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DiscussionTurkerthelurker/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 07:19 PM
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This was a good post. What will you pursue now that you've quit your job?
/r/TheRedPill10/11/21 07:29 PM
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They claim that everyone should voice their own opinion but bash yours if it's different. It is eerie how spitefully someone will shout to love everybody.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:12 PM
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While boys are playing sports girls are playing social politics. It's not good or bad, it just is. The sooner a guy learns that the sooner he can come to appreciate it. Edit: There's a reason that the Queen is so mobile in chess.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/21 04:06 PM
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Keep in mind the possibility that this isn't "real." She was given a platform to be famous. She is a pied piper.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 09:31 PM
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Consider the policies that led to the breakdown of the black family, most notably in the 80's- pushing crack & heroin, glamorizing gang culture through tv and music, implementation of welfare programs, and promoting the idea of single motherhood. Those same policies are peddled to everyone now. The recipe is slightly different- you have adderall, meth, and fentanyl. The gangs are more of the political variety. The end goal is the same- an uneducated, atomized population dependent on state/corpor…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 10:21 PM
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I think the point was to travel for your own sanity, not to meet people, necessarily.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:31 AM
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That wasn't sarcasm, her username is princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:23 PM
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Promiscuity =\= cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:24 PM
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If the man was able to sleep around, he was de facto high value - otherwise he wouldn't have had sex. When speaking generally, it's a pointless distinction to make. Of course not all high value men sleep around, but if a man is able to sleep w/ a lot of women he is relatively high value. He may not be high value to all women, but he is higher value than a large portion of men that could not be that promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:21 PM
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He was speaking generally princess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:16 PM
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Haha all good. That last part was brutal
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 09:07 PM
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The "dark" is referring to a tan. Eye color is very subjective and women have different preferences. Novelty is attractive, whether that be green, hazel, blue, or unusually dark eyes.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 07:15 PM
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Rural anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 05:05 PM
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Eh, in both of those situations often times marriage is for purposes other than live, attraction, or raising a family together. Your examples are so rare, that they are exceptions that prove the rule.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/20 02:54 PM
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Bro he's talking about how a guys wife perceives his admission of considering suicide. It's a harsh truth that people are often self-interested, and a guy mentioning suicide is the ultimate sign to her that her partner may be exiting the stage. She's worried about her own well-being at that point. That's why having good guy friends is so important - you can talk about heavy shit like that and not lose credibility in your girl's eyes. It's not a comforting thought, but the truth usually isn't.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/20 12:02 AM
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Y'all are in agreement. He's saying busy people value keeping busy. And its so true. There's a song called I Wanna Get Better and the singer talks about "putting a bullet where he shoulda put a helmet" to kill his over-analytical mind. Especially now with agendas coming at you from everything- social media, advertising, movies & music. A lot of these thoughts aren't even your own. You gotta silence your mind and just do. Which is much easier said than done.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 11:56 PM
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Are you making the argument that they can't or shouldn't regulate what goes on the site? I just think there should be more transparency. Don't advertise yourself as a discussion platform (the site was founded as a free speech platform, read about Aaron Shwarz), or use that legacy, while simultaneously censoring things. They know if they were more upfront about that, though, their userbase would plummet. Because you can't get rid of the bad fringe without getting rid of the good, and the good fri…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 07:50 PM
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They can regulate what goes on in their website. Then they are acting as publishers, at which point they are responsible for everything posted on the site - including the shadier lesser-known subs.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 07:28 PM
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Well people do say those awful things as it turns out. You have two options: not let those words have power over you, or begin a purity spiral that leads to the destruction of America's founding principals. You act as though bad actors don't exist. If I wanted to end the first amendment, false flagging hateful comments would be a great way to go about that. You are on TRP so I assume you've taken some agency over your own life, try to apply those concepts across the board.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 06:44 PM
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I was giving an example for something that is considered hate speech And I'm telling you, that using the phrase hate speech is entering somebody else's frame. If somebody is saying ignorant things that passionately, try to understand where they're coming from. But they aren't saying that, because nobody fucking says that. And if they did, nobody is listening because %99.999 of people find that type of talk abhorrent. Your example is a burning-man-shaped logical fallacy. Once you agree to the con…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:55 PM
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They thrive by making you feel tiny. Here we are on one of the most "progressive" platforms, openly discussing contrary ideas. And more and more those ideas seep into reddit conversations. Recognize how extremely manipulated the site is and still the truth has a way of trickling through. They walk a fine line. They cannot ban mgtow, because then they spread to the rest of the site (same reason RP is quarantined). The mainstream media's voice is very, very loud, but becoming increasingly unpopula…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:50 PM
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So joking about lynching niggers and pushing black people out of your community is friendly banter? There's definitely a line between distasteful banter and outright hate filled bigotry Cool strawman, where is that going on and why not separate yourself from it? Do you think trying to forcefully shut down that conversation is going to change those peoples' minds, or further convince them they are right because their speech is being oppressed? Who do you want to be the arbiter of hate speech? You…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:17 PM
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Huh? One man's hate is another man's banter. There are things that can be said out of love misconstrued as hateful. There is no hate speech, there is only free speech.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 04:31 PM
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I agree that hate speech needs to be moderated How anyone on RP can say this is laughable.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 03:34 PM
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You just described how evangelicals feel.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 07:55 AM
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Overall, I'd say its good- at least for high value guys. Sure, if you value meaningless sex without procreation. If you give the slightest fuck about your neighbors and nation, it's not great.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 12:28 AM
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Weird, it's almost as if tradition and culture have worked for thousands of years to curb this behavior only to be tossed out the window in the name of progress.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 07:50 PM
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I just had to clap back cause you hit me w that “it ain’t rocket science” which is short for “get some common sense, dumbass” 🤣🤣 Haha all good
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:33 PM
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Lol maybe I'm buttmad. My point was that it gets more normalized as you get older.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:06 PM
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Casual sex isn't all that common in highschool. It becomes way more common in college and afterwards. Not rocket science.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 05:17 PM
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It's not a brigade, it's that a lot of guys can empathize with the issue. How old are you? Have you even considered how early and easily young men today have unlimited access to porn, and just how subversive the porn has gotten? You don't seem to be commenting in good faith.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 12:46 AM
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What a weird hobby to go around telling people who self-report that they have a problem with porn that they don't have a problem with porn.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 11:10 PM
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I'd say a noticable change in drive/ambition at 7 days. At 2 weeks I feel like my nuts are gonna pop off.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 08:56 PM
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If for no other reason, than to protect yourself against a rape claim. Aftercare is important.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 11:59 PM
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r/ incels was banned
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 09:31 AM
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Seriously. OP is 44% upvoted wtf ​ Edit: And now the % upvoted is missing. This site fucking sucks
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 02:34 AM
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Really enjoyed this post. Your writing is reminiscent of Chuck Phalunkadunk. It made me think back to my confusion of dgaf attitude and actually not giving a fuck - in the depressed sense of not giving a fuck about anything. The author is going through the motions, playing the game without recognition of why they're playing. All to plan on doing the exact same thing again. The real challenge is to give fucks. To seriously open up about your passions, to make it known what you are interested in -…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/20 10:50 PM
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and we were coming off the 101, up in the valley. So the snl sketch Californians is true...
/r/TheRedPill09/01/20 07:11 PM
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Oh for sure. That's an inferiority complex he's gonna have to sort out regardless of whom he's dating.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:21 PM
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Lol he was a pro soccer player, so he's already a part of a tiny desirable niche - even if it was in the past. My point is that a less-than-yoked physique doesn't really matter when the guy already has (or had at the time) high status.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 07:58 PM
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He doesn't seem to be in denial about it. However, there is an ongoing trend of guys trying to super beta-bucks their way into success - or at least that's a lot of the advice being given. ​ OP: You are 30, tall, successful, and own a house. You are one puppy away from having "MARRY ME" stamped on your forehead. It's not a bad thing, especially since you said you're looking to settle down soon - a good call considering you want a family. Just recognize that women will recognize this too, and beh…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 07:52 PM
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also means he’s likely built like a twink Yeah, so are most rockstars. ​ at his peak made $50k a year nothing to worry about Alpha fucks - this is irrelevant. I'm not saying OP should seriously be concerned by the previous guy, but also sounds like some serious cope going on in this thread.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 07:44 PM
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Sounds kinda anti-semetic :p
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 10:19 PM
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You're making the mistake of talking. Your actions are how you would convey what behavior is appropriate or not. Would you lecture a child on every minute transgression, or correct occasionally and lead by example? Obviously women are on a spectrum, so yeah a low quality chick might be too far gone to be worth the investment. But in all likelihood, lack of attraction is the issue in that case.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/19 11:48 PM
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Does the distinction matter?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/19 08:46 PM
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It's a testament to the banality and resulting nihilism from the modern workplace. Women can see how unfulfilling their work is, yet hold steady to the idea that they want meaningless sex and to forgo motherhood.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 07:51 PM
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The cause is pretty simple- a deviation from natural gender roles. That plays out all sorts of ways in society, but the root cause is pretty damn simple.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 07:48 PM
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Im done being a useful idiot for a bunch of animals at the top. I'm done being a slave to the machine The Beast. You bitches better learn to breathe underwater Transitioning to the age of aquarius. You touched on a lot of symbology I've been noticing recently. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 08:48 PM
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Excellent post. ​ Ever heard the saying that “men love women, women love children, and children love puppies?” It’s held true in my experiences. This is what I believe the hierarchy of love is. I like to complete the loop by finishing "and puppies love men."
/r/TheRedPill15/11/19 08:47 PM
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Because you aren't designed to be literally alone. The lone wolf dies. Human interaction is a fundamental need. Hence the RP also advocating you form a tribe of friends and acquaintances.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/19 11:25 PM
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Most girls lose their virginity between 13-16 yrs old these days. Guys are a wider range, but I would guess 14-19 yrs old is the norm. Not sure if that's what getting banged out refers to
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 08:28 PM
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The NPC meme is all too real. ​ Theres a reason why its Netflix and Chill and not just Chill. Well put. I'm stealing this.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 09:29 PM
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​ If you say anything that deviates too much from NPC script, they'll freeze awkwardly like a deer about to get plowed by redneck in a Ford F-150. Speaking of plowing into maladjusted half-retarded animals Goddamn that was a brilliant segue. They experience reality as a quasi-schizophrenic series of unrelated events because that's how reality is felt on the internet. Since most of their waking day is spent immersed in smartphones, they understand physical reality as if it's virtual reality. When…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 05:47 PM
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While boys play sports at recess, girls are playing politics. Men evolved to manipulate their environment, women evolved to manipulate men. It's not good or bad, it just is.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 01:53 AM
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Yeesh what an emotional response.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 06:00 PM
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On the left you have collectivism, hence the focus on minority groups and proponents of social services. On the right you have individualism, hence the focus on constitutional rights. On the left you have way more major-city dwellers (a collection of people), and on the right you have more suburban and rural (value of personal space at the expense of social programs). You can argue all day on if those labels actually produce the results they claim to support, but yeah, its pretty self-evident: s…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 05:12 PM
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There's an obvious correlation between being right-leaning, and valuing the responsibility of the individual to improve themselves.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 04:53 PM
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Save this comment so you can read it again in 10 years.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 05:30 PM
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Unless you want to have a family and raise children.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/19 05:59 PM
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Suddenly less competition in the work place, meaning higher salaries, meaning men can start to solely provide for families again, meaning women find more men as suitable partners (since women rarely "date down"). Without the focus on outcome equality, resources can be used to place the most competent men in the right positions. Erroneous departments like HR can downsize. All the funds being put into ineffective women in STEM campaigns can be put to actual use. The incentive for a lot of poisonou…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/19 04:31 PM
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What about fluoride in toothpaste, salt and milk? Do you know when they started putting fluoride into the water and other stuff? Put on your headlamp and head down the rabbit hole.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:21 AM
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We deal with the obesity epidemic and there will be a lot more attractive people. As the counter-culture becomes popular culture, we'll see a swing towards more traditional ideals, and this will improve. Or we'll see massive amounts of violence and unrest, and that also has a way of enforcing traditional values. The only certainty is that the steady encroachment of SJWs and degeneracy into popular culture is unsustainable. How long that swing will take is up to debate, but personally I think we'…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:17 AM
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That's like saying taking down a photo of your ex from a picture frame is a sign of weakness. Although now that I think about it, that's alpha/spergy af to have a wall of past exes.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 08:18 PM
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It's time we close the height gap! And the weight gap! And the baldness gap! Erm, and the voice tonality gap. ...And, christ, the shoulder to waist ratio gap? Geeze turns out there's a lot more than sex affecting the wage gap.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/19 09:27 PM
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My current job (lifeguard at YMCA) is filled with toxic femininity (my boss's are women or gay men for some reason) and i find it hard to keep masculine frame because theyre all so feminine. Unfortunately that's the case with a ton of corporate jobs - especially the larger ones. All it takes is the presence of somebody too feminine and an hr department, and suddenly everyone is walking on eggshells. Ive been thinking about doing construction or some kind of manual labor job so that i can develop…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:41 AM
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Do you mean being 100% sure in the actions you take? Not who you responded to - no idea what that guy meant. You'll never be 100% sure in your actions, you just have to make the best decision you can with the information you have at the time. Keep doing that, and you'll find yourself with opportunities that you never could've imagined or planned. If you listen to enough stories of people finding success, you'll often find they have a few "crazy but perfect scenarios" that worked out for them, th…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:19 AM
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Listen to Mike Rowe (from dirty jobs), then get into a trade. Masculinity is about doing, and while you'll find some alpha behaviors on wall street and among the socialite crowd, you'll also notice some glaring insecurities and feminized behavior. In the trades you'll be around men, learning valuable skills that have a seamless transition into being self-employed/business owner. When you're in your early 20's, you may think you're missing out. When you're in your mid-20's, you'll be not just deb…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 05:14 AM
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Ask your friend about her, and show clear interest. Possible outcomes: Friend suggests to you "want me to put in a good word for you?" Great, it was her idea, too. Friend doesn't suggest, but they'll talk about you anyway. 2a) Chick is interested she'll basically have her friend set you two up. 2b) Chick isn't interested in being set up, no harm done. You're overthinking it.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:49 PM
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Guys like you totally need to put a stop to this by meeting in your trailer park Ah, shame tactics, nice. Don't see those used to coral men away from wrong-think very often.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 05:39 PM
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I cant make sense of a thing you just typed out.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 07:16 AM
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Every Shrill SJW Shrew is on birth control. Their behavior makes a lot more sense once you realize their acting as if they were pregnant. Studies show women prefer low-T facial features in men when pregnant, too. Helps explain how they can tolerate male feminists.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 09:22 PM
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Essentially, she sees each individual trait as within her league, and then gets upset that they're not all in one guy. Great point. Combined with the tendency to see the past with rose-colored lenses, and not even her own ex-alpha would live up to her fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 09:17 PM
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China, India, and Africa are having way too many kids! "Welp, better ship them off to western countries, surely that'll fix the root of the problem!"
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 09:09 PM
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The way women treat their "fur babies" and the short-sided emotional appeals in regards to "refugees" look like misguided maternal instincts playing out across western societies.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/19 09:06 PM
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And holy shit what a work out. Intermittent sprints, squating/lunging, climbing, and mentally exhausting too.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 01:59 AM
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Yeah. Take a peak at whats happening in South Africa.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:36 PM
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Good, then we should be able to agree to unite against the marxists peddling this propaganda.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:35 PM
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What the actual fuck are you talking about.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:32 PM
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And since it keeps coming up- no, dollar shave club is no better, its owned by unilever.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 03:29 PM
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Fun fact: Trigger is also a term for the cue word or gesture that activates someone that has been hypnotized. Hypnosis is real, and it works, but it requires a willing participant. Now when an SJW gets triggered, what is happening? They lash out or feel extreme discomfort after hearing certain words- fag, nagger, tranny, what have you. They are responding as programmed to their TRIGGER WORDS. How is one programmed? By consuming passive media & information, whether through the msm (television PRO…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 09:51 PM
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Much like how conspiracy theories give the believer the illusion he/she knows something others don't. It's certainly powerful to believe that you understand the truth while everyone else is believing falsities. Eh, being able to identify something as false does not mean they've arrived at the truth. I'm a conspiracy theorist in that, once one applies a little scrutiny, many official narratives are clearly bullshit; but it would be pure hubris to claim to know the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 09:34 PM
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Well said. Likely lashing out due to cognitive dissonance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 09:28 PM
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All that is based on the little piggies actually helping those in need and not spending it trying to keep up with the Jones. "I know how to spend the fruits of others' labor better than they do."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 10:40 PM
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Not really since many politicians have their snouts in the trough too. Correct! Now we're getting somewhere. Imagine every little piggy in a country has a food trough. They send that food to a really big trough in the capital. The capital distributes that food to other less fortunate piggies. The capital's trough is really really big, though, and a lot of bad pigs want access to it. These bad pigs come from all walks of life, some bad pigs work in businesses, some bad pigs work in the capital. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 09:54 PM
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The government can close the loopholes and ensure they pay their taxes. The foxes watching the hen house have the hens' best interest in mind, surely! Stop making excuses for rich people not paying their fair share. Its pathetic. Huh? I've explained how they avoid paying taxes, not justifying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 09:38 PM
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doesn't allow large scale tax evasion. You do realize that the ultra-rich are able to avoid taxes right? They can afford accountants to utilize every loophole, set up shell companies and charities for write-offs, and use off-shore tax havens to avoid payments. The middle class is who gets hit heaviest by taxation. Honest people get hit heaviest by taxation. The sociopaths and liars, the ones that would not help (in the case of your question "what if people won't help?"), are the ones that stand …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 09:22 PM
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Your just racist Oh good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 09:13 PM
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Soulless and lacking empathy? No, just a fundamental disagreement on how to best help people. I'd rather people get help from other people in their community. With lower taxes, individuals have more money to be altruistic. When you inject the government into that transaction, you get wasteful spending. You get corruption. You get a bureaucracy dictating where those funds will go and how they will be spent. Social programs to the extent you speak of can work well in homogeneous societies in which…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 09:04 PM
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I for one want tax money to fund a welfare state and free healthcare and not for politicians vanity projects or wars or nuclear weapons What if I want taxes to go to national parks and building a wall? What if, as a compromise, we massively cut taxes across the board, freeing up 20-40% more income for individuals to decide how to allocate their own money? They can even decide to implement more taxes at the state level if they so desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 08:46 PM
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I don’t necessarily think it is a BP mindset to want an LTR. R vs K selection breeding strategies
/r/askTRP28/11/18 04:17 PM
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One of my own personal favorite places to find higher quality women is Rec sports leagues/events such as triathlons, trail runs, bjj tournaments, Ultimate Frisbee leagues...much more my style and they tend to attract a healthier, more wholesome kind of person than anything in the party scene. A massive +1 to this Paddle boarding, popular hiking locations, 5k/10k/Half marathons, kayaking, volleyball leagues as well.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 04:15 PM
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To be fair, even though awalt stays true in every woman, they are people too; not all women are going to be like shit, it’s Guys around here often joke that the way to break up with a bipolar chick is to do that: be attentive, vulnerable, talk about your fears, and she'll do the breaking up for you. One of those funny cuz it's true things.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 11:19 PM
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I’m not talking about playing captain save a ho. The goal is still to become a rp man with abundance mentality. If you can truly enjoy the decline, go for it. I’m speaking to those that don’t enjoy the decline, or don’t take pleasure in the idea of enjoying the decline. I’m talking about those whose “mission” is opposed to “enjoying the decline” by sheer conflict of interest.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/18 01:12 AM
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I find the phrase of "enjoy the decline" to be a good example of that. On a personal level, we advise one to embrace reality, accept the blame that only the individual can improve their own situation, and acknowledge that personal responsibility and a mission are what give men's lives meaning. But when it comes to the level of society, the advice is essentially "fuck it, that's out of your control." What if enjoying the decline accelerates the decline? How does that play into personal accountabi…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/18 08:50 PM
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The caveat being that you actually enjoy MGTOW. So many seem to use it as a crutch.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 10:18 PM
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Fair enough, both analogies work. Reminds me of this parable from the Tao te Ching: Thirty spokes share the wheel's hub; It is the center hole that makes it useful. Shape clay into a vessel; It is the space within that makes it useful. Cut doors and windows for a room; It is the holes which make it useful. Therefore profit comes from what is there; Usefulness from what is not there.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 02:56 PM
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More like women are the liquid that take the shape of the vessel they're in (a relationship or interaction). Without a solid vessel, they go with the flow, move freely, etc. describing hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 02:40 PM
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Single women: - Need to pay for their own apartment, vs living at a guys place - Need to get a job to pay for their place - Spend money going out to bars, and buying things to try to fill the emotional holes in their life. That's feminist saying consistently revolve around a theme of "Work is freedom, relationships are oppression". To a lesser extent, the additional spending goes both ways. Men spend money on restaraunts & dating, on video games, it requires both men and women to be employed, to…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 02:35 PM
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This isn't about liberal ideology but about top management / investors wanting to make money. Do you think companies want to see their ad on a "woman hater page"? The media is consistently making moves these days that are hurting their own bottom lines. It is foolish to think this all blindly motivated by money - and not power & influence. When all signs are pointing to viewers being tired of the political witch hunts, why are they continuing and getting more ridiculous?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 02:18 PM
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There are ample studies showing that having a mother and father are the single biggest predictors of a child's success. At the very least, the lack of a father would mean she had to have had another positive male role model in her life to identify the traits of a good man. She would need to see how a good woman, wife, & mother would nurture those traits. So no, that mindset isn't IMPOSSIBLE for a girl without a father around to develop, but it becomes way less likely.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:06 PM
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As in focus on the physical sensation that your body is experiencing as "pain", rather than the causation of that pain? Yes. The problem for OP is that he feels guilt for a feeling that is totally normal. The message that has been engrained in media and "popular opinion," contrasted with his gut feeling, has put him in a state of cognitive dissonance - which is extremely uncomfortable. This is the ego being at odds with his self. So meditate on it. Feel the lump in your throat, or the weight in …
/r/askTRP25/09/18 06:00 PM
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And the Roman Empire fucking collapsed, furthering his point. Christ you sound awfully emotional. “women are destroying societies because they fuck who they want and who they want to fuck is always the incorrect choice!” He isn’t blaming women.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 05:27 PM
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Seems like woman bashing to me and thats not what this place is for. He is suggesting we share the blame by facilitating the welfare state. The exact opposite of "woman bashing."
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 03:42 PM
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Maybe you're right, but I'm not going to use women as scapegoats for every single thing that is wrong in society. This game has two players and both play the game. Their fault is being childlike, ours is thinking with our dicks. Bro I think you guys agree. He is suggesting that perhaps not just men, but the mindest promoted by TRP, are a part of the problem.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 03:40 PM
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This board promotes promiscuous behavior. Maybe it is part of the problem. I'd like to see a discussion on this. Personally, I'm thinking it is a part of the problem.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 03:38 PM
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Handouts breed greed, not gratitude. Dependence, not self-sufficiency. They can be met with gratitude when it is a gift coming from a) an actual human and b) done out of benevolence. When someone receives aid from a small community, or perhaps a local church, they are likely to feel indebted to pay them back. When it is a faceless government, both taking and redistributing, without the intention of EVER easing the recipient off of welfare, there will be no gratitude. But, that is further argumen…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 03:36 PM
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You guys are being obtuse because reality is contradicting your ideology and you refuse to accept it. It really does seem like a lot of commenters are either intentionally obtuse, or so unable to think critically that to call themselves "redpilled" must be hyperbole. There's a huge cognitive dissonance issue that arises from TRP: - Enjoy the decline, accept things as they are. - But also, a man is self-reliant. The only way to get better (at anything. Gaming women, fitness, etc.) is to shoulder …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 03:20 PM
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No, it's blue pill to think their are contributing factors period. Hypergamy occurs naturally in women in the same way a sex drive occurs naturally in men. By "bring out hypergamy" he means that factors, such as the welfare state, increase the likelihood of acting on their hypergamy. That actions like shame and ostracizing can curb that innate behavior. No, it's blue pill to think their are contributing factors period. So no, there are definitely contributing factors. Do you think the women cove…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 03:16 PM
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The welfare state doesn't enable hypergamy. Women only branch swing (ie Hypergamy) when they firmly have their hand on the next branch, and can reasonably risk switching partners. The welfare state reduces the risk of a failed branch swing, making it more likely. And that's just welfare. Alimony and child support work in the same detrimental way.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 03:07 PM
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Bud, I've seen people have a bad week in their ventures & threaten their house. Obviously there's possibilities between a black/white risk/no risk lifestyle. You can mitigate risks. What is the point of this whataboutism?
/r/askTRP05/09/18 08:13 PM
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Experiment and make small gambles in stocks or cryptos to learn how trading works (crypto is actually decent for this with how volatile the market is). The other 90% should be in safe investments. Property, a 401k, index funds, precious metals, rare earth metals, etc. I'm no expert, so make sure you research your options. Don't react with your long term investments. Markets can change a lot from year to year. Most importantly, invest in yourself. Take every possible opportunity to learn a new sk…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 06:18 PM
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I'd throw Kansas City, Austin, & Nashville into that mix. Also, working remotely becomes an option depending on your role.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 06:09 PM
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You're going to fuck up and make mistakes trying to set it up. Aka the TRP attitude towards women & dating, applied to business.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 06:05 PM
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food poisoning Let me guess the summer internship - IB? Yep, sounds like irritable bowels to me.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 03:34 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OfhhWA9GF0M
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:30 PM
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Funny thing about self defense, once you've learned it you never need it.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:27 PM
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Exactly. One could argue that sex feels good and your brain rewards you BECAUSE it was beneficial to reproducing. It's your body rewarding you, because some time way down the line those that didn't get that chemical reward had less desire to reproduce.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 11:53 PM
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But that's because he's more interested in what's good for children than any of us are. I think that's the crux of any conflicts between JP's beliefs and TRP. He is advocating for what is best for a stable society, while TRP doesn't care about society - it is merely a discussion on the dynamics of the two sexes without imposing morality on a given topic. This very point is summarized in TRP philosophy of "enjoying the decline", whereas JP would find that sentiment to likely be shallow and nihili…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/18 08:35 PM
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The decline of religion hasn't made people less religious, it's just changed which authority they worship.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 07:22 PM
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You are dangerously naive if you believe Disney isn't actively working towards feminizing society. They own way more than just children's movies.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 10:21 PM
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That's not how evolution works. One feature would have to spring up as a successful adaptation of an existing feature. You basically have two options: 1) The act of "sex" already feels good and serves a function other than reproduction -> sex somehow becomes the means of reproduction. 2) Sex exists as the means of human reproduction -> Mutations that make sex feel better appear & increase the likelihood of one reproducing -> over time, people that take pleasure in sex displace those that don't. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 05:44 PM
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You have that backwards. Sex would have evolved to feel good because it increased the participant's likelihood of reproducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/18 04:43 PM
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Yeah, unpopular because a lot of guys in this sub move on once the major lessons are internalized. It takes a special type of person to truly "enjoy the decline." Personally I want that stuff, too. Not impossible today, just a hell of a lot harder.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 12:02 AM
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At least wrestling is openly scripted. I can't say the same for many other professional sports. (eh, professional wrestling is more of a performance than a sport, but you get my point.)
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 03:24 PM
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Yeah, I agree. Not an exact comparison but I stand by my point. People that compete in sports can learn a lot by watching others play. You get a much better perspective to analyze tactics and strategy- whether that be football or MMA. I would bet that the vast majority of fans are not actively participating, though, which is what I'm drawing the comparison to. In those that are not actively competing, watching competition fills that need (without the added benefits of participating).
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 07:46 PM
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It's basically masturbation. You watch men go out and compete, and even get a minor rush of endorphins when your team wins. But it is ultimately unfulfilling and the rush subsides. It parallels how watching porn/masturbating will fire off the same chemicals as getting laid, but will feel empty because it was unearned. In both cases you are satiating a core, primal desire with what is essentially junk food versions of the real thing.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:51 PM
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I don't see how you can hang in a hammock with somebody and not make a move. Those fucking things will force 2 people onto each other by design.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 06:56 PM
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Oh its a total joke. Spend three months salary on engagement ring. Pay 3x extra markup for catering, bar, venue, and band/dj just because it's a wedding. Spend money on more rings. Spend money on honeymoon. It's absurd. The happy young couple could put a down payment on a house for the cost of a wedding.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:31 PM
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True, and having a house is the biggest predictor you will be burglarized. People take calculated risks. I'm not advocating everyone get married, just pointing out that reality for those that eventually want kids (and want to see those kids become functioning adults).
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:25 PM
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Ah okay, yes definitely. For most people it is just "the next step" in their relationship after dating a while.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:19 PM
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Because it is the best means of raising kids. If you do not want kids, there is no reason to get married.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 07:35 PM
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Second, you don't need to be married to have kids. You don't need to be, but it is the single biggest predictor of the kid being a successful member of society.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 07:33 PM
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Cultural Marxism is just a slur, dude. It's meaningless. What, how is it a slur? It is applying the principles of classical Marxism (poor v wealthy) to various groups with differing "power." It creates division along race, sex, culture, etc
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 02:45 PM
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You've not lived with a woman have you? They are MORE work than living alone, not less. Eh. I sort of agree. More work as far as stress, staying on top of your game, or planning/doing anything goes. If (and this is a big if these days) she is helping keep a clean house, cooking, doing laundry, fucking him -- even some of the time -- its saving him work. No, you're missing my point. Cohabiting with a woman can have advantages. Dating has advantages. Being with a woman can have advantages. This ar…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 05:41 PM
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You just can't tell based off the description. She has said: He's always paid the majority of the bills, I'll admit that. That's basically the extent to which she talks about her financial contributions. Given that he makes twice than her (and is the man in what seems to be a traditional relationship) he pays the majority of bills. Makes sense. If you want to focus on raising our future kids, do that. I just want you to be happy". Music to my ears. I could write a book about how great this man i…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 05:14 PM
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Marriage has no upsides for men. Devil's advocate: The guy is a San Fran engineer, so probably not chad we're talking about here. For six years, she helped pay rent, presumably kept him sexually satisfied, invested prime(ish) years of her life to him. She's not staying with this guy if they aren't married, because this guy probably isn't redpill at all. If they aren't married, maybe he wastes his time chasing pussy. Maybe her paying rent, or doing things around the house, or cooking, or continua…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 03:06 AM
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what he should have done was stashed his assets without her knowledge. Cryptocurrencies. The guy is in the tech industry too... Sounds like he complicated their relationship for fuck all.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 02:49 AM
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Christ, thank you. Looking at her situation through a RP lens: She is now 31. She has a lot invested in him. Her measly salary helped pay rent. Her salary gives him the financial stability (or at least the illusion of it) to pursue his side-business to begin with. Perhaps if he hadn't married her, he wouldn't have had the drive or time to develop his businesses. Maybe he'd be distracted chasing girls instead. I'm not saying she deserves to take all of his shit, but of fucking course she has a ri…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 02:43 AM
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Perhaps if he hadn't married her, he wouldn't have had the drive or time to develop his businesses. Maybe he'd be distracted chasing girls instead. Also, she is now 31. She has a lot invested in him. Her measely salary helped pay rent. Her salary gives him the financial stability (or at least the illusion of it) to pursue his side-business to begin with. I'm not saying she deserves to take all of his shit, but of fucking course she has a right not to sign a post-nup
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 02:34 AM
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What do you mean beyond dead now? Dead because making it big is next to impossible? If so, that was never an obtainable goal. Doesn't mean money can't be made teaching music, performing bars and local venues, or playing in a church band on weekends.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/17 11:05 PM
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Does this view also apply to kids in showbiz that may be taken advantage of? Those with parents that straight up whore their kids out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 06:37 PM
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I mean, there's a whole internet community dedicated to it. voat.co/v/ pizzagate It started as pursuing political-related leads, but has since moved to trying to uncover human trafficking throughout politics/entertainment/organizations. A lot coming out about hollywood at this time, particularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 06:35 PM
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And you didn't find that coordinated media flurry a bit odd? Have you actually seen what videos are now being marked "controversial?"
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 11:15 AM
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Inexperience. They're all shades of shit until you learn what you prefer (basically alcohol in general)
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 02:55 PM
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Because they are only trying to appeal to emotions. The same cliche "think of the children!" strategy. They can't appeal to logic, because there is no logic in this retarded pandering.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 02:35 PM
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Probably also why they hate being put on a pedestal. They know they aren't shit, so how can they respect somebody who thinks they are?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 01:33 AM
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"Whats going on is a battle between guys that like steak, beer, and full grown women vs. a bunch of pot-bellied pedophiles." Paraphrasing Alex Jones on the Joe Rogan podcast. Let's pretend he was being hyperbolic... but that really is what the election turned into. Straight men and women that support tradition vs limp-wristed men and women weirdos that have been conditioned to prioritize feelings over rational discourse.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 07:06 PM
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The fappening opened my eyes to this one. So many celebrities look so completely average when it's just a selfie. The photographers and editors are fucking magicians.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 04:06 AM
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"Learn what mansplaining is, and then stop doing it" She womansplained.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 11:40 PM
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That's fine if they want to be MGTOW. The problem is that trp forum is a collection of strategies of how to succeed in "the game." (Sexual marketplace) Guys that have declared they are not playing "the game" don't need to be giving input on said strategies.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 07:12 PM
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Most definitely. "If it isn't a fuck yes, it's a fuck no" - Teaching that while you can lower your standards for a while, eventually it will feel empty to you. Men live for challenge and growth, and if you aren't fucking ecstatic to fuck a chick, maybe you shouldn't. "I thought you were cute and wanted to talk to you." - Not a clever or original line by any means, but damn has it been my most successful. Models also got me to reframe the way I looked at having a dgaf attitude. Where I saw it as …
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 09:06 PM
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Chances are, he was never as badass as she remembers him. Nostalgia has a funny way of amplifying peoples' perception. A man who beats an alpha widow's ex-alpha in every category can still lose out due to her idealistic perception of the ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/16 08:10 PM
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Man, we're all just making the best decisions we can, with the information we have at the time. Your goal should be to acquire as much information as possible, to strive to continue making better and more informed decisions. You just gotta forgive yourself for that shit in the past. Write a list of the positives that came from the situation. There are always positives, even if it's the resulting anger being motivation to improve.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 10:00 PM
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Really, the world doesn't give a fuck about any particular person. Celebrities, politicians, musicians, athletes come and go. The difference is on an individual level. People will care more about you if you are high status. because of what they can gain from you- rather that be material things, emotional support, or friendship.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 09:55 PM
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The only difference, for the purpose of this discussion, is the intention behind the act. Kindness is doing something nice without the expectation of something in return. Whether that be because you were raised with good manners, or because you believe in karma, it doesn't matter. It's altruistic. Niceness is playing nice, but expecting something in return. If you give someone a gift because you'd like a favor in return, you are being nice. If you compliment a girl, expecting that to gain you fa…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 09:44 PM
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This is why it is constantly advised to focus on becoming independent, building a solid frame (mental and emotional fortitude), and having a group of friends you can talk to for "intimacy." A lot of TRP is just teaching guys to approach dating how women already have been for the last 20+ years.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 07:19 PM
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Would you argue that the two could be compounding each other? For instance, a girl has low self-esteem (for whatever reason. Say she has a prettier sister that gets more attention). So she learns that dressing provocatively and sleeping with guys garners her more attention, but the guys she really wants don't stick around, causing her self-esteem to drop. Rinse and repeat. Obviously this cycle shows a complete lack of introspection, but it's not uncommon. Is your point essentially correlation do…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 07:08 AM
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When every girl tells you she thinks it's demeaning to give you a blowjob on her knees, that she doesn't like blowjobs, she doesn't do anal, this position makes her self-conscious, etc. you start to believe it. I'm with you in that I was never blue enough to believe that bullshit, but I can look around and see many guys that wouldn't- and sometimes couldn't know better.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 04:36 PM
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Yeah I think that explanation is a little too logical and sinister. The girls aren't afraid of some beta landing a fuckin concubine. Occam's Razor would tell us: More expensive equals... More validation. In person, and social media. More jealousy of other women. (See more validation) A higher level of sacrifice and commitment from the man, comparatively to other women and their men (See more validation) A larger and more expensive ring will continue to elicit jealousy. (See more validation) Seri…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 04:31 PM
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Nope. Went out last weekend and literally 50% of the people walking around were playing. It's been growing every week night since. I expect this weekend to be even more crazy. The number of pokestops around the area is a huge factor, but that seems to be pretty common for high density shopping/restaurant/bar areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/16 05:29 PM
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That's exactly what it is. In real life it is referred to as friends with benefits, casually dating, just having fun, etc. A lot of people do it throughout their 20's & 30's, and discussing it with the above terms is totally normal. For some reason when TRP uses a specific term to encompass this idea, it is viewed as abhorrent from the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 09:30 PM
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I mean, if you are a scrawny guy that has ever felt insecure about your gf being attracted to a more confident, stronger, or outgoing guy, this shit is scary. Having one of your biggest fears confirmed is scary. Most of us were there at some point, we just decided to take control rather than stick our heads in the sand. Ignorance is bliss until it bites you in the ass.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 08:09 PM
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Sounds about right. That's why it is so important to hold frame and establish your boundaries early on. Keep rewards intermittent and unpredictable and they will be appreciated, make a generous act routine and it will be taken for granted. The most important corollary to this, and the most common mistake I see guys make in LTR's: Once an act becomes routine, there is no backpedaling. Once a certain behavior or precedent is set, there is no reclaiming it without a fight. Whether it be staying at …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 07:11 PM
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It's twofold. 1) TRP reasoning: they recognize the wall is approaching, and it is a "reformation" period to secure betabucks and having kids. The years of partying and eating poorly take their toll, and women know worthwhile guys don't want to settle down with party sluts, so they adapt their image. 2) Another reason that I don't see spoken of much, and one that affects both men and women- the party lifestyle gets old. Most people have been doing it for over a decade at this point, and they bran…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 06:49 PM
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Also, melanoma. All sorts of fun side effects with tanning beds.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 06:41 PM
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Ever notice how girls around 27-28 suddenly become obsessed with crossfit*, eating healthy, and plastering it all over Instagram? *Interchangeable with yoga, pilates, kickboxing, zumba, or whatever the current workout trend is.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 03:13 PM
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Dude this is a great analogy. Definitely worthy of a short thread with a little elaboration (as this thread will quickly disappear from the front page).
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 01:30 AM
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Exactly. Come down south, and then please do tell us more about shorts OP. Feel free to stop in Southern California facing 120+ degree heat, Nevada and Arizona regularly reaching 110+, and Texas already at 95+ (and more humid than Satan's ballsack in Houston/Dallas).
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 01:27 AM
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Liars tend to be distrustful. Cheaters tend to be accusatory. Thieves tend to be paranoid of being stolen from. Gossips tend to think people are talking about them. The easily offended will assume you are offended. Projection is fucking everywhere once you start to notice it.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 04:55 PM
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In that case I think it isn't addressed because "don't be complicated" is too broad to be worthwhile advice. For instance: On desire: Be direct and unashamed in what you want. Successful men know what they want, and do not hesitate to pursue it. (Be uncomplicated) On emotions: Depends on your personality. Some guys are stoic, some are more eccentric. Showing neediness or weakness is not attractive. Leave her wondering what exactly you are thinking and feeling, be mysterious. (Be complicated) On …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 08:30 PM
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To what are you referring? Logistics? Mens emotions? Playing games? The words complicated and uncomplicated appear so many times without context that I can't make sense of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/16 06:48 PM
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they'll look at senior members like /u/Archwinger or others being married and get the same idea in their heads, too And he would bitch slap the ring out of the hands of anyone considering marriage. The problem is plugged in guys still think of marriage as the final step of a relationship. It's still just something you do, and a lot of guys don't even question it.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 12:01 AM
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Hypergamy is an instinctual, deep rooted mating calculation system. It's like a decision engine for a computer- weighing male data points to compute the best reproductive options for the female in question. Yup. And the algorithm was never designed to accept the amount of input social media and online dating provides. Remember- three out of ten births are cuckolds. Consider that next time you see the family of five at your local grocer. The idea of being cucked is scary enough without inflating …
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 03:28 PM
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Which is total poonanny. As a developer with a CS degree that came up through public college the past few years, women are more than welcomed to the field. By employers and fellow male students. Its not like the CS major is a boys club because they WANT it to be. These guys would bend over backwards to help girls with their coursework, tutor them, whatever. My school had a 10% retention rate for CS. 10% of the freshman that declare their major as CS, achieve it. Which is abysmal. The college of …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/16 04:36 PM
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Nuh-uh, some land in the water! #NARALT
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 06:52 PM
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The exception that proves the rule Not only does pointing out exceptions attempt to render a trend untrue, it often has the opposite effect of reinforcing the trend. "Women are just as strong as men! Look at Ronda Rousey, she even challenged Mayweather!" "Women CEO's can be just as competent, look at Fiorina!" "Well I happen to know a couple that have been happily married for 10 years thanks to marriage counseling." The fact that somebody has to state a few counter-examples shows that the genera…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 06:51 PM
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If that's what she meant, she would have said families. Children lose mothers, fathers, and siblings. Men lose wives, mothers, sons, & daughters. The fact she worded it the way she did is ironically "sexist" towards the women serving in the military.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 08:49 PM
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"Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat." Hillary Goddamn Clinton You might think the men losing their lives are the bigger victims, but it's 2016, and fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 07:47 PM
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What do you mean "even" the Quran? If I had to guess one book that recommends treating women like shit, it'd be the Quran lol. As an athiest as well, I find it funny just how spot on the religious books were in trying to curb the female imperative.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 04:07 PM
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If you are good looking, you probably don't need monk mode. Don't use that as an excuse to avoid rejection.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 10:50 PM
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And who do you think is funding these "actors" through political donations, lobbying, and under the table deals? Follow the money.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 03:35 PM
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The author ends the article with about 10 different hypothetical reasons the "value gap" exists, then closes on this gem: But something else is clear: There is a workaholic mania among educated wealth-seeking American men, who seem uniquely devoted to working any number of hours to get rich. Well no shit that the wealth-seeking men are the workaholics. They want wealth. To get wealthy, you work. I just don't understand the mental gymnastics people go through to hypothesize why men are more drive…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 12:30 AM
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It's all downhill once the "You always..." and "You nevers..." start.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 06:11 PM
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They always say it at night while you're about to go to sleep. Perhaps so you'll concede just to get some shut-eye. Sorry babe, if you really want to force my hand and have a conversation I haven't had a chance to think about, be my guest. But I can garun-fucking-tee you aren't going to like how it ends.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 06:08 PM
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The OC: Alpha bad boy moves into town. Girl with douchebag boyfriend falls in love with new bad boy. The main beta: in love with a chick. Completely ignored and made fun of, until he dates a few other girls. Finally gets chick he likes, she's obsessed with him afterwards. He dates a few more girls, they get back together in the end. (Aw, she learned to like him after a lot of other girls showed interest!) I was going to write more examples, but I think this thought expirement is better: Try to t…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/16 12:42 AM
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It sucks, because it can be a negative feedback loop. You're worried you'll cum to soon, so you overthink it, which causes you to cum to soon, which causes you to further overthink it... Coming early is your body's response to that stress- an attempt to end it as soon as possible. Premature ejaculation and ED are the 2 different responses to the same stress. So the key is to just get through the problem a few times, until you aren't so concerned if it happens or not. So: alcohol can help, but wi…
/r/askTRP14/04/16 04:07 PM
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This exactly. It was less than a week ago, so you're still high on the self-improvement ride. Just remember that motivation is fleeting; discipline is much more valuable.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/16 04:09 PM
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Implying that there is since grand scale, social manipulation through feminism to cheapen skilled and valuable labor. I'm not going to go as far as to say this is a grand scheme of feminism (I've seen some decent arguments, but they are rather biased and I haven't looked into the subject enough). However, it does not take a stretch of the imagination to see that in this case feminism's goals and the tech companies' goals align. Feminists want equal representation in a well-paying field (regardle…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 10:08 PM
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I don't get why this is so fucking taboo to say in America. Of course doubling the available workforce drives down wages. Why is there such a strong push to get women into STEM fields? Why is there a strong push to outsource programming/IT positions? To bring down wages/increase profits. People seem to think that by pointing out the fact that women entering the workforce drove down wages, it means you think women shouldn't have the right to work. Everyone has the right to work and should have eq…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 04:35 PM
2

This is another reason I won't have kids, I won't choose between career and child-rearing. It sounds like you chose career in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/16 04:24 PM
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Fair enough. I would argue that a post being a mess isn't grounds for removal, especially when the community and several endorsed contributors responded favorably.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 08:51 PM
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Except it must be a pretty common misconception to get the response it did. I've made the mistake of acting too coy in the past when interested in a girl, only to later find out she was into me. Just wasn't forward enough with my intentions. Cockblocked by my own aloofness. Admittedly, I went overboard on not giving a fuck. Very similar responses found in the thread, mostly from guys about 2 years into "swallowing the pill." I had the DGAF attitude down as far as emotional investment goes, but l…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 08:35 PM
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You're not putting her on a pedestal by approaching her. You're actually denying yourself the chance to put her up there. This line made it worth the read for me. It's essentially "don't overthink the approach," which I've known but not heard put this eloquently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 08:15 PM
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but taken in the wrong context with the wrong guys it could just lead to a real awkward/overly aggressive approach to meeting women. We see this happen all over reddit and PPD specifically. People unable to apply their own filter to the message, and interpreting everything literally. I see posts constantly reiterating the nuances of AWALT, hypergamy, etc., and I thought this was a great attempt to do the same for the DGAF attitude (interestingly enough, written by the author of a DGAF post in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 07:53 PM
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Is that worth removing the post, though? I see many more shitposts linger on the front page, and clearly this one struck a chord with a lot of subscribers. I thought this post did a good job of re-framing what the DGAF attitude means, because it is often misconstrued into a literal interpretation of not caring about others. About overly alpha displays of not giving a shit about other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 07:50 PM
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How is it self-contradictory? The whole post is countering what the IDGAF attitude means. He is saying that it is not literally not giving a shit about anything, but that it is being unabashedly passionate about what you want, and not giving a fuck about how other people see you. Outcome independence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 07:34 PM
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Exactly. I can't believe it is even a discussion of "if" this is the advice given to young guys. If I ever expressed angst about getting a girlfriend as a kid/teen, I was told to be myself. I was told I was husband material. I would make some girl very happy one day. I'm not even angry about it. I saw through the bs when I was a kid and sought self-improvement long before TRP or PPD. I get annoyed when the common experience that I and EVERY friend of mine lived is ignorantly called "an impressio…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/16 04:25 PM
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Nothing can be fixed in the USA until we remove bribery in politics. Does Trump talk about campaign finance reform? This is why I'll be voting for Bernie, as well. It is so fucked up that I'll be voting for a socialist in the hopes that a Libertarian has a chance in my lifetime. I'll be hoping for a Trump/Sanders race. Anybody outside of the establishment is a welcome change in my book.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 03:53 AM
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I started meditating 2 months ago, so I recently did some searching around here for resources. The TLDR version is: 1) Get an app to start guided meditations: The Mindfulness App (recomended by others) Stop, Breahte & Think (App I've used and really enjoy) 2) Read this PDF: http://www.urbandharma.org/pdf2/Mindfulness%20in%20Plain%20English%20Book%20Preview.pdf If you want more info, get searching ;)
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 02:12 AM
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Exactly. The more women I grew to know personally, the more I'd see contradictions in women's behavior (in general).
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 09:57 PM
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Mall & Retail shops Bookstore Grocery store Comedy clubs Gym, boxing, yoga classes Meet up groups College classes Become a tourist in your own city. If you were visiting, where would you go and what would you do? Museums, Zoos, Aquariums Sports venues Hiking, touring, excursions Local festivals, events Farmers markets, tradeshows Art shows, galleries Beer/Wine tours Etc. I'm not really the type to go out searching for women to talk to. I just go to things that genuinely interest me, and everythi…
/r/askTRP05/02/16 06:02 PM
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Needing to use the the bathroom, or meeting your/her dog. 90% of the time, it works every time.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 09:01 PM
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He said it's a 6 month LTR. An actual conversation is going to happen. Jesus Christ some of you are autistic.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 08:15 PM
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"Of course I think we're equal, I just don't think we're the same. We're all humans with the capacity to love, hate, be jealous, emotional, logical, etc. I think the amount of that varies from men to women. I think there's a sort of yin and yang balance to men and women, or at least that's the relationship dynamic that I prefer." That's how I've summarized my views to a past plate. Very intelligent girl, never got further questioning. What is there to question in that? Side note: I see A&A being…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 04:06 PM
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This is a topic I'd like to see discussed in depth here, and is the largest contradiction I see coming out of TRP. Probably warrants its own thread. It is commonly advised to spin plates, and only if a plate proves herself over time should you consider promoting her to LTR (some may advise against LTR's in general, but that's besides the point). It is also advised that if she is not willing to have sex with you within a few dates, you are not seen as high enough SMV in her eyes (the "Would she d…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 09:03 PM
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You're messaging her, of course you like her. It is fodder and sounds supplicating. Conversely, she swiped on you too. Treat her like you already know she likes you.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 09:14 PM
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"I'm only as loyal as my options" - The Audition, Approach the Bench
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 07:31 PM
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I knew that was the case in situations where one participant was under 18 (ie Romeo and Juliet Laws), but if you stick to 18+ you'd be fine, right? Assuming you've verified the girl is 18+.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 10:26 PM
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Better safe than statutory!
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 10:06 PM
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You're completely right. You understand the trp concepts well, as does vengefully_yours. He's open about his history and has been burned BAD, but it is also a byproduct of living in this little trp bubble for too long. Use the trp for what you want out of it. Spin plates, ltrs, whatever. Don't get married. Awalt. Yes, 100% of women have the inclination to cheat with a higher smv man if they think it can stay hidden or branch swing under the right conditions. But depending on the woman those scen…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 05:22 PM
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Is this not a perfect example of 2 of the 48 Laws of Power in action? LAW 38) Think as you like but behave like others LAW 13) When asking for help, appeal to people's self-interest, never to their mercy or gratitude He is pushing to end the college kangaroo courts, by white-knighting for the feminists. Even if he is sincere in his belief that the current system is worse for women (that they have to go to class with their "rapist", and that "rapist" will go on to rape more women), he shares the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/16 03:58 PM
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It isn't so much about the deceased person, it's them saying "don't forget about meeeeeee today!" Somebody has been watching Anthony Jeselnik. For anyone that hasn't seen it, his stand up is fantastic - especially the last 20 minutes when he breaks character. The relevant bit here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1FLGEr1zJYo
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 05:51 PM
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Well that's rather unnecessary.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/15 03:59 AM
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And when it comes to tech related jobs (namely software architecture and development) companies find out pretty quickly that the foreign and unskilled labor is not a solution. If the people creating the software are temporary, they will not be concerned with the sustainability. I've seen it backfire on many companies trying to save a quick buck. It would be like hiring one company to construct a building, get halfway done, then hire another company to continue building without any blueprints.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/15 05:29 PM
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I subscribe to two different meal services that ship fresh organic meal plans for me to cook. Additionally I subscribe to a seasonal fruit and vegetable service and have regular groceries delivered. Don't get me wrong I also eat out. When I do it's at seriously nice places. Mind naming them or recommending any?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 01:28 AM
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Finished the ending aaannnddd... I'm not sure what the fuck I just watched. It's a stretch but I hope you're right. Thought the last 2 episodes missed the mark. I don't know what the mark is, but they missed it.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 06:42 AM
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It's looking more and more like PC principal doesn't have a hidden agenda, or at least he isn't aware of it. You get a glimpse of it at the end of episode 8 when he sees himself in an ad and starts to freak out. I think what they are building up to is the fact that companies use the pc outrage idiots on Facebook to market products. That under the guise of stirring outrage, they have free publicity. People are manipulated into literally being advertisements without realizing it. There are a ton o…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 06:12 PM
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A woman uses Drama to begin her manipulation. Everyone raise your hand if this sounds familiar: she starts crying mid-fight, and suddenly stops when she gets her way you or a friend doesn't do something you/he would usually want to do since "it isn't worth the fight" while in a drunken fight, you reach an accidental IDGAF (from the unplugged perspective) attitude. She storms off angry and inevitably comes back to apologize gradually you concede some things you didn't at the start of the relation…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 09:24 PM
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The hamster ball: http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-naZ88lcotTk/UNikh17WrNI/AAAAAAAAECw/p-oralZfhgs/s1600/hamster-ball.jpg
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 04:50 PM
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♂ (I don't have the ability to guild this, but it's the thought that counts)
/r/TheRedPill02/12/15 03:53 AM
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Is being female a relevant bit of info here?
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 01:21 AM
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"Men climb the mountain to reach the top, women complain that there is a mountain top, and declare wherever they are to be the new mountain top." http://i.imgur.com/of0NeOX.png
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 01:19 AM
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Good field report. You seem to have a level head, so no need to warn you about the pitfalls of meeting up with an ex. Some alternative brief responses to the shit tests: "Why won't you tell me about this date? Are you gay?" "Flaming" ;) "You're going to get STD's if you sleep around, you pig." "Speaking from experience?" "Can't you say anything nice to me?" "Time has been good to you." ;)
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 10:35 PM
4

I started meditating last week, so I recently did some searching around here for resources. The TLDR version is: 1) Get an app to start guided meditations: The Mindfulness App (recomended by others) Stop, Breahte & Think (App I've used and really enjoy) 2) Read this PDF: http://www.urbandharma.org/pdf2/Mindfulness%20in%20Plain%20English%20Book%20Preview.pdf If you want more info, get searching ;)
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 06:21 PM
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Ah yeah, "Chad Thundercock." That popped up here probably around a year ago. He represents the natural alpha... The guy that embodied the stereotype through adolescence and beyond. The guy that you never find here, by the sheer principal that a natural wouldn't need to find TRP. Everyone knows a guy like that, so it helps with driving the point home. Some guys use him as, like you said, a caricature to get a point across. Others take it to a weird almost homoerotic level of describing him fuckin…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 03:19 AM
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And yeah, we're using "exclusive" as a placeholder. For us there isn't a tangible difference to "exclusively dating" and "boyfriend" (and his housemates do call me his girlfriend), but I feel a non-tangible, emotional step. Makes sense. I hope you read around a bit, and realize that a lot of the guys here aren't "woman haters," in fact quite the opposite, but there is a vocal minority of guys that have been fucked over. A lot of people are put off about how we speak, but don't realize that this …
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 09:35 PM
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Fair enough. We're in agreement, I wouldn't recommend debating BPers, either. My point is that it is worth the read once, if only to re-affirm why you were drawn to TRP in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 09:16 PM
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Are you kidding? It is a great resource. Just sort by top of all time. You'll see the best arguments against TRP get skewered by a much more introspective and intelligent user base. You get to see even the more moderate RP users dismantle arguments that are based in an idealistic BP fairy land. And then you can never go back again, because the majority of BP detractors haven't even tried to understand the "hate group" they love to hate.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 08:51 PM
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I don't know if everyone realizes that you are the OP of the okcupid thread... Is 'exclusive' a label? I always thought it was a bit of a placeholder. Like I don't see you enough or go on actual "dates" to warrant calling you my girlfriend, but we care enough about each other to not be fucking others. ...Which I guess counts as a label.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 08:38 PM
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When anybody says "we need to talk" and expects the conversation to take place in the future, respond with "if you have something to say, say it now." If they say it "needs to be in person" or they "need time to sit down and really talk about it," just tell them that you're not interested in playing games and if they felt the need to go out of their way to alert you that they needed to talk, they'd go ahead and say it, or forever hold their peace. One caveat to this: If it is actually a serious …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 05:46 PM
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Holy shit you're right. Is google using my browsing history to tailor results, or is TRP really the first hit for 'Trickle Truth'? I'm pretty sure the phrase is not unique TRP verbiage....
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 05:02 PM
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So many people in this thread understand this as a personal attack, as if I doubt that they can still get laid in their 40s. But even the title says: "Get rid of the idea of getting revenge." Because the thing is: The girls who rode the CC in their 20s and early 30s still can get an attractive husband. This husband won't be you, but you won't get revenge on them either. I'm with you here. It is a fantasy, and an unhealthy one at that, to think you will have any sort of "revenge" over cc riders, …
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 04:53 PM
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The counter points you are making should be non-existent to a RP aware man, though. In fact, the counter examples are of what MOST men are like- the exact reason "it becomes easier in your thirties and forties." The whole argument is based on the premise that we will not be like the average guy.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 06:06 PM
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Right? No shit that a loser in his 40's isn't slaying chicks as well as that same loser at 25. The whole message of "work on yourself and it becomes much easier" only applies assuming: you pursue hobbies you enjoy advance your career maintain a healthy and active lifestyle practice game. Not necessarily full on PUA shit, but just trying to improve over the course of years. Basically, the whole idea is founded on the idea that: The time spent improving yourself in your teens and twenties becomes …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 05:56 PM
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A landlord has to give 30 days notice of eviction. If she is just staying with him, he can kick her out whenever he wants. Either way, this sounds like some serious male hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/15 04:44 PM
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The two aren't mutually exclusive.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 03:18 PM
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Various versions of this have been floating around for ages: https://i.ytimg.com/vi/qmGmvaUG-9A/hqdefault.jpg I have no problem with rappers adapting others' material to lyrics, but I highly doubt the credit goes to Puffy.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 12:41 AM
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Just let the plates drop. The whole sentiment lacks abundance mentality. It is really no different than a younger guy thinking he has to make the chick his girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 12:06 AM
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As u/OmLaLa stated: Watch her and dial your body language two notches behind hers. Let her touch you more than you touch her. Touch her once to establish you're physically interested. This is required for some women so they know to proceed. Do it early so she has enough time to consider it. Some girls may touch you first (especially if you are fit), but many won't be that forward. They will touch their hair, their neck, expose their neck, give you googly eyes, "randomly" keep looking your way - …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 10:57 PM
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I like that you made the distinction that you'd love to go back to the way things were if they had been working. We see this nostalgia posted pretty often, but it's guys wishing they could unswallow the pill. Unfortunately, that would not change the reality that being nice simply didn't and won't work. The funny part is, I would have made for a great beta bucks. Nice and loving, successful career, with enough natural RP traits that a marriage might have worked- even in today's dating environment…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 04:57 PM
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Once again, the standard problem of a woman thinking "if he wants to fuck me, then this is the level of man who would want to date me." This is where the projection comes into play. Since women use sex to try to secure commitment, they think a man should/do act the same. Who a woman fucks and to whom she'd commit are often one and the same. As we all know this isn't the case for a man with options.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 04:42 PM
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Bill burr does this to great effect. He'll often say "what do I know, I'm an idiot" or "just some asshole," but then follows with a clearly well thought out and intelligent joke. "Leaving an escape route" is a great way to put it.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 12:39 AM
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Not this pun shit in TRP. Please please please not this pun shit.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/15 12:18 AM
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Had a buddy die in a car wreck in college. There was a huge outcry on social media by the girls, with each of them one-upping each other with past photos with him, long memorandums, and inspirational statuses. Which is fine, but every fucking post was about themselves. How upset THEY were. How much THEY will miss him. How much THEY are praying for his family. Especially his ex girlfriend. The one that treated him like shit, and pretended that he was subhuman for 2 years prior to his death. And n…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 09:11 PM
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I find it useful to keep an eye on traffic, change my route if there is an accident, etc. I see your point, but it isn't entirely useless even when you know the area.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 05:33 PM
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If "Zack's handjob" is the worst of it, wife her up! (Just kidding. But seriously, I don't give a fuck about a handjob she gave in highschool. Who the hell wants a handjob anyway?)
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 09:18 PM
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When doing my ignorant redneck voice, I will definitely be using the word "Pakistalians."
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 04:03 PM
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So "liberals" have sacralized victimhood. The right sacralizes other things. "The war on Christmas" and larger "War on Christianity" come to mind for the right. Everyone loves playing the victim.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 09:40 PM
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Good thing women date older men.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 04:24 PM
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Then once we have finally busted a nut, the regret sets in and we roll off. This girl we just promised the world to, just got kicked out of bed and told to go make us a sandwich. We're done. We can think a little more clearly and are ready to go home. TRP is amoral, so if you want to go that route I'm not one to stop you. However... I don't promise a goddamn thing to women. If you are high enough SMV in her eyes, you don't have to play the bullshit games leading her on. You don't have to pretend…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 07:24 PM
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Right, nothing I said is at odds with your point. From the women's/bp perspective: Guys that are intimidated by a girl who has been with a lot of guys is just immature. Her past doesn't change who she is, and a few dozen "experiences" that were "just for fun" let her mature. You shouldn't slut shame. They think it is literally the number that off-puts guys. When, in fact, it is the "reduced pair bonding", entitlement, bitchiness, whatever you want to call it - that is off-putting. My point: We a…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 11:18 PM
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It's not even about the number, even. If girls behaved the same after having 50 partners as they did having 2 partners, I don't think guys would give a shit. But anyone that has experienced both sees a clear fucking difference. The girl with 50 partners is more insecure, confrontational, deceitful, and an all around pain in the ass to deal with. I don't care about the number. I care about how the number has affected their personality.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 10:37 PM
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Apparently that is a perpetuated myth: http://www.pluralofanecdote.com/about.php
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 05:19 PM
1

Good shit man, sounds like you are where I'm striving to be. You're right. I enjoy a beer or two when playing beach volleyball, but a lot of the guys are drunk. The women overall are fine as hell and mostly sober Agreed. Enjoyed it a lot at first, grew tired of it. If your fun is getting drunk or high, the problem isn't society overall -- you just are seeing your own market. I needed to hear that. Been thinking it for a little while now. I also have a small circle of pals (guys and gals) who run…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 11:48 PM
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Keep in mind Ft. Lauderdale was recently named the best city in the U.S. for single men. I doubt that makes a huge difference, just worth noting. My problem recently is that I find people who don't drink/do any drugs (in moderation. For the sake of this discussion let's ignore alcoholics and druggies) to be extremely boring. Not because they don't partake in those activities, necessarily, but an overall tendency not to engage in risk taking, social activities, etc. I'd be interested to hear what…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:36 PM
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"For instance, Jewish law compels one to wash his or her hands many times throughout the day. In the general medieval world a person could go half his or her life without ever washing his hands. According to Jewish law, one could not eat food without washing one’s hands, leaving the bathroom and after any sort of intimate human contact. At least once a week, a Jew bathed for the Sabbath. Furthermore, Jewish law prevents the Jew from reciting blessings and saying prayers by an open pit at latrine…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 09:41 PM
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'The one that got away' has been so culturally engrained that there is no need to feel shame. The AF/BB strategy is so prevalent that every girl is expected to have 'one that got away.' More like '20 that got away', but that wouldn't justify her shitty behavior. So in this case, it's the one.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 09:37 PM
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Sometimes it feels like I'm boxing with a dummy ... Great way to put it. To me, it's like screen peeking a total amateur in Halo. You've played this level so many times you don't even consciously do it. You see a few colors in the corner of your eye, and BAM, you know they're sneaking up the cliff on the side of Blood Gulch. "I don't usually do this", "You're gonna have to work for more!", "My ex (of 3 years) was such an asshole" ... It's all so familiar. The detractors say we attract this type …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 09:27 PM
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Firstly, the Vanity Fair article was hilarious in how it demonstrated solipsism and the apex fallacy. The author talks to a few 20-something guys from Ivy league schools, working as Wall Street bankers. She then proceeds to be surprised that these guys are noncommittally slaying on tinder. Which leads to point number two. Your observation of where Dalrock goes wrong: One of the worst things feminism has done is to attack the sexual “double standard” by encouraging women to lower their standards,…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 09:11 PM
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Man, I haven't even suffered the brunt of this shit. Ended up being accidentally mostly RP thanks to a healthy family life and upbringing. But I've had girlfriends, girls that are friends, friends with girlfriends, heard friend's girlfriends talk, talked to plates, etc. You hear the 'logic' and witness the acrobatics that the hamster is capable of firsthand , and it is true. The detractors of TRP will say this is purely anecdote. And they are right. This knowledge is purely based off of anecdota…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 08:53 PM
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Pigs are genetically very similar to humans, and carry diseases that are much more likely to be contracted by humans. The Jewish guidelines were over the top, but they definitely got a lot of it right in an age where there was little knowledge of the importance of being sanitary. Hell, Jews died at a much lower rate (and were thusly accused of being the cause of) the Black Plague in medieval Europe, due to their standards. You can read more about it in 'The Paleo Manifesto', if interested.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 08:40 PM
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They are so open-minded that their brains have fallen out.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 05:44 PM
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This is worth highlighting. Guys, if you put your name on the birth certificate, you are volunteering to be legally responsible for the baby. If you are going to get a paternity test (and why the fuck would you not?), do it before you sign ANYTHING.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 06:39 PM
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Simply put, because the sexual market is skewed in their favor. Because most women will have 0 repercussions from riding the CC. Because they are "winning." To quote Rollo (http://therationalmale.com/tag/sexual-strategies/): The Cardinal Rule of Sexual Strategies: For one gender’s sexual strategy to succeed the other gender must compromise or abandon their own. Think about how long it took most of us to find trp. To realize something wasn't working out for yourself, that what women were saying a…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 06:03 PM
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They are a declaration that: "I do not have control of this situation. This is so far beyond my control that my only recourse is to either remove me or remove you from the situation." To expand a bit further: This is the key difference between an ultimatum and abundance mentality. The message is similar - "I'm going to control this situation by removing you or myself from it." Abundance mentality is a covert statement through action, the ultimatum an overt statement through words. The abundance …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 08:25 PM
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The words "right" and "wrong" are nowhere to be found on the female moral decision tree. Sure they are! "Does this decision negatively impact my current circumstances?" This feels wrong! "Does this decision positively impact my current circumstances?" This feels right! They even have the ability to rewind time and traverse up the decision tree: "Now that my circumstances are different than the past, does this still feel right/wrong?" It's not my fault, because reasons!
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 12:26 AM
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Great way to practice eye contact: When you are in your car stopped at a light, or even while driving next to somebody, look over at them. Even if they look back at you, hold that gaze until they look away. If you are afraid this is too confrontational, well that's the point. It can be fucking uncomfortable. You might feel like a creeper at first. But I guarantee that if you get comfortable doing that, day to day eye contact is a cinch.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 07:17 PM
2

Lions, Gorillas, Walruses too, off the top of my head.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 04:10 PM
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Don't understand the downvotes, this is completely true. I'd wager closer to 13-15 years old, but the point stands.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 07:30 PM
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Exactly? Who disposed whom? She was at their disposal, as made clear by the fact they didn't commit to her. Sometimes the hamster takes a break from the wheel to perform mental gymnastics.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 08:05 AM
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This was my thinking. The year off college isn't a red flag in itself.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 05:49 PM
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I agree with collidoscope. Taking a year off after highschool isn't a red flag, green flag, or a fucking flag at all. If anything, I'd probably prefer this. So many dipshits race into college without a second thought of what they want as a career. This sort of introspection would be a welcome change. Obviously, what she did during this time would be a better indication of her quality. But to assume this is any worse than the cockfest that is college is ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 05:47 PM
8

On mobile and can't edit: Law 16: Use absence to increase respect and honor
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 08:59 PM
8

This is one of the 48 laws of power. Basically, it is important to make yourself scarce from time to time. It makes you more 'mysterious', and it makes other people realize the value you bring to the table when you are around. It's like "distance makes the heart grow fonder" applied to a different relationship.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 08:55 PM
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Its funny how that gut feeling can invade even the most progressive BP guy's consciousness. You see it in r/ relationships all the time. A guy finds out his gf rode 20 dicks before his, that she was in a threesome, whatever. He'll post ranting about how he knows he shouldn't judge or shame her, but he just can't shake that gut feeling. He'll read hundreds of replies about how he should get over himself, and just hope he can suppress the uneasiness. He'll try to logically convince himself that th…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 09:17 PM
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Some examples that don't involve being cheated on: In college: I was in a LTR for 2+ years with a girl I loved, a solid 8 by the strictest of scales. We got along great, and everything in the relationship was perfect as far as relationships go (minimal shit tests, submissive, etc). However, I was discontent with the other areas of my life. I had friends, but I couldn't make new ones. Could chat with other girls (really easy when you aren't trying to get laid!), but couldn't connect with classmat…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 08:52 PM
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I enjoyed this post because of the "romantic" language, as it helps me better formulate how to present my ideas in public. This sub is all straight talk, as it should be, and is a nice deviation from the main stream bp bullshit. I'm no RP salesman in real life, and if asked I would deny knowing what it is. But I don't shy away from debates on gender roles, sexist education, etc. either. Posts like op's, and posts like this reminding us to simultaneously see through the romanticism, are fucking a…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 06:54 PM
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"Aggressive demonstration of DGAF." Ah yes, the classic kick a ball and surf the table display. Great way to show you don't give a fuck. /s
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 03:59 PM
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If you help a friend steal, that is you being an accomplice to stealing. Essentially, you have stolen too, and been "immoral." If I am single and sleep with some guys gf, I do not think I am the one acting "immorally." I am not breaking my agreement with anybody or governing laws. I get your point, and I even agree it is not worth the effort or risk to fuck a taken woman. But to make the comparison that this is somehow pedestalizing the woman is ridiculous. And I find it rather funny that you de…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 08:11 PM
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If you help a friend steal, that is you being an accomplice to stealing. Essentially, you have stolen too, and been "immoral." If I am single and sleep with some guys gf, I do not think I am the one acting"immorally." I am not breaking my agreement with anybody or governing laws. I get your point, and I even agree it is not worth the effort or risk to fuck a taken woman. But to make the comparison that this is somehow pedestal using the woman is ridiculous. And I find it rather funny that you de…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/15 08:10 PM
1

Formerly known as "crazy eyes."
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 09:06 PM
13

The longer the pill is down, the more you notice this shit. Movies, TV shows, books, magazines that you liked in your BP days won't be as enjoyable. You'll hear coworkers say shit like "Happy wife, happy life, amirite?!" and cringe. When I first went through my "awakening" after taking the pill, it wasn't shit about female psychology (AWALT, AF/BB), or the importance of SMV - that stuff had become rather obvious through experience. Finding out that most of society was actively working against me…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 01:19 AM
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Agreed. Kate Upton has gotten pretty pudgy the past few years
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 09:58 PM
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Agree and amplify is the easiest response if you feel the need to reply, although a lot of examples I see here come across as try-hard in real life. Often, directly answering the question at all is unnecessary. (See the sidebar if any of the above was confusing) To give an example: A common shit test is for a girl to ask how many girls you've been with. I swear to god, EVERY girl has asked me this unless it was clear from the start it was a one night fling. A basic bitch agree and amplify respon…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 08:51 PM
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Funny thing is, at your age women are SO BAD at shit tests. Don't get me wrong, the majority of men are so unplugged that at any age the shit tests are pretty transparent. But in high school? Bitch please. The shit tests are the bs pop quizzes where you just write your name down and turn it in for a free 100.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 07:44 PM
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Wow, I've been on trp and the affiliated subs for over a year now and did not realize there was /r/trpfinance. Appreciate the reference
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:51 PM
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"Special Events" are so fucking common it's laughable, but they are great times to be on the receiving end of her "celebration": Her birthday Valentine's St Patty's Day July 4th Cinco de Drinko Halloween New Years Bachelorette Party Wedding Weekend Local sports team winning Any music festival Any vacation a cruise a weekend at the lake her friend getting into a relationship her getting out of a relationship her friend getting out of a relationship ...and on and on.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 03:41 PM
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How the fuck do you form an alliance with an ideology that is in direct contrast to trp? Without third wave feminism there is no red pill sub to begin with. Feel free to water down the message and tiptoe in circles around politically correct language in the real world, but get the fuck outta here with the speech policing.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 07:49 PM
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I'm downvoting you, simply because I don't want to see posts like this in the sub. Maybe an appreciation thread every once and while, but even that's probably overkill. I understand where you're coming from, and I'm sure most of us share your sentiment. Part of becoming a self-actualized and independent man is about looking within for purpose and validation, not a pat-ourselves-on-the-back and sing koombaya appreciationfest.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 06:37 PM
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No True Scotsman yada yada. Who gives a shit a about how we are seen from the outside?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 06:25 PM
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You weren't entirely wrong. If you were in a LTR with the chick, a hard next would be a traditional break up followed by no contact. If she is a plate, there isn't anything to really "break up," and you skip straight to no contact.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 02:31 PM
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Well you picked two ridiculous hobbies as examples, and obviously not all hobbies have equal returns. A couple of months ago I had a top thread about hobbies in trp (search "Fucking Do Shit - SMV in Action" and it's the first result on google), in which I (along with the help of the community) classified hobbies based on their returns in a few categories: camaraderie, physical activity, intellectual stimulation, marketability, and oppurtunities to meet women. Having hobbies and experiences IS ho…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/15 03:16 PM
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Woah, very insightful post! The difference between languages is pretty interesting. "True" gamers vs casual gamers, real fans vs bandwagon fans, etc. The obsession with being with the "in" group and using bullshit qualifiers to describe one's self are everywhere.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 03:36 PM
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I don't think holding doors is a good example of being beta. Otherwise congrats
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 04:17 PM
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Getting another job is the best option. I just think you are looking at it from the wrong perspective. You could stick around and make it through. You'd be fine, eventually, at some point down the road if you kept working on yourself. And you'd be miserable. Or you could find another job with a more masculine work environment. I've worked in both, and it just isn't worth it this early in your career (and ideally, ever). If you excel at what you do, the company will want you in a few years. You a…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:28 AM
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Physically relocate. Change schools, states, or countries. This is about as pure of a 're-creation' as you can get. If nobody knows you, there are no pre-defined notions of you or your character, and you can be whoever the fuck you want to be. You commonly hear about people trying to lose weight, get fit, or improving themselves getting pulled down by the crabs around them. The easiest way to avoid the crab/bucket mentality is to move to an empty bucket.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 05:22 PM
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I agree. Which is why some research in creating the post would have been appreciated. Here are some common shit tests and some popular responses to them that I found. What are some scenarios you've encountered? Discuss. -VS- Hey what's some pass/fail shit tests guys!?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 05:10 PM
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6. She was molested in her youth. No way in hell this is the norm for 99% of women.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 05:04 PM
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It means you have to take care of yourself, because she is beyond 'fixing.' Her emotional issues, clinginess, daddy issues - they are not your problem. You will not be able to help her work through them. Helping people is great and all, but what is being described is not helping her. It is enabling a child to the detriment of your own well being. Time spent trying to 'help' her is time wasted that could be spent helping those that will appreciate/reciprocate it, on finding a woman worthy of your…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 05:03 PM
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It would indicate disregard for consequences, and favoring quick reward over long term satisfaction. Both smoking and slutin' around have that in common.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 04:57 PM
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EDIT: I misread, sounds like we're making the same point. You meant she isn't taking accountability for problems that are completely within her control. I would say the opposite is a better indicator. She complains about everything NOT being her fault. You can see the mentality play out even in trivial events botches a recipe and blames the oven fails a test and blames the TA dog eats shit off the table and blames neither herself or her dog etc. Sure, these are harmless enough. But after you hea…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 04:52 PM
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12. She is jealous at you more than you are jealous of her. This is a strange one. I had complete trust in her and always complimented her, seldom expression jealousy and insecurity. If a girl even smiled at me wrong or lightly flirted with me when she was around she would get extremely jealous turning it into a four hour insecurity accusation fest. It is ironic that the person most being afraid of being cheated on (My slut wife) ends up doing the repeated cheating herself. Excellent point, whic…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 04:47 PM
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Pass Research your question for past posts on the subject. Try to compile popular responses for popular shit tests, such as the following. THEN ask for community feedback, after you've established a decent conversation point. LMR (Last Minute Resistance) Asking partner count Asking if you're seeing other women Her stating she's seeing other guys Last minute canceling of a date Her not wanting you to hang out with the guys Her having girls night Her having girls vacation Etc. Fail This half-assed…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 04:38 PM
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Everybody looks the same nowadays too. All guys have tattoo sleeves, all women are wearing the same shit. Its like attack of the clones. Modern Music. Just forget it. Seriously. I was pretty much with you until this point, at which you sound like a fucking geriatric yelling at kids to get off the lawn. Not everyone looks the same. We live in a time when a wide variety of clothing and styles are available at a variety of price ranges. It's not the 40's, and not everyone is running around in their…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 03:45 PM
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It’s that our society has changed in ways that have debased masculinity. Note here that it is not increasing femininity, this is explained by women who still must act ‘like men’ in positions of power in our society. I don't follow your premise here. You say that society is not changing to be more feminine, it is simply less masculine. Aren't these two polar opposites of a behavioral pH scale? It's like saying "I am not becoming more sad, I am just less happy." In men, waning masculinity is inevi…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 03:35 PM
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If you find a unicorn you're fucking hallucinating. They are called unicorns BECAUSE they do not exist.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 03:11 PM
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Really appreciate you putting this list together. Looks like I'll start with Dawkins' 'The Selfish Gene' and work from there.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 02:49 PM
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Any recommendations by chance? I'm a huge fan of reading about evolutionary psychology. This doesn't pertain to sexual dynamics, but The Paleo Manifesto is a great read on the evolution of (mainly) diet, phobias, and daily routine.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 12:30 AM
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Good call, I'm adding it to the list of sports I'm maintaining in the comments.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 08:52 PM
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Totally forgot about those. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:54 PM
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True. I just had an unorganized list I had made when I was looking for shit to do outside of work, jazzed it up a bit, and thought it would be a decent starting point for anyone looking to change up their routine.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:54 PM
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Good call. Don't know how I missed that.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:50 PM
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Women were hardly mentioned in my original post.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:40 PM
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Thanks for the suggestions. I'll be updating the list again. EDIT: Had to leave off RC Racing as I couldn't imagine it ticking off any of the categories. It's a hobby I would liken to gaming.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:38 PM
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This was my thinking basically. Anyone looking into hobbies would find out pretty quickly which they can afford. If you can't afford to join a gym, a team, pay for the occasional concert, etc. improving your career should be the #1 priority.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:37 PM
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For 3 of the categories (Intellectually Stimulating, Marketability, & Meeting Women) I only use one X for simplicity sake.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:33 PM
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I agree with you, it does add value to stay informed about sports. Watch highlights, read news, podcats, whatever. Best yet, actually go to the games. I just meant avoiding most of the talk show garbage on ESPN. Fantasy sports (namely football) are extremely easy to talk about, as well, as long as they don't become a time sink.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:30 PM
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So anything I did had to be a high value activity. And my criteria for high value is pretty similar to what you have - physical fitness, book smarts, career skills, social/comradery, and family time. To expand on this, you can identify a low value activity by the fact that it has little to offer in these categories. Gaming, while maybe having some comradery aspects, pales in comparison to a shared physical experience. Watching tv provides little value unless it is educational. Social media and c…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 09:47 PM
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While I'm sure that's true, the same could be said for most entries under the "Body" category. Thus I left most clubs off in that section.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 09:43 PM
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"Bored people are boring people."
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 08:31 PM
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Thanks, I'll adjust the chart. I figured it took some work but have never done it personally.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 07:27 PM
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Very true. Back when I was more introverted, my main excuse was that I didn't have a lot in common with people. "Oh those guys are bros, I'd have nothing to talk about." "That group are such art snobs, and I don't want to talk about that shit." But by simply getting out and doing things, it's unbelievable how many more conversations you can contribute to. For naturals this may sound obvious, but for any somewhat shy guy that sometimes flounders on dates: GET OUT AND DO SHIT. ANYTHING. You may no…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 07:21 PM
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Appreciate the feedback. I struggled with rating a lot of the physical activities, since they vary a lot based on the person. I imagined "Cycling" as one guy out on a bike, but you could obviously ride with friends, a meetup group, etc. The same with golf. You could go play by yourself, you could play in a tournament, you could play with buddies. Etc.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 07:16 PM
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I didn't want to convolute the main post. Here are suggestions for Team sports, solo sports, co-ed sports, and fighting categories. I know there are more I missed, so comment and I'll add the popular ones. Team Sports Soccer Basketball Baseball/Softball Football Rugby Lacrosse Hockey Field Hockey Ultimate Frisbee Volleyball Racquetball Tennis Rowing Cricket Badmitten Solo Sports Golf Frisbee Golf Racquetball Tennis Pool/Billiards Bowling (debatable) Darts (debatable) Co-Ed Sports Softball Volley…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 06:08 PM
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To each their own. My point is simply that aside from the fairly high sodium content, a large chili is about 250 calories, 24 g of protein, and high in fiber. You could do a lot worse. Nutrition facts for the lazy: https://www.wendys.com/redesign/wendys/pdf/en_US_nutrition.pdf
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 02:36 AM
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Hey now, Wendy's chili is one of the best fast food options out there. Other than that, I completely agree. What is baffling is that even when I talk to out of shape or skinny guys, they usually acknowledge that it is their fault they have the body they do. "I just like food too much", or "I just don't like going to the gym." They're excuses, yeah, but they all have an element of self accountability - which is completely lacking with these she-beasts.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 01:17 AM
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I'm not sure you can go by how skilled she is at giving blowjobs as a reliable indicator. In my experience, the girls that have great head did so BECAUSE they were more adverse to having sex, and therefor spent more time with exes fooling around before "making the leap." On the flip side, sluts never had that restraint. They started having sex early and often, and were never required to keep a partner happy and committed w/o the allure of sex.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 07:34 PM
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I would imagine those personality traits led to the girls having more partners, rather than the partner count resulting in the undesirable traits. The trend is there, nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 08:20 PM
7

I see your point, but Texas already is an economic powerhouse.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 11:29 PM
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"Someone said this is a safe zone, doesn't feel so safe." I can't imagine how terrifying real life must be. Nobody is being mean. Even if they were, that's okay. You have an option to rise above it. You have an option to not respond. You have an option to be mean back. This is simply what a discussion is like between males, when they aren't trying to be pc.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 01:04 AM
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Just search for "The Fappening" and you'll be hard pressed to miss them.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 11:19 PM
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Shit, excellent point. This is one of those phrases that always resonated as being absurd to me, without being able to pinpoint why. It's like the "just be yourself" and "you're going to make a great husband one day" revelations I had in the past. "She deserves better" is an acknowledgement of hypergamy and a bit of projecting, because every girl feels "they deserve better." Spot on!
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 06:31 PM
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You two are basically making the same point. He was saying the ring is like a chastity belt because the woman will put out UNTIL she gets the ring - at which point she is a born again virgin.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 06:27 PM
1

I've found that using sassy as a replacing for bitchy can be extremely effective in dismissing bitchy behavior. For instance, if a girls fat friend is giving you attitude, you can amusingly comment "well aren't you sassy." In a social context where calling a girl bitchy would be too confrontational, "sassy" gets the point across.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 08:49 PM
1

Thank you for drawing this distinction. I was reading this thinking "wtf kind of miserable hags are these guys dating...?" But they aren't dating, they're married. My LTR's have loved taking care of me on the rare instance that I'm sick. However, I could easily see that not being the case if I had wifed them up.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 05:22 PM
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It's funny, I was raised to think that being selfish is a bad thing. And to a certain extreme, it is. But that line of thinking, of not wanting to be seen as selfish, is dangerous. It can lead to staying in unhealthy relationships. It can lead to not pursuing the career or life you want. It's your life, and only you can make your aspirations your reality. You HAVE to be selfish, because it's your fucking life!
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 08:04 PM
4

I would say his 48 Laws of Power is by far the better read - in general and for RP principles specifically.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 09:16 PM
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It helps to have the Alpha mindset when you're jacked. It helps to display qualities such as perseverance, self-control, and confidence when you are jacked. It helps to play sports when you are jacked. It helps to move furniture when you are jacked. Etc, etc. While impressing the ladies is neat and all, let's not forget there are many more perks that far outweigh success with chicks.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 09:12 PM
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Holy hell I love this quote. To contribute a favorite of mine: “Two hands working can do more than a thousand clasped in prayer.” ― Madalyn Murray O'Hair
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 08:43 PM
1

Geographical region and age are going to play a great deal in if "low 6 figures isn't enough."
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 10:17 PM
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Why the fuck would you not actually do it? Even if I had complete trust in the woman, there is no reason NOT to get a paternity test.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:30 PM
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Girls are interested in older men.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:16 PM
3

In general TRP discussions, kindness comes from a position of power and authority, niceness comes from a position of weakness. Kindness can be a weakness, as all personality traits or actions can be when used to excess.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 01:15 AM
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I am in my mid twenties, and it is shocking how many bp friends/acquaintances I've heard refer to these years as the "prime of their lives." I always use this example to try and convey that we haven't even come close to our best years. "Remember in high school all the girls dated college guys? And in college it was graduates? And now they are dating guys in their late 20's early 30's? Guys don't age nearly as quickly, and I don't know about you guys but I'm fucking excited for it." Nobody has ev…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/14 08:51 PM
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For what it's worth, chugging a couple of bottles of water before bed will work wonders. Both stimulants and alcohol will dehydrate you, and the combination seems to make it exponentially worse. Given how sneakily the blackout can butt-ram you, this is much easier said than done.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 04:07 PM
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Ah yes, the '4 Lokos Effect.' Mixing stimulants and alcohol is a strange thing. The stimulants make you feel less drunk, so you diminish the slurring, stumbling, negative effects of alcohol - even while you've drunken enough to sedate a horse. But then, out of nowhere, you hit a wall. A black out wall. And typically you will pass out shortly thereafter (especially if you smoke afterwards). What a fun combo it is... but they lead to some god awful hangovers.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 03:26 PM
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Here's how I explain my scale to buddies. I am typically harsher on the rating, but I try to account for 10 being the hottest women in the world. 4 and less - These numbers are rather insignificant, because why waste your time rating just how ugly somebody is? 5-7 - The grey zone. 5 is a girl that you'd hook up with when drunk (maybe). She'd have a decent body and face. A 7 is the girl next door. Maybe she has a small nose, a flatter ass, whatever. A hot girl, with some minor 'defects' that you'…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 03:20 PM
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They dislike TRP because this shit is supposed to be intuitive. Guys are just supposed to know how to have a spine, to not be supplicating, to be stoic. Dissenters see it as a way of 'cheating' the system, even though TRP's main objective is for one to ACTUALLY improve one's self. For instance: A guy that intentionally waits a couple of hours to text back is being a manipulative asshole. A guy that just so happens to be busy, or maybe he's with friends, or maybe he's talking to another girl... o…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/14 12:08 AM
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Low T levels can be due to behavior, genetic factors, or both. Hit the gym and lay off masturbating for a week or two, and see if you don't feel up to par. If you still aren't into it after that, definitely head to your doctor.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 08:48 PM
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If you get an answer such as '4 or 5', you know without a doubt she is lying. If her actual number is less than 10 there would be no need for ambiguity in the response. Anyone who has slept with less than 10 people knows damn well how many they've slept with.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 04:03 PM
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On the side bar, under Rational Male Year One. There is 5 or 6 articles on plate theory, and it is a phenomenal read.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 10:59 PM
3

...because that mace was going to kill you?
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:59 PM
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NO! A pretty horse wearing a party hat may appear to be a unicorn, but the whole point is that they don't exist.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:25 PM
2

I'm on a bit of a 48 Laws kick. Law 9 - Win through your Actions, Never through Argument Any momentary triumph you think gained through argument is really a Pyrrhic victory: The resentment and ill will you stir up is stronger and lasts longer than any momentary change of opinion. It is much more powerful to get others to agree with you through your actions, without saying a word. Demonstrate, do not explicate.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:21 PM
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Law 31 - Control the Options: Get Others to Play with the Cards you Deal The best deceptions are the ones that seem to give the other person a choice: Your victims feel they are in control, but are actually your puppets. Give people options that come out in your favor whichever one they choose. Force them to make choices between the lesser of two evils, both of which serve your purpose. Put them on the horns of a dilemma: They are gored wherever they turn. A lot of the advice in this thread is a…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:07 PM
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Law 30: Make your Accomplishments Seem Effortless Your actions must seem natural and executed with ease. All the toil and practice that go into them, and also all the clever tricks, must be concealed. When you act, act effortlessly, as if you could do much more. Avoid the temptation of revealing how hard you work – it only raises questions. Teach no one your tricks or they will be used against you. Guys, if you haven't read it yet, you really should check out The 48 Laws of Power.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:03 PM
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He asked why this piece was fantastical. And I'm not exactly opposing you here. I enjoyed the read, and it is really a great summary for the lessons I had learned independently - prior to finding TRP. My comment was more so aimed at newer members going through the angry phase. It is very easy to get caught up in revenge fantasy. It is very easy to work out a few times, and take pride in knowing that some day you'll be swole as fuck and she'll have hit the wall. But ultimately, it is not a produc…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 07:06 PM
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Quit linking these sites! And if your post is a link, take the effort to write some fucking commentary on it. Here's the article so that POS website doesn't get ad revenue: 1. The Guy You Date: Thinks about what you have to offer him. He loves you because you give him your undivided time and attention, you’re attractive, and you share common interests and hobbies like playing tennis or obsessing over Fall Out Boy. He is hoping you will be a good match for him. The Guy You Marry: Thinks about wha…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 07:00 PM
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It is fantastical, because while it's nice to think that any woman who wronged you in the past will get her just desserts, most likely she won't. Most likely she'll find a guy to settle down with, and she won't fully face the repercussions of being a post-wall single mom. Or a post-wall anything for that matter. Women in their late 20's early 30's can still and often are attractive enough to 'settle' with a provider. It's pointless to expend this kind of effort to 'tell them off.' You can think …
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 06:49 PM
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I had come across that number in an article, but I can't find anything to back my claim up - and it looks like I was wrong. This site has some interesting statistics. Looks like within the 18-30 age group, about 40% have tats.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 02:23 PM
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Rap/R&B: Loyal - Chris Brown Deuces (and the Remix) - Chris Brown Is She Gon Pop - J Cole Beware - Big Sean & Lil Wayne Same Ol Story - DJ Drama No Church in the Wild - Jay-Z and Kanye Most songs by Childish Gambino (nerdy actor that became a rapper. Saw the true nature of women before becoming famous, and talks about it often) Now, for a genre that has largely bp lyrics... Alternative Rock/ Indie: Changing of the Seasons - Two Door Cinema Club I Can Talk - Two Door Cinema Club Dirty Laundry - Y…
/r/askTRP29/07/14 02:15 PM
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It's totally absurd. Of people under 30, more people have tattoos than do not. Of those, I'd say maybe 10% have a meaningful one; the rest are trivial bullshit. It's insane that by not having permanent body art, you are in the minority (but I quite like it).
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 10:31 PM
2

Never trust a horse girl... So I googled it and didn't come up with much. Da fuck does that mean? Because she loves her horse so much? Maybe I just don't know many horse girls... Serious inquiry, though.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:31 PM
1

While we're nitpicking, and while they may have the same definition, I'd argue that "not all" and "some" do have different connotations. For instance: Did you eat my strawberries? "I ate some of them." "Well, not all of them." The first implies you ate a small amount of strawberries, the latter implies that you ate most of them. Gargantuan, big, humongous, large, enormous - all have the same definition, but depict the scale of largeness to a varying degree.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:20 PM
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I think dread game can work on her family, too. Being English will only help you in that regard. I don't know what it is, but Americans are fascinated by the accent. I'm not saying that she should try to fuck everyone, but hear me out: By charming her family, you can draw attention that would've been on her. Like traditional dread game, you become more attractive simply by other people liking you. However, in this case, it's less so physical attraction and more about establishing a social presen…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 10:38 PM
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You need to be a bit more specific. Over-protective when? Over-demanding about what? Generally, early on in a relationship you want to give them just enough rope to hang themselves, so to speak. Being controlling is a beta behavior, for instance. She may stop seeing her friends a few times because you are controlling and afraid she'll leave you or cheat on you, but if it's going to happen it's going to happen eventually. You are much better off finding out a girl's nature as quickly as possible.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 10:25 PM
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Definitely. For example, I have noticed an increase of meme responses, gifs, etc. just in the past month or so. While some are pretty damn funny, it is essentially the same as a short reply that the bot aims to filter out. It's odd isn't it? On one hand it's great that more guys are swallowing the pill, on the other it inevitably leads to straying from core TRP principles. If we focus on posts reiterating the basics, experienced members lose interest. If we don't, you have too many of the newer …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 07:21 PM
2

If he knew what he was doing, it would've never gotten this bleak to begin with. May not be accidental RP, but he definitely wasn't RP in recent history.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 04:28 AM
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Thanks, bud. Had that shit down for a while now. Maybe this post would have been better off in /r/AlreadyRed. Having internalized a few TRP basics for a discussion of this specificity was implied.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 12:43 AM
1

Maybe this post would have been better off in /r/AlreadyRed. Having TRP basics down would be a prerequisite for this discussion.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 12:39 AM
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Or "just playing." They aren't very good at joking, but they can say harsh truths and try to downplay them.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 04:15 PM
1

To play devil's advocate: How do you know he hasn't over-thought the little things? It is only by consciously analyzing how you appear to other people that you could ever internalize a change. It takes a lot of effort to be perceived as effortless.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 03:31 PM
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Yes, they are reflexes, but by being conscious of them is the only way you can gauge the effectiveness and impact they have. For instance, saying sorry is a reflex for a lot of guys. They move quickly because that's just what they've always done. They've kept their arms crossed, had poor posture, and avoided eye contact. You are right that there are definitely things to work on before trying to be conscious of how often you're smiling at a girl, but I wouldn't dismiss it as being inconsequential…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 03:26 PM
1

This is a great point, and I think you're spot on. However, it takes a certain personality type and years of practice to pull off the high energy, playful, "asshole" trope. For a lot of the newer guys around here, I highly doubt this is something they could do effectively. If you are smiling in a situation trying to gain acceptance from another person, your energy will be felt as weak. Fucking nailed it.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 03:19 PM
1

Most of the information on this post can be found in "The Definitive Book of Body Language." However, it just provides the information, and does very little analysis on how that effects sexual strategy. For instance: one point it tries to drive home is the concept of "mirroring." Mirroring is simply the act of copying another's body language. In every interaction you have with someone (or some people), you will notice mirroring. It is used to build rapport, and subconsciously sends the signal th…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 03:13 PM
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As u/AlphaXpipups states above, I think it's definitely your energy being a factor. It's fine to smile, just make sure she's smiling more and you bring a high energy to the interaction. People remember how you make them feel, not what you say. If she remembers laughing and smiling, and generally having a good time, you're golden.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 03:01 PM
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Thanks for the suggestion, that book is definitely on my list. Most of the information on this post can be found in "The Definitive Book of Body Language." It's an a great read, I just tried to tailor the information into a TRP discussion.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 02:57 PM
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Studied abroad for a bit. Kinda missed friends and family... missed my dog a hell of a lot more.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 05:49 AM
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If you are more approachable you are more likely to get a date, because you now have an easy in to conversation. But yes, while showing that you can raise and keep a creature alive is a 'beta' trait, I can't imagine it ever being a detriment to a guy in social interactions with women (assuming the dog doesn't look like you jacked it from a homeless dude).
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 05:48 AM
0

It's not a comedy, but Breaking Bad is a great RP example.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 01:22 AM
4

To piggyback on quotes conveying essentially the same thing: "Love is best left to who cares less." - The Graduate (It's from a song, so I like the way it rolls off the tongue)
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 04:06 PM
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I don't have anything to contribute to your original post- it sounds like you know and are okay with what you are doing. I think the moral high-horse comments are a bit strange considering the sub. I'd like to know a little bit more about your current situation. You want a divorce, but she still adores you... what is leading to your change of heart over the last 15 years? I imagine it's a bit like my exes that I had no real issues with, I was just ready to move on. But those were nothing compare…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 04:04 PM
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This sounds spot on. And you'll probably get the sentiment that "these guys aren't your friends." I'm not sure I completely agree with this. One of my best friends to this day was our "punching bag" back in the day. He was home-schooled and so sheltered that for a bunch of insecure high school kids- he was an easy target. I have a feeling that you are just challenging the established hierarchy too quickly. Keep a low profile for a month or two. Hang out with other friends, take up hobbies, whate…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 08:29 PM
2

If you've gotten hit on twice in 15 years, I doubt you are as desirable as you may think (or you are blissfully unaware of when you are being hit on).
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 08:19 PM
1

It doesn't really. I know plenty of people from highschool that (unfortunately) were already married by 21. And an engagement ring goes on the same finger right? I imagine it has the same effect.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 08:17 PM
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Have sex with you on her own volition. Take pleasure in pleasing you. Cook, clean, care for you. Be the mother of your children. Actually enjoy being in your company, and your company alone. I'm all for legalizing prostitution, but let's be honest- it's a glorified means of masturbation. To pretend that a woman brings NOTHING to the table is ridiculous, and a large part to why TRP is often shamed elsewhere on Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 11:15 PM
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I think you'll find a lot of people agree with this sentiment. I'd say most PEOPLE are boring these days. It's easy to get wrapped up in mindless entertainment like television, social media, etc. but it adds zero to one's personality or ability to hold an interesting conversation. That is why TRP is all about bettering yourself, reading, partaking in new hobbies, traveling, and all that jazz.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 05:26 PM
1

How about Forgetting Sarah Marshal? Guy becomes complacent and supplicating in current relationship, wife cheats on him and dumps him for rock star. Guy works on improving himself, dates another girl, and ex-wife gets jealous and tries getting back with him. Guy fucks it up with new girl, but continues working on his career and improving himself. It is assumed that he wins the girl in the end, but the main takeaway is that he is a far happier and better person from his personal pursuits- the wom…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 04:46 AM
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Don't feed the troll, guys. (This portion is filler so auto-delete bot doesn't do its thang)
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 03:24 PM
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Jesus Christ you guys sound like such defeatists.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 03:40 PM
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Is it not? Every girl I've known wants to try new things. To travel the world. To go to music festivals, events, and shows. Almost every girl I've known has had no real career goals. They've had no sense of direction, or purpose. They've gone through life solely reacting to their surroundings. If they want to go to a lot of those events, if they want to travel, they are usually doing it with a man- because they're just along for the ride. But around age 30, the ride stops. But my ride? Our ride?…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 03:23 PM
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Me: Nice magic act... Her: What do you mean? :)) Me: The act where I ask for your number and you disappear. This line is brilliant! Way to bring the conversation back from the dead. Overall it was a great FR.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:20 PM
1

Not defending yourself is assuredly a beta trait, though. (I hate describing people as Alpha/Beta and prefer to focus on the traits/behaviors)
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:54 PM
0

Yeah, I really don't know what the goal was there. From looking up median salaries, I've seen accounting is around $65,000 and I'm pretty sure software engineer is around $90,000. On an individual basis, it doesn't even matter though. Out of my friends from high school, the accountant is pulling in the most dough.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:48 PM
1

While I'm a huge fan of the book, I don't think the law is applicable here. In fact, I think the book mostly relates to business relations rather than personal ones. This guy was not my enemy- I stood to gain absolutely nothing from him. It was just an unexpected encounter (that I brought on myself).
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 04:11 AM
1

Fair enough. My point is that he wasn't that unfortunate looking. I've seen far worse off guys do much better.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 04:05 AM
0

Ah yes, sweet sweet internet points. I've just felt TRP has given me a lot, and wanted to share a story that reiterates a RP truth in an unique manner. This isn't even my main account. I don't care about karma, and reiterating that I was an asshole is rather pointless when I've agreed countless times.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:54 AM
0

I don't personally know him, but should I see him again I gladly would.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:47 AM
0

I agree. And I felt like a piece of shit after doing this to an undeserving guy. I was drunk, made a comment to my friend louder than I intended, an by that point it was a public display I wasn't going to back down from. This post was never intended to glorify my behavior. I got drunk and acted like an imbecile, and I've stated that repeatedly. However, I was astounded that anyone would defend this behavior- much less the guy's girlfriends friends. And that's the point I was trying to convey (as…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:46 AM
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Honestly, it felt fake too. I could not beleive the girls defended my behavior. I assure you that this is a true story, but I certainly don't blame you for not believing me.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 02:41 AM
1

The only thing I said behind his back was that I wanted to apologize to him... My original comment was to my friend at my table- just said it too loudly. Not that it makes it better, I've just clarified in a few other posts.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 12:18 AM
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I agree. The original comment wasn't even directed at him. I already sounded like a drunken dipshit, so I think dismissing me as you would a drunk stumbling around a bar would be a good course of action.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 08:57 PM
2

I don't recall putting down anybody with down syndrome, or using it as an example of Alpha behavior. Agreed, I was a total douche nozzle. The point was how the women defended my terrible behavior as if this random guy deserved to be verbally assaulted by me.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 08:38 PM
2

I agree, and I thought I conveyed the point that even I thought I was an asshole. Hell, maybe I'm just a self-aware asshole. That's on me to handle, whichever the case. I decided to write this story up because I thought it conveyed a universal RP truth in an entertaining way.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 08:06 PM
1

And what's unfortunate is that if he found this community and improved himself, he would have been a formidable opponent (surely there's a better word to call it). He was pudgy, but fairly tall. I used the Quasimodo example because his eyes were somewhat bug-like and droopy. But the thing is, if you lose weight and get fit, features like that can become attractive! Owen Wilson, for example. His broken nose would be a massive detriment if he didn't take care of his body, but by being an otherwise…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 07:59 PM
3

To clarify: My friends didn't approve of behaving like that. If it came to blows, they would have had my back, but that doesn't mean they supported that behavior. The comments condoning my behavior came from friends of HIS girlfriend. Until that day, I had never met them.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 07:54 PM
3

I was with a few buddies, but he had about twice as many people at his table (mostly women of varying ages, but at least one dad). So rather than attempt to escalate to a fight in which he could maybe land a punch on me but ultimately lose, he could use onlookers to shame me. After all, I was (probably) noticeably drunk. You wouldn't take a drunk stumbling around the bar seriously, so why address me head on? EDIT: And to clarify, the initial comment was to my friend. An unfortunate side effect o…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 07:30 PM
1

I agree. I think it's a result of TRP needing to deliver the advice in a distinct black/white, alpha/beta way so it is more easily digested. As you digest the pill a little more, you see the absolute truths (Alpha/Beta behavior, AWALT, etc.) work on more of a sliding scale than a binary one. I could go into more detail if anyone wants; I know I've seen some threads here discussing it.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 07:24 PM
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Good on him. However, he certainly sounds like an exception rather than the rule.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 07:05 PM
2

I think you could generalize across majors at individual universities, and see trends of certain degrees attracting people that exceed in different areas. For instance, for a Computer Science major, generally would lack in social skills and personal hygiene. But on an individual basis, assuming these generalizations will lead to a lot of wrong assumptions. To quote Cleon 'Slammin' Salmon: "When you assume, you make an asshole, out of yourself."
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 07:00 PM
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Completely agree. However, I didn't care to pursue any of these girls, so I was impartial to the overall outcome of this situation. In the future, I wouldn't apologize outright. But in the future I wouldn't be such an abrasive twat, either.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 06:48 PM
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99% of the time I wouldn't apologize for my behavior. And I never would to a girl I'm attracted to. However, in this case, saying "mistakes were made" doesn't seem to quite do justice. One should never throw around saying sorry, but I have no problem apologizing to a guy when I was legitimately in the wrong.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/14 06:07 PM
11

"She's definitely worth the oneitis though." Jesus. No, no she isn't.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 08:47 PM
11

Whether applicable to you or not, yes, that should be your attitude regardless.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 09:40 AM
1

A quick search will give you all the results you need. I'd just like to personally endorse the 48 Laws of Power (which I'm sure would show up on that list).
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 10:36 AM
1

Not with that attitude
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 11:56 PM
4

Firstly, I'd say that cocky, teasing, and sincere aren't mutually exclusive at all. However, you should certainly avoid overtly expressing the same sentiment. A few possible replies: "Why would you want to?" "I tend to have that effect..." "Me too... I'm super narcissistic tho" "I know. I can read minds, and you need to get yours out of the gutter, missy."
/r/askTRP04/06/14 09:41 PM
3

To add on to this, I've found that describing a hypothetical situation of how you would interact with her at work is a funny and interesting way of furthering the conversation. If she was a psych major, joke about how she must have your personality pegged already, and jokingly ask for advice. If she is a nurse, you could say: "I walk into your hospital with a cough, a strong limp, and a speech impediment. Diagnosis. Go!" If she is a teacher, give a hypothetical situation about if you were a misb…
/r/askTRP04/06/14 09:29 PM
1

I've introduced it to friends successfully by talking about past relationships: "I noticed that every time I 'gave in' on a situation, it would get completely disregarded and she would try to change something else. Like I would never stay at her place, she complained and made a big deal about it, so I started to stay every once in a while. Then the fight became about not staying over enough, and how 'I don't make an effort.' I make efforts, they just get ignored completely after the fact. I've c…
/r/askTRP04/06/14 09:17 PM
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Spot on reply for number 1. You could even exaggerate the manner you slow down (ie. pretend to tie your shoe, look in store window) to demonstrate what you are doing, but not addressing it with words. For number 2, keep the frame that she is a child and you are the adult. Literally respond to her as if she is a 5 year old that just asked you to buy her a gift. "Maybe after you eat your veggies, dear." "Save up your allowance." "Not now, sweetie." Not the best examples, but you get the point. Wha…
/r/askTRP29/05/14 06:27 PM
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Assuming you are secure with your sexuality, you could try: "Hell yeah I'm jealous, I thought he was into me."
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 05:50 PM
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You'll never lose women chasing money, but you'll always lose money chasing women.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 12:35 PM
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