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Hunter Biden holds no public office and has no power over any civilian in the united States, if your gripe is about a politicians son getting off the hook then you must dedicate a lot of time to that one specific issue across all of our government.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:50 PM
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Who said we need it to win? Conservatives have only won the popular vote ONCE in the last 25 years! So who's censoring who in this dynamic???
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 10:19 AM
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Na, right wingers know that most of there deeply held beliefs dont belong in polite society. My career overlaps with a fuck ton of conservatives and Trumpers and it never takes long for the mask of hatred to come off. Ya, if your an ass and a bigot I damn will will fight to shut you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:13 AM
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My wife is pretty much a shoe in being a veterinarian, but there is no reasons not to also do all I can to contribute
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:51 PM
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Pay mostly and a better work life balance is a big factor. And me and the girl are debating immigrating and a better job title is a big factor in getting accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:47 PM
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I'm an automation specialist tech, but most of it comes from my wide skillet. It's hard to find someone that can do all three types of welding, boiler systems, HVAC, and also know how to install and Troubleshoot PLCs. A expert of all and master of none is often better then a master of one. That being said I'm debating going full controls and becoming a controls engineer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:34 PM
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People haven't really dated out side of this time in history. Relationships have hysterically only been for economic reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 08:35 PM
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If your a millionaire then you have a lot of economically free time to both make yourself a more appealing match and to put yourself in a position where matches are more likely to happen. Can I have $30k for a house? Medical expenses whipped out me and the girls savings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:37 PM
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This can't possibly be true out side of rare circumstances simply because their are so few winners in today's society. Woman don't have unrealistic standards by any means and I've actually noticed a hug trend in both men and women being more willing to date someone out side of there socioeconomic tear. Both men and woman are struggling right now and that takes a massive about of eligible people who want to data off the market. It hard to date someone or date others when you work 6days a week or …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:23 PM
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I'm going to add economic problems. People are really struggling right now and that takes a lot of people off the market and makes it harder to have meaningful relationships with those who are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:15 PM
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Humans aren't cattle and this isn't rutting season. And that's exactly why men wanted to stick their dicks in as many holes as possible is a sign of a mental problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:47 PM
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I didn't say we should, I just said we shouldn't treat it as normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:43 PM
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If someone's in need is to stick their dick in as many holes as possible then that's a psychological problem. That's not a healthy or reasonable need. They can do it, they're perfectly allowed to do it. But that doesn't mean that we as a society should view it as a normal healthy or anything to even encourage. sticking your dick in as many holes as possible as about a psychologically healthiest stuffing donuts down your hole. One is perfectly fine, as many as you possibly can is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 10:38 PM
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From my own experience and the experience of the men around me, for most of them it's being either too shallow, too traumatized, or just not knowing what their own needs are. Yes us men are simple creatures, but that just means we have a few things that matter more to us. And it just means it's important for us to find a partner that can deeply engage with us on those few things we care about. Men have needs and those needs are perfectly valid. Men themselves simply have to acknowledge them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 08:54 PM
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I think you're generalizing it too much. Men and women are both generally equally hypocritical at an equal rate. I can't remember but there was some black filler who came on here a few months back with a study that basically showed how many sexual partners a person has based on their attractiveness. And it showed a very small percentage of people on both sides were responsible for the vast majority of whoring out. And other studies have shown pretty clearly that looks are only the third or fourt…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:02 PM
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It's pretty sad to say but the majority of red pillers I've seen on this sub are simply trying to get their sausage wet from as many people as possible. And it's damn hard to take people seriously or even care to help people who are so shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:06 AM
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Life with a healthy partner is for most people exponentially more rewarding and enjoyable. Their is nothing wrong with wanting to be solo, but be solo for the right reasons. Besides its not like woman have crazy requirements, be stable, a little funny, a few hobbies, a few showers a week. It's not that demanding. Hell all the things that make soloing successful make a healthy relationship more likely. Edit: this is exactly what I'm talking about right here. if you're shunning perfectly reasonabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:03 AM
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Who said it did, stop trying to argue with people who just want to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:34 PM
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Women are on track to be the bread winners of middle class households in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:26 PM
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I would argue that they are one in the same. Red pill is the exception rather than the rule so blue must be the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:49 PM
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I don't know man blue pill seems pretty happy. find healthy stable relationships that you both get something out of and can build to? Yeah that's the sauce right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:33 PM
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Holy shit what is this and this comment thread? Every now and then I wake up and look at a post and realize how well balanced I am when I see all this weird shit terminology. This is what happens when you spend too much time thinking and not enough time living
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:24 PM
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Damn, I know I'm second spoon for saying it but that's nice. Keep up the good fight and support healthy relationships!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:09 AM
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Dude, I'm an engineer and my wife a doctor. I'll damn well put my balls in the table as say whatever I am I'm a kilometer ahead of you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:16 AM
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I don't even have to, my life style not only got me a lovely wife who was out of my league but also gives me the freedom to lead by example. Your pathetic ass will just fall into some loveless marriage (if your that lucky) with some poor women you view as a sex toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:41 AM
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No it matters a lot because I represent change. You do not. You are the complacent one. You represent the problem because you actively criticize the change.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 04:26 AM
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I don't recall anything in Jung's big red book about treating people like chattel. And most of history is full of shitheads I don't won't to emulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 09:15 PM
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People are not a commodity and treating dating like shopping in a market is a path to complete failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:20 PM
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It's not hard to find dates, it's hard to find someone you actually want to be with long term. Yes there are lots of guys in the dating market. But it really takes very little effort to make yourself a top half type of guy in terms of appeal. Guys just have no idea what women want and when you tell them what they are doing wrong they are all too often unwilling to change. How many guys enter the dating world like they were going on a interview is depressingly said. Also a general lack of confide…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:29 PM
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Dude, watching red pillers talk about dating like its a supermarket is the cringes shit on Earth. They wonder why they are alone when they treat people as objects
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:09 PM
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Ya, except people in relationships have logarithmicly more sex then fuck boys. Sooo more like Betas Buk and Fuk
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:51 PM
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I assume all people are taking about actual decent relationships. If dude just wants to be a fuck-boy then this simply isn't the sub for that. Dude needs to hit up dating app subbs. I didn't say looks don't mater, I said they matter less then other factors like personality or economic success. If a person has tens of thousands of possible choices then why would you factor by looks first when it's the only random quality. Especialy when attractiveness is completely in the eye of the beholder. Bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 09:14 PM
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Although I don't agree with your logic you are still completely right on the output. There is simply no reason for a logical person to filter for a partner by looks first. With tens of thousands of potential match ups it makes way more sense to judge based on personality or economic factors. At the end of the day most people would be more then happy with an avrage or even below avrage looking partner if they checked off all the other boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:58 PM
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Don't confuse getting laid with having a relationship. Women aren't trying to get knocked up off a one night stand. If a woman is choosing a partner personality is always the number one selection filter. It's always then followed by skills, wemon who want long term relationships want a guy who can be financially successful. And looks is last. If your only judging things by one night stands then you I your correct. But the rest of us are focused on every day after.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:50 PM
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Most dieting advice is pretty practical people just don't listen to it. I mean I get youre depressing and edgy and shit but you only make your own side look worse when you post stuff like this. Like who would want to be a red pillar when you all look so helpless
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:30 AM
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That's the big cringe dude
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:39 PM
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If you think about relationships like a monetary transaction then you'll find a partner, but you won't find love
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 11:38 PM
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Diet pills don't work and they have a large community. Popularity has nothing to do with being correct. And large community is relative. It's more like we have a large sample size. I don't feel like linking the study but some red piller came threw here a month or two back with a study documenting averaging sexual partners based on attractiveness. Claimed that it was proof that looks are all that mater because the top 25% of guys had 6.8 partners while the lest attractiveness 4.5. But for me it p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:21 AM
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Nope, just a greasy guy with a pretty wife. It's real easy to think of yourself as correct when you are living proof of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:16 AM
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If you legitimately believe being better looking is more important then actually being a good person then you are probably a bad person. Obviously red pill doesn't work or there wouldn't be such a large and vitriolic community of them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:06 AM
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No, bluepill says personality is the trump card. And that's 100% a statement I will get behind. Personality will get you to places looks won't and will keep you places looks my only open the door for. All the rest is things you think bluepill means. As someone who surfes the bottom goop of the internet I can say that the ideal state of both blue and red pill is 85% the same. The difference is the approach and the goal. Red pill says to give yourself a high value to give yourself more purchasing …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:22 PM
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Ya, you can say that, but if someone said they were blue pill and gave that same advice in such a circle they would be downvoted to oblivion. Every time someone gives blue pill advice on this sub it's the same thing. Get a career, work on yourself, find some hobby, make friends. Make yourself the partner you would want. That's ALWAYS the advice successful people give. Someone's red pill when they say none of that matters if they don't have a diving board chin and a Ferrari. You can say red pill …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:59 PM
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I think youre confusing the stereotype of a "nice guy" with guys other people would actually call nice. All the women I know like a kind man. They want a balanced man. They want a man who has there shit together and helps those around them keep there shit together. And you know what? Everyone wants that. Ya looks can get you through the front door a lot easier, but they ain't going to keep you in the house, good character will do both. The problem is every red pill I've ever known is just mad th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:47 PM
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Because most guys who are successful in finding "romance" are blue, and they don't feel the need to whine about it on the internet. The sample size for salty people on the internet is way higher for people who don't have a person to better occupy their time. And red pill and black pill guys are sooo damn helpless that it's sad. The blue side always give the same advice. Work on yourself, find hobbies, find diverse friends including women. Be well rounded and nice and they will come. Red pill guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:29 PM
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It should be noted that it's "not having control", it's choosing to give that control to someone else. It's the ultimate act of having control in your life is to choose to give that control to someone else. It pretty common with both men and woman who have gone through trauma of all types.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 04:54 PM
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I'm a welder and didn't go to welding school. Welding is a pretty easy skill to learn. And because of that welding doesn't pay shit unless you work in a union. Read what I said again, you don't need a secondary education to meet your basic living needs. If you just want to smoke weed, party, and play games a basic middle management position at any place will do that. It requires no school and plenty of guys are willing to say "ya that's good enough".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 04:02 PM
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I reassert the casual sex isn't a problem just simply a consequence in a change in culture. And it's not like it's nothing new. Men have gotten away with using prostitutes for millennium guilt free. It's only now that women share the same privlage that people have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:10 PM
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There's not much of a point in it. You don't need to go to school to have all your basic needs met. Bettering yourself is a high cost for a relatively low return.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:34 AM
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Correlation doesn't equal causation You aren't actually providing anything to back up your view besides hyperbole. Could it be people just want different things? And those things don't actually need to be related to each other in any way. People with high partner counts are probably not interested on long term relationships. The difference between the 19th century and today is simple, our society has evolved. Not only are woman not baby factories, but you don't need kids to do manual labor and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:29 AM
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If orgasms are so importance to women that they'd rather masturbate id suggest they need a wake up call. Preferring to masturbate instead of have sex with someone you find attractive is a sign of sexual dysfunction Dude to be frank, this right here 👆. You don't know shit about shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:06 AM
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Historically guys have been pretty fruity and open with each other. It's only been in the last 150~200 years where this trend was bucked. And you can see how toxic that has turned out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:05 AM
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I don't like the word settle, how about accommodate? Settle makes it sound like it was all down side with nothing to counter it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:17 AM
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It would be like comparing a ceramic coffee mug to a cheap plastic cup. What does it say about a person that wants to comparing any living creature, let allown a fellow human, to something that only goes down in value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:15 AM
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Oof beta? Really? Dude you need to break your mind out of category molds. People don't fit into such easy segments
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:13 AM
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I don't know at all about this. There was post here a few months ago the linked a study that broke down attractiveness by number of sexual partners and it basically showed both genders were on very equal grounds. Even the spread between the best looking guys and worst looking guys was under 50%. By that I mean the partner count for ugly guys was like 4.4 and good looking guys 7.2. Hell the above average guys were at 5.9. So even going from the lowest to above average only gave you one more partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 03:08 AM
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Oof, that's cringey
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:54 AM
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No women aren't going to care if you're jacked, but they're really going to care if you're the type of person who's willing to put time into themselves. And going to the gym is the most obvious outward sign of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 02:04 AM
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It's like others have said, women do it as insurance. I just asked my girl and apparently did the same 🤷. Of course my Facebook was so old and out of date she didn't recognize it as my dating profile. She needed up finding my LinkedIn thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:09 PM
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That's just anecdotal evidence all around So you don't enjoy kissing? Or having your ears or nipples played with? You don't like having your pubes played with or your inner thigh rubbed? Not the feeling of having someone run there hands through your hair or facial hair? Not to mention all the butt stuff that's possible. Allllll of that and just the neck? I call BS. So yeah I'm dating sleeping with selfish people because women are selfish. Ahhh here the problem. Your looking for hookups, ya sorry…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 02:10 AM
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You need to believe!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:49 AM
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Yaaaa that can't be further from the truth on all accounts. Part of the early feminist movement (and the sexual revolution) was the general acceptance that woman could infact enjoy sex. Oh yes we definitely do, but you need to be in the mood for those spots to feel good. Any woman will tell you that just having their clit played with when they're not in the mood isn't pleasurable. Same with guys. You have to be in the mood to be a play thing and have your body explored. Again no, you are just sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:48 AM
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That's feminism, or part of it at least. And guys have a lot of spots. You just have to listen to your body and have a nice girl who's welcome to help find them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:36 AM
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Only some women actually enjoy that. Girls that do kegels are often too sensitive to do back to backs. Need to talk to your girl and find how long her cool down is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 01:00 AM
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Feminism makes men who actually know how to make a woman orgasm. Edit: you guys need to read up on how feminism and the sexual revolution are very closely entwined
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 11:36 PM
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My own experience as a guy, and meny of my female friends would say otherwise. I will quote one of them in saying "There's nothing hotter then a guy who puts the shopping cart back, hell make sure you cum" Women damn well know that attractiveness ain't going to pay the bills or make you orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:07 PM
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I think it's a problem the exists if not equally between the sexes then very common. And it's only a problem with people who base physical attraction as their most desirable characteristic. It goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 09:02 PM
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I'm going to be frank here, I've looked at your profile and I will be so bold as to say that most women dont fit into any even a similar belief as you. But that isn't to say that your view is uncommon or wrong. If it works it works. I definitely cater to my wife and I know a lot of men who do the same. But I'm catered to in return. It's a two way relationship built on the trust that such kindness and care will be reciprocated. Healthy relationships work because two people find common standards t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:55 AM
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Guys are red pill because they lost hope, either because they don't have the necessary skills to achieve success with women or they are just unlucky. Red pill has a lot of nice ideals, but they are just ideals and it has a huge heap of misogyny thrown in. Also mountain of hypocrisy. If you want to be in a successful relationship with any woman, no matter the personality type. Then you need to understand how to interact with women. We both want the same thing out of a healthy relationship but we …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 07:34 AM
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Hey my man I don't give a shit what you think, if you want to pick and choose to make straw man's out of what other people says and that's all you. But I guarantee you if you keep that attitude up you will be a turd
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:03 AM
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I mean does anyone really want a relationship with someone so shallow and devoid of soul that they would completely eliminate someone as a possibility just based on looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 02:02 AM
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That sounds like a perfectly healthy relationship 🤷. Plunty of people fall out of sex as they get older. If they're both happy then who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 12:11 AM
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If sex and learning about sex is all someone cares about then hire a call girl 🤷. They will be more then happy to play teacher for an hour if you're paying them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:58 PM
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God imagine being the type of ass who says "why do I need girl friends" and then wonder why your ass can't get a date 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:56 PM
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Those are also blue pill ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:54 PM
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I really doubt there is a single person so ugly that they can't compensate with other characteristics to get into a relationship. Once again, it's one piller of a three legged stool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:52 PM
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Of course physical desire is important, when did I say it wasn't? But most red pillers seam to view it as the fullstop. It's just ridiculous! Their is physical attraction, sexual attraction, and emotional attraction. And people wonder why their one legged stool won't support themselves??? That's the point I'm making
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:44 PM
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Just put it in your dating profile 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:29 PM
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Yes and you are completely correct in saying that, but it doesn't change the reality that the population is pretty much 50/50. You may very well get unlucky, you may waste the best years of your youth with someone who's is unfaithful or fall out of love with them. Its all probability and it's uncaring in it's unfairness. But guys have never had more resources to find the right one then they do now. You just have to keep trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:27 PM
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That is very true for both types of relationships. But hey the gentlefemdom community is growing and maybe they can find the girl of their dreams there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:24 PM
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I've never heard it countered 🤷. If you want to be a fuck boy then sure you need good looks because your only interested in the person for the length of time you can last in bed. But real relationships are built on emotional desire the builds as time goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:22 PM
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If all you want is to be a fuck boy then be a fuck boy, that's prime asshole behavior. That's just all confidence then and has nothing to do with actually being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:20 PM
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First I'm hearing of it. I thought the "make her laugh" was so accepted it was a trope at this point. Sure worked on my girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:16 PM
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Dude, some people are asshole. Hell a significant portion of people are assholes. If someone comes to me and says they have hobbies they go to the gym they take care of themselves they try to befriend people and they still can't get a date then I'm sorry I'm just going to assume that that person is an asshole. That or they really just don't know how to ask a woman out. This is Reddit we only get things from one side of the conversation. Of course these people who can't get dates describe themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:04 PM
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I think the problem is a lot of guys are assholes and haven't realized they're assholes. Ya you can polish all you want but a shiny turd is still a turd. Looks are just so damn irrelevant for most people because everyone is butt ugly at 6am on a Monday. But good partner is the kind that can make her laugh at 6am on a Monday. That's the shit girls want. Hell that's the thing everyone wants. I'm tired of hearing "if they could just get to know me then they'd see I'm good". No they won't, that isn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:47 PM
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Red Pill fell into a hate spiral, same thing with MGTOW and currently to Female dating Strategy. Any group made up of resentful people will more often then not blame their problems on others and not self reflect that the problem is themselves. You must remember that Blue Pill was started as a response to red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:25 AM
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Big oof my man, you pretty cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:55 AM
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If you think female attraction works in a significantly different way than a male attraction then that is exactly where you need to start changing your mindset. Just as plenty of guys look for personality traits first plenty of girls also look to see if the guys got a nice ass it works both ways. If you're only going to focus on one aspect of anything then it's no surprise you'll find yourself put into 1D relationships because you're looking for one specific dimension. I think sure might be sign…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:48 AM
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Dude using the word "normies" like that is cringey as hell. And if everyone's giving you the same advice, especially those who have actually had success and long-term success in the dating scene and relationship it scene, then maybe it's you that wrong. If you're the only one right in the world then you're the only one wrong in the world. I get the whole don't follow the stupid pack of monkeys philosophy. So it's not discount the fact that the majority of the time the majority is correct. I mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:45 AM
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Yaaa, that's a big no Hombre. If you want a good healthy relationship then you need to represent a good half to find another good half
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:30 AM
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It's like telling an alcoholic to just drink less. It's the hollow words you tell someone so you can feel self righteous. That's what OP is describing, and I frankly dont think that's the majority of the advice he's getting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 02:08 AM
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The bad actions of others don't justify bad judgements
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:54 AM
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So make yourself attractive 🤨 Loose some weight, get toned, get some self confidence. Just saying attention is skin deep is as shallow as skin its self.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:53 AM
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I mean you also have to take care of yourself, and bring something to the relationship. No one is going to want to be romantic with a train wreck, no matter how nice the train wreck is. As least no healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:18 AM
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No, that's a strawman, just as someone who would give that as "advice" isn't really giving advice but just felt like commenting and need empty hollow words to accomplish that. If what OP is critical of is advice like "get some hobbies", "find groups to be active in", "maybe go to the gym and work on yourself in other ways". Well that is actual blue pill advice, and he could rightly be critical of it. He'ed have little ground to stand on, but he could rightly make the claim that said advice just …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 01:13 AM
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It's not like it's any different. It's a universal thing for all subs that's important narrow-minded views. I mean hell go to r/publicfreakouts and see the comments under any video including a pitbull or a black person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 02:11 AM
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Place was toxic as hell. Started off with very good intentions helping guys get out of or work past unhealthy relationships with a lot of effort put into pushing self improvement. Then it just turned into a big misogyny pit when the red pill movement was gaining steam. Also a lot of bigots of all types were there at the end. Give r/FemaleDatingStrategy or r/antifeminists another year or two and it might follow the same path
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:24 AM
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To keep close tabs on the downfall of society
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:19 AM
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Oh ya definitely, who just goes up to someone and say "you're pretty". That's mega creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 01:39 AM
-1

Oh ya, both giving off the creep vibe. It also doesn't help the first looks like a mug shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 01:32 AM
2

Relative beauty has no effect on creepiness. Creeps are creeps and it doesn't matter how well chiselled you are
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:47 PM
3

Has their shit together and is confident That's all anyone can ask Also helps if you're funny and not a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/22 10:24 PM
6

I don't know, social media is pretty damn toxic and its very easy to get stuck in a hate spiral because of it. People are toxic, and social media can help justify toxic behavior instead of trying to improve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 04:28 AM
1

Or it could be that most people simply think you're wrong. After all a ton of us are in relationships and watch anime together, and view it no differently than any other show. Imagine thinking everyone that disagrees with you is a blackpiller 🙄.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:32 PM
6

The same kind of situations are replicated in Western media. Both in cartoons and movies you'll never find that stuff happening in real life. Not to mention books which are more out there than anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:24 AM
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Naaaw man, you got to choose the life a lot of these guys live. People choose to do what's familiar because it's easy. I get that it's hard. The shame of feeling like a worthless outcast. I fully get that. But some of these people (I've seen it from plunty of guys and girls) really need to push themselves to interact with humanity. They're are few traumas in this world that you can't overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 01:44 AM
-1

I looked at his profile and that was a rabbit hole mistake 😬 most women who go in the workplace and take jobs from men expect other men to support them. their ambitions work against fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:30 AM
0

I can fully agree with that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:27 AM
0

Yeah I'd say that the problem is is you need to be passionate about more than one thing. It's like a good food, it's going to have a variety of flavor. That's also what gives guys a lot of Hope because a lot of things that are pretty gross on their own can come together to make something quite delicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 12:19 AM
-1

Have you ever dated or even talked to a girl before? Because not only was that ignorant it was pretty damn sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:53 PM
39

I'm starting to think a lot of the men in this sub have lived their whole lives in a nuclear bunker and I've never talked to another human being ever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:52 PM
3

They don't want chaos, they want Passion. They want men who have things they love and are willing to talk about them. (And something beside, videogames or sports)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/21 11:46 PM
1

Well that was a decade ago and I live in Cincinnati it wasn't a big deal. It was a pretty casual thing in fact. It sounds more like it was an outdated practice and it's just how it's written in the books not that it's how society actually feels. We should petition to change that in the Coast guard handbook. Once again we are transitioning from outdated systems into new ones. That's sure not how airplanes work after all. Men are on average far stronger than women so they get leading combat roles …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:16 AM
1

Well those are just problems that we as a society have as we transition out of roles where women were seen as subservient. There's going to be growing pains. There's a growing movement of women who are taking the leading role in relationship initiation like that. I know men are very vocal about how they like it and that it's happening more and more. I know it's definitely the new normal for people to split date costs. Hey the first nicer restaurant me and my fiance went to she paid for and boy t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 01:08 AM
0

First off the boat??? Are you basing off all your ideas from 70 years ago? It's everybody in a filed line nowadays, women can join the military and the only reason we haven't added women to the draft is nobody seen the need for it. Men die the most on the job because we're more likely to have physically demanding jobs and physically demanding jobs are dangerous. For my experience all missing children are treated equally, girls are just more likely to be abducted. See this is what I'm talking abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:55 AM
1

I think it's going to be pretty anecdotal on both sides. I've known plenty of men over the years looking for idealized beauty standards and financial status when they themselves could be considered the bottom quarter of each. I think it's just a human nature thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:52 AM
2

What??? How did you get that out of what I said. Of course they can have a voice band when have I or anyone else said they can't??? They're just very biased, and instead of looking into their biases their burring themselves deeper in a toxic pitty pit and not trying to actually heal the wounds of their souls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:14 AM
2

No, it's men complaining about their own view of what society is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 10:17 PM
2

Love is personal relationships, to have people around you that you can help do better and do likewise for you. And it you look hard enough maybe someone to share your life with. MGTOW is about making people self sufficient and that just sound painfully lonely and difficult. Yes it's important to make yourself better, but that doesn't mean you have to do it alone. And you need to keep trying, if you find that the love you find is filled with negativity then you need to find a better way to find i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 08:20 PM
0

See, that right there is toxic as fuck. Society doesn't view men as disposable, that's how men with low self esteem view themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:56 PM
4

Because it's often not men going their own way, it's men hiding in a pitty pit. They take all the philosophy but don't apply an of the work. They just view it as validation for their own short comings. I get that you as an individual can feel strong and independent. But people are like trees, the strongest and healthiest tree will have a hard time growing as tall by itself and any average tree in a forest. We are social creatures and finding love with others is an extremely important thing that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 07:53 PM
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And it finds itself in the beginning of a hate spiral that all closed off subs find themselves in. Think of all the subs that ban outside thought as you'll see they have a lot in common. It's sad really, very sad. I see so many similarities between them and MGTOW and it will end the same. If people don't let love into their heart then it will always end sadly. Men and women need to talk to each other to reconcile their differences. Not fight. Not to play the blame game. And just like MGTOW, I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 06:44 PM
1

A lot of people like to live in the cave and will shun all who say they have worth and potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:37 PM
-4

I think its always telling in these conversations that people say man and woman and simply not 'another person'. It would be silly to say any other person could make you happier, but to say they are "rare" is just as silly. You're not looking for someone perfect, you're looking for a good enough mix to make something long lasting and special and I don't think thats anything short of common. That we as social creatures have the complete ability to live with others and love and care for them as th…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 01:21 AM
1

Na man, that really is just about it. Maybe add, find time to be with them. But no, that's it. At least it should be for a healthy relationship. I already covered that "the only way it ain't worth it is if you force yourself into a bad one".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 09:47 PM
0

What's your definition of "so many hoops"? Be clean? Have a stable job? Ask someone to go out with you? Don't be an ass? Those are some really low bars, not to mention all the benefits and payoffs. I get if you just don't want to be in a relationship. That I get and respect. But their ain't any way it ain't worth it unless you force yourself into a bad one. This isn't about a person, this is about someone to spend the rest of your life with. Effort and decisions that will pay off with uncalculat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 08:14 PM
1

If you could put just a bit of effort in and get it for yourself. And if you have problems finding the effort then maybe so self work first.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 07:13 PM
2

How is any of that relivent? Any of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:30 PM
2

Na man, most anti-vaxers are either ignorant or wilfully stupid. Ignorance I can understand, maybe you have a bunch of family members who are also anti-vaxers that you trust their opinions. Wrong but that I can understand. Or maybe you just suck at math and do you think a one and a thousand chance of dying isn't really that bad. Which is also very bad because nobody cares if you're going to die, we care about you taking up hospital space. Those are just people who don't have a lot of facts on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:18 PM
2

Don't forget that there will always be extreme. 15% of Americans are virgins at 24. That's 1 in 8. And that's 1/20 at 31. So you will always have outliers. And just because someone is good looking doesn't mean they even like, want or crave casual sex. Or even sex at all. I'm a pretty good looking guy if I don't toot my own horn but I just dont like hookups. Averages are a powerful thing, but box plot on this data would be way more useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:09 AM
2

This data pretty much makes them bigger losers then ever, if they wanted to be a fuck boy the only thing stopping them is themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:46 AM
1

Obviously it's not complete nonsense if it does happen, and it infact does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:27 AM
1

And your point? And it doesn't even have to be murder, what about rape, or the not insignificant change the guys just a creep or an ass. Woman have every right to be cautious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:15 AM
2

I think most women have realistic expectations because men hardly put any thought into it. Women know they want someone who has their life together, who knows all the right things to use his tongue for, and isn't a hothead. What do men want in a woman, well most would probably put looks as there first ideal untill they actually get to know a girl and realize its not actually that high on the list. Most girls arnt looking for a Fabio, their looking for the plumber Frank who's got a stable job in …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:38 PM
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People arnt logical, go look at all the anti-vaxers for proof of that. Work with reality, not against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:33 PM
2

You also don't hear about lightning deaths all the time, but male on female violence is pretty brutal and far more personal. Also men can be very creepy, lighting isn't creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:36 PM
2

It's completely worth it, and that's from someone who met his fiancee though OLD. It's great. Without a doubt the best thing thats ever happened to me. Someone to love and to love me back. And God damn the cuddles might be better then the sex. Just to have someone to scratch your back for you 👌. And it took TWO years of OLD to find her, so worth it. I would have looked for a decade to find her. And in hindsight I definitely don't care that OK Cupid cost $12/month.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:34 PM
2

Who said anything about women? People are that important. And just about everyone needs physical intimacy that has nothing to do with sex. Being with someone you view as your equal, your other half, and to always have you back is without a doubt one of the most rewarding parts of anyone's lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:29 PM
2

But my profile says I like videogames, hiking, and fishing! I'm different and need to be recognized as such. /S
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:23 PM
1

Just because something is statistically small doesn't mean it can be emotionally significant. And the strongest female is almost always weaker then the weakest male. Us guys can be scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:21 PM
2

I might be bias as a man who hates the dating game, but I think that's true for most people. Pill ideologies always have selection bias from what they see. Well if you only see people who want to be seen then you aren't going to look at all the people on the side who want nothing to do with the game. Men and women might be different, but we ain't that different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:16 PM
1

I personally think it brakes down more cleanly if you look at it from a economic prospective. People who are better off have time to take care of themselves and to dedicate to chasing the game. Personally I find bottom to medium attractiveness very approvable, I like it when people are real. "How was your day?" "Well honestly its been pretty crummy, but it's started to get better in the last minute." I think a lot of the things you asked are very situational and probably don't break down signifi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:48 PM
1

I was going with the "man of her dreams statement" actually, but someone being perfect would have both a emotional and physical component. That's not to unreasonable to expect. It's just also true that most people don't know what they want untill they have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:41 PM
3

https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2014/03/on-late-in-life-virginity-loss/284412/ Obviously an average means half will be younger then that. Don't be obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:08 PM
3

Out of all eight groups only two had significantly more partners. And heck I don't really even view attractive men's 7.25 that much higher then ugly mens 6. I'm not saying they base their ideology around that. I'm just say most of them probably believe it. That's what happens when you're full of hate and depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 09:04 PM
8

The average age of someones first time is 17, and this data cuts off at 29. So most people are only averaging a partner every 2-3 years. And I don't know about you but sex sucked as a teen because none of us knew what to do. And it's universally known that the people who get laid the most are those in long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:53 PM
6

Most women don't go after looks, they value emotional attractiveness more in the long term. Not being fuggly might get you in the door, but actually being a good partner will keep you there and not used like a fuck toy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:50 PM
11

Ya, but it also states that on average even the ugliest man will have more sexual partners the the most attractive female. Black pills ain't got any excuse for not getting out of their pity pits beyond their own stubborn will.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:43 PM
10

It shows that pretty much everyone is extremely close in terms of "game". That and the red/black pill idea that woman are fuck sleeve whores is a complete load of nonsense. (Although I don't expect evidence to change their minds) The only group of people that are significant outliers are attractive and very attractive men in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 08:37 PM
1

Ok, I can agree with that. I wasn't taking the statement that literally and was going off what I viewed as the implication of it. But this is a problem with any form of ridged sect, when the majority get hypocritical is easy to write of all. And I guess that's not right. I sure don't have a problem with the letter of red pill beliefs, but it's darn easy to sweep it under the rug when most examples I see fall far sort of the mark. But now I'm being a hypocrite for falling into selection bias. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:54 AM
13

Damn dude, that's some toxic thoughts you're having. If you see a bunch of shallow people like this in real life it's because you're hanging with a bunch of shallow people. Your basically complaining that fuck boys and whores go together and complaining you can't get a whore yourself. Who the heck wants that? If that's what you want then act like a fuck boy and be used like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:19 AM
2

This sounds pretty bias to me, I've worked with a LOT of girls had pretty frank conversations with them. Ive heard a lot of "why can't he just have his shit together" and "why he acting like a fool". Most women want the same thing as men, a competent partnership wear each other's strengths complete the other. And emotional intelligence which guys suck at by default. This is also a problem from a very good thing. Women's goals are out passing men's and partners want a relationship with similar go…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 02:09 AM
-1

Ehhhh, it's debatable. Like most "fringe identities" you'll get a lot, if not a majority, of people who just except the philosophy without actually living it. Just find your nearest religious hypocrite as an example. It takes a lot of work to walk the talk, and most people ain't got the energy. Better to just steal the identity for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 01:57 AM
1

Spending that type of money on a sper of the moment purchase isn't healthy regardless of the circumstances. But considering I'm a maintenance man and she a vet, anything below about a grand is just fun money.
/r/AntiFeminists21/08/21 02:58 PM
2

Or just have relationships with people you get along with and share common ground with. Changing a little to make a better whole isn't a bad thing.
/r/AntiFeminists21/08/21 08:12 AM
-9

Oh shit, now that you say it I just realized my wife makes me gasp pay half the bills. And now that you got me thinking she also must be a feminist because she further deeper gasp votes.
/r/AntiFeminists21/08/21 08:08 AM
-5

MGTOW got shut down so the dumbasses are looking for a new home to be dumb and sexist in. Continue to support strong healthy relationships.
/r/AntiFeminists21/08/21 08:03 AM
3

What in the heck did you expect to happen when you start a conversation call all young people morally bankrupt pessimists and then using your military service as a crutch because you couldn't answer a simple question. I never once talked shit about our veterans or your service. I talked shit on the military as a whole getting countless people killed for absolutely nothing. And talked shit on you specifically because you somehow think being in the service gives you some god level trump card for a…
/r/MGTOW21/12/19 03:09 AM
1

Sorry, I fix machines, not a writer
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/19 10:13 AM
6

What if your looking for opinions on drugs? Seams like a valuable resource to ignore. And what about you? You dont drink alcohol?!? Not even a cigar? I mean what ever floats your boat. Drugs are fun though, just keep it in moderation.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/19 09:15 AM
-15

It's good stuff, just make sure your happy with your life. It's like staring down your soul and being one with the universe. Not for everyone.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/19 08:43 AM
-39

It's fine, a few punches just make you swing harder in the next fight
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/19 07:25 AM
-56

When you win by 3 millon votes and the bigot still gets in office. RIP
/r/PussyPassDenied10/02/19 06:26 AM
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