Most modern men need to go passed the antiquated roles. They need to redefine masculinity according to what they want. Fuck the expectations ;f society and fuck the expectations of women. Put yourself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:32 AM
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Nah, 30 pt scale is pretty descriptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 05:40 PM
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No, but having resentment towards a product that you misused and abused and led to your dysfunctional relationship with said product isn't healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:13 PM
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All I hear are excuses and no accountability. That's not becoming of an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:05 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ. Please point to any point in any time and place where women in general have been more free, more power, more independent. We as a society are actually becoming more inclusive, expanding rights for LGBTQIA+ and movements that recognize minorities such as BLM and StopAAPIHate. Yes, there's more to be done, but here we are, women complaining that they are oppressed in one of the freest societies in history. What a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 04:03 PM
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There's excess, then there's moderation. Maybe you need therapy, but I'm no doc. If you're allergic to make up, talk to a dermatologist. They can match you with a product.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 03:18 PM
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Literally don't understand the vitriol against make up. I wear Laura Mercier Tinted Moisturizer. That's it for an easy even complexion. Do as you please. Just honor the consequences of your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 02:58 PM
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You can disagree with her choices, but appreciate and even celebrate her accomplishments and as a person. These are not exclusive.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:04 PM
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No, the article and radio segment says women are having a more dysfunctional drinking relationship with alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:16 AM
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What? This has very little to do with gender dynamics and everything to do with a personal dysfunctional relationship with alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 01:05 AM
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Any argument that calls masturbation as unnatural or deviant needs to explain why animals ubiquitously engage in the behavior. Masturbation is natural. Porn is not, but are we actually going to argue about stripping everything unnatural in our lives such as conveniences like microwaves, phones, etc. It can be said all in moderation can be a part of a healthy habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:53 PM
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Ah, women do say things like this to placate men. You might be coming off desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 09:44 PM
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Why are we normalizing adults misbehaving worse than children? I rebutted that if adults want to act as children in the past then I suggested that they may be disciplined as children in the past in order to point how ridiculous of a statement she made. Good bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:32 PM
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Compliance compliance compliance. Make sure you initiate and take ownership of the breakup. Give her the "it's not you, it's me" talk and dangle the possibility of staying friends after demoting her. Watch the hamsters spin.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 06:49 PM
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Grandma was also half the average FDSers size and tolerated Grandpa's infidelity as long as he kept his side of responsibilities. Nagging and being bitchy IS feminine. Not the kind of feminine men here like but it is. Men slapped their women for acting infantile. You're not seriously suggesting we do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:35 PM
1

Bro, honestly lay off the sauce. You can take too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 04:08 PM
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No. You can provide your sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 05:50 AM
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You can't be responding seriously. Shame on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 03:52 AM
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This doesn't happen often. I'm personally not impressed by most women because they're doing the exact same things as most women. I fuck men I’m attracted to, but I’m attracted to men I LIKE as people. Men I enjoy spending time with. Men I like talking to. Men and women are not equivalent. Men can absolutely fuck women they don't respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 12:29 AM
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Thank you. I suppose here's another reason to not be obese then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:07 PM
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I'm good with body positivity, but I can't support Health at every Size (HAES) because it is disingenuous and dangerous. Science has routinely proven that obesity worsens most health outcomes. Obesity is a leading factor in comorbidities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 03:04 PM
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Much like men, women in general have a set of requirements AND preferences. I agree that you don't have to be Chad, but Chad's Chang's Mohammad's Tyrone's appeal is ubiquitous amongst most women. As long as you're congruent in your masculinity, you'll attractive femininity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 01:56 PM
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Lol. This society can function despite men's individual dissatisfaction and disenfranchisement. It doesn't matter what we do unless there's a movement where a majority of men opt out of society. Men simply stop working jobs required for infrastructure and processes to function, but that's a pipe dream because we live in a capitalist society where there are bills to be paid. Are you really MGTOW if you're still plugged into the system? I personally like society despite making the early part of my…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:07 PM
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Yes, but the average per capita income of WV is 27.5k, which is well below 50k. The point is that it is feasible to own a home as a single person, but most won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 06:15 PM
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Like where? Where can you have a 50k income and find 180k homes in the same proximity? Maybe if you lived in West Virginia and commuted to DC, but that's a 3+ total hour commute daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:59 PM
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He could probably own a 300k home with a 30 year mortgage on his solo income. That's around 1.8-2.1k a month which is a little steep, but ramen noodles for life I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:44 PM
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We blaming anime too? That's deflection and projection. Men are taught by their mothers first, society and culture second. They change when they see reality does not align with the nice guy narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:09 PM
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A woman complements your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 01:35 PM
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Nah. BP is trophy wife, kids, house, esc aka the Dream. RP is purpose, the Bieber movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 12:59 PM
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Both. The women are unreasonable. The men are middling. Most women might have to reconcile with the idea that is Kyle who makes 50k, is 5'8", is 185lbs, and is gonna need a roommate or a second income to afford a home; otherwise, she's gonna live alone with cats, dogs, kids, and besties. Should men be angry? Maybe. People in general are not true rational actors, and there's a better ROI when men focus on themselves rather than on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 03:11 AM
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That man is a simp and a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:54 AM
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Good for you. Get your bag girl because you don't need mine 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 02:51 AM
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You're not dismissing nor adding anything. What's your broadly acceptable alternative that can create an actual relationship which is not based on an equal value exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 10:53 PM
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How come I never see the same energy when it's men doing this though? We have almost all of male Reddit pushing for soft, feminine, very attractive women to ask them out, pay for their own dates, and not ask for men to be providers You're talking about 50/50 modern men because modern men must also be attractive first, masculine second, pay for their 50 of the dates, and provide for themselves. No scrubs. What you're asking for is an assertive man who has maintains his confidence and composure de…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 04:19 PM
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Why is this popular? If you want an assertive man who assumes traditional roles, then are you a submissive woman who assumes traditional roles? You can't have it both ways. If you want the privileges of modernity, then expect a modern man, faults and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:10 PM
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He could have chose to wear a condom, but she could have said no to unprotected sex. No child is not born unwanted when there's multiple layers of birth control that exists. That said If he forcefully penetrated, then that's rape and a different discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:47 AM
2

You're f****** clown dude. 👎
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:29 PM
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I'm in the business and making them better so I give advice. If self development is not the answer then what the fuck is the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 08:11 PM
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Nah bro. As long as you're the top 20% of men, you'll get a pass to do as you want because 80% of women want you. Lucky for men, they have till around 35 to experience their peak SMV. Look at Brad Pitt in Fight Club, Troy. He was 35, 41. How about stars such as Robert Downey Jr, Chris Hemsworth, Ibis Eldra. Men take time to build and have the pick at the end. There are things that can be changed such as fitness, career, and social circles. Focus on maximizing that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 04:29 PM
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First off, it requires the woman to be hot. It's not possible for all women. Nice and kind works if you're feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:17 PM
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Men in general pump and dump/ghost because the woman doesn't offer anything redeeming beyond casual. The action itself is not manipulative, but the behaviors and words that led up to it may be manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:16 PM
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How about this? I personally see myself ready for marriage after 35+. By then I'll have a car, house, insurance to provide for a family. A woman my age is more likely to have fertility complications versus a woman ten to twelve years my junior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:07 PM
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It's not. These men have no desire nor appetite to date/court their age. That's fine as long as it's between consenting adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 01:59 PM
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It's 2021 post #metoo. If a girl can't ask me out, I'm not giving to give enthusiastic consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 06:33 AM
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Assuming that’s sarcasm, that only proves my earlier point that you think women should sacrifice one or the other but men shouldn’t have to, regardless of provider status. I'm not being facetious when I meant mcbangbutler. What exactly do you want then? If you want 50/50, then you're going to need to work more to have a more equal, equitable, and just relationship. The guy will spend more time doing domestic responsibilities, then the woman is expected to pick up the financial slack.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:24 PM
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Not saying you have to use those words, but you should still come to some sort of understanding within a few dates that you want to keep it casual. Yeah baby, I don't know what we are, but you're special This shit works. And I agree. But your premise is that one parent has to stay at home if they want children. So if the woman is the primary breadwinner and the couple has children, the man should become a SAHD, correct? Yeah, SAHD. A lot of dudes are willing to become McBangDaddy. Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:11 PM
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That’s fine, but it should be discussed upfront instead of leading the other person on with false hope. It’s precisely why some women choose to wait a few dates before having sex, to make sure the guy is in it for more than just the sex. I'm looking for the right person. Lol ok. I think there’s a difference between a “career woman” and a “woman with a career.” A woman with a career may enjoy her job but is still willing to make sacrifices for her family if need be. These days, most families need…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:00 PM
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End the thread here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:34 PM
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don’t think it’s necessarily toxic to put yourself first over anyone else, until that leads to hurting people. Women paint modern man as villains because they are apt to ghost/ exercise options. The truth is men ghost/options women because they aren't up to their standard for anything more than casual. It's easier to say nothing than offer criticism and create a plan for the woman to become LTR material. But if by “wanting to have it all” you mean a career, marriage and children then I don’t thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 02:14 PM
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I need a woman because I want a family, but I'm not going to let this want be my purpose. My purpose is my primary priority because the return on investment for looks, money, status are infinitely higher than the ROI on casual dating. Until I develop the resources that I can command dating on my terms; the wife, kids, family is as the bottom of my list of priorities/plates.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 02:05 PM
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Go ahead and date, but don't make any significant decision such as marriage until you are 40. Your cognitive functioning isn't fully developed until then. /S Edit: I agree with OP. What a shit take.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:25 PM
1

Not all of them can or would. Stats show around 8% of relationships are older man younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:40 PM
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The modern mentality goes beyond gender roles and identities. Like the modern woman can have it all, so can the modern man. That man is really out there for himself, and that's apparently 'toxic'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 12:37 PM
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Women are not chastising older men for their experience. Maturity is acting appropriately in any given situation, and that comes with experience. Maturity is the virtue, experience is the prerequisite. Maturity is an incredibly attractive trait. Older women (30+) shame men because they as a whole can not date down. With age and maturity comes many desirable traits such as income, wealth, status. It's in older women's perogative to maintain that older men should date their age. FUCK THEM. No one …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 03:31 AM
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A traditional and feminine woman can expect me to be a masculine and traditional man. Modern woman gets the modern man, toxicity and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:44 AM
4

Show your work. Stop telling your friends what it can be, and start showing them what it is now.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 09:48 PM
1

You start with the attention that you can get, and you build from there, but if you can't get the attention of at least 5s, then you need to work on yourself until you do.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 09:45 PM
3

But the argument that the other side is making is basically that 21-year olds are not really fully developed adults, as their brain isn’t fully developed Then take it to it's logical end. Every relationship before 25-26, before full cognitive maturity then is illicit. What are the implications? Who's going to enforce it? What happens if relationships start at such a late age in life where women's fertility starts to decline? What about benefits of an age gap relationships that exceed the cons of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 06:31 PM
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We already have a precedent of (most of the time) not treating younger people by the same standards. Ok, standards of treatment is different from the ghosting behavior mentioned because the ghosting behavior is ubiquitous amongst all men. But if a 21 year old has sex with that 15 year old, then it is considered a crime. All this new argument does is extend the “age of responsibility” out farther than it already is. No one is arguing for a relationship with underaged people. The OP mentions a 21 …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:59 PM
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Again. If a younger, same age, or older man performed this behavior, it is still the same behavior. Their age has no relevance in whether or not a young woman or older woman recognizes the behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:15 PM
12

How is this any different from a man her age or younger? It's not a behavior exclusive to age gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 04:27 PM
1

I like their feminity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 02:21 PM
1

It's about manifesting the man you want to be. The foundation of all TRP is self improvement for the sake of growth and development. You need real change to actuate any of the social and sexual dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 01:32 PM
2

Sure, don't marry those women because they disqualify themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 05:55 AM
1

It's disrespectful enough to be considered a shit test. Confront her.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 08:09 PM
11

Women won't do anything, and we/men/society can't force them. Call them on their bluff. In the meantime do productive things in your life, and a woman will your program. You'll find these women are not the same as above.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 01:36 PM
2

Move to a different city/coast.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 01:27 PM
1

Just say your a hazmat engineer. Leave it at that.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 01:25 PM
14

Because nickel taste good.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 01:16 PM
3

Pull your dick out. That's vegan.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:18 AM
1

Treat her like a star and she'll treat you like a fan. Say no to simping Kings. 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:24 PM
1

Women can make mistakes, especially when they're young. They often choose for markers of sexuality rather than practicality like he's hot, sexy, and confident rather than kind, empathetic, and secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:22 PM
2

How dare you have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 09:20 PM
4

A woman who does/did OF can be my business partner, but she can't be my wife.
/r/askTRP01/06/21 02:52 PM
2

Pretty much. Religion isn't Red Pill because it's philosophical suicide. Your point of origin should be yourself, not some constructed narrative.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/21 02:33 PM
-1

I enjoyed every part of the read. The advice is gold. Thanks, but the sky father can suck it.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/21 04:01 AM
7

If I'm kinda interested in the girl, she's acting weird. If I don't like her, she's stalking me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 03:05 AM
1

Men date down. Money typically doesn’t matter, guys will probably date a chick uglier or fatter then them. No. Men date the hottest women afforded to them. A woman's career does not matter to him because a woman is not expected to contribute/provide for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:11 PM
2

She's for the streets.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 09:17 PM
1

How would you go about a balance of power and understanding if both financial and domestic roles are unequal but mutually agreed upon? What about relationships where a partner can provide in a excess? How do you suggest the other close that gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 06:30 PM
1

You could do what FDSers do. Get an engagement ring for yourself. Make sure you save 4 months of income.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:18 PM
1

I've had a relationship with women below my league. I'm a pretty shit person, but she was in therapy for mental issues and depression. Her mental state affected mine, and that's when I decided enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 04:16 PM
-2

For women, 33%+ is obese. No one woman carries obesity well. It's just Photoshop.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:28 PM
1

That's part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:08 PM
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Lol. Laugh at her and move on. You can't woo every woman.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 05:35 AM
2

You go to Church? It's pretty big in the Korean community.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 05:30 AM
-2

Bye Felicia!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:48 AM
2

Powerlifting has a high incidence of injury. I'm partial to natural bodybuilding, but MMA is plenty good if you don't plan on going competitive. Fighting is a young man's sport, but don't let me stop you.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:36 AM
2

Take your time. it takes serious years to reach advanced level lifts. If you're like me and lift more for health, it could take a decade and then some to reach the advanced levels.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:34 AM
1

You need to act like nothing impresses you, but she might be different because you think she's 'special.' Sell her the hopium.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:20 AM
1

Whatever you say babe. Let's agree to grow older and see how our options devilop for the both of us 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 01:06 AM
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Late 20s. NGL, most 18-21 year olds are not worth. Many have the HS bullshit and drama. Tease them for being inexperienced. Show em a good time. Seem like they could teach you a new trick. Play to your strengths.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 01:05 AM
1

If she's asking for permission, tell her no. She wants you to do the right thing.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 12:48 AM
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Men and women are not equal. It's disingenuous to ignore the fact that men can happily enjoy the company of younger women and 'stay single' as long as they're allowed. The same can not be said for women in general. Older women are literally invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 12:47 AM
1

Should a relationship be equal, equitable, and just? If yes, how would you go about that without being exacting?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:55 PM
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Women took the initiative. However, I don’t see very many men clamoring to do housework. Can you provide and cite your sources? Should a relationship be equal, equitable, and just? If yes, how would you go about that without being exacting?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:54 PM
1

Should a relationship be equal, equitable, and just? If yes, how would you go about that without being exacting?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:54 PM
1

Should a relationship be equal, equitable, and just? If yes, how would you go about that without being exacting?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:52 PM
1

Should a relationship be equal, equitable, and just? If yes, how would you go about that without being exacting?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:52 PM
5

I believe marriage is worth the risk because I want kids. Research shows that a family unit is the best environment for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:49 PM
16

Yes, men are opting out, MGTOW. I'm too ambitious for it, but I sympathize.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:22 PM
5

A lot of women can flex that they've dated powerful high status men, but only few can say they've married them. Talk is cheap. Show us the ring. 💍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:20 PM
1

Can you cite and provide your sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 09:01 PM
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Since fitness and especially musclebuilding is predominantly male activity, men can empathize with the effort. This has been urbanized to mirin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:28 PM
2

Hey, you're a good dude. Don't let a salty fuck like me stop you. I hope it works out like you imagine 👍 Gl bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:17 PM
1

I figured. I'm here to see hamsters spin in an attempt to deconstruct my argument. You're free to watch with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:12 PM
2

Bruh. I'm sorry but with the info you've given me, you simping. Stop it. Get some help. 🆘
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:55 PM
1

Get out there and date with a purpose and mindset. You got it if you want it. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:54 PM
0

u/Danielcraigboston1 James Bond why you got to bring the Pepe Soup? 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:53 PM
1

No I'm not. If both parties are obviously so embroiled in their careers, then it's better to hire a nanny and maid to fulfill the domestic responsibilities. They are working with two incomes. I suppose nursing as a profession are not suited for a traditional relationship such as marriage. It's best to stay with something with less responsibility like a casual boyfriend girlfriend. The job is obviously more important than the relationship. /S
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:44 PM
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Hey bro, I'm just trying to see the hamster spin or have my argument deconstructed. Feel free to watch with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:23 PM
1

Hey this is reasonable and balanced. You both seem to have a 50/50 arrangement that works for you. Good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:59 PM
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Can't even be honest with reality? How can anyone build a substantial relationship with you if you're arguing from bad faith? Bye Felicia!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:57 PM
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You need to choose your words carefully or your being disingenuous. I'm looking at the sources provided, and the first one says the income disparity is due to non or low participation, loss of opportunity. ​ “In families in which there was an employed woman in the core-working ages of 25 to 54, women's earnings accounted for 46.7% of their family's income from employment. Not only has the proportion of women with earnings grown, so has the proportion of women who earned more than half of their f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:48 PM
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Your SMV is given to you by the marketplace of dating. If you take a representative sample of your dating demographic, they can tell you if your are relatively attractive or not. In statistics, the bare minimum for a significant sample size is 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:32 PM
0

Can you substantiate the claim with sources that women do contribute at least 50% or more 'of the income, and that in THOSE relationships are expected if not performing traditional roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 05:29 PM
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I want to believe, but I am genetically more blessed. I really can't have taue understanding. Jesus. I just want to lift men up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:47 PM
1

Your argument is essentially partners should perform based on their staengths which is fundamental to a traditional relationship. Are you suggesting traditional relationships are inherently an equal exchange between consenting adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:44 PM
1

Hell fkin yeah. I'd make a great house husband. 😤 I'd make sure she get a 5 course dinner and say no to sex if I'm not in the mood. 🥵
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:39 PM
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That's cool and all, but these men don't sound like you'd consider them for a serious relationship aka partnership or marriage. They're earning around 24-36k a year. Would you hold these same beliefs if they earned the average 50k? How about 100k, 250k, 1m, 10m+?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:06 PM
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Hey that seems reasonable. I'd like to get to the point where I can support a family of three on my own, but my partner needs to make a definitive choice if she's going to be trad or modern. If she wants a career and modern expectations, then yes, I want her working full time, and we'll hire a nanny and maid to do the domestic chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:37 PM
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God is dead, and they killed the trad roles where the genders complimented the other by providing different but equal strengths
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:27 PM
0

You're right, but I'm tired of listening to this black pilled doomer shit that shouldn't stop you from putting the work in to affect what can be changed and optimized. Look at bald Jason Statham. Look at short Kevin Hart. You can still win if you put the work in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:45 PM
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C'mon man. Brad's body is achievable with only 2-3 hours of working out 6 days a week and daily clean eating. The dude was his heaviest at Mr and Mrs Smith, 5'11" 180lbs. That's just being lean. Kim Jong Book is a Korean who is 5'10" and 172. Dude has a similar physique at 45. You just need to put the work in over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 12:26 PM
1

We victim shaming Karen?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:00 AM
1

Yeah sure. Get your bread bag. I'll stay at home and take care of the kids. You got it sweety.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:56 AM
4

Oh yeah? Please tell me how lazy min get a good deal in a more equal equitable just relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:52 AM
1

For men, attraction is pretty binary. Either he's aroused or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:42 AM
0

Look at Brad. Dude hit peak fitness during Fight Club and Troy at 35 and 41 respectively. Another example is Kim Jung Kook. Focus and work on on what you can improve, and you'll always age gracefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:41 AM
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I would have said no a year ago, but today I'd have peace of mind over drama anyway even if it meant a more average looking woman. That won't stop me from trying to find both looks and femininity in one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:38 AM
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Either him to do more or downsize the cost of living and square footage of the house to clean less.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:32 AM
1

That sounds traditional. Would you want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:30 AM
1

That sounds traditional. Do you want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:29 AM
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So what does that mean for gender roles or lack of at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:46 AM
3

Shhhh, let them talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:39 AM
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At long as they are a consenting adults, you date people who are interested in you the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:22 AM
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Ain't that the truth. If women want the privilege of men, then they must have the responsibilities and burden of performance like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 04:06 AM
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When people say they want equality in their relationship, what they mean is that they want to feel like their partner is contributing enough that their burdens don't feel like burdens. What you're saying is playing to your strengths, and I personally agree with that more than being in an equal 50/50 relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:47 AM
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Lmao. They're in it out of dysfunctional necessity, and this is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:41 AM
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Hey, men look at the facts and the fact is you're doing it. It's something a laud you for. Good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:08 AM
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Also the average family/couple can't afford for one person to pay 80% of the bills while the other uses their wages for fun. The days of being able to get by with one income are over. Financially most relationship are within 50/50 out of necessity alone. When a mortgage payment is $3K+ a month, you really have to have an equal ish financial arrangement to even be able to survive. Most Men don't make enough to carry the household. A 3k monthly mortgage would require a household annual income of 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 03:05 AM
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Now, I’m the one who makes more. Still work slightly more hours than he does but definitely not working 70, 80 hour work weeks anymore. And we pay someone to do the weekly housecleaning and split the daily stuff pretty 50/50. Even if (as I am hoping will happen) I become the breadwinner by a large margin I will never expect him to suddenly act as the primary domestic caretaker simply for that fact alone when he works as hard as he does. I don’t think what is “just” or “equitable” is determined b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:56 AM
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Damn straight. 6 weeks of maternity and paternity leave for the both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:29 AM
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Accountability or a lack of here
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:57 PM
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Women become what? The concept is most women are at their most beautiful at 18-24. It's their responsiblity to slow their physical decline through lifestyle and choices. Women are given every tool they need to succeed at 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:25 PM
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I’m assuming you’ve dated a woman before so I’m sure you’ve noticed they spend so much in hair/ skin products, clothes, ect. Women in general put a lot of effort into looking good. A lot of them also have to watch that they eat and work out to maintain good bodies. What's your point? Women put effort into looking good for whom? Sometimes I frequent womenover30, and they talk about how empowering it is to stop caring for their appearance. Then another thread talks about how disenfranchising it is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:22 PM
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Ok The makeup isn't for men. It's for themselves first and then for other women. Women are intensely competitive amongst themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 05:33 AM
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If the dudes fat overweight, then its a looks match. If he's fit, I tell him he can do better and most of the mates agree. Most men aren't disrespectful about it. They talk about this in a matter of fact way. Guys: Dude, she's fat. Your lives are incompatible. We can't bring her on a couples hike through the Shenandoah or [insert fun physical activity].
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:29 AM
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No, these women are a non factor. We (HVM) don't date them, and if we do happen to date, we certainly don't marry them. Healthy people belong to healthy people, mind and body included.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 04:08 AM
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Ain't that the truth. Guys assume she aight, and say something nice if she surprisingly bad. We don't really talk about looks at all. We talk about how she acts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 03:09 AM
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Brad, Chad, Rad: she let you hit? Lad: no, it's only been the third date, but the talking is good. We got a fourth date lined up at Pappadeaux where I'll pay again. Rad the RPd: Drop her dude. If she really liked you, she woulda fked you by now. Attraction would have been instantaneous, easy, natural. Chad and Brad the Purple Pilld: Yeh, let's drink. Cheers to dropping this bitch!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:24 AM
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Aka Michael Phelps or Brad Pitt from Fight Club. You could even add 15 lbs and do Brad from Troy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:14 AM
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This is really RP. It has concepts like SMV, womanese, the woman's network.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:12 AM
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Men huddle around. Rad: Yo my gurl has been a bitch, but she didn't stop me from drinking with y'all. Brad, Chad, and Lad: Hey, maybe she's alright. We drink to her! Huzzah.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:10 AM
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All I hear is excuses with no accountability. Men do no not actively insult women unless you are absolutely insufferable. Take it as more of a critique of you as a person rather than as a critique of your appearance. Men can appreciate short hair such as Lupita Nyong'o. Good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 09:27 PM
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Sure, women can opt out. But they are told time and time again this makes them less valuable Explicitly told they are less valuable by whom? Are you talking about the beauty industry which is supported and propogated by women? men treat them like they are less valuable. Why does a man's treatment matter in 2021? Are women men's equals? Men are not getting validated, but we don't complain. If you decide not to wear make up, then you don't get attention. Are you entitled to validation, Karen?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:21 PM
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Lol sure, I'll do 100% chores actually. If she's 100% gonna go out there earn the bread and pay all the bills, I would stay home, clean the house, and not fk random storage girls on the side. I'd be the best domesticated househusband ever. She best be prepared to put me on the mood though. Because after I do all that cleaning and slaving to make dinner, maybe I'm not feeling sex with my alpha wife. 😤 At least I made dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:49 PM
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Your premise is correct. A lot of dudes are dusty. If the average man put more thought and care into their appearance, the average woman would respect men as a whole more. I'm still shocked how much ROI that I get for investing a quarter of what women spend on appearance. That said, I don't sympathize on their spending. The women's beauty standard is their own doing. It's not something men applied to them as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 05:25 PM
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If you ask for the first date, you must pay so take her somewhere affordable. Ask to go dutch after paying the first bill. If she's high interest, she'll agree. Stop taking women to nice dinners when they haven't earned it. The dinner date was used to reward your wife. She didn't need to stress over making a meal and cleaning afterwards. Treat it as such.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:33 PM
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How many different facial products do you currently use on a weekly basis. I use three pm facial products: Cocoa butter, Vaseline, and Tretinoin. I use Glam Glow or Laura Mercier Tinted Moisturizer during the day. What cut of jeans is more flattering on a heavy midsection but skinny legs High waisted straight or tapered pants. what about if you’re short what shirts should you wear. Button down with vertical stripes? Black shirts? When you’re taking a picture where should the light source be, can…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:30 PM
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I can do 50/50, but it's going to be exacting. My partner is literally going to pay half on everything, and perform half of the duties expected of me. There will be no gender norms. She can shovel the snow and mow the lawn while I do dishes and laundry type shit. No, I don't see myself as more valuable. My career is a tool for my role as a provider. My partner is a compliment to me, and if her career is getting in the way of either ;f our roles, then she's not doing her duty correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 04:17 PM
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For a romantic relationship, I can appreciate a woman's personality, hobbies, and achievements as second to her beauty, youth, and femininity. In a relationship, I can not support my woman's choices if it is a detriment to my own. This is an absolute breaking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 01:36 AM
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Because some of these preferences are not necessary nor conducive to a long lasting relationship. Women have conflated their requirements and preferences to their detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 04:43 PM
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No. Do you wake up everyday and refuse to go to work because you're uncomfortable? How about the man in a relationship? What if he experiences discomfort in the relationship. Can he put the relationship in pause because he is uncomfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:08 PM
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Yessir. Condoms, lube, and Plan B, add a disclaimer to the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:03 PM
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India? How is the dating market there? Are they receptive to foreigners?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 04:31 PM
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Pretty much. 70% of US adults or overweight or obese. As people age, most do not prioritize activities necessary for attraction such as exercise, hygiene, grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 03:57 PM
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Because excess weight and obesity are not markers of health, Janice. That said, Jim needs to lose weight himself when 70% of all adults are overweight or obese 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 10:44 PM
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It is fookin relevant. You're being ignorant or disingenuous. There's one Lil Wayne, but 67% of US adult women are overweight and obese. They can't all have a chubbychaser. It's delusional thinking and fated for a miserable life and end.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:30 PM
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Chubbychasers are a small minority, and amongst them, the majority are undesirable. Those men like Lil Wayne who are desirable and like overweight or obese women are exceptions, not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 06:22 PM
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I don't give significant time, but I do make myself available to my close friends when I can. I've booked up with a friend. In my experience, it often leads to falling out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:14 PM
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Lol. Is roids really the answer? I got the Fight Club body, and I get attention and dates during day game. I wonder if I add another 15 lbs. would my OLD be better?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 03:00 PM
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Yes, an incel is a slave to his desire, but while a man overcomes his urges to improve his lot, earning his privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 02:56 PM
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The RP masculine answer is to become so meaningful that one earns the privilege to partake in something so meaningless. A man either submits or embraces the absurdity of his existence to become a slave or challenger. Keep challenging, Kings 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 02:31 AM
2

Wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 10:46 PM
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As a man, I'll endorse this as the definitive answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:32 PM
1

It's probably less due to average Joe's looks and more with his lack of dating and esp. relationship experience. At the start of a relationship, men need to establish boundaries. Where you and Joe differ, is that you don't accommodate to her to your detriment. You choose who, how, when, where, and why. Joe is a nice guy and just does it. Don't be a nice guy. Be a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:22 PM
1

No one cares about subjective beauty. Everyone is a hot lifestyle match to someone. I'm sure you're aware of the contradiction in this statement. If you're fated/destined to be with someone because you're objectively not to the standard of all men, then that implies you're subjectively pretty to at least one "hot lifestyle match" This does not make the skinny fit butterface 4 a Johansson I'm not talking about the butterface. I'm talking about if we put Lima vs Sofia Vergara. Most men would choos…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:09 PM
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No, I think men considering fitness as a factor in beauty is a very realistic and pragmatic preference. I'm not talking about the extremes such as underweight women. I'm talking about a healthy BMI. Women who are fit not just skinny deserve the attention they get when 70% of all adults are overweight and obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:51 PM
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only focus on facial attractiveness for people. Body, vagina, sex appeal, personality, "not being fat" etc.. other hacks all distort attractiveness. I understand how these all factor into objective attractiveness, but I am looking at bone structure. Subjectively everyone is an 8 to someone. But fatness does not change bone structure. Being fat is unfortunate, but there attractive people under the layers that can mog a 5 in the face skinny by just losing weight. Men recognize the importance of bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:16 PM
1

Dating is simple when you play by your own rules. Set boundaries at the start so it never devolves into a game. That said, men can keep dating and accruing value much longer than women, while women start with all their depreciating advantages at 18. Date to your strengths.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 04:53 PM
1

A matchmaker. These are professionals who you pay to get matched based on a criteria you provide, and the same can be said for your prospective partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:27 AM
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Nah Beyonce is a fit woman. That in itself puts her head and shoulders above the majority overweight and obese population of adult women. If Bey, ain't an 8, then who's your 8?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:16 AM
1

They can be empowering. Miss Universe often becomes a spokesperson for charity. There's also drag competitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:14 AM
1

You'll see a lot of women dressing down intentionally because it's very easy to hack yourself up into attractive category unless you are completely hideous Women think this, but men intuitively know where a woman ranks. We call this an adjustable 6. She pretty but she's not Beyonce pretty, and Beyonce is an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 06:00 AM
1

Civilization have fallen because of a woman's beauty. History is filled with simps. Focus on your mission Kings 👑 it's Hot Boy Summer 2021
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 05:58 AM
7

I record every single progress I make towards my purpose, no matter how small. It makes the progression more meaningful and tangible to my perception. I take breaks periodically. The fast food poonani as well as monk mode won't kill you when both are done in moderation. My most practical advice is to stop letting your friends make plans for your night during the day of. I workout at 10pm. My friends know that I'd choose my gym purpose over some sporadic lame ass night at a bar. If they want to s…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:22 PM
1

None. Everything 50/50, and we'll talk about our feelings before any decision is made.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:47 PM
3

how a woman relates to this particular cultural narrative, and how susceptible she might be to it. In other words, it's part of the path to the RP unicorn, the NAWALT-woman. Well reality isn't sexy, and sex sells. They have sex education in schools. They really should implement relationship education.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 03:51 PM
15

Alimony sounds good to me. Edit: You know the only part of my comment that should be taken seriously was considering marriage for the for the kids. The rest is tongue in cheek. I'm very much aware if the woman became the provider while the husband became the supporter, the woman would come to resent her husband. Today's women are so masculine so independent because they've been given the privilege of men but not the accountability. Just saying, let em know how manimony feels.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 11:37 AM
1

You are your own point of origin.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 06:04 AM
3

I wish Twilight was just a teen novel. It's as much as a teen novel as My Little Pony is a kids show aka Bronies. Edited
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:57 AM
9

50 Shades, Twilight, Sex and the City, Gossip Girl, Ugly Betty, Mindy Project Tropes: Generic Average Woman gets Young Attractive Wealthy Status Man, Girl fixes Broken Man, Empowered Woman equal to Man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:51 AM
1

I'm 24.9 BMI with 13% BF at late 20s. I'm pretty lean and muscular now, and if I maintain my daily 3hr fitness routine through my 30s and 40s, I'm 99% positive I'll be virile. That said damn what a shame, not having kids. As long as my dick works, it's not a problem to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:23 AM
39

Marriage is a good idea if you want child(ren) or she's wealthier than you.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 05:15 AM
1

Where is this going? Its socially acceptable if it's between two adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 05:11 AM
1

Melinda probably knew and consequently tolerated the cheating until the other woman accused Bill. Bill was sloppy, and her name can't get dragged by his name going public. I'm sure if his infidelity stayed private, they'd still be Bill & Melinda Gates today. This shitshow reminds me of a different celebrity power couple, the Smiths.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 04:52 AM
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This is true if the man and woman are of the same age and same career development at the time. This can be absolved through age gap relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 11:47 PM
3

No I'm saying he used black pill to justify his reasoning. This is not a criticism of the black pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 01:39 PM
1

After 35 preferably early 40s. My partner will have to be mid or late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 03:27 AM
1

Single yes. Married with a child eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 02:58 AM
0

She's not approaching men with good faith. Just bid them farewell and good luck because she'll need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:08 AM
6

Today's high incidences of bachelorhood and divorce rates indicate otherwise. I know you mention divorce rates have gone down, but that's more indicative of necessity due to the pandemic and both men and women opting out of marriages. Marriage is a traditional structure that did not age well into today's modern dating and relationship environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:44 PM
1

500 Days of Summer - The little sister was RP af. Don Jon - Obsession of a feminine ideal represented through porn
/r/askTRP21/05/21 07:59 PM
2

Sure dude. Chasing women and sex rather than personal achievement and development is a recipe for disappointment and failure. I'll concede that sex drive may have unconsciously affected my decisions, but I don't wake up and consciously make decisions to maximize my probabilities of getting fxcked. There are better things to do in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 07:49 PM
0

You're just moving the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:23 PM
6

If she's not interested or low interest, you're aggressive. If she's highly interested and you're complacent, you're not aggressive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:00 PM
1

Getting and maintaining a big physique puts a strain on your other priorities in life. Especially if you're natty. Fight Club Physique is the best I can do while maintaining my other responsibilities, and I'm okay with that.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 01:40 PM
7

Damn, never knew I studied engineering to fxck women. This is a bad take.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:26 PM
7

Maybe it's overrated. Bill Gates has a lot of status and wealth, but it seems that was all he had. It was not enough for Melinda Gates to be attracted to him, and he got so frustrated that he sought comfort elsewhere. Yo Bill, it's #CityBoySummer, and you're invited.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 06:12 AM
5

Every man has a responsiblity to define their own. Some men choose god, family, career, women. I choose to live my best life. Have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:40 AM
4

Loneliness and isolation are symptoms of men not being congruent with their nature. According to RP, if men were more obsessed with their purpose in life, they would be much happier. Women don't run the race with you because they wait and pick for winners at the end of the finish line.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:06 AM
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No idea. Im not a researcher nor a policy maker. I just read and inform myself with what's available to me. There is a lack accessibility and development of systems for creating men with ambition and purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 04:44 AM
1

Be available on your terms aka your frame.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:32 AM
10

Lol. Womansplaining is actually needed here. While men may not experience women's problems, they do exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 12:00 AM
1

Hell yeah. I'm down af.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:32 PM
1

If you could afford it in prohibitively expensive modern society, I don't see why not. I know I won't make that kind of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:30 PM
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If we look at recent mass shootings, they are perpetrated by young disgruntled and disillusioned men. Of note for the subreddit here, the Isla Vista killer paraphrased black pill. It's symptomatic of a larger failings with society. I don't think there's enough resources for young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:28 PM
3

You leave them on read enough times and it just becomes a habit. This is what sets alphas apart from betas. Alphas simply do something while betas are stuck contemplating.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 09:38 PM
11

We live in a feminine imperative society. Enjoy the decline.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 04:23 PM
7

Maybe. When I was a teenager, I could wait indefinitely. the more options I've experienced, the more I realized that if she doesn't want to have sex, there are other women who will. I'm just trying to clear sex off the list to see if that's the only thing she has to offer. Edit: Dunno who's responding to me, but I block people for being toxic. Men commit to women who are beautiful inside and outside, cooperative, and feminine. If leveraging sex is the only strategy you have to keep a man interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:23 PM
6

I think that most men want a LTR with any woman, but after they get to know some women, they decide that said woman isn’t good enough for a relationship. True, but you're a dude answering a Q4W. 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:20 PM
2

Sure, but the sort of man that would subject himself to this would be a man with no other options. He's not desirable to other women. Does FDS want a non desirable man?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:19 PM
8

I personally don't like to have sex with virgins, but I've never said no to enthusiastic consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:13 PM
2

My girlfriends kept my sweaters after we started seriously dating. They never made it a point to tell me they liked my natural odor when I was courting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:11 PM
1

Both. There are aspects that are objectively beautiful like symmetry, youthfulness, leanness, etc. There are aspects that are subjective like big things such as culture or small thing like preferences for blondes vs brunettes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 03:08 AM
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Genuine desire is effortless easily. Sure, a relationship can require work, but let's not conflate genuine desire and relationships. If they're playing hard to get, then they're not into you in that genuine authentic way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:56 PM
3

We shaming men for their masculinity and sexuality? Womansplaining is not a joke, Karen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:51 PM
1

Women SAY they want their men to be able to cry. But if he did that as often and openly as a woman, she would feel less attracted to him. It is what it is. Women should stop fixating on men crying. Men can express their range of emotions in different ways like retreating do a man cave or preoccupying themselves with activities. Men and women have different expressions that must be respected. u/thecuriousarthropod
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 02:26 PM
2

According to RP, it depends. A younger woman values a man's looks highly. An older women will consider a man if he brings tangible benefits besides looks. Im young, so my own anecdotal experience is that I'm lucky to have some pretty privilege as a man. Women want to talk to me when I approach. C'est la vie.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:42 AM
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It's not you. It's me. You have such a charming personality, but you're like a friend to me, no I mean a sister. Because we're family, we'll keep in touch. Right sweetie? Lol indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:32 AM
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Shame on you men for dating a more youthful, fun, and agreeable woman who is more likely to date you out of genuine interest rather than necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:50 AM
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After that the benefits drop off and can plateau. By high school age kids are for the most part self sufficient aside from transportation they aren’t heavily reliant on their parents, at least not anywhere as much as young child is. Their messes are usually confined to their room, they can clean for themselves, and can make their own food if necessary. Mom is still necessary, just not as much as dad’s money is. The man still has to pay bills up until his death while his wife has no real extra re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 01:40 AM
2

I agree. I believe intelligence is an overrated trait. It needs to be within the normal range.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:41 PM
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No, but she can be my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:38 PM
-4

You know what's better than being a sex object? Being a success object is better. Chase Excellence Kings 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:22 PM
0

This entirely contradicts what men here say when women start seeking for comfort (financial security, beta qualities, dad/husband attributes No, it doesnt. RP says this is what feminine women want. Women today are not in their feminine nor traditional because they are alpha/masculine and modern. Men comfort in women = feminine, submissive, supportive of his tasks in life and helps him emotionally to attain them, makes him look good, homely, nurturing, moldable (to an extent), treats him as speci…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 05:15 PM
1

I'm 99% sure the "exotic vacation mentality" does not make a long lasting relationship while the "return home mentality" does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:48 PM
1

I did a friend date with a friend after a string of rough weeks. She's not my type, but her feminine energy is reinvigorating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 01:33 PM
0

I've read somewhere that when sex happens in marriage, it accounts for 1/5 of marital satisfaction. When sex doesn't happen as frequently nor at all, it accounts for 3/4 of marital dissatisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:25 AM
1

It's their problem. As long as you set appointments and honor your schedule, there's little texting that needs to be done beyond logistics.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 06:56 PM
1

You married beta Bill though. That's the problem until you either divorce or cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 03:10 PM
1

how about men who actually want to improve themselves? Some choose the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 02:34 PM
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There is no point. By the time a woman considers FDS, she is losing or has lost everything of considerable value to men: beauty, youth, fertility, femininity. Too little too late.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 05:52 AM
1

Right, aka unscientific and at best 25% of all meetups. Point is asking if there's any widespread science We can disagree whether it's scientific or not, but the data exists and the reality of the current online dating dating climate correlates with my narrative. I meant within the top 20% Sure, we can stratify the top 20. I don't see a point since most women see these all these men as better than them or an equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 03:12 AM
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This is the womansplaining I subscribe for 💉 So I’m Looking at him last night and realized when I was pre-wall hot AF in my mid-20s, he was partying Chad in his mid-20s and now we both just aged, so if someone didn’t know our history, they might think that I settled with a high Beta bucks. Like he’s still attractive but he’s not tall, has some grey hair and is fit but not ripped, bit of a belly. Has a lot of money and lives in a nice place and he’s very generous financially. What's the point of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 02:26 AM
1

I was thinking about going as an officer after I finish uni, but I want to build a business while I'm working. I don't think that's possible in the public sector.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 01:25 AM
1

Thanks for the service, but wouldn't you earn and save more in the private sector?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 01:14 AM
1

For men, religion is beta. An alpha man should always put himself first, even before god.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 01:03 AM
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Hypergamy exists scientifically, among both genders, but where is the SPECIFIC 20% coming from? I'd like to see a study but no one seems to have one. This is based on observations and data from online dating. Dataclysm is a good read on this. Right, so you're saying subsections are more desireable to certain women Top 20% subsection is more desirable than bottom 80%. This is true for all but few women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 12:21 AM
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Caveat: 80/20 will be 90/10. It is real and is an expression of Hypergamy. It's not hard tbh. The average man earns less than 50k. The median single person income is around 40k. If you earn 70k plus, you're top 20% in terms of income. Imagine applying this principle to fitness and social circles. There are top 20% blue pill men. It's absurd to say they're all RP aware or operating within RP context. It's not static. Top 20% has a variety of requirements that women find desirable of which is inco…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 12:13 AM
5

This is the Red Pill. We don't believe in egalitarian sexual roles but complimentary sexual roles. We understand that the genders can play either sexual role, but masculinity is natural to men while femininity is natural to women. We believe that when the genders are their respective sexual roles, they create genuine desire and attraction. They may be unequal, but neither are more or less valuable because of their sexual role. Bye Felicia 👋 good luck finding a masculine man while you're leading …
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 09:11 PM
5

If her count is actually 5-10, then I would choose the 5-10. I have a count myself, and I believe those with counts belong to those with counts. That said, men's and women's counts are not the same nor equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:11 PM
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Yes. If she has no history and fucks like a prude? Ok. If she has a history and does hoe shit for me in casual relationship? Better. If she has a history and does hoe shit for me and only me in a LTR? Best. If she has a history but fucks like a prude? Back to the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 07:00 PM
3

You can choose to not have sex. I'm gonna choose to date Jenni from the Block. Bye Felicia 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 05:06 PM
3

Jesus. I gave a lil 10k extra, but yeah that's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 04:59 PM
6

Is it a dick pic if it's someone else's? 🤔 Yes, I think so. I'd block them too. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:42 PM
1

She's a mod. I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:21 PM
3

Wtf. If you're asian, then be more black/white? Top tier shit post. Just be a masculine man. That's it.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 03:06 PM
3

Exactly. These guys literally are the definition of average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:47 PM
3

Average single guy makes about 50k. I'd say a car salesman or truck driver are good examples of average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:40 PM
1

He's asking for the impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:28 AM
23

She's not cheating if she never gets beyond a situationship. Stay single Kings 👑
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 10:16 PM
13

She probably wanted you to grovel back. Sounds like you alpha widowed her. Lmao. Move on.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 08:24 PM
0

You want to LTR a girl who's sucking your face, riding your lap, talking and acting sexy, but not giving you sex. That's a red flag for both casual and LTR. You're delusional. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:22 PM
5

He'll respect you when you have your own shit. These relationship dynamics are often cyclical. Like his father did to him, he'll do to you.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 04:54 PM
12

Leave her on read. You either punish or ignore bad behavior.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 04:29 PM
2

Oh yeah, this is the dose of womansplaining I subscribe for 😤 At a practical level, occupation does matter when two incomes are needed for a comfortable living. RP men should be aiming for income and wealth where such a consideration is a non-limiting factor. I'm incredulous of females nurses because they have higher incidences of infidelity. Based on fidelity and low divorce rates, men should marry female actuaries or engineers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 03:49 PM
3

If she's not an actual born again virgin, then have respect for her choice. That said, RP men want to create desire so palpable that even this rule is broken. Honestly, move on. You want casual sex and she doesn't. Sex isn't worth the wait.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 03:10 PM
13

Red. Ignore her words and watch her actions. She's leading with her sexuality, but hasn't put out by the third date. She's withholding sex because that's the only thing of value she has to keep you interested.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:58 PM
4

It's a pretty light s*** test. One of them is interested. Say something like I'll get new ones if you buy them for me.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:33 AM
3

No. You should be ignoring her.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:29 AM
4

Purple is catch-all; it's the gradient between red and blue pilled. Tradcons and feminists with RP Awareness go here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:26 AM
6

Moi, I'm purple pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:11 AM
10

This is why I wear this purple tag. I'm very RP Aware, but I believe in traditional structures such as marriage, but I'm also a huge proponent for Feminism. I know my lane and it's purple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 06:02 AM
11

Lol, what a shit take. Women create their own standards. They must take responsibility for their outcomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 05:58 AM
1

Yes, making it a point that RP and Feminism are not exclusive. RP in it's truest form are theories on sex and relationship dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 11:24 PM
1

Equal rights and lefts, Camille Paglia feminism. Liberal - pro choice, pro rights for everybody RP Awareness for dating and relationship dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 11:14 PM
10

Nah, look at RP Tik Tok and you'll see gen Z men are far ahead of millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:49 PM
2

I'm an RP liberal feminist. RP was founded on the Sosuave forum when people started applying the scientific method in PUA. People like Rollo and Took made RP into what it is today, a pseudo science.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:44 PM
1

Huh, 8h28m of sleep is the least for married mothers? 3h23m of leisure daily for married and divorced vs non/never married mother's? What's the case here, be a baby mama vs be married? As noted earlier, leisure and sleep differences by marital status were not significant in models restricted to mothers who were not employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 07:01 PM
5

It's better to be ostracized as a fboy than as a beta orbiter. Same rules apply. More plates (widen your social) less dates.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:46 PM
5

Don't worry about getting married. Women would much rather be a single mother from 'abusive and womanizing' Chad than be a partner or equal to the average 50k 5'8"180lb man. I'm all for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 05:48 PM
13

Pretty much this. If neither partner wants to do domestic responsibilities because their time is better compensated by working, then hire a maid and a nanny for cleaning and child rearing respectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 04:19 PM
2

Sharing is good, we depend on you to help take care of the collective “us”. But you should absolutely take care of yourself, a woman who appreciates you, and your own FIRST and with the majority of your energy No, I'm not taking care of the collective "us," just my own people. It’s sad that women don’t see your sweet acts as just that... something nice to do. I don't feel sad at all. Women as a whole can do whatever they want but must take responsibility for their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 03:16 PM
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If you're dating women between the ages of 18 - 26, what you'll notice is that 90% of them are on a head hunt to only collect beta orbiter souls. They will literally give you mean choosing signals with absolutely NO intentions of meeting up. When you approach them, they will press to only give you their Snapchat. [1] Of course you can avoid this altogether by refusing to take down social media info, but the end result will be the same regardless. Try to text them for logistics only and you'll so…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:01 PM
5

I agree to an extent. A masculine man's role is to act. Yes, as a man I revel in my ability to do things, but it's especially contrived that society and women expects men to trade plates, open jars, protect the weak aka women, etc. We're expected to perform these traditional roles in a thoughtless and thankless modern society with combative alpha women. No thank you. I will only be "traditionally" masculine for myself and for those that I know and thank me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:44 PM
1

A woman's prime considering all things that men find attractive happens at before 22 and can grow till around 25. Afterwards it plateaus and must be preserved since beauty and youth are age dependant. This happens to all women 100%. They will only be as powerful as they are 22 once. A man's prime considering all things that women find attractive doesn't have a specific age. Most men are thriving in their career and settling with wealth after 35+. The things that women find attractive in men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 03:45 AM
40

Nah bro. Embrace your inner feminine. A woman needs to put me in the mood to pay her bills. It's 2021, she's strong and independent. She don't need no masculine trad man 🧢🧢🧢
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:37 AM
0

Conversely, is a father really being feminine if he gives his own son a hug? Comforts him? Gives him advice? There's a duality in masculinity. Harder aspects such as the protector and steward are balanced by the softer aspects such as lover and provider. Those roles require empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:31 AM
2

Nah, hypergamy gave us the market we have today. A man needs 6ft, 6figures, and 6 inches to convince a woman to settle, but he only needs a fraction of that to get some play. Backwards as shit but if that ain't winning, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 11:14 PM
2

Take your time. Your body can only optimally build 12ibs of muscle in the first year as a natty. The contratpositi is also true. You can only burn so much fat daily before your body eats it's own muscle too. I believe it was 1% of bodyweight? You abused your body over years to get to where it is today, it's gonna take time to get it better.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 11:10 PM
7

There are levels to RP content, and then there's Kevin Samuels.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 08:20 PM
0

Sure if it's government regulated like in the EU then you shouldn't be supporting human trafficking. I don't personally indulge in it.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 02:58 PM
22

More plates less dates.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 01:20 PM
0

Tbf, I'm also not looking for the one. I want more meaningful relationships, not more meaningless sex. That said, I haven't said no to meaningless sex. It's more like I allow myself at most a couple hours every other week to date instead of days in the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:49 PM
4

Women have as much culpability in their discernment and choice of partners. We as adults have a responsiblity to do our due diligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:24 PM
2

Masculinity and femininity are not gender restricted but normative. I'll refer to it as such. Masculinity is expressive, action-oriented, and duty/utility. A masculine man can be many things but his primary duties/utilities are protector, provider, lover, and steward. A masculine man if not resting is always moving towards his purpose. His actions are confident, deliberate, and sexual. It's not the act of sex, but sexuality. Sexuality is the tone of his voice, the swagger of the shoulders as he …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:27 AM
0

My problem is that the pool of women I deal with at university are flaky and immature. I can't expect much from them because they're fresh from highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:00 AM
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I had girls who did this to me. They would give the most lame excuses like periods; so I'd wait. This one woman was particularly bad. Since the first date that we met, she would literally sit on make out and talk about sex. Everything about her was sexual and she lead with sexuality. I let her smd week 4 and broke up with her. The constant frustration was humiliating, and if her sexuality was the only thing she had for my commitment, it wasn't enough. Men ask to fuck to see if you have value bey…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 08:53 AM
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Equal rights and lefts.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 12:58 AM
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Sex is not special. Every (well most) person that exists today and has existed was the product of sex. See a hooker and move on with your life. Support sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:54 AM
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We can only speculate. There's a theory that they are so wealthy that them splitting makes the most financial sense. They can still enjoy the benefits of a relationship despite their separated status, or they might have actually fallen out of love/commitment. What I've come out of these celebrity relationships aka Kimye, Gates, and Smiths is that marriage ain't shit even if you're a "high value man". Watch these men get shit on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 08:17 PM
1

It's an exercise in understanding womanese and hamstering. I'd say only a quarter of the discussion was worth a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:30 PM
3

Right, it's like this big boobed fat ass Stacy bit just a narrative to shame men's sexuality. Men in general have reasonable standards of attraction. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:59 PM
2

Do it. After 25, you qualify for most of the government assistance, FAFSA, and grants.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:36 PM
2

Be congruent. Whatever she fell in love with continue being that and more. Keep improving yourself and stay focused on your mission.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:56 PM
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You could end the thread here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:41 PM
2

I'm one of those trad guys, but I understand that most women do not want to be like this and that's ok. I'm also a feminist so I'm down to do the equality and equity in marriage. We're gonna split everything 50/50, she's gonna take me on nice vacations, and give me her credit card so I can boo myself up and look sexy so she's in the mood. I'm gonna support my strong masculine alpha woman 😤. Either we're all in trad or all in modern. None of the best of the both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:19 PM
1

Well do something before your lives enmesh more without the contract.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:02 PM
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Nah, most of RP are all in for promiscuity. They just won't commit to them, and having such a preference is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:00 PM
1

I'm a dude. Either are fine as long as it doesn't becoming problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 02:53 PM
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Thing is most woman do not know, do not care care, or feign ignorance. Thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 02:42 PM
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And then there is the fact that the amount of straight sex women have on average (mean) HAS to be the same as the average of straight sex men have. This would be true if sex were 100 women:100 men, but it's patently false. 80/20 rule isn't just an observation, but a reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 02:36 PM
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If you went in monogamous, you need to renegotiate the contract; otherwise, you just deal with it or cheat.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:16 PM
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