bunniebell Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	End of life etiquette for spouse's parents	LTR/MARRIAGE	bunniebell	/r/RedPillWomen	17/01/17 10:05 AM

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14	Advice for first time meeting a potential long distance boyfriend? As a RPW, I would never travel to meet a man first, unless it was halfway. I know you're excited to meet him, but it is far too dangerous. Please wait that extra month until he can come to your stomping grounds. This proves his commitment, chivalry, and his desire to take the lead role.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/12/23 07:54 AM
5	He is loyal, responsible and family oriented. Everything my ex who strung me along wasnt, and everything I thought I wanted after him. But.. I believe everyone has a major flaw and if this is his only flaw, it could make sense. Gifting him new things would help, as another comment suggested.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/12/23 02:48 PM
3	I Followed FDS and I still don’t know. I’ve been overthinking and confused. Instead of calling me “pickmeisha” please help me. The problem was obvious from Day One--his focus on his ex. You should never continue dating a man who talks about his ex more than a short mention (and especially one who complains about her!) on the first date! YOU should be his focus, not the ex. Everything was pretend playtime until the sex. The sex cemented the "this is a real relationship" in his head, thus he began pulling away.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/20 07:14 AM
11	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 20th 2020) Absolutely. It does hurt, but standing up for yourself in this way will only add to your self-confidence--you'll look back on this moment of strength. Now you're free & available for true love to find you (if you want it!).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/20 06:30 AM
3	Relationship Green Flags If something bad happens in your life, they’ll offer or give the correct kind of support without being asked. For example, if there is a death in your family he may ask if he could send flowers. If you’re sick, he may have delivery bring you some food.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/20 08:44 AM
3	This is why we don't get involved with cops. Thank god I never dated a cop. I always wanted to, but constant horror stories like this make me grateful I didn’t.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/20 08:41 AM
1	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? Excellent idea, gets rid of that food stuck in there that breeds gross bacteria. Also good to keep expensive cavities away	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/19 08:47 PM
2	How much should a man "take care" of you when vetting for marriage? The way you present yourself tells us you have self-awareness and know your worth. You wouldn't spend over a year with a man who wasn't a good man. It seems like it's his respect for your independence. How he says, "you did a great job!" after you put your Ikea bed together tells me he is very supportive of you by nature. Knowing what you know now, I'd like to suggest you ease in slowly. When you need a ride somewhere, go ahead and mention it--then say, "Oh! Dear boyfriend! Would it be too much …	/r/RedPillWomen	24/08/19 09:37 PM
1	How much should a man "take care" of you when vetting for marriage? He should offer to help more. I'm like you & find it hard to ask for help. That's a reason we partner off--to have that priority support from the other spouse. Simply reverse the wealth, I KNOW you would've offered to upgrade his ticket! You are independent and subtle, but that is part of your feminine modesty. You should never need to ask for help for these small things, because a good partner who appreciates your subtle & kind nature will use his thoughtfulness & masculine problem solving to r…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/08/19 09:32 PM
2	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? That’s what I’m saying! This shit is SUBTLE. Sure, the joke was actually funny...but did she laugh just a little too much? A little too long? And not in a demeaning way? It’s too confusing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 05:51 PM
3	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? So sad when someone’s glory days were in high school, they get so stuck in how they did stuff then and can’t fully adapt to the adult world.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 05:49 PM
2	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? Niceee	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 05:46 PM
3	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? I’ve heard this before...which, if he really did LOVE her, wouldn’t he want the best for her...and let her go?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 05:46 PM
1	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? I guess it only matters if you get up close & personal 😎	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 05:44 PM
2	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? It’s those disproportional standards that kill me. Whyyy	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 05:38 PM
1	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? Amen to improving himself! I think they wanted details, though, which I sought to provide. Do you have any further suggestions for helping the average male become better than average?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 05:35 PM
3	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? Excellent point!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 05:08 PM
1	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? Man, you could be right. Yuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 05:03 PM
2	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? Oh no! The age thing is really sticking people. I’m just suggesting to open up the possibilities to more people. Looks-wise, age-wise, etc. Trouble with women could mean the women you want are just not interested, so let’s try talking to some other women. It’s just a suggestion!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 04:58 PM
2	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? I do think so, bacteria forms all through out the day in your mouth. Eating, drinking, breathing...you’d really be surprised. You can lick the inside of your wrist, let it try, then smell it. Also, if you have any sort of bad/strange taste or feeling in your mouth, that’s totally bad breath.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 04:48 PM
3	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? Did you miss the “average man” part of this question? The “trouble with women” part? 20 year olds are notoriously difficult to hold onto, like I said in my original comment. This is all geared toward the average man looking for a long term partner. If you had trouble with women, you would know it’s such a relief to find one good women that is gaga over you & unlikely to break your heart. It’s a lonely world—for those of us that don’t juggle plates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 04:40 PM
6	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? We must hang out with much different types of men! I’ll trade you!	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 10:21 AM
18	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? I think she means it like coming on too strongly too fast, seeming desperate	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 08:53 AM
2	How important is class and wealth This is all my opinion, so take it with a grain of salt. Class and wealth really do make people see and act differently in the world. Each section of society has their own wants/needs/social structure. Poorer cultures do have that matriarchal society, with women usually holding families together. They also have the biggest sense of community. Everyone helps everyone with BASIC needs (food, shelter, childcare), especially extended family and neighbors. They often live in the same area all their l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 07:09 AM
3	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? Confidence is key, for sure	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 06:52 AM
8	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? I agree! Women flirt so subtly that men always miss it. Big flirt moves women make...touching hair, lingering eye contact, LAUGHING. If a women giggles and laughs at your jokes, that's a good sign	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 06:51 AM
19	Do you have friends who struggle with women IRL? What do you see him doing wrong? Dating is tough out there, especially for men, IMHO. First, I'd like to say to look inward and figure out one or two things that make you different than most people of your gender. Some things that are rare in average men--seeking eventual marriage. Wanting children. Having a healthy stable relationship with family. Stability in general (owning a home, decent car, savings in the bank). Good social skills for different situations. Charisma. Problems I see often in average men: Poor hygiene. This …	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/19 06:48 AM
2	A Persons Pill Color is Directly Tied to Their Native Socioeconomic Class I wonder if there’s too many exceptions for a rule to be made? My mom was raised middle class, but then fell into low class when she dropped out of high school. Became a nurse on welfare...then had the fairy tale of marrying a doctor! You can imagine how that impacted me! This idea is fascinating. I feel like we need some sort of poll.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/19 03:48 AM
1	A Persons Pill Color is Directly Tied to Their Native Socioeconomic Class I hadn’t thought of it that way!	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/19 12:39 AM
1	A Persons Pill Color is Directly Tied to Their Native Socioeconomic Class I just can't agree, though I see your premise. Born LC, raised UMC after age 13. My dad was blue pill, but my mom instilled red pill virtues in me. She wanted red pill for me, as she thought a strong male figure would give me the best life--even though her blue pill man swept her off her feet and raised her status considerably. Your pill definitely depends on your experience in formative years, but that experience is just too different between all of us to be pigeon-holed in one pill per class.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/19 11:23 PM
18	I think I'm low value...how do I increase my probability of finding a partner? Absolutely. The men we (as Redpillwomen) seek to attract PREFER sexually inexperienced women. It adds relationship value, as it shows you hold yourself in such regard that you waited, instead of giving in to temptation like so many of us do. Especially when you dated others already! I say this, but my own experience does not match this at all. I wish it had.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/07/19 04:51 PM
7	How to be girly/youthful? One thing we talk about in this subreddit is finding a real life woman you respect. You can interact regularly and use their actions as an example. Watching a role model in real life is better than reading words, as you can see how their actions play out in real life situations. Many of us use an older family member or family friend as examples. My mother was mine.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/06/19 09:26 PM
5	How to be girly/youthful? Yes! As long as you can start a conversation subject about interesting things, you can mostly listen and let the other person talk. Everyone loves talking about themselves...the most important trait in social settings is listening. Creating good topics to simply start a dialogue is something I found to be invaluable. I even use interesting posts & topics I see here on reddit. It works wonders.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/06/19 09:22 PM
1	Q4ALL: What is your number one deal breaker? Having no manners and unwilling to learn them. Just screams, “I don’t give a crap about anyone.”	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/19 04:04 AM
5	Becoming Red Pill as an Older Woman We want validation, too! And what a thrill to turn a man’s head by proving you’re worthy. If a man falls in love with you immediately, it’s usually only because of your looks...it means a lot more when the love comes from knowing you inside and out (perhaps not the biblical sense quite yet LOL).	/r/RedPillWomen	01/06/19 09:27 PM
5	Becoming Red Pill as an Older Woman I have an overly optimistic personality, but having the emotional and living support of a soft, kind and pretty woman around his age is a great comfort. He’ll likely not want to lose that after some time. He knew it, too, when he suggested you do your “own things”.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/06/19 08:12 PM
26	Becoming Red Pill as an Older Woman Your self-awareness is incredible. You sound feminine and such a treat to be around. Your gentleman roommate may also be cautious about any advances due to your living situation, so don’t be concerned if it takes a longer time for any feelings on his part to appear. Your happiness and wellbeing will be in my thoughts!	/r/RedPillWomen	01/06/19 07:47 PM
6	Are Moms Doomed to Get Fat? It's the same here in Indiana.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/05/19 08:07 AM
2	Are Moms Doomed to Get Fat? Never having a problem with my weight, I'm now at 35 and struggling to maintain. My mother taught me the "fasting diet" which is now being spread around in articles as a genuine way to diet. You fast randomly, perhaps once a week, and can just not eat for perhaps 12 hours--completely dependant on your own structure. I have no idea if this is actually healthy, but it works fabulously for my mother and seems to be doing okay for myself. Also, counting calories and staying under 2k/day. MyFitnessPa…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/05/19 08:06 AM
12	I'm so happy with my boyfriend of 6 months that I'm becoming fearful and riddled with anxiety that I will lose him in the future. Exactly. Knowing you have other options IF the relationship should fail is comforting. Hashing out some details of each fallback is reassuring, so if something happens (such as a fight) that sends you into an emotional frenzy—you can secretly tell yourself: i’ll be okay and happy no matter what.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/19 07:10 PM
1	Would single motherhood really decrease if child support and welfare were abolished? I’m a welfare baby. Due to marriages, we’ve been out of poverty for a long time. Being poor & on welfare is a hell that is nearly impossible to escape without someone literally rescuing you (which is obviously not the govnt). It’d be cool if you tried it out then come back to us with your new found empathy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/19 07:51 PM
6	I don't know what to do I completely agree. We should never tell our biggest hardships on the first date, that is the date where you present your BEST self. Baggage comes out only when necessary. Like an interview, then a job. If OP is getting good boyfriends (until they leave months later) while putting baggage on them the first date...that’s incredible. If she followed our advice, she’d hit the jackpot quickly.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/04/19 02:06 PM
1	I don't know what to do Its so hard to find a good man these days. Don’t give up!	/r/RedPillWomen	19/04/19 12:05 PM
4	I don't know what to do I feel for you, I have a chronic illness, too. You sound defeated, which is understandable. You might be showing this to the men you’re dating, though. For love to truly blossom, especially if you want to be a SAHM, your man needs romance and adoration! Not nagging is important, but nagging a little about letting him know you miss him so much is a good thing. Write him love letters, just be in LOVE. Imagine how you’d want a woman to love you...and how she’d help you fall in love with her SO MUCH…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/04/19 09:54 AM
2	CMV: The optimal male sexual strategy is laziness Marriage's ROI is someone knowing you inside and out and sharing themselves completely with you. People leave hardship "at the drop of a hat" when there are few ties. Joining 2 households and family with marriage assures you won't be left so easily. Falling in love, that is 1 tie. Having a child, 1 tie. Many people buy a home together, that is 1 tie. Several ties creates a relationship. 2 dozen ties and a proclamation to the government and your social circle creates a marriage. Companionship is …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/19 07:07 AM
1	What exactly about being college/university educated makes marriages more successful? Hands down it's the worldly knowledge. They know so much more about the world outside their own small town after all the readings, assignments, research, etc. Enough to be much more accepting of differences, fight fair, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/19 05:32 AM
2	Those of you in a relationship, who is better looking: you or your partner? I wonder if it's more about his and her qualities. He says his girlfriend is physically hot & social, while he included extra in his own description. He could mean that he could find a new girlfriend with ONLY these "physically hot & social" characteristics?	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/19 05:28 AM
5	CMV: The optimal male sexual strategy is laziness Married men live longer, productive lives. People really need companionship. Elderly people live longer & happier with cats as pets, too. Also, stability, someone that won't live you at the drop of a hat, and tax breaks	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/19 05:20 AM
3	Claims that female mate selection favors evolutionarily superior men aren’t scientifically supported. What gives? This reminds me of recent mate selection theories that have a huge list of triggers--flora & fauna, the weather, the local habitat, culture, population density--even if you live on the plains, in a valley, or in the mountains. It's also believed that selection is more unconscious than previously believed. In regards to women preferring tall men, I bet you're right that it's based on strength/dominance. It's interesting to me because we all know the human race is much more taller than in the past…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/19 05:19 AM
3	On the importance of vetting Absolutely! It's amazing that we, as women, can choose our own path--but it was certainly "easier" when we forced into certain roles. By "easier", I mean the comfort of knowing where you fit into society without the worry of choices. Women like your grand-mother, from her specific culture & generation, find themselves trapped with honor. Keeping her word is honorable, however it's now honorable to take yourself and your children away from a violent man. It's honorable to work out of the home to …	/r/RedPillWomen	12/04/19 05:00 AM
2	Disillusioned With Womanhood First of all, I'm being completely honest, as we need to be here to help each other find happiness (so please don't judge me). I was obsessed with marriage and married the first man somewhat reliable that proposed--ended in disaster. When it started to fail, I figured out what my talents & skills were in relation to life/marriage. I found mine were: extroversion, manipulation using "damsel in distress", manners & politeness, ability to adapt to different USA social situations, writing, interacti…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/04/19 04:45 AM
10	Being Unattractive I wonder if your clothing style and how you style your hair may have an effect. I can guarantee self-confidence has an effect—when my confidence got higher as I aged, I started getting so much attention even though I looked the same. How would you feel about showing us some photos of you with identifying features hidden? The hardest part of helping is not knowing what the real problem could be.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/03/19 09:46 PM
4	How to date in the modern world? Flirting is show, don’t tell! Flirting is a complicated mess & the hardest of social cues to master. I love this guy, Matthew Hussey—he is beautiful, has an accent, and tells you in RATIONAL terms how to flirt (we all know flirting is hardly rational). Please don’t buy anything from this guy, he gives plenty of free materials. The ones I like best for you are these: Flirt = Interest + Challange We don’t care until we connect First date = movie trailer of your LIFE	/r/RedPillWomen	22/01/19 10:37 PM
4	How to date in the modern world? You write and converse so intellectually that it almost feels stoic. Obviously, you want to be seen sometimes as a soft, caring, woman who just wants to be held by a strong man that loves you! THAT is the image you want to bring out while finding a partner. You have nothing to prove as far as intelligence/education goes...your resume (job title, school) is already known. Dating is proving you would be a great long term partner. You need to prove: You can offer humor & fun when times start to get…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/01/19 10:11 PM
3	How to date in the modern world? The non-monogamous crowd, in my experience, harbors some highly intellectual & educated men. It doesn’t surprise me that the men in your circles subscribe to that ideal—they rationalize it as a biological urge etc. To work my way around that, I ask this question: I know it ended for a reason, but would you tell me the nicest trait in your last girlfriend ?” Now, that question will give you the answer. Men who are keen on non-monogamy will sing to the moon praises about any woman they find who wi…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/01/19 10:04 PM
12	How to not hit the wall/ age gracefully? Sleep really is powerful for retaining youthfulness.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/01/19 01:00 AM
2	Your Man is not your Best Friend Yes! DH should be a type of best friend, but you should absolutely have another one. One person can’t and should not fill absolutely every role in your life and I believe it’s cruel to demand it.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/01/19 10:59 PM
4	Men do a lot of talking about what they hate about women, but what they really hate is accountability. Every action has consequences, even sex (ahem, STDS?)	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/01/19 07:13 AM
2	Q4W: Do you find old, powerful men attractive? Absolutely. They have to be physically attractive still, which is understandably difficult as we age. I love the wisdom, life experience, and how they cherish creating memories. There are so many things to like about older men. The one thing I see the most is how they treat women—that is so attractive to me. I married a much older man (married 2.5 years) & best decision I ever made	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/18 04:45 PM
2	I have an issue with my hair that I'm hoping someone here can help me with. I am so glad. I’m trying to upload a photo of myself with my extensions, but mobile isn’t working. It’s such a god send. Most S.O.s don’t mind, either—they know it’s just another way for us to look and feel our best. I’ve been where you are & it’s terrible for our self esteem. You’ll be shocked at how fast your hair grows back, once you solve the cause of it.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/12/18 05:59 AM
19	I have an issue with my hair that I'm hoping someone here can help me with. The easiest way to cover up having little hair is to go with shorter haircuts. Even chin length, long layers can look very cute with a little wax and a slight flip out. When this happened to me due to extreme long term depression (yes, you can lose mounds of hair from that!), I ended up buying and using clip in extensions. How to use clip-in hair extensions They have real hair versions that look amazing. Can be dyed, cut and styled—treat it just like normal hair. Any hair stylist can help you le…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/12/18 05:45 AM
4	Cohabitation logistics The frustration is asking for our help to figure out a major relationship problem, but not being open to our suggestions. We know from RPW data that several symptoms in your relationship are caused by a deeper problem. This possibly isn’t about gently steering him to help with chores...this could be about something much bigger. Actions speak louder than words, basically, according to so many of our own experiences. Of course, no one knows your relationship better than you.	/r/RedPillWomen	14/11/18 12:25 PM
15	Red pill Women why is marriage important to you and what does it mean to you?? Is it a requirement in a LTR?? It allows for many social advantages. Society views you as one unit instead of two, easily seen in wedding invitations (you’re no longer a +1). There’s more incentive to solve relationship problems instead of running away. Unless there’s a prenup, anything acquired or purchased after marriage is legally owned by both parties. You automatically acquire next-of-kin benefits. Pensions & social security benefits are legally offered to the spouse (the lower income person can get benefits based off th…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/11/18 12:16 AM
1	Field Report: First date after discovering RPW What a great introspective post...it does sound like you did what you could. Next gentleman will be better!	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/18 07:48 PM
13	Field Report: First date after discovering RPW Red pill women educate themselves about social events. They know most everything about every social situation they encounter...how to speak, what to wear, body language, etc. The first problem with the date itself was knowing where it was taking place. You knew he was taking you to a specific Chinese place. Look it up online! That way you know casual or dressy.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/18 03:11 AM
1	How has PPD changed your views? I now understand why some men consider marriage a bad idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/18 08:10 AM
1	Wanna find out what you sound like on t'internet ? +/u/User_Simulator bunniebell	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/10/18 01:00 PM
6	I’m having trouble Yes! After a stressful day, I play music in the car that I can sing loudly with and let that pent-up sadness & aggravation out. It helps.	/r/RedPillWomen	01/09/18 05:05 PM
4	What are your favorite little perks of being married? When he or I are invited places, it’s automatically intended for BOTH of us to be invited. We often double check, just to be sure, but it’s always the case. Especially at weddings!	/r/RedPillWomen	26/08/18 05:04 PM
10	Running out of time It’s difficult to be a submissive woman when you’re the breadwinner...bringing in most of the income is such an easy way to maintain dominance in the household. Others suggest your DH is a poor pick for LTR & they could be right. Regardless, I know how you feel about 30 being too old. IT IS NOT TOO OLD!!! You are still young!! Women in their 50s are finding wonderful 2nd husbands online and through friends as we speak! I personally know almost ten of these women. However, they are still pretty f…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/08/18 04:08 PM
8	Hello, I have a few questions towards women who actively employ Red Pill in their day-to-day lives. I simply tell everyone I’m traditional & would use this terminology with my children.	/r/RedPillWives	22/07/18 12:20 AM
11	Q4All: Would you date someone who rejected you for being too fat/ out of shape who wants you back once you get fit? We do realize a baby weighs 5-11 lbs, as well as the added blood, breast milk, etc?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/18 04:45 AM
3	Prenups I am 100% with you, Briarrose. Every skill has worth and a marriage is an equitable (not equal) partnership, just like all familial relationships.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/07/18 09:14 PM
14	Speaking of marriage It’s possible he was “feeling you out” with his question. It was phrased in a way that made it seem casual...(marriage is too exciting for casual!!) Your response was likely not what he was hoping for and to save face, he lamely blamed it on a friend.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/06/18 06:23 AM
6	How can I show my appreciation? Yes, I understand simple compliments are pleasantly surprising for men. It’s rare that they get any! When supported by a man financially, I make it my top priority to be overly supportive in other areas. Sore back? Let me give you a massage. Bad day at work? Please tell me about it! Etc	/r/RedPillWives	22/06/18 12:56 PM
1	RP truths vs Feminism -- I need some encouragement! Definitely, that’s why I added the caveat in the beginning.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/06/18 10:19 PM
4	RP truths vs Feminism -- I need some encouragement! Yes! You are so right. Just like men! ;)	/r/RedPillWomen	10/06/18 10:30 PM
23	RP truths vs Feminism -- I need some encouragement! Please remember that the whole point of feminism, in the beginning, was to give women a choice. Instead of being forced into working only in the home and bearing children, women could choose a different path. This is feminism at its core.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/06/18 09:18 PM
2	favorite body part of husband Hands & back...it’s like a primal thing for me, showing his physical hard working strength	/r/RedPillWives	09/06/18 07:52 PM
1	Is your smv lowered if you have a disability? Okay, I guess I didn’t realize just how bad yoursight is...but if you don’t qualify for lasik that says a lot. I can see how you can only get the round ones now, that’s like a flashback from the 1980s haha!	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/18 07:50 PM
1	Is your smv lowered if you have a disability? This is such a common problem! Have you considered the extra expense of getting the super thin lenses they’ve engineered?	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/18 07:28 PM
2	Is your smv lowered if you have a disability? Definitely. If you’re able to catch them for a few months, at least, that’d be the telling factor	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/18 07:23 PM
1	Is your smv lowered if you have a disability? This man’s matrix is a great start: Hot/crazy matrix The most common suggestion is your SMV depends on the SMV/RMV of the men you can attract.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/18 07:21 PM
1	Is your smv lowered if you have a disability? As a RPW with incredibly disabling mental illness, disabilities definitely lower our SMV. It’s difficult for us to be the best first mate to our captain. However, you can raise your SMV through other means. In my case, I decided to use my youth, expertise in flirtation, and proven support in difficult times to raise my SMV to catch and marry the most perfect captain I could ever dream of. He is twice my age, but everyone in his family lives to be 100. I will never lose my youthfulness in compari…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/18 07:16 PM
1	New and concerned with dating I agree, OP says she has a larger issue with physical affection than just in dating. It’d be devastating to a person who needs a lot of physical affection to fall in love with you, if this larger issue can’t be addressed or improved.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/18 07:08 PM
1	New and concerned with dating I agree. It was kind for them to show kinship with their native language, but it would be kind to the rest of us to offer a translation.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/18 07:06 PM
22	Clarifying strength - alpha vs empty confidence This is definitely the view point of a woman in love with her perfectly balanced alpha/beta captain. Furthermore, alpha men (and women) aren’t confident in themselves because they compete against the easiest adversary. They seek strong competition, because they know better than most of us that there is always more to aspire to. This is also why we, as RPW, are always self-searching and improving ourselves. What a wonderfully symbiotic relationship you have! Much love and well wishes!	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/18 07:02 PM
2	How do I move on It’s wonderful that you’re introspective & honest enough with yourself as to your own actions in this relationship. I’m so glad we were able to bring you some peace of mind. We’re always here, so if you get down again remember you’re not alone	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/18 02:29 AM
6	How do I move on Please don’t think this, I know it’s it’s so hard to believe in yourself after (what seemed like) the perfect man breaks your heart...but this is not your fault. If you cheated, lied, etc, it would be different. Some people will always not love us, or like us, or even tolerate us, no matter how much we try. It’s important to recognize your failings & try to improve, sure...but you are a woman. You’re full of laughter and happiness, love and empathy. All you want is someone to love & build a futu…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/06/18 02:04 AM
1	How do I move on Yes! It needs to be expected that we all try to improve, all the time, but we each have current great qualities that make us a good match for a good alpha/beta man. Religion is a wonderful foundation. It automatically proves similar morals, hopes for the future, etc. It allows you both to learn about the real qualities quicker than some of us.	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/18 10:56 PM
3	How do I move on I absolutely do not. Please don’t take this in the wrong way, as I mean to be sincere. Those of us with faults that take awhile to improve are more likely to experience lower than normal times in the future (weight, job difficulty, etc). There are always exceptions to this rule, though. The best husbands are supportive. This is no Marilyn Monroe moment of, “He doesn’t deserve me at my best, if he can’t handle me at my worst.” Instead, what if your imperfect or special needs child required massiv…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/18 10:52 PM
8	How do I move on This is redpill for women, so it IS important to look at ourselves objectively and from an mostly alpha/some beta male point of view. That said, let’s look at your situation with a bit of empathy from the beta side and the bit of arrogance from the male alpha side. You recognized your faults awhile ago and work hard to improve. THAT is the best trait for a redpill woman. None of us can be perfect, no matter how hard we try. Continuously striving to be better...Male empathy should see this as a h…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/06/18 08:35 PM
2	Q4All: Where did the belief that most men will be able to marry a much younger woman come from? I ended up remarrying a man nearly twice my age (I’m 34). It’s the most amazing relationship I’ve ever been in. He pours love and affection on me, isn’t resentful of me wanting to stay home to be a homemaker, is wise & protective, it’s just a dream. Best decision I ever made. This sounds shallow, I know, but I can admit it—I know my youth is a huge positive in keeping him happy. It’s not the men plan to marry young women when they’re older—it’s just a pleasant thought, much like hoping to marry …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/18 05:22 PM
1	Is it possible to lower your standards? That makes sense. I think it's very true, how men still are visual creatures while women are more emotional (in general)	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/18 12:54 AM
3	Is it possible to lower your standards? Having a lower standard man often creates much more attention & devotion from him to the woman. This is such a wonderful thing that can't be replaced with just a point or two higher on the looks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/18 03:32 AM
1	Is it possible to lower your standards? Yes, I have. What I finally decided to do was wait until I received a few signals from a guy that he liked me, then I'd look at him as objectively as possible. I'd consider all his qualities and flaws then pay attention to how I felt around him. If he had many qualities I admire, his attraction level would rise, as that's a great sign for a successful future together. Basically, I did not seriously flirt with any man that wasn't interested in me at first. Rejection was killing me. I was a 5 but …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/18 03:30 AM
4	Let's talk about homemakers The hate against SAHM or SAHW makes me angry. The whole point of the women's revolution was to allow women CHOICES. They meant to give women the freedom to be readily accept by society, no matter how they choose to live their life (maybe prostitution didn't count). Loving, supporting, and caring for loved ones is an important skill that is demeaned. I'm a SAHW due to some health reasons and am able to spend my time helping my entire extended family research expensive items to buy (cars), give th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/18 03:17 AM
4	Why do women (overwhelmingly) enforce a sex toy/masturbation double standard: "you go girl!" vs. "he must be a creepy perv who can't get a girl in the real world", etc? It's a "fair" standard due to societal thinking regarding men sexual partner numbers vs women sex partner numbers. Women sleeping with many men are considered sluts, so society accepts more masturbation. Men with many sex partners are studs, so they shouldn't masturbate as much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/18 08:28 PM
2	Q4W: Why are you on redpill/manosphere? Noob redditor first hearing about TRP theories & started researching. It’s nice to know all angles to something. I offered kind advice to one gentleman, knowing little about Reddit. Apparently, people existed before Reddit was created. Who knew? EDIT: As your profile proves you enjoy being rude in most of your correspondence, I will not be replying further.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/18 07:00 AM
1	Q4W: Why are you on redpill/manosphere? I’m a female with feminist views AND enjoy traditional gender roles. As RPT men are babies & won’t allow women (I was banned), we must explore this juxtaposition of gender roles here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/18 06:44 AM
28	Losing our sex life In general, men's libido rises and falls based on their idea of success. If their self-esteem takes a beating, libido plummets. If their confident and pumped up about their successes, libido shoots up. There's a lot here that shows his confidence is low. There are the huge stressors...moving, family illness, & money problems. The money part is a HUGE problem for men's idea of success. Moving is one of the most stressful happenings in the world, up there with family death, divorce & marriage. Fur…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/18 08:24 AM
3	Many, Many Women are Unlovable Because of Their Looks Everyone has a different definition of love. Keeping up with an expensive car isn't love...it's self-interest. If money is important to them, they bought the car to appeal to their self-interest & continue that self-interest by putting time into the car. Have you ever heard about hot women being bitches? Or that hot women don't need personalities or interests because they can get everything due to their looks? Many women below 6/10 take care of themselves in other ways...which makes them attract…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/18 09:15 PM
1	Why American men are getting less marriageable - Article It’s not men’s fault that women changed the societal landscape during the sexual revolution. There used to be a tight social contract between the genders—men worked in public life, women worked in private life, they always married, divorce was shunned, children must be legitimate or given away...women wanted a choice about all this. They were tired of being forced to live that way. So they fucked it up for the future generations of women. It’s cool that women have choices now. The consequence is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/18 01:01 PM
2	CMV: There are ultimately two kinds of sexual assault and rape, and they need to be differentiated . The term “rape” is now often used for any act of simple or hardcore sexual assault. Any type of sexual assault, no matter the motive, is still sexual assault—since popular culture treats the word “rape” as an all-inclusive sexual assault term...any and all sexual assault is now under its umbrella. Really, though, motive doesn’t matter. Is manslaughter still murder? It’s a crime, albeit not as bad as 1st degree murder, but the perpetrator of manslaughter didn’t MEAN to kill—it was just a matter o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/18 12:49 PM
1	Why We Pick Difficult Partners Logically, we (in the common family dynamic) spend our whole lives with our immediate families. Even when growing up and moving out, the family can be a large part of your life. It only makes sense that our formative years would shape us into seeking out a certain type of partner. I fought my own disposition for certain types of men, because I wanted to be “normal”. Once I finally allowed myself to be at peace and follow my heart, I was much happier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/02/18 12:29 PM
1	Women want less sex in relationships because men don't put nearly as much effort into being sexually attractive. You speak the truth. I can't believe the lack of basic hygiene some men have. It's disgusting.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/01/18 01:30 PM
1	Q4Women: Would you date a man who is bi? I dated a bi man. He was too effeminate for me. Any time after that, if I was about to develop a crush on man—if he was too effeminate for me, I’d end finding out they were bi. It’s not an issue of disgust, it’s an issue of personality and social cues. Of course, not all bi men are like this, and this is solely my opinion/experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/18 05:31 AM
2	Q4W: Would you date a man who has seen multiple prostitutes? I'm a little liberal when it comes to sex, not as far as polyamory or the latest sexual trend that makes people feel superior, but far enough to be more forgiving than a lot of others. The world is lonely without human affection. Being male can make it harder to find intimacy, especially if they're heterosexual. I would absolutely forgive a man who saw a few escorts in his past. It's a pragmatic way to get that human intimacy when conventional means don't work. HOWEVER, there's some rules for my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/18 01:07 PM
1	How widespread is The Red Pill? I notice more red pill thinking and action in higher statuses/cultures in US society. The higher the status and wealth, the more it seems that men act out red pill qualities & women are more accepting & even enjoy them. This makes complete sense when you examine the SMV (status, something, value) rules. Wealth, age, resources, education, family reknown, etc, move men & women up in the available choices of relationships. From red pill logic, we know that high SMV women are in surplus and high SMV…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/01/18 12:44 PM
1	Sigh...so tired of men being demonized. William Macy is speaking the truth! I agree with your sentiments on men in Hollywood being stigmatized for pay inequality. To an extent, it makes perfect sense. If a woman is a manager at a company with the same qualifications as her fellow male coworker (also a manager), they should receive equal pay. The problem with Hollywood is that it's a creative field. Artists (painters, writers, actors, etc) of all kinds are in such surplus that employers can pick and choose more so than typical employers. Furthermore, women have always be…	/r/RedPillWives	23/01/18 12:33 PM
11	Mixing money and love: a dilemma I’m more concerned about your different spending habits than his large debt. What happens once you pay his debt off? $12 fancy coffee seems excessive to me, and I pay $5 for Frappuccinos (it might just be where you live that raises the price). Different spending habits will create resentment, especially if one of you stops working for children, illness, etc. It is not easy to find high RMV men. Every man has a flaw, too. Is this his only major flaw? Personally, low/no debt is low on my list of p…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/18 11:09 AM
7	Marriage counseling. Back when religion was a building block of families, their counselers were clergy or fellow church-goers. Those families stayed together, and it wasn’t only societal pressure that kept them there—it was their sense of community. Therefore, marriage counseling is something I believe every couple should do, even if they are happy. Learning more communication skills can never be a bad thing. I had marriage counseling with my first husband. It helped, a lot, but that husband was still like a child.	/r/RedPillWives	18/01/18 05:10 AM
43	Relationship is sinking S.O.S! We are red pill women and your story is sad for us! This man is NOT Captain material! He’s a waste of space! Even most Betas would have jobs at some point over the years. He is not kind to you in the slightest. Therapy doesn’t work because you don’t have a mental illness—you have too much stress in the form of your chosen partner. He will steal you beauty, cause you much more weight gain, and steal your child-bearing years. There are so many men in this world that would show you LOVE. They would…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/18 05:06 AM
2	New RPW Needs Help With LDR We wish you would tell us your ages and length of relationship, but we can give generic advice without them. The biggest part of any LDR is to PROVE your SO is a priority to you. Non-LDRs get the advantage of physical affection and body language, easily showing love. You don’t have that. You must carve time out for him. Phone calls, texts, Skype—sending short videos & selfies while going about your normal day is good. Mail him gifts often. Romantic cards, love letters, small gifts with an explan…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/01/18 05:46 AM
12	How to deal with past I found through direct and indirect relationships that 6 months is often the perfect amount of time to find out if you're truly compatible with someone's 3-4 months is spent acting on your best behavior to wow your new partner...then the next 2-3 months is spent actually learning about flaws and long-term compatibility. I know it emotionally hurts right now, because you were hopeful and possibly in love with him, but this is for the best. You will find your soulmate!!! Think about this way...you…	/r/RedPillWomen	15/01/18 07:10 PM
6	Q4Women: Who, SPECIFICALLY, is telling you you're inferior to men, worthless, and good only for sex? When and where, specifically, are these things being said or done? When an entire society feels the need to prop up a single minority group for decades, that should signal to you a big societal problem for that group. Who cares about the last 30 years? CENTURIES of women being oppressed will not change in 3 decades. I was told by a 25 year old boyfriend to my 24 year old face that I wasn't intellectually stimulating, boring, and that he stayed with me for sex but stopped being attracted to me. I've had several men in my dating past change from commitment to onl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/18 12:45 AM
2	Why aren’t men who abandon their families charged with child neglect? You’re wrong. In order to garnish wages, a court order from Family court must be submitted EVERY TIME. In order for this to happen, someone has to alert the clerk that the father has a new job and it’s location. Typically, fathers that don’t pay child support willingly change jobs often, essentially hiding from garnishment. I am such a child. I know many such children and mothers. You are not a nice person and you really should research things more carefully before you act like an ass.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/18 06:34 AM
1	Table Ettiquette with Gloria Starr What wonderful information. I do like the way she carries herself, she has an air of sophistication. I picked up on her fast speech pattern and I wonder if that’s how she masks her nervousness. It seems like something I might do in a formal setting.	/r/RedPillWives	31/12/17 06:10 PM
7	New Year's Resolutions Thread! I vow to pick up one new hobby. Relearning playing flute or learning to knit are my top choices	/r/RedPillWives	31/12/17 06:01 PM
4	Q4W: Are men wrong in assuming you're magical creatures? Human beings are pretty fantastic. Except for maybe you. ::eyeroll	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/17 03:23 PM
1	Q4W: Are men wrong in assuming you're magical creatures? Woman here. Women ARE magical, just as men are magical (for different reasons). Child-bearing & childbirth blows my mind. That is something a man (cis) will never experience. Women can carry themselves in all sorts of societal accepted ways--feminine, tomboy, masculine, vegan hippie, rocker, etc, more so than men. Carrying all reproductive organs INSIDE the body is too cool. Having long, fancy painted nails is awesome, jewelry is awesome, and for women who are moody...the drama can be fun? Maybe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/17 03:13 PM
24	How can I make myself become marriage material? Does he seem resentful (even a little) that you're not contributing much money to the household? He could make comments like, "What'd you do all day?", "You sure sleep a lot", or "We really can't afford this/that". Even though a red pill man, ideally, would take pride in being the breadwinner--some men just want an ambitious wife. Ambition can take many forms, though. Right now, your own situation doesn't bode well for a shared future. You moved in with him because of logistical reasons (with th…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/17 07:42 AM
1	If a man doesn't want any children, there is no longer benefits or any good reason for him to get married. Married men live longer, have more sex, and are more attractive to other women--statistically speaking	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/17 07:00 AM
1	CMV: All things equal, a career woman has a much better chance of getting the commitment of a high quality man than non career women I understand what you mean. You're saying that you beleive MC career women to be singularly focused on their career & they derive all their satisfaction in life from work. You only care about work enough to make enough money to survive & debt is a non-issue, as you focus your energies on other things besides money & career.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/17 07:57 AM
2	CMV: Male cheating is worse and more hypocritical than female cheating I agree that society places women's infidelity as worse than a man's and it is WRONG. My theory is that women's fidelity before DNA testing was under societal pressure for reasons of paternity. If a woman became pregnant, her S.O. would want reassurance that the child was his. I see a lot of ancestors posts where people find out decades later that the family they've always known turns out to not be their biological family. It's not right that the double standard persisted for centuries, but it's…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/17 09:41 PM
26	Boyfriend told me he is pretty sure I am not the "one" for him. Says he still wants our relationship right now. Should I stay? (LONG) I married a man that didn't really love me, and it ended in divorce 3 years later and a deep depression that prevented me from working and lasted for a year. Please try to leave this man so you can find your true soulmate.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/17 07:32 PM
7	I am 23 and and want a REAL MAN (I like older men) but they are impatient and just want sex? As a woman in my 30s who married a man in his 50s, I agree with you. One major reason for them to be interested in us is the physical intimacy. He fell in love with me once I proved that I would be his side through thick & thin. He was going through a long, tumultuous divorce, and he felt comfortable to tell me about it. I offered to help him through it by researching & sharing information about possible ways for him to handle the hurdles. This proved to him that I would be a good long-term part…	/r/RedPillWomen	21/11/17 10:38 PM
2	Differences Between Old Fashioned and Modern Male Stars I find the generational differences in men to be fascinating. Just like women (and humans), the society we grow up in helps to mold and define us. Thank you for this share.	/r/RedPillWives	20/11/17 11:48 AM
2	Why are conservative / red pill / whatever women drawn to TERFs? It may stem simply from researching & attempting to gain knowledge about different social groups & how they feel about gender. It's likely as you suggest, though, that it's another group of woman & there is female solidarity. A likely possibility is that to take pride in being a woman, it's easiest to eliminate other people from your category. By lifting the standards used to define "female" or "woman", they are shrinking the pool, making themselves feel more special. I prefer to shrink my idea …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/17 06:43 AM
1	CMV: The vast majority of crap that men put up with is the fault of more powerful men. The most common denominator is usually the culprit of unhappiness. I'd love to provide proof, but I'm not a man nor a woman hater myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/17 11:55 AM
2	People in happy marriages or live in LTR's of a few years: How do you know you won't stop wanting your partner? It takes work to keep the spark alive. I've heard that "marriage won't bring you happiness. You're the only thing that bring happiness into your marriage." Continuing to work towards the happiness of your spouse, and your spouse continuing to work towards your happiness, is key.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/17 11:50 PM
1	Help Me Sort Through This New Living Arrangement Well said!	/r/RedPillWives	08/07/17 01:46 AM
6	Help Me Sort Through This New Living Arrangement Knowing that he had two other roommate possibilities, I would be livid. A good man for a long-term commitment will put your wishes toward the top of his priorities, unless it cannot be done for reasons. He had other solutions that were likely just as fine as the girl. I would WANT to end it, but I likely wouldn't and silently seethe. I would advise you to break it off, but it may even not be a thang and he just thinks it's No Big Deal.	/r/RedPillWives	07/07/17 10:43 AM
2	Which Captain is the right kind of Captain? I'm 33 & unfortunately a serial monogamist. I'm married to my Captain who knows my past and accepts it. My extensive experience has given me wisdom, though. 6 months is the average amount of time it takes for people to show their true colors in a romantic relationship. People start out on their best behavior, putting their best foot forward, to impress, attract, and gain your love--once love is there, comfort settles in. True colors start to show. Everyone has flaws. If someone appears completel…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/06/17 06:21 AM
1	Q4Women: Women of PPD, please answers these questions to help me understand some important things about female sexuality. It really is interesting!	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/17 08:33 PM
2	When your partner has a problem I confide in one person closest to me that I trust. If it's something too delicate to share, I wait to discuss it with my husband when he's relaxed from work & chores	/r/RedPillWives	10/06/17 10:08 AM
7	Q4Women: Women of PPD, please answers these questions to help me understand some important things about female sexuality. 1: Male genitalia is certainly strange & fascinating. It is a turn-on only because it's visual proof of my partner's readiness for intimacy. I don't fantasize about them as an entity separate from my partner. It is a sensitive tool that brings me & my partner pleasure in numerous ways. 2: Cocks have a life of their own. They can quiver when touched, expand and contract based on levels of horniness/movements, offer clues as to what pleases and displeases a man (soft vs erect), and never lies when…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/17 10:04 AM
2	Anxiety and Psychological Femininity I also struggle with mental illness, primarily anxiety. Mix that with a man-hating mother and you get a train wreck. The only thing that worked for me was time. It took a long time for me to completely trust my now husband, and I falter sometimes. The proof is in the pudding...time and again, he was here for me, put me first, made me feel loved.	/r/RedPillWives	07/06/17 04:30 AM
–	Right from the horses mouth .... I was literally thanked for doing what we preach here. Long Read? As a First Mate to my own Captain, my concern here is the immediate choice to have her continue to work & go to college. Why did you not tell her to look more into the grants & EI? Research all options before making a decision, if possible. How wonderful would it be to allow your hardworking wife to focus on her schooling? You even mention that it would've been ideal if you made more money to let her do that. Yes, I get caught up in the details. #FirstMate Exhaustion is a poor foundation for a h…	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/06/17 04:54 AM
1	Can your man be honest with you? Absolutely. One of things I love about my husband is that he understands honesty as I do. Honesty =/= cruelty You can always be honest in a kind & thoughtful manner.	/r/RedPillWives	24/05/17 05:06 AM
1	Married and serious LTR-ed women: How many hobbies and interests do you share with your man? How much time do you spend together in general? We are opposites attract, as far as our past times. I'll tell you what I tell everyone...if you love someone & wish to keep the relationship strong, you will FIND past times to do together (in some fashion). My much older man finds some of my geeky hobbies strange...but I have no patience for his hikes & gardening. So we chat about politics, watch late night tv, and definitely come together for hosting all holidays for extended family	/r/RedPillWives	24/05/17 04:51 AM
1	What's your job and your partner's job? Currently not working due to health reasons, but I am a middle school teacher. My husband is a marketing and sales executive in a small company	/r/RedPillWomen	28/04/17 04:57 PM
3	Older women, what depressing social changes have you seen in your lifetime? Yes, and even with a health self-worth and good moral code, a woman can get tangled up with the wrong men. One of my big traits is compassion. I believe most everything is forgivable and I give most people the benefit of the doubt. I like this quality in myself--but it certainly made it difficult to say goodbye to an otherwise good man when a red flag was raised	/r/RedPillWives	12/03/17 07:02 PM
4	Older women, what depressing social changes have you seen in your lifetime? I'm awed by your awareness and ability to act on it! I believe one of my qualities is compassion, and I extended that to men that I dated--to my detriment. In a similar situation, I'd brush off the same behavior as, "Oh, he's just a horndog like all men." Then I would waste a year dating a man who immediately gave me a red flag. GOOD FOR YOU.	/r/RedPillWives	12/03/17 12:14 PM
11	Older women, what depressing social changes have you seen in your lifetime? I was raised with some traditional values, like male chivalry, female oversight of home life, and that men need the ability (education or honed skill) to immediately support the family after a few years of marriage, even if the woman is the main breadwinner. No living together before marriage, etc. Dating various men my age (I'm in my 30s) proved to me that everything I was raised with is now nearly obsolete, except in wealthier circles. I ended up marrying (my 2nd husband) the perfect man for m…	/r/RedPillWives	06/03/17 06:13 PM
1	When you don't want sex Exactly! For sure, no one wants sex when they aren't feeling good about themselves. I would start there. Start pampering yourself, treat yourself like you deserve! Even a slight raise in an already healthy self-esteem can make a big difference in libido.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/02/17 10:33 PM
3	When you don't want sex Yes! Google has a treasure trove, but here are some good ones: 8 Benefits of Sleeping in the Nude Naked Meditation: Accept Your Naked Self AskWomen Reddit thread: Does Nudity help self-esteem? Oprah: Learn to Love Your Naked Self	/r/RedPillWomen	26/02/17 10:29 PM
16	When you don't want sex Sleeping nude and moving about the house nude are good for general building of self-esteem (helping you feel comfortable in your own skin that shines when you feel even safer once clothes are back on. I pamper myself to feel sexy. I've learned the current rhythm of my libido...I can only feel horny once every 3 days, max. I take a bubble bath, drink a glass of wine, put on sexy slow music (like something you'd do a striptease to), put lotion on, doll myself up, wear extra nice lingerie. I light …	/r/RedPillWomen	26/02/17 02:29 PM
10	He keeps breaking up with me. I would think about ending things. If he threatens to leave every time you have an argument, he won't be able to stand the pressures of married life...or CHILDREN...could you imagine discussing how to parent a child with this man? I always like to think about the worst case scenario--how would he handle the end of the world? Would he drag you with him, protect you, and stay with you through trying to survive? Please think about it. I married and wasted 5 years of my life with a man who could not…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/02/17 04:27 PM
7	Captain doesn't like it when I make him breakfast / pack his lunches every day I did the same thing for my husband, with a similar reaction. I've since learned that he values leaving the office during lunch. He's set in his ways, and having a lunch prepared fresh by me forces him to eat that instead.	/r/RedPillWives	23/02/17 11:22 AM
3	BDSM I do! It's great for the dynamic, just as you say.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/02/17 05:09 PM
4	Girl's night red-pilled movies? The 2015 version of Cinderella is amazing, it's a Kenneth Branagh film. Ever After, Becoming Jane, The Young Victoria are other good ones.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/17 05:59 AM
1	Decided between career and relationship at 22 Of course that is not what I meant, and making a significant other a priority goes both ways.	/r/RedPillWives	22/01/17 03:59 PM
2	Decided between career and relationship at 22 This sounds reasonable and I hope everything goes well for you, both in your love life and your career!	/r/RedPillWives	22/01/17 12:58 PM
2	Decided between career and relationship at 22 It's important that your significant other put you and your wishes first, reasonably, above anything else. It's a red flag to me when men say they can see themselves getting married nearly a decade from now, especially to a woman they've dated for years already. I suspect you feel that way, too. There are several possible reasons for that, though. He may want to own a house before marriage, perhaps make a certain salary, etc. Communication & compromise is key. His response to the job offer news …	/r/RedPillWives	22/01/17 12:35 PM
1	End of life etiquette for spouse's parents I did read this advice in an article and you are so right. I will fuss up a storm!	/r/RedPillWomen	20/01/17 12:14 AM
1	End of life etiquette for spouse's parents I wish I was in Europe with you! Thank you for your thoughts	/r/RedPillWomen	17/01/17 03:59 PM
4	End of life etiquette for spouse's parents You're right, anticipating needs and filling them is a great way to support	/r/RedPillWomen	17/01/17 03:58 PM
1	End of life etiquette for spouse's parents Thank you so much.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/01/17 03:58 PM
2	End of life etiquette for spouse's parents I appreciate your honesty! This is great to know. I want to be as supportive as I can, and that definitely includes adding the least amount of stress as possible--I do have a tendency to butt in as a way to help. It seems my role is to be present & kind, and that is good to know	/r/RedPillWomen	17/01/17 03:57 PM