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Because I can’t tell her to go To her room. And I don’t fuck my children
/r/askMRP14/11/21 08:15 PM
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She was awesome at one point. Once the kids came everything changed
/r/askMRP14/11/21 08:15 PM
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No I tell them to go to their rooms. And take away their phones.
/r/askMRP14/11/21 03:46 AM
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Nope it’s the opposite. I actually want to be alone at least in a relationship sense. I don’t have the balls to do it because of my kids like I said. I’d be giving up so much of our time together if we split
/r/askMRP13/11/21 09:44 PM
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Of splitting custody of my kids. Yea I am.
/r/askMRP13/11/21 09:33 PM
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I have 3 times. I literally must be autistic. Because I’m just not internalizing it. I also don’t know how to take my attention away without seeming butt hurt.
/r/askMRP13/11/21 05:51 PM
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How can I stop doing this. I don’t even fucking notice it. Christ.
/r/askMRP13/11/21 05:46 PM
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I’m mad because she’s a loud to bitch and I have to stfu. I resent it.
/r/askMRP13/11/21 05:38 PM
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Oh she know that’s not true. She get pissed because she knows it might be true. But dread doesn’t work with her. It doesn’t make her want me more. It makes her more insecure and instead of trying to fix herself. She will go into depression
/r/askMRP13/11/21 05:32 PM
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The kids. I know it’s not a good reason but it’s an honest one right now
/r/askMRP13/11/21 05:31 PM
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I know. When I read back through this shit. I think. I just needed to stfu. In the moment. I forget everything. Idk why. I feel like I’m reading and absorbing so much from here when something happened. I’m filing through all this info I’m reading about. And I overload and fuck it up
/r/askMRP17/09/21 03:55 PM
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I guess I feel like I’m failing my family when I leave. I know that’s on me. But I feel like maybe I should be helping out and spending time with them. But then I’m missing the gym. Maybe I can figure something out to go early like you and the other dude said.
/r/askMRP15/09/21 12:18 AM
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My mission to stop being a damn push over and have frame. I want to travel. I want to be a positive role model on my kids. I want to be financially abundant. Outside of these things I have no clue what it would even be
/r/askMRP14/09/21 11:59 PM
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You’re probably right but I find it difficult to get my shit in order when she’s always bitching at my every move. And I find it harder to just ignore it
/r/askMRP14/09/21 11:56 PM
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My gym isn’t open at that time or I would.
/r/askMRP14/09/21 11:50 PM
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So when she’s going on off I’m leaving after coming home late and she’s been with the kids all day. Groceries shopping. Etc. I’m supposed to just ignore it. And go How does that help. And I’m not trying to be a dick. I literally don’t see how it helps it seems to create more problems. And stressed her out more. I know I’m not supposed to care but it gives me anxiety. Idk how to stop that
/r/askMRP14/09/21 11:49 PM
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And this makes sooo much sense to me. Why can’t I do this in the moment. I don’t get why I find it so hard. I feel I’m always searching for what the problem is. So I can figure it out to relieve some of the stress. I feel like I’m the cause of it because of something. I’m doing or not doing as a shitty leader. If I acted happy and left to go lift. It was be madness when I got back. Even before I left. I’d get a bitchy comment About me coming right home and going to work out while she’s at home w…
/r/askMRP14/09/21 11:43 PM
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Wow. straight to the point and a good reference point for me to us through all this. Thank you
/r/askMRP12/08/21 01:22 PM
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This is what I needed to hear. Thank you.
/r/askMRP11/08/21 09:27 PM
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I got number 1 one down. Number 2 I’m aiming for I must be getting there because I have got that text just yesterday before this shit happened. She said she couldn’t wait to get home to me. I think I battle with 3. Doing what I want and frame Bc the nice guy in me says it’s selfish. To go to work. Gym. Play with the kid. We have a busy life and I feel like I’m taking up all the time for myself and she isn’t getting anytime for her. With the kids it’s either I’m getting to do what I want or she i…
/r/askMRP11/08/21 09:24 PM
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Yep. 100%. My ego is fucked. And I am so quick to snap even when she asked about the text. Right away, snappy response. I need to stop before I talk and think. Or don’t talk at all but sometimes it’s almost like I don’t realize it until I do it
/r/askMRP11/08/21 09:20 PM
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Ok.
/r/askMRP11/08/21 09:16 PM
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How does that make me scared. I’m pretty good at all areas in my life but I suck at dealing with my wife’s shit. And I can’t talk about it on OYS or I get banned
/r/askMRP11/08/21 08:32 PM
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Yes but if my son said “dad you’re a shitty father who never did anything for me.” When I know it’s not true at all. I wouldn’t be able to brush it off.
/r/askMRP11/08/21 08:30 PM
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Not much I can say to that. Makes sense.
/r/askMRP11/08/21 08:29 PM
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Lol thanks for all your input
/r/askMRP11/08/21 08:25 PM
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Yea she is. And our kid is difficult so I do put myself in her shoes. But she will never do the same. So I feel like I have to do it For her. So she gets a sense of reality.
/r/askMRP11/08/21 08:24 PM
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It’s not scary it’s just not practical at times I feel. If you’re new and trying to get your shit together. It most likely means your shit is all fucked and being in your wife’s frame is a huge part that everyone who starts out deals with. Yet if you mention anything about your wife you get banned for 2 weeks. How can anyone get better if the current shit they’re failing at isn’t allowed to be discussed?
/r/askMRP11/08/21 05:00 PM
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Thank you. That rian thing your talking about is that in a post or a video I know he has a lot of videos I been watching. I haven’t seen that one tho
/r/askMRP11/08/21 04:57 PM
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I watch rian stone videos every single day! Also thanks for the info
/r/askMRP11/08/21 04:55 PM
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Honestly I would say I am doing well. This has been an ongoing journey for me. The problem is obviously the shit I got going on. Like no frame. And DEERing. I find it almost impossible at times to stfu and not say things like. I worked all day. Went to the gym. Fixed shit around the house. Cooked. Cleaned. Played with my son and you’re complaining your tired and annoyed you have to change a diaper. I verbally diarrhea my displeasure everywhere Bc it doesn’t make sense to me. I have a hard time a…
/r/askMRP11/08/21 04:50 PM
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No the plans to give it an honest try. I am trying things I’m reading and learning on the way. But you ask a question you get sent to OYS and then you say the word she in your OYS and you get banned for 2 weeks. It’s not the most friendly place to get help. But I’m learning.
/r/askMRP11/08/21 04:33 PM
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That was years ago. I was here and having a hard time so I stopped. Well it didn’t get better now I’m back here. I just have a hard fucking time internalizing this shit and I don’t know why.
/r/askMRP11/08/21 03:37 PM
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So we just got done having sex right before this. I didn’t want to fuck again. I know by my post I sound like shit but I actually physically am on point. I’ve lifted my whole life. My bench is 325 so physically I got that. Reading I read. Rational male. NMMNG. WISIFG. Sidebar post top post. Pook. The list is huge. I just don’t retain it I guess. Or I run into all the contradictions and then I get confused.
/r/askMRP11/08/21 03:35 PM
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You’re right I didn’t answer bc I thought I wasn’t supposed to. 100%. And yep you’re right I got annoyed Bc she asked. Right away I thought don’t deer. I keep reading don’t over complicate it. But it is complicated I think otherwise why would there be so much information here. I keep looking for a stupid simple set of rules. But then these situations pop up and I feel like I handle them so shitty and so overthink. Frame frame frame. But I have none apparently. And when I think I do. I end up in …
/r/askMRP11/08/21 03:29 PM
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That’s the problem I want to learn how to accept it.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/19 10:55 PM
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So how do I stop though. Wed watch a movie with a stripper in it and I’d just picture her doing that and I’d get sick almost. I tried so hard to just accept it. And I don’t think I could. Same with the child. And I knew coming into it she had one. It was something I thought I could accept and I wanted to. But I guess I was wrong. Or doing it wrong.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/19 04:45 PM
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I think that situation is entirely different. It’s about self respect. And I hate strip clubs to begin with But I do see you’re point. I came here because I realize I am the issue. I realize I have to get over it. That’s why I posted it. I’m trying to get over it because I want to be with her. I’m not trying to scold her for it. As far as she knows. I don’t even care about it. But telling me to “get over it” doesn’t help. That’s why I came here to understand how.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/19 04:34 PM
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Red pill doesn’t say they are
/r/ExRedPill13/04/19 11:38 PM
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Good advice. But Why can’t it last? I’ve heard of people still being lovey dovey in their 70s
/r/ExRedPill11/04/19 10:02 PM
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Not a random dude. She was married and with him for 6 years. She caught him cheated and left Of all the women I’ve been with she causes me the least amount of drama ever
/r/ExRedPill25/03/19 10:17 PM
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Yea idk she swears she didn’t and she really has never lied about anything
/r/ExRedPill25/03/19 11:26 AM
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Yea you’re right. I guess I just don’t actually want to know bc if it’s the wrong answer to me. Itll fuck me up
/r/ExRedPill24/03/19 09:43 PM
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So you’re saying it’s better off not knowing. Honestly I don’t see it helping in anyway. And things are so good. I just have this imagine of who I see painted in front of me and these things from her past don’t make sense to the person she is. You couldn’t have convinced me in a million years she used to strip. If she didn’t tell me (I learned first from a friend who went to HS with her) I wouldn’t have never believed it.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/19 09:18 PM
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Thank you. This is what I needed
/r/ExRedPill24/03/19 08:15 PM
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I do trust her. But I feel like she wouldn’t tell me the truth in worries I would judge her. She has told me that the stripping thing and kid has always got thrown in her face in her past relationships and it hurts her. She’s so in love with me. I feel she wouldn’t be honest because she wouldn’t want me to think less of her. But she honestly has never lied to me before. So it’s like maybe it’s best to not ask and just leave it. What does it matter? I think that’s the important question that I ha…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/19 04:56 PM
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