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aguywholifts/r/askTRP07/10/17 08:31 AM
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This is some agender / kintype level shit now
/r/askTRP04/07/18 01:09 AM
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I mean it’s true. I do like sex too much to be in a relationship.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 01:06 AM
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“Breaks” are just a nice way of saying “I want to fuck other people, but I want you to wait for me and be available to me when I’m done.” They come back if they don’t get optimal results. If they’re successful, they won’t.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 06:49 PM
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I do act selfish. I put myself first no matter what, but I feel empathy when it negatively impacts someone else.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 05:43 PM
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I don’t really go about my day looking or thinking about if someone is red pill.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 05:22 PM
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I’ve never openly stated this, but imply it enough. How do your respond to people shunning you in the moment, and phrase it so matter of fact?
/r/askTRP03/07/18 04:41 PM
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Sounds like he wants to fuck other girls. Completely normal, and a valid reason to breakup. Unfortunately, he will be made out to be the bad guy even more-so for such a reason, but that’s just how it goes.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 04:20 PM
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I’m pretty empathetic. It makes putting myself first pretty difficult, but I push through it.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 04:18 PM
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Tone = less body fat It’s easy. Just don’t be a fat ass and you can be toned. You can look like a twink or a man. Which one do you want to look like?
/r/askTRP02/07/18 10:23 PM
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Red Pill Men on YouTube. They release every other week. Rollo is on it every podcast.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 05:39 PM
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What is a self aware asshole? Aren’t all assholes self aware?
/r/askTRP02/07/18 05:38 PM
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As long as it’s not your only hobby. If you lift like you should then that should be enough of an active hobby to compensate the fact that you like to play Fortnite. If it’s something you enjoy, do it and don’t give a fuck what people think. That’s a beta mentality no matter what.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 05:26 PM
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I have literally never told a woman how much I make nor have they asked. What kind of gold digging spots are you gaming women in?
/r/askTRP02/07/18 05:24 PM
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Go to the gym. Go to the weights. Pick it up. Put it down. The most important thing you need to do is to get yourself going to the gym. I am not advocating fuckarounditis (fucking around with no routine or structure to your workout) but the first thing you should do is familiarize yourself with not only weights but your surrounding as well. After, pick a routine from the many out there. There are a shitton. Personally I had the most fun on a PPL. You’re there 6 days a week. It’s very hypertrophy…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 05:21 PM
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Sounds like you have a solid sex life with your hand so why do you want pussy? Idgi
/r/askTRP02/07/18 05:09 PM
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My style is black T-shirt’s I get from Haines that are form fitting and make me look big and a single pair of jeans... no name brands or even being concerned with that. All I care about is if my muscles look big and I look and feel attractive / masculine / dominant in bed.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 05:00 PM
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get rid of the demi lovado picture and pussy will follow
/r/askTRP02/07/18 04:58 PM
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Go to a forest or better yet a mountain if you live near mountain ranges and take pictures of yourself doing activities like hiking or climbing or swimming or planning to jump into some water. Set your phone to a timer if you have no one to take pictures of you.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 04:37 PM
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If you need to make yourself a little more comfortable, start off by talking to sales associates at stores. You’re still approaching people and creating a conversation, but you can eliminate the fear of “rejection” so to speak, because sales associates are usually required to be super friendly. This is just training wheels, though, and just a way for you to get into the mindset that you can go up to someone and start a conversation.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 11:55 AM
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You don’t. You’re done with this girl. End contact. Except, you won’t do that. Realistically, you’ll follow your “heart” and take her back and you will fuck a couple of times, things will seem great - better than before even!! - and eventually the comfort will come back, and she will shit test you more and more (though she has no reason to because you’re in her frame and she knows what you’re all about, there’s no mental fortitude she needs to test, your fortress is hers) and you will fail them …
/r/askTRP01/07/18 09:58 PM
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This is what usually gets me off during sex. Spitting in the girl’s mouth that is.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 06:45 PM
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Keep approaching. Continue to approach. Do so for killing the anxiety and the fear and disappointment of being rejected. Once that fear is eliminated and disappointment no longer comes from being rejected, you’re solid. But that will only happen if you continue to approach.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 04:45 PM
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Learn from him.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 04:00 PM
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Never stop gaming. I’m not saying to go out and get numbers. I’m saying continue to game and end it there.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 03:22 PM
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The only reason this would be bad would be if this was a woman you were interested in vetting for an LTR, which isn’t the case.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 03:20 PM
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It’s hard to say. We speak generally here, but ever situation is a case by case scenario. We give advice based on a collection of past experiences. The longer you talk to her on text, the more she knows about you. Familiarity kills attraction. Once she knows what you’re all about, you’re no longer this mysterious entity in her life she wants to discover and unravel. Proceed with caution if you decide to continue, but if your goal is to sleep with her, you need to meet and get physical as soon as…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:10 PM
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It could be a shit test to get you to continue to get her to meet you, but more than likely this is not the case. If a girl demands you to get to know her more before you meet, she just wants the emotional validation and the attention.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:04 PM
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Do you know what hypergamy is?
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:45 PM
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I don’t talk a lot either. I have a hard time connecting with people and being an engaging party in conversations I’m not interested in. This hasn’t really led to any problems for me.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:40 PM
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I mean I don’t know about TRP, but for me, a submissive feminine woman who is shy socially and obedient, a non feminist who generally falls in line with traditional roles and structures such as patriarchy, liberated sexually (open to anything and not shy about performing anything), and one who will suck my dick when I’m watching TV just because she wants to please me without expecting anything in return.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:38 PM
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Don’t sweat it. You’re gonna be with a new girl, it’s gonna have it’s awkwardness about it and the complications will probably be there anyway regardless of if you decided to get a hooker. If you finish too early, blame it on her and laugh it off / just treat it like a non issue. Don’t say it’s been a while or anything like that. Wait until your refractory period is over, and tell her you’re not done with her and act like it’s all about her that you can’t contain yourself and just have to have h…
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:31 PM
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“Show the guy you love him, break up with him, and go back to him. [blah blah blah] if he loves you [blah blah blah] he will take you back and love you even more” ...Are there seriously guys out there who fall for this?
/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 06:24 PM
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In my opinion, you should be doing bare minimum cardio. Eat at a moderate deficit to lose weight with a high protein diet, calculate and reach your macros, follow a proper lifting routine, and get enough sleep. This is a good calculator: https://www.iifym.com/iifym-calculator/
/r/askTRP30/06/18 06:13 PM
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One of the dumbest opinions I’ve seen.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:09 PM
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You’ll more than likely sleep with her. Be prepared for whatever outcome results in your drunken encounter.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 10:27 PM
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Honestly it just sounds like these guys are tying to say to the others “hey, look at me! I’m a masculine man. I get laid.” Masculinity and a man’s sexuality are closely linked. If you’re a man who has consistent sex, you’re generally more respected among both men and women and are seen as a more masculine man.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 10:21 PM
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Yup. Read up on the situational alpha. It’s an article on The Rational Male.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 10:11 PM
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Beta in what context? There are situations in your life where you will always be beta. There are situations in your life where you could be beta but should be alpha.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 08:43 PM
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It’s not about what you say. It’s about what you do. Touch her. Disclaimer: it’s more about what you do than what you say. You can fuck it up if you say the wrong thing. You are focusing on the wrong things.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 08:41 PM
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I don’t get the whole “wait a certain timeframe” notion. If you want to schedule another date, schedule another date. If you’re concerned about coming off too strong in a clingy sort of way, phrase the invitation a different way. I have the most success when I’m slightly negging in my invitations. It spawns her to qualify herself to me and puts me in the position of an asshole, which I use to my advantage sexually. Something like: “You were pretty amusing last night. I’m going to a party next we…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 08:39 PM
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I’m not OP. I see this posted a lot, recommending guys to go dark triad. I am aware of what it is and the traits it consists of, but I don’t really understand in practice what it would equate to in a single instance.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 08:32 PM
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In my experience, it came from years of being shamed out of sexuality. Constant conditioning that you have to respect girls and you are using them if you have sex with them and you are a terrible person for objectifying them. I knew logically that that wasn’t the case (though within sex, I do enjoy using and objectifying women for my pleasure), it didn’t matter. The sexual drives I had growing up, I repressed.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 08:25 PM
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I think you said it perfectly. You were sexually repressed. Because of that, you found it hard to respond sexually and initiate accordingly. I was sexually repressed for a long time. Felt very ashamed and shy to initiate, even though that’s all I wanted to do. Being sexually repressed sucks. It’s like your balls are quite literally locked away, but you can still feel and experience the sexual desire and drive they feed into you.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 03:34 PM
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“Chad trying to prove himself again” Solid and amusing response! I don’t have this problem, but if it ever arises, I’m definitely gonna use this.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:22 PM
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Because by being with a woman you display value to other women. You also cause competition anxiety in girls who found you attractive and they respond by trying to sabotage the relationship you are in.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 02:25 PM
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I use MyFitnessPal premium, but there are plenty of free alternatives. Fat Secret is a good one. I pretty much eat the same thing every day when I’m cutting. It keeps it simple, and I always know my macros, but it’s also incredibly boring and mentally exhausting.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 01:41 PM
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You need to track your calories in order to know what you need to adjust. Because as you cut and lose fat, you’re going to require less calories and you’ll need to know when and how to adjust to continue progress and break past a plateau. You’ll get to extended period of times where your scale is no longer going down. Start with 1800 calories - that’s about the number of calories you need to start losing 1lb a week at that weight and height. When you hit a plateau, lower the calories by 100 and …
/r/askTRP29/06/18 01:36 PM
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This sounds like performance anxiety is triggered at the realistic likelihood of sex.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 12:56 PM
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Teasing and pushing more than pulling is a whole lot of fun. This is the sort of interaction I like to have with everybody, outside of a professional setting or when dealing with employees in stores and shit (where I default to a too polite and understanding guy). Being used to teasing others makes it a lot easier to tease women you are into since it’s something that at that point comes natural to you. I’m also in agreement that it helps center the nerves and your skewed perception caused by you…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 12:49 PM
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If your goal is to get big, you’re gonna get some fat anyway. Just treat cutting after you achieve abs as a regulating type of task to shed the excess fat you gained from the bulk and continue building mass.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:18 AM
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Ultimately comes down to your own preference. I’m simple. I like seeing my abs, so I gauge my cutting and bulking phases on whether I can still see my abs in my shitty ass bathroom lighting, not just in natural lighting or optimal white light (which is better for ab visibility). Once they start to fade away in my bathroom mirror, I start to cut until they are defined again even in the shitty lighting. So cutting for me is just a thing I do to trim up when I get too much fat. I’m consistently bul…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:14 AM
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You’re already pretty lean. Since you’re so close, I recommend finishing off a cut and cut until you can see abs in all lighting and then maintain that weight for a 2-4+ weeks. When that time is over, slowly increase the calories until you’re gaining 1-1.5lb per week to keep body fat low.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:08 AM
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Rip it in half and give her one half and you take the other. Very alpha display of dominance and dgaf attitude.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:06 AM
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This girl has competition anxiety after seeing all the sluts you’re fucking and wants to be one of them. Read up on competition amongst women. This is a classic tactic to eliminate competition.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:04 AM
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Are you asking us how to say please and thank you and have good manners?
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:01 AM
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This is a new start for you. Nobody will know you. You can be whoever you want to be, without a question of authenticity or a need to justify a change you made. Play that to your advantage. Socialize with people and make friends. If you’re uncomfortable and are socially awkward, find a coping mechanism you can use to get you through it until you can settle down.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 05:00 AM
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Is she your plate or your girlfriend? Content seems to suggest her to act as a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 04:51 PM
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When you approached her did you display sexual interest and intent with her? Did you get her number? Did you use her number to set up a date? Did you use her number to text her to get to know her? Have you met up with her in a date setting and escalated physically? Are you using push pull?
/r/askTRP28/06/18 01:31 PM
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Be her daddy. This doesn’t mean you need to take the DDlg route (though you should be dominant anyway). This means you simply have to adopt the behavior that a daddy would to a child. Be physical with her. Show her how strong you are. Pick her up. Is she upset? Toss her over your shoulder (if you can’t do that, you need to hit the gym), squat her, do anything that displays physical strength in response to her emotion. Don’t even talk about it. Give her a bear hug and lift her up. Tell her how li…
/r/askTRP28/06/18 09:38 AM
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This is the position you should be aiming for when approaching women.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 05:08 AM
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Social circle, ability to go into a bar and connect with people - not just whoever you’re trying to hit up, etc.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 01:48 AM
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Men are success objects.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 01:19 AM
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A simple “yes” to her validating that you plan to run in Central Park would have been sufficient enough. Seems like you have some difficulty comprehending texts.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 01:19 AM
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Your romanticized outlook on relationships is based on inexperience and lack of options. Go game some girls. Plate two women for now. These are not your girlfriends. They’ll be your plates. Having two will allow your sexual needs to be met without becoming dependent on one woman.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 09:30 PM
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Are you lifting? Are you fucking any girls right now?
/r/askTRP26/06/18 09:18 PM
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You seem to be confused about what soft nexting is. All it is is not initiating contact with whomever you’re soft nexting. If she contacts you, respond cordially.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:29 PM
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I discovered TRP in 2015.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:22 PM
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I was never angry.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:07 PM
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We can all feed your hamster either which way on the matter and speculate why she did that and later reinstalled it, but that’s all we’d be doing. I delete apps from my phone all the time without much rhyme or reason for doing so and then install it again later. If you don’t trust her, that should be the end of it. You don’t seem to trust her, but it seems like you can’t settle on that and are looking for reasons to trust her.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:06 PM
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The ball is in her court now. Some would probably say the frame is as well. Personally I find it unrealistic for the relationship to always be in your frame. I would wait for her to reach out to you so that when she does, you can be in the position of power rather than her. It’s much more attractive for a man not to be desperately seeking ways to cash in some time.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:19 PM
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If they aren’t attracted to you, everything will backfire.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:50 AM
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If they are attracted to you and you’ve already pulled them in enough, pushing them by being rude, insulting, and cocky works wonders and makes them feel the need to qualify themselves to you.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:45 AM
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Can you not be stoic and cocky and arrogant? What’s your definition of stoic when it comes to pulling girls? jw
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:44 AM
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They like to be in control until a guy who treats her like shit and puts her in her place comes along who she obsesses over because she fantasizes about him caveman fucking her.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:38 AM
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Make a joke dude. Replying with that is a sure fire way to eliminate any interest she has in you. Negs are cool, but that’s not a neg, that’s just a bad reply.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 04:14 AM
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can these kinds of threads be banned please
/r/askTRP09/06/18 04:08 AM
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All the things you have to go through? It’s really not a circus act to sleep with a woman if she is attracted to you and you escalate properly.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 10:58 PM
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Honestly just sounds like a regular gym class to me...
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:18 AM
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I’m pretty shocked you’re not already doing this. When I was on sports team, weight lifting was part of our training.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:16 AM
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This really depends on what you mean to be proficient at sex. When you say that, do you mean to achieve an orgasm from your partner? That’s how a lot of people seem to measure proficiency. Are you looking to just have a fun time?
/r/askTRP07/06/18 04:15 AM
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Send her a picture of your dick with the caption "It's not going to suck itself."
/r/askTRP06/06/18 04:00 AM
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what do you define as primal sexually uninhibited
/r/askTRP05/06/18 03:38 AM
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https://i1.wp.com/www.strongerbyscience.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/12752057_10153492667389016_1119053659_o.jpg?resize=593%2C1024&ssl=1
/r/askTRP01/06/18 10:09 PM
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I did a cycle of it. The only differences I noticed was that I wanted to fuck all the time, woke up with massive erections, my balls shrunk, and I got some pretty good pumps after the gym.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:14 PM
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I do this shit all the time on people.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:36 AM
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Probably intended as a cockredirect than a cockblock. Go show your roomie a good time dude
/r/askTRP28/05/18 04:57 AM
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Yes it is send some to me you’ll be an alpha
/r/askTRP27/05/18 11:17 PM
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seems like this is the kind of stuff a lot of guys here spend time thinking about
/r/askTRP27/05/18 12:28 PM
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Solid long term goals. Usually the goals for most lifters is to increase in the compounds as high as they can and look aesthetic while doing so. To make it more manageable, I'd make smaller goals throughout the way to get you there. Confused why a bench plateau doesn't count. In my experience, my squats and deadlift continue to go up as I'm in a deficit, but my bench stalls for the most part. When most people say they bench XXX, they're usually talking about 1RM. They'll say "for reps" if they m…
/r/askTRP22/05/18 02:15 PM
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i didn't watch your video, but to answer your main question: i disagree with the notion that we don't need external validation that a lot of guys seem to shun others for on here. we are human. humans are social and require external validation. we all want to be liked and well received. do i think we should seek it out? no. but i do think it's a requirement for all of us to have. i agree that sex is probably the best form of external validation. i don't know where i stand on the topic of sex equa…
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:59 AM
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Is plaid not allowed in your country?
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:55 PM
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Button down plaid shirts. A belt. Maybe a necklace. Maybe a bracelet or a watch. Chinos. Nice shoes.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:46 PM
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It depends on how high your sex drive is. The universal go to response is that it kills your urge because your sexual appetite is generally satisfied so you’re less likely to go engage with conversations with women and lead to sex because as far as your dick is concerned, you got it. But there are outliers. Like if your sex drive is very high.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 05:59 AM
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My thought is: nothing wrong with it and I do it all the time. I spent hundreds of hours in the gym. I want to flaunt what I built because I’m damn proud of it.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 11:31 PM
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How do you feel at the idea of dominating a woman in bed? This is an important question, because it gauges whether your issue is with sex itself, or your outlook on women being these pure beings who wouldn’t dare enjoy getting choked and railed from behind and you’re ashamed of yourself for the idea of doing that to one.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 11:51 PM
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If you need to result to hookers for sex, then you are a beta. The raw definition of an alpha male is a man who is sexually successful, among a wide variety of other traits.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 06:44 AM
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Based on what you’ve said, it sounds like you may have low confidence and a weak frame.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 04:39 AM
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Curious to know what kind of things they are doing to make you feel they are undermining and dominating you? All the guys I know in my personal life are all pretty laid back in most situations.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:58 PM
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Some of it is a shit test on its own. Can you break through it? Some of it is complete disinterest and annoyance at being in the situation you’re putting her in.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:56 PM
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Buy her a butt plug. Leave it at her house. She’ll grow curious and eventually try it out. If she likes that, she’ll go for more. This is what I did in a relationship. Worked wonders. Was completely against the idea of anal until I bought her that. After a few months, she changed her mind and was interested in trying.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:55 PM
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Well, if you ghost on an LTR, you’re a coward. Just tell her you don’t see a future with her so you’re breaking up with her or you’re not able to commit anymore. But I recommend only saying that if she presses for a reason.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:48 PM
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Sounds a lot like a relationship I had. This is not good for you. You need to break it off. A relationship like this on your psyche is damaging and a hindrance. Screw what TRP says, this will hurt you if you keep it. It is not healthy.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 11:25 PM
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What are you sick with?
/r/askTRP10/01/18 11:21 PM
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I love Black Mirror.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 05:38 AM
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I think you might have misread my post? I’m saying that this is something men want naturally. All I’m criticizing is the fact that a lot take TRP so far they over analyze and get opinions on every option in their life over at askTRP.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 12:37 PM
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This is very well written and describes what most guys do when they find the pill very accurately. I think a large contributing factor is that this forum emphasizes sexual prowess. It's goal is to get you laid and laid often. For most men, even the most beta of all, we want to fuck a many, many women in our lives. From a red pill perspective, Chad is someone who does this, so he is someone who a lot of the guys here naturally want to emulate. "If it works for Chad, it'll work for me." Lately on …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 06:35 AM
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Have you considered getting a scar? Those are very good at increasing SMV!
/r/askTRP09/01/18 01:51 AM
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If you enjoy it and play it as hobby. There's a difference between that and you not doing anything but spending all day in your mom's basement.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:15 PM
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If you want an LTR, get an LTR. People treat TRP like some binding thing (not necessarily you, OP) that needs to be followed and everything in their life needs to be in a "TRP lense." Really strange to me.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:14 PM
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No way dude. That's what makes sex fun. I'm not someone who is too into feet, but a pair of really dainty feminine feet in my face in the moment and you bet I'll lick/nibble them.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:13 PM
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I'm sure you hold that belief because you've gone further than that, and I respect that, but because of society when most people think of trans (female to male), they think of the lesbian who shaves her head and starts wearing flannel who says she is a male and you need to respect her choice of pronouns.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 03:58 PM
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Transition to what? The use of a men’s bathroom, or surgery? I know of one who had their breasts removed and is currently undergoing testosterone therapy. But that’s the only one out of many who say they’re male who has gone that far. The majority of trans people do not make that commitment. They only go as far as dressing in men’s clothing and saying they are male.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 03:46 PM
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I'm not arguing that that's the only reason, but often times that's the main reason someone identifies as trans. The overwhelming majority of the trans people I know identify as trans because they fall in line more with masculinity than femininity if they are a biological woman. Thankfully, I don't know of any that push it to such a degree that they start using the men's bathroom.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 03:39 PM
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I don't understand transgenderism, especially since a lot of trans people say that gender a social construct. So if you're a woman and identify more with masculine gender norms, then why can't you be a woman who is traditionally a little more masculine? Why do you have to "identify" as a male? You're not a male; you don't a have a Y chromosome. Sorry.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 03:11 PM
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It was a dick joke.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 11:11 PM
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Isn't your tip already included in the massage?
/r/askTRP04/01/18 09:39 PM
1

She's not interested anymore.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 09:39 PM
1

I view orbiting as being an emotional tampon for a woman you want to have sex with. There aren't any women who I orbit from that definition, but there are women who I am friendly towards and flirt with and game every now and then that I find to be hot that I would probably pursue if things in both of our lives were different down the line. But I'm also currently in an LTR.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 09:44 PM
1

I wouldn't do anything. You sound threatened.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 09:38 PM
1

From my experience and observation, women don’t actively practicing hypergamy until they have a reason to. As long as you have a muscular body, maintain frame in your relationship, lead, focus on improving yourself and meeting goals in your life, and own her in the bedroom, she’s satisfied in the relationship enough to view you as high enough value.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 06:45 AM
1

A lot of the people on TRP talk about Chad in a symbolic way. Though there are field reports and Chads out there in the world, Chad is just a guy who is better looking and better than you. We all have a Chad. Most of us who are lifting and making an effort to be great men are a Chad to someone else. Chad has bigger arms than you. Chad has better pecs than you. Chad can squat more than you. Chad has better hair than you. Etc.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:15 AM
1

If you aren't together what, what are you demoting her from?
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:10 AM
1

You know why you feel this way. This is not a relationship you want to be in. But you have no abundance, and you're afraid to lose her. Break up. Get some abundance and meet other women.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:04 AM
1

What makes you think that’s a shit test...?
/r/askTRP28/12/17 06:39 AM
28

From what you describe, turning you down for sex once a month seems like a non-issue to me. I was expecting it to be a lot more frequent of an issue than what you're describing. I do think its a bit unreasonable to expect sex every single time you want it. There are just too many factors that may put someone not in the mood to fuck. That said, if you know how to turn her on and you lift and game her properly, she'll be DTF usually whenever you want. I'm in an LTR. I don't necessarily expect sex …
/r/askTRP25/12/17 03:54 PM
1

This is not necessarily a red flag. This is just how women are. Don't ever respond to a woman complaining about how she is feeling about something with solutions to her problems. No woman is searching for solutions to her problem when she confides in a man about what it is she is feeling. She doesn't want a solution. She wants you to validate her emotions. Men innately seek solutions to problems. If something is tugging at our emotions in a way we aren't comfortable with, we seek to change that …
/r/askTRP24/12/17 12:52 AM
1

Starbucks.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 09:15 AM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP21/12/17 07:50 PM
1

I currently work in a job that puts me on locations at rental car companies at the airport. These locations are predominantly people flying in for business, rather than personal time. Before that, I had my experience with customer service in restaurants where I had to deal with the people myself and learned how shitty people are when it came to food. I didn't think it got much worse than that, but I was wrong. These people flying here on their company's pocket are some of the most entitled, rude…
/r/askTRP21/12/17 09:10 AM
1

Your problem isn't that you see good in people and treat them good. Your problem is that you care more about what they feel about you than you feel about yourself. You bend over backwards for their own convenience, and sacrifice time and energy without asking or demanding anything back. You're often nice about it, and prefer to be friendly overall. You rarely tease or mock or play around socially with these people. You have a fear of rejection if you say no to them asking a favor, and you are us…
/r/askTRP21/12/17 09:04 AM
1

Dick her down.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 11:03 PM
1

I can't speak for all of TRP, but the main reason a lot of guys, myself included, choose to NoFap here is that it helps motivate them to get sex. Its goal isn't to abstain in ejaculating. Its to allow yourself to hold onto the temptations and the sexual desire that comes from abstaining from jacking off. You're more likely to get in touch with your primal, sexual side.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 01:30 AM
1

Have you considered just approaching girls you see in stores/on the street/in Central Park? Manhattan is littered with women.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 07:59 PM
1

Lol. Overpowering men. That power is relinquished by the man in these cases. Unless he’s a pussy.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 08:20 PM
1

I think you handled that pretty well.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 07:53 PM
1

Dude that sucks. I dunno how he is dealing with that mentally. Just from my disc herniation and having the pain from simply 1 plate for benching and dealing with the pain it gave me felt like a weak little bitch. The mental destruction feeling like a pussy gives you when your main hobby is lifting and you can’t bench 90lbs of plates? The worst. I love talking about it too. Everything about lifting and enhancements just makes me excited. Its rare in this sub to find someone who is juicing. It’s s…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 04:14 PM
1

Dude same. Right down to thinking that it wasn’t working the way I thought it would. I didn’t think it was fake, but I went through some paranoia of not pinning properly or not injecting into the muscles. Weird though because after my two most recent pins I have some soreness in my injection sites which I only experienced after my first injection so I dunno what’s up with that. The positive effects that I read about have been coming to fruition and I couldn’t be more thrilled about them. So stok…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 02:53 PM
1

Oh wow, every day? I'm only injecting two times a week. About to start week 4 of my first cycle. Your numbers sound amazing. I was nowhere near my limit before I started my cycle, though. Had a couple of injuries over the past year that hindered my progress, grew frustrated, was already planning on starting steroids, just jumped the gun and I really don't regret it. Progress in the gym started really picking up this week, which excites me a lot. I was already mentally a gym rat. But using roids …
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 01:17 PM
1

What are you running bro? test-e?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 01:03 PM
1

Every bro I’ve ever had our friendship has ended for mostly the same reason. The ones that didn’t get jealous ended up moving away. I had a good one with a guy who I used to lift with when we both started. I remained consistent and got the gains. He fell off the wagon when his job demanded more from him and he lacked the energy to make it to the gym for sessions when we normally would. Eventually my gains ended up becoming a factor for jealous, even though we started the same. I have no abundanc…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 10:35 AM
1

I don’t disagree with your message. Courage is essential, but strength is definitely the defining primary trait for a masculine man.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 10:16 AM
1

Past experience and AWALT. Most female behavior when it comes to sex is pretty transparent and standard. Once you deal with it with one girl, you’ll notice it with others. And while I don’t think they are very logical, I do think they are simple to understand. She’s starting to realize that the relationship goes against her wishes. You’re meeting and every time you’re meeting, you’re fucking. You’re making her think she’s too sexually available. She doesn’t have any commitment from you, so she’s…
/r/askTRP16/12/17 03:46 AM
1

You’re beginning to get to the stage where she is going to start hinting and implying that commitment is what she wants next.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 03:39 AM
1

Aggression is such an important thing for men to have. The best way to harness it is through lifting and fucking. Nothing gets my testosterone going than channeling anger and aggression through some heavy lifting. Especially squats. Workouts like that also make me so horny and all I can think about on the way home is destroying some pussy.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 03:26 AM
1

This kind of IDGAF attitude isn’t the kind that’s encouraged. You’ve got some mental health hurdles you need to overcome, probably depression. I suggest finding a therapist to help with that.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 03:17 AM
1

Dude I missed three of my workouts last week because I was sick and I’m still dealing with the mental harassment I’m giving myself over it.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 03:14 AM
1

If they want to see you, they'll say something like "Hey, I can't come X. Are you free X?" If not, take a shot and ask them when they are free to hang out, but the ones who don't immediately take initiative to suggest another time to see you are the ones that are less interested in you. If you don't have a girl ever suggest another time, then you need to check your game.
/r/askTRP16/12/17 12:39 AM
1

"Hey, I'm going ___ at __. Meet me there. / You coming? / Wanna come with? / Will I see you there? / Tag along. "
/r/askTRP16/12/17 12:29 AM
1

This was the #1 reason I turned down practically every sexual advance I got while I was in high school. I don't have an answer for you, but I do relate to you. And in this #metoo world we live in where it is a social trend to claim you've been sexually assaulted (its been a hashtag since its inception for God's sake), it's tremendously hard to overcome these paranoias.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 07:28 AM
1

Your weakness isn't your lack of strength. Strength is a trait that needs to be developed. Your weakness is that you're a pussy who doesn't want to develop any strength.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 04:40 AM
1

You sound emotionally immature, especially if you think her saying Friday or nothing is an ultimatum and you feel surprised and mad at her about it. Even more so if you think you're submitting to her by going along with a Friday meetup. You are overthinking this way too much on so many different levels. Submissiveness is important in women, but you sound more concerned with being controlling, rather than being dominant.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 03:28 AM
1

Lol. Blowed in the ass?
/r/askTRP12/12/17 04:30 PM
1

She's definitely a feminist bro.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 12:44 PM
1

Cuddle.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 03:53 AM
1

Next time don't take a girl to curl with you bro. Meet up with her after you curl so you got a nice bicep pump to sneak in.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 03:52 AM
1

This whole metoo hysteria is reminiscent of the Salem witch trials. It has given so many women so much power. Pointing fingers at men and destroying careers. I have read so much of this on my Facebook of almost every female I know having an account of sexual harassment and these long drawn out accounts of how she’s been a victim. Of what? Failing to communicate to the autistic man trying to pursue her. Because more often than not, that’s what I’ve been reading. I disagree with the bottom line of…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 01:33 PM
1

lol the first clip of the video is a fucking fat lady who shaved her head talking about misgendering a trans woman i'm dying
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 07:17 PM
1

Modern day feminism is toxic femininity fueled by misandry. Ironic how all the traits listed in toxic masculinity are generally just masculine traits. Normal females are attracted to these traits in men.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/17 02:33 PM
1

Ask her about things she likes. Share things you like. Any experiences related to those things she likes? Concerts she go to for her favorite band? That’s the best way to connect to people in my experience. It has a positive bias when you talk to someone about the things they like. If you can find something relatable to them, mention it. Ask her about a concert she went to, then share an experience you had at a concert. Comfort is easy. You’re overthinking, OP. You create comfort with everyone y…
/r/askTRP09/12/17 05:10 PM
1

It does, but what am I to do about it? Change the culture around me?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 03:59 PM
1

I live in a really urban town. That’s just how people greet each other around here, even in working environments.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 12:42 PM
1

Handshakes are something I definitely need to work on. Unexpected ones, anyway. I’m so caught off guard by them. It’s a rare occurrence in my day to day life to ever need to give someone a handshake. Where I work and live, they aren’t something done by people compared to dabbing, so when someone new comes along and extends his hand, I deal with the anxiety of a possible limp handshake.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 10:12 AM
1

Until you're not swimming in a medium t-shirt, you should be focused first on building up the muscle for a masculine physique and bulking for an indefinite period of time. Once that's achieved and you have a solid amount of muscle, then you can focus on shedding off the fat. Because while 175lbs at 10% is a nice pit stop, the goal will still be 210 at 10%.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 08:40 AM
1

Wow. This girl is really doing her best to keep you in her orbit and you are falling for it. There isn't even any outliers that make this story unique. Your oneitis runs so deep. This is a classic example of so many things TRP warns you about (competition anxiety, orbiter, let's just be friends, stringing along, male hamstering), and you're still sitting here wondering if you'll get the validation you're hoping for to pursue her. You're not going to find that here. Maybe check /r/dating or /r/as…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 08:31 AM
1

The only thing I'm giving my girlfriend for Christmas this year is a butt plug.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 12:47 AM
1

Quick conversations are normal, even at the gym. In the free weight area especially, it's not rare to find some guys shooting the shit with each other between sets. What's weird is spending an extended period of time taking up space, talking. There is a guy at my gym who spends at least an hour talking to the counter rep, who comes out onto the floor and they spend so long just taking up space at some benches or some machines, and talking. I had a long workout today. When I got there, they were …
/r/TheRedPill07/12/17 09:39 AM
1

Yeah. Where is your delt work? More importantly, you don't work out your legs? You have absolutely no leg work being done. You're going to regret that so much later on. What's your primary goal? Define your goal. Do you want abs more, or do you want to get big? Which ever one is more important to you, that's the one you pick. You can do a mini cut if you want, where you're only cutting for a few weeks upwards to a month.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 12:47 AM
1

Great post. Solid point about AWALT. Something that bothers me about a lot of advice here, because it's taken quite literally too much of the time, when it's stated time and time again that its a generalization to aid in understanding the majority of women. In some ways its a great mental tool to help disassociate yourself from a woman and a tool to help prevent oneitis for men who are still working on reconditioning themselves from the Disney life they were raised to believe.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 10:09 PM
1

This isn't surprising. On the surface, a lot of the guys commenting on a lot of the content on here are still dealing with the affects of swallowing the pill. They're still angry at the revelation. There's anti-women comments everywhere. To someone who found this because of the news, and didn't seek it out, it comes across as a misogynistic community. Even if you filter out all of the guys in the anger phase who actually post some misogynistic comments, a lot of the content being produced can st…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 09:51 PM
1

Green flag women without any daddy issues want a daddy. Whether they're into the whole DD/lg thing, they want a man who they feel is authoritative and in charge. They want a man who they feel can protect them. They want a man who is physically imposing compared to them. They want a man who is strong and has a hard body, crafted from lifting. A woman who feels a man is her daddy is in a constant state of comfort, but also the man maintains the alpha attributes, because his position is one that co…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 08:42 PM
1

Comfort ways in ways that assert your masculine nature. Give her a massage. You’re going to get hard and you’re going to fuck. You’re creating comfort in her because you’re doing something seen to women as romantic, and you’re also reasserting your nature as a man to want to fuck her. Utilize your superior strength. That is by far the highest rated masculine quality that women both find arousing and creates comfort in the relationship because you appeal to her as a protector. Display your streng…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 05:10 PM
1

What are you jealous about? Did she reveal that she let other guys fuck her ass and she denies that to you? If it’s that or something similar, you should be jealous. A girl will open herself sexually to a high SMV man that from just looking at her makes her wet. If she’s denying that to you, or something similar to a sex act she’s done in the past but doesn’t do with you, you are going to have some problems. You’ve got an alpha widow.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 04:38 PM
1

I got a text from my girlfriend once. She said she was crying. I asked her what she was crying about. She said she saw a really cute dog. I will never do that. My balls biologically prevent me from being a little bitch. If you're a man with substantial testosterone pumping through your body, your balls do the same. This is a petty example, but there is a biologically difference in the emotions of men and women that are so overlooked by society. It's true that we have rules that we live by that e…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 09:34 AM
1

Fucking.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 05:27 AM
1

Is poetry an interest to you already, or are you seeing that this is an interest to her and trying to appeal to her interest? If so, you need to give The Rational Male a read, because this is the exact opposite of what you need to be doing (altering yourself to appearing more like her).
/r/askTRP06/12/17 02:16 AM
1

Fair. You might want to include these things in your OP. The scenarios you provided where you're asking for blowjobs and accepting them even if she's clearly disinterested and would rather play video games are not strong cases to lay out before asking if you're being too alpha. The examples in this post are a little better and fall more in line with RP values.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 02:13 AM
1

Am I being too harsh or too alpha too early on? You're not being alpha at all, bro. You don't negotiate sex. If she isn't giving you sex, you aren't attractive enough to her. This can be fixed by not being around her so much, by lifting, and by not being her puppy, which it seems like you are. You don't accept maintenance sex, and you don't ask for head. Especially not in a relationship that's 6 years in the making. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 01:58 AM
1

You can drive home on the weekends. You're going to love the independence, and if home is close enough that it isn't even an hour away, then you're at a good spot. Being out of the house is a great experience.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 01:50 AM
1

"Yes, and a few guys."
/r/askTRP06/12/17 01:48 AM
1

You're going to be missing out on a lot of social opportunities if you opt for dorm. And I'm not talking about the chances for getting laid. I'm talking about networking, making friends, developing yourself socially, and making great memories. The majority of commuters don't involve themselves in activities on campus and they miss out on a lot of socialization.
/r/askTRP06/12/17 01:35 AM
1

Doesn't sound at all like oneitis to me. Oneitis is an obsession towards a woman and fantasy view of her being "the only one." You aren't obsessed with her. Sounds to me like you're just fed up with the hypocrisy of her comments regarding exclusivity. I do think that you've probably "settled" in regards to being comfortable with this girl and you may feel that you don't need to be going out and having sex elsewhere. If this is something you're okay with, so be it. I don't really believe in advis…
/r/askTRP05/12/17 10:09 AM
1

I see quite a bit of potential. Pack on some muscle and focus on that consistently. Once you’ve got some nice definition, go out.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 09:41 PM
1

The concept of a fake alpha is one I can't relate to or begin to understand. A man does not simply become alpha and is suddenly alpha in all situations in his life. This is because the world isn't made to work like that, and there are different social dynamics at work in every relationship in one's life. Not to mention, being alpha isn't so black and white. There's a spectrum of behaviors and traits that align with alpha and there's a spectrum of behaviors and traits that align with beta. Everyo…
/r/askTRP04/12/17 12:38 PM
1

I feel like I'm about to burst. And do what? Let everyone know that you guys fucked?
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:55 PM
1

I find that the moment I get home and start to relax, that's when I start to slow down. If I keep myself out of the house and moving around and doing things, then I can push through what would normally be my ~take a nap~ period where a nap would be ideal.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:39 PM
1

Does she bring him up in conversations that have nothing to do with him? Recalls things that happened while being involved with him that are similar to situations you're currently in?
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:33 PM
1

Letting girls know that you're a surgeon is a quick way to become beta bucks.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:31 PM
1

By fucking girls who aren’t adults and are teenagers like you. This could create a lot of problems...
/r/askTRP03/12/17 07:02 AM
1

Then do what you want and fuck the other girl. Your "main" girl doesn't need to know this, you aren't committed to her.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 06:02 AM
1

Bulk bro. Eat way more than what you're used to. If you can't eat it, then drink it. Get your protein in, and get a lot of it. Utilize protein drinks if you have to. And then lift, lift, lift. Progressively increase the weight as you go along, and do it consistent. Consistency is key. 3 months alone of solid lifting without skipping any workouts and constantly looking to increase the weight and high intensity and you'll be a new man. I wasn't kidding when I said in my other comment that this bit…
/r/askTRP03/12/17 06:00 AM
1

Lift consistently for 6 months and the girl who tells you to shut up and kill yourself will be all over you.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 03:50 AM
1

Dude, they are going to eye fuck you anyway. Might as well take it as a compliment and a recognition that you're making great progress. Gay guys hit on me more than women do; just thank them and be on your way. Saying "Thanks bro" usually is enough for them to connect the dots and make the assumption that you're straight.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 03:37 AM
1

She feels like a slut and wants to make sure you know it's "not her fault" and she's "not that kind of girl."
/r/askTRP03/12/17 02:38 AM
1

How’s your history with this girl? How long have you known her? If you just met, agree with her statement by not replying or saying “yup.” If you’ve known her longer, comment with what said.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 02:00 AM
1

As far as TRP is concerned, you're displaying too many beta traits and it's at a cost of losing her attraction to you. If she has any left, it'll take a while to gain it back. Consider the possibility that she has written you off as a sexual partner and is looking into other possibilities (by partying and going out with her friends).
/r/askTRP02/12/17 11:36 PM
1

The only one who looks ok to me is the model... I see what you are preaching OP but my hair is important to me.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 07:53 PM
1

I actively delete my comments.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 06:16 AM
1

Is this because she thinks you’re a womanizer who uses these women?
/r/askTRP02/12/17 06:00 AM
1

What do you mean by talking as a masculine man to her is hard? What are you trying to talk about with her?
/r/askTRP02/12/17 03:17 AM
1

Just fuck her
/r/askTRP01/12/17 06:06 PM
1

Is your teacher a woman?
/r/askTRP01/12/17 05:37 PM
3

Chad isn't someone to endlessly jerk off to at the ease he pulls women. Chad is just a reminder that there is always someone who is better in some way to you. Every Chad has a Chad, and to some guy, you yourself could be his Chad.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 10:07 PM
1

I need to say this... I can’t fucking stand seeing these on my Facebook. I’m so tired of this metoo shit. When one person claims one thing and sees the support the cucks give them, 10 more follow. Obviously some are serious, but most of their stories are just someone coming up to them unexpectedly and complimenting them and coming on a little too strong. Being autistic and not picking up on the body language and cues a woman gives for complete disinterest does not mean you were sexually harassed…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:17 PM
1

Re: walk I think the best way to describe a masculine walk is walking as if you aren’t wearing any underwear. Your balls are hanging, and your goal is to not let your balls swing and hit your thighs. So walk with your legs slightly spread out a little wider than you would “naturally” walk. A slight swing in the hips and a very subtle kick in your step creates a really powerful presence. Keep your head up and back in its proper erect position, and flex your chest slightly. Adjust your posture so …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 02:45 PM
1

Soft next her. Wait until she contacts you. Lead the discussion towards a prospective date, or let her lead it to it. Shut her down for her initial date proposal because you're busy that day. Offer her an alternative, and not a Friday or Saturday night.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 02:48 AM
1

Abundance mentality and lack of availability.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 02:41 AM
1

It's beneficial to let her come to the conclusion that suggests you could be seeing other people. It creates competition anxiety and dread, and she's more inclined to go out of her way to meet your needs and desires, which should be predominantly sexual.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 02:37 AM
1

Women act on their feelings, which are fickle. Remember that.
/r/askTRP23/10/17 02:36 AM
1

That's highly unlikely. Not impossible, but highly unlikely.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 03:15 AM
5

I'm of the opinion that a man should be the dominant force in the relationship (an all encasing term here; not specifically a relationship). That said, I don't think its a big deal if a woman makes the first move, especially if it's just to let you know that she thinks you're attractive and is giving you a chance to pursue her by giving you her number. Just assert some dominance and confidence moving forward and have her follow you and fall into your frame.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:46 AM
1

Let her brain rationalize it in her head on her own. Don't apologize for blowing too early, ever. Just give her a compliment - usually a good one is just saying that she's so tight or hot that it's hard to contain yourself. This is generally a non issue in the act, though, and almost always results in a second sex session.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:38 AM
1

If you think that'll be the case, have her blow you and cum in her mouth. Compliment her to feed her hamster, then return the favor and escalate to penetration when your refractory period is over.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:32 AM
1

Definitely don't jack off before potential sex. I'd advise you to stop jacking off altogether, actually, if not in very scarce times and not often at all. Jacking off resets your sex drive in a way. You're satisfied, so you become inhibited during sex. You're less likely to respond to your animalistic impulses, which is what you should be doing during sex to make it more exciting. You're less inclined to push for sex, because you already got it. It also has other factors as well, like less likel…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:28 AM
1

It's not normal. That's why people joke about not lasting long the first time, because the first time, guys usually get off really quickly. First encounter was because, like I said, I was used to death grip.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:21 AM
0

I don't understand your question. The minutes I gave are the times spent continuously thrusting. Foreplay isn't included in that time, and the women I've been with respond better with very quick (like 4 minutes max) foreplay.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:16 AM
1

So what's your question?
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:13 AM
1

My first time I lasted around 45 minutes, but the sweet spot for sex is between 15 and 30 minutes, usually. Anything more than that for the actual intercourse and it becomes difficult for the girl to continue because at that point she's already orgasmed (or should have), and dried up, so sex becomes painful. You'll feel this also. TRP emphasizes on focusing on your pleasure, but it's pretty hard to find yourself in a pleasurable situation when the girl is in obvious discomfort. You can turn her …
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:10 AM
1

Escalating is the kino. Asking her what music she likes isn't a form of escalating. Escalation escalates to something more. Escalation is a step towards sex. Breaking the physical barrier by touching her is the only way to escalate. Escalate and isolate.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:04 AM
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I'm going to assume you have some more circumstances at work, but exercising abundance mentality and soft nexting should do the trick.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:01 AM
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It's from squeezing too hard during masturbation - much tighter than any vagina. Masturbating with death grip makes it harder for your penis to respond to the sensations a pussy gives, because pussy isn't as tight.
/r/askTRP22/10/17 02:00 AM
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When I lost my virginity, I told her ahead of time that she was my first. But I could have gotten away without telling her. This was in thanks to a large part of being accustomed to death grip and I was pretty receptive to what she was reacting to. Honestly, it doesn't take much to get away with coming across as not a virgin. I'm not saying you'll be a stud to her in bed, but things that work against guys deep into sexual acts (like porn and masturbation) tend to be a little helpful to those jus…
/r/askTRP22/10/17 01:53 AM
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Create the link of being a high value individual who isn't tied down to one woman. Gives that one woman a sense of "I have to fight to make sure he likes me best because my goal is to lock this man down while I can."
/r/askTRP17/10/17 01:19 AM
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Two questions first, because from what I can tell she was definitely interested and into it, so I'm focused now on her own mental frame: Is it possible she was on her period and was a bloody mess? Have you considered the possibility that she didn't shave and that was embarrassing to her? Both of these things aren't things that most girls are comfortable with with new partners. Some get extremely embarrassed even though most guys don't give a fuck. But in these situations, its how she views herse…
/r/askTRP14/10/17 09:28 PM
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From what I'm reading, you're going about applying game the wrong way. You're making effort into getting gaming, but you don't need to make too much of an effort. Being distant and aloof with a woman is proven to be a much better method of getting what you want when gaming. You don't need to fake being positive. You can be brooding and intense; it's preferred. Give a vibe of mystery and danger, but also pull her in enough to create comfort. I'm not going to beat around the bush. I need sex, and …
/r/askTRP14/10/17 12:26 PM
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/r/incels?
/r/askTRP14/10/17 12:10 PM
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It's at your own discretion. How professional of an environment is it? I worked at a restaurant before and everyone fucked everyone pretty much. I worked at a warehouse and everyone fucked everyone. I worked at an office in a car rental place and everyone fucked everyone. But the majority of the employees were 20-something year olds so while it was frowned upon it was also to be expected. They say don't shit where you eat because of what could happen down the line and that's a smart thing to say…
/r/askTRP14/10/17 12:08 PM
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Mathematically speaking, you're a Chad to someone.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 12:05 PM
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I choose to believe we are all someone's Chad.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 12:03 PM
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How do you feel about your own masculinity? Do you feel like you are a man? Ultimately a lot of the time when guys need validation from others it’s in the form of respect and solidifies in their mind that they are seen by their peers (other men) as men themselves. Could be because a lack of a male model in their life growing up, or insecurities.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 08:34 AM
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It’s normal to overhype it. You’re getting pussy, and as much as you logically know it’s not a big deal, as a straight man, pussy is pretty high up on our list of desires. But overhyping it tends to lead to unfortunate circumstances, like not being able to keep a hard on. Happens to me and attempting to fix it only worsens it. You gotta accept defeat and try again organically later. Remind yourself that you aren’t special for it. There’s millions of guys who are balls deep in that moment. That’s…
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:55 AM
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“Don’t forget the condoms!” I’m not concerned. If she cheats, I’m breaking up with her. Her loss. If she doesn’t, she knows that I’m not worried about other guys being around her.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:51 AM
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We are gonna need more description to help you out bro. How do you act? Do you escalate? Kino? Exhibit sexual attraction? Are you assertive? Dominant? Confident?
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:47 AM
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You’re in your head bro. You’re remembering what happened before and it’s sticking to you. You gotta shake it off like it’s no big deal and treat it that way in your mind. Don’t hype yourself up either when you’re about to get some pussy. So what? Bring yourself down to a level headed mind and you should draw down the performance anxiety.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:44 AM
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Dude we’ve all been there. Happened to me last week. I played it off as best I could but obviously was disappointed. Sometimes there’s a disconnect between the mental and physical that no matter how hard you try to correct, ends up getting worse and worse the more you try. Why? Because you’re stressing about it on top of whatever pre-sex nerves and excitement you have. The stimulus is too much for your dick to handle, so it stops operating as expected until you get home and are about to go to sl…
/r/askTRP14/10/17 04:36 AM
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Just a heads up that you used the word static, but static means that it can't change.
/r/askTRP14/10/17 01:10 AM
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No, what I’m suggesting is changing the way that your mind is thinking of your interaction with her. Game her, but trick your mind by convincing yourself that you aren’t gaming her. That’s probably harder for some people to do, but I’ve found that my mind is pretty susceptible to my own mind games. Maybe I’m delusional.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 01:44 PM
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What if you approach a woman you intend to game and frame it in your mind as simply approaching them to socialize?
/r/askTRP13/10/17 01:26 PM
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It’s just about men’s rights from a females perspective.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 02:37 PM
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I looked through your post history and you need to find your balls and break up with this toxic child.
/r/askTRP11/10/17 08:48 AM
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OP: Don't kill her.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 09:58 PM
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Take her on a hike or go walk around in a secluded forest. Escalate and fuck her on a tree stump.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 09:54 PM
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I recommend The Way of Men by Jack Donovan.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 09:42 PM
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I honestly got excited that I saw it on TV. Was surprised nobody posted about it. But I'm also really disappointed that they link it to a psychopathic murderer. Expected, but still disappointed.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 09:36 PM
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Maybe I'm misunderstanding your post?
/r/askTRP10/10/17 06:51 PM
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"I'm not shielded against getting involved, it just doesn't happen easily, but her defensive behavior is a fucking red flag and caused me to raise some barriers against it." Really, though? Females seek commitment when she has a man of value. She doesn't want you fucking other girls. This goes against your desires, but to raise a red flag over her distrust of you as the idea of you fucking other girls? A woman's sexual strategy is not the same as a man's. Don't expect it to be.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 06:42 PM
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Next time she tells you she’s just “letting” you be dominant, forcefully grab her arms and turn her around and push her against a wall (like you’re arresting her) and say sneakily “Oh, you’re just letting me be dominant, huh?”
/r/askTRP10/10/17 11:13 AM
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Your LTR cheated on you and instead of breaking up with her you went to a therapist?
/r/askTRP10/10/17 09:58 AM
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Escalating normally is very vague. Define normal. Two steps back and try again. Remember, no big deal you’re a cool guy. Make out some more with some heavy touching and some desire talk and then try again after you re-establish comfort. She’s naked at this point. It’s something that she wants but is scared to actually do. Comfort is key.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 04:04 AM
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How have you tried? What does she do to stop you?
/r/askTRP10/10/17 03:57 AM
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Stop talking about it and escalate. Handle LMR the way it’s suggested.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 03:55 AM
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You're seeking rationalizations in your mind for not going out. You can go out and commute to college, and live with your parents. If you're looking for a lay, it becomes a little more difficult depending on your parents. But you can still just go out. Though this depends on where you are in your part of the world, even the most small of towns have a couple of bars hidden away. Bars are an optimal place to meet people. Utilize your social network to find local happenings where you live. Join clu…
/r/askTRP10/10/17 03:06 AM
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Are you a virgin? Sometimes losing your virginity and actually having sex is enough to spark your sex drive. That's what it was like for me. Before I was ever with a woman, I had absolute minimal sex drive. I figured, if I'm horny, I can just masturbate. Then when I lost my virginity, pussy became much more important to me.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 03:00 AM
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Are you really asking for proof that men are scientifically stronger than women?
/r/askTRP10/10/17 02:55 AM
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When did you ask her out?
/r/askTRP10/10/17 01:55 AM
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Because this sub is mainly used for relationship advice with women. And for most red pill guys, the main aspect of it is sex.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 06:28 PM
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You don’t have to look for red pill approval for decisions. At the end of the day, red pill is about living your life to your own accord and enjoying all the aspects of life that there is to offer you while being aware of the conditioning of the world around you.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 06:26 PM
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If you don’t like your face, change it.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 06:24 PM
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Apparently not functional enough for you. Instead of having sex, you were talking about it. Take the initiative next time and escalate.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 04:28 AM
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Do you truly not know what frame is? It’s an essential aspect of TRP.
/r/askTRP09/10/17 02:56 AM
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I recommend adding "Stop seeking validation through others." as an important part of the plan. Half shitting you, half serious. Good goals. Remain committed and dedicated.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 01:43 PM
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Required reading: Sex God Method. But, to answer your question... Well, first and foremost, stop jerking off and stop watching porn. That's the universal Red Pill advice. The intention behind this is to allow yourself to automatically be hornier in interactions with women and using that to fuel the interaction. The hornier you are, the more animalistic you are. The more that it's a hunt. Even if you're in a LTR. A nervous feeling is also a feeling of excitement. I'd imagine almost every guy who …
/r/askTRP08/10/17 01:07 PM
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Well if that’s the kind of reply that you want to dish back to others, I recommend just listening to what people say in your day to day life and thinking of quick comebacks. Doesn’t have to be witty. And don’t sexualize a remark first. That’s usually not an effective way. In your example, they opened the door to sexuality by suggesting it first. My process of thinking when I read that immediately went like this “Guy is telling me to jerk off. Society sees that as weak in males. Better to use his…
/r/askTRP07/10/17 05:51 PM
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This is the kind of response that enlightens me the most when I asked this question. But it draws another question. In a world so feminized and masculine shaming, it's hard to really know what a man's nature is, much less become truly aware of it. Any thoughts?
/r/askTRP07/10/17 04:09 PM
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Was this a woman? If so, interesting how she brought it to your dick. I find that you need to have quick wit and respond to this with a sharp tongue. My immediate thought in this situation would have been “Why use my hand when I can use your mouth?” or something along those lines.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 04:01 PM
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You can agree and amplify, or you can pressure flip back. Both are pretty effective.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:45 PM
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If you give some examples of when you break frame we can give more helpful advice.
/r/askTRP07/10/17 03:41 PM
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Message her back and say “Show daddy what that tongue can do.”
/r/askTRP07/10/17 08:38 AM
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Put this into perspective: the Red Pill emphasizes putting yourself above all else; make yourself stronger, get better, uncompromisingly go for what you want, and so on and so forth. Your girlfriend of 6 months... 6 months... steps over a boundary that shouldn't need to be written out to her. Rather than being concerned about what you want, you're concerned about what the Red Pill solution to this is. How do you want to respond to this?
/r/askTRP28/09/17 12:47 AM
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The same way you would if you didn’t know. Body language, and kino. You can escalate anywhere. The great thing about knowing she is interested already is you have a pretty safe pass to push the boundaries a little more aggressively, which reaps it’s own rewards even with uncertainty.
/r/askTRP27/09/17 11:11 PM
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The most important thing you need to do is to make yourself the focal point of your life (mental point of origin). Develop a frame that makes it abundantly clear that you are the centerpiece of your life and maintain that frame by exhibiting assurance, confidence, and dominance in who you are and what you do. Find a mission, set goals, and achieve them. Make new goals. Go for what you want, unapologetically and relentlessly. Do not stray from the path that will achieve what you want to achieve. …
/r/askTRP27/09/17 07:10 PM
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