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1

Steven Spielberg is also trash for this. How is she looking to porn for financial security when he is a billionaire. Smfh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:53 AM
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The fact that OP has gloves on makes the picture. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 07:29 AM
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It's the same situation for me, but when I read what you wrote, it was obvious there were going to be some exceptions, e.g. PhD or medical school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:26 PM
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You had me in the first 90% There's still a lot of inner work for you to do so that you can realise your friend is a leech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:19 PM
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This is obviously a joke, Jesus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 10:26 AM
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You should watch this video. It's called The High Price We Pay for Our Fear of Loneliness https://youtu.be/EYncNbM9HMs It will help you realise that it's not the end of the world to be single for now. I think you just may not be used to attention from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:36 AM
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Tin eye is also great for a reverse image search
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:30 AM
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I agree. The amount of useless memes in this sub is too damn high. Like what part of this post is about dating strategy? Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:16 AM
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It's so funny that he told on himself there: The reason he calls her a plate, and the reason for the bizarre contradiction near the end is that the woman he stayed with was smart enough to kick him out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 05:23 AM
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This is adorable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 12:10 AM
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Fellow late bloomer here. You should really read the sidebar as it doesn't seem like you have. For you, I would recommend online dating and dating at least two men at once so you don't get attached to the first person you're physically connected to. The name of the game for you would be to go on at least one date a week so that you get used to the idea of being desired. There's are more passionate kisses in your future! Request an STD before getting sexually intimate with anyone. Any guy worth i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 12:07 AM
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I'm afraid that doesn't sound familiar to me, but you could post on /r/tipofmytongue in case someone can help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 04:29 PM
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True, that could be the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 03:34 PM
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No prizes for guessing that this man did not go ahead to start male shelter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 04:54 AM
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That sucks. They're out there. Start tapping into your network of friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:16 PM
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A way to get around some of these is to write them as character traits. So instead of "Tall and Fit" "Taller than me and health & fitness fanatic"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 12:29 PM
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Do you think it's an acceptable thing to ask from someone you've never even met? You sound like a dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 05:44 AM
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I think a great book for you would be The Game of Desire by Shan Boodram because most of the advice is practical. When you do the exercises in the book (you can get a new notebook to use as your workbook if you like), you will get a better sense of what you want out of life and relationships. another great tip from the book is how to write a job description for a man (sounds words but it's pretty genius) and how to craft an online dating profile for a better match. Amazon link: The Game of Desir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 06:28 AM
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Omg that response was by Boyce Watkins. One of the biggest hoteps in existence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 10:50 AM
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The Game of desire has a guide to online dating that is pretty good. I'll post it once I have access to my laptop again X
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:20 AM
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Is it really obvious to anyone else that he only admitted it after the time when his wife is unable to get an abortion? This dude is sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 06:14 AM
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Omg please don't make me gag 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 07:52 AM
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Have you been able to talk to someone about the relationship with your father? I have up trying to tell my mother about my life as she was rarely happy for any good fortune that went my way. I now only WhatsApp her happy birthday, Christmas and New year and ignore the rest of the year. My family used to bleat about grandkids as well (especially my father). He stopped when I asked him for a trust fund. Your situation sounds way more serious though. I hope you're speaking with a therapist enjoy th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 11:07 PM
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Congratulations! 🥳👏🏾🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 07:04 AM
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Well put. Insecurity is a horrible and unattractive trait in anyone, let alone someone you're dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 12:04 PM
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I don't have a link to the post but an OP talked about how she manages to reduce her attraction to wastemen: If they display an unattractive trait she says to herself and writes down "X vaped on our date, and I find smoking habits in all forms unattractive, therefore I find X unattractive" I wish I'd saved the post and maybe one of the other ladies can help you as the OP went into more detail with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:22 AM
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It makes sense that it would be Patti's advice though. At her dating agency, rich men are the customers and young attractive women are the product. I'm not surprised that she would objectify women for financial gain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 05:01 AM
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Man size mooncup took me out 😂 I really like the way you think!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 04:47 AM
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My pleasure, thanks for responding. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:48 PM
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You are a truly gifted writer. Well summarised and you didn't even touch the street harassment/ "you were begging for it" raape culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 07:48 AM
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There's a lot to unpack here, but I'm sure you know what anyone who comments here is going to say. He forced your head down during oral sex. That's rape. He has nude photos of an ex and him having sex that I'm certain she would be upset about him keeping after 11 years (wtf?!?!) Maybe he coerced her into taking those the same way he did with you. He thinks you're disgusting on your period. No, it's not fine for someone to make you feel gross for a normal bodily function, or that you have to "pay…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 12:04 PM
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How to set boundaries through actions and not just words. Option 1. Put your phone on do not disturb after when he says he'll come home. Actions speak louder and doing this once is enough to get the message across. Option 2. if behaviour continues after option 1, then it should be clear that he's taking you for granted, regardless of what he's up to while he's staying out late. I don't think it's okay that his kindness to others comes at the cost of his kindness to you. You have only been on thr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:09 AM
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Your aunt is jealous of you. I was a very studious young lady in my teens and received a lot of negative comments abut my future role in a marriage. One of my aunts used to tell me that I read too much (wtf kind of nonsense is this to tell a child?!) She now asks me to send money “back home" and I ignore her text messages. I think you should see comments like this for what they are: envy. She isn't able to rise up to your level so she is using the fact that in your culture you can't talk back to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 02:05 PM
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Try the isoprene condoms from SKYN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 12:33 PM
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Bellissima 👌🏾💋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 12:30 PM
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You are not creepy. You are both consenting adults in this situation. Based on the fact that you don't mention much about his personality/ interests, it makes it seem like he doesn't have a lot going on outside the relationship. If that's the case then that could be where some of the guilt is coming from. Really try and figure out exactly what it is that you want out of a long term relationship, and if he can offer it to you, then take it! A lot of the feeling like a creep is due to society's st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 08:57 AM
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I see it this way: for every person who realised these lessons later in life and shared their experience, there are at least 30 that have been able to learn, so women as a whole benefit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 06:14 PM
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It says the link is broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 04:51 PM
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👑👑👑👑 This is what taking yourself seriously looks like. I am insanely proud of you. Do you think you'll be able to transfer credits to your home country? Free tuition isn't something to be passed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 03:40 PM
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My father stopped asking for grandkids when I asked him to create a trust fund just in case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 02:33 PM
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If it's after school then that's a different story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:51 PM
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Not tax purposes! 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 08:49 PM
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Omg I just spat out a bit of my drink. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 08:01 PM
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My pleasure :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 11:09 PM
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Seconded x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 01:56 PM
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That is horrific. I was thinking more along the lines of how most of the Ghanaian boys I knew were incurable mama's boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 01:50 PM
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She really is! I've been following her for about four years and the wealth of information that she has is incredible. There is literally not a topic related to dating that she hasn't touched on. I'm British but her advice is international. The internet has given me her and this community of like minded women and I couldn't be more grateful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 07:44 PM
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I have a feeling that this is a fake profile with someone's picture. Guys are very rarely this honest about their true intentions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:25 PM
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Don't forget to save this post! X
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:04 PM
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Awesome x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:04 PM
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Glad to help!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 10:37 AM
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Please let me know when you do 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 05:47 PM
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Based on the responses by OP, I am convinced that it's a troll post. Her responses make no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 06:09 PM
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