Does anyone here who followed RSD understand why they said there should be a balance between Flatlining and Spiking in a conversation, and too much of one is bad? They seemed to lean more towards Flatline. [Flatline is Normal Conversation. Spiking is Attraction material like teasing, jokes, etc.]

Gerald_of_Rivija · 2020-09-22T13:45:28+00:00

Thats the place where most "rsd students" end up, as it is regarded as "intermidiate game" - Being fun and challenging, push pulling, negging all the time.

While it works wonders for 6-8s, it usually comes across as try-hard to 9-10s.

Perfect game as Max said it, would be looking at all those things I mentioned before as "tools" and you should only use them to spike up the conversation, and NOT use them as your "base" game.

I was also at this phase for a long time, and while it was fun as fvck being the total boss all the time it doesn't work nearly as well on the 9s and 10s.

Tone those spikes down a little and focus more on your eye contact/body language and building tension and you will see massive increase in you game buddy.

nordicdatingmentor · 2020-09-22T15:06:03+00:00

Calibrate, calibrate, calibrate. But you can't calibrate if you can't read people. You need to understand what effects you are having on the other person. Then "flatlining" and "spiking" will come natural.

Emotional impact won't come unless you really vibe and connect with the other person. Throwing in jokes and teases do little on their own.

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