| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThen please explain where I'm wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 02:20 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause she's making posts on a public platform where her body is the primary focus? And she's obviously very overweight? And your point most definitely is about her weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 02:19 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWould he have been fine if the woman he married actually loved him, yes or no? Dude explained pretty clearly that he had absolutely no problem providing for his wife, was faithful through the entirety of his marriage, and bent over backwards to try to make things work. If what he's saying is true, he's the archetypal husband. The only thing his childhood trauma caused was allowing this woman to step all over him for 7 years due to low self-esteem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 02:15 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe's fat. Her thighs are massive and she has literal belly rolls. Stop trying to normalize fatness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 02:08 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWatched the whole thing. Childhood trauma didn't "ruin his ability with women." All it did was facilitate the ability for a woman to manipulate him for 7 years. Dude would have been fine if the woman he married actually loved him, trauma or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 02:06 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHumans are gross and this physical existence is a curse CMV | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 01:15 AM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?But what you aren't understanding is that being with a single mom is not a "success" to most men. You're basing your argument with the assumption that men want single moms, which just isn't true for a majority of men. It's like you've created a trophy out of duct tape and you're waving it in men's faces going, "ohhh, i know you want this so bad, but you can't have it, losers." And the men are going...."i never wanted that in the first place. It's just not valuable to me." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 09:00 PM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?The premise of your argument is essentially, "you aren't allowed to have opinions on people that reject you, even if that rejection is theoretical. But I'm sure you have a lot of opinions on your parents. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 08:43 PM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?Exactly. So what is "not being rejected" by single moms proving? Nothing. And I'm allowed to have opinions of single moms, just like I'm allowed to have opinions on Gisele Bundchen and Harvard. Even if i'm "pre-rejected," that doesn't mean I can't say single motherhood is an undesirable trait and if given the option I would never choose to date a single mother. Just like I wouldn't date Gisele Budchen because she's a decade older than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 08:18 PM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?I mean, they aren't being rejected by single moms because most aren't asking out single moms to begin with. Your logic is dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 08:03 PM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?Insinuating men are trying to attract single moms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 07:23 PM |
| – | CMV: Hypergamy doesn't make senseDo you not have eyes? Why would you need a source for this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 04:19 PM |
| – | CMV: Hypergamy doesn't make senseAre you kidding? Are you just ignoring the fact that people leave their partners/cheat all the time, and it's always with someone that looks better/is wealthier/has more to offer? People spend their entire lives working in order to upgrade. New house, new car, new phone--bigger, better, newer, fancier is literally the driving force of the economy. Also, you're in the extreme minority of people who wouldn't accept a brand new car for free because of "wastefulness." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 04:06 PM |
| – | CMV: Hypergamy doesn't make senseHypergamy is just a matter of human nature. People love to upgrade to bigger, better, newer models. If you're driving around in a Corolla and you're given the option to upgrade to an S-class free of charge without any strings attached, most people aren't going to be loyal to their corolla. They're going to ditch it and never look back. Relationships are the same way, and it's the reason loyalty is such a valuable trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 03:49 PM |
| – | CMV: Virtually all men will eventually get sex/relationships, it's just happening later than it used toShit's fucked. Hope your friend remains strong and doesn't let that situation change his good-heartendess 🫡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 06:02 AM |
| – | CMV: most women would choose a physically unattractive neurotypical man over a very physically attractive high functioning autistic manI audibly groaned at this comment. Major eye roll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 05:28 AM |
| – | CMV: most women would choose a physically unattractive neurotypical man over a very physically attractive high functioning autistic manNot all autistic people have an inability to maintain friendships, are unemployed, have outbursts, or cant take care of themselves. If that were the case, you'd be considered very "low functioning" anyways. In any case, the anti-normative tendencies of a mildly autistic chad are going to be ignored, just like women ignore the plethora of red flags other men have so long as he's very attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 01:15 AM |
| – | CMV: Virtually all men will eventually get sex/relationships, it's just happening later than it used toHow are most men expected to be in relationships when it's predicted that 45% of women ages 25 - 44 will be single and childless by 2030? Are you suggesting that most men are just going to wait until they're into their 50s before being settled for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:20 PM |
| – | Why are women immediately turned off by guys who lack experience?No, you don't. If you did, your gender wouldn't routinely enter into relationships with abusive men, get manipulated by men who use you for sex, and get your hearts broken by men who treat women like they're objects. You aren't as discerning as you think you are. No one is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 10:11 PM |
| – | Why are women immediately turned off by guys who lack experience?As someone who is still a virgin, I've decided to stop trying to understand. It's all so contradictory and confusing. I'm better off opting out than trying to wrap my head around this puzzle lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 09:09 PM |
| – | Why are women immediately turned off by guys who lack experience?No it doesn't. Women don't "sense misogyny." That's the biggest pile of garbage I've ever heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 08:50 PM |
| – | Why are women immediately turned off by guys who lack experience?I love how women act like sex requires a PHD in female anatomy to be good at it. "I don't want to walk them through every step." It's not like sex is a difficult thing to do with proper communication. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 08:31 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadALL PENISES ARE BEAUTIFUL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateHow many times do women flat-out reject men's advances every day? Tens of thousands of times? Your potential of being hurt due to rejecting someone is virtually non-existent. Just like the potential of your parter killing your kids. It just doesn't happen often at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 02:53 PM |
| 14 | Today a London schoolgirl was murdered for refusing to go out with her classmateYou should do a google search on the number of women killing their own children. It far outweighs the amount of girls being killed for romantically rejecting someone. However, "until the risk of women killing their children goes away, men should stop having kids with them." ^ see how dumb that sounds, even though the risk is greater? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 02:40 PM |
| – | Men, do you actually reject women for this reason?You're a rare breed. Very based though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 05:15 AM |
| – | Men, do you actually reject women for this reason?To each their own, I guess. I'd rather have the whole truth than pull the wool over my own eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 05:08 AM |
| – | Men, do you actually reject women for this reason?"Don't ask don't tell" is just living in ignorance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 05:04 AM |
| – | Men, do you actually reject women for this reason?100% am not interested in anyone with a past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 04:56 AM |
| – | As a woman why should I get married?Gets lonely after 40. All your friends are going to be married at some point, probably. I don't plan on getting married either, but as I'm approaching my 30s, I am starting to realize just how lonely it's going to be. My parents won't be around forever, either. If I don't have a social outlet or anything that I'm seriously devoted to tethering me to this earth, I'll probably be checking out at age 55 - 60 if I don't have a family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 04:05 AM |
| – | Why can't people just be honest with men when it comes to online dating? You aren't getting 0 matches because your pictures are bad, you're getting no matches because you're ugly.Right, so all those men with abhorrent match rates are just a figment of my imagination. 99.2% aren't ugly Delusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 09:35 AM |
| – | Why can't people just be honest with men when it comes to online dating? You aren't getting 0 matches because your pictures are bad, you're getting no matches because you're ugly.https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/16nngtv/weekly_profile_review_thread/ Most of these guys aren't going to have luck on tinder no matter how great their profiles are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 09:12 AM |
| – | Why can't people just be honest with men when it comes to online dating? You aren't getting 0 matches because your pictures are bad, you're getting no matches because you're ugly.I feel it would be beneficial to a lot of the men posting there for someone to give them a reality check and tell them to quit dating apps. 99% of them are going to have better luck looking for something face-to-face. What's happening is the equivalent of a C- student applying for Harvard, and their peers telling them, "you just gotta put your best foot forward and write a killer admission essay." Rather than, "dude, you're not Harvard material, stop wasting your time, you're not getting in." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 09:10 AM |
| – | Why can't people just be honest with men when it comes to online dating? You aren't getting 0 matches because your pictures are bad, you're getting no matches because you're ugly.Do you think 7/10 guys are the demographic I'm referring to in this post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 08:42 AM |
| – | Why can't people just be honest with men when it comes to online dating? You aren't getting 0 matches because your pictures are bad, you're getting no matches because you're ugly.You can avoid offending people by not saying anything at all. My problem is that people make these guys actively feed into a false hope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 08:41 AM |
| – | Anyone ever feel like modern dating is more trouble than it’s worth?I there are far more men out there that prefer relationships over hooking up than you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 06:17 AM |
| – | Anyone ever feel like modern dating is more trouble than it’s worth?Yes. I have chosen to opt out. What I am looking for in a parter is both rare and contradictory, as I want a very traditional woman personality-wise, but I also do not want children. Most traditional-minded women want children. I will also admit I am not attractive enough to "lock down" such woman if I found her anyways, and even if I was, there are still a lot a mental hangups I have with the potential of my partner cheating/divorcing me/wasting decades on a relationship that ultimately meant n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 05:52 AM |
| – | CMV Most People in this subreddit don‘t understand that there are 2 forms off status, and just one off those 2 improves you‘re SMV.I think there is a distinction that needs to be made between sexual attraction and general social attraction. If you are highly physically attractive, you are going to get raw sexual attention from women regardless of your status. If you are average, but have high status/explicit wealth, you are going to get more social attention from women. If women sleep with you in this context, it's not because they find you more sexually attractive because of your status, but rather to gain access to what y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 05:33 AM |
| – | CMV Most People in this subreddit don‘t understand that there are 2 forms off status, and just one off those 2 improves you‘re SMV.Status doesn't matter for raw sexual attraction. Women seek out high-status men for very non-sexual reasons. The married guy with the 8 bedroom mansion and lambo in his driveway is still being cheated on with the young, fit pool boy. And how many women marry high-status men who they aren't actually sexually attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 03:22 AM |
| – | CMV Most People in this subreddit don‘t understand that there are 2 forms off status, and just one off those 2 improves you‘re SMV.SMV = sexual market value CMV = change my view Do you even terminally online bro? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 02:58 AM |
| – | CMV Most People in this subreddit don‘t understand that there are 2 forms off status, and just one off those 2 improves you‘re SMV.The only thing you're unlocking with category 2 is gold-diggers and clout chasers. I think that's a huge point that people miss. And with status, you're not raising your SMV, you're raising your "I can provide a comfortable lifestyle" flag that has very little to do with sexual attraction, in my opinion. Modelesque unemployed beach-bum surfer bro is getting more play than the nerdy, scrawny startup CEO millionaire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 02:57 AM |
| -5 | "Insecure" and "Controlling" are the new buzzwords used to shame men's standards and gaslight them into believing normal boundaries are toxic. CMV."I would prefer that you don't wear something tight and revealing in public because I know it's going to attract the wrong kind of attention from men." "I would prefer that you don't travel with your single friends in a foreign country because it's not very safe and you're potentially putting yourself in a situation that could affect our relationship." "I would prefer that you do not talk to your exes even if you are good friends with them." "I would prefer that you do not show your ass on Insta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 01:47 AM |
| 8 | "Insecure" and "Controlling" are the new buzzwords used to shame men's standards and gaslight them into believing normal boundaries are toxic. CMV.You certainly don't. Doesn't mean those labels are not still applied as a shaming tactic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | The idea that man whose 30 looks "visibly older" than guys in their early 20's to women is a mythJust turned 29. People generally think I'm 19 - 22. It's actually really messed with me psychologically, but yes, there are plenty of people out there that absolutely do not look their age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 07:58 PM |
| 4 | Do you think it’s true that dating gets easier for men and harder for women in their 30s?Women who were attractive when they were young can no longer attract the men they want. They can still attract men, but it's men they don't really want. Men who previously couldn't attract women are now "attracting" women who want to settle (ie. The women as described above). Both parties lose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/23 06:12 AM |
| – | Why are men here so obsessed with a woman’s past?"Male fragility" and "insecurity" is just shaming language used when men express that they have standards for what they want (or don't want) in a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 08:11 PM |
| – | What percent of women monetize sex?Well that's just a poor financial decision. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 08:03 PM |
| – | What percent of women monetize sex?If someone offered you 100 mil for 2 minutes of starfish sex, you'd be foolish not to take it. Anyone would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 07:58 PM |
| – | Why are men here so obsessed with a woman’s past?Why are women generally unwilling to disclose their past, or lie about their n-count? Because the past matters. And everyone knows it matters based on how they tap-dance around this topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 07:55 PM |
| – | What percent of women monetize sex?Everyone has a number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 07:49 PM |
| – | Musings about Age GapsCan you articulate why you believe "structural imbalances" in relationships are a bad thing to begin with? Especially considering that power imbalances occur naturally based on female sexual selection (ie. they generally want a partner who is older, more competent, earns more, is physically stronger, more experienced, etc). Most women seek out these qualities, yet most women do not feel this imbalance is exploitive within their relationships (and it generally isn't). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 03:56 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm celibate anyways | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 03:30 PM |
| – | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soon2/10 is being unrealistically generous. I'd wager it's more like 7 or 8 out of 10 women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 03:27 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMaster the nut before it masters you 🫵🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 07:33 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't believe it will give me magical powers; it's just a lengthy self-control exercise. Longest I've gone is about 2 months, but I never took it very seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 07:13 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWeight is a perfectly valid reason to not be attracted to someone. It's an immediate indicator of an unhealthy lifestyle. Height is not a fair comparison because height cannot be changed. Being overweight, however, can be. That said, there is a huge subset of men who find overweight women attractive and would gladly date them, just as there are women who will gladly date short men. Im sure there's loads of dudes in that girls comments posting about how beautiful she is and how great her curves a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:49 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat an awesome friend 🫡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:36 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTurning 29 in 4 days. Going to attempt r/semenretention for one year & focus all of my energy on work and saving money so I have a good foundation to start at when I hit 30. I have a 10 year plan, and hope to be semi-retired by 40. Spent all my 20's aimless and suicidal, and for the first time in my life I can see the light. Super excited for my 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 06:27 AM |
| – | So I see men here say women having male friends in a red flag, but also that women are unreasonably mean to single men. How are women supposed to navigate this?Very difficult to be friends with women unless you just straight up don't find them attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 08:47 PM |
| – | Friendzone is indeed real, but it's not as you think it isSo what do you treat a woman as if not as a friend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 09:51 AM |
| – | Friendzone is indeed real, but it's not as you think it isNah, I'm pretty sure you don't get it. Friends are open about their emotions all the time. You say the problem is you see them as "brothers," but siblings can be close and emotionally open with each-other as well. The problem is the men you see as "just friends," are not sexual enough. They've become asexual beings to you, and of course you're not going to pursue something romantically with an asexual man. You even say that almost verbatim in your first paragraph. You're putting the cart before … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 09:15 AM |
| – | Friendzone is indeed real, but it's not as you think it isThat's entirely antithetical to what you are saying in your post. How can you possibly experience someone else's emotions without being friends with them first? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 09:04 AM |
| – | Friendzone is indeed real, but it's not as you think it isThe only difference between friendship and prospective partnership (short term or long term) is the introduction of sexuality. That's the only way it can be "more than" friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 09:00 AM |
| – | Friendzone is indeed real, but it's not as you think it isThis post is golden because it's perfectly explaining why women are sexually open to men who treat them poorly. plus show emotions, show vulnerability Major eye roll 🙄 I audibly groaned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 08:52 AM |
| – | Friendzone is indeed real, but it's not as you think it isYou do realize the TLDR version of your post is "don't be friendly to women" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 08:28 AM |
| – | CMV: Trans men will slowly become the bridge for women to take men's social issues more seriously.A scary thought | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 06:31 AM |
| – | CMV: Trans men will slowly become the bridge for women to take men's social issues more seriously.Fair points | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 06:28 AM |
| – | CMV: Trans men will slowly become the bridge for women to take men's social issues more seriously.I'm sure there will be many more passing transmen in the next decade or so as it's becoming more and more common and socially accepted to transition in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 06:25 AM |
| – | Why do you personally think some men get so much access to sex, while other men do not?Yes, there is an ocean of difference. That doesn't mean people do not routinely conflate the two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 01:40 AM |
| – | Why do you personally think some men get so much access to sex, while other men do not?why do men base their sense of self worth on having access to sex? Because if you can't get sex, you're grouped in with the incels, which by default labels you as a creepy misogynist loser by society. In my opinion, you shouldnt care either way, but for a lot of men it's difficult not to care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 01:08 AM |
| – | As a plain looking/unattractive guy, what to do to find women interested in you?That's fair. Sorry to hear that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 10:00 PM |
| – | I think that the problem with The Blue Pill is that they deep down expect sexual attraction to be "rational"Yeah, I'm perfectly aware of this now. When I thought that good people were attracted to other good people, it didn't make any sense to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 09:59 PM |
| – | As a plain looking/unattractive guy, what to do to find women interested in you?be there for your fam Wish i saw this more on here. If dudes spent half the time building their relationships with their family compared to how much time they spent worrying about women, they would be much happier and more mentally stable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 09:56 PM |
| – | I think that the problem with The Blue Pill is that they deep down expect sexual attraction to be "rational"They were all very conventionally attractive of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 09:48 PM |
| – | As a plain looking/unattractive guy, what to do to find women interested in you?Ah yes, I have acquired many women with my professional basket weaving skills and top-percentile knowledge of mayan civilization | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 09:35 PM |
| – | As a plain looking/unattractive guy, what to do to find women interested in you?This is the worst advice I've ever seen here and thats saying something. I hope you're joking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 09:28 PM |
| – | As a plain looking/unattractive guy, what to do to find women interested in you?Aesthetic surgery and gym. https://images.app.goo.gl/jzPTdfXxvuaQEms16 Do you think the guy on the left or the right will have an easier time finding women that are interested him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 09:16 PM |
| 14 | I think that the problem with The Blue Pill is that they deep down expect sexual attraction to be "rational"One of the first experiences I had with "irrational attraction" as a naive lad was when I found out this God-fearing Christian cutie I knew had a crush on a bully that I went to high school with. The same guy that body-shamed the fat girls and had a GPA of 1.5. "How could such a good girl like such an awful guy?" Didn't make sense to me. Living in a very conservative area, I noticed this happening pretty often when I just kept my eyes open. So many "pure hearted Christ-followers" going after the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 06:17 AM |
| – | What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'?Hoe: generally meant as "someone who is promiscuous and not interested in settling down with a partner." Phase: a distinct stage in a period of time (ie. someone's life.) Hoe phase is a perfectly acceptable & accurate use of words. Plenty of single and free men and women don't have hookups, so no, it's not just being "single and free." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 07:47 PM |
| – | What's the reason for why people need a 'hoe phase'?It was good enough for 12 years though. What exactly was missing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 07:19 PM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Plenty of people willingly consent to sex and then feel bad about it afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:58 PM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Casual homophobia is generally not appreciated. I certainly don't appreciate it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:52 PM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.As per my post, not caring about n-count requires a degree of ignorance on behalf of your partner's actions. The fact of the matter is most people do care, because if faced with the ugly details, it would matter to them a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:46 PM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.I don't think it's normal for men to sleep around. I don't think hookups are beneficial for anyone. Although, considering the number of women who want "experienced men," I can also understand why this concept may be viewed differently by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:44 PM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Self respect absolutely pertains to how you interact and associate with others. Women who don't respect themselves end up in abusive relationships. Teens with no self-respect are more prone to join gangs and hang out in bad crowds. As per yourself: since you have no issue or limit to your partner's sexual past, you'd be fine dating a porn star. Do you think your friends, family, and peers would respect you for making that decision? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:15 PM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.I mean, that's exactly what i'm saying in my post lol. So thanks for agreeing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:05 PM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.What does my comment have to do with preferences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:38 PM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.I dont think details of his poops would breed resentment or jealousy. do you think we want to know too? Probably not, because the ignorance of those events is bliss, as I stated in my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:34 PM |
| – | You ignore the most important thing - the sparkIf you can't even come up with a single sentence regarding "how things actually are" as an argument against OP, then you're just lazy. If everything he's saying is bullshit, you should be able to explain why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:25 PM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.I'm good without that Because otherwise you would perhaps be jealous or resentful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:23 PM |
| – | You ignore the most important thing - the sparkOk, then describe why OP is wrong. If he's so out of touch, you should have plenty to say about it. Telling him to leave the basement isn't going to change his mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:10 PM |
| – | You ignore the most important thing - the sparkOP provided four paragraphs of information to work with. If you're certain he's wrong, and you understand how "real life" works, then you shouldnt have an issue formulating a well composed argument against him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:04 PM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.I think sex is something to be celebrated within a committed relationship. Sex can also be bad and degrading, which is why a lot of people regret ONS and feel "used" afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:01 PM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.If you're ok kissing the same mouth that rimmed multiple sweaty buttholes in the past, that's fine. That's why I said "most men" in my post, not all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 12:56 PM |
| – | You ignore the most important thing - the sparkAll i see in your comment is a personal attack rather than a counter-argument. This is a debate sub. Try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 12:44 PM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Not wanting a woman who has exchanged bodily fluids with several men is a deeply rooted disgust response that I and many other men have. Like honestly, do you genuinely have no limit regarding your partner's sexual past? If you don't, then you have no dignity or respect for yourself. I will never understand your mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 07:40 AM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV."If you don't like ran-through women you're insecure." This is like one of the main redditisms i'll never not shake my head at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 06:57 AM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.I guess I just don't understand the cognitive dissonance of knowing your partner has done x, y, and z, but not caring only because you don't know the details. Like, even if you don't have the knowledge, it's not like it didn't happen. It's like the equivalent of knowing your partner has a felony, but being "ok" with it just because you don't have the details. If everything is perfect in the relationship, then technically that felony is meaningless, but if it was revealed that he sold heroin on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 06:54 AM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Theoretically if you stumbled upon a video of his or read about a past experience he's written in a journal, would you be indifferent, or would it make you feel some degree of jealousy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 05:57 AM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Resentment, disgust, jealousy...i think these are all normal human reactions to hearing about your partner's escapades in the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 05:43 AM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Examples provided in second paragraph | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:57 AM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.I mean, i don't know. Would you feel resentful towards him if you knew all the details? If you think you would, then that would fall under the "ignorance is bliss" category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:53 AM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.You sound upset | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 04:49 AM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.And why do you think that they don't want to hear the details? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 02:12 AM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Why limit the details? Because ignorance of the matter is bliss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 02:09 AM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Yes, if they are into cuckholding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 02:08 AM |
| – | Most men would be resentful and disgusted by their partners if they were given a written or visual history of their past sexual experiences. CMV.Out of all those things you've listed, sexual past would make far more of an impact on one's relationship. If you're in a relationship, chances are you already have a general idea of your partner's judgements, insecurities, and worst moments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 02:07 AM |
| – | How Average & lonely men can make themselves desirable to womenFurther, it is rare to see an attractive man on the street or on a dating app. Correct. Attractive men are rare. Which makes them desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:20 AM |
| – | How Average & lonely men can make themselves desirable to women"How average males can make them themselves desirable to women" is an ocean of difference from "How average males can make themselves desirable to at least one woman." My comments on this thread are related to the specific wording of OP's title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:16 AM |
| – | How Average & lonely men can make themselves desirable to womenPure delusion. Regardless, men who have partners does not mean they are "desirable to women" as your post says. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 01:07 AM |
| – | How Average & lonely men can make themselves desirable to womenGetting a girlfriend =/= being desirable to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 12:33 AM |
| – | How Average & lonely men can make themselves desirable to womenLooks dictate initial value and worthiness. If you are unable to surpass a woman's threshold of what she considers attractive, it doesn't matter how personally great of a person you are, or if you do shadow work on the weekends lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 12:31 AM |
| – | How Average & lonely men can make themselves desirable to womenOr you can lose weight and get aesthetic surgeries without doing any of the aforementioned things you've stated. Your list is about personal improvement, not how to be desirable. The two are not the same. Plenty of alcoholic, drug abusing, personality-less men are desirable to women, and the common denominator is that they are attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 12:12 AM |
| – | CMV: What I’ve Learned as an Average Guy Among Attractive FriendsAs i said before your other post was removed: prepare for the cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 09:21 PM |
| – | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.I've met Translation: I've spent my time on online forums where these types tend to accumulate. You just said you avoid men, so how could you possibly be meeting these people in real life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 07:52 PM |
| – | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.This is the equivalent of me spending my time on FDS, and attributing those posts to all women. You're pulling a cringe MGTOW move by saying you're "avoiding all men." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 07:39 PM |
| – | How hard do you think it actually is to date as a heterosexual man.This is what happens when you spend too much time online | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 07:33 PM |
| – | Q4W: If you were suddenly placed in the shoes of an average guy, what steps would you take to get casual sex with someone genuinely attracted to you? How about a relationship?Every study I'm reading is estimating 25 - 40% of women have had a ONS. When reading about casual sex--not necessarily ONS--the number is higher. Also: https://www.apa.org/monitor/2013/02/ce-corner "When it comes to real life, most of today's young adults report some casual sexual experience. The most recent data suggest that between 60 percent and 80 percent of North American college students have had some sort of hook-up experience. This is consistent with the view of emerging adulthood (typic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:49 PM |
| 41 | Society thinks independent women die alone with cats. It's actually men who die alone.Everyone dies alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: If you were suddenly placed in the shoes of an average guy, what steps would you take to get casual sex with someone genuinely attracted to you? How about a relationship?Where would you go to meet people who might be interested in you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: If you were suddenly placed in the shoes of an average guy, what steps would you take to get casual sex with someone genuinely attracted to you? How about a relationship?How would you change your circumstances? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:18 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: If you were suddenly placed in the shoes of an average guy, what steps would you take to get casual sex with someone genuinely attracted to you? How about a relationship?Working out in order to build a reasonable amount of muscle generally takes at least 1-2 years. Do you think you would be successful during that waiting period? just talk to girls Do you mean cold-approaching, or talking to women in certain contexts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 06:10 AM |
| – | Victim blaming is wrong, but women still have a choice in most cases and sometimes they choose to date walking red flags.That's my point. There was a previous thread about Leo earlier this week, and a comment mentioned that "we have no idea what's actually going on with his relationships" and fabricated this whole conspiracy about what could "really be happening." Everyone involved knows whats happening. Models get clout for dating Leo. Leo gets to have a casual relationship with beautiful women. It's an exchange that both parties are consenting to, and the women know exactly what they are signing up for. They are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:55 AM |
| – | Victim blaming is wrong, but women still have a choice in most cases and sometimes they choose to date walking red flags.Whenever this topic comes up, the deflection is that bad men are these master manipulators that don't show their "true colors" until they are deep into the relationship. Not saying this doesn't ever happen, but most assholes are very easy to pick out of a crowd. The next deflection is that bad men, even if they are obviously horrible, bully and manipulate women with low self-esteem into liking them and having sex with them. Im sure this happens too, but I'd argue it is rare. What is generally ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/23 05:43 AM |
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