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And women who are interested in you certainly do the first move. Ranging from saying yes to your every invitation lolwut
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:43 PM
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It's almost like different men got different opinions 🤯
/r/seduction14/09/25 03:33 AM
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Dubai is that corner. The state is UAE!
/r/PussyPassDenied12/09/25 06:49 AM
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Dafuq? How is paying to spend a finite time sharing contact with a woman's body entitlement to her body? Pretty sure she gets to own her own body and control it the whole time and an entitled person would insist on not having to pay. What a non-sequitur answer too. Just childish Dudes be horny and women can capitalize off that, simple as. Good for both of them!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:54 AM
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Great logic except it doesn't even work in practice currently with both ends criminalized
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:27 AM
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Funny enough, it's also misogynistic because it's been shown the Nordic model only increases violence against women, as opposed to full decriminalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:20 AM
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Lmao galaxy brain comment there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:39 AM
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So this population pyramid does a pretty good job of showing the respective sex surpluses of each generation: https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/b/bd/USA_Population_Pyramid.svg Notice while the surplus regions highlighted in dark might seem small and insignificant on their own, the net change between them adds up to something quite significant. Here is China's for perspective, as we know their male surplus is the most significant in the world due to the old one-child policy https://u…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:49 PM
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Lol what a copout dude
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:16 AM
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Oh no it does not! That's been a lie since day 1. There are no government welfare programs that offer parents, single or married, a return on each child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:24 AM
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Yes, body language is important, but women are overly reliant on that and other forms of indirect communication. And they assume that they're good at it, despite the disappointing results it seems to bring them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:42 AM
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You can't know for sure if you rely on marketing campaigns to inform you of what's out there for you. But if you're willing to do a little product research and think deeply about what it is you want long-term, there's a much bigger world that opens up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:38 AM
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Holy goalpost moving, Batman!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:23 AM
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Basic pattern recognition and understanding of tradeoffs makes it pretty easy to predict that guys who invest in the sales pitch can't invest very much in the product their selling, which gets reinforced into a vicious spiral of more pitch-less substance because women keep rewarding it. Meanwhile, there are tons of well-mannered, competent guys out there busy lining all their ducks in a row which gets them dismissed as boring until their stability suddenly becomes convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:18 AM
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Here's a take I'm surprised I haven't been seeing more: the US population after boomers has a significant male surplus, whereas boomers have long had a significant female surplus. What changed? The Vietnam draft culled a lot of young men from the generation, which was the norm for previous generations. Our sustained relative peace has had the unpleasant side effect of increasing the competition among young men to find a partner. That said, the completely deranged conclusion to take away from thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:10 AM
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Lack of empathy? More like priorities. Obviously, relationships are important for well-being, but things that are necessary for existence take precedent. Everyone knows this, but the people who deny it do so with the subtext of "my relationships are more important than other people's survival."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:25 AM
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Lobbying? You mean unions. Lobbying is the bad one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:29 PM
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That's insane dude lmao. Please get a grip. On your wiener. And take a nap.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 10:27 PM
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The shitty thing is women can get money from other sources while they have a monopoly on sex lol
/r/MensRights13/06/23 06:57 AM
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Sexual compatibility takes a bit longer than that to determine...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:30 AM
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I was with you till the last sentence lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 05:29 AM
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Nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:05 AM
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Analogies aren't direct equations, so your nitpicking is bizarre. Anyway, your last paragraph really gives away that you're not asking questions in good faith. Peace out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:00 PM
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Anyone is technically free to be single or become a billionaire. What OP is getting at is there's obviously more to the equation that is being dismissed rather glibly. Most people have difficulty staying afloat in their current socioeconomic rung, let alone profiting to the tune of billions of dollars. Similarly, most people are not equipped to cope with being single for, say, a few years, let alone a whole lifetime. It's unhelpful to dismiss either concern because they're both pretty darn valid…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:26 AM
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Maybe among friend groups and aspirational youngsters but generally everyone who engages in lots casual sex is seen as trashy to one extent or another by people in any social position to gatekeep in society, namely suburban married couples. An irl Glenn Quagmire wouldn't make sense because the married men in his neighborhood would never tolerate his lifestyle for a second and would conspire to bully him out of town because he's a liability to their marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:32 AM
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If it helps at all, your line of questioning reminds me of the Libertarian stance on negative freedoms vs positive freedoms, namely that it considers the latter tyrannical. An absurd example of someone to achieve maximum freedom by Libertarian logic would be someone lost without a trace in the Sahara, free from any legal or social imposition! Who else in the world but Libertarians could possibly consider it any measure of freedom to face certain imminent death by dehydration, in the meantime dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:09 AM
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✨and this is why billionaires shouldn't exist✨
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:37 AM
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Tbf prostitution is still illegal throughout the US, sparing some laughably remote enclaves in just one of the 50 states. There's still some progress left to be made in that regard 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:36 AM
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I think OP means finding a streamlined social substitute for relationships is unusually difficult in this era. Much of the physical, social, and commercial infrastructure developed in Post-War America was designed with the assumption that everyone should and would like to pair off into straight couples and start a nuclear family unit. As most of that infrastructure has since been dismantled, and rightfully so imo, it's still taking time to fully replace the social niches they once occupied.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:26 AM
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Yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:40 PM
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Jesus christ lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 10:39 PM
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Good question tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:37 PM
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https://www.vice.com/en/article/ywmm9k/pulling-out-is-as-effective-as-using-condoms
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:06 PM
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Uh no it's not. You're just saying it is because your mind is made up, but any neutral observer can see how they're two sides of the same coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:38 AM
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Just looked into Lloyd's of London and it makes no sense. Sounds like something exclusively for rich people to launder their money lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:37 AM
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That would be a weird business. I doubt a private insurance like that could exist. It makes more sense for the state to run it because it's ultimately the state that accounts for where the child support goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:34 AM
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Thanks for the advice but I like to have female friends because they're people I like to have as friends
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:33 AM
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Dee from IASIP
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:16 AM
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There are an estimated 45k women from the US stuck in Dubai. It's modern human trafficking. Dark stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:14 AM
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They're both so ugly lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:11 AM
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Awww kitty! I'll kiss her 😻
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:08 AM
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Classic starting on third base and thinking she hit a home run lol! It's amazing how many miss this, considering all the barriers they themselves know they put up against practically every guy. Do they think they're the only girls, or only some of the few, who are discerning?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:05 AM
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Red pill "solutions" have been conventional wisdom across cultures for time immemorial. You might think blue pill is conventional wisdom, but au contraire it is merely the much younger product of a historic corporate marketing wave. Not too long ago, the big brands leveled up in marketing techniques (see: Bernays) and figured out how to game patriarchy so that it could extract more profit than ever from heterosexual relationships, this time on both ends, i.e. a man should buy a woman lots of stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 05:08 AM
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You could apply this logic to stealthing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:53 AM
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This is insane nitpicking. But be smart boys and flush your condoms!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:53 AM
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Technically not Reno
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:51 AM
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Fuck yeah! I'd gladly put a small portion of my income into an insurance that makes sure I never get personally fucked over by someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:49 AM
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People used to say parenthood until half of them got what they wanted apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:46 AM
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It's not .01% of men. Lots of dudes get trapped by women trying to race their biological clock at the last minute. Of course, that usually doesn't mean the poor sap was her first choice, rather he was likely her last bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:44 AM
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Fair enough! Of course, it is a meme and largely overplayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:10 PM
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I think the way sex work plays out answers your question quite well. Sex workers are majority women and heavily stigmatized, and being a John isn't exactly glamorous, yet both are ubiquitous regardless of social or legal status. What your argument heavily relies on is an overestimate of how strong a motivator reputation really is in human behavior. It may be a priority in most people's minds, but it is rarely, if ever, #1. Most of us have a pretty good idea of what we want in life, deep down ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:08 PM
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The crux is really how you define "straight." Your disagreement seems to come down to rejection of sexuality as a spectrum, which is something I'm not quite as interested in disputing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:56 PM
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How about just OP? Any sexual contact whatsoever!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:18 AM
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Setting aside gay relationships for the sake of argument, 30 of those women sharing 20 of those guys in some combination isn't anything far-fetched. It happens a lot, especially when multiple women are trying to get commitment from the same man and he's exercising his options as long as they'll let him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:11 AM
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If the same were true for gay/bi men, that might be a good point. But gay/bi men evidently are way more obsessed with dick than women. It's not hard to find a casual sex partner if you're a gay/bi man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:06 AM
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Honestly, same. Blowjobs > penetration
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:03 AM
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Circumcision is a huge variable in this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:01 AM
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Gay/bi dudes fuck each other like rabbits, some men will have sex with farm animals though they're outliers, and some straight guys have no problem with femboys of ladyboys because their gender expression is compatible with their straightness. It's all on a spectrum and the overlapping bimodal distribution of horniness between males and females seems to have the male bell curve notably closer to the horny end. Also, horniness to most people involves appreciation of secondary sex characteristics …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:00 AM
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Wow lmfao always a way to blame men innit
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:51 AM
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How does the greater number of women dating not support women being pickier? They are collectively excluding more men than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:44 AM
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Dude no way! I GET MINI ORGASMS hell yeah r/intactivists
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:40 AM
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Oh, and another part of it is ensuring that male competitors don't get their eyes (or other parts) on their women, or on women in general before gaining the proper social status. There's a history of patriarchal societies punishing rape as a property crime. It still exists today in some places, as you probably already know, especially in those inclined to cocoon women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:39 AM
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I don't think anyone argues that women have no libido, but rather simply less, or at the very least far more situational. And sure, both the prospects of prolonged exclusivity and chastity preceding initial contact are going to involve overlapping mechanisms of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:02 AM
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Basically turning women into inanimate objects as much as humanly possible offers the perception of highly controllable women, and there might be some truth to it because of the fear instilled in the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:08 PM
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You're right in that it's nothing foolproof, but that has never stopped people from buying comforting lies at the expense of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 11:06 PM
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Or securing permanent mates, as the swollen butt once a month just becomes a bigger butt every day of the month, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:32 PM
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Paternal certainty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:29 PM
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To #3: the answer is paternal certainty. It didn't matter how horny women were, as anything more than not horny at all was unacceptable for the sake of ensuring your property is inherited by your own flesh and blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:28 PM
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I don't think anyone's getting a lot of action unless they have money.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 09:35 PM
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Mileage probably varies. Some women are very sensual, others very cerebral. Most are somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:59 PM
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Sometimes physical attraction by scent, interestingly enough. Ever had a girl ask (almost demand lol) to borrow your shirt or something else on you? If not, I'm sure everyone has heard about the ex gf who won't return his hoodie.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:57 PM
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besotted nice
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:53 PM
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Bad. We should shame men for doing that. It ruins everything down the line for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 07:24 PM
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It was a rhetorical question. I'm familiar. That study has been a meme for a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:00 PM
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I have this crazy theory that the very problem you describe started with the Anglican schism. I'm not religious but I've noticed there's somewhat of this sacrosanct regard for motherhood in Catholic cultures, which makes sense because the Virgin Mary is basically a deity to them. By contrast, Protestant culture is much more patriarchal in theology and practice, seeming to demand of its mothers without thanks—or else!—just as the leading example of Henry VIII, who did you know what to his wives. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:25 PM
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Imagine dialing back the clock on human rights for some pussy. Get a grip, y'all! Sex workers are all the rage these days, anyway!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:17 PM
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Adapt by flying solo and setting some of your income aside for hookers. Ideally move to a country where it's legal and relatively cheap. In Germany, you can get sucked off for 20€!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:13 PM
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We're talking specifically about Western, or more specifically American men, though, no? There is a significant male surplus among Gen X-Z, whereas boomers had a significant female surplus.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:09 PM
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Women messaging men? What? Was this normalized for response rate, at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 01:05 PM
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Found exactly whom this post is criticizing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:55 PM
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"My energy" Ok, energy to put into what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 12:54 PM
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It's ambition until you're ready to settle down and have mostly someone else pay for your family, if you can call that genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:56 AM
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"If things don't change for him, he's gonna marry the first girl he lays, and she's gonna treat him like shit, because she will have given him what he has built up in his mind as the end-all, be-all of human existence." — Ferris Bueller
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:15 PM
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lol second is generous
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:14 PM
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I agree that they're missing the mark, but I'd also say your substitute isn't any closer. It's so much more complicated than just one primary factor. It's a whole bunch of factors ultimately weighed against the decreasing value of relationships in society, particularly to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:12 PM
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Who cares what it "tells." What do YOU want to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 03:39 PM
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r/suddenlyincest
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:56 PM
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The assumption that every kid should move out of their home by their 20s is uniquely American and very dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 05:38 PM
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Yeah I went to LA for college and when I came back to visit my rural hometown for the first time I was aghast at how fat people were. I had never noticed!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:51 PM
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Yep I'd say it's a much more urgent problem than some Chads getting all the bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:24 PM
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No? What the hell lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 01:54 PM
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It's the obesity epidemic and car culture
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:24 AM
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Ridiculous argument lol but incidentally it does almost precisely reflect the state of global wealth concentration, as about half of total global wealth is concentrated in the hands of a number of hundred billionaires you could count on one or two hands!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:13 AM
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The average American is unattractive. shocker
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 05:09 AM
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Don't be confused by the name. I am not a milf but merely a man who admires them 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:26 AM
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Interesting article but disappointing that it overlooks the declining quality of our food and water supply that is slowly damaging our tissue and disrupting our hormones, sexual and non-sexual alike
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:24 AM
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No offense but this is kind of incoherent lol. You should consider editing a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:15 AM
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Wee woo! Wee woo!👮‍♂️ I hear a cop-out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:13 AM
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Arranged marriages are successful in the sense that they are efficient for producing extended families and any sense of satisfaction is more likely to come from the abundant family structure than from your specific partner, in and of themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:10 AM
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This is a totally understandable dilemma that is as you point out universal to the human condition. It would be unfair to subject an unwitting person to a personal phase of denial that will inevitably end you both up in a worse place than either of you started, even if the relationship miraculously lasts until one of you dies. I'm hoping for the best with a future of sexbots lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:05 AM
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Ok now I'm totally on board 👍 Those were some important distinctions to make
/r/ExRedPill14/07/22 03:56 AM
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I care in the sense that it's a requirement for serious effort on my own part. This might be more of an ego thing than a sexual turn-off, per se, but I consider myself above one-sided pursuits and will always return a cold shoulder in kind. But when a sexual encounter is transactional in some way or another, I'm perfectly capable of compartmentalizing my sex drive and detaching it from my ego. I have the privilege of various other routes to satisfy the latter. It's the tender touch of a voluptuo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:25 AM
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"Diversity is an obstacle to unionization our strength!"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/21 02:47 AM
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How the fuck does any one human being mod 3k subs???
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/21 04:00 PM
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Becoming right-wing under the impression it would better serve your interests as a man is such a self-own. If any political bloc out there is misandrist, it's reactionaries. They literally want you to die protecting women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/21 12:38 AM
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Speaking of which, have you ever felt horngry? It's the worst!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/21 02:24 AM
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Ah! Makes total sense now and I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/21 02:23 AM
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Woah where did "eating" come from?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/21 01:43 AM
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Sometimes but not always. It's definitely a staple of American history.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/21 09:33 PM
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Nah I'd classify it right now as more of an oligarchy, where men and women outside the big club are at each other's throats for the scraps, them and every other conceivable pair of demographics.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/21 06:45 PM
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No siree bob!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/21 06:43 PM
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Also no penis. Imagine being a man in society without a built-in stress toy 😱
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/21 06:40 PM
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"...that my baby daddy never consented to having!"
/r/FeminismStopsWhen20/06/21 10:08 PM
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Nah bro exercise some standards. You're totally worth it! It's about time men of our generation start laying down the law.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen13/06/21 05:23 PM
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According to feminist lingo, wouldn't the proper term be internalized misandry? Why do men require a separate lexicon that appears more condescending?
/r/FeminismStopsWhen12/06/21 10:56 PM
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It's not misandry to "recognize male behavior patterns" but it's misogyny to generalize female behavior patterns
/r/FeminismStopsWhen08/06/21 11:37 PM
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This quote always seemed so off to me. Maybe it's because I've always experience female laughter as a compliment.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen08/06/21 11:31 PM
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Prostitution is the best addition to a whole lot of lifestyles!
/r/MGTOW231/05/21 01:49 PM
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The women face their unique set of challenges under the same socioeconomic circumstances. Common last-resort gigs for women are sex work and housekeeping.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/21 06:32 AM
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I'm sorry but I have to giggle at VAWG like VAWGINA it's so easy lmfao
/r/MensRights15/05/21 10:27 PM
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I find it odd that you attribute a man's lot in life to his preference. Nobody wants to join a gang. The only people who join gangs are teenage boys with bleak options and serious manipulation from gang recruiters who, analogously to pimps, lure them during their low points by selling them a 'lateral' path to success and stoking their reasonable distrust of law enforcement into a full-blown murderous paranoia that incidentally mirrors it. What kind of man do you think has a passion for mining or…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/21 05:19 PM
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I've always thought they could coexist as competing interests, you know, much like political parties, one for each sex.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/21 07:26 PM
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I like little dogs hehe they're so funny
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/21 01:37 AM
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Nah dude just get a pet for its own sake! Pets are awesome!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/21 01:36 AM
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Uh oh that sort of makes women sound correct for rejecting those guys oof
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/21 01:32 AM
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Idk id you missed it bro, but aba and preach have acknowledged repeatedly that the red pill gets incredibly toxic. Besides, framing the red pill like "BUT it's the only outlet for men to discuss their problems" implies that it's otherwise not worthwhile.
/r/ExRedPill29/03/21 12:40 AM
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Nah I would say it's a truism that the most hated in any given society are always the deviants who have no clear-cut role or are incapable of fulfilling any available role. Many of them happen to be male, but that's usually incidental. A few examples off the top of my head (not necessarily in the 21st century US) would be pedophiles, prostitutes, (non-passing) transgenders, the homeless, the disabled, drug addicts, the morbidly obese...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/21 07:05 AM
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Lol maybe it's American women suck in particular then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:18 AM
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This is why I can't really blame men for cheating. Women are literally asking for it! So dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:06 AM
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Sounds like hell I'd rather get an attractive hooker lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 03:42 PM
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Some men actually do feel that way and, lo and behold, they're usually not the same men doing the slut-shaming! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:54 AM
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Lotta homeless people still alive...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:42 AM
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Nonsense! Gay men have consistently hooked up with strangers left and right and under some of the riskiest conditions despite being shamed into oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:32 AM
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Wait we're invoking "coin" as antithetical to objectification now?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:23 AM
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Pornhub seems like the reactionary scapegoat in recent years due to their preeminent marketing, ironically enough. Are all the people crying out for Pornhub's blood really not aware of all the 100K-1M similar websites out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:15 AM
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Non-hypothetical history has some answers for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:13 AM
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To your last point, brothels are that exact place.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:11 AM
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You can thank the CIA and bananas for that!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:10 AM
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Why would it mean that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:08 AM
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As well as the patience to maintain your own attention...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 08:07 AM
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Yeah I never understood the door shit lmao. Maybe it's a regional thing, but I hold doors open for anyone close enough behind me, and I'll even be a tad more accommodating for the elderly and disabled.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/20 11:34 PM
6

Because it lures you into bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 04:13 AM
2

Biden. My guiding rationale is don't give anybody you don't like a second term, even if it means giving somebody else you don't like their first.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/20 12:14 PM
2

Whatever happened to "hypermasculinity?" You know, implying masculinity is good in moderation... Does the job just right!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/20 08:50 PM
2

rofl Orgasmo
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/20 05:51 PM
2

Why is this so heavily focused on damage done to girls? That's not a bad thing, but it seems to be missing the point of the theme here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/20 01:40 AM
2

You're right on the substance of the issue, but you're projecting what you're against onto the actual message of this post because you assume the message will what you're against. Look again.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/20 06:34 PM
5

Social norms definitely reinforce it dude
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/20 03:00 AM
1

Being open is distinct from trying to maintain the thematic integrity of a subforum. Given the unfortunate adjacency of reactionary politics to male advocacy in American discourse currently, I'd advise extra caution to anyone trying to isolate the niche intersection between male advocacy and left-wing politics when unguarded it could easily be overwhelmed by the numbers of reactionary larpers intent on targeting well-meaning men by making a wedge out of male advocacy and luring them onto their s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/20 08:41 PM
2

I wasn't the one who reported it, but it definitely doesn't belong in a leftwing group!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/20 09:21 AM
1

And here I thought this sub was supposed to be leftwing lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/20 09:20 AM
2

Word brotha
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/20 06:19 PM
2

Fuck yeah dude exactly! 100% on point with my post
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/20 04:46 PM
3

True! But usually men seem to whip that card out less eagerly, or they're at least tempted to attach some sort of caveat.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/20 04:45 PM
1

Yeah it's pretty tangential, but idk just let the guy vent haha the frustration is understandable all-around in this day and age!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/20 04:44 PM
7

Oh yeah thankfully we don't stone anybody over this shit anymore, but it's still a nuisance at best and potentially traumatic at worst.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/20 08:25 AM
7

Well, don't forget the aftermath! If you don't break things off with her on her terms she'll assume you "lied to her just to get in her pants" and tell everybody, especially her 'Nice Guy' orbiters, that you're a douchebag, fuckboi or much, much worse and nobody will even ask for your side of the story.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/20 08:23 AM
8

Yep hence my "sexual enthusiasm" remark!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/20 07:07 AM
3

That's true to an extent, but it's still shaming and it can get pretty serious if girls with chips on their shoulders decide to band together and ruin a fuckboi's reputation with accusations of "sexual misconduct" or worse. Look what just happened to Chris D'elia!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/20 06:28 AM
3

I meant more along the lines of what happens if you wind up having sex or express eagerness to engage in it (either publicly or interpersonally) and the rigid social guidelines that separate the potential for a satisfying sex life and utter ostracization both sexually and socially.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/20 05:42 AM
1

Or maybe it's because he's implicated with a global pedophile ring leader?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/20 09:26 AM
2

Yeah from my own observations it's the complete opposite
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/20 09:01 PM
1

I hear it from time to time but it's a damn good analogy for OP either way
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/20 08:53 PM
0

A lot of the commentary in this thread seems suspiciously reactionary. I like the idea behind this sub, but I think we all know by now which direction political subs on reddit trend to over time without diligent moderation...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/20 06:15 AM
1

Is this sub actually leftwing or?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/20 04:08 PM
0

Something important worth noting right away is that men =/= masculinity. Hence, decrying masculinity is not misandry. On a related note, I'd be cognizant of the direction the world is rapidly headed toward and start considering which aspects of masculinity, if any, may be approaching obsolescence. Infantry warfare has been drifting away from armed combat in favor of remote warfare, the service sector has been dominating the labor market share, and the elephant in the room that keeps growing and …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/20 04:01 PM
2

It's the same reason some women are emboldened to announce publicly that they hate men whereas men who are openly critical of women feel the need to hedge that they don't hate women
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/20 01:19 PM
1

LOL Julie got destroyed in that tweet thread!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/20 01:15 PM
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It's a lot like justifying the Transatlantic slave trade because the slaves were sold by other Africans.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/20 01:13 PM
1

On a tangential note, yards are kind of stupid! Has anybody stopped to think why the heck we actively pay for extra land we don't even get paid to maintain or otherwise profit from?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/20 01:12 PM
1

Eh it doesn't advance any discussion really. It's like... a whataboutism about whataboutisms lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/20 12:42 PM
1

They call that a Kafka Trap!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/20 12:39 PM
1

Nah man I like seeing the mask come off! Why bother hiding it?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/20 12:34 PM
2

Actually... not quite as much as I might be if I weren't already overwhelmed by the deluge of infuriating covid developments superseding it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/20 06:13 PM
1

Nah, patriarchy is a real thing, at least literally in terms of prevalent family and workplace models. It's been on its way out for decades, though. That doesn't by any means imply that every element of society is tilted in favor of men at the expense of women. Quite the opposite, in fact. Sure, men overrepresent the small portion of people who possess the majority of wealth and political power in this world, but men overall pay a much higher price in their interpersonal interactions, emotional …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/20 03:06 AM
2

Ooh thanks!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 11:26 PM
1

Don't laugh at me, Franklin Roosevelt is the one who said it! Well... not verbatim but VERY similar. Well... ok it at least had the word "fear" in it...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 03:35 PM
2

Sociosexual huh? Well, that's a new one for me! But wait... how do we know this isn't just some more of your marketing baboonery hmm?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 03:33 PM
2

Fear is the worst STD of all!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:32 PM
2

That's what I thought! This thread has multiple layers of confusion now...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:31 PM
1

Oh misleading name then LOL As an uncut guy myself I can attest to the foreskin playing a huge role, a role which condoms thoroughly impede! haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:29 PM
3

Well the process leading up to that is a positive feedback loop that takes a few affirmative steps on your own part...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:27 PM
6

Well, that's the implication of AFBB right? The 'betas' have to stick around for the 'alpha' leftovers, i.e. women who have reached the age of 'the wall,' because betas are supposedly not conventionally attractive enough to elicit the sexual desire of women at a young age before finances and the aforementioned wall have become preeminent concerns to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:24 PM
1

Oh in that case, isn't it more tempting for unsnipped guys? Condoms deny foreskin and frenulum mobility. Guys who don't have those parts basically have a rigid rod with fairly uniform sensitivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:17 PM
7

Why should anybody wait around for 30 years for their future partner to grow the hell up? Stability comes naturally to some people at a young age. Though perhaps there's a gender imbalance in that trait...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:13 PM
10

So? It's not like there's a social sex tax or something where you're obliged to have sex with every nth person you interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:10 PM
2

If you're snipped, what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 12:05 PM
5

Whether a specific societal change is good or bad is a highly subjective question which can be analyzed through a variety of sociological approaches. What's good for one individual usually comes at some sort of cost to another individual. Reactionaries tend to react adversely to most change because the they are accustomed to a status quo that favors them, which mathematically makes the number of possible changes that could move society against their favor greater than the number of changes that …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 01:37 AM
8

I always love how it's reactionaries who 'virtue signal' such a hard-on for societal advancement when they're also the ones who freak out over every technological gamechanger that enables even the slightest cultural shift (see: boomer testimonials from r/phonesarebad). Somehow they keep forgetting that, fundamentally, change is the very bane of their existence!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 01:14 AM
4

In all fairness, either dumb or actually a pretty sharp, kid from middle class whose inexperience makes him vulnerable to familial pressure and predatory corporations like CollegeBoard and private universities supported by the school systems we entrust most of our intellectual development to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:19 AM
3

Good news for me then I suppose lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:28 AM
1

Huh well that's an interesting twist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:27 AM
1

Lol she still loves junk food but she knows she can't eat as much of it because she'll get fat GREAT ANALOGY
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:25 AM
1

Yeah just look at our septuagenarian presidential candidates
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:15 AM
10

Myth of Meritocracy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:14 AM
0

IF marriage is on the table yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 07:13 AM
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Please leave your faith out of our politics.
/r/PussyPass03/06/20 07:48 AM
6

Same with some African Christian countries, though. There's more than just religion. It's a chicken and egg thing where religion, culture, and state continuously check or reinforce each other.
/r/PussyPass03/06/20 07:45 AM
3

Dude when I have water for the first time in like 6 hours it tastes like fucking Mecca lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 08:36 PM
7

Idk I feel pretty bonded to rewards my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 05:03 PM
1

That might come as an advantage to you, assuming that means you can relate more to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 05:03 PM
8

weak peen needs strong pussy!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 05:02 PM
1

Imagine not knowing how to kill another human being and the lack of that knowledge being your only obstacle in the way of actually killing one
/r/PussyPass30/05/20 02:14 PM
1

It's not either/or. Incompatibility or loss of interest, etc. is a two way street.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 11:00 AM
1

If you gotta believe that men think about sex the same way women do (i.e. emotional compatibility = sexual compatibility) in order to feel justified in placing all the blame on the men who bailed out on you after sex, go for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 10:36 AM
1

A high value man expects from a woman, if commitment is a consideration, a level of sexual performance that distinguishes her from his other options. His own enjoyment is a factor--independent of the woman's--when he knows he has other options. If you're getting pumped and dumped, it's likely you're shooting for value a bit above that which you reciprocate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 08:29 AM
1

Or maybe the sex was bad and he didn't think it was gonna go anywhere? A lot of women act like their only job in the bedroom is to show up...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 02:58 AM
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How many of them are approaching the incels? Or is it only their responsibility to approach because they're the guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 02:39 AM
1

It's beneath you king
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:21 PM
1

Yep, they've always seemed pretty cool to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:54 PM
1

It's definitely cheap but 20 bucks for 3 of them seems like a heavy exaggeration...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:52 PM
1

Hell yeah, that's the right attitude! Don't fault ignorance, fault inconsideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:46 PM
5

Costa Rica was extremely clean? I've been to San Jose in recent years and it's pretty crusty, and I'm not even talking about the non-touristy areas. That leads me to wonder what kind of countries in Europe and Asia you could've visited lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:06 AM
3

Yeah Americans tend to fail the most at the collective level hehe it's like they can't even fathom the efficiency of mutual investment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:03 AM
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Isn't it funny that Americans are germaphobic as hell yet at the same time they can't clean up after themselves for shit as showcased by their worn-out, litter-infested cities 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:47 AM
3

"They found that men’s ratings of self-perceived attractiveness were higher than women’s ratings; however, looking at others ratings, women were rated overall as more attractive than men." The last half there is quite a confounding factor. And where's the control group?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:31 PM
1

Title made me LOL take my upvote
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:22 PM
0

I can see the case for women but definitely not for men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:34 PM
44

Point well taken. Americans have the strangest aversions to some of the most mundane things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:35 PM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:33 PM
0

That's a really small portion of men, and most men if they had the choice would forego the so-called 'opportunity' to work 40+ hours per week for some stranger who essentially would own their lives. The working world was never a game or a luxury to men. For them, work has always been do or die, except of course for a privileged minority who could regard it as a personal art form or use it as a status vehicle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:37 PM
4

I was more curious about the role of amphetamines lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:47 PM
0

Ok so did they have shitty jobs for all of human history or not? Being a housewife is a distinct category if we're contrasting it to men and their "careers."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:47 PM
0

Don't you see how that significantly undermines your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:28 PM
1

Huh how does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:17 PM
2

College girls are so retarded lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:15 PM
4

I always got the opposite impression. They usually seem hung up about sex and require a bit of goading into it. Like, if the sex isn't going to be had under perfect conditions, then having it would literally be the worst thing ever lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:08 PM
0

You honestly believe the vast majority of men don't fucking hate their jobs and only put up with them to make ends meet for themselves or their families?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:03 PM
2

You think friends hang out on the basis of their looks? No freaking way! Appearance not being a constraint is what makes friendship so much more flexible and sincere than sexual/romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:00 PM
2

"Emotional labor" ffs high maintenance alert
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:57 PM
1

Lol fun to say... NARPMALT hee hee
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:56 PM
1

Hohoho boy try reading some literature from literally anywhere in the world during literally any historical era on record! The clashing of lust and social obligation is a truism as old as the rift between flesh and consciousness, sorry to say... But you're in good company, at least!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 06:07 AM
1

Meh. Humans are overrated, anyway! Let's just enjoy life and fuck till we die lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:34 AM
1

What you're saying is also a thing, but the issue I'm talking about is more about how quickly you can get sexually explicit. Sexual openers, even if a woman is dtf, is a deterrent because of girl reasons or whatever (lol half jk there). Men have no such hangups and can be much more straightforward with each other. We don't even care what Joe Public thinks of our sex lives, whereas women are the ones who are so strident about optics and abiding by social norms. Women impose these concerns only th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 04:01 PM
1

Gay guys would be more transparent about it. Having to figure out which women are dtf, and of course which among those are dtf with me in particular, is a pain in the ass! Haha horny dudes get right down to business, but straight guys gotta deal with all these procedures and shit and of course unfavorable supply & demand between the sexes. It would be nice to be met with mirrored enthusiasm for an impending hookup rather than the straight guy's usual burden of having the right sales pitch to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 06:44 AM
0

Yeah not into LTR period #SatyrSquad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 02:38 AM
5

Yeah the priorities are wacko. Like let's get everybody food and healthcare first sheesh
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 02:33 AM
1

Lol nice observation that's pretty great irony
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 02:24 AM
2

Nah I would love it if female sexuality were identical to mine lol. I've mused about how much fun I would have if I were gay or bi because I could always find somebody who's down especially with grindr nowadays... fuck. Female sexuality is so lame sigh srry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 02:21 AM
1

I'd say that's only true if you want kids. Even then the risks are much higher than the potential payoff. Too many of us have seen up-close the effects of divorce, namely, on men's mental health and standard of living. Knowing that they wouldn't see it worth ever doing again, many of us have taken that as a sign that it isn't even worth doing once. Now, some other men may have never witnessed the devastation of a broken family or perhaps want children of their own badly enough to accept the risk…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 02:02 AM
1

Hm I always saw AWALT as a preemptive measure for the sake of risk management, as opposed to a conclusion drawn from past personal encounters. That is, any woman has permission from the current system to become "like that" whenever she pleases because a man has no recourse available if and when she does, as well as from that moment onward.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 09:48 PM
-1

What a silly expectation in a world with nearly 10 billion people. Everyone is fundamentally replaceable in this era. You can be unique but you can never be unique enough. Enjoy what you can get while you still can, or at least figure out a better predictor of loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:36 PM
1

Are you actually a midget for real doe?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 08:26 PM
1

haha nice you got me with that one xD
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 09:12 AM
5

It appears that's currently an open question in science. Mind you, females of many animal species also have hymens, oddly enough including clownfish o.o
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 07:26 AM
3

Lul a creationist
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 07:14 AM
1

My use of the term fetish might have been glib, sorry. I meant it as more of a cultural fetish than a strictly sexual one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 07:01 AM
8

Great questions. As far as we know, our ancient ancestors and the hominids preceding them were unaware of these biological mechanisms and hence didn't consciously factor them into their mating adaptations. As many of our extant primate cousins can show us today, paternal competition comes in many indirect or unconscious forms. Some primates, such as gorillas and many baboons, form harems and aggressively guard their many concurrent mates against the advances of other males. Some others are promi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:57 AM
8

It's a relic of the ancient paranoia over paternal certainty that emerged alongside the invention of property and inheritance. The common catalyst to all of these was the agricultural revolution, which changed the game from the short-term hunting and gathering to long-term investments in land and livestock, among various other social constructs that followed in a cascade all the way up to what we recognize as civilization. Anyway, the logic behind the age-old virgin fetish was that if you could …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 06:20 AM
1

Nah of course not, nothing like that. It's definitely true for some incels by their own admission, but I find it striking how quickly and emphatically non-incels can sometimes jump to that argument whenever the subject of legalizing prostitution comes up. I mean, surely it would work wonders for some nonnegligible subset of incels, don't you think? Why poo-poo a potentially helpful measure right out the gate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 09:14 AM
1

Why do I see this argument mostly from people speaking for incels rather than from incels themselves? Gee...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:47 AM
1

Shhhh it's a trade secret! Lol jk
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:42 AM
4

Let us die out then. This human experiment may have failed but that doesn't mean we should let it continue failing us
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:40 AM
6

That shit's tedious and potentially degrading
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 06:38 AM
1

Oh what a canard! The people you meet in life are a microcosm of society at large. It's not just the women you grew up with, as evidenced by countless testimonies from other men from all over the world which relay the same old story: They grow up invisible, lonely, and sexually frustrated, but those who somehow manage to make it big eventually despite the lack of support along the way WELL THEN SUDDENLY a bunch of women from all sorts of diverse backgrounds seem to notice them in a suspiciously …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 12:59 PM
1

I totally agree! I'm a good-looking guy who catches some eyes but my niche interests, male-dominated hobbies, and ADHD brain can be such cockblocks! Online dating was a brief source of hope for me but that shit turned out to be pretty even worse fml!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 08:31 AM
2

The nuclear family is no ideal, either. It's isolating and unreliable. Some form of communal living among extended family (e.g. clans) where kids can grow up alongside each other with no shortage of parental figures available is how our ancestors lived before the agricultural revolution and is ingrained in us still.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 03:08 PM
2

I don't have any mental hangups about it but it turns I have just as little incentive to try that lol. I'm neither aroused nor disgusted by anything about the male form, though I have no trouble recognizing and admiring the aesthetics of some men over others without experiencing the same physiological response I get from the (mostly visual) fertility cues of some women. Wouldn't mind being bi tho haha bummer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 07:30 AM
2

These men Americans
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:14 PM
3

Nope LOL they're not all that fun for me. Heterosexuality is a curse!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 11:13 PM
2

That's hardly any difference at all, really. Pleasant surprise, if anything!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/20 06:15 PM
1

Haptic VR porn, sex robots, spreading of legal sex work... CAN'T WAIT!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 02:35 PM
6

Last one's a bit of a farce on the man's side. Sure, having lots of sex partners is an enviable position to be in, from a man's default perspective. However, society by and large shuns the grown men who refuse to settle down with just one of their many options. Married couples don't want to be anywhere near them for obvious reasons. Elected officials can face intense scrutiny for 'improper' sexual conduct, even if 100% of it is consensual. See if you can find a horndog even get elected to office…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:58 PM
0

Where does she get the impression that boys are coddled more than girls? AFAIK, boys have to help dad out with the heavy lifting, yard work, and in some places hunting. Coddling seems more like more of a class issue to me than a gender one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 03:42 PM
2

Oh that's a pretty cool resource to have! If you want, you can also check out the Morill Anti-Bigamy Act https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Morrill_Anti-Bigamy_Act Correction: This law was passed in 1862, which is actually antebellum but really by just a hair. Apparently, it was targeted toward Mormons, mostly located in what was then known at the time as the "Utah Territory," and Lincoln never really bothered to enforce it. Turns out my memory was a bit off about the South. Looks like they didn't li…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 03:40 PM
1

Goddamn these materialistic bitches can't enjoy the finer things in life 🤷‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:50 PM
1

Dave Chapelle said that verbatim but Chris Rock has said similar things
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:49 PM
1

Maybe that's why they look so retarded like some of these r/divorcedbirds lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:42 PM
1

False. The American Southern States (super hardcore Protestants btw) had to be forced by federal law to discontinue their tradition of polygamy POSTBELLUM. Polygamy was actually the much forgotten other side of the "state's rights" coin the South invoked to justify slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:39 PM
5

Ikr! Does it never occur to these women that maybe the quality of the sex itself is what caused them to have a change of heart? Do they not even realize how many me "stick to what I like" when it comes to just about everything else in life?! If he left after a single-digit number of sexual encounters with you, it's probably because he thought he could find a better sex life with some other woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:26 PM
1

And the hamsterwheel just keeps on rollin...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:17 PM
1

Many say the male equivalent is the friendzone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:13 PM
1

I get the impression that TRP dismisses longterm relationships altogether and in its place endorses lifelong bachelorhood sprinkled with some casual sex, fwb, flings, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:12 PM
2

What does that even mean tho
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:08 PM
6

Average-looking woman gets attention (gasp) but only from the "wrong" guys OMG STOP THE PRESSES!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:06 PM
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That's awfully presumptuous and naively optimistic. In a similar way, virgins tend to assume that losing your virginity is a gamechanger when the truth is you're just as much of a fledgling as you were moments before losing it and the experience has left you with more new questions than answers 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:16 AM
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Yeah some can overlook it. Personally, I find few faces highly appealing yet most others more than tolerable enough. I actually happen to be really picky about curves lol. Androgyny seems to repulse me on a visceral level somehow. I'm like the opposite of a pedophile or something hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 01:12 AM
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That's not at all uncommon and certainly doesn't conflict with what I've said! Face is a big deal to every human with sight, and to some a bigger deal than others :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 12:31 AM
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Doesn't PnD also take effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:45 PM
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Yep. It's really that black-and-white. You both nailed it!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:41 PM
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Probably social status. People tend to identify much more with their long-term partners and prioritize what is collectively considered most valuable and memorable to their peer group and society at large. Overall, humans are much better at associating people with their faces than their bodies. A lustful body is really just a one trick pony! Though to it's credit, it's got a pretty damn good trick haha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:38 PM
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It depends on how he responds if she tries to leave the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 12:12 AM
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Therapy is useless for people who have already analyzed their own problems down to the bone. The best solution is to save that money for something you could find enjoyable down the line lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 12:11 AM
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Nah that's not coercion. If his persistence bothers her, it's her job to make her own boundaries clear and resort to dumping him if necessary. If he doesn't comply, threaten to call the police like any reasonable adult would in an escalating dispute. Capitulating for the sake of convenience is a choice you make, in other words consent. Reluctance is still consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 12:05 AM
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Hm strange thing to block somebody over but Κ
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 04:31 AM
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OK... first of all r/iamverysmart But if we're talking patriarchy, 6k years still sounds a bit young. You probably can't really pin the start of it it down to any one specific cultural shift, not even religions like the very patriarchal religions of Abraham. It can be easy for many to mix up cause and effect in cases like this, but the chronology of it supports religion being a byproduct of culture and politics. Patriarchy has been shown to correlate with several social conditions that emerged g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 01:50 PM
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6,000 years... Do I spot a young earth creationist?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 11:48 PM
1

I hope you realize you're really contributing nothing to a discussion when you pull out the generalizing card. Generalizations are essential to efficient communication, provided their premises are reasonably accurate. Accurate generalizations are productive, inaccurate generalizations are counterproductive. That's the part people equivocate with all generalizations, which leads them in glorious irony to generalize, themselves--about generalizations!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 11:44 PM
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I understand that to be the case with many men and women alike, and I also know that it's mostly cultural. Ancient Rome had a similar perspective about giving vs receiving oral sex, where providing it was even used as a form of civil punishment. By contrast, the Ancient Greeks were so lackadaisical about it that they even exchanged it regularly on a friendly basis (i.e. "brojobs").
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 04:49 PM
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Yes, I see it as a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 09:22 AM
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Nah man blowjobs are a beautiful thing. I'm quite thankful for their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 09:19 AM
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Compared to the general population? Attractive people are valuable for a reason: they're scarce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:51 PM
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You mean keep yourself coming ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 01:52 PM
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Not how studies work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 01:22 PM
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That's a far cry from gung-ho! I made sure to choose my words carefully. Sure, plenty would take it as it comes. I would probably take a free sample of chicken wings if someone opportunistically offered it to me, but I don't plan many of my days around chicken wings, as wonderful as they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 12:13 PM
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Religion definitely plays a role, and American culture being particularly insecure and paranoia-driven doesn't help the situation much... All things considered, I doubt most men are so gung-ho about participating in casual sex. Sure, all normal men want sex at some point in their lives, but they vary in how they want to go about it. As much as you may like casual sex, it has its pros and cons (purely practical ones too!) just like any other kind of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:56 AM
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Haha 90% probably isn't so far off if you think about it. It makes sense to be anxious when you spend half your life with a ticking time bomb inside your body that could be activated inadvertently at any time if at least just one member of half the earth's population--which lucky for you happens to be the more physically powerful half, all in all--wills it so at any point! See, an anxious predisposition ain't the worst of problems to have when you put things into perspective like that, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:46 AM
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Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 06:54 AM
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Plenty of men avoid casual sex too, believe it or not. Men have reason to fear std's and unwanted pregnancies almost as much as women do. It's not so much a gender thing as much as it is a cautious/anxious person thing. Some people live by the motto of "better safe than sorry." It just so happens that more women belong to this category.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 05:33 AM
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Ignore the naysayers. Those of us who sincerely want to make sense of the world can appreciate your transparency.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 05:27 AM
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I have no trouble accepting hard truths, but damn... if you're right, that sure is a hard one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:39 PM
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In other words, what is your "That" referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:11 PM
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What is because what? What's the subject here? Did you even read my comment? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:10 PM
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It's not a great scenario if you could have a less stressful orgasm on your own jacking off. To reiterate, a woman's mere presence doesn't merit credit for a man's orgasm. Sometimes it gets awkward and men feel rushed to finish up, so they either go full throttle and imagine being somewhere else with someone else because the woman's cold impatience is so alienating, or they fake their orgasms. Yes, men fake orgasms, too. Look it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:08 PM
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The proper analogy would be unattractive women duh... Believe it or not, the vast majority of men are repulsed by a pretty decent percentage of women out there. Anything you hear otherwise is really just hyperbole outside the worst cases of sex addiction. Going across sexual orientations is far different from settling. Not all repulsion is created equal. As a straight man, I'd probably be less repulsed by sex with another man than by that with a water buffalo.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:04 PM
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I don't disagree with any of that, but let's not put orgasms on a pedestal. Sexual contact of any kind is a unique, holistic experience in which orgasms are only one facet and an optional one, at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:32 AM
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If you equate how a straight woman feels about sex with an unattractive man to how a straight man feels about sex with any other man regardless of how attractive he is, that raises some questions I frankly find rather uncomfortable lmao. Really seems like apples and oranges to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:29 AM
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"Better" is a normative qualifier
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:22 AM
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To get action from your #1 choice, sure that's never easy lol. But "get action" is quite an exaggeration on your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:20 AM
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Why do girls think sex is all about orgasms? And why do they often speak as though it's a given that all male orgasms that occur within female company can be credited to said female? The fact is, man or woman, most of your best orgasms will be self-made because nobody knows your genitals like you do, though sometimes others might crack your code by pure chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:18 AM
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Ok sure and some of the Boomers and Gen X-ers actually subscribed to Playboy for the articles ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:31 PM
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Decades of rising obesity, sleep deprivation, and sedentary lifestyle probably contribute to lower levels of testosterone and social motivation in the population just a liiiiiiiiiittle bit, dontcha think?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 10:17 PM
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Fears are initially inherited but can be unlearned or augmented over time. We carry our distant ancestors' deepest fears--of course, some individuals more so than others. Fear of physical threats goes much, much farther back than that of social threats, and it shows in how much more adept we are at responding to the former, given that our reactions to physical danger outpace conscious thought. Technically, you're right that certainty of safety along with convenient, let alone reliable, access to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 09:44 PM
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Yes, social threats can culminate in physical threats, absolutely. It's more indirect, but the link is explicit and predictable. Fear of ostracism is primarily a proxy for fear of death and by extension violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 09:17 PM
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Very true and law enforcement falls under the umbrella of social threats. Accusations, truthful or otherwise, are a type of assault on reputation that trigger a specific set social consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 09:09 PM
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I have a shit ton of hair so I call BS LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:49 PM
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Plenty of countries in the world, let alone near the US, have legal and safe prostitution. Treat yourself once in a while to a sex vacation bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:48 PM
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This. Media content is a product of demand, much more so than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:46 PM
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Obviously no confounding factors right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:44 PM
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wow... imagine thinking men watch porn for the narrative lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:43 PM
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Yes, but it was much more coded with euphemisms and stricter courting rituals.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:39 PM
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Complete horseshit. Men can do all those things and much more for their own enrichment. If they're clever, they'll even figure out how to meet their own needs while spending as little as possible, which likely means foregoing the need to purchase, store, and maintain a car, possibly even cutting out commute entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:37 PM
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Meh. We're all getting what we deserve, then. ...On second thought, women still seem to be getting more attention and effort from men than they deserve lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:32 PM
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As social creatures, humans depend on one another to meet their material and emotional needs. Your access to knowledge, resources, companionship, etc. is a function of your reputation, particularly in adulthood. Hence, "socially threatening" applies to people who have influence or innate value in your social circles, or society more broadly, who can leverage either or both of those things to damage your reputation. Their motivation can range from genuine grievance to personal gain or even mere w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 07:21 PM
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I've been mildly aware of that, but tbh given my circumstances I'd probably prefer it. At least I can understand where other gay men are coming from, and I'd have an intuitive sense of what they're looking for. The prospect of having my attraction motivated would be a powerful motivator for me to look the best I possibly could. You may have noticed that straight people are utterly clueless about what attracts the opposite sex until they learn it from some combination of outside sources and years…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 06:30 PM
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Makes a lot of sense
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 06:00 PM
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oh totes fathers can really bring some edge into a young man's life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 05:50 PM
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Obviously, I do. Didn't suggest anybody else does... Also there's this prospect of mutual desire. If I can understand someone's desire because it's like mine, and I desire them in the same way, that's so much better!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 06:44 PM
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It isn't really about the sex so much as having it available on my own terms. It looks to me as though being a gay man would be so much more open and fulfilling... but I guess the grass is always greener eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:08 PM
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Your "daughter's dad?" Sounds a bit more confusing than necessary lol for a sec I thought you were the dad roasting yourself... or are you? Hm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 02:07 PM
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It's almost as if SoCiEtY is full of conflicting viewpoints and messaging that may or may not reflect each viewpoint in proportion to its popularity depending on who dominates the cultural narrative...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 02:05 PM
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I liked Mulan!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:53 PM
1

Are crackheads and cocaine junkies really that different? Am I missing some real nuance here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:27 PM
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Jolie laide?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:24 PM
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I'm all for hygiene and striving to look your very best, if for nothing else the sake of vanity alone, but I'm bummed that even after all that, women still don't meet men halfway because, as you sort of mentioned, the female sex drives is more reactive whereas the male's is more spontaneous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:19 PM
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Different doesn't mean primitive btw...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:27 PM
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LOL you had to go there with the goats did ya
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 12:26 PM
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Such an American take hahaha In some Latin cultures where sex work is much more tolerated, let alone legal, it's not unheard of for a father to take his son to a brothel as a coming of age thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 07:41 AM
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Overestimation of your own abilities (up to a certain point) is actually necessary to motivate you to participate in opportunities to surpass your own record. It's a paradox: It might seem reasonable to predict your capacity based on that evidenced by your greatest accomplishments in the past, but you'll then be unlikely to take the actions and risks necessary to accomplish anything new or greater.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 04:25 AM
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Oh man, if somebody's not open to taking direction, man or woman, they're not worth anybody's time! That leaves you with nothing better than mind-reading. As far as learning from porn, I was referring to things he might want to try with you or have you try on him, like sex positions or blowjob techniques that are easier to show than to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:19 PM
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In America at least, we're eating more garbage, sleeping and exercising less, working more for less, etc. Stress and overall poor health are some of the most reliable predictors of poor sexual (and btw social) performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:31 PM
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So... in other words you're lazy in bed and want to keep your partner and yourself blissfully ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:24 PM
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Ohoho if women could breathe fire LITERALLY we'd be living in a very different world right now!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 08:00 PM
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People seem to forget that commitment is a fucking lot to ask for! Sexual services and porn are much easier to distribute because they're brief and unbinding. Seriously, in an age of unprecedented safety, mobility, communication, and leisure, I suspect the only people still obsessing over commitment have woefully tiny imaginations or are too easily overwhelmed by the outside world and the multitude of options it offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:30 AM
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Nah the guys who don't search for purpose within themselves deserve what they're getting
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:14 AM
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TIL I'm yellow pill! I thought I could never choose a pill to swallow, but now I realize I swallowed one ages ago!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/19 09:11 AM
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Not the younger ones. The "alt-right" the media obsesses about is comprised of mainly young, suburban white failsons whose expectations based on their parents' moderate success have been subverted by the recent economic climate. Not all people under this category adopt right-wing views (e.g. me), but some are more tempted than others to force a feeling of solidarity with a majority population that shares immutable traits with them, even (or especially) at the expense of other groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:09 PM
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I realize it haha 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 10:20 PM
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TIL Western culture invented morals, let alone sexual exclusivity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 10:19 PM
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Most of them? No way dude. Imagine how craven and self-loathing a MGTOW with his beliefs would have to be to let his dick goad him into chasing any woman who expects him to do the work? Of course, forward women and hookers can always be contenders.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 04:11 PM
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I for one appreciate the transparency, as someone who's critical of women for their general lack of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 04:02 PM
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I like your username :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 03:30 PM
1

Perhaps honesty and integrity are masculine features
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 02:31 PM
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But that's clearly declining in advanced societies as more and more of our basic needs can be met without one another
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 06:11 AM
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I'm guessing OP means in terms of collateral damage. It's not like upon death your dog detonates and destroys your kids, half your house, and your pension lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/19 06:06 AM
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Not that I don't believe you (because I do), but online is a bit different. I guess online is the exception to what I meant as an irl observation, but your example only applies for men who are extremely, extremely photogenic. It basically takes real life patterns to the extreme by efficienty maximizing sample attractiveness while simultaneously minimizing sample size. More like a 98/2 rule rather than 80/20 if that's even really a thing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 04:37 AM
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Not a bad idea, but you're totally off about the attention attractive guys get. They still have to put in most of the legwork upfront, at least in Anglo cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 03:41 PM
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I don't buy that it's their own feelings so much as what they expect to be socially accepted. Women are always keeping track of that shit. I'd say men are the ones who are typically more true to their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 11:48 PM
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Nah validation is secondary, if even that. I like sex because I like rubbing up against sexy women! It triggers some sort of hormonal rush I couldn't find anywhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 11:41 PM
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If male and female populations are roughly equal, there's no way your theory mathematically works out. You're arguing on the basis of supply and demand but omitting the supply part.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 11:30 PM
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As if vaginas are the whole picture. It was a figure of speech. Synecdoche! Read about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:24 PM
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I fucking wish women worked that way jesus christ what a let down they are
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:22 PM
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LMFAO as if WOMEN aren't the ones who sit around and wait for men to serve and pay attention them! Wow what projection it's almost infuriating even JFC
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/19 09:12 PM
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Precisely ikr
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 05:37 PM
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And to reiterate what I asserted earlier, "pump and dump" doesn't necessarily make somebody an asshole. Nobody owes anyone a relationship or commitment over a hookup. Even if somebody oversells their devotion to you prior, you both have the right to change your mind at any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:33 PM
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I'm not sure how you can be so certain about quantities... are there really more abusive assholes than inconsiderate + passive-aggressive ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 12:21 PM
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That argument does sound rather compelling, but it begs the question. It's subtly circular. If you define an asshole as someone who is highly inclined to act on antisocial impulses, then of course all assholes are confident! But what of all the inconsiderate assholes? An oblivious driver might cut you off without malice, but he's still an asshole for cutting you off, isn't he? Oh and the passive-aggressive assholes! Those are some of the worst, aren't they? They won't say a word to you, but they…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 11:37 AM
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I'm not convinced there's a correlation. Men who succeed with various women tend to get slandered by some of these women, in addition to their pearl-clutching female friends, solely on the basis of not committing to them. Most men would become "assholes," "douches," "fuckboys," etc. if they could have nearly as many sexual opportunities, which of course they don't because most straight cis men either have a competitive disadvantage in a winner-take-all casual sex market or couldn't be bothered t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 06:31 AM
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Energy, I'd add, most likely with high stamina. Energy can give you a leg up situationally, but if it's unsustainable it won't help you too much in the inevitable numbers game that is finding women with mutual interest and the time-consuming push and pull that follows.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 06:08 AM
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Hard same. I don't need to be recognized so much as wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:09 AM
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Sloppy blowjobs!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 03:06 AM
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"Is he sexy as hell? Yes but..." LMAO Who you trying to kid acting like that's just some coincidence? That's called physical attraction. News flash! "Does she have a great figure and a cute face? Yes buuut she's sooo funny (banal compliment) and down-to-earth (Of course she is. Is anybody you're fond of not?)" yada yada Fyi there's no shame in it, but I'm so amused that girls try to hide or rationalize as though there is 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 11:21 PM
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I lol at the term "chemistry." It's like there's a fear of mentioning physical attraction outright. There may be a correlation-causation mix-up with this "chemistry" and already having a partner. It's pretty well-known that women (and females of many other species) unconsciously use other women's approval as a heuristic for physical attraction. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mate_choice_copying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:53 PM
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That's more of a displaced enthusiasm. Don't get me wrong, I can appreciate it, but I'm much more moved by an apparent compulsion for my body and essence. It's so refreshing to see my attraction mirrored rather than preemptively having to put together a dissertation about why someone otherwise disinterested should bother to get me off or grant me the privilege of getting Her Majesty off. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:39 PM
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It all comes down to acting and whether or not one is a good actress. The signs of distress you're alluding to are mostly in porn that involves degrading or physically uncomfortable acts, which is part of the appeal for that audience. That's not my cup of tea. I much prefer MILF porn (surprise surprise) where voluptuous ladies are acting like they crave dick. That's not to say women in real life never act that way, but it's unfortunately eh... occasional and not so predictable as to when and wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 10:14 PM
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100% Half the appeal of porn is that the women are as enthusiastic about it as the men are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 08:41 PM
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I would say nurture IS more influential than nature. After all, homo sapiens is a highly social species with fairly modest sexual dimorphism. If you think about it with respect to other animals, our bodies don't really offer us much on their own. Our distinct adaptations are behavioral emulation and collaborative consciousness. BUT in a free society where norms are lax and fluid, we trend toward our deeper, more unconscious biological tendencies, in aggregate of course. Consequently, even minor …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 12:01 PM
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I would much prefer to be gay for a few reasons, but sadly sexual orientation is not a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 11:44 AM
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The gene pool is already full of turds
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 07:49 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 06:45 PM
1

I'm annoyed at how much MGTOW has come to coopt with right-wing reactionaries over the years. Ironically, their economic vision would be devastating to the vast majority of single men, especially the more solitary ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 01:22 AM
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Yes. Both sexes have short-term and long-term mating strategies, though they are unconscious motives that we as humans are capable of inhibiting and thus rarely act upon concurrently (i.e. cheating, cuckoldry, swinging, etc.).
/r/ExRedPill02/11/19 02:59 PM
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So was my comment faggot! Hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:33 AM
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Porn is very similar to weed, it makes you content with doing nothing. That is a very dangerous feeling. What, unlike being content with lower quality women and possibly impregnating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 12:47 AM
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Not necessarily the orgasm itself, but the whole experience is greatly enhanced by sharing it with somebody you like to look at. In addition to the brief sense of euphoria, I feel soothed and secure as though a ton of weight has been lifted from my shoulders.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 12:41 AM
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That's retarded and makes nofap sound like a freaking death cult lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 12:37 AM
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Do these "nice girls" you speak of even go to bars for them to supposedly not get approached in?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 01:44 PM
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OH 100% Women are such compulsive homemakers! Have you seen them roast bachelor pads on r/neckbeardnests? They'll give dudes shit for not having a fucking bed frame under your perfectly self-sufficient mattress. Oh yeah watch out, they'll drain your their money on all kinds of useless knickknacks for purely aesthetic reasons! What the hell difference does a paper towel holder really make in the grand scheme of things? lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 01:39 PM
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So? Let them keep telling on themselves! Now whenever somebody questions red pillers' conjectures about 'female nature' you can show it all straight from the horse's mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 02:24 AM
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Woah woah woah "Chinamen" is not the preferred nomenclature
/r/PussyPassDenied27/10/19 09:03 AM
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Ahaha you totally nailed it XD I'm definitely not looking for any dEeP eMoTiOnAl CoNnEcTiOn--whatever that means! Yeah idk "romance" always seemed like a fanciful social construct to me. Shouldn't be too hard to get over those expectations if they ever become too much of a burden to bear down the line...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 06:18 AM
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Call me crazy... but I get the impression you wouldn't even want a "deep emotional connection" with a man. Why not share one with a likeminded woman? If the sex part is so easy for you, sounds like you'd have all your bases covered!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 06:06 AM
2

The epitome of consumerism's bullshit lies
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:17 PM
1

That sounds so fucked up lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:05 PM
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That actually sounds awesome. Fuck filters, man! I would love to be gay
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 07:04 PM
1

That's why they call him the Jackrabbit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 03:39 AM
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Pfft that's nothing! You should've seen the online atheist community in its heyday lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 05:24 AM
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Both of these are such good points
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:24 AM
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Attractive personality traits: Energetic, Witty, Charismatic, Optimistic, Spontaneous, etc. Much like a woman's physical beauty can give men a rush of excitement, women can get a similar rush but in the form of intense engagement with a stimulating male figure who deems one of them 'special' enough to 'rescue' from boredom and escort through a series of personalized 'adventures' (basically Prince Charming lol). The confusion is understandable because "personality" is a multifarious word that mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 05:16 AM
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OP, this 'anecdote' actually supports your case. The common denominator here is that women are more likely than men to back down when faced with resistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:39 AM
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Women are the one's who do more of the gossiping...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:30 AM
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"clearly lifts" is what got me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:27 AM
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Both of them are wrong in different ways, aside from being talking animals, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:25 AM
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But it's not the weirdness that makes them hot or not. It's a non-factor for attraction. Although, weirdness may diminish your long-term prospects. In TRP terms, it's a matter of SMV vs RMV. Weirdness only affects a (straight) man's SMV but oddly enough may be less detrimental to his RMV by virtue of AFBB.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 03:46 AM
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I meant coincidentally hot, not hot because she's weird. Those two things are independent to guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 08:18 PM
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I take it with a grain of salt. One glaring flaw is that its binary categories by definition ignore normal distributions. What it does really effectively is provide a vocabulary over which to articulate some of our more complex emotions and motives behind our distinctive behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 03:51 PM
1

Weirdo girls can be hot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 03:37 PM
1

On a related note, zoos kind of feel like a cocktease to me because I can't actually interact with the animals. That's the only downside to me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 10:50 AM
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That's certainly a valid and ongoing debate, but neither side of it is overrepresented by either sex. A principled objection like that is also incongruent with the nature of this rant. Is there something girly and/or boring about zoos?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 06:23 AM
1

Oooh I like those ones
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 11:03 AM
1

Sounds like Attachment Theory almost verbatim
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 11:03 AM
2

Dogs can offer emotional warm fuzzies AND literal warm fuzzies!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 11:02 AM
2

Hey what's wrong with zoos? I like zoos!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/19 10:56 AM
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It's worth noting that a non-negligible minority of straight women choose never to get married, which could potentially serve as a loophole to your otherwise airtight logic here. Theoretically, the set of all "virgin brides" could be totally distinct from that of all "sluts." Realistically though, there's likely plenty of overlap between virgin brides and women who engage in casual sex at some point in their lives. Men with the so-called "Madonna-whore complex" might be subjecting women to the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 11:12 PM
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I assure you it's not just women haha ;) We know we're dogs. But so what? Dogs are awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:34 PM
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Honestly, I take all studies with a grain of salt. And I NEVER swear by any ONE STUDY. Red-pillers will take that one OKCupid study to their graves lmao or, even worse, that one Tinder study with n = 27.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 04:11 AM
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This right here. I'm a well above average-looking, muscular guy (a little on the shorter side but ehh not too bad) but my social skills lagged behind that of my peers because I spent the vast majority of my childhood on solitary, indoor activities. Come puberty, testosterone hit me like a truck and I discovered my crazy good genetics for building muscle fast in a way that keeps my body fat % really low. Without the social skills to match, I wound up floundering about in sexual frustration throug…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 03:03 AM
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So many people on here are stuck in a high school mindset lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:59 AM
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Mathematically, men can't have more partners on average than women do unless bisexuality is taken into account, or something unexpected like that. Those studies are flawed because they're based on self-reporting. I'm also skeptical of those marriage studies' methodologies. Everything else checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:50 AM
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First sentence: judgment is always fair game in my book as long as we're honest about why we're judging Second sentence: denying one's own sexual/relationship preferences would be unhealthy. He seems to be pretty content Third sentence: how does that even work 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:07 AM
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Seems like you're disgusted by male attraction. It always starts with visuals, irrespective of motives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 12:38 AM
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Nobody can determine how other people view them without ample feedback. Women get a lot more of it, for better or for worse. Men have to go out of their way to get feedback from women, so plenty of miscalibration is to be expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 12:31 AM
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That may be the crux here. If women hardly approach men, how can a man reliably assess what his standards should be? The only feedback available to him are the outcomes of his own approaches, and why wouldn't you aim optimistically high when you're going in blind?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 12:17 AM
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I was speaking more generally, but LD is a pretty extraordinary case. You might be overthinking this. Those women are all smoking hot and he dates them because he can pull it off. He pretty much has free range as an A-list celebrity with the additional advantage of having been a heartthrob his whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 11:56 PM
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Ok sure teenagers can be creepy too haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 10:27 PM
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And you don't think it works at all to the younger woman's advantage... as if she hasn't already been propositioned by a myriad of men her own age whom she declined by her own accord but some older guy with nothing of substance to offer managed to snatch her up against her will simply because he's lived longer?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 09:55 PM
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Lol certainly not all of us. I meant it as a counterexample
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 08:23 PM
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There definitely are some parallels, no doubt. I was arguing specifically about the origins.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:50 PM
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"Why is Emilia Clarke impossibly desirable?" Definitely not a loaded question
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:37 PM
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Nah that's not feminism. That's Victorianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:13 PM
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I would know
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:09 PM
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'using' as if it's never at all mutual
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:07 PM
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What? No, it's about sex lmao you're overthinking it. Men confront death in the pursuit of sex all the time!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:05 PM
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Sounds like men of all adult age ranges, not just the older ones
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 06:02 PM
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Statistically, yeah you're right. Wow great way to put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 05:48 PM
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Or the most enjoyable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 05:46 PM
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Validation or sympathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 05:44 PM
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Ok but India's still here and stuff, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 05:43 PM
1

This isn't all about you, lady! ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 05:42 PM
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Women are attracted to personality as in demeanor and social skills, not the deep stuff like your identity, aspirations, quirks, etc. It's about as shallow as looks, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 05:35 PM
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No it doesn't, except in cases where the parents are control freaks or something
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 05:25 PM
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More like hegeMONEY haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 04:50 PM
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Really... it's that simple? I wonder what kind of (straight) guy has never at least imagined being repulsed enough by a woman to refuse sex from her. To my understanding, guys who violate consent either are aware and disregard it or make some sort of judgment failure in a gray area (e.g. they were both drunk). I guess I underestimate how stupid some men really are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 01:40 AM
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Fulfilling the bare minimum of nature's conditions to exist and reproduce at least once has absolutely no bearing on whether one's existence is fulfilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 08:31 PM
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I used more general terms to make my point easier to communicate. I'm not aware of thr phrase "nature's winner" being a widely recognized term, either academically or colloquially, but I understood it be something along the lines of the "biological imperative." Like you imply by saying "most people agree," it's subjective even in the specific case of "nature's winner." It's not like anybody's handing out prizes, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 08:18 PM
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I appreciate that sentiment, but I'm not seeing the relevance here...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 07:22 PM
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Victory is subjective. Different victories are more valuable to some than others. My definition of victory is maximum liberation from the inconveniences of biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:58 PM
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By telling them that their sexual advances are akin to a gay man doing the same to them, you're not exactly making it clear that it's only unwelcome because their advances are gauche or poorly timed. It sounds much more set in stone. This might be hard to believe, but most men aren't sure how to distinguish between rejection due to 'unacceptable' approach and rejection due to factors outside of their own control (i.e. too ugly). That's why you see guys complain all the time that "he's only actin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:51 PM
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It's malformed because your attraction to a member of the opposite sex is malleable. Like it or not, the straight guy always has a chance in theory with the straight woman. To discourage straight men from pursuing women who aren't initially attracted to them is counterproductive and frankly sounds kinda blackpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:38 PM
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They get to cash out in a global, industrial society as the culmination of billions of years of miserable struggle to survive and reproduce. Their 80-ish long years on this earth belong to themselves and only themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:34 PM
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That would be a fair statement if women hadn't been systematically barred from most career paths until just a few decades ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:29 PM
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You have to pay to lock them up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:27 PM
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Why do people keep comparing unwanted sexual advances from straight men to that from gay men? Straight men aren't attracted to gay men, period. Your attraction, or lack thereof, to a member of the sex you're attracted to isn't anywhere near as rigid as otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 05:19 PM
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You nailed the very reason heterosexuality is a cruel joke. Gay men are nature's real winners lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:56 PM
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Not to burst your bubble or anything, but I am picky AF 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:53 PM
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Ah ic lol perhaps I will be fortunate someday to stumble upon it ;p
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:53 PM
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I commend that attitude! It never hurts to outsource some of your needs while relying on others only for the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:51 PM
2

Seems quite plausible... and now I'm kind of curious haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:43 PM
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I don't think unrealistic means it never happens. More like don't let your expectations hinge on it. Congrats on the consistent porn sex tho! Livin da dream
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:35 PM
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Sorry to interrupt your epileptic seizure but dafuq
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:33 PM
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I'll have you know I <3 whores, especially if they're MILFs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 04:28 PM
1

I never understood the "not a movement but a philosophy" defense. What substantive difference does that make?
/r/ExRedPill03/10/19 09:44 AM
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First part is certainly true. I haven't heard of the second part happening, but if it does I assume only a small fraction of interactions escalate to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 05:37 AM
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Did you read the my comment past the first sentence? I explicitly addressed 4yo's and the support of primitive communities. Hence, we call them hunter-gatherer societies. The age of admission in these societies was a bit lower than 18, by contrast.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 10:34 PM
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In hunter-gatherer days it was pretty brief, actually. Recent evidence suggests that couples stayed together about 4 years on average. Without the complicated overhead of modern society (education, jobs, finances, etc.), kids can still get up on their feet rather quickly for basic survival with only the assistance of a primitive community. Maybe not so much at 4 anymore but anything below 18 being considered a child is more so the consequence of modern society than one of biology. Since evolutio…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 10:20 PM
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Agriculture enabled the social construct of property to arise because it offered sustainable resources over time. That went hand-in-hand with a long child-rearing period, inheritance, legacy, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 10:06 PM
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Profane language can make any motive sound nefarious. Sexuality is beautiful if you let it be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 10:01 PM
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Lotta people on reddit especially trp stuff seem to never grow out of middle/high school mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 09:52 PM
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Looks like the chalkboard from Good Will Hunting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/19 09:52 PM
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All good bro, just poking fun. All the names and stuff made it sound comically mean girl-ish to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 10:20 PM
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Dude... you're self-sabotaging yourself into a really weird corner. Physical attraction is part of being human. It's ok to find humanity disappointing in some ways, quite normal in fact. That shouldn't stop you from enjoying your favorite humans, at least! Perhaps try holding yourself to your own standard by accepting others for their flaws ;)
/r/ExRedPill30/09/19 10:17 PM
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Oh come on, you know post-nut clarity is a thing! This is clearly beyond anecdotal. The technical term is the "refractory period," and it's pretty much universal among men. Sure. If nobody's available, I watch porn. But your claim was Most men watch porn now, regardless of sexual satisfaction or frequency. That's much different from watching porn only when you have nobody available to get you off. I know you said "most" but, as I alluded to earlier, the refractory period is a limiting factor in …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 11:55 AM
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I'm sorry but you're thinking like a woman on this one. To the tee. Don't know what else to say. If you check out some more RP content or dating app discussions on reddit (r/tinder), you'll get a pretty good idea of male short vs long term strategies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 10:20 AM
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Word! Kinda sucks when they don't coincide well tho huh...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 10:15 AM
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When it comes to noncommital sex men have a more a la carte approach to selecting partners. There's no limiting factor for them, as they'll take what time permits them to get, provided they like it in the first place. Men actually have to lower their look standards to land a casual sex partner because men vastly outnumber women in the casual sex marketplace. Commitment is an entirely different beast. Men raise their looks standard for commitment because they want the one to be a damn good one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 10:00 AM
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Sure, most do. Almost any form of media has a small group of heavy hitters. Pareto could easily apply to that. But never underestimate the popularity of MILF porn. If you check out core pornsites like Brazzers, the top models are usually in the MILF age range.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:57 AM
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Some possibilities: 1. Sex technology develops enough to simulate a multi-sensory experience indistinguishable from sex 2. Pharmaceutical technology develops a male analogue to the female birth control pill to control the primary male biological function: the urge to inseminate 3. Sex work industry becomes fully liberated and socially entrusted with the role of offsetting the heterosexual libido gap (among other roles) within a culture mature enough to withhold shame for all parties involved Eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:50 AM
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You sound like a suburban Boomer who loves Reaganomics
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:35 AM
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Yes, but there are many niches. Add them all up and you get a pretty diversified palette of male sexual preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:29 AM
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Have you seen what's out there? Morbidly obese women are a distinct category with entire websites dedicated to them. Not that it adds anything to my argument, but there's a porno out there starring a morbidly obese woman who apparently resembles Ted Cruz, and that's the whole gimmick 😂🤣😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:26 AM
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I totally agree. OP is pretty cringe. The confirmation bias is strong with this one. I was only addressing a minor tangent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:22 AM
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No freaking way. Porn doesn't even occur to me when I'm sexually active. Porn is simply releasing the pressure valve when there's nothing better available. You may be familiar with the term "post-nut clarity." It has many names. Unless you're on drugs or have some neurological abnormality, letting out a nut makes porn look unappealing until you're ready for another nut in sometimes as little as just a few hours. The perception shift is analogous to being repulsed by food the moment you feel stuf…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:19 AM
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You're conflating SMV and RMV. Older women have no trouble finding a horny guy to hook up with temporarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 09:06 AM
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Tbf I think there's a decent range between satisfying and optimal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:50 AM
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The Japanese ones aren't even for sex. They're for charm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:47 AM
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Such uncanny resemblance to middle school girl gossip LMFAO
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:46 AM
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Right. You might have missed the "mutual benefit" part in there. Mutuality is obviously preferential, and transactions are a compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:30 AM
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Yeah... that's one reason I'm not so inclined to flirt. If having to flirt is a price I pay to attract a woman, how the hell does she get to turn it around as if she's the one doing me a favor by flirting? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 08:27 AM
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The last two paragraphs. Pessimism is woefully undervalued! I'm a proud catharsis junkie amidst a culture that oscillates between favoring the extremes of hope and outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 07:56 AM
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Well, wealth and fame do hinge entirely upon a society's current value system. If that value system shifts even a little, it can turn any man's world upside down. Metoo and automation are two great examples of male roles being refined/redefined and, for better or for worse, breaking some men and making room for some others.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 07:28 AM
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Holistically, of course not! Sexual favors are one--and possibly the only--kind of favor women are usually not so willing to give away. If sex offers no mutual benefit, they'll expect some sort of transaction for it, at least, which is exactly how men often view non-sexual favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 06:03 AM
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That's real cool to say, but hey you're not so crazy for jumping to that conclusion People often make the dangerous (il)logical leap between observation and obligation when starting their case with an observation. In gender debates, it's usually along the lines of "we evolved this way, therefore we must continue to act this way" and maybe some horoscopic garbage about our evolutionary destiny ahaha. Hume's Law for reference, if you're curious Edit: to be clear, I meant you've probably seen that …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 09:51 PM
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Some dudes will fuck everything I guess, but that's probably due to low self-esteem. I've met a lot more guys who have a pretty clear rating scale with a threshold below which some girls are off limits, even for nsa sex. Of course, I'm taking their word for it for what that's worth, but I can personally attest to the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 09:36 PM
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Sure, but we can adjust somewhat to new environmental conditions. Women have control over their reproduction wherever it isn't woefully prohibited. Our abundance of food is unprecedented as our ancestors adapted to its scarcity, yet most of us can regulate our appetite pretty well and redirect our effort in this new environment. Obviously, we can't transcend food altogether (yet) but we're pretty flexible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 08:28 PM
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Never said they should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 07:03 PM
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And men don't "get off" from pity sex any better than they could with their own hand. Orgasms aren't the end-all be-all of sex. We men appreciate the interaction and what comes with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 05:19 PM
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You're not wrong about any of that, but it's all perfectly consistent with my original statement. Charity involves taking risks and bearing costs purely altruistically, whether that be safety or otherwise. Incidentally, men are much more likely than women to be charitable when their safety is on the line. For women, safety is really like the end-all be-all, man lol. I'm not saying anybody should or shouldn't do anything. I'm only making descriptive observations here. Your original contention was…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 05:15 PM
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Try changing that to "Why the fuck would you give out anything non-sexual to random people?" It might surprise you, but lots of men have no problem offering "pity sex" to desperate women. It costs them virtually nothing and they feel good for helping. They empathize with the sexually frustrated woman. The reverse is anathema to women, mostly because of the social costs. Women are socialized to be as exclusive as possible when it comes to sex (yes, even in what they would consider "casual sex"). …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 05:02 PM
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That's not charitable. That's seen as commensurate for the man's fidelity. Charitable would be in service of somebody you've gained nothing from and likely have nothing to gain from down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:37 PM
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That's not to say agreeableness is the only trait we factor into how good or evil a person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:35 PM
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The academic term is "agreeableness." Yes, women are demonstrably more agreeable than men, at least according to Big Five/OCEAN studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:33 PM
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In addition, they're absolutely not socialized to be charitable to men sexually. Quite the opposite, actually...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:28 PM
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Not a valid criticism. She came to the right place. Sincerely, a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:26 PM
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What kind of work? If you're an OB-GYN, for instance, you're obviously going to experience a broader range from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/19 04:25 PM
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Ah well fuck me then! I'm anxious AND horny by nature @_@
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 06:06 AM
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MGTOW plays a defensive game, albeit a much different one. I wonder if the similarities stop there...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 05:56 AM
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YO the entire time I was reading your comment, I was thinking about attachment styles and lo and behold haha! I wonder how much of an impact the wave of boomer divorces had on the rates of insecure attachment styles...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 05:53 AM
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Cut off their what? :o
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 05:48 AM
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True. Even the failures that had paved the road to a man's success could someday come back to haunt him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/19 12:24 AM
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I'm pretty sure some of it's mechanical, much like it is for males. Doesn't the clit play a pretty big role? Some women require deep penetration, I hear. Anecdotally speaking, I've gotten some women off while lying motionless, and others never seemed to climax at all. My running conclusion is that women have different thresholds of sensitivity and of course I can't rule out that some were more attracted to me than others, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 11:04 PM
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If she's smoking hot, clearly into my body, and at least willing to exchange feedback and able to learn quickly from it, I'm calling it. Better yet, if whatever N-count has taught her the skills she needs to make me nut into freaking orbit on day 1, I'm marrying this bitch on day 2! Couldn't ask for much more without limiting my potential matches to like... a handful of anime heroines lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:23 PM
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Since you clearly didn't make an effort to understand my comment, I'm not going to make an effort to answer your non-sequitur donkey abortion of a question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:45 PM
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"Self-improvement" is subjective. You could become the most erudite yo-yo master on a pogo stick who owns a freaking zoo in his backyard and still have women think you're boring and worthless as all fuck. Attracting women offers a very narrow set of acceptable disciplines because they're limited to what's popular. Men who don't happen to like or have any talent in what's popular have a difficult choice to make between living for their passions and deferring that opportunity to the likely offspri…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:54 AM
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Same bro. I hate society. Why would I learn the ins and outs of society and how to "win" at it just to attract ONE woman. If I ever even happen to pull it off, I'd cash in on it with as many attractive women as I possibly could. But even the thought of that doesn't motivate me to change for anybody. I'll change for myself and the few people I care about, who I know would all accept me regardless, but that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:14 AM
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Dude, I feel exactly the same way! I envy gay/bi dudes so much. Being gay would be perfect for me especially because I'd gladly accept any social stigma (without legal penalty) as long as it meant having the freedom to satisfy my innate urges at virtually no cost. There's also the benefit of mutual desire and understanding. The asymmetry of heterosexual attraction makes it all seem like such a house of cards to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 06:05 AM
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Whoops you got me haha I stand corrected but still kinda yikes...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:29 AM
4

Hehe. First time?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:18 AM
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Consider how they're treated post-menopause. Aside from the occasional sweet granny role, most women are pushed aside past a certain age, especially if they failed to be grandmothers for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:17 AM
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YIKES lady there's a reason it's called r/PurplePillDEBATE
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 05:06 AM
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"I'm tired of the whining that they don't get all the super model pussy they want" lmao you sound like the female version of an incel without the goofy Chad/Stacy lingo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:51 AM
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I think he might be saying self-esteem, rather than desire, is the only viable motivator to make the effort and take the risks to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:44 AM
1

Sure, but that's an exhausting way to live. There's a balance between being a slave to your desires and being repressed to oblivion. At least with the first one you can live fast and die young, but the latter one... what's the point of even living then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/19 04:32 AM
3

Haha I'm a hardcore lefty, myself! But we ain't all that uptight :p
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 05:34 AM
3

Broadly speaking, I totally agree with you! For one, I resent how the media has been portraying male sexuality as intrinsically predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 05:19 AM
1

That's why you gotta escalate! Don't go thrust your hands straight into the red zones lol. Start with mild contact with less intimate areas (e. g. elbow, knees), even better if you make it seem kind of accidental--but not sudden. Depending on her feedback, gradually test the next boundary and repeat until she rebuffs your attempt to escalate. Don't panic, you can pick it back up later when you sense she might be ready to move forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 02:01 AM
16

Whoa. I really like the way you described it, as a "private little world"That really clears a lot up for me! It's also great news because I realize now that instinctively that's basically what I've always wanted to do (and sometimes managed to pull off accidentally and really enjoyed), and yet I never, ever associated that as the choice medium of sexual expression for women. In fact, I'm still mildly skeptical because I find it so counterintuitive for not in any way involving breasts or genitals…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 01:48 AM
3

If by "Fuckboys" you mean boys who fuck then ya I guess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/19 01:34 AM
2

In many cases, absolutely! But in this one, they're indirectly feeding their egos at the expense of someone whose struggle is alien to them. Notice that, unlike you imply, they exhibit the exact opposite of forbearance by volunteering their personalized versions of interchangeable dismissals pitched as advice without any prior experience or insight on his end. That's not nice. That's bullying. It's the exact kind of predatory behavior that risks making oneself vulnerable not even worthwhile to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 02:16 PM
8

"You'll KNOW the truth about the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ IF ONLY you JUST LET the Holy Spirit inside your heart!" Some people deep down know they don't have anything helpful to say and feel the need to convince themselves that they must be doing something right by blindly telling others who perceive certain problems, which they themselves don't want to confront, must simply be in denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 04:22 AM
1

Historically, polygynous monarchies have been some of the most brutal and prolific. It's funny, people (well, mostly Americans) have had this impression that America was somehow always destined to rule the world. It's even funnier that they believe their perceived superiority to be the product of their uniquely twisted ideals and traditions bred from some weird hybrid of European Christianity and Paganism, sprinkled with some extra paranoia and self-loathing. As I review more of my country's his…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 08:47 PM
1

Yeah, but now you're stuck with a busted ass! What good is having wealth and accomplishments to sit on if you can't sit because your ass is busted?! At least you don't have to look at it in the mirror every day, I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 06:45 PM
7

How do you distinguish between entitlement and emotional souring from intense unfulfilled longing? I think there could be more than one cause to this...
/r/ExRedPill21/09/19 01:12 PM
1

Oh shit! What is this I've been missing out on my whole life?
/r/MGTOW18/09/19 08:36 AM
3

Tittlers?
/r/MGTOW16/09/19 03:27 AM
2

She said "romantic"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 11:04 AM
3

Aha "anecdata" nice
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 11:03 AM
1

Kind of a downside in a way tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 09:56 PM
1

And you get your pick!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 09:55 PM
1

Don't even sweat that, my dude! Lots of guys have difficulty reaching orgasm the first few times they ever have sex. It's especially likely with new partners because it's harder to relax without a routine. If you see the same sex worker repeatedly and build up a decent rapport, you should be all set.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 09:52 PM
1

This is exactly right. I have nothing against vanity and even believe it to be necessary to some degree, but you're hardly "connecting" with another human being when you're using each other to feel desirable and hardly know each other, on top of that. Rule of thumb: If you're really connecting, your sexual fantasies should reflect some of what you know to be your partner's sexual fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 09:44 PM
8

Validation can easily be feigned. It's why emotionally hungry men can fall head over heels for strippers, waitresses, nurses, etc. The service sector is all about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 08:46 PM
2

Nah bro my PP speaks much, much louder to me than my limited interpretation of what Joe Public thinks of me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 08:43 PM
0

Same with retired porn stars. Americans are so sexually repressed it's actually fucked up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 08:41 PM
5

I think OP meant only the first paragraph while the rest was devil's advocate to back it up, sort of like proof by contradiction
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/19 08:37 PM
1

You repeat yourself a lot bro. Some more socializing couldn't hurt with that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 11:32 AM
1

Precisely. That's exactly what I said but I used the word timid
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 10:57 AM
-1

That's just something women tell each other to compete with each other, much like a lot of slut-shaming that goes on out there. It makes perfect sense that girls starting from a young age who are too timid to approach guys would want to discourage other girls who aren't timid from getting their pick of the guys. There may be some man out there who would be turned off by a woman initiating literally anything, but I have never heard a man express such a bizarrely inconvenient sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 10:54 AM
1

That last comment must've earned him his blue checkmark
/r/MGTOW12/09/19 03:07 AM
1

Lolwut
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/19 10:04 PM
1

Agreed. It’s lazy inductive reasoning at best. Just trying to answer your original question
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 04:37 PM
1

I think the citing black women and latinas was for the sake of extrapolation. The stated assumption was that the gender dynamics among the black population has reliably foreshadowed the upcoming state of the white population’s gender dynamics for the past few decades, so it would stand to reason that what we observe now among blacks should soon be true for whites.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/19 03:50 PM
2

That’s pretty fuckin sexy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 01:08 PM
1

ADHD is probably a mixed bag. It can really fuck with your social development and emotional regulation. There's even a sub-disorder known as "Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD)."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 04:26 AM
1

That’s the most mind-numbingly bizarre question I’ve ever read. Have you tried reading that to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/19 08:49 PM
2

Amphetamine, a controlled stimulant with similarities to cocaine, is often prescribed to patients with ADHD. Presumably, they need it. Even cocaine itself is a controlled topical anesthetic... administered by actual doctors! So yes, cocaine can be needed much like other things. Not to mention, certain drug withdrawals (not necessarily cocaine) are lethal, so addicts do need at least some to taper off with. Outside of drugs, some people need glasses to see clearly. Some people need wheelchairs to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 05:28 AM
1

A lot of misogynists are also racist for some reason. I guess they have plenty of hate to spare ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/19 06:14 AM
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Yo can we criticize women without being racists? If anything, vagrant single moms began plaguing the black community first. Don't alienate your brothas from anotha mothaland!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/08/19 06:11 AM
1

This looks fake because an actual boss probably would have responded in a more professional manner, probably not even through social media.
/r/MGTOW30/07/19 03:59 AM
1

5'8'' and 160 ain't bad at all. I'm 5'8'' and 170 and don't look overweight at all
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/19 03:35 PM
1

You definitely got me on the bias part very nice X’D
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:32 AM
1

Sure, if you count the younger ones who do a scene or two and then bail because they didn’t like it. But if you look at the charts on brazzers or similar websites, the most popular are highly represented by women in their late 20’s to 40’s, often with huge tits and asses, albeit mostly thin stomachs. Enhancements and exaggerated sexual features go a looong way in porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:19 AM
1

The vision to sexual desire pathway in the male nervous system is much more direct, which makes it hit fast and hard but also rather fleeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 10:09 PM
1

No way there’s a HUGE market for thicc MILFs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 10:06 PM
2

Noted. You’ll never have to worry about it if you’re lucky enough to find a clairvoyant stud, I guess. From what I hear, there aren’t quite enough of them out there for all the women who want one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:58 PM
1

We can only help those who help themselves. Are you really that entitled that communication is such a burden to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:49 PM
1

Can we just quit it with alcohol culture? There are SO MANY better drugs than alcohol that are even WAY less risky
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:37 PM
1

No because I have no interest in marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:36 PM
1

Wait what? Men don’t like sex and only do it for the n-count?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/19 09:35 PM
1

How long-term could your relationship possibly be if you're already more than halfway dead?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/07/19 02:22 PM
1

r/waterniggas might be able to help you
/r/MGTOW217/07/19 11:03 AM
1

Boy, I've been smitten by some women's voices!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 12:29 PM
1

Leftist MGTOW sympathizer here! "...virtually no theories about the criticizing use of men [proletariat] as workhorses, disposable producers, and beasts of burden for women and society [the bourgeoisie]." Fixed it for ya! Yeah... Marx and Engels were focused on class struggle, not gender, racial, etc. struggles. Just not their thing, I guess! ​ "...you never talk about the tax-gap and the disparity between how much men pay into the system and how women, on average, take more out than men will th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 12:20 PM
1

Like why is it even worth it in that case?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 11:54 AM
1

Or at least monogamy. Polygamy was marriage without that problem in mind...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 11:53 AM
1

The ones I visit in Latin America are usually $100-$150/hr
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 11:52 AM
1

In all fairness, they get plenty of backlash from butthurt dudes lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 11:49 AM
2

30 SECONDS?!?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 11:45 AM
1

Hm? The hypercompetitiveness and consumerism
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 07:07 PM
2

Aside from the physiological, OP basically covered it: hypercompetitive, consumerist culture pits men and women against each other in the dating 'market' and encourages them to squeeze every bit of value they can out of the opposite sex by leveraging their own gender-specific advantages.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 04:32 PM
3

I don't put much weight on the current president. The role is so much less powerful than Americans would like to believe. I first formed these views quite a bit before Trump even announced his run for president. Spain is generally more laid back and sexually permissive in its culture. Nudity is much more tolerated and even broadcasted freely on TV and advertisements. Prostitution is decriminalized. Sexual freedom is a major part of freedom in my book, so that's my bias there... Labor conditions …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 04:28 PM
2

A lot of women have physiological issues when it comes to sex, such as pain from penetration and inability to orgasm. Other women, perhaps a plurality of them, feel cheated by NSA sex on some emotional level or insecure about their bodies, so they're reluctant to have sex until they've screened a partner for sufficient emotional commitment. Promiscuous, secure, sex-positive women are unfortunately a minority, and boy does that give them a huge market of men to work with haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 04:17 PM
5

The whole concept of the show is jarring. Like holy shit there's no skill involved, just a guessing game. If you think about it, it's really nothing more than some advertising scheme that exploits regular people's desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 04:08 PM
2

Here are some more: Netherlands (probably #1 in freedom)Germany Spain Switzerland Australia New Zealand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 04:06 PM
1

Only half of Americans have traveled outside the country, 4/5 of Americans only speak English (if even that LOL), and the American public school curriculum has been incredibly masturbatory to the state due to its military success throughout the 20th century. It's no wonder Americans tend to perceive their own culture to be the culture, as they often have nothing to compare it to. Additionally, their historical amnesia causes each new generation to be up in arms about the current immigration wave…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 03:58 PM
1

It's a sad, sad fact of life...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 03:45 PM
1

You honestly believe the Puritanical bullshit that has plagued American culture since its origin is any less dogmatic than sexual liberation??? Unlike that masochistic bullshit, sexual liberation at least has some appeal to self-interest!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/19 08:02 PM
1

They're not mutually exclusive but, other than that, your point is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:33 AM
1

lmfao what kind of thought process leads a man to believe rape is manlier than seeing a whore? Has he even heard of Charlie Sheen? Pretty high whore-to-rape ratio that guy's got and he's still a badass with tiger blood...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/19 01:26 AM
1

Cool! Glad I could clarify :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:12 PM
1

I accounted for variety... It was largely the gist of my whole comment! The cookie-cutter nuclear family was a short-lived, fanciful ideal that ultimately fragmented into virtually unlimited combinations of sexual/relationship preferences, albeit burdening the transition with uncertainty and hangups about expressing one’s preferences openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 06:10 PM
1

Boy, you sound a lot more like a typical reactionary than a liberal, especially with the trans hate you just had to throw in there... Take a moment to observe the current social and economic environment, and maybe you'll realize (as many of us forward-thinkers do) that marriage is becoming obsolete. It probably isn't any particular sex's fault, though both sexes are responding to these changes in various distinct ways, some of which may conflict with each other enough to create an additional lay…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 12:20 PM
2

Agreed. But I think I’d at least rule out a few ways to get there... lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 10:56 AM
1

Lmao the writing on this website!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 07:49 PM
3

Women, especially young women, are obsessed with social status. She probably dreads having all of her eventually married girlfriends look down on her as any good friends would.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 05:02 PM
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r/suddenlysexoffender
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 04:57 PM
0

Still pretty small. And that’s assuming they all make it to adulthood. Boys have higher youth mortality rates all around the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 03:41 PM
3

Sounds pretty consistent with what I said, no? That’s a tiny difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 10:33 AM
2

There are variations and fluctuations relating to mortality and epigenetic responses to environmental conditions, but I don’t think it deviates too far from 50/50 at any point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 01:51 AM
1

But is size only vertical to you? What about a guy your own height who's built like a pitbull with a shoulder span twice your width?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 07:24 AM
3

Most porn stars range 6-9 inches. The 9+ inchers are quite rare but seem more common because they're more memorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 07:11 AM
3

If we pulled it off for one generation, it wouldn’t be self-sustaining in the long-run. There’s a reason we evolved to breed approximately 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 10:18 PM
1

The Hot-Crazy Matrix bro
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 05:57 AM
1

"Fucker of women" Hmm... Sounds prestigious enough to consider making my flair...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 05:10 AM
1

In 2019? Sure! But I doubt you would have felt the same way if you had lived at least a few centuries ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:24 AM
2

This is the confusion that predictably arises from associating non-reproductive sex with dominance. In evolutionary terms, it's almost the exact opposite. It's more like an accidental waste of valuable energy. The greatest lover in the world with the most diverse palette of partners amounts to absolutely nothing if he never breeds with a single one of them. Our dual mating strategies (yes, both sexes have their own) are little more than an evolutionary quirk, likely resulting from the uniquely h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/19 04:20 AM
1

Why does TRP even call it a harem when the dude's only fucking one of the girls at a time? Why does he travel to multiple locations, let alone one? Why is he the one who's hiding his additional partners from each of his girls? And why oh why oh LORD would you call it a HAREM when every single one of the girls is free to fuck other guys in the meantime??? That's not how harems work at all!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 07:01 AM
5

When you say you need to go get gas for your car, I doubt you mean that getting gas for your car is a necessity for your survival. What you're implying is that your transportation necessitates additional fuel, which is relevant to your contextual plans because they necessitate transportation. Being as the word "need" is so closely related to "necessity," common usage of "need" covers a wide, continuous range of meaning, and the common thread can essentially be boiled down to having an exclusive …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 04:28 PM
14

Spongebabe is a boss username
/r/PussyPassDenied18/05/19 04:23 PM
1

Sure! But ONLY if they’re all hot. Not all lays are created equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/19 08:10 PM
1

No, no. What I meant was the offense should be the baseline for anybody, not that rape is the baseline for offensive. I wouldn't even know how to qualify the latter, honestly...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 08:14 AM
1

You're right. I'm just asserting the baseline. Both groups being offended certainly allows for one to be more offended than the other!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 11:58 PM
2

Sure but plenty of sex still happens around the world every day and has for a very long time. Maybe orders of magnitudes less than it would in the average man’s ideal world, but....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 11:20 PM
1

Depends on the man and his perceived genetic quality + what he’s willing to invest in which woman. Sure, women have many overlapping preferences, but there are countless combinations, both conscious and unconscious, of what could constitute the “whole package” for a particular woman. Plus, the woman’s genetic quality is also a major factor in her conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 10:09 PM
3

It’s not exactly a scant few. It’s whichever women run into a man who meets her conditions for arousal at any point in her life. Human history is also rife with rape because some men don’t like the conditions or don’t even care to consider them, so there’s that, too...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 09:28 PM
0

Yep it's the bane of human existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 08:16 PM
1

At the extremes, you have some girls who freaking love sex and some who absolutely loathe it (usually the ones who experience pain from penetration).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 08:15 PM
5

Yes, exactly. Similarly, lots of men like the idea of marriage yet women like it much more overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 08:13 PM
2

This would make sense if they initially indulged themselves right away to the point of getting sick of chocolate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 08:11 PM
4

Most male motivation to have sex is clearly not met with equal female motivation to have sex. You don't need equal motivation for a certain interaction to happen some of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 08:09 PM
9

Rape should offend anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 08:08 PM
3

What kind of buzzkill refuses to go down on a spouse?! That's the cringiest part of this whole ordeal to me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/19 01:19 AM
8

If she's repulsed by her earlier sexual activity, why the hell does she have a recording of it on her computer? What was she gonna do, put it in a time capsule??? The simplest explanation is that she intended to get off on it, at best as a backup in case the relationship ends (ironyyy). ​ Her excuse sounded like some Disney-ass bullshit. These are two grown-ass adults and she reasons like a princess whose decisions should never bear consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 06:53 PM
2

Good thing I love BJ's! Bad news is I haven't found one of these "common" 1st date BJ girls :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 05:02 AM
2

I agree. As real as this dynamic is in our society, it paled in comparison to that of my sibling rivalry years with my little sister haha. I like to say I held my sword out in front of me while she held hers behind her back. It turned out she also had recruits (my parents) because my transparency (or brazenness) made me an easy scapegoat. On the plus side, my family has always assumed I tell them nothing but the truth and considered me a go-to arbiter for resolving internal disputes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 11:17 PM
5

Men lie to women constantly to pump and dump them. Probably, it's only a minority of men who get away with it but boooy do most men try! It's one of the most common complaints of women who say they feel "used" by men. I find it kind of funny when a woman wonders why a man who's done that to her couldn't have just been honest with her instead, but I think we all know the answer based on her reaction to the exchange loll
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 11:07 PM
1

You don't think biology and society play a considerable role? The media is a dead giveaway and advertising is front-loaded with sex appeal for products geared to men of all ages! And anyone who's been on the internet for more than a day knows that bewbs get the viewbs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 07:43 PM
2

For social animals, your reproductive fitness IS your social status. Beauty is a bit of a narrow quality--essentially the cultural component of physical appearance. A man can intuitively differentiate beauty from the instant, unconscious, anatomical cues of reproductive fitness, such as large, symmetrical breasts or an ideal waist-hip ratio (in other words, 'hotness'). I'd say overall appearance determines a woman's reproductive fitness, more or less, and by extension her social status.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:52 PM
21

Manipulation is a human quality, not a man or woman quality. Women are no angels, but quit it with the double standards ppl!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 06:44 PM
1

"I don't even give a fuck about not giving a fuck, so I DO give a fuck. Wait... what?" -Jon Lajoie
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 02:58 AM
8

Weinstein's transgression was not being creepy (although he DEFINITELY was) but rather abusing his power to extort his subordinates for his sexual gratification and to gatekeep against aspiring female actresses who would not comply to his sexual advances. Sexual politics tends to be the bellwether for broader issues in society, as it can be the most divisive kind (societies are usually divided 50/50 by you know what). The US, mainly, is going through a much overdue cultural shift of demanding th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/19 02:47 AM
3

It's not true unless they're drunk, which is well-known for reducing the attraction threshold. If a man's ego is intact, there's no way he's putting it on the line by risking rejection from someone he's not even attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 07:03 PM
2

If he uses the word “fuck” then maybe, sure. It depends on the word choice and context.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:27 PM
2

Most? No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:17 PM
2

That’s such a fucked up thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:15 PM
7

Handsome? That’s a granny compliment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 06:12 PM
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