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I find that filling my thoughts with other stuff helps. Meditation would just clear my mind and she would spring into it.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 09:28 PM
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The marriage happened before I met this girl. I still love my wife. But due to working in close proximity for many months I've stupidly developed feelings and now I need serious help. If I leave my wife I fear this girl will actually want me less. As she will know I've left her for her which would probably look pathetic.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 09:28 PM
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"Figure out your goals and your vision and adjust your diet accordingly." You nonchalantly type this as if it's not an ultimately fruitless endeavour. The vision you speak of is that in 50 yrs time we'll all be either dead or old and frail. That. Is. Not. A. Long. Time. Some of us will die tomorrow. Care less about goals and visions and more about fucking enjoying your life in the present.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 07:43 AM
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I'm trying to just fuck her already but I need advice on how to escalate to that, hence this post.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 06:23 AM
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Thanks. I have already decided to JUST.GO.FOR.IT - I'm on here looking for practical advice on how to transition from flirting to kissing during the daytime when we're alone. As this is what I've been struggling with.
/r/askTRP11/08/17 06:22 AM
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We'll never be friends and she knows it
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:59 PM
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Best advice I've read on this thread. Some honest practical advice. Thanks.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:59 PM
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"Sort of like" - fucking lol
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:58 PM
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I can't help it. Perhaps I just need to leave my job
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:57 PM
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TRP is amoral
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:56 PM
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Thanks I will try that. Thanks for the great advice. I was expecting lift or read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:56 PM
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Whatever. Substitute it for fuck then. But this girl means a lot to me. She's on my mind virtually 24/7
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:55 PM
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Everything except retard. The problem is because I married too young I haven't 'sown my oats' so to speak. I love my wife but it just isn't enough. I want to fuck this girl before I die or get too old to.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:54 PM
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Wow... Come back from soccer practise expecting a flood of good advice from you good people and see a tidal wave of abuse! I am a fully grown man who has read the sidebar, and who lifts. Normally stick to MRP but I think that bunch are a bit too pro-marriage and I expect more of a "don't cheat" attitude from those guys. I get it: I am a douche bag who is happy to cheat on his wife for the sake of some hot pussy at work who is also showing interest in me. I. Don't. Want. To. Debate. That. I thoug…
/r/askTRP10/08/17 09:51 PM
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By the way I don't have her number or Facebook - we're both in relationships which would make this impossibly risky.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 01:40 PM
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By the way I don't have her number or Facebook - we're both in relationships which would make this impossibly risky.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 01:40 PM
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Just Dirty Dancing actually.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 01:37 PM
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Thanks. This is the best piece of advice I've ever read on here, and I'm going to follow this course of action. Unfortunately you are right when you say I've got it bad. If I hadn't, I wouldn't have risked my whole life for this girl. Problem is I married way too young but hey, that's another story. One thing I just wanted you to ask you though... For me, this girl is in love with me. Yes she plays hot and cold and yes she rejected me. But believe me when I say that her actions towards me in gen…
/r/askTRP09/07/17 01:28 PM
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It wasn't lack of alcohol that stopped me. It's the fact that she was not sober and we were rarely alone without colleagues.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 05:30 PM
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On point 6. We have not fucked or even kissed. We got close at a recent staff party when she got tipsy and started interlinking hands, stroking my shoulder, giving me fuck me eyes. Problem was I was stone cold sober and there were colleagues around so nothing happened. The hug she gave me before her BF turned up to pick her up screamed "I want to go home with you not him". The girl has crossed a serious emotional line make no mistake, even if it's not yet physical.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 06:26 PM
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I'm telling you now that if I stop flirting with her she will lose her shit and come after me like she has done time and time before. "Why are you hating on me this week?" etc etc. She'll email me random shit, start turning up near my desk for the most flimsy of reasons just to smile at me, start wearing the outfits she knows I like more often. Trying to get that attention back and the problem is that I always cave. And by the way, I once told this girl I preferred her with her hair down. She we…
/r/askTRP01/07/17 06:22 PM
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Thank you for the break down and you're pretty accurate in everything you've said. The thing is though, she is into me. As much as it's hard to convey on a forum like this, please just take my word for it. How do I know? Because she replicates the same behaviour as me with her! For example she told me every time she hears a certain song it reminds her of me. I do that with her. She's told colleagues she's into me in a big way and they have told me. She undoubtedly likes the attention but this gi…
/r/askTRP01/07/17 04:35 PM
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From an amoral TRP point of view, what tactics do I employ to give myself the best chance of fucking this girl? She's already emotionally cheating massively and has been for months. The more I ignore her the closer she gets but you reach a point where you have to go for it again in the face of all the signals, at which point she tends to pull back again (I guess AWALT)
/r/askTRP01/07/17 08:04 AM
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Completely agree with you. What I want is advice on how to get this girl. It's 100% what I want and yes I'm prepared to burn my whole world down to get it. This is not a choice I've taken lightly. It's based on the fact that this feeling when I'm not with her is literally killing me due to the stress and the fact I'm living an incongruent lie. Do you think not being single gives me a better chance? I don't, I think she was hinting this when she talked about 'circumstances'. She doesn't want to b…
/r/askTRP01/07/17 08:00 AM
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But do I continue to ignore or start flirting again? Call her out on it? How do I get her?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 02:29 PM
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Today I got in late from a client meeting. I've not been giving her much attention in general this week and she is unhappy about it: yesterday "we've not talked for ages" So today I say hi and go to my office then later she emails me some YouTube vid out of the blue. Then we chat briefly later about how I love lasagne and she tells me she'll make me lasagne. This is not congruent with a girl who is not interested and who has a bf of 9 years.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 02:27 PM
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f***'s sake
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:58 AM
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Again, drinks are difficult because she lives with her LTR. We're coworkers but I'm leaving in a month or 2.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:57 AM
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She's in an LTR that she lives with. So it's incredibly hard for her to 1) explain this kind of absence unless she lies and 2) overcome the guilt of doing this. I need to engineer something that doesn't look engineered if that makes sense - like we just end up in the same hotel room by pure chance. This is what she wants, she doesn't want any responsibility for doing it.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 05:56 AM
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