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Maybe I'm just jaded, but time alone behind closed doors even in a positive light (not a reprimand or eval, maybe just a meeting, and maybe even not with a direct report) can so easily be framed in a negative light later on when it suits her needs. Maybe you two are kicking ass during a project for weeks and it's going well. Suddenly when something goes wrong with the project, you were manipulative all along, said inappropriate things that made it difficult to work with you, threatened her to ke…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 04:18 PM
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The most kind, innocent, friendly woman will make stuff up and sell you out in a heartbeat if it advances her career. If you find yourself at odds with a woman in the workplace, see #1. Just because she agrees with you, says she is not upset, and is "fine," doesn't mean she's not on the way to HR right now. Your HR rep is probably also a woman. If so, then you're guilty. Most important piece of advice I offer men in the workplace is to NEVER find yourself alone with a woman behind a closed door.…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 07:14 PM
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I would hate to overlook the obvious... Are you cleaning up after yourself? Doing your fair share of the household chores? If not, it's not a test. If so, then carry on...
/r/askMRP23/10/15 06:10 PM
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Looks like the deck is stacked against you. Know when to fold 'em. That string of fuck ups cost you $5k. Cut your losses and move on. No reason to spend more money on it.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 10:08 PM
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No pets in the bedroom. When they scratch, open the door and spray 'em in the face. Be persistent. They will learn. Kids should be affraid to knock on the door. Do whatever it takes to make them that way. Use music, a fan, or some form of white noise to reduce distracting kid/pet noise outside of the bedroom. Depending on the layout of your home, kids go to their bedrooms for quiet time an hour before it is time to sleep. They can read, play quietly, or whatever, but they should be in their room…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/15 07:36 PM
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White knight sums it up perfectly. No, he probably would not have slapped his daughter. See #1. This is where it get's tricky. The boy needs to respect both parents and learn to STFU when it's good for him. Try calling it like you see it with your boss. In many places you will be fired for that kind of thing. If dad and son call out mom, son has successfully divided and conquered the parents. This is an instinctual tactic kids use to turn the parents against each other and should not be permitte…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/15 03:37 PM
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You raise a very good point and offer an interesting perspective. For me, it is only taboo due to the challenges it would cause me with little to gain. My need to know is less than my willingness to deal with the effects on me caused by knowing. I suppose if I had a greater need or a stronger frame, it wouldn't be as taboo, though I would still have to question the source of my need to know.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 07:18 PM
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Define "address." What goal would you hope to achieve by "addressing" the past? If you're already married, you've already ignored advice to avoid a CC rider. Too late now. My take for better or worse: If you feel some kind of need to know what she did, just assume she did it all and move on. If it helps, build up an image in your mind of her past alpha of all alpha's and become him. Do to her what he (in your mind) did to her. If she won't let you, work on yourself until she begs you to. Knowing…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 02:55 PM
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If it were me, I wouldn't even state that. I have WANTED to several times, and each time it was because I was in the middle of a shit test. Recognize it for that. If you respond with logic, you usually fail. Agree and Amplify, Amused mastery, or ignore. You don't have to explain yourself. You shouldn't explain yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 11:48 PM
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I'll second clue. GREAT app.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 11:30 PM
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A minor nuke event sounds like being slightly pregnant. You missed a few opportunities to STFU. If PMS is at play, you missed the importance of STFU. I try not to talk about working to improve myself. That invites questions or comments, neither of which I am interested in addressing. I will show improvement, not talk about it. Others may disagree. It is an elephant in the room, but talking about it only serves to invite shit testing. Talk about news articles like this are usually shit tests. Res…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 10:44 PM
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Those baby steps add up in spades. Intentionally speaking in a deeper, louder, and more clear voice has also done well for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 02:32 AM
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That anger right there is what courses through my veins when she does it, making it difficult for me to AA or AM.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 02:22 AM
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Yeah, I've been using "That sucks" a lot. It sounds out of place and repetitive, which is an indication of how bad I sounded before I subbed it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 02:20 AM
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I missed a workout session last week and let my eating habits slip a bit. Bagels and donuts being brought to the office. I lost 2/3 opportunities to exert self control. Back-to-school ice cream tradition and ate out more frequently than usual. No weight loss, but no weight gain that week either. Even just missing the one workout made me feel off. This week will be better. I picked up a barbell and some weights to start deadlifting. I can only do three reps at 180 without worrying I'm going to br…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 04:22 PM
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Some other guys around here with a whole lot more experience will probably give you some specific pointers, but I think it is a matter of being patient. As you get better, she will be more attracted to you. Careful not to turn it into an argument, but don't turn down sex either (I did that before I knew better and it didnt' turn out well). I've made great improvements on frequency, but my wife still won't do somethings she used to. It is getting better. She used to freak out if I touched her fac…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 05:18 AM
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It is annoying behavior and maybe needs to be dealt with, but she's sick, and you understand the request. Tease her about it, close the door, and be done My wife likes to ask me, "Would you like to get me a glass of water?" when I get up from the couch. Fair request, I'm up anyway. Usually, she's being facetious when she asks, so I'm game. Sometimes I say "no," with a grin. Sometimes I say, "I thought you would never ask! I've been waiting all night!" Sometimes I get her a glass of water and dri…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 08:27 PM
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I've almost lost a shower curtain that way. I like to stand on the toilet and peer over the curtain and just wait until she sees me.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 04:50 PM
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Only if I bought myself a few drinks first.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 12:35 AM
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I can see why. I was almost there. Hell, I even had "The Talk" a few times with my wife. The last time, I realized midway through it that I was so pathetic that I didn't even want to have sex with me. Deadbedrooms is an outlet to play the victim card and justify where you are. I could call my wife "low libido" and she would even agree, and I would have fit right in. But that would be the end of the story. I can't fix her. If I'm the problem though, well I can fix me.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 07:53 PM
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Without deadbedrooms, MRP would probably have a tenth of the subscribers it has now.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 06:51 PM
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That power rack link looks like a great idea! I suddenly have motivation to clean out the garage this weekend.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 05:24 PM
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Thanks! MMSLP was the first thing I read and my favorite so far. It really helped me to get back into a more playful mood with my wife and was a great introduction to hypergamy. I've also kept up on your podcasts and very much enjoy them. I'll check out "Wife Seduction" and "The Art of Seduction" next, as well as the other material you've pointed to. Just finished Sex God Method and will probably read it again to make sure it sticks. Thanks for the pointers!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 05:21 PM
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Keep working on it. I like what /u/strategos_autokrator suggested. I'm going to try working it up. A 10 second hug used to be impossible for me to pull off as well, but has got better.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 03:07 PM
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Great A & A example. I think I missed the opportunity for fear that it would make her angry (she was already anyway, so what is there to lose?) Old habits die hard. I'll get it the next time around.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/15 10:15 PM
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Gentlemen, thank you for the encouragement. I think a part of me was wanting to be resentful, but that would mean that my IDGAF is broken. I will make sure I don't change my approach, and hopefully start responding quicker and better to the shit tests. As I mentioned before, a great deal of progress has already been made. Just trying to keep the momentum going.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/15 10:13 PM
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My wife made a comment about me going to the funeral home and if that's how I want to spend my time. I took it as her saying...If you want to go see some people you hardly know instead of staying home with your family then so be it. So my response was "I wont go" and then her response was "Why wouldn't you go? Because I said something? That's ball-less. She just shit tested you, you failed, and she gave you the answer key. Be thankful for that. She's being patient with you. Learn to be a better …
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