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| 1 | Suicide shit testThis is why you vet your plates. You can't fuck the crazy away. You don't agree and amplify you end it, on the spot. As soon as someone tries to leverage something like that against you, leave. Hard next. Nothing good will come from prolonging the relationship at any level. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/15 06:08 PM |
| 2 | How did I handle this confrontation?You don't look like a bitch if someone goes off on a drunken tantrum and you don't knock him out or get into a fruitless verbal confrontation. You did the right thing, kept your cool, and he looked like a tremendous ass. If you started arguing with him, yea, you'd also look like an asshole. You didn't so you came out looking like a winner. Well handled. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 08:22 AM |
| 2 | How do you combat this?By ignoring them and so can you. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Can't tell if girl is trying to friendzone meI like to carpool. Save money and ohhh hey yea this is my place want to hang out for a minute check out my gun collection... I don't know what your guys logistics are though. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/15 11:55 PM |
| 3 | At what point can I shift focus past TRP?I don't know man. Its just a place to discuss idea's and strategy; if you feel like it's a waist of time you should spend your time more productively. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/15 11:24 PM |
| 6 | Time for stupid questions from Ollie! Why do girls stare, what does it mean, and what should I do?I hope you realize the larger issue you here. Why are you the one retreating, breaking eye contact, and feeling insecure? If a girl is staring at you she either thinks you look like someone famous, you shit your pants, or she wants you to say hello. Still you need to work on your confidence; strike up some conversations. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/15 05:26 PM |
| 2 | RedPillers Who Were Once Bully Targets, How Did You Change and Succeed In The World?Stop being a bitch. Go lift and eat more. Stop playing video game, eating junk food and watching porn. Start there. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/15 06:08 AM |
| 5 | How do I quit my job like a man and a professional?Be direct and gracious. Don't back down for an instant. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/15 06:06 AM |
| 3 | I'm starting to recognize that I'm becoming a misanthrope. Should I work to change that?Mathew 7:3 "Why do you look at the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?" A favorite of mine. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/15 07:38 AM |
| 3 | I have frowned upon the Red Pill before. I yield. I need help.Drop her. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/15 06:41 AM |
| 3 | When in monk mode do you respond to girls?Ignore them. Do you really want to spend time bullshitting with some girls in a LDR type situation. Fuck that. Hit em' up when you're back in town for drinks or whatever. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/15 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Dealing With Anger/Hate Towards Women While Improving?There is no pity for you here. Your negative experience with women is your own fault. You're a low SMV male raised to be a BB man in a feminist society. Understand that women are, in many cases, not even aware of their manipulation. They are seeking out the most advantageous sexual strategy for themselves. You should be doing the same for yourself. Which starts by improving your SMV. Focus your negative emotions on improving yourself and don't waist any more of your time 'respecting' anyone but … | /r/askTRP | 04/07/15 11:30 PM |
| 7 | After reading No More Mr. Nice GuyNo More Mr. Nice Guy is about breaking out of your habits part of that is accepting responsibility. You're unhappy because of you, and nobody is responsible for your happiness but you. What you need to do now is identify the things that will make you happy and put yourself first. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/15 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Advice for acne and acne scars?Simple things you can do like stay hydrated, wash your face, and try not to touch your face as much. If you have serious issues see a dermatologist. Edit: As for scars I don't know. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/15 09:13 AM |
| 3 | "Tinder Flakes" How do you handle them?Lesson learned right? Make them come to you. Go silent, let her initiate, and whatever is, is. If you ever get a "Are you Ok?" type question again "lol" is a good response but "Wah wah wah" is a bad response. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/15 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Girl visiting town to see a guy she "has started seeing", but wants to see me too. But there's more!Right now she sees you as a friend. That's it. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/15 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Girl visiting town to see a guy she "has started seeing", but wants to see me too. But there's more!Then be the 'nice guy' that you've always been putting her pussy on the alter so that you can romanticize about your non-existent relationship with your very own unicorn. You can be proud of that, you can respect that. Dignity intact. Well... maybe not. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/15 02:20 AM |
| 4 | Can we please ask for a comprehensive RP guide to Tinder?http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/363aao/local_sexy_single_women_part_1/ http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3630ye/local_sexy_single_women_part_2/ http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3638zd/local_sexy_single_women_part_3/ | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Getting Dad to RPI can't just cold-clock him with RP truths. This is a process. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 05:51 AM |
| 4 | Can I reveal my six pack while gaining weight?Abs why hast thou forsaken me! Nay! It is you who has forsaken me, in your lust for gains, your quest for mass! Sorry man If you want to get big you gotta eat big and your abs are probably gonna go away; at least until you get to a size you're happy with and start cutting down. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Preparing for a leadership position while still being seen as beta?It's highschool, and nobody gives a shit about highschool. If it's something you want to do, go for it because in four years nobody will care. However leadership is not about being a 'leader' but it does look decent on a college app. Expect plenty of hours spent doing arts and crafts bullshit while you set the auditorium up for prom. Basically, you'll be the faculties bitch. Some kids seemed to enjoy it I guess. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Possibly losing job in 2 weeks, with the chance of getting a new job 2x salary + overtime + benefits... what do about girlfriend?If a temporary loss of income is enough for her to leave good riddance. As far as the job I'd send your resume' out to in case this opportunity falls through. I've seen my share of "sure things" fall short. So cover your ass. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Getting Dad to RPI'll be getting my Dad No More Mr. Nice Guy this Christmas | /r/askTRP | 30/06/15 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Would you fuck a fat chick?No fat chicks. Abundance of hogs, is still hogs. Besides, coming from a mentality of abundance isn't just having multiple plates it's internalizing that all women want me. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/15 10:45 PM |
| 4 | She won't believe I only have a 1 n count, and I don't really want to tell her that that's my number eitherThere is no good reason to answer this question. No matter what you say it is wrong. What she really wants is to feel is comfortable (that she is with a high SMV man and also not just another conquest) give a vague funny and dismissive answer next time. You already banged this girl; she's already another girl on the list. Right. I'd ignore that statement. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/15 06:19 PM |
| 2 | What should I do better next time?Don't chat with a girl through text for a day. Don't say no problem when a girl turns you down; say k or k cya later. Don't ask girls to lunch or dinner for a first date. You can get away with "lets grab a coffee" I personally prefer to invite them to pool, arcade, or bowling for a first date. Do something fun. Looking at each other and talking is awkward for a first date and does not build nearly as much attraction as having fun with someone. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/15 07:11 PM |
| 2 | It happend the worst thing possible in a night outYou say you don't give a fuck but at the same time you're going out with some mental checklist to validate your night/progress. I don't know you, but, your icebreakers could come off needy. Try relaxing and starting up a normal conversation with some of these girls; if you're getting IOI's try isolation and escalating, or, if that's not possible, just set up a date and get her number. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/15 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Annoying chick?There will always be people looking to put you down; looking to elevate themselves in the group. Your reaction to laugh about it isn't wrong but nothing pisses people off like no reaction. You don't tell people that 'I don't care' you just ignore it. The less emotion the better. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/15 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Basic questions regarding amusement and withdrawingHow do I seem amused without coming off as "acting like a smug asshole" (she hates when I'm smug and I have done it less the past few years to seem less "childish")? Haha, that in itself is a shit test. If you're aloof and playful she might say you're 'acting smug' because it's not something you've established as part of your baseline personality. So by saying you're smug and you giving a shit what she thinks you internalize that 'I am upsetting her' instead of shrugging it off because IDGAF. As… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/15 05:27 PM |
| 2 | How does TRP deal with failure?It's just a setback. What is the story behind this? | /r/askTRP | 26/06/15 12:58 AM |
| 37 | How much slack should you cut them? Did I overreact?Stop talking to her. Yes you came off very angry, needy, and pathetic (bitchy). | /r/askTRP | 25/06/15 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Where to meet women?You're finding excuses not to talk to the 3 women who are approachable. My example was stupid in order to reflect your logic for not talking to those women. You're incorrect also in your thinking about approaching women. You'll be much more at ease if you know you are proficient at opening. When you are at ease you are more confident. When you are confident you're more attractive. I'm not talking about greeting Bill from accounting I'm talking about talking to strangers you pass on the street to… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/15 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Where to meet women?Everywhere is a good place to start learning how to talk to people. Start there. Get in the habit of striking up conversations for the sake of conversation, not just to get a number or a date. Your last statement is stupid though. "Even if I want to practice talking with women as much as possible, it feels futile because there is not enough chances." If you met one woman this year are you more or less likely to get better at talking to the women you see next year by: A) Talking to her B) Not tal… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/15 07:42 AM |
| 3 | Should we have a steam group?No, I think a lot of people that come to TRP need to get away from video games; not socialize through them. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/15 12:44 AM |
| 2 | My High School DilemmaEverything goes in cycles; if you're behind the curb now you'll be ahead of the curb tomorrow. In my opinion both are acceptable depending on the circumstances. I'd recommend going on more interesting dates than lunch or dinner. Go bowling, play pool, go to the park, ect. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/15 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Having an LTR talkShe wants more commitment, you don't. Seems pretty straightforward, if she presses more just tell what you want and let the pieces fall where they may. Soft Next. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 07:16 PM |
| 2 | how do I deal with this situation? (warning: extreme political shit involved)Think as you like, but behave like others. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 07:10 PM |
| 6 | Quick question regarding frameNah, don't call. Let the hamster spin. She'll act like she's mad next time you do talk to her; just shrug it off and she will be that much more intrigued by you. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 06:47 AM |
| 2 | What are some tools you have in your arsenal for social interactions?How To Talk To Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships It's funny how often I share that book with people. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/15 04:57 AM |
| 4 | What to bring as a suprise to a date?Another girl. Surprise. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/15 11:35 PM |
| 4 | "You look sad, or mad?"You don't have to smile like an idiot all the time. When you great people do so with a smile though. Body posture is important too. Check out How To Talk To Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships | /r/askTRP | 20/06/15 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with being a doormat to everyone?(Handling verbal confrontation)You're in highschool, so I recommend you get involved with sports and start working out. I can think of no greater boost to your social value, as a highschooler, than being active in sports. Start running, lifting, and doing drills (for coordination) today. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/15 08:32 PM |
| 1 | She asked ME outKeep it simple, set a date up, go have fun. Really no reason to over analyze it, she's just made it easier for you to now take the lead. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/15 03:25 AM |
| 4 | Impossible to pass alpha males shit test?He is insulting you, insult him back. "You've got a big nose" "Yes and like you managed to gargle out last night 'big nose, big hose'" I like to insinuate that whoever is insulting me is either inferior or sucking my dick. Why, because it's funny to me. I am not upset that they're picking on me, but it's more fun, for everyone, if you can dish it back out. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/15 07:51 AM |
| 1 | How am I doing?It's not like you have one interaction and suddenly she'll change her bad attitude. My guess is that your frame is new and she's going to try and break it down. Be vigilant and continue on like this, but it can take awhile to retrain her. There is a great post http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/ which i think you ought to check out. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/15 02:59 AM |
| 2 | text game adviceAs little as possible. If I initiate it's only to set up a date. If she initiates I don't say much, or often, am direct and humorous. I prefer to let their hamster spin wondering why I'm not like the other guys constantly providing her with cheap validation via text messages. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 01:57 AM |
| 5 | Asked TRP for advice on handling a girl's invite to her roller derby, got a recommended idgaf response, and come to find out she posted it to her fb and she's in my friend circle.Women talk, this shouldn't be that big of a surprise. How often have you heard women cackling about how terrible that 'player' guy is, yet he continues to fuck those women? Just ignore it man, if any of your plates bring it up (in person) laugh about it. I wouldn't delete your facebook, not because of your frame, but because you really shouldn't give a shit. You're just a guy who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to go for it. If anything this gives your license to be even bolder because what… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/15 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Shit test helpShe's steering the discussion sexually "I like to misbehave ;) She's inviting you to have her come over and fuck her silly. The following line is a test to see if this 'new you' is just a facade to see if her tingles are real or not. I'd just ignore it and focus on the previous line. "If you like to misbehave why don't you come over and prove it." | /r/askTRP | 12/06/15 11:54 PM |
| 1 | LTRing older womenWhat's wrong with dating older women if that's what you want? Go for it. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/15 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Looking for some guidance.. Being held back.It's not a big deal and works nicely with making them put in more effort than you. Plus extra emotional aww's if you make yourself vulnerable by explaining why afterwards. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/15 04:47 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to girl wanting to "negotiate" rules of sex?If she mentions something like that put a grin on and start working on her. You're a man of action, of abundance, you don't have time to talk about "rules of engagement', shock and awe man. Or just tell her with a smile "who says i want to have sex with you" and laugh in her face. Basically switch the power dynamic. She thinks she is negotiating from a position of power, you need to make it clear that you're the prize not her. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/15 04:41 AM |
| 4 | Is Tinder worth it?It's a tool, and like all tools it's all about how you use it. If you're getting matches and not setting up dates yes it's as useless as hammer is at taking a nut off a bolt. Within three lines try to set up a date. You only waste time if you choose too. Having said that; don't let it become a crutch, it's no replacement for approaching girls you want to meet on the street. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/15 04:53 AM |
| 2 | How have you guys gone about building a strong frame?Read the sidebar and look for TRP books to further your knowledge. Frame is more than 'be stoic' or any other singular thing; it's you projecting your values, good or bad. Getting a better understanding of RP values, through reading or experience, is what TRP believes will give you an attractive, dominant, frame. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/15 04:25 AM |
| 2 | Started avoiding interactions with crush (at work). Feel like i am behaving like a child. Is it normal?Habits are developed through repetition. Habits are things you can make which help you to become the best version of yourself. So make your obsession to be the best you. If you want to be a social person start working on changing the habits which inhibit you from doing just that. A nice book with techniques and habits to develop for that is How To Talk To Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/15 07:27 PM |
| 3 | What do you do with people that are alpha and trying to take advantage of you?Either straight up or Make it less convenient for him to use you: Ask for gas money. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/15 06:53 AM |
| 3 | How to be BluePill?The girl is mental. Hard Next. At some point you just gotta accept that some people are just going to try and drag you down and this girl is using her "suicidal tendencies" in order to emotionally saddlebag you into a relationship. She might be the kindest person you've ever known, but holy cow is she a manipulative wench. Good luck with that. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/15 06:47 AM |
| 1 | hey trp, if i stated what i wanted and got back from my gf something like "it's all about you" - is this a shit test?Either ignore it or agree and amplify whichever suits you best. Might be better served to just do what you want rather than tell her what you want but I don't know the context. Either way: actions>words | /r/askTRP | 08/06/15 06:33 AM |
| 3 | Law 29 and why you shouldn't have unrealistic expectations about the future.I have to agree. This is a demographics issue; not an age issue. I know 40 and 50 year old men who bang women in their 20's they don't meet them at sorority parties they meet them at the beach or at a bar. If anything this sub corrects the unrealistic expectations of men who think supplicating themselves before women, and being niceguys, will get them pussy at any age. I do understand what you're saying but we can't do anything about anyone's whimsical fantasies; that by doing this and that they… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/15 05:30 AM |
| 1 | How to kill the beta instinct6 months isn't that long when you consider you've had a lifetime of conditioning which brought about your beta traits. Be reflective of the tendencies you wish to remove and work on them. If you miss a chance just take it as another life lesson. Everyone has hiccups. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/15 08:35 AM |
| 4 | Avoiding physical fights with brotherYou should just ignore him. It's your parents job to raise their child and if he is disrespectful towards them it's their job to correct that behavior. If you engage with him on that level he has drawn you into his crap, and now you're wading through shit rather than standing above it. If he puts his hand on you give him a heart check but otherwise I'd punish undesirable behaviors with contempt and silence. Nothing eats people up like someone just ignoring them. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/15 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Getting rid of plates/ONSesThere's really nothing better than no contact in my opinion. If you want to let her down nicely that's up to you; just tell her it's not working out and then go into no contact. Don't fuck crazy. From now on. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/15 12:09 AM |
| 1 | As a 20 year old male, What are things I should be actively doing to improve my life?Figure out what it is you want out of life and what you need to get it. Lifting is easy because it's a blanket suggestion that would improve every mans life if they aren't already doing that. You ought to have an inkling about the other stuff you want out of life. As far as being intimidated. Ask yourself why you feel that way. Are you fat? Weak? Ugly? Well, nobody at the gym really gives a shit. They might laugh or be asshats for whatever reason but you need to learn to not give a fuck about an… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/15 06:57 AM |
| 1 | How to handle this shit test?Just shave it. When she says "Oh you shaved your beard for me!" just ignore or deflect the comment or anything alluding to you doing it for her. At the end of the day she's just one girl and this is just one shit test. What you desire and want to do is far more important. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/15 06:40 AM |
| 6 | Would anybody here consider facial surgery/implants?Lifting is about investing in yourself. Others respect you because your body is an easy means to evaluate your mentality: you're disciplined and driven. It's not that important anyways, because it's that decision to seek self-improvement that spurns on a change in your mental state which inevitably causes more lasting attraction than a handsome face. Nobody will argue that being handsome won't cause more visual attraction, but if you're just a handsome little bitch what good are you? That's the … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 08:19 AM |
| 8 | Would anybody here consider facial surgery/implants?Lift for yourself and not anyone else. Attracting women is a byproduct of becoming a man. A fake chin won't make you a man. If your facial features are causing so much insecurity maybe you should get surgery. However; it's a superficial solution to a deeper problem with your mentality. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 07:50 AM |
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