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in order for it to be 'game' and not just approaching a girl and talking to her, would you not need things like disqualifiers and stuff (as well as your verbal examples) in order to actually make her attracted (in case she's not already attracted to you as she might be some tall handsome guy)
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:34 PM
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As someone else said, every single thing you do/say will be 'correct' in the eyes of one method/expert/coach, and INCORRECT in the eyes of a different method/expert/coach I think this is because when something 'works' it's really down too a combination of things like how physically attracted the girl in question was, what sort of personality she has, the location, her age etc etc People try to make rules etc to fit, but it's not really about that YOu can't 'game' a girl who doesn't want to be ga…
/r/seduction21/01/20 08:20 AM
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No shit DQ'ing is a terrible idea without the girl already being into you. Mysterymethod says to disaqualify yourself and neg very soon after (or even AT) the open. Never know who to listen too, lol. All the 'experts' (who i'd bet get rejected as much as we do) all say different things Problem is that attraction is a pre-requisite, and you can't really 'create' that effectilvey (as mark manson says, attraction can only really be amplified). If you look at PUA 'methods' for actually 'making attra…
/r/seduction20/01/20 11:31 PM
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I tend to dislike most heavily upvoted posts, but this is pretty legit!
/r/seduction07/01/20 08:38 AM
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But they both disagree too lol. Piper runs natrual game, and WIA runs mysterymethod/old school game. We don't need 'experts' here because you can read the mysterymethod (and now you don't need WIA) or you can watch 'the natrual' or read mark Manson or something, (and now don't need pipers posts to help) Not to mention that nobody knows who's actually getting results, if anyone. We all have access to the material so we should all be experts, really (on the theory)
/r/seduction31/12/19 02:39 PM
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People seem to post them less now, but that's because the pattern here was getting boring and posting 'specifics' of field reports on this sub seemed to lead too a weird hindsight/confirmation bias. If a poster writes an Field Report using direct game and gets laid, everyone congratulates the poster on their direct game and sings it's praises. But if he fails to get laid, instead people now reply saying that one shouldn't go direct (and use that as the basis for his failure) and link you to the …
/r/seduction31/12/19 09:25 AM
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better of just opening her, telling her she's cute, and asking her out. If she likes you back, you're golden. If she doesn't, no 'game' is gonna change her mind, so eject. Learn game = approach and find out if you have a shot or not
/r/seduction30/12/19 04:22 PM
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this is yareally's ''story''! Not yours lol. Funny that it's been upvoted! Almost ironic
/r/seduction29/12/19 08:14 PM
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lol - PUA are no better at this shit that us. It's all tricks and editing/cherry picking etc. If she doesn't think you're hot/she's not interested, you're literally wasting your time trying to 'game' her into fancying you lol
/r/seduction14/12/19 01:15 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/e9vpj6/any_nightgame_infields_from_england_that_you_can/ https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bmnbsl/the_uk_scene/
/r/seduction14/12/19 01:08 PM
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Girls who are visiting a new country and are travelling are in 'adventure mode' and are receptive to cold approach and having sex. No judgement from friends etc. Plus your value as someone who lives there is a little higher. It's a common PUA tricks. There's lots of tricks they use to make you think they are good at pulling girls lol. Truth is they are no better than you. But they approach in volume, and can edit footage (and delete footage etc) to make it look good ALso culture. Polish girls ar…
/r/seduction14/12/19 01:06 PM
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I'm clearly in the vast minority, but I think it COULD have been some sort of 'test' - to make him jealous. Girls do that Also, I actually found myself doing something similar last weekend. I kissed a pretty girl on the dancefloor, and later was talking too a really hot girl who I told about the dancefloor girl. I don't even know why I told her that, but I think it was my instincts as a way to kind of make her see me as a guy that can get girls and maybe even make her jealous to 'chase' me lol D…
/r/seduction27/11/19 11:38 AM
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She approached you? You still have to game her. You may have an easier time because she has high interest but you still have to have game. Thing is, in your example of a girl approaching some super handome dude, the only 'game' he needs is basically not being a complete weirdo lol (can't hold eye contact, can't keep any sort of conversation going at all etc). It's not so much 'game' as 'being somewhat normal' So when someone says 'just learn game, bro!!'' are they actually saying 'just learn to …
/r/seduction17/11/19 09:40 AM
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No worries lol
/r/seduction16/11/19 10:38 PM
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I think you've somehow mistake me for someone else lol. I never said your text was annoying or distasteful look up in this thread. I think you're talking about /u/Imperator_Pyra
/r/seduction16/11/19 10:06 PM
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Btw u answered none of my questions lol You didn't ask me anything? (don't think we've spoke before lol)
/r/seduction16/11/19 10:00 PM
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I feel if you’re able to sexually arouse her and set a few frames Expand please - particularly with examples of 'setting frames' PS - for what it's worth, I don't believe a girl will bang you if you aren't her type (since she won't be sexually attracted to you now matter what) even if you are able to sexually arouse her somewhat (maybe with sex talk - taking her mind too a sexual place or whatever)
/r/seduction16/11/19 09:17 PM
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Do you have any archives of the RSD nation forum? Afraid not. I miss that forum ;(
/r/seduction16/11/19 08:15 PM
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In pimp? Cheers. Haven't watched it in years (I own every program in existence lol) I'll try to find it
/r/seduction16/11/19 07:44 PM
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Julien has an infield in PIMP where he demonstrates a girl who goes from bored to the sexual hook. What one was that? Was it in the club where the girls is ignoring him and he tells her not to try so hard and then tells her to 'be like a child' or something, and she eventually talk s a little? That's the only one of his that I can think of that fits your description, although with her he certainly didn't reach the sexual hook point and certainly no lay. He just turned her from freezing cold to l…
/r/seduction16/11/19 07:39 PM
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Just Tell yourself that you love yourself. That's new age 'game'. Then you can bang all the girls you want because you love yourself
/r/seduction14/11/19 01:34 PM
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I'm talking about sleeping with a different girl every night for 3 consecutive weeks I'm convinced you're talking complete fantasy at this point lol
/r/seduction14/11/19 01:24 PM
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you mean sliding into a completely random girls DM's on insta or something? I can't imagine this ever even getting a reply unless you are handsome as holy shit, and also have like 5k followers minimum. But if that's you, I say go for it! Why the hell not! nothing wrong with being lazy and taking teh easy route if the payoff is the same
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:32 PM
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At 27 basically no age group is out of bounds. You're lucky. You can bang an 18 year old or a 45 year old. I don't know why you'd think it's too late? You're basically at your peak, i'd say
/r/seduction08/11/19 03:35 PM
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27 is young as fuck. You being serious?
/r/seduction08/11/19 03:20 PM
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/r/seduction08/11/19 03:08 PM
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Depends on the girl. Also depends on how attracted to you she is. Lots of times i've been aloof and not really chased, and she's ended up with someone else who DID chase her hard lol Other times being aloof and not caring much 'worked'. There's no rules when dealing with human beings
/r/seduction08/11/19 10:49 AM
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Brutal Real talk lol I saw someone on Krausers blog recently mention some similar points in regards to trickery that the industry use to fool people. The fact that mystery managed to convince a even a small number of people that girls don't care about looks and that they experience attraction differently is actually pretty impressive lol. It's like convincing people that the sun isn't hot. It's like, you can work an office job and a handsome guy comes in to deliver something, and when he leaves,…
/r/seduction25/10/19 07:47 PM
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Because a good chunk of the girls you do it on will be 'on the fence' about you; If you don't give them that option, they will simply either say 'no' (if you gave them the 'yes or no' option) or they would just not play along at all (in your example)
/r/seduction18/10/19 05:09 PM
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Everyone up in here playing checkers, and you're playing chess!! ps - I actually used that sort of gimmick on girls before with success. My 'go too' move was to send them over a piece of paper (from the barman) basically saying 'Do you like me?' with the options 'yes', 'no', and 'maybe' to tick
/r/seduction18/10/19 03:09 PM
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The example you mentioned is a little wordy in my opinion but if it works it works. Just 'a little wordy'? I'm surprised people aren't ripping the piss out of that gunwitch 'opener'! Maybe it's a culture thing and the American girls can't 'see through it' like European girls can? It just sounds like the worst kin of 'chatup line' imaginable and would be met with complete disdain here lol But as you say, if it works, it works (depending on your location, i guess)
/r/seduction18/10/19 02:57 PM
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girls here like the feminine pretty boys who look like a young DiCaprio lol.
/r/seduction18/10/19 09:45 AM
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Oh the moment I saw him it was an immediate yes, he barely even needed to talk. Looks matter, don’t ever try to tell me that they don’t. Trust me, you don't need to tell me! Haha My wingman is handsome as fuck! Even I as a straight dude can't fail to see that. And he bangs the hottest girls everytime we go out and he doesn't need to do a damn thing! lol. I've seen it for years so I laugh just as much as you do when PUA's tell us that 'looks don't matter' when it's actually the most important thi…
/r/seduction17/10/19 07:44 PM
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There was this absolute SMOKESHOW of a man who approached me last month and he got my number without a problem. So you can definitely get results, it’s not hopeless. Have the right approach. By 'right approach' you mean be a smokeshow!? haha - i'm not judging you btw. Just playing. Us guys are the same as we only care about looks really too, but there's always this PUA stuff about how girls don't care about looks that always makes me laugh lol
/r/seduction17/10/19 06:37 PM
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The comments on the dailymail site actually seem as shocked as me lol. UK has gone completely mad. No wonder it's usually the UK guys posting pretty brutal field reports of harsh rejections despite applying 'game' theory. Doesn't work on UK girls - they need strong physical attraction, ideally in a non 'cold approach' setting
/r/seduction10/10/19 12:21 PM
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Don't approach UK girls without strong IOI's!! Also, never 'kino' them first or ''assume attraction'' lol UK isn't the US
/r/seduction10/10/19 11:21 AM
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US has much more of a 'hookup culture' than the UK tbh. UK girls sleep with every guy they work with and in their social circle, but much less with random dudes in bars and tinder dates compared to US girls
/r/askTRP07/10/19 10:47 AM
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haha
/r/seduction04/10/19 07:43 PM
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he memorised some cheesy pick up lines. (girl asks name = 'it's xxx, but you can call me any time' etc) You can do that too But results will depend on how handsome you are lol
/r/seduction27/09/19 05:10 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/d9ezmp/hot_neighbour_sos/ As you can see, girls are the same as guys when it comes too attraction
/r/seduction26/09/19 08:41 PM
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in his example the girl literally told him he wasn't her type. She wasn't physically attracted. No amount of negs and DHV stories would change that. In your example, the girl probably thought you were handsome but pretended not to be interested for a few seconds (maybe due to her friends being there or it's part of her shtick etc)
/r/seduction26/09/19 03:50 PM
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lol, that''s what he done (music etc)
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:37 PM
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Millions of definitions. For example, you'll see ''just learn game, bro!!!'' but then read that 'what you say doesn't matter', and read things like 'remember you are the prize' and 'be outcome independant' etc, and start wondering 'what the hell is there to actually 'learn' that I can apply?!! haha Or the only 'practical' thing you'll see is thing like ''Remember to listen to what the girl says and reply with something based on that information'. So, stuff that only Edward Scissorhands would nee…
/r/seduction26/09/19 02:20 PM
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You sounds like a realist. Like me. :) I don't completely agree and I would still say looks are the most important thing, though. (because charisma or 'game' without reaching her looks threshold will never get her sexually attracted, making looks the most important thing in my opinon) In other words, a 7/10 guy who has a personality of a swashbuckling pirate will outgame a 10/10 male model who just sits meekly in the corner. People would probably expect me to disagree with this, but I actually a…
/r/seduction26/09/19 12:36 PM
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The actual 'attraction' part of the equation is the most important bit (no sex without attraction) but unfortunately, it's also the bit that is basically out of your control. If you're not her type (physically) it ain't gonna happen. Do you really think that 'attraction material' like cold reads and stories and 'the best friends tests' is gonna make a girl sexually attracted? I think it can make her think you're 'fun' and 'social' and lots of positive traits, but it's not gonna make her wanna ri…
/r/seduction26/09/19 10:28 AM
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Good game. Don't beat yourself up about the rejections. YOu can't MAKE someone attracted to you (mystery uses routines for this, but no way will that stuff make a girl sexually attracted to you! At best it might make her think you're 'fun' or 'interesting' etc) As Mark Manson says, 'game is played on teh yes girls'. Forget about teh 'no girls'. They can never be got
/r/seduction25/09/19 05:38 PM
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I agree in that, I think it's hypocritical to get angry about this stuff We only want to bang girls who we think look good. Guess what...girls are the same lol. (they will only bang someone who they are physically attracted too. That's why so many 'pro PUA's still get rejected a tonne. They are rejected by the girls who are not physically attracted to them) Can't be angry at them for being the same as us!
/r/seduction24/09/19 04:30 PM
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depends on how attracted she is, tbh (just how hot she thinks you are) I used to have a German wing who looked like a model (Green eyes, 6ft 4, ripped, good hair, chisled facial features etc) with the worst game, but he slayed so many girls due to their extreme attraction towards him/his looks I do agree in general, though. I have a fair few friends who are 'fairly handsome' but who don't have game, and even though they get laid, they lose quite a few girls who are initially interested
/r/seduction24/09/19 04:27 PM
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Did you ever hook up with that much-younger girl? Please say yes -- it'll give me hope! ha! I'm afraid I did not! (although I don't think it was an age thing) Like, I'm pushing 30 and have slept with a number of girls even younger than that girl (who was 18/19) this year. Besides, you're still young so there's no way your age is gonna put a guy off! If anything he might be a bit intimidated by you With that girl, It was more that we became kind of 'friends' straight away (partly my fault) and th…
/r/seduction23/09/19 07:35 PM
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yeah, it can really feel weird when you are in that kind of 'limbo' land. I had it with a much younger girl I kind of became sort of 'friends' with recently. I'm much better when hitting on complete strangers in bars!! Sounds like he's made it somewhat easy for you with talking about cominng over, though? You could maybe take some initiative and be like ''I'm bored. When can you come over?'' sort of thing?
/r/seduction23/09/19 07:06 PM
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I want to hook up with this beautiful 19-year-old Nope. Girls don't care about looks. Haven't you heard?! :) Only kidding - What does he look like, though?
/r/seduction23/09/19 06:55 PM
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yes, physical attraction is obviously a pre-requisite. Without it, no 'game' will help. However, the bar isn't always as high as we assume, and never forget about personal taste. Some igly guys will be considered handsome to some hot girls. I should know lol
/r/seduction23/09/19 03:14 PM
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As Mark Manson says, you can't 'create' attraction with game. Only amplify existing attraction. She needs to think you are good looking, otherwise game might make her think you're fun and confident and funny etc etc, but she'll never wanna have sex with you don't just want to have sex with everything with a penis in the nearest zipcode Same as how we don't wanna bang every girl with a pussy. Only the ones we are physically attracted too. It's the same for girls. (although the difference is, girl…
/r/seduction23/09/19 03:12 PM
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For what it's worth, but brother is 40 and is now in a serious relationship with a hot 21 year old lol (she wants to get married and shit. He's already been married and isn't interested!)
/r/seduction21/09/19 08:08 AM
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Nah. It nearly always simply means you just weren't her physical type. Unless he was unable to hold eye contact and stuff and was being super weird, it's likely there's nothing he could have done to get a different result tbh. Numbers game. NEXT!!!
/r/seduction21/09/19 08:05 AM
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It's probably very little to do with your job role, tbh. You even admit to being fairly attractive. Shock-horror, girls are the same as us and are attracted to good looking people. (despite the PUA marketing BS about girls not caring about/noticing looks lol) I have many friends who are high fliers in their jobs who can't get laid for love nor money, and they likely work with lots of younger, lower level people in junior roles who they'd LOVE to bang! haha (but the girls aren't interested) As fo…
/r/seduction20/09/19 03:25 PM
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Try to focus on improving your life so women will approach you Unless you make it as a famous actor or athlete or something, women aren't gonna approach you due to 'improving your life' lol
/r/seduction20/09/19 09:00 AM
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'hi' is a pre-opener
/r/seduction15/09/19 10:04 PM
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Sounds decent to me. Hard to tell without being there whether you ever actually stood a shot (i.e she was sexually attracted and you were her 'type') but it does sound like she was somewhat interested. Of course, some girls are just friendly and social and stuff, even if they are not attracted to you (guess that's why some like direct game. Saves time and screens girls fast!) Not sure about improvements tbh. Maybe she was into you but it was just a bit fast for her and you'll be able to close he…
/r/seduction15/09/19 09:44 PM
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The theory used to be to do it straight away (neg her straight after the open, basically) but, like you, i've realised that this is suicide! (especially here in the UK where talking to strangers is still kind of unsual, and unless she is just super attracted to your looks) Even a fairly safe, friendly tease can get a really hostile reaction in my experience when used before developing rapport, and so I learnt to throw the 'rule book' out of the window because there's a reason that pretty much ev…
/r/seduction15/09/19 09:37 PM
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Good stuff. It's all a numbers game. Keep going. You'll find a strong 'yes girl' at some point!
/r/seduction14/09/19 02:19 PM
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Can an obese woman attract a man? Girls care about looks the same way that we do. Don't fall for the PUA hype that girls don't care about looks and only how you make them feel lol (as someone with good looking friends, I still laugh at some of the stuff people believe when it comes to this stuff!) There will be some girls out there who don't care that you're fat, but lose some weight, and you'll increase the amount of girls who will be attracted to you. Good luck, broseph!!
/r/seduction13/09/19 08:56 PM
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correct. If you have say 30k, you can get rhinoplasty, jaw implants, cheek implants etc, and could go from a 4 too a 6 easy
/r/seduction12/09/19 10:59 PM
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Game matters, but looks are the most important thing because physical attraction is a pre-requisite (same as it is for us guys) But yeah, You can be handsome, but if you have ZERO game (like you can't make eye contact or hold a convo for 2 seconds) then you're gonna fail (unless you're like Leo Dicaprio or something lol)
/r/seduction12/09/19 10:04 PM
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Is that not legal where you are? 16 is legal in the UK lol - most girls that age are hot as shit lol
/r/seduction12/09/19 07:17 AM
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Ha! :) - As long as you get laid each Friday night, it's all good!
/r/seduction11/09/19 07:47 PM
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It becomes super obvious one you've made enough approaches and banged a decent number of girls tbh lol
/r/seduction11/09/19 07:13 PM
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Nice! And underlines what I know to be true. You're either her physical type, or you aren't. If you aren't, it ain't gonna end with the result you want. If you ARE her physical type - Game (although not always needed depending on her physical attraction to you) certainly helps.
/r/seduction11/09/19 06:49 PM
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It was just that you were her physical type, tbh, but still good job on actually opening. One can't 'trigger' attraction, though. Only amplify it (or not lose it) with game.
/r/seduction11/09/19 05:36 PM
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Just go for 18 year olds (or 16 if you live in Europe) No matter how old you are
/r/seduction11/09/19 12:58 PM
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good post. The main issue is the attraction stuff which is the most important thing, but as you say, that's the part that is basically out of your control. You can neg her and disqualify yourself bla bla bla, but she's already decided within a few seconds whether you have a shot or not.
/r/seduction11/09/19 06:05 AM
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lol
/r/seduction10/09/19 08:22 PM
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Watch the man and decide for yourself whether you think he's good or not. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dCVf3cehmG4 I think different styles work for different people depending on a number of factors (location, looks, age, etc etc) Personally, i'm not a fan of his game tbh. I think it's massively over-complicated and robotic (and cringey in parts) with lots of theory and rules that others seem to break with great success. His 'numbers' aren't very impressive either, especially considering he's…
/r/seduction10/09/19 05:48 PM
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it's nearly always a case of him not being her physical type or just her having a boyfriend and not wanting to talk to strangers (not being a social person) etc. Nothing to 'learn' really, tbh. It's basically always completely out of your control
/r/seduction07/09/19 07:51 AM
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Manipulative/game are created to play and generate emotions, the dark forbidden art that can be used by any guys to lure girls into bed. This bit doesn't really exist. That's the issue. If we could get any girl into bed despite being ugly using some sort of secret 'manipulative line' or whatever, nearly every single ugly dude would be doing it. Morals would go out of the window when confronted with some 19 year old 10/10 stunner! You're either her physical type or your aren't. From that point, i…
/r/seduction07/09/19 07:25 AM
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old vid
/r/seduction06/09/19 04:54 PM
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I assume you mean to type ''when people SMILE in pictures....'' Anyway, I could swear that I read the exact opposite and that studies said to NOT smile! lol. God knows.
/r/seduction06/09/19 03:46 PM
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Imagine how I feel when i'm stood next to him!! hahaha. It's brutal
/r/seduction06/09/19 03:41 PM
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lmao
/r/seduction06/09/19 12:55 PM
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lmao. Dude, I have a very handsome wingman and the IOI's he's gets on nights out are INSANE! They're no myth. I almost feel embarrassed for the girls sometimes as they're making it SO obvious lol Although I can see why you might think that - I get them VERY infrequently!!! I can count on one hand the number of times i've had strong IOI's in the last decade! lol
/r/seduction06/09/19 08:08 AM
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They're often super stuck up and are really only interested if some extremely handsome guy hits on them, or some athlete (or loveIslander here in the UK! haha) They all kind of see themselves as mini celebs nowadays as they get so so so much validation online and stuff. They all think they're Kylie Jenner lol The old idea of 'negging' these types of girls is suicide btw!! Maybe it worked in mysteries day? I dunno. Maybe it was all bollox. But negs (especially so early on in the interaction like …
/r/seduction06/09/19 07:51 AM
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lol
/r/seduction05/09/19 09:31 PM
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What do you think of as 'seducing' someone? When someone asks on seddit, 'how do I seduce the hot new teen who babysits for me', the answers are like ''Ask her out'', ''tell her you think she's cute'', ''Try to get physical. If she rejects you, she wasn't into you. Move on'' etc etc Is that 'seduction', though? I call that 'hitting on someone' or just 'taking your shot'. If you're not her type, neither of those things will work. I tend to think of 'seduction' as saying and doing things to force …
/r/seduction04/09/19 10:42 AM
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Wow - I could have written this post (I'm older too and hook up with younger girls and often experience what you describe) So, as you've learnt, the answer is NO!! haha Young girls are flakey and skittish. They're more likely to bang the guy they think is a '6' in their social circle than meet up with the stranger she thinks is an '8' who she kissed in a bar last night I made out with possibly the hottest girl i've ever kissed a few weeks back after approaching her in a bar. She'd just turned 18…
/r/seduction04/09/19 09:36 AM
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Basically true. I do think there's some truth in the OP, but he's still leaning way towards the blue pill rather than the cold hard truth. COLD APPROACH on YOUNG girls really is massively about your looks and whether you meet her idea of 'handsome'. If not, no amount of 'game' will do shit. Of this, after a good few years of approaching now, I am pretty certain. However, the rules seem to change a little when it comes to older women, and obviously when it come to social circle game
/r/seduction03/09/19 07:41 PM
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Opinion will likely be massively divided by this question. I think 'the game' was just basically a fun read kind of based on 'mystery' who wrote 'the mystery method'. Not really a 'how too' book. But here's the thing. I think it's largely a load of nonsense. Have you actually seen mysteries infields? They're odd. He's simply not a guy who i'd think of as being 'good at getting laid'!. He has a million rules and thing to remember, but he can't really seem to make them work for himself, meanwhile …
/r/seduction03/09/19 07:44 AM
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Hmmm....i've actually been told a fair few times that i'm a good kisser. (I wish i'd had lots of similar feedback about being good in bed!! haha) I tend to start off with very little tongue. Be sure to touch her face, neck area with your hand. When I start to use my tongue more, I make sure not to kind of 'dart' it in and out, but instead keep it slightly more 'flat' and just graze her tongue a little. Try to make it all fairly slow and sensual Some girls are horrible kissers. I kissed a few Hun…
/r/seduction02/09/19 09:30 PM
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lol, I was thinking they must be maybe 13 or so, but then I realised he mentioned his 'coworkers', so I don't know! lol
/r/seduction02/09/19 08:03 PM
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It's just the way it is, unless you're famous or banging ugly girls way beneath your looks level Women choose. A pretty girl is getting hit up on apps and DM's like 50 times per day. Even a fairly ugly girl could 'outslay' a very handsome dude.
/r/seduction02/09/19 02:47 PM
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my coworker asked if I would make out with her friend for her birthday tomorrow I feel so old! haha - the age group of posters here from a few years back seems to have halved! lol Sounds like she's obviously super into, so don't over think it. Just be friendly and try to be talkative/social.
/r/seduction02/09/19 09:30 AM
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yes. (Wing is handsome so I see it a lot) Maybe 'throwing themselves at him' is the wrong term, but he get's opened, called 'hot' to his face etc. Every little silence is filled by the girl so he doesn't need to worry about 'running out of things to say' etc. Basically never ever gets a bad reaction if he opens a girl. Also escalation is another 'non issue' for him as either the girl just makes it super easy for him, or sometimes she will be the one to begin lots of touching. He's in a different…
/r/seduction01/09/19 08:06 PM
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bars
/r/seduction01/09/19 09:06 AM
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lol, someone told me he's been posting the same 4 posts every day or so (alternating which posts), for about 4 years!! hahaha
/r/seduction31/08/19 01:11 PM
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lol, someone told me he's been posting the same 4 posts every day or so (alternating which posts), for about 4 years!! hahaha
/r/seduction31/08/19 01:11 PM
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lol, someone told me he's been posting the same 4 posts every day or so (alternating which posts), for about 4 years!! hahaha
/r/seduction31/08/19 01:11 PM
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He had sex with 50 girls by the age of 19. Damn, that makes me jealous! haha What was he like personality wise? Did you see him gaming girls? Was he really handsome?
/r/seduction31/08/19 11:34 AM
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Because the ones you aren't into aren't that hot. That's why you don't care about them. Maybe you're better looking than them, thus they like you The super hot ones are waiting to get hit on by someone in the NBA or something lol - so you can open and flirt etc etc, but you are never really on their radar
/r/seduction31/08/19 07:46 AM
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OK - You don't specify any timestamps, but i'm guessing I know which ones you mean, and they look like 18 or so to me I wouldn't worry too much. It's hard as hell. I saw a vid of some piano dude who I watch on youtube who plays the piano with strangers in train stations in the UK, and all the comments were talking about hot the girl was, assuming she was like 18-25, and she turned out to be 13!!! I'd say as long as she's hot and she doesn't look like an actual CHILD (like a 12 year old) then ope…
/r/seduction30/08/19 10:32 AM
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'these girls'? - what girls? Did you mean to post a link?
/r/seduction30/08/19 10:22 AM
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You can't "make" someone be attracted to you Indeed that's been my experience, lol but there are many posters here who believe this not to be true
/r/seduction30/08/19 07:04 AM
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But it's a lot common sense, This has kind of been my issue with the whole community since I found it lol I've read like 50 books and watched tonnes of programmes, but feel i've learnt very little. It's all mostly obvious and things most people already know I don't feel i've really learnt anything in terms of actually SEDUCING a girl - By that, I mean the ability to talk too a girl who isn't remotely attracted to me, and MAKE her attracted using whatever stuff i've learnt in the books etc lol. I…
/r/seduction29/08/19 02:31 PM
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I 100% understand where you're coming from, man.
/r/seduction29/08/19 02:11 PM
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Yeah, I know what you mean. Most UK PUA's are hitting on Foreign girls in London (because it's so much easier so makes them look good) but the convos are kind of specific to certain environments. Even in the US, PUA's often open with assuming they're from LA or something, but for someone like me from a small town in the UK where basically everyone was born here and is from here, them kind of openers (and initital conversation starters) is kind of 'out' lol
/r/seduction29/08/19 10:18 AM
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Julien was an instructor for RSD when they were a pickup/dating company - Often thought to be one of the very best PUA's there are. Unfortunately RSD moved away from the pickup stuff and most of Juliens free content was deleted
/r/seduction28/08/19 05:08 PM
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Personally, i've found that worrying too much about the whole 'make statements' thing to do more harm than good. It certainly never helped me with girls who just weren't into me (I wasn't their type or whatever) It's one of those classic PUA 'tips' that doesn't really help much in my experience. Julien kind of proved the whole 'interview mode' thing was mostly nonsense in his infields. He completely relies on interview mode questions as part of his game and certainly isn't shy to ask questions!.…
/r/seduction28/08/19 03:49 PM
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Attraction is not a choice , you can force it how do you force attraction in someone who isn't attracted? that's not been my experience in my 2 years or so of approaching, unfortunately, lol. It tends to be a 'yes' or a 'no', and I know within about 2 seconds what the answer is (and sometimes she literally tells me), and it never changes lol
/r/seduction28/08/19 08:16 AM
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Never tried day game - my anxiety issues are likely worse than yours! lol. The thought terrifies me lol. I don't tend to wait for IOI's as I almost never get them. I'm not the best looking dude! So I tend to go in completely cold Funnily enough, the hottest girl I ever banged (mentioned in post above) gave me a big IOI before I opened her. It's a good lesson and life-reminder that you might not be the best looking dude, but different girls have different tastes, and you likely ARE good looking i…
/r/seduction28/08/19 07:24 AM
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I think you'll be OK I say this because I use old AND photoshopped pics on my tinder. I rarely get any matches, but even if I did, i'd be super paranoid about looking different. However, this weekend I made out with a girl in a bar who actually recognised me from tinder so I guess I can't look that different! lol
/r/seduction27/08/19 08:57 PM
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I'm basically aiming for same night lays. I don't really take numbers or do 'dates' etc. I've banged close to 20 girls since starting approaching a few years back going out only once per week. (before then I'd only slept with like 2 girls) Main highlights would be a certain teenage Goddess I banged at her parents house. She was like my 9! Just beautiful face, slim - the kind of girl i'd assume i'd have zero chance with as a guy hitting 30 who apparently looks like Gordon Ramsay! haha Also banged…
/r/seduction27/08/19 08:51 PM
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