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[–]Creepy-Storage-1786 89 points90 points91 points 4 years ago (33 children) | Copy Link
The funniest thing is that they say seduction is a myth in a seduction sub and mods allow it.
[–]5ive_Rivers 17 points18 points19 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Where are the moderators?
Revolutionaries need apply?
[–]ModeratorElbynerual 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You rang?
[–]nordik1 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link
Meanwhile mods will take down useful discussions. Have seen two regarding dating app experiences get tossed in the last few weeks
[–]HedgeFundTechGuy 18 points19 points20 points 4 years ago* (21 children) | Copy Link
Yup. I spent several hours writing a lengthy post about some insider experiences with dating apps, for no personal gain whatsoever and simply to contribute to the community and share knowledge, and mods just removed the post with a single comment saying "You can't just be posting this questionable stuff without proof".
Ignoring for a second that I specifically checked the subs rules before posting and they only require proof for AMAs, it was glaringly obvious that I couldn't just post the proof publicly, but they could've asked me for it at any time and I would've worked with them to provide as much proof as possible. Instead, they decided that the most mature course of action is to simply nuke a thread that completely conforms to sub rules and that a large percentage of people enjoyed very much, giving it like half a dozen awards in a few hours. I even sent them mod mail offering to show proof but apparently responding to that was already too much to ask.
Absolutely great way to run a community, hats off. I've been in the scene for over a decade and a member of many seduction communities but this one continuously takes the shit cake and I see exactly why it’s entirely made up of bullshit posts now
//Edit: And to Mr. Mod, first of all, that is *not* what you originally stated to be the reason, you said I cant be posting this without proof, and secondly you could've just, you know, told me this back then and not now. Then I would've re-written that section (even though I can't remember making any wildly unscientific claims..) and your god damn community had some value added.
[–]frenchiveruti 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hey thanks for your contribution I ended up reading it on your profile.
[–]LongHairedKraut 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
That was a good post too, but the mods were like "shut it down" for some reason. Perhaps one of them has stock in Match Group or something?
[–]HedgeFundTechGuy 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Cmon, as if a single post on some edge sub takes down the price of stocks with that kind of liquidity. I think I can remember the mod removing it specifically having a problem with me stating that I'm CTO of a hedgefund, not even the content of the post itself. No idea if that's small dick syndrome but I could've fucking proven that in 10 seconds, now in hindsight on the other hand, I'm kind of relieved to not have sent them any kind of identifying information because they're clearly untrustworthy amateurs
[–]LongHairedKraut 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Not saying it would devalue the stock, but maybe one of the mods has such loyalties and couldn't stand to see someone dissing the apps lol. I agree 100% with the post you made the other day, but for someone like me the apps have literally been my only option. I want to stop using apps but I don't think I'll ever be able to approach irl. The apps are poison but I have nowhere else to go to even try my luck
[–]HedgeFundTechGuy 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
I disagree with your perspective of yourself but listen I’m not and have not been claiming that dating apps should not be used at all. You’re free to use them, I have one too, but you need to know certain crucial information on how they work so you don’t fall into the traps they craft on purpose. That’s why I wrote the post and saw value in sharing. Knowledge is power and my mission in your case was already a success
[–]LongHairedKraut 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
At the very least I don't pay for them anymore, it's exactly like video games that have a pay-to-win type scheme. Idk how I'll transition to approaching irl when I've used apps as a crutch this whole time. I'm a really introverted guy so approaching kinda works against my nature
[–]HedgeFundTechGuy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You just do it
[–]LongHairedKraut 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't really think that helps
[–]Calamity__Bane 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Read it off your profile, definitely a based and informative post that shouldn’t have been taken down.
[–]silver54 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Same happened to my thread about making a female profile on an app to see the guy dating pool, and coming across a ton of Chad's I didn't expect to see. Not sure how I'm supposed to prove that without posting photos of a bunch of people/profiles that may not want their face on an internet forum, or being accused of cherry picking a few profiles to support my point etc.
A lot of dating-related stuff is going to be anecdotes, so having a proof requirement X's out the vast majority of discussion from the start.
[–]HedgeFundTechGuy 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
There’s not even any kind of proof requirement in the sub rules except for AMAs, I specifically checked before posting. They’re just making shit up at this point and deprave the whole community of actual value. Would’ve loved to read your post too.
[–]silver54 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Looks like it's actually back now....?
See if you can see it in this thread
After reading your post and specifically the part about the app showing you the best off the bat and also bots, I think that makes a lot better sense of the profiles I was consistently coming across. It made it seem like 80% of guys on there were ballers top to bottom, and even after 20-30 mins of swiping.
Removed for me
[–]silver54 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'll paste it here:
If you guys haven't done so yet, I recommend making a fake girl profile to see whats on the other side of the app in your area. I decided to do so after my last post about noticing a drought with OLD in the last year or two and wondering what the deal is.... After about 20 mins of swiping all I could think was: what the fuck? I have a hard time believing all of these profiles are real because everyone in my city is apparently a 6'3 jacked lawyer/doctor/MMA fighter/engineer with perfect teeth/hair, a puppy, and regularly snowboards in the alps. Not even exaggerating. I browsed these profiles with a couple female friends and they were just laughing after awhile at how everyone followed the same template of jacked, perfect smile, beard, great hair, tall, successful, and the token dog pic. I've seen discussions online about people saying girls get swarmed with likes etc which to me was common knowledge, but holy shit if these profiles are real and not planted by Hinge to attract more users, 8/10 dudes are apparently the ultimate Chad. Shit doesn't even make sense when you walk around in public and never see these types of guys anywhere and I've been in gyms/sports for 10+ years. Have you guys seen this same thing in your area? I'm in a city with a population of ~1.5mil
If you guys haven't done so yet, I recommend making a fake girl profile to see whats on the other side of the app in your area. I decided to do so after my last post about noticing a drought with OLD in the last year or two and wondering what the deal is....
After about 20 mins of swiping all I could think was: what the fuck?
I have a hard time believing all of these profiles are real because everyone in my city is apparently a 6'3 jacked lawyer/doctor/MMA fighter/engineer with perfect teeth/hair, a puppy, and regularly snowboards in the alps. Not even exaggerating. I browsed these profiles with a couple female friends and they were just laughing after awhile at how everyone followed the same template of jacked, perfect smile, beard, great hair, tall, successful, and the token dog pic.
I've seen discussions online about people saying girls get swarmed with likes etc which to me was common knowledge, but holy shit if these profiles are real and not planted by Hinge to attract more users, 8/10 dudes are apparently the ultimate Chad. Shit doesn't even make sense when you walk around in public and never see these types of guys anywhere and I've been in gyms/sports for 10+ years.
Have you guys seen this same thing in your area? I'm in a city with a population of ~1.5mil
[–]Calamity__Bane 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It’s removed for me as well
[–]silver54 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you able to see the comments on the thread? If so, I pasted the original post above.
[–]ModeratorElbynerual -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And yet.... you're still here?
Your post was removed because you were making scientific claims that completely generalized ALL women, without providing proof of said claims. Basically misinformation.
[–]Substantial_Body_774 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I’d love to see the post if you have a way of sending it to me?
[–]HedgeFundTechGuy 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I think I pinned it on my profile after that
[–]Substantial_Body_774 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ah, it only shows the title and the (removed)
Oh nvm!
Made a similar post that was pretty controversial that got taken down, didn’t even tell me why just gave me a lengthy reply to show how I was “wrong” maybe I was, but why do the kids get to take whatever they want down just bc they disagree. This sub is an absolute disaster.
[–]Calamity__Bane 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Stronger enforcement is definitely needed. I understand not wanting to censor legitimate disagreement, but when the question at hand is a matter of developing technical proficiency rather than debating abstract philosophy, it falls to the proficient to impose quality control measures where swarming masses of incapability threaten to undermine the project.
[–]Substantial_Body_774 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I made a post couple weeks back talking about how i felt that this sub was encouraging some very bad ideas about women, relationships, dating, and, well, seduction. Made it very clear I wanted a discussion about it.
Got taken down without explanation, one of the mods simply responded with a detailed argument for why I was wrong. Maybe I was wrong but I feel like it was an important discussion.
[–]Calamity__Bane 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Now that, I think, is a very different question - it’s one thing to have a different idea of seduction, and quite another to negate the very concept. The former is within the bounds of the sub and should be allowed. The latter invalidates the sub’s very existence, and should not.
[–]Substantial_Body_774 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I wasn’t negating the concept, I was asking why it had to be so incel ridden and sexist. If that’s seduction to you. Then damn this sub really is too far gone.
No no, I was saying incels are negating the concept and that your post was fine.
Oh, lol I get former and latter mixed up….
[–]productive_guy123 53 points54 points55 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yea this sub used to be a gold mine. Unfortunate how it’s turned
[–]fluffy-muffin 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I cant stress how much this sub helped me change my life. Its sad what its become lately. Cant believe these cringy incel posts are getting upvoted.
[–]Extra-Boysenberry 32 points33 points34 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s Reddit. What do you expect?
[–]daemon86 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah if you don't want incels in other subs maybe you shouldn't ban incel subs in the first place. Reddit and its mods do that
[+]Iistendipshit -7 points-6 points-5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Literally. ITS REDDIT FFS
[–]Iganno 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
If you aren’t actually putting the work in when it comes to trying to seduce women or get a gf, don’t just fall back on false statements like “women only want handsome men and game doesn’t matter” because that’s you quitting on yourself after not getting the result you want exactly when you want it. Also there are plenty of people on r/seduction legitimately looking for advice so don’t be that person.
[–]kathruins 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I'm here trying to fight those sentiments and help those folks, but it's getting worse. guess that's just what happens in forums like these. it's a shame. this could be a helpful place.
[–]Woujo 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't waste your time. They don't want help. I have tried to help some of these guys and most of them are deeply mentally ill and have much deeper problems that seduction. It's really sad and I really do think the only thing you can do is ban them. They need some kind of intense shock to wake them up.
[–]SundownSin 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Contrapoints has a video talking about how it’s easy to sympathize with them. That being said, I think it’s pretty shitty to give up on yourself and then tell other people to do the same.
[–]Calamity__Bane 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Contrapoints says that because she doesn’t deal with these idiots on a daily basis. From a distance it’s possible to feel that way, but up close it becomes clearer that removal is the only way forward.
[–]LazyBuhdaBelly 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It gets exhausting when you have to battle the dumb talking points every time, sigh...
[–]SundownSin 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They’re not arguing from a place of reason.
[–]TooMuchJibberish -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Even though statistics back up their talking points?
[–]buddhistbulgyo 16 points17 points18 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
"Seduction doesn't work. I can't get laid because I am not woke enough to treat a woman with respect. Be a sexless politically brainwashed incel like me." - Notarussianbot69420
"Makes sense. I'll allow it." - mods
[–]_DTRK_ -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Fuck wokeness though.
[–]buddhistbulgyo 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Respecting other humans is game. "I stopped fucking Republicans a long time ago." - Tinder match last night
[–]TooMuchJibberish -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Seduction does work, if you're at a certain level of looks though. Agree or disagree?
[–]SadBox4529 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ahhahahahhaahhahahaha
[–]nbh1995 22 points23 points24 points 4 years ago (25 children) | Copy Link
I doubt a lot of people here think that changing their behaviour won't impact their lives in any positive way shape or form but I do think that people pre select partners based on looks most of the time and that is a very depressing realization as an average man.
First, no, women look at a lot of factors other than looks.
Second, improving your looks as a man is easy. Just go to the gym, eat right, and wear better clothes.
[–]Thin_Protection5616 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Do you work out regularly?
[–]nbh1995 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
yep actually, every day lol
[–]Thin_Protection5616 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Then your probably already in the top 20%
[–]nbh1995 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I don't think I will ever reach top 20% since I am 5'8 but I could get top 30% for sure.
[–]MocDcStufffins 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Being insecure about your height makes more of a difference than your height.
[–]weirdowerdo 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Only if the other person already doesn't actually care about height.
[–]MocDcStufffins 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Being short will disqualify you with some women. Being insecure will disqualify you with the vast majority of women. Too many guys on here would rather believe they don't get women because of something they have no control over and it's BS.
It's funny that this came up on a thread about incels.
[–]nbh1995 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Saying I could reach top 30% is not insecure at all. To be top 20 imo you have to have a lot of desierable traits and height is one of them.
[–]ComprehensivePen71 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
bullshit
[–]TheCollector228 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bullshit
[–]Mo3 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You know dude, average height is actually highly variable by region. Here in the Netherlands you would be considered pretty tiny, while in South Asia you'd be a stallion of a man.
[–]nbh1995 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
True.
[–]Mo3 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Right? Im sure a South Asian stallion is good enough for other countries women as well. Chin up, get em mate
[–]Thin_Protection5616 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Reframe: you are the hottest 5'8" dude on the planet
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[–]nbh1995 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
yep lol while a dude that is 6'4 doesn't lift a finger and has women surrounding him. Seriously considering limb lengthening surgery if Im honest.
[–]redditculture 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
The external world cannot validate for you that you are enough. You have to instill it within with your own thoughts and daily behaviors. A defeatist mentality will only result in defeat.
[–]nbh1995 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I consider myself more of realist than a defeatist. I see the harsh reality of the world while being the best version of myself I can be. But I get what you mean man
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[–]nbh1995 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
First I was a defeatist now I am a cynic. Decide. What am I?
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[–]nbh1995 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ok man now you don't make sense imma end it here
[–]nordik1 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
hopefully they don't find out that doesn't work either
[–]froze_gold 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Happens in these subs. The state of asktrp before it's quarantine was rough too
[–]7Birdies 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sad :(
[–]yuckyuck13 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was about to make a similar non specific ideology post. No one is perfect but people need to learn to accept to become better.
[–]StubbornBr1t 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Working on yourself is the ultimate aim. When I graduated I was unemployed and all my friends moved away. I took action to get to the gym, work on new skills and get a decent career started. I've since gained 14 pounds of muscle, landed a management position in an engineering firm and speak to more beautiful women than I ever imagined.
Yes I still need to improve with women absolutely but it is something that I know is problem. And knowing the problem is over half the battle.
Brothers, the only person who can determine your destiny is yourselves.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for calling this out
[–]great_account 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There are still occasionally good posts, but most of them are super whiny. Frankly, it's good for all the guys who figured it out. Keep the rest of the dudes forever whining while the rest of us keep slaying.
[–]Blackmagician 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It’s both too many incels and too many women giving bad advice. The incels at least you can hope to steer away from their problematic thoughts, better them coming here and getting a reality check than them congregating with other incels.
[–]Calamity__Bane 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The problem is that when there’s a significant influx of incels, they no longer adapt to the culture and instead attempt to promote their own. There will eventually come a point when incel retardation drowns out quality discourse and the sub ends up ruined, if steps aren’t taken to correct it before we reach a tipping point.
[–]Blackmagician 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hear you. It wouldn’t be bad to have a subreddit rule against doomer and black pill language.
[–]Big_P4U 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It is sad, a lot of those people would rather blame everyone for their perceived problems rather than accept they whatever they have going on is fairly adjustable.
[–]_DTRK_ 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I am sure there is a reason for that phenomenon. More and more incels emerge, and they have more incel energy than past years.
Shouldn’t that ring any bells? Something is causing this. Something in our society. That’s where anyone in their right mind should focus.
Hate the sin, not the sinner.
[–]Calamity__Bane 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
The reason is likely because the younger generations have been subjected to ridiculous amounts of feminist propaganda and general social control, which raises the material costs of failure while making them a lot more sensitive to rejection. Back in our day, we could experiment in the craziest ways without being afraid of any long term consequences - now, with cameras and #MeToo PC morons everywhere, it becomes harder to make mistakes. It is a product of the relentless feminization of our society and the inordinate cultural influence possessed by nosy catladies and greenhairs.
Having said all of that, incels are still absolute cancer and need to be dealt with.
[–]SadBox4529 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I got attacked by a bunch of Incels for smashing a girl who doesn’t date short guys. There are a lot of weirdos here.
[–]TooMuchJibberish -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
for smashing a girl who doesn’t date short guys
Haha brooootal, that is how a lot of girls feel about short guys though. They simply see us as "inferior", yeah those guys attacking you need to learn their place for sure though and start accepting their reality.
[–]SadBox4529 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They were saying things like “you don’t have integrity”, “OP is as shallow as the hoe he fucked”.
How do you shame a guy for smashing a chick, that’s some incel stuff, they’re the equivalent of fat girls who shame guys into sleeping with them.
[–]ksmith11011 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Self defeating negativity that doesn’t take accountability for the things you can control is incel trolling.
Recognizing the factors that women actually go for and devising ways to be successful with what you’ve got is not incel trolling imo. “Women do x with tall handsome guys but have opposite expectations for men they aren’t attracted to” is simply an observation of one reality of dating. As long as that turns into a productive discussion about the factors you can control and doesn’t turn into women hating I don’t see any problem with it.
Agreed I don’t really like seeing any bashing of opposite sexes because it’s completely unproductive and passes the buck as you say.
[–]ResponsibilityKey427 -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well I think it’s because online dating has rly exposed that women don’t mess with avg guys.
Which makes sense, because avg guy is boring.
Which then results in a lot of bitter jaded guys here.
[–]TooMuchJibberish -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The truth right here, and that's a fair talking point but apparently not appropriate to bring up here lol
[–]Mcfusion31 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I follow this sub because 1. It’s nice hearing men get laid because that’s kind of what this subreddit is all about 2. Reading that cold approach actually works for some guys 3. The support group is all about. I hate how black pill narrative is all about looks that’s online dating which majority of this sub isn’t about it’s about warm approaching and cold approaching and being a better seducer.
[–]simplyaguyonline 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I believe times are harder than ever for straight men. So it makes sense that a larger amount of these individuals are turning toxic. We need to be supportive and honest with them. I really wish we had local communities we could become engaged with. I feel like they are dying for a place they can belong and grow and I am pretty sure it's not going to happen very successfully online..
Good luck out there gentleman. I support yall. Keep up the good fight and respect yourself.
[–]Calamity__Bane 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unfortunately they’re not dying for a place to grow, they definitely need one, but what they actually want is a place to bitch and moan endlessly like the weak cunts they are.
[–]nevertextgoodnight -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also an influx women coming in giving nice guy advice
[+]carlos1973633826 -10 points-9 points-8 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
What do you expect from a anonymous board? Groundbreaking advice on how to pickup women?
Take your own advice and direct your energy to talking to real women instead of spending all day trying to make a hot post.
[–]Thin_Protection5616 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
This place was legitimately good 10 years ago before the PC police took over
[–]AngledLuffa 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah, the problem is that the mods do nothing and let people constantly whine about how they've tried nothing and nothing works
[–]DarkFite 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
What is the PC police?
[–]carlos1973633826 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Bruh what did I say? This guy spends all day on this board, the irony
[–]DarkFite 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Huh no i really dont know?
[–]Illmakeausernamelate 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Basically people who get offended by everything
[–]DarkFite -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ah yeee i can see that thanks
[–]Thin_Protection5616 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask google
[–]DeJuanBallard -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are a weak person, you have no room to shit on anyone else.
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[–]BostonWeedParty 9 points10 points11 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To be muscular you have to go to the gym, no one is born with muscles.
[–]mrmarkme 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can be average and still get dates, you know how by having a fucking personality and not being socially awkward. If you can hold a conversation with a girl and make her laugh and build the attraction then being average doesn’t matter. Thing is vast majority of people in this sub are socially awkward and don’t have a personality. They think they need to follow a script and talk to 1000girls to get 5 dates like that’s a normal thing to do lol
[–]vroomvroomski -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I'm short and skinny and I get dates and laid very often by hot women. It's cuz I have an attractive face, make a lot of money, good potential, great personality, and high status
[–]greenlight144000 -4 points-3 points-2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Well I’m above average height and skinny and never been on a date
[–]Calamity__Bane 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’m willing to bet the reason has a lot more to do with you being a giant pussy than your appearance.
[–]greenlight144000 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Well no girls have shown interest in me or approached me or even checked me out
[–]vroomvroomski 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same but I don't let that stop me
[–]BostonWeedParty 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
[+]greenlight144000 -6 points-5 points-4 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Well people are born with better genetics to build muscle
[–]BostonWeedParty 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Ya I'mlucky like that, but lots of people who aren't lucky like me have better bods because they work harder at it. This is kinda what I think the OP is trying to say, people on this sub are starting to just blame online dating and their looks and stop trying.
[+]greenlight144000 -6 points-5 points-4 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Its nearly impossible for skinny guys to build muscle. Should I stop trying online dating?
[–]insa_max 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Zyzz just died again reading this comment
[–]greenlight144000 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well he used steroids
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Get a hobby. Meet people through that. And yea you could go to the gym, you can still build muscle but it just wont make you larger unless you got the genes for it, but youll still be muscular and appear strong.
[–]BostonWeedParty 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
That's false, it's just a different look you will still have muscle. The problem is your thinking you have to look like Chris Evans muscle. Look up ectomorph work outs. I just see a lot of people blame online dating a lot, that's why I mentioned it.
Nine times out of ten the problem isn’t even genetics, the problem is eating like a 12 year old girl and never lifting.
Holy shit you’re retarded
Okay??????
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Can we not advocate for self improvement but also recognize that good looking people have an advantage in dating as well?
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