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AJam/r/seduction18/05/20 11:50 PM
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AJam/r/seduction28/02/15 05:38 PM
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AJam/r/seduction26/09/14 12:55 PM
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So you space your texts out days apart? I usually do 3 or so a day. If I go a whole day without texting someone I feel like I'm ghosting them..
/r/seduction29/05/21 04:53 PM
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This makes sense before a first date and maybe before a 2nd date. But after 3-4 dates shouldn't you transition to texting more often? At what point does it become more of a conversion than a statement?
/r/seduction29/05/21 04:50 PM
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Some good advice here. Much appreciated. Would be interesting if the mods added some kind of pinned thread or sidebar of screenshots of successful texting conversations!
/r/seduction19/05/20 10:09 PM
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It sounds like you're just taking advantage of drunk college girls. That busty one just lost her virginity in a bathroom and is going to regret it for the rest of her life and Y is just a jealous competitive slut. Is game all about getting an easy lay on drunk insecure chicks? I don't think so.
/r/seduction26/10/14 12:40 AM
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I didn't read this so sorry if it was brought up, but my advice is to join a dating site. It's filled with people who just want to hook up. Join them all. If you text game is even remotely decent, then it's super easy. But you have to have the balls to message girls first and to follow through with the dates. Online dating is the easiest thing in the world if you're just looking to hookup / practise your game.
/r/seduction28/03/14 12:57 PM
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Its creepy when you don't say anything. Them bumping into you is definitely them wanting you to pick them up. You have to say something like 'Hi' or 'what's your name' or 'let's dance' and then grab their waist or arm or hand. Its only creepy if you just start grinding on them no words or smile or eye contact.
/r/seduction09/02/14 03:50 PM
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and schizo
/r/seduction13/12/13 02:18 PM
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There's a lot of rehashed vague advice here, so hopefully you read this one, cause this will solve your woes. I know where you're coming from. Woman can sense the desperation, and it's so hard to not be desparate when everything in life is about sex and relationships and your friends are all getting laid and seem to have these perfect lives -- and you would give up everything for a little intimacy in your life. I am just saying this to prove that I know where you're coming from so maybe you'll t…
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:14 PM
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I agree with you about how in a reverse situation you will very likely get slapped / kicked out. Unfortunately, we live in society with double standards so that's not really a solid argument. I do, however, like your Brad Pitt line of thinking. But to continue on with that, let's say a drunk chick does grab his butt. You think he would be stuck up and shot her a dirty look? I don't see it that way. You still have to maintain positivity and playfulness throughout. This chick is obviously not a re…
/r/seduction26/11/13 07:57 PM
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That's all you, pal. You have to converse naturally. And if it doesn't go well it might be her dropping the ball.
/r/seduction12/11/13 02:38 AM
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I don't really like preset lines because they take you out of your element. They put a 'fake' impression on the communication. If you're a generally witty person then you can turn anything into a pickup line, using what they say and then providing a clever response. I'm not very good with stuff like that, so I just converse and I keep it short. Opener, introduction, exchange. If you focus too much on a template or pickup line it may come out forced and your focus should be on the interaction, no…
/r/seduction11/11/13 04:50 PM
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First, you have to consider your mutually shared location. At a Thai Express, ask her what her favourite item on the menu is or what she recommends. At a concert ask her what her favourite song is, her favourite album, how long has she has been a fan of Coldplay, whatever. Ask her for the time while wearing a watch (as was stated in a previous seddit thread). Ask her for directions to some local place. Compliment something she is wearing / doing that is unusual or that she is likely proud of. "T…
/r/seduction11/11/13 03:55 PM
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I'm surprised this article is so well-accepted. To me it's mostly bullshit unrealistic advice. Most of the points ask you to be something you're not. "Be this and do that". That's already wrong. Be who you are and rock the shit out of it. Do what you enjoy because life is too short to be doing things you don't. If you genuinely enjoy your life with what little you have, then you'll stop worrying about what you don't have and those things will come. Life is a paradox.
/r/seduction22/10/13 02:25 PM
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I don't know why people are downvoting you. You just asked a simple question..
/r/seduction17/10/13 01:18 PM
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and now you can re-DENNIS that chick any time you want! It's brilliant!
/r/seduction26/08/13 12:43 PM
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You wrote a lot, but said very little
/r/seduction23/08/13 03:28 PM
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Great post. This is how you do it, folks! As for the story-telling.. I'm awful at it. I don't remember what I ate for breakfast this morning, let alone a story about my past. If you are a story-teller, make sure you write down widely universal or applicable stories. Random stories aren't as effective as relevant ones. For people like me who suck at stories, I find observations to be very effective and applicable to both of you. For example, at a bar you can comment on the drinks, decor, bartende…
/r/seduction03/04/13 07:01 PM
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There's a fine line between confident and arrogant. This crosses it in my opinion. Humbleness is the way to go. You don't TELL her you're awesome, you SHOW her that you're awesome.
/r/seduction25/03/13 04:46 PM
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it's easy to convince yourself that your physical appearance is the reason why you have no luck with women, but it's because you accept this that it becomes a reality. I've seen 4's with 9's, and there wasn't even any money involved. Women may care about your looks, but they care more about that you care about your looks.
/r/seduction20/02/13 08:01 PM
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I've been reading a book on the subconscious mind and its power over reality. Basically it asserts that your conscious mind evaluates the information you receive through your own perception, and this information is passed onto the subconscious mind, which will take whatever the conscious mind tells it at face value, without question. Basically I started consciously thinking positively about my life and situations, regardless of how shitty they are, and things actually started picking up. I skimm…
/r/seduction04/01/13 05:58 PM
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RIP Hairy_Wolverine
/r/seduction25/12/12 12:43 AM
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you are who you surround yourself with
/r/seduction25/12/12 12:43 AM
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walk us through the approach with her parents and sisters, you stud you..
/r/seduction07/12/12 06:04 PM
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i've been talking about fight club way too much.. that must be where i'm going wrong
/r/seduction28/11/12 09:33 PM
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Hahah! If you intentionally made her family hate you at Thanksgiving for this girl then you would be crazy one. You did good. She's obviously got issues..
/r/seduction24/11/12 01:10 AM
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I'm not following here.. She invites you to Thanksgiving, you totally hit it off with everyone, and accepting her invite and her brother liking you leads to her disinterest in you? Can someone help me out. I must be missing something..
/r/seduction23/11/12 09:49 PM
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People love talking about themselves, especially when you seem genuinely interested. Should I ask for their opinions on things or for concrete facts about themselves? And what are examples of cold read statements? Are they observations about the surroundings, opinions on the current topic being discussed, whats in the news today?
/r/seduction19/11/12 06:36 PM
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Great stuff. I want to be like that. How do you just open with complete strangers? Do you just ask them questions? Do you talk about yourself? I feel like just asking them questions can be annoying, especially when you start asking stuff like "Whats your favourite beer?", "Do you watch the Walking Dead?", "Seen any good movies lately?" -- stuff that's completely unrelated, but you've run out of relevant questions. Or if I talk about myself, then I feel like I'm just being conceded and that it wo…
/r/seduction19/11/12 05:21 PM
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nothing ventured, nothing gained
/r/seduction26/10/12 02:04 PM
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This guy put it best
/r/seduction19/10/12 08:34 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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