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| 1 | I’m Sorry Things Never Worked Out For Nice Guys | Discussion | IcarusBane1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 12:39 AM |
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| 1 | Life Is ShortThe PS is for the guys that might come in and say women shouldn’t be your life missing the point as always. | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Is it vital to live in a downtown if you want to have a great dating life?I’m in NYC had a girl come 2 hours via train to my Borough | /r/seduction | 09/06/21 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Forget Routines and “Game”True true but I feel guys in the 40-90s whenever the player guy emerged. He who speaks to many women and beds them he didn’t have access to the Internet. Still these guys would kill it because we’re humans we can get good at dealing with the opposite sex if we just put time. | /r/seduction | 09/06/21 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach has made me emotionally unavailableI don’t know man. I feel desensitized and also feel like I’m in a dream. Derealization haven’t been diagnosed or anything. I don’t feel sad or depressed I feel but I don’t feel joy I just feel aggressive persistence when I’m on a “trip” | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I haven’t had sex for about 10 months, should I find a “slump buster”?Yeah worry about getting good at game rather than the sex. It’s a learned skill focus on the skill | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 01:06 AM |
| 1 | I haven’t had sex for about 10 months, should I find a “slump buster”?Triggered mother fuckers be like, bro I’d say fuck it I personally wouldn’t find a easy kill. Don’t measure your worth with how much pussy you get. Approach hot women and just be patient helps you out in the game anyway. I messed with a girl that was easy but was ugly NEVER AGAIN TRUST | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 12:46 AM |
| 10 | [deleted by user]Approach 30-50 women a week bro it’s a numbers game and a skill. If you start getting stale take a break. Pro growth mindset once you develop this skill you’ll have it for the rest of your life quit being a ho and man up good luck | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Going to my first casual sex or whatever 90 days from now or so.LMFAOOOO bro I just died 😂😂 what does he mean and why tell us 90 days in advance | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 02:11 AM |
| 19 | Most rules don’t matter when you have confidenceHaving core confidence you can open any way you want say what you want. You can become anybody you want or portray good post | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Who should pay for dates? My five rules on paying for dates.Take them out for coffee and obviously pay and the second date pay as well. The second date is obviously if the first went well | /r/seduction | 03/06/21 04:44 PM |
| 12 | Going out with the sole intention of meeting women sets a baseline for needy, validation-seeking behavior. When out, do your own thing, and flirt if you encounter someone who interests youNeedy behavior is needy behavior. And I don’t have to chase women if I don’t want? Being needy is needy behavior. Doing what I want isn’t needy if I want to get good with women then that’s what I’ll do. It’s called being determined and ambitious and definitely not letting opinions sway me. Listening to other people letting them dictate your decisions that you made with conviction is needy | /r/seduction | 03/06/21 04:19 PM |
| 3 | Going out with the sole intention of meeting women sets a baseline for needy, validation-seeking behavior. When out, do your own thing, and flirt if you encounter someone who interests youEh getting tired of the meeting women with your day to day life. It’s a numbers game and doing this “lifestyle game” isn’t enough to actually get good and get women. You need to set time aside to approach women and also do lifestyle game. You don’t need to roam the streets for 5 hours at a time. 3 sessions a week consisting of 2 hours and approach 10-20 women. 6 hours a week like a gym schedule anyone can do it | /r/seduction | 03/06/21 03:19 PM |
| 0 | I definitely ruined two women’s nightMost older women would love that compliment, they just full of shit don’t worry about offending women it’s good. Just don’t be blatantly be disrespectful. | /r/seduction | 29/04/21 04:19 PM |
| 2 | 10/10 girlsNot really unless she really can’t talk, always go for the convo, that’s what these 10s are used to. Guys saying you’re hot nice ass etc lemme get the number, you show that you’re different | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 11:26 PM |
| 1 | 10/10 girlsLook up James tusk and tay social or coach Kyle, evolution daily as well | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 10:56 PM |
| 1 | 10/10 girlsYes those girls get approached often by pussy thirsty dudes, you need game conversation they’ll be impressed by that | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 09:39 PM |
| -2 | Approaching at late time of nightWho cares if it’s creepy as long as you aren’t creepy about it. First thing is to definitely address that it’s late and this is very random also approach from a distance so she feels safe | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Gym for your faceHe’s confusing low body fat with lifting. Low body fat makes your face more attractive, lifting helps you lose weight but without a proper diet you won’t. Also if you decide to go the power lifter or bulky guy look you’re talking about yeah no your face will be super bloated | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 04:23 AM |
| 5 | Why does it seem like all the desirable girls have a boyfriendUsername checks out 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | How to approach girls in public transport that are wearing headphones?Headphones don’t mean shit you’re not tryna make any conversation with them. Going straight for the number is too forward. Talk to them and 95% of people have headphones on nobody cares. Girls will take them out if they wanna talk to you | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 02:05 PM |
| 18 | Anyone been virgin until 20s and then made a reverse?You can do anything you want. And be whoever you want don’t ever let nobody take that from you, it’s never too late but it will be if you never start good luck | /r/seduction | 22/04/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach starter pack, follow guide and you will see successShe thinks you’re hot bro, this is all stuff btw thank you! | /r/seduction | 22/04/21 02:16 PM |
| 15 | How to accept rejection in daygame ?You have to accept rejection. The guys that gets the most girls takes the most shots..so he gets the most rejected. Keep your eye on the throne and get it boyyyyy | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 03:11 AM |
| 9 | After how many cold approaches did you get your first date?Can’t even remember more than 50 but less than a 100 and she turned out to be a lay feels good bro | /r/seduction | 21/04/21 02:59 AM |
| 2 | What are the generalizations of seduction you should keep in mind when interacting with women?You have to thread the convo, for example where are your family from? Oh cool...are you close with your roots...riff of what she says, active listening | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 10:23 PM |
| 1 | The Advice "Have an exciting life that other people would be interested in" isn't quite practical when your primary goal is to pursue more women.I get what you’re saying. It’s the same thing when people say don’t chase women but you’re still expected to go out and approach. People always misconstrue what you post here. You’re gonna have to put in time to get good with girls. Getting good with girls is a priority if you’re putting time into it and there’s nothing wrong with that. Just don’t become needy and desperate. | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 01:41 PM |
| 0 | Get Into your MasculinityAs always YALL be missing the point thank you tho | /r/seduction | 16/04/21 03:29 PM |
| 4 | My guide on making conversations with women easyYou been around for a minute you know exactly what he meant | /r/seduction | 16/04/21 01:50 AM |
| 2 | You can't seduce a woman that doesn't like you alreadyYes true but your skills increase as time goes on. Make sure you work on your weak points I made a post about it otherwise yes it’s a numbers game guys are too scared to put in the hard work and approach enough women | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 10:01 PM |
| 16 | Getting addicted to approaching is a super good feelingIt’s about your frame when I go up to women I already assume I slept with her and she likes me. It takes time but it sets your actions and non verbal communication very nicely. From there I usually am cocky funny it’s a very nice mood. I qualify get to know them a bit and I always tell Them to take my number I don’t take theirs. Shows you don’t care it takes time keep approaching | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Getting addicted to approaching is a super good feelingI gotten results bro I got the structure it’s just keeps getting better | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 02:09 PM |
| 3 | A question to the people of sedditBecause it’s predictable. Women don’t like predictability. Men want pussy and it’s obvious...you get number text her try to set up dates etc etc. They want something new, text late text fast then text super late. Don’t set up a date within a week of meeting them it’s too obvious text them a bit. You have to see yourself as valuable. Limited resource make women wait be unpredictable do not be a open book make women pry information out of you. | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Why do I lose control of my mannerisms/speech when I’m in state (and out of my own head)? I’m like a loose cannon. However, when I’m in my head (i.e. “stifled”), I feel more in-control and calculative, and can actually think about what to say to women — but it comes out in a stifled way.You should Be doing enough approaches where you’re almost always in state. If you do 10 approaches Monday and approach again Wednesday you might need one or two approaches to get into state, depending on your mood etc. you need to do keep practicing being in state and remembering to slow down. Hence meditation it makes you more self aware | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Why do I lose control of my mannerisms/speech when I’m in state (and out of my own head)? I’m like a loose cannon. However, when I’m in my head (i.e. “stifled”), I feel more in-control and calculative, and can actually think about what to say to women — but it comes out in a stifled way.Meditate and consciously focus on talking slower with women and making sure to have pauses | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Should I pay the first date? (21M)Always Pay the first date just out of being a gentlemen. But on a first date I usually take women to a park or just to get coffee to weed out free meal ticket women. I never usually get those though a future tip for you! | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 04:39 AM |
| 15 | My best approach so far ended up in ghostingWelcome to the game brother. Flakes..sure things turning into flakes. Some boring conversations with women end up with you hooking up with them. Keep focusing on you and the approaches. Good luck | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Since so many women feel insecure/inadequate around/with good looking men, what type of women should good looking men date or be looking for?Humble brag much? Lmao I went thru this phase was getting auto rejected a lot etc etc. lots of girls will wanna hook up with a good looking dude. You’re just not talking to enough women. | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Will vaginas ever be sexually appreciated in society as much as penises and breasts are?Seriously lmfaoooo third time yet | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Into Me or My Coke?It’s reddit who cares? and bro put down the snow down and see what she does. You also put the idea of doing Coke every time you link so there’s that | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 05:19 PM |
| 12 | Why is withdrawing attention most of times effective?You make yourself valuable and make girls chase you. You still put in effort and chase them a bit...gotta frame as in every girls want you and you’re trying to find the ones worth your attention. Abundance mentality | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 01:00 AM |
| 2 | I only care about hook ups!Get blood tests check your t Levels and hormones in general. Weight lift or athletics, diet as well. Zinc, protein, b vitamin 6 is T make up almost. You shouldn’t need viagra. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How to handle sudden awkwardness with girls/people with social anxietyKeep pushing yourself in new interactions even situation that seem awkward won’t be awkward to you. I honestly forget how other people feel I’m so calm and collected now. Most people don’t have any type of social skills besides friends families and relationships. All in all bro this guy is right if you’re not really pushing interactions and you’re calm. Any type of conversation mistakes mean shit anymore because you’re bulletproof. Takes practice | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Got ghosted after not taking her home after a date (for a good reason). Whats the best way to approach a follow up without sounding like a simp?Valid reason I feel that, and Na bro give her space if she hits you up then cool but don’t pursue anymore | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Agreed to go on a trip with me but I think she has a boyfriend?Brooo it’s in June just one girl bro ABUNDANCE MINDSET, Why are you bugging about something set up for June I’ll bet it’s a flake either way. Get smart kid | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Everything a man says to a woman translates into "You want some dick?"Very good | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 02:45 AM |
| 0 | Best response when a girl from your past hits you up?Reply in 3/4 days AMS says if a girl reinitiates contact again, make her pursue you constantly. | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 02:39 AM |
| 0 | Trying to run a different style of gameThank you for replying appreciate I honestly was thinking of if the conversation goes well and she’s jumps thru my loops (qualifies, compliance). I’ll take her hand and tell her to do a little twirl to show off her outfit. Like a little Reward for qualifying herself to me | /r/seduction | 12/04/21 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Sharing my daygame stats in the last 4 monthsI’m a very dominant sexual guy and I get rejected A LOT. Basically if a girl lets me talk to her most likely she’s on but I been at this for a while. More practical terms would be qualify her what quality’s fo you look for in women? And ask her if she’s like that, push pull is a good screening and also kino or escalating is a major screen. If a women lets you touch her hand keep pushing it nothing sexual or creepy don’t touch her sexual parts during the approach. Compliance as well I like to mak… | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Is it a Shit test?You’re validating her too much, I think about you a lot? Come on guy you can do better | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Once you get your first lay off game it’s no longer a numbers gameExactly | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 03:05 AM |
| 15 | Once you get your first lay off game it’s no longer a numbers gameNot really I’m way past that it’s just a realization I had. You don’t want to get stuck in it’s just a numbers game mindset. You have to focus on yourself and getting your weak points corrected. You’re choosing the women not the other way around ty tho | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Is it bad I don’t persist after girls say they have a boyfriend.Yeah that’s what I was thinking | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 09:05 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Motivation for me to become a veteran at this at my age!! | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 01:19 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Not old I’m still in my early 20s but women love older guys for the most part. Idk why you know girls in middle school that were going out with high schoolers etc. your age is a advantage young girls in their 20s early mid and late love your age. You can get girls that are older than you and younger you’re in the sweet spot don’t waste it | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 12:54 AM |
| 2 | I feel very weird approaching in the mall butI laughed out loud 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | I feel very weird approaching in the mall butYeah but I’m focusing on lowering my empathy which is why I feel weird. Become selfish the women that want you will love you for it | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Will this approach work?Do it boyyyy | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 04:20 PM |
| 4 | How to stop spending time on matches/interactions doomed to flake?You shouldn’t spend 30 mins on a approach regardless. You have to screen HARD. The second question I ask is if they are single if she is interested she’ll say yes she is despite having a man or not. Some women will have a boyfriend but soak up your attention. Start busting and teasing hard and see what makes them tick. 5-10 mins on a approach is ideal. Just keep on trucking | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 03:52 PM |
| 0 | 3 golden nuggets to skyrocket inner gameGreat advice!!! I hope this blows up this is actually how I been framing conversations I honestly just approach to mess with them. Test them make myself laugh see what makes them tick no pressure no show just what I wanna do. It’s never that serious she’s a stranger | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 03:23 AM |
| 0 | Is it reasonable to just tell a girl that you find her attractive instead of trying to fish for something specific to compliment her on?If it’s direct your opener should be a compliment I just say I wanted to you say you’re pretty or I thought you looked nice. Don’t over complicate it and don’t care too much about what she’s thinks of you she’s a random person. You shouldn’t care what anybody thinks of you especially women | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 05:36 PM |
| -1 | What the fuck is a fuckboi?😘😝 | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 03:51 PM |
| 0 | What the fuck is a fuckboi?Women that are whores got tired of guys that are hoes so they call them fuck boys. Or players it don’t matter it’s always a compliment | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 03:46 PM |
| 10 | DON'T compliment their bodies or face, Compliment their STYLE.I don’t want to be dishonest unless her style is crazy good. The initial opener is about her looks because that’s all I know. I do give points to women in further conversation, if they’re ambitious, calm, big points if they could hold a conversation!!, if they have a hobby that I personally think it’s cool. I’m not fake and I’m not gonna compliment your style if it’s fucking generic or normal. Ofc a woman’s body/face isn’t all she has but it is a reason I’m interested in the first place then I’l… | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Is winking an effective way to show you're interested with a girl at the gym?Do it if you got balls and if you don’t really care about the outcome. She’ll like it or she won’t | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Don't just go to the mall to make women uncomfortable.Lmfaooo exactly? Guys are creeps regardless | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 02:20 AM |
| 3 | How can I be at my best all the time?Think of it as a down phase right now. Anytime I’m down it passes and I get back to my natural state and it’s even more deadlier tbh. Don’t think of your low state as your normal state the more you think this is how I’m gonna stay things won’t change etc etc it’s a bad habit. Just remember your real natural state and this is just a phase and it’ll pass | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 09:53 PM |
| 2 | A girl accepted my invitation but then she didn't reply my messagesThis move on, you’re not that important to her if she doesn’t get back to you. Women are all bluffs they’ll add the spice even if they’re flaking. She say let’s go out Sunday even tho she knows she’s flaking 😂. If a girl replies days later to confirm a date I wouldn’t even reply I’d drop her. You have to be ruthless and quick to drop women. | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 04:43 PM |
| 2 | What to do when a girl is suddenly being short with you over text?Just tell her let’s hang out after class | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Hooking up with my Flatmate?Do it till bro y’all moving out in June so why not. If you guys were gonna live together for a long time I’d say no but DO IT | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 02:43 PM |
| 3 | About 40 Day Game Approaches in... Frustrated40 approaches is nothing bro, keep on approaching forget the end result of banging a girl. It’s hard but just let it go for now focus on trying to get better at talking and your weakpoints. Aim for 30-50 approaches a week for 2-3 months you should get a girl by then just keep going. | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Natural wit and charm seems to disappear when I try to sexually escalate with women...No don’t worry about what I’m doing we’re too very different people. Focus on what you can improve in your life with your condition | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Field report : Cold approached two peopleAh dope bro it’s easier to flip thru approaches when you’re getting rejected. But when approaches work out you get the contact you feel so tired afterwards good job man | /r/seduction | 27/03/21 08:16 PM |
| 5 | How is night game in 2021 in Texas?Do both, I would do night game once in a while like how you would if you were with your boys. I would focus on daygame and less on night game. For me personally money is a issue I don’t have enough money to go out to night game consistently as opposed to daygame which is way less expensive. Also Nightgame would fuck with my sleeping schedule. I think day game is stronger addition to your game but DO WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU WANNA DO | /r/seduction | 27/03/21 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Natural wit and charm seems to disappear when I try to sexually escalate with women...ADHD eh I’d stop tryna be this smooth guy be honest and direct about your intentions and ADHD. You’ll find women that like you just keep approaching and tryna get better | /r/seduction | 27/03/21 06:22 PM |
| 10 | Chick won't meet up with me if I don't pick her up... told her to uber, said she doesn't "feel comfortable"?You don’t know for sure maybe she doesn’t feel comfortable but she might be bullshitting. I would say next time to meet somewhere near her. And say you’ll meet her there just walk or Uber but if she insists for you to pick her up...you’ll have your answer. Remember for future references!!! | /r/seduction | 27/03/21 02:44 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]So hit the gym? Put on some muscle you’ll Look good feel good and honestly help your sex appeal | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 07:27 PM |
| 6 | Natural wit and charm seems to disappear when I try to sexually escalate with women...You need to learn to be sexual in your initial APPROACH. Focus on building sexual tension you don’t need to touch them or talk sexually. Eye contact and sometimes speaking slowly at certain points. Or just build stronger balls and make it sexual. But at the end become CERTAIN in what you do no matter what she thinks of it do it because you want to. You’ll naturally start to not care about discomfort and you won’t feel it even if she does but most likely she won’t because emotion contagion. | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 05:12 PM |
| 2 | The only sensible way to live in this world is without rules.And tonight you’re gonna break your one rule!!! Always preached this | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Do l look thin for male at height?You’ve looked the same for years same photos you’re a fuvking weirdo | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 07:46 PM |
| 3 | COVID dating worldIf restrictions aren’t bad approach with a mask. Certain areas...Local I won’t approach with a mask and women never called me out on it | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Is she into me or nah?Sounds like hard body young New York slang you sound like my little brother | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Where do you draw the line with “doing your things” versus “putting yourself out there”?It’s better to set “approach sessions” weekly along with approaching women during ur errands commute to the gym etc. | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | What can i do as a short guy(5'5). From what i've seen im fucked when it comes to casual sex.Yes tough love because these guys can’t cope with being a man and fucking doing the damn thing. | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 11:40 PM |
| 11 | What can i do as a short guy(5'5). From what i've seen im fucked when it comes to casual sex.Get a grip no one is definitely gonna date you if you’re homeless focus on what’s important right now | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 06:50 PM |
| 3 | What can i do as a short guy(5'5). From what i've seen im fucked when it comes to casual sex.Sorry man once you get back on your feet focus on dating | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 06:48 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Women will spice up plans just to flake 😂 that my place will be better was just spice. And Na just leave it focus on approaching women and getting better always focus on approaching more and more women. Whether you got a steady fuck buddy or a couple. Remember the game | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 06:47 PM |
| 7 | What can i do as a short guy(5'5). From what i've seen im fucked when it comes to casual sex.Well lose weight for one focus on what you have control over. If you wanna play the game going to the gym getting low body fat is a huge plus. Height you can’t control and going crazy about it isn’t doing shit for you or anybody. Focus on what you can control trust me when I say if you approach women with a masculine confident attitude you will get them. Y’all gotta take that first step to get there. Quit the shit and get to it take back your manhood boys | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 06:46 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]You don’t talk about going back to your place or her place when you’re making plans. Just tell her the initial date the park or cafe and if the date is going well then you say come back to mine etc. Sexting before actual sex is a big no no tbh you don’t wanna really be sexual till sex happens. You can flirt even some sexual flirting just a touch. You showed your hand way too early and she already knew what you wanted you gotta keep women thinking but dw you just started keep on approaching you’l… | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 06:32 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone done steroids or TRT and if so what difference did it make with women?Don’t worry about it you don’t even lift bro | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Why do canned lines/scripts work on Tinder for lays, but don’t work in real life as well as real conversations do?Tinder is superficial and in a sea of cocks women have to swim thru. “hi” “nice to meet you” etc is basic and doesn’t invite further contact from a female. In real life anything works if you have the right attitude even canned lines. It isn’t the lines it’s you and your emotions behind the words, but yes you will still sound corny using lines but some women will react positively because you’re still making moves | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Don't get offended so easily.Theres a bunch of insecure guys like the dude that screenshotted, but you’re also kind of showing insecurity by posting this and commenting on random peoples photos? A secure person knows there’s insecure people like this out there and they won’t succumb to their level. I understand you wanna use your idgaf attitude and build on it but use it in real life interactions with women. Idgaf isn’t a excuse to treat people like shit tho you can still tease and be a fun jerk. Don’t be hyper masculine to… | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 04:22 AM |
| 3 | In life there are winners and losers. Nobody is equal.Numbers game and skill game. No way your numbers are the same as a fresh beginner as you being in the game for a year..2 years etc. | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 05:14 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Early 20s | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Do women find most men attractive?This right here and go out there and approach!!!! Can’t be 10% bf and not take shots like most guys. You gotta put yourself out there | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 02:24 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Don’t play yourself and if you aren’t really playing yourself. Find out where the most attractive women are and go there to approach | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 02:18 AM |
| 1 | HornyHonestly the nightlife once it opens up. Right now tho find hobbies that have women. Classes dancing idk. Or just do pickup it can become your lifestyle. You got your own place, body, a future. That’s a players lifestyle already just need the women. I’d say do pickup no strings attached and the only way is up so think about it. | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Havent had sex in 4 yearsNever said it was easy but nobody is gonna do it for you. You can either mope around or start with just one step forward. One step small forward is still a lot of progress. Visualize your future and positive energy. If you won’t do it shit I’ll do it and reap the benefits as well lots of other ambitious men. Good luck 😉 | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Havent had sex in 4 yearsNa that’s just bullshit you can approach women with a mask on if your country permits it. Or get some good photos set up your online dating profile. Lose weight meditate study pick up new hobbies tf is you talking about guy? | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 05:47 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Go out of town make it work | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 02:58 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Haha bro iois are shit. If I get a strong ioi 90% of the time I will get blown out by them! Some even get mad I approached I don’t get it like you were looking at me. As far your problem you’re right good looks and a tall height I’m assuming I wouldn’t know I’m 5’8 will intimidate women. Stay in your approaches if she’s not outright rejecting you and just keep approaching. 30 a week minimum | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 02:42 PM |
| 4 | Havent had sex in 4 yearsThis right is what you should be asking yourself | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 02:26 AM |
| 5 | If your intention is to just be friends with benefits, how do you convey that right away so you dont waste time without sounding like a man whore?Don’t say nothing unless she asks then hit with her with im down with anything I wanna see this through. But you shouldn’t say anything till you have sex then say you want something casual more often she’ll be less reluctant to end it since she’s invested massively(by having sex). | /r/seduction | 17/03/21 03:54 PM |
| 8 | Rank this in importance to get more girls.Focus on the skills with the numbers game. This is skill and yes you need numbers but guys get into a mindset of just go up to enough girls and you’ll get someone. This is true but the point of seduction is to improve this skills. So a few tips to work is 1. Learn to take risks whether with kino or conversation do not be afraid to offend the girl (Don’t be a obvious jackass) or get rejected because of what you said. 2. Stay in the set if she’s not rejecting you or saying she’s not interested may… | /r/seduction | 17/03/21 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone know any good "negs" I can use in the grocery storeNegs are retarded just start a convo if she looks fit just say “do you go to the gym? I need a new gym” etc etc. Negs are stupid and they come off as corny. The gym comment is smooth because it weaves into a whole bunch of topics. If she does great you got the gym as a opener if she doesn’t go she’ll probably say no I don’t but I should go. You’ll say now is a great time to go to the gym most aren’t busy anymore. Dig in your brain guy | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Libido, an intrinsic tool for game?Mind over matter. I think it could actually be a advantage if you actually approach and try to get laid because the low libido help you control yourself in the game. Don’t wanna scare women off because you’re too horny also helps with less investment in women | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Coping Mechanism 101 - How to Convince Yourself You're Improving Even if you're Not.Yes love this post, getting rejected by girls...oh she couldn’t handle me or I’m too much for her. At first shit like this always seemed so corny to me but once you actually start BELIEVING this and incorporating this in your mindset. “All girls want me no matter what” really propels your cold approach/dating life | /r/seduction | 15/03/21 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Guys get so lost in approach anxiety they forget why they even startedAppreciate the defense people misconstrue everything on Reddit. Just cause I said I think about it “all” the time doesn’t mean that’s all I’m doing with my life. Anyways don’t most men think about women and sex 95% of their lives..I don’t argue with reddit no more because of dumbasses like this | /r/seduction | 15/03/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Guys get so lost in approach anxiety they forget why they even startedYou can be and so much more | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 01:04 PM |
| 1 | How to get do you get good banter with anybody?Banter is teasing and flirting. Qualifications work good for this building comfort and flirting. “You’re either super boring or super interesting” “Are you the type of girl that likes to control men” “You got a nice body and I got a nice body we wouldn’t work out only one can have a good body” you can always flip it onto you for example the controlling comment let’s say she says no I’m not, you’ll say maybe I’m just talking about myself in this scenario. Have fun!! | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | The Loophole That Makes Women Start Chasing YouI always preach don’t try to sell yourself become a product that sells on its own. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 03:39 PM |
| 4 | I have a serious question to ask - Is Life Just Boring?YOUR life is boring not others | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Don’t take ‘texting for logistics only’ too literallyTrue sometimes conversations are cut short etc or might be your style. Texting can build good comfort | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Don't fear approaching girls that are in groups. It is actually WAY easier than when they are alone. You just have to approach them the following way...It depends on the cock block some women are jealous etc etc. you never really know once you get better with women you could tell if she’s attracted and if her friend is a actual cockblock | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Some guys lives just suck. No matter what they do, how hard they work, they're pathetic, they go back to where they started, nothing changes. This is just true. And there are guys who are just lucky. They have it all. Partner, friends, career, money, look they have it without much effort.It’s about perspective bro bro. Maybe the guys that work harder think once they ACHIEVE what they want it’ll come into place. It doesn’t come into place like that those “successful guys” aren’t lucky they created their own luck..and where does that come from? Within | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Cold Approaching and the end goalApproach 30 women a week for two months | /r/seduction | 08/03/21 06:22 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop feeling bad about being a 23 year old kissless virgin?Yes women will like you regardless of anything you have to go out and meet them. This dude is super incel vibes especially the white part 😂😂. Bro get low body fat go to the gym personal hygiene nice style and go approach women stop being such a fag about it | /r/seduction | 08/03/21 04:45 PM |
| 11 | Unpopular but honest Opinion: LUCK is a huge factor.It’s a numbers game which is basically luck nothing new here and also a skills game. Nothing new | /r/seduction | 08/03/21 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Sharing my daygame stats in the last 4 monthsThis is great bro yes yes the lay count is low compared to approaches but your dates are high! Really good as a beginner you probably have to screen more and push interactions even further. Means less dates but more lays per date if you get what I mean. | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Instant date with cute girl at the park + second date + I think I screwed itYes this man she enjoyed the attention more then anything. If she was actually cautious about COVID she would have rejected you on your APPROACH. Girls are way more open about covid I sometimes approach without a mask (dickhead move don’t care) some women actually take down their mask and talk to me. Most women don’t even notice or call me out on it. You did good persistent and quick to weed out attention seeking women keep it up | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 04:23 AM |
| 4 | How many guys here actually approach?A social life doesn’t matter sure it helps but that’s why cold approach is awesome. Most people are full of shit I could have my only few close friends and live the lifestyle I want and still get the girls I want. A “social” life ain’t all that. You could be anybody you want | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Tips on ClosingNothing wrong but people go crazy on Reddit. “Women are more than body count it’s dehumanizing” like stfu it’s just lingo | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Tips on ClosingIn before someone talks about your use of body count 😂😂. Just approach and fr say at the end do you wanna go out with me? If she says no move on if she says something like yes or if I know you more etc etc but if a girl likes you she’ll say yes no doubt | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Why being Alpha is bullshitSwear this forum is blowing up with grade A posts. Really good stuff here don’t get your ego flooded because you can get women and try to look for trouble | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 06:18 PM |
| 5 | You will creep (some) people out if you cold approachYeah if a women isn’t interested in the first couple seconds I bounce. Creeps and women harassers ruin that. Idc for being persistent if a girl wants to be dry or act uninterested but she actually is interested is not worth it imo. Most women will act dry or uninterested if they truly are. Women that make you chase are stupid you’ve already approached | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else hate passing women on sidewalks?I get it I’m like that too i get the spotlight effect some days I love it some days I hate it. Just accept it and live your life with it on takes time but at the end of the day. Whether people watch you or not it doesn’t matter nobody cares that much | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else hate passing women on sidewalks?Don’t look at your phone you look weak. Look at them men and women alike just cause you’re handsome or a pretty boy doesn’t mean yoh aren’t a man. A pretty boy can be alpha | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Where do you find the energy to go out if you’re exhausted after a long day?Make them talk more than you and keep approaching | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 04:21 PM |
| 5 | How to stop thinking that only looks matterLooks are looks you can’t change but you can maximize it, get that low body fat, better wardrobe, hairstyle hygiene etc | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Where do you find the energy to go out if you’re exhausted after a long day?Like I said lifestyle game. Approach 30-50 women a week, 30 being minimum make some of the approaches during your day to day life then set time aside to make approaches. Just like working out you made time. If you want it bad enough you’ll make time for this as well | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Where do you find the energy to go out if you’re exhausted after a long day?You can find time. Approaches don’t take that much time if you don’t bullshit around. You can do 10 approaches within a hour or less depending on volume and if you actually get into a conversation. Also lifestyle game among your normal day to day life if you see a girl you like approach. You’re always wanna be “switched on” I doubt that’s you in the photo you’d be full of energy unless you on dat Dere tren and u off cycle | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 01:02 AM |
| 5 | Cold approaching is just like any other skill.Appreciate it good post bro | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 12:50 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah it makes them seem robotic like they aren’t even real | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Turning conversation sexualOne eyed snake | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 04:49 PM |
| 12 | Turning conversation sexualEverybody got their own style. Some guys like to say sexual comments sexually flirt. Some guys like me I like to soften my tonality deepen and sound sexual while flirting I don’t say anything sexual tho. Also you gotta work on your frame you have to walk around as a sexual being and that tension will automatically come into a interaction with a female | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 03:31 PM |
| 6 | Unless you’re a famous celebrity, model, or athlete, 90% of the women that you approach will reject you. Learn to accept that.You can get hot women maybe not high top. supermodels or you can. User name checks out lots of super limiting beliefs here. Yes social media is a problem but there’s still many beautiful and sexy women that would love to meet a regular guy except a guy that’s cold at cold approach isn’t regular. He’s a fun, sexual, masculine, no limits or boundaries type of man. He lives life to his own accord and we been determined it’s a numbers game. Ugh you’re full of shit why did I type this | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Do I (23F) bring up him (21M) ignoring me for two weeks?LOL that cryptic love lyrics and then ignoring is totally me 😂😂. Yeah the other person might be right or he sees yous as a sexual interest since y’all hooked up? I would do something like this with my girls tbh | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You’re hot you’ll make some good money. That’s nice you don’t charge to chat..women really are taking this OF thing way over the top and men are letting them. | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Direct approach - complimenting appearance?Just write something interesting about her story a statement or a question. | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Y'all are making it too complicated again. Improve yourself and approach, that's all there is to it.Yeah people don’t understand even if she has a boyfriend I carry the convo just a bit longer to get into state. Things get really rolling once you get in state. After you do a approach you hate yourself because you realized how much you were overthinking. | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 02:00 AM |
| 8 | Let's be honest, the game is rigged. But recognizing that can be incredibly helpful.Don’t care for your post history. Lol I don’t even know you | /r/seduction | 25/02/21 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Let's be honest, the game is rigged. But recognizing that can be incredibly helpful.I understand his frustration and yours. Most women aren’t looking for anything casual even the women that do are usually in between relationships or just need affection. Very few women SEARCH for casual sex. But he’s not referring to relationships. It’s a numbers game but the numbers aren’t in a mans favor. It’s a numbers game for women trying to find relationships but even then if women decided to pursue a bit they’d find those guys. Lots of guys want a girlfriend not all wanna be super players… | /r/seduction | 25/02/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | This doesn't even make any senseDon’t know why the downvotes fuck that bitch she ain’t interested | /r/seduction | 25/02/21 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Let's be honest, the game is rigged. But recognizing that can be incredibly helpful.What is this shit everyone is talking about relationships it’s called the game for a fucking reason. Good post bro but I’d say not to just mention that it’s a numbers game. I always use the analogy of selling yourself. Cold approach is like cold sales but instead of trying to sell the product(you). Become such a valuable product it sells it self | /r/seduction | 25/02/21 03:13 PM |
| 2 | How to get nudes from womenIce kingggg | /r/seduction | 25/02/21 03:04 AM |
| 18 | Attraction isn’t a skill it’s state and understanding.Yeah it’s a numbers game and skill game. Instead of trying to sell yourself to women. Make yourself the product that sells by itself | /r/seduction | 23/02/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Seduction is making a offer one can’t refuse. What about women that haven’t seen you? How would you know if a woman is interested if you haven’t approached?? Women young or old some can hide their attraction well as in they don’t show iois some women don’t mean to. You have to screen out women, being shy or flirting from a distance is for after. Flirting doesn’t mean shit btw screening does | /r/seduction | 23/02/21 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Need adviceStrict parents aren’t a reason to cut her off if you can see her earlier then do that. If not then cut it off it’s not her fault | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You’re missing the point and missing lots of women looking for choosing signals. You’re depending on the female to show signals. You should just assume attraction and push it forward. Older women could hide their attraction. As well as young stop tryna be so pua and turn the mindset from pua to seducer | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Lingerie equivalent for MenMostly guys in this sub Reddit go on /r/askwomen | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Girls always starting off nice/kind toward me then move to confrontational/resentful?Become totally comfortable with yourself and your personality will shine in your interactions. Rapport is good but that’s easy to do, you wanna spike the sexual tension you said your shy in the beginning start to disintegrate that. Humans base a person’s personality off the first impression and cold approach 90% is first impression so start approaching more and build it boyyyyy | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Girls always starting off nice/kind toward me then move to confrontational/resentful?A asshole guy would not have women tryna disrespect him. His boundaries is clear and he doesn’t give a fuck about the bitch. A girl will only disrespect a guy who she thinks is below him. Think about it if she really respected you would she blatantly disrespect you...? I read your response to the opposite reply I think you need to be more assertive and aggressive and willing to face more rejection. Start screening out women more aggressively | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Girls always starting off nice/kind toward me then move to confrontational/resentful?Might be a nice guy | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 08:09 AM |
| 6 | Lingerie equivalent for MenNot really, most guys aren’t ripped | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 08:07 AM |
| 8 | Lingerie equivalent for MenA ripped body...seriously no matter what male lingerie you could think of nothing tops a rocking six pack | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 07:42 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Women can be very subtle you wouldn’t be able to tell if she’s attracted. Start approaching women you like and you’ll see. Assume attraction and push interactions forward till a rejection or something more 😉 | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 05:30 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]All women in general, gen z women are too intimidated by a real Cock to show choosing signals | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 04:24 AM |
| 5 | Can we all agree that the indirect approach can be just as effective as direct approach and does not make you unconfident because you’re focusing on the end result vs being impatient.I’m a proponent of direct game because certain situations call for it. In the street it’s uncalibrated to be indirect and also depends on what you’re looking for? Direct cuts the bullshit and screens women out from the jump. Social media and as men are becoming more feminine. Women are really putting up fronts and love stringing men more than ever. Direct cuts that out now night-game for instance I would go indirect it’s pretty stupid to go direct she knows why you’ve went up to her. It’s about … | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 01:19 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Choosing signals are outdated they don’t mean shit. Approach women you like | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a woman without validating them?That’s why I emphasized frame read up boy | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 04:51 PM |
| 3 | How to approach a woman without validating them?Yes but you have to work on your frame, you won’t have to push pull if your frame is congruent. I use push pull to add something to the convo now not as a tactic but I used to use “I thought you were cute I wanted to say hi” they say thank you whatever then I’d say “but idk you looked mean when I first saw you” they start qualifying themselves. You don’t have to use my line but a assumption after the opener is good | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Approaching womenLMFAOOOOO it’s happened a few times wear jeans they won’t notice | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Sex Addict?You done? | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Sex Addict?She honestly couldn’t give a fuck I got her on a leash play boy | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Sex Addict?Oops did I strike a chord old timer? 😂 | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Stop overthinking and start actingAppreciate it | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 07:24 PM |
| 0 | Sex Addict?I’m a 23 year old man and I have a on going fling with a 49 year old lady. I would never ever be in a relationship with her. Older man might be your fancy but young guys have it going on too. Not every young guy is full of shit you have to find them. Be realistic honey age doesn’t make you mature, experience does. The same shitbag at 23 is the shit bag at 45 only thing that changed is now he has a gut. Forget age and find out what you really want in a Man don’t be bias. Women rejected me because… | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Is It normal for a girl to just leave suddenly with no real explanation?That’s a lie she didn’t find you as a suitable sexual partner you need to work on being on more masculine and assertive. Look it up on seddit and other resources | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Is It normal for a girl to just leave suddenly with no real explanation?You didn’t move fast enough but props on expressing your interest!! You have to do that from the beginning. You gotta screen out women to see if they’re dtf youre on your way. Be shameless and ruthless you will find women that are down | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Why your self image is importantI’m only human I know loving you is a crime if I take this cookie now one day I’ll do the time | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 04:02 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Most guys don’t have a abundant sex life because this day and age it is hard to do so for reasons you’ve stated. For me it’s my prophecy as clique as it sounds. Playing the game means a lot of shit, stress, flakes, rejection, etc. If you handle the heat in the streets you definitely ain’t getting no action in the sheets...not as much as you’d like anyways | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Why your self image is importantUsername checks out 😂😂😝 ain’t nothing wrong with wanting a good body to make out with hot chicks | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 03:59 PM |
| 0 | Why your self image is importantThis is about women. This is your self image around women. You can be a play boy if you want or a family man, a one woman type of man. But I’m trying to say is that find out who you are and what type of goals you want in dating which is actually pretty feasible. Everybody has the right to become who they want to but many don’t. This post is for the people that don’t know what they want to do or are so hung up On approaching one woman their knees shake. My self image I’ve stated is personal That’… | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 03:57 PM |
| 5 | Why your self image is importantI’m sorry it’s too late brother | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Why your self image is importantSelf image can be anything that’s my self image a piece of it anyway. But self image is personal you need to figure out what your self image is. It’s the image of yourself in the next 6 months a year 5 years etc. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Why your self image is importantNo warped as in I meant warped as in have strong feelings for me. No I don’t want anything long term as of right now but even then wouldn’t you want to be a man that can make women fall in love? | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 03:53 PM |
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