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| 7 | 15 Most Upvoted Comments - TheRedPill & askTRPSaw this and was curious. Know I am not around as much anymore, but I think some of the older ECs are not showing up on this list cause their comments are from back in the day. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Impending Mass Exodus from RooshV ForumsThanks, I appreciate that. Ah I just got super busy with life in the past 12 months. I may pick the blog writing back up this Fall. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/19 02:29 PM |
| 3 | Impending Mass Exodus from RooshV ForumsIndeed. Old times | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/19 03:05 PM |
| 12 | What the fuck is she doing?Classic attention whore stuff. Plenty of resources about it if you use the search bar. You are doing things right. As Pook said: Men dominate the world of action, women the world of words. Focus on making her act on her "supposed" interest, otherwise, you show her none. Don't fall into her wordgames. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/19 08:57 PM |
| 6 | Guys who consistently spin plates...You are conflating PUA approaches with TRP theory. We do encourage newbies to actively go out gaming women, but that is more about getting them practice and into the habit. All the old-timers around here are more focused on their mission than women, but that takes time. Your comment is equivalent to making fun of a fat person who shows up at the gym the first time. They may not be very far along in their journey, but they will get there by following the steps, and being persistent. Cut them some… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 08:45 PM |
| 6 | 2 years into TRP, great results but still struggling internallyTwo steps forward, one step back. Then do it again. At some juncture all men must face the fundamental question of "what is the point". You are bumping up against it now. Plates and other things come and go, and a sort of nihlism can start to take hold. In the end though, this is the path to freedom. The only purpose in this world is the one you create. And if someone sees thru your facade, it simply means you are still on the path to embracing that. Swallowing the pill takes years. And every ti… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 04:35 AM |
| 132 | Ex-plate found a BB and got married within 4 months.One day, when you're further along as a grown man (versed in TRP) into your 30's and 40's, you will look back at the women you've know along the way and think: Shit I seriously dodged some bullets Nothing puts things in perspective than seeing how the thing that was once prized decays with time. And how silly are our longing desires for impermanent things that are bound to wither. Enjoy your time with them, but realize they can never be truly yours. Only your turn. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/18 02:13 AM |
| 2 | What I learned since swallowing the red pill this year (2018)Excellent comment, worthy of a point +1 | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/18 11:54 PM |
| 10 | State of the Manosphere 2018People only hear what they want to hear. There was a funny moment last week where instagram personality "Tank Sinatra" posted some stoic philosophy quotes to his IG page, and a bunch of millennials came in there arguing with him about how it was all wrong and ignored the realities of trauma and privilege and oppression and all the things their 22-year-old selves learned in gender studies class. How they were all smarter than legendary philosophers like Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus, and Seneca, and… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/18 03:27 PM |
| 58 | To what extent should you express Red Pilled views in a Blue Pilled world?Law of Power #38: Think for yourself, but behave like others do. Read more here | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 08:35 PM |
| 137 | Stoic vs. Fun?Years ago, this confused me too. I would be out for the first time with a new girl, and I was supposed to be kino-ing her and escalating but also cool and aloof and not showing too much interest ... what? Over years of practice, I realized it all came down to this: you should be fun and engaging, without expecting anything in return. As long you don't come from a place of neediness, you are fine. Stoicism in that regard is really about killing your inner neediness. Besides, those covert contacts… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 03:55 AM |
| 15 | Girl seems interested, but flakesIf a girl makes no effort to hang out with you in person, she is NOT interested. Texting back and forth is low effort interaction. You have one job as a man: to move the interaction forward, to escalate. You move from talking to hanging out, from hanging out to seducing, from seducing to bedroom olympics. A girl who doesn't follow your lead along the way isn't doing her part. You escalate, if she resists, then find a different girl. Maybe she'll come back around maybe she won't, but you did your… | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 12:40 AM |
| 45 | HumanSockPuppet's Guide to Training BitchesIt will be interesting to see how many people realize this has been on the sidebar the whole time. There is a reason why we curate certain posts here ... many men over the years have synthesized and distilled a lot of knowledge. Passing it down from one generation to the next. Modern society would tell us to break that chain, since it makes us better consumers of video games and widgets. But it does not make us better men. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/18 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Three academics just proved the nonsense of Gender Studies that led to our quarantineI can get you a lab coat, Rian, you gotta wear it when you do that Red Man Group podcast though | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/18 01:24 AM |
| 69 | Three academics just proved the nonsense of Gender Studies that led to our quarantineDon't take anything at face value. Science is just evidence that helps us understand the world around us ... it is not "the truth". Do your own research, read multiple sources. Where possible, experiment in the real world and see what works and what doesn't. That is the basis of rational thought. Also TRP 101. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 02:59 AM |
| 13 | Three academics just proved the nonsense of Gender Studies that led to our quarantineRead this. Scientism is basically a fundamental misunderstanding of "knowledge". | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 02:09 AM |
| 127 | Three academics just proved the nonsense of Gender Studies that led to our quarantineAs a practicing PhD scientist, I should point out that this kind of bias affects all science, even biology and genetics. But that is not to say that gender studies doesn't push the ideological BS to the extreme. It is the difference between science and scientism. And a reminder to always take a skeptical, rational view of "the truth". | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/18 01:57 AM |
| 6 | In case you hadn't noticed....The problem with the truth, is that it is often inconvenient. Wanting something to be true despite all the evidence to the contrary is a good way to have reality smack you in the face. A lesson every man must learn. Perhaps the Reddit admins are learning that lesson as well. Beliefs, of course, are a powerful thing. And rational thought is forever under siege with each generation. It is easier to believe, then to do the hard empirical work of thinking. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/18 01:32 AM |
| 16 | 300,000 Subscribers. The Reddit Administration Tacitly Endorses Male Abuse and Denies its VictimsYou’ll notice that they do not give specific examples of offending material, or any concrete steps we could take to mitigate this. This is because the phrase misogyny is nebulous and holds a definition only to those who use it. There is no actual definition of misogyny, and therefore no way to defend against it. Reminds me of something I wrote a few years back regarding Feminists and Progressives: Meaningless Words Create Meaningless Ideals | /r/TheRedPill | 29/09/18 06:29 PM |
| 4 | The Welfare State the root enabler of the rampant sexual degeneracy of western society.Not gonna do your google searching for you, but a couple examples: look at the later era of the Roman empire after Julius Caesar and women advocating for changes to property law and divorce. For chimps, you can look up the work of Frans de Waal for starters, e.g. his book Chimpanzee Politics: Power and Sex among Apes. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 03:01 PM |
| 13 | The Welfare State the root enabler of the rampant sexual degeneracy of western society.If you want to move a lot of water, like a river, somewhere else, the best way to do so is to channel it, to use its own nature and momentum against it. Like Aikido or Judo. Fighting against the tide is not the smartest tactic. I think /u/JamesSkepp and/u/KeffirLime are making similar points. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 02:57 PM |
| 78 | The Welfare State the root enabler of the rampant sexual degeneracy of western society.This is the correct response, but I'm gone add a little bit. Yes women will always advocate for more wealth redistribution. They have done so repeatedly through history, through cultures, through civilizations. Hell even female chimpanzees do it through social persuasion. Sometimes they will fuck around more too to get male resources. It is human nature for women to act this way. So it doesn't matter if it's the government, or the welfare state, or social persuasion, or whatever. The problem OP … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/18 01:10 AM |
| 14 | No More Jordan Peterson Shit.David Buss. Maybe Alfred Kinsey. People who actually study the psychology of sexual behavior. But that's beside the point. What most people don't seem to realize is that science is a human endeavor, and thus prone to all the shortcomings, biases, and foibles of any human. Scientists are no exception. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/18 02:59 AM |
| 48 | No More Jordan Peterson Shit.Speaking as a practicing PhD scientist, I like Peterson in general, but here's the issue: All of Peterson's thoughts on male-female sexual dynamics when it comes to dating are based on armchair philosophy. In contrast, actual science is based on collectable observation and data. But Peterson has no "data", because he's spent his entire life with one girl, and he isn't a sex or relationship researcher. In fact, I would argue that TRP contains more observational evidence than Peterson's ideas do. … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/18 01:45 AM |
| 65 | Why Using Low N-Count To Vet Women Is UselessUsing n-count to vet women under normal circumstances is fine. The problem is that in the currrent modern West, the situation is such that a low n-count is no longer an indicator of feminine virtue or quality. Why? Because women in this day and age are encouraged to live that "Sex and the City" lifestyle, sex-positive sleep around hookup attitude, with no consequences, socially or otherwise. Yes there are exceptions, like girls who grow up in super religious households, but that is no longer the… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/18 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Any thoughts on Roosh V's new book 'Game'?Roosh is a drama queen, who likes to pretend to be an "authority" on shit and take credit for ideas he "invented". Better sources of information than him. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/36vyiw/rooshv_slams_the_red_pill/ | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Single dads on TinderGood comment, a diffferent perspective. I'll award a point for that. +1 | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Chains of Freedom – The Era of the Harlot and the Domesticated ManWell we can argue about free will and those sorts of things, but I think that for as fancy and "civilized" as humans like to think we are, that really we are just apes dressed up in costumes dancing about upon a stage. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/18 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Chains of Freedom – The Era of the Harlot and the Domesticated ManThe two arguments are in fact related. The problem with putting too many resources into the weak is that it takes away resources from the strong and limits them. Yet societies need their best and brightest to thrive. Forced equality simply leads to everyone being mediocre. You can read Vonnegut's Harrison Bergeron for a great example. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/18 07:31 AM |
| 4 | Chains of Freedom – The Era of the Harlot and the Domesticated ManYeah we can trade some war stories. I've dated women from over 40 countries I think at this point, but the westernized Asian female doctor is a species all unto their own. The ones who are on-call and stuff are actually pretty good to date/plate, as they are so busy they are not bugging you to hang out all the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/18 02:26 PM |
| 6 | Chains of Freedom – The Era of the Harlot and the Domesticated ManI don't really identify politically anyway. Maybe at best as a Libertarian. I like reading the National Review and the Atlantic and others because I find them amusing and illustrative of certain modes of thinking. But good point though. I would be curious of your Russian opinion on Solzhenitzyn. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/18 09:29 PM |
| 23 | Chains of Freedom – The Era of the Harlot and the Domesticated ManIt is all about the social contract. What you are describing on the female side is reflective of what happens on the male side of the equation. All men form a social contract with the society they inhabit, which basically says I give up some my freedom and power so that I can live in a stable society which let's me raise children or build a house without people stealing it. Or migrants coming in taking advantage of what I built. Or in its most brutish form: I won't kill you if you don't kill me.… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/18 08:32 PM |
| 17 | My First Threesome (Her roommate was hiding in her room!)The two I am referencing are Friedrich Hayek's The Road to Serdom and Thomas Hobbes' Leviathan. Hayek was an economist and classical liberal thinker, often credited as the father of modern Libertarianism. Hobbes was a 17th century English political philosopher. There are many others to read, from the Book of Pook to Stoic philosophy to Jack Donovan's The Way of Men. Use the search bar for "reading list" and you'll find several posts of them. Just don't forget to hit the gym and deadlift too. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 07:46 PM |
| 57 | My First Threesome (Her roommate was hiding in her room!)Yeah, you work on yourself and apply TRP principles long enough, and eventually you become a man who has some crazy stories about girls you could tell. The funny thing is you wouldn't even believe them if you hadn't seen them for yourself. Nothing surprises me anymore. What becomes more interesting is how those stories fit into the broader overarching mechanics of male-female interaction, human psychology, and why society is constructed the way it is. It's funny how you start suddenly connecting… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/18 04:49 PM |
| 14 | Wow. Female contestants of reality TV shows such as Love Island regret their decisions. Who knew!?Very true. The temptation seems to be too overwhelming in the modern world. I wrote a post about Nietzsche, Liberalism, and the Paradox of Choice last fall related to this. We seem to as a society hold this notion that more choice=more freedom, but I think the evidence (both scientific and societal) suggests it doesn't work that way, counter-intuitively. The effects on women seem to be even more pronounced. Kind of ties back to the whole women are the most responsible teenager in the house idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 02:52 PM |
| 81 | Wow. Female contestants of reality TV shows such as Love Island regret their decisions. Who knew!?This is a blatant example of why society was always traditionally setup to shelter and protect women from their own impulsive desires. Otherwise you end up with exactly what you see on Love Island. Of course, we got rid of all that in the last half century. The irony is rife. Real "freedom" is not the freedom to choose to do whatever you want ... it is the freedom to make good choices. Our feral nature is as much a cage as any other. From a TRP perspective, there is no going back at this point, … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/18 02:10 PM |
| 72 | Profs say female STEM grades don’t reflect ‘perceived effort’ - they propose that “science educators could redistribute grades more akin to non-STEM disciplines to increase STEM retention.”Meritocracy ... RIP. On a related note, my experience teaching STEM at a major university in the United States (described down in the comments) was that many of the people in those departments these days don't have any business teaching anyone. Many of them don't understand the point of education is to teach people how to think, not what to think. The bias is rampant, Orwellian though-speak, Harrison Bergeron type attempts at "equality of outcomes" ... is even starting to creep into traditional … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Who of you in a LTR has plates?For whatever it's worth /u/ethreax, I essentially have the exact same situation going on as Skorch does. I think many guys who have been in the game a long time eventually find themselves transitioning over to this kind of setup. Also an emphasis on quality over quantity. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Having trouble relating to "the book of pook"There were more. Those are snippets that Pook collected a few years after the fact, and collated into a coherent "book". Highlights, basically. Most of the original threads are long gone. Typical of the internet back then, server space wasn't such a cheap commodity. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/18 08:41 PM |
| 11 | Having trouble relating to "the book of pook"For you and /u/alisemihc: I only showed up at the tail end of that era. Anti-Dump preceded my time. Anti-Dump had a bunch of writings that constituted his "machine", which was basically a method for filtering for high interests girls. I recall some very old threads circa 2000, many of them lost to time, of Pook asking AD about specific scenarios he was having with girls. Some of them eerily similar to shit you still see on askTRP today. At that time I showed up, I recall a lot of people were sni… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/18 05:17 PM |
| 10 | Having trouble relating to "the book of pook"Pook was not a fake player. He was actually a lawyer I believe, who learned a bunch of shit from an old dude named Anti-Dump. He got jacked in the gym, fixed his inner game, had some success with women. Typical RP tale. Anti-Dump, according to what I was told, was an old guy who accessed the internet in the late 1990's by typing on a keyboard connected to his TV. I can tell some stories, if you're curious. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/18 04:34 PM |
| 77 | Feminism and the fall of the West.This is simply how Mother Nature has crafted the world: Men build things and accumulate resources, then women and their ilk harp harp harp to redistribute those resources amongst themselves. It is a cycle. It will probably never end, just manifest in different forms over time. Women use similar double bind mechanisms to create inequalities in the sexual marketplace. The only thing that should really matter to a man at TRP is what he is going to do personally to navigate such a world. Those who s… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/18 03:27 PM |
| 19 | You Never Took The Red Pill And Never WillI read thru the post on the Peterson sub linked to the "Feminism is not a Shit Test" post here on TRP's main page. It was interesting to see how many of them were stuck on our "nihlism". As if accepting the reality of the world is a choice. I don't think any of us necessarily want the world to be the way it is, but we realize making up myths about "service" doesn't change reality. It simply serves as another way to bind you, cage you. A lot of the guys who find Peterson are still stuck halfway i… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/18 04:18 PM |
| 76 | You Never Took The Red Pill And Never WillPerhaps it would be a good time to remind folks of Whisper's 5 Stages of The Red Pill post. A lot of guys here are still in the bargaining phase but don't realize it, still holding on to their Blue Pill dreams. I think the best way to phrase it is to go back to Rollo's Mitch's Purple Pill last year: "Mitch represents another type of Purple Pill man. This is the guy who’s become Red Pill aware, but believes he can make his Blue Pill idealism work in a Red Pill context." | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/18 04:02 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been Blue Pilled so hard that all this Red Pill stuff seems “fake” and “exaggerated”.Always enjoy reading your insightful comments, Skorch. Not sure why I never bumped you to Senior Endorsed, but I will rectify that. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/18 04:01 PM |
| 29 | NYT: Single at 38? Have That BabyTell me about it. I dated a "city girl" just like that in Chicago last year. I told the story a few months ago here: Their Best Years What I didn't mention in that post was the girl had a friend who was a few years older, maybe 37 or so, who was telling me once she wanted to have kids and a family "one day". Like she had all the time in the world. I didn't say anything, but I was just shaking my head on the inside. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/18 01:52 AM |
| 110 | NYT: Single at 38? Have That BabyMillennials are generally defined as anyone born starting in the early 1980's. So the oldest Millennial women now would be somewhere between 34-37. Anyone who is around 20 or under now, including college-aged, is Generation Z. Many of those thirty-something single women running around NYC are Millennials nowadays, even the ones drinking cosmos. Interesting to watch that generation start transitioning to middle age. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/18 07:42 PM |
| 14 | Tattoos?I have multiple tattoos, including a sleeve down one of my arms. Never caused me any problems, rather I'd say they show off my musculature and women visibly react to them and/or touch me because of them. All that said, I would make sure whatever tattoo you get has actual meaning. The custom ones I have on me have deep personal meaning, and were thought out over years. Don't just get some stupid tribal tattoo or Chinese symbol or prancing unicorn or whatever just to have a tattoo. Also, I am in a… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/18 05:08 PM |
| 11 | Every man must face a huge crash to learn and strive for a better future - a lesson on AWALT, family law, and the hamster.A good TRP lesson to remember in times like those, is that this world will always be designed to challenge you, to break you, to see if you can overcome. Society has always given it's young men trials and tribulations to overcome. Part of the passage into manhood. As we often say here at TRP: men are not born, they are made. This is simply an opportunity for you to overcome, to rise above. As a man, you shouldn't want it any other way. A sword must be forged in fire. How your ex and her family i… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/18 10:04 PM |
| 125 | 16 year old daughter displaying feminist traitsThe same way you handle a woman you're dating: She has to want to follow your lead. Exhibit a strong frame and be a man she respects. You don't lead a woman through logic, you lead her by appealing to her emotions and feelings. Your daughter, like all women, wants validation. Sure, she wants it from her friends too, but you are her father, and if she respects you, she will desperately want your validation. Have a strong frame, and make clear your stance on things through your behavior not your w… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/18 03:43 PM |
| 27 | Sluts and the City: A Carousel Rider's RegretsIt is ironic because Millennials have essentially made Progressivism their new religion. All they did is swap out the old religion (e.g. christianity) for a new one. If you don't fall in line with the Progressive agenda, you are socially ostracized and branded a "heretic". They of course don't realize that. Sex and the City was part of the whole cultural zeitgeist during that time that brought it about. Funny to think about, looking back. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 07:32 PM |
| 16 | Think the girl I'm seeing is an honest to god "red pill woman" have any of y'all ever encountered them in the wild?I've come across a few like that ... those girls tend to have strong father figures, and parents with a healthy dynamic. Naturally too, I don't think they went on Reddit. AWALT and all the same shit still applies, but those women can often be a delight to date. A feminine women really does make things function smoother relationship-wise, and the masculine-feminine sexual polarity adds some extra sizzle to bedroom activities. Unfortunately, those women are increasingly rare these days in the West… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/18 07:05 PM |
| 26 | Stuff has ChangedMuch of that has to do with Progressives, the "far left", hijacking liberalism over the last 50 years. Progressives truly are the totalitarians of the Left. They don't actually understand nor adhere to classical liberal principles. A lot of it is more about social psychology than politics ... virtue signaling, aka identifying who is in who's tribe. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/18 01:48 PM |
| 28 | If you find yourself arguing with women, you are a weak target.Typically I use Amused Mastery ... just start playfully teasing them. They might be pissy at first but eventually they'll start giggling. Remember, a woman wants to feel the full range of emotions, give her a rollercoaster. Sometimes though if they are being super irritable I just ignore them, or "pressure flip" the situation. Put the onus on her (Sparky gives a good example of this above). Various strategies you can employ, but straight up arguing with a woman is not one of them. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 02:29 PM |
| 216 | If you find yourself arguing with women, you are a weak target.It can also be said that the only man who argues with a woman is a man who doesn't understand women. Women argue largely based on their feelings, so the only way to "win" an argument with a woman is to convince her she doesn't feel the way she does. That is obviously a fool's errand, and a man who understands women knows to avoid it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you have a son? Don't ever send him to public school. Confessions of a conversvative history teacher.Like several commenters mention below OP, this needs to be better written and clearly tie to TRP tenets. I'll help you out. Send your son to public school, but teach him the 48 Laws of Power, especially #38. It is a great opportunity to learn how to think for yourself, but do as others do. The world will be full of times where learning how to do that will come in very handy. Also here's a post I made on my blog last year about basically the same topic. You'll see some interesting similar stories… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/18 01:56 AM |
| 4 | Are you a Validation Whore?I think you'll find that a lot of the guys who've been around TRP and/or the Manosphere long enough and have had plenty of sexual success eventually switch over to having a series of short-term relationships (STRs, typically 6 months or less) with the occasional plate on the side. Similar to the open relationships Blackdragon describes. It is less distracting from your mission to just keep a primary girl around while taking other opportunities as they arise. The general rule of "always keep two … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/18 02:31 PM |
| 17 | Curious about contraditction of stoicism and not having an ego vs alpha/redpillDoing things for the purpose of validation is about your ego. Covert contracts and all that blue pill beta shit is part of that mindset. Your expectations in that case aren't about healthy boundaries or genuine confidence, rather they really boil down to your internal neediness. Doing things because they align with your principles or your mission or how you want to live your life is more about a stoic Red Pill mentality. That difference is crucial. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 04:08 PM |
| 28 | Study: No Compelling Evidence That Preferences for Facial Masculinity Track Changes in Women’s Hormonal StatusThis study does not really conflict with the alpha/beta theory as it relates to a woman's cycle. The study simply says that women pretty much always find more masculine male faces to be sexier. Key point here is that women aren't interacting with beta males cause they think such men are sexy ... they are interacting with them for other reasons. The linked study is reinforcing what we already know: the men who women find sexy and the men they get into relationships with are not always the same. A… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/18 12:31 AM |
| 69 | The Red Pill vs. the Black PillI do well with women, but I am never going to be Brad Pitt. So should I give up too? If the only acceptable end goal is perfection and getting everything you want, then you are going to be consistently disappointed in life. However, if the end goal is simply to be better each day than you were the day before, then the world is a place of endless opportunities. Be the victim, or rise above, those are your two choices. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/18 07:02 PM |
| 394 | The Red Pill vs. the Black PillWhat is really ironic about all the criticism of TRP is that we are the only ones offering real solutions to these men. Feminism offers them nothing. Our feminist-laden society is just taking these angry and hopeless men and turning them into ticking time bombs. Of course, many of those dudes don't take the advice TRP provides, or lack the fortitude to see it through, but the path beyond is clearly laid out here. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/18 03:37 PM |
| 440 | Non-Neediness Destroys Her Frame...Even If It Takes A WhileAlright settle down, here's some constructive criticism: How bout you come back and write a field report after you've actually gone on the date with her (assuming she doesn't flake) and slept with her. This exact point is where newbies apply a little TRP and have some success, and then they fuck it all up. The girl starts to chase a bit, they get all excited, and they gradually start thinking "Oh hey I got her now I can go back to being Billy Beta and supplicating to her" ... blowing up her phon… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/18 01:39 PM |
| 5 | On the Myth of a Western Rape Culture.Thanks appreciate that, it is indeed. A little Red Pill spin on some broader topics. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 06:45 PM |
| 33 | On the Myth of a Western Rape Culture.Oh we've got Antifa in America too ... nice people /s The thing about the Mob, is that it never realizes it is the mob. I think I've seen clips of that video before, but will watch ... | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 04:09 PM |
| 202 | On the Myth of a Western Rape Culture.This is a little off-topic to TRP, so I'll help you out and make it more on topic: The way to control people is to control the dominant Cultural Narrative. In the same vein, the way individual women manipulate men is to control "the narrative" of male-female relationships and how they work. What you see at a societal level as far as gender dynamics is just a macrocosm of what you see at the individual level. As a man, use that information accordingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/18 03:24 PM |
| 191 | My least favorite way to utilize red pill knowledge.The world has always been, and will always be, designed to challenge men. To test our mettle. To force us to grow, survive, overcome. It is part of the inherent nature of masculinity, and something untold generations of your ancestors have done. It is your birthright. Doesn't matter if it's women, or feminists, or SJWs, or progressives, or whatever. As a man you will have shit thrown your way. Obstacles put in your path. You can get bitter, or get better. See those challenges as opportunities, o… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 04:11 PM |
| 101 | A Family Man Experiences the Light-Switch, Loses Everything, Baffled that the Rules Don't ApplyAnd this is why we advise men at TRP that when women try to break things off with you, you agree with them or ghost them or simply laugh and say "cool". Act like it doesn't phase you ... or even better yet don't let it phase you. They want to feel like it affected you, that they "won", even if they won't admit it. Women compete in the psychological/social sphere, much like men do the physical one. If it phases you, then they know they conquered you. But if you simply walk away without out a word… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/18 04:03 PM |
| 14 | Killing the egoFrame is not something you "are", but rather the refusal to be defined by others. Or in short: Assume Formlessness As for the specific topics, Amused Mastery and Agree & Amplify etc., you can find those in the Glossary of Terms on the sidebar. A simple google search will return Rollo and CH and others' writings on those topics. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/18 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Is this it or does it get better?Good Answer. +1 | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 02:31 PM |
| 8 | Girl texts me after 6 monthsI've had this happen a few times, and I've seen all three of those scenarios you mention play out. The fact is at this point there is no way to know which it is. So you need to operate from that perspective. So sure, see if you can arrange another date and escalate, but keep it low effort. She needs to come to you, or at least to your neighborhood. Be fun and playful and flirty via text, but no endless texting or attention validation for her. Try to get her in person, and if she is non-committal… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 02:59 PM |
| 9 | Is it possibly for a girl to be huge into partying and very sexually conservative?No father growing up? In my past experience, that has typically been a MASSIVE red flag. Be warned. Any girl can wear a mask for the first few months. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/18 07:17 PM |
| 13 | Is it possibly for a girl to be huge into partying and very sexually conservative?There are a ton of red flags here: you met her on Tinder, she slept with you on the first date, she likes to party and go to clubs. She's told you she's a "good girl", but has she actually shown you any green flags? What's her relationship like with her parents, especially her dad? What kind of other girls does she hang around? Does she have any healthy hobbies, like baking or hiking or craft shit that don't involve going out dancing? I would be very disinclined to believe this girl. But no one … | /r/askTRP | 26/02/18 06:57 PM |
| 158 | The Law of Large NumbersThe root of the problem is that many people that come to TRP don't understand the difference between rules and heuristics. The "rules" that are derived from TRP theory are not really rules, even if people sometimes speak about them in absolutes. They are guidelines that help men understand how the world works most of the time. That is in essence what a heuristic is. The point of such heuristics is to base your actions on what works 90% of the time, and deal with the exceptions as they arise. Tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/18 07:51 PM |
| 24 | The Only Real Reason for School ShootingsThe availability of guns in a classically liberal society has to do with preventing the central government from having a Monopoly on Violence ... it is not about guns themselves per se. Many of us have forgotten what used to happen when kings and autocrats wielded such a monopoly. I explained the full reasoning behind this here: https://www.illiberal-liberal.com/2017/11/a-monopoly-on-violence-the-2nd-amendment-and-guns/ | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/18 08:46 PM |
| 153 | The Only Real Reason for School ShootingsThe thing about anger that many people don't understand, is that it is often met with anger. Go around as a society spewing vitriol at men (or anyone for that matter), and don't be surprised if it is met with a lashback. Equal and opposite reactions. Like you said, no excuse for what happened. But if we want to improve things, then we should be cognizant of the unintended consequences of our choices as a society ... not simply swept up in whatever is in fashion with the mob that day. That is a s… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/18 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Everything going right but it all feels so wrongIf you live according to nature, you will never be poor ... if you live according to other men's opinions, you will never be rich - Seneca Ask yourself: Are these things, these accomplishments, you have been pursuing something you are truly doing for yourself. Or are you doing them because it's what you've been told to do. Seneca was pointing out that those "unnatural" desires never lead to fulfillment, because they have no end, no clear finish line. You are constantly trying to live up to other… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/18 10:53 PM |
| 5 | Jordan Peterson is not your friend.Rollo, as usual spot on. You hit right at the heart of the issue. I wrote a blog post about the human propensity for myth-making and creating new heroes and religions to substitute for old ones. It's something deeply embedded in the human psyche, something we have to constantly be on guard against. I think many of us actually like Jordan Peterson and agree with many of his points, that's not the issue. There are going to be some follow ups to this post, would appreciate if you keep an eye out fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/18 03:25 PM |
| 3 | The PedestalThe mid 1900's saw the rise of Sartre and the post-modernists, the Frankfurt School and cultural Marxism. This was embraced by the baby boomers. It gave rise to the 1960's and the hippies and the sexual revolution and 2nd wave feminism. The start coincided with the rise of the baby boomer generation. The basic idea was: tear everything down. The old ways are dead. We know better. It all really goes back to Nietzsche and Marxism, and ideas like the Three Metamorphoses. I think what Nietzsche and … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/18 06:27 PM |
| 77 | The PedestalAnother good reminder that the Red Pill is not new, but ancient, wisdom. We are in many ways at TRP simply retracing our forefathers' footsteps ... the ones the baby-boomers (and cultural Marxists) so irreverently cast aside. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/18 09:21 PM |
| 10 | [FR] Tinder date, several makeouts but failed to F-close. Analysis of possible mistakes + questions.Yeah invite her out again and see what happens. Just remember in the future, your role is to cultivate desire within the woman. Not "win her over" or persuade her or whatever. Imagine her interest in you is like an ember you want to build into a fire. With practice you'll get better at picking up on the signs that you're doing so. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/18 01:10 AM |
| 53 | [FR] Tinder date, several makeouts but failed to F-close. Analysis of possible mistakes + questions.Not sure this isn't more of an askTRP thread, but since you want some analysis, here goes: Not every girl, even off Tinder or Bumble or whatever, is down to sleep with you on the first meetup. You made the date, escalated physically, and playfully tried to bring her home. She said no, didn't want to. End of story. You did your job. That's all you can do. As for critique, I'd say there's a a little more room for pull here, and less push. Did you initiate every makeout session? If so, you need to … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/18 08:02 PM |
| 15 | Logistics not working for me and TinderWomen are just flaky as hell these days, especially if you live in a medium-to-large city. Best not to take it personal. Nowadays, if I don't sense a certain level of enthusiasm from them, I don't even bother making a date. I am not going to reward a low-effort woman with the gift of my time. It is all about filtering and screening those women out. Look at it this way, all those flakes are just girls disqualifying themselves from your further attention. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/18 08:14 PM |
| 15 | Datig a sorority girl, am I being cucked?This girl is what I would call a social butterfly. Common with sorority girl types, I know from experience. Some women are just not "relationship material". The social butterflies usually fall into this category ... too many options, temptations, drinking, girls-nights-out, etc. Those women are usually a friends-with-benefits (FWB) situation at best. The mistake many men make is trying to make a particular girl into something she is not. Your expectations get in the way of reality. As for the gi… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 05:32 PM |
| 7 | The Humiliation of Aziz AnsariThis is not on the sidebar, it's from a post written on SoSuave back in 2002, but it describes the underlying issue here, and how you need to approach it. You are not trying to "win her over", but entice her desire. To make her "reach" for you. It's a subtle, but critical, difference. She needs to play her role in the game of seduction. Deep Blue - Cultivate Feelings of Attraction and Desire | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/18 07:26 PM |
| 151 | The Humiliation of Aziz AnsariAbsolutely true. Men, take notice, of Ansari's failure to escalate properly. It's all push push push, no pull. He is in a rush instead of taking his time. Goes right for the honeypot immediately, instead of working her up first. And in the end, he made the woman uncomfortable ... well no surprise. If you are doing it right, she should be wanting for it as much as you. You have to build the tension. Two steps forward, one step back. Keep it fun and playful. Draw her in. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/18 03:31 PM |
| 11 | Building Power - The brainstormI would second the notion that there is a lack of "mens clubs" for the under 60 crowd, especially for young men to get together and discuss ideas outside of the glaring scrutiny of the feminine imperative. It's one of the unfortunate things we've lost in the modern West, and likely leading to a dearth of free thinkers. Of course, it's probably better if there is no direct connection to TRP, even if many of the ideas are similar. I think /u/bsutansalt was trying to organize something like this a … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/18 07:53 PM |
| 44 | James Damore sues Google, alleging intolerance of white male conservativesA few years back, they were recruiting me hard. I turned them down. I have several friends from my grad school days who work at Google. I've heard mixed reviews. It was kind of a cool place to get a job 10-12 years ago, when it was a fun innovative place. Think things have changed. Lot more internal politics, more bureaucracy. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/18 09:29 PM |
| 320 | James Damore sues Google, alleging intolerance of white male conservativesThe full lawsuit can be read here: https://www.scribd.com/document/368692388/James-Damore-Lawsuit Interesting to skim thru. In it you will see excerpts and screenshots from internal Google communications as well as official HR policies from their employee handbooks and what not. Some of it is downright shocking. For instance, Google gave employees monetary bonuses for publicly disagreeing with and disparaging Damore. HR also defended employees posting blatant anti-white anti-male messages on int… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/18 07:37 PM |
| 18 | How to Express Displeasure Without being Needy?Don't be afraid to make a woman angry sometimes. Despite what you've been told by Disney movies, they aren't fragile little flowers. Women want to feel a full range of emotions, so give them that rollercoaster. It's a win-win, as it also shows you have backbone. Withdrawing attention is usually a good first move, aka soft nexting. Sometimes you can voice displeasure, but keep it brief concise "I don't like that", no long explanations. Don't argue with her. If she acts anything other than apologe… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Should you block your ex or just unfollow on IG? (and other social media)If you feel like you won't be able to control yourself and/or will continue to stalk your ex on there, then yeah remove/block them. But if you feel like you have the inner strength to do so, just leave them on there and ignore them. Either way, you do what is best for you. I don't add most plates or short-term flings on social media, nor do I use social media a lot. But when I do add them and things end, I typically just leave them on there, ignore them, and move on. Silence is golden. As is you… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 08:35 PM |
| 13 | 20 and lost? Advice from an old guy.There are things in life you can control, and things you can't. Focus on the things you can ... Stoicism 101. The goal is not to be perfect. The goal is to be better. And we can all be better. If you are working hard with the idea that you are going to reach perfection, or some idealized end-state where your life is perfect, then that's a fool's errand. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 07:21 PM |
| 99 | 20 and lost? Advice from an old guy.One of the key things that binds us together here at TRP, regardless of race or background or political persuasion, is a rejection of the victim mentality so prevalent in the modern day West. To your point, it is incumbent upon us to maximize our SMV. If we are not being treated how we want in life, we have the power to change that. But it requires us as men to cast aside our illusions, our fairy tales, our Disney stories. It requires us to put the effort in. To take the setbacks in stride. Two … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/18 05:12 PM |
| 12 | I live a red pilled life but I have no emotions - just apathyIn times like those, it helps to sit down and remember what your life was like 5 years ago, or 10 years. Really sit down, visualize it, write it out. Often we forget how far we have come. We get to a certain level and plateau. For so long we were driven by the desire to obtain what we lack, and having achieved that we - instead of being thankful for what we have - turn our eyes towards the things we still don't have. Like a never-ending cycle. We finally gain abundance, but we don't how to deal … | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 03:34 PM |
| 338 | Holding frame means EVERYWHEREAs I like to say, Frame is not necessarily about something you are, but rather the refusal to be defined by others. Or their behavior, or your expectations thereof. Having people - women, children, etc. - fall into your frame is really about giving them the freedom to do so. And that sort of dynamic makes the people around you more calm, relaxed, happy, etc. Ironically, if you run around this world in a Blue Pill mindset trying to force people to do what you want and creating covert contracts, t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/17 03:09 PM |
| 22 | TRP is catnip for narcissists; bipolar girls are catnip for narcissistsOr to put it another way: Borderline Personality Disorder is simply an extreme version of normal female behavior. You can actually learn a lot by studying BPD, and realizing that all women will display some of those characteristics at times, in milder form. Never wanna date another one though. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/17 09:50 PM |
| 7 | The Book of JophilHey Rollo, yeah I remember your guys' debates back then. I learned a lot from them. Respect. IMO, that era when you, Jophil, Vulpine, Str8up, Colossus, AtomSmasher, Sinistar, Interceptor, Senor Fingers, Desdinova, Westcoaster, Squirrels, Danger, Joekerr, and probably dozens of others I am forgetting were all hashing things out on SoSauve circa 2007-2010 was one of the Golden Eras of the Manosphere. I think one of the biggest things we've lost over the last century is the passing down of wisdom f… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 09:16 PM |
| 6 | The Book of JophilI agree with /u/SirKolbath 's response. It's a combination of factors. There are low-quality women in this world who will act like shit-heads no matter what you do. While as a man you should figure out how to improve yourself, it's important to hold women accountable too. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 03:29 PM |
| 7 | The Book of JophilSosuave (at least back 2007-2011 when Jophil was around) had separate forums for General Discussion, High Schoolers, and "Mature Men". Jophil often posted on the Mature Men forum so yeah a lot of them were 25+. You're right, the world has definitely changed. I think what's interesting though is how many of the same principles still persist. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 03:31 AM |
| 5 | The Book of JophilObviously a huge fan of Pook myself, and recommend his "book" all the time. Just adding to the corpus ... | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/17 11:28 PM |
| 6 | The Book of JophilYeah think this is one of the all-time best posts I've come across in the Manosphere or TRP. Just so so on point ... like a million little light bulbs going off. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/17 11:27 PM |
| 13 | The Book of JophilObviously I can't speak for Jophil, but at the time (circa 2008/2009), there was a huge debate going in the Manosphere about whether you should A) call a girl out on her behavior, or B) just ignore and walk away. Jophil preferred the latter. It is not about what women do, but how you respond to it. What was great was the way he applied this in practice ... the moment a woman even started to try to pull shit, he pulled the rug out from under them like an icewater-in-his-veins assassin. Go read th… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/17 07:46 PM |
| 24 | The Book of JophilYeah, some great threads in there, lot of old wisdom, from a lot of experienced dudes. Also fascinating when /u/Rollo-Tomassi and Jophil start debating. Let me know what you think. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/17 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Backsliding / Getting soft after they are platedWhen I was at the same point as you, I didn't think I was trying to prove myself either. But I was. It was subtle, and I didn't even realize I was doing it. That's exactly how ego gets you. Give it some time and thought. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Backsliding / Getting soft after they are platedThis is purely a mindset issue. You need to get into a mindset of qualifying women, instead of trying to prove yourself. Most men when they start out dating/plating the red pill way, they are really trying to prove to themselves that they "deserve" it. It's ego driven behavior, even though we won't admit this to ourselves. We are trying to make up for all the women we didn't get, or missed out on, or the ones that got away, etc. etc. It's a progression. You just have to keep going, and work on t… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 02:39 AM |
| 177 | New evidence debunking bonobo "matriarchy"Not my field, but as a practicing PhD scientist, I can honestly say that Science vs. Scientism is a very real problem in the modern West. Scientism is essentially turning science into a sort of "religion", where certain "facts" become a matter of faith. I think there is a reasonable argument to be made that the masses, especially younger "progressive" folks, have been steadily turning science into a sort of religion in lieu of Christianity for the last half century. They don't understand that em… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/17 09:17 PM |
| 6 | having a hard time plating this oneEvery time I've seen this situation, it's always boiled down to one of two things: 1) She's been alpha-widowed hard in the past. Maybe it was some college boyfriend she'd thought she'd be with forever or what not, but there's something in her past that makes her unable to pair bond. If you dig into it a little bit during pillow-talk after sex, ask her about past relationships in a real non-judgmental way, give her a few leading questions and just let her ramble, you can often get pieces of the s… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 06:45 PM |
| 7 | How do you handle it when a woman gives only a vague commitment to first date?If you feel like sacrificing your self-respect to get laid is a worthwhile trade, then I would question your priorities. It's a slippery slope that will create a negative feedback loop, in my experience. Or as Pook said, Respect is All | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 02:03 PM |
| 15 | How do you handle it when a woman gives only a vague commitment to first date?If a girl is non-committal about something, you do the takeaway. Tell her something like "If you're busy, maybe some other time, later". Don't call her out or act butthurt though, just simply rescind the offer. No self-respecting man is going to ever agree to a "maybe date". Your time and attention are a valuable commodity, and she needs to treat them like that. Have standards for how women treat you, and hold them to it. If they don't, then walk away. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/17 01:42 PM |
| 7 | Hard next or reach out?If they respond, and say they are legitimately busy, I might try again then in a week or two, or maybe tell them to reach out to me when their schedule frees up. Keep it minimal effort. But if they don't even respond? Nah fuck that. That last line my original response is from the Book of Pook, btw. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 03:36 PM |
| 66 | Hard next or reach out?You need to have standards for how women treat you in life. If you text a girl, and she doesn't even bother to respond, your thought should not be "how can I get this girl's attention? Should I reach out again?" You should be thinking, "this girl isn't even respectful enough to reply. She does not live up to my standards." This isn't about her, it's about you and what kind of behavior from women you will tolerate. Start expecting more from women, and your life will become a lot more stress-free.… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 02:07 PM |
| 66 | Your Ego.The biggest problem with ego is that it seeks permanence in a world that is transient. It wants to conquer, obtain, control, etc. Nowhere is that more true than in how women love. They are designed by evolution to be able to move easily from one partner to another, i.e. the War Brides mentality. And nothing will fuck you up quicker then letting your ego desperately try to seek permanence in a woman's fickle way of loving. When you strip away your ego, you can finally find value in things, even t… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/17 04:28 PM |
| 11 | Decipher thisObviously she's feeling emotional, as all women are wont to do at times. As for why, who knows. The key difference between a shit test and a comfort test, by the way, is that a shit test is about you, whereas a comfort test is about her and/or her insecurities. Doesn't really matter which it is. The response is the same here. Amused Mastery. You are the rock, she is the ocean. Treat her like a little girl, who is unsure of something and runs to daddy's lap for reassurance. You don't have to resp… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 02:33 PM |
| 28 | Stop Trying To Cover Your Neediness Up With Your Words.I don't disagree with your general message, but as far setting boundaries, I would contend that you can do so either thru words or actions. The key is to let go of your ego when doing so. Alot of people conflate setting boundaries with lashing out at someone when you are disappointed by their behavior, which is really just an ego defense mechanism, to express your "hurt". But boundaries are simply about being authentic, to yourself and the world around you. No covert contracts or any of that oth… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/17 02:22 PM |
| 35 | How to stop becoming attached to a girl immediately after meeting her.The way to develop an abundance mentality is, at first, by having actual abundance (of girls or anything else). Over time, you get to a point where you no longer need an abundance of things in order to still have the mentality. Because you know you can go out and get more of that thing at any time. Without the mentality though, you will find yourself latching on to the best of your options at any given moment, even if you have multiple options. That is where many men go astray. Abundance mentali… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 03:07 PM |
| 27 | The Lie of EqualityNice Post. As I have been saying on here for years: The exception to the rule does not invalidate the rule. Too many people don't understand that simple principle. The reason we at TRP use heuristics is because they work most of the time. Too many people let those 5% of atypical cases dictate how they respond to the 95%, rather than starting from the basis of what usually works, and adapting to the nuances of particular situations (i.e. the exceptions) when they arise. That is not a framework fo… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Do Covert Narcissists defy AWALT?You shouldn't be worried about keeping her "on your side." If you are applying RP tactics and maintaining strong interpersonal boundaries, she will eventually get frustrated and switch her focus to a new target. That's a win-win for you. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 12:24 AM |
| 9 | Do Covert Narcissists defy AWALT?Yeah, until she devalues you and starts undermining you socially at work. Why you wanna fuck with mentally ill women? Bad way to go, dude. Listen, some women are best avoided. Even just for "fun". Learn to screen women, and screen them hard. The quality of your life is a reflection of those who you allow into it. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/17 11:14 PM |
| 6 | The Red Pill Has Now Become MainstreamI wrote an blog post last year about the Red Pill and Liberalism, if you google "red pill liberalism" or "red pill liberal" it's like the 2nd or 3rd hit. I haven't written anything on there the last 6 months cause I have been super busy with this start-up. Interestingly, I am getting a 10-fold spike in my normal daily traffic right now. All of it is from people google searching, probably after they read that article. I imagine the same spike is happening here. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do certain groups ignore hard science and research on hormone effects?Science vs. Scientism. The Left is just as guilty of taking on anti-scientific positions as the Right does, when it supports their beliefs. Most people are driven more by their beliefs than they care to admit. Science in the end is like a map of the world, not the world itself. Human interpretation is still required of the facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 08:16 PM |
| 19 | Should you focus on yourself to become the best you can be, or should you relentlessly pursue and sleep with women?Women are not the goal in life ... they are simply the by-product of a life well lived. Too many men get this simple premise backwards. When a man makes a woman his mission, he will invariably fail. It is the pursuit of things beyond women that makes you valuable in the sexual marketplace. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Do you guys have a crippling mistrust of all women since coming to trp?Put yourself out there into the world, with no expectations, and see what comes back to you. Where most guys go astray is expecting something in return. Have boundaries in how you want to be treated, sure, but not covert contracts on how other people should respond to the things you do or give. The source of your pain comes from those expectations. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/17 04:08 PM |
| 6 | TRP and PoliticsI am glad you agree with me, but I was also being a little critical of you. When you refer to yourself as "someone on the left" in your OP, you are still identifying as one of the "teams" in the Blue Pill narrative that GLO mentions below. You need to dispense with that. Assume formlessness. It is the only way to let go of your last vestiges of blue pill conditioning. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/17 04:22 AM |
| 16 | TRP and PoliticsThe whole left-wing/right-wing split in America and Western Europe is just a distraction. Both of them are variants of classical liberalism. Of course, Progressives have largely hijacked the left in the West over the last half century starting with the Frankfurt School and cultural marxism, but that's another story for another day ... Saying "I'm on the left" or "I'm on the right" is deluding yourself. You should value ideas based on their individual merit, not out of some sense of team spirit o… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/17 03:34 AM |
| 71 | ATTENTION: Visitors from VICEThe problem with such an empirical approach is that it often proves things to be true which we find unsavory or even difficult to believe. Most people can't deal with that cognitive dissonance. That article that /u/Rollo-Tomassi posted the other day about Mitch's Purple Pill is a perfect example. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/17 02:16 PM |
| 10 | Be the Man You Want To Be. Let the Pieces Fall Where They May.I take a stoic approach to those situations. If someone is being disrespectful to me, that is a reflection of them not me. It means they are a disrespectful person. No need to "defend myself" per se. Simply draw the line where your boundaries are, and if someone repeatedly violates them, walk away. Now the flip side of that is you need to make sure you are someone worth respecting. That is where the self-improvement and self-mastery of TRP come in. Build yourself up, and carry yourself with clas… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/17 01:34 PM |
| 66 | Be the Man You Want To Be. Let the Pieces Fall Where They May.There's often a lot of conversation about setting boundaries in the manosphere, or calling a girl out, and whether that's good and bad. I think what the OP's post really highlights is that it is not so much about setting boundaries themselves, but how you set boundaries that dictates their effect. The way you go about it sub-communicates your confidence and frame to others. When you let go of your ego, and simply express (thru words or actions) what kind of behavior you do and do not find accept… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/17 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Design your lifestyle around your innate personality traitsI'm an INTP, but also twice your age and a PhD scientist. You sound a lot like me when I was a teenager. You're right, I could have lived safely and comfortably within my own limitations. But for me, the most rewarding parts of life have turned out to be the things that have challenged me. Those are the things that forced me to grow into a man, the things that have come to define me. The impediment to action advances action ... that which stands in the way becomes the way. - Marcus Aurelius | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/17 08:24 PM |
| 4 | askTRP Megathread August 23I have a couple girls in my life right now who are like that, and basically FWBs. Don't put your life on hold for her, if another plate wants to come over then make plans. You can hang out with this social butterfly girl when you both have time. Both of my FWBs I've been hanging around with since last year. I let them come and go, as they please, like cats (as Corey Wayne would say). In the meantime, I live my life, get shit done, and don't worry about it. Some girls are just like that, especial… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/17 03:27 PM |
| 19 | askTRP Megathread August 23One thing that often gets overlooked is that some women are just not "relationship material". The social butterflies usually fall into this category ... too many options, temptations, drinking, girls-nights-out, etc. Those women are usually a friends-with-benefits (FWB) situation at best. The problem thus arises when men want to treat them more like a serious relationship. The key is to align your expectations with reality. Take her for who she is, enjoy your time with her, and don't expect thin… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/17 02:35 PM |
| 1 | What are your favorite TRP threads that maybe have slipped under the radar a bit and aren't incredibly high-ranked? And who are your favorite TRP users?Comes on here for the first time in a bit, and sees one of my old posts made a list. Nice lol. Here is one of my favorite red pill/manosphere posts of all time from nearly 10 years ago with wisdom from a couple legends (Vulpine/Sinistar), that I doubt many people here have seen: Insecurity - Castle Analogy | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 03:12 PM |
| 8 | Considering the statistics behind Game, isn't it a waste of time?Your way of thinking is where we all have to start. But eventually after you've been with enough women, you begin to realize that abundance is more about your time, not necessarily the number of plates you have or whatever. Your time is valuable and limited ... you have to choose wisely what to spend it on. One thing that might surprise you about that approach is that it causes you to give off a naturally disinterested vibe, which is like catnip for women. You don't need anything from them, nor … | /r/askTRP | 08/07/17 03:53 PM |
| 12 | Considering the statistics behind Game, isn't it a waste of time?This really gets back to screening women. From the first moment I talk to any woman I am constantly screening and qualifying them. Why? Because I've learned that most of them are not worth my time. At each stage - initial contact, getting the number, texting, going out on a date, etc. - I am filtering women out. I would say 95% of women I start talking to I NEVER even ask out, because I don't want to. The key is that at each stage, I only put in the bare minimum amount of time and effort, until … | /r/askTRP | 08/07/17 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Things Are Going Well, But What Is Wrong With Me?I'm a few years older than you, in my mid 30's, and one thing I've learned is that you can go all the way to Z in that alphabet and still not feel satisfied. Steve Jobs got it right at the end of his life: it's not things that we crave, but meaning. I agree with the TRP mantra of finding a mission in life, but it's not the mission itself or even the things you obtain from it that give you meaning ... meaning comes from within. The alternative is to let the Blue Pill narrative assign meaning for … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Things Are Going Well, But What Is Wrong With Me?You're dealing with existential dread, which is something humans have struggled with for thousands of years. I think it's sort of an issue that isn't well dealt with at TRP, but it's something that crops up for many old-timers around here and the manosphere, after we've conquered many of our initial challenges when it comes to women and life. It's strange because we are facing a sort of existential dread from unplugging when many first come here, then we come full circle and find a new kind of e… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 09:53 PM |
| 10 | What it's like to be a 49M, dating 20–25 year-old femalesAs a man, it is all about learning to help from above, not below. Remember, a woman's respect flows upwards ... men love women, women love children, and children love puppies. If you're going to be benevolent, you must do so from your frame. The ironic thing is that many of the principles that TRP preaches actually make the people around you happier. It is counter-intuitive. Don't be misled by the social tropes of the blue pill cultural narrative. They crave strength, boundaries, leadership ... … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 07:01 PM |
| 13 | To get over someone you must go under someone else.I am of the opinion that to be a truly RP man, you must be able to go monk mode periodically without getting needy or depressed. Otherwise you are still dependent on female validation, i.e. you're still putting pussy on the pedestal ... There are times when all must go without, you must be a master of yourself, no matter what. There is a difference in having an abundance mentality, and simply having an abundance of something (e.g. women) at any given moment. The mentality is something that persi… | /r/askTRP | 11/06/17 12:35 AM |
| 9 | How to deal with women who are very socially connected?Say this first: Social butterflies are typically horrible for LTRs or any sort of actual relationship. They are often too busy and/or addicted to the validation they get from their endless social activities to actually invest in a man. The lack of investment sets up a difficult dynamic for a healthy male-female relationship. I generally avoid women like that except for a FWB/FB type thing. To your specific question: I wouldn't worry about all her friends or trying to out-compete her socially. Ju… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/17 04:02 PM |
| 5 | Does TRP even represent the redpill anymore?To give a little more context: There are only about 100 Endorsed Contributors (EC's and Vanguards) ... so our ability to outweigh all the "noise" with quality content is limited. We've discussed this internally, and there's not much to be done. At best, people need to use their own heads, and filter content on TRP as they read it. Not all of it is equal. It's an open internet forum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/17 02:50 PM |
| 22 | Women reaching the age of 25~30 suddenly become TradconYeah is this part of a TRP phenomenon we call the Pre-Wall Prance. It has been written about before on here. Just keep in mind that, no matter how "pure" they may seem, all women have a past. Don't be deluded by whatever mask they wear. Just part of the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/17 04:05 PM |
| 14 | Old Dude PerspectiveI would agree with that. Again, that's why we generally disdain marriage around here. Life long monogamy is a difficult proposition. But I think my point is that once you find yourself trying to negotiate desire, you are in a bad position. Or as Rollo likes to say: Desire cannot be negotiated. Looks like my original comment unfortunately got removed by the auto-moderator for linking to another subreddit, oops. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/17 02:55 PM |
| 3 | Old Dude PerspectiveHead over to the Married Red Pill, brother ... go talk with /u/BluepillProfessor or /u/[deleted] or /u/Archwinger, they'll give you similar advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/17 02:14 PM |
| 12 | Old Dude PerspectiveI also have news for you...after marriage sex often becomes elusive and based on a reward. Like you are some kind of puppy deserving of a 'good boy', or 'bad boy' based on your accomplishment. Rollover and get your belly rubbed.... I have news for you: if you're wife is withholding sex and intimacy like this, then you are not doing it right. Go check out the Married Red Pill and read up on the 12 Levels of Dread. Your wife sounds like she has become complacent, unafraid to lose you. Yet fear is … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/17 01:46 PM |
| 8 | A Call of Duty Warrior's Guide To Hard and Soft PowerYou can always tell a newbie because they go around telling everyone to hard next every woman at every instance. Till you are just hard-nexting all women. That is not an exemplar of a man who is "in control", but simply a manifestation of a man consumed by bitterness. In many cases, a simple withdrawal of attention, a little dread or soft-nexting, accomplishes the desired outcome. The real problem is that they lack an understanding of the difference between Red Pill theory, and the nuance of app… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/17 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Controlling the counterproductive fear of losing a woman you loveYour focus needs to be on your interest level, not hers. Simple fact is that you should be rejecting at least half if not more of the women you encounter. If you are not doing that, then you are not aiming high enough nor qualifying women stringently enough. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/17 02:28 PM |
| 9 | Controlling the counterproductive fear of losing a woman you lovewomen I tend to meet now have kids and a lot of other baggage/anxiety/attachment issues, so they are constantly trying to test me You kind of answered your own question here. Many women these days in the West are raised and encouraged to be narcissists, and are not really suitable for long term relationships. The amount of BS a man would have to go thru to sustain it would destroy your soul. I reject most women these days I go out with a time or two. And for those I go out with longer, many of t… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/17 02:53 PM |
| 56 | Mixed Signals are a result of your SMV fluctuating.No, mixed signals are simply a sign of low interest. Or in Rollo's terms: The Medium is the Message Your SMV might fluctuate over time, or maybe some other dude is on the horizon. Could be any one of a dozen things. Doesn't matter. A woman only cares about her interest level in you. She behaves according to that. Don't confuse momentary IOIs or whatever with high interest. A woman who is highly interested in you won't confuse you. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/17 03:20 AM |
| 21 | The most important part of game is not being emotionally investedI think, for better or worse, for new guys first swallowing the pill, that becoming "invested" in all the RP stuff is part of the process. It's like something to hold onto while they're unplugging and having their world torn asunder. There is kind of a second phase after that, when they've slept with a bunch of women or hit certain goals in life or the gym or whatever, maybe fucked one of the hottest girls they've been with but had her go cold, that they finally accept and internalize it. The mo… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/17 06:16 PM |
| 7 | Loyal Girlfriend of 5 Years suddently acting insane, breaks up after talking to FriendOP, usually by the time they make a decision to break-up, they have been thinking about it for a while. /u/rob_holloway's advice is quality, good and balanced RP advice. You can waste days over-analyzing what you might have done, but the key in these situations is to let go ... outcome independence. You can't control her or what she does, but you can control how YOU respond. Keep your emotions in check, don't try to "win her over". Be the rock, unwavering, resilient. She may come back, she may n… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/17 04:03 PM |
| 23 | Fucking ugly girls after breakup?I think this can go either way. Yeah GFTOW can work, but if you don't really find the women attractive, it can cause your thoughts to linger back on your ex. Really the optimal thing is to only fuck women with a certain level of attractiveness, or none at all. Digging through the gutter isn't going to make you feel better. My sage advice here, based on my experience, is that you may need to monk mode it a little bit, until you're ready. Sometimes it's best to slay your own internal dragons, rath… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 08:09 PM |
| 7 | what's the point?This is something referred to as existential depression or an existential crisis. Men have been suffering from this for thousands of years, you can find examples even in ancient literature. I wrote something about my process of overcoming it from a Red Pill perspective a couple years ago here this post Victims, Love, and Pook: The life of a Man is not to be coddled and guided. A man is not born, he is made. He must fail, he must be broken, he must be resurrected. He must live out his imagination… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/17 03:09 PM |
| 58 | What are some bad habits men make in ongoing relationships?The number one problem for most men in any sort of relationship, whether it be LTRs or something more casual, is being ruled by neediness and fear of loss. Too many men are caught up in the notion that women will somehow "fix" whatever issues or shortcomings they have in life. Or that there is one special lady that will make your life complete. The reality is that you need to focus on being a complete person yourself, building yourself up. Women can be a nice add on to your life, but they should… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 12:53 AM |
| 7 | Plate that might become LTR loves party and alcoholIn my experience, girls who like to drink/party or are social butterflies never make good LTRs. They are just not good relationship material. Keep your investment minimal. Keep them as plates or FWBs at best. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/17 02:00 PM |
| 26 | Teaching Slaves to Readit’s that men would collude together to deliberately exploit that knowledge to wrest some marginal control over women’s sexual selection process. This raises an intriguing point. The notion of a lot of conservatives and traditionalists is that everything would be fine if we could just go back to the old ways of overtly controlling women's behavior. But the possibility exists if enough men become RP-aware to covertly control women's behavior by subtly exploiting their natural tendencies and sexua… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/17 03:49 AM |
| 25 | There Are No Hot Girls! (Or Maybe You're Looking But Not Seeing?)I think his point is, if a girl is hot approach her ... lol Here's a thread full of great advice (succinct too) from 10 YEARS AGO. People should spend more time reading the classics, than writing out half-baked ideas. Apply those principles in real life, think about the results for a while, then come back here and write something when you have something interesting to say. The quality of your output depends on the quality of your input. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/17 03:02 PM |
| 129 | Boomerang GameFunny because I was pondering writing up a similar topic to post here after answering several similar questions on askTRP recently. A successful plate spinner should never burn bridges, cause if you let plates go in the right way, they often do come back into your orbit later. Boomerang, if you like. And no point limiting your options. The key is to learn how to have relationships without attachments. To learn the subtle line between persistence and indifference. The problem most men have is the… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/17 10:34 PM |
| 23 | Girl acting distant since I'm not giving her attention?If a girl pulls back, then you pull back farther. Sometimes plates completely break, but often they just fade and then come back later, BUT ONLY if you play it right. She's not your girlfriend, she's not your ex, she doesn't owe you anything. Let women dance in and out of your life. Realize they're like cats in that way. Be fun and playful about it ... indifferent. Don't chase her, or contact her more, don't do anything differently. Just keep being the same cool guy that got her in the first pla… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Next or reset?No any sort of Snapchat views or Facebook likes or whatever are just breadcrumbs, don't respond to that shit. Now if she directly contacts you (e.g. sends you a text) then you can respond. Otherwise just wait, give her the gift of missing you. And when you do reach out, make sure it comes from a place of outcome independence ... IDGAF. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/17 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Next or reset?No reason to hard next her if you think she's be down to hang and DTF in the future, if that's what you want. An alpha male by definition does what he wants. So give it a month or two of silence/space, and if she hasn't contacted you already, go for the reset. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/17 05:00 PM |
| 7 | Understanding Game through the lens of Male FriendshipI saw your comment on the False Equivalencies post the other day, glad you turned it into a full post. I like to think of Game as a way of being authentic without being overt. Or in other words, a way of authentically expressing interest/desire in a girl without overtly telling her you "like" her (aka coming off as sappy needy beta AFC). In that sense, Game sort of parallels women's covert communication strategies (i.e. Rollo's The Medium is the Message) ... it is simply a method of fighting fir… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/17 01:37 AM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread March 01Several years. But I go through phases ... get tempted into STRs that last maybe 6 months. Or every once in a while I go into a semi monk mode for a month or so, just to recharge my batteries and get life shit done. Women are a by-product, not the goal, and like anything they can become a distraction if overdone. It can be a nice change of pace. Once you've been with enough women (I'm in my mid-30's and have been with a lot, usually 10-12 new girls a year on average), it does lose a little of it… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/17 09:21 PM |
| 16 | Marcus Aurelius said - “If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.”The key thing about stoicism is that once you accept that there some things you can't control, you are then free to respond to them in any way you choose. I'll give you a concrete TRP-related example: say a woman is shit testing me, and she is expecting some sort of typical angry male response. My anger though is not going to "win" the shit test, nor will it stop her from testing me in the future. So instead I laugh and then start to tease her. Before long she's giggling too. I am free to respon… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/17 03:02 PM |
| 99 | The City Makes You SoftAs a southerner who now lives in the city of Chicago, I can say unequivocally: ditto, I fully agree with this sentiment. It is ironic that the progress of civilization gradually undermines the masculine nature that produced it. And it just serves to highlight in this day and age that masculinity only belongs to those who seek it out. Women are born, but men are made. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/17 09:03 PM |
| 4 | When girls lose interest suddenly?Was gonna come in here to say the same thing, but this is the correct answer. Only thing I'd nitpick on is that women take a long time to "fall in love" ... usually a few months at least. So if it's within the first few months, she might really like you but still go cold. Women's emotions fluctuate like that. The key is how you respond to it - weak and needy vs. stoic and masculine. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 07:34 PM |
| 6 | Treat them like dirt and they'll stick like mud?Addiction/obsession is the result of mixing pleasure with pain. Women want to be taken on a rollercoaster of emotions. Give her that, and she will be happiest. If you instead give her consistency and stability, she'll simply be bored. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 03:40 AM |
| 6 | Friendzone after 3 months of relationshipThis is an excellent lesson/example on Oneitis and how it can cloud your judgment, even if your'e red-pilled to some degree. This and /u/88Will88 comments should be stickied, and this thread put somewhere as a "Oneitis example" for newbies. OP, had a girl try to do something similar to me recently (not a girlfriend, just a plate with LTR potential). When she did, I laughed at her, teased her, and told her I had zero interest in friendship. Then I went dead silent. She'll come back or she won't .… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/17 07:02 PM |
| 24 | My Valentine's Day plea for the newbies and lurkers on TRP who are looking for that last minute advice/edge to finally win over your oneitis and make tomorrow a special dayThis is actually pretty in line with all Corey Wayne's stuff. I don't agree with him on everything, but one thing I think he is absolutely 100% right about is that: Women want a challenge. A man must initiate, but the woman must win you over. That lies at the core of "being the prize", of push-pull and other tactics. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/02/17 03:26 AM |
| 13 | The LTR or not questionHere's my theory on LTRs. You really have to take the TRP mantra "She's not yours, it's just your turn" to heart. LTR means a "long-term" relationship, not a "forever-term" one. If you choose to go down the LTR route, realize that at some point it will probably fall apart. May be sooner, may be later. But like everything else in life, all things are ephemeral. They come and they go, either thru leaving or death or something else. You cannot hold them. Cannot possess them. Enjoy your time with th… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 09:49 PM |
| 42 | Disrespect = next?It's up to you whether you want to (permanently) hard next or (temporarily) soft next her. What she did does sound disrespectful. Either way, DO NOT explain anything to her or try to lecture her. Just turn around and walk away. Silence is golden. Let her hamster do the work for you. Then if you want to re-engage after a few days of soft nexting, you can do so. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 03:13 PM |
| 37 | Never ever let your emotions show during an argument with a womanAgreed. Men who argue with women don't understand women. The only way you can "win" an argument with a woman is to convince her she doesn't feel the way that she does. But of course she feels that way, regardless of how consistent those feelings are with the facts of the situation. Arguing with her is a fool's errand. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/17 09:13 PM |
| 6 | Sorority girlsHave you told either one you are exclusive? If not, then you don't have any obligation to either one in that sense. And behaving as if you do is foolish at best. In my experience, women realizing there is competition for you amongst other women only makes them want you more. You don't need to go around throwing things in their face, but if other people do it for you, then that is different. We call this passive dread. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Evolutionary Psychology DebateThe exception to the rule does not invalidate the rule. Some people are still born with tails, or six fingers or whatever. Probably at a rate relatively comparable to gender dysphoria (0.03% of the population). However, that doesn't make the statement "humans don't have tails" not true, generally speaking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/17 06:52 PM |
| 37 | Be careful of being too Alpha, Comfort Tests are far more lethal than Shit-TestsI think the best primer to shit tests vs. comfort tests is the one /u/NightwingTRP wrote on TRP a couple years ago: The TRP Field Toolkit - Part 3: Shit tests and Comfort tests | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/17 06:04 PM |
| 30 | Evolutionary Psychology DebateThe notion that evolution has affected every part of the human body and physiological functioning, except for our brain, is pretty silly. It is also one of the most un-scientific positions of Progressives on the "Left", gender studies folks, and blue pillers alike. Discussing how human behavior and the brain has been shaped by evolution with those folks often feels like talking with creationists about evolution. It just goes to show you: everyone is all for science, until it interferes with thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/17 04:13 PM |
| 6 | LTR made me an huge pussythe thought that all this could end here and going back to my lonely life is so depressing This right here is your problem, not the girl. You need to build yourself up, your life up, so that it is rich and full with or without a woman. Focus on fixing that. Stop thinking of yourself as a victim of circumstance. One other tip to give a young guy like yourself is that, as a man myself in his late 30's, there is always another one. Another woman, another adventure. All things in this life are ephem… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/17 04:27 PM |
| 80 | Girl repeatedly tells me we're not going back to hers or having sex on the first night,we do. How i played the situation to get back to hers.Then stop. Don't be autistic. It's supposed to be fun and playful. If at any moment it stops being fun and playful, then pull back. Maybe try again a little later. Often you get a little further each time just by showing your ability to navigate social nuances. A woman isn't just testing how dominant you are, but how socially adept you are. A man doesn't force a woman to do what he wants, he seduces her into it. He leads, but she must follow of her own accord. If she's not following your lead, t… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/17 09:31 PM |
| 48 | [Part 1 of 2] 40 Classic Shit Tests, What They Mean, and How to Pass ThemIt is a great irony that many men think it's bad when a woman is being dramatic or shit-testing them. That's just how women are, lads. How the world works. Like rain falling or the tides rolling in and out. Letting it affect you emotionally is like being upset with nature because it is inconvenient for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/17 03:59 PM |
| 2 | The Exception to the RuleYou mean the Handbook? Probably more of a question for RPS. I don't remember who edited the first two versions. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/17 03:50 PM |
| 1 | The Exception to the RulePeople like to use the exceptions as excuses ... so yes we do. We are not into people making excuses, because they are essentially self-limiting beliefs. Life is all about overcoming challenges. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/17 03:47 PM |
| 14 | Not Having Women in Your Life May Make You Unhappy, but a Woman Will Never Bring You True Happiness.No one is saying not to pursue women. I pursue women all the time, and usually have multiple ladies in my life at any given moment. But the ironic thing is that it is all the things I do that have nothing to do with getting women that make me valuable to women in the sexual marketplace and raise my SMV. Making women the primary focus is like putting the cart before the horse. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/17 02:50 PM |
| 3 | The Exception to the RuleI concur with everything /u/SkorchZang said. True power is wielded in the shadows, not in the open. You have to be able to blend in, even if you think differently. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/17 02:41 PM |
| 9 | The Exception to the RuleRead my post history, for example: Assume Formlessness | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/17 08:35 PM |
| 13 | The Exception to the RuleI would agree with all that. I think the real problem is how many men are subtly seduced into adopting a feminized view of the world based on the "exception to rule" thinking. Pro-tip: Thinking and acting like a woman does not make you a man. Really you'd think that be an obvious fact. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/17 07:21 PM |
| 106 | LMR from your LTR: Never let a women decide when you DON'T have sex.I find it amusing that women think they can unilaterally re-negotiate the terms of the relationship deal ... and even more amusing that many men go along with it. Nothing in this world is unilateral. Everything is transactional. If you are not playing the game, then you are getting played by it. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/17 05:42 PM |
| 8 | If feminists believe that men and women are exactly the same why do they differentiate between the sexes and genders?Pure homosexuality doesn't exist in most other animal species, although many animals do engage in homosexual behaviors on occasion ... mostly due to the temporary lack of available sexual partners of the opposite sex. But those individuals still engage in heterosexual sex and reproduce. Thus homosexual behavior can persist to a limited degree. The actual sex chromosomes and their corresponding gendered behaviors/hormones are an entirely different matter though. If someone actually has a sex chro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 04:03 PM |
| 13 | If feminists believe that men and women are exactly the same why do they differentiate between the sexes and genders?There is absolutely zero scientific evidence for the existence of more than two biological sexes (and their related behaviors) in mammalian species. Progressives have re-defined the word "gender" over the last 50 years to challenge the notion of biological sex. But there is zero reason for evolution to maintain androgynous or gender-fluid individuals in a sexually-mating population ... in fact they would have been quickly bred out thru natural selection due to the two-fold cost of sexual reprodu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 03:40 PM |
| 6 | What's wrong with me? I lost my drive.We all reach a level, especially as men versed in Red Pill truths get older, where certain things that used to seem unattainable become almost easy. Women included. It then becomes a matter of deciding where you will put your time and effort. A point where quality becomes more important that quantity. Because your time is valuable, a scarce resource ... thus time itself becomes your abundance mentality. I go through periods for a couple months every year where I just get exhausted of even puttin… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/17 06:27 PM |
| 9 | Change takes time - introspective recollection of a TRP journeyThe thing that binds all of us here at TRP is the rejection of the victim mentality so prevalent in modern day Western society. You've got that down, so you are miles ahead of most of the people around you. The rest is polishing and fine-tuning. The results come from patience and persistence. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/16 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Taking TRP even further than women - What about Science?Law of Power #38 still applies here: Behave as others, but think for yourself. You have to play the game, or at least pretend to. I've done it for years. Pay lip service to being doing more social science stuff, even if its fluff. Learn to incorporate some the policitally-correct terminology in your grant applications and what not. But many of my close collaborators know my real views. If you carry yourself with integrity, argue your positions rationally without getting upset, and are successful… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/16 07:58 PM |
| 236 | University Kangaroo Court Suspends 10 Innocent Football Players, Entire Team BoycottsIt is unfortunate that the University of Minnesota and its leadership don't respect the principles our Western liberal society was built upon. Nor the sacrifices people have made and died for to preserve it. Due process is one of the foundations of any free society. We can't have witch hunts or people being burned at the stake just because someone accused them of something. There has to be evidence. They have to have the right to defend themselves. Freedom, counter-intuitively, derives from boun… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Taking TRP even further than women - What about Science?There are plenty of PhD-level scientists out there who are red pill as fuck. There are some here on TRP, including myself. We just don't talk about these things publicly. A lot of what you are describing are the people teaching or researching at the lower tiers. At the highest-levels, the actual practice science is pretty cut-throat and Machiavellian. The great biologist Theo Dobzhansky once said (in the 1950's): "There are alot of 'scientists' in the world, but only a handful of people actually… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/16 04:03 PM |
| 13 | CMV: (Most) Anti-feminist women are attention seeking snowflakesMovements don't succeed by having everyone specifically understanding the concepts and reasons, but rather by broad changes of altering perceptions and tolerated discussion. Yeah it's called the Overton Window. It is not about changing the "truth", but changing what is permissible and not permissible to say. This is why any social or political movement (either from the Left or Right) can devolve into Totalitarianism ... and why moderate voices are always needed. The danger does not lie in the "o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/16 04:57 PM |
| 6 | How to get out of the depression phaseIn my experience, the Depression phase is really just a symptom of replacing one victim mindset with another. I think we all naturally do it. The key is to break out of that victim mentality. I've written on TRP in the past about my experiences with the same thing: Victims, Love, and Pook Swallowing the Red Pill is a Pendulum The Benevolent Alpha | /r/askTRP | 09/12/16 04:04 PM |
| 5 | Do girls give IOIs to strangers or brand new acquaintances?You don't have to be the "best" to get with a girl ... you just have to be her best option at that moment. Hence the TRP phrase: She's not yours, it's just your turn. Enjoy your time with a girl, but don't get hung up on any single one. All things in this world are ephemeral. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/16 03:51 PM |
| 15 | Last night I attended a screening of "The Red Pill" by Cassie Jaye.Agreed. The greatest power in this world is that which is covert, not overt. Clever people wield their influence from the shadows, to do otherwise merely makes you a target to aim at. Or in other words: Assume Formlessness | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/16 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Found a Guardian article about you guys, apparently you're dangerous (lol)This article is pretty much spot on. I don't really understand the British press at all, but then again it's often not that much better on this side of the pond. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/16 03:16 PM |
| 35 | Found a Guardian article about you guys, apparently you're dangerous (lol)The moment they start calling you names in any debate, is the moment you know you've won the argument. The key is simply to stand your ground, and not to relent into trying to defend yourself. If your ideas have merit, they will stand on their own. So hey, if the Guardian wants to call us names, so be it ... | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/16 04:19 AM |
| 17 | New 'study:' Masculine men more likely to be mentally illDid a quick read thru. This is a meta-review ... meaning they didn't actually collect data but smushed a bunch of data from different studies together and created "codes" to indicate psychological distress across all the different studies. In short, I'd take the results worth a grain of salt. As a practicing PhD scientist, I can say that meta-reviews entail a lot of assumptions and are always problematic methodologically. I will point out this interesting comment in the paper though: Consequence… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/16 04:57 PM |
| 401 | “It’s like he has nothing else to do.”Women are not the goal in life ... they are simply the by-product of a life well lived. Perfect example of this. You can see how women react to a man who makes women his mission. It is the pursuit of other things, however, that makes you valuable as a man in the sexual marketplace. Even women instinctively know this. Too many men unfortunately conflate the by-product of pursuing goals with the goal itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/16 09:31 PM |
| 23 | Are red flags from years ago still relevant?This seems like a good time to re-highlight the phenomenon known as the Pre-Wall Prance: The pre-wall prance is a pattern of behaviours by women where as they enter the epiphany stage, realizing they are nearing or have just started to hit the wall, they clean up their behaviour, attitudes, and presentation, in order to prance-like-a-unicorn. The best illusions don't appear to be an illusion at all. Be aware. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/16 09:46 PM |
| 9 | Urbanism, Ruralism, and Dunbar's NumberVoltaire was a smart man. Yeah, you know someone was saying something was sexism a few weeks back, and I pointed out that it really wasn't sexism (they were just upset cause someone disagreed with them in debate they were having) ... and the immediate response to me from one of the white knights nearby was "do you know what sexism is, CopperFox, what do you think it means?". A question I ignored, and simply finished my point and left. There is a dictionary definition of words, and we all have to… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/16 05:42 PM |
| 16 | Urbanism, Ruralism, and Dunbar's NumberNo plugging today. I do agree with /u/Whisper 's general point about differences in rural and urban environments creating different cognitive realities for people and influencing their political views. Although /u/Nightwing also has a good point, in that we're conflating terminology here. The term Liberalism in the OP is really referring to modern Progressivism, not the classical liberal principles of Voltaire, Hume, and John Locke. It's all kind of semantics. But I think it does really highligh… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/16 03:59 PM |
| 24 | The social media mess from tonight's electionsThe Silent Majority is still alive and well. Most Americans are moderates, NOT far right or far left folks. Looks like the Democrats have shifted so far left they've alienated a lot of blue collar white folks in the middle. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/16 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Arguing with women too much (and how to prevent it) - advice?The only men who argue with women are men who don't understand women. Women live in a world of feelz ... the only way to "win" an argument with them is to convince them they don't feel the way they do, which is a fool's errand. are there any simply tools/lines I can just use to shut down an argument smoothly? Either calmly say "we are not discussing this right now", or leave if she won't stop. Withdraw your attention, she will get the message real quick that your life is a drama-free zone. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/16 09:43 PM |
| 20 | Are white men a bunch of dinosaurs?Men don’t need more masculine posturing or promises to restore them to forever-gone greatness. What they need is to make their own move toward gender equality, to break down the stereotypes and fetters of masculinity. I've said this before and will say it again: Women have no business trying to tell men how to be men. Seriously, they can fuck off with that shit. I think what the author of the article forgets is that if all the white men decide to go Galt and further withdraw from American societ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/16 07:54 PM |
| 49 | Woman punches guy, she gets fractured skull when he defends himself, most in society want to crucify the manLet's be honest here: the real perpetrator in this case are the feminists who told her to act like a man. Cause she is basically the same as a man, right? Mentally. Physically. And so she walked into a fight and acted like a man. And she got cold-cocked. There are no winners here. The woman has f'ing brain damage, and the dude if ever caught will be harangued in the court of public opinion, if not our SJW court of law. But the real lesson is that there are no winners in this Era of Feminism. We … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/16 05:48 AM |
| 2 | A life lesson I will take to the grave, and hopefully you will tooThis and your original comment above are very good. Mods, we should award this man a point. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/16 12:40 AM |
| 51 | Talking to you was the most exciting thing she did all dayMany people are beguiled by the illusions they have of other people, and how others appear to live their lives. This is especially true in this era of social media BS. Their beliefs are based on the fantasy other people project. Those who see reality for what it is, can bend it to their will ... those who see only illusion, are bent to its will. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/16 02:23 PM |
| 16 | Good redpill posters don't crab in bucket or get jealousI think you're confused by the fact that TRP is a more traditional male space, where respect is earned. We aren't here to provide some sort of social-media-style validation. The post in question was okay, but many of the points Vandaalen made are accurate. /u/vandaalen is actually a respected member of this community. I recall several excellent posts he's made on TRP in the past, as well a lot of good advice he often gives on askTRP. Right now, no one respects you cause you haven't done anything… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/16 10:47 PM |
| 18 | What do "plate dates" look like?I'm pretty much always seeing multiple women at once. Sometimes I take them out, sometimes I just have them come straight to my place or vice versa. It depends on what I want to do, and how much I like them. You may want to read the following: Guide to Plate Maintenence ... remember all girls start at the bottom, and have to work their way up. Don't start treating a girl like a girlfriend or even someone you're dating till she's earned it. You also might wanna check out Blackdragon's blog about … | /r/askTRP | 24/10/16 03:24 PM |
| 6 | TRP: A HistoryThe ironic thing about the denigration of fatherhood and the blue-pill brainwashing in the modern West is that it makes men less likely to seek real understanding, or to pursue the harder path of truly changing oneself. To ask questions. Many men would rather have the comfort and safety of platitudes and shortcuts and do-this/don't-do-that posts. They want to be told what to do. They have become habituated to it. And too many newcomers here fail to understand that it is that habit that we actual… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/16 02:54 PM |
| 38 | Mitch's Purple PillI think it's fantastic you posted this over on PPD ... the cognitive dissonance already starting to erupt there is very illustrative of the point you are making. Uncanny, almost. To your post, until you reach a point of truly internalizing TRP, it is simply a facade, and you are still blue pill at your core. Not meant as a comment towards shaming anyone, fact is all of us have been there at some point. But the reality is that you must be cognizant of those latent tendencies. It is often our own … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/16 07:53 PM |
| 10 | Mitch's Purple PillHere I'll translate this for you: I am blue pill and the only thing I care about is exposing sexism and misogyny when I see it and describing it as the cowardly and ass-backwards mindset that it is finding people I disagree with and calling them names. Discourse on the level of a four-year-old ... keep it classy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/16 07:37 PM |
| 7 | too attachedThe moment you feel like you can't live without something ... is the moment you should turn around and walk away. May sound a little harsh, but I've found it to be generally a good rule to live by. Attachment is indeed the root of all suffering. Doesn't mean you have to leave it behind forever, but at least pull back for a while. Time and space provide clarity for the mind. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/16 02:33 PM |
| 14 | Endorsed Contributor WeekendWish we had some warning on this RPS (or maybe we did and I missed it). Most of my posts take a week or so to write and edit. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/16 04:22 PM |
| 14 | HomosexualsINB4 this thread turns into a bunch of people arguing about morality and shit ... It is not homosexuality per se that many straight men are resistant too, it is more the effeminate behavior that often goes along with it. The thing we chaff at is that the kinds of effeminate hedonistic behavior you often see at gay pride parades or gay bars not become the definition of masculine behavior. Because they are not. Women and effeminate gay men have no business defining masculinity, or telling men how … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/16 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Duke opens one of the first male Re-Education and Feminization Camps in the USJust an accident while I was doing some outdoor recreational activities. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/16 02:35 PM |
| 42 | Duke opens one of the first male Re-Education and Feminization Camps in the USTrue story. I broke my arms a while back. Had to basically start from scratch lifting again, down to deadlifting my body weight and benching little 35 lb dumbbells like a girl. Had to rebuild the bone and cartilage slowly over time. I could have said fuck it. I'm closer in age to 40 now than 30. Made excuses. Gave up. Tried to change the standards, like the "loser men" noted above. But I didn't. Took a long time, but I'm creeping back up towards 400 lbs on my deadlifts again. Being a man: You ei… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/16 07:57 PM |
| 212 | Duke opens one of the first male Re-Education and Feminization Camps in the USAnother good find /u/G_Petronius ... We should be honest here though, no "men who are actually men" are going to be signing up for this. It's going to be marginal men, neckbeards, male feminists and the like who are poor examples of men and masculinity to begin with. This is really just their way of trying to make an excuse for their own failure. Cause being a grown-ass man is hard ... and many would prefer to give up than to persevere. To quote Archwinger: TRP is about building powerful men. Th… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/16 02:16 PM |
| 73 | [FR] AWALT - Heed my warning - No Exceptions: Not even the girls with personality (not-basic).Golden rule: Treat all girls the same for the first two months. No exceptions. Beta backsliding is a very real and palpable thing. Never put women on a pedestal ... and make them earn whatever you give them. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/16 05:16 PM |
| 4 | What to do when she ignores your text?Gonna veer off the standard advice here, and say that I have sometimes later gotten with girls that have ignored a text from me, or took over a day to respond. Had many plates come back as well. The way I did that though was to leave things hanging, not burn the bridge, and walk away to pursue other girls. Simply make yourself scarce for a while. Be desire-less. In the end, it is all about outcome independence. You cannot control how any particular girl responds to you, but you can control yours… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/16 10:51 PM |
| 3 | For Better or WorseThe thing is, when you truly DGAF, you can do whatever you want. If they giggle like a child, it's the same effect, same principle, as being a hard-ass about it. No need for a script. Be not contained by a formula ... | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 03:55 PM |
| 5 | For Better or WorseI have the same rule with girls I go out with: NO PHONES. If they try to pull one out during the middle of a date to show me some stupid cat picture or video I tell them about the rule. We're there to interact with each other. Tell stories, kino, laugh ... not to watch a screen. And if I go to the bathroom or something and come back to find them on their phone, I tease them ruthlessly about it. The usual result is them giggling. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/16 02:10 PM |
| 11 | Am I wrong to not want to have many girls on the go?I generally never have more than 2 plates at one time. Even though I could. I will still date here and there on the side, and have old plates or FBs come back around sometimes. Especially as you get older (I'm in my mid-30's), abundance mentality becomes about your limited time. You have to choose wisely what to spend it on. And the reality is if you are successful and have a full life, you only have so much time for women. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/16 02:54 PM |
| 61 | The most effective mental model is thinking of alpha and beta traits, not of being alpha or being betaWho you are is simply the sum total of the pieces that make you up. Those pieces are the traits you refer to. Some people get confused and think TRP is about changing the sum total, about trying to posture and put on a mask. But in reality it is about changing those pieces, bit by bit. Developing new habits. Changing your mindset. As you think, you shall become ... | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 02:28 PM |
| 142 | Your Plates Most Likely Plate You As Well : Never Get Attached.TRP Mantra: She's not yours ... it's just your turn. All things in this life are ephemeral. They come and they go. Enjoy your time with them, but never put any of them on a pedestal ... | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/16 02:19 PM |
| 12 | After Second Date Girl Sends This TextThis is a classic soft next situation. You need to let her figure her shit out, and come to you when she's ready. Women are like cats ... sometimes they need to wander off for a while. You can either tell just say "okay" and go no contact, or if you really want say "hey sounds like you need to figure some shit out, let me know once you do, later", then go NC. And either way, date other women. Doesn't really matter which way you play it ... the main thing is to let her go and NOT chase. She will … | /r/askTRP | 15/09/16 04:13 PM |
| 6 | The Ghost and the FlakeI remember back in my earliest days in the Manosphere, back on Sosuave around 2005 around the time Pook was leaving. Someone asked him in a thread why he wrote the things he did. Pook's response (paraphrasing): "I mostly write them as a way to get my own thoughts out, to work them out in my head. As a way of understanding. I don't write them for others, I write them for myself." Same here. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 10:53 PM |
| 6 | The Ghost and the FlakeThink you may have missed my broader point. Chasing externally is something you obviously shouldn't do. This is more about the nuances of Inner Game ... how external behaviors in both the man and the woman are really reflections of internal dynamics. Look at the Pook post linked within, many of the same ideas. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 09:10 PM |
| 10 | The Ghost and the FlakeThis is very, very well said and insightful. There is a subtle but fundamental difference between ghosting out of spite, and partially ghosting to maintain proper presence. Healthy relationships require a certain degree of freedom, not co-dependence. If it wasn't my own post, I'd give you a point for this comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 08:43 PM |
| 95 | The only thing that matters is how you are making her feel in that moment.Women want to go on a rollercoaster of emotions. High and low, up and down. They experience the world through emotion. Take them on that ride, and they will love you for it. Fail to do so, and they will get bored and leave. You in turn must be the rock, stoic, never-changing ... for if you are an emotional mess how can she be? You must be her pivot point. Burn that fact deep into your brain. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 01:45 PM |
| 23 | Nail ex gf the day before her wedding with a beta.Depends on the situation and conversation, but a few examples are: asking her about her relationship with her family/parents poking into something she's really into and looking for signs of obsessive behavior (oh you like cats ... oh and you have 27 of them and a Hello Kitty tattoo, hmm) prodding her about any sort of stalking in past relationships (especially if she's had a lot of stalkers, says something about her behavior). As with anything else, you gotta feel it out during the course of the… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 04:30 PM |
| 19 | Nail ex gf the day before her wedding with a beta.Unfortunately some chicks are pretty good at hiding it at first, or appearing to be a 4 or 5 on the crazy scale when they are really a 9. I've started integrating specific questions into my repertoire over the last few years to try to tease that stuff out early. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 02:27 PM |
| 3 | The depression phaseIt is a phase. Often the point where people turn back from fully swallowing the pill. Seeing the truth is one thing, but embracing it is another. You've spent your life as a victim (in a blue pill sense), and you are still in that "victim mindset". Push forward, and you can break through that. It is one of the final hurdles. Think I wrote a post about this on TRP a long time ago: Victims, Love, and Pook | /r/askTRP | 08/09/16 02:52 PM |
| 3 | Not into meNo matter what you do or say, some girls are not gonna be into you or wanna date you or sleep with you. It's a numbers game. It is not something you can necessarily "win". No way around that. The reality is that you can't "lose" a game that you never had a chance of winning (in the case of those girls) ... so stop feeling like you lost. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/16 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Principles to Live By & Examples to Learn FromBlackdragon actually suggests hitting up old plates after a period of silence (this and this for example), as long as they weren't totally disrespectful or repeatedly crossed boundaries. In fact the entire point of Soft Nexting is not that you don't EVER talk to them again, it's that you withdraw your attention for a while. It's not punitive, you simply give your attention to things and people who deserve them. The point is that your time and attention are valuable. And if you want others to val… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/16 06:52 PM |
| 30 | Principles to Live By & Examples to Learn FromSaw a post regarding dealing with flakes and the discussion moved to dumping her or trying to get laid As I've gotten older, I lean more toward BlackDragon's approach to flaky or disrespectful behavior with women. No contact and soft nexting are key tools in a TRP man's arsenal. A man's power come from his willingness to walk away. But you DON'T have to burn bridges to do it, be butt hurt, tell them to fuck off, etc. Sometimes you just have to leave, and let them come to you if they want. You'd … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/16 03:06 PM |
| 254 | Women are Children.She needs you to lead. The more you expect from her, the less either of you two will get from each other. Golden. Posts like these are why we hear the shrill cries of feminists and blue-pill folks saying that we at TRP "hate" women ... when ironically - if you read between the lines - such posts in fact underscore that we at TRP "love" women. For men and women to get the most out of our relationships, it requires a brutal honesty about the world and how gender dynamics works. Ignoring or hiding … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/16 02:59 PM |
| 1 | The Benevolent AlphaWell said ... also tip of the cap for your military service. You are really far along the learning process of gaming, plating, women in general. It's great that you are sharing your knowledge with the younger crowd. And of course, I still fuck it up sometimes. Things go awry. Plates still break. Perfection is never the goal. To your other point, most of what I write for TRP is really for those more at the Depression and Acceptance phases. But hopefully even for those not as far along their journ… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/16 03:10 PM |
| 7 | The Benevolent AlphaHere's u/NightwingTRP 's post about it on TRP a year or so ago. A good place to start reading: The TRP Field Toolkit - Part 3: Shit tests and Comfort tests | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/16 07:18 PM |
| 10 | The Benevolent AlphaThere is a difference between doing something for someone, and something simply being an unintended consequence of striving toward your own goals. You reach a point in your progression through TRP where such subtleties become critical. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/16 06:14 PM |
| 9 | This shit is chess, not checkers.My value WAS to women. I had no measure of self-worth. Poignant story, and well said. Good lesson that probably resonates for many newbies. If you had more of a posting history, I'd give you a point you for this. Stick around, post/comment more. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/16 03:19 PM |
| 13 | Necessary RoughnessI rarely comment in this sub, because I believe it is a space best left for women to discuss Red Pill theory ... but I must say, the grasp of TRP concepts here as they apply to a woman's perspective of both male and female SMV is spot on. The OP clearly gets it. Well done. As we say at TRP (to men): A sword must be forged in fire. There is no other way. Be the Sword. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/16 09:38 PM |
| 5 | Questions on a Completely Red Pill World and The Role of The Female Imperative In Such a World.People should be free to make whatever choices they want ... but they should not be free of the responsibility for the consequences of those choices. In that vein, we should encourage (not bind or force) people to pursue avenues that are most likely to lead to them maximizing their full potential. If that means encouraging many women to embrace more traditional feminine gender roles, then so be it. There will always be exceptions, but the exception to the rule does not invalidate the rule. There… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/16 03:30 PM |
| 9 | Questions on a Completely Red Pill World and The Role of The Female Imperative In Such a World.Would humanity as a whole make better progress with men leading rather than women? Look around you. All the technology you see - mostly invented by men. The buildings, roads, houses, other edifices of civilization - mostly built by men. Who keeps the power running? The sewer system working? Who grows the crops? Men. Civilization was built by men. In such a world, where would the female imperative fit in, if even possible? Men lead, women follow. That's not a knock on women. They were simply desi… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/16 02:45 PM |
| 27 | Wants vs needs: the sexual attitude nuanceIt is a fine line between pursuit and pedestalization. The former is the result of achievement and the desire to achieve, while the latter is typically the consequence of the failure to achieve. Not enough people understand that subtle nuance of difference between the two ... and they often get themselves into negative situations because of it. Or accept things or behavior that would otherwise be unacceptable. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/16 03:42 PM |
| 121 | The Sexodus in action: millennials are having less sex.This is a common Progressive tactic, the lie of omission. You'll see various disparities discussed in news articles and wikipedia articles regarding race or age, but they will curiously leave out gender differences unless the data support their worldview. I wrote a post about this related to male unemployment and inner city violence a while back here: Lies of Omission – Progressives and the “Wizard behind the Curtain” | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/16 10:46 PM |
| 310 | [X-post] Wife doesnt even feel the need to hide the AF/BB relationship to her husbandAll men bear the burden of performance. And thus for men the fantasy is to be loved for who he is, rather than what he does. The man in the OP's story is no different in this regard. He is simply running into the cold hard truth that being loved for "who you are" is an unattainable fantasy. That is not how women love. The key is to be cognizant of that, lest you end up like him. His failure is not in being short ... it is in being unaware. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/16 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Where did TRP originate?I'm not sure who first started using that term, but it definitely preceded the TRP sub itself, which started in the Fall of 2012 (http://archive.is/WaxlW). PrivateMan and Rollo among others seemed to be using the term in blog posts back in 2010/2011. For example: PrivateMan - Broken Gender Social Contract Here's some links from people using the term "Red Pill" to refer to sexual strategy from SoSuave back in 2006/2007: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/index.php?threads/take-the-red-pill.155501/ http… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/16 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Where did TRP originate?It originally grew out of PUA, in particular people like Anti-Dump and and Pook over at SoSuave between 1998-2005. Rollo and others were on that site back in those days, believe Rollo was even a mod at one point later on like 2006/2007. TRP is essentially what developed as people moved beyond basic seduction and begin to examine the broader societal implications of sexual strategy and gender dynamics. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/16 02:48 PM |
| 6 | Emotional ControlA Red Pill man uses his emotions to be assertive, while the Blue Pill beta male uses his to be aggressive. The BP male seeks to control, to cajole ... while the TRP male uses his emotions to simply delineate between friend and foe, ally vs. enemy. Those who will follow him on his path, and those who won't. Emotions, when properly harnessed, serve a useful purpose - they are a warning about your environment ... threats, opportunities. You act on your emotions, rather than let your emotions act on… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/16 04:49 PM |
| 1 | What to do with this flake?This is one is pretty much already at the hard next stage, so ... In the future, if a girl flakes but then texts you later asking for a reschedule, never accept whatever day/time she offers. Tell her you're busy that day (if you don't already have other plans, make some), then suggest a day/time/place that suits you. Make her come to you on your terms, or not at all. When she flakes, she is being disrespectful of your time and attention ... make her earn it back. This is called frame. Your mista… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/16 09:01 PM |
| 109 | I've been with TRP with only ~20k subscribers. After years of of TRP, what's it really all about guys?Stoicism is the final frontier of TRP. All things in this world are ephemeral. You cannot hold them. Cannot possess them. Enjoy your time with them, but realize there is no "prize" at the end. Time itself, the journey, is the only reward. Which is why we at TRP say that, when you give your time and attention to something or someone, there is no greater gift. As you get older as a man, you realize that abundance mentality is about your limited time, not necessarily about the number of plates you'… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/16 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Main Plate Wants to be Just Friends.Here's u/NightwingTRP 's post about it on TRP a year or so ago. A good place to start reading ... you can find other stuff by using the search feature on the main TRP forum: The TRP Field Toolkit - Part 3: Shit tests and Comfort tests | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 08:39 PM |
| 5 | Main Plate Wants to be Just Friends.The question you have to ask yourself is: is this a shit test or a comfort test? A simple way to tell the difference: shit tests are primarily about forcing you to qualify or validate yourself, while comfort tests are primarily about wanting you to validate her or her feelings (aka are you her "rock"). I would guess after 8 months this might be more of a comfort test, but without knowing this girl personally, no one on this forum will be able to tell you for sure ... it's something you'll have t… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/16 08:24 PM |
| 8 | A Peppercorn Of Interest Kills The Vibe; Minimal-Effort Game Is Needed.This is all reminiscent of Coach Corey Wayne's stuff, particularly his focus on letting women do 80% of the pursuing. You might be taking it to a bit of an extreme, but being in my mid-30's and having dated lots of women over the years, I can't say I totally disagree with you. You have to figure out how to make women chase you, pursue you. Because in today's dating environment, if you can't do that, you have already lost. They receive too much validation from other sources ... your signal gets l… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/16 08:17 PM |
| 11 | Go Your Own Way Elsewhere: Why TRP Isn't MGTOW and We're Not MonksSort of, but not exactly, my friend. You are conflating the goal with the consequence. Having the aim of living the TRP way entails having certain kinds of goals, improving your life and your value. Self-improvement and self-mastery. The consequence of those things will make you more attractive to women, no doubt. But that may or may not be your goal, even if the end result is the same. It is a fine line between putting pussy on the pedestal, and simply becoming more attractive to women. There i… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/16 01:53 AM |
| 6 | Internalisation, Not Indoctrination, Should be The End Goal of Your Red Pill Journey.The only reason I, or many of the other ECs, are still here is to give back to other men what was given to us. The reality is I don't really have time to post here much anymore, even really to comment ... cause I am too busy living a TRP mindset. That should be everyone's goal. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/16 09:33 PM |
| 9 | Off to the right start - A First Date Guide for Dummiesnobody on here is a high value man Then your problem is not getting women, your problem is how to increase your value. Women are not the goal in life ... they are simply the by-product of a life well lived ... TRP 101. Read the sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/16 04:32 PM |
| 19 | Off to the right start - A First Date Guide for DummiesThe most valuable thing a man has to give to a woman is his time and attention. If you go out on a "date" with some girl, first date or otherwise, you have given her something of value. A first date is not a place where you necessarily demonstrate value, it's one where she demonstrates she is worthy of your time and attention. If you're a high-value man, you have other shit to do. That is the basis of frame. Too many men make the mistake of putting her on the pedestal ... when in reality she sta… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/16 10:16 PM |
| 1 | I come here often but more and more often the posts are becoming make believe.It's funny, because I knew exactly who you were talking about before I even saw the links down below. Even amongst the other ECs, there are some I trust to make quality posts, and some not so much. And a couple that I think might be a little off their rocker. And there are yet others I think post quality, but who I disagree with on certain things. The ECs see this stuff too, we are aware. Some of it is unavoidable, with a sub this large. You should do your own vetting though, either way. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/16 02:37 PM |
| 27 | Has The Red Pill made me too cynical?I had a girl like that a few years back: abuse and sexual assault stories, always the victim, instant connection, this weird immediate sense of trust and vulnerability. She had an almost uncanny way of drawing you in. Turned out later she was BPD. Beware the wolf in sheep's clothing. Anyone can pretend to be anything for a couple months. The point is: Don't be beguiled by illusions. BPD or not, we are all putting on masks for others. You've read TRP, you know what lies behind the mask ... act ac… | /r/askTRP | 05/07/16 02:52 PM |
| 16 | Anti-Male Media Continues War on Men: Milo Yiannopoulos Suspended From TwitterDefine "mentally ill"? Are schizophrenics mentally ill because they believe they hear/see things others don't? Are transgenders mentally ill because they believe they are a gender other than what they obviously physically are? Are otherkin mentally ill because they think they are a species other than what they physically are (e.g. cats trapped in human bodies)? What about depressed people? That is like 20% of the U.S. population nowadays. And you may say, well only if they are "violent" or have … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/16 06:54 PM |
| 17 | Anti-Male Media Continues War on Men: Milo Yiannopoulos Suspended From TwitterSure, or obtain guns off the black market. You get the idea. If people really want to kill you, they will find a way. The only way to stop them is to grow a spine and stand up for yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/16 04:33 PM |
| 131 | Anti-Male Media Continues War on Men: Milo Yiannopoulos Suspended From TwitterIt has been odd seeing all the NAMALT (Not All Muslims Are like That) stuff on Facebook and the like since the Orlando thing happened. People saying it's just radicals or we should change gun laws. Now agree with homosexuality or not, it's interesting to see people (i.e. Progressives and SJWs) defend other people who literally want to kill them. Like some sort of strange Stockholm syndrome. Of course, they omit the fact that homosexuality is outlawed in pretty much all Muslim countries, and a ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/16 04:19 PM |
| 220 | Instant Success Implementing RP Strategy In My LTRYou handled this pretty well. But to be clear, you haven't "won" ... this shit will happen again at some point down the road. Maybe sooner, maybe later. The shit tests never end. And if you're with a girl long enough in an LTR or whatever, you'll even notice that they take on a certain cadence. Like a rhythm, or cycle. She is the storm, and you are the rock. Just remember to remain vigilant. Passing a shit test doesn't get you anything, except a little more time till the next one. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/16 07:08 PM |
| 8 | Why do men prefer women who shave their armpits and legs?You can read the links I provided, as well as all the scientific literature linked within those. All the evidence contradicts your opinions on the matter. Doesn't matter if you choose to believe it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/16 04:55 PM |
| 12 | Why do men prefer women who shave their armpits and legs?Cause you still have to be able to feed the babies. Evolution is clever like that. Just cause there is a tendency towards one thing doesn't mean it won't get over-ridden by a pragmatic necessity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/16 02:26 PM |
| 38 | Why do men prefer women who shave their armpits and legs?Men prefer women who are more neotenous. Neoteny refers to the persistence of child-like traits into adulthood. Shaving body hair is a cultural practice meant to make women more resemble juveniles. Neoteny in humans, and the sexual selection of it in females, has been long studied scientifically. For instance, it's been shown that less neotenized male faces are most attractive to women, while more neotenized female faces are most attractive to men, across cultures. In short, men like women who a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/16 02:19 PM |
| 45 | Why Modern Feminism Is Illogical, Unnecessary, and EvilKanazawa is fairly well-known around TRP. He is also highly controversial in some scientific circles, and has even been censured by his own university. The interesting part of this, and his views on Feminism and multiculturalism and the like, is how someone merely questioning the established dogma of political correctness draws such a vehement response by scientists themselves. It speaks to the amount of confirmation bias coming out of scientific circles these days, particularly social scientist… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/16 09:05 PM |
| 21 | [META] So there's a post by a mod of /r/relationships decrying theredpill as "bait-and-switch advice"... I'd like redpillers to start calling out this tired argument because it allows them to pretend TRP is just "lift and be confident" and get away with never having to challenge our core ideasI think a lot of outsiders to TRP get caught up in the hyperbole of the discourse, without understanding the nuance of application. I was having this conversation about a month back with a newbie on here about AWALT, and he was saying he could understand the principle but not all women were like that. I explained to him that AWALT is a teaching heuristic for newbies ... that the hyperbole of simple descriptions is necessary to shift the mindsets of men so badly distorted by years of false progra… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/16 04:28 PM |
| 15 | A male's dating blog, vs. a woman's dating blog.There is a reasonable argument to be made that they shouldn't. Or at least not without some level of commitment. It's one of the great ironies of feminism that they argue otherwise (aka "You go girl"), in that it also makes it easier for men like me to pursue sex while giving very little in exchange. The whole marketplace is pretty distorted right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/16 12:06 AM |
| 12 | A male's dating blog, vs. a woman's dating blog.And why should men give commitment without sex? If you take your argument and flip the genders, then you are basically making the exact argument feminists are ... that men should give women everything in exchange for nothing. And with zero expectations for anything. That is not the basis for a healthy relationship. Feminists fired the first shots in this gender war - men are merely adapting to the landscape. They went for the nuclear option, and this is what it created. I don't necessarily like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/16 11:12 PM |
| 18 | A male's dating blog, vs. a woman's dating blog.The world is full of these double standards, typically in the form of Double Binds. And the reality is that Feminism is largely about replacing one set of double binds with another set ... not eliminating them. On another note, I never buy women shit on the first few dates. The game has changed. Women have to earn that shit now, by doing things that please me. This is what the feminists have wrought ladies, enjoy ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/16 05:01 PM |
| 5 | Camille Paglia - Some Brilliant Insights from a RPWThe ironic thing about Progressives and others on the far left is that they get all up in arms when people question evolution or global warming ... but they have no problem denying the scientific basis of human nature, psychology, and gender despite all the evidence. Even to the point of arguing that men and women are exactly the same. I'm a practicing PhD scientist, and I'll be the first to tell you that that is a load of bullshit. For such "forward-thinking" people, they sure have some unscien… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/16 04:10 PM |
| 10 | For Those Questioning The Red PillThere comes a point where you have internalized it enough that it is no longer "bait and switch." It all morphs into one persona. The vibes and charisma you give off at first are the same you give off later ... it's simply a matter of getting them "in rhythm" with you. You're not playing mind games with people, cause you know you are the prize ... because you've put in the hard work. Self-improvement and self-mastery. That is the way of TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/16 03:57 PM |
| 4 | How did this come to be?Men come here in different ways. Usually some real-world experience that compels them to seek answers to things that keep recurring, but don't seem to fit the narrative we've been sold. But it is also important to realize that what is TRP today grew out of the early PUA movement ... in particular the writings of people like Pook and Anti-Dump and others over at SoSauve back around 1999-2003, as well as some of the early MGTOWs. Those ideas were later expounded upon by writers like Rollo over at … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/16 04:41 PM |
| 28 | Why are people so threatened by TRP? (Seriously)TRP is a very real threat to our gynocentric societal mindset that Feminists and SJWs have created over the last half-century. Moreover, we are a threat to the powerful forces that have co-opted those movements to maintain a steady supply of supplicant beta males to work their shitty jobs and buy their mass-marketed baubles. If men break free of the chains, the yoke, then who will tend the farm while the women-folk play at being men? They need us to keep the lights on, the mines running, to figh… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/16 04:08 PM |
| 23 | Tried applying dread, LTR got mad. What to do?If you can't go one day without talking to a girl because you don't want to or have other important things to do without the girl getting pissy, then why are you with her? The fact of the matter is that what you want and need matters just as much as what she wants. And you shouldn't be obligated to mold your entire life around her. The fact that she thinks you should, and moreover that she thinks throwing a fit when you don't do exactly what she wants is okay, suggests to me that she is not LTR-… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/16 04:03 PM |
| 21 | Article about 60 year old Mel Gibson dating a 25 year old woman. Comments are full of shaming language & Red Pill GOLD!I don't really like clubs. I meet about half the women by approaching in real life - bookstores, grocery, coffee shops, bars - and the rest off things like Tinder. I chatted up this 22-year-old college student at Target last month and went home with her later that evening. Don't be afraid to approach in person ... the reality is most men are scared to, and merely having the balls to do so will put you ahead of 90% of men. Honestly a lot of women are pleasantly surprised when you do it. They didn… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 07:50 PM |
| 28 | Article about 60 year old Mel Gibson dating a 25 year old woman. Comments are full of shaming language & Red Pill GOLD!I am of the firm belief that as long as a man keeps working on himself, stays in shape, etc. that he doesn't really peak till his 30's. And even beyond that is a gradual decline. Women on the other hand are valued mostly for their youth, appearance, and fertility. May not be fair, but that is how it is. And it's what allowed humans our evolutionary success, to come to dominate the planet. We wouldn't have made it very far if men wanted to fuck old, infertile women. Assuming you are improving you… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 07:46 PM |
| 1 | March of the Freak ParadeOh yeah, my friend, I have indeed read some Bukowski. I like to think he'd agree with my pragmatic approach to life. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 05:24 PM |
| 54 | Article about 60 year old Mel Gibson dating a 25 year old woman. Comments are full of shaming language & Red Pill GOLD!Mid-30's, can confirm. Do the same thing ... I get older, but the women stay the same age (20-29). The really ironic thing is that I actually do better with 25-year-old women now than I did in my mid-20's. Takes a long time to become a man. Men are made, not born. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/16 05:22 PM |
| 3 | March of the Freak ParadeSure, you could setup a hypothetical "mythical" world where things work like that, and if so I would agree with you. But you and I both know that, given human nature, that is not how reality works ... | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 06:42 PM |
| 3 | March of the Freak ParadeIf you wanna refer to it as degrees of winning, I suppose you can. In your scenario, the clear winner is the shoe manufacturer and whoever owns it, who are making millions of dollars selling shoes to schlubs who think they got a good deal by saving $10 on them. I guess you can argue the shoe seller also "won", because maybe they made a little money, and the buyer "won" cause they saved a little money. If you want to label each of them as "winner" to varying degrees, you can do so ... but I see t… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 06:36 PM |
| 9 | March of the Freak ParadeThe greatest misconception of progressives and SJWs and Feminists is their belief that everyone can win. There is no such thing as a win-win scenario ... there are always winners and losers. That is the harsh truth of life. And thus efforts to empower the weak, to make everyone a winner, merely drag down the strong ... i.e. they breed mediocrity. The goal then is not to help everyone win, but to turn yourself into a winner. The real irony is that being the best version of yourself benefits every… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/16 04:08 PM |
| 20 | Girls Don't Want Relationships AnymoreThis is the right answer. Just wait till they hit the wall or get near it. Then they want commitment. Many women just want to have their cake and eat it to. Not surprising, really. I can't count the number of 29 year old girls (I'm in my mid-30's) I've met who are so stereotypically like this. They've been fucking around for years and they feel the clock ticking. It's actually a little easier with women a little older or a little younger ... same shit but without the covert demands. Someone arou… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/16 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Women and the Existential Despair of ManSeen a number of good comments from you around here lately. Mods, we should award this man a point ... | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/16 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Let's talk about degrading sex actsI believe /u/PemBayliss answered this for me above, and did so very well. Trying something once and hating it is not the issue. The issue is when you willingly did it before, perhaps even enthusiastically, but now you "hate" it. In that case, those feelings are more a reflection of your attraction level to the man in question. I get women to do all kinds of things in bed ... things I know many of them won't even do for their husbands later on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/16 09:20 PM |
| 20 | Let's talk about degrading sex actsMale sexuality is heavily rooted in dominance. There are exceptions to this, but it is true for most men. For many of the acts you describe, it is not the act itself, but the act of dominating, that underlies their appeal. And for that matter, I don't think male sexuality or masculinity should be shamed. Labeling it as "disrespectful sex" or the like is really just an attempt to shame male sexuality. Saying you'll do it for some past guy, but not the current guy, is really just a way of saying t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/16 08:20 PM |
| 8 | "Law 16: Use Absence to Increase Respect and Honor" What if you're known for negative reasons, will it increase your respect anyway or just make your name become more strongly associated with said reputation?Before you can apply Law 16, and use absence to your advantage, you must first establish your presence. People won't miss you, if they don't remember you or don't care. Sounds like - if people see you in a negative light - you've kind of fucked up on the establishing presence part. Instead of worrying about Law 16, you should perhaps focus on making a better impression first. Raise your SMV, be social, fun. Be someone people actually want to be around. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/16 04:02 PM |
| 17 | Why do BP men attack the ideas of RP?This phenomenon is called Virtue Signalling. In short, it's a manipulative way to try to look like the "good guy" in order to gain favor with the "tribe" ... such social behaviors are rooted deep within our evolutionary psychology. Think us vs. them. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/16 03:00 PM |
| 5 | 50% is a Failing Grade.True, particularly for some of the younger gen-Xer's. I'm in my mid-30's, right on the border of Millenial and Gen-X. Some of the older ones, though, I think got caught before they had a chance to really see what was happening. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/16 12:29 AM |
| 62 | 50% is a Failing Grade.The ironic thing about all the Baby Boomer men trying to shame younger twenty and thirty-something men into marriage is that those younger Millennial men no longer trust them. Why? Because those Baby Boomer men are the ones who acquiesced to the Feminist imperative over the last half-century. They laid down, instead of fighting back, instead of standing firm. All through the 60's and 70's and beyond. All so they could claim the moral high ground, so they could be the "good guys" ... like some so… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/16 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Red Flags: How to Judge your potential LTRYeah, there are some who argue that autistic brains are hyper-masculinized, while BPD brains are hyper-feminized, though that may be a tad over-simplistic. Either way, probably worthy of a post of its own. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/16 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Red Flags: How to Judge your potential LTRBPD is a disease of emotional dysregulation. It is thought to relate to some sort of malfunctioning of the amygdala. There are 4 times as many women with BPD as men, for reasons we can only guess at. On the flip side, men are 4 times more likely to have autism. The short answer is that men tend to have more logical (autistic) brains and women tend to have more emotional brains (i.e. BPD). We see that clearly in the patterns of pathology that affect the brain. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/16 04:47 PM |
| 37 | Red Flags: How to Judge your potential LTRBPD = Run ... no exceptions. Borderlines are a whole other level of crazy. As for the other ones (e.g. Depression, Anxiety), agree with you in general. Not saying they are necessarily bad people, but women with those issues often struggle to make good relationship partners, for various reasons. May not be the most politically correct thing to say, but the reality is that you only live once, so it is critical that - for the people you let in close to you - to choose wisely. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/16 02:49 PM |
| 13 | Leftism as Power-PlayAs I have argued many times before: Progressives are the Totalitarians of the Left But to be clear, progressives don't speak for all Liberals ... any more than extreme right-wingers speak for all Conservatives. Indeed, the extreme fringes of either end of the political spectrum often have more in common with each other than they would like to admit, aka Horseshoe Theory. Yet there are many of us who prefer pragmatism over ideology. A true Classical Liberal understands that all things in this wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/16 09:59 PM |
| 158 | The Viability of the Red Pill in the Future - Border ErosionThe efforts of the RPwives mods (aka ex-RPW mods) going on PurplePillDebate and the Blue Pill sub to directly attack TRP was probably the most ironic part of all this. All the sudden, we no longer provide any benefit for association (Briffault's Law), and they go full-on crazy assault. Fraternize with our opposition, publicly denounce us. Like some scorned ex-girlfriend. Like some war bride. I doubt they even realize their behavior is TRP 101. If you want a pure example of AWALT, you need look n… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/16 04:42 PM |
| 7 | The Media, White People, and “Trump the Tyrant:” A TRP AnalysisAs Friedrich Hayek pointed out long ago in his classic book "The Road to Serfdom", right-wing extremism is usually a reaction to left-wing extremism. And vice versa. Trump is simply the equal and opposite reaction to SJWs and Progressives and Feminists. The pattern repeats. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/16 01:54 PM |
| 35 | I read No More Mr. Nice Guy and it absolutely changed my life. But there's a part of me that's worried I will revert back to old habits.NMMNG is a good starting place, a gentle introduction. Now you should move on and read the Book of Pook and Jack Donovan's The Way of Men. You should also be learning more TRP theory and applying it IRL. Lift, approach women, find your mission and pursue it, etc. If you don't wanna fall backward, then it is incumbent that you keep moving forward. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/16 05:09 PM |
| 10 | Incremental Benefit, or why eschew marriage?Look plain and simple: Getting married is like giving someone a loaded gun and letting them point it at your head, and hoping they don't pull the trigger. Marriage is a contract with the state, not between two people. Why people on this thread are arguing for tangential reasons to get married (e.g. "it's better for the children") is beyond me. Signing a contract with the state does nothing for the children ... it's having a stable household that does that, and that has nothing to do with state c… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/16 05:03 PM |
| 16 | Incremental Benefit, or why eschew marriage?Unless you get divorced before you die, which you more than likely will. Then most of your property transfers to her while you're still alive. Oh, the vicious irony ... The real tax advantages come from children anyway, not marriage itself. Unless maybe if your wife is disabled and unemployed and you can claim her as your dependent ... but why the hell would you marry that? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/16 04:57 PM |
| 4 | My 6 Philosophy PrinciplesI don't often comment on these type of posts, but I have to admit that this sounds like something I would have written. Well done. If I could add something to your post, it would be an endorsement of Jack Donovan's "The Way of Men". Recommended reading. Builds on many of your themes. In short, the art of masculinity in the modern world is a balance between our naturally violent gang impulses and the higher goals to which they can be applied. But the key is that there is no issue with those impul… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/16 05:03 AM |
| 3 | Welcome to The Red Pill - What are we about?I believe a post I wrote a month or so ago answers your question: Women want to be the Chosen Ones. In short, men and women have different roles in the sexual marketplace, and thus fantasize (and complain) about different things. Men bear the burden of performance, women the burden of choice. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/16 01:37 AM |
| 58 | A reminder of why the red pill is so importantAlong with the things you point out, I think part of the sky-high white male suicide rates is simply the result of penalizing men for "privilege" that most of them never had in the first place. Most men are not CEOs of fortune 500 companies or NBA players or the like. They are just regular, hard-working, blue collar guys. In other words, the apex fallacy. And if they are gonna penalize us for it, then it is incumbent we learn to adapt ... which is why, as the OP mentioned, the "red pill is so im… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/16 09:03 PM |
| 15 | Hofstadter's Law: It always takes longer than you expect, even when you take into account Hofstadter's Law.TRP is not simply about changing your life ... it is about changing the way you live. It is a subtle distinction, but a critical one. People too often conflate the consequences of the goal with the goal itself. If you want to win an NBA championship, then the goal is to become a great player. Not to win the championship ... winning is simply a side effect. In the same vein, as we often tell people here: women are not the goal of life ... they are simply a side effect of a life well-lived. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/16 08:16 PM |
| 3 | First date?As others have said, just have fun with it. Life is short. Also, kino is your friend. Not talking about heavy petting or weird shit, light touches on the arm or knee while you're talking, maybe when you emphasize a point in some story. If she doesn't pull away, then she is cool with it. Keep doing it, she will probably kino back. Don't be afraid to tease her. Don't care how hot you think she is. She is not a princess. You are not a peasant. Don't put her on a pedestal. You don't have to be mean … | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 03:18 PM |
| 16 | New member here, spoke with an ex girlfriend and this is what I've found.The ironic thing about TRP is that most of the women I'm with nowadays are actually happier, even though I'm basically doing the complete opposite of everything I was taught to do. The complete opposite of everything women told me to do. The thing is that "just being yourself" and being "nice" may make you feel good, but they are not good recipes for success. Unfortunately people too often equate feelings with reality ... cause if it feels good then it must be good, right? That is Mistake Zero. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/16 01:01 AM |
| 26 | The Guardian does a whole article on TRP calling it "the heart of modern misogyny." Thoughts?You mean like Irish immigrants were heavily discriminated against in 19th century Amercia? Irish people are white, last I checked. Moreover, define "recent". Are we talking last 10 years? Last 100 years? Last 1000? What about when those African Egyptian folks enslaved the Jews during Biblical times? Or when black Africans enslaved each other, then sold them to Portuguese slave traders to take to the New World? Why are only white men guilty of human nature? Why are only they guilty of the things … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/16 04:17 AM |
| 42 | The Guardian: Swallowing the Red Pill: a journey to the heart of modern misogynyArticle aside, I enjoyed reading the interview in the OP. We forget sometimes that there are people behind the screen names, with experiences that have shaped and defined the things they say here at TRP. These aren't simply beliefs, but often things we had to learn whether we wanted to or not. Hard-won knowledge. Battle scars. Even amongst the ECs and Mods. Sometimes that gets lost in all the anger phase posts. It's humanizing in a way. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 07:38 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with the fact that my SMV will decrease so soon?That will work a little bit. But there is ample scientific evidence that men can detect subtle signs of aging using cues like lines around the outer corner of the eyes and tautness of skin around the neck. People can even detect immune health via scent ... it's thought kissing may have developed as a way for subconsciously evaluating immune compatibility. Think about it: men in the past who tried to mate with old, less fertile women were less likely to successfully reproduce. It's basic natural … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/16 07:25 PM |
| 21 | TRP spilling out in TwoXAs we say at TRP: don't listen to what a woman says, watch what she does. This is a classic example. Holds true even over at TwoX. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 02:38 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with the fact that my SMV will decrease so soon?All men are interested in young fertile 22-year-old women who can bear their children ... we are biologically hard-wired to be by evolution. Some men don't have the option of getting a twenty-something, either because of their age or they are too unattractive. They might be interested in an older or less attractive lady, because they have limited options. Not because they wouldn't fuck a cute 22-year-old given the chance. The reason, as /u/bicepsblastingstud pointed out, that all the "You go gir… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/16 02:40 PM |
| 11 | Women's rights groups to rally next Tuesday against equal parenting law. #EqualityThis has got to be a blue pill troll. Repeat spams the same post to multiple subs. Has submitted several removed posts to TRP in the last 12 hours. And never commented on anything till the last 24 hours. Yet has all this meticulously written material, almost as if premeditated. I'd at least temp remove these posts if possible. Doesn't sit right. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/16 06:43 PM |
| 10 | Ignorant to my own Alpha actionsWe sometimes use simple descriptions as a teaching heuristic for newbies. Don't confuse that with a lack of nuance ... there is a great deal of nuance to it. AWALT does not imply evil, so don't see it as a value judgement. It's just the nature of women. It is neither good nor bad, it simply is. It is rooted in the evolutionary drive for women to secure the best sperm possible. The important thing is to be aware of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/16 03:24 PM |
| 17 | Ignorant to my own Alpha actionsCareful there, buddy. This was an excellent post, but you still seem to have a little confusion on RP principles. AWALT just refers to behavioral tendencies. Given the right context and circumstances, all women will display these tendencies. They may manifest in slightly different ways in different women, and to different degrees, but it is still rooted in the same thing. And just cause you haven't seen any AWALT-type behaviors in some current woman simply means the circumstances haven't been ri… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/16 02:27 PM |
| 57 | My (41m) Plate (22f HB7) confirming RP TruthsEvery time I hear one of these stories ... or I plate a new 22/23 year old as a successful mid-30's man myself, I always think of Rollo's Myth of the Lonely Old Man. And then I laugh. You hear about "old cat ladies" all the time with their 17 cats ... ever hear about an "old cat man"? Exactly. Men are fine on their own, always have been, ever since the days of explorers and mountain men and the like. The whole myth of the "lonely old man" is purely social conditioning. As long as a man is leadin… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/16 04:50 PM |
| 5 | Is anyone just completely disgusted by women?I'm about to throw down some tough love, brother. Listen. The only power they have over you is the power you give them. The way you talk, you make it out as if you are some sort of hypoagent, not in control of your actions, not accountable for your own life, that other people have power over you, no matter what. You sound like a feminist, or a SJW, or like a hell of a lot of the women I know in general. You are not a victim. Some things are out of your control, but many things are not. Lifting, … | /r/askTRP | 06/04/16 11:57 PM |
| 46 | Is anyone just completely disgusted by women?The reality is that many women are not worth your time. I think the analogy of the 0-10 SMV rating scale is the best way to explain this. Look, everybody and their grandma comes on TRP and brags about "this HB9 I hooked up with" ... which is bullshit. The reality is that if sexual attractiveness is a bell curve, with the average being a 5, then most women are going to cluster around a 5. There are some 6's, a few 7's ... but it tails off as you go to the extreme ends of the distribution. If the … | /r/askTRP | 06/04/16 05:03 PM |
| 10 | "Jackie" Being Held Accountable in U Virginia debacle - Watch This OneAlways such a pain when all that due process is nonsense and #IBelieveVictims bullshit comes back around to bite you in the ass. This is why totalitarian societies suck ... just a matter of time before you too become the target. The funny thing is that the Dean in this case, as a woman, is experiencing just a fraction of what men experience everyday in our legal system and gynocentric society. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 01:21 PM |
| 22 | We need more Strong Father Figures in our livesTRP is about building powerful men. Most of the institutions and traditions that used to do so have been destroyed in Western society. Weakness has become a faux symbol of strength. And many men have little guidance about how to actually be masculine men, how to harness and direct their internal energies. They are trained by women to be emasculated men, subject to all the mental illness that entails. One of main reasons I, or many other RP veterans or ECs, am still here is to help other men. To … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/16 07:47 PM |
| 3 | The girls i meet usually ghost me after second or third meet-up.You need to be more aggressive in your approach. Sexualize the interaction earlier. Women are flighty, distracted easily, and when young have a lot of options. Read this: Book of Pook - Secret of the Jerk ... women want a man unafraid of his testerone. They are looking for that vibe, make sure you're putting it off. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/16 02:37 PM |
| 28 | Youtube personality meets a Chad from Tinder. Complains about fuck boys. Gets pumped and dumped anyway. Red Pill theory shows throughout the entire video.You know, one of the main differences between girls I ONS and girls I plate is how good they are in bed (and how good they look naked). If you don't know how to please a man, why would I keep you around? Hate to break it to to you lady, but maybe he's not a fuckboy, maybe you just suck in bed. The solipsism is strong with this one ... | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/16 01:13 AM |
| 83 | Treating women badly -- because they deserve itWomen definitely get worse as they get older. They become more demanding, even as they have less value to offer in terms of sexual attractiveness or fertility. And the current generation of women doesn't even know how to cook or do other domestic things ... I have plenty of money and a career, I don't need that in a woman. They essentially provide no value to my life. This is largely why, even as a mid-30's man, I avoid women over 30. They are too much trouble, and not enough value ... and the w… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/16 04:34 PM |
| 77 | Reduce your misogyny by being manlyThe thing women hate the most is not being able to tell men how to be men. The other thing women hate the most is men that let women tell them how to be a man. This is the fem-centric Double Bind. Both groups are "misogynists" in women's eyes. But the reality, as you so aptly point out, is that only one group is truly misogynistic ... and they are often the ones who have abandoned their own masculinity. The ones who fell prey to the Double Bind. Even for them the question is whether it is really… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/16 08:49 PM |
| 5 | CMV: in caveman hunter-gatherer days, when it was all so pure and straight forward, feminism and the rise and prevalence of the modern fa incel could not exist (regarding feminism- no matter if women tried to establish it or not)I think it's fairly obvious that Feminism is a first-world problem. If you are just trying to survive, then power and violence - and men who can wield them - become necessities. In contrast in such conditions, complaining becomes a privilege. It is those who bask in the freedom of safety, that often detest the means which achieved it and/or sustain it. One of the world's great ironies ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/16 03:41 PM |
| 8 | Do you make plans in advance with plates?I do make plans in advance with plates, because I am busy. They are in my frame, and my time is valuable. I usually set things up a day or two in advance, then go silent. No checking in, no cutesy texting, no reconfirmation texts. I just meet them at the time/place ... and I expect them to do the same. If they don't, they are quickly nexted. Sometimes though will give them a get-out-of-jail free card if they need to reschedule for legit reasons. In the end, it doesn't really matter exactly how y… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/16 02:24 PM |
| 9 | Is misogyny in TRP even debatable anymore?Women are substantially different from men. Different doesn't necessarily imply "worse" ... that depends on what you value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/16 08:14 PM |
| 11 | Is misogyny in TRP even debatable anymore?Misogyny literally means the dislike or hatred of women. Look it up. So by that definition, there are probably not a lot of actual misogynists in the world. There are people who don't trust women, or think they are biologically different from men ... but that is not misogyny. All TRP really does is point out that women are just people, capable of all the good and all the evil as any other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/16 08:05 PM |
| 21 | The True Story of a Carousel-Riding Military WifeYou've clearly never seen a slut-walk ... or perhaps are not aware of "yes-mean-yes" laws that hold men culpable even if both people have been drinking. Or the Duluth model of domestic violence. Or the push for equal outcomes for women even if it means restricting the opportunities of others. That is modern 3rd-wave feminism. Are you sure you're in the right place? Neither TRP nor RPW supports modern feminism. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/16 04:59 PM |
| 14 | The True Story of a Carousel-Riding Military WifeWhat? Feminism consistently preaches that women should be able to do whatever they want, without any culpability for the consequences. They call it female empowerment. Pam's story in the OP is the culmination of that ethos. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/16 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Women Want to be the Chosen OnesGood read. It's interesting when you've been around the manosphere a while to look back and see things you've written in the past. Of course, I still learn things here and there, or see old things from a new angle ... my perspective gets more fine tuned. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/16 12:56 AM |
| 67 | Most Guys Give Up Way Too Easy + FRYour willingness to walk away is key. But you have to pique their interest first. Show your own interest, but then independence. The goal is to get women to follow you. Many men are either too aloof (i.e. cold) or too interested (i.e. desperate). There is a subtle art to walking the line between. Women are drawn to men who are unafraid of their testosterone ... that requires a mix of boldness and independence. The difference between a vice and a virtue is often the restraint with which a thing i… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Women Want to be the Chosen OnesIt's all about subtlety. If you've got the physical attractiveness/SMV part down, then you just need to work on your game a little bit. Actually /u/Thotwrecker just made a good post about this. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Women Want to be the Chosen OnesI'd say it's about a 50/50 split from approaching in real life and using things like Tinder. Helps that I live in a big city. Just takes practice. And remember: it's a numbers game. No matter what you do (unless you're Brad Pitt), most women are not gonna be receptive to you. But some will. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Women Want to be the Chosen OnesPerhaps I have gotten better at filtering those women out, and they never become my main plates, just ONS or short term flings. I don't know. I do know that, either way, it doesn't affect me. Outcome independence. There will always be another one ... | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Women Want to be the Chosen OnesI have not, I'll have to check it out. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/16 10:56 PM |
| 7 | Law 38: think as you like, but behave like others QuestionThe greatest power is wielded in the shadows. It is covert, not overt. Sure, you can get in more fruitless arguments. But trying to convince people they are wrong is a loser's game. No one wants to be wrong. They will merely become defensive. A better tactic is to pretend to agree with them, but subtly point out problems with their position, e.g. by asking questions (in a pondering manner, not confrontational). If they belive you are "on their side", the power of persuasion can be massive. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/16 03:52 AM |
| 41 | Captain of Yale Basketball team is expelled after his plate claims that their 4th sexual encounter was not "consensual."Ah yes, the long-held American principle of Guilty until Proven Innocent ... Perhaps we should just start burning anyone accused of a crime at the stake? Witch hunts, because those never went horribly wrong ... /s | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Sudden comfort tests over textShit tests are about your SMV ... comfort tests are about her SMV. Sounds more like a shit test to me ... her internal hamster is questioning whether you are "worthy" to sleep with, or whether you are so low value that it makes her a slut. On the bright side, she is thinking about sleeping with you, which means she wants to fuck you. Just don't fuck it up. Respond with some Agree & Amplify ... make her laugh, she'll forget. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/16 03:28 PM |
| 112 | Article about how Women in their 30s from around the world are judged reveals RP truthsThe fact that men are attracted to young, fertile women and are willing to fight for them is a core part of human's evolutionary success. If men paid more attention to old, barren women we wouldn't be here today. People complaining about it is like people complaining about "human intelligence" because even though it lets us dominate the food chain and manipulate the environment, it also enables us to ruthlessly scheme, fight, and kill each other while inventing new, more lethal technologies of w… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/16 09:11 PM |
| 18 | Why "choreplay" won't result in sexAs Pook said: A servant you be, a friend she’ll see. Respect is all, my friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/16 04:52 PM |
| 5 | [Mod] Announcing a new platform: www.TRP.redLooks interesting. You might consider adding a Search function to the site. Can be pretty useful. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/16 05:10 PM |
| 24 | "My feminist liberal wife wants me to be the man of the relationship and it is making me uncomfortable" [Xpost]Feminism is all about creating a double bind. And at a interpersonal level, individual women's shit tests are rooted in a similar purpose. Failing a shit test is really a failure to recognize and confront the double bind. A double bind is an emotionally distressing dilemma in communication in which an individual (or group) receives two or more conflicting messages, and one message negates the other. This creates a situation in which a successful response to one message results in a failed respon… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/16 04:00 PM |
| 111 | Just had a seminar in university about feminism and 'the gender gap'This is what Feminist "equality" looks like: women now make up 60% of college undergraduates in the U.S., but yet there are still 4 times the number of scholarships for women as men. http://www.nerdwallet.com/blog/loans/student-loans/nerdscholar-scholarship-study-5000-private-scholarships-analyzed/ There is no such thing as "equality" ... either one group is in power, or another is. Equality is always balanced on a knife's edge. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/16 03:46 PM |
| 80 | Life Without LTR'sThe edge, the sharpeness, as you say, makes it worth it. If your goal is to live a "comfortable" life, then you will never amount to much of a man. The struggle is life itself. That which gives meaning to the things we do. That which molds us into form. Without the darkness, there is no light ... it's all the same. And in the end, it is the things you overcome, not those that placate you, which define you. The impediment to action advances action ... that which is in the way becomes the way. - M… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/16 02:29 AM |
| 28 | Can't shake oneitis for ex-wife even with platesThe problem is not accepting the ephemeral nature of the world. You see your ex-wife as an impermanent object, a constructed fantasy. None of that is real. She was never yours, even when she was your wife. It was just your turn. Everything in this world is ephemeral. You cannot possess it, you cannot hold it. Everything ends, either through leaving or death or something else. Enjoy the time you have with it ... but never put anything on a pedestal. The easiest way to let go, is to not try holdin… | /r/askTRP | 29/02/16 03:30 PM |
| 4 | I need cultural Marxism because...Very true, the emphasis on realism is critical. Because what we see from these cultural Marxists and progressives is really Totalitarianism. And the Right is just as capable of it as the Left. It's not about right vs. left ... it really all boils down to power. And more specifically, who is in power. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/16 03:30 AM |
| 5 | Racism and the new leftWe are all innately bigots. It is part of our in-group/out-group preferences built deep into our psychology by evolution. It is unavoidable. The real question is how we act on that innate bigotry. In a Progressive/SJW/Feminist world, the idea is that some forms of bigotry are socially acceptable. Okay to act upon, in response to some perceived historic slight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/16 03:12 PM |
| 11 | Woman in relationships subreddit unintentionally proves that dread game works.Just your friendly, neighborhood Shitlord checking in ... | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/16 11:40 PM |
| 112 | Woman in relationships subreddit unintentionally proves that dread game works.Whoa whoa whoa, are you suggesting that when we demand the best from other people (either thru words or actions), rather than treating them like victims, they actually do better? That kind of thinking is heresy these days, you know ... | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/16 08:13 PM |
| 11 | Hillary’s Top Donor Just Bought The Onion — Started Publishing Propaganda ImmediatelyIt's not about majority opinion. "Extreme" can be defined as any interpretation (which fits the evidence) that doesn't pass the Occam's Razor test. There are exceptions, but that is the general rule. For instance, the fact that women tend to be more attracted to strong, powerful, high-status men, and thus men tend to be more focused on accumulating status and money, and thus men tend to be richer and more powerful, could be the result of a centuries-long patriarchal oppression by a secret worldw… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/16 06:13 PM |
| 28 | Hillary’s Top Donor Just Bought The Onion — Started Publishing Propaganda ImmediatelyThe truth is always interpreted. I actually wrote a post about this issue earlier this week. The truth is never directly observable … it is always interpreted. As such, the true danger lies not in the “other side” of the debate, but in extremism in any form. Extreme interpretations of the truth serve as vehicles to limit the freedom of individuals. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/16 04:24 PM |
| 37 | Advice To A 15 Year Old Me: Step 2. Make A Plan.This is solid advice. To be a man, you need clear goals. We don't live in a world of dreams and feelings. Our status and accomplishments aren't defined by our social connections (like women), but rather the reverse: our social connections are defined by our status and accomplishments. We were made to conquer tangible things. A man needs a mission. And the latter point about not having girls as your goal in life is critical. Women are not the goal in life ... they are a by-product of a life well-… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/16 04:18 PM |
| 37 | When someone tells you he/she is not ready for a relationship...Believe it or not, Pook did that about 15 years ago back on SoSauve. Remember reading it years ago and laughing. Still funny today: Womanese More Womanese Even More Womanese | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 07:40 PM |
| 64 | Commitment is your pussy. The sooner and more frequently you give it up, the less respect you get.And now you understand why society used to have separate spaces for men and for women ... fraternal orders and bathhouses and the like. That shit is exhausting. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 04:46 PM |
| 41 | Commitment is your pussy. The sooner and more frequently you give it up, the less respect you get.Even if you get into an LTR or (god forbid) marriage, TRP rules still apply. AWALT, abundance mentality, amused mastery, etc. etc. etc. Hell, they may even be more critical in those situations, because you're with the girl so frequently. There is no point in life a man gets to slip off the top of his game, to relax. If you are not constantly on the top of your game, then you will lose said game. Keep your edge, always. That is the way of men. The way of TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/16 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Plate says "I don't want you fucking other girls" during sexWas gonna respond, but see /u/Draki1903 already did, and his is a good answer. You don't have to fuck anyone else if you don't want to, but the possibility should be there. Hence, all the TRP rules still apply. Lift, improve yourself, flirt with other women. Stay on top of your game. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Restrictions on "financial abortions"....There is no known safe amount of alcohol consumption during pregnancy. It always carries a risk. You might get away with it without any problem, you might not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/16 02:26 PM |
| 4 | Restrictions on "financial abortions"..../u/disposable_pants answered for me, and is pretty dead on. The author argues 1) that drinking while pregnant is not really dangerous, and 2) that women being warned about drinking is "oppression". The clear implication is that if a woman wants to drink while pregnant, but doesn't, then it is because she is being oppressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/16 02:25 AM |
| 44 | Plate says "I don't want you fucking other girls" during sexMen are the gatekeepers of commitment. The moment she thinks she's "caught" you, she'll start to lose interest. Mark my words. Women desire men that other women want. You want to keep her attention, then keep the abundance mentality. Even in an LTR. Don't let her think you're "all hers" no matter what. She can never completely "catch" you ... the chase never ends. And btw, if you're worried about her walking away or going cold turkey, then you're already over-invested. Stop that shit. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 01:44 AM |
| 5 | Restrictions on "financial abortions"....So if a girl goes home from the bar with a man after a night of drinking or engages in foreplay, then she consented to sex, since sex is clearly a possibility in those situations? Even if she doesn't want to have sex? Interesting argument ... either you arguing that rape should be legal, or arguing that men and women should be held to different legal standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/16 10:27 PM |
| 5 | Another working mother rant on Huffpost exposing failures and frustration of Feminism and urging for paid maternity leave.Because of this insanity I am moving more and more to the ALT RIGHT. An alternative is simply having true Classical Liberals reclaim Liberalism from the Progressives. Reassert the principles of Adam Smith, John Locke, and Voltaire ... free speech, free markets, due process, individual rights over all the identity politics bullshit. Progressives are NOT liberals ... they basically violate every tenet of liberalism. They were able to hijack liberalism with the rise of cultural Marxism during the 2… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/16 09:26 PM |
| 8 | Restrictions on "financial abortions"....Hypothetical question: What if, in such situations, the state forcibly garnished all the mom's food, and/or sold off all her possessions, in order to give food directly to the child? That way the mom would suffer, not the child. Would you be okay with that, assuming she still had the legal right to choose (i.e. abortion)? Because currently that is what sometimes happens to men, except they have no right to choose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/16 09:04 PM |
| 8 | Restrictions on "financial abortions"....But someone needs to do it. Why? If a woman is legally able to abort the child, then why does someone need to support it if she doesn't. In both cases, it dies ... how is the end result different? One clear difference is who gets to choose: the woman or the man. Now I don't think anyone wants to see a bunch of starving children, but the reality is that the issue is much thornier than often presented. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/16 08:29 PM |
| 5 | Restrictions on "financial abortions"....the laws of this country are set-up to make sure that parents support their children financially, so society doesn't have to do so. The laws are setup so MEN have to support the children financially, without having any say in such decision as to whether carry the pregnancy to term (i.e. abortion). For women, it is a choice. Your argument is that men can choose to abstain. Same could be said for women, and thus one could just as easily say women should not be able to have (physical) abortions eit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/16 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Restrictions on "financial abortions"....The LA Times just published an article this week arguing that women should drink while pregnant ... you know to "smash the patriarchy" and stuff. That attempts to restrict women from drinking while pregnant were just oppression conspiracies. It was written by a Feminist philosophy professor from Georgetown University name Rebecca Kulka, who apparently has a poor understanding of science. Being a scientist with a PhD myself, all I can do is shake my head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/16 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Restrictions on "financial abortions"....Well, that's a rather specious argument then, isn't it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/16 03:43 PM |
| 24 | Restrictions on "financial abortions"....Just because a man consents to sex, doesn't mean he consented to having a child. That would be like saying just because a woman consented to foreplay, she consented to sex ... Men should have full legal rights over their reproduction, same as women. I would be interested to hear blue-pull arguments about why they shouldn't. That said, all women/feminists will do is shift the burden to the state to support more children of single mothers, along with higher taxation, and even a "bachelor tax" for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/16 03:36 PM |
| 19 | Why is online dating not working anymore?As more and more people have turned to online dating, I think the sheer amount of messages and attention girls get online these days has just exploded. It's all become an exercise in validation whoring. That said, I think you should be looking for plates online, not a girlfriend. Assume they have 20 other desperate suitors ... be the one who doesn't really care. Otherwise you're just playing the validation game. Also, I've found approaching in real-life works well, since many guys lack the balls… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Tinder date with no place to F-closeOnce had sex after a Tinder date in a cornfield. First time we met. No joke. There is always a place. Just use your imagination, take the lead, and turn it into an "adventure". You will be surprised how many women will follow along, giggling the whole way. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/16 08:58 PM |
| 104 | Female comedian says she's NOT victim of male harassment; feminists harass herStop undermining the narrative, Jessica! The irony of the "oppressed" getting to the point of suppressing others within their OWN ranks about what they can and cannot say, what they can and cannot do. Like a snake eating its own tail. "During times of universal deceit, telling the truth becomes a revolutionary act." - George Orwell | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/16 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Feminist writes article about cock carousel filled with red pill truthsUgh, the irony of so-called progressive "liberals" agitating for basic income (i.e. "guaranteed minimum income") rather than true free markets that are designed to align individual incentives with those of the greater good. Rather than empowering individuals, they want to control the markets to benefit certain groups over others. As authoritarian as it gets. It is the Doctrine of the Weak ... a perversion of power. Anti-individualism. Anti-free markets. Anti-free speech. Anti-due process. Just a… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/02/16 08:42 PM |
| 11 | RPers, are there aspects of TRP you would like to see change? Feminists, are there aspects of feminism you'd like to see change?Return of Kings is the least nuanced website in the entire manosphere, and by far the most popular with TRP. And strawmanning makes your arguments considerably weaker. Roosh isn't even really part of TRP (e.g. https://archive.is/tfc7G), and ROK isn't even on the sidebar. TRP is much more closely aligned with blogs like Rollo's Rational Male, Illimitable man, The Book of Pook, and others. Guess we have enough experience to spot your bullshit ... If you are going to criticize TRP, at least get you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/16 08:22 PM |
| 4 | News article shows more single women then men... and points out RP truths... SMHNo link? I assume this is the article you are talking about: http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/manitoba/single-women-outnumber-men-in-winnipeg-s-dating-pool-data-shows-1.3444196 | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/16 05:04 PM |
| 37 | Daughter lies about abuse, Son gets thrown in JailThis also speaks to something else: if there were no white knights, then modern feminism would be mostly ineffective. If men refused to do what the father in the OP did - to accept anything a woman says or does as absolute truth - then many of these situations would not occur. Women do not have power in and of themselves to effect them. This underscores exactly why we at TRP say that feminism is just a societal-level shit test. And what we are seeing in Western society is simply men as a whole f… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/16 03:05 PM |
| 19 | GF is arrested for domestic abuse. BF posts her mugshot on FB. Hamstering ensues.It doesn't matter what happened or what she did! Even if she screwed up, she is a good person and doesn't deserve this! U don't post something like this on someones facebook, you just dont. Ha. She's not a good person, she's a violent criminal. That's what happens when you act like a punk and punch someone in the face. Equality can be a bitch, ladies. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/16 02:54 PM |
| 5 | want to start going to the gymStronglifts 5x5 is a good program for beginners for building base strength and body mass. Build your workout around those 5 core lifts - bench, squat, deadlift, military press, and back row. Focus on proper technique. You can start adding in some isolation stuff as you go. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 02:37 AM |
| 7 | Some of you act exactly like the feminists you claim to abhorAnger is just a stage many go through in swallowing the Red Pill. As such, many of the posts on TRP are anger stage posts, and many of them get highly upvoted. It is what it is. There are more thoughtful posts written, exploring the deeper aspects of TRP theory, that are geared toward the post-Anger-Stage audience. If you feel like you are beyond it, just ignore a lot the Anger-Stage stuff, and focus on those other posts. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Assume FormlessnessAll the stuff that /u/balalasaurus said. Listen to him. I would only add this: Dude, I'm in my mid 30's. Pretty much only date girls in their 20's. One of my current ones is 22. It's never too late, but you have to stop looking backwards. You can't change the things that you missed out on in the past ... but you can change the things you miss out on going forward. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 12:48 AM |
| 6 | Assume FormlessnessIf it were easy, my friend, everyone would be doing it. There wouldn't be all these men clinging desperately to some blue pill fantasy ... TRP is a long road. A hard road. But that is what makes a man. As Pook said, a man who faces away from infancy. My advice to you would be, anytime you come across solid Red Pill advice, is to carve out a couple tangible pieces relevant to yourself, set goals, and then PRACTICE. For every two steps forward, you'll take one back. We all have, even the ECs. You … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Assume FormlessnessTrue. I think a fundamental question is why men adopt form at all, when all the evidence suggests that it is detrimental to them? What compels them to do so? Some sense of safety, security? A fear-driven process they couldn't shake from their childhood? It really serves no purpose outside of supporting a gynocentric worldview. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/16 02:04 AM |
| 6 | Assume FormlessnessIt's an evolution you go through from starting TRP as a strict one dimensional person, then developing into multiple as your hobbies, interests and passions grow. To quote /u/Archwinger : TRP is about building powerful men. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/16 07:28 PM |
| 29 | RoK and RooshV are not part of the Men's Rights Movement. Posts about their activities are removed from this subreddit as being irrelevant.You guys can send the posts over there, but to be fair Roosh isn't really part of TRP either: https://archive.is/tfc7G As you can see in that link, Roosh decided to throw everyone else in the manosphere - TRP, MGTOWs, Sandman, etc. - under the bus last year. I'd posit that the only thing Roosh cares about is promoting himself. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/16 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Labour MP admits that feminism may have contributed to the collapse of the family unit…thoughts of pill poopers?Yeah, the overall averages are misleading. If you look at rural areas in the U.S., you'll find a lot more women who don't work or are stay-at-home-mothers, and a lot more men who are employed. Those areas are, ironically, more traditional. Look at urban areas, and you'll find most of them follow a similar pattern as Chicago. There are exceptions of course, like Silicon Valley. But that doesn't change the fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/16 08:25 PM |
| 32 | Ideological Blindness and Rapefuges CrisisUntil European governments take decisive measures to combat migrant gangs, they create a power vacuum ... One of the weird things about Feminists/Progressives/SJWs is their belief that you can take power away from the powerful and share it equally amongst all people. All that really does is create a power vacuum. Equality is always balanced on a knife's edge. Even having equal rights does not preclude the fact that some individuals will be more powerful or capable than others. For example, every… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 08:14 PM |
| 4 | Labour MP admits that feminism may have contributed to the collapse of the family unit…thoughts of pill poopers?In the United States at least, we've been locking up most of the young black males in prison, roughly 60% of prisoners are black males despite being only 12% of the general population. Men in general make up 94% of the prison population. Men of all races receive 60% longer prison sentences than women for the exact same crime. There are nearly 5 times the number of people in prison (2.5 million) now in the United States as there was in 1970, nearly all of them men. Maybe you can just lock all of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/16 02:44 PM |
| 9 | Feminists go apeshit over Roosh's meetupsI don't know RPS. I was having this conversation with /u/Archwinger a few months back, and he said something that really resonated with me: The Red Pill is about building powerful men. About building leaders, and doers. I've been around the manosphere for a long time, started off on SoSauve (under a different username) before I ever found this subreddit ... and one thing I've come to conclude is that young men today really need role models. I just don't see Roosh as a very good role model. He's … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/16 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Feminists go apeshit over Roosh's meetupsYeah, agreed. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/16 04:46 PM |
| 18 | Labour MP admits that feminism may have contributed to the collapse of the family unit…thoughts of pill poopers?It's not just Feminism, but Progressivism in general. And it's not just related to the breakdown in marriage. There is evidence and arguments being made that the Feminism/SJWs and progressive policies have led to worsening male educational attainment, historically high levels of young male unemployment (across all races), and ultimately increased violence in American cities. Ironically, policies meant to help minorities are leading to more black deaths and more crime ... hurting the very people … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/16 04:30 PM |
| 3 | Feminists go apeshit over Roosh's meetupsI think this graph sums up why he does it: http://archive.is/NY5oX. Those "spikes" you mention are temporary, then Roosh has to pull these stunts again. You still write for ROK, Warlock? You can see the spike in Roosh and ROK searches right after the whole "Battle of Montreal" thing happened. "Battle" lol, this isn't fucking Middle Earth. The whole thing is contrived controversy just to make a buck, even if he throws the rest of the Manosphere under the bus doing it. It's bullshit. Like he's try… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/16 04:16 PM |
| 35 | Feminists go apeshit over Roosh's meetupsI generally agree about the over-reaction of the feminists/SJWs, but to be clear, Roosh isn't really part of TRP, he's an idiot. Mostly concerned with starting trouble and saying outrageous things for the purposes of making a buck and shameless self-promotion. He's probably the worst possible person you could think of to be a spokesperson for TRP. I'd pick Rollo or RPS or Archwinger or Whisper, amongst others, over him any day. Should also be clear that he started a bunch of shit with TRP last y… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/16 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Is it always ill-advised to initiate contact?I behave the way this man is sometimes. Low investment, heavily flirtatious. It's usually when I am in the early stages of plating a new woman. My two cents, take it for what's it worth. This guy is not me of course. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/16 04:53 AM |
| 10 | [FR] First FR - MILF at the Gym... and Mandex. Just Approach!You know, you're probably right ... she's probably just a unicorn princess, who's been mistreated by all those "big, bad assholes" out there. You could be her beta bux savior ... /s Uh, fuck no. They all want to "have fun", just with the right guy. AWALT. Now go read the sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/16 08:37 PM |
| 21 | The Wall doesn't imply women's attractiveness falls off a cliff at a certain age. It refers to a point when women's expectations exceed her value, where she can no longer use her beauty to get what she wants.Women are, unfortunately, often their own worst enemies. The reason there was ever a "patriarchal" world was because that was what women wanted ... safety, resources, protection against other violent men, the ability to raise their children. Moreover, they wanted the men capable of establishing that environment. So men created that world. Now, they have decided they want something different. They are not fighting men. They are fighting themselves. Their own impulses. Their own desires. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/16 04:46 PM |
| 2 | So news websites here are saying that you guys "advocate legal rape"Yeah, Roosh is an idiot, and mostly interested in shameless self-promotion. Even the guys over at SoSauve think so these days. There is a reason that ROK is not on the sidebar. Also, this shit happened last year, which was pretty much the final split between TRP and Roosh. Roosh is not a red piller, never really was. People trying to blame us for the nonsense he often says/does is just pure strawman fallacy. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 04:02 PM |
| 51 | [FR] First FR - MILF at the Gym... and Mandex. Just Approach!Her: "What are you looking for FWB?" Me: "Yes" Her: "Sorry I tried that once. Not a fan." Shit test failed. Her initial question to you was a test, to see how thirsty you were, how socially adept ... to test your "game". Your blunt response was lacking. A better response would have been something nonchalant, then a pressure flip, something along the lines of: "I'm just looking to have some fun. What, you don't have fun anymore?" She put the pressure on you to perform. Next time, deflect it casua… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/16 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Evolution of TRPOne my first submissions to TRP back a year ago or so was about this topic. What is now called TRP essentially grew out of the PUA scene ... in particular the work and writing of Anti-dump and Pook over at SoSuave back around 1998-2004. Heartiste and Rollo and others frequented those forums, back before they were known bloggers. Some of the earliest MGTOWs also were emerging around the same time. None of the TRP/MGTOW terms were really used then though, they emerged over time. Now, that's where … | /r/askTRP | 30/01/16 02:13 AM |
| 9 | [LTR]When you think you cannot live without her anymore, you have to leave her.All things come and go. Whether it be through leaving, or death, or something else. Everything is ephemeral. Enjoy the time you have with it. But never, ever, put anything on a pedestal ... A man who knows this, is a man who is free. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/16 02:04 AM |
| 362 | As standards erode, even Barbie gets fatListen, if women want to make themselves - role models and toys included - into something that is completely unappealing to men, give them a pinch on the cheek and say "Good Luck with that, Missy". Then walk away laughing. Ignore them from that point forward. Shit test passed. Women are not entitled to male attention. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/16 11:29 PM |
| 12 | Finally grew a pair - Date nightMost women aren't worth your time. Maybe this one is, maybe she isn't, but her bullshit behavior you describe OP is definitely not cool. As a man, the most valuable thing you have to give is your time and attention. You gave it to her. She treated it like it was worthless. So what do you do now? Radio Silence. And don't even feel bad about it. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/16 04:40 PM |
| 16 | Feminism's Role in the Global Power StrategyMen of all races are welcome here. But we are also fierce defenders of free speech. People are free to say things here without fear of being shamed for their "political incorrectness", as they would elsewhere by progressives and SJWs. You are also free to disagree with them. A truly free society, a free democracy, requires such vibrant discourse. Our enemy is not ideas, but those who seek to stifle the discussion of those ideas. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 05:13 PM |
| 9 | Feminism's Role in the Global Power StrategyRight, and in both cases the end result is the same. I would contend then that even the whole left-wing/right-wing and liberal/conservative split in America and Western Europe is just another of these distractions. Both of them are just variants of classical liberalism. But now we have people arguing over evolution and religion and gender-neutral pronouns like their life depended on it, rather than issues like sound fiscal policy and due process rights. One interesting thing to me about TRP is h… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 04:46 PM |
| 15 | Feminism's Role in the Global Power Strategy/u/NightwingTRP and I have been having a conversation about this very topic. I agree with some of what you are proposing ... in that it is clear that Feminism and the other "isms" of progressivism are a great tool to distract the masses from more critical issues. Divide and conquer ... That said, I think the real question is whether this is some sort of coordinated "cabal", or whether it is just the confluence of various powerful parties and their interests. Not necessarily a conspiracy ... rath… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 03:35 PM |
| 16 | AWALT - Meet one of Lord Byron's (Don Juan) Alpha widow: Claire ClairmontIf you want to read more on this topic, check out Mary Wollstonecraft, who happened to be the mother of Mary Shelley, who was the wife of the Shelley's mentioned in the OP's wiki page about Claire Claremont and Lord Byron. Mary Wollstonecraft is considered as a "founder" of the modern Feminist movement ... she was also mentally ill, attempted suicide multiple times, a massive slut, single mother (conceived multiple children out of wedlock, in the 1700's), vastly opposed to traditional feminity, … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 10:03 PM |
| 4 | The subtle evilness of the so-called "Captain/First-Officer" relationship modelThat depends on what you define as "superior". For instance, perhaps the 5% of dogs that can learn new commands in fewer than 5 repetitions also tend to be more anxious and neurotic. So are they "superior"? That's a tough question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/16 04:41 PM |
| 21 | The subtle evilness of the so-called "Captain/First-Officer" relationship modelThe exception to the rule does not invalidate the rule. If something is true 95% of the time, then it serves as a useful heuristic for understanding the way the world works. For instance, dogs have 4 legs. There are some dogs who only have 3 legs, either through injury or birth defect. But that doesn't make the statement "dogs have 4 legs" untrue, nor "ridiculously false". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/16 03:16 PM |
| 3 | How should you act when your LTR is menstruating?This is sort of right, but you can simplify it. When she's ovulating, she wants more alpha behaviors (i.e. classic red pill), when she's on her period she wants more beta behaviors (i.e. soft, comforting). During the transitions, she wants a mix of the two. Make no mistake though, you never break frame. Even when you comfort her, do it from a place of strength, not supplication. The problem that blue pill males have is that they don't realize these cycles exist, and because their "game" works oc… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 05:59 AM |
| 138 | Oh, The Feminist Jimmies This Will RustleI like to think this his way of practicing a little Agree & Amplify on the Feminists/SJWs ... | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 07:34 PM |
| 1 | 23.8% of unmarried Japanese women aged 34 are virgins: SurveyMy favorite part of that article is the end: Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe has made it a key policy goal to tackle the birthrate problem ... the impact of those proposals, likely to include items like more child care for working moms and tax breaks for couples with children, remains unknown. So your solution to the birthrate/marriage problem is to give more shit to women??? Hey dumbass, maybe the problem is that modern marriage and/or having children is a bad deal for men, fraught with huge… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 04:29 PM |
| 5 | Top Linguistic/History scholar Atttacked for Taking Red PillI made a comment last week about how there are actually a lot of scientists who are Red Pill as fuck, we just don't talk about this stuff in public. This is a perfect example of why. Tim Hunt is another example. It is simply us applying Law of Power #38. All that said, I liked /u/VasiliyZaitzev 's post from yesterday entitled "Never apogize, Never explain" about these situations. Once they go on the attack - you have to hold frame, no matter the costs. Because it only gets worse if you don't. Fe… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/16 11:10 PM |
| 6 | Is this really what I have to look forward to?This is all classic RP advice. The only difference is now, OP, you know why we say it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 04:29 PM |
| 38 | Askmen poster makes a fantastic post about why men aren't into fictional romances like women are.I remember when those comments were posted to TRP a month or two back. I saved them ... they are essentially a great way to explain a core piece of TRP theory without using TRP terminology. In short, men suffer from the burden of performance. Men are judged by what we do, our status, and often seen as hyperagents in the world. Responsible for things even beyond our control. The oxen in the yoke. If we fail - in love, or business, or life - we are seen as failures. Women will never understand thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/16 05:20 PM |
| 21 | How do I cope with the fact that no woman will ever truly love me?The real question is: why do you want a mother? Because the way you describe love is how a young boy sees his mother. Safety, comfort. Unconditional love. A grown man doesn't need a mother. Those things may be nice to have around, but they are not a necessity. The thing you really need to deal with is what is it about YOU that makes you feel the need for such maternal love. And why do you want that in a sexual partner? Honestly, I've found in my life that a woman who lets you lead her, be her ca… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/16 06:33 PM |
| 32 | Red Pill Science: UCLA researchers compile evidence women's dualistic mating strategyThose two have published a slew of related scientific articles on the subject of women's mating strategy, many of them highly cited (hundreds of citations), and many of them supporting TRP theory. Google Scholar link | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/16 03:59 PM |
| 15 | Observed my daughter using/abusing a Beta: She's 11There are plenty of academics/scientists, including myself, who are red pill as fuck. But we generally keep quiet about this stuff in public, lest a "Tim Hunt" situation happen to us. Think of it as us applying Law of Power #38. Nature of the times. So the only academics you hear talk in public about this stuff are generally the feminist/progressive supplicants. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/16 02:51 PM |
| 4 | TRP and the European Migrant CrisisWell perhaps you have unplugged when it comes to your sexual relationships, but you still have a ways to go unplugging in regards to your relationship with society. The TRP things that are working for you with sexual strategy are because you've realized that those relationships are about power. You've stopped being naive and being manipulated. You've begun asserting boundaries. The thing is: all things in this world are about power. Including mass immigration into Europe. Those same RP principle… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/16 11:02 PM |
| 131 | the girl I loved turned out to be an unbelievable slutThe most valuable thing a man has to give is his time and commitment. You gave it away this round for free. In the future, if you choose to give it, make sure you are getting something equally valuable in return. Women are just people. All of them. There are no unicorns. No pussy that glitters with gold. Depedestalize that shit ... | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/16 10:49 PM |
| 25 | High School Feminist English Teacher's Writing Assignment on Feminism: Indoctrination or Education?Law of Power #38: Think for yourself, but behave like others do. If your teacher asks you to write a paper extolling feminist virtues, then you write a paper extolling feminist virtues. Let them think they are winning, while you are quietly out-maneuvering them. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/16 04:10 AM |
| 151 | Last Night I Got 3 Women Arrested For Groping And Assault.Real equality means taking both the good with the bad. The subtle lesson of this story underscores that when feminists say "equality", they really just mean cherrypicking the good things. Because real equality would mean more women in jails and getting punched in the face. Cause that's what happens to men when they act like punks ... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/16 02:58 AM |
| 45 | 1000 migrants in Germany sexually assault, rob and rape women at one train station on New Year's eve. Feminists actively are trying to cover it up.Progressives are not really liberals ... they violate every tenet of classical liberalism. www.illiberal-liberal.com | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/16 03:52 AM |
| 290 | 1000 migrants in Germany sexually assault, rob and rape women at one train station on New Year's eve. Feminists actively are trying to cover it up.Those who benefit most from freedom are often the worst defenders of it. Why? Because they have grown soft, too trusting, too gullible. Freedom gave them the opportunity to indulge their own feelings absent of reality. Absent of the harsh truths of life. Absent of the power struggles most face. Everywhere they look, they see with their feelings ... not the power struggle that lies underneath. This describes modern-day Progressives in a nutshell. But the reality is that all things in this world a… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 10:30 PM |
| 6 | Women need encouragement. Men plow ahead.A lot of the strategies I've seen to get more women into male dominated spaces are ones that would ultimately work well for men - and they really should be applied to men who might not otherwise succeed. This is an excellent point, an overall good comment ... suggest the Mods give this man a point ♂ I think the OP may have misconstrued the terms validation and encouragement a little bit, which is part of the confusion. Encouragement comes in many forms, and men can benefit from some of those. Va… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/16 03:29 PM |
| 11 | Being called an asshole and being (playfully?) hitIf someone calls you an asshole/jerk/prick, it means they care. And if they care, then you are doing something right. Girls want a rollercoaster of emotions. They want to feel. It's how they connect with the world. So give it to them. Make them happy, sad, angry, jealous, anxious, calm, ecstatic. Otherwise, you bore them. Make them feel, and they will love you for it. The opposite of love is not hate, it is indifference. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 05:41 PM |
| 2 | I'm 24 she is 18. She wants assertion and domination but not degrading?Don't listen to what a girl says, watch what she does. If she reacts to certain things in positive ways (like being dominated), then that is what she wants. Even if she says the exact opposite. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 05:37 PM |
| 31 | The Bitch Management Hierarchy study guide.We are the designers, the workers, the innovators, the protectors. Forty-thousand years of our species' dominance on the planet is built upon our efforts. The devaluation of all things masculine is a recent invention. A modern contrivance. But it doesn't change the reality, the necessity of masculinity to human civilization and modern society. As men, they want you to play their game by turning your back on your own inner nature. To turn your back on your own inner strength. It allows the weak t… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/16 03:04 PM |
| 17 | Do not engage the other side in debate. They're not interested in a dialogue of ideas. They're interested in strawmanning, shaming, and censoring.It is always in the interest of those who are "winning" the dominant cultural narrative contest to stifle debate. They tend to do so thru censoring and shaming language. The term for that is totalitarianism. Doesn't matter your political persuasion, left or right or whatever. Once you gain power thru shaping the cultural narrative, the extremists within your ranks will veer towards totalitarian behavior. It is a subtle way to maintain power without appearing to do so, by simply shaping the dialo… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 06:19 AM |
| 23 | Do the cons of marriage outweigh the pros?I find it ironic you are attempting to "shame" me about pointing out that Blue Pill people like yourself use shaming language to try to stifle debate and force people to behave in particular ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 10:14 PM |
| 16 | Do the cons of marriage outweigh the pros?There was a time in the past when society was structured so as to mitigate those risks. Feminists and progressives have dismantled those structures. Yet, somehow, men are now expected to fully bear those enormous risks, and shamed when they are unwilling to do so. The benefits for women from marriage are mostly still in place, with recent attempts to do away with things like lifetime alimony in Florida met with fierce resistance from women's groups. It's funny how "equality" doesn't look so "equ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Carrie Fisher complaining loudly and fatly about being judged and hitting the wall- "Youth and beauty are not accomplishments""Youth and Beauty are not accomplishments" Neither is being "fat and old" ... she's an actress. Which is cool, but it's not like she cured cancer or discovered light speed travel or anything. Not to mention, there are probably thousands of other women in the world who'd be just as good actresses. All her success is based on the fact that she was once "young and attractive". Glad she's finally gotten the memo, even if it's 20 years too late. Perhaps she could teach her granddaughters about someth… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Another prime example of alpha fux/beta bux and AWALTBasically Red Pill advice right there. Of course, the Relationships sub only gives that kind of advice when you have these completely blatant examples of women's hypergamous behavior. But the ironic thing is that all women have those impulses ... the only difference was the woman in the OP happened to say it out loud. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 03:57 PM |
| 8 | Mary Sue Awakens *Spoiler Alert*Feminism is like a snake eating its own tail. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/15 04:39 PM |
| 44 | Treat BP men like womenEverything in this world is about power. Even things that claim to not be about power, like feminism or SJWs or blue pill thinking, are really about power. Make no mistake. Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power. - Oscar Wilde | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/15 04:22 PM |
| 22 | Milo Yiannopoulos: The Sexodous, Parts 1 & 2, Reposted For Newbie Digestfemale feminist here in good faith to learn and add new perspective for the sake of the evolutionary and ecological principles of diversity What? That sentence doesn't mean anything. I have a PhD lady, big words don't impress me, only meaning does. Men have a gang mentality, always have, always will. Go read Jack Donovan's book "The Way of Men". That has nothing to do with individual agency. Individuals acting in concert still maintain their autonomy. It is only when others want to tell/shame th… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/15 06:50 PM |
| 10 | "I know I was wrong, but you don't have to be a dick about it."Everyone should be assumed to be a child, till they prove otherwise. Respect is earned. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/15 04:24 AM |
| 64 | Milo Yiannopoulos: The Sexodous, Parts 1 & 2, Reposted For Newbie DigestI remember reading those Sexodus articles last year and thinking "damn, that's everything I've wanted to verbalize for the last several years, but never knew how." Still remains the case. Always good to have allies who know how to fight the good fight. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/12/15 03:53 AM |
| 8 | Swallowing the Pill is a Pendulum - The Art of Helping WomenAs you mention, many things are rooted in biology. It is an inescapable fact ... regardless what the progressive/feminist/SJW camp would have us believe. But the truth is: when we try to deny our biology, we deny ourselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 02:04 PM |
| 8 | I need some help from you brilliant men please!Go back to r/RedPillWomen, and listen closely to what they are saying. Just like they new guys at TRP, it will take a while to truly understand what/why they are saying those things. Give it time. TRP is a process. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/15 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Republican vs Democrat: An observation about American politics and voters from someone who took the pill.The blog is essay pieces, very similar in style to what I write here on TRP. You'll notice some TRP principles sprinkled in as well. I take current events/news items that the progressives are railing about and breakdown why their positions are the complete opposite of liberal. Basically, call the progressives out on their illiberal bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/15 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Republican vs Democrat: An observation about American politics and voters from someone who took the pill.Appreciate the props Nightwing ... I actually started a new blog just this week called www.illiberal-liberal.com, cause I was getting tired of all this Progressive authoritarian bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/15 01:54 AM |
| 15 | Milo AMA being rescheduledUse it to seduce women. Popcorn-related day game is the best kind of game ... | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 06:09 PM |
| 333 | Women are as shitty as you let them beIf a woman is being shitty to you, it’s because you’re letting her. She’s reflecting your own shittiness back at you. Women are only as shitty as you let them be. This underscores a subtle principle of TRP ... you are not a victim. The events around you, your relationships, your interactions with women, are all partially your responsibility. Yes, women suck sometimes, but that does not absolve you of fault. We at TRP reject the "victim mentality" so prevalent in the modern West for this very rea… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/15 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Why does this sub appear to be against equality?Yep. There is a difference between equal opportunity and equal outcomes. The former is what we call "equity", the latter is what we call "equality". When most people say equality, they really mean equity. And the reality is that equality in the sense of equal outcomes (i.e. making everything exactly the same) is probably impossible. To the OP'S point, the reason this sub or other similar places seems to be against equality is because most people are misusing the term. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/15 03:29 AM |
| 74 | The Rational Male – Open CuckoldryThe clever thing about feminists/SJWs/women/etc. arguing that "biology is just a social construct" is that you can then use it to justify whatever you want. You are free to construct the world as you see fit. For those whose true power often comes from manipulating others rather than direct force (looking at you lovely ladies), that is a panacea. Not to get angry about it. It is what it is. But only a fool would not see what is happening right before his own eyes. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 05:51 PM |
| 1 | "Lets just be friends" after 1 month of datingYou misunderstand. The point of escalating is to polarize the woman. You want to polarize women early and often. They will either like you or they won't. But at least you won't waste fucking time. The point is that when you polarize a girl, she won't react to you like the girl in the OP did. She will either respond with interest, or disdain. She can't string you along as some orbiter. She can't use you. She can't linger in the ambiguous middle-ground. You force her to show her true colors. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/15 04:50 PM |
| 5 | AMA - Milo Yiannopoulos - Thursday, Dec 10th, 5pm London time, (12pm EST) on TRPHoly shit, awesome. Nice work mods, and /u/CisWhiteMaelstrom. I remember some discussion about Milo a month ago or so here on TRP. This should be good. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/15 10:16 PM |
| 15 | "Lets just be friends" after 1 month of dating"A servant you’ll be, a friend she’ll see." The above is from The Book of Pook. You should read the whole thing. You acted like "friends", and she treated you like one. You basically friend-zoned yourself. A man is one who is unafraid of his testosterone. Unafraid of failure. He is not worried about commitment, or relationship status. That shit is the woman's job. Your job is to set the stage for sexual interaction. You played it safe, and lost. Always be escalating. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/15 09:12 PM |
| 66 | Be a social dynamo so she doesn't have to beWomen are sexual objects ... men are status objects. It is not a double standard, just a different standard. Act accordingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/15 04:44 PM |
| 61 | [FR] Forgive me brothers, for I have sinnedNice FR. Probably good for some newer guys to see that even ECs still fuck up now and then. Couple of thoughts: First, I've found as I've gotten older (into my mid-30's) that abundance mentality isn't about the number of plates your spinning or whatever ... rather, abundance mentality is about time. In other words, you have limited time to give. Because you have other shit going on. Pussy is just one of those things. So even if you have 1 plate or a 100 doesn't matter, because your time is valua… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/15 04:01 AM |
| 50 | AskWomen desperately looks for an excuse - any excuse - to deny the reality of the Wall.Anything that contradicts the dominant Feminist/SJW narrative gets downvoted, here on Reddit or in the real world. Opposing views must be silenced. Totalitarianism, basically. It's like the progressives have gone so far left, they accidentally ended up on the right /s ... it's funny to see people asking on the thread "this is a rational statement, why is it getting downvoted" ... no one ever notices the decline till after it is too late. The subtle shifts in discourse. The oppression guised as "… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/15 04:36 PM |
| 3 | The concept of female infant "exposure" in Ancient Rome: Is the concept of male disposability flawed? TRP VS TBP!It was the NORM for most civilizations. Well, no, infanticide has always existed, even back in the paleolithic and neolithic. But is NOT the norm for all civilizations ... some did it, and some didn't. And it varied by era. A lot of times girls were killed, because the male death rate from hunting/fighting was so great, it was the only way to balance the population. There are economic reasons as well. You also have to be careful about conflating human sacrifice, which a lot of cultures practiced… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/15 06:01 PM |
| 3 | The concept of female infant "exposure" in Ancient Rome: Is the concept of male disposability flawed? TRP VS TBP!Ancient Rome was very patriarchal. As such, you get the social patterns you see in the OP. Of course, Rome rose to become one of the greatest civilizations in history, so what can you say. It is interesting that over time, laws (such as those for marriage) shifted to giving women greater independence. As such, one could argue that Rome's shift toward a more gynocentric viewpoints mirrored their decline. A civilization's source of strength is its power, and power is the accumulation of resources … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/15 05:43 PM |
| 7 | Why do women freak out when their SO is discovered reading TRP material, but it's ok for women to be reading everyfeminism, Jezebel or SJW tumblr pages?No, they were excluded because of their class, or their race, or being too short or ugly, or whatever else. 99% of people have always been excluded. That is how power works. It is the concentration of resources and influence in a small amount of people's hands. It is by definition an exclusionary process. But power is essential to building hierarchical social structures. It underpins the development of modern civilization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/15 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Not sure if this is a report or a thanks, either way, TRP paid off last night.The girl was branch-swinging ... they all do that. EVERY. SINGLE. WOMAN. Doesn't necessarily mean she's a slut. She might be, but there's not enough info in the OP to know for sure. There is a difference between branch-swinging and being a slut. Go read the sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 12:47 AM |
| 23 | To All Men Everywhere: I salute youThank you to the men of The Red Pill ... At some level you inherently accept that you're helping your competitors, and that that is the price of improving the world for other men. All men are a brotherhood. Always have been, always will be. It is not necessary to tear someone else down to raise yourself up. Indeed, it is often the competition that drives us to be better, sharper, fiercer. A TRP man understands this ... he doesn't shy away from the competition, he embraces it. "The impediment to … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/15 12:01 AM |
| 12 | Not sure if this is a report or a thanks, either way, TRP paid off last night.AWALT. They all have the propensity to do the things the girl in the OP did. The point of TRP is to be aware of them, to not get caught off guard. To realize that, given the right circumstance, they will all behave like that. So don't put yourself in those circumstances. You can do that without avoiding women completely. You just have to accept women for what they are, and apply a little TRP tactics. Nothing lasts forever. Enjoy the ride. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/15 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Women should treat men AMALT: Rapists.I have no problem with women having access to abortions - there are too many people on this planet already ... just as long as men have equal rights to financial abortion. It's called equality. Women having all the power to choose and men having no power to choose is called discrimination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/15 05:39 PM |
| 18 | Women should treat men AMALT: Rapists.The thing that binds us all at TRP is a rejection of the modern "victimhood mentality" pandemic in the West. This extends to the notion that one is entitled to anything ... you have to earn it. Improve yourself. Make smart choices. Raise yourself up. This is also why we reject most of feminism and extreme progressives that want equal outcomes, rather than equal opportunity. Everyone deserves a fair chance, nothing more. Empowerment without accountability only leads to entitlement. It is also why… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/15 08:15 PM |
| 33 | Women should treat men AMALT: Rapists.Actually, recent studies have shown that teaching women how to avoid being raped (source) is one of the most effective strategies. Precaution is always the best method for prevention, not trying to re-engineer society to make it completely "safe" for people who make foolish choices. It's called common sense. That is TRP in a nutshell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/15 07:48 PM |
| 17 | 'We Need to Talk' and other ways of controlling the flow of information for power.You need to "flip it". I assume you are familiar with rapport breaks when gaming/picking up new chicks ... flipping is the same thing, just as a long-term play, rather than short-term. When situations like that arise, you need to begin to oscillate your emotions and moods, as you say be unpredictable. Even to the point of walking away and creating some distance. You are "flipping" the tension onto her. The goal is the same as a normal rapport break, by creating uncertainty in her about your feel… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 08:07 PM |
| 10 | A very good example of political correctness at work.This is called identity politics, and it is really fucked up. It is the reason why progressives are not really liberals. True classic liberals really need to push back against this, because these extreme progressives are stealing your name, and will in the end be your undoing. Just like Nazis were the undoing of right-wing politics in Europe for a good half-century. Any true classical Liberal knows that the principles of free speech and due process are critical to a free society and democracy. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/15 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice on my LTR - Break up or get marriedYeah, guess I was referring to the U.S. ... so yeah, always check the laws before having a wedding, or living with someone. Even in the United States, at least in certain states, merely living with someone for a certain period of time can be considered common-law marriage. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 05:40 PM |
| 5 | Cooking for a woman... worthwhile?I'll sometimes cook with women. I rarely cook for them. Women want men who take the lead. Who get shit done. Sometimes I'll suggest cooking together as an activity. We get a bottle of wine. Drink it while we are making food. I do shit like chop some vegetables or whatever, while telling silly stories or making them laugh. I at no point play the role of "assistant" or "servant". I control the social frame. I keep it fun. When I see things that need doing, I pitch in and do them. Women are like ch… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 05:37 PM |
| 9 | Archive of "LTR GAME: More Emotion. Less Logic." TRP post?Many things from TRP have been archived on archive.is ... including that one. Here: https://archive.is/4FLNu | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Seeking advice on my LTR - Break up or get marriedYou can always have a wedding, if that is what she is really wanting. Just DO NOT sign a marriage license with the state. The moment you become "legally" married, you lose the one true power a man has ... the power to walk away. So give her a wedding if she really wants, and you are agreeable (make her pay for part of it of course). Hell, call each other wife and husband. Just don't sign a marriage license or any sort of contract with the state that puts your assets and life at risk, and make su… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/15 05:17 PM |
| 31 | 'We Need to Talk' and other ways of controlling the flow of information for power.As has often been said on here: LTRs are TRP on hard mode. Your frame needs to iron tight. And it is subtle things like this - responding artfully to covert tests like "we need to talk" - that signal an iron tight frame. It is one thing to laugh at somebody's dramatizing whom you barely know ... it is an entirely different thing to skillfully outmaneuver someone who knows you well. It is the difference between beginner Amused Mastery and the expert version. Fake it till you make it, of course. B… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/15 05:01 PM |
| 9 | Have you all considered that you're playing into the feminist agenda?You clearly have a very limited understanding of TRP. One of our core tenets is: Women are not the goal of life ... they are merely a by-product of a life well-lived. Regardless, this whole post is concern trolling. I'm sure it will be removed shortly. In the meantime: READ THE SIDEBAR. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 08:53 PM |
| 77 | Feminist in "open marriage" decides that she has fallen in love with other dude: AWALTWhile this is a great lesson in AWALT, we should also realize this is a great lesson as to what happens to a man who loses frame. From the article: I became involved with James with Daniel’s blessing. Even when I began to sleep over regularly, Daniel was more than fine with it. He told me that he loved James and was happy for the two of them to share me. Daniel was going through a breakdown, I would later discover. He was having problems in many areas of his life—not just our marriage—and I didn… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/15 08:46 PM |
| 7 | Why stop at Rape Culture?Paternity testing is illegal in many countries in Europe, as well as Israel, without a court order. In other places, it is legal, but only with the consent of both supposed parents. So if the mother refuses, you cannot legally do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/15 11:00 PM |
| 0 | Correcting RP/MRA Rape MythsFrom a random poster, I would not disagree with you. But I think we should expect more balanced posts from the mods. They are on the sub everyday. They are well aware of the alternative viewpoints, well aware of the conflicting data (e.g. about rape). Well aware of the conflicting sources. For a mod to make such a biased post on a debate sub is disappointing. They are either being blatantly biased, or just lazy. They know better. That is why it is low quality. If the mods start descending into s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/15 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Correcting RP/MRA Rape MythsThe issue is not that I disagree with it. From a random poster it would be fine. But from a mod, it's a low quality post. The purpose of this sub is to promote debate. The title itself attempts to dismiss opposing viewpoints as "myths". Essentially calling the other side "stupid" from the get-go. I think it is fair to expect the mods to set a better example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/15 08:12 PM |
| 0 | Correcting RP/MRA Rape MythsThis is a great response, along with /u/TheGreasyPole 's below and several others. It's really disappointing to see a MOD on here posting such low quality shit based on biased statistics that are easily countered by numerous data sources, and being blatantly dismissive of opposing viewpoints as "myths". Is this the standards the mods should really be setting here on PPD, /u/hyperrreal? I could understand if it was just some random user, but mods setting a poor example will just lead to more low … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/15 07:52 PM |
| 3 | [FR]how did this date go?First off: Always be escalating. Not initiating some kino is a huge mistake. It was a DATE. Not a friendly get together. Treat it like one. Anyway, I've found with girls like her, shy or inexperienced or whatever (or at least seeming to be), that you need to up your rapport break game. You need to generate more push/pull to draw them out of their shell. Complementing her and telling her "she must get hit on by a lot of guys" is all push. The key to rapport breaks is to mix in teasing. Find her s… | /r/askTRP | 13/11/15 03:46 PM |
| 23 | CMV: There is more of a "vilify men and yell rape culture" than there is a "rape culture"Nope. According to actual data released by Harvard University this year, even if you assume only 20% of people report rapes, the figure is less than 1% of women are sexually assualted. This is in line with federal statistics which suggest the figure is about .61 annually, or roughly 2.4% in a 4-year college period. Of course, even one sexual assault is too many ... but asking people if they felt like they were raped after the fact, or using shitty definitions like "all drunken sex is rape", does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/15 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Men Are Casualties, Only Women Can Be VictimsNo, I just made it up while I writing the comment. Very in line with some John Galt though ... | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/15 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Lurkers, we would love to hear from you!This is also in response to /u/MadeUpMama. To be clear, we at TRP are not necessarily anti-LTR, given the right woman who has been vetted thoroughly. Rather, we are anti sign a marriage contract with the state that allows someone to completely fuck you over at their whim, for whatever reason they might fancy. The legal realities of marriage 2.0 for men in the West these days are the equivalent of letting someone hold a loaded gun to your head. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/15 10:33 PM |
| 27 | Feminism is actually hedonismIronically, as women as a group weaken the men in their group, undermine their stature, diminish the respect for them, pussify/domesticate them ... they make it more likely that some other group will attack, i.e. "a war or something." Cause when shit hits the fan, who will have to defend the group? The men. Feminism really is like a snake eating its own tail. A luxury afforded by the power accumulated by past generations. I do wonder sometimes if it is some sort of natural cycle ... some sort of… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 06:17 PM |
| 48 | Men Are Casualties, Only Women Can Be VictimsOnly someone who's never known true sacrifice would find personal victimhood in someone else's sacrifice. When we let the weak use their weakness as a form of power, we all become more impoverished for it. When we no longer respect true strength and skill, when we elevate others to the same status despite the lack thereof, we do not gain strength as a group. We gain mediocrity. Ironically, the same principle applies to personal relationships just as much as society at large. Hence, TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/15 06:09 PM |
| 9 | Is Feminism inherently flawed?This is the same thing as the white person crying that minority students have an advantage...turns out they do not. Actually, according to recent reports coming out of England (e.g. Poor white boys get a worse start in life) if you discriminate against and/or disadvantage young white boys enough, they suffer just the same as any other race. Discrimination doesn't see race. Poverty doesn't see race. Only racists do. As the U.S. Supreme Court Chief Justice said a couple years ago: "The way to stop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/15 05:37 PM |
| 3 | A discussion on how the explosion of Tinder, etc. may have ripped a hole in the continuum of datingYeah, we get that man. But /u/NightwingTRP 's point is that your post comes across as a "if you're short you are fucked" kinda message. TRP's central tenet is that the only thing holding you back is you, and that you have been indoctrinated by society to in fact hold yourself back, as ridiculous as that sounds. Being short or a particular race may not be ideal, but none of us are perfect. We all have some negatives. All of us. It boils down to Looks, Money, Status. No matter who you are, you wil… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 03:29 PM |
| 64 | Don’t waste your time. When in doubt, force her to act or move onThis is one of the key principles of Mark Manson's "Models": Polarize early and often. People, women included, will either like you or not. Figuring that out as quickly as possible saves you a lot of wasted time. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 06:00 PM |
| 5 | TRP way of dealing with this situation?Yeah, second what /u/Archwinger said. Nonchalance is your friend. All your overthinking about this shows that you still care. Don't care. The opposite of love is not hate ... it's indifference. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/15 05:40 PM |
| 7 | Neoteny - Women are Literally More Like ChildrenI meant they are like children in the literal sense. Neoteny generally occurs thru arrested development, genetically selected for. Not that their traits resemble children but are actually different (i.e. metaphorically), but that they are in fact the same thing. In others words, I "literally" meant literally in this case. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/15 01:03 AM |
| 3 | I'm often an asshole to woman, they don't fuck me, what gives TRP?It is not about being an asshole or jerk, it is about being a man unafraid of his testosterone. Honestly, this is TRP 101 stuff. You should read more, like this one: Book of Pook - The Secret of the Jerk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/15 09:51 PM |
| 5 | Neoteny - Women are Literally More Like ChildrenI know of him. I have not seen his YouTube videos though. If some are relevant to TRP, you should post them along with some analysis. Be a good contribution. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 09:46 PM |
| 46 | Neoteny - Women are Literally More Like ChildrenAbsolutely, sometimes things are just different ... that does not necessarily imply they are better or worse. The important thing is to be cognizant of it. Women are the way they are. And frankly, I don't want them to be more like men. As I like to say: if I wanted to date men, I'd be gay. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/15 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Another animation, Briffaults Law: All relationships are transactionalI like your animations, the first set as well as this new one. Only critique I would have is about your explanation of why women sometimes stay in a relationship past the point of mutual benefit, i.e. seemingly violating Briffault's Law. I agree with you it does happen, since just like hypergamy it only describes a behavioral tendency, not an inviolable rule. However, I think you have to remember your title here. All relationships are transactional ... there is something we want. In other words,… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/15 06:16 PM |
| 4 | Newly Divorced Beta Gets His Heart Crushed in Under a WeekYep ... Oscar Wilde. Almost included that quote in my comment. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 09:55 PM |
| 21 | Newly Divorced Beta Gets His Heart Crushed in Under a WeekTRP isn't just for dudes looking for a one-night stand. It's for men looking for relationships too. All relationships are transactional ... there is something we want. Some people might call that "manipulation", but if that is the case then we are all basically manipulating each other all the time. Angling to get what we want, what we need. Calling it "manipulation" is just a form of shaming language. And shaming language itself is, ironically, just another way of manipulating others to behave h… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 08:34 PM |
| 5 | When the Red Pill happiness formula doesn't work?This is a much too simplistic view of TRP ... TRP theory is much more nuanced than that. You should probably spend a bit more time reading, or perhaps talking with the ladies over at Red Pill Women. I have plates that I actually enjoy spending time with, and some that I mainly hang out for the sex aspect. I even still get pulled into actual relationships from time to time. The thing is: it all depends on what the woman brings to the table. We say AWALT at TRP, but just because all women have cer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/15 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Are you more left-wing or right-wing ?I tend to be a centrist. Both the right and left like to play the victim. And if there is anything that binds us at TRP, it is a rejection of the modern pandemic of the "victim mentality" mindset. It should also be pointed out that modern "progressive liberals" and social justice warriors are not really liberals, not in the sense of classical liberalism (e.g. see Sargon of Akkad's Illiberal Liberalism). They basically violate every tenet of classic liberalism. Of course, the right isn't any bett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/15 05:17 PM |
| 8 | 14 year old groupie who had lost her virginity to a rockstar [Interview]I was an innocent girl, but the way it happened was so beautiful. I remember him looking like God and having me over a table. Who wouldn’t want to lose their virginity to David Bowie? Remember boys, this is exactly how all women want to be fucked ... Sex God Method is recommended around here for a reason. And ironically, it is also how they want to be loved as well. Women love men above them, not below them. They don't crave an equal ... they crave your power, your strength, your dominance. In t… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 04:03 PM |
| 56 | Bill Maher delivers gem of TRP wisdom.Breitbart actually talked about Bill Maher in an article a couple months ago called The Rise of the Cultural Libertarians. You know something has gone horribly wrong in our society when a strange new alliance forms between Breitbart, Bill Maher, and Chris Rock ... | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 05:02 AM |
| 12 | How does peak SMV benefit a man in his late 30s?As long as you live in a decent sized city or larger, you are literally surrounded by lots of young women everyday, some of whom are invariably hot. At the grocery store, on the subway, at the coffee shop, etc. An interesting thing to do, just as an experiment, is use an app like Happn, or even Tinder with a very small distance radius, and see how many 20-something women cross your path everyday (again assuming you live in a decent sized city or larger). They are all around you. Just have to pic… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/15 10:00 PM |
| 53 | If men "peak" at 40 or so, why do all the young women on this sub complain about men that age hitting on them?I'm in my mid-30's, and pretty much exclusively date women under 30. Dozens of them this year alone. I'm much more successful now with 25-year-old women than I was when I was 25. But truth be told, I have a lot more to offer now ... I'm 6'1, fit, with a PhD and 6-figure salary and run my own company. I have more "gravitas" when I enter a room. Many of those things were not true for me at 25. Men are not born, they are made. That takes time. Men are status objects. Hell, one of my current plates … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/15 06:20 PM |
| 9 | UK: Poor white boys get 'a worse start in life' says equality reportWith a score like that, it was probably hitting the front page. Can't have things which challenge the dominant cultural narrative hitting the front page. Better to stifle debate than engage in the actual practice of democracy and classical liberalism. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/15 02:54 PM |
| 23 | Feminist learns about The Red Pill and Changes her Tune causing Dave Futrelle to whine about it: Does this confirm that TRP is starting to win the public war?Criticism is saying "I disagree with you, and here's why". In contrast, calling your opponent names like "nazi" or "misogynist" or "neckbeard" or "rape apologist" is shaming language meant to stifle debate. AKA "silencing". This is exactly the tactic taken by many feminists when certain "controversial" speakers like Christine Hoff Sommers are invited to give talks on campus. In a free democracy, no one should be trying to silence opposing views. Free speech is a necessity for the vibrant discour… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/15 11:50 PM |
| 19 | The Covert Reason That Feminists Loathe Gay MenActually bisexual women are the highest, according to the CDC, but Lesbians are second, and significantly higher than heterosexuals or gay men .... Source The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)'s 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey reports ... a victimization prevalence of 43.8 percent for lesbians, making it the second most affected group after bisexual women (61.1 percent), ahead of bisexual men (37.3 percent), heterosexual women (35 percent), heterosexual m… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 10:09 PM |
| 7 | The Covert Reason That Feminists Loathe Gay MenLet me rephrase, by "gender" I was referring to biological sex. I was using the term gender in its colloquial sense. Transgenders are arguing that biological sex is based on how you feel. But let me you rephrase the whole thing, so you can see the inherent contradictions: First, let us assume gender is biologically driven. So maybe you have female sex organs, but were born with a "male brain", so you feel like a man despite your body. And likewise sexual preferences must be similarly biologicall… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 08:34 PM |
| 13 | The Covert Reason That Feminists Loathe Gay MenMarriage was long ago redefined by 2nd wave feminists, no-fault divorce laws, and lifetime alimony. Now it's a ruse where all the benefits go to the woman. Any man who'd get married to a woman nowadays is an idiot. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 07:51 PM |
| 23 | The Covert Reason That Feminists Loathe Gay MenNo, transgenders are different ... they are actively trying to redefine gender as a fluid construct. You are not born a man or woman, it depends on how you feel. In other words, biology does not exist. Even many of those in the gay and lesbian communities are uncomfortable with including transgenderism in their platform ... because if gender and sexual preferences are not biologically driven, then it is just a choice. And that is a huge contradiction to what the Gay/Lesbian community has be argu… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 06:40 PM |
| 180 | The Covert Reason That Feminists Loathe Gay MenI always found it strange when Roosh or others in the Manosphere would attack gay men. As long as they aren't trying to tell heterosexual men how to be men, or trying to define masculinity for us, who gives a shit? Let them be gay. Hell there is even an altTRP sub. The reality is that by ostracizing them, we only strengthen the Feminist hand. We need allies ... certainly people like /u/yiannopoulos_m aka Milo from Breitbart would qualify. Moreover, the longer I have been involved with TRP, the m… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 03:16 PM |
| 7 | Derek Jeter (41) marries model (25): Does this confirm TRP philosophy on men wanting to date/marry younger women?Yep. You basically just summed up one of TRP's core principles: Women are sexual objects ... men are status objects. It is not a double standard, just a different standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/15 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Couldn't help but notice some similarities between TRP philosophy and BuddhismA common refrain on TRP is: she was not yours, it was just your turn. What we mean is that all things in life are ephemeral. They come and go. You cannot hold them. You cannot possess them. All things will end, whether it be through someone leaving or death or something else. Enjoy the time you have with them ... but never put anything on a pedestal. That lies at the heart of TRP's mantras about depedestalizing women and maintaining outcome independence. It is the exact opposite of what Western … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/15 02:54 AM |
| 3 | TRP is apolitical, and whyThis is a great comment. Unfortunate that it isn't being voted as such. Some people don't seem to understand that unplugging requires completely unplugging from the various myths we've been sold ... modern politics is no exception. Take what is useful, and leave the rest. In other words, pragmatism. Leave the fairy tales for children. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 10:47 PM |
| 1 | TRP is apolitical, and whythe personal has become political I think you have a point. However, I think that I and many others here at TRP reject the legitimacy of identity politics. Sargon talks about that at great length in the video I linked in the OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 09:48 PM |
| 2 | TRP is apolitical, and whyInteresting thought. We may be splitting hairs here though. The question would be whether TRP's focus on individualistic solutions, rather than collective or social ones, still qualifies as "political". This is a major difference between MRAs and TRP, for instance. I think we can all agree that TRP is philosophically opposed to SJWs and the like. But at what point do you cross the line from a philosophical stance to a political one? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 08:49 PM |
| 13 | TRP is apolitical, and whyWhat you are describing is classical liberalism. The closest thing we have nowadays to this are libertarians. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 06:43 PM |
| 10 | Kickstarter for a movie about men's rights that's called "The red pill"Don't disagree with your general point. But we should be clear that the influx was of modern progressive liberals and social justice warriors, not classical liberals. Those modern progressives are basically extremists, and have about as much in common with traditional liberal principles as tea partiers in the U.S. have with traditional conservative ideals. Most of Western civilization is founded on classical liberal principles, which are incumbent throughout modern conservative and liberal ideol… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 08:22 PM |
| 17 | Kickstarter for a movie about men's rights that's called "The red pill"It's not hate. Just indifference. Roosh wants to be the self-proclaimed leader of the Red Pill, and throws a fit when he isn't. Kid needs to work on his frame. https://archive.is/wibja | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 06:45 PM |
| 36 | Flashback Post #1: She doesn’t love you by SoftHaremThe modern myth of "unconditional love" is perhaps the worst myth of all. There is nothing in this world that comes without conditions. Nothing that is always true. Nothing that lasts forever. Nothing that exists in a vacuum ... there is always context. And only a fool ignores the context. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 05:07 PM |
| 14 | Kickstarter for a movie about men's rights that's called "The red pill"True. The problem of course is that men tend to follow the men that they themselves would like to be. Doubt anyone aspires to be like Elam. So having leaders like that marginalizes the whole movement. Guess you really need a confluence of the right person (or people), at the right time, at the right place, and the right cause, to have any chance of success. Simply having the right cause means nothing without the other ingredients. MRAs don't seem to understand that, they think the righteousness … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 04:52 PM |
| 56 | The Secret of a Tender ElamPaul Elam is to the MRAs and Men's Rights movement as Roosh is to TRP. He has made some decent contributions, but honestly, he is a horrible front man or spokesman. He lacks charisma, tact, can't hold frame for shit. Real leaders lead by example. Hard doing that when you are not much of an example of man. When you lack the inner psyche or poise that a real Red Pill man has. If Elam and Dean Esmay and those folks actually gave a shit about men's rights, they'd get out of the way so more charismat… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 04:44 PM |
| 12 | Kickstarter for a movie about men's rights that's called "The red pill"Haha ... still white knights at heart, they are. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 04:40 PM |
| 42 | Kickstarter for a movie about men's rights that's called "The red pill"Seriously, Elam and Dean Esmay are not good front men for the Men's Rights Movement. They lack charisma, and don't know how to handle themselves when confronted in a debate. They are as to MRA as Roosh is to TRP. A real leader should be able to lead by example ... | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 04:36 PM |
| 269 | Man is convicted of statutory rape because the girl lied about her age. It is the quote of the judges that really astounds meJudge's words: “You went out looking for trouble and you found it. It was tragically wrong.” Now imagine if a judge said this to a woman after she went out for a night of heavy drinking and ended up being "raped" (i.e. she got really drunk, had sex with a stranger, then regretted it the next day). She put herself in a potentially dangerous situation, and thus she was responsible for the consequences. Reverse the genders, and that is essentially what the judge is telling the man. Except you can't… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 08:56 PM |
| 34 | NeofemininityThe double standards these days are ridiculous ... Women: You can't tell us how to behave or what to do with our bodies Okay, fine. Gay people: You can't tell us how to behave, or who to love. You have to accept us for who we are Okay, fine. Men: You don't know what you're doing, or even how to be "a real man", let us women and/or gay men tell you how to be a real heterosexual man ... Okay, that makes sense ... wait no it fucking doesn't. Fuck off. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/15 08:27 PM |
| 16 | DC/Maryland members interested in the fraternity...Saw the other thread on this, and the subsequent debate. Don't think it's necessarily a bad idea. All I would add is, if you're really going to do this, you may need to use some Freemason-like tactics to ensure anonymity and/or plausible deniability, just in case. Things like this are sure to draw the attention of enemies ... | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 11:37 PM |
| 9 | A Message to Men's Rights from Red PillI actually read a similar recent piece (not the same one you linked) about that same scientific article. Fascinating stuff. Make no mistake, Victimhood is the new form of power. It's fucked up really. And like all forms of power, it gets used and abused. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 09:23 PM |
| 22 | A Message to Men's Rights from Red PillThe thing that binds all of us here at TRP is a rejection of the "victim mentality" mindset that is so prevalent in modern day Western society. There is some venting and ranting, especially from those in the Anger phase, but at the end of day, the key message is to raise yourself up. That is one of the key distinctions between TRP and Feminism. Ironically, it is also one of the key distinctions between us and MRAs ... | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 06:59 PM |
| 108 | The ABC stages of independence – Make her wonder if you careWhat's interesting is every stage you describe is really an attempt to gain power, some modicum of control over the situation, just in different ways. The real tragedy of a blue pill mindset is the lack of understanding that all human interaction involves some power dynamic. And funny enough, Beta game as Rollo calls it, is still a play for power. Even "playing the victim", as so many Feminists and SJWs like to do, is a play for power. Turning their "position of weakness" into strength, into con… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 03:55 PM |
| 393 | Man who found out his girlfriend gives happy ending massages decides to stay with her.From the Update link: some asshat linked my post to that redpill nonsense sub. They called me a beta (whatever the fuck that's supposed to be) and her a whore. We didn't call her that ... she is literally a whore. He's trying to wife up a whore. Idiot. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 07:14 PM |
| 2 | What are the benefits of assuming that the average woman cannot sympathise or empathise with the male condition, given that society provides no incentive for women to do so? What, if any, disadvantages are there to this?There may some who listen who never will understand, but there are others who will. For many of us veterans, it is a way of giving back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/15 06:35 PM |
| 19 | What are the benefits of assuming that the average woman cannot sympathise or empathise with the male condition, given that society provides no incentive for women to do so? What, if any, disadvantages are there to this?Interesting post and question. If I were you, I would understand one thing about TRP's position on this: TRP is about protecting ourselves as men. The question of whether women can, or ever will, truly empathize is moot. The point is that as men we are being socialized to empathize with women, even to the point of our own detriment. It is not about attacking or dehumanizing anyone else, it is about taking them off the pedestal. Women are just people, capable of all the good, and all the evil, as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/15 04:59 PM |
| 11 | 29F wants a "good girl allowance"? Buddy asked how TRP would react.As Kanye said: I ain't saying she's a gold-digger, but ... Alpha fucks, beta bucks. Once she sees you as the latter, difficult to change. Just a matter of time till the dude shows up in DeadBedrooms. At 34, he's at his peak, and she is approaching the wall. She shouldn't be asking for shit ... she should feel lucky to have him. This one is easy: Next. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/15 03:32 PM |
| 49 | Guess what? Fatherhood matters when it comes to a child's future: StudyFeminism >> attack on masculinity >> denigration of the role of fatherhood >> more single-mother homes >> boys falling behind in school and life >> men growing up incapable of being leaders (or men for that matter) Perhaps this is just a case of unintended consequences, but either way, if things like this don't make it apparent that feminism is a multi-generational attack on men, a multi-generational play for power, I don't know what will. Said it before, will say it again: Feminism is not about… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Top posts of TwoXChromosomes categorizedThe thing that binds all of us at TRP is a rejection of the "victim mentality" mindset that is so prevalent in modern day Western society. There is some venting and ranting, especially from those in the Anger phase, but at the end of day, the key message is to raise yourself up. That is one of the key distinctions between TRP and MRAs, for instance. Also clearly a difference between TRP and 2X. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/15 02:44 PM |
| 7 | Beating down the doubt and taking the risk! 47MAll of us have obstacles we must overcome. For some it may be age. For others it may be motivation. For still others it may be a poor physique. But we all have something. You are no different than any of us in that. Embrace the struggle. That is the way of men. That is the way of TRP. The impediment to action advances action ... that which is in the way becomes the way. - Marcus Aurelius | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/15 02:41 AM |
| 0 | All you anti-RedPillers, do you hate TRP because it actually works and shatters your reality?No, but I do look at the information being passed around, synthesize it, and then go test it out for myself in the real world. Basically I run my own experiments. I am actually a practicing scientist, with a PhD. What's funny is that messy process of discerning the truth - gathering lots of sources of info, verifying what you can yourself, accepting that there are some axioms in any logical system that are inherently untestable (even mathematics, go read Godel, Escher, Bach about Kurt Godel's In… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/15 07:44 PM |
| -2 | All you anti-RedPillers, do you hate TRP because it actually works and shatters your reality?You mean field reports? I personally believe that if you pick a FR off of TRP at random, it is probably largely if not entirely fabricated. Hmm, that is the exact same argument creationists make about evolution ... And the reality is, until the advent of PCR technology in the late 1980's and 90's, that the science of evolution was mostly done through observational studies. There was little to no empirical work, because it wasn't really possible yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/15 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Are insecure women better than secure women?Face it. The reason the redpill can't stand a strong woman is because most of you aren't very strong yourselves. Any challenge to your authority has a good chance of succeeding. Wow, got the old feminist shaming language coming out here. Should we, as men, all feel ashamed now? Okay, I'm gonna go cry in the corner cuz I can't handle a "strong, independent woman" ... /s When you are done telling everyone else how they should act and how they should feel, let me know ... Mussolini called and he wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/15 04:00 PM |
| 25 | Marriage for a guy is a big farewell party.She has the same batshit crazy insecurities and will try the same shit tests as one you just met because they all want confirmation of your future value. Ten years of her personal experience means fuck all when she wakes up with a bad case of feelz. So you brush that shit off, fuck her vigorously, and go on about your day. The biggest mistake many men make with women is assuming there is some sort of relationship equity. Women don't give a shit about what you did last year, or even last week. Al… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 02:47 PM |
| 40 | NPR story today - For Students Accused Of Campus Rape, Legal Victories Win Back RightsYou know, there are certainly people in this world, both men and women, who have been raped, without doubt. The thing is, with the epidemic of false rape claims these days (e.g. Mattress girl, UVA case), I actually find it hard to believe anyone anymore who cries rape. It's unfortunate, but feminists are reaping what they sow. You can only push the victim card so far, before people stop believing you. The reality is that false rape claims hurt victims just as much, if not more, than "victim blam… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 02:41 PM |
| 46 | An alpha widow laments her inability to enjoy sex anymore.Never get tired of hearing these alpha widow stories from women. They hem and they haw over the things TRP says, throw fits, call us all sorts of names ... but if you actually just listen to women talk amongst themselves, they are saying the exact same thing, just in a different way. Better yet, watch what they do. Best comment on that original thread: This actually makes a lot of sense. In a way you did peak. Girls generally can have sex with guys more attractive than they could have for a rela… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 02:16 PM |
| 2 | CDC Partner Count StudyI think, as /u/edwardhwhite pointed out below, you are misunderstanding the 80/20 rule. We are not saying 80% of the men don't get any sex, we are saying that 20% of the men have the vast majority of the sexual access. The other 80% are getting the scraps. Probably gets worse for men down in the bottom 20% too. If you assume the self-report biases I mention above are true (and use some very rough math), then for people 20-24, roughly 4% of women have had no sexual partners lifetime, while roughl… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 08:39 PM |
| 17 | CDC Partner Count StudyThis is all self-reported data. Women typically under-report their counts, men typically over-report them. For instance: This Simple Mathematical Formula Proves That We Lie About Sex You can read the scientific journal article linked within from Microbiome. The general rule at TRP is that men on average over-report their number of partners by a factor of 2, and women under-report them by a factor of 3. In other words, whatever she says in terms of n-count, it's probably 3 times that. In short, w… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 07:51 PM |
| -1 | For women, physical dimorphism correlates social dimorphism, but for men the oppositeExcept men can be objectified for their looks as well, only to a lesser extent. I do not disagree with that. However, I think even attractive men are judged as status objects. A really attractive man with no status is like a really accomplished but ugly woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/15 02:56 PM |
| 8 | For women, physical dimorphism correlates social dimorphism, but for men the oppositeAs TRP says: Women are sex objects ... Men are status objects. Women are objectified for their looks, their sexual attractiveness. Men are just as equally objectified for their utility ... their resources, money, car, house, strength, work ethic, etc. etc. A man who has no utility is viewed as worthless by women and society at large. He is seen as weak, unmanly. A failure. It's not a double standard - it's just a different standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/15 02:39 PM |
| 19 | Will the "Next Steve Jobs" be a *Woman?*Most of the successful women tech entrepreneurs I know are actually just business-women. They have men working under them that actually do all the creative programming and technical work that design their new innovative products. Very few of those women know how to code, or have little in the way of real technical skills. I'm looking at you Carli Fiorina and Elaine Pao. You wanna be the next Mark Zuckerberg or Bill Gates ... then you are going to need real technical chops. Otherwise you are esse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/15 03:09 PM |
| 0 | Diagnosed with cancer: need a Red Pill Plan (pt. 2)As /u/59thandNormal mentioned, there is a big post with a bunch of Red Pill books with pdf/ePub downloads for them. If you are limited for a while in maintaining your physical fitness, then maybe that's a good time to sharpen your mental fitness. Here: Comprensive Red Pill Reading List The one other book not on that list that I would highly recommend is Jack Donovan's The Way of Men. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 02:21 PM |
| 16 | Do you think financial abortion is a realistic solution?Just cause a man consents to sex, doesn't mean he consented to raise a child. That'd be like saying that just cause a woman consented to foreplay, that she consented to sex. Sure, one is sometimes the natural consequence of the other ... but as Feminists like to say "a person should be able to withdraw consent at any point". Fair is fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/15 08:54 PM |
| 56 | "On Inherent Value and The Ease of Hypergamy"Dicks hold no inherent value to women. Sex is readily available at all times for her and whatever reason she’s chosen for sleeping with you can easily be exhausted. It should also be noted that in the past, commitment from the man was the balancing factor for women. She needed his resources, his time, his energy, in order to fulfill her biological imperative to reproduce successfully. In this era of no-fault divorce, lifetime alimony, and indulgent child support payments - coupled with state-sup… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/15 08:07 PM |
| -1 | Thought experiment for BP: If Elliot Rogers and that Oregon guy got unlimited access to pussy, do you honestly believe they'd still shoot up places?None of that is true in the United States. Violent crime and murders are actually much higher than they were 50 years ago. There was a huge upsurge during the rise of feminism during the late 20th century. http://www.disastercenter.com/crime/uscrime.htm We've seen a little drop off since 1990, mainly due to more police and tighter sentencing guidelines. Of course, now prisons are full of men, and a large portion of black men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/15 03:09 AM |
| 0 | Thought experiment for BP: If Elliot Rogers and that Oregon guy got unlimited access to pussy, do you honestly believe they'd still shoot up places?Well we could have discussed it, but we won't be able to, because we are both being heavily downvoted by the bloop crew. Common feminist/SJW tactic - if you disagree with an opinion then try to silence it. So instead of discussing real issues, now we'll have more time to discuss imaginary problems like "manspreading" ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/15 12:09 AM |
| -1 | Thought experiment for BP: If Elliot Rogers and that Oregon guy got unlimited access to pussy, do you honestly believe they'd still shoot up places?I think he had plenty of agency, innately. But all children need to be taught. They need someone to teach them to best utilize their agency. Of course murderers existed before feminism. But feminism has helped created a peculiar kind of murderer ... a feminized man without purpose who turns to anger, then lashes out at society ... it has created a problem that did not commonly exist before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/15 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Thought experiment for BP: If Elliot Rogers and that Oregon guy got unlimited access to pussy, do you honestly believe they'd still shoot up places?He actually married a Moroccan actress the 2nd time round, but anyway ... I said a STRONG male role model. Peter Rodgers was born in the 1960's at the tail end of the Baby Boomers. Raised as an effiminate/sensitive "artist" ... became a filmmaker. Twice married. He is the product of feminism in a nutshell. He was NOT a strong male role model. Here's a video of him talking about his feelings: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CWvm6KI1S9M | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/15 07:31 PM |
| -5 | Thought experiment for BP: If Elliot Rogers and that Oregon guy got unlimited access to pussy, do you honestly believe they'd still shoot up places?Boys like him used to have strong male role models, who could help them learn to respond to situations like those. To grow into a man. But feminists have mostly destroyed all the bastions of healthy masculinity. Instead, we socialize young boys to behave more like women. As such, they take on victim complexes in response to negative situations, which in women helps them elicit aid from their surrounding social structures. In boys, that "victim mentality" mindset just permanently fucks them up in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/15 07:15 PM |
| 362 | Guy sees his fiance of 3 years talking to her friend about her Ex-Boyfriend's amazing skills in bedNo one wants to be someone's second best. Go tell your girlfriend right now (if you have one): "honey, you're really great ... I mean, my last girlfriend was better, a better lover, and a lot hotter ... but I feel a lot safer with you, cause you're nice and not as many other men seem to want you ..." See how long it takes for her to try to slap the shit out of you. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 04:25 PM |
| 3 | The Push for "Gender Fluidity" is Literally Driving Men and Women Batshit CrazyMy point wasn't about women trying to be a developer or programmer, my point was about women trying to compete with men, trying to act like men, and the potential consequences of that. As well as vice versa, how that relates to the consequences of feminizing men. And yes, many males would not be able to pick up the skills needed to be a programmer. But imagine if society told them, pushed them even, to become one. Told them that they can be just as good as some whiz-kid programmers at Google or … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 02:47 PM |
| 0 | The Push for "Gender Fluidity" is Literally Driving Men and Women Batshit CrazyThat is actually a fascinating read. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 02:37 PM |
| 0 | The Push for "Gender Fluidity" is Literally Driving Men and Women Batshit CrazyLook, I realize you are gay. That's cool, I have a lot of gay friends. But 95% of us are not. And we get to define what heterosexual masculinity looks like. Not you. Not women. Do you want us coming over and telling you how to be gay? Fuck no. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 02:36 PM |
| 2 | The Push for "Gender Fluidity" is Literally Driving Men and Women Batshit CrazyFalse rape accusations are completely supported by current society. To do otherwise, would be "victim blaming". Here's a US congressman last month suggesting we should get rid of due process for men accused of rape: Campus Rape Hysteria Has No Use For Due Process I can provide dozens of other examples. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Woman,25, used to go to sex parties and had tons of casual sex, now makes her boyfriends wait months for sexI was referring more to their fundamentals - earnings, debt-to-equity ratio, cash on hand, etc. - than past stock performance. All those fundamentals are created by the company's history, and tell you something about its future. You are of course correct about the stock performance thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 01:28 PM |
| 4 | The Push for "Gender Fluidity" is Literally Driving Men and Women Batshit CrazyYou sound like you struggle a bit with traditionally masculine traits. Perhaps that is why you are here. To learn. You kind of just proved my point ... | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/15 12:07 AM |
| 20 | The Push for "Gender Fluidity" is Literally Driving Men and Women Batshit CrazyExcept for the part where you get your genitals cut off. That's a pretty shitty mating strategy. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 10:14 PM |
| 21 | The Push for "Gender Fluidity" is Literally Driving Men and Women Batshit CrazyYeah. You know, maybe there are a handful of people out there with criss-crossed up chromosomes or something. But it's the fact they try to push it on the rest of us that really bugs me. It's like: who's being intolerant of who now? What's wrong with being a regular heterosexual masculine cis male? Seriously. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 09:03 PM |
| 3 | The Push for "Gender Fluidity" is Literally Driving Men and Women Batshit CrazyThanks for pointing that out. It was a link to Rollo's most recent post on here. Fixed now. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 08:58 PM |
| 263 | Woman,25, used to go to sex parties and had tons of casual sex, now makes her boyfriends wait months for sexI like when people say "a person's past shouldn't matter". If you are trying to invest in the stock market, history matters. If you are trying to get a loan, history matters. If you have a medical problem, history matters. If you are thinking about hiring a new employee, history matters. If you are applying to college or grad school, history matters. And so on and so forth. Except when it comes to dating, of course, because then a person's history doesn't matter?? ... uh yeah, no it fucking does… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/15 06:33 PM |
| 1 | What are the best post break-up links.Go watch some Corey Wayne videos: https://www.youtube.com/user/coachcoreywayne Not necessarily Red Pill, but definitely full of some TRP truths, like a man always being willing to walk away. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/15 03:56 PM |
| 21 | Can't find enjoyment in human interactionEven after years of first swallowing the Red Pill, I still go through periodic monk mode episodes every once in a while. I'm a man. I've got shit to do. A mission. Women are there to entertain you when you feel like it, not the other way around. They enter your frame. And to be fair, a lot of modern Western females are boring/vapid as fuck. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/15 03:35 PM |
| 81 | What laws need to be changed to incentivise marriage for men today?Marriage is a business contract with the state, not an agreement between two people. Why should men be incentivized to sign a business contract with the state, purely for the benefit of women? That's like asking how you could incentivize slaves to work harder on a plantation. There is no carrot ... you fill their heads with fantasy stories to keep them believing, and use the whip/stick/cane when needed. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 07:42 PM |
| 10 | Enjoy, another unbiased documented scientific report that reinforces TRP.This wider distribution among men is true for a variety of physical traits, including intelligence. There are more really tall men and really short men. Men have more variation in eye color. etc. etc. In the same vein, there are more really smart men and more really dumb men. It has to do with men only having one X chromosome and one Y, meaning every gene on each chromosome essentially functions as if dominant. Whereas women have two X chromosomes, which means recessive genes on either one typic… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 02:41 PM |
| 10 | Enjoy, another unbiased documented scientific report that reinforces TRP.The sample size of women was actually 65 in the study - 30 in the follicular phase of their menstrual cycle and 35 non-follicular. Given that they are just running between subjects t-tests on some 7-point rating scales, they probably have reasonable statistical power. We'd need to know the variance of the means to be absolutely sure. But I review papers all the time for journals with smaller sample sizes than this, and some of them get published. It's not the sample size of an individual study s… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 01:48 PM |
| 7 | The War on MasculinityThat's because we as men failed a massive society-wide shit test called "feminism". Men became supplicating. They stopped being willing to walk away. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/10/15 01:07 AM |
| 10 | The War on MasculinityWhat, are you a dog who only does things in order to get a pat on the head? A treat perhaps? If you want respect, then respect yourself. It starts with you. The struggle is the path. Too lazy to work out? Stop making excuses. School too hard? Stop making excuses. Girls don't seem to like you? Stop making excuses. The struggle is the path. A man demands respect ... not by asking for it, but by being willing to walk away from those who don't give it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 10:41 PM |
| 14 | What would YOU do?So many red flags. If we were over at TRP, we'd tell you that she might be plate material. But we'd also tell you: Don't stick your dick in crazy. That shit never ends well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/15 08:37 PM |
| 30 | The War on MasculinityWhat people don't understand is that when someone says "Be a Man", they mean that you must overcome the struggle, not lash out in anger because of it. Somehow society, and many men, have forgotten this fundamental truth. Life will always be a struggle for men, overcoming it is the only true solution. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 06:57 PM |
| 12 | Stuck in depression phaseI've been through that phase, in years past. The key to moving beyond it is this: You have realigned your perspective of the world, but you have not realigned your expectations. You must do the latter to truly reach Acceptance. You need new dreams. I wrote a post on the TRP main sub about this a while back. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/15 02:43 PM |
| 73 | 27 Shades of The Modern ManWomen have no business telling men how to be men. They throw fits about men telling them what to do with their bodies and shit. Then they turn around and think they can tell men what to do with theirs and how to act. The pure hypocrisy and arrogance of it is amazing. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 02:42 AM |
| 2 | If women want respect, we have to be men.I don't know if that's realistic. And personally, I make plenty of money and have plenty of status. A woman who brings only those things into my life is essentially redundant ... she adds nothing to my life. So as for me, I prefer a woman who can bring a strong feminine energy to a relationship. That's something I cannot provide, it's just not in my nature. Money, education, status, etc. are bonuses, but not necessities. A lot of women don't seem to understand this. They mistakenly think the thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/15 09:42 PM |
| 5 | If women want respect, we have to be men.There are some men who want to be submissive. But the reality is that 95% of men don't, not naturally. The exception does not invalidate the rule. It's not that we necessarily look down on it. The issue is that modern feminists and SJWs are trying to force the other 95% of us to be more gender fluid, even if it makes us (and women) less happy. The question is really who is being intolerant of who ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/15 09:33 PM |
| 14 | How could female hypergamy be stabilized ?While reforming the educational system (e.g. getting rid of women-only scholarships) and changing the divorce laws would be helpful, I think it overlooks a basic biological reality: As long as women wait around till their 30's to get married, a lot of them are going to have trouble. Men want young, fertile women. A 34-year-old woman who's slept around, is starting to wrinkle and sag in all the wrong places, and whose last remaining eggs are dwindling away, is not really a tantalizing option for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/15 08:49 PM |
| 1 | If women want respect, we have to be men.I am one RP member at least who doesn't care if my partners (or plates) have careers or what not. The point is that when they leave their professional sphere and enter our personal one, they need to express a feminine nature and be willing to submit to my dominant masculine nature. I appreciate a woman who can bring a strong feminine energy to a relationship (which is maybe what you mean by respect) ... unfortunately there aren't a lot of modern Western women who seem to know how to do so anymor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/15 08:38 PM |
| 15 | Are women "losing the dating game", and how much sympathy do you feel for "high-achieving" middle-aged women who can't find a husband?Society says it's okay for women to do this. Feminists applaud it. Hell it's even written into our divorce and alimony laws. The point of this entire thread is that all of this, both the man's behavior in the OP and women divorce raping men, is the product of feminist policies. Which a blue pill view of the world supports and defends. I don't know how you can call yourself a "non-feminist blue pill woman" .... that's like saying you are a Christian who doesn't believe in Jesus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/15 08:27 PM |
| 4 | If women want respect, we have to be men.I think Secretariat was a great race horse. Legendary even. A brilliant athlete, intelligent, driven to win. One of a kind. Doesn't mean I aspire to be a horse. Find a female role model. One you respect just as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/15 08:05 PM |
| 3 | "Nice Guy-ism" is NOT being a nice guy. It is an inappropriate over-reliance on empathy as a manipulative strategy, or forcing a relationship based on imposed obligations. People grow to loathe you for it.A great thing to do after you have fully swallowed the red pill, and really experienced life thru that lens, is to go back re-read some of that material, like The Rational Male - Best of Year One, The Book of Pook, the TRP sidebar, etc. You'll see things you didn't notice the first time, things that only make complete sense after you've actually lived it. I know when I went back and read them a second time after I'd internalized the red pill, I gained a lot of new insights, and a deeper apprecia… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/15 07:55 PM |
| 3 | UPDATE: Should I Walk Away From This One?You need to work on your frame, brother. Getting pissy and telling her to fuck off is not holding frame. You're letting her actions dictate your behavior ... it should be the other way around. Read up on Amused Mastery. Next time your in that situation, just laugh it off and walk away. IDGAF. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/15 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Rape[TM]: Understanding the Proper Reaction to the Feminist Rape LobbyI didn't say they accept the truth, it just temporarily shuts them up for a bit while they hamster away furiously trying to escape their own cognitive dissonance. It is this cognitive dissonance that is key, what you are trying elicit in them. Because you can't argue logic with them. You have to make them feel like something is off with their own view of reality. Feelz before reals. This is the same principle that is behind negging and rapport breaks. You are purposely eliciting cognitive disson… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/15 07:32 PM |
| 10 | Rape[TM]: Understanding the Proper Reaction to the Feminist Rape LobbyMy response any time feminists bring up "rape culture": Define "rape culture"? They'll start babbling something about a "pervasive cultural mentality that rape is okay" blah blah blah ... so then I ask: So what percentage of men rape women? To which they start mumbling or obfuscating, because the reality is that 95% of men DON'T rape women, if even less. At least in Western countries. You don't hear dudes sitting around going "haha, man, I totally raped that chick bro" ... so after they're done … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/15 02:02 AM |
| 13 | "Nice Guy-ism" is NOT being a nice guy. It is an inappropriate over-reliance on empathy as a manipulative strategy, or forcing a relationship based on imposed obligations. People grow to loathe you for it.Yeah Rollo wrote a piece about this exact topic a few years ago: Beta Male Game In short, playing the "nice guy" is as much a form of manipulation as any other. At the end of the day, all relationships are transactional. There is something we want. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/15 01:48 AM |
| 5 | Why doesn't TBP have their own 'truths' to denounce those of TRP?As I said above, the women in my life seem happier, and I've been able to help many other men improve their lives. You shouldn't mischaracterize what other people say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/15 04:48 PM |
| 6 | Why doesn't TBP have their own 'truths' to denounce those of TRP?According to surveys done right here on PPD, such as the one below, the Blue Pill is mostly women. Nearly 70%. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/284c5b/a_bit_of_the_survey_data_i_found_interesting/ TPB is for women, and/or feminist-minded men who believe gynocentrism is a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/15 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Cross post of mine from the effect aging has had on my outlook on women.There is conflicting evidence about testosterone levels and CVD, but most of it points to the fact that naturally good levels of testosterone provide some protection, while artifically supplementing testosterone levels can increase risk. Not clear why. Here's one example paper, but you can do your own research: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19011291 As for the libido thing, it's more about avoiding issues with erectile dysfunction. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/15 04:29 PM |
| 23 | Cross post of mine from the effect aging has had on my outlook on women.While much of this is true, I think some of it is also due to experience. Moreover, I would also point out that there are many natural things you can do to reduce the loss of testosterone as you age. Diet and exercise changes, for instance. Eating more dietary cholesterol (e.g. eggs). Vitamin D supplementation. And for god sakes, LIFT. Compound exercises like squats and deadlifts are great for naturally stimulating testosterone production. I think this is a really critical issue for many men as … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/15 02:14 PM |
| 7 | Why doesn't TBP have their own 'truths' to denounce those of TRP?I care because you lot give men a bad name. You mean that we as men should base everything we do, even how we act, on what women want? On making sure they don't hate us? There's a word for that - it's called gynocentrism. Yeah, screw that. I have also think you give bad advice particularly when it comes to sex. RP principles work great for me. It's driven me to become a better person, maximize my potential, and I sleep with plenty of women. Even the women in my life seem to be happier. And I've … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/15 02:01 PM |
| 7 | Why doesn't TBP have their own 'truths' to denounce those of TRP?We should also point out that TBP is mostly women, and perhaps a smattering of feminist-minded men. They can't offer any alternative. The only reason they exist is because they are scared that TRP might work. If it didn't work, no one would care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/15 04:21 AM |
| 16 | CMV: the equivalent of a man raising another man's child is a woman having a relationship with a behaviorally immature man - except the second is worsePaternity testing is actually illegal without a court order in several European countries, such as France and Germany: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DNA_paternity_testing#Legal_issues Ah, our new feminist overlords ... /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/15 02:22 PM |
| 4 | RP Philosophy: On why MGTOW, MRA, and anti-feminism are ultimately a bullshit waste of timeI would agree with most of this, but with a small caveat. I think when feminist policies get pushed so far - such as legally justifying false rape allegations and/or "rape culture" hysteria - to the point where it becomes dangerous to be a man - even an alpha man - in this world, that we must push back. So it's more a difference of degree to me, not a difference of type. We at TRP focus more on improving society through improving ourselves, raising ourselves up. But if things get pushed too far,… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/15 02:00 PM |
| 6 | Does TRP get switched when you have a daughter or a younger sister you're close with?Look, at the end of the day, AWALT. If you watch closely, you'll see it even more clearly in the women you are closest to, daughters or sisters or whatever. It's kind of shocking when you put the pieces together ... it was there all along, right under your nose. All that said, there are a couple things you can do: 1) Women respond well to strong male role models. They tend to be more stable, less impulsive, less prone to mental health issues. TRP produces strong male role models. 2) You could di… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/15 07:21 PM |
| 5 | Women post about their lack of sexual attraction to their "pretty decent husbands".Best comment from that thread: I'm sorry. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but I feel like NOONE TALKS ABOUT THIS! And it's no wonder it's hurtful for men to hear! And women, some aren't even able to recognize it's happening and they have convinced themself that their husband is a bad partner or not "the right guy for them," when he's clearly not a bad partner at all. People do talk about it. It's called the Red Pill, and RedPillWomen. Le sigh ... | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/15 03:12 AM |
| 3 | It's Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren't Enough Men Out There | VICE | United StatesYeah they tried this in China in the 1960's /u/HappilySingleWoman, it was called the "Cultural Revolution". It was an unmitigated disaster. Pretty much every large-scale attempt at forcibly social re-engineering what people desire always has been. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 03:18 PM |
| 6 | Change your actions, and your thoughts will follow.Calories in - Calories out. That's what really matters. What's ridiculous is that your body needs fat and cholesterol to survive - a large portion of the human brain for instance is made of fat and cholesterol. What's even more ridiculous is that things like dietary cholesterol have a limited link to blood cholesterol. So much so they actually dropped the "recommended daily limits" this year in the United States. Blood cholesterol levels are actually more closely correlated with your overall die… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/15 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Am I going crazy?!Alphas are builders, leaders. They lead by example. They don't go around hitting/kicking somebody to death just for shits and giggles. They have a mission, a goal, a purpose. You have a lot of angst within you, but instead of channeling that to raise yourself up, you focus on tearing others down. That is the path of the weak. Get your head right, brother. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/15 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Looking for answers from more experienced Red Pillers... (flaking/dread/etc.)So how do I tell her that I don't put up with disrespect while also not caring enough to get upset She was busy arranging travel plans. She was out of the country for a month. Even if she called you, it wasn't like you'd have been able to fuck her for a month. She's not your girlfriend. How did she disrespect you?? Did you want her to call her before she left so you could talk about "feelings"? If she's a plate, you shouldn't give a shit. As soon as she was back in physical proximity, back in fu… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/15 07:32 PM |
| 104 | "The Questionnaire"Setting aside the issue that this sounds like some research scam, as others have pointed out, the whole "checklist" mentality is a real thing nowadays for entitled Western women. I run into these girls all the time, both in real life as well as Tinder and other online platforms. I like to call them checklist girls. A lot of them are feminist-minded ladies, or at least heavily influenced by the feminist views on the world and relationships. The best ones are those that still have the checklist, b… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/15 07:20 PM |
| 22 | r/TheRedPill is a mixed bag. The basic theory of TRP is pretty solid, but the members have some work to doA lot of this is gonna be true no matter what the venue, as the vast majority of people are creatures of instinct and emotion first, and rationality second Well yeah ... I'm an EC over at TRP. TRP needs hard edges, to keep the blade sharp with the influx of new blood all the time. Otherwise the message will get watered down. The detractors will erode the line in the sand we've drawn. Not gonna happen as long as we are around. And there tends to be a sort of worshipful reverence for the mods and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/15 03:32 AM |
| 51 | Harvard Business Review published a piece on Carly Fiorina's tenure as HP's CEO. Surprise surprise, it's full of TRP truths.Well what I meant is she would have been fired earlier, not after 6 fucking years. Especially after the disastrous Compaq merger. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/15 01:55 AM |
| 218 | Harvard Business Review published a piece on Carly Fiorina's tenure as HP's CEO. Surprise surprise, it's full of TRP truths.Put it this way: if Fiorina had been a man, she would have been fired. Instead she is celebrated, simply for being a woman in that position. She has no business running for president of a country. She can't even run a company. She is the epitome of female entitlement ... the epitome of the pussy pass. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/15 10:57 PM |
| 117 | UN report, This is how they will try to muzzle these type of forums.Anita Sarkeesian, a survivor of cyber violence Lol, what??? People have said shitty things to me on the internet before too. I don't consider myself a "survivor" of anything. Fucking newsflash: sometimes people are mean. Sticks and stones and all that shit. Hey Anita, are you like 4 years old? Amazing people like her get paid these days for being a professional victim. WTF. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/15 02:17 PM |
| 7 | If a "Forever Alone"/"Incel" type man is unable to attract women, and TRP/PUA is manipulative garbage. How is this man supposed to get laid?You don't drive on the wrong side of the road. It's an absolute statement. Of course, there are exceptions, like an accident you have to swerve to avoid. That doesn't make the statement "You don't drive on the wrong side of the road" untrue. People don't go around saying "You mostly don't drive on the wrong side of the road, most of the time, sometimes you do, but mostly you don't" ... people realize there are exceptions. That statements of fact are always generalizations. Pointing out exception… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/15 07:49 PM |
| 15 | If a "Forever Alone"/"Incel" type man is unable to attract women, and TRP/PUA is manipulative garbage. How is this man supposed to get laid?That's criticism, but not misogyny. If someone says, "all women are impatient and angry." Well that's misogyny because you're generalizing all women Saying something is a tendency is not misogyny or hateful. Men, on average, tend to be stronger than women. Women, on average, tend to be more emotional than men. Most african-americans in the U.S. can jump higher than white people. Is that racist?? Exceptions don't invalidate the rule. Calling them "generalizations" is just shaming language. Most d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/15 05:14 PM |
| 3 | AWALT...what about AMALT?Haha ... what Archwinger means within all that irony is: no one at TRP denies AMALT ... there are certainly tendencies that apply to men and male behavior. It's just that those are typically of limited relevance to our stated aims and goals. Only so much time in the day - focus is key. The secret of all successful people is not figuring out what you will do, but figuring out what you won't do. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/15 04:43 PM |
| 37 | Whats the most appropriate response to "cheating"?If you agreed to exclusivity, then the response is hard next. Radio silence. As a man, you gave her the most valuable thing you have - time and commitment. And she treated it like it was worthless. You owe her nothing at that point. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 04:08 PM |
| 1 | I read "When I say no, I feel guilty" and "No more Mr. Nice guy." Blew my freaking mind! What's next?Here: Comprensive Red Pill Reading List | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 01:11 PM |
| 88 | "13 Men Reveal Their Thoughts About Marrying Their Long-term Girlfriends." Buckle up.Until the laws change, DO NOT GET MARRIED. Also, don't play with loaded guns ... | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/15 09:52 PM |
| 10 | Not a redpiller, made one remark about women and got attacked by hundreds of SJWs blaming TRP for opinions I formed on my own. Enjoy.Look dude, this post will probably get removed for not following the formatting rules, among other things. But let me give it to you straight. We don't really give a shit what subredditdrama or any other sub has to say about us. You are experiencing the SJW/feminist shame game at the moment. It is what happens when someone threatens to expose the feminine imperative that underlies the movement, and female sexual strategy. You are threatening their power and control. Here's the playbook: 1) make … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/15 09:44 PM |
| 38 | What Is And Is Not Plate SpinningBut I really like her ... I think she might be "the one" cue forehead slap ... | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/15 09:19 PM |
| 3 | I'm still BP at heart and I don't know if I'll change.This life is a gift, my friend. How many children starve to death in this world everyday? How many men have had their bodies blown to bits in war, or swords ran through them, when they were only 18-19 years old? You are here, you are alive. That in and of itself is an opportunity, a gift. There may be things you cannot do, but there are many others that you can. We can all makes excuses. We can all lament our shortcomings, the things which others have better than us. But if you see yourself as a… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/15 07:49 PM |
| 2 | I read "When I say no, I feel guilty" and "No more Mr. Nice guy." Blew my freaking mind! What's next?1) Go to the main TRP sub, read the sidebar 2) Read some other things about men and masculinity, e.g. The Book of Pook or David Deida's "The Way of the Superior Man" 3) Since you're married, go check out the /r/marriedredpill/ sub 4) Go to the gym, start lifting (use a program like Stronglifts or whatever) ... a strong body makes for a strong mind, and vice versa | /r/askTRP | 23/09/15 07:42 PM |
| 10 | [#GG] Eren Gjoni of Zoepost fame has a major updateThere is some close alignment between the things r//KotakuInAction is pushing back against and the things TRP is pushing back against ... obviously from somewhat different perspectives. Allies in the fight, perhaps. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 07:03 PM |
| 26 | women in denial, the bullshit of victimhoodThis is actually very close to TRP's position on the subject. The thing that binds us at TRP is a rejection of the victim mentality that is so pervasive in modern culture. Expecting people (women included) to take responsibility for their own actions is NOT misogynistic. It's just common sense. TRP: the radical idea that women are just people, capable of all the bad and all the evil just the same as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/15 06:42 PM |
| 49 | [#GG] Eren Gjoni of Zoepost fame has a major updateIf a woman stalks you now, of her own volition, that constitutes harassment on the man's part ... cause, you know, you are forcing her to think about you and shit /s I sometimes wonder if all women have somehow gone batshit crazy in the last fifty years, or if they were always like this. Or maybe it's just all the estrogen in our water drinking supply due to modern birth control pills ... | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 04:50 PM |
| 6 | I think people miss the point with the whole Fat Acceptance thingI can find hundreds of papers that say the opposite, so what's your point? http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1467-789X.2009.00708.x/abstract Added total annual cost per obese person is $1700 dollars, or about $113 billion annually in the United States alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/15 11:50 PM |
| 103 | [FR] some thoughts on being honest and manly in order to fuck the girl on the first dateMark Manson's polarize early and often is a good rule. Always be escalating. They will either go along with it, or won't. But either way you will have avoided wasting time. As a man, your most valuable commodity is your time (and attention) ... don't give it away to women for free. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/09/15 11:38 PM |
| 23 | I think people miss the point with the whole Fat Acceptance thingSocial acceptance is one of the main drivers of all human behavior. This is true for any social animal. Not to mention that obesity is a main driver for exploding healthcare costs in the west. Fat people are a burden to society ... an extremely selfish burden. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/15 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Question about a dating situationYour question seems to focus on how you behave, when really your focus should be on what you elicit in him. At TRP, we often tell new guys that in order to attract a woman and keep her around, you must take her on an emotional rollercoaster. Give her the feelz. Make her tingle. A woman, above all else, wants to feel. She connects with the world through her emotional experience of it. In the same vein, if you want to attract a man, you must use your feminine traits to elicit his masculine nature.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/15 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Dealing with Prejudices against RPWWhat's incredible is that there are so many people nowadays who think that women can't do certain things, including more masculine/physical ones, without relinquishing their feminine traits. Women who are too busy trying to compete with men, rather than finding enjoyment in simply participating in activities with men. Then they set up these false dichotomies where either women become more masculine and try to compete with men, or stay in the kitchen. Cause clearly those are the only two choices … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/15 08:23 PM |
| 36 | Dating/Relationship Closure and "The Vanishing" [The Private Man]At the end of the day, TRP is really about protecting ourselves as men. All the Blue Pill conditioning is really about making us easier to manipulate, in the sexual marketplace and beyond. We spend our lives walking around apologizing for shit, e.g. who we are or how we think or simply the fact of being born a man. We walk away not because we are assholes, but because we stand up for ourselves. If they are angry at us, it is because we make no apologies for it. It's all a bunch of bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/15 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Sexbots: Why Women Should PanicYeah, there are some technical challenges, e.g. authentic-feeling skin and actuators to make it move in realistic ways. As well as suitable AI for controlling it, aong other things. But if you want look up the Actroid-F or Geminoid-F on YouTube. Progress is being made. It's gradual. But things like this tend to snowball, follow Murphy's Law, once a certain level of advancement is achieved. Then VC and investor dollars start to pour in. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/09/15 02:55 PM |
| 68 | Sexbots: Why Women Should PanicI'm a practicing, professional roboticist. I think one thing that is really interesting is that the most progress is being made in robotics on tasks that no one wants to do, or that often involve more difficulty/danger than is worth the benefit. Examples include war, housecleaning, and trying to have sex with women (at least for Non Top-20% men). It's the strange irony of the female entitlement, no-fault divorce , and "all men are rapists" arguments of feminists for the last several decades. Bed… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/15 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Does /r/theredpill have more beta posers than /r/asktrp?There will always be noise in any medium. You simply ignore it. You don't throw the baby out with the bathwater. I believe this is also why TRP instituted the point and EC system a while back. Anyone can post anything on the internet, doesn't mean they know what they are talking about. You have filter out the nonsense. C'est la vie. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 07:04 PM |
| 63 | Guy is annoyed that his girlfriend forces him to become friends with her past fuckbuddies. AskWomen: "Ugh, man up and stop complaining!"You never ask a fish how to catch fish ... you ask the fisherman. Women's dating advice for men is horrible. Absolutely horrible. Basically the opposite of everything you should be doing. They are telling you how to be a fish, not how to be the fisherman. You ask a woman how to date, and they'll tell you how to be a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 04:43 PM |
| 2 | A top post in /r/theredpill right now is talking about the importance of self-respect. How does one develops self-respect without getting arrogant?An abundance mentality enables self-respect, because it allows you to realize that you have other options. In other words, you are not afraid to walk away. But at the end of the day, walking away is about self-respect. You can always walk away. ALWAYS. There is no situation, negative or otherwise, that you are obligated to remain in. That's blue pill conditioning you are still suffering from. It may not be obvious to outsiders, but TRP is really about protecting ourselves as men. We are surround… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/15 05:17 PM |
| 6 | What's the best response when you are being ignored in LTR?Women are a lot like cats. Sometimes they just want to wander off and do their own thing. Just leave them alone, eventually they'll wander back. If you try to chase them, just pushes them further away. Caveat: if she's "going out" alone or with girlfriends to bars or what not during these times, RED FLAG. You may need to cut her off in that case. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/15 04:33 PM |
| 8 | A top post in /r/theredpill right now is talking about the importance of self-respect. How does one develops self-respect without getting arrogant?Self-respect, from a TRP perspective, is about boundaries. It is not about imposing yourself, or your will, on others. It is not about forcing others to do what you want, nor about feeling entitled to things by virtue of simply who you are. No. Self-respect, the TRP way, is about being willing to walk away at any moment, if someone crosses the boundaries you set. You lay out your expectations, you work hard to fulfill your part, and if someone else doesn't hold up their end of the bargain, you w… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/15 04:23 PM |
| 1 | What is "Romance?"Wow, Sandman videos have made an appearance on PPD ... I think TRP is leaking ... /s To answer your question, in this era of open hypergamy, "romance" has basically become just another avenue for female validation. I'm not sure what things were like 100 years ago, but nowadays very few women know how to do things that men would appreciate, other than sex. For instance, I meet very few 18-35 women who know how to cook. They also don't know how to support their man. They brag about how "independen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/15 03:56 PM |
| 30 | Don't mess up your hard work. (Thoughts about frame regarding reformed betas)People often don't realize that the hamster can be your friend ... it merely needs to be channeled in the direction you wish it to go in. We at TRP refer to that channeling as "frame". Feminine energy is like an ocean, masculine energy is like a channel that directs it. The yin and the yang. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 11:21 PM |
| 14 | RP truths get upvoted and BP comments get downvoted in an outside subredditI'm a PhD computer scientist, although I work more in industry not academia. One piece of advice I can give you is to be unapologetically Red Pill in your approach to these projects and academic endeavors, but never use the terminology. They will respect you for it, but won't know why. I've personally seen it happen over and over. Even the most feminist-minded women respond to strength and leadership in men, though they don't overtly admit it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 11:43 PM |
| 9 | The rage at TRP on the rest of redditYou know when you are saying something that has some truth to it, has substance ... because other people try to silence you. If no one reacts to the things you say, then you probably didn't have much worth saying anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 04:40 PM |
| 30 | Skinny to muscled...when did it start to benefit you with women and other men?Abdada just stated a subtle part of TRP philosophy that many newbies and/or outsiders don't understand: Women are not the goal of life ... they are the by-product of a life well-lived. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/15 03:38 PM |
| 57 | RP truths get upvoted and BP comments get downvoted in an outside subredditThere have been a few threads about the recent news articles on the lack of college-educated men in major cities in the U.S. ... feminists reaping what they sow, I guess. Perhaps if feminists gave a shit about equality they'd do something about the disparity in male-female undergrads in college (nearly 60% are females now). But of course, modern-day feminism is really just about maintaining female privilege. Always interesting to see RP truth coming out of the woodwork in other places though ...… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/15 03:30 PM |
| 9 | All Men Are Like ThatSometimes we blame the symptoms, rather than the underlying disease. Make no mistake, ancient civilizations during their descent and fall were ruptured by internal weakness, as much as any external threat. A big part of that internal weakness was the deterioration of the social fabric the society was originally built upon. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 07:24 PM |
| 2 | [FR] - She is not who you think she is (again)I questioned her once on why she never wanted to do the things that attracted me to her in the first place, she admitted that she only did them because she wanted me to like her; she wanted to connect with me. A good overall FR, but this is perhaps the best nugget of truth in your entire write-up. They are all chameleons ... it is in their nature. Whereas men use their strength to mold the physical world, women use their wiles to mold the social world. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 07:20 PM |
| 34 | All Men Are Like ThatLife was made for the bold. It is unfortunate that too many men lack the boldness that is required to truly live. But we can only show them the path ... the rest is up to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 07:02 PM |
| 7 | All Men Are Like ThatA cursory glance at anything is hardly evidence to state something is "patently false". Bit of hyperbole there, methinks. I believe that /u/redpillschool has a reasonable point, even if you think otherwise. I'm just gonna leave this here: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/12/27/feminism-responsible-for-the-fall-of-rome/ | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 06:59 PM |
| 1 | RP Example: Amazon.com makes women and betas cryAmazon makes massive amounts of revenue (it's one of the largest tech companies around by that measure), and deliberately holds back earnings in order to reinvest in the company. That is a long-term growth strategy ... and many would argue (especially in the boom/bust world of tech), a smart one. Amazon is currently worth $20 billion more than Walmart. Not to mention, AWS is currently the largest provider of cloud services ... and will be a significant revenue driver going forward. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/15 02:11 PM |
| 11 | RP Example: Amazon.com makes women and betas cryDon't get me wrong, there are are many downsides to Amazon's approach, and not all of it is red pill. I lectured about it for several years. But there are some red pill elements, e.g. the focus on accountability and merit, that are part of their success. It's not a bunch of lovey-dovey "everyone tried their best, let's hug" bullshit. I've seen the pendulum swing too far both ways. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 06:54 PM |
| 121 | Woman disgusted when guy acts like a gentleman during their 'date'.The best part is that thread is one of the top comments, a total red pill comment, on TwoX of all places: A friend of mine showed me The Notebook and there's a part where he threatens to throw himself off a ferris wheel if she doesn't go out with him. I was in awe. This is supposed to be the romantic movie to end all romantic movies, and yet if someone were to do this in real life who wasn't Ryan Gosling it would be fucking terrifying and manipulative. To which people replied about the Ryan Gosl… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 05:11 PM |
| 37 | RP Example: Amazon.com makes women and betas cryIt's funny, because when I used to teach college, we'd use Amazon as an example of a Tech company that took a very different tack to innovation, and discuss the upsides and downsides of it ... well my blue-pill colleagues would only discuss the downsides, I took a more nuanced view. Anyway, what's really interesting about this is that it really underscores the Gang Mentality that Jack Donovan talks about in "The Way of Men" ... there is no room in the gang for someone who doesn't pull their weig… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Women have a “War Brides” mentality ... Men have a “War Prizes” mentalityYou are assuming prehistoric humans were monogamous. Look at Chimpanzee mating behaviors ... you have a group of males in a hierarchy, and accompanying females. The females sort of "pair off" with one male, as in that is their favorite. But they have sex with all the males, just some more than others. The alpha males get the most. They do this so that for any of their children, all the males think that they might be theirs. It's strategic reproduction in small tribal structures. You cannot view … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Women have a “War Brides” mentality ... Men have a “War Prizes” mentalityThis is an interesting idea, and may have some merit. I will say that the TRP notion that love flows downward - men love women, women love children, and children loves puppies - fits into that. There is something attractive about a woman who looks up to us, something that feels very natural. I think the "war prize" mentality explains a lot of male behavior, from sports to business. Along those lines, what we think of as "exotic" in terms of foreign women may really be the allure of "conquering" … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Women have a “War Brides” mentality ... Men have a “War Prizes” mentalityYeah, obviously the loss of the individual woman is, at least on a conscious level, part of the impact. I think my point was that beneath that, on a subconscious level, the operant mechanism is one related to loss of ascendency ... as well as how that relates to potential loss of future status/access/territory. Think about it like this: remember one of those girls in your blue pill days you were "so in love with", how beautiful you thought they were, flawless? Ever see them again years later, af… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 02:13 PM |
| 22 | [FR] How I (almost) fucked a crazy playboy girl and what I learntLovebombing, weird sexual issues (often related to being sexually abused as a child), very promiscuous, push-pull behaviors, impulsive, victim complex (e.g. "all the other men just wanted me for sex"), etc. etc. Those are all symptoms of something called Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD): http://bpdfamily.com/content/how-borderline-relationship-evolves http://www.girlschase.com/content/spotting-and-avoiding-cluster-b-women http://www.sharischreiber.com/anycost.html Don't try to game this chi… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 09:52 PM |
| 27 | A Most Solipsistic NatureHow strange it must be to live in a world where feelings are facts. Where one's perception of the world is altered to fit one's internal emotional state. Where "truth" is always a moving target, subject to the shifting tides of some indescribable internal ocean. Honestly, it must be frustrating as hell ... at least if you are aware of it. I think the only way you could cope is to suppress conscious awareness of it, lest you be crippled by massive cognitive dissonance. That suppression is what we… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 09:29 PM |
| 26 | You All Need to Read Nietzsche. Now.One of Nietzsche's greatest insights is that there are always winners and losers in every aspect of life. If you aren't winning, then you are losing. Equality (i.e. equal outcomes) is always balanced on a knife's edge. Equity however is a reasonable goal, everyone should have a fair opportunity. But you have to work for it. You fuck it up then you fuck it up. That's on you. Make no mistake, feminism is not about equality, it is about winning. Same goes for mating strategy: women are not seeking … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 05:18 PM |
| 2 | "Hit It And Quit It On Tinder" [The Other McCain/Dalrock]The strange thing about organisms, including humans, is that once you remove the fear of danger that the natural world normally presents, they tend to lapse into self-destructive and/or lethargic behaviors. The normal checks and balances on their feral behavior disappears. It's like a strange sort of psychosis. Feminism has unleashed this behavior, this dynamic between the sexes, normalized it as acceptable. The illusion of freedom with no accountability or personal responsibility. But one's fer… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/15 08:40 PM |
| 4 | "Hit It And Quit It On Tinder" [The Other McCain/Dalrock]Nothing amazing, just a few photos (some up close face shots and some more distant body shots), and few sentences about me. The key is to look fun, and be cocky funny. I honestly don't give a fuck, and that comes across. As Pook said, I'm the prize. I would recommend you read some of the guides posted on TRP for tips (use the search feature), such as /u/OmLaLa 's excellent RP Comprehensive Guide to Dating Sites | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/15 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Tinder marathon date ending in weirdnessGotta concur with /u/throwaway_divorce_11 ... here, read: http://bpdfamily.com/content/how-borderline-relationship-evolves http://www.girlschase.com/content/spotting-and-avoiding-cluster-b-women Don't stick your dick in crazy ... | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/15 03:01 PM |
| 23 | "Hit It And Quit It On Tinder" [The Other McCain/Dalrock]It still surprises me how aggressive many of them are in pursuing me, even after how blatantly sexual I am. Sometimes it feels like I'm boxing with a dummy ... | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 08:42 PM |
| 74 | "Hit It And Quit It On Tinder" [The Other McCain/Dalrock]I've slept with 6 different girls in the last month, all under 30 (I'm in my mid 30's). About half of them from Tinder, the other half met IRL. All of them on the first or second meeting. I honestly have no idea what women are doing anymore, or what their long term strategy is. I always assume each one I've met has slept with 50 of me or more in the past. Even the ones who act like "good" girls. I struggle to see anything worth committing to in any of them. But what can you do? I'm just going wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 08:24 PM |
| 1 | What's next to get her?There's 3 billion women on this planet. Millions of beautiful ones. What makes this girl so "special"? I'd bet her main hobbies include watching Netflix, travel, and getting drinks with friends ... just like 99% of the rest of Western women out there. There's probably millions of hotter women out there too. She's just a woman, just an ordinary woman. She's no better than you. Depedestalize that shit ... | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Plating after ONS mess-upMen lead. Text her something sexual, if that's what you are angling for. Don't pussy foot around it. Always be escalating. That rule applies even after you've slept with a girl once, assuming you want to sleep with her again. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 03:17 AM |
| 3 | What's next to get her?You need to stop giving a fuck. Not pretend to not give a fuck. Actually seriously don't give a fuck. By all means, try to game the girl. Be sexual. Kino. Escalate. Maybe you'll get laid, maybe you won't. But if you're worried about a specific outcome, you almost certainly won't get it. Outcome independence is your friend. IDGAF. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 03:10 AM |
| 4 | I just can't do itThe strangest thing about these situations is that you didn't do anything bad, she did. But you're the one who feels bad. She somehow "won" and you "lost". Fuck that. Why should you feel bad? She did something shitty, not you. She didn't win shit, unless it's Shitty Person of the Year award. You have to break that mentality of being the one who lost. The only way you lose is if you lose frame. If you let her define the reality. Be the rock. Be stoic. This is her drama. Not yours. Don't own it. D… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/15 03:04 AM |
| 8 | Woman on 2X divorces husband, meets Chad on Tinder, has sex then cries rapeI "felt" like it was rape, so it was rape. Sometimes when I get my tax bill every year, it "feels" like thievery. So can I report it to the police? What I find most interesting about the post is that, even though we don't know what really happened that night, beyond her "story" of events, is the assumption that whatever she says is true. Despite the fact that the police didn't even charge the guy with a crime. Feminists like the ones on Two-X have no appreciation for due process. No appreciation… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/15 03:36 PM |
| 20 | What do you think will happen if most men stop marrying ?I have no idea what will happen. But what do I expect will happen? Well, I imagine modern Feminism will experience an "extinction burst", where they try to shame men into marriage more aggressively, and/or institute things like a "single man's tax" in order to extract resources for women who choose to be single mothers via in-vitro fertilization or whatever. I think such efforts will cause many men to further withdraw from society. Even less men will go to college. No point in being productive i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/15 02:58 PM |
| 15 | [Mod] The Red Pill is Sexual StrategyI have noticed what has appeared to be brigading on a couple threads recently. Weird patterns of upvoting/downvoting ... even a comment that was basically the direct opposite of TRP theory getting gilded. I commented on the thread to that effect. Think /u/Dark-Ulfberht noticed it too. I also got a weird PM the other day that appeared to be an attempt to doxx me, though they seemed to be confusing me with someone else. Strange times. I guess some feel the need to silence or suppress us. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 12:22 AM |
| 7 | I am the guy in the NY Post article about the wife addicted to Ashley MadisonI don't see evidence for that. And plenty of evidence to the contrary. If they were all like that, they'd all be on AM, right? Yet in the article you state: "My wife, who was the picture-perfect mother to the outside world — [parent-teacher organization] president, community volunteer, the works" You don't see your own glaring contradiction here? Yeah, all the women around you seem picture perfect ... to the outside world. But if you were in an intimate relationship with them, you'd see the othe… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/15 02:09 PM |
| 220 | "A new book answers why it’s so hard for educated women to find dates" - Hidden RP GoldI find it endlessly amusing that women believe that men are attracted to the same things they are, that somehow education, status, or earning potential matter much to a man. You can see the result in the OP above. The reality is that we mainly want young, fertile women. A woman who brings a feminine energy to balance my masculine one. The yin and the yang. I make plenty of money and am capable of achieving status on my own. A woman who offers those things to me offers me nothing, she is simply r… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/15 03:44 PM |
| 5 | How do you respond to people who believe gender is a social construct ?I respond with scientific studies like this, from University of Texas: http://news.utexas.edu/2015/08/06/genders-differ-dramatically-in-evolved-mate-preferences A study of over 10,000 people. Researchers were able to predict a subject's sex with 92% based purely on their mate preferences, regardless of country or cultural background. There may be some social aspects to gender and gender roles, but 90% of it is driven by biology. Men and women are not the same. That does not imply one is better t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/15 07:41 PM |
| 48 | My girl is probably as close to the fabled unicorn as you can find, RP still holds true howeverTwo critical things you need to remember: 1) She doesn't love you, she loves the way you make her feel. She loves you for your utility. Stop being useful, and she won't love you anymore. Do NOT fucking forget that. 2) She is not yours, it just your turn. Enjoy your time with her, but realize all things are ephemeral. All things come and go. Whether because she leaves, or dies, or something else. Depedestalize that shit ... | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/15 07:20 PM |
| 3 | The Rise of the Cultural LibertarianSome interesting thoughts. It's a complicated web we weave ... also Space Moose | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/15 05:12 PM |
| 6 | The Rise of the Cultural LibertarianYou know something has seriously gone wrong when a strange new alliance forms between Breitbart, Bill Maher, and Chris Rock ... | /r/TheRedPill | 26/08/15 01:42 AM |
| 9 | The Rise of the Cultural LibertarianGenerally agree with you. I believe /u/MachiavellianRed 's post a couple months ago addressed this: The Red Pill is not Democratic Sometimes people come on here still stuck in the blue pill mindset, it is hard to break out of a lifetime of brainwashing ... but that's why we have the EC's, Vanguards, and other long-time members who stand firm against the tides. If we relent, then it all washes away. A place like TRP needs hard edges. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/15 04:16 PM |
| 4 | Man loses job and breaks down crying when he tells his wife. She is surprised to discover that she feels disgusted by him.Given the gilding and upvote/downvotes on this part of the thread, I'm wondering if there's some brigading going on ... but whatever. I just made this comment to support your original one. Some of the young pups on here don't understand the subtle distinction between accepting bad behavior versus accepting reality and doing the best you can with it. Two fundamentally different things. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 08:09 PM |
| 6 | Man loses job and breaks down crying when he tells his wife. She is surprised to discover that she feels disgusted by him.You don't enable a child that's being a brat, "because it's in their nature" you fucking curb it and make them behave. That sounds like something a SJW would say. Just like telling men they should be attracted to fatties, even though they fucking biologically aren't. Bullshit. Look brother, you don't change anyone's behavior by forcing them to behave the way you think they should. You do it by incentivizing them. You lead, they follow. We all have moments of weakness, but going around crying lik… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 06:06 PM |
| 98 | Man loses job and breaks down crying when he tells his wife. She is surprised to discover that she feels disgusted by him.As Jack Donovan points out in The Way of Men, this is part of the "gang mentality" of humans. It's part of our psyche, part of all primates psyche, buried deep from millions of years of evolution. Men don't want a weak man as part of their gang, and women don't want to be attached to a weak man who might get thrown out of the gang. They might get thrown out too, or lose social standing. They might die, or their children might die. It's why women are drawn to men's status. And that's why the wome… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 02:44 PM |
| 19 | Cuddles and yapping are tools of dogs, not menIn a single post Archwinger, you managed to capture the irony of our modern gynocentric views of the world, the irony of our modern views on love and sex. Well done. The thing that always gets me the most is not being misled, or the illogical nature of much of it, but the irony. That we, both in an individual and societal level, are basically shooting ourselves in the foot. Doing the exact opposite of what we should be doing, if we want the things we claim to want. It's like we've all gone mad .… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 11:39 PM |
| 18 | Why does TRP not make r/K selection theory their core concept?In this era of unconstrained hypergamy unleashed by feminists, k-type males are often used and abused by women. They are not valued for who they are, they are mainly valued for what resources they can provide. They are only useful in the sense of their utility. They are status objects, and objectified as such. Who the fuck wants to be treated like that?? Play or be played. All of this assuming r/k theory is valid of course ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/15 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Am I part of a Silent Majority?What I really don't understand is the concept of being a jerk to a woman. Being a Jerk? Just because some frat boy is a jerk and gets girls doesn't mean that's some sort of hidden recipe to getting girls. Who said anything about being a jerk. You maybe should read a little bit more TRP theory, cause I think you misunderstand some of it. Even going back to Pook 15 years ago, it was understood that it was not about being a jerk, rather it was about being a man unafraid of his testosterone. Read th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/15 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Feminist Scientist Cara Santa Maria and Liberal Proffessor Gad Saad discuss evo-psych in 78 minutes.It's ridiculous to argue that evolution affected every part of human biology, but that the brain and its psychological mechanisms were somehow spared of this. It makes about as much sense as arguing that the universe revolves around the earth or that humans were created by some supreme being. Arguing with feminists or blue pillers about evo-psych feels strangely like arguing with creationists about evolution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/15 07:15 PM |
| 139 | Indecisiveness in WomenMen lead, women follow. They evolved to support, not to blaze the trail. They are best when they are at our side, allowed to be what they naturally are. By leading, you give them the freedom to become who they were truly meant to be. They will love you for it. And they will fuck you for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 04:20 PM |
| 23 | We need to talk - letting girls goWhile I don't agree with all the advice you give (e.g. honesty is a delicate thing, sometimes it is better to say nothing, just smile), this is a post about a critical part of TRP. This is often the place where TRP newbies lose frame, and slip back into BP behavior. One word of advice: DON'T. It can be tempting to slip back into comfortable roles. But it will be your downfall. Hard edges must stay sharp to be effective. Those that go soft at the first blow were never hard to begin with ... they … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 04:15 PM |
| 18 | Being a top 20% male wont save you. How TRP gut punched me.Your mistake is in thinking you can possess a woman. Everything in this world will come and go. Everthing is ephemeral. You cannot hold it. You cannot possess it. Enjoy the time you have, but never put anything on a pedestal. At some point it will end, and you or it (or both) will be long gone. Such is the way of life. Always remember: she was not yours ... it was just your turn. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/15 01:43 PM |
| 7 | Jacking off to women is misogyny.Oh my goodness, anonymous people say stupid shit to you on the internet ... definitely worse than starving to death in Africa! /s First world problems. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/15 04:02 PM |
| 8 | Jacking off to women is misogyny.One day, when she's old and shriveled, and no one wants her anymore, she'll miss the days when people jacked off to the very image of her. It's just like the recent Jessica Valenti article lamenting not being cat-called anymore now that she's in her mid-30's. Ironic that being wanted and desirable is viewed as a negative in this day and age. Tells you just how fucked up things have gotten. First world problems. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/15 02:30 PM |
| 36 | Woman gets drunk and goes to neighbor's house for more booze. Has sex with him and later cries rape.Technically they were both under the influence of alcohol, so neither of them was able to consent (according to the feminist definition of rape). So technically they raped each other. I don't know, all the people in this story sound like people who make a lot of poor life choices. They probably all share some blame. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/15 02:01 AM |
| 6 | The deconstruction of Briffaults Law or How the circle jerk was ruinedWhile I think Briffault's law is at best a postulate about animal mating behavior, and is not any sort of scientific law in a strict sense, I don't agree with a number of points. 1) Briffault's law is simply a theory about mating behaviors, a heuristic for observed animal behavior. It is true that has not really been scientifically tested. But it also has not been debunked, or discredited. Some eminent anthropologists disagreed with it. Not the same thing. Many eminent scientists also disagreed … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/15 08:58 PM |
| 124 | Man flees Canada after losing his kids and $1.2 million home, and being forced to pay $4000 a month to his wife. Is labeled a "deadbeat dad" by the media.Women and the courts appear to view modern-day men as slaves to be used for their labor and entertainment. Put the yoke on, keep 'em working away at the plantation. Beta-shame them as "deadbeats" if they refuse to play along. Bull. Fucking. Shit. I think you probably did the only thing you really could in that situation. And you know what, that's the real tragedy. There are no safe exits, no recourse, for men anymore. Just get fucked over, or get fucked over even harder. Shameful ... that is the… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/15 08:41 PM |
| 1 | John Doyle, husband of Laura Doyle, author of The Surrendered Wife, is doing an AMA today at 2PM Eastern TimeWell, this should be intriguing ... | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/15 04:33 PM |
| -1 | [Challenge my view] Feminism is more sexist then TRP.Perhaps you are not very well-read on modern feminist theory. Here, I would encourage you to go read some of the authors listed under section #4: http://thoughtcatalog.com/janet-bloomfield/2015/04/7-things-feminists-hate-to-hear/ Particularly people like Mackinnon and Kristeva. To quote Dworkin: every woman's son is her potential betrayer and also the inevitable rapist or exploiter of another woman ... go actually read some of it, you will be shocked at what you find. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/15 04:11 PM |
| 5 | [Challenge my view] Feminism is more sexist then TRP.It's not my opinion. Those are the core beliefs of modern-day mainstream feminism. If you don't subscribe to them, then you are not really a feminist. It's like saying you are a Christian, but don't believe in god. Doesn't work that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/15 03:48 PM |
| -1 | [Challenge my view] Feminism is more sexist then TRP.That's fine. But you are not really a feminist then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/15 03:31 PM |
| 4 | [Challenge my view] Feminism is more sexist then TRP.That is the complete opposite of mainstream feminism's position. Don't pass it off as some crazy "radfems." The man is always the aggressor. Men are dangerous. Men are sex-crazed. They have to be controlled, reined-in. Masculinity is toxic. That is the viewpoint of mainstream feminists, like Jessica Valenti. If you support feminism, you support such views of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/15 03:28 PM |
| 31 | 2015 Feminism Is The Result of Redpill Women Who Are Angry For Being Lied ToThere is actually a red pill women's sub (r//RedPillWomen) full of women who realize they've been misled, and are trying to see the truth of things and do something about it. Feminists are not in any way, shape, or form "Red Pill". They may be angry, but they have no idea why. No idea what's at the root of it. And certainly no idea what to do about it, other than blame everyone else, instead of raising themselves up through hard work and self-improvement. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 03:16 PM |
| 25 | Agency, Pornography, and PatriarchyIt is an ironic thing that the destruction of the institution of Fatherhood is producing more and more of these damaged women, while at the same time breaking down the social institutions that could help protect them from themselves. Feminism is like a snake eating its own tail. Combine that with the prevalent "victim mentality" and complete lack of agency regarding women or their life choices that Feminism and SJWs promulgate, and you have a recipe for disastrous consequences, both on the socie… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 02:51 PM |
| 173 | "...And Candy Cheats Again"The first time I realized I was being Chad was a transcendent moment for me. One of those "holy fuck, I can see everything clearly" kind of moments. I wasn't even trying to be Chad, just applying red pill principles. That's the moment you finally see first-hand the machinery underneath the guise we call "romance" or "love" or whatever. The script of male/female human mating behavior, humming away like clockwork. The moment it goes from being theory to your reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/15 02:32 PM |
| 3 | After being asked whether it's easier for girls to get laid, AskWomen responds "Ugh, it doesn't count as sex if he's an unattractive beta!"They are. But not destroying monogamy, rather altering it. Women still need/want the beta bucks provider. They want men to still buy into the illusion of monogamy, but women to be free to ride the CC in their 20's, fuck around during their marriage if they want ("I was just finding myself"), and divorce at-will any time they want for no reason but still take half the man's stuff. This allows them to maximize their hypergamous instincts, and still get beta provisioning for them and their offsprin… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 04:30 PM |
| 2 | After being asked whether it's easier for girls to get laid, AskWomen responds "Ugh, it doesn't count as sex if he's an unattractive beta!"Societal monogamy was really beneficial for all the subservient beta men, and their ruling elite. Because it (at least partially) kept the female imperative in check, and ensured that most men would have some sort of sexual access, which makes them less likely to get uppity or rebel. Keeps them working, providing resources for the community. It's why monogamy has long been a pillar of social stability in human cultures. Of course, they can always cheat with an alpha even in a monogamous situatio… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 03:54 PM |
| 2 | What makes men more extreme?Well said. If you weren't already an RP vanguard, Whisper, I'd give you a point for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 03:39 PM |
| 3 | After being asked whether it's easier for girls to get laid, AskWomen responds "Ugh, it doesn't count as sex if he's an unattractive beta!"There is scientific evidence for that at least at some points in human evolutionary history, 17 females reproduced for every 1 male. This is supported by various scientific studies on human genetics, such as the one that came out a few months ago in the journal Genome Research from a team of over 50 leading geneticists across the globe: http://www.psmag.com/nature-and-technology/17-to-1-reproductive-success Think about it this way: prior to the advent of genetic testing, if you have sex with the… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/15 03:14 PM |
| 93 | After being asked whether it's easier for girls to get laid, AskWomen responds "Ugh, it doesn't count as sex if he's an unattractive beta!"There is a reason for this cognitive disconnect - it shouldn't surprise any of us. As Stardusk and Rollo have pointed out before, the "war bride" psychology, combined with female hypergamy, is an evolutionary construct that helped our species survive and expand. Critically though, these processes are not conscious, otherwise they would not be as effective. They cannot be, by necessity, because they are psychological defense mechanisms. In order to function properly, women cannot be fully aware o… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/15 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Scientific backup for trpThere are a number of threads about this on the main TRP page, if you use the search function ... As a practicing scientist, with a PhD, I can assure you that there is a scientific basis for a lot of TRP theory ... e.g. the negative effects of unconstrained hypergamy in mammals and the effects of testosterone on the human brain and its basis for differences in male/female behavior as well as increased neoteny in human females, including the evolutionary psychology aspects of neoteny in humans (i… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/15 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.But how is she gonna pay the mortgage on the 5000 square-foot McMansion she took from you in the divorce?? Lord knows the kids can't be living in a normal 1800 square-foot Craftsman house in the burbs ... that's just crazy talk. /s While at the same time, you're living in a 500 sq ft studio efficiency apartment across the tracks in the seedy part of town ... SMH | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 08:59 PM |
| 14 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.Actually, a lot of prenups are being superseded by judges' concerns over the "well-being of the children." So coercion isn't necessary to prove in many cases. Any contract that violates other laws, or endangers people (especially vulnerable populations like children) is subject to being thrown out as null and void. At least, this is the way family courts have sometimes been interpreting it. It's kind of fucked up IMO, but family courts have different legal standards than a normal civil or bankru… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.Nah, the simplest solution is just to not get married in the current climate. Violence it the last refuge of the incompetent. - Isaac Asimov | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 08:46 PM |
| 21 | Is there any coming back from promiscuity?Honestly, with an N-count that high, she doesn't have a lot of great options, like /u/Archwinger said above. She has some options though. Look, I'll lay it to you straight: No man wants to do date a slut ... but all men want a women to be his slut. That's the crux of the matter. If she holds out on giving him things that she freely gave other men, then the new guy will always be 2nd best. And who the fuck wants to be 2nd best?? The OP (/u/btempel) is in a delicate situation. She has to find the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/15 04:30 PM |
| 60 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.Nope, but my father is. I've had extensive conversations with him about this topic. His words: The law is just a piece of paper, the only thing that counts is the interpretation of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 03:47 PM |
| 59 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.A judge at any point can declare a contract null and void if he/she sees grounds for it. It's all interpretation. And given our current gynocentric culture in the West, he-said/she-said situations are often gonna come down on the side of the woman. That is exactly what happened here. There is really no ironclad protection for the man. Prenups provide some defense, but your best bet is to not get married. Not until the laws change. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 03:34 PM |
| 32 | Not sure if re-entering anger, depression phase, or Monk ModeThere was once a zen master and his student. One day, the student came to the master and said, "I am now enlightened, my journey is now complete. I am ready for the next step". The zen master replied: "Hmm, interesting." He pulled a sharp stick from the ground, and gave it to the student. "Here, sit on this stick till tomorrow. Then come tell me again." The student walked away confused. The next day, the student returned. "I have done what you asked, Master. I am now enlightened. I am ready for … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 03:26 PM |
| 239 | Woman marries millionaire husband after he insists on prenup, she cheats on him, gets divorced, gets the judge to throw out the prenup.This happens all the time in the U.S. ... Listen boys: prenups are not some ironclad defense against getting divorce-raped. They can, and are, thrown out at the whim of the judge all the time. The point is: don't get fucking married until the laws change. And if for some reason you decide to anyway, well you better be really really sure, and even then pray for the best. Given the right time and circumstances: AWALT. It's on you, you have been warned. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/15 03:08 PM |
| 15 | Rollo Tomassi in Vegas – Man in Demand ConferenceThis, among other things: https://archive.is/wibja | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 05:01 PM |
| 59 | Rollo Tomassi in Vegas – Man in Demand ConferenceIt sounds interesting, and I have a lot of respect for your writing, Rollo. So best of luck. Just please whatever you do, don't turn in to fucking Roosh. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 03:21 PM |
| 76 | Vanity Fair's "Tinder and The Dawn of the Dating Apocalypse" is chock-full of RP truthsWhat is truly stunning is the complete lack of understanding by various "academics" about the source of the current situation. "Empowered" women started giving sex away for free like the world was about to end. But they act like it's men that somehow now are less willing to commit. Or some internet bullshit. Fucking newsflash: Men have always been hesitant to commit. What's equally stunning is the talk about the "double standard" with sex, where women who give it away too freely are considered s… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/15 01:45 PM |
| 6 | "The Cuckold and The Slut"Nah man, they're liberated now ... as in, liberated to make poor life choices. Le sigh ... | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/15 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Is it really necessary to be big?Strength is the ability to exert one's will over oneself, over nature, and over other people. It is strength that makes all other values possible. - Jack Donovan The Way of Men Strength in its purest sense is physical - being bigger, more muscular. Being able to move heavy loads, but also being unmovable. A characteristic of manliness in all cultures is being stronger, bigger ... since the stronger, bigger man typically has more testosterone. He looks more masculine. No one ever criticizes a wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/15 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Talking About Sex, with GirlsHave to agree with OmLaLa ... if the conversation between me and a girl turns sexual, I immediately attempt escalation to test the waters. A simple form of escalation is to tease them about whatever they are saying. Close the physical distance. Attempt light kino, e.g. elbow touch, etc. If they don't respond, then I'm not interested in talking about it. I am not their "safety net", not their girlfriend. Besides, you can learn anything you need to know about sex thru plain-old experience and/or t… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/15 05:32 PM |
| 17 | [FR] New city, new plate, old school TRPGood FR. To summarize your lessons into a TRP maxim: Women love upwards, men love downwards. A woman must look up to you in order to want to fuck you. You put them on a pedestal, it's the exact opposite. Ironically, following TRP actually makes them happier too. They just don't know it, can't verbalize it, but something about "their feelz" makes them want you. Don't listen to bullshit that says otherwise. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/15 05:13 PM |
| 191 | "Well some other guy just took my [18 M] g/f (now ex I guess) [17 f] virginity." Bonus: Other guy has already moved on to banging a new chick in less than a week.Again, the Relationships sub kills it with some horrible advice: you're a nice guy, just keep being a nice guy, and you'll win in the end ... this was a bad experience, not all women are like that, one day you'll find one that will really love you, forever and ever and ever. TRP public service announcement for the day: AWALT. Given the right time and circumstances, they will all do that. Protect yourself. Steel yourself. And for the love of god, do not think any woman is holier than thou ... dep… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/15 07:09 PM |
| 13 | What makes a good captain?I don't really give a shit if a woman has a career or wants to wear pants or whatever. All I really care about is that the woman is feminine, and brings a feminine energy to the relationship dynamic. The yin and the yang. The polarity of masculinity and femininity. Otherwise the relationship devolves into a huge power struggle. I can't be a man, can't lead, can't be who I was naturally born to be, if I have someone fighting with me over that role. It's unfortunate that feminists have spent years… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/15 03:07 PM |
| 10 | ArchetypesThe irony is that it is the man who is unabashedly male, the one who is unafraid of his testosterone, that stands out. It is who we as men were born to be, it is our legacy, our birthright. But it is not handed to us on a silver platter ... we must earn it. A sword must be forged in fire. But once you accept that, once you change your mindset, put in the work, the effort, the sweat, the blood ... the world forever looks different. You see it thru the lens of men. Something you were never taught … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 06:56 PM |
| 4 | Too much radio silence?I can wait till the end of time, cause I'm busy fucking other chicks or accomplishing other goals in life. Take the pussy off the pedestal. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/15 08:01 PM |
| 4 | Too much radio silence?A women gets the feelz for a man who is truly willing to walk away. You know you will see her again (your birthday), so let it simmer. Let her internal hamster do the work for you ... | /r/askTRP | 28/07/15 03:41 PM |
| 27 | Has Return of Kings jumped the shark?Roosh went off course a while ago, not just with the anti-TRP thing, but also with his extremist trad-con neomasculinity bullshit, and more recently his claims that evolution doesn't apply to humans. He's sounding more and more like a crazy uber-religious neocon day by day. Honestly, I think some of the other writers over at ROK aren't too bad, and some of them are definitely better than Roosh, both in terms of style and insight. But ROK does seem like click-bait shit these days ... articles tit… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/15 03:37 PM |
| 22 | Too much radio silence?A man who is truly outcome-independent can wait till the end of time. Patience, my friend, is a lost virtue these days. Why do you feel the need to strategize so much about your communication with this girl, or try to read meaning into her every text? It seems like you're dramatizing everything here. Leave the drama for the women, that's their thing. Go do other shit, focus on your mission, your goals. Men lead, and the women will follow. You cannot negotiate desire. Go be the man she wants to f… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/15 03:27 PM |
| 11 | The shifting wallTRP has given me a new lens to review all my memories, all my friendships, and all my relationships. The thing that stands out the most is, AWALT. If only this info had been available to me in 1973, when I was sweet 16, my life would have been so different. There was a time, long ago, when such male knowledge was passed down, between father and son or thru fraternal orders. But more recently, all of that has been labeled "misogyny" and silenced. TRP is about rediscovering that knowledge, about p… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/15 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Promiscuity and Why Men Are Repulsed by Women With High Partner CountsGiven that much of our behavior is driven at least in part by genetics, it is plausible that men developed an aversion to women who lack high-quality maternal traits. One of those would be the ability to choose good mates. Women who pick weak beta males as mates, or lack sexual choosiness in general, might be more likely to pass on such personality traits to their female progeny. In other words, sluts breed sluts. And breeding with sluts (as a man) means that your future female children might be… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/15 04:37 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill Primer - A Sidebar Made SimpleYou may want to add a Comprensive Red Pill Reading List like this. This question comes up all the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 04:34 PM |
| 11 | New York Magazine's cuckold probably a spinster's hoax.There was always something fishy about that article, I think Heartiste may have nailed it on the head. It was so fucking outrageous ... suggesting that "male feminism" has become in essence the complete emasculation of men. And not only willing emasculation, but a sort of celebration of it by men themselves. Seriously, if that's the point we've reached, we're all fucked. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 04:27 PM |
| 74 | Why you need a yearly monk. "and how to start"The true value of Monk Mode is that it allows you to focus on internal goals, rather than constantly chasing external goals. Many people don't seem to understand that it is the foundation that forms the basis of the house ... all they see are the granite countertops and crown moulding and fancy paint colors. If you want to build a solid house, start with a strong foundation. Taking a little time periodically to shore up the foundation is a wise investment. TRP is that foundation, one which many … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/15 04:24 PM |
| 50 | Sex Positivity Does Nothing For Men.NEVER listen to what a woman says. Watch what she does. That's rule #1. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 03:34 PM |
| 5 | A history of why men are unable to say no to women and set healthy boundsOpinions on Paul Elam aside, I think there is a desire in all of us to remain children, to seek comfort and safety within our mother's apron. Being agreeable and mirroring behaviors are something we develop as a young child, and may even be built into the structure of our brains (e.g. "mirror neuron"). Think about it evolutionarily speaking, if we cut ourselves off from our support system as a young child, we die. Of course, the first woman we experience and love is our mother. We understand lov… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 03:28 PM |
| 23 | "Men rarely catcall me anymore, I hate that our culture makes me miss it."Jessica Valenti is an idiot. I don't throw that word around lightly, but I've read a bit of what she's wrote in the past, and seriously, all you can do is shake your head. It's all rife with logical fallacies and solipsistic observations. I have no earthly idea how she writes for the Guardian. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/15 03:17 PM |
| 16 | First post syndromeI think they are an artifact of certain men being largely raised by women. They learn woman-tactics for interpersonal interaction. "I am hopeless at this please help me" is a viable thing to say if you are a woman. It evokes male protective instincts, and also displays a humble, submissive attitude which men find appealing. This really speaks to the degree that modern feminism and feminized society has fucked over men. It's insidious in its nature really. Oh how far down the rabbit hole we've fa… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/15 11:25 PM |
| 6 | Transcending the Anger PhaseAnger is a healthy emotion, at times. It's your body telling you something is wrong. Listen to it, use it. But eventually you must move past it. The key is to replace your old Blue Pill dreams with new ones, dreams NOT defined by what others want or expect. Dreams of living fearlessly, embracing failure, of pushing beyond your boundaries (i.e."stonehood"). Red pill anger often stems from the death of old dreams ... transcendence is defined by the birth of new ones. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/15 01:12 PM |
| 24 | After sleeping with a "separated" woman on Tinder, I check her facebook and....Several waves of feminism have unleashed women's feral nature, at least in the West. TRP is really just about protecting and defending ourselves. About not being naive fools. Don't let the naysayers here on Reddit or elsewhere tell you otherwise. They call us "radical" or "misogynistic" because they fear those who see thru the bullshit. Those who see reality for what it is, can bend it their will ... those who see only illusion are bent to its will. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/15 01:29 PM |
| 74 | #1 on the front page: The elephant in the room has been mentioned.This poster pretty much sums up feminism in a nutshell: All women are children. They have no agency and are not responsible for their actions. All men are rapists. They are inherently evil. That's a pretty fucked up worldview. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/15 01:16 PM |
| 21 | Casting Call: "Ugly People" - Situational SMVYeah, that's called RedPillWomen ... there's a sub for it with about 10k subscribers (and growing) trying to do just that. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/15 02:21 PM |
| 5 | Casting Call: "Ugly People" - Situational SMVLooking thru your posting history, you are obviously familiar with the RedPillWomen sub ... might wanna post over there a little more. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/15 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Fat woman on okcupid learns the hard way that men will sleep with her - but never commit.While I agree with you that excess of food is a modern problem, my revulsion has more to do with their laziness and lack of self-discipline. Their appearance is just a symptom of that, given the current environment. I'm also not attracted to lazy heroin addicts. But it should be noted that getting fat (really fat, not just a little chubby) does cause reproductive problems, such as doubling the risk of miscarriage as well as increasing risk of birth defects and complications. So it does have evol… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 02:30 PM |
| 101 | Fat woman on okcupid learns the hard way that men will sleep with her - but never commit.I won't even fuck fat chicks, let alone date them. They are an automatic 2 or lower on the SMV scale to me. There's something I find deeply repelling about laziness and a lack of self-discipline. I think there must be some primordial aversion to it in our DNA, cause children often display similar tendencies as their parents, and who'd really want to make babies who have lazy and/or lack of discipline tendencies in the wild. All the men who did probably died off, as did their progeny. It's called… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 12:54 AM |
| 83 | Never date a girl you fuck the same day you meet her.While it's always good to be aware of red flags, let's not conflate those (or the lack of them) with some assumed outcome. They will all cheat, given the right circumstances. They will all branch swing, given the right circumstances. All things in this world are ephemeral - they come and they go. You cannot hold them. You cannot possess them. Enjoy your time with them, but never put them on a fucking pedestal. Remember, she's not "yours" ... it was just your turn. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/15 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Video Compilation Nuke: Required Viewing for AllI second what /u/dr_warlock said ... start with something like SL 5x5. Make the compound lifts your main focus at first, so you can build a decent base level of strength. Then you can start mixing in 8 rep sets for isolation stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 06:37 PM |
| 6 | Red Pill Video Compilation Nuke: Required Viewing for AllVery true. I don't watch videos or listen to music in the gym myself. Stay very focused, in the zone, the whole time. The gym is the Iron Temple IMHO. But perhaps some people might wanna do it between sets or something. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 06:21 PM |
| 39 | Red Pill Video Compilation Nuke: Required Viewing for AllAs long as you're at the gym, lifting heavy shit, while watching them, then sure. Don't sit on your ass on the couch watching videos for hours though. If you wanna be TRP, you gotta live it. There's your friendly TRP public service announcement for the day, folks. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 01:47 PM |
| 1 | BPers: Do you think there are any legitimate male-issues worth tackling?By creating an environment where it's okay for men to have feelings, be vulnerable and honest And why should women and feminists get to define what being a man should be? Should men be able to tell women how to be women? That's bullshit. I don't want to cry and get fucking pedicures. I don't want to be fed Adderall if I "act up." I want to act like a heterosexual man and not be denigrated for my masculinity, or told I'm toxic, or any of that other crap. We should stop viewing men and mascuilinit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/15 12:37 AM |
| 58 | FYI - There is an organization fighting Higher Ed totalitarianismI looked through their website. This is actually a really interesting find. Even found a number of articles on there about the "rape overcorrection" and kangaroo courts. Reminds me a little of the ACLU, but with a more pure Libertarian slant (i.e. not "civil libertarians"). Nice find, OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/15 04:16 PM |
| 0 | Why is RPW sub not open to being critical of men?This is absolutely true. This is why we at TRP focus on as quickly as possible categorizing women into ONS, plates, those with short term relationship potential, and so forth, as well as the crazy ones you shouldn't even stick your dick in once. Some girls are just fucking crazy. We even from time to time talk about LTRs and girls with LTR potential. It's just that a lot of modern Western females are not really suitable LTR material, so as a consequence it doesn't come up that much relatively sp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/15 01:54 AM |
| 4 | To what extent are redpill endorsed users allowed to disagree with the redpill?I don't agree completely with every single little thing posted on TRP, or even with some of the other ECs ... but I do agree with all the core tenets of TRP. So why the hell would I say something to disagree? Just for the sake of being disagreeable? That sounds dumb. There are dissenting views on a number of issues on TRP. Hell I've been part of a number of such discussions just in the last month. There are a variety of viewpoints on TRP, but what binds us is a common thread. Oh, and that modern… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/15 01:44 AM |
| 25 | Hats Off to the BullThe feminist embrace of no-fault divorce and single motherhood is creating an acceptance of long-range cuckoldry, expecting beta bucks men to line up as stepfathers for children they didn't father. I think Rollo makes this point quite well. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/07/15 02:01 AM |
| 3 | [FR] I hit stage 4. It's the worst stage so far.No problem ... I wrote a longer post on here about this last week, detailing my own transition post-anger during the the Depression and Acceptance stages that might also be helpful: Victims, Love, and Pook | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/15 08:27 PM |
| 30 | [FR] I hit stage 4. It's the worst stage so far.The hardest part of the Depression and Acceptance stages are feeling like all your dreams are dead. For what is a man without dreams or aspirations? Nothing more than a shell of himself. No, you can still dream. You must replace your old Blue Pill dreams with new ones. Ones defined by the challenges a man faces in life, the failures he may endure, and the successes he will find by overcoming. That is the TRP way. That is the way of men. You can still love ... it's just that no woman will ever lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/15 06:13 PM |
| 12 | How do I navigate an aggressive white knight?Amused Mastery works just as well on men as it does on women. You may also may want to read up on AMOG'ing, e.g. Rollo's Take as well as an example from ScottishRedPill. You can search the main sub for more. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/15 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Victims, Love, and PookWell said. This post was really about the post-anger stages of the red pill ... the Depression and Acceptance stages. They require a radical shift in your mindset. But that shift is well worth it. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/15 04:07 AM |
| 5 | Victims, Love, and PookYeah, casting off that "victim mentality" you've been raised your whole life with is a tough transition. But at the same time, you're right, we can't treat them with kid gloves. Amazing how you see the same story on TRP over and over. Sometimes you just wanna grab people by the shoulders and shake some sense into them. But swallowing the pill is a process. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/15 03:54 PM |
| 30 | Mainstream feminism is the Munchhausen by proxy of ideologies.The one commonality that we all share at TRP is the rejection of "victim mentality". Feminists embrace it, are defined by it ... perpetual victimhood. The reality is that we could all claim being victims of something or some one ... we've all had our share of disadvantages or misfortune. There is always someone out there who has it better than you, someone who has it worse. We can let that define us, blame others for our problems, or we can choose to raise ourselves up. Self-improvement and self… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/15 12:30 PM |
| 5 | A challenge to Red pill evo psycheArguing with feminists about evo psych feels strangely like arguing with creationists about evolution. You can present all the facts and logic you want, but they still refuse to "believe" that any of it applies to humans ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/15 02:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you know when you're out of your anger phase?Typically after the Anger stage, you'll enter a period of Bargaining and Depression. The Red Pill is a bitter pill to swallow, and even after the Anger stage that butter taste lingers. You should start to integrate TRP mindset into your daily life, but it won't feel completely natural ... your mindset takes a while to completely shift. Most importantly, remember that it is not a linear process, you will move back and forth even to the Anger and Denial stages at times. It's more like a spiral. Wh… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/15 11:46 PM |
| 49 | Yes, AWALT: Director of "Kingsman" and His Mother's Decades-Long Paternity FraudPaternity testing is severely restricted, or even banned except with a court order, in some countries like France and Germany. Feminism: a movement aimed at restricting men's rights. Someone should change the dictionary definition one of these days. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/15 05:07 PM |
| 20 | Adaptations – Part IIII had this girl on Tinder a few weeks ago (who I later closed on after the first date), we were chatting before our first meetup, and she told me "I believe I'm the buyer in this situation." My response: "Nope" Women in this generation think they are by default the buyer in any romantic situation, and men the seller. The question is what can we do for them, and not vice versa. It is hypergamy at its purest. Like you said, if modern feminism wants to unleash this unbridled hypergamy, then I'm not… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/15 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Feeling a bit sad – here’s my rambling going through my headIt's important to distinguish things being different from things being better. Just cause things are different, doesn't necessarily imply that one is better than the other. Sometimes things are just "different", and that is okay. As /u/_wingnut_ pointed out, women are more neotenous, more childlike, by nature. Due to that, there are unique things that a woman brings to the table, things a man never could. Embrace that. It is of value, don't let feminists tell you otherwise. The masculine and fem… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/15 07:37 PM |
| 12 | FR: Six Flags with gf and her friendsNever met a person who wasn't prejudiced about someone or some group. It's human nature, part of the ingroup/outgroup effect built into our psychology. We're all bigots, in one way or another. Women too. I know white women who don't like blacks. Blacks who don't like hispanics. And so on. It's endless. The important thing is that we don't conflate honest criticism with prejudice. Too often bigotry (e.g. misogyny) is a term thrown around these days to stifle free speech. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/15 01:27 PM |
| 50 | AWALT, but... I am not without my faults or undesirable & typical male behavior either.No one ever claimed there wasn't AMALT ... men have instinctive tendencies just like women (different ones of course). The difference is that men are denigrated for AMALT behaviors, denigrated for their masculinity, while women and their AWALT behavior, such as hypergamy, are celebrated or outright denied. Hell you get shamed for even questioning AWALT behaviors, cause you're oppressing their "empowerment" or some shit. All that said, you have the ability to improve yourself, to channel your ins… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/15 01:07 PM |
| 7 | Should women be controlled for the good of the society ?I should be able to walk anywhere and not get assaulted. So should you. In fact no one should ever get assaulted. And money should grow on trees. And people should be able to poop ice cream. We live in the real world, not a children's fantasy. Trying to change the world into a place where less people get assaulted is not expecting it to "change to accommodate [women]", its making the world a better place. If you truly cared about this issue, then teaching women to take responsibility for themsel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/15 03:50 PM |
| 6 | Should women be controlled for the good of the society ?lets not forget a large part of the hold women accountable problem is men not holding them accountable Agreed. But according to feminists, holding women accountable is misogyny. Thus, the last couple generations of Western men have been raised to not hold them accountable. Women are special snowflakes that can do no wrong, blah blah blah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/15 02:08 PM |
| 12 | Should women be controlled for the good of the society ?Yup. With great power comes great responsibility. The problem with 2nd and 3rd wave feminism is that they demanded all the power, but none of the accountability that traditionally came with it. And power without personal responsibility only leads to entitlement. Even now women wanna be able to get drunk and walk down dark alleys without getting assaulted. I'm a fit 6'1'' male, and I don't even get drunk and walk down dark alleys, cause I have this thing called "common sense". They expect the ent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/15 01:58 PM |
| 10 | The Red Pill is Not PUAAnd yes, I lift and have an amazing career and dress and groom myself well. I'm a valuable member of society who pays taxes. Women don't give a shit. Why do you define your value by what women think? Women are not the goal of life ... they are merely a by-product of a life well-lived. Depedestalize that shit, brother. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 01:48 PM |
| 92 | The Red Pill is Not PUAI've had this same discussion with a number of people, both here on Reddit and elsewhere on the interwebs ... I agree with you 100%. Both PUA and TRP are based on an understanding that there are fundamental patterns of human behavior. Instinctive behavior that still governs much of our interaction, honed by millions of years of evolution, despite all our cultural advancement. The difference is what we do with that understanding. PUAs stumbled upon many of these patterns back in the 80's and 90's… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 10:28 PM |
| 9 | The moderation policy of this subreddit is of the devil.Then you should go over to r//TwoXChromosomes and r//feminism and tell them they are committing hate speech. I'm sure that will go swimmingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/15 03:34 AM |
| 29 | The moderation policy of this subreddit is of the devil.TRP is the radical notion that women are people ... capable of all the good and all the evil that men are. Society and feminism have no problem villainizing men. But pointing out anything bad about women is hate speech now, is it? Sounds like Blue Pillers don't like the taste of their own medicine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/15 08:42 PM |
| 15 | We're here for the unhappy losersI think they have an inkling, but I also suspect many modern women have a very limited understanding of what men want or need, beyond the caricature that we are simply sex-crazed brutes. They really don't understand or appreciate the male experience of life ... it is part of their solipsistic nature. They assume that their experience is the same as ours, when in reality it is fundamentally different. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 06:44 PM |
| 37 | We're here for the unhappy losersAll relationships are transactional ... there is something we want from the other person. What I find most striking about the modern Western female is that they seem completely oblivious to what men want or need. Moreover, generations of Feminism have taught them that those male wants/needs don't matter. That they are entitled princesses, and men are idiots. Women used to understand the necessity of feminine charm ... but that seems to have been thrown out like a baby with the bathwater. It is t… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 05:51 PM |
| 72 | Dirty SheetsThis really drives at the heart of abundance mentality is not about the number of plates you're spinning ... it is about your mindset toward each individual plate. Doesn't matter if you are spinning 1 plate or a hundred. Same mindset. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 01:34 PM |
| 33 | Trees.I can see both sides of the argument, but I think the OP's point is better understood from a figurative perspective. Think of it this way - the "first" men didn't plant trees, perhaps they planted some shrubs or small bushes. They didn't provide much shade, but they provided a little, and they did so quickly. They passed down those shrubs to their progeny, who built upon them, adding some fruit trees or what not. Generations later, men were planting towering oaks. The point is that each generati… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 01:18 PM |
| 14 | Red Pill Podcast: Bill BurrMy general mantra for dealing with women: it doesn't matter what you do ... you're damned if you do, damned if you don't. If (or more precisely when) they get upset, Amused Mastery is your only reasonable course of action. You can't make sense of the senseless. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/15 03:39 AM |
| 4 | The internal conflict is killing meThe process of swallowing the Red Pill, much like the process of grieving, does not follow a linear course. You will flow in and out of the anger stage. Sometimes you might experience multiple stages in the same week. But, like all things that are worthwhile, the process itself is of value. A sword must be forged in fire. Be the sword. The 5 Stages of the Red Pill The 5 Stages of Grieving | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/15 10:34 PM |
| 7 | The one thing that feminists and white knights do not want you to acceptAre you trying to chop wood or psychologically out-maneuver someone? Depends on the context. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 02:15 PM |
| 7 | Adaptations - Part IIThis is a good article, and again really drives at the heart of TRP theory. The reality is that TRP is really a rejection of men's end of the hypergamous social contract. Before the 1960's (pre birth control), a balanced social contract applied to both men and women which limited hypergamy. But the 1960's and beyond unleashed women's feral natures, their hypergamous instincts. Women no longer held up their end of the social contract ... it was instead replaced with a purely hypergamous social co… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 01:51 PM |
| 28 | The one thing that feminists and white knights do not want you to acceptWhile I think the Williams sisters of Tennis story that /u/AlphaAccountant posted above is hilarious, I think there is an issue with an overall better argument. What do you mean by "better"? I think we can all agree that men and women are different, and that there are many things men on average are better at (e.g. physical strength) and things women on average are better at (e.g. reading emotions in others' faces). However, saying one is overall "better" than the other is subjective, it depends … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/15 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Final Warning: Keep Your Damn Morals To YourselfMy point exactly ... well said GLO. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/15 06:19 PM |
| 16 | Final Warning: Keep Your Damn Morals To YourselfIt's one thing to say I don't agree with this, it's an entirely different thing to say What you are doing is wrong, and you are an evil person. The first is rational discourse ... the second is shaming language. If you don't understand the difference you shouldn't be on this board. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/15 05:12 PM |
| 216 | Final Warning: Keep Your Damn Morals To YourselfGotta agree with the mods on this one. It's one thing to say I don't agree with this, and here's why, it's an entirely different thing to say What you are doing is wrong, and you are an evil person. The first is rational discourse ... the second is shaming language. If you don't understand the difference you shouldn't be on this board. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/15 05:08 PM |
| 3 | How is a realistic, healthy LTR formed?As a man, your job is to create the sexual intimacy that distinguishes a "friend" from a "lover". It's a woman's job to then create the bounds of the commitment. The relationship between a man and a woman is built on the benefits a woman receives from it, this is called Briffault's Law. You create the intimacy, she sets the conditions. There are LTR worthy women out there. But you have to be very careful, and vet them ruthlessly. They set the conditions, but you have to be willing as well. Don't… | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 02:05 PM |
| 11 | Bio truthsfor instance, men and women have the same optical system, the same cardivascular system, the same kidney and liver systems Oh my god, NO. You blue pillers simply assume these things, without bothering to do a little reading on the plethora of scientific evidence for differences between the sexes. For instance, cardiovascular functioning is completely different between men and women, related to differences in sex hormone levels. Here's another source if you want. There are literally hundreds of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/15 03:10 PM |
| 10 | What are the traits of male and female nature , according to TRP ?This is a key point. TRP simply points out innate characteristics of male and female behavior, and tries to make the best of the situation. We don't assign value judgments. It simply is what it is. C'est la vie. It's the blue pill that tries to assign value judgements. We at TRP say "hey, ladies tend to do this", and the blue pill folks say that we hate women. But we don't. It's blue pill folks that hate the behavior. TRP simply sees it for what it is, and tries to make the best of it. Rather ir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/15 03:38 AM |
| 347 | The red pill may have just saved my marriage.So let me get this straight: it appears that your wife heaped a pile of emotional and verbal abuse on you, fucked up your life and your relationship with those around you (e.g. your daughter), and you're totally cool with that, but not cool with anyone who calls out women on their behavior? This is the same shit women everywhere do to men everyday, cause "that's just how women are". And you are cool with that too? Look, I'm happy that TRP is helping you and your marriage. Really, I am. That's wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/15 09:53 PM |
| 23 | The Science behind Red Pill TheoriesThis is interesting, but a few critiques for improvement. First, your "source" is a Senior's honor's thesis, not a peer-reviewed scientific article, so it's not the most reliable material. Also, you are going to need more than a single source for any of these points though (unless that source is a meta-review or from a big-time journal like Nature), because any single study has its flaws. Providing 2-3 sources gives a little more legitimacy. If we're going to outline the scientific basis for TRP… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/15 04:33 PM |
| 12 | The biology behind Love. A closer look at love, what it is, why it isn’t what we think it is and why it matters.Nothing here really conflicts with TRP theory. As you state, differences in estrogen and testosterone levels significantly affect the operation of neurotransmitters such as oxytocin in humans, leading to notable differences in male and female behavior. Exactly, the way women love/pair-bond and the way men love/pair-bond are fundamentally different. What the evidence you presented doesn't delve into is the realm of instinctive behaviors in humans, and theories about differences between males and … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/15 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Do Redpillwomen believe AWALT applies to them?I agree with /u/capt-next-a-hoe on this, we don't take an "official stance". We focus on people being aware of the reality of things, not basing their life or choices on wishful thinking. That said, we do give a lot of advice about how to deal with these instinctive behaviors in different situations, especially when the other person is unaware of them. People can do a lot of damage when they are unaware, to themselves and others. The same applies to women, which is why /r/RedPillWomen was starte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/15 11:45 PM |
| 20 | Do Redpillwomen believe AWALT applies to them?We don't encourage anyone to simply follow or curb their instincts. We encourage them to be aware of their instincts, and the instinctive behaviors of those around them, so they can operate based on how people actually behave, rather than how they should behave. Those who see reality for what it is, can bend it to their will … those who see only illusion, are bent to its will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/15 07:08 PM |
| 10 | Italian hedge fund manager: 'Never, ever marry an American woman'Yep, it's not worth trying to change their beliefs. But even if you don't confirm those beliefs, by responding with a simple "hmm" or "how so?", they struggle with them. They expect you to validate them. By not agreeing or disagreeing with them, you disqualify them in a sense, and they immediately start trying to qualify themselves. That's where the cognitive dissonance comes in. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/15 06:40 PM |
| 86 | Italian hedge fund manager: 'Never, ever marry an American woman'If you wanna see some amazing cognitive dissonance, casually ask some of your female friends to give you one good reason for men to get married nowadays ... They'll start hamstering away, and if you just keep responding to each reason they give with a "hmm" or "how so?", you can almost see the hamster becoming more and more frenetic. Trying frantically to justify themselves, their behavior, their sense of entitlement. Like a hamster on crack cocaine. They're all entitled because they've never ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/15 06:29 PM |
| 284 | Anti-Rape Program Teaching Women how to say "no" Halves Number of Campus AssaultsWhoa, whoa, whoa, RedPillSchool ... are you suggesting that teaching people about personal responsibility - that there are consequences for the choices they make in life - leads to better outcomes??? That's just crazy talk ... All kidding aside, it's amazing what common sense can accomplish when put to good use. For some reason, we don't seem to value common sense as much as we used to. People are way too caught up in worrying about "how things should be", rather than dealing with "how things ac… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/15 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Political Compass PollI think a lot red pillers are probably moderates politically. There's a tendency in TRP towards common sense and pragmatism. That doesn't tend to be a hallmark of extreme political ideologies - they tend to focus on victimhood, blaming others (e.g. rich people, men, big government) for all your problems. That said, the results probably do depend on the questions asked. For instance, I'm not very religious, and there was a whole page on the survey about religion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/15 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Political Compass PollMine is here ... I always strive to be a moderate. I take issue with either left-wing extremism (SJWs, feminists) or right-wing extremism (fascists, nazis). There is a third way ... the middle path. It is often the wisest path. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/15 07:47 PM |
| 2 | What degrees lead to jobsEven if you don't want a computer science degree, everyone should learn computer programming ... cause computer programmers are modern day wizards: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nKIu9yen5nc Then you can do whatever else you want later. Scientists, engineers, and even medical doctors nowadays need to be able to code. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 02:35 PM |
| 1 | What did you ever do to deserve being called a man?A sword must be forged in fire. Be the sword. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/15 01:27 PM |
| 49 | James Cameron and TRPI don't know if Cameron is alpha or not, though he does seem to have some alpha tendencies. But we should be clear about one thing: TRP is not anti-anger. Anger is a valid emotion. You just have to channel it correctly. Anger is your instincts telling you someone is violating your personal boundaries. It can be a healthy emotion, if used in a constructive way. Don't fear your anger, listen to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/15 10:54 PM |
| 279 | Argued with a Male Feminist on Facebook. This is what he said.Lead by example. You don't lead by arguing. Embrace TRP, and embody its ideals in your everyday life. You'll influence others much more by being an example to follow, than trying to convince them they're wrong. And every once in a while you can covertly slip in some RP truths into the conversation. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/15 09:07 PM |
| 5 | Why do men prefer smaller women?There is increased neoteny in human females, including evolutionary psychology aspects of neoteny in humans (i.e. why women resemble children) and why men prefer those features in females. Neoteny is one of the plausible explanations for the increase in human brain size (longer juvenile development). In short, it's evolution. It's science. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/15 03:24 PM |
| 1 | X-Post: Intro to RP for married men? Please give advice.You don't need a trainer unless you just really want one. A good starting program is Stronglifts 5x5. Also, pay attention to your diet. Eat plenty of high quality protein. Maybe use something like MyFitnessPal to monitor calories, macros, and nutrition. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/06/15 03:07 PM |
| 22 | I've desperately wanted a GF my whole life but honestly sex has been less of a concern for me than being accepted, appreciated, cared for, and maybe even loved. Now that I know that's all bullshit I feel lost and beyond that I fear I'm broken.Yep, some "tough love" advice. It's important to understand why we advocate this too though. Pook said it best: “The difference is simple,” said the Pook. “The first young man is facing TOWARDS infancy. The second young man is facing AWAY from infancy. The first one wishes to climb back into the womb; the second one wants to fly from it. The first wishes a cushioned place in the world while the second one leaves the cushions behind. The first one is ordinary; the second one is extraordinary. Thu… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/15 03:18 PM |
| 22 | Autism rates are 66% higher among children born to dads over the age of 50 than those in their 20s, 28% higher for dads in their 40s, 18% higher with teen moms, and higher than usual when there were wide gaps (10+ years) between parents. Thoughts?Don't forget that a 40-year old woman has a 33% chance of miscarriage ... that's 1 out of 3 babies dead before even born. Not good odds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/15 04:45 PM |
| 4 | Men, even TRP men, love women very much.We all have an inner fortitude, though at times we may need to reclaim it. Easy to be led astray. To falter, or become angry at the obstacles we must overcome. But a sword must be forged in fire. All that is gold does not glitter, Not all those who wander are lost; The old that is strong does not wither, Deep roots are not reached by the frost. - J.R.R. Tolkien | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/15 01:39 PM |
| 2 | In Wretched Defense of RooshI think the best tactic is striving for the middle. If you walk down the street with a sign that says "Kill all the Jews" or "Kill all the Homos" (like Roosh), I'm gonna call you an idiot. If you walk down the street with a sign that says "All Men are Rapists", I'm gonna call you an idiot. Two wrongs don't make a right. | /r/AlreadyRed | 12/06/15 11:42 AM |
| 8 | In Wretched Defense of RooshExtremism is extremism, doesn't matter if it comes from the right or the left. The reality is that modern day feminists have become extremists in most of their positions. That's why we at TRP react so negatively to it. The problem is that extremism, either left wing or right wing, is detrimental to society at large. TRP really focuses on pragmatic solutions to social problems, typically through personal responsibility and individual self-improvement, and that's really our rub with feminism. But … | /r/AlreadyRed | 12/06/15 12:30 AM |
| 3 | The Red Pill HandbookYeah, I've responded to a number of recent posts on both TRP and PPD about the "lack of scientific evidence or logic backing up TRP theory". The assumption is that it is all based on a bunch of ad-hoc experience of loser guys or whatever. Which is total bullshit. Not to say that people's personal experiences don't play a key role, and field reports don't provide valuable data. But the reality is that observation of natural phenomena leads to hypotheses about why those phenomena or patterns occur… | /r/AlreadyRed | 11/06/15 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Verify your username on PuerarchyI got verification on the registration this time (login info stored at puearchy). I still couldn't log in to the Red Pill Forum on the sidebar, if that matters. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Identity PoliticsI sexually identify as an attack helicopter. You need to check your vehicle privilege. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Verify your username on PuerarchyMaybe, I tried to login to that forum after doing the registration via reddit thing in the OP, and got an error message? Perhaps I have to wait a while though ... | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 05:14 PM |
| 6 | My problem with r/TheBluePill and why it will affect us soon...Brother, don't worry about that shit. If we aren't allowed to congregate here, we will simply move elsewhere. No big deal. Remember, TRP is about frame control and outcome independence. If people wanna talk shit, let them. Focus on improving yourself. Everything in this world is a macrocosm or microcosm of something else. The Blue Pill is just a huge shit test, same as you might get from an individual woman ... don't react to it, refuse to get pulled into their frame, and they have no power. TRP… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 01:29 AM |
| 16 | /r/FatPeopleHate banned for harassment -- TRP next?We already have a backup site ... 115,000 people don't just disappear cause people disagree with us. I know many left-wing SJWs and Feminists think if you should loud enough, you'll win. You just have to shout down, silence, suppress opposing viewpoints. Funny thing is, that's what makes them so similar to right-wing fascists and the like. Extremism is extremism, I guess. Disturbing really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/15 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Nobel laureate says women in labs cry and distract men - sparks "outrage"Unless you're going full MGTOW, you're gonna have to deal with women at some point. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 06:20 PM |
| 21 | Nobel laureate says women in labs cry and distract men - sparks "outrage"That kind of stuff happens everywhere, everyday, in all walks of life. It's not just a "science nerd" problem. That's why TRP is here. That said, a lot of the preeminent scientists over the years have been known womanizers, e.g. Richard Feynman and Einstein. Natural red pillers, basically. Though I'm not sure Einstein lifted /s | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 06:16 PM |
| 10 | Nobel laureate says women in labs cry and distract men - sparks "outrage"Weak men are distracted by women ... learn how to hold frame. I have no problem being distracted by women in the lab or anywhere else. I lead, do my thing, and ignore them if they get emotional. Red Pill science, my friend ... shit works just the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 05:22 PM |
| 74 | Nobel laureate says women in labs cry and distract men - sparks "outrage"As a scientist, I can honestly say I've seen at least half of my female co-workers (even some really smart, talented ones) cry at some point. It's just what they do. Totally agree with him on that. Women are women, regardless of what mask they wear ... AWALT. Not sure I agree with him about the gender-segregated labs, sounds a little like extreme "MGTOW science" or something. The reality is that while the women scientists I work with are prone to get emotional over things and/or cry at times, th… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/15 05:09 PM |
| 24 | In Defense of Evo-PsychNice article. I just got done arguing yesterday with some blue pillers over at PurplePillDebate about the scientific basis for TRP theory (no idea why I bother), and it was like arguing with creationists about evolution. I provided evidence, including links to a half dozen sources and scientific studies about everything from hypergamy to sex differences in brain functioning to increased neoteny in human females. Their argument back: "well we don't believe it". To many people, not believing evide… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/15 09:21 PM |
| 2 | If the red pill isn't based on science and facts, well, what the fuck is it based on?Actually that's not how science works. You don't prove anything. You gather data that supports a hypothesis or theory. The science behind why your car works - never been proven. The science behind why your TV works - never been proven. Math has never been proven either (check out Godel, Escher, Bach for a fascinating read on this). None of these things have ever been proven, or will be - but we have evidence that suggests they are true, and they work in the real world. TRP is much the same. If y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 01:34 PM |
| 7 | If the red pill isn't based on science and facts, well, what the fuck is it based on?Testosterone levels in human male fetuses are roughly 3 times higher than human female fetuses. Males (in all mammal species) are flooded with testosterone twice during their lives: once in utero that primes the androgen receptors throughout their body (including the brain), and again during the onset of puberty. That does not happen in females. On average men have 17 times the free testosterone as females in humans. In terms of brain functioning, this means that it is not the same in males and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 04:19 AM |
| 4 | If the red pill isn't based on science and facts, well, what the fuck is it based on?The notion of hypergamy as a biological instinct was not really prevalent till the 1970's and later, following the work of E.O. Wilson around sociobiology. Calhoun's work predated that, so he didn't use the terminology. But remember, hypergamy is essentially a resource maximization mating strategy for females. A critical part of Calhoun's experiments was that resources were unlimited, meaning that females had no need to engage in normal pair mating, as they needed no male provisioning assistance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 03:55 AM |
| 3 | If the red pill isn't based on science and facts, well, what the fuck is it based on?All available space was not taken. Although yes, Calhoun himself did suggest that was the issue, but clearly it was not. The population didn't even make it to 75% of the maximum carrying capacity. So clearly that is not an explanation. What did happen was a breakdown of normal social roles, and females having an unlimited supply of resources, which broke down the normal pair mating that occurs in mice populations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 03:07 AM |
| 9 | If the red pill isn't based on science and facts, well, what the fuck is it based on?Nope, you can read the original papers of you want. For instance, during one of the experiments, the carrying capacity was 3,000, but the mice population topped out at 2,200 ... over 25% below maximum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 02:50 AM |
| 6 | If the red pill isn't based on science and facts, well, what the fuck is it based on?My response to the Calhoun mouse experiments was made to the poster above. As for your other comments, I understand you don't believe any of this, but that's not how science works. Sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 02:36 AM |
| 12 | If the red pill isn't based on science and facts, well, what the fuck is it based on?The mice never actually reached carrying capacity in any of the experiments, i.e. not overcrowding. That was what was so shocking about the results. Rather, population decline was triggered by changes in social behavior, overly aggressive females in a resource-unlimited environment (where they no longer needed male provisioning assistance) and a feminization of males, leading to a withdrawal of males from normal mating behaviors (called "The beautiful ones"). Females later started abandoning the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 02:32 AM |
| 12 | If the red pill isn't based on science and facts, well, what the fuck is it based on?Dammit, how many times do we have to answer this same question ... As a practicing scientist, with a PhD, I can assure you that there is a scientific basis for a lot of TRP theory ... e.g. the negative effects of unconstrained hypergamy in mammals and the effects of testosterone on the human brain and its basis for differences in male/female behavior as well as increased neoteny in human females, including the evolutionary psychology aspects of neoteny in humans (i.e. why women resemble children… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 02:11 AM |
| 14 | Isn't it hypocritical when sluts want to get married?This generation of women have been sold all that "Sex and the City" 3rd wave feminism bullshit. That's not how it works. A high value male in his 30's is not gonna marry an over-30 woman who is quickly losing her looks and fertility, especially one who's slept with half the town ... he's gonna go after a twenty-something. Mr. Big is not out there waiting for you, ladies. I'm speaking as a high value male in his 30's. Pretty much all the women I date are under 30. My last girlfriend was 25. It's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/15 12:51 AM |
| 34 | If you were like me in the beginning, TRP is scary territory. Let me tell you how it has changed my life and why I can't see my life without it.I think what many don't understand at first is that it takes time and a lot of hard work to swallow the Red Pill. And most of us will not fully swallow it at first pass ... it will take a few tries. An initial knee-jerk reaction is, "that's some crazy misogynistic bullshit". Then a little later "well maybe that might work, but I'll just incorporate a few things". Then you try, see a few successes, get a girl, and slip right back into blue pill behavior. Then you're like, "well shit, what did I d… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 05:45 PM |
| 145 | "When unattractive men have hit on me, I have honestly been insulted. It's sort of like having an amazing degree and work experience, and someone seriously asking you if you want a minimum wage job."A woman's number one priority is to be desired. The issue is that - for a woman - desire cannot come from below, it must come from above. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 01:49 PM |
| 11 | The Redefinition of Marriage, Part Two: SexHaha, /u/Rollo-Tomassi would be proud ... | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 01:45 PM |
| 24 | The Redefinition of Marriage, Part Two: SexMarriage nowadays seems to come with all the obligations (financial support, monogamy, alimony) but none of the benefits. Society just expects us to "man up". Well fuck that. I thought your point about each generation being more fucked was on point. The thing is that both young men AND young women need fathers, strong male role models. Otherwise you end up with the epidemic of fragile men and broken women we see today ... unable to appropriately relate to the opposite sex and with poor personal … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 12:35 PM |
| 50 | Uncle gets cheated on, decides he can't continue80% of suicides are committed by men nowadays. There is a confluence of reasons for this, and unfortunately your uncle is an example. Generations of feminism have sold men a fantasy of blue pill ideals, a reflection within which we see ourself, our dreams, our hopes. And when that fantasy shatters, it's like our own self reflection shattering. Like staring into an abyss. For many men, it's too much. Of course, you'll never hear mainstream media talking about such issues. This is why places like … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/15 03:50 AM |
| 1 | My buddy and his wifeHard to say for certain without seeing these people in person, but it sounds like this dude is AMOG'ing the social circle. Hence he is the alpha of the group, at the moment. Remember that alpha is relative, and transitory. For the moment, he is in that position, but any time he could lose that edge. Then this girl's hypergamous instincts will kick in, and all the sudden she could be out the door or sleeping with some other dude. Can literally all change overnight ... once the instinct kicks in, … | /r/askTRP | 07/06/15 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Theory reading.Here: Comprensive Red Pill Reading List | /r/askTRP | 07/06/15 08:25 PM |
| 47 | Book that personifies TRP for teenage girls to be made into a movieUnless…could this be love? The whole story just underscores how different the way women love is from the way men love. A woman will never love a man the way he wants to be loved, or even in the way that he thinks love is supposed to work as per some blue pill fantasy. A woman's love is need based. Often that need is based on her hypergamous instincts. Here in this story you have some unavailable alpha, which kicks her hamster into high gear. And boom, she thinks "maybe we're in love". The only t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/15 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Is the subreddit Feminism a fake?The post you linked about mattress girl was actually deleted off /r/feminism, as have all the posts on TwoX, especially about the rape porno she made a couple days ago. Gotta censor any dissenting opinion ... It's disturbing how much the tactics of modern day left wing feminists and SJWs actually resembles right wing fascists tactics. Extremists are extremists though, I guess, whatever mask they wear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/15 11:40 PM |
| 5 | If you're only reading r/marriedredpill without reading r/theredpill, you're doing it wrong.As an unmarried red piller, I think the older, wiser crowd on TRP (including myself) sees MRP and LTR game as a legitimate part of TRP, or as we often say TRP on hard mode. It's not for everyone of course ... we each follow our own path. We're not trying to be assholes at TRP, many of us just view marriage 2.0 as very very risky. But the red pill principles - positive masculinity, a focus on self-improvement and self-mastery, a rejection of victim mentality, etc. - I think certainly applies to a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/06/15 11:16 PM |
| 31 | I'm slowly swallowing the pill, yesterday i told my crush we can't be friends anymore, help me learn how to live without women.Swallowing the pill isn't easy for anyone. It takes hard work and determination. There are a number of stages you will go through as you unplug, typically referred to as The 5 Stages of the Red Pill The main thing to realize is that women are not the goal of life, they are merely a by-product of a life well-lived. Depedestalize that shit. In the meantime, read the sidebar and the Book of Pook. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 10:00 PM |
| 25 | Get ready to laugh: "Women’s group will check Metro Vancouver nightclubs for ‘harassment culture’"Hey ladies, if you don't want to get hit on, how about NOT putting on your sexy-ist outfit and going down to an alcohol-laden club/pub/bar environment??? I know it sounds crazy, but it might just be crazy enough to work ... Problem solved ... no silly SJWs needed! | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 06:10 PM |
| 17 | Truly respectable example of monk mode and MGTOW way of life. Presenting to you, life advices from Major Dick Winters.This a good, if long, read. Nice find. As men, we must always be the rock amidst the storm. Whether that be the trials and tribulations of life, the bullets of combat, or the the shit testing of women, it all boils down to that principle. We may not all take it as far as Major Winters did, but all of us here at TRP are on the path. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/15 03:44 PM |
| 7 | What do TRPers think of Mark Manson?Manson is aligned with TRP thought, and often his "Models" book is recommended reading. Some people do take issue with some of his approach, e.g. the vulnerability thing, but there are always a few quibbles. Roosh, I would say, is not viewed all that favorably by a lot of TRP. Many think he's kind of superficial and self-serving. I personally disagree with a lot of his stances on homosexuality and evolution, and think he comes off as a bit of a "tradcon" idiot. Really alot of that has no place i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/15 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Even at its worst, feminism is not a conscious strategy to unfairly advantage womenA moderate feminist, one who rejects victimhood and such, like Christine Hoff Summers, is no longer viewed as a "real" feminist by mainstream extremist feminism. Just ask the the students at Georgetown and Oberlin. And if you dare question the hegemony, like the feminist professor at Northwestern, other feminists will attempt to sue you and file Title IX complaints. This is all perfectly legal. Have you made a rape porno yet, like the infamous Columbia mattress carrier Emma Sulkowicz, whose fals… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/15 11:37 PM |
| 7 | Even at its worst, feminism is not a conscious strategy to unfairly advantage womenAgreed. The reality is that modern day feminists have become extremists in most of their positions. The problem is that extremism, either left wing or right wing, is detrimental to society at large. TRP really focuses on pragmatic solutions to social problems, typically through personal responsibility and individual self-improvement, and that's really our rub with feminism. This is also in keeping with the Horseshoe Theory, which states that extremist groups on both ends of the political spectru… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/15 10:28 PM |
| 31 | Stop worrying about hurting her feelings.TRP - the radical notion that women are people. Capable of all the good and all the evil that men are. Defend yourself, keep you guard up, and never be afraid to walk away from a losing battle. They aren't princesses, unicorns, innocent fairy children, or any of that other bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/15 11:22 PM |
| 4 | Guy on r/tinder holds incredible frame with a bitchy girl, gets her number and a date.I say the most ridiculous stuff on Tinder. Push/Pull, neg a little, make outrageous claims. I've gone out with 3 girls off there in the last week alone, and hell I closed with one on the first date a couple nights ago, in a parking lot, outside the bar we met at for drinks, lol. The point is to be your own universe. Have fun, do what you want, say what you want, lead ... and have the confidence to do so. You want to pull them into your orbit. You may miss on a few, but hell, you don't want them … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/15 05:34 PM |
| 10 | I want to be seen as an asshole/prick.Actually, you want to "be a man", not an asshole. You misunderstand women's attraction. It's about being a man unafraid of his testosterone, unafraid of his nature. Not putting on a facade like some character on the stage. Pook said it best, read this: Be A Man | /r/askTRP | 04/06/15 04:04 PM |
| 7 | Mainstream media reports on the wall: Missing out on a promotion is as nothing compared to missing out on motherhoodNot to mention that a woman who is 40-years old is 20 times more likely to have child with significant birth defects (e.g. down syndrome) than a woman who is 20-years old (source), or that a third of pregnancies at that age end in miscarriage (source). People need to quit feeding women unrealistic crap about putting off being a mother, because if that is something they want they shouldn't be waiting so long. As you noted, "nature isn't a feminist". It's both funny and kind of sad to see online d… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/15 03:49 PM |
| 10 | Mainstream media reports on the wall: Missing out on a promotion is as nothing compared to missing out on motherhoodI make enough money that I don't really care if a woman brings an income to the table. If she does that's great, if she doesn't whatever. What I don't want is a 35-year old wife who is losing her fertility (and physical attractiveness) and can't have kids. Because what's the point of marriage other than passing on your genetic legacy? I can get a roommate without getting married. I can get sex without getting married. Hell, actually, I could have kids too via surrogacy without marriage if I real… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/15 03:15 PM |
| 5 | Critique and reason behind leaving TRPI wrote the below a few weeks back, about how TRP rests on a number of axioms, just like any logical system or philosophy. TRP, as a philosophy, rests on a number of axioms and assumptions. Feminism does as well ... so do Stoicism, Rationalism, etc. Those base axioms and assumptions are not "provable" in any empirical sense, never will be. This is true of all logical systems. Even mathematics is based on unprovable axioms, such as was the basis of Godel's Incompleteness Theorem (check out Godel,… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/15 03:20 AM |
| 24 | I'll repost in askTRP if necessary, but I'd rather ask this here: Are you guys happy?You're in the Depression stage of the Red Pill. I was there for a while, sometimes I still oscillate between that and the Acceptance phase. Just realize it is a natural part of process. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. The 5 Stages of the Red Pill But it's worth pointing out that psychology's general "five stages" model of the grieving process applies to TRP. 1) Denial: "Women aren't like that! They're people just like everyone else! Treat them all as individuals, and you're sure to fi… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/15 05:12 PM |
| 6 | 26m, swallowed the red pill, started working out - Want to thank this subredditUnless you're taking massive amounts of steroids that is not physically possible. It's cool that you are adopting a TRP mindset. But TRP doesn't need false hype. Shit works. We don't need to exaggerate. Keep working on yourself, lifting, read the sidebar, approach women ... come back and tell us how you're doing in a couple months. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 10:52 PM |
| 7 | How to encourage unplugging?Whoa lady, slow down there, look you came here and asked for advice, and this guy gave you good, unadulterated advice. He's giving you the same advice he'd give to your husband, in the same language. He's not trying to insult him, he's trying to challenge him. Yeah, he's using some raw language, but you can't sugarcoat "challenging a man." Ever seen drill sergeants in the military? This is what men respond to - being challenged. Competition is in our nature, leading is in our nature. The only ex… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/15 02:59 PM |
| 13 | What Tool Do You Need?For those here who are not naturally Dark Triad, embracing and internalizing DT traits is usually further down the path, advanced level red pill stuff. One really needs to be fully past the Anger and Bargaining stages to pull it off: The 5 Stages of the Red Pill (from /u/Whisper) Because you generally just wanna insert some DT traits, not go full-blown DT. When you are in the early stages of the Red Pill though, it's very hard to do that without just coming off like an asshole. It cannot be just… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 02:18 PM |
| 103 | Mark Ruffalo: "If you say you're not a feminist you're degrading and insulting women."Who the hell is Mark Ruffalo and why should we care? Did he cure cancer? Win a war? Invent the internet? Oh, I see he's just an actor, that's cute. Clearly he knows what he's talking about :\ Anyway, I think it's funny he doesn't actually seem to know to know much about either the history or the current state of feminism. And calling people who disagree with him "ignorant" to boot. Tsk, tsk ... people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones, Mr. Ruffalo. Try looking in the mirror sometim… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 11:12 PM |
| 28 | Happiness is internalThe key part is really understanding that even if you "get the hot girl", she is not "yours". She is just yours for a while. And happiness can't be built on expectations otherwise. All relationships will end, either thru departure or death or something else. Like everything else in life, they are ephemeral. Things come and go. You cannot hold them. You cannot possess them. They were there for a time, but they were never yours. Value the time you had, but never put anything on a pedestal. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 05:41 PM |
| 130 | Dress code sparks protest in Canadian schoolsThe greatest irony of feminism is that it essentially treats women as if they have no responsibility, that there are no consequences for the choices they make in life. That they have no agency. In other words, the greatest irony of feminism is it treats women as if they are children. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 04:42 PM |
| 8 | How do you guys reconcile TRP truths with conventional psychology, as well as conventional science as a whole?As a practicing scientist, with a PhD, I can assure you that there is a scientific basis for a lot of TRP theory ... e.g. the negative effects of unconstrained hypergamy in mammals and the effects of testosterone on the human brain and its basis for differences in male/female behavior as well as increased neoteny in human females, including the evolutionary psychology aspects of neoteny in humans (i.e. why women resemble children). In short, your post is factually incorrect. Is there some scienc… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Successful Men Are Warriors.I have, that book is a good one. So is "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida ... definitely good TRP-related reads. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Successful Men Are Warriors.I was actually agreeing with you. I was just pointing out that power comes in many forms, and that it is rooted in your mindset. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Successful Men Are Warriors.Going forward, and given the likelihood of a more technological world, I think men are only going to be increasingly involved in STEM related activities. Not too many of us are gonna be out swinging swords, but we are fighting battles in everyday life. Overcoming obstacles, inventing things, creating new ideas, pushing the world forward. I think there is real value in redefining what we mean by "warrior". Focusing on the value of the discipline and mindset that goes along with that, even for the… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 04:55 PM |
| 1 | ANNOUNCEMENT: Karen Straughan (girlwriteswhat) AMA: Friday May 29th, 2015 at 11am EST/9AM MSTI think it's important to point out that RooshV and ROK don't speak for the Red Pill. They've been part of it, but they are not leaders of it. In fact, I would argue Roosh's more recent "tradcon" slant directly contradicts TRP philosophy. He's playing the blame game, and TRP flatly rejects any notion of victim mentality. Moreover, TRP is at its heart apolitical, since extreme political views directly contradict the TRP focus on pragmatic solutions, the inward focus on self-improvement and self-m… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/15 03:04 PM |
| 3 | VictimocracyYep, Karpman Drama Triangle, just rudimentary psychology 101 stuff. Amazing how unaware people are about the basics of human behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 05:24 AM |
| 18 | I am Karen Straughan [girlwriteswhat]; Ask Me Anything.While I understand your point, my response to this is always: why should women or feminists be able to define how we as men talk about male issues? Have you ever been in a male locker room? The way men talk amongst themselves is usually very raw and vulgar. It's how we communicate, how we connect. TRP is basically male locker room talk, and that's as it should be. We shouldn't have to tone it down for women. They can choose to go (e.g. RedPillWomen). I really don't think men should be telling wo… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 04:28 AM |
| 37 | I am Karen Straughan [girlwriteswhat]; Ask Me Anything.The ironic thing is that it is usually yourself, not your enemies, that lead to your downfall. Enemies make you sharper, stronger ... weakness comes from within. This applies to social groups and civilizations just as much as individuals. Feminism increasingly taking up indefensible positions that blatantly violate their core principles around feminism is about equality is a perfect example. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 01:16 AM |
| 23 | VictimocracyTo me, the common viewpoint we all share at TRP is a rejection of the modern pandemic of "victim mentality." Regardless of our other views about politics or race or whatever. The reality is that both ends of the political spectrum are just as bad about pointing the finger, blaming others for their struggles in life. It's one thing to critique, it's another thing to use it as an excuse. The left blames the patriarchy or sexism, the right blames homosexuals or atheism. Blah blah blah. Always someb… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/15 02:19 PM |
| 25 | In Wretched Defense of RooshI believe /u/Rollo-Tomassi tweeted out something about Roosh using the 48 Laws of Power in this case (the one about playing the victim and making it look like you were attacked). Except he's doing it on his own followers. Rather ironic I think. I wonder if any of them realize they are being played. Regardless, there is certainly some validity to saying that this sub could be improved in some ways. Anything can be improved. The issue is that Roosh chose to do that by calling us out in a public ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 09:10 PM |
| 3 | "When the Rapist Doesn't See It as Rape"The reason these false rape cases are pointed out is not to invalidate real rape victims, or argue over the probabilities of real vs. fake claims. The point is to show that both false rape allegations and actual rape wield the similar psychological and social damage to the victim (i.e. the falsely accused in the former case and the actual rape victim in the latter). They are both devastating to the individual in long term ways. The real issue is that neither the law nor society treats them equal… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 09:37 PM |
| 105 | Sluts, Hamstering, and Betas. r/relationships case file #892216God, the advice on that thread is just absolutely horrible. This beta dude wants the girl to be his slut ... he wants to feel a special bond with her, that includes sexually. Instead he finds out she was everyone else's slut, except his. How the fuck is he supposed to feel? All the morons over there are basically telling him to suck it up, get over it. That the couple can somehow still have something "special", he just has to get over it, be mature, blah blah blah. Bullshit. Maybe the girl, if s… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 04:23 AM |
| 7 | Chapter 17: In which PPD wets the bed, then triumphantly declares itself a sailor.The weapon against haters is laughter. This works for blue pillers. It works for shit tests. It works for people who are "just asking questions". It works for concern trolls, and disingenuous politicians, and feminists. Or to say it another way: Amused Mastery works on everyone. Always hold frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 01:24 AM |
| 11 | Dear Moderate Feminists: You Don't ExistI tend to be pretty libertarian when it comes to social policies, and so it doesn't bother me if gay people want to get married. If you're not bothering me or hurting anyone, then do whatever you want. I don't give a shit. But attributing those gains to feminism in any way is disingenuous at best. Feminism has always been mainly about white Western women. Even though they were always top 1% of privileged people in the world. More recently they've tried talking about the "kyriarchy", but it's a l… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 08:37 PM |
| 52 | Dear Moderate Feminists: You Don't ExistModern 3rd wave feminism is nothing more than bigotry. It is hypocrisy at its worst. Nothing more really needs to be said. Nice post, btw. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 08:30 PM |
| 13 | EntrepreneurshipThen why not go to r/seduction for sexual strategy too? The point of TRP is that all of these things are interconnected. When we talk about one, we are really talking about the other. Those other "specialized" subs don't see that. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 03:02 PM |
| 10 | EntrepreneurshipTRP is a mindset, my friend. It applies to sexual strategy, but it pervades all parts of life. If the only thing you care about is getting laid, making women your only real goal in life, then there is plenty of PUA stuff out there. If TRP doesn't pervade all parts of your life, then you haven't yet fully swallowed the pill. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 02:28 PM |
| 31 | 3 months, 3 years, or 30 – There is no cure.The goal of life is not women ... women are a by-product of a life well-lived. Priorities, brother. The problem is that marriage and LTRs can get in the way of other priorities. They can take you away from yourself. For instance, Sandman describes this in a recent video: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GgotVnwkXZg No one is saying you can't get married or be in an LTR. We're just saying you must be very very careful, and have realistic expectations. Find the right woman, realize she's probably stil… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 01:50 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill, let's talk about temporary/permanent health problems.Every man has a weakness of some sort. TRP, or being "alpha" for that matter, is not about being perfect. So you have a chronic illness ... nothing you can do about it. But what you can do is work harder in other areas of life: lifting, career, etc. Focus on building your strengths, and minimizing your weaknesses. And last off, don't be ashamed or hide from your weaknesses. Don't feel sorry for yourself, and don't expect anyone else to. But you know what, they're not fucking perfect either. Don'… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 10:26 PM |
| 1 | What should women do ?If a man pokes holes in the condoms and gets a woman pregnant, do you think that would be rape? Canadian courts say so--there's a man serving jail time for doing it, because that woman did not give "informed consent". She consented to protected sex, not unprotected sex. Yet in that ruling, it specifically stipulates that this cannot be used as a legal precedent when women lie about being on the pill. "Informed consent" is not "a thing" men are entitled to by law in my country. Because getting pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/15 05:58 PM |
| 3 | RooshV slams the Red PillThe movement started with Anti-Dump and Pook and others on SoSuave 1998-2005 ... all the shit Roosh says he lifted from them. Even most of the terminology. He's not the "father" of fucking anything. Just part of it. He doesn't even give credit where credit is due. Go read the Book of Pook or dig around in the archives on SoSuave, most of it was written before Roosh even started his first blog: https://bookofpook.neocities.org/ | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/15 04:30 AM |
| 4 | RooshV slams the Red PillIt's one thing to express constructive criticism. It's an entirely different thing to tear someone else down in order to raise yourself up. We have a term for the latter - it's called feminism. Roosh similarly called out MGTOW and Sandman on his forums a couple days ago. Sandman fired back that Roosh's criticism was "gynocentric" ... in a sense, it is. He's following the feminist playbook. Why? I have no idea. There was no provocation. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 08:21 PM |
| 6 | RooshV slams the Red PillSo pick your direction. Start marching in it and see who follows. Don't sit around trying to talk young men into following you no matter what direction you go in. Free Market Leadership ... think you may have just coined a new concept | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 07:16 PM |
| 5 | RooshV slams the Red PillRoosh similarly called out MGTOW and Sandman just the other day in his forums ... I get the sense he's just trying to stir up shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 07:08 PM |
| 32 | RooshV slams the Red PillI always thought Roosh's work was a little superficial, lacked the depth of insight that I saw in yours Rollo, or Roissy or /u/IllimitableMan ... Roosh always gave off that snake-oil saleman vibe. Not to say he hasn't contributed to the development of PUA and TRP over the years. I get what he's doing, still disappointing to see. No honor. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 05:05 PM |
| 52 | Post-wall, ugly female professor's bitter rant about her colleagues hitting up 20 year old coeds instead of her.Definitely. I never took any of the female students up on the offer during class (for obvious grading reasons), but I did take a few of them up on it after the semester was over. They were no less eager. This was a few years ago, when I was still in the early stages of swallowing the red pill, and at first I was like "What the fuck?" ... but over time I came to understand. They had this idealized view of me, painted by the power and sway I held. Women don't see you, they only see the ideal they'… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 11:21 PM |
| 6 | Post-wall, ugly female professor's bitter rant about her colleagues hitting up 20 year old coeds instead of her.I never took any of the students who hit on me up on the offer while class was going on (for obvious grading reasons). A few of them I did take up the offer after the semester was over ... they were no less eager. I don't think most of them were "playing the system", I think a lot of them were just sexually attracted to power. It's very red pill, actually. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 11:00 PM |
| 204 | Post-wall, ugly female professor's bitter rant about her colleagues hitting up 20 year old coeds instead of her.I taught undergraduate college courses part time for a few years. I literally got hit on by female students in every single class I taught. Now I'm a fairly good looking guy, fit, around 30 at the time, but no Brad Pitt or anything. It was just the the dynamic, it appealed to their inner nature ... I led, I was the captain of the ship. Power is fucking sexy to women. Feminist shaming tactics don't change that. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 10:29 PM |
| 14 | Karen Straughan (Girlwriteswhat) succinctly discusses that men don't hate women, and defends TRP. Good read!Funny that it's often Muppet jedis that are the most red pill of all ... In all seriousness though, the refusal to be driven by anger, hate, victimization, and/or the blaming of others is one of the defining characteristics of TRP. We try to see reality for what it is, but take ownership of our role in it. It is what sets us apart from feminism and the like. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 06:09 PM |
| 6 | Giant article called "Why it Pays to be a Jerk" Confirms RP Truths. Scientific studies cited.Or perhaps if TRP spreads widely enough, and enough men start to unplug. Pendulums were made to swing. The irony is that the lambasting of masculinity has as much to with our failure as men to collectively hold frame, as it does anything else. Feminism has been one giant shit test. But blaming others gets us nowhere. Hence, TRP. We are legion. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 04:06 PM |
| 42 | Giant article called "Why it Pays to be a Jerk" Confirms RP Truths. Scientific studies cited.This mostly rehashes a lot of RP truths, like you say. It is interesting to see the mainstream media start to realize that there may be some value to these "jerk" traits. The world is not all black and white, but many shades of gray. What's really going to be interesting is if in 5-10 years they are going to start to realize many of these "jerk" traits are actually an inherent part of male nature. And instead of lambasting "toxic masculinity" and feeding boys ADHD medicine like they've been doin… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Trying to do it all and feeling discouraged. Could use someone to talk to maybe.There's a lot of great advice in this thread, just thought I might add this: One day you will be old, maybe in a nursing home or whatever, not so mobile, etc., and you will look back fondly on your younger days when you were so busy, so full of life. It sounds to me like you are living life to the fullest, and while that may seem overwhelming at times, it is not an opportunity everyone has. All that pressure means you are needed. You bring value to the world and those around you. Embrace that. L… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/15 12:32 AM |
| 5 | Hypergamy is not some evil conspiracy, it's an evolutionary necessity.I think it's important to note that while we aren't feminists (equal outcomes), we aren't eugenics folks either . TRP are equal opportunists. 100% of men should have the opportunity to reproduce. But only a portion of them will (i.e. NOT equal outcomes). Who reproduces is decided via competition. It shouldn't be pre-determined (i.e. NOT eugenics). This is why TRP focuses on self-improvement and self-mastery. It's part of the bigger picture. It's good for the individual, it's good for society. Yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 11:49 PM |
| 30 | For the Girl Writes What fan boys, Karen Straughan lays down her opinion of TRPKaren Straughan knows her shit. She also does a good job of explaining a lot of Red Pill ideas from a very different perspective than what you normally see on here (admittedly she's more of a MRA of course). That Disposable Male video you linked has always been one of my favorites, really drives at the hypocrisy of modern society. Many of her other videos are great too. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 08:20 PM |
| 8 | Feminists Don't Actually Give a Fuck About WomenExactly. There is a lack of empirical evidence for most feminist positions, which is conveniently glossed over by most feminists and society-at-large. I once challenged a feminist on their concept of patriarchy. Feminists can't even agree on the meaning of the word, let alone run studies that prove its existence. Yet it forms the core of many of their arguments. Many other examples of course. Feminism is mostly conceptual, it's arguments mainly philosophical. The feminist came back with some sup… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 07:29 PM |
| 38 | Feminists Don't Actually Give a Fuck About WomenThat "victim mentality" is unfortunately ubiquitous in our modern era, almost a religion unto itself. Really, Feminism needs to be replaced by some philosophy that emphasizes the personal responsibility that comes with freedom. That a focus on self-improvement and self-mastery are critical. That one's unbridled feral nature is as much a cage as any other. TRP is such a philosophy. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Building Better WorldsI for one find the micro/macro fractal patterns connecting individual level behaviors and societal level behaviors to be one of the most fascinating aspects of TRP. Not only does it help me with my interactions with women, but my interactions with society on a broader scope day to day. And the further I go down that rabbit hole, the more I'm like "well shit" ... | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/15 11:13 PM |
| 4 | How would you argue against this statement? - "Men and women don't have distinctly different brains, rather, the circumstances inherent in being born a certain sex cause each to optimize their sexual strategy for the greatest personal benefit."No, but determining what is "better" overall depends on what you value. As well as the situational context - what's useful in one context may not be so useful in another. It's not really a productive debate. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/15 08:34 PM |
| 48 | How would you argue against this statement? - "Men and women don't have distinctly different brains, rather, the circumstances inherent in being born a certain sex cause each to optimize their sexual strategy for the greatest personal benefit."Well first off, the statement is factually incorrect. Testosterone floods the male body twice during a male's life, once in the womb and again around the onset of puberty. The effects on physiology, including brain structure and functioning, have been repeatedly shown in scientific studies, for example: The effect of testosterone on the formation of brain structures Wiki page Male behavior and fetal testosterone To be clear though, just because male and female brains are different, doesn't mean … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/15 03:46 PM |
| 6 | Redpillers, do you deny the male wall because you know you're destined to become beta bux?Science doesn't really back you up on that one ... examination of actual dating choices suggests that both genders are equally enamored by looks. Actually, there is plenty of data to support gender differences in age preferences for mate selection, for instance this article. This second chart also contains something very peculiar that we didn't see at all in men. Notice the vertical stripes at ages 20 and 29. These color discontinuities indicate dramatic changes in a woman's dating mentality: wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/15 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so few RPW subscribers compared to TRP?I have NEVER met a woman, blue pill or not, who was aiming to simply use marriage as a lottery ticket or intentionally trying to make their partner feel small. It is often the behaviors we do without being cognizant of them, that do the most damage. TRP doesn't think mating strategies and behaviors are necessarily intentional, or even good or bad. They are just part of our inherent nature. Behaviors that have helped keep our species alive for millenia. It simply "is" ... i.e. sexual mating strat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/15 02:04 PM |
| 12 | Something within TRP "guidelines" I feel that I struggle with - Hypocrisy.Women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers of commitment. A female sexual slut is equivalent to a male emotional slut. If you ran around every weekend telling every woman you met that you loved them madly, wanted to have their babies, and would do anything for them forever and ever ... do you think they would have any respect for you? No, they would think you were a weak man. They might use you of course for a free dinner or two, perhaps make you a beta orbiter and get you to buy … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/15 12:02 PM |
| 5 | Building Better Worldsin men, this independence is not just a novelty, but it’s been distorted into being an obsessive-compulsive sign of a man’s imagined insecurities. The very strength and independence men have always been expected to embody is the domain of women, while any hope for it from men is a sign of a fragile ego. What women do on an individual level is simply a microcosm of what they do as a group on a societal level. The past 50-100 years have been one gigantic shit test. And we as men have failed it mis… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/15 11:48 AM |
| 38 | Status and Money; Men and Women at the top of the heap live differently that the rest of us. There's a lesson for the RedPill life in here for all.For the vast majority of civilized human history, marriage was more of an economic or business arrangement. It's only been in the last century or so that the idea of marriage for love has spread throughout Western cultural ideology. Part of our disney-esque fantasy notions about love and relationships. In some ways, these rich people are throwbacks I suppose. But alternatively you could also say they are implementing marriage for the original purpose it was meant to serve. There may be some wisd… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/15 10:40 PM |
| 11 | Why are there so few RPW subscribers compared to TRP?The issue is that modern day feminism in its current form is neither good for men or women. Men are not happy. Moreover, women aren’t either. I think the difference is that men were quicker to feel the negative effects, particularly the Millenial generation that is just now reaching their 20's and 30's. And as more and more men unplug and/or remove themselves from the marriage market (also this source), it only exacerbates things for women. But women are starting to see through the illusions we'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/15 07:54 PM |
| 33 | No one cares about low value males.I agree with this mostly, but perhaps a small tweak: We as TRP don't help these guys per se ... we expect them to help themselves. To put in the hard work. We simply show them the way. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/15 01:32 PM |
| 1 | There is no brotherhood and most other men aren't your friends either.Amused Mastery works on men, just as well as women. No need to overtly "put anyone in their place." | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 11:23 PM |
| 10 | There is no brotherhood and most other men aren't your friends either.It is a fine line, and certainly you have to be prepared to defend yourself. But let's be clear: modern women would like nothing better than to play men off against each other. Divide and conquer. It increases their own power in the sexual marketplace. Remember what Pook said: Be the Prize. A prize doesn't fight over being the prize. It simply "is". It becomes it. A prize is relative to its value, which, in a human sense, can be increased through hard work, self-improvement, and self-mastery. Sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 09:11 PM |
| 84 | There is no brotherhood and most other men aren't your friends either.It is not necessary to tear someone else down in order to raise yourself up. We have a word for that approach - it's called feminism. Men are a brotherhood. Or at least those who see the world through a red pill lens. True, we compete against each other. But competition should breed respect. If you feel like you must undercut your competition, sucker punch them, or anything like that, then you are full of blue pill beta bullshit. Jealousy is for the timid. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Broken Women: A Lesson in Game and LifeYeah, I linked Rollo's story in the original post, but maybe some didn't see it. It is a compelling story, as are all the stories in the BPD superthread over at SoSuave. All you can do is shake your head, and take off the blinders. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Broken Women: A Lesson in Game and LifeI've read a lot of Rollo's work, I think he is just trying to provide quality information. A lot of men mis-use or misunderstand it though. They are stuck in the anger stage. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Broken Women: A Lesson in Game and LifeThis is true. A lot of men do not understand the stages of the Red Pill, and never make it past the anger stage. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 03:14 PM |
| 8 | I'm convinced that my condo is cockblocking meThe other option is to run low-level dread from the start. Make it clear you have other options, remain aloof. Relationships are transactional. There is something we want. Women understand this better than men. So make it clear that you can get what you want from elsewhere. Let her hamster do the work for you. If you really are a top-20% man, and she wants your attention, she knows how to get it. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Broken Women: A Lesson in Game and LifeAll women are a challenge, to varying degrees. Shit testing and the like, AWALT. It's a difference of degree, not kind. We don't "fix" others, we fix ourselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Broken Women: A Lesson in Game and LifeI think it is in most men's nature to be protective of women, and of course social conditioning only reinforces that, almost to an abusive degree in the modern era. Pedestalize women. White knight them. Put yourself second. All we get in return is denigrated for our masculinity, denigrated for our male sexuality. Your story is the tale of many modern men. We have been led astray. Beguiled by illusion. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Broken Women: A Lesson in Game and LifeYes. We don't "fix" others, we fix ourselves. Lead by example. Challenges are meant to drive us forward. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/15 12:09 AM |
| 74 | Don't blame women. Blame yourself.Posted this before, but it bears repeating: You have to be the rock. Let her storms rage around you. Don't react, at all. Or at most act amused. Reacting only plays into the game. Understanding that takes the onus off of you, and puts it on her. Which is where it should be. This is her drama. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/15 03:20 PM |
| 2 | The Double Standard on Criticizing Opposite Sex's AppearanceReminds me of one of Rollo's classic posts: The Qualities of the Prince | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/15 12:23 AM |
| 13 | Bret Easton Ellis on Generation WussInteresting quote. Nothing in this world improves without honest reflection, without honest critique. It takes iron to make steel. A sword must be forged in fire. TRP sees this at a personal level: honest self-reflection and self-criticism are necessary for real self-improvement. What is interesting is that the individual level and societal level are reflections of each other. They are a macrocosm/microcosm of each other. What applies to the individual applies to society. Take honest self-reflec… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/15 12:17 AM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling sorry for yourself?Ruminating on the past is a bridge to nowhere. You can't change it, so why worry about it? There is no one in this world who doesn't make mistakes. Those mistakes make you who you are. You learn from them (at least if you're RP, you do). You become better than you were the day before. Take those mistakes or poor choices or whatever away, and you wouldn't be the same person. You must fall to rise. You must break to recreate. A sword must be forged in fire. Be the sword. You feel sorry about the t… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/15 04:51 PM |
| 13 | Red Pill 201: Masculine Power vs Feminine PowerPerhaps, but I believe that "the beautiful ones" equates more to what happens to betas during this process. A good example are the "herbivores" in Japan. I see TRP as more of a push-back against this tide. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 05:58 PM |
| 22 | Red Pill 201: Masculine Power vs Feminine PowerWhat you get is increasingly masculinized women, and feminized men. This throws the balance completely off, because a woman seeking the reception of masculine energy will not find it as readily from men. And vice-versa. Scientific evidence of this exact phenomenon occurring in mammal populations: John B. Calhourn's "Mouse Utopia" experiments Among the aberrations in behavior were the following: expulsion of young before weaning was complete, wounding of young, inability of dominant males to main… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Girl broke up with me. One day after, she regrets it and "wants me back”. How should I go about this?Well first of all you should give her some radio silence. You pull away a little. Let her push. Push pull dynamics. Second, you are gonna need a mix of the two options above (Serious/Fatherly and DGAF). Basically you should operate as DGAF most of the time. At some point she might press you to talk about things, and that's when you switch into Serious/Fatherly mode. Assert your boundaries. But keep it short and sweet. Say things matter of fact, don't whine or act butthurt. Just say "this is what… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 03:42 PM |
| 5 | Girl broke up with me. One day after, she regrets it and "wants me back”. How should I go about this?Yeah, she came begging for you back, so I'd say you handled the shit test pretty well. But the shit test is not over. You are at the denouement of it. This part is critical. You are right that you can't let her think that that sort of behavior is completely fine. But you do that not by "punishing" her, or letting her sense it affected you in any way. Don't be butthurt. Don't be cold. Be stoic, nonchalant. Tell her you'll think about getting back together. Let her feel your hesitance. Your outcom… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 03:21 PM |
| 9 | Girl broke up with me. One day after, she regrets it and "wants me back”. How should I go about this?So I seek your advice on how I should go about this. I want to do this from a position of power. She is to feel that this is her final straw, and must work even harder to please me and gain my affection There is no such thing as a "final straw". She will do this forever, again and again. Shit testing. If you get a different woman, she'll do it too. There is nothing you can do to make it stop. She does it because she wants to feel your strength. It is your masculine gift. Her shit testing is a wa… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 02:55 PM |
| 2 | A Question: Is there a second Carousel?I was talking about the paloelithic age. If we're talking about pre-civilization, then yes if you remove non-natural deaths, people could live till 45-50. The thing is, in the paleolithic most people didn't die from natural causes. Even an infected cut was life threatening. The life expectancy back then was about 35. If you could make it to adulthood, you might be able to live longer, like mid 40's. Here's the wiki page about this. Note that anthropologists argue alot about this, and peg the ave… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 11:40 PM |
| 18 | TRP has been an eye opener, but now what?There are some LTR-worthy women out there, my friend, if that's what you want. Just remember they still aren't fucking unicorns, and you still have to apply TRP principles. Find one, vet her ruthlessly, and then maybe pass on your genes or whatever. Till then work on yourself, learn new stuff, lift, spin some plates, etc. Just remember that you will always have to stay on your game, keep your edge. The ideal of finding some "safe comfort" where you relax is a false promise. Let that go. Those wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 08:09 PM |
| 13 | Sexual Assholes and Emotional SlutsIt's not about being an "asshole", brother. It's about being the prize. Value yourself, have strong boundaries, be hard to obtain. Never put anything on a pedestal. Always be willing to walk away. That's not an asshole ... it's a man who respects himself, and expects others to do so as well. Just remember that respect is earned. Work on yourself, become the prize. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 07:56 PM |
| 6 | Sexual Assholes and Emotional SlutsYeah I remember that thread posted on this sub here too. Even used the same term "emotional slut." Even if she didn't steal it, just goes to show you that RP ideas are out there in popular discourse, just without a lot of the terminology. It's why I laugh when people call TRP "radical". | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 07:48 PM |
| 5 | A Question: Is there a second Carousel?Humans natural life span in the wild is only about 35 years. Modern medicine and science of course allow us to live much longer. Since a lot of TRP theory is rooted in principles of evolutionary psychology, we obviously focus on those first 35-40 years of life. As for what happens after that, presumably the hypergamous instincts are still operating in human females. A 2nd carousel is plausible ... I certainly have been hit on by enough cougars at bars to make me wonder. The question would really… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/15 07:35 PM |
| 25 | [Mod] The Red Pill is not democratic. It cannot be in order to be a viably beneficial system for men.I think the mods do a great job here, and try to minimize all the noise and distraction. Obviously agree with everything the OP stated. That said, I think it is important to emphasize that we do encourage debate and discussion here, just so long as it remains within bounds. TRP, as a philosophy, rests on a number of axioms and assumptions. Feminism does as well ... so do Stoicism, Rationalism, etc. Those base axioms and assumptions are not "provable" in any empirical sense, never will be. This i… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 02:51 PM |
| 10 | AWALT in other countries too. These women inadvertently identify and prove EVERY main TRP tenet. Video inside.This is an interesting video, and some good analysis OP. I've dated girls from 4 continents, and dozens of countries (including a Korean girl), and one thing I will say is that, yes, AWALT. There is variation, but the patterns are there. In fact, seeing that women from all different backgrounds had these similar instinctive patterns was one of the things that put the final nail in swallowing the pill for me. Good advice for new red pillers to experience some women from different backgrounds, cul… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 02:10 PM |
| 17 | Just read The Book of Pook. Basically TRP cliff notes and every newbie should read.TRP did grow out of the early PUA communities in many ways ... it was PUA that laid the groundwork back 10-20 years ago. The PUAs were the first to notice inherent patterns in modern female behavior, which they utilized of course to maximize their pickup success. Others came along later and realized there was deeper meaning. The Book of Pook was one of earliest tenets of "game theory", and thus one of the antecedents that led to TRP. Really, it should be required reading for any red piller. Pook… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 11:59 AM |
| 13 | Just got cheated on for a ChadLike everyone else says: READ THE SIDEBAR. Also read The Book of Pook, at least the Fifteen Lessons. There's also some threads on good TRP books to read, just search for them. While binge-reading all of that, you should also start hitting the gym and lifting. A sound body makes for a sound mind, and vice versa. And re-focus on your life mission. You have a business, in school, a career, whatever ... what's your passion in life? If you don't have one, time to find it. You want to swallow the pill… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 02:33 AM |
| 38 | "We are working on changes to make reddit a safer space for discourse."I understand your point ... but why should we allow feminism, fem-centric social conventions, and misandry to define the way we as men talk about male issues? Women talk about men however they want, objectify us, call us pigs, denigrate masculinity ... and society thinks that is all completely fine. That's bullshit. Rollo has pointed this out before. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/15 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Different RoadsDifferent people are at different stages of TRP. That is something you have to accept, each of us must go through it. So yeah, sure, many posts on here are in the Anger phase, but we were all once there. For those of us who are past that, it is up to us to help our fellow brethren to move beyond it. Not to simply walk away. I'll steal from /u/Whisper 's post on the 5 stages of TRP, since I can't link: Denial: "Women aren't like that! They're people just like everyone else! Treat them all as indi… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/15 05:16 PM |
| 77 | "We are working on changes to make reddit a safer space for discourse."The ironic thing about "free speech" is that it is often the more moderate voices that get shouted down. Is anything we are saying here on TRP all that radical? We've got people on here discussing Nietzsche, David Hume, and Marcus Aurelius. People basing their arguments on scientific evidence, evolutionary psychology, and rational thought. The only thing "radical" or "vitriolic" about TRP is that we don't fit into mainstream thought. But most things didn't when first conceptualized. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/15 04:47 PM |
| 7 | The frustrating part about discussions that concern race and game, one I hope improves over time.This is golden advice. We could all make excuses about something: too fat, too ugly, too poor, too short, too stupid, too shy, etc. etc. We all have strengths and weaknesses. But here's a little nugget of TRP truth: Stop Making Fucking Excuses If there is something you want in life, go fucking get it. Life's not always fair, and you may not get everything you want, but nobody does. The only thing holding you back is you. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 11:41 PM |
| 4 | Not interested in approaching girls?But if I had my perfect body, I wouldn't have to worry about shit. There will always be shit to worry about. This ideal of reaching some point where you can relax is a false promise. You must always stay on your game, always keep your edge. There will always be some other obstacle, some challenge, something to overcome. Embrace it. That is the way of TRP. Also, everything /u/karmasutur3 said, listen closely. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/15 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Not interested in approaching girls?You should definitely hold your standards. But what, do you think all these girls are perfect or something? All of them are flawed, some of them horribly flawed. They aren't unicorns or special snowflakes. Why do you think you have to be perfect to get them? Take off the rose-colored glasses, brother. Depedestalize that shit ... | /r/askTRP | 06/05/15 10:57 PM |
| 2 | The Best Sex She EVER HadThere is an element of control using sex for any female. It is part of the arsenal mother nature has equipped her with, part of the biological imperative of any species. It is neither good nor bad, it simply "is". Sexual mating strategy is amoral, after all. But don't doubt such machinations are in play any time you strip down to do the deed, regardless whether they are conscious or subconscious. Be aware, be very aware. You have to play the game too, or get played. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 07:32 PM |
| 6 | (Guide) How to Win Respect and Attraction: Be a Free AgentLike that water analogy. It is natural to "go with the flow", but real success often requires bucking that notion. To do something great, something truly different, requires carving your own path. As Pook said: Be the Prize. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 07:26 PM |
| 1 | TRP, This is my Story, or how my Oneitis nearly stabbed meWe all exhibit BPD traits from time to time. People with full blown BPD though are like that to the nth degree. You can take solace in the fact that your experience will make you better prepared to deal with all women. Better able to assert your own boundaries in relationships. It is a valuable lesson, a painful gift. A sword must be forged in fire. Stronger, better, wiser. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 11:10 PM |
| 11 | SJW protest at Cornell UniversityVictim mentality is all-pervasive in our current society. Women, Men, blacks, whites, Asians, Trans, Cis, poor, rich etc. etc. etc. ... everyone is a victim. For example, feminism blaming misogyny. Yet, I can show you plenty of examples of a white women being racist. It's like the pot calling the kettle black. It gets us nowhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 05:12 PM |
| 0 | Shit testing during ovulationI think you played that pretty well OP. There are definitely patterns to shit tests, and although different girls will have some variation, they all fall into these patterns: Escalation of frequency during the early stage (e.g. first 3 months) of the relationship, eventually hitting an inflection point and falling into a stable cycle. Patterns related to their ovulation cycle. It all has to do with women's seeking alpha instincts. It's critical as a man to be aware of these patterns. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 05:08 PM |
| 5 | TRP, This is my Story, or how my Oneitis nearly stabbed meWhile one can't really diagnose anyone over the internet, I'm just gonna suggest that she sounds like she has some BPD traits, maybe even full-blown BPD (BPD = Borderline Personality Disorder). Definitely a troubled woman either way. I would run, dude. No contact. Don't even bother with the Black Knighting shit, she might get even crazier in response. Some resources: Spotting and Avoiding Cluster B women How a BPD relationship evolves Deception and BPD | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 01:44 PM |
| 1 | What are your personal problems with TRP ?Saying things are different doesn't imply that one is better than the other. Women are more neotenous, that doesn't make them any better or worse than men. They are just different. Those are all just statistics, not scientific studies. I can provide just as many counterexamples to the concept of patriarchy and male privelege: for instance, nearly 60% of college students are now female, over 70% of divorces are initiated by women, 80% of suicides are men, most homeless people are men, 92% of work… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/15 01:17 PM |
| 1 | What are your personal problems with TRP ?Well, take for instance the feminist concept of patriatchy. Feminists can't even agree on the meaning of the word, let alone run studies that prove its existence. Yet it forms the core of many of their arguments. Many other examples of course. Feminism is mostly conceptual, it's arguments mainly philosophical. It's interesting you raise the "women are children" thing. You realize that that is also based on a scientific concept, known as neoteny. Neoteny is defined as maintaining more child-like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/15 01:13 AM |
| 1 | What are your personal problems with TRP ?There aren't empirical studies backing up most feminist positions, but that doesn't seem to keep you from assuming they are valid ... hmm Anyway, I posted in another thread here a few weeks back about how one could conduct a valid experiment to test for hypergamy (this). It's generally difficult to do those kind of studies on humans, and IRB boards can be reluctant. The best scientific evidence we have is from human population genetics studies (like this one), as well as studying male/female beh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/15 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Effects of swallowing the pill on relationships with other men.Dating is a zero sum game. If he gets the hottest chick, I don't. Careful here, this is feminist tactic 101. Lower the standards, rather than raise yourself up. For example, the whole fat acceptance thing, big women are beautiful too. "Just be yourself". Rather than demanding the best of themselves, they focus on making it easier for themselves. Don't fear the competition, my friend. Strong men will force you to become stronger. That's a good thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 09:24 PM |
| 1 | What are your personal problems with TRP ?AWALT doesn't mean that all women are exactly the same. It just refers to patterns of instinctive female behavior, the manifestations of which vary from woman to woman. AWALT is a spectrum, but the underlying patterns are roughly the same. Men have instinctive patterns too. All animals exhibit instinctive behavior. Read this if you want to understand better. As for misogyny, the definition refers to a dislike or contempt for women. Most heterosexual TRP folks love women. But unlike the rest of s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/15 06:56 PM |
| 6 | The Male WallI agree most men would value those things. But we can't live in fear of never finding them. And we can't let such fear drive us. It's about priorities - women are not the goal, they are a by-product of a life well-lived. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 06:37 PM |
| 33 | Effects of swallowing the pill on relationships with other men.As we start to adopt self-improvement and TRP as core principles, it's easy to slip into a competitive mode with other men, even subconsciously. You may be putting out those nonverbal cues without even realizing, which can come off as subtly confrontational. Hence the changes in your interactions with other men. All primate males do it (e.g. chimpanzees), it is referred to as posturing. The thing to keep in mind is that you are not really competing with other men, rather you are competing with y… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 06:20 PM |
| 1 | What are your personal problems with TRP ?I don't think you really understand the concept of AWALT. Also, I'm not sure you understand the definition of the word "misogyny" (or misandry for that matter). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/15 04:55 PM |
| 1 | RedPillers : How would you describe TRP theory in a few sentences.TRP is about a positive male identity, which is sorely lacking in the modern Western world. It is the non-emasculated father and male role model that many children never had. The thing is, weak male identity hurts women as well. Little girls need a strong father too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/15 04:45 PM |
| 14 | The Male WallYeah, you have to let go of the idea that you will ever reach a point where you can totally relax, let your guard down, lose your edge, etc. Those are false promises. And even if you achieved them, your life would become meaningless. For what is life without some challenge to overcome, some dream to achieve? Let your guard down, and someone will take away the things you value, or your wife will ditch you as per her hypergamous instincts. Stay on your toes, brother. Always. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 04:22 PM |
| 27 | The Male WallFrom all the terminology you use, it seems like you seek comfort in external validation: a man settles down with a wife and kids, pays off the house, sends the kids to college, and spends the last decades of his life enjoying what he has built, and watching his kids grow up I like the idea of retiring in my old age and just sharing my success with a family, offering advice and assistance to my children, etc no one significant in your life lonely older guys who are out of place 60 years old, with… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 02:04 PM |
| 6 | [Mod] May 2015 TRP Address 110,000: Surpassing mensrights - the men who saw the problem, then doubled down on their worldview.Social movements are most effective when they can impart a change in thinking, not just a change in law. That's why those "seeds" you mention are so critical. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 05:11 PM |
| 31 | The TRP Field Toolkit - Part 3: Shit tests and Comfort testsSilence really is golden. Cannot emphasize that enough, especially in the face of shit tests. Too many men are enchanted by "the magic of action." We are doers after all, it is in our nature. But if you do nothing, say nothing, you avoid the trap of doing/saying the wrong thing. You have to be the rock. Let her storms rage around you. Don't react, at all. Or at most act amused. Reacting only plays into the game. Understanding that takes the onus off of you, and puts it on her. Which is where it … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 07:10 PM |
| 2 | The red pill in as few words as possible.Nice post. I think your emphasis on boundaries really provides a good theoretical connection to the science of psychology and interpersonal relationships. They've been saying similar stuff about boundaries for years. I think where TRP really diverges is in how we interpret what boundaries are. That they are tied to our self worth, so that strong boundaries require an emphasis on self-improvement. In contrast, alot of what we've been told by social conditioning is really about having weak boundar… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 11:41 PM |
| -2 | How could a man love a promiscuous or older woman if he has options?Social conditioning and disney-esque fantasy ideals of love have convinced many modern men that "women are the fairer sex, pure, made of sugar and spice, and everything nice." A woman slept with 20 men? Well it must not be her fault, she was used. Or maybe she was empowered, independent, you go girl! No worries, we'll find an excuse, one way or the other. A woman cannot be to blame, for she is "virtue and purity rolled into one". She just needs a white knight to save her. TRP is all about callin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/15 04:26 PM |
| 8 | Is my passion going to lower my SMV?I like being outdoors, camping, backpacking, that kind of stuff. I've always liked it when a girl was into similar stuff. The key though is still to maintain your feminine element, e.g. don't start wearing flannel or dressing like a lumberjack or stop shaving your legs etc. You can be outdoorsy or woodsy and still be cute, still have that feminine charm. Men want women who are feminine, whose polarity complements their own. Beyond that, there is room for variability. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/15 04:17 PM |
| 82 | The source of your power stems from the ability to walk awayThis really is a key point. You must always maintain some level of detachment in any relationship. You must always be willing to walk away. If you find this mindset hard to adopt, just remember the following: All relationships will end, either thru departure or death or something else. Like everything else in life, they are ephemeral. Things come and go. You cannot hold them. You cannot possess them. They were there for a time, but they were never yours. Value the time you had, but never put any… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 03:53 PM |
| 3 | RooshV vs. Dr. Oz - On Fat-Shaming90% of healthcare costs (at least in the U.S.) are from chronic illnesses, not acute things that might affect "healthy" individuals. Someone living 20 years with diabetes will cost more than a "healthy" person who lives 30 years. All that said, the vast majority of elderly people have at least one chronic illness. Lifestyle choices, like long-term obesity, simply exacerbate them. Retirement costs in general are a whole 'nother problem of course. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 01:33 AM |
| 5 | RooshV vs. Dr. Oz - On Fat-ShamingThe problem is, given the communal sharing of healthcare costs in most Westernized nations, that we as a society bear the burden when these people develop diabetes and/or other obesity-related illnesses later in life. Sure, it may be harder for a few of them to lose weight (due to genetics or whatever), but that is no excuse. Do we tell the kid who struggles with academics, "just drop out of school, no big deal", or do we tell them to buckle down and work harder? They are a burden to society, si… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 12:34 AM |
| 8 | [Field Report] The Workplace: Breeding Ground for HypergamyOnce you go full beta, it's like you don't even exist. Truth. The most critical times to hold frame are usually when it's hardest to do so. Never forget that. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 11:53 PM |
| 29 | Become the Man who Turns Down SexA women's number one priority is to be desired. That comes in various forms, but sexually desired is one of them. Bear in mind they sometimes don't even intend to follow thru with it (i.e. engage in the sexual act), depending on the guy. They just want the attention, the validation ... to feel desired. They all hamster that we all want to fuck them all the time, even the ugly and fat ones. That they are in control. As such, refusing sex with them strikes right at the core of their own self-image… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Military BootcampThere is probably truth in what you are both saying. The real question is: do egalitarian movements ever lead to truly egalitarian societies? I think history tells us "not usually", often we end up with some form of oligarchy. Egalitarian movements in that sense are perhaps part of the natural fluidity of hierarchies. Power shifts, in short. A rigid hierarchy never lasts. But neither does a lack of social structure. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/15 06:50 PM |
| 2 | I just finished "No More Nr Nice Guy." What next to read?The Book of Pook should be at the top of your list. Models, as others have said is good. Year one of the Rational Male too. "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida is also good. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/15 04:43 PM |
| 74 | Military BootcampAll primates form hierarchies. It is in our nature. It's interesting that so many modern philosophies make the assumption that a few thousand years of cultural evolution can completely erase our biological instincts. It is an assumption based on nothing, other than wishful thinking. It's the same assumption that the universe is centered around the earth, that we were made by god, that humans are special. We may able to suppress our instincts to some degree, but they are still there ... they stil… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/15 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Keep yourself in check. Visit /r/thebluepillFunny that they pay us a sort of strange homage by using the same Matrix metaphors as their name. As per the Matrix reference, isn't The Blue Pill equivalent to choosing to live in illusion. Is that even a position you can take in a philosophical debate ... isn't it sort of the equivalent of putting your fingers in yours and going "nananana I can't hear you"? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/15 02:17 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Women need to be as charming, engaging, and interesting as men for a relationshipFeminism doesn't base many of its arguments on science or anything. They are often philosophical arguments at best. I can provide plenty of sources, on feminism and no-fault divorce for example, with women initiating 70% of divorces now ... but why should we go hunt down sources for you? Go read all the video links on the /r/MensRights/ sub where you can hear feminists saying this stuff themselves, in their own words. Or Google all the "slut walks" going on at college campuses. It's not that har… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/15 10:41 PM |
| 13 | CMV: Women need to be as charming, engaging, and interesting as men for a relationshipFeminism believes that women should be able to do whatever the hell they want, with little to no accountability. You should be able to get blackout drunk, but if something happens, it's not your fault. Dress like a slut, but God forbid anyone look at you sexually. Go sleep with 100 men, but still expect a man to make you his "princess for life" when you're 35. If you're unhappy, divorce rape him. Take half his shit. Become a cougar. You go girl! It is empowerment, with little to no responsibilit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/15 09:18 PM |
| 16 | CMV: Women need to be as charming, engaging, and interesting as men for a relationshipIf they are women who would put in the effort, why wouldn't men just leave the uninteresting women for the charming and engaging women? Charming, engaging women? TRP refers to these as unicorns. They are exceedingly rare and hard to find. Some women can put up a facade of such for a few months, but it is often just a guise. Feminism has told women for generations that they don't have to improve themselves. That men should accept them for "who they are." 100 pounds overweight, no problem. Useless… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/15 06:11 PM |
| 22 | You are not a victim.I think it's fair to say that there are certainly real victims in the world, including some men. Some people get fucked over in various ways. Some people were just at the wrong place at the wrong time. The real point of TRP is not to have a victim mentality. We all could probably claim being victims one way or another. All of us can make excuses, all of us can blame others. But that accomplishes nothing. The world is not fair. You can only control yourself, your choices. You have to raise yourse… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 10:27 PM |
| 13 | Columbia U. Rape Mattress Girl Story Comes Full CircleSort of. Make no mistake, they like being on the pedestal. They like the validation. They like having beta orbiters, they just won't fuck them. The feminine mystique is their outward guise. Subconsciously though, you're right, they don't want to be on the pedestal ... it ignites their hypergamous instincts. Drives them fucking crazy, but they don't know why. Just some incoherent babble about their feelz. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 05:37 PM |
| 37 | Columbia U. Rape Mattress Girl Story Comes Full CircleI think it's broader than "teaching women not to lie about rape." They need to be held accountable for their actions, their choices. That expectation needs to be drilled into them, it needs to be drilled into our societal principles. It starts by taking them off the pedestal. Women are not virtuous creatures. Not the fairer sex. They are capable of just as many Machiavellan machinations as any other. Illusions otherwise only end up leading us astray. Fairy tales are for children. Depedestalize t… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 03:11 PM |
| 7 | Never show weakness. She is not on your side.Reminds me of the Book of Pook: A servant you'll be, a friend she'll see. Respect is all. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 11:38 PM |
| 5 | [FR] LTR'd a feminist when I was betaAs has been said many times on here, LTRs are the true test of frame. If you think you are going to magically find "the one", then get to slip back into your comfortable beta ways, you're just bullshitting yourself. Hold frame at all times. That is the way of men. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 08:47 PM |
| 1 | How important is lifting really, if you maintain fitness otherwise?I love to run too, but any long distance endurance type training takes a toll on your body. Cortisol actually rises in those cases. More moderate cardio (like a 10k or less) is not as stressful on the body. All that said, I still run, but usually keep it under 5 miles. Nothing beats running outdoors, or trail running through the woods. But I lift too. Total body fitness. The reality is that a good mix of the two can be good for you long term. Strength training improves cardiovascular health, and… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/15 12:42 AM |
| 17 | Train Your Women To Re-Rack Their WeightsFunny how the cardio bunnies enjoy running on a fixed, rotating device without actually ever going anywhere... I seem to recall a specific furry animal that enjoys doing the same exact thing... Ha, clutch analogy. Think you just won the Internet today | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 12:10 AM |
| 10 | Bear Grylls the Island (keeping you guys updated)There are a few outliers out there, and I wager most of them grew up with an absolutely solid father figure. It is rather ironic that modern feminism, with its embrace of single motherhood and denigration of fatherhood, is actually negatively impacting the lives of young women by removing a strong father figure. Generations of fucked up women the result. Way to accomplish the exact opposite of what you set out to do, feminists. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 12:06 AM |
| 5 | High School Academics Do Not MatterIt's essentially in computer science, mostly do AI and robotics stuff nowadays. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 11:58 PM |
| 48 | High School Academics Do Not MatterTRP is about self-mastery, being a well-rounded man. That means excelling in every facet of life, to the best of your abilities. Making excuses about one area is not TRP, it is the opposite. You're socially awkward, so you make excuses about approaching. You aren't very athletic, so you make excuses about lifting. You struggle with academic or intellectual pursuits, so you make excuses about school. I'll sum up TRP for you short and simple: Stop Making Fucking Excuses I am by no means perfect. B… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/04/15 02:05 PM |
| 9 | Some people are beyond help. Don't bother.And in a nutshell, you just laid out the hypocrisy of feminism, my friend. Empowered yet victimized. Independent yet lacking agency. Feminists simply don whatever mask suits them at the time. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 12:25 AM |
| 6 | Fail Report: all your progress only helps you if you don't break frame or regress to your beta waysThis is a great field report, and illustrates a critical RP point that is sometimes omitted on this sub: The more desirable the girl (relative her SMV to yours), and the further along you make it, the thicker the shit tests will come. Up until an inflection point. You must hold strong frame until you reach this inflection point. Cause even a beta can have frame at first. The escalation underlies that shit tests are a process, not isolated incidents. They are seeking alpha. The only way for them … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/15 11:43 PM |
| 51 | Found a website of women admitting that TRP is true, and it's in their nature and they can't help it.Real freedom is the ability to make both good and bad choices. Without both, there is no freedom. Really the issue is that modern day feminism in its current form is neither good for men or women. It misguided generations of them both, in different ways. Really, feminism needs to be replaced by some philosophy that emphasizes the personal responsibility that comes with freedom. That a focus on self-improvement and self-mastery are critical. That one's unbridled feral nature is as much a cage as … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/15 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Another one see the Truth. Feminism exposed.1st and 2nd wave feminism were about equality, not equity. Men and women are the same. Anything men can do, women can do just as well, and vice versa. Are men doing better in some respect? Well we need to equal it out, lower the standards, affirmative action, shame masculine behavior. Denigrate their sexuality, hold them back. The goal being some androgynous society, a real world Harrison Bergeron story ... but yet men are still expected to carry the burden. Fight the wars, do the dangerous jobs… | /r/MensRights | 20/04/15 03:10 AM |
| 7 | Another one see the Truth. Feminism exposed.Sorry, I'm not a feminist in any way, shape, or form. I don't fight for their goals either. I believe that everyone deserves equity (a fair chance), but not equality (the same outcome). Everyone deserves an opportunity, but if you fuck it up, you fuck it up. You have to earn it. I believe that accountability and personal responsibility are just as important as empowerment. With great power comes great responsibility. Empowerment, without accountability, only leads to entitlement. Feminism has al… | /r/MensRights | 20/04/15 02:15 AM |
| 13 | Another one see the Truth. Feminism exposed.How can you be a 1st wave feminist in the present day? Those goals have long ago been achieved throughout the Western world. That's like saying you're an abolitionist in the modern day U.S. ... uh yeah, we already freed the slaves, 150 years ago ... you're a bit late to the party ... | /r/MensRights | 19/04/15 10:01 PM |
| 9 | Interactions with my neighbor: Is this that entitlement thing everyone keeps talking about?Check your privelege, dude. You should give her all your hard earned shit. She's entitled to it, cause her feelz say so. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/15 08:57 PM |
| 1 | The theory that women stop maturing mentally in their teensThis is based on the principle of neoteny. Neoteny is defined as maintaining more child-like characteristics into adulthood. It is one of the characteristics of humans relative to our primate relatives. Additionally, in humans, females are more neotenous than males. The things we define as feminine (smaller bodies, less body hair, more delicate jawline) are all neotenous traits. The TRP stance is such neotenous development also affects women mentally and psychologically. The statement that they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/15 08:45 PM |
| 7 | Things I've learned as a 19-year-old in collegeHaving a boyfriend is never your end goal. You must keep improving yourself as a woman and that's gonna take time. This is spot on. If you truly want a top notch man, you have to make yourself worthy of him. You must become the mirror that reflects his aura. And a good mirror is a polished one. Your other options are either to be used as a plate or settle for a beta. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/15 02:52 PM |
| 7 | A young guy's confession: Feel like even if I improve a lot and am a better version of myself in the future, the game will never be this fun, easy, and amazing.You define your quality of life mainly by your access to women? Priorities, brother. Women are the by-product of a life well-lived, not the goal. Depedestalize that shit | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/15 01:43 PM |
| 9 | Dancing MonkeysMen are only worthwhile given their utility. We are status objects, in much the same way that women are sex objects. The difference is that men are shamed for treating women that way nowadays, while women are exalted for treating men that way (e.g. "you go girl"). | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/15 04:45 AM |
| 17 | Women in Western Countries - Do you Feel Like A Lot of Claims About Sexism Against Women Are Made Up or Real?Victim mentality is part of the accepted philosophy in the modern Western world. Everyone else is to blame, not ourselves. The reality is that there will always be someone who has it better than you, someone who has it worse. We are all disadvantaged in our own way. Some of us are not as athletic, not as beautiful, not as smart, come from poor backgrounds, etc. But all of us are at least a few of those. We can blame others for the obstacles that stand in front of us, or we can choose to overcome… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/15 03:24 PM |
| 15 | [FR].. What the fuck just happened? Is there such a thing as being too RP?Personally, wouldn't touch that chick with a 10 foot pole. Don't stick your dick in crazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy not found in large representative sample study of young relationships, average age of females 22, average age of males 24 (2014)I'm trained as a geneticist and a computer scientist (think computational biology), though I do more robotics stuff these days. And no, a slight amount of polygamy would not cause such disproportionate reproductive success rates between the sexes. It's not like compound inrerest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/15 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill was "Predestined"Unintended consequences perhaps ... or short-sighted thinking maybe Feminism has basically unleashed the feral nature of women. This is what it looks like, folks. "Situation all fucked up" | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/15 12:04 AM |
| 4 | We are all living during an awkward time period in human history where the gender divide is virtually irreconcilibleThere's no way to give you a serious response because it's just -that- out of touch with reality. There is scientific evidence for such evolution in mating behaviors in mammals, including the eventual population collapse and extinction. For example: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_B._Calhoun#Mouse_experiments Those experiments were repeated multiple times, with the same result. The sexes withdrew from each other and society, and the population eventually collapsed. The issue the OP raises is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/15 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy not found in large representative sample study of young relationships, average age of females 22, average age of males 24 (2014)In humans, more boys are actually born than females, about 1.07 boys for every 1 girl (this). There is excess male mortality in virtually all mammal species. Nature figured this out long ago, and attempts to account for it (btw, this is also the principle behind the TRP principle of the "disposable male", e.g. this or this). As for the other issue of whether hypergamy is the result of necessity or desire, it's difficult to speculate on the drivers of human behavior in past history. However, rega… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/15 11:41 AM |
| 6 | Hypergamy not found in large representative sample study of young relationships, average age of females 22, average age of males 24 (2014)Sure, given any dataset one could postulate multiple explanations. One of the possible explanations of that study though is hypergamy. The problem with the "men being more likely to die before breeding age" is that there is no evidence for that in the fossil record (at least not at anything near a 17 to 1 ratio). Hypergamy, whether natural or coerced, is the more plausible explanation. Either way, the data is incredible. It's hard to fathom how 16 other men were standing around letting one male … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/15 03:35 AM |
| 4 | Hypergamy not found in large representative sample study of young relationships, average age of females 22, average age of males 24 (2014)this sounds like the makings of a well designed study Thanks, I happen to be a practicing scientist, PhD and all. I don't think the study you linked is really well-designed, at least not in terms of answering the question of hypergamy. That's really the issue, but lots of studies have issues like that. As for doing longer term studies, the "longest term" study you can actually do is looking at human genetics related to population history. Many of those support the concept of hypergamy, such as t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/15 03:09 AM |
| 4 | Hypergamy not found in large representative sample study of young relationships, average age of females 22, average age of males 24 (2014)You'd have to do a longer term study that actually tracks individuals over time. Not give them a survey about their current relationship. The idea behind hypergamy is that it is a sexual mating strategy that unfolds over time. A snapshot at any single point in time is not really testing the concept. It'd be like taking a sample of air carbon emissions at a single point in time and declaring that they are not changing. The real question should be how males and females change partners over time. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/15 02:30 AM |
| 2 | Leaving TRPYou were born alone, and you will die alone. Everything in life, including other people, are ephemeral. They will come into your life for a time, but one day they will leave, whether that be death or some other form of departure. This is fact. Yet you define value in your life by things that come and go? Things you cannot hold? Things you will never truly possess? Perhaps the issue is not that you are ugly, but what you value. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 01:19 AM |
| 12 | Take a Seat Blue PillersI'll look through the individual sources later, but this some pretty compelling data. Nice find. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 10:54 PM |
| 11 | Men's Love vs Boy's LoveNice post ... too many people conflate "equal" with sameness. But that notion of equality is a fool's errand. Different is not bad. Things that are different are not necessarily "better" than the other. Some things are just different. To that point, the way men love and women love is fundamentally different. Thinking otherwise is a sure path to trouble. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Do most RPillers not know what hypergamy means?Men are naturally polygamous. We want as many females as we can. Sure, if they are more attractive, that's even better. Women are naturally hypergamous. They want the best genetic material they can get, since they have a much more limited reproductive ability. There's a difference between those two. The real issue is that in the West, society has developed a number of tactics (e.g. religion, taxation laws) to encourage marriage. Men are often shamed to marry, shamed for their polygamous instinct… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/15 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Managing ExpectationsThe best things in life are those given, not taken. Having minimal expectations means that you are not subconsciously demanding things from others. Typically, such subconscious demands are sub-communicated, often non-verbally through posture or subtle facial expression. We don't even realize we're doing it. The real aim of TRP, and its principles of self-improvement and frame, is that it makes you more compelling for other people (including women) to submit to you, enter your frame. You may stil… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/04/15 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Photos show how "Everday Sexism" feelsIn their own heads though, they're all victims, right??? ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Photos show how "Everday Sexism" feelsHmm interesting thought. Of course, if you read through the comments on the article, you see a lot of blue pill Beta men saying exactly what you'd expect them to. It's sad really. I think the real issue is how views like these fuck with everyday people's views of themselves and their behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Photos show how "Everday Sexism" feelsBut we're definitely gonna victimize her, one or way or the other ... cause men are despicable perverts | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Some Personal Advice for the Newer People.Nice post. If I may add one thing: Your value lies in your intent, the end product is just a bonus. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/15 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Hillary Clinton, Red Pill WomanBeing aware of our tendencies allows us to supersede them. Yes, AWALT. But how is that any different than unaware blue-pill men? Social conditioning (e.g. feminism) takes our inborn tendencies (both men and women) and manipulates them into something extreme and unnatural, all for some questionable and/or misguided purpose. Believing that this manipulated state of affairs is "the truth" is what we mean by plugged in. Honestly given the state of the modern Western female, think it's safe to say th… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 03:44 PM |
| 5 | What are your thoughts on the women on RedPillWomen?Also probably important to realize that RPW are still working out some of the theory about how the red pill applies to women. The male version of the red pill has a few years head start. RPW will evolve over time. Honestly given the state of the modern Western female, think it's safe to say they need to unplug just as much as we men do. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/15 12:43 AM |
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