This is why we don't get involved with cops.

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2020-01-14T22:16:56+00:00

Oh my god.

OH MY GOD!!!!

It's not just cops btw. I IMMEDIATELY unmatch and block any man with access to weapons. I block army, navy, airforce, "veterans (even if he says he "was just an engineer)", cops, detectives, security guards.

If they've received training on how to kill, I WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH THEM

stillcantsee · 2020-01-15T00:43:08+00:00

Terrifying. I won’t date military (active duty or vets) or men into hunting either. No fucking way am I delivering myself to be murdered by a gun!!

extraacct1234 · 2020-01-15T02:44:44+00:00

I knew a woman who had to move all the way across the US to get away from her abusive cop husband because he had all his cop buddies looking for in the surrounding states. Just think about that. She was the most paranoid person I ever met and I can't say that it was without reason. She wouldn't have a cell phone or a computer, she lived in a motorhome in the middle of nowhere in the woods, she would move from state to state every couple months. That's how she lived to survive this evil bastard.

kasurimethi · 2020-01-14T21:56:43+00:00

Christ. Poor girl.

Evil_Rao · 2020-01-15T00:49:22+00:00

This is so GROSS. There are so many cops that show up in OLD apps where I live, I always make sure to dodge them like bullets. I hope he pays for what he did.

suaveagave · 2020-01-14T21:40:14+00:00

ACAB

glittersparklesglitz · 2020-01-15T02:51:21+00:00

I didn't realize that this was a standard (no cops), but it makes sense. The cop I dated lied about his age, living arrangement, and marital status. Lesson learned.

woiashenseea · 2020-01-15T03:20:38+00:00

PSA!!!

Like cops, there is a strong and statistically significant learning towards authoritarianism among physicians. My political views totally aside, male doctors and nurses make the CREEPIEST and most aggressive comments out of anyone... I havent bothered to try to date any of them, but

Beware!!

7_0f_9 · 2020-01-15T06:16:24+00:00

" I know it sounds STUPID, but he wasn’t violent and I wasn’t hurt and being violently assaulted"... um whoa there... that IS violent assault... the level of denial is tremendous.

Petra-24 · 2020-01-18T12:11:45+00:00

There is a reason to why these men are attracted to jobs where they have power over others. It's not because they care so much for others and feel the urge to be helpful, that type of men become nurses (male nurses can be quiet sexy, btw).

I live in Europe, and I've talked with a few women here who went to the police academy here. The one thing these men talk about is training, training and muscle building. What to eat to build muscles, how to build muscles, and so on. It was like this 10 years ago, it is still like this today.

There is no interest in societal problems, why they exist, how come, how to change things, what could be done differently or better... Just muscles.

(Most) men are immoral. But there are no where where as much immorality is gathered as in men who are in the police force. I know of men who had families, grown children, men in the police force, who were in their late 40's, who have split the family up, split with their wives, in order to be with 19-20 year old (barely) women. Cheating is rampant among these men.

So many reasons to stay away from men in the police force.

bunniebell · 2020-01-15T08:41:10+00:00

Thank god I never dated a cop. I always wanted to, but constant horror stories like this make me grateful I didn’t.

Lakersrock111 · 2020-01-15T15:29:06+00:00

What about a fireman?

Title	This is why we don't get involved with cops.
Author	LadyStain
Upvotes	71
Comments	43
Date	January 14, 2020 9:36 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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