| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -2 | How to get your ex on a date?^ | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 05:24 PM |
| 0 | What camera to buy for close up in-field?Or maybe just not do that at all? | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 01:59 PM |
| 10 | Lied to a girl about my ageI hope you realise that depending on your country of residence you set her up to possibly become a sex offender. | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 06:21 PM |
| 3 | A girl who ghosted me reached out againWonderful piece of advice | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 07:30 PM |
| 5 | Don’t stress about the perfect opener. If she’s chill or has any decent social skills at all, then it doesn’t matter.If you say Hi to someone I think a Hi in return, at least, is not too much to ask lol, whether it's a woman or not. That's what I meant with arrogant. But I'd argue the outcome is still valid if she only says Hi and then moves on. That's fine too. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 07:20 PM |
| 26 | Don’t stress about the perfect opener. If she’s chill or has any decent social skills at all, then it doesn’t matter.10000000000000% Too arrogant to reply, bye bye. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Passed a shit test, I got some laughs...she felt rejected?Oh god | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 02:15 PM |
| 13 | Maybe Im genuinely……..a nice guyThis right here. There is a difference between a confident, self-respecting nice dude, and a real, manipulative and self-deceptive nice guy. The former will even fare better than macho dudes. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 10:54 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]God damn yes fishnets are the shit | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | 8 ‘Nice Guy’ Texting Habits To Avoid AT ALL COSTSDamn | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Why do people on this subreddit assume the dating/casual world everywhere is like the USA?I don’t know where you’re from but how can you reasonably expect Americans to have any idea about the nuances and fine details in society and dating culture in whatever, Japan? Replace Americans and Japan with whatever you wish and the statement still holds true. Im in West Europe and there’s regional PU communities everywhere. Maybe check these out instead. Besides, most of the dating world, or rather, intersex interaction is almost the same no matter where you are. Women are attracted by the s… | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Is it weird to approach a topless girl?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PV3_UHG73oQ | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 12:55 AM |
| 8 | Girls call me Sir a lotShit, no reddit coins for an award right now. You deserve gold. //There we go! | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Girls call me Sir a lotNot too hard to find out .. or find out when it's hard? I agree with initial comment OP. Most women like to be submissive. It's a gift, not something to ponder about.. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 12:37 AM |
| 6 | Where can I find smart (or nerdy) women?You have the frame of a cardboard box I'm stealing that one | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive?Looking good and having a good career is maybe 20% of your success. Are you actually talking to women? | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Female friend is touchy with other male friends but not meNot in this case | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 03:06 PM |
| 1 | A little bit confused, this girl decided to go outside with me after we met at a barIt’s her own decision. If she clearly leads you on and she still has a boyfriend it’s not your fault and you’re also not in the duty to conduct research beforehand. So far she hasn’t done that either in any case, she has gone outside of a nightclub. Nothing more. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meIn that case.. it’s not even true. His mum surely loves him | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 02:17 AM |
| 38 | Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for meOk, but dude, you are 22 years old. You have the best parts of life yet to come. You can't be like "women didn't want me for 20+ years".. good things take time, and you've only been of age for a very short time. You had an ONS, you didn't enjoy the shallowness. Trust me, I understand you completely, I don't like them either. But I can't understand why you would feel depressed or weird about it now. You gained valuable experience and insight into yourself. It's one of the best things about gettin… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Tell us, what would you say are your top 3 principles for high-quality game/seduction/etc (inner, outer) and how do you live these principles?Three words - no fucks given | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 09:26 AM |
| 9 | How often do girls agree to a date solely to be entertained freeGood pre-screening and basic human empathy/knowledge of behavior should prevent 95% of these cases in the first place Under this assumption it’s easy to drop the mindset or rather not have it in the first place | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | What kind of girl do you think is the girl elaborated below?Ah cool that’s totally acceptable then | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 12:55 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]unzips pants | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 11:54 PM |
| 17 | [deleted by user].. what the hell is going on today in this subreddit | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 08:04 PM |
| 321 | [deleted by user]I don't think a woman could become any more direct and clear. WTF | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:12 PM |
| 9 | genuine question but how do you personally treat women you’re not attracted to?… like any other human being? I’m not even gonna start on these claims | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 10:57 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Where’s the problem Real women have curves Nothing better than some thicc | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | She gave me her number but has a gf, whats the next stepOf course it does Unless her GF is okay with it | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 08:17 AM |
| 16 | [deleted by user][citation needed] But generally agreed. Nothing better than some good old (moderate and intelligent!!!) negging to brighten up the day Don’t be an obnoxious tip slapper, and you better be prepared for shit tests, and also no making fun to actually make fun.. but I guess that’s somewhat obvious | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 02:00 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]My advice concerning major brain damage does seem to always be specifically helpful, although this context is one of the more positive ones. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 09:01 PM |
| 14 | [deleted by user]Back in the good old days we didn't need this, the degradation after not making her come first in the GTA: San Andreas coffee mod was educational enough. On a serious side note, the book already recommended is fantastic, as is "Squirms, Screams and Squirts" - yes, real title. Also, on a completely different note, if you've really been trying to show him for months and he doesn't give a shit, it's not going to change by buying him a book either. Try it, buy him some book, conduct a grace period, … | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:20 PM |
| 11 | [deleted by user]Yeah. This is 100% checking off all items on the internal checklist lmao. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 02:01 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I hate to say it, but I agree with both of you. I'd rather have it like the first option too, but realistically the second option is closer to actual reality. I guess you can still decide what's more important to yourself, your own moral values or pulling women, or rather having sex or a relationship. Personally I wouldn't put up with any of this shit either and tell her to soak her head, if I call anyone my partner they better appreciate more than fleeting superficial attributes. But obviously … | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 08:24 PM |
| 25 | [deleted by user]That was one of the best replies imaginable, actually. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend noticing attractive guysI know this behavior very well, and I'd advise you to seriously and honestly ask yourself if you are actually okay with these "jokes", and then especially, who started making them, who decided they were acceptable, and then how exactly this is "roasting". I only want the best for you bro, this ain't it, and these aren't jokes either. I am very light-hearted and always up for it when it comes to some good roasting but a continuous pattern of actual disrespect to the very core of your relationship… | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend noticing attractive guysYeah man, the comment about turning around again and slowing down really set it in stone. Hell fucking no. You don’t want to spend (in the best case) your fucking life putting up with this kind of shit. If that was mine she would’ve walked home and if it happens one more time it’s over. Being single tops any of this bullshit 100x and you have to have some fucking self respect OP. Do you think she would behave like this to the yard guy? No, because she knows that if its a mentally strong man, the… | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 12:07 AM |
| 35 | Friend told me that I kissed her in her dream last night.Also consider that if she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend, she will bel willing to cheat on you just as easily. FUCKING THIS!! You're not going to be the last person that kissed her in her dreams. Now if she doesn't break up with her boyfriend for you, but rather stays loyal, doesn't cheat either and then breaks up with him at some point for other reasons, that's a woman I would strongly consider for a relationship. On the other hand, I'm not sure how many of those would behave like the wom… | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 06:46 PM |
| 29 | [deleted by user]While he’s at it just suck OPs cock too. All that theory needs a dry exercise run before deployment | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Right? Im sure a South Asian stallion is good enough for other countries women as well. Chin up, get em mate | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 07:19 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You know dude, average height is actually highly variable by region. Here in the Netherlands you would be considered pretty tiny, while in South Asia you'd be a stallion of a man. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 07:16 PM |
| 5 | Would I just have better luck going to bars at this point than relying on the apps?Dude - two suggestions for you Therapy Prostitute Both of them. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Phenibutnot being in my head during interaction Meditation will fix this permanently without any substances Not kidding. Meditating 10 minutes per day increased my game 10x GABAergics are not going to do any good for you, promise. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | PhenibutZero. You’re going to become reliant on it for approaching. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 08:21 PM |
| 59 | Fun night but girl got mad I wouldn’t fuck her without a condom first nightI think we can all agree that at least 90% of men would not have had this kind of self control. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah you should still feel really bad about it and never stop feeling bad tbh. All of this sounds absolutely insane to begin with | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 06:50 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]At least he feels guilty about it. Doesn't make it any better but might help him grow as a person //After reading more of his comments I take that back. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 04:38 PM |
| 0 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?I literally said that it's not your fault. You're not going to offer very helpful perspectives if you have zero awareness of how you yourself as a woman operate. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 10:22 PM |
| 0 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?That's a noble perspective and undertaking I would say, to end this on a productive note, I'd just like to point out that to help people of both sexes, you need to understand your own first. Look at your dating preferences - rationally, not the way you like to think of yourself, and with no regard for labels like "whore" - and think about who you are actually fucking, and who you are not fucking. I am not saying the inevitable result of this contemplation is your fault, for most of it is biologi… | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?Interesting. I wonder if there are regional differences then, or it's a different story if you're just friends. Around here 5-7 are usually solid and down to earth. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?What is this divine alien technology you mention | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?I don't have a three digit bodycount, but yes, that also matches my general experience over the last couple of years - this seems to be the sweet spot for actual relationship material, given there are no other regular negative factors involved like mental disorders. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?Well, no, you are right in some ways, and I'm happy you seem to be a solid woman. The difference between being an actual incel, and just absolutely fed up, is a tightrope walk. Usually, the comments in question offer some insight into who is who. However, this doesn't mitigate most of the arguments made in here. These days an alarming percentage of women are treating men exactly in the way they complain about men treating them. I have a sinking feeling that men are treating women much better tha… | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 09:33 PM |
| 6 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?I think comment OP is talking about anything below a 7, but also not on the bottom of the scale. The bottom quantiles seems to have a higher incidence of what at first appears to be the same behavior as the highest quantiles, but once you look closer you realize they mostly adopted it to protect their confidence and not get hurt, while the higher quantiles use it to boost up externally validated artifical self-esteem as high as possible. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?Have you ever tried? | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?Bunch of bullshit. You know exactly who's going to get laid and who isn't. As long as you show men that you're a solid reliable woman you won't be treated like this in the long run, but we're reaching a point where Feminism (or rather the Feminazis) has gone way too far and created and empowered a generation of women that are so disgustingly entitled, narcissistic, useless for relationships and unreliable we have to protect ourselves too now. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?Definitely agree with you on the last part, but not sure about the first. I think I'd rather just straight up tell anyone I only want to fuck. Clean conscience and also no BPD nutcase child. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?I still can’t see any reason I would not be able to opt out. You talk about competent, resilient, masculine men, I think this is exactly what would define one. If that results in less sex or none at all so be it, taking responsibility for your actions and their consequences is also competent, resilient and masculine. And you know what, quite honestly, I have a suspicion that it's not going to end in less sex anyway. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?Definitely disagree. You can decide not to play stupid degenerate games at any point in time. It's going to have consequences but you are free to decide. This is beta attitude. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 08:07 PM |
| 8 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?Best comment I've seen in a long time. Thank you. Last month or so I saw a discussion in this subreddit about how stable mutual love is a pipe dream, and no woman will ever stick around if you don't exhaust yourself to death keeping up your alpha mindset and defending against shittests etc, even when old or sick. What I thought were wanna-be chads were defending this left and right, but I'm coming to realize they were probably right. No fucking thank you, I have more important shit to do and res… | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?100% Nearing 30 and it’s very obvious the increasing lack of shits given (both sides) is directly correlated | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?Yet Do Kwon still looks like a virgin | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 01:02 AM |
| 7 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?who have lots of options are only there to pump and dump … did crypto and options trading destroy online dating? | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 04:53 AM |
| 10 | Anyone else been in a very noticeable drought the last year or so?I noticed a definitive trend away from online dating. I like it. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 03:16 AM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]That you can’t see? Lol | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 07:52 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]How the fuck will not wearing panties help in otherwise fully clothed settings? | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 07:22 PM |
| 8 | How can I go up to a guy at a party that I wanna fuck?Laugh of the day. Thanks | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 07:36 PM |
| 3 | She just confessed her feelings for meAnd then exactly the same is going to happen to you in a while | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 12:33 AM |
| 5 | She just confessed her feelings for mePlease listen to this man OP | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 10:28 PM |
| 5 | People talking behind my backI haven't wronged anyone, yet. You will never be universally liked by everyone, especially not if you're improving yourself constantly and the others don't. Other people have an inherent interest in you *not* improving. They also have an inherent interest in putting down everybody else. Both of these behaviors are destructively egocentric in nature and are preventing them from actually improving themselves. You are a danger to their own ego. Get used to it. These hoes may be talking behind your … | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 12:06 AM |
| 7 | This Exercise Makes You Irresistible.. username does not check out. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 11:59 PM |
| 2 | I don’t want my crush but…I want her to keep growing up Maybe you should worry less about her and more about yourself in that regard. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 11:47 PM |
| 26 | This Exercise Makes You IrresistibleI've had a good laugh at the Trump/Ciao comments too, but you're right. Therapists speak about your inner child for a reason. Subconscious and generational trauma is the root of almost everything and transcending it is the way to liberation. | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 10:18 PM |
| 2 | I (23F) want to make a move on my older neighbor (52M), not sure of how to go about itAsking if he’s single is pretty much a catch-all actually. That’s not the worst idea. You’ll find out if he’s single and he instantly knows what’s up | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I don't know, do you think this guy needs game? | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 10:20 PM |
| 1 | I (23F) want to make a move on my older neighbor (52M), not sure of how to go about itNah you’re probably right man. Didn’t think about that | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | I (23F) want to make a move on my older neighbor (52M), not sure of how to go about itMy life’s based on my values and desires and nothing else, but I appreciate you mentioning it in case I was serious. I just couldn’t ignore the opportunity to make that joke | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 09:50 PM |
| 5 | I (23F) want to make a move on my older neighbor (52M), not sure of how to go about itAh, so you are recommending against marriage. I concur. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 06:13 PM |
| 21 | I (23F) want to make a move on my older neighbor (52M), not sure of how to go about itThis post made me feel much less concerned about aging. I'm not called Hank, but maybe I'll make it until 52 and be so hot by then, the ads become true and young women in my neighborhood actually want to fuck my brains out. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 05:50 PM |
| 3 | I (23F) want to make a move on my older neighbor (52M), not sure of how to go about itI fail to see how that would be OPs problem. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | How to slide into DMS as a girl?Yes, that is indeed a very complicated process. If I had enough time and qualification I would draw up a decision tree for you. May I suggest in the meantime you simply proceed with taking a photograph of your breasts and transmitting it to the target in question. This seems very rudimentary compared to the insane science of sliding into a horny males DMs, but it should guarantee you a success rate in the 95th quantile In case you should be interested in forming a lasting and deeper interpersona… | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test?There's real men around but they're usually not wasting time in this subreddit. I was active in the "seduction" scene 10 years ago, although here in Europe it was not necessarily about seducing but personal development, inner game, and psychology. That was the original purpose behind this shit here, but it's just gone down the fucking drain. The people who actually improved themselves left the scene at some point, and now it's mostly just a flood of men confused about their sexuality and with se… | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Is this a shit test?I don't fucking care. Real men stand by their values. Let the downvotes rain. 1 downvote = 1 wanna-be | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 08:31 PM |
| 0 | Is this a shit test?Yeah because it’s kinda obvious what you should do next time | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Is this a shit test?I do. Everyone who immediately starts off like this is a rude idiot. People have enough self-esteem issues these days. Who the fuck does that. If you're already writing her you don't care anyway. Do you really think making the girl feel self-conscious is a path to healthy success? It never even works on confident women, they are disgusted by behavior like this and rightly so, all you may get is some with issues. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Is this a shit test?That's not a shit test, you were just a huge asshole and she's trying to move on and is willing to ignore it. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]🤝 | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 07:39 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]No sir his ego is keeping him from being fucked | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 07:29 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]10000000000000000000% Stop following hoes or hoes fill up your mind | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 07:28 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]I concur | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]... well I mean a lot depends on where you will take this now, but I think it's very safe to assume that she does not dislike you. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 11:01 PM |
| 3 | I became her "gay friend", now what?10000000000% | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 08:44 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You need a psychologist | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Theoretically, She Is Great…Ugh… you are free to do whatever you want bro, but I wouldn’t want one like that. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Thailand?As are their wallets in Thailand | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Girl sent nudes after she thought I rejected her… what does this mean?Man, these are the best. Although Orange Sunshine was my favorite ever | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 11:24 PM |
| 8 | Girl sent nudes after she thought I rejected her… what does this mean?🚨 Low self esteem alert 🚨 🚨 LSE-HD alert 🚨 🚨 Possible mental health alert 🚨 //Sorry, I didnt realize this is only a regional thing. In the EU-center region the seduction community has devised a very extensively researched and discussed model of how to sort human behavioral tendencies. It goes like this: LSE = Low self esteem HSE = High self esteem LD and -HD are subcategories for low sex drive and high sex drive, which per the model also has very distinct effects on behavior. – LSE women are ins… | /r/seduction | 01/04/22 06:53 PM |
| 12 | BBWNoone requested your porn advertisement in a subreddit dedicated to personal development and intragender relations either, yet here we are. Not trying to be an asshole, PM me and I will show you how to reach your target audience with precision and retainment. This here isn't going to work out for you. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 07:54 PM |
| 7 | Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about itWtf | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Anybody in here lives in The Bahamas?No but considering the geopolitical situation in Europe that seems like a nice idea actually How’s life over there? | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 05:35 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]She's giving a lot of IOIs, she wants you, I would not want one like that though. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This is BPD, DO NOT DO IT!!!!!!!!!!! I speak from experience!!! She will hurt you more than you could ever hurt her!! | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 08:27 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Bro…. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I think you understand the game better than most here | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 04:07 AM |
| -5 | [deleted by user]And I think you have blue balls syndrome | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Logical conclusion indeed | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 01:59 AM |
| 5 | How to respond to girls at work who keep asking if/who I'm fucking?He said himself he doesn't even care that much. This is the absolute best line to use, it is fantastic, if the girl is chill enough to not cry about it. If in doubt, tread carefully | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 01:22 AM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Idk man, I guess that was not a sex worker you want to hire There are some that actually enjoy it (usually not in establishments) | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 01:19 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Idk, I never have true sex-only fwbs then I guess. I always try to maintain some level of emotional connection and do stuff other than sex too | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 12:29 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yes you are correct, but this is about when you do not have fwbs available or they are somewhere else and you have no interest in spending time acquiring new contacts | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 12:17 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What a stupid logic to apply.. it’s not about not having options, it’s about filling time between options if there's no will to spend time to look for other options | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 12:06 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]... ok? You need to find a better one then that actually enjoys what she's doing.. straining is not only penetration | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 11:59 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]Granted | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 11:52 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]This is definitely not uneconomical if you consider how much a regular girlfriend or fwb will drain you, no It's not the same either, but the profit/cost ratio is very acceptable in a "personal trainer for sex" perspective | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 11:01 PM |
| 25 | [deleted by user]Yeah, that’s my rationale as well, dont even want a relationship and no time to go looking for other fwbs all the time | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 10:21 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]100/hour I call her maybe once or twice per month for an hour and make sure to make her feel appreciated outside of sex work context too | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 08:31 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Yeah bro I used to assume the same, I guess you’ll just have to try it out and see if it works out for you For me it turned out that the rush/dopamine/sexual energy thing is not caused by achieving some mental goal but by just knowing you’re going to have sex. (And it’s still from nobody to into body) Also if possible avoid going into an estabilishment and meet her in your own space If you definitely need to have it, I understand, but then you have no other choice than to game I’m afraid | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 08:16 PM |
| 35 | [deleted by user]I promise you will lol. It's a woman like any other woman including the interpersonal aspects, emotions and sexual tension, you don't have to think about the reason she wants to sleep with you.. can't tell me you try to figure out why a woman wants to have sex with you every time it happens? Its a beautiful woman, and as soon as your brain thinks its time for sex you won't give a damn any more anyway | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 08:02 PM |
| 5 | A waiter at a restaurant waited until I went to the restroom to flirt with my gf, am I in the wrong to feel mad and disrespected?She would hit the streets faster than that guy can bring the bill. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Am I missing out by not being on Instagram?For whatever its worth you are the owner of your life and if you don't want to be on Instagram you just don't register at Instagram. Period. Noone has any right to infer or question that decision. Having your own opinion is attractive and will spare you from a lot of bullshit and time wasted thinking about it. Next time a girl offers you her Instagram you just state the truth and tell her you don't want to use Instagram and to give you her phone number. I've never missed any kind of chance to pu… | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 07:22 AM |
| 5 | Advice from a girl: don’t always take it personally if you’re rejectedYeah been thinking about this a lot recently, trying to watch myself from a 3rd person perspective and assuming I was an attractive woman... dude, I would flat out reject any human 95% of the day simply because I don't want to talk to anyone lol. and almost any man approaching me would feel shitty about it and take it personally.. no bueno | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Why are the single mums more receptive?They did, and I was horny and the sex was insane. I also have an insemination fetish now. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 09:27 PM |
| 4 | Why are the single mums more receptive?Do not do it. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 07:23 PM |
| 52 | Why are the single mums more receptive?Be careful unless you want to spend more money on Plan B than on your weed (that you will require to endure the stress of parenting while living through cycles of pregnancy scares, acceptance of fatherhood and then depression) I speak from experience. Before I made that full experience, I was sharing some details on her with my mother and she gave me a piece of wonderful, always to be remembered advice: "Watch out son, the oven is already preheated." EDIT: I have nothing against kids and I liked… | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 05:33 PM |
| 126 | Why are the single mums more receptive?Strongly disagree. My ex was a single mother and the first 6 months of our relationship consisted of raw dogging all night and her whispering "cum in me" into my ear. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 04:36 PM |
| 6 | Stop being a secondary character in your own life, and take control of your life's story.Thank you | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 01:25 PM |
| 53 | Just got a text from the cashier I gave my number to earlier... feeling great!THIS. She put invest in by contacting him, there's no shit test to be found directly afterwards. If she were looking for a friend, she wouldn't even have brought her boyfriend up in the first place. She 100% wants to cheat on her boyfriend. I speak from experience. I fucked my ex-girlfriend while she still had a boyfriend. She then proceeded to get bored after 1 year and do the same to me repeatedly. She will do it to OP too after a while, simply because: She isn't capable of moral decisions and… | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Just got a text from the cashier I gave my number to earlier... feeling great!I concur from experience. | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 02:00 PM |
| 16 | Cold approached a police officer 😂*cringes* | /r/seduction | 06/11/20 10:11 AM |
| 3 | How to not seem needy when you kind of areI'm not OP but thank you very much for this. Absolute eye opener | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 11:18 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]A freezeout is the definition of manipulativeness if the other person has feelings for you. | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 10:29 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Maybe he means something like presenting yourself like an absolute beta or idiot on purpose so she'll lose interest/attraction and call it quits and think it's her idea. I'd find that morally acceptable if the other person seems like they would take it very personally. I subscribe to the idea that there is good altruistic manipulation and bad egoistic manipulation. Freezeouts are much worse manipulation in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 09:51 PM |
| 13 | I have only two modes of operation: needy and not interested in girls. How to deal with this trait?There's a book that would help you a LOT. It's called "The Gifts of Imperfection". If you'd like a ebook copy I can help you out. EDIT: Almost all versions online are only previews. PM me. I will not post my home servers' address. | /r/seduction | 16/06/15 07:20 PM |
| 2 | I'm scared of myselfDude, read "The Power Of Now" by Eckhart Tolle. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 10:26 AM |
| 13 | I feel like my chin is ruining my ability to interact with females. Do you guys think it would be a reason for a girl to be turned off?You should find bigger problems to worry about, man. | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 01:13 PM |
| 2 | I'm growing up nowBelieve it or not, some men are not equipped with necessary skills by default | /r/seduction | 17/06/14 05:13 PM |
| 193 | How to stop dancing near girls. Either dance with them or don't!Errr... just fyi, some people actually dance because they like dancing. This also happens to be near girls at times.. Nevermind. Maybe I'm just too used to the EDM scene. | /r/seduction | 01/01/14 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Go in for the kiss kids! Weekly challenge.Challenge accepted, man. I've been planning to finally kclose that cutie anyway. | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 08:30 AM |
| 1 | So, I have some sort of special case of Oneitis (aka Super-Oneitis).I love you. Thank you so much for your reply. The more often I read it, the more sense it makes. (And no, I love being 18, mainly because I still have all time in the world to work on myself) What would you suggest, how can I get rid of my boring, normal Oneitis now? | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 02:29 PM |
| 1 | So, I'm looking for my first own Appartement.I live in a WG right now. Never fucking again. Please don't ask. Yeah, Stuttgart :) | /r/seduction | 27/09/12 05:05 AM |
| 1 | So, I'm looking for my first own Appartement.No, I don't, because I can't afford it. Maybe your point of view on public transportation is somewhat different, though. Here in Germany most people use public transportation, it's not regarded "dirty" or for school kids and hobos like in the US sometimes, it seems. Finding an affordable place in the downtown area is possible (tell you what, I'm actually waiting for a reply from the landlord of a pretty cool appartment there, but I can't rely on that), but incredibly annoying and can take severa… | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 10:59 AM |
| 1 | 5 Things That Will Get You LaidWell, could you possibly suggest any talents I should pick up? | /r/seduction | 21/07/12 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Your best comebacks to, "Do you like me?"Will steal this because it seems to be the best out of all comments. Thanks | /r/seduction | 22/04/12 09:10 AM |
| 1 | The Great ExperimentWhat's stopping you? | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 07:11 AM |
| 3 | Some consequences of the greater field of vision of womenI thought so until 2 minutes ago.. | /r/seduction | 17/04/12 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Drugs and pickup.Aw crap, you misunderstood me. I'm more curious about long term effects of MDMA, it's said that MDMA can permanently change your personality to the better and that it can help you "accept" yourself | /r/seduction | 14/04/12 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are your concrete goals you've set while practicing pickup?1) Having fun 2) Not giving a shit. Those seem to work incredibly well for me. If I focus my whole night around Pickup, I'm very likely to go home frustrated. | /r/seduction | 13/04/12 10:51 PM |
| 37 | As some one with pretty low self-esteem. How do I know what girls are " in my league "Everyone is under your league, bro. Always assume attraction. | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 07:09 PM |
| -1 | [FR] LMR "I barely even know you"Freezeout. I'm still a.. advanced beginner myself, but in theory freezing out and doing something else (grabbing something to drink, whatever) should work wonders. Correct me if I'm wrong! | /r/seduction | 09/04/12 02:38 PM |
| 1 | XKCD takes a pot shot at PUAsDo you happen to know in what episode? | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 09:49 AM |
| 2 | XKCD takes a pot shot at PUAsThere was a PUA in Big Bang Theory? | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 09:34 AM |
| 1 | How does one handle Muslim girls?No, neither was I | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 05:56 AM |
| 7 | How does one handle Muslim girls?This advice matches with my intentions | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 08:22 PM |
| 2 | How does one handle Muslim girls?Thanks for your reply! What about escalating? I tend to escalate quite quickly and I'm not sure if that'd work with Muslims. | /r/seduction | 05/03/12 06:35 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First kclose ever. Picture inside.*brofist Where do you live? | /r/seduction | 20/02/12 01:21 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First kclose ever. Picture inside.If you call a kclose cheating, indeed | /r/seduction | 20/02/12 09:54 AM |
| 4 | [FR] First kclose ever. Picture inside.Really? That sucks. Even 16+ people can stay until midnight here. | /r/seduction | 20/02/12 01:38 AM |
| 6 | [FR] First kclose ever. Picture inside.Haha, I'm sure as hell not a natural. I read a lot of theory. The conversational lines were improvised, but the kino (especially me pushing and pulling her from and to me) wasn't. You can bet your ass I'll keep playing the game. | /r/seduction | 20/02/12 01:36 AM |
| 5 | [FR] First kclose ever. Picture inside.Germany, why'd you think that? | /r/seduction | 20/02/12 01:23 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First kclose ever. Picture inside.Keep it up man. When I first started I was on my own too, and became really frustrated really fast, so I stopped for a few months. Thank god my wing contacted me on a german Pickup forum, he gave me another small dose of Pickup and I've been addicted ever since. Even though my FR makes me seem pretty confident and shit - I'm not. I've maybe opened 20 sets in my "career", tops. But it doesn't matter. AA plays a huge rule in my game too, but if you manage to overcome it, nothing can stop you. | /r/seduction | 20/02/12 01:22 AM |
| 10 | [FR] First kclose ever. Picture inside.I find club game to be indefinitely easier than day game. You're not required to talk a lot You're not expected to talk a lot You simply cannot talk a lot Club game requires only an simple opener, no routines, just kino and the courage to escalate. | /r/seduction | 20/02/12 01:04 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First kclose ever. Picture inside.Low cut dresses and skirts. I can't complain, really | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 11:49 PM |
| 12 | [FR] First kclose ever. Picture inside.Fucking cigarettes man.. | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 11:46 PM |
| 42 | [FR] First kclose ever. Picture inside.http://www.meh.ro/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/meh.ro7316.jpg | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 09:36 PM |
| 11 | [FR] First kclose ever. Picture inside.I'm at a club right now, completely alone. Still not giving a fuck | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 09:27 PM |
| 14 | [FR] First kclose ever. Picture inside.Low self esteem, low sex drive | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 09:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First kclose ever. Picture inside.I hope you're not serious, I'd rate myself a HG4.. | /r/seduction | 19/02/12 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Why is Pickup so fucking frustrating and depressing? What is my problem? Why am I SO scared?I didn't plan on going out tonight, but you're fucking right. I'll drag one of my AFC friends with me. Fuck being scared. I'm alpha and I will touch everyone. I'm moving to a big city in 2 weeks anyway, why would I give a crap about the outcome? Thanks man. I'm pumped with motivation. Let's do this. | /r/seduction | 18/02/12 06:12 PM |
| 1 | God damnit, I don't know what to do when a girl grinds her body against mine.That would've happened if I made a move.. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 01:25 PM |
| -6 | God damnit, I don't know what to do when a girl grinds her body against mine.Can I really get away with that? I mean, I always wonder.. what if the grinding really was accidental? | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 04:10 AM |
| 1 | I just approached a cute teacher.. my first real approach everThe conversation was in german, obviously. :-) | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 05:51 PM |
| 3 | I just approached a cute teacher.. my first real approach everDamnit man, not everyone speaks English as their first language. | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 11:29 AM |
| 1 | I just approached a cute teacher.. my first real approach everHe looks like fucking Ashton Kutcher and is really cute. In another bar he was actually approached by two HB8. Escalating is default, he doesn't even intentionally do it. It just happens. | /r/seduction | 11/02/12 11:28 AM |
| 0 | phone pickup [Repost from /r/fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuu]/r/seduction | /r/seduction | 09/02/12 03:49 PM |
| 20 | I'm a little blasted right now, but I managed to bring a girl home (also, I live on a boat)Mother of god.. you should definitely bring up your boat earlier in conversations. I'm pretty sure women would go absolutely nuts and BEG you to take them there. | /r/seduction | 29/01/12 02:37 PM |
| 2 | I finally understand woman. Click here for the truth.If you're going to play the game, at least play it right. Well said. | /r/seduction | 14/01/12 01:22 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Kino’d girl in churchWhat are you meditating to? I'm really curious. | /r/seduction | 08/01/12 09:01 PM |
| 34 | [FR] New Years in Times Square HB10 F-Close 18y/o modelMother of god.. | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 10:32 PM |
| 5 | Still can't talk...help!knew what I was going to say You don't need to know what you're going to say - in fact, thinking about it is BAD. Just go up to her and start talking about random stuff. I had HUUUGE approach anxiety when I first started. After your first conversation, some/most of it will be gone. Stop thinking, just do it. :) | /r/seduction | 29/12/11 04:05 PM |
| 5 | Marijuana and seduction. The single most amazing experience I have ever had.Haha I will maybe try E on a rave but I'll stay away from Opiates. Those can mess up your life pretty badly. Nope not a FR, just sharing an amazing experience. :) And yes, I did #close and kclose two girls. My first kclose ever. :) | /r/seduction | 26/12/11 03:44 AM |
| 4 | Marijuana and seduction. The single most amazing experience I have ever had.No no, I just happened to be stoned when a friend called and wanted to go to that club. It was a coincidence, I didn't plan on going there. Why would I talk to my doctor about it? | /r/seduction | 26/12/11 03:41 AM |
| 8 | Why is it considered socially unacceptable to talk to another person in public?FUCK YEAH AMERICA! | /r/seduction | 18/12/11 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you cope with jealousy?Can't do that, we're all in the same class and see each other every day. I'm not gonna see them for 7 weeks now though, school internship. Maybe that gives me time to overcome this annoying shitty Oneitis. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 06:01 AM |
| -1 | How do you cope with jealousy?:( Okay. Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 05:59 AM |
| 0 | How do you cope with jealousy?Thank you for your advice! Here's the problem - I agree that I have Oneitis and I'm not trying to deny it, but I have it for REALLY good reasons. She seems like a perfect match for me, I don't think I've ever known a more perfect girl. She plays video games, has exactly the same humor as I do (and that's rare, trust me), is obsessed about the same things, etc. But well, fuck it, I have to let this go it seems. | /r/seduction | 05/12/11 05:23 AM |
| 2 | How do you cope with jealousy?I am absolutely happy for him :) But, you know, every time he talks about her or every time I see them kissing.. for some reason.. it hurts. | /r/seduction | 04/12/11 07:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you cope with jealousy?Sounds pretty bad, but yeah. In my current situation, I need a partner to be happy. I just turned 18, I have a car, I'm doing well in school and everything's alright. I'm just sooo alone. | /r/seduction | 04/12/11 07:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you cope with jealousy?Because I'm alone. | /r/seduction | 04/12/11 07:25 PM |
| 1 | So, I've read all the links in the sidebar, but I can't help but wonder..Heh I've heard that a couple times already, could you explain? Why do you regret not starting at a younger age? | /r/seduction | 06/11/11 10:08 AM |
| 1 | So, I've read all the links in the sidebar, but I can't help but wonder..No. Absolutely not. I'm 17 years old and I've been living a big portion of my life behind a mask - a mask that I thought I needed or else I wouldn't be accepted by my classmates and friends. When I finally realized I didn't need that mask, I started to hate masks of all kinds. And no, I don't want to fuck that one girl from school. I came here because I'm doing a self-assigned 30 day challenge that consists of daily fitness exercises and other stuff, and I thought I could find something here to … | /r/seduction | 06/11/11 07:03 AM |
| 1 | I want to give the whole seduction thing a try.I used to suck at being social but thank god I managed to treat that myself. I can approach people (just not girls I'm attracted to!), eye contact is no problem, etc Touching everyone? How would I do that.. during a conversation? Just walking up to someone and touching him/her would be a little bit weird, wouldn't it | /r/seduction | 06/11/11 06:59 AM |
| 1 | I want to give the whole seduction thing a try.I already have huge AA.. I would literally die of shame after the first blowout. I think for the beginning I'll stick with greetings only. | /r/seduction | 06/11/11 06:57 AM |
| 2 | I want to give the whole seduction thing a try.College savings? Bitch please, University is free here.. | /r/seduction | 05/11/11 08:50 PM |
| 1 | I want to give the whole seduction thing a try.Check out the 100 set subreddit, I'll do 100 sets with a basic greeting only. This should already be insanely hard because of my huge AA. | /r/seduction | 05/11/11 06:45 PM |
| 3 | I want to give the whole seduction thing a try.Sounds interesting, but I'd never be really sure what to tell her. I can't just say "Hi" and then walk off, can I? | /r/seduction | 05/11/11 05:14 PM |
| 1 | So, I've read all the links in the sidebar, but I can't help but wonder..Otherwise, follow the mental checklist until you get a solid idea of how game actually works. Sorry for acting rude before, this here actually makes sense to me. I have lived a big portion of my life behind a mask, a mask that I thought I needed because otherwise I wouldn't be accepted in my class etc. When I finally realized I didn't need that mask, I began to hate masks of any kind. That's why I reacted the way I did. I'm sorry. I think I might like this seduction thing. BTW "game" in high sch… | /r/seduction | 05/11/11 05:09 PM |
| 1 | So, I've read all the links in the sidebar, but I can't help but wonder..I can assure you I have spent quite a few hours reading through almost the whole sidebar. I know that "seduction" is not about being fake, it's about changing your personality and it gives you access to helpful knowledge of the female character, but for some reason I still think that especially the beginning phase is about following a mental checklist and a pre-defined schema when interacting with women. But hey, I'll give it a try. On Monday I'll start a 30 day challenge involving some fitness … | /r/seduction | 05/11/11 04:48 PM |
| 1 | So, I've read all the links in the sidebar, but I can't help but wonder..What was my takeaway? | /r/seduction | 05/11/11 04:37 PM |
| 1 | So, I've read all the links in the sidebar, but I can't help but wonder..If you got pulled over with 10lbs of cocaine in your trunk and the cop didn't know about it, would you say "Ah by the way officer, I have cocaine worth $4 million in my trunk"? Of course not. Look, I'm 17 y/o and on monday I'll start a self-assigned 30 day challenge that consists of taking a run every single morning, following a diet and studying as much as necessary for school. I just thought that maybe I could find something here to include in my challenge, to make me a little bit more social … | /r/seduction | 05/11/11 04:18 PM |
| 1 | So, I've read all the links in the sidebar, but I can't help but wonder..I spent the whole day reading through stuff in this subreddit, and you hit the nail on the fucking head. I understand that women want a dominant, funny and "alpha" male. But everything you mentioned - the fake framing shit and some of the wanna-be-ultra-cool-and-alpha people here are turning me off big time. There is definitely some very good advice on here, though - especially the mp3 files in the sidebar somewhere. | /r/seduction | 05/11/11 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Alright, THATS IT.Alright, downloading. I don't know if the fitness guide is included but we'll see. Back down? Never. | /r/seduction | 23/07/11 07:02 AM |
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