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| 15 | How Does One Blend Question Games Into Conversation + I'd Appreciate Feedback On My Examples Please. | Dynasty2201 | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 02:53 PM | |
| 13 | Examples Of My Biggest Fails + What Would YOU Have Said? | Dynasty2201 | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 02:26 PM | |
| 1 | She Left Before I Could Get Her Number. What Now? | Dynasty2201 | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 09:49 PM | |
| 1 | How Do I Isolate Her From My Roommate's Room? | Dynasty2201 | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 04:14 PM | |
| 1 | How Would You Keep This Convo Going? | Dynasty2201 | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 10:49 AM | |
| 0 | So A Few Days Of Wondering Around /AskWomen, Has Made Me Realise Everything We Know About PUA Is...Bollocks... | Dynasty2201 | /r/seduction | 04/10/12 11:54 AM |
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| 2 | Quick Guide on How to Get More Women by Being Direct.Because walking up to a woman and saying "hey, you're hot and I wanna fuck you" is the dumbest idea around. 2 seconds of looking around will lead you to understand that women find this kind of attitude fucking disgusting, sexist and just wrong. The success rate of this is probably less than 1%. | /r/seduction | 23/01/14 11:20 AM |
| 1 | A Neurotic Introvert's Guide to SeductionNo no, that's exactly what I meant. Brandon would have women lining up around the block REGARDLESS of him being in Incubus. It's because he's damn good looking, has a slightly hipster vibe look to him, but is incredibly centered, educated, informed and kind. | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 12:07 PM |
| 3 | A Neurotic Introvert's Guide to SeductionIf I could give you a celebrity doppelganger, it would be Brandon Boyd from Incubus (people have told me they get this vibe). Upvoted for this alone. I fucking love Incubus, and Brandon always seems to look fashionable, he plays in an awesome rock band, has an INCREDIBLE singing voice, yet in every interview I've ever seen him in, he's quiet, reserved, yet incredibly intelligent and informed. He's an amazing role model. I meet so many people that don't know Incubus. They do a search and see Bran… | /r/seduction | 18/10/13 12:50 PM |
| 8 | How to give a compliment for greatest impactDude...she was hitting on you. | /r/seduction | 15/10/13 10:44 AM |
| 3 | Struggling to improve yourself and your skills? Try easy mode; travellingI have to counter this I'm afraid. Travelling, whilst an almost always suggested way to have a great conversation, as a topic can (and often does) backfire in your face. Almost every girl you can meet will say they love to travel. But if you're well-traveled, like I am for example, you'll probably have been to places she can only dream of. If I pick any of the "interesting" places I've been to, people just can't relate. I've lived overseas in Malaysia, Dubai and Sudan. I'm British for those pote… | /r/seduction | 16/09/13 01:56 PM |
| 0 | ALOT of rejection. But it doesn't matter. 1000 "No's" and a "Yes" is still a yes. Keep putting yourself out there!You realize "a lot" is correct, and "alot" is wrong, right? "Colour" is correct. "Color" is wrong. "Honour" is right, "Honor" is wrong. Yanks... | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 08:59 AM |
| 14 | Sexual energy "he said hello like he could fuck me through a wall"And then you explode in 2 seconds if you get her into bed. This has always been the reason I don't go so long between. | /r/seduction | 26/07/13 01:03 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Small one just to share a funny happeningCan I like..move in? You guys sound really fun. She's a 9 and she's that chilled/cool? Marry this girl. | /r/seduction | 26/06/13 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Communicating like a boss. Part 2: Non-Verbal, basics.Great stuff. But to me, it just feels wrong shaking hands with a woman. Because I instantly shake hands like I do with a man. Short, but firm. I always feel like I'm going to hurt her or break her hand or something. It just seems a bit too..formal to shake as firmly as you do with a man. Oh, and anyone that has a limp handshake...I instantly get the impression you're a pushover, no backbone and have no dignity etc. | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 08:38 AM |
| 1 | I just realized how unsocial I am sober...You don't have to necessarily be "sober". I've discovered over the years something about myself: my true self comes out after just 1, single pint. Just a can of Magners or other cider is enough to "get me going". I've been told numerous times I'm like a completely different person when I drink. In a good way. I let loose. I have fun. But I'm no different after 4 pints than I am after 1, so 1 is what I stick to when I know, say, a group of mates are coming round and we're having a night out. It's… | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 02:07 PM |
| 1 | My most unparalleled confidence boost around girls? Living in a co-ed house at college. It's a crash course on how to be comfortable around girls, and blurs the line between hanging with guys, hanging with girls as friends, and meeting girls.First year at Uni, there was 1 other guy in the hallway with me. We became best mates, and naturally befriended the 8 other girls in our hallway. You make friends with the girls nearest to you, they make friends with the other girls, they introduce you to said girls. One night I had 6 girls in my room straightening my hair for a laugh. In the dorm building of about 50 students, we had maybe 10 guys. The ratio was crazy (actually come to think of it, my Uni had FAR more girls than guys in every m… | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 01:28 PM |
| 1 | A lot of the time I 'look' unhappy which is more of a big deal than I thoughtI drove past my cousin and his girlfriend a few years back, and saw them that evening at a family barbecue. My cousin said "We saw you earlier. You know, you don't have to look so pissed off when you're driving." Meh, okay, whatever. Obviously just a bad face I was pulling at the time. Last year my parents had an extension put on the house when I was still living at home. Driving to work in the morning, one of the builders drove past me (he was a family friend) and waved, which I only caught at … | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 11:22 AM |
| 1 | how the fuck do you have a conversation at a clubSorry but I had to laugh. Conversations like that tickle me. And I love it when you catch people winging it when they pretend to hear what you've said just to make the awkwardness end. One time I was working at a paintball site, and called a fellow colleague over. We had the site's safety netting between us. I need him to throw me a spare hopper over the netting. Unfortunately, a generator was whirring away about 10ft from us." "Hey, X, can you throw me a spare hopper please mate?!" "Huh!?" "Can… | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 01:29 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys respond to "tell me about yourself"?People know I'm not running anywhere. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Advice on approaching girls in groups?In true Seddit style: "Bitches love clipboards." | /r/seduction | 10/05/13 10:50 AM |
| 3 | [FR] New girl at workNice. Hope you don't need your job though. Stuff like this at work rarely ends well. NEVER dip your pen in the company ink. | /r/seduction | 03/05/13 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Your opinions on the book ''the game''It's basically an auto-biography with some relatively useful tips throughout. I've learnt far more from this subreddit than the book. It has some tips, but nothing I haven't read here. It's not as organised as The Mystery Method. More of a reader's book than a guide. But as always, it's useless in some key areas. "I ran the usual ESP test, Cube test, DHV'd, we talked for hours, I got her number and we left. Mystery was..." etc etc etc. So...no description anywhere in the book about what to talk … | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Alpha male mindset: Conveying high status and high value through your actionsMust be an american thing really. We have no cowboys here, and the policemen's natural pose these days is hands inside their police vests. They have their elbows bent with their hands kind of on the chest inside the vest. Makes them look like they're constantly about to break into that bloody bird song...dance...thing..."and clap your hands." | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 03:17 PM |
| 0 | Advice to all of you from a bi guy/ sigh You realise it was just a joke right? | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Advice to all of you from a bi guyThe harshest part of gay clubs: Going into one, and having nobody hit on you. | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Hey r/seduction, how do I flirt/try to get women when I'm fat?At Uni, first year I was 22 stone. I lost 3 over the course of the year (I was walking somewhere every day, and at clubs twice a week from about 11 till 4 - I didn't really dance, more moving on the spot, but hell I was up and moving anyway), and will confess I got more attention AFTER the weight loss, BUT, I still got attention when I was heavier. I then put on the weight again after first year (got back into World of Warcraft - biggest mistake), but still had a few long-ish term girlfriends (6… | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Full Routines Request!Annoyingly, I was surprised at how unhelpful alot of the book was. It starts with some useful stuff, nothing we haven't heard before, with maybe 2 or 3 good, useful examples, but then turns into a story of his life when he became a PUA. Chapter after chapter of who he lived with, what his house was like etc. I dunno. I just found myself thinking "I'm not actually learning anything from ALOT of this book as he's not really teaching anything." | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 02:43 PM |
| 1 | How much do you guys usually spend on a night out?£20 usually, but then I get in my city's most popular club for free as I live with the DJ. So that's, what, $30-40? Drinks here are hilariously expensive now though. 2 Coronas for £6.50. Like $10 or something. Christ I miss Uni. 2 VKD Oranges (yes, yes, woman's drink but hey, EVERYONE drank that shit) on a student night in the most popular club : £1.50 Pint of cider at the SU: £0.80. You'll be lucky to get a pint for £3 or less anywhere these days. sigh These days, we usually get relatively drun… | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 04:23 PM |
| 1 | How Does One Blend Question Games Into Conversation + I'd Appreciate Feedback On My Examples Please.Ahhhh, crossed wires here. I'm talking about the questions game and I think you're talking about the 5 questions game. Yes, if she's played the 5 questions game before, then it's definitely wasted and you shouldn't bother playing it. The normal questions game though is surely limitless in how many branches you can veer off on? I just see it as a more fun way of talking to women, as I see it as being nearly impossible to escalate with a woman when she's talking about her dog or something. And tha… | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 02:44 PM |
| 1 | How Does One Blend Question Games Into Conversation + I'd Appreciate Feedback On My Examples Please.See, to me, this is the issue with ALL PUA material. It IS in fact written in far too much fantasy. Take the "Would you say you're spontaneous?" example. Not one piece of PUA I have read covers what to say or do if she says no. So, yes, damn right I'd panic. "Aww, that's a shame." Then playfully say "We'd never work." is all that I can think of. PUA material is pretty much always written in the positive and never covers what to do or say when things go wrong. And when they do cover when things g… | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 11:23 AM |
| 1 | How Does One Blend Question Games Into Conversation + I'd Appreciate Feedback On My Examples Please.I appreciate the honesty. It's why I've written this post. I'd rather put a line out there and have someone say "no, don't say that, it's terrible." Instantly I've learned to not use a line like that, ever. Completely changes my perspective. | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 11:15 AM |
| 2 | How Does One Blend Question Games Into Conversation + I'd Appreciate Feedback On My Examples Please.I may not have written it, but confidence isn't my issue. I have no AA. Genuinely. I don't care whether they like me or not. It's their loss. Confidence isn't my issue. Content is. I can be confident all day every day, but if I have ***k all to talk about, what good is confidence? Yes these games are old, but I've tried to go back to basics, which doesn't seem to be covered in DETAIL much for those of us that need actual examples. Yes, canned lines aren't what you want to use, but they're critic… | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 11:09 AM |
| 1 | How Does One Blend Question Games Into Conversation + I'd Appreciate Feedback On My Examples Please.Exactly, that's why I've written it, as it doesn't seem to be covered. There are people like me, that need examples to learn. Just saying "I started the 5 questions game" isn't enough for SOME people. You make it sound easy, when some of us really struggle without being atleast spoon fed a bit. | /r/seduction | 21/03/13 11:04 AM |
| 81 | Why one-itis is a piece of shit, and getting rejected is awesome. (And why you should make moves early!)"She touched me when we drank together, when we walked places she'd hold onto my arm..." Should've definitely made a move earlier. If she's touching you first, you're in, and should be asking her out asap and kissing her on the first date, based solely on the fact that she's making the first "move" so to speak. Just goes to show kino is so damn important. | /r/seduction | 20/03/13 11:16 AM |
| 1 | How Do I Isolate Her From My Roommate's Room?No worries. As much as it might be in the sidebar guides, the stuff in that is quite...frankly...vague. It's the usual advice of "first, you need to isolate her, then...". Well..yes. That's what I'm trying to do yet don't know how to in this specific situation. | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 07:06 PM |
| 2 | If you know a girl likes you, and wants to kiss you, what's a good line to make this happen?Stolen. I always wonder what to say after a first kiss. Granted, a slow sigh, followed by raised eye-brows and a "...wow" has always worked, but I've always wanted to say something more. This "Let me tell you a secret" followed by the kiss followed by looking into her eyes, or preferably foreheads touching, and then saying "Sorry....I just couldn't think of any other way to tell it." is perfect. | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 02:33 PM |
| 4 | I just came back from an Improv class and heard a brilliant line from the instructor.I wish I could remember or find the link, but there is one somewhere here on the seddit boards that points to an (I think) /AskWomen thread with thousands of replies, all saying the same thing: I wish the guy would recognise the countless signals I am sending out, just cut the crap and say he liked me, then kiss me and ravage me between the sheets. | /r/seduction | 19/03/13 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Since writing our top post on relationships, “My Relationship Manifesto: What To Do After You Get the Girl,” I’ve helped a lot of Sedditors via PM. I’m now a professional dating coach specializing in relationships. AMA!Thanks for the reply! It certainly makes sense, I kind of realised reading what you put that I certainly worry too much about coming across as being fun, but like you say, if you ask too many outlandish questions, you come across as trying too hard. I need to create a list of go-to, funny questions that can get a laugh and build rapport and comfort. "What's your favourite dinosaur?" for example. You could spend hours discussing that and there's so many potential outcomes. Negging her about her c… | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 10:23 AM |
| 1 | If you could sum up everything you have learned here in one sentence what would it be?Not enough specific detail. | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 12:37 PM |
| 3 | My research from browsing r/ladybonersOh god yes, preferably a puppy. My parents got a pure-bred cocker spaniel, blue roan (aka grey and black), from show-dog parents so she's a frigging GORGEOUS dog, from 6 months old, and the first 4 or 5 months can be hard (peeing on carpets etc) until you've trained them, but my god... Once she was old enough to be taken for walks (ie had her injection so she doesn't get diseases from the ground or other dogs), which I THINK is a year old, I started taking her for walks after work (I was living … | /r/seduction | 13/03/13 12:16 PM |
| 2 | I've changed.Beautiful, and possibly a great story to tell at the right occasion to increase attraction, showing your sensitive side etc. "...for every human anyone has ever befriended or loved was once a stranger." I like this. It's so...obvious yet poetic as it's something I think everyone seems to forget these days. Paraphrasing this could be a great response to "but I don't even know you." "True, but wasn't everyone you've ever...befriended or loved once a stranger too?" | /r/seduction | 13/03/13 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Since writing our top post on relationships, “My Relationship Manifesto: What To Do After You Get the Girl,” I’ve helped a lot of Sedditors via PM. I’m now a professional dating coach specializing in relationships. AMA!Hi Soupertramp! Thanks for taking the time do answer all our burning questions. I have a quick if potentially complex question: If you don't know a girl yet, either having met her a few times or haven't spoken a word to her yet, you're in a social situation and the 2 of you suddenly get left alone in the same room, what would you say to spark a fun conversation? This is where I really fall flat. I find it really awkward just sitting there, both of us "checking our phone". I wrack my brain for so… | /r/seduction | 13/03/13 10:37 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Pretty solid basic game, K-closeWell, I'd argue that letting her win and still getting the kiss would have put her in a great mood (who doesn't love winning?), and she would POTENTIALLY associate that feeling with you from then on, or atleast for the rest of the evening. | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 04:29 PM |
| 1 | If you've never kissed a girl, READ THIS.Yet we're all here because the vast majority of us have problems getting her into a state where she WANTS to kiss you in the first place... | /r/seduction | 07/03/13 04:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Pretty solid basic game, K-close"I'd like a kiss from you if I win. Me: Well aren't we a little bit too confident? (wink) we play the game and I own her" Ohhhhhhhhhhh fail. Granted you kissed her later, but you were golden up until that moment. Seriously man, if the bet is she has to kiss you if YOU lose, AND SHE AGREES, you HAVE TO lose. Come on. It's being handed to you on a silver platter! Thumb-war is my new favourite method of kino. It's perfect. It shows you're fun, massive kino opportunity, it's a little childish but he… | /r/seduction | 06/03/13 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Common shit tests you can use you women? Share your own!Oh dear. It's ironic because you're suggesting she's the one trying to pick you up, by staring at you, when in fact, you're using her stare as a method to pick HER up. | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 03:54 PM |
| 7 | [FR] Texting, setting up and going on a first date. K-close.I...it.../slowclap. Nope, I actually can't see how this could have gone any better. You didn't throw yourself on her at the end and suggest we go somewhere quiet, so now she probably has respect for you and trust. Don't worry about the k-close timing. The fact is, you k-closed. That's all that matters, most importantly, to her. Seriously dude, you've won this. All that can go wrong now is if you pick somewhere boring on the next date. Which, by the way, give it a few days and then take her somew… | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 11:44 AM |
| 1 | The Process, a guide for newbies"..you must find the style that gets you results" Sorry, but isn't that WHY WE'RE HERE? I hate advice like this. No detail = why bother. It's like saying you have an amazing FR and then going "I walked up to her, did X routine, we talked for hours, went back to mine and it was amazing." Errr....hello!? WHAT did you talk about for hours? That's pretty much why most of us are here! | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 11:31 AM |
| 40 | Common shit tests you can use you women? Share your own!Or my personal fave: "You know, you're going to have to introduce yourself if you're going to stare at me like that. I'm not a piece of meat." I love the irony of it as an approach. | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 10:30 AM |
| 8 | After you break the ice, what then?You're over-thinking it. I was on Youtube last night, and because I had watched some Neil Strauss stuff in the past, Youtube "recommended" me this video from Easy Pickup or something like that, and it headed as something along the lines of "Pickup Using Vegetables Opener". The guy introduces himself and does the whole female opinion opener, then says, "So, what's your favourite vegetable?" I mean...seriously? This guy is going to crash and burn like a mother f...what the hell? She's laughing and… | /r/seduction | 18/01/13 10:24 AM |
| -3 | Anyone else get really depressed by /r/seduction?As much as we'd all love more women like you, I find r/Seduction depressing because one look on r/AskWomen blows everything we have here out of the water and shows it's all BS. PUA forums everywhere tell you to go up to a woman, screw the anxiety, just do it, a random woman, tell her she's cute and you want her number. "It's THAT easy." Err..no. It's BS. Why? Number one reason women on r/AskWomen say no to giving away their number, is because they CANNOT STAND IT when a random guy comes over and… | /r/seduction | 17/01/13 01:24 PM |
| 1 | A fun twist on games you probably used to play as a kidThe way I "attracted" one of my ex's at Uni was to play a game on Youtube. We were all watching random funny clips like "Epic fails november 2012" yada yada, getting panda'd and having a laugh in a group of about 6 of us in my room in halls. I only really knew one of them as he lived next door to me, this was a sampling of his circle of friends as it were. One of which was an HB7..ish. 6.5 seems a bit too low. Adorable girl, didn't really drink and a bit quiet on the talking side. Anyway, Youtub… | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 04:25 PM |
| 3 | What would you say are the top two books to read? That help you be personable/likeable/confident in general not just about getting women?Clearly you missed the whole point as to why the PUA community pointed you toward it then. Hint hint. It broadens your social circle, and helps you become "that guy" in every party that just always seems to have people around him having fun. Which is like...catnip for women. Suddenly women want to know who you are, they start coming to YOU. It's the golden goose! | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 04:13 PM |
| 0 | After date, she texts me "im home now", do I reply?Her: "I'm home now." Me: "Cool story brah." Not but seriously, say something like "Congrats!". It's cocky but you don't come across as a jerk. It's a subtle way of saying "what am I supposed to do with THAT?". | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 04:12 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I was totally caught off guard. But I managed all thanks to you guys!You could try the hand squeeze at some point. But not the next time you see her. Next time, say you want to hang out sometime, get her number and organise something. THEN when you see her, don't tell her where you're going though, walk over to her and say hi etc, then just take her hand and say "We're going somewhere." or whatever, then as you're holding it, randomly squeeze it. Not like break her hand or anything, but not too lightly either so that she doesn't feel it. If she squeezes back, you… | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 04:07 PM |
| 3 | [FR] The Day Only Gets BetterYou realise that arguably the number 1 shit-test is "I have a boyfriend." right? It's like their go-to get-out line. Unless she's slapping you and pushing you away, if you're kissing her and she's clearly kisisng back, it's safe to assume it was all a shit-test. Women are really paranoid about coming off as a slut so they naturally defend. It's hardly illegal if you keep going with the flirting and eventual make-out if she says she has a boyfriend. I can say I know how to play the guitar. Doesn'… | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 04:03 PM |
| 2 | [FR] The Day Only Gets Better"Can I hug you?" is something I don't like. Asking for permission in general is a big no-no in my book...Either go for it, tell her "I'm going to hug you" or go with the classic "Do you want to kiss me?" (or in this case hug you). " So you hate asking for permission yet suggest going for the "Do you want to kiss me?" line? Mkay... | /r/seduction | 10/01/13 03:59 PM |
| 4 | [FR] "I thought I was going to hook up with a girl tonight." 2 weeks after I started reading seddit, I charmed the whole party and left with a new FWB. Complete with links to everything I used that night.Great FR, you were a BAOS, but this is where all FR's piss me off: "HB8 and I keep talking, and her friends start to wander off..." or "Once it's just her and I, I dialed it up. Kino on her hands and I kept the conversation flowing." WHAT did you talk about? This is where I personally fall flat in seduction. And it's the same with every FR these days. "We talked for like 2 hours, and I knew it was on, then kino'd and..." etc etc etc. Errr, wait a sec, 2 hours of weather talk? What were you askin… | /r/seduction | 09/01/13 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Are there any other games like the "5 questions game or the cube" that i could use?Technically you're meant to do 2 questions of your choice, 3rd is asking a question where you "lose your trail of thought", so you ask what question we're on (4th), nail her on the 5th. I tell her we need to bet something first though. It adds a sense of desire to complete the game and for her to win. Bet a round of drinks or something. So do 2 questions like what colour is your hair, what city are we in, yada yada. 3rd ask something you CAN'T know the answer of. Like what her favourite animal/d… | /r/seduction | 08/01/13 03:24 PM |
| 1 | what to say when your asked about work?Personally, I usually mix and match these for my own amusement, I now always go with: Her: So, what do you do for a living/where do you work. Me: I...make the world a better place every day. Her: Wow! Really? What do you do? Me: I usually keep it a secret. You really wanna know? Her: I do now, yeah! What is it? Me: Come closer, I don't want anyone listening in. She usually scoots a bit closer as I look around the room pretending to make sure we're "clear". Me: I'm a Ferret tickler (this one some… | /r/seduction | 07/01/13 11:16 AM |
| 1 | A tip for whenever girls say "You're not my type."Guarantee 90% of people won't get the soup with a fork thing. You'll just come off as weird as she won't understand what the hell you meant. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Worldly travelers, do you talk about your travels?Slight thread revival but here goes: I'm 26. I've spent over half my life abroad as an expat. Moved to Hong Kong for 2 years like 6 months after I was born. Malaysia for 4 years when I was 7. 6 months in the UK. Dubai for 4 years when I was, what, 12, ish. Back in the UK for school, A-levels and Uni. Spent a year overseas in Sudan as my first job right out of Uni (hadn't even graduated yet and I was working). Now I'm back in the UK, working. Here's the problem with travels though when it comes t… | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 11:30 AM |
| 1 | What books do you believe have helped you thus far?Tried 3 so far: AFC Adam's Principles of Attraction (This is basically a print out of his blog though, waste of money when it's free elsewhere), The Game and Mystery Method. They all had one thing in common; 90% of what is written in these books is what you probably already know. That, and combined with very limited EXAMPLES of situations. I KNOW how to appear more confident. I KNOW how I need to talk to women to get them interested. I KNOW what an IOI is. I KNOW when to text a woman. What I DON… | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Should I trim my armpit hair?I have back hair in a V (lower back is smooth) that wraps up and over my shoulders. Like a fucking vest of body hair. So armpit hair is the least of my worries. Still, I trim my armpit hair now and then (not remove, just electric shave a few cm off), and then shave off the..err..bushwookie and veggie sacks once every month or 2. Or when I look down and go ''Yeah, time to get rid of that me thinks." If it sticks out when your arms are down then yeah, trim it back. Just dont trim all the way down … | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 12:22 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Broken finger, AFC gone awry, saving the day k-closeMind telling us how old you and she are/were? I can see this coming from a 16-19 year old, anyone over 20 and yeah, ''do it" would certainly make me laugh and pretty much say what you said. "What makes you think I want to have sex with you" is a personal fave of mine, just worried everyone is using it as a standard response, causing it to become generic. Seems like you were pretty successful and did the right thing. She said she just wanted to stay and kiss, you probably should have gone for tha… | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 11:00 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you don't hear the other person."I can't hear you! Come with me somewhere a little quiter so I can hear you better." Fixed. The use of 'maybe' gives her an opportunity to say no. It's the difference between "How about you give me your number and..." and "Tell you what, give me your number and...". You need to take her by the hand and control her once you've said you want to go somewhere quieter. Not like a frigging kidnapping or anything, be relatively gentle when you take her hand, and dont wonder off to some random room or e… | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Advice for girls picking up men at a barQueue the delayed response from me. There's certainly nothing wrong or sleasy about buying a guy a drink, BUT, you have to realise that...I guess this is a bit of a generalization...in the guy's mind, he will probably interperate the drink as a sign of ''I like you." So now, you've POTENTIALLY changed his intentions. He may have wanted to get to know you like any decent man would, but now, he's got sex on his mind for sure. Which changes the way he will act toward you. It's not to say you're com… | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Reddit, what is your ideal playlist of songs accompanying the act of fornication?Slave 4 U by Britney Spears seriously gets me going, and has been mentioned by my previous 2 girlfriends. Always pushes me over the edge, and I'm usually 'done' as the song ends. Song is just dirty hot, and is the PERFECT striptease song. | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Advice request: how best to use job to add value/attraction?What do they say after you say you're an airline pilot? It's this reaction you need to focus on, because if most women dont care about it, it's pointless bringing it up in detail. Just keep using the ''I'm in aviation'' line, and eventually you'll almost undoubtedly talk about travel (very, very common conversation in flirting), and if she picks up that you get around alot, she'll ask how or why. Then you drop the pilot line. To be honest I cant imagine anyone not being interested if you say you… | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Advice for girls picking up men at a barI have to say, you do sound pretty awesome and my kind of girl. Any girl that can hold a conversation and be genuinely enthusiastic, sheesh, dime a dozen. Cheesy compliments aside, the issue you feel you're having is...how do I put this...you can't re-invent the wheel as it were. Forgive my French, but guys just want to fuck...although I speak a little French and I'm pretty sure that wasn't French. Firstly, you're going to clubs or a bar. This is hands down, the single worst place to meet people… | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 03:01 PM |
| 1 | I'm lonely and tired of fapping. I haven't been on a date in 2 years.Only disagree with 1 thing: ''...if you're fat you're not getting laid. Looks matter....'' Hmm. No, not really. I've fluctuated from 6'2'' 230 to 6'3'' (current height) 270 over 6 years, and have noticed only a slight difference in my success. I'm around 260 right now, been really fracking lazy this past year. Yeah, I'm a big guy, but even in my mid 200's, I'm still big. I have one of those bodies that expands out at the sides more than the stomach, which infuriates me as you look pretty good fr… | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 02:26 PM |
| 1 | I'm having great success with women, but I can't help but feel like I'm hurting some of them by not wanting a serious relationship.No easy way to remedy it really. Not without making yourself look like even more of a player. To be honest, if you played all gentlemanly when you met them and DIDNT LET THEM KNOW, either verbally or physically (kino right away, grinding on the dance floor, getting drunk, yada yada) you didnt want anything serious, then it's kind of your fault. The problem is this; women are much, MUCH more emotional than we are. We see it as a fun night, you met a sexy girl, you railed her. Thats all YOU wanted… | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 01:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 2nd time solo. Choded out early in the night but saved with an F-close.You know it always amazes me how, with some women, you dont really need to escalate any form of cocky and funny or obvious flirting lines to get her to go home with you. It might be the fact that because she was in a club she was looking to hook up anyway, but it looks like you hardly did anything other than talk to her. Although the grinding helped undoubtedly. Then again...hmmm...that usually happens. How'd she sit next to you at the bar? Were you already sat, asked her for one, and she just s… | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 01:29 PM |
| 3 | How to turn awkwardness around?!If I were to guess, I would say she didnt get the joke/tease you made on the reply text. She probably miss-interperated it. Texting is a real minefield for this kind of thing. In the past I've gotten sexual over texts with girls, and I like to use the line of ''Dont tease me.'' when I know it's on. This however, seems to work best when I'm actually WITH her. Because when I say it, it's said slowly, I'm leaning into her, saying it close to her ear like a secret, so she KNOWS I'm loving it and wan… | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Movie date recommendation?Oh god... Movie on a first date is a seriously bad move man. If you said the word 'date' when you asked her out, then it's even worse. Movies is like...a direct line to the friend zone. It's something you do when you're with the girl already, been dating and ***king a while. | /r/seduction | 10/09/12 12:17 PM |
| 1 | need help on kinoOdaban. Can be sprayed on feet, hands, foreheads and armpits. Burns pretty bad if the area is already wet, but stop almost all sweat for a good few days. You have to apply it right before you go to bed. Apply around twice a week. | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 02:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First dateA lack of kino doesnt mean she wont want to see you again. Kino is a method, not a requirement. And her agreeing to see you again AND making sure it's easier for you to make the trip suggests she DOES want to see you again. So you've done nothing wrong, just make sure you crank it up the next time you see her, otherwise, welcome to the friend zone. My very first girlfriend; the first kino we actually had at all, was at midnight on New Year's (not this one. This was years ago). Cheesy as hell, bu… | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 12:19 PM |
| 7 | [FR] HB9 girl at work, questionable date.Firstly, my rule is never date or have sex with someone from work...unless they are flirting back...as it will be super awkward and can lead to one of you getting fired. BUT, it happens all the time so, you may be fine. I would be surprised if she actually interperated your ''you're still free on friday night?'' question as an indication of needyness or desperation or panic or whatever. If she did have any doubt, your save later on will have irradicated it to me. I'd say you have got this girl. … | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 11:37 AM |
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