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RedWagonChronicles/r/askTRP26/06/15 02:39 PM
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I stopped after a few paragraphs. She said she wanted a divorce right? Give it to her... It would be worth your time to listen to the Beige Phillip episode "Mr. Cinnabons."
/r/askMRP07/08/17 04:15 PM
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For a 4 year RP guy you sure do give way too many fucks. You also sound like kind of a dick. She found something that causes a little drama. So what. Maybe hop on over to MRP and refresh on your sidebar reading.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 11:53 AM
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K
/r/askTRP22/05/17 11:06 PM
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Yup
/r/askTRP22/05/17 11:37 AM
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One showing abs. Outside shirtless doing something awesome. One with your dog, outside. Action shots of you doing fun stuff. Pictures of you with other hot women, with their faces cropped out but you can still tell you are social.
/r/askTRP22/05/17 12:15 AM
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Not sure where I fucked up. We aren't either, because you give almost no actionable information in your post. You should break down the situation and move this shit show to askmrp. Took the RP last Oct and I have been happy, feeling alive, down 20 lbs, staying in my frame (thought my wife was too) and having the most intense sex of my life every few days. You haven't taken any pill. You know about it and are like a child with a grenade. My suggestion, read all the sidebar while establishing a le…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/17 03:52 PM
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STFU and lifting. Those two things are the base you build everything on.
/r/askTRP03/02/17 03:58 PM
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SJWs Always Lie by Vox Day. Great read
/r/askTRP22/12/16 02:37 AM
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Also the White Christmas episode. Both great and both apply to TRP.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 02:05 PM
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I've never encountered a situation where being stronger is a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 01:59 PM
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Send her an estimate on how much it will cost for you to create her blog. For example, 40/hr minimum 4 hours up front payment. Additional labor will be invoiced. Use that money to take a new girl out and get over your oneitis.
/r/askTRP20/09/16 04:23 PM
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I quit 2.5 years ago. I started vaping and weened myself off of cigarettes. Then a slowly stopped vaping. My last one was Jan 3rd 2014.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 12:44 PM
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You are 19. Hook up with other girls and move on. She's not special. She's not a unicorn. You didn't find the one. There are so many women out there and you are going to settle at 19.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 04:20 PM
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So you hooked up with a girl and developed oneitis immediately? Hook up with other girls and move on.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 03:58 PM
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I second the AE Active flex. My favorite pairs for sure.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 05:19 PM
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Read Saul Alinsky and compare to what's happening in Europe right now. The US is being pushed in that direction as well.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 04:05 PM
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Head to your doctor and ask.for a blood panel. I had one done because I suspected low T and ended up discovering a pretty serious thyroid issue. Its important to keep yourself healthy.
/r/askTRP18/08/16 04:26 PM
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My new hobby is bear wrestling. Wanna help me practice?
/r/askTRP21/07/16 05:21 PM
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Either shave your head or try rogaine. Either way make a decision don't let internet strangers decide for you. I started losing my hair around 35, grew beard and started shaving my head. Its awesome.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 06:41 PM
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Its all about meal prep bro
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 02:02 AM
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"I know" is an acceptable answer to both those. That is if anything needs to be said at all.
/r/askMRP27/06/16 11:22 PM
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The only answer that matters
/r/askTRP15/06/16 02:42 PM
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You're helping the SJW cause by purposefully using their definition of the term.
/r/askTRP27/05/16 03:41 PM
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I fixed my hairline by shaving my head and growing out my beard. Night and day man. I've gotten some negative words but those same women will end up touching my head ha-ha.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 03:27 PM
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I went from 370 ish to 235 in about a year. Fix your diet first. Lower your carbs and sugar intake. Black coffee for caffeine if you need it, then nothing but water. I cut back to 2k cals a day and did 30 minutes of actual cardio (doesn't include warm-up or cool down) 6 days a week. 6 months in after I was shedding fat I started sl 5x5 continuing cardio 4 days a week.
/r/askTRP24/05/16 03:19 PM
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I just say something like "I'm counting on it" or something similar and give her a smirk. It doesn't translate that well via text but in person it works well.
/r/askTRP10/05/16 01:56 AM
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Single best lift for improved posture is dead lift. Nail your form and escalate to heavy weight.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 01:58 PM
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We have the best words!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 01:10 PM
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I prefer navy, tan, etc khaki shorts. Cargos are very contextual. Proper fit is key. Even regular khaki shorts will look terrible if they don't fit properly.
/r/askMRP24/03/16 01:38 PM
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You are not considering the source in your analysis. When a man tells you something like "you do you" it means something entirely different than a woman saying "be yourself". Remember we communicate differently. When I hear a man say " you do you" it means make yourself happy in context. When a woman says "be yourself" she's covertly rejecting you and passing you on to someone else. You're not her type and she is telling you that.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/16 03:06 PM
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Sounds like you failed a shit test. Agree and amplify man. "I was born white, this is just a spray tan" And finish it off with a sly smile.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 11:14 AM
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Clue has an android app as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/16 04:28 PM
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You talk too much. Try not explaining for once. There's not going to be a situation where it helps to air out everything like that. Especially after a shitty session in the sack. Read WISNIFG and use those techniques to get her to come out with it. Again there's not much YOU have to say.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 10:22 PM
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/r/askmrp
/r/askTRP26/01/16 01:57 PM
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Do not get married. Full stop Source: Married 20 years Start reading the sidebar like yesterday.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 10:26 PM
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I'm right there with you. My game needs work. Been reading day bang but I haven't put anything into practice yet. I need a boost on my hobbies as well. I sail and its cold out. Need something to do in the winter.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/16 01:58 PM
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Again, that's how I was advised. Depending on location things like moving out may not be that big of a deal. OP needs to lawyer up asap. There are options like recording interactions with your wife after the proceedings start to ensure things are kept honest.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 02:22 PM
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I consulted with my lawyer again last month. I have a plan to divorce as well. For context, I'm in the US, in a southern state. I was advised explicitly, do not move out and do not kick your wife out. Any action taken by you that changes your child's lifestyle will be judged harshly. You are the man and according to the courts it is your fault period. You need to lawyer up asap. Look for a high caliber female family lawyer with a track record representing men. Seriously do this right now.
/r/askTRP25/11/15 01:59 PM
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Or even just a "yup" with a sly grin. That seems to work well for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 01:41 PM
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Being absolutely obsessed with a woman they know next to nothing about. You know, talked once at a party or something. They convince themselves she's perfect and put her on a ridiculous pedestal no woman could ever live up to. In reality she's just hot and they know nothing about her or their compatibility. There is also another layer here. When a man sees a woman they want, that's all they need to know. I don't care if she's got a list of degrees or is a waitress at a shit hole diner. If she's …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 03:52 PM
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If you can use a lifting belt then always do so. Concentrate on your form first. I used Rippatoe's videos for form reference. You can strengthen your back by isolating that area and doing accessories in addition to dead Lifts . If you're concerned about your base try squatting bare foot. If you tweak something always stop and heal. I rode sl5x5 all the way up to a 405 lb 1rm.
/r/askMRP16/11/15 08:51 PM
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To add to this. State your intentions clearly. For example, "I want more sex." And then shut the fuck up. If you need to state that again, so be it. When the conversation appears to be over. Leave, have a place to go and go there! Let her hamster chew on that for a while before you come.
/r/askMRP10/11/15 07:07 PM
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"I always pictured myself as a Mustang."
/r/askTRP09/11/15 04:42 PM
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Cross fit isn't a competition, its a performance. You still need to lift heavy to train for that performance.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:26 PM
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If you're already at reasonable weight you need to consider lifting heavy. If you're still burning fat from years of betatude carry on, but make a plan to lift eventually. If you're new to lifting look at programs like stronglifts 5x5 or starting strength.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:26 PM
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If you want a break down with a great book attached to it, pick up a copy of SJWs Always Lie by Vox. Great read and its how I discovered what gamergate was all about.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 10:22 PM
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Not going to repeat what others have said. I will make a recommendation. Start your reading with No More Mr Nice Guy Married Man Sex Life Primer Mindful Attraction Plan When I Say No, I Feel Guilty
/r/askMRP30/10/15 10:55 AM
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Troll shitpost. Don't smoke, kids. Its the single dumbest habit I've had. Not worth it.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 09:13 PM
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Here are my thoughts. You may have been reading TRP for "well over a year" but your are not comprehending it. This is basic AWALT. Start by reading the sidebar material. Do a search in the main sub on AWALT. The basic premise is that all women have the potential to cheat, given the right circumstances. As a RP man its your job to curtail this as much as possible but be prepared for this eventuality.
/r/askTRP29/10/15 03:26 PM
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The only thing I got from this is, you spend too much time watching TV.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 02:14 PM
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There are so many responses to #2. When she's trying to break my frame. No, I'm RedWagonChronicles. Come here often? I'm... Batman. (Super hero pose) I am bad... (Shit eating grin, fuck me eyes)
/r/askMRP28/10/15 03:33 PM
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Seated incline dumbbell curls are a staple of mine now. Sit down lean back and its all bicep from there. Being seated like that removes any tendency to swing and use momentum from your previous rep.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:41 PM
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Stop thinking in terms of unicorns. They aren't a real thing. Put it to paper and decide what YOU WANT. Then execute. It almost sounds like you have oneitis because virgin. Shake it off man.
/r/askMRP27/10/15 10:20 AM
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You need to see a doctor. Everything you describe could be attributed to several things. Go get a blood panel done. Make sure they check your thyroid hormones too. Thyroid issues can impact T levels as well.
/r/askTRP26/10/15 06:33 PM
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It originated on Reddit. https://m.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/1fl2xd/my_stepdaughter_wants_her_real_dad_to_give_her/
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 06:14 PM
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Just to rustle jimmies, that story is ripped off from reddits r/relationships. I remember reading it quite a while ago. If you read it on FB one of the suggested links after reading is the original Reddit post. Edit: link https://m.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/1fl2xd/my_stepdaughter_wants_her_real_dad_to_give_her/
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 06:07 PM
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I think you're misunderstanding the term. When we discuss awalt we are talking about potential. All women possess the potential to do these things. Think of being put in a room with 100 guns and being told one is loaded. You would handle every single fire arm carefully because the potential to ruin or end your life exists. This is how we handle women. As each one has that potential to ruin you.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/15 04:11 PM
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Slow down a little. Re read the 12 levels of dread and look where that falls. That's level 6 and something that goes a little beyond where you should be by default. Healthy dread (passive dread) should sit at level 5. Make sure you have levels 1 through 5 nailed down. That's including shit tests and comfort tests. Build a list of goals. Use seduction techniques on her. Lifting. Find a hobby away from home. Condition your time and availability. Upgrade your wardrobe. Etc
/r/askMRP12/10/15 01:44 PM
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But what's your relative SMV compared to her, is it higher or lower? Have you read the 12 levels of dread by u/BluePillProfessor ? I suggest reading through that. Make note of the reading materials discussed there and start applying dread. Its a tough one if your SMV is lower though.
/r/askMRP12/10/15 01:09 PM
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The "I don't trust you enough sexually..." Is hamster for I'm not attracted to you. Are you lifting? What's your SMV relative to her s?
/r/askMRP12/10/15 12:52 PM
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Read The Rational Male
/r/askTRP09/10/15 05:56 PM
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Straight gospel. This should be red letter text right here.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 05:47 PM
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Been around for a year and still haven't read the side bar material? Its over there >>>
/r/askMRP06/10/15 01:48 PM
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Seriously I would push her on that. Next time she threatens self harm in would be on the phone calling the hospital or police. Down side is that if she is lying about that she may lie to the police too. You don't want her claiming abuse, even if its false.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 01:01 AM
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I agree with the non apology. "Honey, I've been thinking. I shouldn't have done X" Or "I should have done Y" Say it like you're in control and you got this. Maybe a kiss on the forehead for good measure. This has worked for me every time. If she presses the issue, you can throw in how the situation will go differently in the future. Keep the focus on you and how you're in control of the situation. Then drop the issue. Discussion over.
/r/askMRP29/09/15 12:17 PM
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The only thing I would add: slow the hell down! Too many people find out about TRP/MRP and jump in head first. Its like pulling the pin on a grenade without anywhere to throw it. Your gonna blow this shit up if you don't slow down. Its truly a marathon, not sprint. Its not a quick fix or that one trick Dr's hate gimmick. The red pill is a lifestyle, its a change in your foundation that must be calculated and implemented slowly and purposefully. /rant
/r/askMRP28/09/15 02:43 PM
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From part 2 that you linked above. "Spinning Plates doesn’t necessarily mean you’re fucking all of your plates. It’s more of a spreading out of your efforts across a wider pool of subjects. Some will reciprocate, and those you entertain. Others will not, or prove to be less desirable, and those you let fall."
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 02:35 PM
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Sounds like they should have read SJWs Always Lie by Vox before they conceded with apology.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 07:51 PM
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From the OP it sounds like she's digging for reassurance that the cologne is not for some other woman, ie he's not cheating. That would be a comfort test. If she's bitching because he actually left the cologne out and didnt put it away, then yes that's a shit test.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 06:35 PM
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I would consult a lawyer and have an exit strategy in the books before I talked to any counselor. By nature counselors, therapists, etc are manipulative no matter how straight forward or down to earth they seem.
/r/askMRP16/09/15 01:32 PM
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This was a comfort test not a shit test. You swatted it as if it was a shit test so you probably failed. You'll find out when you get home. Also, why the hell are you texting so much?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 01:03 PM
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Also, when she wants to talk let her talk and just nod your head in agreement. This seems like a case where op found am and aa and over used them. I think instead he needed a heavy dose of shut the fuck up.
/r/askMRP16/09/15 11:50 AM
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37 here. I chose to start buzzing mine. I caught a glimpse of my bald spot in a security camera and immediately decided that it wouldn't fly. Currently buzzing 2 times a week. Never bic'd my head before mainly cause it seems like a pain. Buzzing it you can still see that you have some hair there and you made the decision to cut it. My friends and family were initially shocked but grew to love it. In conjunction with my beard I think i have a good thing going. Just own that shit.
/r/askTRP14/09/15 04:45 PM
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I would have made two plates. Ate both in front of her and left. On my way out tell her the kitchen is dirty and needs cleaned. About scrubbing pans. I would have went out and grabbed a grinder and/ or a sander from my toolbox and and fired them up. Laughing as as I ruin her damn frying pan. You need to employ some a&a or fogging when you get rapid fire shit tests like that. Sometimes a simple "yup". Is all that's needed. Hey, you're doing that wrong! Yup. Then smile
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 03:28 PM
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When my wife throws a shit test my way about things that transpire in the bedroom I usually make fun of her for being a boring prude. It has to delivered with the right amount of humor and confidence, but its worked for me.
/r/askMRP09/09/15 01:43 PM
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This was my first thought as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/15 12:44 PM
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I had the same issue at first. I use beard oil and a boars hair brush every day after showering. Once a week I moisturize over night with jurgens unscented lotion. When I shower I wash with water only. Also steaming hot showers can dry you out esp the skin under your beard.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 03:49 PM
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Ignore and redirect. I'll just get up and say hey I'm going to make some coffee you want some? And then get right out of bed ignoring any action or word that has to with cuddling.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/15 01:33 PM
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Buy her a bag of skittles.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 05:02 PM
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This one followed by When I Say No, I Feel Guilty. Its a VERY potent one two punch, realizing the you are that nice guy following that up with how to communicate assertively.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 02:24 PM
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Not sure about ops high school but even the small public school my kids go to have very nice weight rooms. Kicker is that all the sports teams use these facilities. Talk to the administration at your school and ask to use the gym. Then go for it. If that doesn't work join a team of some sorts. Its like a free gym membership.
/r/askTRP18/08/15 01:37 PM
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When I Say No, I Feel Guilty is required reading and deals with passive aggressiveness through several techniques including fogging and negative assertion.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 07:49 PM
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Your situation sounds similar to mine. Speaking strictly on OI, I had to really force myself to use a proper tone when rejected in order for things to go smoothly. I found that anger popping back up frequently and damnit it just stings. I started using a form of a&a. For example if I was initiating and she said she was too tired, I would make fun of her in a way that is ridiculous while continuing to initiate. Like pretend I am calling the doctor because her being tired is a serious medical issu…
/r/askMRP14/08/15 12:57 PM
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Except for the banana emoji. My wife understands exactly what that means.
/r/askTRP11/08/15 05:38 PM
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Why talk about it at all and who cares what others think? Go with a generic a&a and tell them you got hurt rescuing baby lions in Zimbabwe or something. If they press keep going or change the subject.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 08:19 PM
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I think you handled it well. You did explain a little too much the second time she asked why. I would have went with an amplify tactic or changed the subject. It also could have been a subtle comfort test. If you're just lake sailing it's not that big of a deal IMHO. I lake sail by myself all the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/15 07:29 PM
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I started searching on Avvo and found a female divorce attorney that had multiple glowing reviews by other men. I actually found several and asked around on my own. Anyways I was happy with the one I found initially and was sold after my initial consultation. If your state allows, use your consults on all of the good attorneys so they can't represent your wife in the proceedings. It's dirty but it gives you a leg up.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 03:51 PM
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Most of the guys are younger as well as the girls. Early mid twenties to 30 probably.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 12:03 AM
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I drink black coffee as well as a pre workout.
/r/askTRP06/08/15 05:56 PM
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I deal with the late night initiations too. My schedule is such that I need to be in bed or close to it by 8:30. I wake at 4:30 and hit the gym before my commute everyday. Typically I will initiate and then tease her that if she doesn't quit playing on FB, or doing other piddly shit around the house that she's going to miss the show. Sometimes she misses out and I just go to sleep.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/15 05:36 PM
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You're missing the part where you asked this same thing twice yesterday. Nothing has changed since then...
/r/askTRP05/08/15 03:02 PM
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You asked this same damn question TWICE YESTERDAY and it's that same one that gets asked twice daily, Indian dude vs. blonde. What is your fucking problem? Do you need me to gently take your dick and guide it ever so softly into some blonde slut? Get off your ass and hit the gym. Be sexy. Get off reddit and go out and meet blondes if that's what you're into. If what you're doing isn't working try something else. Fuck....
/r/askTRP05/08/15 01:14 PM
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As a married man it's my dream that my wifey blasts off into space with no hope of return.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 09:09 PM
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Read the book "When I Say No, I Feel Guilty" by Manuel J Smith. It covers this plus many other techniques used to communicate with others assertively. If it's not on the sidebar it should be.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 02:58 PM
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/r/marriedredpill
/r/askTRP29/07/15 09:08 PM
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You're comparing apples to oranges there. Marriage is a bad deal for men. Between divorce rape, child custody slanted towards females, no fault states, etc. There is SO much info on the TRP subs that I am not going to rehash it. My suggestion is lurk more and educate yourself on the realities of Marriage 2.0 before you dive head first into it. Full disclosure: I did have a shitty marriage. Thanks to MRP I'm turning it around. Even though I have 3 awesome kids I would not get married if I got a d…
/r/askTRP29/07/15 08:32 PM
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Marriage is for chumps. Source: Married 19 years
/r/askTRP29/07/15 07:53 PM
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This right here OP. It takes time so you have to be patient. Keep working your ass off bettering yourself. She'll get the hint eventually and you can go from there.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 02:03 PM
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Father of two teenage girls here, one in HS and one in college. I can assure you, in general, most girls don't give a shit about your rims. Both of my girls and my wife simply want nice looking cars, no dents, no scratches, decent interior and matching hubcaps (or rims). My advice, replace the missing hubcap with a matching one from Mazda, and save your money. Edit: if the new one stands out compared to the other 3, a $10 rattle can of silver/grey plasti dip will fix that quick. Don't waste your…
/r/askTRP22/07/15 05:51 PM
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Battery - Metallica *runs head first through brick wall
/r/askTRP20/07/15 01:29 PM
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Unpack those new undies in front of her. That's awesome. Edit: to add to this sporting goods stores are also a cornucopia of fit women. Where I'm at (small southern town) the people of Walmart are a sad and hilarious mixture. The fit women congregate at Dicks, Hibbett, Academy Sports, etc. they aren't open as late though. I made this observation the other day while buying ammo.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 01:16 PM
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Read "When I say no, I feel guilty" there are several methods outlined and demonstrated in this book, that you should have read already, that deal with taking criticism in such a manner.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 01:14 PM
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Basically shes gauging how likely your are to leave her. She's trying to determine how comfortable or secure she should be in your marriage. Or to put it more simply how much you love her. It's important to pass these at least occasionally. If you had done the required reading you would already know this.
/r/askTRP10/07/15 05:20 PM
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Slow down. You need to read the side bar man. You're about to jump in and start screwing things up. Also, Go to the gym and lift heavy weights.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 03:41 PM
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/r/marriedredpill is the place to be.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 10:43 PM
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She called me cocky in front of my kids once, jokingly. I made fun of her for using "that word" (cock) around our children, youngest is 14. Good times...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 08:05 PM
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My wife says I am cocky all the time. I just laugh and say "I know". If she keeps on I tease her for being "no fun".
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 07:55 PM
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Who said anything about hating women? Haha I'm done!
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 04:51 PM
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In your last comment "Nothing is certain". Yet you are arguing for that certainty. I say you think you are certain because of your experience. You have lost frame if a woman has convinced you she knows you better than you know yourself. You have been fooled into thinking these things are certain. However "Nothing is certain"
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 04:23 PM
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It sounds like it. I'm trying to avoid divorce for now. I have a list of things I am working on that my lawyer suggested. It will be another year before it will be optimal to file. I am hoping in the mean time I can lead her into better health. Right now, minus one resent spell, the sex has ramped up. I am leading in all other aspects. My big problem now is that I am not physically attracted to her.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 03:36 PM
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It's not possible to know some one better than they know themselves. There is no grail. There is no perfection. There is no unicorn. These things are created by YOU in your own head. You can believe you're the perfect man. THE alpha. You are lying to yourself. You can believe she's that holy grail. That's what she wants you to think after all. Again AWALT. Having said that, if you don't know yourself better than anyone else on this planet. You are not the alpha you think you are.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 03:28 PM
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Yes. I am firmly at dread level 10. I have seen a lawyer. I am getting my affairs in order and prepared to file. We have had the talk, the main event, fuck me or fuck you.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 02:49 PM
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You don't have control over how your woman views anything. The only thing you can control is yourself. Having said that. I've been married for 19 years. Every day I work to better myself physically, mentally, and financially. However, I understand that at any moment the situation may present itself that my wife could be led astray. I have no control over that situation and the many other variables at play. I only control myself. You are hamstering a bit here in that you believe you know how a wo…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 02:22 PM
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Your take on the unicorn is skewed. Yes there are women who CAN be a unicorn to you. However that same woman may not be my unicorn. In your case it takes a very specific set of circumstances for her to remain loyal. You have NO CONTROL over those circumstances, therefore the concept of the unicorn remains mythical. They do not exist. One of the main tenets of TRP is that the only thing you can control is YOURSELF. Understanding this is key, and understanding that you have no control over your wo…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 01:15 PM
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When we married she was quite fit. Cheerleader captain on a very competitive squad in high school etc. around 110-120 lbs. pretty sure she's over 240 now standing at 5'1". Of course I was in much better shape too. I was around 190 and pretty lean. Been married 19 years and I gradually sloped off into fatassdom. Of course she followed suit. Now that I am turning things around she is very slow to follow. I am upping dread big time. My SMV is easily 3 points above hers. I have work to do still but …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 12:45 PM
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You've posted this same question six times in the last two weeks, including once yesterday. You need to read, lift, and start approaching. As you plate women you will learn what types you like and where to meet them.
/r/askTRP09/07/15 11:31 AM
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I would add to this add some light tailoring of your shirts. Also make sure those slacks fit proper. Between that and your point about shoes really sets it off. A nice belt that compliments everything is also recommended.
/r/askTRP08/07/15 09:23 PM
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You're right. Monday I ate too much. Still below my est tdee but I felt like shit yesterday. I am making amends this week though.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/15 04:15 PM
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That's where I'm struggling. I've gone from 330 down to 250, in about a year, at 6'1". Put on quite a bit of muscle over the last 4 months, mostly noob gains as I haven't lifted seriously since high school. People don't even recognize me. Even family I saw over the holiday this weekend were like who the hell is this guy? She knows I'm in the process of epic life changes. I've been dieting and exercising for over a year now. I'm just out of things to say and ways to motivate her to get off her as…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/15 12:57 PM
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Actually my partner is a bit stronger than me. I really push myself to keep up. Currently on a cut and watching the macros very closely. Went last night and made up for missing Monday. Plus side is my son came with me and got some pit time as well. Also glad I'm not the only redneck in here.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/15 12:52 PM
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This week I am struggling to workout. My excuse is that my gym partner has been injured this weekend and can't lift for at least two weeks. I know this is an excuse and I drug my feet and didn't keep my gym schedule yesterday. To top it off I ate too many calories yesterday. Blegh. This is my failure. I talked to my son late last night and have talked him into going with me and spotting. I'm hoping I can get him started on SL 5x5 as well. I'll resolve this ASAP. Trying to resolve this and create…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 01:47 PM
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I didn't read anything about lifting here. Your diet needs to be on point and you need to be lifting heavy. Make sure you're getting those squats in it'll do wonders for you. I'd be tempted to hit every doctor until I found one that would work with me. Also, in my state, there are a plethora of men's health doctors that deal exclusively with men's health issues like low T. Hit Google and see what you can find.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/15 02:04 PM
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Google "The Sex God Method PDF"
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 08:12 PM
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We've been married 19 years and I still have a bit of "sunk cost" mind set. That's why I feel like i have failed. On the flip side I know that I will be happy with myself no matter what I decide, no matter the outcome. I know that I have a great relationship with my kids and that I continue to develop that every day. Good luck to you brother
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 03:53 PM
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Lack of sex could indicate you aren't seducing her. Read MMSLP, Sex God Method, and Ian Ironwoods Alpha Moves. You can't fault her for not initiating sex. That is your job. Now go make those panties wet...
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 03:38 PM
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She took it seriously. She became mysteriously horny the next day but that was very temporary. My gut says she doesn't think I will actually file. The talk took place right before I went to bed. While I was laying in bed. I had withdrawn my attention quite a bit, and was just doing my own thin as happy as ever. She tried to start a text war one day so I shut it down and told her we'll talk tonight. I told her my needs weren't being met (we've had this talk before RP, this will be the last and on…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 03:05 PM
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I think at some point you need to make your expectations known. If she said she was going with and then flaked there should be a point where you let her know that she she failed to hold up to her word. From your post this step seemed to be unspoken. Remember you're dealing with a female and she'll twist that interaction to her hamsters liking. Now I bet she thinks she can go back on her word and get out of it with an after shower blowjob in the future.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 02:38 PM
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Since my last "Own Your Shit" I think I have made some good progress. Most importantly I have consulted a divorce attorney. Local female lawyer that is known to be ruthless. Had a good consult and come to find out, because the age of my kids (youngest is 14) and my wife's earning "potential" I may not be as fucked as I thought. I now have a list of actions to take to prepare for this outcome. At first this step felt like a failure to me, but now I realize it's an important step in the process. P…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 02:25 PM
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Yes. Pregnancy and breast feeding afterward does screw up a woman's hormones. The captain stays at the helm at steers his ship through the good and bad. So be the captain and weather this storm.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 06:51 PM
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That's code for "I'm not interested in sex with you". Been married 19 years and I have heard the same thing from my wife. Go lift and be attractive. Read NMMNG and MMSLP (Sidebar). They are short and great reads.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 05:10 PM
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Sounds like she found her beta bux in you OP. Saying she's not interested in sex with YOU is totally different than saying she's not interested in sex AT ALL. Which one is it? Women are horny my friend, so let that sink in for a bit. Now what to do about it? lift heavy weight fix your diet read the sidebar material You need to kick this off by working on yourself. So get fit and healthy and start reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 03:12 PM
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Nobody gives a shit about what the guy thinks so why should you. Also why the hell are you explaining yourself? You can end that shit without uttering one word. Smirk laugh, bring attention to important work at hand.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 09:34 PM
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Seems like a shit test to me. She was trying to measure herself up looks wise and was looking for that default bp answer about her being the attractive one. Not sure your answer wasn't too brutal but I don't think you failed that one. I would have patted her on the head and amusingly said "of course they're your genes" while shaking my head, chuckling, and walking away. Since you were blunt about it though I would stand my ground and continue to be brutally honest if she presses the issue. Only …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 07:09 PM
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Sidebar Reading: No More Mr Nice Guy and When I Say No, I Feel Guilty
/r/askTRP19/06/15 07:00 PM
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I'm on week 13 of SL 5x5 and my arms have gotten much bigger. To the point where people have commented on them now. If you want it's ok to work in accessory movements like bis and tris if you want on your off days just be aware that when your bench, oh, and rows plateau eventually it may affect your base lift days. If you're just starting out go with the base program. You'll see massive noob gains.
/r/askTRP19/06/15 04:26 PM
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This is real knowledge right here. Great post in summing up my wife and marriage perfectly. I think I need to make my own post soon and get some feedback. This type of insight is exactly what I need.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 05:33 PM
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Nobody gives a shit how tall you are except you. The minute you let on to your insecurity every woman you meet will latch on to that. If you have to put a number in a profile somewhere put 10' and if anyone asks tell them to meet up to find out.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 06:01 PM
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Ignore her. She's using that to get your attention for herself and an emotional response from you. Do not respond.
/r/askTRP15/06/15 05:57 PM
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I listened beginning to end. I really enjoyed it. Good stuff
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 04:40 PM
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Texting with a woman is a lose lose situation. Keep it to logistics otherwise steer the conversation toward sex. Men read texts logically but women take those words and twist them to their emotions. You won't come out ahead. In this case a simple "busy" is all that's needed. You have important things to do after all. Serious discussions can be talked about via call or face to face.
/r/askTRP14/06/15 02:49 AM
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Emphasis on many!
/r/askTRP13/06/15 07:34 PM
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"About 10 foot. How big of a cock can you handle?"
/r/askTRP13/06/15 02:39 PM
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Smirk Stifle a laugh "I don't trust anyone."
/r/askTRP13/06/15 12:43 PM
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You lost frame and then had a huge victim puke via text. Her panties are dry as a desert right now. The best thing you can do for yourself is shut the fuck up (ie, leave her alone for a minute) and read the side bar at least once. You're not going to dig yourself out of this via phone. In person, "I shouldn't have acted the way I did. It won't happen again." Then drop it. All her comments about being disrespected etc should be ignored after that point. Give her some space and in the mean time go…
/r/askTRP12/06/15 09:36 PM
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I believe it was NMMNG that went over drawing boundaries and not backing down. You Should go back and review that chapter real quick. Be firm and set a boundary, ie no bartending, no need to explain yourself too much because from your post it should be obvious to your wife. Stand your ground and follow through if that lie is crossed. Period. If she wants to cheat she's going to cheat because AWALT. Get your personal affairs in order and get prepared to boot her ass out.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 02:46 PM
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Go to your doctor and get a check up. Have them check your T and thyroid levels in addition to anything else he suggests that would affect your drive. I'm the same age same situation and it ended being my thyroid. It's important so get t checked and take care of yourself.
/r/askTRP10/06/15 02:39 PM
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I've been leaning towards sailing. I have two boats one is a racing dingy that is a perfect learner. I may do that this weekend. Just say let's go sailing and just go. Guitar is also a great suggestion. She's the only one that hasn't expressed interest in playing an instrument. I taught my oldest guitar and mandolin and my son is a drummer playing in a band and for the high school percussion section.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/15 05:54 PM
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Finding that common ground with my 14 year old is where I am struggling. I don't know what she "likes" besides boys and the roku. She plays soccer and tennis, BUT I feel like she plays at my insistence rather than because she is driven by her own motivations. I don't know how to help her create and cultivate that drive for herself rather than me "forcing" the issue. I feel like as long as her mother is a couch potato she has a built in excuse to continue her behavior. I have set an example throu…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/15 05:18 PM
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Mine are 14, 17, and 18. The oldest two are in the gym with me 3 days a week. I'm there 6 days. We also do hikes together in addition to playing soccer. All three play at the high school level. I have a very close bond with my son (17) and my oldest daughter (18) will be going away to college in another state at the end of summer. I am trying hardest to reach my youngest. She is like her mother in that she's on her phone and watches Netflix constantly. This is also a failure on my part.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/15 04:40 PM
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I have canceled direcTV so Netflix and Hulu are the only options. I have 3 kids and I may be hamstering that as a reason to keep Netflix. Thanks for your input.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/15 04:10 PM
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Been lifting and working out for a year now. Down about 80 pounds. Was ready to serve papers to my wife in January but found RP. Have read everything at least once and continue to internalize core principles daily. In my inexperience I "think" I have been good about swatting shit tests and passing comfort tests. My SMV is easily three points above my wife, but I can't get her off her ass and away from Netflix long enough to do anything heathy. She is overweight and unhealthy all around. This is …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/15 02:45 PM
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Finish nmmng and then reread it. Immediately after read "When I Say No, I Feel Guilty". If you can't pass a basic shit test, and then communicate like a captain, I wouldn't focus on the sex books for now.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 11:32 PM
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I haven't run into this yet. I would say make sure you're properly hydrated and getting enough protein. So far the fatigue is very temporary immediately after and tapers off later in the day where a little soreness may set in. However, I hit the gym at 5 am so I do have plenty of recovery time before we hit the sack.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 04:37 PM
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Have you read when I say no I feel guilty? Use a bit of fogging and negative inquiry to get her to say what she means. In fact I used this very thing this weekend. Mine has been saying that I have been "snippy' for about two months now, and wanted to know what happened to the old me. The issue she finally got down to was that I am cocky and selfish. I simply answered "I know". You see it was a slow change going from where I was when we dated to my super beta self. After finding mrp the change in…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 04:21 PM
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You're new so try not to move too fast man. It is really easy to screw up stoicism at first. It easily comes across as being butt hurt about something. Especially if she's pushing your buttons. She thinks she won and you think you passed a fitness test, but in the end, you're right where you started now with unnecessary tension in between you two. You did yourself a disservice by walking away from the conversation too. That also comes across as butt hurt. One of things that's easiest to do is fo…
/r/RPChristians
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You need to correct your text game. Texts convey no emotion, but women communicate emotionally. Therefore, any text you send she is free to interpret as she sees fit and come to her own emotional conclusion. This is bad for you. The ONLY thing I ever text to my wife, besides strict logistics (event is at x place/time etc), is sexual stuff. I turn everything into a sexual innuendo so she things about my dick more. Otherwise it's a lose lose for you. If you need to speak to her, call her. Always e…
/r/MarriedRedPill
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Four times in two days. I agree with u/abdada
/r/askTRP
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A man who has his shit together and is high value can be as picky as he wants. How difficult do you think it would be for him to find another woman or transition to group of classier friends. If what you describe is accurate, I would guess it would be very easy. If he finds drunk unattractive you can't change that. You can only choose to respect that boundary or not. Sounds like he doesn't want a party girl in his life, so if you want to be that girl don't party.
/r/askTRP
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Do you lift? If not look at Strong Lifts 5x5 and start there. Squatting 3 days a week made me a walking boner for 6 months. Do you eat clean? If not get that shit fixed. Eat real food that you buy and cook. Lay off sodas, sugars, processed carbs (well processed anything really). Replace all the shit food with chicken, vegetables, etc.
/r/askTRP
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I work with lots of Indian men in the capital of a southern state. I see them with white women all day long. All I see here lately is people being whiny bitches posting excuses.
/r/askTRP
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In the MRP world, which is where I hail from, I use it as a form of dread. Wifey rejects you, isn't giving you the sex you want, you need to instill a little dread. Basic example is to leave for a while, get away with no explanation. This activates the hamster. One option is to buy under wear when you go out. No explanation needed, the type doesn't matter. I've done this before, set the package in the laundry room and tell her, these need to be washed, while leaving them in the package. This pus…
/r/askTRP
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Head over to /r/fitness and ask around. Lots of good advice there. If you need to change up your diet I've been lurking /r/mealprepsundays. Lots of healthy recipes. Here's my daily: Meal 1: whey protein shake(w 2% milk), banana Gym Meal 2: 2 eggs scrambled, 1 small turkey sausage Meal 3, 4, 5: boneless skinless chicken breast baked, brown rice, broccoli I eat 5 meals a day every 3 hours or so. I end up around 1900 cals/day. 210 protein, 119 carbs, and 60 fat.
/r/askTRP
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In addition to something outlandish and obviously made up, make it like she's your secretary (in an obvious mocking fashion) and ask her to add it to your calendar. I'll be taking the jet to Ireland to wrestle mountain goats. Go ahead and pencil in brunch with Obama for 10 am Saturday on my calendar.
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