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You can't use the rational/logical side of your brain and be a SJW feminist at the same time. This woman is faced with her logical brain telling her that reality does not mesh with her beliefs and so she is confused.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 06:47 AM
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I think what the author is doing is what a lot of people do when they define love - they take the idea of love and mold it to their life situation to convince themselves they have reached the ideal. More importantly, this convenient definition of love sets up a world where they haven't wasted their time missing out on the ultimate ideal, and even worse, lived their life attempting to realize and ideal that does not exist. As we grow up our society tells us that love of another person, one that y…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 08:53 AM
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“Every day women are bombarded with advertisements aimed at making them feel insecure about their bodies, in the hope that they will spend money on products that will supposedly make them happier and more beautiful,” This is a good example of how many of the strains of feminism are inherently "sexist" by their own definition even though they claim to be for equality. The female body image campaign assumes women have no agency. In this case, the advertising "makes women feel insecure." It forces …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 07:55 AM
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This quote is the kind of thinking that someone who is truly unplugged would realize. The horses metaphor is great. We're like magical beasts to them; big and strong, something to be admired, something that will keep them away from danger and help them feel safe, something that will go out and bring back resources for them and put food on the table for their children, but just like the magical beasts of mythology they are crucial but non-central side-kicks to the story. We're the #1 must-have ac…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 07:17 AM
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Dude really, attacking the masculinity of person posting the comment instead of arguing against the comment itself with logic an/or data? Taking a page from the debate tactics of a feminist I see. Your body is changing to allow you to bang but your brain isn't fully developed yet. I'm not saying you need to be a full blown adult to bang. I am just saying two adults in positions of power banging a 14 year old can cause problems down the line. If you look at the research on kids younger than 15 th…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 07:56 PM
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I had a similar conversation with a buddy of mine a little while back. We were discussing how pulling 5-7s and keeping them as steady fucks was coming easy to us but getting to that 8-9 level wasn't something that we've been successful at. I think what happens is once you get your looks and confidence up to a certain level the 5-7s are willing to eat up your game and even throw themselves at you at times. Looking back on the last 4 girls I've been with, 3 out of 4 of them I had to put in zero ef…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 10:50 PM
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"I feel like..." Remember, when you are catering to a feminist the feels are what's important. Ironically, the asshole that sent the threat got what he wanted, the talk is now cancelled.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 10:22 PM
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You don't need to back up your claims with facts or data when you're making a feminist claim in this world. You don't even need to map your opinion out to a logical conclusion. As long as you state something that is pro feminism people will eat it up, no questions asked. This is my #1 qualm with feminism. For all I care every statement they make could be true - but they need to be able to back it up with data and logic. If science shows that women are better than men in every way, including lead…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 10:15 PM
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Someone brought this up at a house party I was at the other night. The dudes laughed about how he was probably high fiving bros around campus (which I agree he probably was) and the girls had a chuckle too. Then I thought about it and I was certainly nowhere near an adult at 14. Even though getting laid like that would have seemed like a dream come true at that age it seriously probably would have fucked up my developing brain a bit. Especially once the news got out and I was forever the kid who…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 10:06 PM
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A side note - how come whenever I read these "articles" and blog posts and I scroll to the bottom to see who the author was it's always some gross busted chick?
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 09:57 PM
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It doesn't really matter if the price to insure females goes down and as a result, the price to insure males goes up. Male-owned businesses and/or hard working males that are breadwinners are going to pay for the bulk of it anyways. Meanwhile, we're all paying for miss 40yr old post-wall's birth control pills, xanax/abilify, lyrica and 10+ doctor visits a year.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 07:36 PM
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You are def on to something here. I have a lot of friends who are smart, Ivy League liberals. They condemned some of my MGTOW practices, not because they disagreed with my reasons, but with my method. "If it's really a problem, why don't you go through the proper channels." "The only ethical way to protest something is to work to get your government to change it." "If you debate in public you can help change it for everyone." No, I am not putting my time and energy into playing their game. I am …
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:30 PM
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I believe there is also a strong social engineering movement intending to make everyone, especially men, passive. Absolutely. For the democrats they want passive men to sympathize with feminism/progressiveness so they vote dem. Young men are divided dem/rep but older men tend to vote rep. Make them bleeding hearts and hope you get them for life, if not at least you get them in the younger years. However, I don' think there is a conspiracy here to keep men passive, I think it's just a side-effect…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:24 PM
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The "War on Women" and the "Wage Gap" and the free abortions for all are just as destructive and seditious on the social scene I agree with everything except the free abortions part. I don't think there is any proof that abortions are causing social issues. I'm fine with less entitled teen mothers roaming our high schools - also abortions mean less welfare, more people getting educated. I could be wrong I just don't see the problem (maybe you can convince me otherwise).
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:17 PM
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There are the true-progressives (Left) and the progressives-lite (Right). Yup. Liberals are much worse on the feminist front, but conservatives aren't devoid of that bullshit either. Conservatives are anti-science/truth when it appeals to big business and/or the christian right. If the sky being blue either affected their big business funding or their Christian base they would argue that the sky was green all day. This is dangerous for the long term for those of you thinking about "the decline".…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:12 PM
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Yep. Both parties are not to be trusted if you really want to be unplugged.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:05 PM
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That quote resonates with me. I worked at a summer camp when I was 18-19 and we were required to write up report cards for summer camp because the administrators were teachers during the school year and said that's what parents wanted. Kids get evaluated to the percentage point all year. They come to camp to have fun, but no we need to evaluate how well our children are conforming even when they are running around outdoors in the sun.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:03 PM
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My point is the old "conventional way" sucked even more. It doesn't teach you any mental math or pattern recognition. You might as well just give them a calculator if they are lining the shit up on a piece of paper and adding single digit numbers, carrying the 1, etc. But I do get your more general point that just because it works for some dudes doesn't mean it works for all.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/14 04:01 PM
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A lot of what schools do nowadays just assume kids are idiots and if they don't give them a very narrow means of answering (notice I didn't use the term probelm solving) that basically gets everyone above the threshold to do O.K. on standardized tests but suck at actual real world creativity and problem solving. The "case for play" is a big hot-topic for me. Kids don't get free play anymore and aren't allowed to do what they want on their own in recess and police their own games. Nowadays, becau…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 09:08 AM
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The guaranteed income idea is in interesting one as it is a issue that both conservatives and ultra-liberals actually like! And yes, this is partially because the system as it stands is bloated (but I doubt it will collapse.) Ultra-liberals love the idea of ending poverty and giving to the poor, but you all know that already. There are even some socialists in their ranks. This is their wet-dream. Now the interesting part. Conservatives, including those like Marco Rubio and Paul Ryan love the gua…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 08:52 AM
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I am not any of these ethnicities but I have plenty of good friends and bros that are Asian and Indian. The ones that lift and display confidence around western girls get laid. Some of them get laid a lot while others are in LTRs with hot chicks. I even knew a nerdy 5'5" Indian guy that got lots of non-obese white girls, albeit nothing above a 5 or 6. He was in OK shape (not jacked just thin but not skinny) and had some non-creepy charm. I even knew a "F.O.B." sounding Asian dude that got white …
/r/TheRedPill09/10/14 07:22 AM
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At modest levels minimum wage has a proven zero effect on unemployment, but of course if you argue to the absurd ($1000 an hour) it doesn't work. Anyways, my point isn't to argue economics, my point is that people who identify themselves as strong dems or reps (you seem like you do) should step back and see if they are plugged in to a belief system that doesn't help them in the long run. I live in a heavy blue state (incidentally with a high minimum wage and low unemployment compared to other st…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 05:41 PM
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I see a lot of dems vs reps US political posts on this sub and always end up coming to the same realization: Both dems and reps don't give a fuck about what we're about here and neither party is the answer. For now, our best option is to keep the balance between the two parties. Liberals will bend to the will of feminism to garner the female vote. Many colleges are way more liberal than democrat politicians and look at the crazy feminist "laws" they are drafting on campuses nowadays. An out of c…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 07:31 AM
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Admitting the difference and letting science do it's job would make better and easier drug development, mental illness treatment, upbringing, education and people choosing jobs for their talents. But it's a controversial topic, so everybody just has to pretend that we don't know shit. This is why their game is bad for the long term. Imagine if biology finds that little girls are worse at the way we do math and science when compared to little boys. Educators could then modify the way little girls…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 06:24 PM
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A lot of people say the Robert Downy JR. Tony Stark/Ironman character was modeled on Elon Musk. Genius man who creates incredible things with low tolerance for stupidity. Of course early Tony Stark was also a playboy that would use his cockiness and wit to get into women's pants.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 06:56 PM
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I agree that treating people with respect in the right way can be alpha. It is faux-alpha to just be a dick to everyone because it shows you can't rise above your prejudices. You look every person in the face and show that you both have the power to increase their happiness with small respectful gestures. It is sort of like a meta-frame: I will treat everyone with respect unless they fail to treat others with respect because I am an honorable man.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 06:50 PM
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My model is the strong silent type Alpha. I have a couple much older cousins who don't live in the west and fit this mold - whenever I see them I see a very grown up version of me. I am still too young to fully pull it off but it is something I strive towards as I get older, taking on more characteristics as the gap between my age and the girls I date (early and mid 20s) widens. This is of course something I strive towards but may never be strong enough to reach so it may seem a bit embellished,…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 09:24 AM
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So let me get this straight, I have to answer some bullshit questions and make a stupid video about where to go in my city only to have some 41 year old post-wall feminist, or a 250 lb hambeast "reveal" herself to me? No thanks.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 09:54 PM
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The point that this guy is making that for all the noise feminists are making at the national level about the gender pay gap, the reason for the "gap" is due to the millions of decisions and actions taken or not taken at the individual level. Feminists don't like it, but each individual woman has to take personal responsibility for her wages which means asking for a raise when one is in order. Women and Betas think they are more "free to be themselves" but they are really wimps that won't say wh…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 07:47 PM
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Instead of finding ways to lock up the real rapists they are expanding the rules to find ways to lock up innocent people, and by innocent people I mean men because you know they are going to put the burden on the male to make sure consent is given and no alcohol is involved - even if the male is drunk too.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 06:48 AM
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Humans as a species would not have survived if they didn't have the ability to peacefully work together. We aren't naturally born with the tools to survive out in the wild alone especially when our children are a burden for 10+ years. A lot of beta behaviors ensure cooperation rather than competition in the group. Living and working together requires a set of behaviors that allow us to take pleasure in the benefit of others. Many people think true altruism doesn't exist - the reason for doing so…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 07:49 AM
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Man for all the fucked up principles the Russian government has you have to admire their style at times. Public shaming doesn't always work but for some people its great motivation.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 09:33 PM
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I love how these media outlets sack/suspend their employees for "views that do not represent that publication" or whatever. You think the things this guy wrote didn't go through an editor? You think the Steven A. Smith comments couldn't be edited out by ESPN if they wanted to? There is an epidemic that sickens me across all this feminist policy that is permeating through politics, education and the media; the big elephants in the room are ignored. The big leaps they need to make to bring their p…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 09:18 PM
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“Sexual violence is anything that makes someone feel unsafe,” Notice how they are shifting the definition of what constitutes a crime to fit a female-centric view. You no longer have to perform a harmful action to be at fault. The accuser no longer has to prove that you did something that caused harm. All the accuser has to do is say "he made me feel X" and you are now at fault. In the feminist world, happiness for all women is more than just a right. It is the obligation of men to ensure that a…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 08:50 PM
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Don't skip out on college and enter into blue collar work to feel more masculine. That's not a good reason to skip out on a meal ticket if it's been put in front of you. There are plenty of ways to feel like a man regardless of whether you work outside with your hands or not. There are certainly reasons not to go to college but I don't see this as one. Going to college opens up your options and doesn't necessarily doom you to working in a cubicle for 8 hours a day with bitchy people. One of my b…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 07:43 AM
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Maybe because I'm a male who didn't feel horribly threatened by these situations, and I don't like playing the victim when I don't feel like one, but I just laughed them off. I honestly don't have any long term damage from these experiences. People who do and want help should seek it sure, I just don't need it. My point is that I didn't even realize I was assaulted until I read the definition universities and feminists use for assault. Also, I don't want to cast doubt on victims who have been hu…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 10:52 PM
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It’s this logic that has most of my 30-something guy friends dating girls fresh out of college. Girls who, in my experience, are less impressive, less striving, less volatile, less successful, less intimidating, less questioning, less pressing, less complex, less damaged, less opinionated, less powerful, less womanly. They are less, and, to a guy not ready for anything—like most of the guys I have dated in New York—less is more. All of the things she listed as qualities that these young girls ha…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 06:12 PM
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I'm not a parent but the whole "shield our children from sex!" thing seems overblown and just more puritanism. If you teach your kids to respect you as their parent and you explain sex to them and what is right and wrong then I don't see how a couple people taking off their jeans in a commercial is going to corrupt our youth. Sure it makes your job as a parent a bit harder but you signed up for this shit, and honestly if you explain this stuff to your children they won't grow up to be prudes or …
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 06:01 PM
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I can go back to 2-3 instances in my life where I was coerced and in one case assaulted for sex. Of course in any of these instances I could have easily have used force to get myself out of them but then your taught never to put your hands on a woman. Plus, had I used force to free myself I'd probably be the one accused of rape somehow. I never for one second considered myself a victim I just kind of laughed it off and chalked it up as another crazy sexcapades story. However, if a girl were in m…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 05:32 PM
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Side point which isn't the main topic of the article: Why the fuck do we need to carve out a spot for women in every space? I don't know a ton about gaming but I know enough to see it is a community with male dominated pockets. For example, 99.99% of GTA players (and probably 100% of the people who pay for the game) are men but "we" have a problem because there are no female leads in the game and there are strippers/prostitutes objectifying women. Meanwhile, while I'm looking for a gym in my are…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:15 AM
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There is so much in this article that is right the biggest of which is how prevalent the unwillingness of feminists to engage in logical debate really is and how that stance is continuously defended/accepted. If you have an opinion, supported by evidence, and backed by sound logic feminism does not care whether it is true or not, but only care if it supports the ideology. If you challenge their logic and ask them to prove it is sound by connecting the dots, you are subject to personal attacks, s…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:00 AM
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What do most of the comments from men have in common? *"Our sex live just started to evaporated." *"In my case I cheated on my then girlfriend because she was withholding sex to get what she wanted." *" I love having sex and this girl is boring to me sexually." I've never been in this situation so I am not sure how they got there, but I believe a man that knows what he is doing will make sure he stays attractive and the sex never drops off. Not just physically attractive (not letting yourself go…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 05:49 PM
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He seems to tip-toe around the strong negatives that come out of his "end of adulthood" narrative. This is not surprising as it's dangerous ground to tread on in the NYT, while here in TRP we're OK with it and encourage it. In some places he actually says more than I would expect someone from NYT to say, but of course he hedges it with a million "of course of course I want to say that I am overall for everything feminism has done before I make my next point, but..." I'm giving him overall props …
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:32 PM
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Upvote for posting a rich thought-provoking article and including your own thoughts to boot. I don't want to retract from other posts on this sub I am just saying we don't get enough posts like this that promote a deeper discussion.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 07:25 PM
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Your gender must really have it good in our society when you start complaining about a dude who makes shows where the women kick ass and take names.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 05:43 PM
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This is what I have seen too. Girl wants to fuck around so she asks for a "break." She doesn't get the guys she wants, doesn't get fulfilled from the sex, or doesn't get the emotional beta qualities and comes crying back. You ditched for some bad dick and now you want your LTR back? GTFO, briffault's law may say you control the sex but I control the commitment.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:13 AM
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Dude you ever rip off a band-aid, realize the wound needed a little more time, and try and re-use? You firmly press the band-aid back on your skin and it feels like its holding tight. Sure the band-aid will stick to your skin and it feels snug again but its gonna fall off after a few hours. That's what happens when you try and make an LTR re-stick. She's going to run back into your arms crying with tears of joy and you'll have some awesome makeup sex. But, after a couple months the thing will st…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 03:12 AM
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Yes it is often a hampster, but it doesn't matter that it is as long as we understand AWALT. "I was drunk and it just happened" is not a reasonable response. If a male gave you this response you would call him out on his bullshit. But TRP isn't about holding women to the same standards of reason that we hold men to. It is about understanding the truth about how women think differently from us and what that means for our sexual strategy. That is what OP is saying when he says "you cannot be mad a…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:59 AM
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A shit test is a girl's way of making sure a man she perceives as a potential mate is confident and an emotional rock. In easy going normal conversation you can act like an Alpha but what happens when she knocks you out of that "comfort zone?" A man that is confident and stable will respond like he is in total control of the situation. A man who gets flustered, unsure of himself, butthurt, submissive, etc. Is unattractive because he doesn't stay alpha when she simulates a little shit hitting the…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 04:20 PM
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Dude - don't take my words literally. The point is make your own legacy. This is the right attitude: I will get past it and be successful enough to own a farm of my own one day. This is the wrong idea: My entire future is now in the hands of an old manipulative bag of shit.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 06:48 AM
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I think hypergamy screwed Jen over. She married Brad Pitt at 30 and they were together for 5 years. The marriage ended and Jen found herself single at 35 years of age while the Alpha of her life, Pitt, instantly moved on to bang the younger Angelina Jolie. Hypergamy demands that she finds a Brad Pitt or better, but how does she satisfy that at the age of 35? The number of Hollywood guys that could bring Brad Pitt's SMV to the table were probably less than 10. Now subtract the ones that would rat…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 06:40 AM
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I will get past it and be successful enough to own a farm of my own one day. This is the right attitude dude. Your uncle was stupid with your family legacy but fuck it, start up your own farm, pass it on to your sons and teach them to prenup so it stays in the family forever. You'll be the guy who started the new family legacy from which generations can make an honest livelyhood - hell, portrait on the farmhouse wall for a 100 yrs. and everything.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:56 AM
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I like sure will add that to my repertoire, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:38 AM
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I'll check it out for sure. I had an art history professor once tell the class "the only good thing men have brought to the human race is their overdeveloped shoulder muscles," which brought laughs and nods from the female dominated class. I'm thinking this book probably proves them wrong.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:36 AM
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Yup save your time. Bunch of irrational bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 05:31 AM
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Sounds like you are a single guy in a new city looking for some guys to go out and get laid with and your current friends won't help you with that goal. I don't define friends solely as "bros who will go out with me and get laid with me" so I wouldn't ditch some valuable friends because they won't help me with trolling for sluts. It sounds like you are asking if friends who don't have fun going out should be dumped, and my advice is keep your friends if they are valuable in other areas of your l…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 07:22 PM
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As expected there is a lot of bullshit in this video. He makes a couple good points but those seem to be the exception rather than the rule. @ 1:30 he called women "the most productive part of our population. Not sure where he got this data. @ 4:17 he calls women "the better half of our population". If you're going to pretend to be for equality don't call one sex "better" than the other asshole. You'd think this guy would be smart enough to see his own bullshit and edit it out. @1:59 he talks ab…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 07:03 PM
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I love the "Ok" it's a little bit withdrawal/dread with some I'm-Alpha-your-words-won't-shake-me-into-emotion-or-bend-over-backwards-support mixed in. Great shit-test text reply. A couple of the RP blogs have also agreed with its usefulness. Also - I reduce my effort by 50% to really show her her words don't effect me by shortening the "Ok" to just "K". Edit for the comments below: yeah text game is really weird in that you run the risk of the text being read with a certain tone. My personality+…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/14 06:30 PM
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He sound like a pussy tbh. Exactly what I was thinking.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 05:06 PM
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“The general idea is that it’s absolutely threatening to admit you’re wrong,” A man should always be willing to admit he is wrong to himself. If you go through your life holding untrue beliefs you won't be able to find proper solutions to getting what you want in life. Only a fool molds reality to protect his ego. Imagine if we stubbornly held on to our false beliefs through life? How many of us would actually be here right now?
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 05:03 PM
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It might have been over before it started but my experience is women like this are emotional beings and you can always change there mind. That being said we might as well make this a TRP discuss-and-learn-from-each-other case and see what could be done in similar situations. More a "what to do if you get caught in something" than a "what this guy could have done to get out of this".
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:45 PM
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This guy sucks. He plays right into her game and then fucking spirals out of control without any frame. In fact he got played by two girls. You know that side piece and her friend put that up on instagram hoping it would wreck his relationship, right? Dude got played by TWO chicks in a matter of hours. The only thing I'll give him is at least he was getting some from both these girls. If you're gonna cheat don't sign up for an LTR. If you're gonna cheat anyways then don't do it with a girl your …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 06:56 AM
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I love how she is trying to set up a narrative where guys who like seeing hot girls on TV are "scuzzy". Newsflash lady, all guys like seeing hot girls on TV, we're programmed to like hot girls. Stop trying to make my biology evil. Stop trying to negotiate what I should and shouldn't desire. My dick doesn't care about your crooked feminist logic. Say all you want about objectifying women or whatever but please don't make the argument that if you are turned on by hot girls on TV you are a degenera…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:07 AM
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If you don’t want to help then … whatever. You and the guy who lives in his mom’s basement can go get some soggy burgers and talk about Transformers 5 to your heart’s content. It's not OK to hold women to a standard of beauty but I'll shame guys by holding them to an economic standard. Also, it's the nerdy transformer loving basement dwellers that objectify women - I'm throwing you in with their lot if you don't join my cause.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:02 AM
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Man as much as I worry about the USA for some of its legislation at least we have freedom of speech here. There is literally a PC police in Europe and AUS and I don't know how you guys put up with it. At least I can still say what I want about politicians, make racial jokes and tell a girl she's fat over here in the US of A.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 04:11 PM
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I agree why not. Let men do what they want to do.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 08:09 PM
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This kicks progressives the most because progressives will champion their view of women's rights over religious rights in most cases. Liberals are more about "stay out of the bedroom and don't impede my sexual rights" as they are socially liberal. Conservatives don't like this either because even though it backs their freedom for religion platform, it's a thorn in the side of their socially conservative one-man-one-woman-household is the key to good and order in this country. That's why some con…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 08:08 PM
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This is true. I had a girl once tell me: "You know what I really find attractive? All the different things you are pursuing; your career, your sports, your guitar, your books. Most guys would just be sitting on the couch watching TV." Ambition gives girls the tingles.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 07:26 PM
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Look at the three men on the internet that "slut shamed" Niki Minaj! This is sexism! Down with the patriarchy! Ignore the fact that slut-shaming is a female social matrix tactic and there are literally thousands of women taking a whack at her. The sisterhood rallies behind Niki! She's a champion for women being comfortable with their bodies! Nicki Minaj - Anaconda Lyrics Fuck those skinny bitches, fuck those skinny bitches in the club I wanna see all the big fat ass bitches in the motherfucking …
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 07:50 PM
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tears falling from my eyes and my breath becoming uncontrollable Grow up. If you can't handle getting criticized in the financial industry then you won't go very far. This is how we play in the big leagues lady - sometimes you're going to get a big steamy pile of straight talk and no we don't care about the delivery, it's only the content that counts.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 07:24 PM
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Human females have different genes and thus a different sexual strategy than female lions. Female lions who are taking care of cubs won't produce the hormones required to have sex. Human females can go back in heat immediately after birth to a few weeks after birth if they are breastfeeding. Female lions also care for their cubs for much much shorter time - two or three years vs. humans who are pretty much worthless on their own until ~13. Therefore, a female lion's biology is sacrificing the po…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 05:33 PM
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I am not fully convinced it is calculated to sell tickets. I think Beyonce is a manipulative woman like most of them and just uses the "I support strong women and strong girls" to hamster that her message is actually good for society. I really lose faith in humanity when they eat up her "feminism". I went to Jay-Z/Beyonce a couple weeks ago. Beyonce did her feminism spiel and talked about how women have to support and respect each other for "the sisterhood". She then proceed to sing her song "Bo…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 07:10 PM
3

One thing you have to realize is that someone born with hyper-alpha behaviors in a species that practices killing each other is not a good bet. You need the Beta behaviors to express themselves in certain environments or you're going to get killed. That over aggressive 16 year old cave kid needs to be able to lay low and play submissive for a while or he's going to get killed for trying to boss people around and fuck the current alpha's women. Beta behaviors stay in the gene pool because we need…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 08:44 AM
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It's called a hamster. She's rationalizing her AFBB behaviour. Dead on that's exactly what it is. The hamster spins and all of a sudden its not the cheater who is in the wrong but the guy who got cheated on. Rationalizes the inexcusable behavior and then makes the perpetrator out to be the victim. Nothing a hamster loves more than to be in a victim's position where she can excuse her actions and get attention/pity points at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 07:57 AM
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BP says that instincts are wrong because they are unenlightened. Instincts lead to bullying betas and oppressing women, caveman stuff. That's why they call a lot of Alpha traits "stupid" and the guys that use them "jerks". I don't think they have a good argument there (I think they are just mostly jealous/butthurt) but even if they did have a good argument against male instinct, the fact of the matter is that those ancient behaviors still attract the ancient part of the female mind and they infl…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 11:15 PM
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Yeah I mean women know that men who have a high SMV are less likely to be monogamous. If a man is out there getting attention from multiple females his biology is going to tell him to sleep around. This is bad for the female in that there is a threat that he isn't going to give all of his resources to her if he's going around with other women. A level up from that, there are also social implications that cause psychological stress on women - a woman doesn't get as much social status from being w…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 10:08 PM
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For one gender’s sexual strategy to succeed the other gender must compromise or abandon their own. This is something you learn in Animal Behavior/Ethology 101. Darwin proposed that there is a constant struggle for fitness, an individual's ability to survive and reproduce. This is a central tenant of biology: your genes express themselves in physical and behavioral characteristics and those characteristics determine your chances of mating. Now here's where it gets even more interesting. The strug…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 06:23 PM
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Is that referencing something... man that is such an accurate analysis of some people.. Hah naw just the words that came to me when I thought about that woman's crazy eyes. The calling for a week thing was multiple instances of not calling her a week at a time. In an LTR you're signing up for at least some communication outside texting once a week and he avoided that several times.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 07:34 AM
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He dumped me and I'm supposed to be Miss Perfect! Maybe I'm not Miss Perfect. What will my friends think? These doubts I'm having about myself are really making me feel bad. Spin. Spin. Spin... No. I am Miss Perfect! He's wrong. How could he dump Miss Perfect. Spin. Spin. Spin... It's his fault I feel bad and I'm angry at him with every right to be! Spin. Spin. Spin... I'll show him what it's like to mess with Miss Perfect! Spin. Spin. Spin... Yeah, I'll tell everyone he raped me. Then I become …
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 06:05 PM
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There were no boundaries in what she could and couldn't do. For example, putting her arms around a stranger at a bar was OK. If she let a stranger grab her ass it was OK. Supposedly she disappeared for a weekend without telling him once as well. The laughing was the same way a bad parent would laugh at a child for being "cute" when the child was exhibiting bad behavior. She would yell at him in public and laugh then do what he was told rather than laughing cooly and ignoring.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 05:33 PM
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The biggest thing I have seen destroy my friends in an LTR and probably the #1 thing that most guys in an LTR are afraid of is getting cheated on. Getting cheated on simultaneously crushes their ego, enduces rage and turns them into a irrational mess. I have seen numerous friends cheated on in their LTRs, not a huge sample size, but enough to count on at least two hands. Here are my observations on a few of the relationships and my profiles of the cheating whore before I knew they were cheats. G…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:17 PM
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I think if you apply some RP knowledge to the way these girls work you will start to understand it's just girls being girls and nothing to be mad about. AWALT, that's all it is man. The girls you describe are showing off their travelling for the same reason most girls incessantly post on social media, girls spend hours telling people about their "awesome" social life (even though its excruciatingly normal) and girls do pretty much everything they do in a social setting: their solipsism requires …
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 07:26 AM
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Yep this article is on to what is going on and we have discussed it hear on a couple occasions: women are starting to believe in a warped view of equality where they can assume the role of a man in the SMP. Women now take the characteristics considered desirable in 30+ year old men (confidence, established career, maturity that comes with age) and believe it applies to 30+ year old females as well. What is worse many of them (not all) have a warped view of these qualities: Confidence: Many think…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 04:40 PM
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As long as I am having sex a few time a week I cut off all porn and masturbation. If you are currently in incel mode till you get that next girl I would recommend listening to what OP has to say but also heed his "no 0 or 100 advice". Everything in life in moderation. My recommendation would be to cut out the porn and just fap a few times a week because of its benefits (stress relief, etc.) Remember men who get off a few times a week lower their risk of prostate cancer by 33%: http://news.bbc.co…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 03:26 PM
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Rape on campus is a problem and so where do they decide to fight it? Is it by increasing campus safety? Educating students on how to protect themselves from criminals? No, their solution to the problem is to relax the burden of proof on the prosecution/accuser by putting absurd requirements on what constituted consent. This is exactly what I was thinking when I read this: California legislation could set the stage in which both parties could accuse each other of sexual assault It's really fuckin…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 02:35 PM
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I'm torn on some of the "don't try and change your partner" debate and would like to hear what other TRP guys think about it. On the one hand, I agree you should not go into a relationship thinking you can rehabilitate your partner. I also do not think you should go in believing you can change someone's character so that they provide X or stop with Y. On the other hand, I have been able to change some behaviors in (younger) girls that are often listed as examples of things you should accept as i…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 06:17 PM
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Everyone enjoys a good success story from our brothers struggling in the hardmode that is married life. Nice dude. I am no expert in the realm of marriage but I am guessing agree and amplify doesn't work because of the frame you have with your wife. I do not mean to place a good/bad judgement on your frame, especially because from what I understand married man frame is tricky as you need to be beta provider with alpha qualities at the same time. What I mean by it doesn't work with your frame is …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:58 PM
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Seconding, no sleeping or "cuddling" for a plate until sex. It'll place you in the beta-provider category. Also, it's a borderline beta covert contract "I really want to bang her, maybe if I cuddle with her she'll eventually give me sex."
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:50 PM
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Feminists want a monopoly on victimization. If males, especially white males, can be treated unfairly in society, get cancer, die for sad reasons, etc. then they no longer get to extract maximum resources from society for their cause. It also paints a picture opposite than their worldview - a world where males have it made because of the oppression and subjugation of women. They are unable to tout the "life is incredibly easy for all males because of privilege" line if people are rallying to hel…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:44 PM
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First, protect yourself, but do not let the fear of false rape claims keep you from getting laid at university. Sex is great, but it involves some risk. You can either avoid all that risk and be celibate or take some chances in life and get rewarded by it. That being said, you could get unlucky and end up in the wrong place at the wrong time, but there are some steps to take to avoid that. I think a good approach is to ask why to girls make false rape claims. This way you can look out for warnin…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 05:27 PM
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Love this one: Jim Treacher ‏@jtLOL 50m I'm very disappointed in the #FeministsAreUgly hashtag, because it ignores the reality that even the attractive ones are unpleasant.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 06:19 AM
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Earning the respect of your boss and the other guys is something you can usually bank on in the male social circles. Of course, you can't 100% trust anyone, but if the other guys look up to you and the owner sees you bringing in the business you most likely have your shit together. Sounds like you got it figured out. Honestly even if you didn't, worse case is you lose your job. I keep some emergency cash on hand at all times just for this reason - I can walk in to work every day, do my thing, an…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 05:33 PM
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A lot of guys' here (including me) are going to have the gut reaction to tell you to be careful and not shit where you work. However, fuck it, live your life how you want. Most of us work 8+ hours a day which is 50% or more of our time M-F. If joking around at work, making lewd jokes and talking about your boss's tits is how you want to live a happy life then by all means go for it. It sounds like you know that its risky behavior but are also pulling it off somehow. A lot of guys out there slave…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 06:13 AM
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Meta Point: OP is showing us a great way to post in a sub like this that is dedicated to rational male discussion. First, he states an observation. Pure facts and events without any logic that follows to an opinion or conclusion. He then states his ideas and the logic behind it with a certain level or assertion, but also asks for any other ideas. This is a great method for having a rational discussion. State the observations without any unbiased facts. This sets the scene for a discussion based …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 08:28 PM
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Yeah good stuff man i think you may be right in playing that angle as the actual moment things went... um soft... was when she was having trouble getting it in while jumping on top. Girls are always worried about their level of attractiveness - I think they know that's where their power lies over guys like us.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 08:18 PM
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Had an interesting one this weekend. Was with a girl and we got it on multiple times - four times in a 12 hour span. She cooked me dinner and then wanted to go at it again. Everything started fine, but I guess my battle-worn semi chaffed shaft and completely drained balls went into shutdown mode while I was switching up positions. Well shit. As soon as she realized this she instantly got frustrated and buried her face in the pillow like an upset child. Ok time to keep frame and handle this situa…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 07:45 PM
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I agree with the "they don't have the capability" notion. I think women get really immersed in good sex and throw inhibitions out the window which include things like screaming in pleasure, or hiding that they love dick. There might be something behind it that is in line with the bonobos study, but I am more inclined to think the brain activity during good sex just turns a lot of filters off.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 07:24 PM
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People form connections and then romanticize those connections. They then get addicted to the feelings as well as the chemicals that come with those feelings. This is why one of the biggest dating patterns among middle class educated young people in the west is serial monogamy. People enjoy and become addicted to the romance and what comes along with it - they think the connection is deep but it is actually formed on a shallow mix of things like shared interests and attraction. Then something co…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 07:17 PM
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You were right it was pretty interesting to watch the body language when the camera showed the side-view. The hamstering at the end is great: there is no cheat, only the courage to have a conversation. Let's set aside the fact that I didn't have the self control to refrain from disrespecting you and so I threw my vagina at another man for a quick fuck! Oh no, there isn't any moral judgement to be had there! Let's leave the actual crime out of the court room. However, the fact that we have a conv…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 06:36 PM
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I love how to article claimed it "ruined her birthday". First of all, it didn't fucking ruin her birthday, you can tell she feels fucking great like she hit the jackpot by eavesdropping on this conversation so she can carry the feminist torch and really rail into the patriarchy. She's a feminist writer/activist - this is fucking gold for her. Second of all, why do women care so fucking much about every little thing that happens on their birthday? If the tiniest thing goes wrong or someone doesn'…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 07:15 PM
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Yep you are probably right, she was most likely in to you, I figured even if you nailed your situation on the head it would be good to note other common situations for the sake of discussion. The sex thing might have been her anti-slut shield going off. She may have wanted to bang but often girls won't openly admit that. Remember, girls often don't use straight talk - they will say one thing and mean another.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 05:08 AM
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To be honest she might not have liked you at first (this is the part in the study where it said guys are more likely to falsely believe the girl is into them,) but when you told her off her female wtf-I'm-entitled-to-men-how-dare-he-reject-me ego switch flipped and blew the whole thing out of proportion. It is also possible that when you told her off, your SMV rose in her mind and she did start having feelings for you. Just be careful, not shitting where you eat includes not saying things like t…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 04:13 AM
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I think think is an interesting topic of discussion, F9R. The entitlement thing you mention hits the nail on the head for a lot of the less thoughtful, less emotionally mature girls out there. However, I also think the more aware girls don't necessarily feel entitled but can't get over rejection the way (many) guys do and think "why doesn't he like me, i don't get it." I've also heard "he likes me, but he's too afraid to commit" a lot and that was even thrown at me to hamster away a ONS. I've al…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 03:58 AM
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I'm going to address what I think is the crux of your post here OP, although i dont read the subs you are referring to so I dont really know if your observations I've quoted are true, but assuming they are: a guy posts about being raped, and is immediately met with scrutiny and doubt. when a woman is raped and posts about it there is a presumption of truthfulness "to not discourage future rape victims from coming forward." It is really too bad because a male victim of rape is less likely to repo…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 03:24 AM
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LTR is different I would agree, but if you look at the list of things OP wants to work on (stay in shape, be masculine, live the life you want to live, etc) those are things that better lend themselves to plate game vs. an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 02:12 AM
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I get it man - you seem to be very self aware so i think you'll do well.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 07:03 PM
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That's the right attitude. Identify all your errors, and work to correct them. This is key advice. Just keep doing this over and over (make a mistake -> identify errors -> improve) in life and you will constantly evolve into a better man.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 07:01 PM
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Just some advice - take it or leave it. I would recommend not getting another girlfriend for at least a year or two. Have as many girls as you can, spin plates and refine your red pill strategy with women. If you slip in to BP with a plate and you lose her, step back, slap yourself and move on to another. You'll find that multiple girls will solidify your RP game as well as build your confidence by making you feel like a pussy-slaying god. Also, its fun as hell hanging out with a different girl …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 04:55 PM
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Moving/Fresh Starts are good and I recommend making some kind of big change every couple of years. It keeps you from getting complacent and allows you to rebuild a new foundation based on whatever wisdom you have aquired. How to handle not being nervous? Well take this as an opportunity rather than a negative life change. You are on your life mission and that mission requires you to move so you have to move - you are doing what you need to do to further your goals in life and with this move you …
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 04:35 PM
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The author is saying men have a tendency to operate on a lower level (explain with more details rather than abstract concepts) when talking to women. I find that women often operate on this lower level. You make your abstract point, they don't "get it", so you go on to explain things. Have you ever had a woman tell you about her day? It's all details + emotions and no conceptual point. With the guys I can talk abstract concepts and have someone dive in to the details when explaining is necessary…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 03:53 PM
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Machiavelli's Prince implores one to act strategically in pursuit of one's goals without the restraint of morality. Covertly operate outside of what is considered morally "right" so that you do not open yourself up to a level of rebuke that would stop you from reaching your goals. Manipulation is a means to achieve your goals and acting under the moral standard will only hinder your pursuit of what you want. How do you translate that to modern examples in the context of sexual strategy? Well for…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 06:25 AM
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There are repercussions for speaking your mind at work, on social media, or anywhere the emotional no-go feels are enforced - none of that applies here or applies in the presence of the men I choose to fraternize with. I recommend people choose male friends that appreciate logical conversation and prefer wrestling with tough questions rather than censoring them. The pleasure of good, rational conversation alone is worth the exercise. But, more importantly, trading ideas with other men will expan…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 05:31 AM
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This is bringing back memories of grade school and summer camp where "pantsing" was considered a funny way to mess around with a friend. Your ass better have been ready for a little sunshine if you failed to tie your bathing suit draw-string. I guess we were all sexual deviants back then - me and the rest of my first grade class should turn ourselves in to the local sex offender registry!
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 11:34 PM
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This is great stuff and really the kind of thing to promote among men - rational discussion without fear of emotional backlash. Without it TRP would never exist because so much of what we discuss is in the realm of "emotional no-go taboo" Dawkins speaks about. Unfortunately, now that feminism has a suffocating influence on public discourse, hurting people's sensitive feelings is more important than getting to Truth through logic and reason. Feminism works to expand the realm of what is an emotio…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 11:19 PM
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Yeah - I wish i didn't click on that shit article and give it a view. TL;DR of it: Guy calls his girl out on her bullshit excuses for not engaging in something that is very important to him (and almost all relationships for that matter) and so now the fem blogger is going to hampster about domestic abuse and rape.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 02:49 AM
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I've pretty much surrendered to the fact that women can't give men the love they dream of growing up. The only person who will love you unconditionally and fiercely no matter what (e.g. even if you lost your job, failing at business, etc.) is your mother - and that's only if you're lucky enough to have a good one. Hell, I don't have kids but I've seen enough sexless married couples to know that once a kid is in the picture the man is usually a far #2 in the eyes of the women, which makes sense s…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 09:20 PM
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Dude, #5 is a big one. The better you are at pleasing your women the easier spinning plates becomes. If she can't stop thinking about that last time you fucked her then the plate is essentially spinning itself. For guys in LTR game - there is no better way to get more sex and to ensure your LTR woman doesn't jump on some strange alpha dick.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:36 PM
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Big point redpillschool makes that I think a lot of guys can take away beyond this forum - "don't police tone" means the style or way something is said or done does not matter. The only thing that fucking matters in the content. We're men, we don't act in the female social matrix which requires you to tip toe and coddle people's egos when speaking. We value other men for their ideas that help the group regardless of how they portray that idea. If you're moping/in a bad mood with your friends and…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 08:29 PM
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Yeah i'm not going to click on that. We're 60k+ strong which is significant when it comes to site traffic -> ad revenue.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 03:26 PM
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I didn't even want to try to explain the hurt and the horror that he had inflicted upon me. I actually felt sickly sorry for this man as I hung up the phone. "I actually felt sickly sorry for this man" = "I feel sorry for myself and you should too." "I actually felt sickly sorry for this man" = "I don't feel sorry for him but if I turn this situation around and belittle him with my false pity it'll look like I'm a strong person that can rise above!" I don't buy that when she says "I actually fel…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 07:51 AM
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Notice that at 1:15 when he asks her "what's so difficult about (my view)?" she responds "it's just wrong!" and some audience members erupt in laughter. This is a typical feminist argument. No logic, no attempt at formulating their argument and putting it out there to be challenged or refined, simply a "you're just so wrong" without explaining why. I am a pretty open person, I hold that there is a possibility that a feminist's argument is true, but the burden of proof is on the person who says s…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 07:23 AM
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A woman once hit a family member's car in their childrens' school parking lot. She asked if she could pay out of pocket rather than have him collect through her insurance. He agreed since it was a fellow school parent. He then called her a week later as he hadn't received the money or heard from her and very politely (I was there during the call) asked when she when planning on paying. She replied: "I have cancer and you are calling me at my house, chastising me! Please do not call me again!" an…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 07:02 AM
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Ugh. The article isn't complete trash (who wouldn't want to raise their daughters to avoid abusive assholes?) but I fear what can happen when feminism corrupts the way we raise our children. I have a friend who raised her daughters to be "strong, independent women" by basically allowing them to be terrible human beings without reprisal. The (stupid) idea was that disciplining little girls for being rude is wrong because they will grow in to weak, subservient women. Punishing them for mouthing of…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 03:15 PM
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He has two beautiful children, he has hot meals that >I make him, he has a clean home and a clean bed to >sleep in. I’m at capacity giving him these things, I >didn’t know not being a sex maniac at the end of all >my long days was enough for someone like him (the >author of this article) to be so upset. First of all I don't buy that she is "at capacity" doing all those things in a single day let alone every day for 3 years. I also don't buy that her husband is asking her to be a "sex maniac" - t…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 07:51 AM
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You should move out of the same place as this girl if you haven't already and stay the fuck away. Don't fuck around with this piece of shit person. Does she even fathom that she could have potentially ruined your life all for a bit of attention? I know a girl who throws false accusations around (not rape, thank god) and will shame good and innocent people in public places just so she can play the victim. She will even do it to loving family members when there is no one else to use for her endles…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 07:18 AM
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