Send your text and forget about it

XtraSaucyy · 2021-05-29T02:28:43+00:00

Bump. This should also double as don’t think about her so much either. Like after the first date or meeting. She’s not the only girl. It isn’t the end of the world. Worrying about yourself and making yourself better is way better for your health.

tehrealdirtydan · 2021-05-29T04:31:47+00:00

If she wants to talk to you, she will. If she goes a day or more without responding, she saw it and hasn't replied cuz she doesn't want to.

I'm bad to think of something else I wanna say and end up sending several texts. But I always tell the person if they dont know me that I'm not texting multiple times cuz they haven't responded, it's cuz I thought of more to say.

But you deserve someone who puts in the same amount of effort, who WANTS and makes time to talk to you, and who is genuinely interested. Put the ball in their court.

If a girl wants to talk to you, they will.

viking600 · 2021-05-29T06:14:56+00:00

indeed. wasting time on some1 is not good. its better to make things in ur life. learning something is far better than thinking about some1. that will boost ur confidence as well.

that27thkid · 2021-05-29T06:06:48+00:00

One of the few things on this sub that’s actually worth following. Well said.

GracieFairmont86 · 2021-05-29T11:26:42+00:00

I couldn't agree more. Women are important, but every man needs things to do that are even more important, like focusing on goals, fitness,hobbies, relationships with family and friends.

A woman should be like a protein shake-a supplement to an already good life.

If you got a good life and on your purpose, and always have something better to do, rejection in all forms becomes irrelevant and you move on unphased like a man, and you will never again have to worry about "what to say".

ExcellentItem · 2021-05-29T09:47:22+00:00

You never get left on "Seen", if you never check for a reply taps forehead

Maybe I'm extra-sensitive, but even coming from a friend who means no harm, being left on Seen hurts my ego a bit. I never bother to check for a reply until I get the notification. My rule for girls is : if she hasn't responded to a text/social media message and I have the urge to see if the message is still on "delivered" or left on "seen", time to back off the emotional investment.

AnAngryYordle · 2021-05-29T04:48:43+00:00

Funny thing is I do tho with friends as well, not just with texting girls. I need some time to figure out what I‘m gonna say. Not because I‘m worried by how it will be perceived, but because I‘m just slow and careful when it comes to conversation. I like to choose my words wisely.

Dahunar · 2021-05-29T09:01:06+00:00

What I do is allowing a (very short) "time budget" for texting a girl. I spend too much time on it ? Hit send or don't text, you better off spending time on what's next for you. I should have only few attention or care to give to a stranger or new acquaintance.

thenameofme · 2021-05-29T09:30:35+00:00

Nailed it. What the one rule of manhood? Be a man. That is what she wants, what doesn't want her.

Aggravating_Farm_125 · 2021-05-29T16:08:42+00:00

I met this girl at a gathering that I was looking forward to meeting for the first time. I had been up for 15 hours and felt like shit (excuse?) But I still went. I talked to her and whenever it got quite she restarted the conversation. I couldn’t find shit to say because I was literally sleep deprived. I didn’t even ask for her number but I text her on FaceBook the next day. I’m nervous on her reply but at the same time I heard she wanted to meet me so I just told myself if she replies she replies if not on to the next one. Op is right. Go do something else and don’t obsess over it. Don’t decide for yourself that she’s not interested, let her tell you.

panzercampingwagen · 2021-05-29T10:58:18+00:00

So all people have to do is stop worrying so much? Wow I can't believe it's that simple, I wonder why nobody else ever thought of that.

loofyd · 2021-05-29T14:27:36+00:00

great advice ! all awards you received are thoroughly deserved !

If this is you, then chances are you're probably way more invested in a girl than you should be. You're worried about how she's going to react and if she'll text you back probably because you have nothing else going on in your life.

AND

I promise you she does, and it's not attractive to anybody when you're sitting around thinking ten different ways to ask her what she's doing Friday night and wondering when she'll get back to you.

Great core points for anyone who is starved/deprave of female company !

TLDR : don't invest like a fucking idiot ! there are literally millions of women out there !

Alive-Doughnut2345 · 2021-05-29T10:08:47+00:00

The timing for this was perfect this is exactly what I needed. Thank yooooou

Almighty_Pushh · 2021-05-29T13:19:20+00:00

I started this challenge this week. I texted two girls that i thought were interesting. Didn't quite work but it's quite an achievement for someone who's anxious of such approaches. Already feel like I'm getting more comfortable with girls.

2021-05-29T16:53:10+00:00

This is one of my biggest life lessons I ever learned like 3 or 4 years ago for me and it served me so well since

L1ttl3Lun4 · 2021-05-29T08:25:50+00:00

"stop worrying so much"

That's it, simple yet very true

xavierthepotato · 2021-05-29T12:32:39+00:00

Continue with the drive to seduce. But do not become overfixiated on the outcome of things. If things go well, great! If not, that's okay. Regardless you'll be fine. And always make it seem like there's a possible 'next' in line.

oceaneyesbillie · 2021-05-29T15:16:53+00:00

This is good. Texted a guy recently, got a bit of a vulnerability hangover and then was like stuff it, I did what was best for me. And then gave him the choice to do the same.

hopefullyimadoctor · 2021-05-29T17:27:11+00:00

Damn are you in my mind this is exactly what I needed rn. Brb I’m gonna go watch some anime

redmodsarefagslol · 2021-05-29T13:28:56+00:00

This is terrible advice lol you send a text and go fuck off on a game or walk for 2 hours and she realizes you’ve ignored her for 2 hours she’ll just drop you from rotation lol

thenameofme · 2021-05-29T09:32:03+00:00

That's weird

AJam · 2021-05-29T16:50:29+00:00

This makes sense before a first date and maybe before a 2nd date. But after 3-4 dates shouldn't you transition to texting more often? At what point does it become more of a conversion than a statement?

chromelogan · 2021-05-29T17:13:15+00:00

Yep. Great advice!

2021-05-29T18:08:09+00:00

Personally I just use the phone for setting dates, if you text a girl too much you’ll effectively become her gay male girlfriend

Impress-Limp · 2021-05-29T19:11:40+00:00

This was for me😁

2021-05-29T21:04:21+00:00

100% - my friends always always ask me what to say to girls over text even down to punctuation placement and emojis it gets ridiculous

2021-05-30T02:12:20+00:00

You: "Hey"

Them: "Hey"

You: "Who dis?"

2021-08-05T13:20:37+00:00

This.

Title	Send your text and forget about it
Author	franhd
Upvotes	965
Comments	55
Date	May 29, 2021 1:42 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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