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| 89 | IT'S HERE!! WE'VE LAUNCHED THEREALFEMALEDATINGSTRATEGY.COM WEBSITE! SIGN UP ASAP IN CASE WE'RE BANNED!Yay, sent for my code on Twitter! We will never be silenced! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 06:23 AM |
| 10 | Imagine: it’s YOUR lifeWonderful! I'm currently 23 from a bad background, this year I've left my bf, been accepted to college, and I've already saved a down payment for a house when I graduate and I'm well on my way saving for a vacation across the country, last year I took a 2 week dream vacation. 23 is a great year. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 11:10 PM |
| 11 | I will accept nothing lessI'd just be impressed that he recognized that she hadn't eaten. I was anorexic and dying and I'd spend an entire day with my bf, he would ask if I ate and I'd say "yeah" and he'd be relieved that he didn't have to buy dinner for me. How could he pay so little attention to me that he didn't know if I ate? I think this particular picture is just supposed to be one little example of a caring relationship, not the most. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:51 PM |
| 106 | What's the most egregious behavior you've tolerated before finding FDS?My bf was laid off work for a year and I worked 8AM-8PM housekeeping to support us. When I got home I would then have to clean the entire house and do the dishes, take out the trash, do the laundry, everything. He did nothing during the day but play video games and jack off. That year he bought "me" a switch for Christmas (with my own savings) and a game I'd been looking forward to for years, but I was so busy that I couldn't touch it, and he was playing it 24/7 (even when I got off work) so I d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:47 PM |
| 46 | What the actual fuckThat's what they want girl, don't even pay attention. My flat-chested self gets hit on every day of the week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 10:43 PM |
| 16 | Oh yes, man is making a joke at his laboring wife’s expense and posting it for internet likes. Yeah so hilarious. 🙄Or "lol babe that's so us" "that's something my man would do lolll <3" "couple goalsss" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 06:11 AM |
| 36 | Nonsexual video of a pornstar and her bf.. It just makes me so sad how the dynamic is so obviously about humiliating the femaleI feel really terrible after watching this, I wish I hadn't clicked. I want to give her a hug, but I guess she would just say she "doesn't care" and it was "funny". I don't think she has ever been treated with respect to recognize how wrong this is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 06:09 AM |
| 41 | HVM behavior 👏🏼None of my boyfriends have even remembered or known about me starting new jobs, regardless of me telling them. This guy not only remembered she was starting a new job, he also wrote a note, bought the gifts, got them to her on time and likely even knew what her style and hardware preference is. Maybe it's a low bar, but this is better than many of us have ever experienced, so it's natural to be interested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:46 AM |
| 19 | I might get banned from the sex sub.That's okay, that subreddit is just a big circlejerk for how amazing short men with tiny dicks are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 03:30 AM |
| 14 | MurderedByWords FDS EditionSo funny, I showed this post to my boyfriend for the laughs and he didn't get the joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 02:55 PM |
| 39 | Desi Pickmeishas be likeHi, it stands for "pick me". It's kind of a name for women who will do anything for a boyfriend, and don't have very high/any standards for that boyfriend. They just want to get picked desperately. Usually men will walk all over them. There's a lot more to it and I probably didn't answer it well but it's hard to explain. Sorry you were downvoted for asking. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 02:59 AM |
| 55 | Every woman should live by this. Do LVM ever date a woman with known issues? No, they run, leave, cheat, dump, ghost... The least you can do for them and yourself is to never date oneAnd she's like "look at my bf, isn't he cute! He tried to do laundry today all by himself and flooded the machine! He's so cute, he tried so hard! I can't wait to marry him and spend my life picking up his dirty underwear!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 01:54 AM |
| 9 | Shut the F*** UpA man jokingly told me to shut up once and I stood up and walked out. No man tells me to shut up. Never allow that. I would also never say that to a man or anyone else for that matter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 08:40 PM |
| 14 | Scrotes be scroting: the tale of yet another NVMAll these gold diggers want a free dinner and bodily autonomy it's sick!! What happened to when women were real ladies??! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 08:37 PM |
| 30 | Do I even need to say it? 😒I've been hurt very badly during rough sex and even while I was crying and hitting him he wouldn't stop until after, then he would love bomb me because he "didn't notice" that I was hurt. Happened a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 05:57 PM |
| 9 | Not me, but my heart aches for this girl. “My boyfriend displayed my nudes on a wall of women he and his friends have slept with. I feel like my life has been ruined”I SAW my bf fucking another girl and he didn't admit it until over a year later. He had some big revelation and admitted the truth to me, like...I know! I saw it! At that point I was long gone anyway lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 05:51 PM |
| 11 | You had one job.But we can't count on their strength of character and loyalty to not seek out others because men have "needs". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 05:40 PM |
| 30 | All over the world there are women and children are murdered by selfish SCROTES. Don’t give men the benefit of the doubt, ever. Don’t take a man back. Don’t give them the time of day ever again. SCROTES / LVM NEVER change and are seriously deluded.There are articles about how he blames the mistress for what he did, because she "seduced him and his lust for her drove him to kill". I hope he dies a painful death in prison | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 05:14 PM |
| 25 | On the topic of cheap rings, here's a quick collage I made browsing Etsy for about 10 minutes - 9 different solid gold engagement rings for under $300. No CZ, no sterling. All it takes to find a beautiful, quality budget ring is a few minutes of effort and 0 trips to pandora.comThat made me want to cry. Is there any love left in this world? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Wow how can he think that’s a appropriate thing to sayWow, so endearing and quirky. I love it when men threaten my safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 09:52 PM |
| 14 | Movies with HVM leads?Forrest is such a sweetheart, his story is so sad. Jenny or whatever her name is was low value and not good enough for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 04:38 AM |
| 11 | Movies with HVM leads?I found him a bit of a twat in the second one. It's shown in the third that he often didn't make time for her and wouldn't tell her what was happening in his life and would keep her in the dark. He often acts really embarrassed of her in the second one instead of supporting her, whereas in the first one he claimed to love her different personality. I think they were really mismatched lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 04:36 AM |
| 29 | Anyone else feel their relationship is improving because of staying inside together?Nah. I think my HVM was just a LVM in disguise but we're stuck together for a bit before I can move out. Yesterday the car was warming up (-40 here) and I ask if he could help throw some ingredients in the bowl while I mix because I was getting some bread started while we wait. He throws his controller down (all he does is play ps4) and rolls his eyes and says "I don't fucking know what to do". I told him I was planning to explain it to him when he got to me. He says "I might as well turn the ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 11:17 PM |
| 21 | What the FUCK is it with eating ass these days?!!My fiance is grossed out by anal as well, or by any butt stuff. I was very happily surprised. Once his dick accidentally touched my butt hole and it scared me so much, it was an awkward position shift so this was definitely an accident. He shut down the whole thing to make sure I was okay, and wouldn't continue until I reasurred him I was ready. He finds anything shit-related so disgusting, but this same guy puts that aside to take care of me whenever I have the flu and has never shown disgust, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 05:28 PM |
| 3 | I'm so tired of seeing sick shit on redditInteresting! You probably nailed it with that explanation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 11:22 PM |
| 57 | God forbid a man EVER calls me a HOE. What the hell is going on with relationships these days? 🤢It's so low that the men are stepping on it, and she finds that so cute and quirky of them, so she cleans it for them and lowers the bar even more so he doesn't trip on it and accidentally lose a precious $2 from his pocket and then blame her. Anybody seen that episode of South Park where James Cameron is in a submarine trying to find the bar for humanity so he can raise it, as it's sunken so low? That's these women's expectations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Word.Gotta send this to my friend. She wrote her number on a piece of paper and gave it to the guy she likes, and asked him for coffee. His response was "oh". She told him to call if he was interested. He didn't call. So this girl writes him ANOTHER note weeks later saying she wants to get to know him and sis put a $25 gift card to her restaurant in there. Weeks later, obviously no reply and I had to talk her out of going back to his work and asking him out a 3rd time. I think she did anyway though. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 04:34 PM |
| 13 | Space invasion 👾Within a week she'll be picking up his stained underwear and smelly socks while he says "sorry, I'm just used to throwing my stuff on the floor at my place so I forget" if she doesn't put up some boundaries right now. Clock is ticking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 04:21 PM |
| 24 | What an absolute waste of space.They will think his "honesty" is cute and quirky and then they'll find out that it gets old really fast caring for a 30 year old toddler. Then instead of leaving they'll make a reddit post asking "how can I fix my relationship? He does nothing all day and he's cheating on me with a girl he met playing Overwatch!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 04:16 PM |
| 43 | Get tf away from men who try to push your boundariesPositivity: Last night I told my man that I want to use condoms for the next couple months as I especially don't want to risk a pregnancy with a virus around and with health care really tied up. I'm on BC, but it's not 100%. After 4 years of not using them, my man says "Okay, that's a great idea! I'll be right back!" gives me a kiss and goes to the store for condoms. That's how men should react to your reasonable requests. NOT pressuring you to change your mind. Never put up with it. Any of my e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 03:47 PM |
| 9 | Husband cheats on wife after she spends 10+ years taking care of him and paying off his debts. Stay away from LVMThat's my worst nightmare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Husband cheats on wife after she spends 10+ years taking care of him and paying off his debts. Stay away from LVMCongratulations! I'm happily polygamous, I'll be walking down the aisle with my satisfyer, my womanizer, my dildo and a box full of other assorted toys. No need to split the wedding cake. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 03:39 PM |
| 35 | I'm so tired of seeing sick shit on redditWhy are they so obsessed with the free dinners thing? Who gives a shit about free dinners? Lol. Keep your money and date a pickme buddy, she'll buy both your dinners every time. Trust me, I was her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 03:26 PM |
| 55 | I'm so tired of seeing sick shit on reddit"I give anal to all my boyfriends, I love anal so much, it feels better than orgasming, I hate having orgasms but I looove giving blowjobs. Please give me attention. Any woman who isn't like me isn't taking proper care of her maan. He deserves a woman who can fulfill his male sexual needs. Men are visual creatures so I also let my men watch strangle porn while he fucks me." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 03:20 PM |
| 119 | I'm so tired of seeing sick shit on redditSeriously. At this point... How can they not already know the answer? Like what is going on here? "my bf cheated on me with my sister and then threw me down some stairs and locked me in the basement for a week. How can I fix this?" Not victim-blaming, but at some point you gotta help yourself and use some sense. I grew up with strong female role models who took no shit from men, where did that go with my generation? (23). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 03:13 PM |
| 35 | Remember that ladies, you don't really ''high standards''. Men just rate themselves higher, tsk tskNo kidding. I used to sub to r/sex for the sex advice. That was years ago. Now every top post is just "PSA Guys with small penises, we wuv you <3" "PSA Small dicks are just as good as large if not waaaay better!" "PSA Short guys are amazing in bed!" "Can we get some appreciation for short guys with small penises? They rock your world!" "PSA Tall guys suck, short guys are way better in bed! Short guys, don't give up hope!" Etc. Like oh my god, I get it, different strokes. But do they have to make… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 09:26 PM |
| 19 | Crime documentaries, and so many women wait until it's too late?True. I hate that part of the documentaries, "He was such a good man" Um, no. He wasn't. He was a very bad man. He's a straight up murderer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 04:19 PM |
| 11 | Why I Keep a Social/Relationship Journal - and How it Might Help You!This is an interesting idea! I keep a bullet journal (have many big future goals and need to track them somehow to make sure I'm making progress) and I find the best way to stay grounded for me is to actually not write about others. Just myself, as a rule. I especially don't write about men, they have no place in my dreams and are just a distraction. Funny thing is, my way of doing it would also be considered self-absorbed but hey, we're women, we're called selfish just for breathing without per… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 04:17 PM |
| 19 | Fun Quarantine ActivityOh gosh, I've seen the pickings, they are not just slim, they are... Invisible. I'm terrified of breaking up with my fiance and ending up out there in that dating pool, swimming through moldy pizza pocket dishes and dirty underwear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:53 PM |
| 26 | Crime documentaries, and so many women wait until it's too late?A man in my town rented a townhouse next to a woman, she was his landlord. I guess she came to his door one day to ask for the rent and he stabbed her to death because he didn't "feel like paying it". We don't have to even be dating them to be seen as subhuman and not worthy of life. This girl was in her early 20s and very loved by the community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:45 PM |
| 40 | Hey Incels, Chad probably got up and bathed today. Maybe even used lotion.Hell yeah he does. Mine went out and did a big grocery shop this morning and is going to make us homemade pizzas tonight... He knew what all my favorite toppings are and even found me low-calorie dough because he knows I'm losing weight. When he got home he started cleaning the house with me, didn't need to be asked, he never does. He compliments me all morning and even draws me a bath after hard days. I love my Chad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 10:30 PM |
| 14 | this is why those vocal male feminists shouldn't be trusted.Check out the video "girl at a bar" by snl, super relatable and funny. I think we've all experienced these phony feminists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 10:54 PM |
| 30 | Daily reminder that most men are disgusting and responsible for much of the spread of COVID-19They sure do get creative in the ways they let us down, time and time again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 10:53 PM |
| 16 | Does anyone else have to suffer having a LVM brother?My brother is 29 and lives on my moms couch. He doesn't even pay rent or bills. He works 6 hours a week washing dishes. He says he won't date because "all girls are sluts", and that he never intends to move out. Chronic stoner. My other brother is 26, he has knocked up two 17 year old girls now, he married one (abandoned the other) because in his words "then she can never leave me". However, 2 months after the second baby was born he confided to us that he is bored of them both and plans to leav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 03:39 PM |
| 18 | Happy Thursday! 💕🎶What book? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 09:07 PM |
| 80 | Reminder: Male sexual attention is not a compliment, and you should not make receiving it a priority.Ah yes, I love receiving sexual attention from men. Tells me I'm on the same level as a gorgeous moldy coconut. We should all be flattered, ladies! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 08:53 PM |
| 6 | If the government bans the ‘rough sex’ defence, what would it mean?I dated a porn addict who held my head down during my first blowjob and I couldn't breathe. I survived, and it was many minutes of me fighting and clawing and crying, not just one second of misunderstanding. She was down there being choked for a long time, no question. But I guess she shouldn't have put herself in such a dangerous position by being promiscuous. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:56 PM |
| 102 | Some quotes to practice, memorize, and repeat. Don't bow to the patriarchy, queens.I love the look on their face when you say "No". It starts off like they think you're kidding, so you say it again, and they look confused. Say it again and they just look mildly shocked. Applies to any situation in which you tell a man "no". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Has your ex LVM ever admitted to deceiving you?Yes, he hid all of this for years, and was a perfect prince on the outside. Life is terrible. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 03:10 PM |
| 17 | Cyber cheating is real 😆I love this advice, may have to use it tonight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 01:27 AM |
| 8 | Has your ex LVM ever admitted to deceiving you?Sigh. Okay. Was very anti-internet porn in the beginning, likened it to cheating. Was a porn addict. Believed in privacy and personal space. I was threatened with physical harm if I ever tried to leave the house without him. And he read my diary. Admitted to "trust issues from crazy exes in his past". Told me he loved me no matter what happens. When I told him about my difficulties with anorexia, he said he was leaving me because he doesn't date "stupid, skinny anorexic bitches who only care abo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 04:21 PM |
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