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Cop needs some gutting too.
/r/MensRights17/08/16 12:26 AM
3

Reply with this and watch those people drop off your friends list
/r/TheRedPill19/06/16 05:27 PM
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Just adding my personal experience to the mix
/r/MensRights22/05/16 02:52 PM
1

There is likely no penis contact with the child. It is entirely possible to keep penis out of the way in that position
/r/MensRights21/05/16 02:33 AM
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I've lived through it. There's nothing sexual about your naked infant or toddler for the majority of fathers. Bringing baby into the shower is an easy way to get both of you clean, especially after playing in the mud, et al. They are surprisingly slippery so you have to adapt your holding method.
/r/MensRights21/05/16 02:26 AM
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Being required to sign up for the draft used to come with the unique benefit of being able to vote. Giving women the vote without requiring selective service enrollment started the whole pendulum swinging back to where it is now.
/r/MensRights28/12/15 05:00 PM
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Aussie shootings will never get media play in the US since the anti-gun narrative being pushed by most major media sources uses you guys as a gun-free haven example of mandatory surrender making your country a shooting free utopia.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/12/15 03:43 AM
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Depending on your state, this might be illegal. Search the name of your state along with "one party consent" to find out.
/r/MensRights14/11/15 05:22 PM
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3rd wave feminists are so fucking stupid
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/15 05:22 AM
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Yeah, but NAFALT...
/r/MensRights13/06/15 02:53 PM
1

Do you what the letters in the NAACP acronym actually represent?
/r/PussyPassDenied13/06/15 01:58 AM
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No More Mr Nice Guy was a game changer for me. Most men are raised to be ashamed of their sexuality, and taught that sexual aggressiveness is akin to rape these days. It's brainwashing that takes years to undo
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 09:28 PM
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Two things from my male perspective: I compliment him throughout the day What do you compliment him for or on? What got me out of my passive habits was positive reinforcement for when I did step out and take initiative and almost zero negative reinforcement when I would fall back into passivity again. Make sure he knows what you appreciate; not by telling him when he doesn't do it, but by showing him appreciation in a way he can get when he does. Which brings me to my second point. If you haven'…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 09:26 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uEgtNSBa4Zk
/r/PussyPassDenied30/04/15 07:46 PM
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Your punctuation gave me a seizure.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/02/15 12:28 AM
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Thanks for your valuable opinion! I see you are a prolific poster of content in this subreddit, so I appreciate your kind advice, especially since I have contributed so little compared to you.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/15 10:59 PM
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Why don't you spend your time defending people whose lives are destroyed by cunts like this instead of tilting at social justice windmills?
/r/PussyPassDenied09/02/15 03:02 PM
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CHICKEN YALE
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/15 04:46 PM
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No fault is a one way street. The woman can do everything wrong and still will likely end up better off in the divorce.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 07:42 PM
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I can't bring myself to watch the video.
/r/MensRights09/01/15 09:41 PM
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I cannot disagree or downvote enough. Scientology is a cult that encourages psycopathic behavior. Tom Cruise has paid millions of dollars to be brainwashed into believing scientology's bullshit and making this video. TRP is some basic instinct shit. If you discuss TRP with self-aware, mature people, they will almost instinctively recognize the RP truths. Normal people watching a brainwashed Tom Cruise will be repulsed by his mesmerized expression and the bullshit he's spewing. Most rational adul…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 06:55 AM
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This might be true for single dads with just 1 kid, but try it with 3 and see how easy it is.
/r/askTRP03/12/14 09:39 PM
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I kiss my son and my daughters to sleep and have every night they've spent with me. Any fucking pervert deciding me doing so is sexual at all let alone singling out my daughters can go fuck themselves with a .45
/r/MensRights30/11/14 06:40 AM
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Makeup smells awful and tastes worse. Also, unless it's very skillfully applied, it often looks cheap. Have you seen those before and after porn actress stills where they are all dolled up in the after picture? I almost always prefer the before shots. Makeup is most often used to lie, not enhance.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/14 04:22 PM
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You must have put the fresh one in sideways, sweetie. U mad.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/11/14 01:55 AM
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I mean it though. I found a unicorn and am in a relationship with her. She still pulls girl shit but I call her on it and she apologizes on her own. She's almost completely RPW and is awesome.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 08:02 PM
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Unicorns do exist
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 07:57 PM
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What subreddit was it posted in? Pregnant women don't follow normal social dynamics anyway; even more so in the third trimester.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 07:56 PM
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haha at the end of everything is like an apology for the drivel preceding it; both here and to whomever you're texting stop doing it
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 07:52 PM
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I'm a pleaser in the bedroom, and what my RPW does has worked really well to bring me out of that role and take more of an assertive role. Most men just want admiration and appreciation. Don't worry about whether he enjoys things or not unless it's either clear he didn't or he tells you. Make it abundantly clear you appreciate, admire, and especially anticipate his skills and efforts in the sack, and watch him take more risks in order to get more of that sweet sexual affirmation.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 09:01 PM
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There are several things he hates that you do, but he respects you enough to realize those things are part of who you are, and part of who he vowed to stay with for the rest of his poor, miserable, fart-holding-in-for-his-humorless-wife life, so he accepts your failings and weaknesses and doesn't post advice threads asking how to make you "get" that he doesn't like those things. All while not being a dick about you being a bitch about a human bodily function.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 06:04 AM
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I know this is not super relevant, but I've done some interesting things with my life career-wise and my work is in more masculine fields (engineering, national security and global health); I am ambitious in a public-servicey, make-the-world-awesome sort of way and am looking for a partner who can at least be my match in that respect, though I am of course more traditional in relationships and at home. I am wondering if this might be off-putting? I'm interested in having 2-3 kids and would prefe…
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 05:33 PM
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The most you can do is give him opportunities to be more RP and give him positive reinforcement when he chooses to. The best carrot for me is admiration and appreciation, but I don't know him.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/14 04:10 AM
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Any advantage men had throughout history was generally paid for by obligation to serve the state through military action. Of course, "war hurts women the most", but since women are still exempt from selective service registration when they turn 18, they are enjoying the benefits without the responsibility. Such is feminism.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 03:48 AM
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Don't forget the pussy juice
/r/MensRights07/07/14 01:25 AM
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All that work just to Godwin yourself and look like the idiot you seem to be
/r/MensRights07/07/14 01:01 AM
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An ozone generator has been the most effective device I've used in removing odors. It even gets cigarette smoke out of old books.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 05:23 AM
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Just as an example from the other side. I'm a custodial dad with an ex who was ordered to pay less than $250 /month support and seldom pays enough or on time. I barely scrape by most of the time, and when some money appears in the CS account, I use it for whatever needs to be paid at that time. I have bought myself clothes or other "me" things occasionally because most of the time I don't get anything for myself and spend almost everything I make on the kids.
/r/MensRights16/06/14 12:20 AM
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Describe the behavior in this video as anything but hateful
/r/MensRights09/06/14 05:57 PM
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It's a response to the rising popularity of the MRM and the decline in the popularity of feminism. Since SJW's are always fighting for the gold in the Oppression Olympics, anything that portrays women as victimized is lauded and spread to try and one-up the real life suffering of men.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 10:28 PM
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awesome
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 04:09 PM
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This is true of many of today's society's ills.
/r/MensRights28/05/14 03:43 PM
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I haven't run the numbers because I don't care that much, but it has crossed my mind that I may have hit 100k comment karma by now if I hadn't posted pro MRA and TRP and anti feminist comments.
/r/MensRights27/05/14 05:16 PM
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I am. I found a very unique RPW and we get along wonderfully. She will still pull some typical behaviors now and then, but she will own them and apologize later for being, in her words, "an irrational girl". In reference to thisaintnodigg, I have never been and probably never will be "alpha". I know it works but it's just not who I am. I do generally act more confident and decisive around her because I've learned she expects it and gets a bit frustrated when I fall back into my usual passive nat…
/r/askTRP27/05/14 01:16 AM
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Female privilege ladies and gentlemen.
/r/MensRights24/05/14 05:41 AM
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To add to your comment, what about someone drinking for the first time? Surely they cannot be truly informed about their reaction to alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/14 04:32 AM
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Unfortunately that's not the craziest story I have. Before you ask, I'm not going to share the craziest.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:31 PM
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This happened to me in real life. I found out later she was using the request as a way to piss me off to get me to stop wanting to have sex with her. She had already planned out her divorce exit strategy but was trying to gain an upper hand early.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 08:50 PM
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Imagine the reaction from women if their husband/boyfriend had to consent for them to receive a procedure.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 12:45 PM
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Many doctors refuse to perform one if you are married and your wife doesn't give her permission.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 02:05 AM
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This may change as RP'ers age. I'm in my 40's and everyone I talk to about RP in person either knows that's how the world works, or agrees when I say RP things. On the internet it's a whole different game.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/14 11:54 PM
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She has as much reason to be proud of her abuse of this poor child as the parents of these kids
/r/MensRights13/01/14 05:36 PM
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Patriarchy.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/14 05:38 PM
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Just giving you back your own medicine, cupcake.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 08:55 PM
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You're a Power Cunt. How about that? Also, a Power Legbeard, and probably a Power Hamplanet.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 07:32 PM
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The irony is that feminists and BRD's alike refuse to believe men don't have many (or any in some cases) places that women haven't invaded in the name of equality. I'm still reeling over letting female sports reporters into mens' locker rooms after games.
/r/MensRights20/12/13 07:30 PM
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/r/yougottold, /r/SubredditDrama as well. BRD's are actively infiltrating subreddit mod teams, often through /r/redditrequest
/r/MensRights20/12/13 07:25 PM
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That's rape culture, shitlord fedora neckbeard.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 06:31 PM
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You mean privilege without responsibility = feminism
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 04:30 PM
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How do you feel when feminists say "feminism is working on that" when a man posts his experience of abuse, etc.?
/r/MensRights13/12/13 08:40 PM
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Binary is a social construct. What about trans-ones and trans-zeroes.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 02:29 PM
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If the code generates an error, it won't tell you what's wrong, because if the code was really important to you, you would already know without it having to tell you. Also, no feminist program will ever be able to calculate where a couple should go for dinner. Any attempt to run said program would only output one of two responses: "Whatever you want is fine" or "Ew, not there."
/r/MensRights12/12/13 02:27 PM
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Often by single mothers.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 04:24 PM
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Except women use improvised weapons more often than men.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 04:24 PM
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No worries! Feminism is working on that!™
/r/MensRights02/12/13 03:09 PM
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In other words, "Teach women not to call consensual sex rape"
/r/MensRights30/11/13 12:30 AM
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There appears to be no low women will not sink to in order to deprive men of their children.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 11:21 PM
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IANAL, but many US states have a minimum time you must be married to qualify for spousal support. Also, FYI girlfriend != spouse, unless Common Law marriage applies.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 11:13 PM
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Being a man sucks for a lot of reasons. Once feminists find out that equality means you've got to eat shit like men have done for centuries they either want out of equality and start looking for a man to let them be a SAHM or start posting tumblr bullshit blaming men for not giving them the golden goose they were told (lied to) we have.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 11:05 PM
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That's actually a typical NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) way of thinking
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 02:50 AM
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Histrionic
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 05:54 PM
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Gaslighting is real and my ex-wife did it to me all the time.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 05:52 PM
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This is so victim blaming it needs a trigger warning....
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 06:03 PM
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Unless she was drunk, too, in which case he raped the shit out of her. If you disagree you are a rape apologist and part of Rape Culture.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 05:53 PM
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No worries. I'm sure Feminism is working on this, too.
/r/MensRights06/11/13 07:55 PM
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Wowsers.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 05:14 PM
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I find younger Ayn pretty attractive, but I'm a weirdo. Oh, and I hate myself for thinking Huma Abedin is hot.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 04:34 PM
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Women already cast more votes than men, so the gender of politicians is more the fault of women than men.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 11:37 AM
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That whole blog is awesome.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 02:58 PM
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Feminists are working on that.
/r/MensRights30/10/13 12:44 AM
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Please link to any feminist or feminist organization working to help Nicholas Alahverdian or any other men in his situation.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 08:43 PM
2

Holy shit this needs to go on the sidebar
/r/MensRights23/10/13 11:24 PM
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In this particular case, I'd probably hire an attorney, if for no other reason than to prepare in case she counter-claims that you raped her. IANAL
/r/MensRights23/10/13 10:59 PM
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My ex-wife was abusive as well. However she was also demonstrably and provably crazy, so after spending over $50k I ended up with primary custody. If you haven't already, head over to here and read some of the articles and see if they sound familiar.
/r/MensRights23/10/13 10:57 PM
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This may not help, but you might need a better attorney. I switched lawyers mid custody battle because my first attorney was a pushover. I ended up spending well over $50k but won primary custody. I'm very sorry for you and your children.
/r/MensRights22/10/13 05:46 AM
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I applaud your willingness to listen. I am a single father with a son. Feminism has done absolutely nothing to help me or him, and has actively made schools and society less safe for my son.
/r/MensRights22/10/13 05:21 AM
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They are blinded by their female privilege.
/r/MensRights22/10/13 05:14 AM
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Pampering the hateful will not achieve victory.
/r/MensRights17/10/13 07:18 PM
1

Parents of small children often let their "kid words" bleed into their regular adult language. That's likely the source here.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 03:18 PM
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Tall women prefer men taller than them because deep down they want to feel protected and dominated. If you can pull that off while being shorter, then you're good to go. I love tall women.
/r/askTRP09/10/13 10:28 PM
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I did. Hit me up if it gets pulled.
/r/MensRights07/10/13 05:41 PM
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I lie about almost everything except the fact that I'm male and divorced.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 01:08 PM
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Kids, and people like me too old to care about what anyone thinks any more. "Crazyex, do you want to help me with stupid_project?" "No. If you need help, let me know and I'll see what I can do, but I don't want to help you because I'm tired and already have a lot of shit to do."
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 11:01 PM
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I'm well past the point of thinking of "upgrading" my love life. My partner is everything I need her to be. She's sexy and appealing and a great match for me just the way she is.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 06:07 PM
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I got downvoted for telling her she'd go right back to him. She totally will, though.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 04:45 AM
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I took the red pill years ago, but now in my early 40's I'm in the best relationship in my life with an older, overweight widow. She's everything bluepill women are not. She doesn't pull bullshit female shit tests, she apologizes when I call her out for acting like a typical irrational female, and she has amazing skills in the bedroom. TL;DR Weight and age may not be the holy grail they are reputed to be.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 04:40 AM
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Feel free to post a comment calling a submission in /r/feminism "crap" and see how long your comment stays alive and how long your posting privileges last there
/r/MensRights02/10/13 09:48 PM
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Feminism has worked and continues to actively work against mens' rights. The concern trolling activity in here is off the charts today.
/r/MensRights02/10/13 09:45 PM
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She was depending on her female privilege to ensure her safety and well being... in a place with zero female privilege.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 02:58 PM
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She wanted to pet the monies.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 02:56 PM
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Sounds like mansplaining to me...
/r/MensRights18/09/13 08:58 PM
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Raises hand
/r/TheRedPill04/09/13 09:54 PM
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lol how true Give the feminists time, and that may retroactively change...
/r/TheRedPill03/09/13 06:51 PM
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She expects someone to impregnate her? She should start shopping at sperm banks ASAP
/r/TheRedPill03/09/13 04:45 PM
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Well, I would have owed over $1200 per month for our 3 kids, but she was ordered to pay less than $250/month
/r/MensRights23/08/13 05:13 PM
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I'm a rare custodial father that is supposed to receive child support from my ex-wife. I spend most of my income on supporting the children, and barely keep my head above water. On the rare occasions child support shows up, it gets spent on whatever needs to be bought. Sometimes this means I get some work shoes or pants with it, mainly because almost every dime I've spent of my own money went to supporting the kids while I go without. Just a thought.
/r/MensRights23/08/13 01:14 PM
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Other men are the cause of everything bad that happens to everyone. Oh, and they're all white men.
/r/MensRights14/08/13 04:29 PM
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"When you're ready to talk to me like a reasonable human being, give me a call. Bye"
/r/askTRP13/08/13 05:58 PM
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Counterpoint
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 05:48 PM
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I was sexually assaulted by a female family member several times as a child. I got banned for posting that information in one of the feminism subreddits.
/r/MensRights09/08/13 05:44 PM
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Please explain again why the MRM should "work with" feminists.
/r/MensRights09/08/13 04:09 PM
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Female privilege exists and is very prevalent in the western world.
/r/MensRights05/08/13 03:03 PM
2

/r/raisedbynarcissists perhaps?
/r/MensRights03/08/13 03:11 AM
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That poor woman. She must have suffered from years of abuse at his hands and finally reached her breaking point. And how dare he invade her privacy to shame her and portray her in such a negative light. /s
/r/MensRights02/08/13 09:59 PM
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Humor, power, confidence, decisiveness
/r/TheRedPill29/07/13 01:43 PM
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No worries for the loss of modeling income for the ladies pictured in the magazine, eh, feminists?
/r/MensRights29/07/13 12:49 PM
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You are describing yourself being sexually assaulted by two former friends. Any other description is diminishing what happened to you. You are allowed to feel any way you like about it. You could try and press charges, but unfortunately in this day and age you would probably be treated with contempt by the police and further shamed by your group of "friends". And they say we need to teach men not to rape.
/r/MensRights28/07/13 01:08 PM
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That shocked face when the definition of equality finally registers...
/r/TheRedPill28/07/13 01:31 AM
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AAANYWAY!
/r/MensRights25/07/13 05:37 PM
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I've lost a few female acquaintances by sending them this video. I'm a single, full time father with primary custody of 3 kids and holding down a full time job. Stay at home parent is the easiest job on the planet. Even more ridiculous are the feminist rags that estimate the salary of a stay at home mom.
/r/MensRights25/07/13 02:00 AM
0

Alligator gender can be based on the weather outside, IIRC
/r/MensRights23/07/13 05:23 PM
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Do you have physiological aversion symptoms to male levels of T, mental aversion symptoms, or both? Genuinely curious FYI, this is the first time I've heard this description
/r/MensRights23/07/13 05:23 PM
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"Ze has a malformed convex trans vagina"
/r/MensRights23/07/13 05:17 PM
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Then do you think it's a sign of a healthy mind to post what those people posted to twitter about a newborn infant?
/r/MensRights23/07/13 03:13 PM
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Did I hurt your feelings?
/r/MensRights23/07/13 03:10 PM
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Thank you. That was my point.
/r/MensRights23/07/13 02:49 PM
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Only mentally ill people would publicly project their own social justice agenda on a newborn not even tangentially related to them.
/r/MensRights23/07/13 02:49 PM
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Without searching for it, please give me the symptoms and causes of Alagille syndrome. That condition has about the same frequency as people who "feel" trans. Are you aware of twitter posts warning the royal couple of the possibility of Alagille syndrome?
/r/MensRights23/07/13 02:43 PM
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Don't be obtuse.
/r/MensRights23/07/13 02:11 PM
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It shows the level of mental illness social justice warriors are operating with. They are my enemy as a MRA
/r/MensRights23/07/13 01:09 PM
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Sounds like mansplaining to me.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 01:43 PM
2

I really enjoy reading the word dickhole for some reason. My inner reading voice "pronounces" it in a pleasing manner.
/r/MensRights20/07/13 09:45 PM
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The narrative controlling, manipulative, hateful censoring that happens any time feminists open their maws, type, or write anything in a debate?
/r/MensRights20/07/13 09:42 PM
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I wish the world were more about just being nice to each other and getting alone because that's what being a human being is meant to be like. This is a completely female thing to say, and is an excellent proof of my comment. You can believe that because you were born with female privilege.
/r/MensRights19/07/13 04:26 AM
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I think I'll start responding to cries of misogyny with "Reality has a misogynistic bias" and watch the downvotes roll in like a hurricane.
/r/MensRights19/07/13 02:45 AM
3

Getting a Womens' Studies degree in order to change society in a positive way is about as useful as getting a Philosophy degree to make advances in Astrophysics.
/r/MensRights19/07/13 02:37 AM
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Egyptian sexual harassment is so relevant to mens' rights in the US. Go join Femen and do something about Islamic sexism. You're doing nothing for Egyptian women trolling reddit. I name you shitbot and award you zero points.
/r/MensRights19/07/13 01:19 AM
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I've said for years that women don't recognize the privilege they are born with, which is the privilege of males treating them nicely in real life; at first because they're innocent girls and as they age because males want to keep the possibility of sex open. They come online, where that privilege is revoked, and recoil in horror as they are subjected to being treated like males have treated other males as far back as grade school. A few realize this and wade into the fray and make places for th…
/r/MensRights18/07/13 06:11 PM
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She skirts around it by paying trifling amounts each month to avoid warrants
/r/MensRights18/07/13 04:17 PM
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I call the state division and they don't care. Not much else I can do.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 04:12 PM
11

I have primary custody and my ex-wife doesn't pay her ordered $250/month for our 3 kids. Gotta love the Patriarchy.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 03:35 PM
4

Feminists = Supremecists = bad. Thank you for agreeing with me. You do not get to tell me what feminism means. Even less so because you're so wrong about it.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 03:32 PM
4

"We" are trying to fix those issues. Feminists are trying to stop us. Just because you consider yourself a feminist and are not trying to stop us doesn't negate all those other feminists doing so. Feminists are my enemy, and the enemy of every person truly fighting for equal rights. I will not work with them until some mythical time when they stop fighting us.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 03:15 PM
9

Because the feminists at the forefront actively work against our goals. Your post is called the NAFALT, or Not All Feminists Are Like That, defense. It's usually disregarded because it's not true.
/r/MensRights18/07/13 02:52 PM
10

Compare and contrast
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 02:49 PM
3

She is a hero.
/r/MensRights16/07/13 02:28 PM
2

Or Narcissistic Personality Disorder
/r/TheRedPill13/07/13 03:09 PM
92

In the future, if you live in a one party state, never again confront trespassers without video and audio recording.
/r/MensRights13/07/13 01:30 AM
3

I think the pronoun was used deliberately as a jab, but technically they were referring to the org behind the posters.
/r/MensRights12/07/13 06:34 PM
3

I wish I could help, but I'm treading water keeping my own little family together while mom takes care of her newborn with her new husband. I will take this opportunity to ask our resident feminist concern trolls: Is feminism working on helping b-monster666 and his kids, or me and my kids? Is feminism working to make my kids' mother at least attempt to pay the ridiculously low $250 per month she was ordered to pay for 3 children and is thousands of dollars behind on?
/r/MensRights09/07/13 01:17 AM
7

Get a vasectomy and live your life free from entrapment.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/13 01:10 AM
26

Office Space
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 11:59 PM
3

It has been done, and is quite effective.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/13 01:36 AM
2

I'm 42, so all that stuff you posted likely happened in my 20's-30's. I'm well beyond the typical MR user, so I'm immune to most concern troll hyperbole. And FYI, I don't believe I've ever fallen into the "man up" trap.
/r/MensRights06/07/13 09:22 PM
1

Concern troll alert! I respect any human being as long as they are not feminists. Feminists work against mens' rights. What, exactly, is the point you're trying to make? Sure White Knights are our enemy, but I doubt your motives in posting this pap.
/r/MensRights06/07/13 09:03 PM
4

Paternity test ASAP.
/r/MensRights06/07/13 08:02 PM
3

My issue with your post: Who gives a shit. I'm not fighting for 3rd world countries. They have plenty of orgs fighting for them. Absolutely nobody outside of the MRM is fighting for mens' rights anywhere. So take your concern trolling and go fight whatever fight you like. It's irrelevant to the MRM.
/r/MensRights06/07/13 08:01 PM
1

How are you banned if you posted this?
/r/MensRights05/07/13 02:25 PM
2

It's a fine example of women being other womens' worst enemies. I have never in 42 years seen men hate each other even approaching the levels that most women harbor for a select few other women. I even came up with a theory that every woman needs a female mortal enemy in any given circle of her life. I've seen too many times women in my workplaces develop an irrational hatred for one particular lady. If any of their rivals left the company, within a month they had chosen another mortal enemy to …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 07:40 PM
21

Never fails to amaze me : If 20,000 men are shot to death in the street , it's only newsworthy if a stray bullet scratches rapes a woman's leg.
/r/MensRights04/07/13 03:39 PM
1

I'm not what was represented as the typical reddit Fedora neckbeard 20's MRA. I'm 42 years old, and feminism is my enemy. I will not build nor cross any bridge to the monster that feminism has morphed into. Men have been retreating for decades and that shit has gotten us nowhere. Feminism in its current incarnation cannot be reasoned with, worked with, or allied with in any constructive way. It must be destroyed and rebuilt as egalitarianism. Until the label is dropped and the narrative changes …
/r/MensRights04/07/13 02:25 AM
4

Explain why /r/askmen doesn't have the same rule, where it would seem to be much more logical
/r/MensRights04/07/13 02:06 AM
12

Emotion based arguments will always fail. That's simply all they have, so they have developed narrative controlling techniques to deal with anyone using logic, or, as they call it, "mansplaining"
/r/MensRights27/06/13 02:03 AM
8

I'm sure Feminism is "working on it"
/r/MensRights27/06/13 01:56 AM
3

I've worn one for years. It's only a problem if you approach it as one. If someone's sleeping over, break it out and show them what it looks like on, and tell them it's only for when you're sleeping unless they'd like to wear it during sex because you've found that some girls get off from doing that. Like Viaate said, own that shit.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 07:09 PM
2

I do, too. I don't let it make me make stupid decisions, though.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 06:19 PM
1

I don't think downvoting for disagreeing is anything that can ever be fixed. I am often disappointed by that behavior even though I find myself doing it at times. I do wish that OP was not so heavily downvoted in this thread. He is still new to the movement, and has handled his downvotes with admirable aplomb, but that can be very off putting to someone coming here for the first time.
/r/MensRights26/06/13 05:07 PM
1

Feminism has and continues to actively strive to take away mens' rights, to suppress honest debate, studies, and statistics, and keep men from regaining rights we've already lost. They work to make and keep the world less safe for me and my son, and all my male relatives and friends. I didn't use the word hate lightly. Feminism is a cancer to men that needs drastic action to fight.
/r/MensRights26/06/13 05:01 PM
3

I would prefer that people would not downvote you for your ignorance, but I can't control others. For an excellent primer on why Feminism is the MRM's enemy, spend a while watching these videos
/r/MensRights26/06/13 12:02 AM
7

GWW is a hero
/r/MensRights25/06/13 04:22 PM
20

It may be time to get another attorney. No offense, but it sounds like you can afford better legal representation. Unfortunately, your voluntary extra support is likely funding your ex-wife's legal defense.
/r/MensRights25/06/13 04:03 PM
19

I hate feminism similar to how I hate unions. Necessary historically but presently a mutated monster that harms society. Edited to add: Just for the record, I didn't downvote you.
/r/MensRights25/06/13 03:10 PM
52

I love women. I hate feminism.
/r/MensRights25/06/13 02:24 PM
2

It sounds like only one of the two children were sired by OP, which would make the phrasing correct.
/r/MensRights14/06/13 01:44 PM
3

GWW, I <3 you. You are one amazing person.
/r/MensRights12/06/13 12:34 AM
17

But what about the wimminz??? Alimony abuse don't real??
/r/TheRedPill11/06/13 04:10 AM
6

I couldn't watch the whole thing because that mother is so like my ex-wife, which is why I spent over $50k trying to keep my kids safe from her.
/r/MensRights09/06/13 06:50 PM
0

Imagine a female PotUS
/r/MensRights07/06/13 04:09 PM
2

I can't disagree more. Overwhelmingly feminist women are liberal, and conservative women are much more likely to adhere to traditional gender roles
/r/MensRights07/06/13 12:32 AM
2

It's not.
/r/MensRights06/06/13 02:33 PM
3

My favorite part: "Professor Henry Brubaker, of the Institute for Studies, said: “Jesus fucking Christ on a bike.”"
/r/MensRights05/06/13 03:35 PM
40

And wears a fedora
/r/TheRedPill05/06/13 01:03 PM
-3

I cannot resist the notion that any woman on the internet is not aware of her IRL privilege. If you are, then I rescind my comments, but I have yet to meet a woman online that was aware of her IRL privilege and recognized that that IRL privilege is no longer valid on the internet.
/r/MensRights02/06/13 02:14 AM
1

I don't know if this might help at this point, but go here and do some reading on dealing with borderline or narcissistic partners.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 11:10 PM
-3

I'm hardly ever offended by anything. There are a lot of butthurt pussies on dating sites. I will add that you will likely raise the ire of fembots across the fempire by using the word "pussies" as a derogatory term, but that's just a side note to reiterate how goddamn sensitive feminists have gotten. As for your latest comments you've received, I'd say this is the internet, and men deal with that kind of harsh language in real life from elementary school, and expecting not to be treated on the …
/r/MensRights01/06/13 10:38 PM
1

But I didn't refer to all women as whores. I referred to women who engaged in gold digging whorish behavior as whores. Why must social justice warriors take any criticism of a select group of a certain gender, race, or whatever and defend it? Some women are gold digging whores. Not all women are gold digging whores. Dangit I keep having to edit this: I also hate men who abuse their partners. Is that misandry? I doubt feminists would think so, but if I dared to say I hate women who abuse their pa…
/r/MensRights01/06/13 07:05 PM
-1

What's wrong with being hateful to people you dislike? Hating gold digging whores doesn't mean you hate all women. Hating black rappers who perpetuate and glorify a criminal lifestyle doesn't mean hating all black people.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 07:03 PM
-3

If you are a woman, and not a gold digging whore, then why get upset when people, or men, complain about gold digging whores? They exist, but women tend to defend them just because they have a vagina. Calling that misogyny is bullshit.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 06:37 PM
-1

Is english your first language? Not trying to be rude, but that hurt to read.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 06:17 PM
2

I was a very good mat during my marriage.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 06:01 PM
1

You should buy a vagina necklace off etsy and when questioned, point to it and say "I am a woman and this is my vagina"
/r/MensRights28/05/13 08:45 PM
3

I did all that shit and my ex-wife emotionally abused me for years and then divorced me, got remarried and had a baby with her new husband. Hooray feminism.
/r/MensRights31/12/12 05:28 PM
2

Cost in both monetary and emotional currency.
/r/MensRights27/12/12 04:33 PM
3

I had a female friend at work who stopped talking to me after she sent me some bullshit email forward about how valuable mothers are and how fathers can't do what mothers can or some shit and I sent her a nastygram back telling her that as a single father of 3 I did all those things very well, thank you.
/r/MensRights27/12/12 04:10 PM
3

Google "Parental Alienation"
/r/MensRights27/12/12 04:07 PM
13

I took my marriage vows seriously. In addition, I was almost certain she would win custody if I filed for divorce.
/r/MensRights27/12/12 03:42 PM
28

And a timed explosive in the trunk.
/r/MensRights27/12/12 03:39 PM
7

So the featherweight should back the fuck off and not continually berate and physically attack the heavyweight.
/r/MensRights27/12/12 03:26 PM
5

I'm happy for you, but sorry for all the fathers that don't have money to pay attorney fees to file similar orders so that they can see their children.
/r/MensRights25/12/12 07:41 AM
1

Grass eaters in japan ~ MGTOW in the US
/r/MensRights25/12/12 03:06 AM
7

It drives me crazy that people deny how much power and privilege women have as the gatekeepers of sex. I was just arguing this point elsewhere on reddit. I'm 42 years old and that's just the way things are. Women are treated with kid gloves by men to keep the possible future sex option open. It's reality.
/r/MensRights25/12/12 01:25 AM
10

The hardest job in the world This one line is the whole truth about the "patriarchy" and "there are no women on the internet" Women rule the 1st world because they are the gatekeepers of sex.
/r/MensRights24/12/12 05:47 PM
1

You don't have to own anything anyone says or thinks of you. That is a huge trap for depression. You are who you are, and fuck everyone else. As long as you do what you believe is right, then you are right. You might think about switching from the offensive side of the MRM to more of a support role. Just sending messages or replying to men going through problems and directing them here and to some of your bookmarks can help build a stronger movement, and it's so much less frustrating than active…
/r/MensRights24/12/12 05:23 PM
33

Good thing feminism is fighting so hard for men in OP's situation. Oh, wait, I think I'm mansplaining. OP should check his privilege.
/r/MensRights22/12/12 03:32 PM
2

Not to most MRA's. These are feminists These are true feminists, and the things you hear are what MRA's are met with any time we try and have a reasonable discussion outside of certain male friendly places. Feminists are my enemy. I refuse to work with a feminist. They have done nothing for me as a man, nothing for my father, or my son. Instead they have actively worked to ensure that any random woman with an agenda against me can accuse me of rape, ruining my life and terminating my relationshi…
/r/MensRights20/12/12 08:45 PM
2

Society has raised several generations of feminized, beta males. Women aren't attracted to that and they are realizing that their dreams of fairy princess weddings to Prince Charming aren't happening, and that their privilege gained from men wanting to have sex with them in most cases won't give them enough free money to live well off of, and won't give them a provider and sperm donor to fulfill their biological urge to reproduce.
/r/MensRights20/12/12 01:44 AM
2

Only if the male violates. If the female violates then nobody gives a shit. Not to mention trying to file to enforce the DA costs thousands of dollars unless you try it yourself with no attorney.
/r/MensRights20/12/12 01:35 AM
11

I think blame can be placed on the deliberate feminization of boys and the lack of father figures in the increasingly common fatherless homes. There now exists several generations of men raised to be soft, gentle, and unmanly. Many have discovered that most women don't find that attractive. Some of the less stable ones decide to take that out on society.
/r/MensRights19/12/12 05:03 PM
3

I have no idea. I just assume it's part and parcel of the female bias in the family court system.
/r/MensRights17/12/12 05:24 AM
11

Based on my states' child support calculator from here I would be paying my ex-wife $1059 per month based on my salary for our 3 kids. However, I ended up being the custodial parent, and she makes more than me, and she's not paying her court ordered $250/month
/r/MensRights16/12/12 09:59 PM
2

Mansplaining usually means bringing logic into an emotional shitfest.
/r/MensRights05/12/12 01:13 AM
3

Many abused men don't seek help because they know innately that doing so will end up with them being denied access to their children and being burdened with child support.
/r/MensRights05/12/12 01:03 AM
2

This is more femsplaining
/r/MensRights30/11/12 05:12 PM
24

I feel the accuser's name should be in the article, since the accused's name is repeatedly given.
/r/MensRights28/11/12 04:21 PM
-2

Sometimes torture is not only justified, but warranted.
/r/MensRights28/11/12 01:17 PM
4

If they do talk about it, they are dismissed, vilified, or shamed into backing down and keeping quiet. I'm not having it any more.
/r/MensRights28/11/12 05:25 AM
3

The system is designed to be used like this. Consequences for women trying this tactic and failing? Zero
/r/MensRights28/11/12 05:15 AM
5

See pussy pass
/r/MensRights28/11/12 05:13 AM
19

Stop femsplaining in this safe space.
/r/MensRights27/11/12 10:36 PM
42

I'm so angry reading this story. This is 100% not out of the ordinary. All those feminist chucklefucks spewing their privilege and patriarchy shit. I'm constantly amazed that more men don't go an hero.
/r/MensRights27/11/12 09:28 PM
1

The list of things /r/politics is misinformed about exceeds the capacity of /r/politics to host.
/r/MensRights27/11/12 08:30 PM
4

I have a hard time believing anyone associated with the MRM would champion that sort of treatment of any human.
/r/MensRights27/11/12 08:28 PM
11

I've decided to start replying to them to stop femsplaining. After I see how that goes I think I'll add the "how come every time someone has a concern about mens' rights some feminist shows up and start with the 'WHAT ABOUT THE WOMYNZZZZZZZZZZZ'"
/r/MensRights27/11/12 08:19 PM
2

Thank you. I should have written a macro to link that site I've done it so many times for stories like these.
/r/MensRights27/11/12 08:17 PM
1

It sucks, hard. Your situation is probably better in some ways because you two know each other. My ex would bring home strange guys and the thought of my children being vulnerable to some strange man made my blood boil. She eventually married one, and I stayed away from them, even though it was one of the most painful feelings I've ever had to experience. The time finally came when just he came to pick the kids up once, and I decided I had to make contact for the first time. It was awkward but d…
/r/MensRights27/11/12 07:19 PM
5

I read it already. Nothing surprised me about it, though. Only through very careful action did I avoid your fate. My ex was emotionally abusive and borderline physically abusive to our much younger kids, and there was no way in hell I was going to let her have them the majority of the time. I had been doing damage control for years patching up the hurt feelings and the holes in the walls while she was a stay at home mom.
/r/MensRights27/11/12 07:11 PM
2

Haha I really just wanted you to link the muff post and was too embarrassed to ask, so I used passive aggression.
/r/MensRights27/11/12 07:08 PM
6

There is not one part of your story that I disbelieve. My heart goes out to you. My story doesn't end as badly as yours, but our stories share a lot of similarities. To this day my ex-wife says the only thing she'll admit to doing wrong was marrying me.
/r/MensRights27/11/12 07:04 PM
7

So how do you recover from this? If it helps at all, and you have the energy, you might take a look at this index and read up on some of the older articles dealing with Narcissistic personalities. I know it probably won't help much, but your story is not that unique, and you are certainly not alone. Do you have family in the area you can stay with? edit: added correct link
/r/MensRights27/11/12 07:02 PM
6

You sound like me. Your wife sounds like a textbook Narcissist.
/r/MensRights27/11/12 06:53 PM
1

Citation needed.
/r/MensRights27/11/12 06:36 PM
0

Srsly bro, stop mansplaining and check dat privilege.
/r/MensRights27/11/12 06:11 PM
8

I absolutely don't mind masculine women, as long as they accept that masculinity is not a contest and they appreciate me for who I am and don't judge me against their own acceptance of "mascualine" roles.
/r/MensRights21/11/12 01:49 AM
17

Absolutely true. Women have zero desire for feminized, weak men. They swoon over the male embodiment of patriarchy even as they rail against it.
/r/MensRights21/11/12 12:05 AM
10

I feel the same way sometimes. I'm a single dad with 3 kids. I love kids, and you'd be hard pressed to find someone safer than me to be alone with other peoples' kids. I am a big softy and will do just about anything to help and/or protect a child. Now, when my kids are with me, I can make faces at babies and help lost kids and am afforded a certain amount of legitimacy around kids. When they're with their mom, however, I am quite aware of my transformation from loving, caring, safe father to br…
/r/MensRights20/11/12 11:43 PM
5

Kelly looks so sweet and innocent in that picture. Surely she'd never be that malicious.
/r/MensRights20/11/12 05:23 PM
2

Well, I've been to quite a few massage therapists, and only 1 small statured Kenyan born male ex-con has either the technique or strength to work the deep tissue. I'm not a bodybuilder or anything, but anyone that's ever worked on me has commented on how tight my muscles usually are; not in a good way, because I'm actually in pretty poor physical condition.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 08:00 PM
0

I would and did discuss that very issue with my now ex-wife, and knew exactly what she would want me to do in that situation, and would have followed her wishes.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 07:22 PM
0

I agree with the goat on this one. Don't say the vow if you don't plan on keeping your word.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 07:21 PM
4

For one thing, women have more voting power than men right now. Ask the women why they don't vote for more females in office.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 02:11 PM
5

I have only met one woman strong enough to give me a decent massage. Unfortunately, she was a chiropractor.
/r/MensRights19/11/12 02:07 PM
0

I agree with you 100%. When I pledged myself to my ex-wife I meant it and stuck to my vows through emotional abuse of myself and my kids. Once she filed for divorce the gloves were off and I went on the offensive.
/r/MensRights18/11/12 01:53 PM
-9

I denounce the movement as a whole because it is a pro-female rights/anti-male rights group that uses outright lies, false statistics, shaming language, etc to fend off criticism.
/r/MensRights12/11/12 04:48 PM
26

I'm a man and I've been told several of those things.
/r/MensRights11/11/12 03:49 PM
5

I fought for and won primary custody to protect my kids from their mother. It cost me over $50k. Mom was ordered to pay around $200/month for child support, of which she has only paid about 4 months worth out of 4 years so far. Keeping those figures in mind, by the time my youngest turns 18, if Mom even decides to pay, I'll be out over $20k. It was never my intention to profit from my custody battle. I was prepared to spend whatever I had to if it meant my kids would be safe. Only after the smok…
/r/MensRights11/11/12 03:36 PM
5

Yes, you should. Please provide more details and ignore my username.
/r/MensRights11/11/12 01:43 AM
33

It may benefit men to learn pressure point compliance, which usually doesn't look violent enough to evoke a white knight response, but may be enough to cause aggressive females to release or back off.
/r/MensRights10/11/12 05:21 PM
1

If legal custody proceedings have taken place, then you are obligated to follow the final orders. Otherwise, there is no "obligation" per se, but whomever has primary custody can retroactively seek compensation for just about any expense. If the primary custodian is female, then just about any compensation asked for will be granted regardless of the father's ability to pay. IANAL, of course.
/r/MensRights09/11/12 09:20 PM
3

Please post more specific information and I will see what I can do to help. If you wish to remain more anonymous please PM me.
/r/MensRights06/11/12 06:13 PM
3

My ex-wife is defaulting on her child support, pregnant with her new husband's baby, driving a brand new toyota suv, and working a couple of days a week while I'm struggling to keep the lights on and the house note paid and driving a minivan with 100k miles on it.
/r/MensRights05/11/12 09:18 AM
11

There are more female members of that group than a lot of people realize. They hide it very well. I was married to one. Don't get butthurt ladies. I didn't say there are more females than males in that group, just that more ladies are members than most people realize.
/r/MensRights05/11/12 09:16 AM
4

This needs to be added to the sidebar.
/r/MensRights02/11/12 09:26 PM
5

Someone else. Well, other than porn and the micropenis contest Howard Stern did I've never seen another man's penis, so I'm not sure. I think it probably didn't help that a woman pointed it out.
/r/MensRights01/11/12 06:46 PM
10

42 year old male here. Once, years ago, a female friend of our group was in a relationship with a guy and somehow let it slip that he had a small penis. I've known this guy for almost 20 years, and I still remember that he has a small penis. I don't judge him for it, but it does kind of make me feel sorry for him. He's since gotten married and they seem happy.
/r/MensRights01/11/12 06:20 PM
1

A man who posted here looking for help once was assaulted by his wife. She broke his arm and he called the police, who didn't arrest the wife and made him leave the house and his kids to stay somewhere else.
/r/MensRights24/10/12 03:54 PM
2

I'm a single dad and primary custodian of my 3 kids. Nobody is more nurturing than me. My kids are well adjusted and secure because they know they are loved, valued, and safe with their father. We talk about adult subject matter without embarrassment or teasing, because they trust me and I value their maturity enough to tell them the truth about almost anything.
/r/MensRights20/10/12 03:00 PM
1

Actually, I believe that was the situation with /c/creepshots. I'm pretty sure he created /r/jailbait
/r/MensRights16/10/12 03:44 PM
2

I am primary custodian of my 3 kids. My ex-wife was ordered to pay less than $250 per month. For 3 kids. And she hasn't paid for months. She makes more than me, to boot.
/r/MensRights06/10/12 05:26 PM
2

If you feel your child is in danger, you could always try and get a protective order placed against mom and custody be given to you during the protective order, but consult a lawyer to see if you have enough evidence for a protective order.
/r/MensRights05/10/12 07:05 PM
1

As a single father with 3 kids, I have learned to carry groceries in as a family, with even the youngest carrying something. Nobody helps me with anything.
/r/MensRights05/10/12 02:39 PM
3

How much money do the two of you have available to pay attorney fees? I'm not being snarky, because you're probably going to need quite a bit. I've never tried this before, but you can go here and see if you can get in contact with someone in that organization that can recommend an attorney or strategy for you.
/r/MensRights04/10/12 02:04 PM
2

My ex-wife blew through money like that a few times. One month we had $800 in bounced check fees.
/r/MensRights28/09/12 02:38 PM
12

I'd donate if I wasn't as strapped as I am. I do think their estimates of attorney's fees are low. My custody battle cost over $50k
/r/MensRights27/09/12 03:02 PM
2

You didn't do anything wrong. That is our bot to prevent trolls posting an OP, garnering support or derision, and then changing the OP to make the MRM look foolish, sexist, or whatever.
/r/MensRights24/09/12 11:53 AM
19

How much do bicycles need fish?
/r/MensRights20/09/12 04:23 PM
5

Was the show you watched a re-run? JJ website doesn't have that case listed on this week's schedule. Also, the article I linked (that you may have intended to) says she said it on Larry King.
/r/MensRights13/09/12 09:16 PM
65

Related article Not the case you're referencing, but this is also good Another good one with deadbeat mom seeking custody: Part1 Part2 Also unrelated but: woman uses domestic violence claims against man
/r/MensRights13/09/12 08:34 PM
1

Texas is a right to work state, which means they can fire you whenever and for whatever reason they want without discriminating. Your problem is you have zero proof you were fired because of your genitals.
/r/MensRights12/09/12 03:37 PM
5

If it happens again call the police and do not reveal that you know who did it. This removes their objection to filing a report, since they won't know who the perpetrator is. Once you have the police report, then go through the legal system with evidence in hand.
/r/MensRights12/09/12 02:54 PM
1

Unfortunately, even nice people presented with a contested divorce and learning of a power imbalance, often throw niceness out the window and take advantage of every opportunity they can to screw the other person.
/r/MensRights12/09/12 02:46 PM
3

I'll share a story then. One time we were on a poorly chaperoned school trip and there were at least 10 guys and girls in our room hanging out. My girlfriend at the time decides to go spelunking in my pants and, although she was quite familiar with my equipment, decided to very loudly almost squeal "Oh I love it when it's tiny!" Sigh.
/r/MensRights12/09/12 02:24 AM
5

Some mens' penises are nearly the same size flaccid and erect. They are "showers" (long o, rhymes with grower, not like what you take in the morning) Other mens' penises, when flaccid, are noticabley smaller than when erect. I'll use myself as an example. My erect penis is about 6 1/2", but when flaccid it can get as small as 1"
/r/MensRights12/09/12 02:03 AM
13

As a fellow grower I feel your pain and wish you the best. As a MRA, pull her panties off and see how she likes it.
/r/MensRights11/09/12 06:59 PM
9

I think it's lazy, intellectually dishonest, and rather callous to not consider the mindset and feelings of a man who has everything taken away from him and has zero opportunity for legal recourse and is facing living the rest of his life paying his ex and another man to raise his children while he lives in poverty. Any man who would not admit to even considering the possibility that such a situation might make someone act out violently is being dishonest, or has lived such a pampered life they …
/r/MensRights11/09/12 03:40 PM
1

How would an American male go about seeking employment in Germany as a child care worker?
/r/MensRights11/09/12 12:18 AM
2

Why are you sniffing a dog?
/r/MensRights10/09/12 08:25 PM
3

How about "Men's Rights is the radical notion that men aren't just bicycles"
/r/MensRights09/09/12 03:34 PM
3

My ex-wife is the crazy ex.
/r/MensRights08/09/12 06:05 PM
2

I was going to suggest the same site. Go to the archives and there is a lot more material.
/r/MensRights08/09/12 01:38 PM
2

Were the two of you married when your daughter was born? From here What if the mother was married to another man or in a registered domestic partnership? If the mother was married to another man during the pregnancy or in a registered domestic partnership, the man who claims to be the father may sign a Paternity Acknowledgment. However, the mother's husband or registered domestic partner must also agree. The presumed parent (mother's husband or registered domestic partner) must sign a Presumed P…
/r/MensRights05/09/12 03:39 PM
1

Any spouse threatening ruining the other's life is not somebody you want to continue living with.
/r/MensRights29/08/12 03:14 PM
1

If you have no kids, get the fuck out now. If you have kids, start preparing for divorce now.
/r/MensRights29/08/12 03:12 PM
3

I have zero problems with any ruling that keeps kids away from Scientologist parents.
/r/MensRights27/08/12 10:07 PM
0

I disagree. You are hammering at the very bedrock of the matriarchy. Women are the caretakers of newborns. The End. No Argument. No Discussion. I don't agree with it. But it's the absolute foundation of mothers first.
/r/MensRights25/08/12 12:48 AM
-1

The argument is worth having, certainly, but I'm not sure now is the time. We need to go after low hanging fruit. Even non-feminism related ladies have been conditioned their whole lives to believe that the mother-child bond is something sacred.
/r/MensRights25/08/12 12:07 AM
2

I've been an MRA for quite a while now, but this is an argument that is not worth having. Women are almost all about feelings, and telling any woman that a man bonding with his newborn is as important as a woman bonding with hers attacks something so ingrained at this point that all you're going to do is make enemies. I don't disagree with you, with the exception of mom breastfeeding, which takes precedence for purely physiological reasons. Someday women might be more receptive towards father bo…
/r/MensRights24/08/12 11:34 PM
25

I am sorry for what mom is doing to the two of you. My advice: be extremely careful with tone and body language when dealing with school officials or other authorities, especially if they are female. Avoid threatening postures, actions, or words. It would be best if, in the future you anticipate butting heads with school officials, you bring along someone to serve as a witness to avoid having the police called on you for being "threatening" or making someone feel "in danger" or fear for the "saf…
/r/MensRights24/08/12 10:54 PM
1

In all honesty I used both men and women to gently threaten/tease my kids when they were wee. It was especially effective if the stranger had a uniform on or was a waitress or something.
/r/MensRights20/08/12 08:51 PM
-1

I consider myself to be an MRA, but when I took my 3 kids to the circus alone (they were between the ages of 3 and 8) I told them if they couldn't find me to find someone that looked like a policeman or a lady who had kids with her and ask them for help. I had to play the odds. My kids' safety is paramount.
/r/MensRights16/08/12 11:01 PM
2

My problem with what you've described is that this is a movement created to address very specific issues, not the overarching problems you've listed such as poverty rates and class struggles. What you're suggesting is that a focused movement spread itself out to cover unrelated issues. It's like suggesting the NAACP expand it's focus and concern itself with issues affecting latinos and asians, or to start lobbying for changes in foreign affairs.
/r/MensRights15/08/12 07:21 PM
12

I think rape has been wrongly over emphasized as a crime greater than any other in the world, including murder. We have a culture that glorifies violence, selfishness, greed, sex, et al, yet because of the special status rape has gotten, people choose to generate this idea of "rape culture" and look myopically at anything having to do with rape while seemingly ignoring all the rest of the cultural influences that have negative social impact. Really, truly, my heart breaks for anyone who has suff…
/r/MensRights15/08/12 07:15 PM
3

I sent you an email, but in case your inbox gets flooded, consider sending your story to popehat.com. The guy running that site helped get the Oatmeal pro bono legal representation against Carreon.
/r/MensRights15/08/12 08:40 AM
1

I don't disagree with you but Texas is a one party state, so she could be recording any outbursts that I'm sure she will be more than happy to try and enter into evidence attesting to your "violent outbursts" and "dangerous temper". You are fighting against almost insurmountable odds. You will only get a tiny bit of what you want, and you will only get that by towing whatever line mom and/or the judge sets for you. It sucks and I wish I could offer more hope. I'm sorry for you and your daughter …
/r/MensRights13/08/12 06:38 PM
1

Please give us a list of things Feminism has deliberately done to help men. Please explain why feminists insist feminism is for men, but when presented with problems men face, typically respond with negativity and things like "what about the mens?" How are men supposed to use feminism to help the causes listed in the sidebar?
/r/MensRights10/08/12 07:04 PM
1

Well, I am divorced, and would have preferred a female divorce lawyer as I think it may have done something to counter the current anti-father bias in the court system. I ended up hiring a male lawyer because the only person that I found to recommend me a lawyer suggested him.
/r/MensRights08/08/12 07:34 PM
5

I believe that the other professions offer an opportunity for a woman to learn about male anatomy or law without requiring having experienced growing up male. The two jobs I mentioned are, in my opinion, better served by someone who grew up and experienced maleness personally.
/r/MensRights08/08/12 07:26 PM
5

Gender would not matter, except perhaps in boy scouts, or in a therapist for my son.
/r/MensRights08/08/12 07:20 PM
9

She has earning power at least equal to and possibly greater than mine. She works a nothing job, though, and misrepresented her wages and left tips out completely. She's remarried and pregnant and doing quite well. I'm struggling and still owe 2 lawyers several thousand dollars.
/r/MensRights07/08/12 01:21 AM
21

I'm a dad who got primary custody. My ex-wife pays less than $250 per month. We have 3 children. If I had not won custody my state's calculator says I would have been paying a minimum of $1150 per month.
/r/MensRights06/08/12 10:35 PM
0

There's already a lot of people doing horse and dog rescue. Not many helping men.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 07:48 PM
2

I'm not disagreeing with you in general. I had zero support during my divorce from men or anyone for months until a vendor at work finally suggested a lawyer for me. That's what brought me here and drives me to offer whatever help I can any time I see a man in similar situations.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 06:48 PM
3

I've helped many posters here and offered help to even more.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 12:59 PM
3

I would give your point more credit if the MRM talked about a Matriarchy all the time.
/r/MensRights03/08/12 04:59 AM
2

I've provided state specific help and advice, helped find attorneys, told my story, and sent and received many pm's with men asking for help here. If I had seen your story and thought I could help, I would have. Do you have a link of your post asking for help?
/r/MensRights20/07/12 12:18 PM
2

Title is the TL;DR of the study. I was discussing the effects of a lack of a male role model in society as a whole and, more specifically, in single parent mother led households. It's not a direct correlation, surely, but an interesting study in mammalian behavior.
/r/MensRights18/07/12 07:11 PM
1

I'm in the same boat.
/r/MensRights18/07/12 02:29 PM
8

You are obligated to what the divorce decree says you are obligated to.
/r/MensRights17/07/12 08:58 PM
2

I had to pay for some of my stay at home mom's lawyer, too. Writing those checks was so damned painful.
/r/MensRights17/07/12 06:29 PM
2

I don't disagree with you at all. Lawyers suck up retainers with every little minute they can think of, and drag proceedings out to pad their bank accounts. That's part of the reason I'm still so mad about my divorce even though it was years ago. I ended up paying over $50,000 to lawyers, the divorce wasn't my idea, and I still didn't get everything I wanted to happen.
/r/MensRights17/07/12 06:03 PM
2

I had an extremely hard time finding anyone who would recommend a divorce lawyer for me. I finally found one guy who recommended someone who helped him get custody of his children.
/r/MensRights17/07/12 05:49 PM
2

I see some possible legal help results from searching "travis county fathers rights" if you have any more money to spend on lawyers.
/r/MensRights17/07/12 04:05 PM
10

VICTIM BLAMER!!!
/r/MensRights14/07/12 01:04 AM
2

Tithing is neither a requirement to be able to attend services nor something that is tracked and acted upon. Tithing also need not be done to a specific church or ministry. Try not paying for auditing and see how many services scientology offers.
/r/MensRights11/07/12 08:50 PM
2

I'll counter with this, which is really my main argument: how much are you forced to pay to hear the tenets of any religion besides scientology?
/r/MensRights11/07/12 07:48 PM
3

You are blind if you've done any reading into Scientology and still compare it to mainstream religions.
/r/MensRights11/07/12 06:36 PM
3

A timeless subject
/r/MensRights11/07/12 01:25 PM
1

No problem. I try to keep my anti-feminist leanings corralled but sometimes a leak develops.
/r/MensRights02/07/12 07:56 PM
7

Here's the problem: you're trying to make feminists happy. Fuck them and protect yourself if the situation arises.
/r/MensRights02/07/12 07:42 PM
5

That damned man should be arrested and tried for murder. What choice did she have? Poor woman.
/r/MensRights29/06/12 07:10 PM
1

I agree, but until there's a dead child, most women abusers are given leniency.
/r/MensRights27/06/12 02:23 PM
3

Dead children cancel out the Matriarchy much more than just plain old abused children.
/r/MensRights27/06/12 02:13 PM
4

What state do you live in? You are most likely seriously fucked if you knocked up a 14 year old. IMHO this is not a mensrights issue. In the future do not have sex with minors for any reason whatsoever. I have done my best to help many men who have posted here but I cannot and will not help someone who impregnated a 14 year old kid.
/r/MensRights25/06/12 10:57 PM
13

Many women don't usually care for competition. Even virtual competition reduces their perceived value and power over men.
/r/MensRights25/06/12 10:49 PM
4

I have no issues with this. An honest man or woman in a committed relationship should pass any test like this with flying colors.
/r/MensRights25/06/12 10:42 PM
5

feminists started a new global campaign to make themselves feel even more important.
/r/MensRights25/06/12 03:12 PM
3

Certainly not for men, and I'm not sure about groups for women. I burned through over $50k on my custody battle, but at least I ended up winning. I'm sorry you're going through this.
/r/MensRights24/06/12 10:21 PM
1

If your camera is fancy and expensive enough, almost nobody will question you taking lots of pictures.
/r/MensRights19/06/12 11:57 PM
5

I don't like anything that assumes that because I'm a man I need to be told something. That diminishes me as a person and an individual.
/r/MensRights19/06/12 08:05 PM
9

I have a theory that women don't really realize how much shit guys give other guys all the time, and when they are exposed to it, it's so new to them that they haven't built up the defenses that men are forced to from an early age. I'm not diminishing the inappropriateness of the trolling, but seriously, guys start tearing each other down from a very early age and continue it all through life
/r/MensRights19/06/12 08:03 PM
5

So explain why men need to be told being a douche isn't cool.
/r/MensRights19/06/12 07:57 PM
4

I absolutely didn't need to watch that. Butthurt over internet trolling is wasted butthurt. Can you imagine the shaming the world would do if an MRA made a video crying about being trolled?
/r/MensRights19/06/12 07:57 PM
2

Blush
/r/MensRights19/06/12 02:20 PM
19

It's the Patriarchy's fault OP is in this situation.
/r/MensRights17/06/12 12:42 AM
2

I'm very sorry for what happened to you. I condemn your father for how he treated you. You and every other child in this world deserve better.
/r/MensRights15/06/12 10:59 PM
2

Since we're using anecdotal evidence, I was trying to help a physically abused husband right here on reddit after he posted asking for help. I stopped hearing from him after his wife broke his arm, he called the police, and they made him leave the house and left the wife at home with their children.
/r/MensRights15/06/12 06:25 PM
1

Note Check if your state laws allow one party recording.
/r/MensRights13/06/12 07:32 AM
3

Depends on the clientele.
/r/MensRights12/06/12 11:33 PM
3

The Patriarchy is really to blame for any ill, any where, any time.
/r/MensRights12/06/12 09:44 PM
22

Any gender has tools to be a rapist. Someone can rape another while owning a vagina.
/r/MensRights12/06/12 09:27 PM
1

I still owe my lawyer a few thousand and don't know how to do it without an attorney.
/r/MensRights07/06/12 07:17 PM
69

I feel for you. My ex-wife pays a measly $250 for 3 kids I have custody of. I put her through school and she makes more than me, plus she got remarried so her expenses are split in two. I'm behind on my mortgage and barely keeping my head above water. I rarely get 40 hours at work because I've got to take care of the kids and day care for 3 kids is more than I make an hour.
/r/MensRights06/06/12 10:02 PM
13

Gee thanks Obama
/r/MensRights04/06/12 05:45 PM
2

Men do not have the right to post naked pictures of women who have wronged them, even more so if they were complicit like you say you were. You are soiling this subreddit by posting this here.
/r/MensRights01/06/12 03:31 PM
1

Please see my reply to simplecosine.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 04:40 PM
1

I'd like people to watch it. I was moved by the obvious hesitation of the man to use his full strength and his reluctance to hit her square on during countless openings she gives him. Meanwhile nearly everyone is shaming him and cheering on the woman, who, once she gets tired, frustrated, and damaged enough bites the shit out of him and holds on tight while simultaneously squeezing his testicles. Even through all the damage the man takes, he only really goes full bore for no more than a few seco…
/r/MensRights24/05/12 04:40 PM
1

I've got a bad habit of watching videos of people brawling on youtube and came across this video. Even though it's brutal, I feel there's a lot to learn from it. Also, everything after 8:12 is useless stuff added on to the end for some reason.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 04:02 PM
10

I have no stats or references, only 40 years of hearing men talk about their marriages. Countless men have realized the tightrope they're walking and have given up and given in. Their wives make the decisions and wear the pants, and they try their best to rescue their crushed masculinity with softball leagues and beer and "yes, dear" until they die or their wives decide to file.
/r/MensRights08/05/12 08:29 PM
1

Yes, by default this will likely be the case, depending on what state you're in. If she is active online there can be a wealth of evidence to be found.
/r/MensRights08/05/12 01:48 PM
2

I don't keep the list because "love does not judge" and all that good stuff. This is all well and good but be aware you are screwing yourself and your son our of evidence that could be used in a custody battle. I know from first hand experience. Not to be pessimistic, but it sounds like you're headed for a divorce. Start acting like it. She's not acting like a friend or a wife, so stop excusing her behaviors.
/r/MensRights08/05/12 01:44 PM
8

Find me a parenting magazine anywhere with more than 3 pictures of fathers being caregivers.
/r/MensRights02/05/12 10:53 PM
18

All I can say is HA-fucking-HA. Welcome to the real world.
/r/MensRights25/04/12 06:50 PM
2

Message board posts and personal experiences + stories the kids told me. Most of my gains came in mediation and I'm not so sure I would have had the time to make my case in front of a judge.
/r/MensRights18/04/12 05:37 PM
2

Is she capable of being an effective parent? If you have any evidence to the contrary get all the evidence you can and lawyer up. I won custody of my 3 kids from a stay at home mom who was crazy. It cost me around $45k and a lot of stress but I know they are safe with me. Let me know if I can help in any way.
/r/MensRights18/04/12 05:07 PM
13

All I have to say is that I'm sorry for those kids.
/r/MensRights06/03/12 03:01 PM
3

I'm a 40 year old man and father of 3 who has struggled with depression for over 11 years. Please feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to.
/r/MensRights25/02/12 08:52 PM
2

This is stupid no matter what subreddit you post it to.
/r/MensRights25/02/12 12:05 AM
1

The human male waves, while the human female just stands there.
/r/MensRights24/02/12 11:13 PM
1

IANAL, but in most jurisdictions paternity is primarily used to invoke child support on the father. The courts and legal system don't care much about enforcing custody arrangements, so even if the paternity test shows the child is his and he pays a shitload of money to a lawyer to get a custody arrangement with an out of town mother, nobody will help him make her adhere to the custody agreement. They will, on the other hand, go to lengths to make him pay child support whether or not mom is adher…
/r/MensRights17/02/12 06:04 PM
6

Not your personal army
/r/MensRights13/02/12 12:51 AM
-1

Can you help with a QDRO in Texas, and if so, how much would that cost?
/r/MensRights10/02/12 02:40 AM
6

Bullshit. Why does it not set Feminism back 20 years when a woman commits an offense?
/r/MensRights31/01/12 09:21 PM
40

I'm in the middle of this now. I have custody of my three kids and my kids can only do play dates at other peoples' houses or at neutral locations. There is one family that trusts me enough to let their daughter come over, but my kids are always lamenting that they can't have friends over.
/r/MensRights27/01/12 04:23 PM
3

I won custody in texas with not a whole lot of evidence but it cost me over $40k, took over 2 years, and I retained custody of the kids without leaving the primary residence. I'm not giving any more details publicly but feel free to message me. If nothing else I've got two recommendations for attorneys depending on where in texas you live.
/r/MensRights19/01/12 11:43 PM
7

Rape is criminal behavior and should have no special status as a "super crime" or something. You might as well say all humans are murderers, or arsonists, or thieves.
/r/MensRights11/01/12 11:50 PM
3

That dog thing was very annoying.
/r/MensRights09/01/12 07:07 PM
0

Well, there are some people that can suck themselves, so that's not a valid comparison. I did forget about fleeing the country as Vandilbg suggested, but that's pretty extreme.
/r/MensRights15/12/11 08:41 PM
4

You can pay child support. That's your option. I'm not being snarky or funny. You only have that option.
/r/MensRights15/12/11 08:36 PM
9

My ex-wife was given lots of bad advice online, which eventually contributed to her wanting a divorce. It's very unhealthy to get a lot of relationship advice from people who only hear one side of the story.
/r/MensRights14/12/11 08:46 PM
3

My poor kids' opportunities to have friends over have dried up since the divorce and my winning custody. One family lets their daughter come over to play with my oldest daughter, but for my son and youngest daughter, playing has to be hosted at their friends' house or at a neutral site like a playground.
/r/MensRights14/12/11 06:56 PM
-10

No, there's no accounting for child support. It becomes the custodial parent's to do with as they choose.
/r/MensRights02/12/11 08:36 PM
11

I heard a comedian say something once about how their should be a "they just needed killin" defense for situations like this. I'm not trying to lighten the mood. I'm serious. Sometimes there are people that deserve to and need to be killed. Yes, I know vigilante justice targets the wrong people and all that, but I'd have a hard time letting my wife leave the room alive if I found out she had deliberately killed one of my kids.
/r/MensRights02/12/11 08:32 PM
4

If nothing else, you've frightened me enough to give me pause.
/r/MensRights19/11/11 05:39 PM
4

Hell hath no fury...
/r/MensRights19/11/11 01:36 AM
-1

It makes my blood boil, but of course it's all the patriarchy's fault and men need to check our privilege.
/r/MensRights18/11/11 08:09 PM
6

New baby has zero impact on your child support. I'm not sure about the answer to the second question. What state were you divorced in? I like to tell this story, so I'll tell you: I have primary custody of my 3 kids and my ex-wife was ordered to pay a whopping $250/month in CS. She's over a year behind in payments.
/r/MensRights18/11/11 07:05 PM
1

She does have visitation and she does exercise it. Her behavior has improved a lot after she lost what she thought was going to be a slam dunk custody case. The girls were young enough to not remember a lot of what went on but my son doesn't like going over to mom's still. I try and let the kids spend as much time with her as they want. If he cheated you should make the bastard pay. I'm not a fan of cheaters of any stripe. He fucked up he needs to pay for his mistakes.
/r/MensRights18/11/11 12:22 AM
1

I'm a little different from most of the stories, but I won primary custody from a crazy, abusive, neglectful stay at home mom whose education I financed so that she could divorce me. She makes more than I do now and was only ordered $250 per month in CS for 3 kids. She's about 1 year behind on payments and I'm behind on the mortgage and car payment thanks to her. In the meantime she goes out with her boyfriend to parties, shows, and weddings and got herself knocked up twice by her new man (misca…
/r/MensRights17/11/11 11:54 PM
8

One day the love of my life will divorce me and take my children from me. She'll start fucking other guys while I'm forced to pay oppressive child support to support her partying lifestyle while I live in a one bedroom hovel because it's all I can afford. I'll be separated from my children and will miss seeing them grow up.
/r/MensRights17/11/11 11:49 PM
3

I agree, and her CS obligation for 3 kids? $250/month
/r/MensRights10/11/11 12:48 AM
4

I'm in the minority here in /MR, I think, in that I'm a single father of 3 who is owed child support by mom, who is way behind on payments. I've enlisted the help of the state AG, whose staff tells me they threaten mom with contempt of court charges and probation, but in the meantime I'm owed several thousand dollars and have only seen about $900 since the divorce was finalized a couple of years ago. From my standpoint, collection practices are somewhat ineffective. Mom is partying with her boyf…
/r/MensRights09/11/11 11:09 PM
1

Aren't humans animals?
/r/MensRights08/11/11 04:41 PM
1

Are you in any position to take out any sort of loan? I won custody over mom but it cost a boatload of money.
/r/MensRights28/10/11 10:30 PM
4

Human parasites are extremely adept at appearing beneficial to their host.
/r/MensRights16/10/11 10:45 PM
5

I would love to, but I'm trying to maintain some anonymity since she tried to use old reddit posts against me on my old username. It didn't work, but since then I've tried to be circumspect about the details I post. Sorry.
/r/MensRights16/10/11 01:08 PM
7

Well, I won primary custody.
/r/MensRights16/10/11 12:31 PM
21

I know it's just anecdotal evidence, but my ex-wife was goaded and encouraged to file for divorce and given similar advice by a group of harpies on the internet. I have the chat logs and the message board posts.
/r/MensRights15/10/11 11:24 PM
1

I wanted to cross post this because it's so poignant. Luckily I did a search first.
/r/MensRights23/09/11 11:36 PM
2

I don't talk shit about her and I'm not negative about their contact with her. They are negative. I don't reinforce their negativity. How do you suggest I answer questions like "why do we have to go to mom's?" "why can't we stay with you?" "why can't you come get us?" I'm telling them the truth. If it weren't for the divorce decree they could stay with me as much as they wanted.
/r/MensRights20/09/11 11:19 AM
3

I've been through all that noise. The kids and I have been through years of abuse from mom. She's just off her rocker enough to disturb the kids, and I've played nice guy for a couple of years already, but they keep complaining so I've fallen back on the court order. They were blaming me for making them go stay with her, and I wasn't having any of that.
/r/MensRights20/09/11 12:30 AM
5

My kids don't usually like to go to their visitation with their mother. My son especially dislikes it most of the time. I don't really know how to handle it other than to tell them we're bound by the divorce decree to do visitation as ordered.
/r/MensRights19/09/11 06:56 PM
6

IANAL but in my state (texas) I don't believe there is any relevant statute for this situation, since the intercourse is consensual. I don't know what I'd call that situation, but I'll counter with a question for you: If a woman tells a man that she is on birth control but either knowingly is not on birth control or knowingly reduces the effectiveness of said birth control and they have sex and she gets pregnant, is that rape?
/r/MensRights16/09/11 07:58 PM
3

It's been almost 4 years for me, but I'm a full time dad to 3 kids and honestly don't have much time to go chasing women. I do have my first date on Saturday since the divorce 3 years ago, so we'll see.
/r/MensRights13/09/11 03:06 PM
2

I will not be changing what I say or how I say it because some idiot posts stupid shit. I don't even remember the poster's name and it matters so little to me that I'm not going back to your OP to look it up. How ridiculous.
/r/MensRights12/09/11 05:05 PM
3

I'm not sure what you expect "the group" to do. I certainly have no power on reddit, and even if I did I wouldn't go muzzling idiots who say they share some of my ideas.
/r/MensRights12/09/11 05:00 PM
5

I don't know who Qanan is and I don't care. Somebody being an asshole online and presuming to represent a movement means nothing to me. Do you realize how easy it is for anyone to claim they represent a group and then be a total asshole on purpose to discredit that group?
/r/MensRights12/09/11 04:55 PM
36

So all the women would be dead, then?
/r/MensRights08/09/11 04:31 PM
2

I'm late in the game, but let me put in my two cents. I'm a single father of 3 kids who managed to win custody of my kids. I paid for mom's education and now she makes more than I do. She was a stay at home mom prior to the divorce and now I am stuck at my low paying job being the primary caregiver to 3 kids. She was ordered to pay a measly $250 per month in child support. I am behind on my mortgage and my car payment because I can't work a full 40 hour week and still take care of the kids, and …
/r/MensRights07/09/11 02:07 AM
5

Is the child his or not? If the child is not his there's not a lot he can do other than distance himself from his girlfriend and contact the authorities about the child being in a dangerous environment. Unfortunately there are not a lot of resources available for free. If it's his child, the best thing he can do is hire a competent family law attorney, but that takes money he probably doesn't have. In the vacuum that exists for men in situations like his, he needs to focus on protecting himself …
/r/MensRights06/09/11 02:37 PM
6

That is also a possibility.
/r/MensRights25/08/11 11:25 PM
2

I have this subreddit frontpaged, and I have no idea who you are. Even if you were to threaten my life or the life of my kids I would not threaten to rape you. You are getting messages from unhinged individuals who absolutely do not represent the mens' rights movement. I have never had any desire or plans to rape anyone. Anyone who does needs professional help. It is possible that the movement has some sick individuals that count themselves a part of it that think rape is funny, a valid attack, …
/r/MensRights25/08/11 10:21 PM
2

That was the quintessential TL;DR. Care to reduce all that highbrow claptrap into some bullet points that tell the story? There's no way I'm reading all those posts.
/r/MensRights20/08/11 08:58 PM
2

It's not about principles. If I had that much money I'd pay her off just to keep stories like this out of the media. I don't think she should be awarded anything, but in this case since he's so rich it seems like a pittance to make the annoyance go away.
/r/MensRights19/08/11 05:29 PM
2

With as much money as he has, you think he'd be willing to give her a couple of million just to go away.
/r/MensRights19/08/11 02:29 PM
2

I won primary custody in a similar situation. This depends on what state you live in, but with limited funds for a lawyer, a mom who is willing to fight for custody, and not much concrete evidence, in my opinion you stand little chance at sole custody. You may be better off seeking sole custody from arbitration. I'll come back and clarify when I'm a little more coherent.
/r/MensRights14/08/11 11:14 AM
1

I'm not sure this is an MRA fight. The laws are pretty clear about sexual contact with a minor, regardless of the minor's conduct. While I think there needs to be some protection from minors using false ID's and the like to prove they are of legal age, I'm not sure this situation applies. Unfortunately the way the laws are written, you better be absolutely sure your hookup is of legal age before anything happens. I don't know how to do that reliably, though.
/r/MensRights05/08/11 04:47 PM
5

What? Is my ex-wife a "man" or a "boy" because she owes me over $6000 in child support?
/r/MensRights02/08/11 08:58 PM
2

Actually they'll say if the problem actually exists, it's the patriarchy's fault.
/r/MensRights28/07/11 09:36 PM
5

The day they stop calling it feminism and start calling it egalitarianism then I'll think about signing up. Oh, and also when I see some sign of them working towards anything other than causes that only benefit females.
/r/MensRights28/07/11 03:10 PM
2

I've got primary custody of my 3 kids, and mom has been ordered to pay a pittance for child support, which I actually do need. I've yet to see a penny, and the Attorney General has been on the case for months. I can't help feeling things would be moving faster if the genders were reversed.
/r/MensRights27/07/11 07:10 AM
2

Please protect yourself and the kids as much as possible. It is entirely possible that if she gets angry enough she will call the police and claim you assaulted her and/or the children. You need to get extremely paranoid and get to a lawyer this week, as soon as possible. As a man, especially a man not married to this woman, there are a multitude of things she could say or do which could end up with you in jail, away from your kids, or screwed in some other way. If you need any help, please mess…
/r/MensRights25/07/11 11:03 PM
2

Check the laws in your state to make sure it's not a two party state before doing this.
/r/MensRights25/07/11 10:52 PM
4

Why do we need a non-MRA perspective when so many are present both in the real world and on reddit?
/r/MensRights22/07/11 09:26 PM
10

So 2 out of 2 mods being male is now = "universally excluding women from positions of authority"?
/r/MensRights22/07/11 09:24 PM
1

My lovely wife decided to divorce me after years of abuse towards both me and the kids. I had tried to ameliorate the damage and stay true to my wedding vows, but because she decided to end things I had to spend over $30,000 trying to keep my kids safe from her by battling the notion that because she had a vagina she was a good and loving parent, and better suited to taking care of the kids than me. All this despite the fact that for years, I had held a full time job while cooking, cleaning, sho…
/r/MensRights22/07/11 03:31 PM
7

I am stunned and pleased that people fear MR so much that they would actively work to muzzle MRA's. Feminism sure is inclusive.
/r/MensRights20/07/11 02:13 PM
4

If there are kids involved, the lady will probably still get joint custody. Oh, and she attacked the judge because of patriarchy.
/r/MensRights15/07/11 05:46 PM
1

That was relatively recent, though, wasn't it? If it "just never gets old" that would imply that it's been around for longer than the coffee rape story.
/r/MensRights12/07/11 08:08 PM
7

I don't get it.
/r/MensRights12/07/11 07:19 PM
2

But the Patriarchy!
/r/MensRights12/07/11 12:55 AM
1

I'm anecdotal evidence of this. I'm a single father with primary custody of my 3 kids, who are all 10 and under.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 04:46 AM
21

This article is evidence of the patriarchy at work. We should all become feminists to make sure this never happens again.
/r/MensRights02/07/11 03:43 AM
2

It's possible to have a non-contested divorce, but both parties would have to be on pretty good terms and not be pissed off at each other. In some cases, it's possible to offer monetary incentives to the other person to agree with the divorce.
/r/MensRights30/06/11 01:05 AM
2

For future reference, is there any evidence that you had that helped your case? Or, is there any evidence you wish you would have had for your case that would have helped? I try to steer fathers asking for help to gather as much evidence as they can; be it journals, audio recordings in states where it's legal, message board posts from mom, or anything else they can think of that could possibly help their cases.
/r/MensRights23/06/11 01:40 AM
2

I won a 2 year long custody battle just a few months ago, so I know how you feel. I was also fighting an abusive mother, and now my 3 kids are safe with me.
/r/MensRights23/06/11 01:37 AM
2

Please do /mensrights a favor and hang around and try and be a resource when men come here to ask for advice and help with custody battles.
/r/MensRights23/06/11 12:35 AM
2

That's what a militia is for, after all. See the 2nd amendment
/r/MensRights21/06/11 03:58 PM
1

BUT NAWALT!! The henpecked husband imagery has been around for hundreds of years. Some stereotypes are stereotypes because they are based on truths. I know many men who lived and live in fear of losing their home, kids, and lifestyle and so put up with a steady stream of bullshit. I know that their wives know who has the upper hand because they crow about and threaten with it whenever the men dare to stand up for themselves.
/r/MensRights20/06/11 09:36 PM
7

Of course, everything the article mentions is because of the patriarchy, right? And feminism is the solution to the MR issues, right?
/r/MensRights10/06/11 08:03 PM
8

Well, the state supposedly started garnishing her wages, but I haven't heard back from them for a while. Plus I only know about one of her two or three jobs.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 05:05 PM
37

I have custody of my 3 kids, and my lovely ex, who has $120k earning potential was ordered to pay the princely sum of $250 a month. She has yet to pay one red cent.
/r/MensRights08/06/11 03:12 PM
6

A couple of years ago I would have written this off as a lame joke. However, this woman knows exactly what I have been through, and sending it to me was stupid and offensive.
/r/MensRights07/06/11 09:58 AM
14

I'm not going to make waves. My company has been extremely generous with my schedule which has enabled me to care for my kids.
/r/MensRights07/06/11 01:24 AM
6

That would go over well with our all female HR staff.
/r/MensRights06/06/11 11:45 PM
9

Ew, you got politics in my MR
/r/MensRights06/06/11 09:33 PM
38

My ex-wife lost and I'm the survivor. It sure gets lonely, though.
/r/MensRights06/06/11 06:34 PM
1

We were living in an apartment and her name wasn't on the lease. The whole thing was almost miraculous as far as being the ideal situation for me to fight from.
/r/MensRights01/06/11 07:30 PM
1

That's a long story. If you're so inclined you can view my post history to get a fuller story, but for now I'll give a short recap. I'd do more but I just woke up from a bad dream about her and I'm bleary eyed. We had a shitty marriage and there was abuse and neglect on her part. One of the keys to me winning custody was that I miraculously kicked her out before I got surprised served with the divorce she had already filed, so I had de facto custody as a status quo to bargain from. I kicked her …
/r/MensRights01/06/11 07:19 AM
1

IANAL. Probably not, especially if it's a male trying to recoup lawyer fees.
/r/MensRights31/05/11 03:45 PM
5

Maybe now women will schedule a bunch of useless "Quiet Walks" where they all get together to protest being told how loud to be. "We shouldn't have to scream to not be raped" a local "Quiet Walker" was quoted as saying, at which point her fellow walkers all shushed her.
/r/MensRights30/05/11 11:01 PM
4

Just for comparison's sake. I'm a man with 3 kids and joint conservatorship, but I'm the custodial parent. My ex-wife has earning potential of over $100k, but she works shit jobs and claims less than $30k and was ordered to pay a measly $250 per month for 3 kids. She's paid zero so far.
/r/MensRights29/05/11 02:33 PM
0

It's so damn good, though.
/r/seduction26/05/11 02:24 PM
3

Xposted from another r/feminism. I found it an interesting piece and wanted to hear what MRA's think about it.
/r/MensRights25/05/11 10:01 AM
6

I like it. Sexual alimony. Very interesting. Watch the women bitch, though.
/r/MensRights21/05/11 02:37 AM
9

Please stick around and offer up advice when you see fathers coming here for help with custody battles.
/r/MensRights19/05/11 02:31 PM
1

Your rights should be explicitly stated in the divorce decree. If you are male and not the custodial parent you will in actuality have less rights if Mom decides to be a bitch unless you have a shitload of money to take her to court every time she violates the decree.
/r/MensRights13/05/11 05:46 PM
2

His story is very similar to what I went through with my wife. I had exactly nobody to help me and zero resources when the shit finally went down. I don't want that to happen to anybody else. It's a very lonely and frightening time, and it's very easy to be unprepared for what could happen in the coming days, weeks, and months. I have been around here quite awhile and never seen any father looking for help or advice met with sensationalism.
/r/MensRights30/04/11 02:09 AM
2

I know it's long, but it's worth a read and he and his kids need help. She's already threatened to call the police and accuse him of violence after she smacked their son around and smashed his computer. I've talked to him privately a bit and he's going to try and weather the weekend with her in the house and (I hope) consult a lawyer next week. Ohio is a one party state, so he's going to pursue that route until he can get to a lawyer.
/r/MensRights29/04/11 11:27 PM
3

The teat of feminism only produces sour milk.
/r/MensRights27/04/11 08:07 PM
2

I'm not going to waste my time trying to convince him. He's focused on fixing the no sex trees and missing the miserable existence and certain divorce after she gets pregnant forest.
/r/MensRights27/04/11 07:34 PM
2

Does she have money to file for extended access? Do you have any evidence to support a fight against her filing for extended access? Is there any language in the divorce ruling that specifies that the child is not to be removed from any particular locality? Why does she want to go to Mexico? Is she aware of the violence problems prevalent in many parts of Mexico? Is she otherwise stable? You could always look into filing a protective order preventing her from taking him to Mexico, or out of your…
/r/MensRights26/04/11 05:57 PM
1

I just had a lady move her stroller away from me in a doctor's office for making her babies smile. I was there with 2 of my kids.
/r/MensRights21/04/11 01:00 AM
2

If this is real, then everybody in that situation is a loser. You don't talk about things like that on facebook.
/r/MensRights18/04/11 06:44 PM
4

I propose a "Crazy Money Grubbing Abusive Frigid Whore Registry"
/r/MensRights17/04/11 08:11 PM
1

This sounds so much like my marriage was.
/r/MensRights17/04/11 12:48 AM
1

Ok you convinced me. I'll read it when the kids are asleep.
/r/MensRights14/04/11 09:45 PM
3

It states the quoted sentence as a fundamental fact on which its whole existence is based. I reject that "fact" as an unfounded and incorrect opinion. The whole paper and organization is tainted because they are operating under a false belief.
/r/MensRights14/04/11 03:51 PM
3

I stopped reading at "All feminist philosophy of law assumes two fundamental moral principles and one factual claim... 3.No legal system, as it is currently constituted, provides equal protection of law to women." Poor women, so oppressed by the legal system.
/r/MensRights14/04/11 01:30 PM
2

I won custody, but I spent 30k. I understand your concern. My ex has a history of making poor choices regarding the kids' well-being so I naturally don't trust her to keep their safety and well being in mind. She had my 4 year old daughter sleeping in the same bed as her and her boyfriend, who was introduced to the kids as their uncle.
/r/MensRights13/04/11 07:10 PM
2

Hahaha that's a good one!
/r/MensRights13/04/11 03:46 PM
1

I feel sorry for my kids because it's very difficult for me to arrange play dates as a single father. There is a level of discomfort that I can sense from the other parents that restricts us to only having play dates at other peoples' houses, or at a neutral location.
/r/MensRights13/04/11 03:26 PM
1

Until the definition of feminine changes to mean both genders, the word feminism will only mean supporting womens' rights to me. Judging by the battles the movement chooses, and the laws put in place that the movement cheers, feminism advocates for the rights of only one gender.
/r/MensRights10/04/11 01:38 PM
1

Let me preface what I'm going to say by telling you about myself. I have been diagnosed with severe depression, psychosis, and ADHD. I have been medicated and under a physician's care for years and have never had an episode of any sort. In fact, I managed to win custody of my three kids from my non-diagnosed non-treated wife with her own problems. I am not posting this response to be judgmental or shaming. Oh, and IANAL. I didn't make it through your letter because my eyes are trying to close an…
/r/MensRights08/04/11 04:14 AM
1

I'm sad more children are not raised like this. I include my kids in just about everything I do. They've installed doorknobs, taken apart a drain looking for an errant tooth, changed our van's oil, done the laundry, washed the dishes, built several pc's, and put together furniture with me. Parenting should be about raising and training kids to be adults, and most of the time these days, it's not.
/r/MensRights04/04/11 10:17 PM
1

I think false accusations and get out of jail free rape claims are the real "Rape Culture"
/r/MensRights03/04/11 11:47 PM
1

I've been watching the Cosby show on Netflix lately, and I'm amazed at how similar my parenting style is to his. My own father was distant and hands-off. I'm wondering how much watching Cosby affected me. On that same note, mr. Rogers had a lot to do with my parenting style as well. Through my later childhood and teen years I heard him denigrated but I always respected him. Watching clips of him as an adult I'm convinced he has a lot to offer men. I don't see positive father figures in today's m…
/r/MensRights03/04/11 01:10 AM
2

Boys are neither taught how to be a father, nor why they should. More and more are being raised by just their mothers, or their mothers and a boyfriend, and have no man to be a positive role model. Dad is increasingly someone a boy sees every other weekend if mom's not being a bitch. Fathers are denigrated and trivialized all throughout the US culture and media. Feminism has just exacerbated this problem.
/r/MensRights02/04/11 04:44 PM
8

Well, as a single father raising three kids on my own, I see a lot wrong with the article. For one thing, it is written from the standpoint of the all the kids from different baby-daddies living with mom. I am reluctant to even think about having any more children with some other woman because I believe it would add stress to my kids' lives to have half-siblings, let alone another adult living with us.
/r/MensRights02/04/11 04:38 PM
-4

You've already chosen a father for "your" child. What you want him to be is irrelevant, and the fact that you think you get to decide what kind of father he should be based on your own desires says a lot. You chose to get pregnant with this man. Man up and accept the consequences for your shitty choices. If you feel like saddling the father with your decision to keep the baby, the patriarchy will support your selfish, irresponsible decisions. What further advice do you want?
/r/MensRights31/03/11 02:03 PM
8

I would do everything in my power, legal or not, to ruin the life of a judge that did this to me. I'm talking Edmund Dantes level ruin. Oh yeah, and the ex-wife, too.
/r/MensRights31/03/11 12:59 AM
2

Why does custody default to the mother? Why is the mother not on hook for child support while dad raises the baby? Breastfeeding is not an answer.
/r/MensRights30/03/11 11:56 PM
7

Just as illogical: Use the "patriarchy" in the form of custody and child support laws, domestic violence laws, et al to enforce your power over men.
/r/MensRights30/03/11 11:54 PM
2

I'm not attacking you, I'm just having a bad day and I get tired of reading things like this thread. It is about sexism, it's just that to most women, sexism can only go one way - against women.
/r/MensRights29/03/11 12:40 AM
1

I'm tired of hearing about a woman's body. She chose to put a baby in her body, so she should "man" up and have the baby. Quit pussying out and crying to the patriarchy to take the problem you chose to create away from you so you don't have to deal with it. Don't want to get pregnant? Get your tubes tied. It's a tough world, so deal with it. Come on downvotes! What's good for the gander is good for the goose.
/r/MensRights29/03/11 12:31 AM
2

The ball was in her court a month ago when they had sex. Since you are all about responsibility it is now her responsibility to carry the baby to term and raise it with the financial support of the father. Life's not fair, you see.
/r/MensRights28/03/11 11:49 PM
5

Then why doesn't she sign up for 9 months of pregnancy and 18 years of raising the child when she has sex without a condom?
/r/MensRights28/03/11 11:45 PM
3

On the other hand, it's pretty easy for a woman wanting a baby to get pregnant and push the father away leaving him to pay for a kid he never gets to see. Not every man can handle 20 years of indentured servitude. It's a shitty situation, but since it's only shitty for men, who gives a shit?
/r/MensRights28/03/11 11:41 PM
1

I got to pay her lawyer as well as mine. She's the one who wanted the divorce, and I got to pay.
/r/MensRights28/03/11 09:58 PM
2

I feel much more fulfilled personally in the role of father/caretaker than I ever have at any of the places I've been employed
/r/MensRights28/03/11 07:08 PM
1

I wonder if the issue would have ever crossed her mind if it were not for the Julian Assange accusations.
/r/MensRights28/03/11 06:08 PM
2

Do some sort of inventory of your finances and belongings and put it aside in case she decides to dump you and expects half of what you've built before you met her.
/r/MensRights28/03/11 02:01 AM
1

Do you have the money to hire a different lawyer? As a man, your success or failure has a lot to do with how much money you have to fight. I won custody of my kids and it cost me two lawyers and almost 30k, and I freely admit I got lucky on more than a few points and my ex is crazy.
/r/MensRights28/03/11 01:55 AM
1

What is the difference between that and the OP's account of women expecting to marry someone with the same or greater earnings than them? I'm certain they feel that's what they deserve.
/r/MensRights28/03/11 01:51 AM
2

I have three children, and have been both the sole breadwinner and now a single working parent. I would much rather take being a stay at home dad over a job any day.
/r/MensRights28/03/11 01:49 AM
2

So it's a PTSD thing? I didn't know that.
/r/MensRights27/03/11 07:47 AM
3

I was just at the park yesterday with my kids. There's this one ride thing that I have to lift my girls up to ride. These two other kids were watching and wanted me to lift them up, too. They were about 6 and a boy and girl. I had to tell them I don't touch other peoples' kids. They were sad and wanted to know why and I had to tell them a lot of parents don't like strange men touching their children. They looked confused and asked why, and I didn't elaborate.
/r/MensRights26/03/11 06:27 PM
2

I get really tired of reading "trigger warnings". I never heard of those until I heard my ex-wife start talking about them. I see them a lot when discussions get somewhat serious. It seems so pollyanna to steer yourself away from things that have meat to them.
/r/MensRights26/03/11 06:07 PM
3

I'm not a drinker, and I didn't know what Mike's HARD Lemonade was until this story. Not everyone is conversant in adult beverages. I would have assumed HARD lemonade was some sort of lame marketing attempt at making the lemonade XXTREME or something.
/r/MensRights25/03/11 06:03 PM
4

Are ultrasounds rape? Are abortions rape? Are uncomfortable tampons rape? Are gynecological examinations rape? Are Pap smears rape? Are mammograms rape? Where does it stop?
/r/MensRights24/03/11 07:17 PM
1

http://www.cordellcordell.com/our-firm/areas These guys have great sounding radio commercials; very pro fathers' rights. I haven't used them myself but I would definitely look them up. Whoops, didn't see the pro bono part. I don't imagine these guys are too cheap.
/r/MensRights08/03/11 09:22 PM
5

Don't call me you. That's not my name. Don't denigrate me like that. Is that what this subreddit is all about?
/r/MensRights08/03/11 04:41 PM
5

Of course you can't. Surely you noticed the part of the side bar that says disposable_human is the spokesperson for this subreddit, and that anything he posts should be taken as a comment from everyone in /mensrights, because we all agree with him. Have you been on the internet long, sweetie?
/r/MensRights08/03/11 04:12 PM
-3

I'm honestly surprised this doesn't happen more often. Edited for downvoters: I'm not condoning this type of response. I've just read so many stories of men having their lives ruined from divorce that I'm surprised more haven't snapped.
/r/MensRights07/03/11 06:15 PM
3

Good news for your situation Have a recorder on you at all times. If money is an issue I will buy you one myself.
/r/MensRights05/03/11 12:34 PM
1

This article is all about selfishness. I can't imagine bringing any woman home, much less telling the kids her name is Aunt anyone, unless it's a long term commitment type relationship. Kids don't need adults coming and going into their homes so mom can have fun and feel good about herself.
/r/MensRights05/03/11 01:43 AM
1

Probably repost there. I don't think anyone will get mad. Daddit is a very easy going place.
/r/MensRights03/03/11 11:30 PM
1

I've run into that problem for almost 10 years now. I've grown used to the looks and glances from the mothers and the oddity of being the only adult male amongst women. My kids are usually better behaved, more respectful, and participate more than their precious darlings, so I win.
/r/MensRights03/03/11 08:20 PM
2

Here you go How old is/are your kid(s)? What program were you looking at? I've never heard of My Gym, but two of my kids have been in gymnastics programs before. Looking through their website I found something I take issue with as a single dad.
/r/MensRights03/03/11 07:45 PM
3

Story, please.
/r/MensRights03/03/11 07:44 PM
1

Bullshit. As a parent your main job is to be smart enough to make decisions that your kids are not responsible or experienced enough to make. There is absolutely no excuse for any parent to sexually assault their kids, not to mention documenting it with pictures or a webcam. Stop white knighting.
/r/MensRights03/03/11 11:39 AM
1

I saw this linked on reddit today and thought of you. The good times will come before you know it.
/r/MensRights02/03/11 10:09 PM
7

I'll be filing with the attorney general's office shortly. I gave her one last chance to do the right thing on her own.
/r/MensRights02/03/11 07:51 PM
14

My ex was ordered a whopping $250/month child support for 3 kids, and ordered to pay the cost of their health insurance. She hasn't paid a cent.
/r/MensRights02/03/11 06:29 PM
3

My legal fees are approaching 30k after almost 2 years of contesting custody. Once lawyers are involved things usually go south as far as amicable relations go. The more contenious things are, the more money tue lawyers make. If you can somehow work out things between the two of you and just let the lawyers handle filing things, it will be cheaper for both of you. If she is combative or won't discuss things without the lawyer, then it will be expensive. Don't threaten, don't raise your voice, do…
/r/MensRights01/03/11 10:04 PM
1

It's hard for OP to see the payoffs that come later. All babies can do is cry and excrete, maybe smile now and then. The first time you come home and they drop what they're doing and yell "DADDY" and run towards you as happy as can be you'll be ready to flush money down the toilet to make them happy.
/r/MensRights01/03/11 08:48 PM
1

If the kids are better off with you than spend every penny you have fighting to get them with you. Then come complain about it here like I do. If she has them in day care while you are not at work, fight to get them at your place instead of day care. I don't know Canadian law, but you will probably be fighting against a mother bias. Don't use it as an excuse to get railroaded.
/r/MensRights01/03/11 08:04 PM
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Babies can be extremely frustrating. The sleep deprivation makes everything worse, too. The responsibilities don't go away, but the rewards start being more meaningful as they get older. You don't really need the $700 worth of furniture and assorted crap. Babies actually need very little to get by. Don't give up.
/r/MensRights01/03/11 01:33 PM
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When we go to the doctor's office, I leaf through the parenting magazines with whatever kid(s) I'm with and point out how few pictures of kids with their dads there are, and how the few times the "dad" is pictured he is usually facing the mom, and/or in the background of the family.
/r/MensRights22/02/11 09:49 PM
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Hahaha that's hilarious! Nice comeback.
/r/MensRights20/02/11 08:06 AM
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Check your state's laws regarding two party consent for audio recordings or you may get in trouble for recording them.
/r/MensRights20/02/11 04:28 AM
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You are the perpetrator of the vast majority of stupid in this thread.
/r/MensRights20/02/11 03:56 AM
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Add to that the number killed by boyfriends of mothers, and I'm sure the numbers will be even more slanted. -Note I have no statistics to bring to the table
/r/MensRights20/02/11 03:55 AM
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Medical documentation will mean nothing when a judge hears from several upstanding police officers that they "smelled pot smoke", "heard banging sounds", "noticed distress", "noticed defendant behaving suspiciously", or anything else they can think of to burn OP.
/r/MensRights14/02/11 02:20 AM
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The problem OP would be dealing with is probable cause, which basically gives police the right to do whatever the fuck they want and then claim probable cause later. OP files a report, cops all agree to say there was some probable cause that OP has no way of denying, and the report goes nowhere, and OP is targeted for future friendly police treatment. DO NOT FILE A REPORT unless you plan on moving to another city in the near future. Cops will protect each other almost to the death. You will not …
/r/MensRights13/02/11 11:25 PM
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I don't think the urethra is part of the birth canal.
/r/MensRights11/02/11 02:00 AM
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Who is downvoting this?
/r/MensRights10/02/11 07:38 PM
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A shaming troll? No points for you.
/r/MensRights08/02/11 05:30 PM
2

I'm surprised more men don't go out with a bang after being raped by family courts.
/r/MensRights08/02/11 05:29 PM
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Please don't dig yourself a hole on principle. If the custody ruling says she has the final say, then you will be endangering your relationship with your daughter by taking a losing stance. I'm sorry for your family's situation, but please wait until you can work within the shitty system before you take your stand. Last week I informed my ex that I would be taking my daughter to church, as the judge hasn't ruled either way. >The judge simply told us to compromise and if we couldn't compromise, t…
/r/MensRights05/02/11 02:51 AM
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The ruling does state mom has the final say in religious training, so technically she can refuse to compromise and her way is the way he has to go.
/r/MensRights05/02/11 02:48 AM
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I'm raising three kids on my own. Now that I have some time, let me elaborate: I would never choose to do this alone. Only one adult in the house means every shower, toilet break, walk to the garbage can, shopping trip, everything has to take the kid(s) into account. Not so big a deal when they're older, but for the first several years, a whole lot of bad can happen while you rush through a shower. Raising a kid as a single man also means few to no play dates at your house, or kids' friends comi…
/r/MensRights03/02/11 12:04 AM
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We both argued, but gave up when security showed up
/r/MensRights30/01/11 03:34 PM
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Choose your definition None of these has any reference to treating women a certain way. I personally think of gentleman as definition #2, with courtesy and honor being the primary prerequisites. Since no genders are mentioned, courtesy and honor should be extended to anyone who warrants it.
/r/MensRights30/01/11 11:41 AM
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I was asked to leave a family area because I was making some mothers nervous. My wife was nursing our infant son, and she specifically wanted me in there with her, although I can't remember the reason. That was over 10 years ago, so it's nothing new.
/r/MensRights30/01/11 11:34 AM
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Is that a common acronym string?
/r/MensRights26/01/11 11:06 PM
1

What does this mean?
/r/MensRights26/01/11 09:15 PM
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The only thing you have to lose by begging is a little e-cred, some karma, and maybe some nasty messages. Don't be afraid to do whatever it takes to make sure the kids are safe. My custody battle cost over $20k and the divorce is not final after almost 2 years, because my lawyer won't file the papers until I pay him more money. I make <$40k/year
/r/MensRights21/01/11 08:15 PM
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I had a terrible time getting recommendations for a custody lawyer. I don't have any resources for California, but do some googling for fathers' rights in california, and call some organizations in your area that you find and see if they have recommendations.
/r/MensRights03/01/11 08:08 PM
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How long until someone goes to the news with a story of "Hateful mysoginistic man doesn't want women working in his house" and it gets spun into bullshit territory and his name, face, and personal information is plastered on the tv for everyone to see?
/r/MensRights31/12/10 09:36 PM
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My divorce has not been finalized because I owe my lawyer around $2k. The arbitration ended months ago and all that needs to happen is the lawyer files it with the court. He refused contact with me for several months and then had his paralegal tell me I needed to pay them money.
/r/MensRights29/12/10 09:12 PM
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I don't disagree with that. My evidence may have mattered more because it was ruled on by an arbitrator, and not a judge. I need to include that when I go on my rants. Let me amend my previous post: Collect any and all evidence that points to the children being in an unhealthy or damaging situation. Any incidents of abusive behavior, any illegal activities the kids were a witness to, any behavior that puts the kids at risk or directly harms them will have a chance of affecting a judge. Do not ma…
/r/MensRights27/12/10 07:46 PM
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I can message you my lawyer's name, he's a good fighter, but is holding up my case because I owe him money. Take that as you will. I have also heard positive things about http://www.cordellcordell.com/ There's also http://www.lawyers.com/Fathers-Rights/Texas/Houston/law-firms.html
/r/MensRights27/12/10 06:46 PM
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I have to disagree with one thing. It is absolutely necessary to have evidence that mom is bad, because the default judgment will almost always be for mom, so it must be hammered home that there is a reason to go outside the normal procedure.
/r/MensRights27/12/10 06:41 PM
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Evidence, evidence, evidence. Write down everything negative that has occurred with dates and times. Record phone calls (tx is 1 party state), mine message boards and emails for evidence. Get everything in order before filing. Have him bring a witness, preferably a female relative (older is better) to visit his daughters and get them back with the witness present. A friend of mine got his kids back by going to a restaurant with the mother and leaving with the kids when she went to the bathroom. …
/r/MensRights27/12/10 06:38 PM
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Bob is on the hook for child support. Bob has absolutely no proof of what happened and even if he did no judge would give a shit.
/r/MensRights23/12/10 04:33 PM
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http://www.fathersrightscolorado.com/ http://www.brettwmartin.com/fathers-rights-mainmenu-40 http://deltabravo.net/faq/visit_ans24.php NOTE- I AM NOT AND HAVE NEVER BEEN A LAWYER Looking through Colorado law, your wife may be in violation of Colorado Statute 18-3-304: 18-3-304. Violation of custody order or order relating to parental responsibilities. (1) Except as otherwise provided in subsection (2.5) of this section, any person, including a natural or foster parent, who, knowing that he or sh…
/r/MensRights22/12/10 06:12 PM
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I just woke up and I'm too sleep stupid to find you resources for fathers' rights now, but they're out there. Give me some time to wake up and I'll see if I can find some for you. Colorado, right?
/r/MensRights22/12/10 12:14 PM
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You are the only father your son will ever have. Make sure he knows you love him and do everything you legally can to see him. If you know where he and mom are, take a friend or family member (for a witness) and go visit him. If she refuses to let you see him, call the police and tell them your wife is refusing you access to him. Start a journal of every thing your wife says and does to alienate you from your son. Make an entry for every hoop she tries to make you jump through. Make an entry eve…
/r/MensRights22/12/10 02:56 AM
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I'm constantly amazed at the fathers who won't take their kids to the store because it's too hard or some other lame reason. I've been grocery shopping with 3 kids for years.
/r/MensRights21/12/10 09:06 PM
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Replying to myself to link this facebook page I found while looking for the radio ad: http://de-de.facebook.com/group.php?gid=375081096436
/r/MensRights13/12/10 10:53 PM
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I've tried finding a link to the commercial. Overall I'm satisfied with my custody arrangement, but my lawyer started being a dick and now I wish I would have known about these guys. Disclaimer - I am in no way associated with this law firm
/r/MensRights13/12/10 10:48 PM
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Men have no say in whether their child is adopted, carried to term, or aborted, and they are forced to accept the consequences (child support) for a decision made by someone else, often without being granted parental rights.
/r/MensRights10/12/10 06:34 PM
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It's not just physical abuse either
/r/MensRights05/12/10 11:02 PM
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I wish I had read this years ago. The heartbreak it could have averted...
/r/MensRights03/12/10 04:23 PM
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Amen to the men being expected to change.
/r/MensRights29/11/10 02:02 AM
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Can you provide examples of the movement only believing men and assuming women are liars? You've come into a thread about a man asking for help and stated that believing men asking for help while being concerned about the damage a false rape accusation does somehow damages the movement, and I'm the stupid one?
/r/MensRights28/11/10 02:32 PM
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But what harm does it do to assume the men are telling the truth? What injustice is being done to someone if a man is seeking advice on fighting for custody or seeking advice because he is being verbally or physically abused? What harm does it do to give advice to an anonymous man who tells a story about an anonymous woman? I've never seen anyone advocate lying or fabricating evidence to win a custody battle, or advise someone to break the law to try and get one over on their abuser. Saying the …
/r/MensRights28/11/10 10:38 AM
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These "out-of-this-world" stories don't involve the mother's behavior being publicly announced, having her reputation ruined, losing her job, being kicked out of school, or anything else that a rape accusation can do. Also, most of these stories are not asking for a witch hunt or a bandwagon to form, they are men asking for help protecting themselves or their children. You seem to have a problem with that. Why?
/r/MensRights28/11/10 01:38 AM
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5 years old is very young to be affected by a nasty custody battle. Very likely she is experiencing daily things that are much worse for her long term well-being. Getting custody is a net good so any negative effects a custody battle might bring would be well worth it in the long run, I believe. I have three kids aged 4-9 who have been through a custody battle, and they are safe and well cared for, and have pretty much battled through all the negativity of years of neglect, abuse, and the custod…
/r/MensRights28/11/10 01:36 AM
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u mad?
/r/MensRights27/11/10 04:39 PM
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Because feminism has been successful in forcing those white men in power to change the laws to take away the rights of the average man in certain situations like custody, rape accusations, domestic violence, etc.
/r/MensRights27/11/10 12:32 PM
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We went through arbitration and yes, I asked for child support and was awarded that ridiculously low amount. Ridiculously low because she planned for me to put her through school and then divorced me as soon as she was done and ready to work. She can make up to $60 per hour (way more than me) and can work more hours than me since I have to take the kids to school and pick them up. Childcare for 3 kids is more per hour than I make, so I can only work when they're in school. I did a monthly suppor…
/r/MensRights25/11/10 05:26 PM
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Equality except when I want to be treated like a princess. I'm a woman and I deserve the best of everything.
/r/MensRights23/11/10 04:54 PM
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Farted and shit came out. Shit + fart = shart
/r/seduction21/11/10 01:43 AM
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A man's life can be destroyed based on the feelings of a woman. She doesn't need evidence or fact or truth, just a bad feeling about having sex with someone, and a life is ruined. That, or she just wants to be vindictive.
/r/MensRights12/11/10 08:38 PM
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My ex wife is in arrears and nobody cares.
/r/MensRights08/11/10 05:48 PM
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I think some of the downvoting and trolling is actually from MRA's. My OP can sound too alarmist to a disinterested third party. I am not going to accuse the guy of anything, because there is no evidence of him having done anything. I'm just trying to make sure my kids are safe. My situation is not normal, and if I was able to trust Mom more, then perhaps it wouldn't be as big an issue for me. Personally, I would never sleep in a bed with another man's child. There's too much risk involved, and …
/r/MensRights05/11/10 05:47 PM
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I automatically assume she may have picked someone of questionable character.
/r/MensRights04/11/10 02:13 PM
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None of them like going to mom's. The reason they tell me is because the boyfriend is there, and mom only pays attention to the boyfriend.
/r/MensRights04/11/10 02:10 PM
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This is not someone taking on the role of father for the kids. This is a man I don't know that the kids have seen for 4 days a month for 4 months sharing a bed with my daughter
/r/MensRights04/11/10 02:05 PM
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I have absolutely not said anything bad about Mom or boyfriend to the kids. The most negative things I will say when the kids come to me for help with stuff that happens at mom's is "I'm sorry that happened to you. I can't control what goes on at Mom's but if you need me to I will talk to mom about it and let her know how you feel. Is there anything else I can do to make the situation better?" It sounds scripted and feels awkward when I say that sort of thing, but I have to be very guarded so as…
/r/MensRights04/11/10 02:03 PM
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I'm really not using them as messengers or spies. They offer up stories and information without my asking. If I hear something that worries me, I will gently probe for more information, but I'm very careful not to grill them or use them as messengers.
/r/MensRights04/11/10 01:58 PM
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Let me see if I can explain my position better. Mom makes bad decisions that have bordered on neglectful and abusive in the past. Because of those decisions, I have primary custody and she gets them 2 nights every two weeks. Mom, who remember now doesn't make good decisions, brings a man into her home. I've never met the man, I don't know what he does for a living, I don't know how old he is, I don't know anything about him. I asked my ex about him and all she would tell me is that he was a frie…
/r/MensRights04/11/10 01:55 PM
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That's the thing. I wouldn't put it past my ex to get busy once my daughter was asleep. Like I said, poor choices.
/r/MensRights04/11/10 01:46 PM
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In my defense, things didn't start to go crazy until she had the first kid. She was abused as a child and having our first seems to have triggered something in her brain.
/r/MensRights04/11/10 11:03 AM
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I'm not saying any of that should happen, just that if it did I would accept that they are equally terrible.
/r/MensRights04/11/10 12:36 AM
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Obvious troll is obvious.
/r/MensRights03/11/10 11:48 PM
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Maybe if your face was plastered on the 5 clock news and in the local papers when you got assaulted, and everyone assumed it was your fault, and your school kicked you out for getting assaulted, and it tarnished your image with almost everyone who knew you and with almost everyone who had never heard of you they might be equally terrible.
/r/MensRights03/11/10 11:45 PM
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It's sad that there exists a pressure for boys to pull away from physical affection from their fathers. Most of the time it's a combination of social pressure from friends and, sadly from dads themselves. I have done everything I can to break this cycle with my almost 9 year old. He still needs physical affection, and if I didn't let him know almost constantly over the past years that it was ok, I think he would have just bottled up that need like I did and like so many other boys do.
/r/MensRights26/10/10 12:26 AM
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Discussing the possible effects on the daughter, I noticed nobody mentioned the likelihood of the daughter becoming an abuser like her mother. Also, the whole tone of "getting her help" was a load of shit. Show the roles reversed and see how many people sit calmly on daytime tv and wish for the man to get help.
/r/MensRights22/10/10 11:23 PM
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I feel the pressure to do that and I have the majority of the time with the kids. I would probably be terrible at saying no if I only saw them for a few days a month,
/r/MensRights20/10/10 06:35 PM
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I didn't downvote you, but I don't understand what you're saying
/r/MensRights20/10/10 06:25 PM
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I came here to post something similar.
/r/MensRights20/10/10 06:19 PM
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I went through a bit of a different situation. Mom was mentally or emotionally off and did things that called into question her ability to handle the kids. She decided she wanted to get divorced. I tried to work it out but she insisted on leaving. Things worsened and the kids told me they hated her and were scared of her so I kicked her out. Three days later I was served with the divorce papers she had filed behind my back a few weeks earlier. Now I'm $20k poorer and a single father of three gre…
/r/MensRights20/10/10 03:47 AM
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I'm not a militant MRA or anything, nor do I hate women or all feminists. With my disclaimer out of the way, I just wanted to say that while reading your post it occurred to me that selectively choosing our words and terms so as not to offend or alienate is something that has been ground into us as a very feminine way of using language. My idea of a "real man" as warped as he may be, doesn't give a shit about offending anyone with the terms he uses or doesn't use. I'm not advocating that attitud…
/r/MensRights10/10/10 09:03 PM
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Raising my son to be someone a woman wants to marry is nowhere on my radar. I'm doing my best to raise him to be a good man. Someone will find that attractive, I would think.
/r/MensRights04/10/10 05:31 PM
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How long did the mourning process take?
/r/MensRights01/10/10 09:11 AM
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No problem at all. Things would be so much easier if I could just decide that she was an evil bitch and that I'm better off without her, but I promised to love her and stay with her forever. I've spent years thinking of her as the only woman in the world for me, and now I've got to cut that love out like cancer or something.
/r/MensRights30/09/10 06:42 PM
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You seem to post this in a lot of threads...
/r/MensRights30/09/10 05:18 PM
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Hey, I know you. I got the last thing I needed for the last package.
/r/MensRights30/09/10 04:48 PM
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It all went down in spring of 2009.
/r/MensRights30/09/10 03:58 PM
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Three kids are a lot of work together, and I'm not quick to ask anyone to shoulder that load. They all have friends, but most of them go to some sort of after school care. I actually picked up my youngest daughter's friend and classmate and watched her after school last year. I was surprised that her parents said yes, being a single man and all.
/r/MensRights30/09/10 08:31 AM
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I don't have any friends. I've spent all my energy trying to hold my family together.
/r/MensRights30/09/10 02:05 AM
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I appreciate it, but I think I'm ok as far as custody goes. I don't think I'm going to lose them as long as I keep them and myself out of trouble. I don't know for sure if the lawyer's not returning my call because of the money I owe them. They've never been very good at communicating with me.
/r/MensRights30/09/10 01:44 AM
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She's still their mother and they still love her. I couldn't do that to them. Unfortunately, I haven't been able to scrape the love out of my heart for her yet.
/r/MensRights30/09/10 01:41 AM
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I'd feel really crappy about it, though. I've been there almost 20 years, and I'm the only employee in the whole company that they allow the freedom they do. Asking for more would be ungrateful and selfish to me.
/r/MensRights30/09/10 01:35 AM
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I feel like an asshole now for all the behavior I excused away because I was trying to be a loving and supportive husband. No kids should have to endure what mine did. I tried too hard to keep everybody happy, and everybody suffered. I know she'll make a mistake, I'm just worried the kids will get hurt more by her mistake.
/r/MensRights30/09/10 12:05 AM
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I don't think my company would ever go for me working at home. I run a technical department, and although I could probably do most of my work at home, they would never go for it. It's a small non-profit, and nobody has ever worked from home before, and they are very loathe to change things like that. I'd take her to court if my lawyer would call me back, and work on credit some more. I'm reluctant to leave the kids with anyone. They stay with my parents sometimes, and occasionally with my older …
/r/MensRights30/09/10 12:01 AM
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I try my best to keep records, but I have some organizational difficulties in my life right now, so I'm not exactly sure where some of the records are. There's not much to document on the phone; we don't talk much at all, and she acts nice to the kids on the phone. It's only when she's at home with the kids that the crazy comes out.
/r/MensRights29/09/10 11:32 PM
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I absolutely did it because of her. I would come home and everything would be in a shambles. The youngest would have a full diaper that obviously hadn't been changed for hours, sometimes there would be piss and shit on the floor, sometimes animal, sometimes human. I would get calls all the time from both her and the kids. The kids begging me to come home because mommy was mean, or wouldn't make them something to eat, mom calling because she'd slapped one of them and couldn't handle the crying an…
/r/MensRights29/09/10 11:30 PM
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My own divorce clued me in to the mens rights movement.
/r/MensRights28/09/10 01:32 AM
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A masterful article. It should be permanently linked somewhere in this subreddit. Reading it made me so angry at my ex-wife all over again, and angry at any women who so callously break apart their families and remove fathers from kids' lives.
/r/MensRights27/09/10 04:20 PM
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Realize all this advice will cost a large wad of money. Even the psych evaluation will cost over a thousand, and since she doesn't work he will be expected to pay for everything.
/r/MensRights26/09/10 04:02 PM
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I don't have any advice for you, but I wanted to let you know I'm sorry this is happening to you and your daughters.
/r/MensRights23/09/10 09:10 AM
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Document everything: both things you know first hand and things you are told by others, even if stuff turns out to be inadmissable you never know what piece(s) of information will be crucial. You might also consider paying off the mother for her to sign over custody. To sweeten the deal don't even mention her paying child support; you can always petition for it later. Get a paternity test, and if the child is yours, and there is no custody agreement in place, you have every right to your son tha…
/r/MensRights17/09/10 03:30 PM
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A temporary restraining order may be enough to make her have to leave before 30 days are up.
/r/MensRights14/09/10 06:08 PM
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Where in Texas are you? If you are not too far away I will volunteer my services and a short bed pickup I have access to to get your shit and go to a hotel. I'll also volunteer to come over with a video camera to document the abuse so you can call the police and show them the video, or use it to obtain a restraining order. Read this and get started TODAY on getting a TRO http://www.oag.state.tx.us/victims/protective.shtml You don't need to give her 30 days notice to get out if you have a TRO.
/r/MensRights14/09/10 03:44 PM
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I don't think that's much of a factor. OK since you white knights and/or ladies are downvoting me, throw some sources at me. Show me that divorced women are "damaged goods" and divorced men suffer less from this "syndrome"
/r/MensRights13/09/10 07:15 PM
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You're wrong. The husband has more at risk because the wife is more likely to come out ahead in divorce proceedings. He leaves, she wins, she leaves, she wins. Sure it's nice if nobody leaves, but you can't say they have the same amount at risk.
/r/MensRights13/09/10 06:13 PM
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In your situation you have some power, so marriage is not such a bad deal.
/r/MensRights13/09/10 05:29 PM
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What exactly does a woman sacrifice by getting married that a man's potential sacrifice does not exceed? Does she risk losing her house, her kids, part of her income, her freedom?
/r/MensRights13/09/10 05:23 PM
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No, it won't. The laws see to that. You can set up a relationship any way you want, but sign that contract and your relationship is set up like every other marriage out there.
/r/MensRights13/09/10 05:21 PM
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Haha this post makes me laugh. Marriage is a woman who agrees to tie herself to man until she figures out how beneficial it can be to take most of what he's earned and kick him into a one bedroom apartment.
/r/MensRights13/09/10 05:20 PM
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This is the crux you happily married men don't seem to understand. Your years of sacrifice and compromise can all go to shit in a heartbeat if your lovely wife decides she's done, and there's nothing you can do about it.
/r/MensRights13/09/10 05:16 PM
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I'm happy your marriage is going well. However, your wife could, at any time in the future, decide to get a divorce and there is jack shit you can do about it, except bend over and take whatever she has to give you.
/r/MensRights13/09/10 05:13 PM
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The problem is, divorce can seem attractive to a woman because she stands a good chance of coming out ahead in the end. It's not that she would divorce him, it's that if she does, he's likely screwed. Furthermore, if she realizes that she can screw him whenever she gets tired of whatever annoying habits he may have like standing up for himself or not acquiescing to some emotional whim of hers, she can and probably will use that knowledge to her own benefit. Why put yourself in that situation? If…
/r/MensRights13/09/10 05:07 PM
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Love is not some magic hoodoo that makes people act reasonably. Fear is an indicator of danger, and is a survival instinct.
/r/MensRights13/09/10 05:02 PM
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You made a choice that will result in long term positive consequences, but that has short term negative consequences. I know it sucks. I'm right there with you on the sad, empty life part. You are right about the imbalance of power, though. All it takes is a woman getting involved with other divorced women who romanticize divorce, or going of the deep end mentally, emotionally, or whatever, and you are subject to whatever whim she has, and she can use her power to destroy your life and relations…
/r/MensRights13/09/10 02:20 PM
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I don't think I'll ever get over the anger. If that makes me a small person, then I guess I'll always be a small person.
/r/MensRights09/09/10 01:38 AM
1

Sounds a lot like a Roissy article.
/r/MensRights09/09/10 01:34 AM
5

You are smart, and definitely un-ape-like. Please send me a copy of your newsletter.
/r/MensRights08/09/10 01:39 AM
1

WTF are you talking about?
/r/MensRights05/09/10 07:45 PM
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Go through a contested divorce yourself, or talk to many people who have, and perhaps you will understand. This stuff is helpful. You said yourself you didn't know about divorce proceedings. Educate yourself, and stop calling common sense being "hateful towards women". Divorce courts are not a friendly place for men these days.
/r/MensRights03/09/10 06:21 PM
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If you do that and she decides to get a lawyer first you may very well be screwed. It's nice to be civil, but all it takes is her talking to one person that tells her she's being too nice and then the gloves come off and then everything goes to shit.
/r/MensRights31/08/10 09:56 PM
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All three types. He's either going to have his parents outside or inside the house during the confrontation, and I've told him the confrontation needs to happen with the kids in a safe place. He's been recording audio of her behavior, and will be recording during the confrontation. I let him know witnesses would be ideal so that if the police are called there will be more than just a hysterical woman and a scary looking man there. He knows that he can't get angry or physical, but needs to be cal…
/r/MensRights31/08/10 06:01 PM
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In case you missed my comments in the other thread, you need to give up on trying to heal the marriage and trying to honor your wedding vows and get you and your kids safe and away from mom until she is stable. I felt the same way you did, and my kids suffered for too long because of my stubborness. Then mom filed for divorce and all that we had been through was for nothing. Your wife is actively working against the wellbeing of your kids and the stability of your family. It doesn't matter that …
/r/MensRights31/08/10 03:47 PM
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Thanks, that helps a lot asshole. I appreciate you pursuing your athiest agenda in a thread like this. Enjoy that smug, superior feeling you're so accustomed to.
/r/MensRights31/08/10 01:44 AM
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Yes, and if the father gets custody, the mother should have to pay child support. Then we'll see how fast child support reform comes.
/r/MensRights25/08/10 06:47 PM
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The sad truth is that male bashing sells.
/r/MensRights22/08/10 09:05 PM
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I would be wary of involving the police until he could prove 100% that it wasn't him doing the searches. If he involved the police, they would want to put somebody in the system, and without proof that would probably be him.
/r/MensRights20/08/10 01:10 AM
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TL;DR -my best attempt (IANAL) it's very involved and has a lot of important points that I'll try not to miss -WV legistlature passed West Virginia Domestic Violence Act (WVDVA - code 48-26-101, 46-26-202), which the court refers to several times as being deliberately and carefully written to be gender neutral. -Said act creates and defines the "Family Protection Services Board" (FPSB), which decides who gets licensed as a "family protection program" and also dictates where 95% of all funding fo…
/r/MensRights15/08/10 08:57 PM
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This one gets me all the time. With the exception of breastfeeding, which I can't do, I've worked full time and still been the primary caregiver of my 3 kids. That includes bathing, dressing, shopping, meals, homework, playing with, and putting to bed. All that for almost 9 years. Now I've got primary custody of the kids and I still get remarks when I take them shopping.
/r/MensRights14/08/10 05:51 PM
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I don't think it's a drive to be the best. I have a few interests that I research more than the average bear, but I have no illusions I'm the best at any of it, and that doesn't bother me at all.
/r/MensRights09/08/10 12:20 PM
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You do sound bigoted, but your post made me think about my own anecdotal experience. This says nothing about level of intelligence, or capability, or anything like that, but most men I know have a certain subject or subjects that they know a whole lot about, sometimes to the point of obsession. I've not known many women who seem to focus on one area of the world to immerse themselves in, they seem to be more interested in a range of things. Anyone else find this to be true?
/r/MensRights08/08/10 11:15 PM
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Get a syringe and go here http://www.academy.com/index.php?page=content&target=products/outdoors/hunting/scents and choose your scent. Fill up the syringe, insert into the molding between the window and door frame, and squirt away. Refill as needed until your injustice is avenged.
/r/MensRights06/08/10 12:57 AM
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I think almost every divorced man said that at some time...
/r/MensRights29/07/10 10:21 PM
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Do you want me to give you this account? My ex is crazy but not that crazy. I'm glad you got custody but just about every other outcome sucks ass. How are you going to deal with having to hand the kids over for what little time she gets them? I am a nervous wreck for the days my ex has the kids, although so far she has been behaving better. When I started reading your post I thought I had posted this and forgot about it. I, too have almost 12 days out of 14 custody.
/r/MensRights29/07/10 09:59 PM
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Thank you for that. I know I've done what needed to be done, but my support structure is not very large or well developed, so I've done a lot of it on my own.
/r/MensRights23/07/10 12:20 PM
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I'm sorry, I forget that I had to switch accounts since she tracked my other posts down by a common user name, so all my back story has gone poof. Your advice is sound, but the reason the arbitrator decided the way she did was that I was able to demonstrate and prove a pattern of neglect and abuse on Mom's part, that I had been the primary caregiver for the majority of the kids' lives, and that she has a history of shitty decision making skills. I was surprised to find out that it bothers me ver…
/r/MensRights09/07/10 08:49 AM
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I've had the talk with them multiple times. It starts off with telling them Dad will always love them no matter what. I tell them that if anyone ever hurts them or touches them in a way they don't like, they might say not to tell or mom and dad won't love you anymore. I tell them not to ever believe that, because they can tell dad anything at all, and while I can't promise I won't be upset or disappointed, I will still love them as much as I always have, and always will. I also tell them that if…
/r/MensRights06/07/10 09:54 PM
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