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DiscussionHighlyFlashy/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:22 PM
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Sorority member here with a boyfriend in a frat. We see the same thing you describe and we’re just discussing this the other day :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:43 AM
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Tate followers promote physically harming women… Tate literally just got charged with human trafficking and rape of multiple women. That was a horrible example to use.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 06:39 AM
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I’m subbed to the sub and don’t see women complaining about men embracing anti feminist ideologies. I see them complaining about men embracing physically harming women because they can’t get what they want from women and that’s an issue.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 06:35 AM
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Show me then
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 06:21 AM
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I don’t see women doing this. Embracing anti feminist ideologies is fine. Embracing assault/murder/harassment is not.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 06:10 AM
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It’s not. That just means most of you won’t be in relationships. It is what it is.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 06:07 AM
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THEN YOU DONT NEED TO DATE. This is possibly the most retarded post I’ve ever seen in my life. Take your ass out the dating pool and get some therapy instead. Nobody has time for this immature, middle school mindset.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 06:05 AM
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Then ghost her. You’re old enough to date but not old enough to reject someone? Maybe you shouldn’t be dating at all if this is such a difficult thing for you. Doesn’t sound like you’re emotionally mature for any form of relationship and probably should take a break. For your safety.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 06:03 AM
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Some women do this, yes. Just like some men actually do rape women. Not all men do though. The best thing to do is be honest. Rejection sucks to deal with but communication and transparency is important. Say it however you want to but just be clear that you’re not interested anymore. Wanting to play games because of the actions of a small minority of women is bit idiotic. Under your premise, I would never leave my house because someone might murder me. You can’t live life like that.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 05:55 AM
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Why is women wanting partners they’re physically and sexually attracted to a bad thing? Why being in a LTR with someone and exclusively commit to them when you’re not even totally into them?
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 05:50 AM
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How many women tried to accuse you of rape? Every single one you rejected? I’m finding that a bit hard to believe.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 05:45 AM
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So women want to be with partners they’re actually attracted to and that’s a problem. Odd take.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 05:44 AM
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Don’t contribute then. Problem solved.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 05:41 AM
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“I’m not interested in progressing this relationship further with you”. Simple as that.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 05:40 AM
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Women don’t find as many men attractive unlike men with women. That’s true. But this is why women are so particular about finding partners they want. When a woman genuinely wants her partner, it benefits both her and her partner.
/r/AllPillDebate01/07/23 05:35 AM
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You get the advantages when you find a partner who finds you attractive and that genuinely wants you
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 10:21 PM
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We don’t have basements on the west coast :(
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 10:17 PM
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Okay well keep waking each other up and figure shit out. I’m all for you guys exiting the dating pool and doing your own thing in your own little worlds.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 09:25 AM
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Most of the opinions about women on here are not regarding “landwhales”. Men don’t even want these women so that doesn’t make any sense. Men don’t really want average or below average women but end up with them anyways because they’re afraid of being alone. I’m just fighting against the narrative that men are perfectly fine with average women like all of you like to claim . Majority of you aren’t, you’re just okay with the average woman because you think it’s better than nothing. And I’m happy w…
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 08:46 AM
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I think majority of men’s views on women on subs like this are based on the likes and wants of above average women. But I do think most men don’t mind being with average girls but don’t want them. There’s a difference between wanting someone and just accepting them.
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 05:14 AM
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My Chad did show up though🥺
/r/AllPillDebate29/06/23 05:04 AM
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It didn’t at all. I totally forgot about this convo and thought it was funny you didn’t, though it’s been four days since we even interacted with one another. That’s pretty funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:06 PM
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That’s sad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:58 PM
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Was I really on your mind that much that you came back to this thread four days later to try to hurt my feelings? L O L
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:45 PM
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Sounds like cope
/r/AllPillDebate27/06/23 10:44 PM
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“But but but men are biologically different! Muh variety. Lock and key!”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:45 PM
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I thought it was nice and her way of trying to put him out there to potentially find a girlfriend. I’m sure he’s gotten offers since she posted it online.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:32 PM
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All I said was how you would feel if that were your wife is irrelevant. The first part was fine though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:21 PM
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The other 90% wasn’t worth responding to. It was your own personal opinion and thoughts in the excerpt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:16 PM
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The situation isn’t about you though. It’s about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:32 PM
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I know someone who does onlyfans. Creators take the majority. They get statements monthly with breakdowns of how much they’ve gotten through subscriptions, tips, etc and how much OF takes from that, which is pretty low. If OF took majority of the profits, creators wouldn’t use the service to post their content.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:31 PM
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Lame lame lame. We’re done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:10 PM
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Not a good deal. Make it worth my time at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:06 PM
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That’s the right link
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:01 PM
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zoom.us/uwish
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:58 PM
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Thanks for admitting it💋
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:55 PM
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Word for word please
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:51 PM
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Then admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:50 PM
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They don’t have to. Men are just scared to admit that they’re hypocrites. As soon as you admit that this conversation will be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:49 PM
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I have dated them though
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 07:47 PM
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Tricked? Nobody tricked them. They made their own choice to subscribe to onlyfans. And under that premise, the porn industry should be equally as disgusting to you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:44 PM
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Fair. So why are you saying that OnlyFans is exploitative when these men are willingly paying for these services? Is someone putting a gun to these guys’ heads telling them to buy a girl’s onlyfans or they’re going to die?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:36 PM
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You know exactly what I mean when I say contract. Why you’re fighting hard to justify the exploitative nature of porn for men is weird since you say you care about exploitation so much. Most cam girls are employees for their respective sites. It’s not like they rent space on a cam site lol. Since you care about exploitation so much, what do you think about all the exploitation the porn industry has done to not only men, but also women. The emotional, mental, financial, and physical abuse. The tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:30 PM
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Yore being dramatic
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 07:21 PM
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There are terms and conditions, but they don’t have drawn out contracts like porn companies because the creators are technically their own entities. They’re not working for only fans. They’re just using only fans as a platform to share their content on and the creators pay a service fee to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:20 PM
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I agree with you 100%
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 07:19 PM
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Onlyfans allows the creators to have majority of their profits and there are no contracts signed between the company and the creator because the creator is it’s own business. That is not the same circumstances with professional cam sites and porn companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:03 PM
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There’s been stories about men who have paid thousands of dollars to cam girls who work for porn websites and male owned porn companies (which these cam girls share a good chunk of their profits with), because they thought they had emotional connections with them. These stories have been around since cam sites became a thing. One of the biggest ones being a man killing his own family to steal their money and give it to his cam girl girlfriend. Were you this upset about the male owned cam sites e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:54 PM
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Nothing wrong with your explanation. I’m just trying to understand why you find women who do OF exploitative but have no problem with the porn industry (that’s mainly male owned) that’s done the same thing for far longer than OnlyFans has existed. It seems like you strongly dislike male exploitation yet the sentiment is only directed towards women who have OF? Seems odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:39 PM
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Excerpt from a book I’m reading: She never raised her voice, always deferred to everybody and everything. She had assumed that somewhere down the line there would be a reward for that; a prize. But when her daughter had asked her if she'd ever had sex with anyone but her husband and she'd answered, "No, of course not," her daughter's reply had been, "Oh Mother, how dumb. You don't even know if he's any good or not. How awful." It was true. She didn't know. So in the long run, it didn't matter at…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:32 PM
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Well that’s good you’re not a hypocrite. Respectable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:27 PM
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But tons of men do. In fact, there are literally advertisements all over porn sites and in porn videos that are trying to get men to pay for sexual attention and/or companionship. Women don’t own porn sites. Men do. Why aren’t you mad at the porn industry and porn websites that try to exploit lonely men for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:27 PM
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The porn industry has been doing that for decades though. You have the same energy towards them too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:24 PM
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And you feel the same way about the porn industry and male entertainment clubs too. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:23 PM
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To be fair, I don’t think most men truly respect porn stars either. But it is weird how lots of guys have a rock hard hate boner for women who do OF, but have less issues with women who do porn. I think it’s because women on OF have control of what they advertise and sell, and profit off of their image instead of being exploited by the porn industry, which is ran and owned by men. Something about women owning their sexualities and directly making money from it makes lots of men angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:20 PM
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I just wanted to know what it meant😭
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 06:14 PM
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An average guy is 5’9. Anything shorter than that is shorter than average, and those are typically the guys I hear venting about height.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:49 PM
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Very true. I agree.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:45 PM
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5’10 is taller than average though
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:44 PM
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Fortunately I did. Still doesn’t change the situation for other women though.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:40 PM
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But there’s an extreme lack of real thorough dude though. What are women supposed to do?
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:39 PM
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Then most men are lames or undercover lames who preach about how natural bodies are better but only show attention and desire for fake bodies.
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:35 PM
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Men do too
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:30 PM
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5’4 and below?
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:25 PM
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How short are manlets?
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:23 PM
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We can’t help it. It’s biological :(
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:21 PM
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Men could do that too to be taller
/r/AllPillDebate23/06/23 05:20 PM
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The average is average for a reason. It’s showing what most people do. Trying to pretend like outliers are a majority is delusional behavior. I linked the data in a separate reply last night?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:17 PM
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Yep 5’10
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:55 AM
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If the swipes are evenly distributed then I would say it’s not predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:38 AM
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The thread about looks? You good bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:32 AM
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Not from what I saw
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:19 AM
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Not sure how you got that from my last comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:19 AM
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I don’t think it’s an uncommon mindset among women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:03 AM
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If majority of your right swipes are going to women significantly younger than you, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:02 AM
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I don’t think that’s an exceptional mentality though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 07:01 AM
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Is that really what you think? I can’t tell you how many convos I’ve had with friends where a cute guy is seen in public and one of us says “I’d have his baby” or “I’d let him put a baby in me”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:58 AM
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I think both are predatory
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:52 AM
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How so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:51 AM
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I get laid today🥳 sooo excited
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:48 AM
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Unlike women? If you don’t believe looks matter first for women then you’re being delulu. There’s a threshold that needs to be met.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:47 AM
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I don’t think it’s super common though but it happens enough. I think majority of older men are self aware about the high chance of rejection they’d face or just where they stand in terms of desirability. Which is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:46 AM
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They definitely do. They just get rejected. Just like I rejected every older guy who’s ever asked me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:45 AM
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Which scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:43 AM
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I think a minority of younger women are searching for men 5-6 older than them. I think it’s useless to focus on such a small minority of people and try to make broad generalizations based on that minority. Out of this small minority, I do think lots of younger women who go after older men can be predatory for sure. I think that about sugar babies, especially since they later go on social media and talk about how ugly their sugar daddies are and how much they avoid being seen out in public with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:43 AM
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Wait but this sub tells me women don’t approach men and men have to do all the approaching. Now women are going out their way to chase older men? Which one is it? And no that isn’t the average age gap for couples in western countries, which is a little bit over 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:33 AM
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Most likely has nothing to do with penis size for him. A lot of white men think white women who date black men are tainted and ruined, and it’s a similar mindset as men who think high n counts create tainted and ruined women. They believe it speaks on her character and values (or lack thereof), as black men are not typically associated with good romantic relationships, reliable paternal involvement, good economic outcomes, and non-degenerate social behaviors, and are usually associated with havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:29 AM
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What if I woke up to a million dollars in my bank account tomorrow? I don’t really create opinions about things that are extremely unlikely to happen. That’s a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:21 AM
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Four to five years I’d say. Though I wouldn’t go over two personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 06:03 AM
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Funny. Spent this morning going back and forth with guys who were mad that I called older men who go after young women creepy then got approached by an older guy on the way to work. Nice😀
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:31 AM
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Didn’t answer my question. Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:28 AM
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She’s 180
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 05:27 AM
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Absolutely so in love with woman. Literal perfection to me. https://www.instagram.com/iamkaylanicole/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:39 AM
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I’d say around 55%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:38 AM
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First pic is before. Second is after. https://imgur.com/a/ZIUEcq1
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:32 AM
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I literally look the best I’ve ever looked my whole life. Younger me would be in awe if she saw me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 12:07 AM
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Fortunately none of them do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:39 PM
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I’m sure you are speaking from experience like every single guy here. Allegedly lol ;) But your opinion on older women is perfectly fine. That’s the same way I feel about older men. Why would I want a washed up man with baggage who’s also less attractive when I can find someone my age without all that? No thanks lol. I’m at the gym at the moment but I will link the source by the end of the day (located on my laptop from academia paper).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:30 PM
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Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:08 PM
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L O L
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:07 PM
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Taking my bf on a surprise date Saturday. I hope he likes it🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:05 PM
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Fortunately the world does work that way. The average age gap globally for any type of relationship is literally 2.1 years. It’s delusional men online thinking that younger women are checking for men significantly older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:04 PM
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I’ll go two years up of my own age and two years down of my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:41 PM
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There is a link on each of these pdfs. If you input the link onto your browser, a page saying that the page you’re requesting is no longer available. It’s obvious you went to Trump University by linking these PDFs lol. What point were you trying to prove bud?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:39 PM
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Slavery did, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:28 PM
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So you don’t recommend
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:27 PM
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Stiletto
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:05 PM
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I was given this flair. Don’t know how to change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 08:04 PM
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Stiletto is usually sharp and pointy. Almond curves at the top of the nail.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:54 PM
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Unbelievable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:47 PM
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No. I already told you in another reply that I said I wouldn’t date him. You either can’t read or have a hard time comprehending things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:46 PM
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Isn’t the post about age gaps? You can make your own post about racism in dating if that’s a topic that interests you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:46 PM
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I’m sure you do. Every single guy on this sub does allegedly. How funny? Anyways can’t wait for the school year to roll back around so my sorority sisters and I can sit and chat about how funny and confused guys like you are just like we’ve done in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:44 PM
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I got an A on the paper of course. Also you just linked a random 2017 PDF allegedly from the US census (though the webpage it links to doesn’t even exist anymore?)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:42 PM
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Too old to be playing the piano. Kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:38 PM
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What is up with men cheating then writing apologies on instagram? Just embarrassing their partners more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:37 PM
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Translation: it’s a non answer because it’s an answer I don’t like Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:35 PM
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The average age gap worldwide The wording could have been better ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:32 PM
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We shouldn’t have the same hobbies at their big age
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:31 PM
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I didn’t propose it lol. It was a mutual “Looks interesting. Let’s do it”.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:31 PM
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You old guys are funny. Truly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:30 PM
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I actually just wrote a 10 page paper on the subject this past semester and saw absolutely nothing about the median age gap being 3 years though I spent hours researching the topic. Quite odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:29 PM
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Always😎 Nah I honestly don’t know if we’ll end up doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:25 PM
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There usually merit to the warning. Whether that’s wrong or right is up to each individual but warnings in general aren’t unfounded. It’s like someone telling you to look your door at night. It’s not a guarantee that someone will break into your house and kill you, but locking your door at night will most likely prevent that rather than just leaving it unlocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:24 PM
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It could
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:21 PM
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Right. I was planning on doing it but it’s sooo sticky. I feel like it’s going to be an unsexy mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:20 PM
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No. I don’t have sex with men I wouldn’t date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:17 PM
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Bj
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:13 PM
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Idk. I planned to try it tomorrow but I just ate a fruit roll up and it’s sooo sticky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:13 PM
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Made me giggle
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:09 PM
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Fruit roll up. Penis. Bj.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:07 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:06 PM
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He literally got hate from women all over social media for that ugly ass jaw surgery. Same with Liam Payne. It’s not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:06 PM
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NSFW: Has any girl or guy done the fruit roll up thing? How’d it go?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:05 PM
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Trying to insult me because your feelings are hurt? Typical :p
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:02 PM
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https://pyxis.nymag.com/v1/imgs/829/3f2/b9926c56e0384b2d79215cc77e52314513-zac-efron.2x.rsquare.w330.jpg Why do you need your jaw done or cosmetic surgery if you look so good in your 30s? Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:58 PM
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Rocket League
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:55 PM
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Come out then and date men. Idk what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:52 PM
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It means I’m laughing at a stupid comparison someone pulled out of their ass. That’s what the laughing emoji meant :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:51 PM
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Nope. The gold digger opinion is totally fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:48 PM
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Rather the guys my own age than a washed up old man approaching me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:47 PM
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THANK YOU. The age gap debates with men on this sub is so tiring. The constant usage of older rich male celebrities to support their argument is played out. They never use the average old guy at the supermarket as an example. Just these old celebrities (who ironically pay thousands of dollars a year to maintain a youthful look) that they’ll never be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:47 PM
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It was given to me by the mods after I said Chris Evans is hot but I wouldn’t date him. You tried and failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:45 PM
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By far the dumbest reply I’ve ever gotten on PPD. Truly. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14g3rou/do_older_woman_really_think_older_men_date/jp4h6vq/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3 Edit: And ironically. He used a younger picture of Zac Efron as an example. He doesn’t look like that anymore😂 (https://pyxis.nymag.com/v1/imgs/829/3f2/b9926c56e0384b2d79215cc77e52314513-zac-efron.2x.rsquare.w330.jpg)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:42 PM
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So you pick an ugly average young guy then compare him to an older rich celebrity who doesn’t even look like that anymore? I can’t😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:39 PM
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I love how it’s only unrealistic when a woman wants a partner she’s physically attracted to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:37 PM
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Good thing that’s not the situation here :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:33 PM
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My parents have been married for 25 years and started dating as teenagers and got married young. I will say that does influence my view on the topic in some ways but not in the way you probably think. And most younger women think that because most older men look that way. You’re naming these older rich celebrity men who pay thousands a year to maintain a youthful look, to average older men who make average money. There’s no point in mentioning them because most older men don’t look anything like…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:29 PM
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Okay you’re obviously talking to yourself at this point so I’ll leave you to it. Never forget that the global max age gap for a couple is 2.1 years <3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:27 PM
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Both emotion and logic are valid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:26 PM
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Not really, no. The ones I think are ok are far and few.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:18 PM
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Welp unfortunately humans do that. Stereotypes are not unfounded.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:11 PM
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Which majority of you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:08 PM
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Why are we talking about the top 0.1% of men who 99.9% of you aren’t in that category? You’re embarrassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:06 PM
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Most social media posts about age gap relationships have a description to them. It’s not just ages mentioned… I’ve never dated an older guy nor do I know any girls my age who have because it’s not a common occurrence. But it doesn’t take me dating one or seeing someone else date one to think it’s odd and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:05 PM
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Still. Not. Interested. There are tons of reasons why I won’t date an older man. Just like men who have a hate boner for older women say they don’t want them due to baggage, them being more jaded, less attractive, etc. I don’t want older men for the same exact reasons and more. I’ve talked to girls my age who agree. And the reality is, majority of older men are not more attractive than younger men. Hence why younger women are not dating older men in mass and most are dating their own age or mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:02 PM
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It would be creepy either way. There is nothing me and an older man have in common besides the fact that we’re both human. I don’t find men who are immature enough to want to date someone my age because they either want to mold me or not take on any adult responsibilities as attractive. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:00 PM
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I know that’s an easy route to take but nah. People usually say those things because there’s indication that someone’s intention in the relationship is not good and is harmful to the other person (goes both ways), or one of the people in the relationship is making a choice that is isn’t smart for themselves or the other party.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:53 PM
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Haha I knew that was coming. You guys really have to come up with something new.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:45 PM
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I don’t have any clue what I’m talking about but you do? An older man who has no connection to a large amount of younger women and who’s wishing for a fantasy to be true? Okay. Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:44 PM
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Trying to date is any form of approaching. Where are the older men with good intentions then? Why are they so silent? Why are men warning their daughters to stay away from them? Why is there so much opposition for a group of men that is, according to you and other older men, so great?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:42 PM
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That’s fine. I’m just giving my own opinion on the situation. Older men approach me quite often. I’m not rude to them despite finding it annoying. I just reject them then go about my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:40 PM
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This is possible but I think it’s normally closer linked to sexuality rather than attainability or settling. Because even 5s are shooting for men out of their league and are happy being alone if they can’t get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:39 PM
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No they don’t. How are you going to tell me what younger women want when I’m a young woman who’s surrounded by a large amount of younger women 24/7 and we literally talk about this stuff? Just because you hope for something to be true doesn’t mean it is. Sorry to ruin your revenge fantasy. If younger women loved older men so much, the global maximum age gap for couples in any type of relaironship wouldn’t be 2.1 years. Your hope and dreams aren’t reflective of the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:34 PM
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I said older men trying to date younger women my age is creepy, predatory, and creepy. If you’re going to quote, quote right. Even older men themselves claim they don’t have good intentions with younger women. Stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:30 PM
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The attraction thing is totally understandable. It’s why I love guys my age and not into older guys (guys my age in general are more fit and more attractive). That being said, you can find someone attractive and know where you stand and have social cues. Which many older men who try to pursue young women, usually in very degenerate and uncomfortable ways, don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:18 PM
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Didn’t say old men were disgusting though they’re not attractive or interesting as guys my age imo. I think that them approaching young women and the ways they typically do it are quite disgusting and low though. Are dads who warn their young daughters about older men and their often degenerate intentions with younger women more liking to think in broad brush generalizations too. If so, someone needs to alert all the dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:13 PM
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I don’t shame younger women who are into older men at all. Not my business. And in my 21 years of living, I’ve only met one girl my age who admitted that she would be with an older man “but only if he was rich” (her words, not mine). I couldn’t even shame if I wanted to because the young women who are into older men are a very small minority. Can’t shame what you can’t find.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 05:01 PM
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Exactly. This pretty much applies to everyone except the groups I mentioned, but lots of women try to virtue signal because they don’t want to seem shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:45 PM
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Ooh my turn! What about younger women like me who think older men trying to date women my age is predatory, creepy, and disgusting? What’s your diagnosis for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:37 PM
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Personality does matter. It just matters after you meet the looks threshold. Anyone saying anything else is not being honest unless they’re asexual, they have a low libido, or sex isn’t a priority for them in a relationship. So let’s say a woman’s looks threshold is a 5. If you’re a 5 with a great personality, the personality can help make you more attractive overall for sure. You meet her basic requirements for physical attraction and you’re mentally and/or emotionally stimulating. This is good…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:25 PM
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I want kids. But I want my own kids. I don’t want to mother someone else’s kids and the truth is, I would never love those kids 100% because they’re not my own. Best to not waste my time or theirs.
/r/AllPillDebate22/06/23 05:28 AM
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Yeah those are also dealbreakers for me too. I hate stoners and I would never date a single dad.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 10:25 PM
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The studies you can’t link? K. If you can’t link any of these comprehensive studies, there no point of even replying to me.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 09:34 AM
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90%? Definitely not.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 08:19 AM
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That’s part of it but she’s played in quite a few Black cinema classics. Black people know who she is and knew who she was before Will Smith came in the picture.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 07:48 AM
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Link the book’s referenced studies. Thanks.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 07:47 AM
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If they grew up in the 90s, yes
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 05:49 AM
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I’m not biracial, I’m just black.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 05:32 AM
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I agree that all non whites have it to some agree. I’m just saying black men have it the most and it’s evident in their behaviors and their failure to step up to the mantle of manhood and masculinity.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 02:31 AM
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Most black men have inferiority complexes and other mental issues lol
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 01:48 AM
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I 100% agree with you that women play a part in this behavior as well. They typically enable and enforce the behavior by purposely seeking out drug dealers or gangbangers or whatever. Black women are at fault too for In my experience, the suburban black guys aren’t any better in terms of their pathology. Surburbs, two parent household, rich… doesn’t matter. They still have the same mindset and thoughts as I mentioned here. I went to school with them in high school and they were white women worsh…
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 12:42 AM
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Make sure you know how bra sizes work so you don’t get trapped
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 12:22 AM
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I wouldn’t call myself hot. Pretty is a better word.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 12:18 AM
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I edited
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 12:02 AM
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I have. I don’t find black men attractive on any level really. Even physically, I prefer white men’s looks. A basketball player at my university who’s now in the NBA was trying to get with me. I turned him down. I was already divested at that point.
/r/AllPillDebate21/06/23 12:00 AM
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Proudly. Three years strong.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 11:57 PM
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Yes
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 11:41 PM
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Yes I do. Look, all I’m saying is If black women desire resting in their femininity, not taking on masculine roles, family structure, and for marriage to be valued by their partner, they’re better off dating non black men. Limiting their dating pool to only black men, which most black women do because they’re race loyal, is only hurting their chances of finding what they want.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 11:36 PM
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But let’s look at the GENERAL picture. The MAJORITY. You might find this hard to believe but I come from a great home life. My parents have been married for 25 years, together since teenagers. My father, a black man, is amazing. He’s hardworking. Involved. Loyal. Loving. Intelligent. A great husband and father. I could write a whole book about how great my dad is and how much I love him. But I know that majority of black men are not like him. Your statistics. Your records. What you guys say and …
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 11:23 PM
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I think we’re in the same book, just on two different pages. What you’re saying is correct and what I’m saying is correct. Just in Western societies, where black men are on the bottom of the male totem pole and white men are on top, majority of black men seek white women because they’re white. Similar to op, their look, their weight, etc doesn’t matter like it would for say, a black woman. The white woman’s whiteness is a good trade off for them because they think it makes them closer to white m…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 11:15 PM
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Because whiteness has no value in those countries. It’s not like they’re marrying any of those women they’re buying there and bringing them back here. They’re tricking them out. Whiteness has value in America because black men are below white men in everything besides rapping and sports, both industries owned by white men lol. In America, they think whiteness boosts their status. In those countries, they get to pretend to have a status they don’t have.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 11:09 PM
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I disagree. It’s a much better deal for any passport bro to go to Latin and Asian countries because it’s cheaper due to the poor conditions they live in. Like black passport bros barely have enough money to thrive in poor Latin and Asian countries. Hell, they ask for their subscribers to cashapp them to help them with traveling fees😂 They’re definitely not going to thrive in poor European countries lol.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:57 PM
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Fair
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:54 PM
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Black men themselves have said this. Watch interviews of black men who say this. Read the comments of the interviews agreeing. Read articles. Read books. Listen to podcasts. This is black men saying they view being with white women as a prize and an elevation in society. And no this isn’t a cucking thing. White women single motherhood rates have accelerated tremendously the past two decades, along with the WW/BM marriage and the insanely high divorce rate among this pair (more than any other int…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:53 PM
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Their lack of masculinity. Like seriously. If you were a woman who valued family, children, marriage, and a stable home life would you date, marry, and procreate with a black man?
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:35 PM
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He looks European to me. There’s not a hint of blackness in Adonis lol.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:33 PM
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They could easily date Latin and Asian women here if that was the case. But they don’t because they’re chasing whiteness. Whiteness is valued extremely in the US, hence why they chase WW. I explained in another reply that black men think dating white women makes them less inferior and increases their social status. It doesn’t for anyone but them. They don’t passport to European countries because it’s a better deal to go to Latin and Asian countries. They’re poorer. It also doesn’t help that whit…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:31 PM
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That’s perfectly fine. I have cousins like that.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:18 PM
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Could be for many, I don’t doubt it. But I think it’s a more common mindset among black men because in my experience. And it’s not necessarily something hard to believe either. The male ego is powerful and every man wants to be the best. Especially those who have been oppressed and are constantly under the control the most dominant male group. Black women tend to date out because of the “masculinity” of black men or the BMBW relationships they’ve seen.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:17 PM
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It’s definitely whiteness, at least for black men. Colorism does play a big part in the matter though.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:10 PM
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No it’s not even that. It’s just black men’s attempt to get closer to whiteness. Even black men like Nick Cannon have said that. They see white women as a prize and as a way to (delusionally) think that they’re less inferior in society. They don’t understand that being with white women will not erase their blackness or make white men have more respect for them. There’s more to it but that’s the basis.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 10:02 PM
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His genotype is biracial. In regards to phenotype, that’s perfectly fine to me. No one has said anything about complexion besides you and for reason. The complexion of my future children has no influence on my choice to divest. Providing my children with the best foundation and the best home environment to thrive in did though.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 09:57 PM
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He’ll be biracial, yes
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 09:47 PM
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Not sure what that had to do with me being a divestor but thanks?
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 09:10 PM
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Nah I’m not a “kill all black babies” divestor lol. But that’s because I dont think black women should even sleep with black men if the plan is to divest. That’s counterproductive. Can’t abort what you don’t create. I’m cordial with black men and have no problem being friends with them. I just won’t date them or have sex with them or marry them or procreate with them.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 09:10 PM
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I wanna see the studies. The numbers.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 09:08 PM
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Okay so no actual study done that provides insight into the amount of people studied or age demographics, etc? Got ya.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:51 PM
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That’s 2009 data… I was 7 in 2009. I’m 21 now.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:49 PM
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Correct! I’m a divested 21 year old black women. I exclusive date outside of my race, primarily white. I try to urge black women to date non-black men and to stop limiting their dating pool. What that book shows is not reflective of reality, as true as I wish it were. And I don’t believe words on a page without a peer reviewed study linked. What are the demographics of the data? Where is the data coming from? Etc. I’m in black women social and online groups and most black women have a “I won’t d…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:48 PM
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Correct! I’m a divested 21 year old black women. I exclusive date outside of my race, primarily white. I try to urge black women to date non-black men and to stop limiting their dating pool. What that book shows is not reflective of reality, as true as I wish it were. And I don’t believe words on a page without a peer reviewed study linked. What are the demographics of the data? Where is the data coming from? Etc. I’m in black women social and online groups and most black women have a “I won’t d…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:48 PM
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Could you possibly link the peer reviewed study that book referred to? There was no reference in that screenshot unfortunately.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:37 PM
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Can you provide the data? Because there is no way in hell that the majority of black women prefer white men. Black women are the most race loyal group of women that exists. Overall, OP is describing is a common pathology among ethnic men, especially black men. There are reasons for this pathology but it exists.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:31 PM
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This is 100% normal, especially among lots of ethnic men, mainly black men
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:18 PM
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And he’s allowed to do that. All I asked was what’s wrong with focusing on lower body.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:16 PM
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And he’s allowed to do that. All I asked was what’s wrong with focusing on lower body.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:16 PM
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You’re definitely allowed. Who cares what others think.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:15 PM
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Yeah definitely don’t lower your standards whatever they may be. The reality is, no one wants to consistently bang someone they’re not attracted to. That’s why I’ve always stuck firm on what I’ve wanted. I’m not trying to be in a dead bedroom relationship and I don’t think they’d want to be in one either,
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 06:04 PM
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I hope this is everyone’s minimum lol
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:55 PM
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Agreed🤝
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:54 PM
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And that’s fine. I don’t look at a guy sideways for focusing on upper body or associate him to some narrative about being a manwhore. I work out five days a week, two hours each session. On maybe one or two of those days I’m working on arms because I don’t want strong arms. It’s just not very feminine to me, especially because my “look” on the day to day is soft girl/feminine/preppy. But I’m also a sprinter so stronger legs help increase speed and prolong endurance.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:45 PM
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Interesting! My bf is 6’1 and he has a preference for taller women. Partly because he doesn’t want short kids. I’m 5’6 and im the shortest he’s ever dated as his exes were 5’8 and 5’10. Funny how people are so different from one another. Before meeting my bf, my rule was “as long as he’s taller than me”. My exes were 5’7 and 5’8. In heels or Air Forces, I was taller than both of them. But now I’m dating my boyfriend and I really do love the height difference between us and it’s just nice to feel…
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:36 PM
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How short
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:26 PM
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What’s wrong with only doing lower body exercises😭
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:22 PM
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After doing a Google search, that is 100% fair lol
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:19 PM
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Those are some good ones
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 05:15 PM
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Jada Pinkett was a famous actress before marrying Will Smith. Only white people dont know who she is besides being Will Smith’s wife😂
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 04:59 PM
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I never said they didn’t lose focus either. But nobody uses instagram as a dating app unless they’re non average people (influencers, athletes, celebrities, etc). Average women find men who use instagram as a dating app as cringey and rightfully so.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 04:57 PM
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Those are the girls you attract. That’s a personal problem.
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 08:22 AM
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Good thing my bf is into slim waist, wide hips, thick thighs, and fat asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:21 AM
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That’s a great rating. She’s very pretty, even today.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:16 AM
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7-7.5
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:06 AM
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Plenty in religious communities but they want religious men who are virgins and traditional as well
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 02:39 AM
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Depends on what you think a good woman is
/r/AllPillDebate20/06/23 01:51 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:27 AM
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Just something to remember
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:08 AM
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Nope. Just wanted to make sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:07 AM
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I think you’re thinking of something else…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:06 AM
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Oh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:06 AM
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You’re overweight right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:03 AM
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I asked him to name my body type and that’s what he came up with. Odd lookin character but kind of accurate in terms of it being bottom heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:03 AM
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How short are we talking
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:01 AM
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I’m LTRing a Chad and didn’t have to do this. I must have missed the memo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 01:00 AM
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He said i have a thin waist, thicker thighs, and a fat ass and those are the most prominent areas of my body so he felt like mewtwo was a good comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:44 AM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:39 AM
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I am
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:30 AM
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I looked it up and I’m like ?? I get how we compare but idk if that was the right visual to compare me to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:28 AM
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My bf said my body shape is like a skinnier version of Mewtwo🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:19 AM
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Damn I’m sorry that happened to you. Not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:33 PM
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Oh yeah I couldn’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:32 PM
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How did it kill your relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:18 PM
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I’m doing long distance right now too but it’s surprisingly not that bad at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:18 PM
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Like a moth to a flame burned by the fire…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:17 PM
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$$$
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:15 PM
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Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:10 PM
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I have 0/13. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:09 PM
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Pay for one
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:07 PM
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I’ve split the bill and approached. Not sure what you mean by active.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:07 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:54 PM
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Thx <3
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:27 PM
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Not about the amount. It’s about the action of taking that provider role. Again it’s a bonus. Splitting isn’t a hindrance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:26 PM
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That’s literally the main reason why I don’t have any interest in older men. I want to build with someone and grow with someone. You can’t build with someone who already has their life set up and you’re just jumping into it. I’ve explained this so many times to older guys and they just say “but I have money and experience”. Too busy trying to flaunt things I don’t care about instead of listening to what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:25 PM
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He can be. That’s why I said it wouldn’t make me think less of him if I initiate or split the bill. I just won’t think as highly of him as a guy who initiates or split the bill. That puts them ahead of the pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:17 PM
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Some weirdo who saw the convo sent me a chat asking me why I don’t date older men and trying to say how much better they are than guys my age and how I should try dating one and I’ll see how much better they are. I get a lot of guys private messaging me about what I say on here so I’m used to it. I think most women on this sub are. But it always infuriates me when older guys try to harass me into liking men I genuinely don’t like in any shape or form.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:07 PM
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Hate to burst your bubble but I’m not talking about you. Sorry :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:54 PM
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Very true. It’s just annoying and one of the reasons why I’m excited to get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:50 PM
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Obviously. It’s like a guy bringing me flowers. Of course I’m going to think fondly about a guy who brings me flowers compared to a guy who doesn’t. But it’s more about what the actions represent. A man paying for a date shows initiative and the ability to provide, both traits linked to masculinity. I loveeee masculinity which is why I date men. If I wanted femininity, I would date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:49 PM
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Antagonizing for saying money isn’t a good trade off for baggage and declining looks to me? So be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:46 PM
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The two situations I was in where I had to be the sole payer was because they didn’t have enough money or weren’t in the financial positions to pay for their half or the meal so I ended up paying. Then I never saw them again. A guy doesn’t need to be rich for me to date him but why are you going out on dates you don’t have the money to pay for? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:45 PM
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I said all of the men on this sub say the same thing but then most come on here posting about things that indicate they’re not doing well in dating and not dating the women they want. Some of you are not being honest which was the whole point of my original comment. It was a “you and everyone else” snarky response.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:42 PM
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I’m not. I just don’t find guys older than me as good looking as the guys in my age group. That’s my opinion that I’m allowed to have. And yes a lot of the late 20s guy I see are not attractive to me. Am i supposed to lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:39 PM
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The whole thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:33 PM
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What argument did I make? All I said was I personally don’t find the baggage and declining in looks as a good trade off for an older man’s money. Get somebody else to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:32 PM
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I’ve always thought it was odd how when I express that I am ONLY interested in men close to age as me, there’s a bunch of older guys trying to provide a list of advantages to dating older guys as a way to convince me to date them or other older men. They’re like salespeople who don’t know how to leave you alone after you already said you’re not interested 10 times. This has legit been happening to me since I was 18 and it’s actually so annoying. Men say women don’t date men their age (which isn’…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:32 PM
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I don’t give a fuck about the studies. I gave my personal opinion. Not passing up a guy my age for an older guy. Cry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:26 PM
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Never said they don’t. I’m not talking about women though. I’m talking about my opinion on the physical appearance of men. Besides from physical appearance, there’s a whole bunch of reasons why I don’t find older men desirable. Why is that an issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:26 PM
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Yeah that’s always worked for me after a relationship has been established. I don’t mind switching off who pays the bill on a date once we’re exclusive or heading to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:20 PM
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Maybe in your section of the world. By late 20s, lots of guys look horrible. But I’ve never been into older guys. I see no appeal to them. I’d rather build with someone my age and grow with them. Based on my philosophy, older men only have downsides and that’s why they’re not in my dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:18 PM
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Maybe in your section of the world. By late 20s, lots of guys look horrible. But I’ve never been into older guys. I see no appeal to them. I’d rather build with someone my age and grow with them. Based on my philosophy, older men only have downsides and that’s why they’re not in my dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:18 PM
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I said I think lowly of a guy if I have to pay for the whole date myself. Didn’t I say reading was fundamental replies ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:13 PM
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It’s obvious you’re old because you use the word “destroyed” still lol. Off to the old folks home grandpa.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:12 PM
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Not a good trade off for the baggage and decline in looks tbh. But again, all I said was I don’t mind splitting dates and won’t think less of a guy if I had to. I’ll just think higher of a guy who paid for the whole date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:10 PM
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Yeah I feel this way but from the female perspective. The dating pool for women is ass so I’m holding my bf near and dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:07 PM
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You sound mad :(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:06 PM
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If every guy felt that way they wouldn’t be complaining about how hard dating is and how much they hate women at the same time. Like you. Good luck bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:06 PM
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I’m not a feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:02 PM
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And what does a modern woman entail
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:02 PM
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You don’t. My reply was just a way of saying that every guy on this sub says that because you guys are all delusional and no one believes you but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:01 PM
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Amazing. Literally perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:00 PM
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You and every other guy on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:59 PM
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Reading is fundamental
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:58 PM
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Here’s my thoughts on splitting the bill on dates. I don’t mind doing it, but I will think more highly and be more interested in a guy who pays for the date. If I have to pay for the whole date myself, I will have a low perspective of him and wont see him again. Same with approaching. I don’t mind approaching guys but the guy who sticks out in my mind is a guy who approaches me. So no it won’t hinder how I view a guy (unless im the sole payer) but a guy who takes initiative and showcases masculi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:52 PM
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We already knew this bud
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 07:37 PM
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Yeah go ahead. Just don’t be surprised when they reject you because chances are they will. And don’t come on here saying “Women are so horrible and only want Chad”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:36 PM
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Definitely not as much depression as some of these guys because I did get to experience that once I became an adult. But during my adolescent years, I was probably as depressed as most of the guys on here. It was tough and bothered me a lot. I did feel like something was wrong with me or that I was abnormal and it was something I would vent to my mom about often as a teenager. I’m not saying that the experience between men and women in similar positions is exactly the same nor does it have to be…
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 07:30 PM
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As a woman with one of these insecurities, I don’t think it makes me unlovable. I just think it minimizes or limits one’s attraction to me. Like out of 100%, they can only love me maybe 80% because of it. It’s not about Chad either, as I’m dating a Chad despite having one of these insecurities. It’s just about knowing that it’s not majority of guy’s preference, Chad or not, and it makes me feel not good enough/kinda disposable/second choice, none of which anyone wants to feel in a relationship w…
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 07:10 PM
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My dream scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 05:32 AM
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Then what’s my case as a woman? Why am I a woman who missed out on young love who holds the sentiments of guys here on that specific topic?
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 05:30 AM
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Interesting. I feel like girls are easier to raise. I have two younger brothers who are just entering their teenage years and it is chaotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:50 AM
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Alright sounds good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:40 AM
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Give me examples Lots of women do. You probably just haven’t found one. I’d rather be alone than be a settled for wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:39 AM
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Because the things you mentioned were things men do for gf, fuckbuddies, and women they genuinely want to be with who may not reciprocate. Find a better woman. Women can do whatever they want. They should just be aware their husband settled for them and that they are disposable when what their husband actually wants comes around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:47 AM
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Since we’re linking PPD, I’ll link this comment: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/cux0dm/discussion_research_finds_that_women_do_not/ey0sjwi/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 02:22 AM
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So how are you choosing/finding women who are willing to date you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:19 AM
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So women who approach you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 02:07 AM
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The fact that she doesn’t get any benefits for being a wife and that her husband gave all the same “perks” of his attention, energy, and time to other women shows she’s a settle down woman. I’ve said this multiple times throughout this convo. You’re 100% getting a worst deal if all your husband can do for you is legally marry you and give you a kid and doesn’t show he values you more than any other woman on this planet. It’s not about what she’s not getting that other girls got. It’s about her n…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:55 AM
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Just hoping. Overall, I just want healthy babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:42 AM
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Random thought but I really hope I’m not a boy mom. I want a little girl so so bad. If I have four kids, there has to be at least one girl. Preferably two in a dream world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:33 AM
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My bf, so hot, strong, intelligent, hard working, tall, high libido, driven, family oriented
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:29 AM
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There’s alarming rhetoric around anything that indicates a major change in society, combined with the fear of the unknown. That’s history.
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 01:27 AM
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It’s honestly sad at this point. They think “well if women won’t date me then they’re dating bad guys”. They have this pitiful “woe is me” attitude then wonder why they don’t do well with women.
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 01:18 AM
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I feel like you’re just willingly choosing to avoid the point. You’re focused on the quick AF/BB part instead of the other 100 words written and that’s just plain avoidance at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:17 AM
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And they’re stupid for doing so
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 01:16 AM
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I literally see women on that sub saying that they’re choosing to exit the dating pool all the time. They’re usually the top posts in the sub? If they don’t want to be with those average or below average men and are choosing singleness rather than being with them, they’re willingly choosing to exit the dating pool. Not sure why that’s a hard concept to grasp. If women would rather exercise their freedom than be with men they don’t like, they let them be. Men only complain about it because they k…
/r/AllPillDebate19/06/23 01:07 AM
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And what kind of women are you going for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:06 AM
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Looking for that ban huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:17 PM
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It’s 2023. If a woman is not in a relationship, majority of the time it’s because she doesn’t want to be. There are enough desperate men she could get with if she just wanted to be in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship. There are tons of men who will seriously commit to any woman because they’re desperate and scared of being alone. She can be old. She can be fat. She can be mentally insane. There’s a man out there willing to settle down with her in a heartbeat. Because most m…
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 11:15 PM
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Be more exact
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:13 PM
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You didn’t say slightly originally. And I said to maintain her loyalty long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:07 PM
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Look are important and are vital for a woman’s sexual attraction unless you’re rich. Which most of you aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:01 PM
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We know. You guys just like to turn the narrative into they’re unwillingly putting themselves in those circumstance when many women are choosing to be unmarried and not have kids. That’s the disconnect. And it’s projection because for men, being alone and having no one is their biggest fear. Women don’t share that same sentiment.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 10:48 PM
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Disagree if you want. Doesn’t change anything I said. I find it very hard to think that a woman would stay loyal to someone she sees as below her. And most men on this sub agree hence why they always talk about AF/BB.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:47 PM
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Again, as close in looksmatch is best. The further you get away from being looksmatched, the more the chances of infidelity increase imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:38 PM
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Wife material but he has to show me through action that I’m more valuable than any fuck buddy or any other woman besides maybe his mother. Just saying “marriage and kids” is not a good answer. And this value can only be seen through action. Because when a man really wants desires and values his wife more than any other woman, he can write a book on how he shows that to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:36 PM
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An inverse doesn’t mean it’s exactly the same to a tee. It’s just a similar occurrence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:26 PM
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Disagree. A good relationship is as looksmatched as possible. If one person is way more attractive than the other, the chances of infidelity and disposal are higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:26 PM
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The only thing I said about Af/BB was that it’s constantly talked about on this sub and the plight of the settle down woman is not
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:19 PM
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I didn’t say anything about AF/BB. You did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:18 PM
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For sure. I was just answering the prompt, as OP said he’s an average guy with boring looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:17 PM
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Well he’s not an above average/attractive guy so he should be shooting for his looksmatch or slightly below it. The advice works but it’s just not the advice you guys want to hear because you guys want to be the rare 4/5s bagging 7+ women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:12 PM
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If you can’t give examples of ways you would value your wife through action, that’s telling. My parents have been married for 25 years, together since they were teenagers. When I’ve asked my dad how he shows he values his wife and marriage through action, he can give a list of answers. And he can do it because he didn’t settle for her. She was and is his dream girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:06 PM
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Yes just like you believe that the wives took their husbands for granted
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:04 PM
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The problem is they do not provide anything to their wives that they don’t give someone they actually desire besides commitment and maybe a child. That’s why their wives are settle down women. Not necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:58 PM
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You’re saying this because you’re trying to be funny but I’m divested. Use stereotypes with someone else. Maybe it’ll work.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 09:56 PM
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I’m black. My boyfriend is white.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 09:31 PM
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No I don’t fortunately
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 09:31 PM
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Thank you🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:31 PM
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Because I want to have sex with my boyfriend. It’s been a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:25 PM
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Never said he was a multimillionaire or that we were married? I am a Nubian Stacy and he is a Chad. You are correct about that.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 09:25 PM
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I just like that nothing has really changed. It doesn’t really feel like we’re long distance or that we’re drifting apart. We’re like how we’d be with each other in person. And according to my friends who have done long distance or that are currently doing it, they’re struggling in that department. They feel like the relationship isn’t the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:24 PM
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You’re not wrong but our lizard brain says these things for a reason. I just think people should just find what they want. No need to subject someone you don’t want to a half ass relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:21 PM
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And I’m a billionaire
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 09:16 PM
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Temp long distance. Usually when my bf and I are together we have sex like three times a day. That’s reliable enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:16 PM
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Yeah I also didn’t think it would be for me but it’s honestly been pretty great thus far minus not having physical sex (though we do stay sexually connected so that helps). It’s been a month since I’ve seen him so not that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:15 PM
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But attraction is important too. If you’re not going to be able to fully desire your partner and treat them as such, you shouldn’t be with them. It will make them feel horrible and ruin them for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:11 PM
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Again, yikes
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 09:09 PM
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Paying for tinder is still a loser move lol
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 09:02 PM
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You can find a kind woman who likes you back who you’re physically attracted to. If big boobs are what you find physically attractive than why not find someone who likes you with big boobs? As someone with small boobs, it’s not fun finding out your partner isn’t truly attracted to you anyways and wishes you were different. I imagine men feel similar when they are not a woman’s height, dick size, etc preference
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:59 PM
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Long distance :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:53 PM
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I’m happy you’re D cups only :) Already found someone. My hot 6’1 boyfriend who’s the reason why I have this standard now. But thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:52 PM
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100% agree
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:51 PM
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I’m getting laid this week and I am so insanely excited. Literally counting down the days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:50 PM
2

My bf is a gym bro and I’m a gym girl. It’s cuteeee.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:48 PM
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I think most men do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:47 PM
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Are you Vehemently Dawn?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:47 PM
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Apps
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:45 PM
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About?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:43 PM
1

I’m 21. I’ve probably gone on about 20 dates. Probably gave oral to eight (including three eventual boyfriends). Had intercourse with five (including three eventual boyfriends).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:38 PM
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Never everyone is using instagram as a dating app. you are. And that’s probably why you’re struggling with dating.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:32 PM
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Invest in a good wardrobe to slightly upgrade the boring looks. Be funny. Be intelligent and kind. Be fun and confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:31 PM
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Cute!
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:28 PM
-1

Paying for Tinder? Yikes
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:27 PM
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Projection. And it makes them feel better and superior to imagine women as unhappy as they are.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:25 PM
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Sorry that’s hard for you
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:24 PM
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Well yeah everyone can’t get a participation trophy lol
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:24 PM
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The revenge fantasies are really cute. Seriously.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:22 PM
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Your previous answers of what men do for their wives that’s different than what they do for women they actually desire, answers your first question No, opting out of motherhood is not accepted. Not even today. Which is why people continue to pressure women into having kids and why men are complaining about the birth rate declining.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:21 PM
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Your previous answers of what men do for their wives that’s different than what they do for women they actually desire, answers your first question
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:20 PM
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You do know that people use Instagram to connect with their friends and family right? Anyone can do that. You guys have lost focus of what social media was made for. Sad.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 08:17 PM
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He should communicate that then. When I hear complaints from married women they don’t speak about their husbands communicating to them. Just complacency and lack of effort, and one sided communication from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:14 PM
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🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:53 AM
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Compared to a hookup he is typically waiting longer for sex, Men do this for women they don’t marry and for those they really desire from a purely sexual standpoint. Not a perk. paying for dates, Men do this for women they don’t marry and for those they really desire from a purely sexual standpoint. Not a perk. buys her the ring, Ties into marrying her which i said i didn’t want to hear as an example of how much he values her legally ties his finances with her Acceptable ect. Ah yes “etc”. Men v…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:51 AM
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They really don’t understand that women have similar sexual habits, some more intense than theirs. They think they’re so quirky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:35 AM
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When i see women in situations like this, i do tell them to break up with their loser husbands. And me personally? I wouldn’t let that fly in any relationship I’m in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:32 AM
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They literally think they’re superior beings when it comes to stuff like this. Like they’re the only ones who have eyes in relationships and that their girlfriend/wife are just blind and desire no one but them. It’s really laughable that they’re that silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:30 AM
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Women sexually fantasize and are turned on by other men too. It’s a human thing. If you really think your partner doesn’t see a hot man out in public and wasn’t sexually attracted or aroused by him to some degree, or that she’s not sexually attracted to the men she watches in porn, you’re delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:22 AM
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Besides marrying her and having children with her (which is more of a life altering event and responsibility for the woman than the man), how are you putting more energy into her?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:20 AM
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Very. It’s so sad that many (I would argue at least half) married women are in this position with their husbands. When someone values something, they treat it as something sacred and put in the work to cultivate it. Same applies to relationships. When a man values his relationship and marriage, it is displayed in his actions and his treatment towards her. Women speak all the time about how their husbands don’t appreciate them. Or how they have gotten complacent. How they don’t show affection or …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:18 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:03 AM
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I’ll share the post description because I felt I explained it well here: Also known as the “Good girl” or the “Wifey material” woman that is often prioritized when men decide to take dating seriously after ignoring these women. Because this sub is male dominated, there’s always talk about AF/BB and being the guy a woman settles with “post wall”, but why don’t we ever talk about the “settle down” woman and her plight? Based on conversations I’ve had with men, here’s the levels of attractiveness m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:01 AM
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No. 5’11 is two inches taller than the average male and I’m two inches taller than the average female.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:00 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12orbz5/we_dont_talk_enough_about_the_settle_down_woman/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:58 AM
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Welp my new standard 5’11. That’s pretty fair and it’s only the equivalent of my height as a female. If I can’t find a guy who’s 5’11 or taller, then I’ll be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:57 AM
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That’s awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:49 AM
1

😳
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:48 AM
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I feel like every time I come on here my “settle down woman” theory is proven time and time again. It’s literally undefeated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:45 AM
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It’s true. Why downgrade after upgrading?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:44 AM
1

Exactly that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:32 AM
1

Q4M Would you start a couples’ OF with your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:26 AM
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Appreciative husbands make me happy. Respect to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:25 AM
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Thank you🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:21 AM
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;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:05 AM
1

So it’s a comprehension problem. Figured.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:48 AM
1

Already said no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:41 AM
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No. People are allowed to edit their responses. That’s why there an edit button. I was in the process of editing but you had already responded back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:39 AM
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Didn’t say what I wanted to say
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:37 AM
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Because it was too late to edit the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:32 AM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:29 AM
1

Yep true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:27 AM
1

Actually I misspoke on my last comment “both deserve to be treated with equity”. Is it an inability to read or an inability to comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:26 AM
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Me either. They’re strange for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:21 AM
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No one confused anything. I said people should be treated with equity. Comprehend it or don’t. That’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:21 AM
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Such as cancer as my original comment was regarding (prostate) cancer. It was an example. Most women pay half or more for their household in western society. So no you’re not talking about historically. You can’t speak for all men yourself included, then say “well I don’t do that” and make it seem like an exception is the rule. Doesn’t work like that bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:19 AM
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Can you read? I literally just addressed that in my previous comment. You’re just talking to talk at this point. Comprehension seems to be a lacking ability.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:17 AM
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Sudden as you weren’t aware of the condition beforehand and quickly enter a grave state. Not [redacted], just fact We’re not talking about historically. We’re talking about today. Historically, men weren’t begging women to go 50/50 with them too. We can go on and on about what men did historically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:13 AM
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All I said was that they are related. Didn’t say they meant the same thing. There are tons of articles on “equality vs equity”. Read a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:11 AM
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They’re very related
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:09 AM
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Men usually deal with more sudden and unexpected (often fatal) issues than women, many of which don’t have any external indicators of whatever condition. And many of which could be caught in its earlier stages, such as cancer. So no, it is not always necessarily the most painful route. Men avoid these things because they’re scared and cowardly. So they should be the last ones talking about how women react and deal with the pain they endure due to being biological women. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:09 AM
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Look up what equity means
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:04 AM
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Men and women should be treated the way that best fits their needs. You can do that without being unfair or unjust.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:02 AM
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💁🏾‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:02 AM
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Don’t underestimate or undermine extremely painful things women go through if you’re avoiding the very few painful health things men should do in their lifetimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:01 AM
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Actually I misspoke on my last comment “both deserve to be treated with equity”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:59 AM
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They will never be the same due to biological differences both deserve to be treated equal and respectfully
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:48 AM
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We never be *the same
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:42 AM
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😢
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:41 AM
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I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 03:40 AM
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Oh 100%. I’ve seen women in my family live that life and since I was young. I vowed to never let that happen to me. Thank you for this.
/r/AllPillDebate18/06/23 03:29 AM
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There’s funny guys who still act like respectful men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:56 AM
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They’re lame excuses for men who get too many passes for their horrible behavior. But that’s on women for enabling that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:54 AM
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List of ways I plan to looksmaxx before mid August: -New hair color: Light brown/blonde balayage -Fitness: Continue to work out at least four days a week, about two hours a session; Steadily return back to less lifting, more cardio -Nutrition: Drink more water; Eat more meat -Clothing: Continue soft girl/preppy era from last year but lean into it a bit more (wore a lot of skirts and half tops, need to wear more dresses); Embrace the anklet -Body mod: Small (and final) tattoo in honor of my grand…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:48 AM
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They don’t get enough hate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:39 AM
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My new height standard for men: 5’11
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:37 AM
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Be gay or die of prostate cancer?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:25 AM
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She’s like me except the reverse and I’m much younger. Used to not care about height now tall men only😎
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:24 AM
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Men underestimate how painful periods and giving birth are and say “every woman does it, it’s not that hard” but avoid going to the doctors at all costs and avoid getting a finger stuck up their ass to make sure they don’t have cancer. Weird
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:22 AM
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Right, most men They want maids they can bang and who will take care of them like their mothers did growing up. And they want you to do half of their role as a provider because it makes their lives easier. But the funniest part is they still expect you to submit and see them as the head of the household. L O L
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:13 AM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:11 AM
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All my virgin female friends agree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:10 AM
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You reciprocate right? First date box munching?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:09 AM
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Yes. A good middle ground of being intimate without going all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:09 AM
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You’re not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:06 AM
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Not only is my bf a Chad but he’s smart, loving, caring, teaches me, and does so much for me. How did i get so lucky😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:03 AM
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My parents got married at 18 and 21. Pretty sure they’re only a decade older than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:01 AM
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Which country is that
/r/AllPillDebate17/06/23 09:02 PM
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You know that’s not true…
/r/AllPillDebate17/06/23 08:31 PM
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You admit that it’s western culture which most of us live in. It doesn’t matter if you think it’s a bad idea. It’s still apart of western culture.
/r/AllPillDebate17/06/23 08:30 PM
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That is something I am fortunate to not have dealt with. I can only imagine the mental and emotional impacts of that.
/r/AllPillDebate17/06/23 08:29 PM
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I know OP is doing that because his scenario is involving an attractive woman and an average man. It’s projection of his own values and mindset.
/r/AllPillDebate17/06/23 08:27 PM
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Good for you. Happy you followed your heart and didn’t let people choose the life for you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:57 AM
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No fatties allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:55 AM
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https://youtu.be/xKBsuglscbY For context, the girl who flipped the table is a former teen heroin addict. This scene is a true depiction of my time on PPD today, with me being the black girl of course. Now time to take my creatine and get some gains at the gym. Ta ta!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:25 AM
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L O L
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:19 AM
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He actually doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:18 AM
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There’s a visual difference between someone on steroids and someone not on it. Stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:18 AM
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He doesn’t need to do that because he looks how you wanted to look naturally. Keep shooting up!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:17 AM
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I can tell. My bf showed how to tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:00 AM
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Naturally strong and muscular men are just more genetically superior. I’m not against men who take steroids. Do what makes you feel good. But naturally strong men are the epitome of peak male physical form. Literal perfection.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:59 PM
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I’ve actually had quite a few crushes on Pacific Islander men. Some of them are very handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:53 PM
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A lot of words for “I take steroids” Boyfriend is strong with a six pack and we fuck three times a day. All he takes is pre workout and in the past he used to take creatine. Before we go to the gym and work out together, he takes his pre workout and I take my creatine. No steroids needed. Some men are just more superior than others. I don’t make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:52 PM
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Hey I’m just happy I have a boyfriend who’s strong and muscular naturally through hard work in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:47 PM
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The perfect body for a male is one that doesn’t need steroids😍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:45 PM
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Damn there’s no hope for me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:42 PM
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Mhm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:13 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:10 PM
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Haha so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:08 PM
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Because no one cares
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:07 PM
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One of the most liked comments on the post: I feel like there are a lot of men out there who will promise the world prior to baby’s arrival but once it’s born they check right out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:06 PM
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That’s actually what people are telling her to do in the comments. Divorce and either do shared custody or give him full custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:05 PM
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Found on FB “The painful realisation that I could be living my childfree friend's life if I didn't give in to marriage and kids. I miss my freedom so much. I have a long time friend that I'll call "Maria", not her real name of course. We have known each other for years now. She chose to be childfree. I chose motherhood after an unplanned pregnancy. I regret it every day. I have a 3 year old and a 1 year old and everything is hell. I try and put on a brave face, but every day, I wish I was Maria.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 11:01 PM
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Nothing. I just had them sparkly pink though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:56 PM
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She made a joke and now all you men are in your feelings. Cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:21 PM
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Ick ick ick. This is why I stay away from stoners.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:14 PM
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Huge ick
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:06 PM
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That’s a fair perspective to have
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 09:49 PM
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You can disagree if you’d like but there’s obviously others who feel the same way. Trauma comes in multiple forms, some more severe than others. I’m not an incel and even when I felt bad about my circumstances, I never started to hate men for it. But I can see how it affected me.
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 09:32 PM
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I was mainly talking pre legal adulthood. When most people are sharing an experience besides you, yes it’s bound to make you feel some type of way.
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 09:23 PM
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People are really making that Ayesha thing way bigger than it is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:20 PM
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Oh yeah for sure. But it’s baby steps and I’m proud of how far he’s come.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:56 PM
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I was literally given this flair during purge week. I don’t even know how to add a flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:55 PM
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He could but majority of people who have status have money or they’re linked to wealth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:52 PM
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I was given this flair yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:51 PM
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That’s not how it works? Sperm quality matters for conception. It’s more important than testosterone. You can have a high testosterone and still be infertile/low sperm count.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:51 PM
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Not at all. I’m a source of comfort for him when he’s going through problems. He used to have a really hard time communicating his feelings and I helped him through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:49 PM
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Worse. I love glamming up for nights out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:45 PM
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So does your age
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:45 PM
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What my bf sent to me after I had an anxiety induced breakdown today: “You’ve been through a lot on your own babe but now I’m here for you too. We got this.” So simple yet so heartwarming. He’s so perfect🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:44 PM
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Men don’t understand bra sizes though. Im a 30c last time I checked. Probably slightly bigger now. But guess what? That’s a small size.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:39 PM
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You know about the quality of sperm from guys of your area? Kind of sus but some buds may be closer than others I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:36 PM
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Not sure point you’re trying to make with the image?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:35 PM
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Your sperm quality says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:31 PM
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B and C cups can be small though. They’re usually not medium or average. They’re usually small. There are sexual things you can do with big boobs that you can’t do with small.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:30 PM
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B and C cups can be small though. They’re usually not medium or average. They’re usually small.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:30 PM
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Yes though body changes are changing that slightly and I’ve never been super small Small boob women can still be highly saught after and sex symbols. Rarely insulted way more than small boob women. Barely We don't hear small boob and big boob energy like we do big dick and small dick energy. Just because there’s not a catchphrase for the degradation doesn’t mean there’s not degradation
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:29 PM
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Most men don’t though. Settling and prefer are two different things and being on this sub, you already know that. It can
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:25 PM
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Agreed. Or 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:23 PM
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Good because mine is pretty tight
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:23 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:23 PM
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It is a good comparison. Men are just in denial about how degraded and less than small boobs are seen in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:22 PM
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Lot of words for “I don’t have any statistics”. Ok bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:13 PM
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Men do the exact same thing though. I’m not talking about outliers. I’m talking about in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:12 PM
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At least you’re being fair. Too many people in the comments saying “it’s not the same” when they’re both quite offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:09 PM
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And you did? I haven’t seen one statistic to support any of your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:08 PM
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Height and dick size work
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:05 PM
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Does the same apply for women and boobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:03 PM
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And you know this how?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:02 PM
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Reliable? Is there an equivalent of breast implant illness for penis enlargement?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:01 PM
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You tried to use university to support your argument to which I explained that I’m in university (right now, not 50 years ago) and your argument is constantly disproven.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:00 PM
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Muscles don’t greatly correlate with masculinity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:45 PM
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I’m in university dude. As said, the people of higher status are linked to money.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:44 PM
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They’re both seen as negative traits though. They’re both degraded in society and they’re both greatly tied to said person’s feminity/masculinity. The performance one I’ll accept. The other reason, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:43 PM
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No I just read something and asked the male equivalent. I don’t only go for Chads but I am in a relationship with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:37 PM
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That’s usually not the case though. If you wanna talk about rarities and outliers, we can have a conversation about that another time. Idk what it is with PPD men trying to take outliers and make their situations seem like a norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:36 PM
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Which is usually tied to money… people with more money are likely to have wider social circles and more social opportunities. This is a weird thing to try to argue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:31 PM
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We’ll just agree to disagree. I don’t know how being offensive is acceptable regardless of vitality. Both are tied to femininity and masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:30 PM
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They’re greatly correlated though. People of higher status tend to have more money. Rarely are there any positions or circumstances where a person is of high status and aren’t tied to wealth in some format.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:29 PM
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Doesn’t matter. What I said still applies. Status equals money and money is more valuable when you don’t have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:26 PM
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But that’s said to women to small boobs all the time. Why is one a norm and the other is offensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:25 PM
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Disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:24 PM
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But it’s the exact same thing being said
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:14 PM
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Right. Then they try to go to “It’s the maturity and experience young girls want. Not the money”. No sir you’re just delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:14 PM
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Because most of the men who talk about age gaps and how once men hit 30, young women will just chase them, are average men. It’s similar to men who constantly talk about gold diggers. Majority of them don’t have any gold worth digging and are worrying about things they’ll never experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:12 PM
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Does this apply the other way around? Because a lot of men say boob size doesn’t matter and that big boobs are just a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:10 PM
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That’s exactly why I asked this question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:07 PM
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How so
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:05 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:04 PM
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Hater
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:00 PM
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How
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:59 PM
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Q4M With average or below average penises… Say you were dating or in a relationship with a woman who said that dick size doesn’t really matter to her and that a big dick is just a “bonus”. What would be your thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:59 PM
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And the woman’s role is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:57 PM
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This is such a lame take. First, find people who desire you and want to be with you. Your example includes an average looking guy with an attractive woman. Of course she’s going to want something in return because you’re below her. If you were with an average looking girl or a below average looking girl, you’d fare better. But instead, you spend time shooting out of your league and then whine when you deal with the consequences of your own actions.
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 06:53 PM
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*She
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 06:50 PM
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Not to the same degree as it was decades ago because women have their own statuses and aren’t legally forced to be in relationships. When you’re financially stable, it allows for pickiness with things like looks and personality. This is a big reason why lots of men are single. Being a man and having a job just doesn’t cut it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:50 PM
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Lane response especially for your big age
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:47 PM
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I don’t personally think it matters above looks or personality. It’s just a desired bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:13 PM
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Delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:09 PM
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That’s the same way I feel about 30s men. Not wasting my youth on an old washed up man who peaked decades ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:08 PM
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KMS
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:05 PM
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CAP CAP CAP
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:04 PM
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I’d say it can be pretty powerful. Even from an average people perspective, I’d say most women would rather be with the boss than the employee. Or the popular guy over the nerd. That being said, I’ve never heard women have any dealbreakers regarding status (“high status men or nothing”) unless she’s a really pretty woman who gets a lot of attention from men. But who could blame her for being that way? Lots of guys of all status want her so why wouldn’t she want the best of the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:02 PM
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It’s the fact that most people have relationships and intimacy prior to becoming an adult and it’s really prevalent during the middle and high school years. When everyone around you is going through this important life experience and you’re unfortunately left out, it does make you question your self worth and lowers self esteem.
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 05:39 PM
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Your last sentence didn’t even make sense…
/r/AllPillDebate16/06/23 06:04 AM
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Seems about right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:48 PM
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Yeah that makes sense. I’m still going to check it out because I didn’t miss out on relationships in young adulthood, but I did miss out on them in adolescence which I feel has left me stunted in some ways. Maybe therapy will help me at least a bit.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 11:37 PM
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Someone doesn’t understand the definition of sexist. And yeah, I’m sure you do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:28 PM
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That’s unfortunate to hear. I was thinking about trying to get therapy for my issues related to the problem but your review makes me nervous.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 11:23 PM
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I just turned 21 two months ago? I didn’t ask what you liked. I just said girls my age don’t want old washed up men and the shoe fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:10 PM
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Not married and the old washed up men comment still applies. You telling your age just made it worse lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:08 PM
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Can you make your response more understandable please
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:04 PM
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You have to prove you’re worthy of worship though. You guys think they’ll just worship you automatically and that’s not the case. I mean a passport pro is literally going viral right now for getting checked by an overseas woman thinking he was going to get worshipped for simply existing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:50 PM
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Explain what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:47 PM
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Again, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:42 PM
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We don’t want old washed up men. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:32 PM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:26 PM
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How is it not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:26 PM
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Females
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:23 PM
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Attractive enough for me to date them and then be in relationships with them. I obviously wouldn’t date someone I found unattractive.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 10:22 PM
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Yes
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 10:20 PM
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You’re obviously not listening to any of her speaking points. And no, she doesn’t use racial slurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:16 PM
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The child gets the father’s last name. Not the mother’s.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 10:15 PM
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Never said they were did I?
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 10:15 PM
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Omg I have a flair🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:35 PM
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I don’t like it. I would prefer that my partner get off to me or the thought of me. My current boyfriend does that now and it’s so nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 09:22 PM
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Chris Evans is my celebrity crush but I don’t think I’d be in a serious relationship with him if the opportunity presented itself. I’d love to meet him though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:31 PM
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Im not black Exactly so of course you don’t understand. You don’t understand black community dynamics so I don’t even know why you’d try to give an opinion here. I agree that the aborting black males thing is wrong but only because black women who feel like Cynthia shouldn’t be having sex with black men in the first place. No need to abort what you shouldn’t be putting yourself at risk to produce anyways. Do you really think she cares about your opinion? She’s spreading messages that need to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:29 PM
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Depending on the women you date, you can put it that way if you’d like. Women end up paying their freedom, identities, and bodies away when they have kids which in turn continues their husband’s legacy. So all is fair.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 08:25 PM
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Very true. It’s calling having standards and expectations. Many guys have a standard and expectation to get sex by the third date or they’ll stop seeing the girl. We all have choices.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 08:21 PM
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Indifferent. I just turned 21 so it’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:45 PM
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Men use the “it’s biological” justification for their physical preferences in women but let a woman say she prefers tall men, she’s being “unfair”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:40 PM
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LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:33 PM
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Ah yes. This is more like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:29 PM
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Who’s that👀
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:26 PM
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They’re not secondary
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 07:25 PM
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You don’t. No one is forcing you too lol.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 07:23 PM
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🎻🎻🎻
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 07:21 PM
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No, you are correct that black women do need to be put together to date successfully and dating opportunities aren’t as easy for us compared to white women for example. Doesn’t mean it’s necessarily hard, just not as easy. It’s white definitely privilege in effect but it’s not a concept we’re not accustomed to. We see white privilege on a day to day basis. I personally think a lot of black women struggle in dating because they limit themselves to black men. Even if they say they’re not, they’re …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:58 PM
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I love Cynthia G. I disagree with about 10% of her points but overall, she speaks facts and truth. I watch her videos all the time. You really have to listen to what she’s saying and it’s hard to grasp if you’re not in the black community.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:44 PM
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This is too ironic coming from a black guy. From Atlanta of all places.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:38 PM
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I’m a black woman and it’s truly not that hard for me to date. I assume location and upbringing plays a part. But you are correct. A lot of PPD is talking about white women and their realities in the dating world. That’s why a lot of topics like “The Wall” aren’t paid attention to by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 06:37 PM
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Just say you were busy yesterday and didn’t see her text. Whether you will have sex or not with her, is totally in her hands and based on if she even still wants to see you after it felt like you blew her off. You can’t change how people feel or perceive things.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 06:33 PM
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They are. They’re just trying to virtue signal because being honest and choosing the dream girl doesn’t fit the “Women only want Chads. Their standards are so high and they don’t care about average guys!” narrative they’ll try to whine about later.
/r/AllPillDebate15/06/23 05:41 AM
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I never said I had a multimillionaire Chad husband ever on this sub lol The other account clearly says it’s my backup…
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:51 PM
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I can promise you, you wouldn’t even be in my dating pool so that’s totally fine. Find a wife who will stay home while you do all the work and providing. As stated there are plenty of women into that. And that’s totally fine. And yeah I’ve never had anyone oppose my thoughts on this. A lot of my relationship ideals are based on my parents who have a similar dynamic. They’ve been married for 25 years and they’re only 46 and soon to be 43. Very successful people with very successful kids. So I’m g…
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:50 PM
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Asking the real questions
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:11 PM
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I disagree but I’m only a woman who only socializes with women outside of my boyfriend. What do I know about what women like and how much they value physical appearance?
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:10 PM
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def a ragebaiter but this is a real question. men complain about women wanting to be with physically attractive partners so they tell them to lower their standards then complain when their girlfriend or wife doesn’t want to bang them. a bit counterproductive.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:08 PM
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shouldn’t you want to have sex three times a day in a relationship?
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:08 PM
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you’re correct. i don’t want to be a SAHM mom at all. not long term anyways. fortunately no guy that i’ve met had an issue with this, especially knowing my family background and how hard i’ve hustled to receive an education as a first generation high school graduate and college attendee who works two jobs to pay for her education. there’s no way in hell i’ve done all that to be a stay home mom. (just want to add on that another masculine responsibility i would take on is helping provide financia…
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:07 PM
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I want a male partner that will lead, protect, provide for, and prioritize our family. I want him to act as the man of the household and I want to treat him as such by respecting him and allowing him final say on important decisions. I want him to embrace his masculinity. He doesn’t need to be the sole provider. He doesn’t need to initiate everything or court me all the time (I’ve always tried to court my partners and have paid for countless dates, even a first date before). He does need to help…
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:27 PM
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No worries dude, I understand. Yeah I know libido is primary regulated by testosterone. My original comment was mainly a joke but do I think that I probably have a higher libido than probably 35% of men.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:23 PM
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I don’t want a traditional man
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:16 PM
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None of that had to do with libido. You just embarrassed yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:15 PM
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I’m probably not baseline but I’m probably very close. A tester one patch would just increase that tremendously.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:11 PM
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What do you mean both ways?
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:10 PM
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This is how I see it too. All of my relationships besides my current one have been with lower libido men or men who were more boring sexually and it definitely played with my self esteem. It wasn’t fun at all and I don’t think anyone should feel rejected in a relationship. Compatibility and attraction are so important.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 06:55 PM
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Then I would have a higher libido than any man
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 06:37 PM
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Women caring a lot less about look than men was probably true decades ago. Not today. There’s no incentive or point for women to not care about looks today. Does that mean personality doesn’t matter? No. Does that mean the guy has to be the hottest guy in the world? No. But looks come first. You best believe that for millennial and generation z women specifically, if they’re dating someone, they find them extremely attractive in their eyes. your not gonna be an average looking guy and repeatedly…
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:34 AM
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Maybe decades ago. Not today.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:30 AM
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You’re cool bud. We might not always agree but I like your vibes.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:12 AM
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No need to apologize haha. I do the same thing all the time.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:12 AM
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That literally has nothing to do with what I’m talking about
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 09:09 AM
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No it’s because they’re physically unattractive and men have different attraction standards for other men than women do
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 08:36 AM
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What does that have to do with what I said?
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:47 AM
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There’s several post from guys on this sub saying women have too high standards because a guy they find attractive is posting on other subs expressing they haven’t been able to find girlfriends. They use this tactic to support their “women only want Chad” narrative when they don’t understand that women don’t find those guys attractive at all. Men find them attractive and the epitome of handsomeness. Not women.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:38 AM
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Second
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:10 AM
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I’ve been dating one for almost a year
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:10 AM
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Yeah I’ve honestly never saw it as too intimidating though I get the fear of approaching. I always tried to remember that there are an abundance of attractive guys out there so one saying no to me won’t hurt.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:10 AM
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Why not speak English?
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 07:05 AM
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Men also don’t understand what women find attractive in men and it’s all over this sub. Calling blatantly unattractive guys attractive because that’s what you men like in men. I agree with your second statement though.
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 06:59 AM
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Ooh new fan unlocked
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 06:58 AM
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We don’t
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 06:58 AM
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You’re correct but men don’t understand those standards. As I’ve said, in my experience, men don’t understand what an attractive guy looks like to a woman. You named all of those attractive guys but none of them have problems getting women. And I would bet that would be true if they weren’t famous. So yeah a guy you find good looking might struggle but who says women find him good looking? Our standards aren’t yours.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 11:38 PM
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I’d say 1 out of 5 of the guys I’ve approached would be what you guys consider a Chad
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 11:09 PM
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You really gotta work on your comebacks bud. For your safety.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:39 PM
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That was pretty lame ngl
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:37 PM
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Omg you’re the patriarchy guy! Why make another account if you know you’re just going to get suspended again?
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:33 PM
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One thing I’ve learned is men don’t know what a good looking guy is to women to I’m going to take this with a grain of salt
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:32 PM
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L O L
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:31 PM
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Most women don’t think that though
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:30 PM
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Obviously it’s virtue signaling
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:14 PM
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Say “Hey I think you’re cute. Can I have your some form of contact.” There can be tons of people who do something and it can still not be a majority. There’s tons of men who are creepy and abusive. Are majority of men creepy and abusive?
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 10:13 PM
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Tons of women do approach men. Hell, I’ve probably approached at least five guys in my 21 years of living. We just approach guys we find attractive. Men think women don’t approach because women don’t approach them specifically and that speaks to their attractiveness. I won’t say women approaching men is a norm because it’s not. But how much women approach men is definitely underestimated..
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 09:23 PM
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I said they should make your life better. And no a relationship didn’t make me better. My partner, what he’s taught me, and the experiences he’s given me have made me better. Not everyone gets those things simply because they’re in a relationship.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 09:00 PM
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Relationships should make life better. They shouldn’t be someone’s life. I’m with my boyfriend because he makes my life better and makes me a better person.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 08:42 PM
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I didn’t have a sense of urgency because I learned that relationships and sex won’t make or break me. My life and being matters outside of relationships and sex and that was something I didn’t understand when I was younger. The funny thing is the guy I lost my virginity to was definitely not a Chad. Like not even close. My current boyfriend is Chad though.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 08:38 PM
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I wasn’t looking for anyone at the time so no, I didn’t think that
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 08:33 PM
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Because I have no major insecurities about myself these days. When I lost my virginity, I was super insecure and somewhat angry. I couldn’t understand why I was an adult and hadn’t experienced intimacy. Or why I had never had a boyfriend. It was something I was very depressed and insecure about a couple years ago because it made me feel like something was wrong with me and that I was unworthy of experiencing these things. These insecurities caused me to do what I did. When i met my boyfriend, th…
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 08:30 PM
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Pretty much yeah. Now today, looks are still the #1 parameter. Probably 80% of the equation. They’re just not the only thing that matters. But i just want to reiterate that I’ve only ever had one hookup in my life thus far and it was the situation i already shared. Every other person I’ve been intimate with was an eventual boyfriend.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 08:16 PM
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No
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 08:08 PM
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To be fair, when I had sex for the first time I was so focused on not being a virgin anymore that the vibe and being compatible metric hadn’t been made. I had no sexual experience. No relationship experience. Very few romantic interactions with men. I was just like “I really want to experience sex and I feel bad about being a virgin at this age”. That was my mindset. I knew going into that situation that I was trying to lose my virginity and that was my only goal. And it probably would have been…
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 08:05 PM
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Once. I was so ashamed about being an older virgin that I hooked up with someone to lose it. I didn’t even tell them I was a virgin because I was that embarrassed at the time. Don’t regret it but yeah that’s my one night stand experience.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 07:58 PM
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I think said person is attractive. They can hold quality conversations and have showcased intellect. Our interaction seems natural and not forced. They’re not trying to coerce me into intimacy. Once those metrics are met, I’m open to being intimate with them. There is no timeline set for when I might feel this way and I’ve always been transparent throughout my time on Reddit that setting time limits on when intimacy should happen is quite idiotic.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 07:50 PM
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Because I sleep with someone once i feel like we are vibing and compatible. With my current boyfriend it took me about a week to sleep with him. I don’t do timelines. I do what feels right.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 07:43 PM
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Offering a long term relationship to a man, for me, is my ultimate signification of attraction to him. But that’s just me.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 07:34 PM
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Yeah, like preschool/kindergarten age
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 07:32 PM
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Never said I plan to be a SAHM because I don’t plan to be one lol. Not long term anyways. Probably just when the kids are young but I want to work throughout my life.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 06:31 PM
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I like everything but I love Japanese food I’ve maybe had five drinks my whole life. Not super into drinking but maybe I’ll warm up to it a little more now that I’m 21. I’ve never done any drugs. Don’t plan to. I don’t think so?
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 06:30 PM
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once you pass the looks threshold as a man, personality is the biggest factor Correct until that man gets to the 8/10 level at which point personality stops mattering again in most instances and they can get away with almost anything. Same happens in regards to women. That’s why pretty privilege exists and why women with physical traits such as big boobs get privileges like better treatment and more money than say, a woman with small boobs. Goes both ways.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 06:25 PM
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If it was real life it would be confirmed and there would be proof. Which you don’t have because it doesn’t exist.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 09:38 AM
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There are literally no studies linked in that ny post article. It’s an opinion piece. If you can’t back your claims up with some actual data that’s been finalized, peer reviewed, and published, you have no case bud.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 09:31 AM
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Are you really using the New York Post, one of the corniest organizations that’s known for posting fake information, as a source? I expected more from you.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 09:25 AM
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Link to a study that confirms that women cheat more? I’ve got plenty saying men cheat more, latest being published in 2022. So feel free to link your source saying women cheat more.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 09:16 AM
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Good wives get cheated on as well and men cheat more than women. Your point?
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 09:13 AM
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I’ll ask again: in what ways do women lose attraction to their partners? You seem to think you know women well and what they value so what scenarios/examples do you have? That’s a lot of words to say you don’t have any basis to your theory. Figures.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 09:10 AM
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What are some ways women lose attraction to their partners? What abusive relationships are you talking about? How are the men abusing these women and how are these women showing love to these abusers?
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 08:58 AM
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And yeah I would agree with you there. As previously stated, being nice can made an already attractive guy (in said woman’s eyes) more attractive. But being nice isn’t going to make a guy a woman doesn’t find attractive, all of a sudden attractive. That being said, behavioral characteristics like being nice are important for long term relationships. Most people, male or female, want to be around pleasant people. Attraction does keep women loyal but the attraction can tie into niceness. For examp…
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 08:51 AM
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Being nice and other behavioral characteristics are 100% meaningful for long term relationships where you plan to be with someone for an extended period of time.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 08:40 AM
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I’d have to disagree. It definitely does add to overall attraction for most women. I’m just saying she won’t date and have sex with him just because he’s nice. He’ll have to meet other metrics first.
/r/AllPillDebate13/06/23 08:37 AM
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Your ancestors didn’t have to reproduce with them. They chose to. Especially considering that for most of history, women weren’t choosing partners they actually wanted. They were choosing partners out of survival. So again, your male ancestors should have picked better. Blame them.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 11:32 PM
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Not interested in them either. I don’t want to be with a virgin. At least one sexual experience is fine with me.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 11:20 PM
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Guess your male ancestors should of picked better women
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 11:18 PM
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Awesome son
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 09:26 PM
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Hi. How’s your day been?
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 09:25 PM
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Aren’t you on your 1000th account because you’re permanently suspended and have to keep making accounts until they inevitably get banned? That’s unfortunate.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 09:24 PM
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It’s not meaningless but they’re usually just things that boost attractiveness. Being nice doesn’t make a non attractive guy attractive lol.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 09:19 PM
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No but after classes I’m either at his place or he’s at mine. So we do all of the typical “live together” stuff outside of doing chores together. We are currently looking for an apartment for next year where we will live as a couple.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 08:39 PM
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Exactly
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 08:37 PM
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Because girls like me are rare
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 08:28 PM
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😂😂 I hope they ask you questions. Your responses are gold.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 08:27 PM
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Because I find super high N counts off putting and it does make me look at a guy different. Shows lack of self control and desperation. Hmm in my last relationships I probably asked within a month of seeing each other. I don’t have trouble girlbossing then turning it off because my boyfriend/future husband/family are supposed to be my safe spaces. When I’m with them, I’m supposed to feel like I can be my most vulnerable and free. Where no fronts are needed and I can be myself. I would say I some…
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 08:23 PM
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Nah a year is too soon even for me. I want to really get to know someone and make sure we’re compatible before committing to something as big as marriage. But as previously stated, four years is my max. They’re free to propose beforehand if they’d like. If we’re past the 2.5 year mark of dating, id most likely say yes.
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 07:53 PM
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Yes
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 07:51 PM
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Like I see the man as the head of the household and I want to submit to a male partner as long as he proves to be worthy of submission. I might girlboss irl but in my relationships and within the home I want to rest in my femininity and I want the man to thrive in his masculinity. I also value marriage and family units more than anything. I only date to marry and I would prefer to marry and have kids young. Not into waiting to start a family once I hit 30 or something like that. Looking for some…
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 07:51 PM
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Surprisingly, I’ve had pretty good experiences. I make it known pretty early into seeing someone that: -I will not have children out of wedlock. But after marriage, I want kids and not having kids/not being able to have kids is a dealbreaker. -I will not be in a relationship with someone for more than four years without a proposal being made to me. If I’m not engaged within four years of us dating, I will end the relationship and find someone else. (“Forever girlfriend” protection). -No large jo…
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 07:43 PM
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In regards to my morals/values?
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 07:23 PM
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L O L
/r/AllPillDebate12/06/23 06:46 PM
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I didn’t use those words. You did.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:16 PM
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I like you. You’ve been killing it for the past 24 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:15 PM
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I’m also talking about real life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:14 PM
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As I’ve already said twice, the topics you listed aren’t comparable to the topic of age gap relationships. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:10 PM
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White males aren’t black males though. So again, not comparable. On the topic of age gap relationships, males are males regardless of race, ethnicity, religion, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:56 PM
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I’ve heard more concern from older women than anything. Always from an informative, storytelling perspective as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:49 PM
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A male is telling me about the thoughts of other males towards females. The topics of interracial and homosexual relationships aren’t comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:47 PM
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Please, it probably gets posted at least once a week. What I suggest you do next time is utilize that search tab at the top of this sub and make sure your topic hasn’t been posted a thousand times before you think to post something. Let’s come here with an actual creative take next time😉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:09 PM
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I think this is true. And social media helps a lot with this because we get to hear the insight of women who were in age gap relationships (ie Taylor Swift, one of the biggest pop stars in the world, making a song and music video about her horrible age gap relationship with an older man), as well as the insights of men who seek age gap relationships whose reasons often are creepy, weird, and ill-hearted. This “old women are just jealous” narrative is so tired and played out. I’m 21 and always th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:03 PM
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Y’all need to come up with something new😴
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:58 PM
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You are correct that men find a higher % of women attractive. That doesn’t mean women should be called superficial for not wanting to be with someone they deem unattractive or that they should be guilted into dating someone they don’t find attractive. Your Devil’s advocate statement is just showcasing the entitlement men have towards relationships and sex. You’re essentially saying that because women don’t find as many men attractive, it’s okay to call their preferences superficial because it ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:52 AM
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Exactly this. It’s ok for men to prioritize looks when looking for partners but when women do it, we’re superficial and should give the guy a chance because he has a great personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 02:04 AM
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This isn’t all women. You just don’t pay attention to the women who don’t behave this way. That’s on you.
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 06:42 PM
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Correct
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 06:37 PM
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This is the right answer
/r/AllPillDebate06/06/23 06:37 PM
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Her story was so sad. Ive been considering getting work done but her story did scare me and make me reconsider.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:33 PM
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Love the user
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:55 PM
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Thanks. I won’t💛
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:50 PM
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Ok so keep the same energy about the other stuff too. If you don’t care about money then you shouldn’t complain about the circumstances that often come with being with a poorer partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:50 PM
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You don’t have to be hypergamous to care about money
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:43 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:40 PM
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They don’t know what they want. They’ll go and on about how men don’t care about a women’s money or career but then turn around and say women are gold diggers, how alimony is “divorce rape” and that they won’t financially support a woman or household and everything needs to be 50/50. One second they care, one second they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:27 PM
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My birth year😇
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:01 PM
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The jokes write themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:40 PM
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Omg how’d you know
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:36 PM
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It’s just the biggest ick to me. The guy could be a 10/10. If he I see he has flip flops on, he goes down to a 0.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:13 PM
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Wear flip flops (not at the beach)p or pool)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:10 PM
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Which majority of you don’t have
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:55 PM
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Then don’t get into monogamous relationships. Be poly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:52 PM
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Liz is awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:46 PM
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That doesn’t change anything I said. Infidelity is a huge deal. If she wouldn’t have dated leagues below her pay grade she could have been taking him for everything he owns right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:46 PM
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Haven’t seen him in a minute
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:52 PM
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No it’s evidence that her husband is a shitty person and father. Too bad she makes way more than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:25 PM
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This is the correct answer but some guys on this sub find anyway to slut shame women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:42 PM
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You’re welcome❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:26 PM
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And I hope I wake up to a million dollars in my bank account tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:52 AM
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That has nothing to do with the body count section of your question. You’ll just have to use better word choice next time💛
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:47 AM
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You made a question for women without specifications and used the general term “y’all”. You’ll have to adjust your word choice next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:41 AM
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I’ll let you answer that question before I do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:36 AM
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Again, most women aren’t racking up high body counts and having sex with a bunch of randos. So some self reflection on the women you’re interested in appears to be needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:28 AM
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Most women aren’t racking up 50+ ncounts so if those are the women you’re choosing to focus on or that you attract, maybe it’s time for some self reflection
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:22 AM
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Oh yeah for sure. I have to get my career together and I don’t want any children out of wedlock so I need to get married first. But in a dream world, I would have a kid right now. That would make me super happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:46 AM
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Always been that way. I think it’s partially because I got to heavily partake in helping raise my two siblings who are substantially younger than me. And I also think it’s because my mom is amazing and she is the embodiment of a great mother to me. I want to be just like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:44 AM
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I want to be a mom more than anything
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:36 AM
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Yeah being young and not having a bunch of responsibilities is fun but I want a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:32 AM
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You and every other old guy on this sub… allegedly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:34 AM
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Definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:38 PM
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6
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:21 PM
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Biology does not even use the term “the wall”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:41 AM
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That’s not what biology says
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:38 AM
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Aging is biological yes. Your life stages are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:33 AM
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I think 70-80% is good but that’s just my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:27 AM
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No, it’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:25 AM
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My relationship right now is the best I’ve had and it’s mainly because sex plays such a big importance. I just think 85% is high lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:22 AM
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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with this but 85% is pretty high
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:11 AM
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Then don’t say your post is related to biology. Say it’s related to your views of SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:09 AM
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Again, take a biology course. For your sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:06 AM
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Not how that works bud. Maybe you should take a biology course.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:01 AM
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You said your post was based on biology and now you’re saying only menopause is the true biological life stage? You don’t even have a true argument and you’re just helping confirm that this post and those who agree with it are creepy and predatory. This is why I avoid age gaps and will continue to support anyone who condemns them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:57 AM
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These aren’t biological life stages. As someone going into nursing who had to take classes on biology and human development, not once were these mentioned as the life stages of females which you already know. You’re just making stuff based on your personal sexual preferences. And I’m letting you know that people who do stuff like this are creepy weirdos and I’m happy young women like myself are avoiding their weird creepy predatory asses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:48 AM
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Similar to your post and comments. Guess we have something in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:43 AM
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Haha I knew it was coming. You didn’t like what I said so now I’m making stuff up? Typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:38 AM
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Hinge. But in my experience, people tend to look to seriously date on Hinge. If you’re looking to get laid, keep using Tinder or maybe one of those weird hook up apps like Whisper.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:36 AM
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No bud. There’s nothing appealing about an older men whatsoever, especially not one who’s trying to date me despite me being years younger. That signifies that he’s a immature, probably traumatized male and that’s not something I want to be around. Especially because he’s most likely way less physically attractive that my same age male counterparts. Older men who exclusively seek to date younger women and break women into such shallow life stages are creepy weirdos and I’m so happy that in the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:32 AM
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No because it is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:27 AM
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Or it could just be gross, weird, and predatory and I have the intelligence to recognize it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:22 AM
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Very
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:15 AM
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They’re 100% right and I’m saying this as a newly 21 year old woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:15 AM
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Do what you want
/r/AllPillDebate04/06/23 05:04 AM
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Truly a symptom of having a high libido and a hot bf
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:56 AM
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From my knowledge, you can apply to these programs as much as you want. I know a couple people who applied to the BSN program at my university for example, got rejected, applied again for another application cycle after increasing their GPA, and then got it. Regarding your second question, I’m not 100% how it works for LPN to RN specifically. But it’s kind of general knowledge that if you already have a BS or BA in a science related degree or licensure in a specific nursing practice that’s not R…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:56 AM
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I feel like I think about sex at least four times an hour so let’s go 48 times
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:46 AM
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Truly depends on the school they’re trying to apply to. Lots of programs are extremely competitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:36 AM
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Take a deep breath. Don’t think so negatively and have some faith in yourself. If you really want to do the RN program, go for it as life is short and should be spent doing what you love and won’t regret. I say take the prerequisites to maximize your GPA and even try to do some nursing related volunteering at a local hospital, or nursing home, etc. You are correct that there is someone better out there because there always is with anything we do in life. But there is only one you. I understand h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:26 AM
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Why do you doubt you’ll get in if you take the prereqs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:09 AM
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Obviously
/r/AllPillDebate03/06/23 03:22 AM
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Exotic “Chads” are rarely attractive. In my experience, only men find exotic men peak male attractiveness when most women aren’t into that.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 11:14 PM
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You were saying that I called highly attractive men plain looking when all my comments explained that I said that because the guys I find attractive don’t look exotic or rare.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 11:07 PM
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The collage part is just similar photos the website suggests. The men I found attractive were the main photo.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 10:54 PM
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I said something similar but instead you dissed me😭
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 10:51 PM
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It just makes me smile and laugh at this point. It’s like little kids talking about how they think unicorns and big foot are real.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:41 PM
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Lol don’t project your type in men onto me
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 10:31 PM
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Which I’m not
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 10:30 PM
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I agree with you. That’s definitely my type.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:51 PM
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That’s fair
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:50 PM
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No but I’m looksmatched with my bf who is a 7/10 Chad
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:48 PM
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Eh I would say no but very slightly. My bf is definitely what you guys would consider a 7/10 Chad. I would say my bf and I are looksmatched.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:47 PM
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They’re definitely 8/10 for sure. One of them definitely isn’t a Chad as he’s shorter. I just meant plain looking in terms of none of that exotic chiseled scariness that guys tend to think is super attractive on other men.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:13 PM
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Thank god
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:07 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/13ym0wy/im_convinced_male_beauty_standards_are_too_high/jmnwbrc/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:06 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/13ym0wy/im_convinced_male_beauty_standards_are_too_high/jmnwbrc/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1&context=3
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:06 PM
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Hispanic ones?
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:04 PM
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Got it. I think these guys are super attractive: https://pin.it/7FmusCs https://pin.it/5l6RuAd I would consider them normal because they’re not like mainstream celebrities or anything like that. What makes them stand out? They just have nice facial cohesiveness and nice smiles. I also tend to like plain looking guys, not into the super exotic chiseled look. I find it gross tbh. I’m a 21yo black female. My preferred demographic is primarily 19- 23 year old men (usually white but Hispanics is my s…
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 09:02 PM
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I would out Hispanic men as my second preferred group of men so not bias. He looks awfully feminine to me. Maybe it’s the hair and cheekbones.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 08:54 PM
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Where are you from where feminine looking men such as the one you linked are the real male beauty standard? South Korea?
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 08:48 PM
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Most of them are virtue signaling
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 08:47 PM
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You’re kidding…
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 08:31 PM
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Weird hill to die on
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:19 PM
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Your obsession with student loan debt is so odd
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:13 PM
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My bf
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:04 PM
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Well he’s not attractive
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 08:03 PM
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I’m not lying. You saw my comment lol.
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 08:03 PM
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I was being serious. A successful relationship requires a good amount of objectification on both ends imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:28 PM
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The key to a successful relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:21 PM
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FaceTime/video strip shows > anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:05 PM
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I avoid them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:20 PM
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Most men are unkempt, fat, slobs once they hit they’re late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:16 PM
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Because those women tend to be above average in attractiveness and those are primarily the only women guys focus on until they feel forced to settle down
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:13 PM
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Breath
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:11 PM
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Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:09 PM
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Can’t explain because I don’t think they’re being truthful
/r/AllPillDebate02/06/23 06:02 PM
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Just like men don’t want to be settled for, women don’t either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:02 PM
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I agree with that statement though it doesn’t really have anything to do with what I was previously saying
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:01 PM
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We can agree to disagree I guess. I stand firm on my views of the settle down woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:25 PM
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I don’t disagree. I just think a lot of these conversations would be more productive if men were more honest about what women they actually desire and pay attention to. There’s too many guys in here complaining about not getting attention and not being able to date but they’re shooting for women who are way out of their league and who therefore have more attractive options. Lots of these men aren’t looking for women who are in their league until they get desperate, which is on par with how they …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:12 PM
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Yeah maybe it’s just different where you’re at. Even the ethnic athletes st my university are with some questionable WW unless they’re national league prospects, which we know not all athletes are.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 11:05 PM
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I don’t think men have delusional standard or are desperate. Like what you like, not my place to judge. Calling out the fact that men aren’t checking for average women though is vital for conversations on this sub. Men are only scrambling to find an average woman when they’re ready to settle down or get tired/bored of chasing the above average woman. And I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with this but saying it isn’t true, like many men do on here, is just a flat out lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:01 PM
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Thanks for calling attention to this. It frustrates me no end to see the hypocrisy among many guys here who say average guys are invisible and will never be viscerally desired by women, but then they feel the exact way about average women. They want hot women, but they will settle for plain Janes because they still want to get laid and have sexual validation and romance - but women seemingly settling for their own reasons is the worst thing imaginable. I’ve also heard men here say that men “sett…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:52 PM
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For sure. The fact is most people date within their race regardless of their race. We’re just talking about when people interracially date, which is definitely becoming more of a thing among my generation.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 10:48 PM
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I talked about the last bit on my “settle down girl” post awhile ago. The difference in treatment when a man actually desires and wants his partner versus how he treats the woman he settles with because they’re consistent and reliable, is blatantly obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:44 PM
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I agree with everything you said. In my experience, other ethnic men also date “bottom tier” white women and are rarely white high tier white Elmer, but I will say that I do believe that black men date the most unattractive white women out of all other races of ethnic men. But there’s reasons for that.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 10:32 PM
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Your life does sound terrible lmao How is me talking about interracial dating filling their minds up with poison? That’s a strange hill to die on. I’ve done a lot in my life that I’m super proud of and I’m glad I have a mother, father, and siblings that support me in all my achievements :) Uneducated? Somewhat by society’s standards. Poor? Nah. I’m actually middle to high class who always grew up in nice suburbs. How do you think I started liking white guys lol. You’re also Latino so don’t know …
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 10:21 PM
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All you mentioned was the south lol. I have cousins in Florida who see the same thing I’ve mentioned. Most people sate within their race, especially black women unfortunately. I’m not arguing against that. I’m saying that when white men date ethnic women they’re with above average in attractiveness women. They’re not dating the below average women. It’s mostly true especially for black men. My bf is white and we’ve talked about this before. He’s made it clear that black men specifically love to …
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 10:14 PM
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West coast US
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 09:59 PM
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If that makes you happy so be it. I doubt it (you’re the same person getting zero matches on dating apps so) but if that were true, I’m happy that makes you happy. That’s not what makes me happy and not a worthwhile life to me. So again if an Ivy League degree would put me in your position, I wouldn’t want it whatsoever. There’s nothing about your life to be jealous of. Telling a newly 21 year old girl that you’re better than her as you’re pushing 30 is an awfully weird “flex”. That’s like me te…
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 09:57 PM
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Better than me but you’re 28 with no one who loves you besides your mom? That’s not a win to me. You can go on and on about your Ivy League diploma and how much better you are than a 21 YEAR OLD WOMAN, but you’re still alone and single and swiping on dating apps because nobody wants you. That might be a flex for you but that sounds sad as fuck to me. Yeah I might be getting my bachelors and masters form a pac 12 school but at least I’m the first in my family to go to college and complete college…
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 09:35 PM
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All you said was not NYU. If you really did go to Columbia, you would’ve said Columbia. The fact that it’s so cryptic shows that you didn’t really go there lol. I got into ten high ranking colleges and chose the one that was top 10 in the country for my major (nursing) and that was relatively close to home. I never wanted to go to an Ivy League. If you can show me where I’ve ever posted 100x in one day on this sub, please be my guest Trolling is fun, obviously
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 09:19 PM
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An app guys use to create virtual girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:16 PM
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What was the point of linking that comment? You said nothing about an Ivy League school. The only reason I mentioned PAC-12 was because you assumed that I still lived at home with my mom to which I refuted. It wasn’t a flex because college is college. Unless you’re outside of the US, everyone knows what the pac-12 is. I post on this sub because it’s fun and its active unlike other subs. I also post and comment on other subs that have to do with beauty and relationships. You’re trying to take sho…
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 09:09 PM
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I’m sure you were dude. I don’t participate in 100 post per day😂 Yes I woke up and replied to all the cringey ass nerds like you who get triggered by everything I do and say. If you guys wanna continue to @ me, I’ll definitely respond.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 08:47 PM
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Please educate yourself. Stitches are given because the vagina tears during vaginal birth and infections need to be prevented. Not to make someone “tighter”.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 06:25 PM
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But you viewed it💕
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 06:02 PM
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You know the links was posted because you saw it in your notifications😂😂 You gotta try harder buddy.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 05:58 PM
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I posted the link and gave you 15 minutes to reply. You saw the link and didn’t reply until I deleted it then called your ass out. As said on my verification, cope harder.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 05:55 PM
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The Imgur link said different <3
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 05:43 PM
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At this point you don’t even believe what you’re saying. Again I could see on the Imgur link that you viewed my verification post. Keep fronting on here if you want but everyone knows you’re just coping. Ta ta loser💋
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 05:36 PM
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This is such cope lol
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 05:32 PM
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You tagged me in this why?
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 05:30 PM
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I posted an Imgur link which you already know because you viewed it. I saw the view count change lmao.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 05:27 PM
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I’m sure you did. You saw the photo in which I verified myself and what I look like but were too scared to respond because I proved you wrong. Typical.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 08:57 AM
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Funny how you don’t respond after I verify and gave you 15 minutes to reply. Odd.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 06:56 AM
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You must not know what verify means on Reddit You’re coping hard
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 06:28 AM
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That is interesting. As you’ve probably figured I’m from the US. I’m black but Ive been fortunate to come from a good family and parents that value working hard for their children and providing them with the best opportunities. I personally feel like it’s hard to find that philosophy in mass in my own community so I tend to not date within my race because our values just aren’t the same. I value creating generational wealth. I value marriage. I value no children out of wedlock. I value a partner…
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 06:28 AM
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I see why people find Israelites annoying now Again I’ve posted an Imgur of myself on here and PPD so idk what to tell ya. I primarily date white men and have my reasons for it. The way you guys get so mad about it is odd.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 06:19 AM
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I’ve literally posted a photo of myself faceless on this sub before. Do you guys want me to verify next? I couldn’t imagine being this pressed over a comment😂 Do you really think I care about what an Asian incel thinks? Seriously?
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 06:12 AM
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Most people aren’t good enough for an Ivy. That’s not the diss you think it is… regardless I’m about to graduate with my bachelors in chemistry and then I’m off to get my masters in nursing. I’m doing good enough lol. Yes I exclusively comment on here and PPD because those are the subs that entertain me most. I don’t have autism. Not like there’s anything wrong with that but I can’t relate.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 06:10 AM
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I go to a pac-12 university and my parents have been married for 25 years which I’ve been pretty transparent about on my profile. But yes I did grow up in the suburbs. That part is true. Okay so you are old I’m dating Chad so I’ve already “ascended” lol
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 05:37 AM
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What does that have to do with anything I said? I just said that when white men date out, they date above average ethnic women.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 05:35 AM
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Yeah when they fit men’s must have preferences like big boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:14 AM
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No I said it’s mentioned in those things. My opinion is based on what I see in the real world and conversations I’ve had with white men with ethnic girlfriends including my bf. All old people don’t think they’re old. What’s new? I come on here to troll and fuck around as seen by most of my comments and posts on this sub. You guys take this shit seriously. I just find it funny. Gives me something to do when I’m bored, usually at work.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 04:12 AM
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That’s your race so you know it better than I would. I do find that interested though because the Asian girls I know who are dating white guys are very shy, quiet and timid.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 04:09 AM
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Most women who get a boob job fair better with men and relationships than when they were natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:08 AM
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Someone sounds mad. I said that it’s mentioned in (non fictional media) all the time because it os. https://youtu.be/ERcjxLguk8o I can make a compilation if you’d like. I’m guessing you’re old so maybe you did see something different in your time. Gen Z ethnic hotties are dating White Chads and there’s a multitude of reasons for that. Visit your local college campus or spend some time looking at Gen Z interracial couples irl or online then get back to me.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 04:06 AM
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As a whole? Yes. There’s still less desirable women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 04:00 AM
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After really thinking about it and spending time on this sub, I think my new dating preferences for age are -2/+2. I think that’s all the gap I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:59 AM
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I’m being dead serious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:56 AM
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You’re assuming those women would even want him or be interested in him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:54 AM
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Beg to differ. If they can deal with ugly or overweight women just because she has big boobs, they can deal with women they hate. It’s similar to pretty privilege. Women with small boobs always have to work 10x harder to be attractive or to be recognized. It is what it is but I just wish people would stop trying to virtue signal like it’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:50 AM
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You explaining it doesn’t take away from the fact that you’re just supporting my point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:47 AM
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Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:45 AM
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Yes. That or do double/triple takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:44 AM
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That’s not true and I think you know that deep down
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:43 AM
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Most guys don’t even know what good fake boobs look or feel like. It’s weird how guys get a hate boner for this lol. Like really getting angry at women who try to make themselves more attractive when men are the ones saying they’re not good enough for being born in the body they were given? Most guys agree that big boobs are better than small boobs so what is the small boob girl supposed to do? Keep getting passed over and neglected increasing her chances of never finding a partner? Just a weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:41 AM
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Black women are definitely included. Thinking otherwise is just cope.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 03:38 AM
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I think most men do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:36 AM
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Then your experience is an odd one. You have people calling out this phenomenon all the time. In comedy, music, film, etc. What I stated was true. White men get the most attractive ethnic women and ethnic men get white men’s leftovers. Simple as that. You can say that the white men who date out are unattractive but white men have no reason to date out if they don’t want to. Dating out for white men is a choice they make for themselves. The dating world isn’t making it for them. I go to a PWI and…
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 03:31 AM
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Maybe for different surgeries. If it a woman with small boobs getting implants she is partly/mostly doing it for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:30 AM
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None at all
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 03:27 AM
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It’s not really about having a look. It’s about not being disregarded and being seen as desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:27 AM
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The average white man pic you used is attractive and I would consider him about average But it’s because white men symbolize masculinity and power. They also tend to have morals that prioritize generational wealth. For women who are interested in reproducing, of course that’s a mindset you’d want the father of your children to have.
/r/AllPillDebate01/06/23 03:26 AM
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He was confused on why women with small boobs would opt to get implants over being told that fake boobs “look worse” than what they were born with. If you can’t understand that then I can’t help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:24 AM
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Are you trying to be funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 03:22 AM
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“Look worse”. I can’t😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:26 PM
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Wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:18 PM
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Stuff like this is why girls get fake boobs😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:17 PM
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Beat ya to it 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:01 PM
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First :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:01 PM
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If you’re being serious… In terms of vaginal “tightness” that doesn’t change with child delivery. Vaginal expansion for birth is temporary. The vagina is a muscle and returns back to its default size after delivery and swelling decreases. In terms of body changes like weight gain and such, that does occur of course (let’s remember that the body goes through tons of physical damage in its process of creating and keeping a whole human safe for nine months, and the body gains weight to protect and …
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 09:59 PM
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Usually don’t agree with you but you got my support on this one 🤝
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 09:41 PM
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Fair take. Just not correct from a physiological or anatomic standpoint.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 09:29 PM
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I said truthpill because I agree with you. Ethnic men who date white women specifically tend to date the unwanted, undesirable women white men don’t want unless they have tons of money. But when white men date outside their race, they’re typically with the most attractive women of said ethnic group.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 09:28 PM
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All good things must come to an end
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 09:16 PM
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“Doesn’t understand physiology or anatomy” pill
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 09:15 PM
1

Truthpill
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 09:11 PM
1

The downvotes motivate me at this point
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 07:51 PM
1

Where did I whine?
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 07:51 PM
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If you wanna take it that way, go ahead
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 07:13 PM
1

More like equity
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 07:07 PM
1

Men and women are different. You can’t project men’s behaviors onto women and vice versa.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 05:53 PM
2

Or they can be like me in their “prime years” and chase attractive men, obtain relationships with them, and get an extensive education😉
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 05:42 PM
0

Sounds like cope
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 05:33 PM
1

No one said they’re subhuman. I’m just not going to lie to you guys and say virgin men aren’t avoided by lots of women.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 05:32 PM
1

On my list but instead of extensions, I want to dye it
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 05:32 PM
1

Okay nice. Most of these I already do or naturally have so that’s good.
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 06:16 AM
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Being good at sex is a great deal for high libido women who want a very active sex life
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 06:14 AM
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21 Some of these I don’t have to do due to genetics so I guess that’s good
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 06:13 AM
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Stay mad
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 01:15 AM
1

Already done plus I already had a natural big butt
/r/AllPillDebate31/05/23 01:15 AM
1

I absolutely love that and I know my bf would too. Great idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:43 PM
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Just search him up on YouTube with “parties” or “club” in the search. He could just be introverted for sure but I don’t get that vibe. Especially because he wasn’t super introverted during his teen/young adult years. A lot of people who work/worked with him say he’s kind of a diva.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:30 PM
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Sure but there’s certain things I feel are basic knowledge. Not break up worthy but nothing wrong with being shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:28 PM
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Maybe I should’ve added /s A lot of our nights consist of us just cuddling listening to music. He’ll play a song and then I’ll play a song and we both learn about each others’ music taste that way. He introduces me to songs I haven’t heard of and vice versa which is nice. I’m just a little more musically educated than him but it does surprise me that a lot of the musical legends that I love and most people love, he’s never really listened to. Like I remember maybe the second month of us seeing e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:27 PM
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He just comes off as socially awkward/odd to me in clips where I’ve seen him interact with other people. Obviously not a therapist or anything but I always got the vibe that mentally, he has some traumas and things that he’s gone through and he tries to cope with them by living the lifestyle he does. Which is a total possibility as it’s not a secret that male childhood/teen actors, especially those from the 80s and 90s, were dealing with a lot of abuse behind the scenes. Corey Feldman has attemp…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:13 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:08 PM
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One thing I don’t really love about my bf is his lack of knowledge about musicians I consider absolute legends in terms of song composition, performance, and vocals. It really breaks my heart. Edit: I’ll just add /s here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 11:01 PM
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Maybe not calling women females will help
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:51 PM
1

Not just his dating behavior but his social interactions with people as well imo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:51 PM
1

Mix of the second and third reasons for sure
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:49 PM
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The funny part is I am all those things and people consider me those things, but it doesn’t help me think of myself more positively. In fact, it does the opposite.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:39 PM
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I definitely agree. I already have a great partner as I am but it’s also about improving my self esteem and perception to others. Good is good but great is better.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:23 PM
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They hate the truth💋
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:19 PM
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Do you think it’s a good idea to get plastic surgery in one’s early 20s?
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:19 PM
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That’s how I feel too but I always hear mixed reviews. I’ve been wanting to hardmaxx but everyone around me says that I shouldn’t and I also don’t have the money for it so it sucks.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:12 PM
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Never
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 10:07 PM
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I’m in my natural beauty era right now. I’ll usually put on some moisturizer, concealer, mascara and maybe some eyeliner. But I don’t look too different without it which I think is good.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:06 PM
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You’re right. I was just talking about that with some people the other day.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:05 PM
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I’m like 20-25%. I’ve always been an athlete up until 18 and now I work out 4/5 times a week, two hours a session.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:04 PM
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I have all that accomplished but hardmaxxing. Do you think hardmaxxing has more positives or negatives when it comes to social and relationship dynamics?
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 10:02 PM
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Woman here. Similar to you I just come on here when I’m bored and don’t have anything better to do. Sometimes I’m being serious on here and sometimes I’m just trolling.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 08:07 PM
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I thought this was a pretty known fact. I have virgin friends who wouldn’t mind being with virgin men, but most women don’t want to be with a virgin due to the teaching aspect. Women want to have an enjoyable sexual experience as well and it’s kind of hard to do that when you have to instruct the guy or he can’t last for long. It’s just a hurdle most women aren’t interested in facing.
/r/AllPillDebate30/05/23 08:03 PM
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I would never date a single dad
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:20 PM
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That’s a great prerogative to have for yourself
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 11:02 PM
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Fortunately there’s tons of women who are that height
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 11:01 PM
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K
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 10:45 PM
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I’m going for the Celtics tonight for the sake of my bf’s happiness
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:40 PM
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K
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 10:37 PM
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Probably age and no obese men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:37 PM
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No I said any income
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:25 PM
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17.4%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:18 PM
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Removed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 10:11 PM
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I’m a fair person, what can I say
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 10:09 PM
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Same way you can just look at a couple and see she was pumped and dumped is the same way I can read your comments and replies and see why women stay away from you and reject you. We both just ✨know✨.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 10:06 PM
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No just like you don’t have any arguments besides “This is just my emotionally based opinion with no proof or facts. I’m just mad so I’m gonna rage.”
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 10:05 PM
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Lol. We see why you’re single and struggling with dating.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 10:02 PM
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A 5’6 one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:57 PM
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What is pumped and dumped to you
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:56 PM
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I did disagree with them
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:55 PM
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Wow I’m in the top 41% 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:54 PM
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Pumping and dumping isn’t the same as a short term committed relationship. Sorry.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:54 PM
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All you’re doing is stating claims
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:53 PM
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What are you talking about? I’m talking about in terms of choice. Nobody is dating someone they don’t actually want to be with for whatever amount of time. There is literally no reason or incentive to settle.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:50 PM
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I really don’t care to convince you just like you’re not convincing me. We’re just having a conversation lol.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:49 PM
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As I’ve already said these below average and average men have partners in the real world except they’re with their equivalents. Fat men are dating fat women. Weird guys are dating weird girls. Gamer guys are dating gamer girls. Etc. The only below average and average men who are struggling are the ones shooting out of their league and thinking they deserve better than to be with their female equivalents. Guys who are 3s and 4s who think that being nice is going to get them a 6 or 7. Doesn’t work…
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:43 PM
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Well I would suggest you take a look outside and examine the couples around you. Because I definitely see below average men or men who aren’t highly sought after in a relationship. But, they’re in relationships with below average women or women aren’t highly sought after which is what men in these spaces don’t want. They want to be below average with the above average woman or expect to receive companionship, loyalty, and sex simply for breathing air and that’s just not how that works. It really…
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:33 PM
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I would argue that the majority of women don’t care what men think about their preferences. There’s really no reason to.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:27 PM
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I honestly don’t give a fuck. Like who you like. Want what you want. It has nothing to do with me. The only “preference” I will push back on is liking underage persons. I hate pedos. Women who fit one, two, or all of those characteristics still often end up in relationships and marriages so it’s really no big deal if some men do not want them because other men will. Same goes for men. Some women don’t want certain characteristics in a guy but there will always be some woman out there that would …
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:24 PM
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I’m saying it here because it’s being brought up in conversation. And irl single mothers don’t have that much of a hard time struggling to find partners. I find single fathers undatable and don’t want anything to do with them. If I were in realms where they were complaining about not finding partners, I would say the same thing.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:14 PM
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Me! Not only can they get stuff off the top shelf but they can lift you high off the ground too. Which is good for intimate and non intimate situations if you catch my drift ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:12 PM
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I’ll have to disagree with you there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:02 PM
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No, I asked do you think women care what men think about women’s preferences. We don’t.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 09:00 PM
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Wait women don’t have a good understanding of what men find attractive in women? Is that what you’re trying to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:57 PM
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If that were true you wouldn’t be bitching and moaning about women every chance you get. Keep lying to yourself bud. Muah💋
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 08:43 PM
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I don’t even know why you guys even listen to them. Like I don’t know why it’s just so hard to just do what you want and not care what others think. Do you think women truly care what men think about their preferences? Of course not.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 08:34 PM
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The one on the left. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:18 PM
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How does not wanting to just date anyone and everyone equate to you hating men? I don’t see the issue with wanting to be selective about people you share your time, energy, love, and potentially your fertility with…
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 08:03 PM
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I don’t nor does any woman I know care. I don’t date fat men. I don’t expect men to date fat women if they don’t want.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 07:21 PM
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You care too much about the internet and what other people think. Maybe if you didn’t, you’d be more successful with people and women :)
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 07:19 PM
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Through history? No
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 07:20 AM
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Will look to find a resort or something there. Appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:09 AM
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Why would this be considered depression fuel for you
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 06:36 AM
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Yeah I don’t know why these guys act like men don’t want and prioritize tall women. My bf’s exes were 5’10 and 5’8. He has always said he prefers taller women because he doesn’t want short kids.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 05:44 AM
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Sure but both things need to be prevalent for me in a relationship
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 05:31 AM
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Feeling feminine and protected in relationships is a non-negotiable for me. I’m perfectly fine being alone rather than being in a relationship without that component.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 05:27 AM
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Well fortunately my bf is 6’1 and works out everyday so he’s built. Win win for me :) And I’m totally happy decreasing my dating pool significantly. My time and love isn’t just for anybody.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 04:54 AM
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I didn’t pick my current bf because he was tall but you learn from relationships. And being with him has helped me realize I feel more comfortable and secure with a taller partner than a short one. I’m not even saying 6’0 and up. Just at least my male height equivalent. Also having this box checked doesn’t mean other things won’t matter. I just won’t care about the other things if this height box isn’t checked first.
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 04:44 AM
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Adding that to my list. Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:48 AM
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Masculinity is associated with height. Does it mean that they’re correlated? No. But it’s an association. Just like someone else mentioned that there’s an association that big boobs and wide hips equals more feminine and more successful child birth, none of which is true. It’s just how it is. Never been in the position to have masculine energy so great theory but not applicable to me
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 03:30 AM
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Where are some nice couple “getaway” vacation spots in the United States? My parents are gonna hit their 25 years of marriage in late November and I’m hoping to send them somewhere nice but need to save up for it starting now. They’ll be 46 and 43 at this time so something age appropriate for them would be nice (so not a totally young crowd but not a bunch of boomers either). Also want to add that I am a college student with two jobs and I pay my own bills so it can’t be super expensive😵‍💫
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:20 AM
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What is this, you’re 1000th account now?
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 03:13 AM
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Imagine caring about downvotes lmao
/r/AllPillDebate29/05/23 03:12 AM
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Thank you. Same to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:28 AM
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I really wish I didn’t read that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:26 AM
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I think you should give it a try. I’ve had three sets and haven’t noticed any damage to my natural lashes. I’m also a winged liner girl like you and there are eyeliners out there that are for lash extension wearers specifically. So it allows me to do my winged look if I want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:56 PM
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Why are you so angry buddy?
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:38 PM
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None of that has to do with having better child births. Please read an actual book about biology and child births. Online blog articles won’t cut it.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:30 PM
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Short guy triggered alert
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:30 PM
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Tall men usually have height preferences for taller women because they don’t want short kids. Mainly short sons. I don’t know why you’re so triggered by that😂
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:24 PM
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None of that (besides age) has to do with women with those characteristics having better child births. You also said only young women can have children which isn’t true. Instead of using google, read a book.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:23 PM
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That clip just gave me the tingles
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:19 PM
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Why when older
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:18 PM
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Just get a classic lash extension set. That’s what I always get and they look natural. I don’t like overly fake looking extensions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:18 PM
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I agree with you there
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:17 PM
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projecting? i know multiple guys including my boyfriend who refuse to date short women because they don’t want short kids. i’m the shortest woman my bf has dated but i’m also still taller than the average woman so it balances out.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:16 PM
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you can’t say guys don’t care that much and then say guys don’t care about height at all. pick one and stick with it.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:16 PM
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I’m sorry that this has been your experience. No one should be treated that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 11:15 PM
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as i’ve already stated in another reply, i was talking about height equivalency and whether it was fair that i wanted someone more than average height since i myself am more than average height for a woman. i obviously have enough smv for tall men if i’m in a ltr with a 6’1 man (who actively prefer taller women) so that’s not an issue. also as someone who works at a fertility clinic and who is going into maternal and prenatal care as a career, breast size and a “certain body type” plays no facto…
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:14 PM
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Study it
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:13 PM
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as stated i’ve dating short guys before and felt feminine and girly with them. and protected to some degree i guess. i just feel more feminine and girly and safe with a taller man.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:13 PM
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if that’s your prerogative, that’s great. my prerogative is feeling feminine and i feel most feminine when the male leads in relationships and i support him. i think you’re thinking of some 1950’s traditional relationship dynamic but there are other ways to be submissive that aren’t as radical.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:12 PM
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lol thanks for sharing. i always see guys complaining that it’s unfair that short women want tall guys because most guys are taller than them so i thought i’d ask if it was fair to ask if above average height women could want above average height men. I didn’t even say 6’0 and up only. i think these responses showed me that no matter what the preference is, there will always be a bunch of guys who don’t fit the preference who are going to bitch and moan about it and find any reason to say that i…
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 11:11 PM
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I think it’s the aspect of feeling small. It’s hard to feel that way with a man who’s shorter than you or who’s super close to you in height. And as stated I like being feminine and though I may girl boss in the real world, in relationships I prefer to be submissive and let the man lead and play his masculine role. It’s hard to be submissive to a guy who’s your height. It would be like we’re equals.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 09:02 PM
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I was talking about height equivalency. Men do care about a women’s height though. Tall men typically do anyways.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 08:56 PM
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I know I’m a good person and girlfriend lol. That’s not an issue. I do agree with you first point about accepting oneself for just being themselves though. That’s something I’m still working on as I always think I’m never doing good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:48 PM
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Part of me looksmaxxing is for me to feel better about myself and more confident. I am 21 so I’m still insecure about so many things in regards to appearance like most young women are. So I’m not doing it to attract other people this time around but I still want to look and feel like my best self.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:38 PM
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It was more like me making behavioral and social changes in order to be more approachable or present myself with opportunities to approach men. Because I’m in a relationship, I’m obviously not focused on approaching others. Behavioral things i do adjust now are based on my partner and his needs so it’s very specific. But I’m always attempting to become a better girlfriend 24/7 unlike when I get in the mood to change myself which is once a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:32 PM
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What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:27 PM
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I am being serious here but 90% of the time I am trolling on this sub, so I’m honored💛
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:21 PM
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Well my situation is a little bit different as I’m already in a relationship. In the past when I was single, I would work on more internal things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:14 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:12 PM
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I don’t care about downvotes lol. Especially because every woman on this sub gets downvoted for every comment they make. That’s just what comes along with being in incel spaces.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 08:12 PM
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She married one
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 08:02 PM
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Well I hope they find their Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:57 PM
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Men say women don’t work on themselves to make themselves more attractive but I literally go into looksmaxxx/reinvent mode every summer. And for some reason this has been my most difficult summer thus far. The ideas for improvement just aren’t coming to me like they usually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:45 PM
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Hm why did she call you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:40 PM
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We love to see it. Happy for you <3
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:29 PM
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Maybe she had braces who knows. She does post a whitening product she uses nightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:16 PM
1

Oh so you’re short…got it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:13 PM
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I think it’s the former
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:02 PM
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I asked men to rate her last night based on her photos
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:01 PM
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Yes 4x! I’m actually getting ready to work out right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:46 PM
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I don’t think she did. She has a disease that she’s open about and she often posts about it with clips of her in the hospital in her early 20s. Her teeth appear to have always been that way unless she got them done when she was a teenager. Which isn’t impossible but I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:45 PM
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I asked you if you think you’re in her league? It’s not about what women think. Are you Chad? Are you a HVM?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:43 PM
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When did mascara, concealer, and moisturizer become “buckets of makeup”? She literally posts her skincare routines where she looks the exact same without the minimal makeup because she has long lashes and clear skin.. Y’all just hate seeing attractive “post wall”women and foam at the mouth when you see one who’s happy. And if she wasn’t married, we all know she would have a bunch of guys lining up for a chance to be with her despite her having three kids. Sad way to live😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:42 PM
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Nice joke
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:22 PM
1

Superiority complex? He just stated his preference. Weird that him stating his preference for liking women his own age is looked at negatively by you but men who like younger and bash older women in the process is okay and isn’t associated with a “superiority complex”? Odd OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:21 PM
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Regarding this woman I posted last night, https://imgur.com/a/1xai0wm Her name is Mindy and she’s a fitness instructor/influencer. She’ll be 30 in July and she has three kids (I think the oldest one is 7 and the youngest is maybe 2/3). Thanks for rating this hot, post wall, mom of 3!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:17 PM
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Do you think you’re even in the same league as her?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:13 PM
1

Finally someone explains why lol. Appreciate the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:09 PM
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🥂
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 10:04 AM
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You might be fit but you’re not young lol I’m happy you’re happy
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 10:00 AM
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Sounds like a very odd and unrealistic situation but you know your situation better than me. You’re obviously way older than I so maybe that plays a part in it as well (generational gaps). I hope things get better for you.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 09:54 AM
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What type of girls were you approaching? Do you think there may have been a problem with your choice in women? My exes were 5’6 and 5’8. For perspective I’m 5’6. Their height didn’t prevent me from dating them nor did I settle (I was 18 and 19 at the time). I see guys your height with girlfriends all the time. So maybe it was your choice in women that prevented you from finding a quality partner.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 09:50 AM
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Are you positive it’s your height that prevented you from having a relationship? Just your height alone?
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 09:24 AM
1

I love how people keep replying with long winded statements like I didn’t put “/s” in my initial comment…
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 09:09 AM
1

Why wouldn’t you date her
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:40 AM
1

You didn’t answer all the questions :(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:53 AM
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What about her is androgynous to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:53 AM
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You consider her slightly androgynous?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:46 AM
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Hm interesting take. If you’re happy, I’m happy for you.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 06:39 AM
1

Three Q4M: Would you date this woman if she were single? Do you think she has an attractive body type? What would you rate her out of 10? https://imgur.com/a/1xai0wm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:37 AM
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Do you feel the same way about men who reject women over traits that they can’t change and were just born with?
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 06:13 AM
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Arms
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:20 AM
2

This is a lot being said when I clearly said “obviously /s”
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 04:22 AM
2

He doesn’t even know what I look like which is the funniest part😂
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 03:24 AM
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That’s your prerogative
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:05 AM
0

Well whenever you get the courage one day, send the link. I’ll be waiting. Ta ta!
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 02:03 AM
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The men who are in political and economic power are men who have traits women desire. Like height for example. Short men are way less likely than tall men to be in positions of power.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 02:02 AM
0

Awww I bet it will🥺
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 01:57 AM
1

Welp I’m waiting. Let me know when it happens.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 01:56 AM
2

Is that why you’re complaining? If the gears were moving in the way you wanted this post wouldn’t exist💋
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 01:53 AM
0

Well I have a pretty high IQ. Set to get my bachelor’s in chemistry next year and then get my masters in nursing which you have to be pretty smart to do, so I think my offspring (can’t talk for my “ilk”) will be fine in terms of IQ. What does that eugienicist say about biracial offspring from someone of my ilk and white men? Link it :)
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 01:51 AM
1

Nope I want lots of babies <3
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 01:48 AM
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There's a reason why we're having a single motherhood crisis in the West. Single motherhood wouldn't be increasing if women were selecting the brightest and richest men that the West has to offer. I actually agree with you here. Most likely not for the same reasons but I agree with your premise. Good take. To be fair, a lot of traits women look for in men end up being the traits of men in power.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 01:47 AM
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It’s not gonna lead to you getting laid so I don’t even know why you care so much. Do you really just care about humanity and children that much? If you do, donate to charities for children or look into adoption. Since you care so much about the kids of course.
/r/AllPillDebate28/05/23 01:40 AM
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