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Well, duh, in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:11 PM
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Define "new".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:00 PM
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Men not being able to get into relationships. How else would one describe that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:54 PM
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"Relationship crisis" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:44 PM
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Clearly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 11:15 PM
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What the hell is this guy smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 08:56 PM
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And you’re a man which means your orgasm was pretty much guaranteed. I wonder if your partners recall those experiences equally “wonderful”. I’d bet my house that they don’t reminisce about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 05:21 PM
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How many ONS have you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:11 PM
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When I'm not in a relationship, yes! Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:47 AM
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If being single and celibate is perfectly fine for some women though, having a low libido partner would be functionally the same in terms of sex. Being single and celibate is fine. That doesn't mean I'm not getting myself off regularly. It just means I'm not having sex with a partner. So no, it's not functionally the same. If I'm in a relationship, I want our libidos to be somewhat matched. I'm high libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:45 AM
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I don’t think it sounds true at all. If you’re incapable of thinking for yourself, that is disturbing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:35 PM
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That sounds like a “them” problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:40 PM
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Yeah, I broke up with a guy once because he couldn’t understand that how a man treats me outside of the bedroom directly affects my libido (read: willingness to fuck him). And I’m horny 24x7.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:37 PM
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In other news: water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:33 PM
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How is it a gotcha? Sexual compatibility is important in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:32 PM
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Because sex is important in a relationship. And yes, I absolutely would rather be single than in a bad relationship. What kind of question is this even?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:27 PM
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He gets off either way. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 08:16 PM
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Funny how these sort of videos you describe don't show up on my feed. At all. If it were so ubiquitous as you claim, you would think I would see the same amount. No? So, yes, it's your algo.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:51 PM
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I fully acknowledge that domestic violence exists and is not a gendered thing. But if you're being inundated with such videos, that's a you problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 05:34 PM
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it was sparked by the sheer number of videos I’ve seen online where women are full-on hitting their boyfriends Fix your algorithm, dude. You're falling for rage bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 04:30 PM
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I’m not taxed less on my income because I’m a woman. So yeah, taxes are gender neutral. HTH Unless you can show me a tax table that differentiates between women and men, because the one I see on the IRS site doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 07:56 PM
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Taxes are gender neutral and based on income, not what's between our legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:40 PM
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As if women don't pay taxes? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:56 PM
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This society let my body be mutilated as a baby Put the blame squarely on your parents for that one. They could've (and should have) declined circumcision.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:46 PM
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Yes it is true that you have more options nowadays if you just wanna fuck. Plenty of hoes out there. Fucked plenty seemingly way out of my league. That being said if you are looking for LTR or marriage material the choices are almost non existent. Social media and politics fucks with womens brains. The same can be said for the opposite sex. This is not a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:28 PM
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You = generic you (men)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:11 AM
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Yeah, I want them to pass a law so that I can lift as heavy as my male counterparts at the gym. Guess what? It’s never gonna happen. Sperm leaves his body. His choice is over. Sperm is now in her body, she decides what happens. How is this so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:52 PM
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Once the sperm has left the man's body, he's not in control of it anymore. Game over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:42 PM
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Biology isn't fair. This has been well-established. Every fucking time we have these "discussions". If only there were a method that could contain the sperm. Hmmmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:36 PM
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You. Are. Responsible. For. Your. Baby. Making. Batter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:09 PM
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Finally, you get it. Problem solved. Once the sperm is deposited, men’s choice is over.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:31 PM
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Don't fuck women you don't trust. Simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:22 PM
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Consent to sex, and ejaculation is not consent to pregnancy. Wrong. You are consenting to the possibility of pregnancy when you decide where to deposit your sperm. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:20 PM
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But if you’re clear from even before the existence of a pregnancy I don’t see why any man should be on the financial hook. He went raw. Fuck around and find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:51 PM
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He decides where he's going to deposit the sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:08 PM
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No it’s not. WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 12:48 AM
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but that ignores the real issue: in many places, they don’t even have the legal right to test their own child without the mother’s consent 5 out of 195 countries is not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 12:40 PM
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Wtf dude just jackoff and shut up, it's not as complicated as you are making it out to be I'd like to give this more than one upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:50 PM
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Yeah, because it's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 05:36 PM
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If your intentions are to prove the hospital didn't switch babies on you, testing the MOTHER and the baby is proof enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:40 PM
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Oh, boo hoo. You're "looked down upon"? Who gives a shit? Date you who want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:26 PM
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Don't waste your breath. He's convinced of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 03:24 PM
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If that's your real concern (which it's not, but ok), you can test the mother. In the US, there are multiple fail-safes in place now to prevent that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:57 PM
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So you agree that it's not MOST.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:00 AM
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but most women regularly snoop through their husband’s phone. Source? Nobody I know does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:50 AM
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I don't know what country you live in, but in the U.S. the baby doesn't leave the delivery room without it and the mom getting matching ID bracelets. Baby switching is practically unheard of nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:01 AM
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That doesn't answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:57 PM
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I don’t accept the premise that undertaking a paternity test is an accusation of infidelity. As they say: Facts don't care about your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:56 PM
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Red herring, but ok. How is asking for a paternity test anything other than an expression of distrust?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:53 PM
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This has to do with paternity tests, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:44 PM
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If a women has a "go bag", she has doubts about her safety.* If a man wants a paternity test, he has doubts about her faithfulness. It's a wash in my book. (*aside from the fact that everybody should have a "go bag" if they live in an area that is prone to natural disasters)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:35 PM
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Those mean different things. This is certifiably whackadoodle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:20 PM
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Can you not imagine a man who has 0 jealousy issues due to the paternity test? No. I cannot. Or if he wants one you imagine him to be more jealous in all scenarios? If the man I were to (hypothetically) have a baby with wanted a paternity test, I would take that as an accusation of infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:55 PM
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Those type of women are also not trying to date me, so again, IDGAF about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:46 PM
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I mean, I wouldn't date that type of guy, much less have a child with him. I had one unreasonably jealous boyfriend in this lifetime. That was enough. I don't know any woman (or man) who wouldn't take offense to being accused of being unfaithful for no reason. But you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:41 PM
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I don't associate with those types of women, so IDGAF about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:34 PM
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And if you inform your partner before you start conceiving that you'll be requiring a paternity test in case of pregnancy, then you're golden. But do I believe that a mentally sound man could want a paternity test in every single scenario where he’s informed he’s a father to a child? No, I do not. It's definitely a sign of paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:33 PM
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What else is it other than an expression of distrust?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:29 PM
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In every thread on paternity testing there are invariably women arguing that unless a man has a good reason, a paternity test is an expression of distrust. Duh. What else is it other than an expression of distrust? You want the test? You pay for it. If it's so simple, easy, and cheap, just do it. I honestly can't understand the handwringing you guys do around this. Unless you live in France, it's easy enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:24 PM
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Dude. After seeing some of your responses I don't think there's any way to explain it to you that you'll understand. Maybe someone else will have the patience. I don't. I don't date or fuck men I'm not attracted to. They're either attractive to me, or not. My FwBs are attractive to me, and if they had the other qualities that I require for a relationship, we would be in a relationship. Being an FwB is a failure to reach those metrics for being a guy I want to be in a relationship with. Unless of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:16 PM
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🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:10 PM
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Nope. They're just not relationship material for whatever reason. FwB = attractive to me + compatible in the bedroom Relationship guy = attractive to me + compatible in and outside of the bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:04 PM
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FwBs are not relationship material.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:22 PM
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What part of "women don't just want a rando to stick their dick into them"* do you not understand? We don't need apps for that. I could go down to the local watering hole on any given night and get laid within the hour. However, my chances of actually reaching orgasm are 100 times higher with my vibrator. *no matter how attractive he thinks she is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:04 PM
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That's what Grindr is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:56 PM
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Did you not see the /s? Men will fuck a warm loaf of bread and you wonder why women aren't falling over themselves because some rando thinks they're fuckable?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 05:44 PM
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Yes, dating. As in: more than just a fuck. Humble awakening? WTF? All women know that "likes" on OLD are worth shit. That's why they ditch dating apps fairly quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:37 PM
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I fired up FB dating just for fun yesterday and within a few hours I got plenty of "likes" to scroll through. One guy seemed great and his profile checked a lot of my boxes! Woohoo! Then I scroll down ... his response to the prompt "My goal for 2025:"? To have sex at least once. Really? You're going to lead with that? Total turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:23 PM
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They trip up eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:15 PM
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This entire sub is full of men complaining about not having the dating and sexual lives they want. This is never taken as a reflection of their own "unrealistic standards," it's largely espoused as a reflection of women's. I have to say I'm terribly amused (but not surprised) at how many men ITT completely missed the point of your OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:28 PM
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He didn't go on the dates that were arranged or move the messaging off the app to texting. That's usually when the mask comes off.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:09 PM
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Oh, no! Free will! The horror!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:57 PM
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Are those the percentages du jour? It's like that "women only find 20% of men attractive" bullshit, cherry picked and twisted from a blog post 15 years ago (blog post from a dating site, sooooo scientific /s) The "study" itself points out that while the female OkCupid users in this sample group rated 80% of the men in the group as "below average" in looks, they messaged the men on a normal bell curve, whereas while the male users rated women's looks on a normal bell curve, they only messaged the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:55 PM
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Oooh, yeah ... I wanna be used as a human masturbation sleeve. Doesn't that sound like fun? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:45 PM
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Are you seriously asking why someone with the same passion/niche hobby would be more attractive to someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:37 PM
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I do think that low effort from men is a symptom of the problem rather than the cause. No. Suicide swipers are not using the apps as intended. You're only supposed to swipe right on people you would actually consider dating. They are the problem and they ruined OLD for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:35 PM
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Instantly had 50 likes. Most men on the apps swipe right on anything that breathes. Getting likes as a woman means absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:50 PM
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His comment would be considered "concern trolling". I was making fun of it. Yes! No need for strawmanning here (which is another phrase you guys use in this sub willy nilly, like gaslighting.)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:43 PM
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No, I meant his real reason was out of concern for women, which is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:16 PM
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Which entitlement in particular are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:05 PM
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Why do women need a taller man to feel "small and feminine"? It doesn't matter. That's their preference. Why do men need a woman with smooth, shaved, hairless legs? It doesn't matter. That's their preference. Why do women need a man who makes more money than them? It doesn't matter. That's their preference. Why do men need a woman who is "gentle and submissive"? It doesn't matter. That's their preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:57 PM
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If men made better choices, then "post nut clarity" wouldn't exist. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:29 PM
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openly and loudly criticizing men's beauty standards has been prominent in mainstream discourse as long as I have been capable of long-term memory Oh, like "hitting the wall" and being called "landwhales" (or fat chicks, in your case)?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:26 PM
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This again? Hasn't this topic been beaten to death in the last couple of weeks already?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:22 PM
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More like: Quit complaining about the "monster" that the simps created and don't date them (but you won't, because you'll do anything to get your dick wet). *generic you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:19 PM
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after decades of men constantly being hectored that they need to critically examine their physical preferences Who's hectoring anybody? WTF? You (generic you) don't want to be with a woman who is overweight, then don't. Simple as. The whole "body positivity movement" is rooted in marketing. Most brands have promoted this because it aligns with profit, not altruism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:16 PM
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Are these "feminists" in the room with us right now? Who's putting a gun to your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:05 PM
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People are allowed to have whatever preferences they want. Whether you think they’re shallow or not, has no bearing on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:43 PM
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Oh, sure! That’s the real reason. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:00 PM
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“Shallow” is subjective. There is no universal punch list.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:46 PM
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How is it beneficial to “all of us”?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 06:33 PM
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So how do you explain that I don’t find any of my girlfriends’ partners sexually attractive and vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:18 AM
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Yes, but … women’s attraction is very subjective. That’s what these “stats” don’t account for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:00 PM
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I would agree that "some" is not "most". Maybe you watch different porn that I do, but the amount of women I've seen in porn who were authentically into it is in the single digit percentage range.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:32 PM
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Be more honest about the dating world. Don't give platitudes. Just say straight up that you expect a guy with abs Dude, the abs thing is in your head. Out of all the women I've been friends with only one has been very specific about being attracted to a man with a gym bod. This is not as universal as you're making it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:26 PM
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Good! Leave me tf alone when I'm working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:04 PM
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You said "many", not "all".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:09 AM
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No, many women actually are orgasming in porn. And if you believe this, I have some oceanfront property in Arizona to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:13 PM
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ChatGPT says what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:09 AM
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“As a woman myself” 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:39 PM
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who’s to say they don’t have any savings from their parents? What color is the sky on your planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:18 PM
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Ah, yes, that’s right. I forget y’all get your information from Reddit, TikTok, and YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:31 AM
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I’ve heard of way too many stories of women secretly thinking of and desiring that one guy from their past who was just “way better” Where have you “heard” this so many times?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:36 PM
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I would never combine finances again. I have my money. He has his. He makes about 1/4 of what I do, so expenses are split accordingly. To make things simple, we sat down and added up the regular household expenses (average) and he just transfers his 25% of it to me once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:09 PM
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What is this "shattered dreams" bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:19 PM
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We don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:02 AM
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I was referring to the "2 months' salary" (now 3 months') guideline. That was directly attributed to the De Beers marketing campaign.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:28 PM
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But the reason for that tradition is patriarchal. The reason is because De Beers flooded the market with a massive marketing campaign ("A Diamond Is Forever") starting in the late 40s and they promoted the (back then) 2 months' salary guideline. Before then, diamonds weren't the default choice for engagement rings. The whole wedding industrial complex is a racket.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:04 PM
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I just skip to lying about having a boyfriend now. Saves time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:22 PM
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Only after I lied to him about having a boyfriend. Otherwise he would've kept cajoling me. Like I owe him a date because he told me that I'm attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:59 PM
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Incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:53 PM
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Guy: You're so gorgeous! Can I get your number? Me: Thanks, I'm not interested. Guy: But why??? I'm a great guy!!! Once you get to know me ... Me: Thanks, but I'm not interested. Guy: Just a cup of coffee! Me: Thanks, but I'm not interested. Guy: I'm really a great guy! I'll treat you like a princess! Just go out with me once! Me: (lying) I have a boyfriend. Guy: Oh. Well, why didn't you say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:52 PM
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Clearly you've never been cold approached by a guy who won't take "no" for an answer until you say "I have a boyfriend".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 08:34 PM
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Just matching your energy, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:43 PM
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Bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:39 PM
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I walked out on a guy once who took me to dinner at a high end restaurant (that usually takes weeks to get a reservation). He kept snapping his fingers at the server and acting like a jerk towards the staff while being "sweet" to me. I left after the appetizers. He was flabbergasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:27 PM
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Yeah, they will never understand this. I can go on date with a "hot" guy, but if he's rude to the wait staff, my attraction will evaporate as quickly as a drop of water on a hot sidewalk in Dubai.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:15 PM
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I get so fucking tired of the word "gaslighting" being tossed around so casually and completely overused (particularly in this sub).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:05 PM
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Something that I've noticed when browsing the TwoXChromosomes subreddit Well, there's your problem right there ...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:41 PM
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No. Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:12 PM
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I'll never suck your dick, so your opinion on this matters less than 0 to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:51 PM
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Why do you feel compelled to disclose this information?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 08:15 PM
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You're surprised?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:24 PM
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Blowjobs provide zero pleasure for the woman Maybe for some women, but not this one. Degradation has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:22 PM
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How about it's none of your business?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:40 PM
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It’s destroying heterosexual relationships. It's really not. Mountains out of molehills.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 01:09 PM
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Hogwash.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:52 PM
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No. He said men need to raise their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:34 PM
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Because he doesn't understand why women aren't drooling over his 6-pack.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:32 PM
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Nah, I’ve been reading your comments to other people ITT. Unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:06 PM
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Why would consensual matter? Dude. What are you smoking?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:51 PM
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A lot of guys want kids like a 5 y/o wants a puppy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:47 PM
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Deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:44 PM
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Stock prices surged, especially in the private prison sector. Along with Energy (because Trump wants to "drill, baby, drill" on protected federal land). Trump will ride the coattails of the Biden economy just like he did after Obama. And he'll take credit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:25 PM
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Women LOVE elon musk, saying he is the hottest man on earth usually. Along with Donald Trump, who women absolutely can NOT get enough of. You've GOT to be kidding me. I can feel a gag reflex coming on just thinking about those assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:13 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 03:45 PM
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This is not a gendered thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 07:13 PM
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JFC. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:57 PM
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How would you describe the color "purple" to a blind person?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 06:50 PM
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I think what both sexes do need to apologize for is an unwillingness to compromise. Not gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:00 PM
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Are you visually impaired?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:53 PM
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You can't tell me that seeing the Grand Canyon on TV or just a picture of it is better than experiencing it IRL. It's a whole new dimension when you're taking it in with all of your senses.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 05:37 AM
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Hard disagree. Observed vs. lived experiences are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:49 AM
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So how would one calculate these years? Contiguous? Longest relationship? Time served? Ratio of years single vs. in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:54 AM
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Me too. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:49 AM
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I think it's kind of rare in any context to help others without getting some gratification out of it She might get some "warm fuzzies" from helping out as you would when you volunteer at a soup kitchen, but an orgasm? Highly unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:16 PM
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Because the guy is pretty much guaranteed an orgasm. The woman "helping" out the guy? Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:07 PM
20

Single motherhood is an insidious form of child abuse I'm filing this under: "Most ridiculous claims on PPD"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:23 PM
18

Nope. They hate single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:01 PM
2

There's 2 million or so people waiting to adopt healthy, white infants in the US. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:59 PM
6

An embryo is not a child. Here's proof: 1) Putting a baby in a freezer would kill it 2) Freezing an embryo preserves it Ergo, an embryo is not a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:56 PM
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I'm a little skeptical that pro-lifers and single mom haters are the same people. I'm not sure where you live, but in the Southern US, they are one and the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:40 PM
3

Because they're not having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:07 PM
6

Oh, this I gotta hear. lol Do tell!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 07:11 AM
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Nope. I make my own money tyvm. That’s not what I want a man for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:14 PM
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Wow. What great relationships you must have. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:08 PM
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So you think women are sex dispensers? Insert money, get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:04 PM
1

I mean, if all you want is a brood mare, hire yourself a surrogate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 04:52 PM
1

According to women the average man is a 1. According to men the average woman is a 5 or 6. I have friends, I interact with people. You have some strange "friends", then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:22 PM
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It means you're being vague.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 03:29 PM
1

That’s about as clear as a foggy mirror in a steam room.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:47 PM
1

Well sex isnt a mutual activity, its enjoyed by men, and tolerated by women. Jesus take the wheel!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:44 PM
0

I see a lot of unhappy women with the current dating environment Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:40 PM
4

This needs to be copy/pasted in just about every post in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:51 PM
1

Men who are discussing sex online are obviously self-selecting. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:47 PM
1

I don’t know why you perceived that as an insult. It was an honest question. How else can you know that “most men” prioritize pleasing their partners first?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 04:30 PM
1

most men prioritise satisfying their partner first Oh, really? How many men have you had sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:14 PM
1

He was hailed as a hero in the incel community
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:25 PM
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I’m sure some MAGAts will make you out to be a hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:23 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:41 PM
2

Right? In what world?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:40 PM
2

I find that hard to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:33 PM
5

Women don't suicide swipe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:20 PM
4

We also see how many women have sexualized Luigi Maglione because he is muscular. It's not because he is muscular, FFS. It's because he is conviction driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 06:19 PM
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Eh, if he really only had 2 weeks to live, I'd maybe give him a pity fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:51 PM
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The "study" you're talking about was an OkCupid blog post about data they took from a group of users of their dating site in 2009. You have to use the Wayback Machine to pull up the original post which doesn't list anything about sample size or sample selection or experiment methods. So, "study" is already generous. And here is the quote from that original blog post: And here's a TechCrunch article explaining the data from that same survey again: So, the "study" itself points out that while the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:38 PM
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Dude. Nobody cares about your 6-pack. I promise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:37 PM
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The "study" you're talking about was an OkCupid blog post about data they took from a group of users of their dating site in 2009. You have to use the Wayback Machine to pull up the original post which doesn't list anything about sample size or sample selection or experiment methods. So, "study" is already generous. And here is the quote from that original blog post: And here's a TechCrunch article explaining the data from that same survey again: So, the "study" itself points out that while the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:30 PM
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Women also perceive most men as below average as per Okcupid. For the love of all that is holy, will you guys quit quoting this shit? It was a blog post from over 15 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:27 PM
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Me too! He's so my type, it's not even funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 05:10 PM
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Tom Cruise, objectively? Yeah, he's a movie star. Subjectively? Yuck to me. I would've fucked Goose over Maverick in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:15 PM
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Take Johnny depp, feminists lost their shit when a man who was falsely accused dared DARED to have his day in court. This is not a "feminist" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 04:01 PM
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This has happened over a dozen times. Over a dozen? Suuuuure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:01 PM
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Only women is poly and getting sex. The dude is just watching That's not how polyamory works, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 01:38 PM
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There is NO third option where you are both perfectly equal, and in reality does not exist either. Have you ever been in a relationship before? Serious question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 10:08 PM
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Since you can't use the search function, apparently. Here. It's all here: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1hsm6yn/q4w_how_common_is_it_that_women_masturbate/ Which is the post I was referencing in my original comment ITT.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:16 PM
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The whole thing was debated in full in the thread that I referenced. I have no desire to rehash the whole thing. Avail yourself of the search bar. It wasn't about "how men experience sex", it was specifically about "what men/women think about when they masturbate to porn". Know the difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 05:39 PM
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One of my FWBs requested the Abella Danger fleshlight for Xmas. Not sure if it's because he likes her or because it closely resembles my lady bits. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 03:54 PM
0

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:26 AM
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I don’t study porn or how men consume it. Why should I? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:23 AM
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That’s not how I experience porn when I masturbate. Nor do most women. As was evidenced in the post/thread that I referenced. Did you not see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 12:15 AM
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Around just 30 years ago, porn was mainly in magazines or VHS tapes you’d have to go out and buy. Oh, you sweet summer child ...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:47 PM
2

More like women are underdiagnosed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:45 PM
2

Concur.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:32 PM
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Because their reproductive choice doesn't end when they decide where to deposit their sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:29 PM
4

What if she's happy to have sex every day, but isn't into the stuff he gets off to in porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 07:07 PM
0

Rookie mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:57 PM
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Personally, IDGAF if my partner watches porn as long as it doesn't interfere with our sex life (which has only happened once). That being said, in light of the recent "object of desire" discussion when masturbating, if I were a jealous person, I could see this being an issue for me perhaps? It seems that (at least from what most men described in this sub) when men are masturbating to porn they are fantasizing about fucking the actual woman on the screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:55 PM
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Retroactive jealousy is toxic. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:47 PM
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Why are you raw dogging women you can't trust?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 06:44 PM
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Another day, another "paper abortion" debate on PPD! How many ways can they re-brand this? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:46 PM
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Oh, you're one of those. Never mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:40 AM
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You didn't read the original comment I made that you replied to? That was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:32 AM
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I was in my 20s and 30s when I drove a "beater" car.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 12:18 AM
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I know this may seem foreign to you, but some people really only see cars as a method of transportation to get them from point A to point B reliably. I'll bet you that woman driving a "beater" doesn't have a car payment. Some of us also value being debt free over showing off for strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 11:27 PM
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Yes. They are mourning the potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 01:14 PM
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The way you describe it makes it sound like this mechanical process. Like oop, one sec, lemme just hit my orgasm button. That's exactly what masturbation is to me. "Enjoying the sunset" is for when I'm having sex with a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 10:18 PM
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Sorry, that's not making any sense to me. People have to work. We're not together 24x7. Depending on our schedules, sometimes we can only get together once or twice a week. They are FWBs. The value of our relationships is sex, essentially.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:14 PM
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I mean, if I know I'm seeing one of my guys that evening, I'll most likely hold off and save it for later, but when you get that itch, sometimes you gotta scratch it to get on with things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 09:03 PM
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I can rub one out in under 5 minutes and get on with my day. Guaranteed orgasm. Some rando from Tinder? LOLOLOLOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:58 PM
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You're kidding. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 08:44 PM
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unwanted confessions of "I jerked it to your vacation photos" in my inboxes You just reminded me of one of my favorites: "You don't know how many times I've jerked off to your LinkedIn profile pic ..."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:57 PM
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If I tell him that masturbating vs. having sex with another human are two entirely different experiences, his mind will be blown.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 06:19 PM
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Yeah, that's some Red Pill delulu he's got there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:31 PM
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Now see, you are compartmentalizing. It's not just when masturbating. You're trying to tell me how my own thoughts and body works? Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 05:29 PM
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I mean, I still feels good, but it's more of a "means to an end".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 04:11 PM
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We're trying to understand your comment, so why don't you explain it? It's not about the man; it's about the scene, the feeling. When masturbating, yes. What seems to be the problem with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:57 PM
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Wow, you've never been to France have you? Clearly!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:46 PM
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It's not an object or person that I'm thinking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:35 PM
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We're not saying that we don't think about anything while masturbating, just that it doesn't center around an "object of desire" or thinking of a specific person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:15 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:09 PM
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and sometimes it's just about getting rid of an urge. That's exactly what it is. I masturbate to get rid of the horny feeling and to be able to concentrate on something else and get on with the rest of my day. No, I do not have an "object of desire" in mind when I'm rubbing one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:19 PM
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You couldn't waterboard that information out of my friends. Same the other way around, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 02:15 PM
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"But I planned for the date and everything." This one's always a head scratcher for me. How hard is it to make a reservation at a restaurant? So exhausting! Amirite? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:49 PM
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Probably because very rich women are rare because ... patriarchy!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:14 AM
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As a woman who dates men, I agree with his comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:59 PM
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Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:57 PM
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So you don't enjoy spending time with this other person and just see getting access to her pussy as some kind of reward for your "hard work"? That explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:29 PM
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"Work harder"? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:44 PM
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They want her to be frigid and non-sexual with every other man in her life, but then turn into open and unrestricted sexuality exclusively for him. Which makes no sense, that’s not how it works, but this is all beside the point. Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:42 PM
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For a hookup only? Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 08:41 PM
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https://nuancepill.substack.com/p/is-there-a-single-young-male-crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:56 PM
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So, it’s nebulous af. Thanks for confirming.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 11:52 PM
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Like that shit doesn’t get posted here on a daily basis. 😂 You left out major details, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:35 PM
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You and me both.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:30 PM
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What is this “popularity”? Amongst whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:30 PM
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Also "none of your g-d business".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:52 PM
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It's almost like you intentionally took the statement in the worst faith way possible. Welcome to PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:11 PM
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it has nothing to do with turning women into "products" Why not offer "men's night" then with free drinks for the guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:19 PM
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"elective and unspecified reasons" = none of your g-d business why
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 02:08 PM
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I think in heterosexual relationships, men will mentally check out of their marriages, but won’t actually file for divorce because it seems like too much effort, having a wife (even if they’re not into her) still benefits them, and/or they don’t want to break up the family or disentangle the finances. So women get fed up and end up doing the filing more often. Yup. And they don't want to look like "the bad guy" for breaking up the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:24 PM
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How did you get THAT from what she said?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 01:10 PM
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Being taxed up the wahzoo is better than having to fuck, marry, or have a child with an ugly, repulsive, socially inept incel. Or any of these leftover 40+ men that no one wants. I'm wincing right now just thinking about it. You make a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 07:44 PM
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Another option is to borrow from the 6% regressive head tax levied on childless women, the Soviet tax, but apply it to all older women who refuse to marry or remarry. You can fuck right off with that. Another option is to drastically reduce all retirement benefits for women (and women only), unless they are in opposite-sex marriages or opposite-sex common-law relationships. And you can fuck off even more with this one. And when you get there, fuck off from there too. Then fuck off some more. Kee…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:57 PM
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Men should stop treating TikTok and YouTube as legitimate sources for information. Go touch grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:51 PM
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It was a riff on all of the guys in this sub who claim that single moms with shitty baby daddies "didn't vet properly".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 07:41 PM
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Curious as to why you'd be in a relationship with a woman you "really weren't that into"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:45 PM
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So, are you saying he didn't vet properly? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:32 PM
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A 5’9 man (which is average height) would choose a 5’3 woman over a 5’9 woman. You said: LOL no I said: LOL yes (speaking from experience)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:31 PM
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Yeah, I don' t know what Bizarro World you guys live in or where you find these strange women. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:40 PM
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Red Pill world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:24 PM
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Yeah but sometimes they clearly do need help and they refuse it. Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:21 PM
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What are these "things" you do for women that make them less attracted to you? Very nebulous. What is "improve the material conditions of the woman"? Sounds super vague. What kind of "help" are you offering that makes women lose attraction to you? Did they ask for help?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:19 PM
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LOL no. LOL yes, speaking as a 5'9" woman. Also, models are tall because the clothes hang off of their bodies better and they're just props to sell the product (clothing).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 03:12 PM
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Most people women don’t orgasm from hookup sex. FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 02:57 PM
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Ok, so if the woman went on one date and they started calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend and she got pregnant ... vs. the woman got pregnant from a guy who was a random hookup at a club That would make a difference to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:40 PM
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If they are calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend and are exclusive, then it's a relationship There's nothing stopping two people from calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend after one date.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:32 PM
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Blasphemer! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:19 PM
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as long as she didn't have the child through some kind of casual sex or FWB situation So, I'm curious. What would be the acceptable length of relationship with the father of the child be "appropriate" for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 09:09 PM
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Condoms are 98% effective when used properly. (At least according to the World Health Organization (WHO), the CDC, Planned Parenthood, and the Guttmacher Institute.)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:39 PM
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Two lies in one comment, even. A two-fer!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:13 PM
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Only a cotton-headed ninny-muggins! That's who!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:42 PM
1

There is no reason for you to know any more than you already do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:00 PM
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I consider a date a privilege for her. She has one chance to impress me. :snort: Good one, champ!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 05:28 PM
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I might even take a date to a cheap burger place just to see how she will react. When a potential date asks for dining preferences, I will often suggest food trucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:44 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1gbz24w/ppd_survey_results/ Mostly young. Mostly inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 01:01 PM
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Last time, TRUMP DEPORTED.EVERY.SINGLE.ILLEGAL.... DOESN'T matter their race. That is a bald-faced lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 12:40 PM
1

Just like Trump's "concepts of a plan". LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:18 PM
1

The minds of Red Pillers are indeed a scary place. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 05:14 PM
1

Hilarious, dude :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 11:05 PM
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What most men want is those first young 10 years. Do you not read this back to yourself and realize how positively creepy this sounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:49 PM
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Because there's more to sex with another human that just the few seconds of reaching orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:30 PM
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Yes, it is fair. That's how this democratic republic works (in the US at least). "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 02:01 PM
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I'd still go on a date with someone who is a few inches shorter than me if he ticks off some other boxes. It's how they handle themselves when they are "caught" that matters. It usually goes one of two ways: arguing with me about my own height laughing it off and carrying on with the date Guess which one happens most of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:53 PM
1

but if they tell the truth they also won't Explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:39 PM
1

That's some grade A bullshit. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 01:36 PM
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There's a world of difference between a childless woman struggling with infertility for something she's wished for all her life and a childfree woman whose worst nightmare is having to birth and rear a child. I don't know why you put childfree in quotes. What is 100% her fault? What will negatively affect her for the rest of her life? Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:32 AM
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Oh, are you the guy who has been advocating to "just let the kids starve"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:29 AM
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IDGAF about the study. You were complaining about "having to support people who hate me and don't think of me as a human". Although I highly doubt that any single mother needing government assistance gives you even a nanosecond of thought, much less "hate" you (perhaps projection on your part?). My point was that paying taxes for things you don't agree with is a part of living in this society and it's not limited to your personal ire for single mothers who may need government assistance to feed …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 12:22 AM
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Why should a woman have that privilege? Did you skip classes in middle school where they explain how the mechanics of pregnancy work?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:03 PM
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So if a wife takes a certain antibiotic because she had bronchitis and it nullifies the efficacy of her birth control, she gets pregnant and the husband doesn't want (another) kid. He should be able to just sign a piece of paper and say "not my problem; I didn't want it"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:36 PM
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Can we limit the "paper abortion" posts to one a day? Nothing new is coming out of this one either. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:33 PM
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I don't know anybody IRL who takes in any government assistance to even remotely offset the taxes that they pay, unless you count my friend who lost a parent in the WTC. I too would like the norm of "not having to support costly government policies I don't agree with", but that's not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:26 PM
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So would my vote count "more" if I pay more in taxes than most men? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 09:11 PM
1

Just making stuff up now. Yup. The ever-present red pill fever dreams. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:33 PM
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My great-grandparents loathed each other. They slept in separate bedrooms on the complete opposite sides of the house and avoided each other like the plague unless absolutely necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 08:30 PM
1

The desire for kids is of course at least partially genetic. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:42 PM
2

Exactly. So we don't just breed mindlessly like other animal species do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:41 PM
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Yes, and? What does that have to do with agreeing what should happen in case of an accidental pregnancy prior to having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:25 PM
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The question is about whether it's sexist. It's not sexist. It's a biological difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:06 PM
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Incorrect on both counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:33 PM
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Get it in writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:20 PM
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Fuck around and find out. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:07 PM
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You were the one claiming she was the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:07 PM
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A man has full control over his reproduction. He decides where to deposit his sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:40 PM
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Non sequitur.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:33 PM
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putting on a condom is already an implicit act of not wanting the woman to get pregnant Absolutely. But condoms are also used to protect from STIs. My original statement ITT: "A man's choice ends when he decides where to deposit his sperm." still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:29 PM
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Men can't get pregnant is a true statement and clearly not sexist. Yeah, I asked the same question. He can't answer it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:25 PM
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The fairest solution is for both parties to agree in advance what should happen in case of an accidental pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:16 PM
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Yet it doesn't. If you think abortions (or abortifacients) didn't happen before it was legalized, I've got news for you, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:12 PM
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Is it sexist that men without a uterus can't bear children?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:00 PM
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*there, but ok Again, how is it sexist exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:57 PM
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Ok, I'll bite. How is it sexist? Sexism implies discrimination. Is it sexist that men without a uterus can't bear children?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:56 PM
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I'm not shaming her. I said "speak for yourself".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:43 PM
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It's not sexist. It's factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 01:41 PM
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Where tf is it a "taboo topic"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:38 PM
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Men's choice ends when they decide where to deposit their sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:26 PM
6

Normal chicks don't describe themselves as "hitting the wall" at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:17 PM
5

It's not taboo. What utter nonsense. What is swept under the rug are frank discussions about motherhood and what pregnancy can do to a woman's body. It's mostly sugar coated with "Oh, but it's all worth it!"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:06 PM
1

Why should I? Are you paying my regular consulting fee? I’ll be generous and give you a discount. $200/hr and I’ll be your personal research assistant. Deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:16 PM
4

Apparently you don't know what tangible means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 10:16 PM
2

🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:16 PM
4

I'm so surprised! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 08:56 PM
5

Just be one of those guys who lists their age as "39" and then in the bio state: "Oh, hahaha! I put my age in wrong when I created my bio and I can't change it now! I'm really 63." It's like half of them with "oopsie, wrong age"!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:31 PM
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Totally depends on the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:16 PM
7

She's not gaslighting anybody. She's pretty upfront about what her expectations are. I don't agree with them, but that's not my problem. Again, do you know what gaslighting means? Clearly you don't, so quit using it as a catch-all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:14 PM
5

She's not gaslighting anybody. Do you know what gaslighting really means? She's pretty upfront about her ... preferences. Demented as I may find them to be. Not my circus, not my monkeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:10 PM
6

Non sequitur says what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:03 PM
-1

So, no answer. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:54 PM
10

Said the man ...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:42 PM
6

The whole single, childless women over 30 are happier thing is a crock. Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:41 PM
5

Just playing the same game. It's really all about how he handles it. It's super rare that a guy will shrug it off and be confident about himself and carry on with the date as normal. The other "short kings" try to argue with me about my own height. Womp womp.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:33 PM
-1

What tangible benefit would you gain from "not being gaslit"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:23 PM
5

IDGAF
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:21 PM
0

For women to stop lying about the fact that they would rather be an exceptional man's side chick, than their equal's wife Even if this were true (which it's not), what difference would it make to you personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 06:16 PM
1

Are you invalidating OP’s experiences?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:47 PM
2

Your friend isn’t wrong. I automatically subtract at least 2” from a man’s listed height on OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:16 PM
9

They already lie about their height. All. The. Time. That’s not a pro tip, that’s a guarantee that there won’t be a second date. I love showing up on a first date in 4” heels as a 5’9” woman and watch them sputter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:13 PM
2

It’s like when you cold approach a woman and she lies and says she “has a boyfriend”. Sometimes we just have to say things to get people to STFU about our highly personal choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:30 PM
5

Less than 1%? What orifice did you pull that number out of?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:21 PM
2

This is 2024, not 1904.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:16 PM
3

Explain why humans use birth control, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:07 PM
3

My point is for point 2 to occur there needs to be the complete dismantling of gender roles across the board No, it just requires her to make the first move. It's not that complicated, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:00 PM
3

Which gene is this trait carried on?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:54 PM
10

Then she will continue to experience a lack of dating options. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:53 PM
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Dating apps are not mandatory You're allowed to approach men yourself; you don't have to wait for them to approach you People lie so much on dating apps to bypass filters, it's almost a given
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:48 PM
3

You do know that the desire to have children is not genetic, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:33 PM
5

Comparing the comments on this post vs. the gender reversed one is quite entertaining. The amount men frothing at the mouth ITT is amusing to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:32 PM
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Jumping out of a plane with or without a parachute ... which one do you think will more likely result in death? So, women forced to give birth to children they don't want is your kink, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:38 PM
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LOL Love how you completely ignore the part about unwilling parents raising emotionally damaged children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:33 PM
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What does that have to do with my comment? "I don't want to have kids" is a valid reason not to have kids. Just because they are "well off enough" to raise a single child doesn't mean they have an obligation to do so. Especially considering the potential (and likely) emotional damage to a child born to unwilling parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 02:12 PM
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Do you really want people who don't want kids to be unwilling parents?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:16 PM
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Did you sprain a muscle making that reach?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:11 PM
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Potential Links Between Premarital Virginity and Sexless Marriages Lack of Sexual Experience: People who wait until marriage for sex may lack experience or knowledge about their own preferences or their partner's, which can lead to sexual dissatisfaction later on. They may also struggle with sexual communication or navigating sexual compatibility. Cultural or Religious Expectations: Some people who abstain before marriage may view sex as a duty rather than a mutually fulfilling activity. Over ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:08 PM
1

A week of antibiotics and it'll be a thing of the past. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:03 PM
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I mean if nonsense makes you feel better, by all means.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:02 AM
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You can only change yourself, bro. Complaining about women considering themselves "high status" ain't going to do shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:17 AM
2

Again, what does an arranged marriage have to do with a woman's security? How is it protecting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:16 AM
3

If you're going to reply to me, please make it make some sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:42 PM
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Sure, Jan. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:25 PM
1

More religious people that no sex before marriage is often tied to, have lower divorce rates as well. ... and a higher percentage of dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:17 PM
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So what if they do? That's their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 10:16 PM
1

Comments from men in this sub such as [verbatim]: "This whole thing keeps going just because I want sex with her. Otherwise i can't stand her"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:48 PM
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Well, you tell 'em since you have all the answers! If it's so easy, obesity wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:47 PM
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Getting an STI that is easily treatable? You've probably had a zit that took longer to heal. "Being disgusting" is your personal opinion. Do you think she gives a rat's ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 09:44 PM
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Yeah, isn't that what most men in this sub say? It's super easy! They can't understand why there are so many fat chicks because obviously all they would have to do is eat less and exercise?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:06 PM
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Okay, so that's a no on security. What does an arranged marriage have to do with a woman's security?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:57 PM
1

So, why even care?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:48 PM
0

Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:41 PM
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🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:28 PM
1

So what exactly are these “consequences” you speak of? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:26 PM
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If you truly didn't give a shit (which you claimed), you wouldn't have felt the need to add the last part. Especially because gonorrhea by all accounts is easily treated with antibiotics. So I'm not sure what kind of "consequences" you think this will have for her. Ooooooh! A week long of antibiotic pills with a side chance of getting a yeast infection. Such dire consequences!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 06:24 PM
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and she can deal with the consequences of those choices, starting with gonorrhea. Your sour grapes are showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:10 PM
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Yeah, I really don't get this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:39 PM
3

But how does it affect you personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:16 PM
3

That’s a lot more nutritious than stale bread!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:29 PM
4

By that definition every date is interesting. Exactly. You don't need to spend $100+ on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:13 PM
3

They're interesting because you're getting to know the other person better.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:33 PM
9

Red pill fever dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:30 PM
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Everything but the bread for the ducks. It's not good for them. Bring a bag of frozen peas. Don't believe me? https://www.youtube.com/shorts/CC42Onyaap8
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:51 PM
4

Sunk cost fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:48 PM
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It's like that "women only find 20% of men attractive" bullshit, cherry picked and twisted from a blog post 15 years ago (blog post from a dating site, sooooo scientific /s) The "study" itself points out that while the female OkCupid users in this sample group rated 80% of the men in the group as "below average" in looks, they messaged the men on a normal bell curve, whereas while the male users rated women's looks on a normal bell curve, they only messaged the top 30%. So, really, what this sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:53 PM
6

Chad-mirers? Testoster-bros? Broseidons?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 05:26 PM
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"Manospherians" somehow sounds way too sophisticated for what they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:11 PM
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This guy gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:08 PM
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Non sequitur much? I said for a close relationship I need to feel safe knowing he's not going to try and get into my pants. For an ONS, getting into my pants is the entire point. What circus? WTF are you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 11:58 AM
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An ONS is not a close friendship. WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 01:13 PM
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women have been so coddled in society they forget that wildlife and nature are truly dangerous just by themselves Have you never been camping? Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:52 PM
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For close friendship? I need to feel safe around him. I need to feel safe knowing that he's not going to use any available opportunity to get into my pants. That he likes me as a person and not because of my looks. There are very few men like this in my life, but most of the time they are friends' spouses or gay men. The only single, hetero man I'm close friends with is a former coworker (work husband). We used to travel together for many years and get along very well. More of a brother/sister v…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 05:42 PM
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FTS.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:53 PM
1

Yup. "Nach mir die Sintflut." IDGAF.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:52 PM
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Back then, your dating options were pretty much limited to your community and social circle. Back when?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 10:27 PM
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Male nurses are an immediate +3 in my book. They know anatomy ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 04:27 PM
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Dude. This is Reddit. You don't "own" this thread or govern how others use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 08:22 PM
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If you think I worry about the crap that delusional men post on Reddit, I have some oceanfront property in Arizona to sell you. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:05 PM
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There is no such thing as true love coming from a woman; a woman will never be able to reciprocate the powerful, deep love that men show to their girlfriends and wives. I can't take anything you say seriously after a statement like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 05:14 PM
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It wasn't even a study. It was a blog post from OK Cupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:27 PM
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LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:20 PM
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The new default would be that sex only happens with an agreement. Do it. Or in absence of an agreement there is no child support. Nope. If there's no agreement, you don't get off the hook.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:19 PM
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Men should agree upfront (before sex) to pay or not pay for possible children indefinitely or till X date. All for it. Sign a contract before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:15 PM
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That’s not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:15 PM
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Because he thinks it matters. Aside from the fact that there’s no such thing as two people who are identical in every way, it’s ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 06:01 PM
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>How so? You’re comparing hitchhiking with marriage. Seriously? >If the wife doesn’t hold up the agreement,I don't see why the husband should. Two wrongs don’t make a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 03:03 PM
1

I swear, every post on this sub today just gets dumber and dumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:43 PM
1

:crickets:
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:17 PM
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It's ok for either party to leave if they're unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 06:04 PM
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No. Are you serious? You can't be serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:56 PM
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Then go down to the police station and file a report because your wife doesn’t want to fuck you. See how that goes. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:11 PM
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I mean, I'm getting wet just thinking about it! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:22 PM
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Sex is important part of a relationship Agreed. Society unfairly force men to stay in sexually unsatisfactory relationship. Nobody is forcing anyone to stay in a relationship they don't want to be in. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:20 PM
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Dude. This again? Are you going to be making daily posts about the same damn thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 03:13 PM
2

Depends on your definition of gold digger. I think of those 20-somethings more like spoiled princesses; wanting that champagne lifestyle (clubbing, high end clothes, expensive bags, travel, etc.) and a guy to pay for it. Men their age can't afford it, so ... Never been my jam, but I see a lot of it in SoFla.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:58 PM
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5’9”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:44 AM
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Financial abuse is about financial control and manipulation. Look, dude. If you have a hard time with definitions, Google should be available on the same device that you access Reddit with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:44 AM
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That’s a non-response if I ever saw one. 😂 Based on that, I'm going to guess that's a "no".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:39 AM
1

Well, I'm one. I won't date a guy taller than 6'2".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:34 PM
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Hair extensions are expensive, high maintenance, and a pain in the ass. That's a one way ticket to Nope-ville!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:31 PM
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Yeah y'all need to come to a consensus about the makeup shit fr Like, seriously. Make up your damn mind. (Not that I really care either way, I just think it's funny.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:28 PM
1

$$$, silly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:26 PM
0

... and he's definitely not a MAGAt. So, bonus points!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:26 PM
2

I get massive push back every time I make the same point. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:22 PM
1

Two wrongs don't make a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:17 PM
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Sexual Monogamy: A commitment to having sexual relations exclusively with one partner. Sexual abuse? That's a stretch, homie. SA is defined as non-consensual sexual activity. If there's no activity, there can be no abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 11:17 PM
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That's your opinion. Are you active in the BDSM community IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:55 PM
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But this thrill only works when the man leading the dance does so with conviction. Incorrect. This thrill only works when the man has proven himself to be safe and respectful of boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:30 PM
1

You're comparing apples to oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:02 PM
2

People who like six packs are the majority mainly men. FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:07 PM
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"Loving" a guy for six pack abs is the definition of shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:06 PM
2

... and shone a Klieg light on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:16 PM
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Cute creative writing assignment, but the difference is that stealing is against the law. The driver has legal recourse. $60 would be considered "petty theft" (a misdemeanor) and you can file a police report. You could also take them to small claims court. So, actually two legal paths! Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:13 PM
2

Are you reading a different post? This one talks about shallow people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:49 PM
1

Extremely based.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:13 PM
1

... and how long have you been married?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:47 PM
3

Well then, you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:53 AM
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There's no blame until you figure out what the problem is. People just don't decide to not want sex anymore for no reason whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:53 AM
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Have you ever taken them? Because most of the men I've been with that needed them complained of side effects. Mostly headaches. They're not a panacea. Anyway. Her solution? Hormone replacement therapy. Commonly known as HRT.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:52 AM
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I didn't say it magically solves all problems, but it certainly is a great place to start. You said the woman is "to blame" if she doesn't put out, so that would justify his actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:46 AM
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A woman doesn't "just decide she doesn't want sex anymore". There's generally a reason. What if perhaps she goes through menopause and no longer has a sex drive, he's just supposed to accept that? Just stay married? What if he develops ED? Is she just supposed to accept that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:45 AM
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"Irreconcilable differences" is a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:38 AM
2

Deodorant is bad. Antiperspirant spray is even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:32 AM
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You can have your preference all you want. That doesn't mean you get to dictate what other people do. Just don't date anyone who doesn't meet your preferences. What's the issue here exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:31 AM
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There are two different conversations ITT. I'm trying to explain that it's cheating whether OP is open and honest about it with his "wife" or he's hiding it. If the wife isn't in agreement, it's cheating. Mr. Lousy is arguing that cheating is justified if the wife isn't putting out. Two different topics. There is no problem to be solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:24 AM
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Not in a healthy relationship. No. That's not a thing. That's dysfunctional behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:03 AM
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If either person doesn't uphold their end of the deal, you either get counseling and work through it (Communicate! What a concept!) and if you can't resolve things, you divorce. Cheating isn't the solution here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:02 AM
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Like this really isn’t complicated. These guys are sure trying to make it be! lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:44 PM
3

Then don't get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:40 PM
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Tough cookies. Actions have consequences. If you don't like the consequences, don't cheat, or don't get married - plenty of other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:37 PM
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He's claiming it's not cheating if he tells her upfront. That's the whole point of his post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:36 PM
2

Yes, I've mentioned that several times ITT.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:35 PM
3

Maybe your wife doesn't want to have sex with you because you reek of shit from not wiping your ass. That would certainly explain things!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:33 PM
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So you admit that it's cheating. Case closed. That's the whole point of this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:22 PM
2

You wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:20 PM
1

If it's a two way street and everything is above board, that is an open marriage (or ethical non-monogamy).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:19 PM
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If she is honest about it, then it's fine. If she's honest about it upfront and you're fine with it, you're agreeing to having an open marriage. That's ethical. If she's honest about it upfront and you're not fine with it, it's cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:17 PM
3

Boundaries are for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:15 PM
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to my experience Sure, buddy. I'm going to go out on a limb here and say your "experience" is zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:14 PM
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Why should he divorce her, go through the stress and hassle and cost of a divorce, probably lose the house he most likely paid for (either by being forced to move out or to list it for a partition action)? This would be called the "fuck around and find out" portion. Actions have consequences. She’s certainly free to divorce him now or after finding out the truth (if she ever does). But why “should” he divorce her if he doesn’t want to because the status quo is better? The whole point of OP's pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:09 PM
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If she's not holding up her end of the bargain, he can divorce her. Sure, he can cheat on her, but telling her openly versus hiding it from her doesn't make the cheating any less immoral or unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:08 PM
5

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:04 PM
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If she's not holding up her end of the bargain, he should get a divorce before fucking around with other people. Two wrongs don't make a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:57 PM
5

It's cheating whether the man or the woman does it. There's no gender difference here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:44 PM
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According to who are we owed honesty? Is this some moral duty? Yes. In a marriage (unless otherwise agreed upon) you're morally obligated to be honest with your spouse about fucking other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:42 PM
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He is free to divorce her if she isn't meeting his physical needs. Unless otherwise agreed upon, marriage implies monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:41 PM
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I guess if she's fine with it after knowing then it's whatever. Yeah, then that's her agreeing to having an open marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:40 PM
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Yes, and "It's totally OK!" because he's being upfront with her about it and not lying to her. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:55 PM
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If she doesn't agree. It's cheating. Plain and simple. No matter how many times you try to state otherwise. No, she can't stop you. Cheating is not illegal. It is, however, immoral and unethical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:49 PM
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If your wife doesn't agree with you fucking other women, it's cheating. Doesn't matter whether you're hiding it or not. 0 difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:43 PM
9

I said: Just because you announce to your wife openly that you will be fucking around on her doesn't make it "not cheating". You said: Well it is really!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:36 PM
4

sex alone is not automatic reason to divorce Yes. Yes it is if that's your priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:34 PM
7

Have you ever been in a relationship? This is some ridiculous bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:33 PM
11

... and he can get a divorce and find someone who will fuck him. What's so hard to understand about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:31 PM
13

But her not having sex is also her being a shitty partner. Then you are free to divorce her and find someone who will fuck you. She is also free to divorce you if you cheat on her. You could also try talking to her or go to counseling to find out why she doesn't want to have sex with you. Did that ever cross your mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:29 PM
5

No, cheating is about breaking a tacit agreement. That being married also includes monogamy (unless otherwise agreed upon). Whether you hide it or not has no bearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:25 PM
7

He seems to want to justify his behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:24 PM
18

If your wife agrees to an open marriage? Fantastic! But just telling her you're going to fuck other people is being a shitty partner. Just because you're "honest and open" about it doesn't magically make it morally right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:22 PM
1

Sure, you can do that, but you're being a shitty partner and she has every right to leave your ass after something stupid like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:19 PM
17

I didn't say cheating was illegal. Where do you see that I said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:14 PM
13

No, he says in OP: all you need is to inform them that you are planning to fuck someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:09 PM
28

If you're upfront about it and your spouse is in agreement (read: open marriage), it's not cheating. all you need is to inform them that you are planning to fuck someone else. That is not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:07 PM
5

Yeah, I don't know why he's complicating things so unnecessarily. Seems pretty cut and dry to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 04:04 PM
30

Finding a new partner without divorcing (or both agreeing to open up the marriage) is cheating. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:59 PM
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But I don't think husband should be forced to stay celibate if he doesnt want to. Not to say that wife should have sex with him whenever he wants. But he should be allowed to seek sex outside without much fuss. He's free to get a divorce and seek out a new partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 03:55 PM
3

It shows you have no respect for your fellow humans, which is despicable behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:26 PM
3

Where's the ad hominem exactly? She called the behavior "degenerate".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:25 PM
1

Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:16 PM
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Jesus fuck, what is your obsession with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 01:15 PM
1

I'm serious, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 12:01 AM
2

What, another post you're going to turn around and delete in an hour because you can't handle the heat? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:40 PM
5

None of my male loved ones are Red Pillers. They're sane.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 09:25 PM
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Yes, that is a thing of the past. Gone are the days where women's partner choices were made for them. We're not going back to the 50s when women were regularly prescribed Valium just to get through their miserable days as housewives and slaves to their husbands. It's not common for the entire extended family to live in the same town or even state. Young people move away and make lives for themselves elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:41 PM
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fulfilling their ever increasing demands LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 06:23 PM
1

Yeah, and people never change or men never put on a facade to get into women's pants. /s Still no reliable indicator as to how he's going to parent after the baby pops out and they're both sleep deprived for the first couple of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:53 PM
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There's no litmus test for parenting prior to becoming a parent. How are women supposed to make 99% sure? Tell me. You keep avoiding this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 03:14 PM
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You're the one putting the onus on women to "make 100% sure that the man will be a good parent" (your words). I'm asking you exactly how are women supposed to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:57 PM
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And how exactly do you make 100% sure they'll be a good parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:44 PM
1

What I've done (but it felt super silly to me) is to hide a "code word" in my bio. Messages must contain the specific word in their message to make sure they actually read the bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:14 PM
1

I have a lengthy profile - partly aimed at convincing the unsuitable to filter themselves out. And still, I was inundated with random men, most of whom don't have much of a profile, or really introduce themselves. Problem is, most guys don't read them. It's an exercise in futility.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 12:10 AM
2

So why do you bother with apps at all with that attitude?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:18 PM
4

Ding! Ding! Ding!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:51 PM
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For those men, filtering after matching takes less work. Definitely. That puts the onus on the women to sort. Then they get burned out quickly and leave the apps prematurely. The reason women don't suicide swipe is not because they are nicer or something No, lol. That's not why. It's because for the most part, women use the dating apps as they were meant to be used to the extent of: look at a profile, evaluate, then decide whether to swipe right or not. A lot of men just want "a match". They don…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 06:21 PM
1

The majority of men suicide swiping ruined it for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:36 PM
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i mean why do you think so many women have left dating apps or are taking frequent breaks in the first place? They get overwhelmed with a lot of "bad" matches (men who don't read the bio before swiping, or as you said, they swipe on anything with a pulse). Sorting through a sea of shit isn't really enticing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:35 PM
1

Do you have a legitimate source for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:31 PM
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"good men"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:26 PM
6

Unfortunately it won't work unless the majority of men quit suicide swiping. They've ruined it for everybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 03:03 PM
13

This is stated on this sub repeatedly, yet this topic is regurgitated ad nauseam.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:50 PM
0

So confident!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:49 PM
1

Yes! Because women are flooded with "bad" likes, get overwhelmed and leave the app prematurely. It's a lose/lose for both men and women. When I was on the apps, about 90% of men clearly hadn't read my bio before swiping. It gets tiresome very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:46 PM
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Of course they wake up to a shit ton of matches. Men notoriously suicide swipe. Swipe right on anything with a pulse and wait for a match to actually read the woman's bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:35 PM
2

Loving travel is not a "current obsession", dude. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 02:28 PM
1

Sounds like you are much more of the believe breed than I am. I am in the "I've lived a lot more life than you" camp. Real life experience vs. theory. What we call "street knowledge" vs. "book knowledge".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:54 PM
1

*many Believe what you want dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:47 PM
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It's not even about single parenthood. I'm not a parent, but I've had a fair share of men change in behavior/mentality once they thought they had me "locked down" in an LTR. You can't keep up a facade for more than 2 years, IME. Have you ever been in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:27 AM
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If you haven't, then you really have no leg to stand on. You're working off of a lot of assumptions and "I don't think it's plausible" when you've never experienced it yourself. But do go on with your Judgy McJudgerson self.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:20 AM
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I don’t think it’s plausible Have you ever been in a LTR with a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:09 AM
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It’s a fact that upper class women (proxy for intelligence really) are considerably less likely to end up as a single mother? They are simply more competent selectors. That’s the difference. No, that's not the reason why. Generally, as women's education levels increase, the number of children they have tends to decrease. (CDC data) A higher percentage of women with higher education/intelligence choose not to have children at all (compared to a HS degree).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 04:08 AM
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The age ranges for "young men and women" in the study was 18-29 Women tend to get married at a slightly younger age Men will often delay marriage to focus on career establishment It stands to reason that women 25-29 are marrying (or cohabitating) with men 30-35 which would account for the slight lopsidedness in the men vs. women of the same age range being (or considering themselves) single. Not Chad somehow "hoarding all the wimminz".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 09:15 PM
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It's 5% now? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:44 PM
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The age ranges for "young men and women" in the study was 18-29 Women tend to get married at a slightly younger age Men will often delay marriage to focus on career establishment It stands to reason that women 25-29 are marrying (or cohabitating) with men 30-35 which would account for the slight lopsidedness in the men vs. women of the same age range being (or considering themselves) single. Not Chad somehow "hoarding all the wimminz".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:34 PM
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Never claimed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:29 PM
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This is not gender specific. Nobody should date anybody else if it doesn’t improve their life. What’s the point even if not? Date to make your life miserable? Idiocy. JFC. This is an exercise in futility. I’ve got better shit to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:37 PM
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So every woman you encounter is like this? Strange.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:28 PM
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I didn’t say they don’t exist. I’m saying choose not to surround yourself with people like that. Why do you choose to be around people who mock you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:17 PM
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Send the liberal vegan man my way, please!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:13 PM
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I just know the people I hang out with aren’t like that. Remove yourself from toxic environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:51 PM
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You need to find different friends, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:26 PM
0

We’re certainly not: insert pleasant conversation, dispense sex nao!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:23 PM
0

Defeatist all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:15 PM
2

women have higher standards for hookups than they do for relationships What in the fresh hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:46 PM
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Women are not a “value proposition”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:35 PM
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We don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:09 PM
1

Entertainment value, for sure. But this sub is about discussing dating and relationships. Blackpill is like: it’s all shit and doom & gloom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:08 PM
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Yeah, I don’t get why black pilled guys participate in this sub so much 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:25 PM
2

Tons of guys on dating apps are looking for relationships LOL to the fucking HA!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:25 PM
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Yes, unlimited options in a cesspool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:24 PM
4

You need to change your flair to Red Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:18 PM
1

I was trying to make it simple. Still got twisted. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:13 PM
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When I meet a guy, I’m either physically attracted to him, or not. Once that happens and I delve deeper (getting to know him better) attraction will increase the more compatibility I find. I don’t fuck men that I don’t find attractive nor do I get into LTRs with men I’m not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:00 PM
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More sexily? WTF is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:15 AM
1

🎯
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:12 AM
5

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:08 AM
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There is no “types of attractiveness”. It’s a binary. Yes/no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:07 AM
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On what planet do you fuck people you don’t find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:22 AM
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Like, duh. I wouldn’t have sex with a man I didn’t find attractive. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:15 AM
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That was the topic of this post. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:12 AM
2

Just because you copy/paste the same thing 10x doesn’t make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:10 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:16 AM
6

It only makes sense in your mind, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:15 AM
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Romantic relationships != employment relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:10 AM
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Man I want to hook up with = attractive Man I want to be in an LTR with = attractive + compatible Fin.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:08 AM
5

You protect yourself from the unpleasant while also shielding yourself from the pleasant. Being leered at in public by strange men is not pleasant. WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:49 PM
5

Ah, I was on my phone. Didn't even see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:52 PM
4

When I host dinner parties, I will almost always get at least one version of "You should open a restaurant!" kind of comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:48 PM
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Yeah, but it helps to have a sous chef around sometimes. The deal usually is: I cook, you do the dishes (and vice versa).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:44 PM
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Welcome to womanhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:23 PM
4

Yeah, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:16 PM
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I'm big on sports bras/workout tops. They give enough support for me (D - DD depending on the bra) and IDGAF how many guys are "offended" if I wear my workout clothes outside of the gym. Yoga pants all dayyyyyyy, baybee!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:15 PM
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I guess it has to do with nipples and/or I'm told that the sway of boobs underneath fabric without being constrained by a bra is "too tempting".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:13 PM
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I'm a damn good cook and any long term partner should be capable as well. I don't expect it at my level, but you should be able to follow a recipe and put a meal together.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:11 PM
4

It would be nice to go braless without being stared at.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:07 PM
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hoping to get laid because casual sex doesn't exactly grow on trees for men In my case, we live too far away from each other for that to even be a possibility now, so that doesn't track. Besides, I don’t fuck married men (knowingly). He knows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:10 PM
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I've got one from 22 years ago. He still texts me. Married with kids now. Tells me how he masturbates every night before he goes to bed thinking about me. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:08 PM
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Because there is no such thing as a "dating market".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:02 PM
1

What the actual fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:28 PM
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Just go and take a look at twoxchromosomes or any other female sub JFC you guys are obsessed with that sub. Seriously. Have you nothing better to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:40 PM
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It’s so off-putting to watch a man erasing a shrunken, pale clitoris and pounding pale, un-engorged labia slicked with silicone lube that watching much of it will turn women off men forever. Yeah, and the guys are all: "Oooh, she's moaning and soooo into it! Clearly she's enjoying herself!" lol Like, dude, she's coked/drugged out of her mind and her pussy is as dry as the Sahara if it weren't for lube (and spit, ew).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:35 PM
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He ain't staying the night. Staying over and making breakfast is reserved for boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:18 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:03 PM
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Pick better women. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:05 PM
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Paragraphs are your friend. It's really simple. Just press that key that says: "Enter" or "Return" every once in a while! HTH
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:02 PM
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How the hell does somebody else's partner choice affect you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:55 PM
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Under his eye!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:21 PM
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Women acting unhinged? arrest them, lock them up. I'd say you're the one acting unhinged ITT. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:21 PM
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I mean would you go to work if you didn’t get paid? Romantic relationship != gainful employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:12 PM
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Nobody wants to pay full price for a used game And the "What inanimate object can we compare women to" prize for today goes to ...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:00 PM
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but in a relationship don’t be initiating sex and cuddles that much let her come to you. This would backfire with me. If my guy didn't initiate sex and cuddles, I'd think he's not attracted to me anymore, which would be a total turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 12:46 PM
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TBH, I don't think he's trolling. In his previous post he commented to me that he didn't know that labeling it "Question for Men" meant that women wouldn't answer the same question. Just a n00b.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:34 PM
1

One thing really doesn't have anything to do with the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:00 PM
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What are these deeper causes that you ascribe to men objectifying women? Do tell!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:10 PM
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I assure you, I do not. Plenty of examples in this sub on a daily basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:37 PM
3

So, just your own "feelings".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:14 PM
4

Who is asking you to risk your physical safety for a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:43 PM
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I need more information before I can answer these questions. - How do men "cater" to women? - What do you mean by "more in demand"? - What do you mean by "over-supplied"? - Need clarification on the previous 2 before I can answer this - Balance out what? - No. There are good men and good women. There are bad men and bad women. - Attraction is highly subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:24 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:20 PM
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Nah, plenty of red pill men compare women to inanimate objects such as cars ("high mileage"), talking about "SMV" (there is no "sexual market" unless you're talking about paying a sex worker) and comparing relationships with employment opportunities. That's just the tip of the iceberg.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:10 PM
5

If only we had a crystal ball …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:48 PM
4

Women are commodities to them. Which is regularly proven in here with their "analogies".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:04 PM
1

Rule 11 Top-level comments to Debate posts must challenge the OP's view. Top-level responses to Question for X posts should come from the appropriate, respective group.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:43 PM
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Are you unfamiliar with the rules of this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:32 PM
2

It's labeled as a "Question For Men" (twice, even!). I am not man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:28 PM
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popcorn.gif Sitting back and waiting for all of the oh-so-predictable red pill answers to roll in. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:30 PM
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LOL @ "over supply of men"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:13 PM
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Yeah, he's so logical. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:15 PM
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Yes, we need more than superficial appearances to approach a man. This shouldn't be news to anybody. It was discussed at length in a separate post/thread a week ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:20 PM
1

Look up "sealioning" and I bet your picture is featured in the definition!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:17 PM
1

That's not love. Google "NRE".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:06 PM
1

I get tired of typing it out. Maybe I should write it up and save it so I can copy/paste it every day when it comes up on this sub. The thing about statistics is that if you don't understand what they are actually representing, you run the risk of woefully representing them. It's like that "women only find 20% of men attractive" bullshit, cherry picked and twisted from a blog post 15 years ago (blog post from a dating site, sooooo scientific /s) The "study" itself points out that while the femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 01:43 PM
1

Do you know what comparing "apples to oranges" means?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:56 AM
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Trump rode the coattails of the good economy Obama left behind and he'll do it again this time around (and take credit for it, I'm sure). Biden administration passed the Infrastructure Investment and Jobs Act, CHIPS Act, Inflation Reduction Act, just to name a few. Part of the IIJA gave 80 million USD to the IRS to modernize and catch up on the backlog of audits focusing on high-income earners. As of July 2024, the IRS reported collecting over 1 billion USD in back taxes from high-wealth individ…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:17 AM
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It's just regurgitated red pill propaganda (that we're all sharing men). Pasting the numbers from the Pew Study without any other context is bullshit, self-serving and proves nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:49 AM
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Like I said: Keep thinking that. Nothing's going to change your mind, so I'm not going to waste my time trying to convince you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:52 PM
1

My current FWBs are mid-30s, so 20 years younger than I am. I find men in their 20s a bit too inexperienced and immature for me. I'd love to find a man closer to my age, but they can't seem to keep up with me, so younger it is. I've found that 10 years younger works best for me for LTRs. Mainly I'm attracted to men who are intelligent, self-aware, brown hair, brown eyes, husky build, and a few inches taller than me. That hasn't changed in 40 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:45 PM
2

He just wants to whine and complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:42 PM
1

Romantic relationships are not employment opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:32 PM
2

People are not money. People are not commodities. People are not one dimensional. Money is not sentient.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:31 PM
0

There's no reasoning with your kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:40 PM
1

This is very well put.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:14 PM
2

The "why" was covered extensively in in this post/comments just a few days ago: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1gqc4ud/question_for_women_how_often_in_your_entire_life/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:00 PM
0

Yeah, keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 12:09 PM
1

This is gibberish. This comment makes 0 sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:44 PM
0

It’s some kind of red pill nonsense that makes them feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:41 PM
1

Leave it to you to try to equate porn to dating. Non-sequitur, much? Like, come on, dude. This post and most of your comments boil down to: "I believe women make bad choices, which makes dating harder for men". You're grasping for straws trying to find some kind of corollary. The porn industry is a market. Commodities are a market. Women are not commodities. Men are not "consumers" of women. People are not commodities. Relationships are not a market.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:20 PM
3

Semen can be faked with a mixture of cornstarch and water, lotion, or egg whites.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:11 PM
1

The amount of female actresses in comparison to male talent is staggering. Because straight men are the majority consumers of porn. It's called "supply and demand".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:01 PM
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Red herring. Again, what do women's choices have to do with men's biological urges?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:41 PM
4

What does that have to do with men’s “biological urges”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:08 PM
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but wtf are you saying we should ignore basic human biology I have the biological urge to eat an entire 18" NY style pizza, but I know it's not good for me. You make choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:55 PM
1

Based.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:53 PM
1

Absolutely agree on free condoms, I'd even go for free IUDs, given IUDs are more effective than condoms and are far far far less likely to be used improperly, and it's not like you can forget to use one. Agree, but a man can't verify that the woman has an IUD and this discussion is all about the man's responsibility in all of this. I mean, if men say that to women, then those men are accused of being misogynistic. If they say what? Bring up a discussion about whether or not the woman would have …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:34 PM
1

My solution would be to advocate for free condoms/birth control for everybody. That would be fair for both sides. If you're having sex with someone and don't discuss what might happen in the event of birth control failure, that's on you. If the woman doesn't believe in abortion, or would race to the clinic upon finding out she's pregnant, that's something you should know before you stick your dick inside her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:43 PM
1

Because you (generic you) contributed 50% of the genetic material. When a child is conceived, both biological parents contribute to the act of creating life, making them equally responsible for the well-being of the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:27 PM
1

How am I blaming men for not being able to get pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:21 PM
-1

those were addressed and changed. Until you can grow your own uterus and get impregnated, it won't change.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:40 PM
-1

Men's "choice" ends when they decide where to deposit their sperm. This is one aspect that can never be "fair" because our biological differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:57 PM
1

the true culprit is religious conservatives In other news: water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:52 PM
1

This was what other women told me Then those "other women" are being ridiculous because that is the expressed purpose of a singles mixer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 07:35 PM
2

Don't try to date women at singles mixers Single mixers are specifically intended for the purpose of meeting potential dates. Yes, you are being ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:21 PM
2

A lot of men and women just voted for Trump because they thought he would be better for the economy. Whether he will be or not is questionable, Trump will get to ride the "Biden economic upturn" coattails just like he did Obama's the first time around. He'll take credit for it, I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:58 PM
2

Yes, it can be dangerous for a woman to "use her words" and reject a man outright without couching.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:17 PM
0

Thousands ... Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:53 PM
1

If you're so hellbent on having the last word, I'll let you have it. Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:53 PM
1

Welcome to Reddit. It's not "my tactic". It's common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:51 PM
0

Would it be fair to say that you get really angry at women for doing what they prefer instead of using your tactic? because it really seems that way to me Nah, IDGAF what they do as long as they don't complain to me. You seem to be the one getting angry. I'm very much a "live and let live" person IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:49 PM
-1

Says the man who's likely never been stalked.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:47 PM
1

You're the one who seems to be getting their knickers into a twist. Maybe do some soul searching yourself :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:46 PM
0

I am neither hurt or upset. I just lack sympathy for anybody who just whines about their circumstances and sits by passively and waits for everybody else to do things for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:37 PM
1

I'm debating that "single women are dying for a man to ask her out in public or online". I don't know any single women who are "dying" for men's attention. It's not as ubiquitous as you're making it out to be. It's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:29 PM
1

Have you ever looked at r/whenwomenrefuse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:27 PM
1

Every single single women I know is truly dying for a man to ask her out in public or online. They are capable of approaching men themselves, are they not?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:20 PM
1

It's offline for maintenance today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 03:16 PM
0

You're being ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:59 PM
3

They're getting their financial means met, I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:49 PM
0

Did you not read my comment? I said: but I don't express it in such an acerbic tone. I don't think men are (inherently) evil and there's no mention of that in Woman 1's statement. Hyperbole much? Do I get annoyed that men seem to think they're entitled to my attention when I'm out and about running errands and minding my own business just because they think I look fuckable? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:05 PM
1

IDGAF how attractive a guy is. If he's cold approaching me, I'm not biting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:03 PM
4

She found a man over 40 who could get it up? He must've taken a fistful of blue pills!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 01:38 PM
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Additionally a lot of women I know complain that men aren’t approaching anymore. They need to put on their big girl panties and start approaching men instead of sitting back like a wallflower waiting to be approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:05 PM
1

I agree with Woman 1, but I don't express it in such an acerbic tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 11:04 PM
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LOL I'm in my mid 50s. I've lived a lot more than you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 10:30 PM
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I disagree with all of this. Especially with your trotting out that 20% bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:40 PM
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Baseline looks only get your foot in the door. Different women find different things attractive. It's highly subjective for women. If you have nothing in common, it won't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 09:01 PM
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So that you get along in the long run. Common values, shared beliefs, etc. It's the very basis of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:55 PM
1

What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:53 PM
2

The pornography industry has traditionally been male-dominated, with men holding the majority of producer roles (read: the ones making the most money off of porn). The majority of porn stars are women because the majority of porn consumers are men. Men who engaged in porn ... are you talking about male porn actors or male consumers? Both do so voluntarily. Nobody's putting a gun to your head to watch porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:52 PM
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it's [pornography] an industry dominated BY women and Infact places a higher expectation on men than women This had me rolling on the floor laughing. You can't be serious. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 08:22 PM
0

Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 07:05 PM
2

That's a one-way ticket to r/DeadBedrooms. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:59 PM
2

I just can't parse what you're saying. What are you trying to get at?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:23 PM
1

Each woman is given 100000$ she can spend on the guy however she wants Did you miss this part?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:59 PM
5

There are some women who sacrifice sexual attraction for babies or whatever, but this isn't most women in 2024 - which is why men are so mad and why this sub is even as active as it is. If we don't find what we're looking for, we just stay single This. I haven't been in a serious relationship for 8 years now and it's certainly not for lack of men chasing me. I'm fine with one or two FWBs until the right guy comes along, but I'm not holding my breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:20 PM
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you don’t want the flame that burns super intense, you want the flame that burns low and steady That's just common sense and not gender specific. It's not all about "the tingles" (isn't that how red pillers put it?) My physical standards (what attracts me to a man initially) hasn't changed in 40 years. The difference is that the older women get (in general), the less shitty behavior we're willing to put up with. So overall, our standards get higher. There are milfs and that’s an exception. Maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 06:16 PM
3

Older women will lower physical standards for a relationship. Fuck no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:13 PM
14

Casual just needs to be hot Relationships need to be hot and compatible This is the most succinct way to put it accurately.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:21 PM
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No, you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:20 PM
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My best friend (who is a G cup) says she gets more stares and leering when she wears a turtleneck vs. a shirt with a V-neck that shows cleavage. I could wear a potato sack and get ogled, so it really doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:07 PM
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Because tiny Asian girls are very popular fetishized elsewhere. FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 03:03 PM
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I'm not a man. There are plenty of men on this sub that will tell you this: Men lower their standards to have sex but raise it for romance
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:45 PM
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Women raise their standards for sex but lower it for romance. Incorrect. It's the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:40 PM
1

Serious question: Do you sit around all day just trying to come up with "edgy" questions to post on this sub on a daily basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:37 PM
5

Are you new to this sub? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:14 PM
3

they just don't like such woman who live in a lifestyle associated with how much tattoo she has ... and what "lifestyle" would that be exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:02 PM
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A lot of men just swipe right on every woman hoping for a match. They don't read the bio, they just swipe based on a 2 second glance at the first picture. That leaves the sorting to the women. I'd say 90% of the men who swiped right on me clearly did not read my bio. That's a waste of my time. Honestly, I enjoyed OLD when people only swiped right on profiles of people they took the time to read everything (not just a picture) and had a clear intention of getting to know the other person. Those d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:18 PM
1

It's really not, but you want to seem to make this about yourself. This thread isn't about men's issues. There are plenty of other posts in this sub for that on a daily basis that you can avail yourself of.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:20 PM
2

Get outta here with your common sense bullshit, woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:19 PM
2

What a lot of women don’t seem to understand is there’s men who will use the shotgun approach and like almost every woman. Hoping a few will match and they might get a date . Oh, we totally understand it. Suicide swipers have ruined it for both sides. Women get so overwhelmed with bogus likes, they don't stick around long. It's a lose/lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:16 PM
1

You can take it however you want. Whether "it sucks for men too" is not the topic of discussion ITT.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:09 PM
3

Him: Where are the women? Us: (examples) Him: No, not like that!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:20 PM
1

You just want to be a professional victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:19 PM
2

No, twice a week with a personal trainer to develop a plan and check form. He can use the plan to go to the gym 4-5x a week. This is to build a healthy habit. Not looking to get ripped here (a lot of women don't find muscle-bound guys attractive - including me, and I'm a gym rat). Just want to get him toned and in shape-ish, but more importantly getting into the habit of working out regularly (and correctly) for physical and mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:23 PM
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Volunteering at an animal shelter, or homeless shelter, or any multitude of worthy causes to expand your horizons and maybe meet new people is not nefarious. Worst case, you volunteered and did a little bit of good somewhere. Dogs at the shelter need to be walked. They're in a cage 24x7. It's like, 2-3 hours once a week (or really, as often or as little as you can make time for). You put one on a leash, go for a quick walk around the property (they usually have designated trails) give some pets …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:51 PM
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Life coach, first and foremost Gym membership with 2x a week personal training to develop a workout plan Cleaning crew to deep clean his apartment/house + weekly maintenance cleaning New wardrobe/makeover/haircut Skin care routine + good products Sessions with a dietitian to learn about nutrition combined with Lessons from a personal chef to teach you how to prepare simple, but healthy meals/meal prep Several trips to other countries/continents (esp. if USA-ian) to experience other cultures and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:24 PM
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Well, yeah, if you don't like animals, then volunteering at the animal shelter is a bad idea. Then again, I don't know any women who like men who don't like animals. So there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:12 PM
1

But she knows that he has been around or if he is a virgin. How?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:11 PM
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You can volunteer at an animal shelter, or other places where the majority are women. Actually, IME most volunteer operations are primarily women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:01 PM
1

How does she know he had sex with 49 women? Is there an odometer on his dick, or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:56 PM
3

Can you translate that into English?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:45 PM
1

the guy will be given 1 month to rack up his N count as high as possible, smh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:40 PM
0

Concur.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:17 PM
1

Shocker! No, seriously, tell us something we don't know. /s (Same for women, too.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:08 PM
2

Non sequitur, much?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:49 PM
2

Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:40 AM
2

Seriously. The first thing that goes through my mind when a guy comes up to me and starts off with: OMG, I think you're beautiful/gorgeous! is "You and pretty much every red-blooded hetero man in the room. What else is new? Got anything other than that?" Though on the outside I'll smile politely and say "thank you", whatever possible attraction I might have had deflates like a balloon right then and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:35 AM
2

Again, if you read through the comments ITT it's very obvious as to why this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:06 AM
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I think the reason why men approach women based off looks alone is because we never have women do it to us first so we always make the first move. Have you not been reading the comments ITT from women explaining why we don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:00 AM
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It’s the top 0.2% today. Didn’t you get the memo? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:07 PM
2

You know the same woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:15 PM
3

Men just want to have sex if it promises to be enjoyable. And it takes a lot less for sex to be enjoyable for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:10 PM
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Oh so sorry , how I dared to forget the exact numbers and wrote 60 instead of 63 The point. You missed it. so you really think saying that changes anything what I was implying? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:03 PM
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Whether or not she's kicking puppies is rarely relevant when it comes to fucking, I don't want that kind of person's energy anywhere near me. Much less my bed. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:33 PM
2

How do you know this woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:10 PM
2

To not approach someone who he finds attractive and approach those who he feels unattractive? How did you get that from what she said? I mean he literally said he turned off because some girl had a bad breath Yes. Something entirely superficial. He was attracted to her superficially and then immediately lost attraction because of what she had for lunch? There's a reason why 60%+ young men and 25%+ men aged between 30-50 are single whereas just 30% young women and 17% women aged between 30-50 are…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:52 PM
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Leave out the “I think you’re very pretty” part. It’s redundant. If you didn’t find her physically attractive, you wouldn’t have approached her. We know this. Attractive women know that they’re attractive. For you to highlight that just makes us think you’re only looking superficially and thinking with your dick. Dig deeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:40 PM
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But you didn’t sugarcoat it enough, so it’s not palatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:01 PM
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I do not know why women and you take issue with this? She just explained it to you (in detail) and you somehow perceive it as a “personal attack”? Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:52 PM
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So what would you say you require for a guy to get your number in a quick setting like that? I would require a guy to give me his number. I'm not giving out my number to a rando. “hey I think you’re really pretty I would like to talk to you more and get to know you, whats your number?” "Hey, I think you look fuckable." is not the compliment you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:29 PM
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When I'm out and about running errands, I'm not looking at men (or anyone, for all that matters) in a sexual sense. I might notice someone who is exceptionally conventionally attractive (model tier looks), but it's a blip on my radar. I can't be attracted to someone I know absolutely nothing about. This is why I find cold approaching completely worthless and I don't respond to it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:26 PM
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You’re being obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:46 PM
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When I get cold approached and say: "Sorry, I have a boyfriend." even when I don't, it's just a "no". Deal. Bottom line: it doesn't matter what reason they give. It's not going to change their mind about fucking you (generic you).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:41 PM
14

You can't rationalize your way into someone's pants. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:33 PM
10

Par for the course around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:20 PM
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non-penetrative sex can still create sexual pleasure, physical intimacy and orgasms Sure, you can have orgasms outside of PIV, but who are you to say what someone else finds satisfying?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:16 PM
2

I am not a mental health professional, but if you're suicidal over not being in a relationship, getting professional help seems like the prudent thing to do. It's not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:14 PM
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We're not having sex with them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 01:11 PM
2

Google is your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:20 AM
2

I’m sorry you don’t enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:38 AM
4

It's a mystery ...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 09:59 PM
4

Ok, I'll bite. How is a lack of a romantic relationship literally killing you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 08:28 PM
1

🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:22 PM
3

My 43X weighs less than 1.5 lbs (loaded) and I have excellent aim. Fuck around and find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:08 PM
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From my experience American women are by far the worst group of women you can date. Then don't. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:22 PM
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Well, at least it's not another post about mandatory paternity testing. So there's that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:06 PM
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And when Taliban knocks on the door, you will be able to tell them to just walk away and they will. They'll meet the business end of my Glock.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:25 PM
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If a man looks at you, smile. Do this regardless of whether he smiles at you or not. Don't use a high pitch voice. Dress for the male gaze. That means only wear things that men cannot wear. If a man asks you on a date, go on it even if you're not attracted to him. Oh, do fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 01:14 PM
1

Um, it's making a comeback in the middle east and there was a confirmed case in 2022 in New York. Thanks anti-vaxxers! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:01 PM
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Pot. Kettle. You know the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:43 PM
1

Why do you seem to care, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:20 PM
1

At the same time lamenting how most men their age suffer from ED. So, they must seek out younger men. Yeah, right. Jealous, much?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:46 PM
1

Menopause can affect sex drive in a number of ways, ... That tends to be the rule, but there are exceptions. So why doubt the women who say they're experiencing increased libido in menopause? Many women suffer from hormone-related migranes that no longer happen due to menopause. There's also a certain liberation knowing you can't get pregnant. As estrogen levels fluctuate, some women then have higher levels of testosterone, which can increase libido. Some empty nesters see their lives change whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 02:13 PM
0

Somehow I doubt that. Are you a menopausal woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 01:00 PM
2

Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 12:52 PM
0

... and then what. Was there any messaging between her reaching out to you (matching) and you trying to set up a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:27 PM
1

After one or two offers on your end and she doesn't make some kind of suggestions as to when she's available? She's not really interested, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:18 PM
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All you can do is educate yourself better about who (and what) you're voting for next time and in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:16 PM
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Political ideology isn’t genetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:52 AM
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Women can't easily have kids because the average woman is drowning in debt You do know that a woman's fertility isn't tied to her bank account ... right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:59 PM
3

Legions. Sure, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:02 PM
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Here is what gonna happen, women will fuck sleezbags, get pregnant and then moan on social media about how hard single motherhood is or how their baby daddy love bombed them or how aboriton was banned or whatever. You know what I find so strange? You guys give no thought to the unwanted child that is a result of not having access to abortion. You just cry about not getting your dick wet (but Chad does!) JFC. Myopic to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:00 PM
1

I’ve never had any of my male friends falsely accused of anything 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:01 AM
2

Nah, it won't change. I didn't fuck conservative men before the election, nor will I now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 10:45 PM
5

In 2023 Florida passed sweeping alimony "reform", so yeah, the writing is on the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:32 PM
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claiming that you can't get a partner unless you are in the top X% physical attractiveness That's like ... half of the posts on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:31 PM
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I've never heard a bad word spoken about child free people in my day to day life. As a childfree woman, I would love to live in your world. I can't tell you how many times in the past I've been called "selfish" (amongst other things) IRL and online because I knew at a very young age that I didn't want to have kid(s). Luckily as I get older, I have far fewer fucks to give about what other people think of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 03:03 PM
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Who's going to fund this "mass immigration"? You want your mail order bride? You pay for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 01:27 PM
2

r/childfree
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:41 PM
2

plays video games goes out every weekend extremely extroverted wants kids one day is someone who gets into fights
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 04:23 PM
3

Southeastern US, 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:49 AM
2

Not in the 70s and not in the Southeastern US.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:43 AM
0

You're asking like IGAF? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 11:42 AM
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I was raised in a super blue collar environment (nurse mother + firefighter father). Going to McDonalds was a treat for a good report card. Getting pizza delivered was a special occasion for birthdays. In essence, I grew up dirt poor. Now I'm in the highest tax bracket. I don't date men in my "socioeconomic level" because I find the country club crowd boring and superficial. IDGAF about high end cars or fancy purses. I prefer to live a middle class lifestyle even though I could afford more. I sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:57 PM
2

My guess is wearing sun dresses. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:49 PM
1

Kinda surprised to hear this from a man identifying as Red Pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:47 PM
3

There's some contradictions there: "sexually reserved yet ambitious", but don't let that keep you from what you want. Just don't slap one label on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:46 PM
1

What's your definition of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:38 PM
5

Nah, there are plenty of guys who don't give a rat's ass about a woman's personality. They just want a warm hole to fuck and/or arm candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:37 PM
6

One of my coworkers described me in a written recommendation as "the calm in a storm" because when shit hits the fan, I become super quiet and focused af. I learned at an early age that panic never helps any situation. My friends call me "Ms. 911" because I'm their first call when an emergency strikes. I'm not sure it's something to be particularly proud of, but it makes me very good at what I do and it pays very well. I've had a man comment to me that it's a masculine trait. Like he'd rather wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:24 PM
11

By definition a girlfriend who cheats on you is not a "good girlfriend".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 05:14 PM
1

Don't be ridiculous. Playboy magazine (for example) has been around since the early 50s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 02:49 PM
3

There are toys for men other than masturbation sleeves. Prostate vibrators come to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:23 AM
0

Relationship sex by far. Casual in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 10:17 AM
1

Humanity becoming extinct? Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 10:16 PM
2

And the porn industry is suffering because of it? I highly doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 10:16 PM
3

You’ve got issues, man. Maybe you’ll get help someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:50 PM
1

Society isn't responsible for satisfying anybody's sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:33 PM
2

Sadly if men became less horny humanity would go extinct We both know that's not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:31 PM
2

Huh? Who consumes/pays for the content of these OF women that you seem to have such contempt for? You do realize that without demand, there would be no need for supply. Also a very simple concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:27 PM
1

Again: men and women are different. This is not news. This is a biological fact. We all have advantages and disadvantages in different areas of life. Why is this super easy concept so difficult to grasp?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:23 PM
0

And why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:17 PM
5

What truth? Men and women are different. This is not rocket science nor news to anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:11 PM
1

What truth? That men and women are different?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 06:10 PM
11

It's just his roundabout way of complaining that he can't get laid for free, while the average woman who chooses to engage in casual sex can do so easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:40 PM
8

Nope. Not at all! You're just complaining that women have it easier to get "free sex" if they so desire (and therefore less demand for male sex work) and boohoo! you have to pay to get your dick wet? It's all so unfair! lol Just another day on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:28 PM
8

Come on. Spit it out. You've not been shy about being repetitive in the comments!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:21 PM
6

Men do not have an equal option because the market for male sex work is much, much smaller. Explain why that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:56 PM
3

And why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:48 PM
3

You keep saying the same thing over and over, without making a point. Why is the market for men so much, much smaller?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 03:40 PM
2

Your post is nonsense Agreed. Poorly written rage bait. I'd give it a C-.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:42 PM
5

Nope. That part wasn't directed towards you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:26 PM
18

Compared to straight men, both straight women and gay men have an overabundance of free sex offers. And there it is ... as predicted. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:06 PM
8

Please enlighten us! What's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 02:04 PM
7

Because the demand isn't there. Not a valid argument. Men consume porn than women do (in general), so yes, there's more demand for women in porn/sex work. I'm just hanging out here to find out when this "discussion" is going to turn into blaming women for not giving underprivileged men free access to their pussy. Clearly men only consume so much porn because they can't get access to IRL sex. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 01:59 PM
5

Sounds like he hates his job at Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:28 PM
8

If you are unable to deduce, maybe a debate sub is not the place for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:07 PM
11

You are. Read the title of your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:51 AM
7

Because acting like it's a desirable option for most women to make money is ludicrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:47 AM
5

In other news: Water is wet! You ever heard of this "supply and demand" thing? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 11:37 AM
2

Nah, takes too long to break in someone new. If I've got a good thing going with a fuck buddy, I'm not risking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 06:06 PM
2

And you would have me believe that you wouldn't "cheat" on a fuck buddy if a hotter guy came along? What?? Why would I "cheat" on a fuck buddy if he's satisfying me? (I mean, he obviously is, otherwise I wouldn't keep fucking him.) I don't know shit about this "hotter guy" and he could very likely be a lousy lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:54 PM
4

I don't see how you can hold one party accountable and not the other. It's easy. I blame the person who is cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:48 PM
1

I don't judge friends for being with men who break their wedding vows. My friend isn't the problem. The vow breaker, the married man, is the problem. I'll judge him. I'm the exact same. The only time I broke off a friendship WRT to this is when the woman kept complaining over and over that he didn't leave his wife for her "like he promised". :massive eyeroll: Like, get real. It was never going to happen and I got tired of hearing her bitch and moan about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 04:46 PM
1

IDGAF what you think, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:49 PM
1

Not really. I just find it odd that you seem to be so invested in this subject when you say you have a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 01:15 PM
1

So you're just looking to replace your girlfriend? Or you're fucking around and cheating? Weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 12:32 PM
1

Would the majority of you turn down an attractive man who noticed you in public and tried to chat you up? And would you even turn down a top 1% guy just because you didn’t know him? Yes and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:52 AM
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most guys don’t make that casual action cut. No, most guys suicide swipe and swipe right on every woman. Side note: For someone who is (supposedly) in a LTR, you seem to be preoccupied with dating/how women behave on dating apps? Odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:50 AM
4

Does this mean that a man who isn’t great in bed isn’t getting your best or most adventurous effort? Abso-fucking-lutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:15 AM
1

Over the years I have heard You've heard ...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:12 AM
2

Wasn't this just asked in this very sub a few days ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 11:07 AM
3

Personally I have a maternal instinct, but chose for various reasons to be childfree. I didn't have a burning desire to have babies and I think that should be a prerequisite for having a child. I helped raised my best friends' kids and I'm hella protective (maternal instinct) of them, as well as the kids that I was a stepmom to. That doesn't mean I want to have kids of my own. I believe that the "biological clock" is a myth and purely peer pressure/socialized.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 03:06 PM
2

and take the relationship more seriously. Sure, dude. Keep telling yourself that. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:30 PM
1

Call a Whaaaambulance, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:28 PM
1

But wait ... you said yourself you don't want to date a single mom either???
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:06 PM
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You are correct, many women don’t want to deal with someone else’s kids in any capacity. They possess zero maternal instinct for babies that aren’t their own. Childfree women don't want to deal with someone else's kids, nor have their own. Maternal instinct has nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 10:22 AM
1

Reasonable to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:39 PM
3

Yeah, IDGAF about who you’re attracted to. I date men 20+ years younger than me on the reg. I question why you somehow think you need my approval. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 09:34 PM
1

All (and any) of them are acceptable. Full stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 04:06 PM
0

That was my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 09:23 PM
0

If you think you can pull off dating the intern, by all means, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 03:18 AM
3

It didn’t kill his career, but it sure didn’t help.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 07:56 PM
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Dating the office intern is never a good idea. Career suicide (except Bill Clinton, maybe).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:15 PM
2

Have you been watching too many episodes of "Mad Men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 08:36 PM
3

No, like "love bombing" charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:15 PM
2

The phrase he used verbatim was it made him feel "less of a man".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:50 PM
2

He was very charming in the beginning. Turns out, that's how narcissists manage to get into relationships. But once that mask drops ...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 05:38 PM
5

WTF does that have to do with anything I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:13 PM
1

He was in sales.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 04:11 PM
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I lived with one (briefly) who cared a lot. He enjoyed the nice house, fancy dinners, and vacations I paid for, but he got so butthurt that I had to get a second card on my AMEX account so he could have the appearance of paying for everything. He said it was emasculating for me to pick up the check at dinner (even though I was paying for it on the back end). He had no problem spending my money as long as it looked like he was the one being generous (to the outside world). When I balked at a larg…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:48 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/HL_Women_Only
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 12:18 PM
2

Any woman in a position to be attractive and wants a relationship can find one. Quality isn't assured, but interest and attention definitely is across a broad strata of men Why would I want a shitty relationship? Just to have one? FTS.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 02:13 PM
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No, they don't have to "admit" anything because they do find their husbands physically attractive. Why even get married if you're not attracted to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 12:49 PM
1

Sure, Jan.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 09:39 PM
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Ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 06:19 PM
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Women typically become conservative as they grow older Yeah, this is bullshit. I and all of the women around me have only grown more liberal as we get older because the amount of fucks we have to give has reached negative numbers. What evidence do you have to support your statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 05:49 PM
0

... and out of 100 likes, 95 of them clearly didn't read your profile and wouldn't be a match.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 01:43 PM
2

Does not compute.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:34 AM
1

Nah, I'm going to continue not giving a flying fuck about what other people wear, tyvm. How is it any more unhygienic than someone wearing other gym clothes? Don't you wipe down the equipment before and after you use it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:30 PM
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Oh, so we’re broodmares now. Lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:08 PM
1

Who tf cares what someone else is wearing? It's a sign of insecurity and lack of empathy. You never heard of "Judge not, lest ye be judged"? If a guy walked into my gym wearing a Speedo, I'd think "You go, guy!" If that's what he's comfortable in? :shrug: No skin off of my back. Why is it any of my business? Channel your inner Elsa and let it go. Worry about your own damn self.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:58 AM
2

After having had stepkids for 4 years? I assure you: never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:13 PM
1

See, I wouldn't date a man who doesn't know the difference between effect and affect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:10 PM
3

My high school sweetheart still wears the pocket watch I gave him for his 18th birthday. I don't remember what I had engraved on the cover 40 years ago, but I'm sure it was something along the lines of "I love you. $myname" What does that make him? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:04 PM
1

I wasn't trying to condescend. It was just an honest statement on my end. :shrug:
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 08:40 PM
1

Because I stated that self-worth should come from … oh, wild guess … yourself? Don’t quit your day job, dude. You’d never make it as a comedian.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:55 PM
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No. It’s the other way around. Exploring kinks requires trust. I can only have that with a long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:47 PM
1

What an idiotic question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:13 PM
1

Your standards are your standards, nobody else's. It's very much subjective unless there's a specific written law/rule that can be enforced. Judging other people is the absolute largest waste of time and energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:11 PM
1

That's a sad world you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:09 PM
1

Well, I guess I'm not the "majority of women".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:08 PM
1

My self-worth is determined by me, myself, and I. Not external sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:08 PM
2

Again, I'm stating that it's not a universal experience (referencing the "not a chance someone enjoys the actual physical act of giving a blow job). Personally I have an oral fixation. I enjoy giving oral sex as my lips are stimulated, just as much as they would be kissing. I suck on cinnamon sticks. I sucked my thumb until I was 10 y/o. So yes, I actually love doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 05:06 PM
1

Speak for yourself, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:44 AM
1

We don't get to choose whether if our worth should be tied sex/desirability Yes, we totally get to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:24 AM
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That has nothing to do with my comment, though. Attaching your self worth to sex/desirability is not emotionally healthy. Full stop. Also, personally I'm extremely aware of wasting food because I was around my great grandmother who survived two world wars in Germany. It's taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 11:03 PM
2

Lots of women also tie their self worth to sex and desire. They need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:32 PM
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Women who have less self-awareness and low self-esteem also attach their self worth to sex and how sexual desirable they are. FTFY.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:31 PM
0

but at a point you just have to judge No. You really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 09:22 PM
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Woman X goes to the gym wearing clothes that violate modesty Who tf are you to be the arbiter of "modesty"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:52 PM
0

but the actual physical act of giving a blow job? Not a chance. Maybe not for you ...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 01:58 PM
1

You have eyes on the birth certificates that single mothers fill out?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:04 AM
-2

so instead of appreciating the effort Appreciating the effort of using manipulative tactics to pump and dump? Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:05 PM
-1

men had the audacity of trying to learn how to flirt with women You think PUA is flirting? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 12:41 PM
1

Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 08:49 PM
1

In other news: water is wet
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:21 PM
1

Ah, to be young-ish and idealistic again! Like I said: Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 06:16 PM
1

Then companies will discriminate against hiring women of childbearing age. Also, insurance industry has mega lobbyists. Good luck getting that passed. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:54 PM
2

Get a lobbyist. Why are these “terrible men” not paying child support? Why aren’t their wages being garnished? The child has been brought into the world through no fault of its own. Should we just let these kids starve and get no medical care? Reopen orphanages? What’s your solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:48 PM
1

Government mandated maternity leave? Hell no! Who’s going to pay for that? You want kids? That’s your decision. (Generic you.)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:40 PM
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So, my tax dollars going to pay for some guy’s paranoia? Nah. Do that on your own damn dime.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 05:00 PM
3

Just make paternity tests at birth by default. Who's going to pay for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 03:08 PM
2

insinuate verb in·​sin·​u·​ate in-ˈsin-yə-ˌwāt transitive verb 1 a : to impart or suggest in an artful or indirect way : IMPLY I resent what you're insinuating. b : to introduce (something, such as an idea) gradually or in a subtle, indirect, or covert way insinuate doubts into a trusting mind
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:31 PM
1

It’s not something I worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:15 PM
5

Your comments are public and therefore fair game.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:01 PM
1

I learned to pick better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 11:01 PM
4

What’s your hangup, dude? She explained this already.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:59 PM
6

Hard disagree. There are exceptions, but in general, it’s easy to pick up the signs if you’re not willfully blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:54 PM
1

My current boyfriend? Doesn’t cross my mind for even a nanosecond. The guy that cheated on me? Different story. Live and learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:48 PM
2

I’ve been cheated on. Found out. Left him immediately. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 10:41 PM
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If I make the initial invite, I do. If he’s the one to ask me out, I offer to split. Why does this seem to be so hard for you to wrap your brain around? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:04 PM
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I offer to split on the first date, but if he insists on paying, I offer to pay for the next date. Why not insist if I do want another date? I want another date. Being argumentative isn’t the way to end a first date. I offer. He can take it, or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 06:00 PM
0

Nah, don't bother. Waste of my time and yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:33 PM
-4

What is misogynistic about traditional Red Pill content? I literally did a spit take! LOL Um ... everything. (You owe me a new keyboard.)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 07:28 PM
2

If men can be happy being used for sex, why can't women? Because men have a 99% chance of orgasm during sex even with an ONS/random partner. Women, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:58 PM
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Women say that they’re willing to split, but that also means they’re much less likely to a second date. I'm always willing to split and always offer (put my credit card on the table when the check arrives). If he takes me up on it? Great; no issue. If he insists on paying, then I'll offer to pay the next time. If I absolutely insist on splitting, then yes, that is an indicator that I don't want a second date. There's a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:42 PM
1

I would certainly be against it. But what does that entail (to you)? I can say "Wow, that's insane. I'm not reading this garbage." and then what? What other people think or do I have no control over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:52 PM
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Not according to this data? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/184sun9/survey_results_new_mods_and_other_jannyisms/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:42 PM
1

I have no control over mainstream media beyond my personal consumption of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:29 PM
1

Unless you're living under a rock or you're just plain ignorant, there have been plans to attempt to make misogyny a hate crime in the past, which didn’t go through, but that doesn't mean it ends there. I don't really follow politics in the UK (presumably, since you mention Labour and SNP?) that closely, so no. Coverage of politics outside of the US is dismal at best and I frankly don't have the time nor the inclination to keep up with the intricacies of politics in every country in the world. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:27 PM
5

Yes, you do. No, I don’t. I reserve my ire for people who do actual shitty things. Like the man who cheated on his girlfriend of 12 years who helped raise his kids or the woman who repeatedly verbally abused my friend, but he refused to break up with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:40 PM
4

I don’t tolerate that kind of behavior in my circles. Only affects me. It’s not making a damn bit of difference in the outside world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:58 PM
5

I think anybody has the right to tell assholes to fuck off. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:56 PM
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In This Thread
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:35 PM
2

The difference is in the year 2024 men are actually speaking up to other men to denounce that degrading speech against women. ORLY? I haven't seen any speaking up about it when men in this sub say it. I welcome hate speech? GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:31 PM
9

Yeah, that's some threat! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:29 PM
5

You are free to speak up. That's up to you. If you're offended by it, then tell that person to fuck off, by all means. Doesn't affect my paycheck whatsoever. Being rude isn't against the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:27 PM
3

Unless there's a law, rule, or other regulation, people are free to be idiots, assholes, and/or bigots as they see fit. I don't have control over that. I do control who I associate with. IRL I only put up with behavior that I find personally acceptable based on my own guidelines.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:26 PM
10

And that's just ITT.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:15 PM
8

I agree. I wasn't saying otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:53 PM
3

How long have you been reading this sub? LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:45 PM
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... and punishable by what, praytell?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:37 PM
5

No. It's hyperbole. If I say: "I'm so hungry, I could eat a horse!", do you really think I'd eat a horse?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:37 PM
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If you're the Filipino woman in question and some asshole says something asshole-ish to you, you're free to tell him off and not associate with that asshole. Nobody's putting a gun to your head to marry him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:35 PM
9

Acceptable to whom? What are the repercussions? Who determines this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:29 PM
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I personally don’t subscribe to that belief, but if some extreme feminists want to hate all men, they are welcome to do that. Same with men who dehumanize woman by saying they only value our holes. 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:32 PM
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1-3: No 4: Yes, it’s hyperbole
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 03:25 PM
2

So you're putting the onus on women? Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:17 PM
2

Could've fooled me! Do you need receipts? https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1ff7es9/comment/lmt0o7l/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 10:00 PM
3

WTF? What is this gibberish?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 06:02 PM
-2

Not gonna give you your satisfaction, bro. I know you get off on women being perturbed. Nice try, though!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:23 PM
2

You're comparing that to cutting off dicks? You people. I swear. I'm about to go enjoy my weekend. Be well. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:21 PM
-3

My point still stands. I don't talk about my personal relationships with coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:13 PM
-5

Why are you talking about sexual shit with coworkers?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:06 PM
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Comparing the amount of women who have cut off dicks vs. the amount of women who have been killed when refusing men is beyond me. Go check out the "whenwomenrefuse" sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 05:02 PM
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Then she was pretty full of herself, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:52 PM
1

Complimenting on anything other than looks is highly appreciated ... when it's genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:32 PM
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If you're talking about approaching, my suggestion is to make eye contact first. For me personally, there needs to be eye contact and smiling before I am open to being approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:28 PM
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In a relationship? Absolutely. Walking up to me out of the blue telling me: "You're so beautiful!" only tells me (as I mentioned above) that you find me fuckable. There's more to me than a pretty face/body. Beautiful women are told that they are beautiful all the time. It gets old. We want to be acknowledged for other things than what you can see on the outside from afar (and after only 5 seconds of observation).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:23 PM
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IDGAF what you "believe". I've dated a model (briefly). He was insufferable once we got one-on-one. Any guy who takes longer to get ready in the morning than I do is an immediate no-go. Model looks may be nice to look at for a minute, but beyond that? No conversational skills? No hobbies? Zero self awareness? Can't even boil water for a cup of tea? No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:19 PM
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"A handful" with legitimate SA stories. JFC squared.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:15 PM
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What I wish was true? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:10 PM
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I'm not a man. If all I go by is what I read on here? Men just don't want a "fatty". So I would say that's a pretty low bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:09 PM
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I can give very specific examples that happened to me. I'm not just saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:05 PM
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Thanks for proving my point!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:03 PM
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Look, I know whatever I say isn't going to convince you. What's the point, here? I've had some very (conventionally) attractive men hit on me. When they cold approach out of the blue, it creates an instant "who the hell do you think you are?" vibe with me. You took one look at me and thought to yourself: "I think she's fuckable." because honestly, you know nothing else about me when you cold approach. There's a reason I wear a fake wedding band when I travel. Specifically to deter being pestered…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:01 PM
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It's not a hypothetical. Believe what you want. :shrug:
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:55 PM
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Yup. In addition they refuse to understand that women's attraction is highly subjective. Rating people on a scale from 1-10 is so ludicrous to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:49 PM
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Yes, that would have been a better way to phrase it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:45 PM
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... and then they wonder why they get shot down so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:40 PM
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I'm never going to be interested in a stranger who thinks cold approaching me is acceptable. It's an instant "ick" that kills any potential attraction immediately, no matter how "hot" the guy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:39 PM
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No. Really don’t understand why men don’t realize that “I saw your face and/or body and decided you look fuckable” is a compliment or a pleasant exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:35 PM
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This comment underscores that you have no earthly idea what the "me too" movement was about. JFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:33 PM
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Going forward a man should only start a conversation with a woman if she’s giving clear choosing signals. Mark this day on the calendar. I'm agreeing with a Red Pill man. However I disagree that the "me too" movement had anything to do with this. It's just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:32 PM
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You know what actually disgusts me? Men not opening up and expressing their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:26 PM
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Why is "expressing his feelings" in quotation marks?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:23 PM
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I have no idea what you're going on about with the investment thing. I can't make sense of this either. You're not alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 03:09 AM
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It's not gender specific. It's personality specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 11:05 PM
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You think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:11 PM
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Not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 07:09 PM
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The sooner you let go of your expectations of other people, the better off you'll be.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:11 PM
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Because women often mentally break up with their partner weeks or even months before they actually break up I agree with this part. Not so much the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:10 PM
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Just because you think "they should" doesn't mean that's how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:08 PM
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Honestly, women aren't as romantic as men. Hard disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:07 PM
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Because perception = reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:48 PM
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That's a "you problem".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:17 PM
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even if they’ve had great experiences together By whose account? Yours or hers?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 01:43 PM
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If you believe all of the women on this sub are always lying as part of some kind of grand conspiracy against you, please seek professional help. That’s unhinged.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:58 PM
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I guess the burning question for me is: why would you go out on a date (much less have sex with) a girl you didn’t find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:21 PM
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OP: "What is your experience with this as a woman?" Women ITT: (Share their experiences) You: They're all lying! Do you realize how ridiculous you sound?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:07 PM
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Maybe look up what "subjective" means.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 06:00 PM
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Case in point ...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:56 PM
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Again: objective attractiveness is not the same as subjective attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:53 PM
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Who is lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:51 PM
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This is patently untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 04:37 PM
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What are you going on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:14 PM
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I’m guessing you know women who have been SA’d but you’re not the kind of guy they feel safe opening up to about that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:09 PM
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You don't know many women, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:04 PM
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I wouldn't date any of my girlfriend's husbands/boyfriends if they were single. We all have very different tastes in men. How is that so hard to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:02 PM
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and more satisfying for women. How do you know what's satisfying for women? The best and most satisfying orgasm I ever had was from being expertly fingered while being passionately kissed. It was so intense that I passed out for a few seconds. I would trade 100 PIV orgasms for just one of those again. But most men can't give this type of orgams because it requires a genuine raw attraction. For me, PIV orgasms require technical aspects (position, et al.) Raw attraction ain't going to do shit for …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 03:00 PM
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You guys don't understand the difference between being objectively attractive (which is what y'all insist is the only thing that matters) and subjectively attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:56 PM
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But I don't because I'm (gasp) not a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:52 PM
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People get more picky as they age, BTW. Can confirm.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:50 PM
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Then work to get the laws changed. Not my circus, not my monkeys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:42 PM
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Details are probably more appropriate in the sex subreddit, but in general, whatever your partner likes/needs to be satisfied. This requires communicating with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:41 PM
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"The best" isn't measured by number of orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:39 PM
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Both partners should want to please each other in bed. Just sticking your dick in and pumping away for a minute, then rolling over, not caring if your partner orgasmed is "no effort".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:35 PM
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I don't tell you how your dick works. How about you don't try to tell me how my body responds when I damn well know over the 50+ years I've inhabited this body.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:29 PM
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The man who technically gave me the most orgasms also turned out to be an asshole, so that sure as hell didn't last.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:27 PM
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I don't know of any.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:23 PM
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Same with well endowed guys. They think their dick alone will do all of the work for them. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:22 PM
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Yeah, another "PPD men trying to argue against women's lived experiences". Same shit, different day.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:17 PM
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If you don't put in any effort, you're not going to be in my bed. (Generic you.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 02:14 PM
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No. Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 01:50 PM
1

Where have you "heard" this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:14 PM
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That article is over 19 years old. Anyway. Yes, paternity fraud is bad, m'kay?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:43 AM
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Yes. This thread is from 5 months ago. You replied to a comment I made 5 months ago. https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1brdp0o/comment/kx8q5vv/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web3x&utm\_name=web3xcss&utm\_term=1&utm\_content=share\_button
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:40 AM
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Ask a woman if she knows the dick size of her 3 closest friend's partners and I bet she'll say yes for at least one. Nope. Not a one. The closest I ever got to that kind of info was from by best friend who said she really liked this guy, but he was “too big” and it was painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:05 PM
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If you have the time to sift through all the rubbish, more power to you. As for me? Ain't nobody got time for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:48 PM
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Nah. I can hop on Tinder and find an ONS without even leaving my house.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:47 PM
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Yes, OP was criticizing her lack of lines. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 08:20 PM
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SOP for PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:15 PM
1

A credit score is objective. Attractiveness is subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 05:13 PM
1

So cite a credible source for this "30%" claim. It must be pretty important to you to come back after 5 months to make the comment to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:46 PM
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Referring to women as "females" was a dead giveaway for me. So yeah, not surprising. :shrug:
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:33 PM
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Yeah, I don't find body shaming funny. That's probably why.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:23 PM
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Tinder is the best place for women to find a ltr. LOL no. Tinder is the best place for women to find an ONS/quick fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:52 PM
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Botox is not considered plastic surgery, but you'e already proven you don't know what you're talking about. Look, dude. I get it. You're just regurgitating what you read in the manosphere. That tracks. The point being that your criticism (while I don't necessarily agree with it) is valid, but your snide remark about her lips was completely unnecessary, while also being very wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:41 PM
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If you have access to Reddit, you can look things up on this wonderful site called Google!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:22 PM
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Botox is not a filler, it is a nerve paralytic. Yes, I take offense to blatantly inaccurate information. Just like the men who come in here trying to tell us how our own orgasms work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:16 PM
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The claim of a 30% paternity fraud rate in the U.S. is widely circulated online, but it is misleading and not supported by comprehensive research. Paternity fraud refers to cases where a man is falsely identified as the biological father of a child. Here are a few key points about paternity fraud rates: Specific Context: The "30%" figure often cited typically comes from studies or legal cases where men had doubts about paternity and therefore sought paternity tests. In such specific circumstance…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:11 PM
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Botox isn't used for lips. Maybe limit your criticism until you know you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 01:03 PM
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Because what other women do with their bodies is none of my damn business. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:25 PM
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Yeah, nothing like (yet another) man telling women about their own bodies. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 12:23 PM
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Ok, sure. Whatever you say, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:02 PM
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Why won’t it work for playboys with a nice car? Playboys with a nice car? Is that what you think a narcissist look like? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 05:22 PM
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Yes, they're very good at hiding their true selves at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 04:24 PM
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Women experiencing a dearth of options happens when they're, what, in their 40s? :laughs in mid-50s:
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:28 AM
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Because in my years of life I have so far never met a guy who cheated on his wife, I've met plenty of married men who have cheated on their wives (who hit on me and would fuck me if I'd let them). Never met a married woman who cheated on her husband. So our experiences differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:24 PM
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I would get attacked by women Not by me. IDGAF what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:49 PM
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Dream on 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:23 PM
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Well, I’m seeing other men at the same time, so IDGAF.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:16 PM
2

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:14 PM
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Yeah, I had a guy on the first date telling me I’d have to stop going to the gym if we were to get serious. Needless to say there was no second date. Fuck that shit. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:14 PM
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I’m not looking to date other women, so I really don’t notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:06 PM
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Good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 01:04 PM
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We do. Although I don't feel like I'm in competition at all. Younger men just work better for me and my lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:34 PM
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women have one response There's more than one response, but I digress. The issue I have with dating men my age is that they are (by and large) unwilling/unable to keep up with me. I'm active and very HL. I like to travel, hike, paddleboard, hit the gym 5 days a week. I have no desire to babysit his grandkids and/or sit on the couch and watch football every weekend, or drink heavily. There's also a dearth of men who are emotionally intelligent and who can communicate their needs/wants clearly. Lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:24 PM
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OP: CMV Also OP: Everybody who disagrees with me is in denial! LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:11 PM
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Guess I'm missing out!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:00 PM
3

Why do you keep dodging my question?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:08 PM
2

Again, what are you basing this statement on?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:01 PM
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Those strangers need their head examined.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:59 PM
2

And who are these idiots buying her stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:58 PM
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Who are these idiots buying her food?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:57 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:55 PM
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What are you basing this statement on?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:40 PM
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Free stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 04:42 PM
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No, why would I do that? I have better things to do with my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:38 PM
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What's there to debate here? Nobody is owed anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:16 PM
1

All of the medical doctors I've dated had a bit of a god complex. Very off-putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 12:00 PM
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Paying bills is 100% automated in my household. I'm not sure what you're going on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:57 PM
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but would it be a stretch to say that the second type of man wins you out a lot more often? Yes, that is a huge stretch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 02:53 PM
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Sex. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 12:43 PM
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Marriage is about two people coming together to become one and to create another life. Says who? Having kids isn’t mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:06 PM
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