Men's playbook:

  1. Be consistent with your values. Don't play it safe and expect her to escalate

  2. Don't be boring: Entertain her emotions.

  3. Provide stability through your character. Women do what a man can do. So the only thing a man can really provide is the integrity of his character.

  4. Be willing to walk away if she is anything less than respectful.

Women's playbook:

  1. If you disappoint your man, apologize. *Apologies are infrequent amongst men, and unexpected from a woman. Your apology means a lot."

  2. Words and contracts mean everything to men. If you break a promise, he will lose all respect and despise you because you were supposed to be the one he trusts the most.

  3. Don't let your feelings lead you to say something that you'll regret. your words may simply reflect your current emotions, but men take it at face value. His ego wil break. Men are fragile

  4. A tired man is a faithful man. If he's off making money, growing his business, attending to kids, working out, etc. He will be too exhausted to be unfaithful