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a_mans_perspective/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 06:21 AM
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I'm making it official. This will be my last ever post at this sub. I want to grab life by the horns and stop whining and being a pussy all the time. Not for women, but for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 12:06 PM
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Great read. It's stunning how little the "intellectual framework" (lulz) of incels from today varies from his. Similar minds think alike? In any case, this is a seminal work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 09:39 AM
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Ok, i agree to disagree, i dont feel like going through your arguments my point and you going through my point by point until one of us loses interest
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 08:13 AM
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So basically there were REASONS you played the passive role to mans active role for all my examples. But you dont deny them actually happening
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 08:02 AM
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Yeah, seconding this. what is the vibrator doing? Be descriptive and 5 paragraphs minimum laying out the scenario for us please.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 07:52 AM
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Logical consistency never was feminine trait. Lol I don't know why I don't just accept this and move on from this godforsaken manosphere nonsense. Seems like I'd be a lot happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 07:32 AM
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I miss the incels sub man. Fucking cuckmins.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 07:25 AM
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Yeah i don't think is too uncommon with women. They play they naive innocent ditzy "just bein a girl" trope when it suits them and then 10 minutes later are chewing you out for not taking them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 07:23 AM
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His face. Probably. This or pheromones.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 07:22 AM
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How would behaving an object have increased chances of survival for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 07:19 AM
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Yeah, well, isnt it also the nature of everyone to point out when someone else is wanting to have cake and eat it? To point out the logical impossibility and/or hypocrisy of their actions, while ignoring one's own? Everything that ever happened on this sub is part of lifeforms basic drives man, no need to point it out, its assumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 07:13 AM
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Ahhh, "most of you." So most men are the problem. Not you. Ok. Why do you even bother to give weak men shit, just curious. Why not just ignore them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 07:11 AM
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The thing that gets me is that even the some women who complain about objectification, women being relegated to passive roles, etc, behave in an extremely passive way themselves. Refusing to take responsibility, claiming everything is someone else's fault, wanting a seat at the table only once the hard work of pioneering is done, being girly and passive in relationships - these traits are adopted even by anti-patriarchal feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 07:08 AM
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Why would I care if I can attract a woman like you or not? You do nothing but complain about how men suck. Weak men this, weak men that... you seem really bitter and anti-male. I sure wouldn't want to deal with your brand of nonsense day in and day out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 06:53 AM
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Yeah, sure, I am a weak man. Why would I be strong? To attract women like you? So you can sit there and be critical and judgemental all day and blame me for every little bad mood or negative thought that drifts into your brain? You have nothing to offer, other than pussy (which I can more easily get from a prostitute), so I'm going to offer the same nothing in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 06:45 AM
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if outside i might tear off all my clothes and run into the woods while foaming at the mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 06:10 AM
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Mfw I want to ask shy guy's girlfriend how he attracted her, but I'm too shy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 06:03 AM
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I prefer lying face up on the floor, staring at the ceiling while groaning loudly.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 05:56 AM
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It's a daily struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 05:34 AM
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Couldn't agree more. This has happened to me. You give woman what she wants, next day she is complaining about something completely unrelated, and it just keeps going. A life where you prioritize what women, or even what a single woman wants, is a mug's game. You will never get a moments peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 05:04 AM
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How do we know you won't just change your mind again like in the 1990s? Fuck pleasing women, honestly. It's a losing battle no matter what you try to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 04:53 AM
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Good fucking point dude, and it goes to show that morality/attraction aren't just independent from each other, but often conflicting. A man can be stable, loyal, honest, emotionally open, and all the other things women say they want while their frontal lobe is in charge, and then dry up like the Sahara once they actually get it. Then the hamster kicks in and starts saying: "Well, he wasn't really nice, just fake nice, I guess what I really want is a guy who is both strong and nice," nevermind th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 10:03 AM
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They didnt even have morality back in our distant evolutionary past when primates were fucking and raping and beating each other and shit. At most there was a tenuous sort of gang mentality where 5 chimps could stick together and form a cohesive team to fuck up 1 bigger chimp, but there was certainly none of this "good" vs "nice" vs "evil" shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 09:05 AM
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Also every woman in the world has at one point in her life seriously considered selling her pussy for money It's what happens anyway. Marry a guy, give pussy for a while and then cut him off when it would no longer be legally feasible for him to extricate his resources from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 06:20 AM
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Wait, back up a second. I dont believe I understood you there. You're a woman... who's into military history? Did I hear this correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 06:04 AM
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And maybe women in history had a more complex and nuanced view than "i'm only getting married cuz the patriarchy is forcing me too!!!!" Dumb OPs get equally dumb responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 05:32 AM
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why bother looking back in history? you can just look at pakistan right now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 05:30 AM
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Yeah, well anyone can say anything on the internet. I'm gonna go out ahead and say you're making shit up. Unless you invite me to join in. Then I will admit I'm wrong about everything and close my account.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 05:24 AM
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Uh huh. And as to the matter of lesbian bed death: your explanation for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 04:42 AM
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Are you sure about that? Did you examine them for hymens? Seems more likely that the women are lying about being less virginal, than actually less virginal. It's always easier to lie to fit in then mold all your private behaviors and core identity to fit in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 04:41 AM
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desperateness for sex I prefer to think of it as the relative frigidity of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 04:40 AM
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When women want something and men don't want to give it to them, a barrage of shaming and nagging falls onto the ears of those men until women get what they want. When men want something and women don't want to give it to them, a barrage of shaming and nagging falls onto the ears of those men until they stop asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 04:38 AM
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That would require you to have any big guns in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 03:36 AM
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That's a sacrifice I'm willing to make
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 09:07 PM
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The "women dont want sex" model gels with my current relationship, but not previous ones, so im conflicted. But its hard to argue with results. When women have more power relative to men, they have less sex. Hard to interpret that any other way than women wanting sex less than men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 06:03 PM
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Imagine women were, on average at least half a foot taller than you, had around 50lbs at least on you and had been considered superior for the last couple thousand years. And your gender recently overcame most of that, but you still experience the remnants of that system today. What would you do? How would you feel? Grateful to all the men of my clan, race, etc for protecting and providing for my gender for all these centuries. Understanding towards the fact that they were the only ones capable …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 11:50 AM
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Fuck a woman enough times and you start to love her. This is the reason female humanoids have concealed ovulation - to encourage repeated matings on the part of the male, to the point where he bonds with the female and protects her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 10:49 AM
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Damn dude, your posts today are on point. I rarely find myself thinking differently about things at PPD. I'm a "til death do you part" kind of guy by nature, but then, what is the point of it if the relationship has just gone to shit anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 05:10 AM
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It's the people who feel they are just slightly above a demographic who are most vicious towards it. People with actual self esteem don't need to find ways to boost it at the expense of others
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 05:03 AM
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The non party girl is generally more intelligent, intelligence + woman = neverending problem generator. They just keep wanting things, talking about things, wanting to do non sex frontal lobe based activities, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 05:00 AM
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My gf is a passive, introverted qt who likes video games and cats and spends too much time with her family. She got a sister bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 04:58 AM
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Polite fictions are literally socialization, they got jack shit to do with evolutionary psychology. THEy didnt even have cities and priests and temples to make all this shit up until like ten thousand years ago. Youre confused man. I think you should do some more reading about all this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:44 PM
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Because to "not tolerate" us would acknowledge the fictions thus destroying them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 02:14 PM
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This op seems like common knowledge to me. Fuckboy > nice guy. Fuckboy often > boyfriend material. Chicks like to make the boyfriend material guy wait for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 08:38 AM
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Hi
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 08:12 AM
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If it is your normal, you need to stay indoors under male supervision, a person who cannot clearly express their wishes to other human beings and then later claims they were assaulted, thereby pushing the responsibility for expressing their own will onto others, is effectively a child. Certain not responsible enough to be outdoors, let alone hooking up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 07:59 AM
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It does, because men are not hysterical around other men, despite the high chance of being killed by one. I'm not hysterical around blacks, despite the high crime/murder stats on them. You have to at least give the other person a CHANCE to prove they are not a criminal before treating them like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 06:57 AM
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Its not "normal" to be so terrified of another human being who has done nothing explicitly threatening that you allow them to do whatever they want to your body while inwardly screaming "noooooo"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 06:29 AM
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INTJ
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 06:12 AM
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This is a good question, why do women hate the nice guy so much? There are plenty of other people to hate. Male rapists. Males from conservative cultures who basically imprison women. Male fuckboys, as you brought up. Male this, male that... there are lots of men to hate. Why do nice guys get SO MUCH hate compared to the loads of men out there with much worse behavior? The answer has to do with two things: proximity and bullying. Proximity is this principle that people focus more of their hate a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 06:04 AM
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You too?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 05:35 AM
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Aziz is gonna Aziz. Men like that are too thirsty, desperate and self centered to let up unless the law specifically stops him. Everything up to the point of illegality is game, for him. The question is whether women can get fucking control of themselves and not just randomly give blowjobs and sex to men because they feel "pressured"... because the male is a celeb and she really wants to be his girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 04:56 AM
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It IS complicated, because female desire is not explicitly stated, and takes some time to read. Sometimes it even starts off at a low level but then increases as she gets to know a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 04:52 AM
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Teach women that if they want things to move forward, they have to be clear and carry it forward at least a little. For a guy wanting casual sex it might be a little counter productive to wait around for this idea to permeate into society at large. TRP exists because there are a lot of men who want to deal with the reality in front of them and get laid, not hold out for some idealistic world where women always express themselves clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 04:45 AM
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Acting like a little bitch because someone """"might"""" get violent is not a life or death situation
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:55 AM
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I don't give a fuck, everyone had a heater on my street growing up, anyone couldve killed anyone at any time. If you want grown up responsibilities, then don't whine when the going gets tough. You have a responsibility to say no and stand up for yourself when threatened, if you cannot do that, don't expect equality or respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:41 AM
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I'm ok with you being sweet, gentle and feminine if you're consistent about it. Don't go anywhere with strange men you don't want to fuck, don't do certain things like go behind closed doors with a man unless you've already consented to sex. Don't expect to have all the rights and privileges of your protector caste, ie, men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:33 AM
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Yeah, WOMEN are not. I understand that. But it's not because they are "neurotypical" it's because you all just have a lower baseline level of bravery. You aren't willing to fight to the death over your bodily autonomy, or carry firearms, or do anything to protect yourself. You aren't even willing to cross the threshold into "he MIGHT get violent" territory. You allow yourselves to be raped rather than tell a man, who has done nothing other than be male and want sex, no. If that's the mentality o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:31 AM
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How many women get killed by men, compared to how many men get killed by men? Hmmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:19 AM
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Its not non neurotypical to say no when someone is trying to force you to do something you dont want Ex: Homeless: can i get a dollar Me: sorry i dont have one Homeless: cmon man, i know you do. Please Me: no. Fuck off If being able to say no to being raped is neurotypical than ya'll are fucked up for being neurotypical
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:13 AM
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I would rather bite the bullet and tell my wife to lose weight and that we should spice things up in the bedroom than switch from her to porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 08:58 AM
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Yeah this. If I am unmotivated to have sex than i am dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 08:45 AM
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I guess i could understand if this is the reason. One cannot exactly ask one's wife for a cock worshipping session with her BFF, unless one is some kind of alpha male god.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 08:44 AM
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Yeah, dude, clearly we could talk about this shit all day. I'll just say you have a good head on your shoulders and leave it at that. For my part, i'm too ingrained in the system now with a wife, kids, mortgage etc. I wish my awakening had come earlier. I'm waiting for retirement now so I can move the fuck out of the west before it all goes to hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 07:03 AM
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I'm just saying, like, if I was the one in charge of it, i'd be on point with that shit. Because who wants to get an unplanned pregnancy? I'd be like every day, on the hour, down to the minute. It's not that I don't trust her. I'm just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:29 AM
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Yeah, i feel you on that. I choose to believe she didnt do it on purpose, but like......... it wouldve been so easy for her, yknow? And she was always talking about getting married. I trust her and all though. .. ... It's just... she would like... talk about how our kids would look someday. Not that i dont trust her though. Because i absolutely do. I mean, she's my wife. I choose to believe her, yknow? .... =/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:26 AM
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I think it is a danger when you are doing TRP tactics like "dread". If she's dreading you might break up with her, she may do something crazy like sabotage bc. I admit I have never encountered anyone from real life who says this happened to them, but i have heard about things like a girl pretending to be pregnant so her boyfriend won't break up with her. Carry that logic forward and add a bit more desperation on the girls part, its not hard to imagine her poking a hole in a condom some night.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 05:48 AM
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That's true, but the key difference is that fundamentalists Christians, as a rule, tend to be shut ins. Living in compounds, moving to Utah or Guyana to escape the sinful masses, home schooling their kids, trying to blot out the world and retain their purity while waiting for the Rapture and Jesus to come back... this is what i think of when i think fundamentalist Christians. They aren't trying to violently impose their will on others, except when it comes to shit like abortion, where, to be fai…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 05:40 AM
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Makes sense, all you're really saying is a woman deprived of romance throughout for developmental stage will experience similar problems to a male incel. This is perfectly logical. I noticed a slight difference in the responses here vs the responses to your average incel complaining about how lack of sex stunted him, though... just a tadpole bit more empathy in evidence in this comments section, for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 05:31 AM
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I don't think this was the feminism's end game from the get go. A lot of idealistic -isms, like communism, start off with a bunch of well intentioned, thoughtful people ... and a few cynical, power hungry Stalins disguised as well intentioned types. The first wave just wanted equal political rights, not to overturn the very nature of male-female relationships. The second wavers wanted an end to harassment, rape, domestic violence, etc... but you begin to see the power grab taking place even in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 05:12 AM
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Yeah, and this is how it starts. When the lynch mob gets everyone to the point where they are scared to call them out on their bullshit. You can deny being a communist, but if you question the house un american activities committee, you'll be jailed as one anyway. You can claim you aren't a witch, but you can't call the church out on its bullshit, or they'll burn you for heresy. If you're lucky, you have some friends with good standing who can vouch for you and get you out of the clutches of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:58 AM
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You have an inflated opinion of men. There are as many men writing about shit like this as women, they just know they'll get ripped by SJWs if they try to speak this time around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:54 AM
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I'm coming to this conclusion as well. Super edgy opinions, low effort responses, playing dumb when called out... even if he/she is not a troll, he/she may as well be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:25 AM
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You literally talk about white men the same way hitler talked about jews. I think you should examine your own unabashed sexism and racism. Just because society tells you its ok to hate white men doesnt make it actually ok. You probably wouldve been a slaveowner back in the 1800s with an attidude like yours. Peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:00 AM
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Get used to it. This new trend of examining male celebritys sex lives for any hint of impropriety is here to stay. Its the salem witch trials all over again
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 08:00 PM
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They would, do you legit think a guy as thirsty as aziz would not rape women if there was 0% chance of prosecution? Read again how he acted. People would do MUCH worse to each other in absence of law, both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 04:57 PM
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Does a woman really want a man like this blubbering wreck though? One-itis ridden, nervous, apologetic, wracking his brain for anything he can do to keep her. Not an ounce of backbone, scruples or a core self in evidence. I know many men (myself included) who are somewhat ok being with a woman like that, because of the ego boost and compliance it induces in her, but do women really want a man like that? Wouldnt they just eventually tire of him and move on?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:28 PM
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Im cool with a woman having had a few boyfriends but casual sex, one night stands and shit doesnt do it for me. In fact the longer her relationships have been the more respect i have for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:21 PM
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Not really, refraining from breaking the law because he doesnt want to go to jail - that's how i read his actions. This aziz guy wouldnt do too well in jail, from the looks of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 01:25 PM
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The better analogy is if you’re out with a friend who’s a former NFL offensive lineman (to adjust for men vs women’s physical scale) who you really like and then all of the sudden he came behind you, and sticks something hard into your back and asks for your wallet. You say no and then he shoves it in harder. Could be a gun, could be a candy bar. You don’t know what this guy is capable of. T Something almost word for word identical to this hypothetical you describe DID happen to me when i was 16…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 01:17 PM
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Too bad. If she didn't want a battle then she shouldn't have drawn first blood.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 01:12 PM
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It'll catch on for sure. Non feminist? You're on the rape spectrum? Manspreading? Rape spectrum? Don't call me back after the 3rd date? Rape spectrum. Rape hysteria will only get more out of hand, it's too easy and satisfying and effective for women to label men they don't like rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 12:43 PM
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He never forced or held her down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 12:40 PM
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Alpha bitches are characterized by some combination of attractiveness, competence, extroversion, and the will to power -- which in women manifests as this nervous, high strung, manic, wide eyed, constantly status/social circle obsessed energy which makes them basically unendurable to be around for long periods, at least for moi. Picture this cheerful, energetic, poised, stylishly but not sluttily dressed social butterfly of a woman with a practiced throaty laugh, placing her hand on a mans arm h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 10:42 PM
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I have a question for you though: what if youre wrong? What if most people have a brain with parts that work synchronously? What if they are, with almost total reliability, able to detect when they are approaching immoral behavior that might hurt those close to them and are faced with a decision between right and wrong? What if for most people, the transition between commitment being a meme and verb is seamless and they dont let scenarios like what that chick described occur in their own lives? …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 10:12 PM
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This sub has a serious problem with ad homs. If you lack an argument just say they sound angry and bitter and make the conversation about that. Pretty obnoxious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 10:00 PM
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If they didn't like being passive, they could stop and be not-passive. They don't. Ergo, they like being passive. I don't understand this female complaint of "society made me do X". Tell society to fuck right off and do whatever you feel like doing. If that means violence, death and so on, so be it. Japanese men were ramming their jets into battleships and self immolating like 50 years ago. Zero percent fucks given for consequences, a hundred percent for honor. Look to them for an example of how…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 08:57 PM
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This is where we start the discussion about what part of our culture causes this. Nah. You have to take responsibility for yourself at some point. I was bullied in school but I didn't say "my culture sucks and was mean to me, it's ok for me to shoot up the school now." Two wrongs don't make a right. Letting a man fuck you, and then claiming it was assault afterward because YOU could not muster the agency to say no and/or leave, is wrong. And it's ultimately on you. I have had terrible experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 08:52 PM
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I dont understand what her point of writing all that was. Did he do anything illegal? No. Rape her? Sexually assault her? Threaten her in any way? No. Did he show interest in anything other than sex? No. She was not comfortable with this and wouldve preferred more intimacy and patience on his part. However, she was not entitled to that. If men are not entitled to womens bodies, women are certainly not entitled to mens time, kindness, or consideration. She WAS entitled to leave the premises after…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 08:31 PM
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I feel you bro. There's a certain breed of liberated, aggressive, shit-testing woman who insists on her right to go out to bars, clubs, and ladies night with her gal pals despite nominally being in a relationship. I stay far away from their ilk, and keep my ears far from the outraged egotistical squeaking with which they rationalize their behavior. "Excuuuuse me, but I'm not any man's PROPERTY. I'm a strong and independent woman and I don't NEED you or any man. If I want to go out with the girls…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 03:23 PM
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I have had a few girlfriends in the past and making out is always good, hot, mutual. It gets us both really turned on, fucking like rabbits after a few minutes. My wife , even since i first met her was like "I don't like kissing". We even fucked before we kissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 02:50 PM
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What would your advice to her be? Bow out of the engagement, because one of these days she's going to fuck Rick or someone like him, and it's better that happens while not wedded to someone else. This person still has not "sown her wild oats". Give her 5 years, 15 pounds and a staggering inability to catch the attention of Ricks, or enough experience getting pumped and dumped by Ricks to be able to cope with the tinglez. Then maybe she'll be ready for a stable beta
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 02:40 PM
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If the men have comparable careers, no status lost. Being a single mom is like rock bottoming your status. At least these girls managed to form an actual family. Too rare these days imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 02:37 PM
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My wife doesnt really like kissing. I half suspect it is because she doesnt really like me. Maybe thats just my insecurity talking though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 02:36 PM
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It feels weird to me that you can be with someone for 8 years and then just suddenly realize they aren't right for you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 12:41 PM
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Then the correct way to formulate this point is that the masses are not capable of leadership, not that they are incapable of rebellion. It's still rebellion even if you are rebelling at the behest of a leader. Subtle point but important when people are trying to construct extremely contrived arguments like alpha = rebellion = artistic genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 10:11 AM
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that feels like a long time to come to the realization that you belong with a person
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 10:05 AM
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Lol, this post fails to take cuckoldry into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 10:02 AM
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I don't think women win in this scenario. Best to stick with what they know: sleeping with men for money/power/control, manipulating men using their superior EIQ, and playing the victim. A full scale matriarchy is not out of the question given a few more decades of this, at least in europe/america.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 09:57 AM
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Do they deny being alt right? Where did they deny it? It's nothing to be ashamed of imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 11:35 AM
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Reserving to respond to ongoing edits
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 09:26 AM
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It's a scientific fact. Studies? Youtube isn't the greatest source for scientific fact. The 5% thing is pretty precise, there needs to be categories of types of people in the world. One in twenty in mice, in lions and in humans. The length ratio of a man's finger can tell him whether he's naturally dominant. Studies? Link to theory? Name of theory? Proof for 5% of men have 95% of sex? Still waiting. Creativity IS rebellion. If the 95% can't rebel. They aren't too imaginative either. Odd definiti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 09:18 AM
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I wonder if this RedPill self improvement can really make a non-dominant man dominant perhaps the RedPill screens for such men. As 5% of 7.5 billion is a decently large number. Was any of the exposition above this paragraph really necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 07:58 AM
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So basically youre this to his this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 01:23 AM
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Your own username is doom and gloom though
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 12:45 AM
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When you get a catty, insular community like thebluepill , some weird status seeking behaviors can result Omg becky, did you see what they wrote at TRP today? Those men are so deluded. Im honestly scared irl! Im so terrified ill bump into one of these rapey creepy redpill types and have a traumatic experience. Omg im panicking just thinking about it lol. And you know men are always coming on to me, so its totes something to be worried about. And cue Becky: "gurrrl thats nothing, i had a total of…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 07:00 AM
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Yeah, thats probably true. Men dont give women enough credit for the whole pregnancy wreaking havoc on body, possibly dying during child birth, milk shooting out of titties, hormones out of whack thing. At least men around here, myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 05:36 AM
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One problem i see with this set up is that the amount of money, commitment, etc a man is expected to put into the relationship goes up with time, while the amount of sex and body access he gets often goes down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 05:03 AM
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(and the quality of the provided benefits will drop with time). True as fuck. If it were known that women gave even better and more frequent sex as marriage went on, most men would be scrambling to get married. But if anything, the opposite is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 10:35 AM
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I'm not proposing anything, more calling out behavior I see as facile and hoping it will change some minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 09:43 AM
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I'm not your bro, BRO.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 09:42 AM
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There is a balance to be struck between casual witty banter while still keeping the discussion on point, and every single thread being ridden with cheap gotcha insults. Moreover, the same cheap insults over and over, with no real creativity or art on display.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 09:35 AM
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Yeah, this sub will never be r/depthhub or anything, but it shouldn't be an outright cesspool either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 09:32 AM
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Good job. We just need a "that's dumb" under the automod and all the typical redditor karma-grab responses will be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 09:31 AM
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Thanks, proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 09:08 AM
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Disagree, what they really mean is: "I wish you would not be clammy/grumpy, ever, but asking for that would be unreasonable, so instead I'll just criticize you for... eh... i dunno... not expressing it healthily. Now, excuse me, I'm off to go bitch about you to my girlfriends and slowly erode my own investment in this relationship. God it feels good to be female and have high EIQ..."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 08:54 AM
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He would kind of have it coming after flashing his wallet. Be an object, get treated like one. Same goes for the chick above. Flashing your ass at your facebook orbiters and then complaining about being sexualized? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 08:47 AM
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Apathy is better than being actively punished, insulted, bullied, pushed away...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 06:42 AM
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The level of forgiveness for women expressing emotions is much higher than for men, from what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 04:14 AM
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It would be nice if men could express emotions and not get punished but we just dont live in that world. You WILL disgust women (and men too for that matter) if you try this, and you will suffer because of it, so dont. Save it for your male best friend, your therapist or your diary. We cant live inside an idealistic comic strip unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 04:48 PM
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When you cant freely express negative emotions (as women can) the result is overall emotional deadness. Its just not possible or sustainable to be expressing happiness and positivity all the time and negativity none of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 04:38 PM
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That's actually supporting evidence for my analogy. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 04:31 AM
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Maybe you enjoy a challenge and want to distinguish yourself by being the best from among thousands, or even tens of thousands of previous partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 09:44 PM
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Yeah, it is. I tried to conjure up a comparison that you would almost be forced to agree with, or risk condemning a demographic you most likely empathize with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 09:41 PM
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“Remember a few weeks ago when you told me the full nudity you had me do in two of your movies for $100/day wasn’t exploitative because I signed a contract to do it?” You have to be pretty dumb/confused to simultaneously argue that nude scenes are immoral and exploitative, and be pissed off that you didn't get paid enough for doing one. Your moral objection would've vanished if you had made more money? Would it have been less exploitative if it was 1k a day? This woman has less integrity than a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 09:29 PM
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Imagine you're dirt poor and living paycheck to paycheck and a bunch of women with 25k in the bank are complaining about how hard it is to have 25k. You've never robbed or stolen from anyone in your life and yet you get lumped in with the criminals, because you happen to look like them. That's what men are dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 09:24 PM
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I dont think its rational to straight 1:1 compare a woman to a lambo dewd. But again, im not judging that. Instinct is what it is, you cant like... force yourself to be attracted to high n count
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 07:38 PM
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You seem to be just straight up wrong, at least concerning trp. Most testimonials from members say it improved their life and theres a lot more positive testimonials than embittered ones from ex-members. As to idealogies themselves, i mean... democracy is an idealogy. Classical liberalism an idealogy. Rights of mankind - idealogy. Your world would just be a savage wilderness full of cavemen spearing you through the skull if not for the positive impact of idealogies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:10 PM
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He can afford to. The very next chick he texted likely said yes. You dont need game when you have fame. He doesnt care about raising the success rate from 94 to 98 percent he just wants to cut through the bs and fuck as quick possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:48 PM
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You want to fuck preteens? So 10 year old girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 01:29 PM
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Comes to a total of 50 women, for anyone wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 10:28 AM
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Yeah, but you get what I'm saying. There's a rational reason for the instinct, but acting on it in this age of birth control and condoms is not really rational. But if you boil it down, nothing is really rational. Is-ought problem, and all. In absence of irrational impulses, a human has no real reason to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 10:13 AM
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I eat pussy but I also regularly piss on my wife to make sure she knows who the boss is. There's nothing more alpha than pissing on an inferior while glaring hard at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 07:24 AM
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The authors argued that there was a new "puritanism" afoot in the world. THANK YOU. This word, puritanism, is what encapsulates it all for me. The rape hysteria, the yes means yes, teach men to not rape shit. The seemingly neverending witch hunt being conducted largely through twitter and social media. People losing careers over drunken fumbling attempts at seduction which get construed as sex assault because of the "power imbalance." A few decades ago it was religious conservatives trying to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 07:15 AM
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The original franchise is enough, brosef. There's too much emphasis on reboots, remakes, sequels, etc as it is. It's all just a blatant money grab, so you already know what you're in for before you even head to the theatre ('bleeding edge' sjw infested shit marketed to the lowest common denominator). I got a friend who's a film buff and peruse his facebook whenever a new movie comes, he steers me away from the shite.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 07:05 AM
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I'm reading conflicting messages from the progressive/feminist/BP camp about a possible gender self-segregation. You should stop doing that to yourself. Masochism isn't healthy. When I start reading any mentally/spiritually corrosive message and realize the source (feminist liberal sjw collective) I simply... stop. These are the writings of individuals whose contempt and outrage towards you will only abate when you literally castrate yourself and transition to female.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:40 AM
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So why are women given a pass to have pretty overt racism? Men do too, they have an in group preference for dating the same race just like women. Just not as pronounced. It's called controlling your actions in spite of your feelings, like men are apparently expected to do. Sure, but you need to say WHY they should take certain actions. Why are they obligated to? Create an ethical argument for it being morally superior to impose mating choice on human beings instead of simply letting them choose …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:30 AM
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They could, but you need to make a case for why they should. To me the case for "dont act out towards people for not sleeping with you" seems a lot stronger than "you must fuck people you are not attracted to." I dont even think most people would enjoy receiving a pity fuck. Maybe a truecel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 11:19 PM
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Trp = advice + misogyny. I dont hate it for being misogynist btw, its like an island of overt misogyny amid a sea of covert misandry that is reddit. It is easier for redditors to hate/fear things that are on reddit, ppl hate close by threats worse than faraway ones
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 10:54 PM
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Humans have a much higher degree of control over actions (acting out) than feelings (getting angry/lack of attraction).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 10:51 PM
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I think this idea that there is a "reproductive value in a real biological sense" is dumb. If an organism managed to reproduce then it has reproductive value. Period. Results are results. You are conflating what you find moral and valuable in a man with biological value. But biology doesnt make judgement calls. It just functions, blindly, like any other mindless deterministic process.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 10:46 PM
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I dont think they care. I dont think they should care frankly. What is the point of consciousness in the first place if all you are allowed to do is to advance your species? I also think you are underestimating the extent to which people will choose the "gotcha" option in the type of hypothetical you set up, just in order to be contrarian and hopefully piss you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 10:36 PM
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My theory here is that, past a certain threshold of masculinity, you just no longer give a fuck. Im pretty beta and i feel threatened by the fact that my wife has a great job. If i was super masculine i wouldnt care. Id be too confident to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:52 PM
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Im ok with this. Let women have movies made for them. I can just choose not to watch them. There are plenty of samurai and spaghetti western movies, and classic black and white movies brimming with masculinity and superior writing to last me a lifetime. This is why free markets are good. Let people watch what they want and let studios produce based on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:48 PM
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Yeah, thats true. Attraction is not exactly moral or just, though. Men want to fuck bad girls but commit to good girls. Women want to commit to the bad boy and change him, eventually grow out of that and seek the good guys. None of it is morally the best situation but evolutionary psychology is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:46 PM
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Yeah but... your title was 'apes like mean people'. But it turns out humans don't like mean people. I want to see how your theory/viewpoint evolved and adjusted to the fact that the evidence on which it was based was wrong. Atm I don't detect any such evolution or adjustment. I just thought that was weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:26 PM
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I see a lot of red flairs saying stuff like " i expect my woman to work and bring in some money, dont be lazy and expect me to support her"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:23 PM
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I would prefer a world where women accept and appreciate men for how we are, and not what they want us to be or what we do for them. That world doesn't and won't exist though. Maybe now and then a male lucks out and finds a woman who doesn't ask him for much other than love, loyalty and spend time together. I haven't personally encountered or heard of it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:21 PM
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Seems like a lot of masculine redpill identifying men (at least around here) prefer career women to stay at home types, so either the first or second line in your OP is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:14 PM
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So in the OP you theorize that female humans are hypergamous because bonobos (across both genders) prefer jerks to prosocial people... but then the fact that human babies prefer prosocial people to jerks ALSO confirms that female humans are hypergamous? Is there even a fail condition for your hypothesis?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:11 PM
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Its not actually morally good if youre only doing it to get sex or something. Thats not morality, thats machiavellianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 08:16 PM
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You're allowed to have insecurities. Why wouldnt you just let your partner sleep with other people if they are polyamorous but loyal? Logically there is no reason not to, but humans are insecure. You're allowed to be insecure about sex, its built in. Sexual jealousy exists. Its instinctive, its irrational, and thats ok. Trying to be purely logical and "fair" about sex, n count, etc just leads to cuckoldry. Imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 08:10 PM
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This is one of the dumbest reasons for judging another human being that i've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 06:05 PM
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In the US, Bernie was certainly closer to the radical fringe than Hillary, right? Which one didn't let pesky morals or laws stop her? When a well meaning, faux radical reformer like Bernie leads a leftist insurgency, the results are relatively benign, since he reigns in the extreme elements in his own movement. When a power hungry snake like Hillary comes to power by working within the establishment, as a representative of the status quo, the results are again benign. The establishment both supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 09:47 AM
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Authoritarian, totalitarian vanguard parties will always win out over their middle of the road liberal allies, no matter how much larger the latter group is at the start. Why? Because they dont let pesky shit like morals get in the way of grasping and holding on to power. Happened time and again in history with communist movements, happened in the french revolution, happening now in the US. The radical fringe leftists of today will win the battle for the soul of the American left, and its not go…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 07:24 AM
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I feel like the men here think their lack of preference is morally superior to women's preference, and I'm interested to know if you notice that too and whether or not you agree with it. I do and I understand it. I think women have a tendency to get with guys by compromising on some of their (unrealistic) expectations, and then try to change/improve them. Whereas men tend to let women simply enjoy the freedom to express their default personality. Ie, be themselves. If you have ever been on the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 07:57 PM
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Neglect is different from abandonment. With abandonment, someone else winds up with possession of the kid (unless you're abandoning them in the woods or something in which case, it's murder). With neglect, you have possession of the kid but still don't take care of them, thus putting them in danger AND preventing others from stepping in to care for them. Locking up your kid and starving them to death while deceiving CPS/teachers/etc is worse than just dropping them off somewhere. Though I agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 07:03 AM
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Women need to control their imperatives too then. No more casual sex, no more fucking Chad, no more nagging or complaining when men don't meet their standards. Just quiet subservience and duty sex while lying back and thinking of England.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 10:53 AM
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Plenty of women love assgasms, if it wasnt enjoyable then gay men would stick to blowjobs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 06:39 AM
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Your friends sure love to initiate divorces
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 06:37 AM
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I think this is true. Perhaps i unconsciously seek to become one with the inner asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 09:12 AM
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The club ain't the best place to find a lover so the bar is where I go. Already giving off rape vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 06:01 PM
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The world is surging hard to the right just like after the 60s came and went. Time to impose some harsh anti feminist mores onto the world. It's a great time to be alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 11:14 AM
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Eww... that neotenous face doesn't do it for me. Maybe back when i was 18. I like a woman's face to have some definition. Angularity. Indicators of ripeness. what have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 11:11 AM
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Then you are only proving my point. Its only "ambition" if its money/greed ambition. Doing what you want instead of being a drone = not ambitious. Thanks for agreeing with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 01:09 AM
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How? By pursuing a career he wanted? I didnt even mention what specific degree he was going for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 01:05 AM
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Maybe life becomes TOO good... like not enough challenge in it. Makes you want to restart as a homeless gay african man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 09:41 PM
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I like the betapill, it suits me. Monogamy, commitment, high investment, having honest and productive talks, sharing our emotions, providing for her, spoiling her, cleaning up the house with my baby carrier on... it just... does it for me. I dunno about the mommywife thing, but im down for everything else beta. The betalife chose me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 09:35 PM
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So? She didnt give a whit for his abilities, her questions were all about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 08:09 PM
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Young Romeo is either a schlub, or on to some fresh snatch by then. It's pool boys and cats for 40something Ms. Moneybanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 05:37 PM
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Sad but true. My friend's wife asked him to more ambitious and go back to college. After thinking about it for a while, he decided to go back and learn game design. He was pumped about it too, and full of plans to start a 5 man team and start producing games. His wife learned of his plans and immediately started discouraging him. She wanted to know how much cash this career path would bring in and whether it was worth the time/money put into the degree. It's only about ambition so long as that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 03:31 PM
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Suddenly the girl who sleeps around like it's nothing wants commitment before sex. Aggravating as fuck. Please create that CMV, I want to vent and let loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 03:21 PM
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sounds like a porn star
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 12:07 PM
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that movie any good?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 12:06 PM
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Yeah, I don't really believe in this or respect it. I don't see human beings as receptacles full of promiscuity juice they then need to expel from their system via licentious or bad behavior. And I don't really respect people who view themselves that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 12:04 PM
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Upvote for humility.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 11:59 AM
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I'm not really looking at the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 11:53 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FhXz60f0HLU
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 08:54 AM
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The previous studies didn't establish how much more women take money into account than men, this one did (it's about 4:1 women to men).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 08:45 AM
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A tale as old as time. The femme fatale marries Mr. Moneybanks despite carrying on a torrid affair with some young broke Romeo. It's all so tragic and no one really winds up happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 07:24 AM
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I don't like strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 06:55 AM
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if he looks like a foot the mental image this gave me was funny
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 06:48 AM
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Just curious (lol), but do you think being the penetratee rather than penetrator makes one more gay? I sure as shit do. There have been some cultures through history where what you're talking about, male bisexuality, is common, but generally it's still viewed as gay to be a bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 03:36 PM
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Do you think this adds some credence to the idea that technology is skewing the SMP in favor of women? Or at least, women and top tier guys? There's a lot of dating and fucking happening through apps now. Where before, Chad could only fuck as many women as he had time to meet and seduce, now he can have the women look at a convenient profile of him and send him invites, and visit each pussy just long enough to fuck it. Kind of like a bumblebee flitting from one flower to another, pollenating whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 03:27 PM
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App developer here. Figure out exactly how this would work so I can produce it and patent it pls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 03:25 PM
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That's true. But having the right genitals is a huge selling point, you have to admit. Pussy fascination makes a bit of sense in this context. As a strand of DNA,you wouldn't want neolithic man accdientaly fucking his more effeminate looking bros and not producing any progeny.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 03:23 PM
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Too deep for this sub bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 03:22 PM
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I agree with this. Sure this con might help you pick up chicks, but it might also get you straight up shot or put into a coma. I know bars where this would happen after about 5 seconds of what OP describes. Even in a relatively mild bar, you never know when you'll run into a gang member or crazy person... not worth imo. But if you're a low FTO risk taker, I can see the appeal. There's a certain thrill in pulling a scam on others, especially when danger is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 03:17 PM
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Drunken regret sex is not rape. This should be a mandatory disclaimer included on all articles, posters and internet posts instructing men to not rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 03:13 PM
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i dunno about magical, but unfathomable and alien to the male comprehension... yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 03:12 PM
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incels.me <- your brothers are waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 03:11 PM
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Yup. This is actually eerily similar to how my friends and I used to victimize people in online gaming. We'd have one guy be an asshole to people and challenge them to 1v1 fights in the wilderness where the rest of us would be waiting. Or one of us would claim to want to 1v2 or 1v3 a group of people, and be a dick about it, but when the fight started the real 3v1 would be on the unsuspecting victim, who was the only person not party to the scam.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 03:08 PM
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I think where we disagree is that, to me, the fetishized anatomical craving IS being hetero... If a guy wanted to fuck a trap, but she's feminine in all other respects than having a dick... that guy wouldn't really fit my definition of straight. Something's a bit off there. The genitals are kind of the most important thing in all this, not saying the other stuff doesn't matter, but... yeah... no straight dude I know of wants to fuck a trap, even if she's 10x more feminine than your average butch…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 03:04 PM
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I do get the impression that they don't mesh with men as much personality wise, but that doesn't make them gay, at least to my mind. You can want to fuck someone, and still mostly dislike them... in fact that's an indicator of a strong sex drive, because it causes you to overlook you not really liking them because you crave fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:56 PM
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Yeah, my first instict was "fuck this asshole" but like... guys are either at bars to get drunk, or get laid. If the former, why do they give a shit about any of this? If the latter, then theyre basically just getting outplayed at the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:48 PM
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Thats some pretty interesting social engineering man, not gonna hate. Its too much effort and deceptiveness for the likes of me, and i dont attend bars anyway. High beta game and let come what may. But ya'll do you. I recognize that something like this could work, its a pretty simple ploy and simple ones are often best.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:32 PM
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Why isn't WOMAN the appealing part, and not a particular fetish for an incidental little part of them? Because lol, you arent fucking her unless youre making contact with her pussy. Men want to have sex with women. Like, a lot. I think you are reading a lot into this that isnt actually there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:07 PM
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Can you give me a straight up example of this happening? This is a lot of theoretical talk, kind of hard to address it without you outlining how it actually happens
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:01 PM
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Too obvious man. Gotta be more subtle to slip those troll posts past the mod squad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 12:14 PM
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Idk, I think it's unfair to judge someone on an unfinished project, let alone the comments of the editor on said project (they're supposed to be harsh). Plenty of legit reasons to take issue with Milo without having to resort to juvenile, sour grapes insults like "shitty writer".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:20 AM
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Quite possibly. Women need that new relationship energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:17 AM
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By "loner" he probably means "nigga you'd best start showing up to our after-work coke/hooker/drinking sessions. Don't give me any of this 'family' bullshit."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:13 AM
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Maybe this, but without the 2 jobs or paying the bills. And marriage would be nice, if the woman was loyal. Also, notice how when men complain about women having similarly unrealistic standards, we're told that maybe men should stop being shallow and value our partners for more than just looks, and that anyway, only pathetic low value men lack standards. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:10 AM
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You'll have to date a feminist I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:09 AM
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I can also confirm that the nagging parents phenomenon is real. No parent likes to have Grandma Sue haranguing them about their unmarried child who is presently living in sin and whether she should expect her grandkids to be illegitimate. Nor the overly polite, strained, faux understanding smiles from friends and neighbors when they explain that no, they haven't missed their invite, it's simply that their kid's wedding hasn't happened yet.... still.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 11:05 AM
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cool. I love when people do the math to generate statistics like this. Where'd you see it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 09:32 AM
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Literal Chadlet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 09:30 AM
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Everything goes down better with a side of intellectual pretension, friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 08:55 AM
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We can’t seem to find men who like the idea of spending the rest of their life, or even year lol, with the same woman. Where have you been looking? Most men I know are primarily interested in dating/sex but they aren't closed off to the possibility of starting a family (unless they are already divorced and hence, have a 'been there, done that' attitude towards it). It just isn't the first thing on their mind when they're approaching or getting to know a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 08:52 AM
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You can get accused or rape or sexual assault or even "pressuring" women into sex and it can ruin your life/reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 08:50 AM
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Nah. Stream of consciousness writing with heavy reliance on an editor is a legitimate way to write.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 08:48 AM
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Why is it then that men for example tend not to color their hair, or if they do color their hair, they tend to opt for a salt and pepper look as they grow older? Coloring your hair is viewed as gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 11:58 PM
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I haven't seen anything this funny on PPD in a while, so... thanks for that I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 09:05 PM
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Bro, it's literally the plot to fifty shades of grey. Conflicted mary sue signs a deal to be a submissive girlfriend to paranoid, controlling rich guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 01:06 PM
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Half the reactions in there are supporting the rich guy, and of the remaining half, most are just like "sounds like a bad deal, run." There's nothing anti male about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 01:04 PM
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OK, i see where the problem is now. Youre absolutely right that she was dumb and wrong to get into the relationship after he laid out the terms and then expecting different. I dont dispute that. Im talking about the posters' (and mine) reasoning for telling her to get out of the relationship, now that she's actually grasped what its like. 20 year old college kids are dumb, and make sloppy relationship mistakes. Thats understandable. The important thing is they learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 12:21 PM
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So you break up and go think long and hard about the things you'd agree to in rhe future. You can't think of everything in advance, that's the whole point. What happens when you get sick or injured? Will this "lone wolf" be there for you or will his attitude be the same "your problems and resources are yours and mine are mine" attitude as always? What happens if you want to go on vacation one place and he wants to go another? Compromise or just "okay, bye." What happens if you want to live one p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 11:55 AM
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Controllingness. When she starts getting real pressed about things being done her way, or nitpicks the way I do things. Inability to just calm the fuck down and relax. This includes always being on her phone or being distant, thinking and worrying about random shit instead of enjoying the moment. Being lazy in bed, or lazy about sex in general. Life often gets in the way of sex, but a real down ass chick will MAKE the time for sex. When she resents me for being me, ie, laid back about the small …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 11:27 AM
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A possibility? Cmon dude. Look at the series of edits on that redpill thread on it. I just saw that I got a "PM" from a user that has registered his account roughly 9 hours ago, telling me some new "intel" about this post and claiming he's 99,9% sure it's his GF that started these posts. He said I cant post at the moment due to my novelty account but Id be glad to share some more insight into this and answer eventual questions. I'm not sure what to make of this but if anyone wants me to pursue t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 11:13 AM
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This is some turbo bullshit dude. No woman goes online and writes "how do I cope with my incredibly wealthy successful boyfriend who socializes expertly, has had millions of adventures yet simultaneously is aloof, independent and puts me in my place????" These kinds of posts are written by men, in order to prove a point. Observe how closely the fake male lead character resembles TRP. He's a TRP platonic ideal male. If the dude who wrote this is not from TRP, he is at least part of the manosphere…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 10:44 AM
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Assuming she's like 5'5"... 120lbs - Most men would date. 140lbs - Slightly chubby but still cute. 160lbs - Bargain-barrel women, but with the aid of alcohol or girlfriend-goggles, you can overlook her fatness and still love her. 180lbs - The female obesity event-horizon. Only similarly fat men and incels dare to cross this threshold. To all others, women who reach this critical level of mass effectively become black holes, ie, invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 09:54 AM
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I thought you were from Mars.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 09:48 AM
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"Well, if you not always disrespected the fairies, and always carried the rosecrux, then you might not have those problems. Also jesus died for your sins, don't you get that?!?" Mm, you're right, religion is so fanatical and outdated. Perhaps while you are dealing with the problem of having all this capitalism in Germany, you can do something about the religion, too? Have a nice war on the church like they did back when jackboots and brown shirts were all the rage. Surely, that will clear the wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 09:36 AM
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down here there is a strong vibe of "yeah, capitalism is dead", in the sense that you nobody is even trying to really defend it anymore They were saying the same thing in 1935 when the Great Depression hit, and we kind of know how that turned out, don't we? Basically right now there is a vibe where there is a decent absence of shaming, and people on welfare are more seen as victims of system failure instead of individual failures. Mmm, perhaps it's not so much that individuals failed as they wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 02:39 PM
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70 years ago ya'll were killing jews. And now we're the crazy ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 02:03 PM
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The heroine PPD needs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 02:00 PM
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It is. If you're an actual truecel it might be your best hope though. No judgement here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 05:32 AM
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It's nice for your SO to have external interests. In my experience, those interests keep a woman happy, energetic, and enthusiastic about life. A woman without them becomes melancholy and starts bitching about how hard it is to be a full time mom in 2017 and what ever else crosses her mind. Next thing you know she's tipsy on a half dozen wine coolers and getting into some fracas on facebook with the in laws about Trump and you're getting teary calls from your great aunt. Idle hands do the devil'…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 05:28 AM
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How many looksmaxed men in their 20s do you roll with? I don't think all this shit is common. Do you really personally know men who have had plastic surgery in their 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 05:25 AM
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The men there are very much smaller in stature, less muscular, and less bold and aggressive and less violent than the American ideal form of masculinity. Because they're genetically less muscular and smaller than people from other countries, not because they're less "hyper-masculine." Asian people didn't interbreed with neanderthals, and they're generally more neotenous and ectomorphic than people from other regions. As for those countries, they have much more rigid gender roles than the US, a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 05:18 AM
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In my opinion, based off of traveling to many countries, and experiencing different social lives, this is caused by America having a fixation on hyper masculinity, compared to that of other nations. Uh, what nations? Can you name one that isn't in northwestern europe? Almost every nation outside of the US and Europe has a much more rigid and traditionalist sense of masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 04:44 AM
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Just my suspicion, but I think many of the women coming out of "abusive" relationships are actually just coming out of shitty relationships. But I don't have any solid basis for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 04:40 AM
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I never see men who struggle romantically in their 20s do better in their 30s unless they had plastic surgery Opposite here. Know a lot of guys in my friend circle who were undersocialized, awkward gamers with no style and shitty jobs. Come 30, a few of them had shaped up. Gym memberships, better jobs+more money, and a more mature/less awkward socializing style, plus some basic ability to navigate dating apps or cold approach... one guy went from an N-count of 1 to double digits and a regular gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 04:29 AM
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Nice gravity defying quilt, but what's it have to do with the OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 09:13 PM
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The fat ones, at least for me. When i see an overweight woman my eyes just kind of skim over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 09:12 PM
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Neither sex owes the other a certain treatment. Yes, I'm not owed women writing what they want on their dating profiles. You, and women, aren't owed me writing what you want on this subreddit. Including that I find what they wrote annoying, dumb and that they inflated standards. I'm allowed to think that and write about it. You aren't owed me refraining from doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 05:41 PM
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Thanks :D
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 02:35 PM
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MWALT - most women are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 11:16 PM
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I would like it if women were like "i want a man who looks decent and has a decent job and will be loyal to me, work hard and take me on dates and spend time with me. And is good in bed." I find it shallow and annoying when they mention height, dick size, specific income figures, because i dont want to be a fucking atm or arm candy. Do women like it when men write "must be hourglass shaped, give daily blowjobs, have d cup titties and do kegels?" We all know a man who wrote that would generate ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 10:20 PM
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I have in the past and still know many people from there
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 10:14 PM
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Weight is controllable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 10:13 PM
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I've noticed that women's stated standards don't really match up to who they end up dating. If you look at Tinder or social media posts or whatever, certain women will constantly gripe about men, and assert that they will accept no less than 6 foot men who makes 6 figures, and so on. Then they end up with a 5'8" ex con and become a baby mama.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 04:16 PM
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It's not that THEY are posting. It's that their videos of themselves masturbating are being posted. Probably by the men that those women sent them to, or other men that came into possession of those videos through trades or other means. What makes you think this? You can go on any cam site and there are hundreds if not thousands of girls who voluntarily film this shit for money. I'd be really surprised if the amount of "revenge porn" masturbation videos floating around out there is anywhere clos…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:56 PM
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Its one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:53 PM
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Don't be depressed, go use your singledom to build the life you want. Take some risks, achieve some dreams. Nothing holding you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 01:09 PM
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About 70 percent of people ever go to college, and about 40 percent wind up having a degree... so that leaves a pie slice of young people somewhere between 30-60 percent wide, for whom none of this applies. Now factor in that social mixing is a thing... even college kids go to bars, clubs, parties, etc where they are people of all ages. Or at least i did when i was in school. Plus there's the people you might meet through your job, coworkers (sleeping around with coworkers is endemic in the kind…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 12:51 PM
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It really all depends. If you have a good face but don't have the brains or willpower needed to make money, getting women will be easier. If you have social anxiety and fear of rejection, then getting money will be easier. It also depends on your standards. Getting enough money to support yourself is easy. Getting enough to live in a 2 bedroom apartment, easy to moderate. Getting enough to support a family, live in a good neighborhood with good schools, go on vacations, drive a nice car... diffi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 12:33 PM
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The fact that single people are discriminated against in society doesn't help things, either. What? Lmao point me to an example of this. The most "discrimination" you're going to have to endure is friends and family desperately trying to hook you up with someone so you don't die alone. No one is going to deny you a job or services, they will think you're weird and do awkward things to try to pair you up with someone, but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 12:26 PM
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While perusing social media, I see loads of self-made pornography featuring young women pleasuring themselves with dildos that few if not any men would ever measure up to. I'm talking 12"L x 7-8"G. Even a lot of the larger than average toys measure around 8" x 6". Rarely do I see any of the girls (aside from the ones that use hair-brush handles) using any "average sized" toys. Because that's the best way to get views, subscribers, upvotes, paid one on one sessions, and whatever other form of val…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 12:22 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 12:04 PM
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It's not easy to cut off your family even if they are kind of shitty. My wife and I both come from families with fair shares of dysfunction. We gripe about our families and each other's families, we skip out on gatherings... and at the end of the day we still help them out when we can, despite knowing it won't really help in the long run, because dysfunction. Family is family.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 10:34 PM
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I feel you on this. A chick gets born into a terrible, poor family, most of whom aren't trying to do shit other than meth, gambling or living off the government. So she thinks to herself, "what's a stable, in demand career where I can go to school and be pretty much guaranteed to make 60k a year, while not having to be super intelligent or take any risks." Enter nursing. Nothing but love for them though. At least they're trying to break the cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 10:31 PM
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Certain overweight women seem to have a chip on their shoulder. Like "I'm a currvvvy goddess. Men love me for who I am and I don't have to settle." This will be the type that shit tests a lot and tries to demand a lot out of the relationship... she doesn't want to see herself as getting a raw deal in life compared to your average thin woman, so she'll be highly self-actualized... aka assertive and knows what she wants... aka "if you can't handle me at my worst"... etc. If you are going to go for…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 10:24 PM
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Sorry pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 10:21 PM
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Or maybe theyre just human beings who saw other human beings in pain and thought "i'd like to try and help people like that."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 08:18 PM
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Therapists are just people like you and me dude. They study shit from books and professors like any other college kid so they can hopefully learn how to help people using the best available methods. But thats all it is. At the end of the day theyre just people doing their best. Like many other medical professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 08:16 PM
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When you just chill out on the sofa and she rests her head on your shoulder and locks fingers with yours and you both feel totally at peace. You know she's right where she wants to be and so are you. Shit like that is what makes it all worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 08:09 PM
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If a guy walked up and was like "hey i just got shot 14 times, is this considered gang violence" i would tell him to go to the fucking hospital, doesn't matter if he was asking for advice, doesn't matter where we are or what the subreddit rules are. That's just basic humanity. You don't want someone walking around with that kind of untreated trauma, bad things can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 03:54 PM
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Yeah, I would certainly classify them as jerks. Especially given the fact that they did the same thing to you a second/third time. One of the guys even admitted he fucked up but still did it again???!? It can be difficult being the initiator for sex stuff, because while society has this narrative of "no = no", real life is a bit more gray. My wife, for example, has responsive libido, and she will often say things like "I don't feel like having sex today" but after some kissing and petting, she'l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 09:19 AM
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Disclaimer: You should talk to a therapist, none of this is your fault. But, since you asked about what's going on in the heads of these men: They do this because they're confused and likely inexperienced about sex, and somewhat selfish. They probably have a bunch of messages floating in their head about how sex is something you get from a woman after her resisting and playing hard to get. They then interpret some of your behavior as a 'go signal' to have sex while ignoring the stop signals... b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 09:08 AM
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I dont think self improvement would disappear but it would morph drastically. In absence of women there would be a lot of sublimated sexual aggression poured into videogames, sports, artistic and scientific achievement, and warfare. Men would be less hot (other than athletes), and less socialized but more skilled at things men actually care about. Also random thought, but houses would be messy. Like Holmes and Watson bachelor pads everywere with 80s movie posters, animal heads, and samurai sword…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 08:06 AM
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Yes, that was my assertation. There are two sets of men, set A who prefers the mom type, and set B who does not. Your OP did not mention set A, so I chose to. Your reply that not all men fall into set B is already implied by my formula All Men = Set A+Set B, and therefore merely reinforces what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 07:13 AM
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On the other hand, a career woman is never going to be that full time, dedicated mom. You know the kind i'm talking about: she spends 16 hours out of the day shuttling kids to and from activities, making sure they eat organic non GMO allergen free foods, scheduling playdates and ensuring proper socialization, handling school paperwork, scheduling activities and piano lessons... Sure, you could subcontract all that out to an au pair or nanny. But then you have to trust that person. You can afford…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 06:44 AM
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Good post. I disagree but at least i understand your reasoning
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 05:35 AM
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Please refrain from commenting if you're just going to respond with biological determinism. Please refrain from posting if you're you're just going to pre-emptively dismiss opposing arguments. Anyway, onward with the discussion of biological determinism. See, men have a superabundance of this hormone called testosterone, which is one of the primary regulators of an individual's sex drive. Women don't. So there's not much for women to "explain" here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 04:47 AM
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"Just be a better human being" is not the most actionable or useful advice. Everyone is pretty much already doing that to whatever extent is possible for them. It's not like people set out to be low self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:52 PM
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They may not have hunter brows, growl in a low voice etc, but personality wise they are powerful, resourceful and aggressive, or they wouldn't be where they are. They climbed to the top of the social strata over the bodies of lesser men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 02:39 PM
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What you described is merely sharing information -- an argument involves some form of tension/conflict, usually arising from a strong desire to change the other person's view, behavior or get them to cede some decision making power (rather than merely share one's own). When one has such a desire, acts on it, and resistance is met from the other party, an argument is the usual result. I feel like most people have had an argument and inherently understand that they are different from mere differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 02:28 PM
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Gates, Buffet, kasich and cruz are all above average height. And more importantly: personality wise everyone on that list is alpha. These are not submissive, passive, or feminine personalities. They are leaders, and ruthless in their designated professional realm.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 02:17 PM
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She may want to win but not to the point of doing this on purpose. i think its all unconscious. Automatic, like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 02:10 PM
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I might agree if it weren't for the fact that positions of power, wealth and prestige are almost exclusively peopled by tall, high-T alpha males who exude a kind of easygoing, natural dominance. Occasionally mixing in a few high-T, unfeminine, type-A, aggressive, high strung females. Testosterone, height, facial structure and a commanding, fearless, energetic approach are still heavy indicators of success. Perhaps the social traits of violent machismo have taken a back seat, but the underlying b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:50 PM
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Already married. Not that my wife doesn't treat me with mutual respect. Actually, my bad, I think your point was more general and my response doesn't make sense in context.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:43 PM
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With the aid of some of the wives working, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:24 PM
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She'd probably chuckle and promptly forget it. Unless i was being weirdly persistent about said fantasy, then she might get upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:23 PM
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Call it what you will, but yet it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:22 PM
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Thats not really an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:21 PM
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I know i can probably assert myself more, but it just leads to crying on her part and guilt on mine. What i really want is for her to be like "you know what? Youre right i was just being silly and female. Ill try harder husband." And then give me a hug and be submissive and docile and happy and give me a blowjob. But us just agreeing to disagree is sometimes as good as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:19 PM
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Too late for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:16 PM
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Do you still feel like you love your wife? Like are you "in love" with her? From that last post, your relationship sounds kind of brusque and perfunctory.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 01:16 PM
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Yeah, I'll take painting a wall over paperwork any day. But anyway, ya'll sound relatively well adjusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 11:51 AM
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Dude. Not cool. I'd have been pissed as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 11:48 AM
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Wow, someone else who methodically searches up all the attractive women in his life and faps to the most risque available photos... I thought I was the only one!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 11:47 AM
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It gets to a point it's easier for employers to hire women because google will make it easier. I thought you were screening out candidates based on their social media. If a candidate can't be found via google, no screening out can occur... so shouldn't it be easier for men in this case?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 11:46 AM
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I had one like this recently, but with the roles swapped: Me: I think I'll buy my mom these headphones for Xmas. Her: Are you sure? I think your mom's new phone doesn't have a headphone jack. Me: God damn, why do wives always try to control everything? Let me make my purchases in peace, woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:55 AM
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Good on you. What happens when you discuss things?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:52 AM
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Or he did something incredibly selfish without thinking Interesting, could you give an example?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:51 AM
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I disengage. Restrict time and attention. Cool, another member of the "go to the garage and work on my coding project for a few hours" crew. When my wife gets in a certain mood I know that positive interaction is probably not going to happen - best I vacate the premises for a time. No sense soaking in her bad vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:45 AM
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What I meant is that she's not open at all for threesomes and anything involving another person except if that person is a man. I'm not sure if she's serious, but if she is, she's unfair. :/ Well i feel her on that. I'd have a threesome with my wife with another chick but not another dude. That's just my sexuality lol I can't change it. Overall, sexually she seems reasonable... it's not exactly great that she takes it hard when you reject her, but being the high libido partner is never easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:43 AM
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That's a fair point. Maybe EIQ is the wrong term for what I'm trying to convey. Let's call it AIQ, argument intelligence quotient.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:40 AM
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Those white lies can easily turn into not so white lies, and next thing you know she's fucking Ted from accounting and it's somehow your fault for being insecure... as if she didn't just completely justify said insecurity with her shitty behavior. Ahem. Anyway, I'm glad she's your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:37 AM
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I look at a set up like that and think "I could work with that." I mean, never initiating is bad... but never saying no outweighs it maybe. The fact that she sucks at exclusivity pushes it back down into the shitty category though. Sorry man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:35 AM
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Yeah, this hits close to home. I really benefited more from the book "No More Mr Nice Guy" and other vaguely masculinist literature than TRP though. Dominating/leading women is just not for me, but standing up for myself and having my own standards, goals and boundaries is all good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:32 AM
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I believe in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:31 AM
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Just how often does she want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:31 AM
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Her. How could she not? I grew up being told by friends and family that emotions are gay and for girls. I never really started processing emotions until I started going to therapy. Point is, I cannot "win" an argument against her. Even when I'm in the right, it immediately becomes about something else. I'm not bitching btw, you asked and I answered. We don't argue often, we're mostly a mixture of sweet and lightly making fun of each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:25 AM
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Gonna agree with you here. I would find this cute. It's clearly her being overly attached rather than me having done anything wrong... and somehow that makes it easy to be magnanimous and indulgent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:24 AM
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I have very typical family sitcom style arguments with my wife where she runs circles around me by constantly shifting the argument to be "about" different things, bringing up stuff i said months ago and no longer remember, etc. Chess grandmaster vs casual checkers player, high EIQ vs no EIQ, etc We keep this up for 30 minutes and run out of steam. Neither of us usually apologizes or admits fault for anything, but we often form compromises.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 10:07 AM
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Thanks for the honest answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 09:16 AM
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That's adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 08:56 AM
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Oops
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 08:45 AM
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He's getting DB'd after the third kid tho Brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 07:48 AM
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Yes, the already-integrated muslims are integrated. That's a tautology. Doesn't mean the vast majority of muslims trying to get in or the ones forming sharia imposing, non assimilating enclaves in europe or the ones who only sojoun to our countries when they want to execute the final leg of a terrorist plot are "working fine".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 10:40 PM
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That's basically trolling. It's on par with people recommending you get gender reassignment surgery in order to escape misandry. No one, least of all the person dispensing the "advice" actually believes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 10:37 PM
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Recognizing that Islam and western culture are not all that compatible =/= hating brown people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 10:37 PM
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Easier access to sex, lower testosterone with resultant lack of aggression, more difficult logistically (how to get a man erect while raping him in a back alley while time is limited?), less men willing to come forward and frankly less men able to be raped (cant rape the willing)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 09:43 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paper_abortion Paper abortion, also known as a financial abortion or a statutory abort,[1] is the proposed ability of the biological father, before the birth of the child, to opt out of any rights, privileges, and responsibilities toward the child, including financial support.[2][3][4] By this means, before a child is born, a man would be able to absolve himself of both the privileges and demands of fatherhood.[1][5][6][7]
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 09:29 PM
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Ok... and how does that relate to the parity of bad arguments being used by financial abortion and regular abortion proponents? Again, you seem to be actively agreeing with me that similarly bad arguments have led to opposing outcomes: one is legal while the other is not. Essentially highlighting the hypocrisy in purely relying on such arguments. Im not sure whether thats intentional on your part. Are you pro financial abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 09:04 PM
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Isnt that actually supporting my point that this argument is the type used by people trying to make abortion illegal (which financial abortion currently is) Youre providing supporting evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 09:00 PM
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Non sequitur. How is legality relevant here?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 08:43 PM
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As an argument this is on par with "If you didnt want to get pregnant you shouldve kept your legs closed" used by anti abortion types
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 08:28 PM
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Well i guess that rules out the non muslims.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 03:14 PM
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To each his own. For me I feel like just saying 'fuck it' and go for it. I'm optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 03:13 PM
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I went through a phase of having two Did they know about each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 03:11 PM
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I'm sorry you feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 03:05 PM
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Yes. I don't have a stigma around the word beta though, it's just a different reproductive strategy. It's about high investment, high future time orientation, monogamy, mate guarding, long term bonding, and other associated traits. TRP, to my mind (and with the exclusion of MRP) is more of a scattershot reproductive strategy. Go through as many women as you can while investing as little as possible in them, in terms of time, money, trust, etc. R selection vs K selection, basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 03:00 PM
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There is probably an entire confluence of reasons. Fear of rejection, abundance mentality, gender norms, general insecurity... lots of reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:43 PM
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That must be some kid's revenge fantasy. I don't think anyone male thinks like that except with some powerful outside factors confounding things.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:40 PM
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Is being short for a man what is being chubby for a woman aka a turnoff? Short answer: yes. You're going to have to work a bit to compensate for it. It won't be easy but it is doable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:37 PM
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A guy complained that his date was UNFASHIONABLE. That is so outside the realm of my experience. Are you sure the person who wrote that communicated their ideas properly? That doesn't seem possible in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:36 PM
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I think the fact that women hardly ever approach speaks to how much of a burden it can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:35 PM
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I would most likely try to buy them separate houses. Granted, I don't exactly have the resources for that, but this was never about what's truly feasible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:30 PM
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The paradox is of course, why is she driven to attempt to make her significant other, me and even other guys believe she's exclusive when it's obvious she's not? Does she really think all those men are clueless? What does this say about what she thinks of men? Are you saying that the SO knows about the cheating but doesn't do anything about it? I doubt it would be 'obvious' to the SO at least, or he would dump her cheating ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:29 PM
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I'm learning a lot in this thread. Thanks for your patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:22 PM
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That's true, might be best to try all this out in a country with no highway system yet developed. Not that I'm in a position to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:21 PM
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That sounds pretty accurate. Hopefully all low partner count and non slutty and sexually devoted to me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:20 PM
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Thanks i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:19 PM
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But just "fucking chicks" is not what you posited in your OP. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. If a relationship with one woman is too much for Salty-Bastard, why not zero, while still fucking chicks on the side? A relationship with one woman is not too much for me. All that labor still existed - indeed, it was multiplied - but the men who "owned" the many women outsourced it so it would not eat up literally all of their time. Hmm. Maybe the women could do that for me. Keep each other entertained, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 02:04 PM
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You deleted your account mad quick
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 11:48 AM
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Right, the support structure is not there anymore at a society wide level. I'm just saying the instinct and drive to make a family is an inescapable fact for some men. If it were just about cold rationality, we could forgo sex altogether, and then no need for women at all, ala Newton and Tesla. But life is not so simple for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 10:13 AM
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If it is too exhausting, why not zero women at a time? Legit question. One can always fuck chicks on the side without getting into a relationship with any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 09:36 AM
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That realization would come a few years too late in my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 09:29 AM
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Tell that to Newton or Tesla. Most people are not Newton or Tesla. Outliers and exceptions exist, but we're talking about most people here. Mundanes. Normies. No sense having a sexual strategy sub about asexuals. If people are hardwired to have kids, and that is their ultimate goal, the best course of action would be to donate sperm, go on a raping spree, or knock up any women they can. First of all, that would completely disregard the quality of children being produced, and second of all, it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 09:18 AM
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Dang. That's disheartening, but thanks for sharing your perspective, I doubt many people posting here will have had a similar first hand view on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 09:09 AM
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I don't think it even rises to the level of a philosophical driving force. People are hard wired to want to have kids, just like they're hard wired to want to fuck. And I should add that neither you nor I nor anyone reading are above that, else, this sub and all other sex related subs would be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 08:50 AM
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Yeah, the strong desire to have a family is kind of inherently beta. I guess a real redpill male would cuck other family men out there or just leave a bunch of bastards lying around the world. But being raised in a single parent home as a child of divorce, it makes you not want to repeat the cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 08:44 AM
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Wage gap is a myth How is it a myth? Rare complications Dying in war is even more rare in the west now. if a man works harder at a job and can produce more at a physical location he can't be paid more It's called getting promoted, men are good at it. Better than women in fact. Women control 51% of the wealth Because men let them. Oppression olympics is bullshit btw. I just don't see a way around the fact that women's bodies are the ones that produce kids. That's why they get the choice to abort.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 08:39 AM
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Do you want to have kids? Do you want to have a good, dedicated mom for your kids and not fuck up their lives? Then your only real option is to get married. Everything else just flows from there. It's not an ideal set up, but if you want to have kids and see them succeed, you're eventually going to have to get married. No way around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 08:35 AM
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And more men die at work, men work harder And you get paid more. and pregnancy is inconvenient, not some great pain It is when you die from it, or tear that entire region between vagina and asshole, or have to get a hysterectomy from complications. Men die at work and have to go to war, do they get a special reward, They do. It's called getting paid more. they can't even get paid fucking more for doing more work. Yeah they do. Men make more money in comparison to women. I'm not whining about tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 08:23 AM
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Agree on that front.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 04:24 AM
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Thats MGTOW, no? I've hung around incel communities in the past, and if they think you're fakecel (tolerable face) they'll be just as quick to advise you to work out and earn that 5/10 pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 04:24 AM
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Its all just life man. Fuck all these age categories lol. Dating is about individuals. Im positive things are more fluid than all 19-24 year olds thinking and being alike. I see a lot of age disparity in the couples me and my wife run into, so... eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:49 PM
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A harsh truth for some to cope with
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:42 PM
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Such is the nature of online debate
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:41 PM
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IIRC, the most common age bracket in marriages, according to the census, is 3 years What was the variance? Average age gap of 3 years doesnt mean much on its own if we're talking how socially acceptable an age gap of say, 5 or 8 years is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:36 PM
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Barely legal 18 year olds, maybe not. Professional 25 year olds? There are plenty to go around and early 30s male is definitely in the same "dating pool"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:29 PM
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Women have to go thru labor, pms, carrying baby, breastfeeding etc. Their bodies simply do more work and take more risk when it comes to propagating the human species and thats why so much of our laws around reproduction favor women. Its fair that they get something. Having said that, child support needs to be reasonable. Let the dad put in half the resources needed to keep the kid alive, healthy and educated. Child support should not be an excuse for women to extract a shitton of money out of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:22 PM
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im sorry but that was about 10 paragraphs too long for me. im out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 10:57 PM
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I don't know. Why do black people use the word "nigga?"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 06:55 PM
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I think it's actually still the redpill, just for a different demographic. The demographic for whom self improvement is genuinely not worth it, due to facial deformity, unfixable mental issues, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 01:40 PM
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Do you understand the concept of symbolism OP? No one involved in this ever believed Chad was an actual person, thats the point of symbols, they serve as a representation of real life phenomena.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 09:01 PM
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Its not fetishizing if its true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 03:24 PM
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I tried it and didn't like it, so i transitioned back. Your move OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 02:47 PM
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More poof that women do not like the majority of men approaching them and giving them attention and want to be left alone. Don't make the mistake of taking all this shit at face value bro. As we sit here bullshitting, women are getting picked up. I would guesstimate that half the women in this thread have been cold approached and then kiss or fuck closed later that week.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 01:22 PM
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Hey there.....
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 01:20 PM
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Genetics. Asian men just don't have that visceral gut-instinct level appeal to white women. Unless it's a top tier asian guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 01:19 PM
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Lol i remember being 9 and thinking posting comments like that mattered
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 03:57 AM
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If a sufficient number of men perform an action, such that "harmful things that men do" becomes an apt descriptor, then it's difficult if not impossible to differentiate that from a masculine gender norm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:18 PM
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Pretty much. This is a subreddit. You shouldnt need a phD in a concept to discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 11:14 PM
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well, theres not knowing what something means as in, genuinely dont know what it means And then theres "i think feminism has gone too far and is becoming anti men" followed by another poster's "u just dont no wat feminism means". Or in response to any criticism of concepts certain posters subscribe to. "You dont actually know what x means" gets thrown around way too often as a lazy "refutation" of posts people dont like
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:57 PM
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Something something honesty doesnt mean disclosing everything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 08:27 PM
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Horsing around*
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 07:34 PM
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You lie
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 07:33 PM
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Same thing with a guy teacher who works at an elementary school, a male student at a liberal arts college, a senior man who joins a bridge club, etc. Feminine men make more sense to me suddenly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 07:33 PM
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How much pussy did he end up getting?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 07:28 PM
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> using meme arrows with improper formatting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 07:27 PM
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I thought the op was going to be about beastiality
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 07:26 PM
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Well punned friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 07:25 PM
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Even if i was interested in guys i dont think id be down to get with a guy who had frequented prostitutes, i think it shows a certain overly casual attitude towards sex. But guys are sometimes in a position where theyre a virgin and are curious and its really hard to find a willing chick, its more forgivable in that situation. A chick cannot be in that situation, there is always willing dick around unless she is incredibly unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 06:50 PM
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Nah, Theres no parity there. Its easy for a woman to get casual sex. Not so for men, hence their frequent prostitute usage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:54 PM
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That was either a troll post or the work of a very confused and unfortunate individual
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 04:14 PM
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If i fully commit to a woman it means pooling all resources. There is no "hers" and "mine". Doesnt matter who earns more. Not everything has to be "fair" and 50/50. If they are using you, you can prolly sense that, but no sense sweating all the minor shit and obssessing over every detail trying to make it even.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:53 PM
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Materialism. The common trait here is materialism. Excessive focus on money, ambition, buying things, commoditization of others... Some men are ok with this. For me id rather avoid it. I like a woman whose emphasis is on the inmaterial. Happiness, experiences, intimacy...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:49 PM
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Would be for me. What kind of woman goes to a prostitute? Ive barely even heard of it happening
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:46 PM
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It doesnt seem to resemble trp much to me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:39 PM
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And you're perfectly rational and justified in everything you care about. Is that it? A being of pure logic who only cares about things after he has reasoned their importance into existence. Whatever dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 01:07 PM
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Your apathy and bitching about people who still have the nerve to give a shit about things is at least as trite and tiresome as anything anyone else here has written, believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 12:52 PM
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Weak rationalizations from someone who was caught out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 11:51 AM
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I think that's a question better answered by you, no? I'm asking for women's experiences here. I've never had any orbiters myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 11:01 AM
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Which they are we talking about? The women or the orbiters?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 10:48 AM
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If it were happening to me, I'd strongly suspect many of my male "friends" were only hanging around and/or being nice as a means towards a potential end: that of getting pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 10:27 AM
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Daily reminder that the exiled incel scourge are still producing some of the funniest trolling yet seen on the internet. https://incels.me/Thread-RageFuel-Come-one-come-all
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 09:58 AM
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If the holy book and mainstream culture says men have to respect women for being feminine and women have to respect men for being masculine, while enforcing it in a cult-like manner, you can probably pull it off. Not a bad idea. You could even make these big stone houses where everyone congregates to do the cult-like thing, and feed them pieces of stale bread and water and tell them its sacred water or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 09:05 AM
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A big part of the reason why I suspect that is the emphasis different cultures place on their social hierarchy. Korean culture is intensely hierarchical. The UK has its persistent class system, India with its caste system etc. Whereas American culture is or was much more individualistic and egalitarian. It's interesting you bring that up, because while for example Korean culture is much more stratified and about heirarchy, it's also very collectivist and self sacrificing. You are supposed to sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 08:55 AM
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can you get him to come here and do an ama
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 08:40 AM
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In theory, sure. In practice, "different yet equal" is near impossible to achieve. People are ego driven and will use any area where they, or those like them, are different as an excuse to feel superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 06:25 AM
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Literally feels before reals with some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 06:21 AM
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Unfortunately, this attitude doesn't work out well. It's so easy to get tooled around by your wife/gf if you're super-worried about sexual fidelity. You can't stop someone from cheating if they want to, and almost any woman can cheat if she wants to. Your attachment/need for control gets weaponized against you. This can happen IF the other person decides to weaponize it against you and if you let them. I don't think the solution to having vulnerabilities and worries in a relationship is "just do…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:56 AM
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I'm with you. I find this holier-than-thou attitude from people with libertine views on infidelity grating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:54 AM
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Woman A betrays you essentially over nothing, you wonder if you ever meant anything to her. At least woman B has a strong reason for betraying you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:46 AM
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People have a much higher degree of control over their actions than their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:40 AM
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Some don't. Some kill themselves and/or their partner, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:36 AM
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Love and sex are not the same thing. And what about love and trust? Respect? Honesty? Loyalty? Faith? Fidelity? When the deceit and betrayal of cheating takes place, all those things go out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:35 AM
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Being upset that a woman cheated on you is evidence of lacking empathy... hmm. You don't exactly sound overflowing with empathy yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:27 AM
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Maybe they understand, but just have different priorities and standards. Understand != accept all the other gender's standards and opinions as your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:26 AM
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Actions speak louder than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 05:23 AM
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I think we are entering a kind of new Red Scare but with allegations of sex assault instead of allegations of communist sympathizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 03:54 AM
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Neither one of these situations is ideal, but it seems many men would rather try to make it work with a woman who has fallen out of love with him and in love with someone else over someone who physically cheated. Let me go back to this statement again. Assume you are a man. Assume you care a lot about your wife not fucking some other dude. You still care that she doesn't get emotionally close with other dudes, but it's secondary to her not fucking other dudes. Now assume your wife fucked another…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 03:43 AM
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Women cannot be cuckolded and defrauded into raising children that aren't theirs, men can. Ergo, men are programmed to care more about a woman's sexual fidelity. It is physically revolting and repugnant to stick your dick in a hole after it has been polluted by some strange cock. Note that STDs were also more prominent before the development of modern medicine and women are more likely to become vectors for STDs. A woman getting tipsy and fucking up once doesn't necessarily mean she's fallen out…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 03:25 AM
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upset Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 02:56 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 05:13 AM
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She and her husband are on thin ice with CPS and I expect the kids to be taken away sooner than later. Thank god.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:58 AM
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Would it be possible to grab a beer with this guy and explain to him how he is fucking up his whole life?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:56 AM
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She's been cheating on him still. It's been a minimum of 6 times. And he's still with her? Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:55 AM
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I thought that criticizing muslims was not allowed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:46 AM
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Do you think they shouldn't? Especially when their primary motive seems to be bringing children into the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:19 AM
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Lol don't get carried away now. It's possible to not cheat on and lie to your spouse bro. Happens every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:16 AM
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Maybe they just don't like murdering babies.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 03:38 PM
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We need to transition to direct democracy already.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 02:53 PM
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Doesn't matter, thin waist and small hips > fat waist and small hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 02:12 AM
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Always is a strong word, but I do believe that in most relationships there is one person who cares for the other more. Things rarely line up neatly. However, if both people feel and demonstrate caring for the other above a certain threshold, the relationship is still stable. If things are good, it doesn't matter if they're somewhat imbalanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 02:07 AM
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The problem is that femininity is a generalized concept which encapsulates several different, often contradictory, feminine archetypes. There is the scheming, haughty, entitled upper class woman; the ditzy, needy and idealistic ingenue; the nagging overly controlling shrew; etc. There is no one hypothetical woman you can construct which evinces all these different traits. There is no "stereotypically feminine" woman because there are a number of different ways to be feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 02:05 AM
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Maybe he was beating the shit out of her or was a closet homosexual. Or maybe she's one of those women for whom tinglez and "I just wasn't haaaaaappy" are reason enough to plunge the knife into an exposed back. We need more context.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 02:00 AM
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Let's say you're in an LTR. You notice you're not getting as much sex, or as kinky and satisfying sex as before. You bring this up. VERY few women will say: "the problem is that you're less attractive." It'll always be something else. The bills... her body image issues... stress... hormones... she's tired... the room's messy... if you just did a bit more for her, then maybe she could have sex more. This idea that you can do things for a woman in order to get sex doesn't just magically pop into m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 01:55 AM
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waist-to-hips ratio, something that cannot be changed It can if youre overweight which most women are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 01:52 AM
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This feels real to me. Younger women want to have fun and are satisfied just fucking and going on dates. The older ones want more - commitment, stability, money, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 01:51 AM
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Me either. The fuck is with all this entitlement? When i was young i wanted a girl who was pretty and liked spending time with me. Thats it. I dont understand people who set up these huge intricate life ambitions for themselves and then are disappointed when it doesnt materialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 01:48 AM
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This is about right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 08:48 AM
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I personally don't know anybody who has been a victim of paternity fraud Who would admit to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 05:52 AM
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A logistical nightmare for certain women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 05:49 AM
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"street harassed" is not sexual assault, if it is then i'm assaulted whenever a homeless guy asks me for money
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 05:46 AM
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There's a certain element of dick sucking, phoniness, sucking up, and projecting an entire false persona in a fit of psychotic nihilism ala American Psycho, which I have come to loathe about the interview process. The fact that these people talk shit despite being so incompetent themselves that they rattle off a (highly unprofessional, by the by) internal communication to the one person that really shouldn't have received it... the fact that such idiots are yukking it up, mocking interviewees to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 05:10 AM
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I would. I would marry a chick with no job and no ambitions if she was smart, witty, cute, could hold a conversation, and enjoyed regilar marathon fuck sessions. Ive got a good enough job/side biz to cover everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 05:33 PM
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Thats kind of why I had to write so much in the previous post. If the sex is frequent and the relationship is good, it makes the fact that she wont do anal or whatever almost not matter... almost. I'm not sure the best way to describe this but here goes: a lot men, myself included, feel the need to be sure the woman he's with wants him on a sexual level. Its important to us at a base atavistic animal brain level, i would posit due to evo-psych reasons having to do with aversion to cuckoldry / be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 03:49 PM
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You're more interested in stating your negative opinion of me than actually debating, here at the debate sub. I'd call that trolling. Call me when you are ready to behave like a grown up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 09:40 AM
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Genghis Khan?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 06:14 AM
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Napoleon?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 04:27 AM
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Oh, ok. So you're only responding to me to troll and waste my time. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 06:14 PM
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If you are so keen to state that I am wrong, why not say WHY you think I am wrong and HOW the female experience differs from the male, instead of just reiterating that it does. Right now we are just talking in circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 05:44 PM
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When chemistry is lacking, okay sex becomes terrible sex, and great sex becomes just so-so. I mean, even I as a man have experienced this. If I had to fuck an overweight 4/10 chick I imagine my mind would be elsewhere and part of it would be skeptically narrating everything the other person was doing: "Look at her. Just laying there like a dead fish. And her moans are so fake. Why did she stick her tongue in my ear just now? Did she read in that in fucking Cosmo?" Whereas if the chick was really…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 05:31 PM
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I don't think there was really a "moral" to the story Maybe that's what I really find annoying in all this. Margot needs some morality in her life. She needs some fucking backbone. The situation cries out for someone to slap some sense into the characters, and the fact that it never happens gives me morality-blue balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 05:28 PM
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Mhmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 05:26 PM
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There are two types of works about vapid, self-absorbed, shallow people failing at life/relationships: Satire, and this kind. The kind that attempts to portray it in a relatable way, and actually inadvertantly dupes people into revealing how shallow and selfish they are, by getting them to admit that they did in fact, relate to it. This is that kind of work, and I find it mildly upsetting. Imagine a work about a serial killer or child rapist that attempts to portray them as relatable, and now di…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 05:23 PM
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If he were tall & attractive, but performing the same sex moves, this part of the narrative would've read like erotica.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 05:15 PM
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"Dating as a white, millenial, affluent western female is hard."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 05:13 PM
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Disagree. The author throws subtlety to the winds and goes full tilt at the end to really drive home how shitty Robert is. And therein lies the moral of the story, conveniently placed at the end as in all cautionary tales. "Watch out for those shitty nice-guys!"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 05:11 PM
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What's so relatable is supposedly this cultural pressure to always think about other people (especially men) before one thinks of themselves. Whenever a certain type of woman dislikes something about herself, she inevitably reframes it as "cultural pressure". That way they don't need to introspect or change anything. The whole issue gets bundled into a nice neat package labelled "someone else's fault". "Surely SOCIETY is the one that needs to change! I did nothing wrong, and should not have to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 05:06 PM
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If my woman cared enough to look incredibly sexy specifically for ME, I wouldn't be complaining about shit. However, it doesn't work out like that for me. Woman gets dolled up when we go out, but when it's just us around, she tramps around in an old baggy t-shirt and faded, shapeless gym shorts she's had since she was 14. Hence, I reserve the right to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 04:41 PM
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men are really only good at figuring out when someone is angry at them Might amend this to "figuring out when another man is angry at them" Women do confusing things like say "I'm not mad I just..." and "I'm fine. It's fine. Everything's fine." Then when you shrug and go play xbox for 4 hours, later come to find, shit wasn't actually fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 04:38 PM
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If this is the kind of literature our generation is producing, then please just let the bombs fall. Something, anything to disrupt this spiral into spoiled selfish overly-entitled delusional narcissistic nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 04:27 PM
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It's not an actual "problem" - women enjoy being the choosers, the passive party who gets to sit back and label some men as ok, some as not good enough, some as disgusting, some as creeps etc. Not that they enjoy being approached by the creeps, but that's a necessary component of being the one who passively screens candidates instead of initiating. Some candidates will not pass muster
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 04:09 PM
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Yes, except that both are generalizations, so not entirely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 03:56 PM
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If you're both sexist and racist, then kudos for you for being consistent at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 03:55 PM
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Ok, well at least we're on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 03:32 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 03:30 PM
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I think this does come off wrong and/or creepy because women in general do not want to just be outright asked for sex with no lead in. I bet the same women who complain about this would be the first to say "not all women are like that, women are different, stop generalizing about women" when the female trait being discussed is one they do not like the sound of
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 03:29 PM
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Certain women operate in this sort of mental zone, I call it an entitlement zone. Basically any time they feel bad or uncomfortable about anything, it's someone else's fault and that person MUST change their behavior, or else they are misogynist. If the woman doesn't have a clear reason why the other person's behavior was bad... such as in the case of directly asking for sex... oh well. It's still that person's duty to change. Because "tact" and "social skills." In the entitlement zone, making w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 03:19 PM
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This is the exact same logic that racists use to avoid black people. "Enough of them are bad that you have to be on guard" "It's not ALL blacks men, hell some of my best friends are black men, but you can't deny that there a lot of scary blacks men out there, so we whites women have a right to feel uncomfortable around strange blacks men."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 02:52 PM
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You want really hard for toxic masculinity to be the reason serial killers exist... what could be better evidence of the need for feminism? Why not try to cram this all into your narrative of poor innocent women being oppressed by the entitled sexist patriarchal men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 12:54 AM
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Yes, they do. They can wield a gun as easily as a man. And they can easily stab someone who isn't expecting it. Guns are easier to track, stabbing is not a guaranteed kill. Killing another human is a messy and unpredictable affair, this shit is not a videogame where your character is an action hero who can reliably 1 shot people. Abuse and neglect of kids happens with both men and women, and if men were looking after kids to the same degree as women, the rates of men abusing kids would shoot up.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 12:13 AM
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I think asexuals just dont have any relevance. The subject here is sexual strategy. Asexuals have about much relevance to that as geodes or other inanimate objects. Theyre sexually inert
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 09:56 PM
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It depends on if she is a bitch to you, or just to others. No one really wants to deal with a bitch day in and day out. Thats why "bitch" is a perjorative term
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 09:53 PM
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I would direct the incredible economic power and ingenuity of my country towards solving real problems like poverty, disease, cancer, crime, the disintegration of families, etc. I would look for a way to stop the increasing stratification of society without going full communist. I would pour a lot of money into research and development. I would invent female Viagra that makes women not just physically but emotionally horny, but only for their lawfully wedded husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 09:49 PM
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Narcissistic delusional evil women exist. Instead of killing people outright they abuse and neglect their kids and those kids go on to become felons and serial killers. Women don't have the raw physicality needed to kill
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 09:43 PM
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You still want to post? You arent spent? Cant we just go to IHOP and call it a day? Im not a machine, woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 09:35 PM
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Literally living up to my username
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 08:48 PM
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a. The woman is currently having enthusiastic sex, but not enthusiastic about certain types of kinky sex like anal or threesomes. She did these kinky acts in previous relationships. It really depends on the reason. If it's because she tried it and did not like it, that's... within the realm of acceptability, I guess. But if she tried it before and liked it, but just doesn't want to try it with me, I'm not sure how that doesn't reflect poorly on our relationship. Might be male-centric bias, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 02:58 PM
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THats what im saying - there is a double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 02:36 PM
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I dont respect a woman less after fucking her, but it doesnt automatically make my respect for her go up either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 06:08 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Queen_Victoria#Marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 04:03 AM
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I would believe it if it seemed like she was defaulting to yes and enthusiasm in all other respects, sexually. But then, if she was doing that, I doubt I would even give a shit about her sexual history to begin with. It only becomes a problem when the woman's basically gone frigid. Where it seems like the man can't get ANYTHING other than starfish sex, and feels frustrated... and along comes some evidence that his woman used to be more wild in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 03:45 AM
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Yeah, it's a hypothetical. It's for the sake of comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 03:43 AM
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That depends. Did she have an anal threesome with her and her hot friend before meeting me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 03:35 AM
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what are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 03:33 AM
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No, one is acknowledged by everyone to be wrong, while the other isn't. Man denying wife love, affection = (nearly) universally acknowledged to be bad. Woman denying man sex = not universally acknowledged to be bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 03:32 AM
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Where she defaults to "yes" and enthusiasm rather than "no" and a begrudging attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 03:25 AM
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god fucked up when he made women. Too many knobs and levers and conflicting systems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 03:19 AM
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with relationships you see each other more often and there are inevitably times when she isn't really horny but fucks you anyway. Yeah, and the problem the OP is highlighting is that in some cases, those "times when she isn't really horny" = all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 03:06 AM
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The amount of reasons a woman can conjure up for denying a man good sex is staggering.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 02:57 AM
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That's the hell of it, it does happen. Men aren't above women or whatever, they do shitty things too. The thing is, stonewalling, denying one's spouse affection, is prima facie immoral. Everyone knows it is wrong. Not so for denying sex. Women have a million different reasons why it's supposedly ok for them to do that to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 02:37 AM
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I'm 100% with you on this OP. I hate that this happens, and I hate the blase attitude most people here and elsewhere have towards it, particularly women. This is the equivalent of a man walking up to his wife and saying, "I don't love you. All the dates, romance, spending time together, conversation, emotional support, etc. that you associate with love - I will no longer be performing. The few times I do anything to show I love you, it will only be because you badgered me into it, and I'll show …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 02:21 AM
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More like a facebook alternative where they can all complain and post at each other instead of at me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 12:14 AM
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When your mindset shifts from "let's work together to improve things" to "fuck you all, suffer like i do" - then it usually means you're at the start of a huge negative downward spiral that will only drag down you, and all the people you care about, and ultimately achieve nothing. Just my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 12:10 AM
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Maybe women should stop using facebook or invent their own platform and popularize it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 05:31 PM
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A few girls she told might shame you or her brother/boyfriend/whoever might try to start shit. No major consequences. Men that legit complain about this fall into a certain category: hypersensitive, blue pill mindset (wants to be seen as virtuous and better than "those asshole" sexist males), neurotic/anxious. To this type, being that target of criticism from women is a terrible fate which MUST be avoided. That, or more likely, they are just pretending like they care more than they actually do b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 08:51 PM
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Shut the fuck up you low effort troll
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 01:23 PM
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Social organization, of which civilization itself is a subset, seems to be a male invention. You need to work together as a unit to bring down wolly mammoths. I'm not sure foraging for seeds and breastfeeding and shit requires the same degree of complexity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 05:35 PM
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What are your other thoughts on this? Hitler was Time man of the year in 1938... i wouldnt read too heavily into all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/17 05:29 PM
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You might try femradebates, its a bit less aggro over there
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 11:41 PM
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their contributions in war Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 11:39 PM
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Sorry. Disregard that last comment. Slipped into troll mode for a second there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 11:36 PM
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http://www.azquotes.com/picture-quotes/quote-the-great-masses-of-the-people-will-more-easily-fall-victims-to-a-big-lie-than-to-a-adolf-hitler-13-35-42.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 11:33 PM
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I too, am purple and was triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 11:32 PM
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Sounds like he just kinda skimmed TRP and was like "how hard can this shit be" and closed his browser and immediately landed in the shit
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 11:27 PM
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This is a classic example.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 06:05 PM
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While on the one hand I admire his honesty, the sheer neediness and vulnerability he exudes in those quotations is astonishing. Anyone could read these and surmise that this person will drive away anyone decent. Only cynical gold diggers and back stabbers would be able to stand him for long, and only because of the eventual payout. It's weird how people can be excellent in so many ways and then have gaping personality flaws like this. Especially seeing how desperate he seems to bond with a good …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 03:58 PM
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That could be true. I would be interested to hear your thoughts on these issues as well. (Networks, violence, crime, education, intervention of the upper class.) Way too time consuming and way too far outside the scope of this subreddit. If we were in a bar, it was my day off and you were buying the rounds, maybe. As for generation 4, I agree that would be a good thing, but how do we get there? Stop incarcerating everything that moves would definitely be a start. Getting drugs out of the communi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 03:43 PM
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By generation 3, women are going after drug dealer (or whatever superficially attractive male) even if they could marry mcdonalds man. (Whereas in generation 1 that would have been unthinkable.) Which leads us to generation 4 where women need to wake the fuck up and realize McDonalds man is offering commitment and an actual future as well as affordably priced burgers featuring two all beef patties, lettuce, cheese, pickles and sauce on a sesame seed bun. So the tingles are definitely part of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 03:28 PM
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There are more marriageable women than marriageable men because unemployed men are not marriageable, while unemployed women are marriageable. (Men are willing to marry unemployed women because men care about sex / childcare even if the women can't provide money.) There are actually a decent amount of marriagable men in lower class communities, they just can't get any action because the women are busy fucking and getting knocked up by drug dealers with 3 previous baby mommas. There is no clamor o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 02:50 PM
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I don't think you can "not believe in" the fact that human psychology was shaped by evolution. I mean like... how else would it have developed? Creationism..? The question is whether you believe the field of evopsych has developed enough to the point of being accurate. And if so, which theories and models do you think are the closest to how our ancestors actually lived? Because they're pretty far from reaching a consensus on that within the field itself. I personally think that a lot of evopsych…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 06:28 AM
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Its weird, because while I would like my woman to be somewhat submissive to me, i also would like to believe men and women can be equals on a societal level. Humans are not 100% logical creatures free from all contradictions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 09:56 PM
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I'd smash. I'd be too busy smashing to worry about all the questions at the bottom of the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 09:52 PM
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Lolz i remember all the ass slapping and bragging about our dicks back in high school football. Plus the time a guy put astro glide in my helmet.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 09:07 AM
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A lot of women could have done most of those things and decided not to for similar reasons. Does that make their stories somehow invalid? Their stories are 'valid', they just aren't worth me investing any time or effort into. Again, he's a grown man. He knew he could've, and should've, done something, and chose not to. Also, getting your dick grabbed by some drunk-ass fool is pretty survivable. The fact remains that TC was sexually assaulted, is one of the only adult men in Hollywood who has adm…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 09:00 AM
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Someone grabbed his dick at a party. At the time, he chose to do nothing. Now all of a sudden that a bunch of women are making accusations against high profile men, he wants to ride the publicity wave and get a few more followers, a few more bucks from advertisers. Crews is a grown ass man, could've easily punched whoever did it in the face, or filed a report, except he knew he would be bad for his career. Back then, at least. Zero fucks for the likes of him. I'll save my fucks for for the 4 und…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 08:41 AM
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Will do. What made yours scary?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 03:43 AM
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It seems like every generation doesn't know how the last managed, until a complete slide into decadence, anarchy, and then the cycle restarts. I remember my mom telling me about how my great grandma raised a total of 10 kids while also working in the factory during ww2 while gramps was away killing nazis. They also had a farm and worked from sun up to sun down 6 days a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 02:10 AM
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Good call OP. I want to get an au pair soon so I have time to juggle more activities like this. A year or two more and I'll have the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 01:54 AM
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I leave to my wife, lol. If I was a single dad, i would do a lot of reading on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 01:13 AM
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Ill give an example, boys should be taught to not show fear or weakness before others, to stand up and fight if challenged (physically or otherwise), to take risks and be bold, to evince competence in at least some stereotypically masculine activities - such as fixing things, fighting, shooting, hunting - to take the lead when dating women, to be stoic when times are hard. A girl should be taught some of the traits, but not all, and not to the same extent a boy should. I highly suspect that biol…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 01:02 AM
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I have none. Fortunately i havent had to deal with that problem yet. I suspect it requires a lot of thought and research to address properly. As far as it becoming a worse problem. I doubt it, it just used to be that you'd become a shaman or actor or prostitute or some other class of profession where dysphoria was accepted and live on the fringes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 12:48 AM
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I cant be too specific atm, lack of time. But basically, a certain degree of living out your gender role is expected and advantageous. You ideally want to steer your kids towards the positive aspects. This is more important for boys than girls btw, theres no male equivalent of feminism to rush to your aid when society/workplace/spouse punishes you for failing to be a man. I mean in theory, feminism is that equivalent, but in practice, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 12:43 AM
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Newborns dont stay newborn for very long. They need a lot of care when they start sleeping less, crawling, putting shit in their mouths, soon walking.. then theres co-oping.. i guess it settles when they hit 1st grade and are out of the house longer. Newborns will nurse and need diapey changes even while sleeping. And its a rare newborn that lays down and falls asleep like clockwork. Better strap on the babysling, oh wait, he's feeling colicky... guess you're going to be carrying him with one ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 12:35 AM
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Lol. Uncalled for. But lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 12:11 AM
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http://ncase.me/trust/ You should try this, its a beginners level explanation of game theory, why a balance of selfishness/generosity is ideal and how different circumstances affect that balance The ideal approach in most scenarios is to be generous to strangers until they prove themselves untrustworthy and then be selfish back, until/unless they stop. Selfishness is a good response at times. It can also be the best overall strategy in situations (like fast serial dating) where you dont care abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 12:07 AM
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I think what youre looking to say is: its healthy to raise boys as boys and girls as girls. And, barring strong and consistent evidence of gender dysphoria on the part of the child, id agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 12:02 AM
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If you really just don't give a shit about the other person other than what you can get out of them, fine. But I don't think most people operate like that, even among your brethren. Over time, most of them are going to want to be with a woman they like and respect and support, and who likes and respects and supports them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 07:13 PM
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I dunno if it's because I haven't had my morning coffee yet but I couldn't really parse any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 04:31 PM
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Dread is one of the concepts in TRP I completely disagree with. Everything about it is toxic, from the underlying principles to the probably outcomes. Good relationships involve some form of cooperation. "Dread" is zero percent compatible with a cooperative relationship where you build each other up. It's a very hostile, antagonistic form of behavior and also deceitful, since it's part of a secret/unstated strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 04:03 PM
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I doubt it, violence among the dregs of society is expected during any period in history. Duels were striking because of how much of the monied/political class fought in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 03:57 PM
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Feel what way? I dont feel strongly about it one way or another. Its not like i want to go back, im a different person now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 04:55 AM
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No, she would much rather get a bunch things done or do business stuff together all day and make money. That is much more likely to get her in the mood for sex than going on a date. I wish i could be the beta you described. Seriously. I would love to be equals and get along and communicate and compromise and so on. Instead I have to be like 40% alpha and 60% beta minimum to maintain my relationships. The more beta you go the less women like you. Too redpill is also bad in my experience, but mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 04:50 AM
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It was the opposite of your op for me: i started out beta, wanting to find one female equal and spend the rest of my life with her. I fantasized about true love, acceptance, snuggling, and nights filled with romantic candle lit sex. Sharing hobbies, camping together, never raising our voices, holding hands while reading our respective novels... it was a good fantasy. Then i started dating women. And learned they dont really want any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 04:40 AM
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Holy crap. Maybe it'd be better to die young
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 04:12 AM
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Good that you learned from that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 12:09 AM
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Not to go all evopsych, but i think it makes sense for women on the cusp of their fertile years to seek an established man of proven character, means, and capability (who would naturally tend to be older). I think a difference of say, 5 years is healthy. I also think it makes it easier for the woman to respect and look up to her man, which is essential for female attraction. No woman wants to feel like she is mothering her man. For what its worth, I don't think it's worth arguing with people who…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 12:00 AM
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Christ, there are still new life experiences rolling in after 30? What is there more to learn at that point? Im around 30, have kids, am married, etc. Perhaps this guy was just immature for his age. Or is there really going to be more development and revelations to deal with?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 11:55 PM
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A track record of making my woman happy while maintaining a family, kids, large house, good physique and good paying job. I am also well schooled in manual/oral sex. Unfortunately all this also means im off the market.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 11:46 PM
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triggers STEMlords don't even know the difference between clone troopers and storm troopers. Lol. Nerd.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 03:42 PM
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"Someone once told me that... ehh, whatever, you nerds will debate about it. Fuck you!"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 09:44 AM
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Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 09:40 AM
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I'd love to read about this if you ever remember what its called.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 11:48 PM
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What kind of lies/deception?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 11:02 PM
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As I explain in earlier posts, the data from both the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health (Add Health) in the United States and the National Child Development Study (NCDS) in the United Kingdom confirm this prediction. Physically more attractive parents are significantly more likely to have a daughter as their first child than physically less attractive parents. OP, can you link these posts? Specifically the part where the author of them explains the phenomenon, how it was measured,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 10:59 PM
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I am 90% sure this was an agenda post written by some man who wanted to create a "gotcha" moment w/r/t female hypocrisy. The writing style is full of details no woman would actually share. Very physical/visual based sex details indicative of a male author. It literally reads like erotica. Plus the fact that every single complaint the OP has is, after a moment's thought, not actually justified. It's like screaming at the audience to reveal their gender double standards. Not subtle at all. When re…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 03:45 PM
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For example victim blaming, when a rape victim speaks to a close one the first thing they ask what where they wearing or why didn't you fight back, instead of trying to see why it happens so often(part of why people don't speak up after rape). Nah. That's dumb. Those questions may be harsh on the victim but they're needed. If you fought back, it's great evidence in your favor. It's something the police/prosecution need to know to establish a case. Also someone wearing gym clothes or something is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 03:37 PM
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Why don't you have a problem with FUD? What's FUD? No they actually don't. Some actually endorse it. The amount that endorse it are so few as to be irrelevant. Unless you believe that "rape culture" exists until every single dissenter is silenced? In that case, every non totalitarian society is a rape culture, which indicates to me that the concept of rape culture is the problem, not society. Then explain why female rapes are down then? Down from what point in history? Context is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 03:20 PM
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Leave. Seriously. There are some people you cant win with because they just dont give a shit. Jail, death, getting sent to the hospital, whatever... their life sucks and they dont care. I grew up in a very bad area and there were tons of people who were always looking to instigate and start shit. The only solution is to not be around them. Anything else is just letting them drag you down to their level. Win by not playing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 11:16 PM
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How many of you are willing to support a SAHM? Me How many of you are willing to marry someone who makes half of what you make? Me How willing are you to take on a breadwinner role? Me I was the breadwinner in my relationship until a few years back where my wife decided she didnt like being a SAHM and went back to school. She now outearns me though we both work. My wife is also the one who cares how big our house is, keeping up with the joneses, and so on. I could give a shit less. I had a room …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 09:06 PM
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I dont have any problem with "be careful around men because some are rapists" I do have a problem with "theres a culture of enabling rape! and we need to collectively shame the male gender for contributing to it!" There is no culture that enables rape, everyone condemns rape, its just that theres a not insignificant percentage of men who just dont give a fuck. No amount of shaming or awareness raising or changing the rules will stop these people. I dont appreciate feminists insinuations that i a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 08:51 PM
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Aw cmon! Make it interesting! Double down even though you're wrong! Pull out some rhetorical tricks and goal post shifting! You dont have to take this!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 06:38 PM
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Exactly. Hide your flaws and watch them leave you because "you've changed" People can leave you over anything. No sense changing your behavior over it. Just be the best you that you can be and if they leave you anyway, fuck em.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 06:34 PM
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I just asked my female friend if this line would be creepy. She said "not if he's good looking"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 06:24 PM
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Yup. I tried to educate my wifes friend on this when she pulled out the "man flu" gripe. All I got back was that Stacy stare
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 01:50 PM
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Be like "hey can i borrow your phone for a sec? I just want to put my number in it"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 01:47 PM
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this article provides a pretty good explanation for why you are wrong. Basically in a scenario where men approach women but not the converse, men are as a whole guaranteed to find a better match than women (where better = higher ranked if all available partners were ranked numerically in order of preference by each member of the opposite sex). The more men approach compared to women, the greater their advantage. This applies to your individual life as well. Every time you approach a woman "out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 12:00 AM
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Mental problems are only impactful insofar as they effect my list of high quality traits
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 11:01 PM
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Ok, you do realize both these lines of thought would not ordinarily be held by the same person or persons... right? One often is forced to choose between contradictory lines of thought rather than trying to appease both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 10:42 PM
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Its at times like these when i feel sorry for the female gender. Heard the other day about a woman whose boss was angry at her for not informing him that she'd had a boyfriend after working there two weeks. Apparently he "felt betrayed". There are some truly entitled and delusional males out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 10:19 PM
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Nah. How many men would turn down a woman like what i describe? Like 30% of the male population? Throw in "educated and has money/a good job" and that goes down to like 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 10:07 PM
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normies. Even if she doesn't believe it, who cares? It's not like she's going to be pissed off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 09:55 PM
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Just be like "it took me a while to realize that i like you. you just kinda grew on me" Its mostly online where this women go on anti nice guy tirades when a friend asks them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 06:32 PM
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Just be like "hey I know we're friends and all but do you wanna go out?" Key is not to get pissed off when they say no. As if you "earned" it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 06:12 PM
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How bout you? You got a boyfriend? You cant ALL have em
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:09 PM
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Fuck it. Worth a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 05:08 PM
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You got a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:40 PM
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WOmen dont ask men out so they bear no relevance to this discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:02 PM
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Hot, monogamous, kinky, high libido, good at raising kids and does chores happily.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 04:00 PM
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Kek
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 03:36 PM
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Damn bro. You really put the work in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 02:28 PM
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Saw a 8/10 european woman in a restaurant. Asked if she had a boyfriend. She said no. Asked if she wanted one. She said no. Fuck it. Worth a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 02:06 PM
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How justified is this psycho-worship (in terms of social status gaining results, not ethics.) Has to be combined with intelligence and a certain degree of impulse control. Most people don't have both of the above, and are better off sticking to strictly legal and socially acceptable modes of behavior. Those psychopaths that do have the requisites for wielding psychopathy effectively have a significant advantage over their non psycho counterparts, though. Hence them rising to the very top echelon…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 01:30 PM
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Put yourself in a position where an extrovert will try and befriend you and do all the work for you. Go to lots of parties and events and try to be approachable. Work in a place with lots of coworkers where you have to interact with each other. Overcoming your phobias is a better way to go though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 10:49 PM
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One thing i find funny is people who pretend to want to tear down class and heirarchy, invariably end up with someone from the same affluent privileged educated background as themselves. Theyll slum it up for a while in their early adult years, and continue voting to tear down capitalism, but invariably seek to replicate their parents cushy, six figure, suburban lifestyle at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 10:37 PM
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Why not bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 04:54 PM
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Idk, reassurance maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 04:53 PM
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What are these compliance tests? If i ask a woman to do something its because i actually want her to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:42 PM
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The fact that this strategy is identical to the strategy a cheater would use to stonewall their SO and dismiss their concerns makes me skeptical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 02:41 PM
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They should rebrand their sub "male sexual strategy, anti feminism and a sprinkling of misogyny for spice".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 01:53 PM
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Yeah, I get this. Some of the most vicious catch 22s in life are the ones where, the more you want something, the harder it is to get it. Unfortunately this is a characteristic of interacting with human beings in general. Being noticably overeager almost always results in some form of punishment. If you walk into a car dealership and act desperate for a car, your wallet is going to be savaged. If you act super friendly to someone who isn't that invested in you yet, they will find you annoying an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 01:18 PM
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It isn't unless they threaten to use their status against you in some manner. I think it's reasonable to prohibit bosses from forming relationships with underlings because of how heavily you interact with each other at work. It's impossible to rule out biased treatment from that point forward, especially in the eyes of other employees who become aware of the relationship. It's too easy for shit like that to fuck up an organization. But a random celebrity coming on to someone? No harm done imo. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 01:14 PM
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Hi
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/17 05:24 AM
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I like unboxed presents though ;(
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 09:25 PM
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Maybe if you offered to help...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 09:18 PM
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everyone is lied to, but you wouldn't believe those lies if you didn't already want to believe them. Expound pls. Unless you're saying that lying is never the fault of the liar and the blame is always 100% on the person being lied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 08:26 PM
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Well I guess there are worse ways for a child to come into the world. Having a delusional narcissistic spinster as a mom can't be as bad as being born in war torn Syria or some african nation where genocide and AIDs are the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 08:13 PM
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It's over buddy boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 06:14 PM
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Dude i know. Im not disputing that. But the fact remains such propositions dont turn men off. We havent established why it turns women off and not men. Might be evopsych or how women are more emotional about sex than physical/visual, but there is some deep component to it here that goes beyond "because it just turns them off".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:54 PM
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I don't know. Ive never done any drugs. Ive had like one joint. I asked her if she had any on her but... alas. I hear taking mdma with your SO can improve your relationship, but my wife is pretty anti drug. :/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:50 PM
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No, because they are all just restating the original "because they dont like it." Why dont they like it? Because they dont like it. Yes but why do they not like it? Because they dont like it. Yes but why? Because. Etc in a giant circle. Its ok to say you dont know. I dont think anyone here actually knows, they just dont like coming out and saying "i dont know" so they shift the argument to "just fuckin do it mate and stop asking questions." The question itself clearly triggers something in peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:45 PM
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My therapist just suggested mdma, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 05:42 PM
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I understand your frustration, it seems like no one has an answer for why asking a woman to have sex point blank makes women uncomfortable other than "it just does! So shut up and deal!" Debate sub indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 03:59 PM
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Social circle game, cold approaches or death buddy boyo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 02:22 PM
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I hope you don't get flack, because this sounds good to me, in fact it sounds so good I will have a similar discussion with my wife soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 01:25 AM
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She's trying not to
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 12:23 AM
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What is the longest relationship you've been in?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 12:21 AM
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I agree - unless the person really thinks they cannot beat it on their own. That's the only time I would ever cop to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 11:46 PM
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I would respond positively. Then again I'm male.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 11:43 PM
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Maybe because theyre struggling and they think telling their so about the crush will help ensure nothing happens
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 11:42 PM
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Damn. That first line reminds me of that poem by Oscar Wilde about the guy who runs through his crush with a sword because each man eventually kills the thing he loves. I'll find that vid when I have time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 11:19 PM
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Are you a woman? Just curious. I hear this "flirt and bring the energy home to my man" thing from women a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 10:47 PM
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Fuck that, what's mine is mine. I expect similar selfishness and possessiveness from my wife. Purely selfless love is for kids and pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 10:43 PM
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Not for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 10:41 PM
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Yeah, same question here. Remarkably chill husband there. I sure wouldn't let that slide by
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 10:41 PM
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I either fall asleep or start ruminating on minor slights or planning game projects when I try to meditate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 10:40 PM
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I will answer for myself: If I had a crush, I would try to limit interaction with the target, try to restrain myself from thinking about them, and wait the thing out. I would want my SO to do the same. If she were acting on it at all or felt her control giving way, I would definitely want her to tell me, but otherwise leave me out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 09:15 PM
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I don't understand. I feel like you're saying TRP is wrong or something about dominance making you more attractive... but the study says dominance does, in fact, make you more attractive. Then you start talking about aggressive/domineering, which... I'm not even sure how that entered the conversation. I think you're trying to say "TRPers aren't dominant, they're aggressive asshats" but you didn't need to pull out a study for that. It's like.... just your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 08:54 PM
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OP, if men don't hate being nagged and scolded, then how do you explain [THIS invention].(https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Scold%27s_bridle) Branking (in Scotland and the North of England)[5][6] was designed as a mirror punishment for shrews or scolds; women of the lower classes whose speech was deemed "riotous" or "troublesome";[7] — often women suspected of witchcraft — by preventing such "gossips or scolds" from speaking. Back in the heyday of patriarchy men would literally muzzle women to stop …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 02:56 PM
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Extreme problems call for extreme solutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 05:24 PM
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First step would be to get gender reassignment surgery down to a science. Make it convenient, quick, cheap, fully reversable, with no ill side effects, and you get the full cocktail of brain chemicals related to the gender you chose, thus making you mentally male/female, not just physically. Second step is to make everyone spend 1 year of their life male, 1 year female, over and over, until they are 25 or so, then they can choose their final identity (or keep switching if they want). I feel all …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 03:50 PM
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What does he sell? Can i have a list of his suppliers? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 12:47 AM
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How do you define "shrew" op? I havent seen anyone use that term outside of the manosphere and related internet places
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 08:49 PM
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And I play as a female in a mmo and never had this happen. Which mmos?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 07:17 PM
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Anyone have a good mbti personality test? The ones i found on google kind of suck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 05:52 PM
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I cant relate to all this. I used to play mmos and female characters would get literal white knights (male paladin chars) giving them items, money, xp boosting and attention just for being female. I think in more competitive games people just say whatever they think will bother the other person. If racism/sexism are seen as offensive then your average CoD player will be racist and sexist as fuck. It just seems like part of their culture is to intentionally be as offensive and anti-PC as possible…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 05:36 PM
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There's two sets of beliefs that combine to form the ultimate obnoxious white knight: The first is a covert and somewhat unconscious belief in old school blue pill gender roles. Where real men protect women from cads and abusers, in order to prove how strong and brave they are. The second is feminism. When the covert/unconscious drive to prove what a real man one is by protecting women, meets the overt belief that women are continually oppressed by society at large and that the average man has a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 03:04 AM
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JK Rowling is a competent writer at best, but has made billions off her books. Mary Shelley wrote (imo) the greatest gothic novel. Both women made a worthwhile contribution to art. The world of literature would be worse off if they'd thrown up their hands and took up crocheting like you want to. Btw, you don't have to be one of the greats to contribute to something great. The best movies, videogames, shows, etc. to come out in the last 10 years were all made by crews that included women. Women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 02:49 AM
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"Debate" sub
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 02:41 AM
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I worked in the service industry and had drunk women put their hands or lips on me often. Happened a few times a year. Thats the drunk ones though. Non drunk ones limit themselves to calling you cute or giggling incoherently with their friends and then leaving you their number.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 07:16 PM
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Aint shit to do but eat down south.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 06:58 PM
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It's not the nicest thing in the world, but understandable. Sexual compatibility is a MUST.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 03:07 PM
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I feel like there are men who would pay to have you crush their nuts with your stiletto heels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 12:25 AM
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Its rare and amusing to encounter a woman who brags about committing divorce rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 10:08 PM
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I find your honesty refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 09:37 PM
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Heh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 07:55 PM
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Yeah, kind of like how any woman can use you as an emotional tampon. The one that cares keeps you satisfied sexually. Again, needs are never going to match up perfectly. You have to be willing to give as good as you get, but in different areas. Love languages do not match perfectly. Life is not fair. Etc. Fixating on "i give you time, and you'd better enjoy that on its own merits even if youre not getting other things you want" is idealism and folly. If you start depriving a person of food or sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 03:09 PM
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I dont dispute that it is the right solution for some - those that would function shittily and stress about money without their independence. For me, i don't like it. If i want to be with a woman it is to the hilt. We pool resources, share goals and trust each other. I think thats the traditional way and the tradition is not without merit. Trust, sharing and being part of the whole - this allows for achieving more than as independent actors. Its a way of thinking in terms of "ours" and "us." I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 12:47 AM
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And all too often women stop giving sex but still expect courtship, dates, gifts and emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 12:39 AM
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Yeah, and thats why this "give friendship to only get friendship back" meme in the OP is dumb. In a good relationship both parties should be getting all their needs met. Everything is not a 1:1 trade, sometimes you have to give your partner A, B and C while they give you X, Y and Z. Egalitarianism has spawned some dumb ideas about relationships....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 12:38 AM
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If this were my friend or male relative i would physically bitch slap him until he came to his senses
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 12:34 AM
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Im 30 years old and i just want to cut all the bullshit and fuck and relax and watch some TV together with my wife when I get home. I put up with enough people like this at work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 12:23 AM
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what happens when one partner is a stay at home parent ? Not every contribution in a relationship has to do with money, nor does every contribution have to be 50-50 from both partners. This joint finances thing does not feel like teamwork or trust to me. It seems like a very marginal edge case approach to a specific kind of western relationship where there is a greater emphasis on supposed equality/independence than building a solid familial unit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 12:21 AM
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I have never seen this transaction thing come up except in the context of men being afraid or hurt that they wont/arent getting enough sex. They want to be able to earn the sex, to feel they are entitled to it, or at least have some leverage to ensure it doesnt get taken away. Otherwise why would anyone care?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 09:02 PM
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Look its pretty simple. How does a woman feel when her husband no longer wants anything to do with her except for sex? Used? Mistreated? Feels like the foundation of the relationship is just not there? This is the same way a man feels when his wife stops wanting to do anything with him sexually. "It's not one-sided because I still give you my own time and emotional intimacy" is a bad argument. Equivalent to an emotionally distant husband saying " it's not one-sided because we both cum."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 08:53 PM
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When someone used to fuck you a lot and then stops, and you arent satisfied anymore, you no longer really enjoy them like you used to. Its like... i want more sex, and you dont really care. You put me in a catch 22 where i can only leave, cheat or be miserable. Why would I want to spend time with someone who could cheerfully put me in that position?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 08:21 PM
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Caesar's wife must be above suspicion. If my partner's actions allow for even the possibility that she was sexually into another man more than with me, I'm out. Actions speak louder than anything. "I'm just not into that stuff anymore" is just words. Words are wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 11:45 PM
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And do you agree with it? Or you agree with me and are giving an example of neo luddism with the intent of mocking it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 02:41 PM
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This seems familiar. Unibomber's manifesto?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 01:15 PM
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Not that awful. Maybe a 3/10 on the awful scale, where 1 is a slight annoyance and 10 is civilization endingly terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 09:30 PM
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This was said about every technological innovation all the way back to the first luddites destroying steam engines because they were afraid they would replace men. Two hundred years later we have unheard of (for that time) standard of living for a much larger population, thanks to technology. Over the long term, all technology does is help people get what they want easier. Same goes for dating apps. Im pretty sure marriages and relationships and sex are better than before because people can pair…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 08:01 PM
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It seems pointless to hope that Ill find a woman willing to do this. I feel the odds are against it, so Id rather work on myself and operate under the assumption that the woman will be anxious and need to feel like high levels of control and planning are occuring at all times. Thanks for the alternative viewpoint though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 07:55 PM
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You might be overestimating their looks. You might look at a guy in a room full of 10 guys and realize he is rank 5 or 6 but to women he is ranked so low as to not exist. The percentage of men they find hot is much slimmer than the percentage of women we find hot
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 07:51 PM
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My shrink said that opposites attract. I have been approached by a few women over the course of my life and they were all type A, ocd/anxious ambitious women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 07:49 PM
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Latina coworker literally put her pussy near my face while i was sitting at my desk and rubbed my shoulder. I didnt pursue her because she was known as the office slut and I dislike promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 07:38 PM
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I admit to being biased. I have only ever been on one side of this dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 07:36 PM
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I dont believe you on that. Just a gut feeling. I dont like assholes and i dont want to be one. Has to be another way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 07:33 PM
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I hate that comic because it doesnt show all the times early on in the relationship where the woman keeps offering to do the dishes because she wants it done her way and on her time. How she is simultaneously unwilling to cede control or make room for the mans standards but only cares about her own being met. And how shes incapable of letting the man decide when it is important to do them - if they arent done to her liking she does them herself and inwardly burns with resentment instead of ackno…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 07:27 PM
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I want to learn to do that without being an abusive asshole or being filled with resentment at women for making me be something im not all the time. Not sure how to achieve but ill try and figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 07:25 PM
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Idk. I think that might be good advice. I'm too analytical though, my mind focuses on what others might be thinking whether i want to or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 02:56 PM
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I didn't hear of this either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 02:11 PM
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What do you think your dad shouldve done? Im guessing "be more dominant" but what does that really mean? Just tell her to shut the fuck up? Self improve and hope for the best?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 07:06 AM
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I hope she's in a better place now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 06:51 AM
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You guessed right. Why wont it help though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 06:31 AM
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Ok. Thanks for the info.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 06:27 AM
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Why do you care why i care? Answer that while managing to not sound hypocritical if possible. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 06:24 AM
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I dont care if its her fault, i care why she did it, and "she didnt do it - the man did" is a dumb answer. Im not the one overly preoccupied with fault here. If you dont know why women do this, just say so. "I dont know." No need to make excuses or make up stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 06:21 AM
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Do you just not really believe in female agency all that much? Like if woman does Behavior A, while man does Reaction B, all responsibility, agency etc falls back on the man for having done Reaction B? Like womans decisions basically never factors into the deductive process when trying to assess why a given event or series thereof occured? Women are like wind patterns or plants or other objects which concepts like responsbility cannot be assigned to? Just want to be clear I understand what youre…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 06:12 AM
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Its my opinion that trying to guage motivation, as opposed to simply weighing actions, is often a fools errand. People often arent even fully aware why they themselves do things, let alone an outsider looking in. Bobs motives might be extreme insecurity and need to please others, or might be aggressive taking charge of chores and other details of livings because he is incapable of ceding control. And under these motives might be other subconscious motives, and more under those, and so on. I try …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 06:03 AM
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The end result of the constant attempts by the woman to take charge is that she ends up in charge. Are you saying she isnt aware of this, or just doesnt care, or...?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 05:56 AM
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Dumb and extremely beta, verging on omega territory. Its cool to be rich and have money to throw away on things, but this level of desperation for female company is not dignified in anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 05:53 AM
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How do you cope with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 05:51 AM
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In an ltr shouldnt her goal be either to ditch you or make you more dominant, if thats what she wants? What purpose does making you less dominant serve?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 05:37 AM
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Isnt a shit test a single isolated test? Rather than an entire relationship approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 05:32 AM
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The children of men who engage in the beta strategy will be the bosses and rulers of the children of the alphas. You forgot to factor in cuckoldry and the presence of single moms on the market with "children of the alphas" already included in the package. Being a boss/ruler is a hollow victory if you come to find someone else has been porking your wife, and with far less investment than you put in. Talk about the ultimate insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 05:15 AM
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"we've observed some interesting, consistent changes in behavior that suggest that not all aspects of age are biological in nature." Play the music for like an entire year and see if the old person consistently behaves younger or if it was just a temporary, and this is key, non-sustainable effect. Old people behave like old people because their bodies are old, tired and frail - to behave like they did in younger years all the time would risk overexertion and injury. That they can temporarily beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 02:16 PM
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Even old age is "performed," apparently. Did the old people actually become younger when the music was playing? Did their telomeres shorten, bones recalcify and liver spots vanish? I didn't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 01:37 PM
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The way you describe it, Bob is definitely more Beta. He does all the chores. Joe just does barely enough chores to be viewed as helpful and avoid getting bitched out. Bob's mindset may be less supplicating but his actions are more supplicating, and actions speak louder than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 01:26 PM
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Nah fuck that. When a crew full of a 100 dudes gets stuck in ice in the antarctic circle, thousands of miles from civilization - and those masculine traits handed down by every single one of your ancestors in an unbroken line are the only thing keeping you and your crew alive and trying instead of giving up or breaking in the face of hardship and dying the deaths of cowards - then you will understand. A man is a man regardless of whether there are even women around. Having said that, no, paintin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 01:15 PM
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If every male is going to self-improve himself at the same level This is where the argument falls apart. Self improvement is hard. TRP is bitter. None of this is easy. It takes a certain amount of anger, willingness to deprogram from the BP mindset, effort, time, basic intellect to be able to read and comprehend everything, etc. which not all men have. It will never come to a point where a large portion of the population are actively living the RP lifestyle. Even if most men had internalized it,…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 01:01 PM
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Requirements: Must have vagina - rules out 50% of the population. Must be somewhere between 20 and 35... rules out 70%. Total is now 15% of the world population Must be white, asian or latina. Just going to guesstimate this as ruling out a further 60% of the above. Leaves us with 6% of the world population. Rule out 50% of the remainder for being overweight. Rule out another 50% as having too low libido, and a final 10% for assorted issues: psychotic, felon, smelly, etc. Final total: 1.35% of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 11:58 PM
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Ugliness correlates with low genetic fitness, ie, higher chance of being some kind of inbred or deformed person. So yeah, it's not all fertility, it's also about whether your kids will be healthy and likely to survive and thrive. But you can still see that at the end of the day, the woman's likely physical and mental contributions to family/tribe other than producing children do not matter. I could speculate that this is because women have historically not been good for much other than producing…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 08:55 PM
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If your initial assumptions lead you to a nonsensical conclusion, you probably need to re-examine your assumptions. You're assuming that men, in our evolutionary past, would want to "pair up" and work together with whatever woman (women?) they fucked in order to survive. Maybe that wasn't the case. Maybe it was about raping as many women as possible. Maybe it was about picking from among conquered women from another tribe. Maybe it was about X, where X is something much harsher and immoral compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 07:41 PM
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The smarter a woman is the more resources and cunning she can muster against you. I mean, with both pussy access control AND a comparable brain? Thats adds up to a significant advantage for her. I also find that high intellect correlates with high neuroticism in women - her excess brain power goes towards worrying, ocd, a kind of constant "hyper planning" where she cant ever live in the moment, and over analyzing everything. She wont ever just shut up and relax, and you wont get a moments rest. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 03:05 PM
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You start out with this image of women as being equal to men and fundamentally like yourself. Then when you realize they arent, its jarring and disappointing. The difference in how female/male sex drives work in say, a marriage, is already a time bomb waiting to go off in your average non woke male's life. There are dozens of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/17 02:56 PM
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There should be a movie about your life. a coming of age tale about an incel who overcomes all the Stacies and Chads and becomes the hero of his small middle american town and marries the quirky girl next door. It will join the pantheon of classics like Rocky and Karate Kid. Nevermind that you arent from the states. Theres serious money in this. Everyone loves it when the underdog succeeds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 03:02 PM
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Youre a well spoken dude. Glad things turned out well for you. My first ppd account was 4 years ago and I still remember your sardonic rants from that period.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 02:29 PM
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What are you breaking to me, exactly? I never said high n count men care about their partners n count.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 01:42 PM
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A) predictable, given that women simply outearn and have more degrees than men now. This couldnt have not happened regardless of whether hypergamy is true, there simply arent enough high tier men to go around... i guess large scale female celibacy or polygamy are possible too, but we havent gotten there yet. B) I expect measures of female unhappiness to rise commensurately, just like they did after women were "liberated" to join workplaces and see men as their equals. Women want to look up to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 01:21 PM
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Ah, ok. That's a little more reasonable. It still leaves a very small pool of candidates out of the entire male population though. The problem is that very few men get perceived as hot to begin with, and the temptation for them is higher than for average dudes. But some still do manage to stay faithful. Just like some low n count women manage to become good lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 01:04 PM
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About one in ten women is completely anorgasmic and about half have difficulty reaching orgasm at all. About eight in ten cannot cum from PIV at all. Unless I have the opportunity to personally verify this, or you link me a study where they detail their methods for wringing orgasms out of female participants, then I have to call BS. If a woman's G spot, A spot, and clitoris all exist and are intact, then they can be stimulated. The person attempting it may simply be incompetent, undermotivated o…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 12:57 PM
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Half of the entire male population of the planet are hot men with options who also get into commited relationships and don't cheat? Am I understanding this correctly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 12:54 PM
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I was initially angry reading this comments section. Then I realized I would do the exact same thing to a hot but dumb/crazy woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 10:17 PM
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Difference in opinion then. I would say "hanging out with some people" or "hanging out with some guys from work" or some variant. The word "friend" does not cross the threshold of my lips unless it is truly meant and few people attain that honour.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 10:06 PM
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I think you might be romanticizing the Trobriand Islands somewhat. Do you think 12 year olds fucking and people being "done" at 20 and no sexual restrictions is a desirable or even sustainable model for vastly more developed, diverse, populous and complex societies - ie, the kind most human beings live in? Patriarchy and monogamy were not just spun out of whole cloth friend. Things happen and customs become widespread/dominant because they are advantageous, sustainable, and consistent with human…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 09:55 PM
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It doesn't just mean "person I hang out with socially sometimes," Isnt the correct term for this "acquaintance?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 09:40 PM
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Let me tell you why I find this exasperating: If I were a woman, and had even 10% of the problems as described by women here, I would do a number of things. Get really good at masturbation. Explore my body. Find out what my sweet spots are. Find porn I get off to and am intrigued by. Delve into it. Develop kinks. Know what gets me off. Communicate all this proactively to men I decide to become sexual with. Establish that they need to be good at helping me get off, but that I'll help them get the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 08:52 PM
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I didn't say it wasn't. Just that it's not common. Any more than having a low n count woman who'll be enthusiastic and depraved in bed is common.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 08:47 PM
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What am i wrong about, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 07:13 PM
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Your username is extremely relevant dude. Post was all over the place. Try to make it shorter like 3-5 paragraphs and only consistent of an intro, main body and closing next time please.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 06:54 PM
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First of all, no one actually had sex in the study, it's measuring how often men say yes to offers of casual sex vs how often women do. It's creating a situation that doesn't necessarily happen in real life to see what men would do, you're talking about it as if the sex actually happened. Second of all, as far as real life casual sex goes, yes women are fucking dudes, but it could be a few town bicycles fucking a bunch of dudes, while the median dude still has a higher sex drive than the median …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 04:51 PM
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The female dream. A guy who all the other women want and has lots of options, but won't use them because he's devoted to her. Kind of like the male dream of a woman who won't and hasn't fucked other guys, but will be a debauched and eager slut for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 04:38 PM
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I tend to take the credibility of the other person into account. A friend who probably has my best interest at heart, or an expert in whatever he's talking about? I'll probably listen. Some anonymous fucktard on the internet? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 04:36 PM
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Then maybe he can do that. I don't know. I don't know why women's sexual requirements and needs seem to expand at a geometric rate in relationships. But nor do I like this cynical talk about beta males being doomed and having to solicit hookers for the rest of their miserable lives. It seems to me like women need to take some ownership over this problem too because they DID sign up for that, yknow, when they committed and/or got married. I don't think the deal was "I'll fuck you for a while and …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:13 PM
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Call me crazy but I think a better solution would be for them to talk and hash it out and maybe recapture whatever it was that brought them together in the first place and start fucking again and love each other and not just devolve into apathy and side chicks (for him) and emotional affairs (for her).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:04 PM
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tingles uber alles Kek. Good phrasing, hope that catches on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:03 PM
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Do you really think there's men in a room saying "Yeah that random rapist is one of us, we got his back". It simply doesn't happen at all. I think it used to happen more, and still happens in certain circles. Imagine the intense privilege of being a man back in 1950. Beat or force yourself on your wife? Its cool, police are all doing the same thing. Rape some drunk chick? Everyone slut shames her for being a loose woman cavorting around with strange men. Slap the secretary's ass at work, boss gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 03:01 PM
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Men are more interested in casual sex than women, and this has been experimentally verified numerous times. So, just because women are receiving more offers, doesn't mean much if they want what's being offered less.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 02:55 PM
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DHV in that context. That shitty bar full of white trash, he could've had his pick of pussy after pulling a stunt like that. Not a dry panty in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 02:51 PM
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Uh huh, well, men in that situation can be forgiven for not thinking that is good enough of an explanation. Don't you think? I mean, if you're married and have kids already and suddenly your wife decides she will never sleep with you again, or once a year, or whatever... you're done. Your options at that point are all brutal and likely to lead to suicide. Meanwhile, she's content. Life happened. You can forgive a man in that situation for being pretty misogynist from that day forward imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 02:49 PM
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I doubt a woman needs to have fucked a ton of dudes to know which men she finds attractive. So i still dont see anything in your post that excuses women for commiting what I will go ahead and call the crime -- because thats what it is -- of marrying a man she is not attracted to. The fault is with the woman for setting the beta up to fail sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 02:19 PM
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This just seems dumb. It's like telling someone with ANY type of fantasy regarding loss of control (like simply being submissive) "you can't fantasize about not being in control, because you're automatically in control of your fantasies." Which, first of all, is incorrect. Go look up intrusive thoughts and neuroscience re: the illusion of control. People do not control their thoughts, rather the reverse: thoughts, images, etc occur in your brain and afterward your brain constructs a narrative th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 02:47 AM
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You really should've put this question in the OP, because it's the only meaningful point to be gleaned from this comparison. And in that respect, crack and love could not be more different. Crack destroys lives, families and communities, while love is the foundation of a good life, family and community and tends to raise the health, cooperation, and long term happiness of all involved. A substance cannot love you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 02:20 AM
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Not to mention the majority of wars... suicides... the pursuit of fame and power... politics. The economy. Man's emergence from jungles and caves into the dawn of agriculture and civilization. It all comes back to pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 02:16 AM
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Her husband is simply sexually unattractive or what TRP calls "beta." Who she fucked or didn't fuck in the past has no bearing on his actual personality and comportment. She could've married him with her hymen in tact and it wouldn't change that she think he's sexually unattractive. Why does the woman marry him then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 02:04 AM
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I like this guy. Complete open book without an ounce of duplicity or backhanded, bitch-made behavior in him. Uneducated and ignorant? Sure, but I'll take him over the average judgemental, virtue signalling redditor who can only handle online frustration and venting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 01:50 AM
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Gotta take control in those situations. Slam your pussy down on top of his face, ride him and shove his hand where it needs to go. Grunt a lil. Stare angrily. It's what men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 10:47 PM
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There seems to be this persistent narrative that men suck at sex, womens needs arent being met, women dont orgasm as much, and all of this is the fault of men for being lazy/selfish/brainwashed by porn. You cant even argue against this narrative as a man because it'll be perceived as bragging, and women will look at you with either skepticism, or disgust at you sharing TMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 07:24 PM
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Kek
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 07:24 PM
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He works alongside his crew. You can make comparable money in the US as a contractor working by yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 03:52 PM
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My father in law has a construction company. Employs a few guys like this... last year he made 200k after expenses/taxes. His wife's really hot and he has a gigantic house that he maintains himself. I don't really care what it is in China.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 01:53 PM
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The husbands in those cases should feel fortunate. Their wife has a functioning sex drive, it's just a matter of redirecting it towards themselves. When the wife has essentially become asexual and doesn't even masturbate and increasingly hates initiating any sort of sexual activity despite always enjoying herself during... then you have a problem on your hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 01:14 PM
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Developmental windows are complicated by the fact that some people are just born superior. It's only half about social skills. Part of socializing is encountering and reacting to the core of other people -- their innate confidence, spontaneousness, mental processing speed, ability to be humorous, etc. These things can be learned/faked, but only with difficulty. Some people have a much higher aptitude for them from birth, or if not that, then from very early on in their infant development when at…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 12:36 PM
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Male here. I invariably bestow squirting orgasms. As OP stated, it doesn't matter what mental state she's in, if you apply physical stimulation to the right places for a minute or so, then... boom. This did not stop my wife's libido from tanking when we had our first kid and we were both tired and stressed and she was breastfeeding and we were on the rocks. Female libido is complex, male is almost laughably simple. Other than times when I was really sick, I cannot recall a time over the last 15 …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 12:16 PM
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Why do people always want to ban certain other people from talking? This is something about human nature I just can't fathom. If you don't like what they're saying, then like.................. don't listen. Easy solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 07:32 PM
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I remember reading about this painter back in the 1930s or so who lived in the phillipines for a time while he was 60 and had a 12 year old wife there and painted her and it became one of his most renowned works. I wonder what fate would befall such a figure in today's social climate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 11:22 PM
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It seems most people live in tight loops where few real decisions are made, and most arguments stem from miscommunication rather than the allocation executive power. Nah. Most arguments involve some combination of lack of communication but some real disagreement on how to do things. Unfair work/chore divisions which place unfair burdens on one partner, imbalance in desire for sex/intimacy, sexual jealousy, disagreement on fundamental issues like how to raise kids, the extent of freedom each part…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 11:07 PM
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Its different for everyone. No easy answers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 10:32 PM
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I grew up with no idea how to be masculine, or why one would want to. Imo its a dads job to teach his son the necessity and benefit of having balls, competing, standing up for ones self, etc. Thats why Im going to be there for mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 09:55 PM
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Maybe you should work on yourself instead of reddit OP. Youre taking the internet way too seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 05:19 PM
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Ah ok. I think it's stressful when someone else is trying to be my boss, when i'm supposed to be relaxing at home. I imagine most women feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 02:48 PM
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You started talking about houses, and ended talking about people managing their own lives... two different concepts imo. Are we talking about people arguing over which set of drapes to use, or something deeper?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 02:03 PM
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Too many men today are approval seekers who get overly invested in what others think, and don't have an ability to say no -- PUA advice works wonders for these types, because women do not like being sucked up to or pedestalized. To the point where they find it refreshing when someone doesn't do that. I imagine this was you. The truth is your behaviors were unattractive because they came from a place of internal weakness that you have yet to confront. All you've done is change behaviors while sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 01:45 PM
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College/uni has always been synonymous with indoctrination. If you want to avoid being punished by this society, you need to at least pay lip service to feminism/social justice. Don't stick your head above ground, don't draw attention to yourself if white/male, don't have any controversial views or beliefs, keep your sex life private. Whatever commies, gays, women, and black people had to do to survive back in 1950, those are solid rules of conduct for non commie, non gay, non black men in 2020.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 01:27 PM
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The ones that DO have that male sex drive though, are inflating the numbers for all women. Imagine if you could get sex from basically any woman you encounter, and enjoyed casual sex. You'd have a partner count in the triple digits most likely. That is the situation for the few high sex drive women out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 01:19 PM
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I don't think moral relativity is the concept you're looking for. "Female sexuality is more fluid than male" maybe. I do think women have an exorbitant and unrealistic list of standards for dating. There are so many things that could disqualify a man that maybe .001% of the male population is actually dateable. And I agree that list often goes out the window if a man manages to stir up some initial attraction. Cause y'know... lust is a powerful drug. The thing is, women have a stronger bargainin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 01:17 PM
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What incident last week?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 11:46 AM
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I thought it was a great source of both intentional and unintentional comedy, with some occasional insight on the insipidness of humanity in general (normies). Of course there was the possibility some psycho would take everything there seriously and try to pull an Elliot Rodger. Which was bad, and probably why they got banned. Reddit would lose money, have sponsors and investors pull, etc if a mass shooting is ever linked back to one of the "communities" here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 11:42 AM
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If you want a traditional foreign bride, get one. No need to justify or explain yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 05:15 AM
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Your attitude towards your life, your relationship, your drinking, everything... comes off as one giant "MEH" You don't seem to have strong feelings one way or the other about anything, you only kinda want things, you don't really want to work for much, and if cheating/drinking happens... eh... so be it. You want comfort, leisure, and to coast along. Are you really ok with living that way? If you are, then no advice needed. You're already doing a fine job of things. You'll drag down anyone invol…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 05:08 AM
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Sure, being single is nice, because you have your freedom and aren't in close proximity to someone you want to fuck all the time. Try being in a relationship with someone who wants to fuck with considerably less frequency than you, and see if you are able to maintain your current levels of detachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 05:02 AM
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I'm not trying to say women are better than men, just that I've noticed a difference in attitude. The guys I know want the good job and money as a means to an end - that end being to REALLY enjoy themselves. To have free time, retire early, slap a bunch of money down on their car/other hobbies, and to be frank, to attract/fuck beautiful women. Women I know seem to be more about stability, achieving life milestones (like marriage/kids), screening for the right partner to settle down with, having …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 03:46 PM
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The reason those cliches are cliche is because they come from numerous people with experience try to tell you how it is. It's not just people regurgitating shit that sounds nice (at least I hope not). The idea that women are out there sleeping and dating around for shallow reasons is a meme based on the behavior of a small yet highly visible set of women at clubs, bars, and the hypersexualized stereotypical urban young people in TV/movies. It doesn't fit most of the women I've gotten to know. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 03:34 PM
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Evolution is a process that takes aeons. None of this is really relevant to my life, that of my kids, or even grandkids. By the time evolution reduces the male sex drive (and I'm not convinced that's inevitable... excess sugar may be bad for you, but excess women? Not so much, even in a world of overpopulation, given that you still want to be one of the few who DOES out-breed the others). Ahem. By the time evolution reduces the male sex drive, the world will be unrecognizable from what it is tod…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 10:08 AM
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That consequence-free thinking man. Just do whatever you want in the heat of the moment and let the chips fall where they may. Never fails to attract a certain sort of woman though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 09:50 AM
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I've only been made aware of 2 women with double digit partner counts (ecah time via a female friend she'd unwisely confided in)... both women are complete wrecks with emotional issues. One of them can't stop babbling things like "the guy I marry must make a minimum 100k a year". She's a walking redpill. So yeah, I can't really CYV op.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 09:47 AM
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Looking at my group of friends, the dudes are all about hanging out, videogames, smoking weed, and maybe if truly ambitious, their car. Some have good jobs, true, but at heart, they want to be goofing off as much as possible. The girls they're dating are in school studying to be nurses or lab technicians, have elaborate life plans involving saving, travel, and buying a house, right down to the ages they plan on getting married and having kids. I have this theory that women mature automagically v…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 09:29 AM
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All the shit you wrote is a meme, dude. Expand your horizons and meet some real women out in the world, not at a club or bar. Women are as varied as men, some just wanna fuck, some want the guy she can show off, and some (believe it or not) want a good man to settle down with early. I found one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 08:05 AM
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Tell us about your ex wife, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 08:02 AM
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Yeah, to an extent. What I wanted at 20: just the great sex, with a side of not fucking other guys. At 30, it's morphed into that, plus pitch in with all the responsibilities we have in raising these kids and paying for this house. If she didn't do those things, i would be just as pissed off as if she started denying me sex. Having kids changes the fuck out of your perspective on these things. Getting your dick wet feels great, but not as as great as knowing your kid has a future and a nice home…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 07:59 AM
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I would just like to not be cucked, lol. I don't care if she leaves, because it helps both of us not waste our time. I do care about being made a fool of and possibly raising some other nigga's kids. 10 year jail sentence for such shenanigans imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 07:57 AM
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Extremely sensitive and defensive about their decision to be childfree. It would seem weird to me, and somewhat of a turn off. Maybe 1 attractiveness point drop. It really depends on her reasoning though. I know one woman who doesn't want to have kids because of her heritable health issues, which makes sense. At a basic level I believe that one should want to have kids, pass on one's traits, and help mould the world in one's own image. Hmm, I don't really get this question. I think women who wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 07:47 AM
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Humans have this remarkable mental plasticity and higher order thinking that allows them to overcome their "true biological nature". So yes, you can escape your tendency to form dominance heirarchies and many do. Communes, anarchists, hermits. And then there's friendship, this unique type of relationship where (generally) neither party is dominant over the other. There is something in human nature that craves independence. The state of being that is neither in charge of others, nor letting them …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 07:40 AM
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How do we know that the male approachers are truly average? Bearing in mind that women rate a majority of men as below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 10:22 PM
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There seems to be two issues brought up in the OP. The first is "why are men like this" which we can safely dismiss. Certain predatory men who actively seek positions of power are like this. Most men aren't out there raping women, or doing things that could easily be construed as rape. The second is "why did these particular dudes risk everything over sex" - and the answer is, same reason all sexual predators take enormous risks. For the thrill, because their sociopathic brains are just wired fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 03:47 AM
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So what do the people of PPD think about this? There seems to be this enormous push to conjure up statistics and reasons why women are oppressed in STEM, rather than simply being uninterested in STEM. And why male nerds are bad and exclusionary, rather than simply being the demographic whose spatial reasoning oriented sperg brains best align with STEM work. Male nerds are some of the most apologetic, feminist-appeasing people around, btw. I think this narrative of "women can do whatever men do, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 05:50 AM
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Logically I know it's hypocritical to want to have multiple women in my life, since I would never accept my wife being with another dude. Yet the heart wants what it wants. If they would all be cool and down with it and get along, I would have 3, maybe 4 wives and put them all on equal footing. I'd still love my original wife and not discard her, but I might be spread a little thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 05:22 AM
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We are back to my original analogy now, though -- that the result of unchecked market forces are often unfair. People look at the rich getting richer, and the poor getting poorer, and realize that simply allowing markets to run and people to accumulate vast private capital and monopolies is a bad thing. Your initial argument was "okay, but sex is not comparable to wealth, since wealth has a material effect on your life." You seem to have changed from that stance, to "okay, sex IS comparable to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 10:36 AM
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If you go on google, type in 'how to be attractive to women' you will get all this advice on the first page of results. The real core of TRP is persuading men to actually do this. Which is done by whipping them into a misogynist frenzy. Using hate and anger to snap them out of their indolence, depression and general inertia. Some people just function better when they have an enemy in their sights. Is that something we can describe as valuable? Debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 10:16 AM
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You could substitute anything in there, doesn't have to be wealth. Imagine a steam press release: "Boys enjoy videogames more than girls, they play them 23 hrs a week compared to girls' 12 hrs a week. Therefore we're making it so boys pay 1/2 the regular price on all games this week" Imagine just for argument's sake that it is objectively true that boys enjoy X more than girls. Is it still fair that girls have to work harder to get access to X? Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 10:08 AM
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I don't like how this argument is set up. You could pick apart anyone's motivations for wanting anything, but at the end of the day they still want it, and will still think it unfair if others can access it more easily than they. For instance, I could say "so what if the poor get poorer while the rich get richer? Rich people are acclimated to wealth so having lots of it doesn't make them happy, as per the hedonic treadmill." Which would be true, but the fact that the actors involved derive diffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 09:59 AM
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There's a basic structure to these types of conversations, it goes like this: Person A: I want sex and intimacy, and can't seem to get any. Person B (experiencing some degree of empathy): That sucks, but sorry, we can't really do anything about it. After all - we can't force anyone to have sex with you. However, in cases where Person B doesn't like Person A right from the start, the conversation goes differently: Person A: I want sex, but can't seem to get any. Person B (already pissed off at pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 08:12 AM
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Yeah, and people going on about the 1% vs the 99% are acting like not being able to have a middle class lifestyle is some kind of injustice that has to be fixed... This is basic human nature, people who have little resent those who have more. If the disparity between "haves" and "have nots" is too great, and goes on for too long, unrest is the inevitable result. Doesn't matter if it's money, sex or something vague like dignity - people want what others have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 08:01 AM
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because men associate romance with work. If it was a woman paying for all my things, rubbing my shoulders, conversing about things I care about (like programming, 19th century literature, history), lavishly complimenting me, etc. - then sure, sign me up. It's possible for either gender to enjoy being romanced, but women rarely romance men. It just isn't within the realm of the conceivable. Maybe back in the day when women were expected to be good wives/homemakers and put some effort into making …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 07:51 AM
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You put it very well. I have nothing to add except that it's pretty hard to fulfill all those except for a small percentage of men who have the right genes and inclinations. They even seem to be contradictory in some ways. Like, if you are too attractive, you'll seem less trustworthy, and if you're too trustworthy and devoted then it's unattractive. I am married and have dated around, and it seems like I'm usually the one striving to meet the woman's requirements and expectations rather than the…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 07:19 AM
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I agree with both points. People instinctively dislike it when men cry, and society tends to mold itself around + reinforce human instinct... so if you cry, everyone will be moderately disgusted, and then someone will point to the long standing tradition of "men who cry must be shamed" (developed over thousands of years by people moderately disgusted by male tears) - so you get double the punishment. So it is with slut shaming, sexual jealousy, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 01:58 PM
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I've got a lot to be pissed off about
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 01:55 PM
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The best answer I've found to not having motivation is to just do it anyway. I know that's a non answer as to how you have more motivation and so on... but it's an honest non answer, if that makes sense. After a certain point, all this reading and thinking about how to improve stops being effective. Read and think enough to know what you want to do and be, and then just do it. Perform the tasks and habits needed each day. At first you'll be miserable and not have any motivation. A week or month …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 12:32 PM
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do nothing but drugs, hookers, anime, videogames, and find some way to passively leech off of society. just escape from it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 05:03 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 04:49 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 04:16 PM
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It would make me feel better though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 01:34 PM
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yep
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 01:34 PM
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Yeah, you're right. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 06:15 AM
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The concept of adultery, and associated punishment, goes back at least as far as the Code of Hammurabi, and if iirc the concept of romantic love between men and women only dates back 1k years or so to chevaliars in the middle ages. While love itself may be a flawed ambition, fidelity is not. Even ancient societies have had some form of marriage contract and relatively stringent taboos against breaking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 05:45 AM
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Frankly the ladies are too busy with child enrichment activities to fuck around on their husbands. Who's got time for a fuckboy when nights and weekends are packed with play dates, birthday parties, museum trips, zoo trips, fucking pumpkin patch trips (I'm so fucking sick of pumpkin patches), tot-n-me yoga, etc. This is too much imo. I'd be surprised if even your husbands are getting any with how hard you are trying to outdo each other. You even admit to being sick of it!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 05:35 AM
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They could find no theory to account for it that wouldn't get them lambasted by SJWs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 05:32 AM
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I think men and women have a few innate biological differences, that result in flashpoints for conflict around a handful of issues. Primarily sex, chores/housework, and so-called emotional labor. The typical female brain processes these issues differently than the typical male brain. Ordinarily, in a sane world, this would be fine, because it would be understood that men and women are different and have somewhat different natural roles. In our world, there's a lot of resentment and frustration a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 04:35 AM
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I often try to figure this out myself. Why do women seek romantic relationships with men? Why do they often pressure us for commitment only to devolve into the kind of man hating, cynical, put upon attitude evinced in the OP? Why do they marry a man, and then make a competition amongst their friends about who can complain about their man the most?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 04:15 AM
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I think adultery should be punishable by death again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 04:11 AM
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It's nice when your gang's got you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 09:15 AM
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Even in romantic relationships, power vacuums do not last long. Either you lead or end up following
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 09:13 AM
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If you're bottom 40% or so all this amounts to is more opportunity to be rejected. Men look at most women and think "i'd fuck that", women look at most men and think "ew. Pass"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 09:04 AM
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I've done this on occasion. I'm not a feminist. But I'm also not for making other people unnecessarily uncomfortable. Imagine this advice being given to black men. "You might make a white person think you're going to mug them so cross the street instead." So ridiculous. Men shouldnt have to live their lives based on the fears and stereotyping of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 03:16 PM
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If there is a way in which this list significantly differs from becoming a screeching white knight manservant to every woman in sight, I'm not seeing it. Absolutely. Though to what extent it is actually mainstream is beyond me. All of it. It's a giant list of onerous, undignified and self-abasing behaviors that only men are expected to perform. It's using privilege and identity politics as a cudgel to beat all men into submission. Absolutely not, unless you want them to grow up fairly fucked up,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 12:10 PM
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Anyone can tell someone what to do to achieve success. Hard work, persistence, observing others keenly, being the best possible version of one's self, not letting scruples get in the way.. all fairly obvious. It's not about knowledge, its whether you can inspire someone to actually DO it that matters. Most people are rationalizing reasons not to torture themselves into a state of excellence and "well maybe people of the opposite sex are, like, nice and will accept me for me" is one of them. TRP …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 06:10 PM
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I think what you're noticing here is that sex tends to be better when it involves overcoming inhibitions. That's also what makes adultery, office affairs, etc. good. When you both feel a rush of desire that overpowers all reason and scruples and you're just suddenly tearing each others clothes off, it's pretty hot. However, the goal of getting pregnant is not the only thing that produces this dynamic, nor does it always produce it. I could see pregnancy sex being hot if one/both parties aren't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 09:17 AM
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Traits I've noticed in women: doesn't like videogames. Intense need to get things done, for progress to be happening constantly. Generalized anxiety disorder. Constantly worrying about something. Wants to buy a house and obsesses over where it will be, how it will look, etc. Has absorbed some feminist/anti Trump memes from facebook and will regurgitate them in a not-overly-thought-out fashion at random moments. Is, on some level, deeply frustrated with her SO/husband unless they just started dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 09:05 AM
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Have you had this problem come up often? You could try a male virgin sometime. I hear they're pretty STD free.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 09:26 AM
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So, as far as the Manosphere (PUA, RP/TRP and MGTOW), as well as incel/whatevercel related communities are concerned, where do you see their future? So long as feminism and social justice continue to constitute an effective censorship of all public (but not private) criticism of female behavior, the current status quo will continue. Right now, the "Manosphere" is largely decentralized, much like the alt right, GamerGators, and other groups that rely on anonymity. It is a place to hang out and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 06:30 AM
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Agree with this. There are strains of the redpill in rap music, most religions, the alt right, basically anywhere politically incorrect ideas (at least, incorrect in the minds of a certain privileged middle-to-upper class western elite) flourish. Fads and movements change, ideas and simple repeatable observations about human nature remain the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 06:18 AM
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Thats just dumb. Some men just dont care about a womans orgasm period. They arent going to suddenly care because shes hot. Selfish people are selfish in all their relationships. They cant change their nature, at most they can mask it for a time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 06:12 AM
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Yes, you can start by not caring about what others think
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 06:09 AM
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This subreddit seems unnecessarily aggressive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 09:11 AM
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Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 07:35 AM
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HIV is quite survivable these days. I'm in. I would rawdog them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 05:41 AM
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I would try to make them into a badass transgender person like Mulan or Chevalier d'Éon
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 05:22 AM
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If there's anything to be said for mass shootings, it's that people are at least a bit more hesitant to bully the tormented awkward kid now. Now they just ostracize and ignore him. Still, I would've gladly taken that over the brutality I experienced back in elementary and middle school. I wish every guy like ER would be able to rise above his circumstances and mental issues, study MMA, rid himself of entitlement, go zen buddhist, become confident and a leader, and inspire people to be better ins…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 05:16 AM
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Women are pickier about who they want to date, and MUCH pickier about who they're willing to screw. It's not fair, it's not easy, it just is. You either deal with it or give up on women entirely. If you don't have certain advantages such as physical attractiveness, social adroitness, high income, narcissism/psychopathy, etc. it may be better to just not play the game at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 05:08 AM
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Fighting with me on what? I would gladly accept being treated equally by a woman. I don't want to be "mommed" or talked down to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 04:56 PM
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If your goal was to make me feel dumb, confused, and vaguely defensive, you succeeded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 10:15 AM
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Maybe I want to be loved and respected by an equal. I know it sounds dumb but there it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 09:42 AM
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I feel bad for incels. I spent some time there and if you pay attention, many of them have suffered some kind of abuse, bullying, and on top of that may have mental issues like autism or aspergers, depression, etc. Kick a dog enough times and it will go bad. There are also a lot of trolls just saying things to trigger onlookers. Of course, a few are legit scary individuals who may go ER someday. I'm probably biased because I've been an angry, bitter male myself and haven't really outgrown it. I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 09:22 AM
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This is hyperbole with a nugget of truth buried inside. Women CAN see even like... 4/10 men as sexual beings. It's just harder, and requires being seen in a good context, around friends of hers, doing exciting things, having a kind, passionate personality, and so on. On top of that, you have to appeal to whatever niche attraction factors she's into. Also, the less attractive she herself is, the less the above holds true. Finally, you should recognize that women just aren't as quick to be sexuall…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 09:09 AM
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It seems to be what the author is getting at. I don't think it's a valid point, though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/17 05:49 PM
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there has been more sex. And you want us to change your view? Are you sure? Lol.
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I forgive you.
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Why does "fun" always seem to crop up as a euphemism for fucking around when it comes to women
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