MetronTheCollector Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2800	BEING PRODUCTIVE IS BEING ATTRACTIVE. When I've been busy and had more important things than girls, I did a lot better with girls. When I had too much time and thinking too much about girls, I did worse. This may not apply to everyone, but I discovered for me my best results are when I'm productive.		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	12/04/20 12:05 PM
2451	The best way to impress girls is to have better things to do than trying to impress girls. A dating coach in my city once told me he always tells his clients to have at least 3 things more important to them than girls. Now in isolation, it's a good time to figure out what those 3 things are for you.	Lifestyle	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	11/05/20 01:02 PM
2170	Girls are impressed by guys who don't try to impress them. This is why bragging or showing off causes girls to lose interest. This epiphany made me realize it's about connecting with them and learning more about them, their goals, hobbies, past, etc.	Inner Game	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	10/03/21 05:23 AM
1430	Men who see women as human beings will find more success than men who see women as objects, and use them to impress others, or try to get a reputation as a 'player'. When you're humble about your skills, the game becomes a lot easier.	Inner Game	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	07/02/21 07:29 AM
1423	"The guy who fails at the game is the one who goes out looking for women to make him feel good about himself. The guy who succeeds at the game is the one who goes out and makes other people feel good about themselves." - Neil Strauss, Rules Of The Game, p.116	Outer Game	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	01/09/20 04:14 PM
1194	Maybe a girl is not meant to be our soul mate. Maybe as a guy, we are meant to have a group of guy friends as our soul mates, or soul tribe. This makes us less needy on girls, which is more attractive to them.		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	06/04/20 09:11 AM
1160	6 TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR RESULTS WITH GIRLS.	Fundamentals	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	19/03/21 02:08 AM
1038	If you're shallow, and put a girl on a pedestal bc of her looks, you will be nervous and try too hard to impress her, then get rejected. If you're not shallow, but judge a girl for what is inside and not outside, your behavior and energy will be different, and your results will be much better.	Inner Game	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	02/10/20 02:54 PM
994	Don't blindly trust what you read. Think about it. Compare it to your own experiences. Remember that in today's internet world, anyone can write anything. A guy who has never been on a date, or even made eye contact with a girl, can write an ebook, website, or forum post.	Fundamentals	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	05/03/21 12:59 PM
951	Reading too much is bad bc you convince yourself you need to do 100 things to attract women. You develop the belief talking to them is hard. This makes you nervous in front of a woman. She senses your fear, feels uncomfortable, then rejects you. Which reinforces your false belief this is hard.	Fundamentals	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	16/09/20 01:24 AM
917	Have a few reliable male friends. Some guys struggle with girls bc they have no guy friends, so they depend on the girl to give them all their emotional support, or help them everytime they're in trouble. Learning to make and keep good male friends is an important skill that's not practised enough.	Lifestyle	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	19/02/21 07:46 PM
829	What a lot of guys don't understand about Social Circle Game is that there are 3 parts to it. 1) Meeting new people. 2) Getting to know them. 3) Then they introduce you to their friends. Most guys want to be at Step 3 without doing Steps 1 and 2. This is why social circle game doesn't work for them.	Lifestyle	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	11/08/21 06:56 AM
615	3 realizations I had. Not every girl will like you. A person doesn't need a lot of friends. Meeting girls.		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	22/03/20 10:33 PM
421	PUA is more similar to martial arts than studying academic subjects (like history). You don't improve by reading and debating, you improve by doing and recognizing different things work for different people. What works for one guru may not work for you. Try and test to find what works for you.		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	15/03/20 01:13 PM
302	Build a foundation of having more important things than girls, and design your life so you don't need girls for your happiness and self-esteem. Then when you go out to meet girls, you will have better results. If you need girls to be happy or impress others, you will struggle a lot more with this.	Lifestyle	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	10/12/20 02:57 AM
265	The best guys also get rejected a lot. Don't let the marketing fool you. Back in the day guys were honest that most of their approaches end in rejection. Today coaches lie to sell their products.	Fundamentals	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	11/09/21 03:32 AM
190	Had a great night last night. I approached 3 girls and got rejected by all 3. But I met 2 really nice guys who I connected with and became friends. We're going to catch up next week. Having good guy friends will indirectly help you with girls, but some men don't realize that.	Lifestyle	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	14/03/21 01:37 AM
119	4 reasons why working on yourself and improving your lifestyle is the best thing you can do to improve your social skills.	Lifestyle	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	07/03/21 10:10 PM
112	I'm not handsome, I have autism, and am a foreigner in a Western country. I tried cold approaching and failed. Then I tried having social hobbies and building social circles, and got results. If cold approach doesn't work for you, it doesn't mean quit and be lonely. It means change your strategy.	Fundamentals	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	26/02/21 06:47 PM
104	Having a PASSION creates ATTRACTION. Girls are attracted to guys who have something they are passionate about.	Lifestyle	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	19/05/20 01:17 PM
80	Being PRODUCTIVE is being ATTRACTIVE. While this isn't all there is to success with women, it's a big part. If you've been spending a lot of time going out and your results are the same, or getting worse, maybe you need to find something more important to dedicate your time to.	Fundamentals	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	17/08/21 07:02 AM
75	I had a phase in my life where I had no female friends and only use cold approach to meet girls, and I did badly. Then I built a social circle with girls in it, and got into salsa dancing where I met girls. Then when I did cold approach again, I found I did a lot better at cold approach than before.		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	19/03/20 09:15 PM
72	"A boy looks for how he can impress a woman. A man looks for how she can impress him. A boy wonders what she thinks of him. A man wonders what he thinks of her. A boy asks himself "Where is she from a scale of 1 to 10?" A man asks himself "What is beautiful inside this woman?"" - Zan Perrion	Inner Game	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	24/03/21 05:48 AM
44	3 Stages of Learning Game	Fundamentals	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	03/04/21 03:23 AM
36	"Remember that picking up women is not like gymnastics. You don’t get extra points for difficulty. So make it as easy and natural as possible." - Juggler. Some guys overcomplicate it. But this is meant to be simple. Drop the pride and ego, it doesn't count in this area of your life.	Inner Game	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	22/03/21 03:38 AM
33	I have come up with a rule that I will only put in the effort to impress girls between the age of 22 and 26, and will ignore all other girls. There have been some surprising benefits.		MetronTheCollector	/r/MGTOW	15/07/19 11:32 PM
29	This sub is awesome! I like how the emphasis is on self improvement and having better things to do than pick up. This makes you less desperate, and you don't commit the mistake of making being a 'player' your identity. If your self-esteem comes from how well you do with opposite sex, you do worse.	Lifestyle	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	09/05/21 02:04 PM
29	Sometimes you need to forget or 'unlearn' everything you thought you knew about a subject, to reach a higher level of understanding. Old knowledge can block us from learning new knowledge or having revolutionary insights. I feel this concept can be useful to some who studied too much seduction.	Resources	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	17/11/20 04:29 AM
25	Thank you guys for boosting my confidence. Don't waste money on coaches. And 4 things to become good at this.	Resources	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	28/03/21 02:19 PM
24	If you are good at talking to girls and enjoy it, you can use this to make others less shallow and improve society in a small way.		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	17/04/20 03:14 PM
24	One method to increase confidence around women: Find something you enjoy doing that some women will be attracted to. Do that activity and become good at it. Find women who like you for doing that. When you have a few women who like you, it increases your confidence around other women.	Inner Game	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	20/03/22 12:19 PM
22	KNOWING a lot is not the same as being able to DO it. There is a guy who knows 500 pages of information on how to make cakes, but has never made a cake in his life. Then there is a guy who can explain in a short time how he makes cakes, and has made cakes that won awards. Who would you rather be?	Fundamentals	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	20/11/20 07:51 AM
18	I personally don't think anyone should study old school pick-up like 'The Game' by Neil Strauss, Mystery Method, etc. They may have played a role in shaping modern dating advice. But they are not useful anymore. I feel they were 'growing pains', or an early prototype, that can now be discarded.	Fundamentals	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	12/03/21 02:44 AM
16	I feel we naturally have the desire to work to be productive. And we also have the desire to be attractive. And I just realized we can fulfill both desires at the same time. It's not approach thousands of girls to be attractive, but be productive to be attractive.		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	11/04/20 12:40 PM
16	HOW TO MEET PEOPLE WITHOUT COLD APPROACH OR ONLINE DATING	Lifestyle	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	18/04/21 06:36 PM
12	This is one of the best parts I read in Models. It's about putting in the work over a long time to improve your lifestyle, job, hobbies, friends, and interests. This helps you do better in approaches. Just approaching without working on these will give you bad results.	Lifestyle	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	12/08/20 11:35 AM
9	Maybe cold approach works really well for some, and not for others. I've seen posts recently either criticizing or supporting cold approach. But the question's not "Is cold approach a good way?" The correct question should be "Is cold approach a good way FOR ME?"	Outer Game	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	01/08/21 06:37 AM
8	Does anyone here who followed RSD understand why they said there should be a balance between Flatlining and Spiking in a conversation, and too much of one is bad? They seemed to lean more towards Flatline. [Flatline is Normal Conversation. Spiking is Attraction material like teasing, jokes, etc.]	Outer Game	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	22/09/20 01:22 PM
5	How to become more of a natural with girls? Find a Social Hobby you enjoy doing and which girls also do. Build friendships with these girls, but don't try to pick them up.	Lifestyle	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	21/08/20 09:25 PM
4	My last relationship failed because I depended too much on my ex-girlfriend for support. I realize my mistake was I had no close guy friends. I didn't have a tribe.		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	17/03/20 08:30 PM
4	I was obsessed with cold approaching and game. Now I got a girlfriend, but can't stop cold approaching. I find myself automatically starting conversations with random girls nearby. How do I stop? My habit and identity keeps making me do that bc I invested so much time into learning this.		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	01/09/19 04:01 PM
3	Guys in Sydney, Australia were banned from a bookstore for cold approaching there. This is getting dangerous. The media and society are against PUA. First YouTube channels get deleted, now this. What's next?		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	12/03/20 10:24 PM
3	RSD Max once said not to 'overgame'. As in not to use too many attraction techniques, jokes, don't spike her emotions too much, etc. He said make sure to have lots of normal or 'boring' conversation in there as well. Does anyone remember this and can elaborate? His videos are no longer on YouTube.	Outer Game	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	22/09/20 09:02 AM
2	The Natural Lifestyle are taking down their YouTube videos on cold approaching to prevent their channel being banned. They took a lot down already. They're also changing their direction away from seduction. If you want to watch their videos on pick-up, do it now before they're all gone.		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	12/03/20 04:26 AM
2	When I only did cold approaching I was bad at it. Then I found other ways to meet girls and made a few female friends, and when I cold approached, I was a lot better at cold approaching.		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	22/03/20 10:25 AM
1	If you need people to like you, then you will try too hard and give off a nervous and desperate energy. This is unattractive and causes people to avoid you. Whereas if you don't care whether others like you, you become more attractive. The best way to impress others is to not try to impress others.	Inner Game	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	07/10/20 04:05 PM
1	I work 6 days a week so have no time for cold approach, which in my experience takes lot of time for little results, with girls I share nothing in common with. I want to try meetup groups & classes on my 1 day of to meet people I share things in common with. Are there any gurus who teach this style?		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	04/03/20 09:53 AM
1	Some PUA's in Sydney were banned from a bookstore because they were cold approaching there. This is starting to get dangerous. The media and society are coming down hard on PUA. First YouTube channels get deleted, then this. What's next?		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	12/03/20 09:34 PM
1	New sub-reddit with focus on being more Productive and Kind. Which I personally believe will help a person do better in social situations. We also will pay some attention to social skills, but that's not the main priorities.		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	18/04/20 04:56 PM
1	If you were to stop cold approaching for 1 year then start again, what would happen to your cold approach skills? Would they stay the same, drop down to zero, or become rusty and need a few months to get back to your peak?	Outer Game	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	19/10/20 09:53 AM
1	I used to have an identity as a 'PUA', wanted to make a lot of friends, and wanted everybody to like me. And these caused me to do worse. Then I replaced them with some new beliefs, and my social skills went up.		MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	17/08/19 11:53 PM
1	Some guys have potential for cold approaching, and some guys have potential for social circle game. I see cold approachers criticize lifestyle game, and vice versa. But both are valid methods. The answer is to know yourself, find what works for you, then improve that. Play to your strengths.	Outer Game	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	26/03/21 02:05 PM
0	There is Conscious Knowledge, where you read something. Then there is Unconscious Knowledge, where you practise a lot till you can do it automatically without thinking. Most people collect Conscious Knowledge in their head, but never put in the effort to turn it into Unconscious Knowledge.	Fundamentals	MetronTheCollector	/r/seduction	23/03/21 07:31 AM