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Even if the judge disagrees, it still sounds like it was worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/20 11:23 PM
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Those aren't assumptions, I read your post history. And women don't get to decide what a high n-count is - that is men's perogative. In the same way men don't get to decide who the high-value men are.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 02:45 AM
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You can stand by whatever you like, but you're not in a position to be giving life advice. Other subs may give a voice to everyone regardless of merit, but this sub is based on the idea of merit and earning your position through personal self-improvement. You haven't even bothered to familiarize yourself with the fundamentals of the sub. The goal of RPW is marriage with a high-value man. You are not married. Based on your post history, you are 23, just out of college, and have a high n-count. No…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 02:36 AM
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You should brush up on basic terminology before presuming to give other people advice here: https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/wiki/index
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/20 02:15 AM
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... and then you will lose all interest because no woman wants a man that caves so easily. Are you familiar with the term 'shit test'?
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/20 09:01 PM
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We have, and we did an excellent jot wish if Siri order pizza
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 10:14 PM
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Agreed that this is ideal for many, but I think it was pretty rare That's always the case though. Ideals are always rare, but that doesn't mean you should stop aspiring to them. A lot of our current social problems stem from a refusal or unwillingness to understand that. Instead of aspiring towards ideals, people find it easier to hold ideals in contempt.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 06:09 PM
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I don't see the word 'official' anywhere other than your faux-outraged comment. Unbunch your panties.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 01:40 PM
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Bill Burr has a great bit about that: https://youtu.be/O75sGhFcLbE Feminists really have no idea just how far off the mark they are. If they didn't get so worked up over "Make me a sandwich" they could rule the world.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 12:48 PM
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Yes, this thread is ridiculous. Who would we direct outrage at? The virus? China seems like a good answer, but maybe I'm biased.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 03:40 AM
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No one should be nostalgic for the “1950s ideal” of Dad returning to a freshly baked dinner and freshly washed children Even if all women were die-hard feminists, the 50% of the population that is men would still be nostalgic for that. Why on Earth wouldn't they be?
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/20 03:32 AM
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And how to forgive yourself for not meeting that criteria previously? Try and look at it from a different angle - why should people be automatically attracted to you when you had not done anything previously to be attractive to them? Don't be down on yourself for this change in your circumstances. This is something you have earned. You deserve it. Also, what you're experiencing should allow you to understand how men normally experience the world. Young women start out life with a bit of "credit"…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 02:02 PM
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Do you realize other people can see your post history?
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 03:34 AM
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OK Boomer
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 12:58 PM
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It's not you, it's him. OP is a retarded shut-in that can't write in complete sentences.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/20 12:58 PM
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I am aware of the difference a decent education makes in one's salary - I earn one of those high salaries with a highly marketable engineering degree. I also make hiring decisions, and I have ended more than one interview early because it became clear that the applicant's degree wasn't worth the paper it was written on. This is a growing problem the US's failing education system has created over decades of mismanagement. You seem to be conflating credentialism with competence, and an analogous a…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 08:35 PM
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Women's subreddits are about being better partners, deferring to their judgment, demanding less of them. This subreddit is dedicated to that. If you want a broader perspective, take a look at TwoX and Female Dating Strategy - although I have a hard time deciding which of the two I would recommend less.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 07:21 PM
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A degree is just a piece of paper, and your understanding of historical relationships between the sexes appears to have been handed to you by someone with a Gender Studies piece of paper.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 07:18 PM
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Because corporations want a larger labor pool to draw from in order to justify a lower market wage rate.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 12:28 PM
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The Red-pilled take on poly armory is that while the wife should be competently trained in the use of arms, it is ultimately the duty of the husband to defend the family. While my wife can shoot, she isn't the first line of defense.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 03:13 PM
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Pick a few different little thoughtful things you do for each other, and dedicate yourself to doing them every day without fail. I have brought my wife her morning cup of coffee in bed every day - except for a handful of instances where I was sick or we were apart - for nearly ten years now.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/19 05:04 AM
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A cursory look at any of sunflowerknight's other comments shows your assumptions about him are probably way, way off.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/19 02:05 PM
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This post has drawn a lot of traffic for this sub over the past day. This is significant, and should be worth pondering for any readers here. There have been many documented instances of shills from the porn industry spamming on Reddit, as well as going into critical threads and doing damage control. This has become quite pronounced since the NoFap movement took off. I believe we may have one of these shills here, in this thread, trying to sow discord, and defuse criticism for the porn industry.…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 08:49 PM
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Don't let the screeching of the lolbertarians discourage you. You always take the heaviest fire when you're right over your target. This post isn't seeing heavy traffic for no good reason.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 02:23 PM
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I'm actually arguing for some regulation on both practical and moral grounds. Some of things you're citing are instances of immorality that are allowed to exist within reasonable bounds. Over the last five years I've watched an excessively lax society go way too far in a number of areas on the nebulous grounds of "freedom". We need to start pulling on the reins. I don't know exactly where the line needs to be drawn, but anyone with a shred of sanity would agree that child drag shows, post-birth …
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 04:07 AM
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I didn't like the idea of the government dictating morality... Until I learned that "Desmond is Amazing" is a thing. https://youtu.be/55eflUnkLqE A 10-y/o child should not be stripping in a night club, nor should they understand the context of jokes about snorting cocaine or giving someone roofies. Nor should prepubescent children be given hormones that will permanently alter their development. We've gone way past the point of "what people do in their own bedrooms..." or any other seemingly reas…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 02:47 AM
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There is a lot more where that came from, but it is the sort of thing people need to seek out for themselves. Casting pearls before swine and all that.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/19 01:34 AM
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Ok boomer. See you on the Day of the Pillow.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 09:39 PM
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Why is 12-years old an inappropriate age? It sounds like you're falling victim to the slippery slope fallacy.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 08:48 PM
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If we're looking at the Consequences of pornography, perhaps it is worth also considering the motivations of the people creating pornography. Al Goldstein, one of the most prolific pornographers of the 20th century, in his own words: "The only reason that Jews are in pornography is that we think that Christ sucks. Catholicism sucks. We don't believe in authoritarianism." Ford also asked, "Do you believe in God?" Goldstein said, "I believe in me. I'm God. Screw God. God is your need to believe in…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 08:21 PM
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Do you think 12-year-olds should have unrestricted access to porn and weed? Because it does sound that way. Which makes me question how well your moral compass is oriented.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 08:06 PM
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Congratulations. I can't recommend this route enough. I have our 'elopement' pictures taped to my main monitor at work, and they always make me smile. I wish you both the best.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 01:58 PM
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Pornography doesn't destroy lives, you say? Former porn stars disagree: https://youtu.be/ljBZ0_iNqrs Porn producers groom underage girls and recruit in high schools. Those people aren't cartoons or CGI, you know. "Barely legal" girls have to come from somewhere.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/19 01:46 PM
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If you're calling Trump a Chad in the same comment that you're awkwardly insulting him - well, that's pretty much the textbook example of a Chad now isn't it?
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/19 03:31 AM
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Rule 1 of this sub is that all posts and comments must be in good faith. You are equating grabbing your exposed ass at a frat party with violence. Then you're playing dumb and pretending you don't know the difference, because the only way your position constitutes a valid argument is if you can first get me to implicitly agree to your false premises. Tell me, did the ass-grab you were so cruelly subjected to as a college freshman require any reconstructive surgery? How many stitches did it requi…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/19 04:19 PM
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Good for you, I hope it works out. Keep sending him all the support you can. It doesn't just help his morale. It helps the morale of his fellow soldiers by reminding them that there are things at home worth defending.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/19 02:58 PM
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Yes, I agree. You do not understand what constitutes violence.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/19 02:31 PM
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Grabbing someone's ass is not violence, and comparing it to violence is an insult to actual victims of violence.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/19 02:29 AM
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So... You went to frat parties wearing an extremely short skirt, invited attention from drunk male teenagers, got your ass grabbed, and then created a giant scene to get the attention of everyone at the party, in the hope that they would all rush in to your rescue, validating your behavior? First of all, you sound like loads of fun to be around. More to the point, you're describing incredibly manipulative toxic behavior, indicative of deep-seated psychological issues, that I suspect you're expre…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/19 01:26 PM
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What's unique about women? A whole lot relative to men. If your premise is that women are functionally and behaviorally identical to men, you are on the wrong forum. If you're interested in deflecting the conversation to a discussion about White men and Donald Trump, there actually are subreddits set up for that explicit purpose, and I encourage you to take a look at them.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/19 07:57 PM
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What is there to refute? You haven't made any coherent assertions, or presented an alternative hypothesis. The sum total of your comments amounts to "nuh-uh, I do what I want."
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/19 07:29 PM
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"telling women to raise their voice, back to telling men to read their minds." I rather like this. I think I will steal it.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/19 07:22 PM
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The surest sign that you personally are being manipulated is your belief that other people are being manipulated (based on their group identity) but you, you among all the ignorant rabble of the world, you are not. I think your emotional reaction to my comment suggests it hit a little too close to home.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/19 07:19 PM
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Women are paid less. This is a blanket-statement that ignores individual occupation (and there are many occupations where women do and historically have out-earned men) and also conflates political power (collective bargaining with government) and economic power (bargaining between private entities). Women historically couldn't vote. Historically, when are we talking here? 125 years ago? Because if you go back another 125 years, men couldn't vote either. And that's just in America. In many parts…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/19 06:52 PM
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If you assume modern feminism exists for its stated purpose - to improve the conditions of all women so they are on an equal plane with all men (the most generous interpretation I can think of) - their tactics appear nonsensical and counterproductive. If, however, you assume the purpose of modern feminism is just another method of gaining political control by exploiting a subgroup of the population, things make more sense. Encourage hedonistic sexual behavior in women throughout their youth, the…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/19 03:10 PM
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If he's not savvy enough to tell when he is being lied to, no amount of ambition will be enough for him to get anywhere in life.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/19 10:56 PM
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Women being the hypergamous creatures that they are, they will not be interested in a relationship with a man gullible enough for them to fool. They will be interested in the type of man savvy enough to see through their deception. That, in a nutshell, is the problem with lying about your past to get a man. Any man worth having will figure it out, and kick you to the curb.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/19 09:17 PM
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Whatever you say, Dylan.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/19 04:54 PM
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That's not a u/Whisper classic either, that's Bruce Lee too! https://youtu.be/cJMwBwFj5nQ
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 12:20 AM
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It's pretty much what it sounds like. We were on a road trip down in the Florida keys. I wanted to fool around when we were out one night. She didn't want to get eaten alive by mosquitoes. Honestly the mosquitoes weren't even the worst part. The beaches down there are really rocky, and that's a lot more uncomfortable.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/19 04:47 PM
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A while back I recall mentioning a scene from a Bruce Lee movie where he says "Be like water..." as an illustration of how the yielding nature of femininity can be a strength. "Because of this, guys often stare at your pointing finger instead of the direction that your finger is pointing." This sounds an awful lot like another one of his quotes: "Don't think. FEEEEEEEEL! It's like a finger pointing away to the moon. Do not concentrate on the finger or you will miss all of the heavenly glory!" In…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/19 01:21 AM
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I didn't miss your point; I think in swallowing the Red Pill you simply moved to a new ideological position that lacks nuance. Despite all of the media influence to the contrary, we do not exist solely as atomized individuals (I'm referring to media influence directed at Whites here, since that is the only group where any form of collectivism is demonized and impugned). We do exist as social creatures, and that does influence our mating choices - all the more so if we're discussing a high-value,…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/19 05:40 PM
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But not a king. Royalty and titles of nobility are anathema to Americans. There are numerous passages in the writings of the founders excoriating them. But that does not for a second preclude the existence of social classes. Social classes are an inherent part of our political structure. The United States is not a democracy, not was it ever intended to be - democracies have been recognized for thousands of years as the most degenerate form of government, which most quickly devolves to tyranny. T…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/19 03:12 PM
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Bring a bottle of wine, and say nice things about the Eagles.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/19 01:19 PM
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Men don't care so much about the career per se; the choice of career and competence within it simply serves as a useful proxy for desirable qualities in a life partner.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/19 01:17 PM
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What society do you live in that makes everyone a king by writ of constitution, and how exactly does that work with respect to sovereignty?
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/19 01:15 PM
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There are only two genders, but there are a bunch of different mental issues.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/19 12:21 PM
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You mean the Chinese people that cook using gutter oil? The Chinese people that regularly run over toddlers and keep driving? The insect people of the far East? https://www.liveleak.com/view?i=e2d_1441616540
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 09:02 PM
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No, it's a low-effort listicle from the same bastion of scientific knowledge that broadcasts Ancient Aliens five days a week. It's a joke, and so is the proposition that indigenous Africans have ever built a society more sophisticated than an ant colony.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 05:46 PM
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Google gives results when you search for "Flat Earth" too. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 01:00 PM
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What entertains me most about this revelation is, thanks to changes currently being made in immigration policy, you likely aren't just about to ruin your marriage, you will likely be deported as well.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/19 08:59 PM
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Do you mean the African countries that are currently colonies of China? There has never been any development in Africa spurred by native Africans. The BBC reported that they just invented the wheel last month. If you are so certain of your assertion, why haven't you provided specific examples with concrete numbers to back them up?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 06:08 PM
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And red-headed pharaohs...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:24 PM
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You would need an example of a single successful black country other than Wakanda for that argument to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:23 PM
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A "decline" would imply a starting point above ground level.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 04:14 PM
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You seem to be disagreeing with her on the same point over and over again. Maybe you need to have your man teach you how to format a response.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/19 12:34 PM
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Yeah, but men never turned it into a useless college major.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:45 AM
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I completely sympathize. I was watching Iron Man yesterday, and I spent all last night trying to figure out where I can buy a robot suit.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/19 12:35 PM
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For most jobs, u/stevierose789 's husband is correct that it is a chainsaw.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 06:21 PM
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I'm curious where in the sidebar RPW discusses the sex slave market part of dating strategy: https://amp.businessinsider.com/afp-i-want-a-blue-eyed-yazidi-teen-describes-is-slave-market-2015-9
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/19 01:29 AM
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Yeah, of all of the progressive misinformation out there, that one is particularly stupid. It's really bizarre to hear that claim, and then have someone reference "the world's oldest profession" in the next breath.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 07:28 PM
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I was trying to decide if you were or a troll, or just operating on multiple levels of subversion. Then I looked at your post history and realized you're just using this subreddit to manifest your sexual fetishes.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 05:16 PM
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For the record, cheetahs are actually remarkably easy to domesticate. Way easier than party girls.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/19 11:26 AM
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All you have given besides misspelled nonsense is a passage from a book written by a guy universally regarded as a snake oil salesman who has been criticized for, among other things, needlessly injecting children with radioactive tracer chemicals. It's not ad hominem to point out that you're barely an adult, and you have so little experience interacting with women that your Reddit browsing is split between trying to figure out a winning strategy for dating apps and constantly posting on a board …
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 02:21 AM
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If you can't manage to use proper grammar or spelling, you've got no business using words like "archetype". Learn to walk before you attempt running.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/19 12:02 AM
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LOL https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/comments/ciryv8/weekly_profile_critique/evofmjm Just imagine taking seriously advice on relationships from someone that solicits dating app profile input from strangers on Reddit. Cope harder, boy.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 07:07 PM
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I'm a man. Check the username. You're probably confusing me with my wife, who is also commenting on this post. And since you brought it up, I know her high school boyfriend, and we could not be more different. That difference was part of the reason she was interested in me to begin with, so that's at least one data point of a woman not repeating the same pattern mindlessly ad infinitum.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 04:38 PM
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"Soul tie"? Is this Marianne Williamson's Reddit account?
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/19 12:43 PM
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She shouldn't hide them, but if her education comes up in conversation it should be mentioned in passing, and not become the focus of discussion. That's not because it's "intimidating", or "emasculating", or any of the other reasons given by feminists that amount to nothing more than resentful rationalization. It's because a date isn't a job interview; it's a marriage interview.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/19 08:47 PM
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It's not a false premise so much as I was using a lot of metaphorical language. Saying someone is "born into wealth" does not imply someone's DNA has a brokerage account associated with it. Otherwise I don't disagree with your points.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/19 08:05 PM
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https://youtu.be/dqshYG4qvT4 whoosh
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/19 03:14 AM
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"Don't assume these girls didn't know what they were doing. I assure you these girls knew exactly what they were doing" Okay, Marco Rubio. Methinks the lady doth protest too much.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/19 02:41 AM
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Yeah, I think we've jumped the shark now. The RP subs discuss Coca-Cola so frequently that eventually Pepsi had to come up - but that doesn't mean RC Cola and every knockoff on Walmart's shelves are worthy of discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/19 03:33 PM
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Again, I'm sympathetic to the emotional disgust reaction to Dylan that a lot of men feel because I felt that way for a long way too. I still feel that way, but I suppress it now because eventually I came to understand Dylan (cue the jealousy of freshman girls everywhere now). Chad is a born Alpha; he was made for the Male Social Matrix. It's why he doesn't instinctively understand the Female Social Matrix, and incidentally, it's why he feels compelled to punch Dylan in the side of his stupid, ga…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/19 01:24 PM
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How are you able to type so much with your arms crossed in a pout like that?
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/19 02:24 PM
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A lot of the negative male response to Dylan is emotional and is just rationalized ex post facto. u/girlwithabike and I were talking about it last night and we both are of the opinion that the reaction of u/Whisper is one of his rare displays of genuine emotion - in this case, most likely disgust at Dylan. It's understandable - u/Whisper sees himself as Chad (likely with good reason) and most of the time Chad wants to beat Dylan's ass. Chad is supposed to get laid; he's objectively superior, he …
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/19 12:54 PM
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Yeah, it was a concept that every woman has a vague idea of, but it didn't have an agreed-upon name yet. Until an idea has a name attached to it, you can't talk about it, and most people can't even really think about it. This is an idea that figures heavily in 1984; censoring words to prevent people from thinking about their related concepts. Whether or not a woman on RPW actually wants Chad, giving Chad a name is an important first step in making that decision. Obviously Dylan is not aligned wi…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/19 02:18 AM
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Eh, I think you're getting too hung up on the specific incarnation of the Archetypal Dylan that the ladies were describing based on their ages and the current year to see through to the more timeless truth of what Dylan represents. Dylan is only appealing to the woke liberal feminist mindset because that is what is currently in vogue and it's low-hanging fruit. You see, Chad is a much easier archetype to characterize in order to illustrate red-pill theory because Chad's characteristics are etern…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/19 01:18 AM
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Phil got that name by finishing too quickly. Dylan is a gentleman. He takes his time.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/19 02:11 PM
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LOL - I think Dylan has a brother named Marshall who rides a Harley and takes things too far, scaring away the ladies, and is MGTOW by default. He never did listen to pop's advice on the ladies, and will probably wind up just like his uncle.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/19 02:26 AM
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As a rule, I don't trust anyone that doesn't tell me something that pisses me off from time to time.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/19 02:23 AM
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Off-topic from Dylan and his clever schtick: If you think for a second that electing a cat to a position of authority wouldn't result in the most brutal, fascistic regime in the whole of world history, then you understand nothing about either cats or fascists.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/19 01:07 AM
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I can't imagine having such a dim view of myself that I'd sleep with a one-dimensional cut-out of a human being simply for validation, but whatever - you do you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/19 01:04 AM
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Depends on what it is you think you want.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/19 12:31 AM
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Yeah, he's counting on you foolishly thinking that. That's how the con works.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/19 08:21 PM
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Who doesn't remember the first time they met Dylan, during freshman orientation week? It's one of your most impactful memories from college, randomly bumping into him playing guitar under a tree by the philosophy department. Or was it at the coffee shop, where he was working on his poetry, which is suspiciously similar to Pablo Neruda, as though he simply rewrote it while looking at a thesaurus? It's hard to say for sure; you ended up smoking a lot of weed that semester...
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/19 05:17 PM
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Do you really think that there are absolutely zero stances that are held by all women? Let's start with 'All women wish to continue existing' and start extrapolating from there. You come off as quite young and inexperienced. That would explain your desire to view everyone (and yourself by extension) as unique individuals in all respects. It's not true, though. Women as a group do have some collective interests, and discarding those tools useful in pursuing those interests is folly.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/19 06:51 PM
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Shame is a potent tool for maintaining social norms, and it is particularly powerful against women, who are more social creatures and more prone to obey consensus. If women as a group abdicate the responsibility of shaming each other in order to maintain social standards that are in the best interest of women, they place themselves at an enormous disadvantage - because I promise you that men will not simply throw away a tool that works so effectively. If you want the dynamics of sexual relations…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/19 04:47 PM
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I thought you were implying it was a supermodel's height that made them attractive, therefore any woman as tall as a supermodel is attractive as well. Now you're saying it's a supermodel's looks that make them attractive? Make up your mind, dude. You're all over the place.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/19 12:55 AM
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If you're really interested in a serious relationship, move out of the city. It's not just your city that's the problem. Single men flock to the city for the same reason fishermen visit the Florida Keys.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 05:36 PM
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"madly in love with a guy who went to an ivy league school, professed the highest morality, was mind-blowingly well read, genuinely behaved as if certain girls were below him...and it was a trick." It seems more like you tricked yourself into thinking you weren't below him, and were somehow worthy of his commitment. Tell me, what traits do you have that make you a suitable match for a mind-blowingly well-read Ivy League student?
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 01:32 PM
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I have to say, it sounds like this post struck a nerve with you and it's clouding your assessment of the situation. He could get a side piece without being a "thrusting insect". Women do throw themselves at men and handle all of the secrecy and subterfuge for them. OP's ex could very well be one of those men.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 12:49 PM
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For the love of God, make sure you specify "cognitive behavioral therapy". If you get search results that don't seem right... Ask u/durtyknees to explain it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/19 03:36 PM
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If it were her description alone we were looking at, I would say it could go either way - but we have the opinion of the dog thrown in here too. If the dog is biting him and not respecting him, then he's messing up something. The dog is not acting this way because she's influencing the dog. Dogs are complex, but not that complex.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/19 03:00 PM
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Final grade: A for vocabulary D for critical reasoning F for originality Signed -your freshman writing professor Seriously though, you sound insufferable.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 04:00 PM
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Having a general knowledge of sports is helpful, because it's something everyone talks about, but it's also something everyone argues about so it might be worth getting a read on someone before you get into the topic. Although I was actually thinking more along the lines of the sort of things taught in finishing schools up until they were quietly murdered by militant feminists in the 60's - art appreciation, public speaking, various business and social customs and etiquette - that sort of thing.…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 04:11 AM
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I'd like to piggyback on my wife's point about reading books and being able to carry on a conversation: You want to be a jack of all trades in this area, but a master of none. Start picking out books that give you a general understanding of a subject, and once you have wrapped your head around it, move on to another topic. You don't want to get a PhD in one field, you want to take Intro to Whatever 101 for every major - classic literature, art, science, world history, etc. The rationale behind t…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/19 09:17 PM
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Anyone in a position to find out what you do with your pubic hair should have already passed through at least some of the vetting stage. "Full Brazilian Wax" should not appear as a line in your OkCupid profile.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 05:51 PM
9

You mentioned a lot about what he is your point of view, but not much about how you may appear to him besides looks. Are you kind to him? Do you treat him with respect? Do you act entitled, or do you make it apparent that you appreciate him? How about all of the positive aspects of female character mentioned in the sidebar? Do you shine there? Because those things are sadly in short supply these days, and he may be pragmatic enough to realize it. Read through the sidebar fully if you haven't alr…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/19 03:06 AM
4

“The thing that hath been, it is that which shall be; and that which is done is that which shall be done: and there is no new thing under the sun.” I didn't miss your point. Do you really think "the vastness that sexuality entails" is some new concept that yours is the first generation of humanity to fully appreciate? The baby boomers had key parties. Weimar Germany had, well, just look into that one yourself. There are apochryphal tales that Catherine the Great got screwed by her horse. Did the…
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/19 02:53 AM
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Younger women mature over time and cringe at reminders of their earlier views and behavior. This is a point of view these younger women will outgrow, so it's it's a point of view younger men would be wise to ignore and treat as a shit test.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/19 12:25 AM
4

There really isn't any mystery as to why a man having his butt pumped is perceived as weak and unattractive by women, buddy. You can play dumb about it all you want, but you can't sow the seeds of doubt with something that is essentially a gut reaction.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/19 12:22 AM
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You refer to your boss's girlfriend, not his wife. So he hasn't decided to propose yet. He probably hasn't been with her that long in the grand scheme of things, has he? Don't be so quick to decide she "has" him - he might just be squeezing what's left of her youth out while it's still around, and will later trade her in for a newer model. You don't know what he's really thinking. The fact that he's sharing this information with you makes me suspect that he doesn't take the relationship that ser…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 07:47 PM
3

u/girlwithabike would be a good example.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 09:51 PM
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It's difficult to give relevant advice here since most of your post gives details from your point-of-view but is sparse on details about your husband, and it sounds like much of your frustrations are a result of things that are troubling him. First of all, ignore everything Dunderhead says. You appear to be doing that already, but it probably would comfort you to know you're not the only person that thinks his comments are asinine. Beyond that, I'm going to make some assumptions about your husba…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/19 03:21 PM
3

Pay specific attention to the language OP uses to describe the situation - she says he is pushing a little bit further each time, testing what he can get away with. This is predatory behavior. I've watched my cat do it with squirrels and rabbits plenty of times. Do you want to know how the story ends for the squirrels and rabbits? This man is going to keep testing boundaries, but will stay within them when other people are around. He will not try anything serious until he has her cornered and al…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 11:57 PM
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Women that are in genuine danger fail to speak up because they fear social shaming of the sort you are engaging in here. This is the sort of "refugee" Canadian women have to interact with, thanks to Trudeau: https://i.redd.it/l4df0z4h61u21.jpg If you want to rush headfirst into a retarded situation, that's on you. But don't chastise other people for demonstrating a basic sense of self-preservation.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 07:33 PM
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I don't know what your moral hierarchy looks like, but mistakenly stereotyping someone out of understandable caution on the part of a petite woman is far superior to being raped, murdered, and buried in a shallow grave. But that's just like, my opinion, man.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 07:18 PM
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Let's be honest here, the "from Syria" part is a glaring red flag. I suspected as much halfway through the post. The fact that she felt she had to tiptoe around it in her original post is a red flag for broader societal issues. He is from a country that currently sells women as sex slaves: https://www.sbs.com.au/news/dateline/is-beheaded-50-yazidi-women-remaining-3000-likely-to-be-sold-into-sex-slave-market This isn't "historical oppression". This is present-day barbarity. OP, you need to speak …
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/19 05:41 PM
2

A good rule of thumb to keep in mind going forward is: Always do the opposite of what the New York Times suggests.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/19 06:25 PM
1

A little late to the discussion, buuut: I first learned to operate a firearm at 8, as did many, many, many people throughout history, so it's not that far-fetched. Many cultures around the world employ child soldiers with AK-47's, and we all know how other cultures should be respected and accepted equally. A bit hyperbolic maybe, but better safe than sorry. What about rape whistles? Oh, those things are dangerous. I'm a firm believer in rape whistle control and universal whistle background check…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/19 02:45 PM
3

TIL Reddit is the internet's Lake Wobegon.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 03:18 PM
2

Rainbows are inherently an optical illusion caused by differential dispersion of reflected light. I think you may not understand how analogies work.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 10:46 PM
4

There are a couple things to address here, but I will start with your definition of "good": Men and women appear to be equally "good" at math in the aggregate. This is a pretty consistent psychometric finding across time and different cultures. "Good", in this context, would be basic arithmetic, algebra, etc. - the sort of thing everyone learns in high school. OP's boyfriend though - based on her post - isn't "good" at math. He's exceptional. Most people - male or female - will not be able to un…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 06:02 PM
2

No, they aren't. They're reciprocal.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 01:52 PM
0

By your logic, I wasn't using Adderall recreationally, because it's not a recreational drug. Taking the top of a toilet tank from the common area bathroom and using it to do lines in my dorm room is a perfectly valid form of medical care. It says so right in the stack of papers the pharmacy gives you when you fill your prescription. No one ever reads those things, of course, but they really should. I also did a lot of cocaine. Not recreationally, of course, that would be degenerate. I used it fo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 11:43 PM
1

I've blown my nose enough times in college and produced blue or orange snot to know that's a load of horse shit and that you're either hopelessly naive about the world or in denial about your own addiction issues.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 11:25 PM
3

I've spent enough time in the Academy to realize 95% of the shit those people think actually is on par with a BuzzFeed quiz.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 11:18 PM
2

Her BFF, who is also on RPW, is (I believe) an INFJ as well.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/19 02:41 PM
0

What's even more ridiculous about this little piece of falsified history championed by modern feminists is that it equates to Work will set you Free. Or in German: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arbeit_macht_frei
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/19 07:05 PM
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Whether you are modelling marriage as a communist or capitalist endeavor doesn't matter; either approach will result in a sad, lonely existence in the long run (not the Keynesian long run). A marriage is not an economic system, and if you think it is you're missing the point. There is much more to life than base material concerns.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/19 04:35 PM
1

Perhaps when he compared you to Jessica Rabbit he was referring to your fecundity.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 08:28 PM
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There is definitely a scientific element - or rather an industrial element coupled with government oversight agencies looking the other way. Atrazine is the most well-publicized example - it's an herbicide that has been building up in the water supply from agricultural runoff, but it also mimics sex hormones. There are other chemicals that have been identified as well though. Alex Jones is actually right about the gay frogs. It's not just men being affected either. Women are not supposed to grow…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/19 01:57 PM
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Unironically: They're putting chemicals in the water that turn the frickin' frogs gay.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/19 01:51 PM
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"We are still friends though" = "Now I'm his plate!"
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/19 02:14 PM
5

Fortunately the US doesn't care what its vassal states have to say. Just pray we never run out of wood or maple syrup and you'll be fine.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/19 02:12 PM
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The thing you feminists can't seem to figure out is that men will never truly respect women unless they assume the responsibilities that come with civic rights, which strangely, is the thing that feminists fight against most strongly. Given this behavior, claiming to be a feminist is the quickest way to get people to stop having respect for you.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/19 02:10 PM
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"They weren't the most alpha, but they shared my values which was nice." I highly doubt that they shared your values. It is more likely they were just agreeing with you in hopes of getting pity-laid.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/19 10:09 PM
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First of all that's bullshit, you can make a woman submit without consequences if you're clever and creative about it - which is part of what's meant by "earning her submission". Second, incarceration and social ostracism are only effective deterrents for weak, cowardly men. If that's enough to scare you then you've already lost.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/19 07:09 PM
4

The desire is not necessarily due to porn. I had my first threesome back when most porn came in paperback form, and the act has been around even longer than that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 08:12 PM
6

M@n here. Good RP women don't make demands.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 08:03 PM
3

u/girlwithabike has made a man happy enough to marry her, and kept him happy for over a decade now. How long have you been able to hold onto a man, u/muabirdie? Perhaps you should listen more and snark less.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 02:11 PM
8

What amazes me about gamers, who will grind away for EXP to advance in a game for days on end, are the most resistant to the idea that you have to grind away for EXP in real life.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 03:30 PM
3

I have personally played D&D on no less than three occasions with Rodrigo Duterte and Jair Bolsonaro. Bolsonaro is Lawful Good and Duterte is Chaotic Neutral. So there.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 04:06 PM
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I used to have a regular poker night with about a half-dozen other guys - that doesn't mean I'm bi-curious though. There are reasons to associate with other human beings besides just having sex with them.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 12:25 PM
4

Ignore the squeals of weak men; they're just lashing out over their own inadequacy. I've been playing RPGs since the original Final Fantasy came out in the 1980's. That doesn't stop me from having a garage full of motorcycles and dumbbells, and it didn't prevent me spinning plates or getting my very own Stepford wife. If they want to improve their situation, they need to venture out from behind the town walls and grind for some EXP - just like in the games.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/18 12:21 PM
3

Motorcycle, and pretty soon motorcycle with sidecar.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 03:13 PM
2

OP states in one of her comments that she's half-Japanese, a country so advanced they have personal Gundam-suited butlers cleaning their heated-seat toilets that play soothing music as you crap. Her situation can't be chalked up to 'muh oppression' in third-world countries, something that should be obvious to anyone with a sufficient knowledge of geography and history to recognize the differences between cultures. I think the more shocking aspect of your failed virtue-signalling comment is how d…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 03:03 PM
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Don't be ridiculous. Bonobos can do whatever they want with scissors, because they're matriarchal, and are they only species that has successfully built a currency exchange market based entirely on handjobs. It's the chimpanzees that can't be trusted with scissors, and we could do something about it too if we could only abolish the NRA.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/18 07:05 PM
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Sometimes the children of single mothers do become super successful... but probably not for the reason she thinks. I was raised by a single mother. She was - and still is - a train wreck of a human being. One of the things that helped me succeed was a rule I came up with as a teenager (with some help from The Simpsons): Always do the opposite of what mom says.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 11:21 PM
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First of all, all of the posters pointing out that your mother might be trying to exploit you are correct, and I'm glad you're taking that advice to heart. Congratulations on getting into a good university; knowledge is your ticket to wealth and power, and it's something no one can take from you. I was poor growing up, and I definitely am not now. You can lift yourself up too, as long as you keep your wits about you. Now for the doom and gloom. Just because you're getting out from under your mot…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/18 06:11 PM
8

Burn Notice. Fiona tries playing stupid head games in season 2, but after that she goes full Ride-or-Die Stand-By-Your-Man through the rest of the series.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 09:46 PM
2

I can't speak to the financial prospects of blue-collar types in the EU, but as my wife has mentioned before, over here in the states blue-collar men actually earn a lot of money, without the anchor of student loans weighing them down. That earning power can be multiplied pretty easily if those working men marry women who invest wisely and spend prudently. The idea that working-class men earn less is probably exaggerated by different priorities in spending - white collar folks are more likely to…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 05:13 PM
1

You might just be in the worst possible place and it has nothing to do with you. I think all of the real men in England died in WWII before they had a chance to leave descendants. Try Italy, I guess?
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 02:28 PM
1

Where do you live (both geographically and politically) and where are you looking?
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 03:03 AM
5

Perhaps she just lives in San Francisco or Brooklyn and not Texas. She could be fishing in the Sahara.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/18 03:01 AM
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I don't have any fashion advice to give, just wanted to say I'd give a minimum of three fingers to be in your shoes. Have fun!
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/18 08:02 PM
3

"He is from the Middle East" There's your answer. The Middle East is hell on Earth for women. It's not something in the water. It's not some magical property of the soil. It's not "American imperialism". It's because it's full of Middle Eastern men. The sooner you learn this the better.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/18 12:22 PM
1

And all of these arguments you're making are irrelevant here. They should be directed at the leaders of your government, which as far as I can tell, is located in Beijing. Try not to get run over by a tank when you file your grievance.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/18 01:58 AM
1

Yeah, it's lonely at the top. https://imgur.com/a/XKcycNl
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/18 01:47 AM
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This is RPW, not r/finance. Take your arguments to the appropriate venue You're arguing against a US government program from Australia. When we got tired of the Brits telling us how to do things, we shot them. How do you think we'll respond to the grandchildren of British convicts? Besides, you wankers lost a war to f*cking emus. Piss off.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/18 11:50 PM
2

There are multiple problems with the bonobo meme, and I'm just tired of seeing it at this point. First of all, it's derived almost entirely from Sex at Dawn, which was criticized for being made up entirely of cherry-picked data. The second-order problem with cherry-picking primatology research is it's already cherry-picked by the time it's published. This field in particular in biology has been historically corrupted by an ideological view that humanity is the source of all conflict and violence…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 11:24 PM
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Yeah, this whole post is weird. I saw Condition One and my first thought was of that compound out in New Mexico that was in the news a few months back and then quickly memory-holed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 10:52 PM
4

Yeah, ditto. Either that or OP is using LSD for inspiration in their trolling.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 10:48 PM
1

That was all part of my plan. I'm looking forward to a hectic year, and you know how I like to plan ahead.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 10:33 PM
5

He greatly appreciates it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 04:38 PM
10

Honestly, the possibility of the basement flooding played into my decision every bit as much as moving. I've been giving the sump pump suspicious glances for the past year now because I knew it was going to betray me. Ladies, you just have to learn to live with some smugness from time to time. If you want a man you can respect, it stands to reason he'll be right about a lot of things. Do you think your marriage will be happier if he's wrong all the time instead?
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 04:36 PM
1

Your "not leaving an exit strategy" theory could probably be fleshed out a bit by reading The Art of War, which has basically a mirror-image of your argument as one of its lessons. Sun Tzu advises that a general always leave his enemy an escape route in battle, because an enemy will fight its hardest when cornered. Your theory has your marriage assuming the role of the enemy forces. It's a very sound strategy, and taking a page out of Sun Tzu's playbook adds another level to "Til death do us par…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/18 12:04 AM
1

You're good people, u/durtyknees. I'll feed you to the bonobos last 😉.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/18 01:30 PM
3

Similarly, bonobos don't care about vetting, SMV vs. RMV, declining fertility with age, or the Dow Jones Industrial Average. It seems all the bonobo example really proves is that this discussion might be a bit too sophisticated for you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/18 03:20 AM
1

I'm aware of the chimp/bonobo comparison meme that marxist-feminist wannabe intellectuals like to throw out, but it is a comparison and the commenter above was bringing it up in isolation. It doesn't make any sense in a vacuum. It's also factually incorrect - bonobos are extremely violent as well, chimpanzees are just more violent. You can find tons of videos of violent bonobos on the internet, or so Joe Rogan tells me. Here's one of bonobos engaging in cannibalism as evidence: https://youtu.be/…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/18 01:24 AM
0

I don't allow my wife to speak with disreputable women unless I'm present, so you in particular should get used to it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/18 05:50 PM
0

I don't know if you're aware of this, but talking on the internet is different than a face to face conversation - your previous statements are recorded for posterity here. No one is putting words in your mouth. We are simply taking the words out of your mouth and showing them to you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/18 05:31 PM
1

How on Earth do bonobos factor into this discussion?
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/18 04:52 PM
1

"I tend to go for the ambitious, more wealthy men" Oh, so you're not like all of those other women.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/18 04:18 PM
2

You are probably SOL trying to find one, but so is everyone else. The purpose of this sub is to turn yourself into the type of woman where they will go looking for you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 11:09 PM
3

Alphas with strong morals don't "hang out" anywhere. We make productive use of what limited time we have on Earth and show disdain for sloth and intemperance.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 08:58 PM
6

The problem with the phrase "women age like milk, men age like wine" is it tries to capture the two different forms sexual attraction takes using language that doesn't bridge the gap between the two. I think it's more accurate to say "women age like milk, but men accrue interest", except mixing metaphors like that results in a less elegant piece of wisdom.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 06:06 PM
1

Spoken like a true slag.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/18 03:41 PM
4

Arrogant peacocks need love too.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 09:17 PM
6

It's an easy one to manage, too. I just keep the fridge stocked with food that gives her indigestion.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 01:30 PM
1

a). The existence of a vanishingly small number of exceedingly high earners is not going to have an appreciable effect on the sum total of that ~1.1 million households - it's the median income in the 1%. And the median income in the 1% isn't far enough above the threshold to change the outcome of the analysis. b). Those of the 1% that live in homes with mortgages on them will wind up homeless. Taxing them at 100% for a year means they won't have any after-tax income with which to pay their mortg…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/18 01:36 AM
7

False. Openness to experience correlates with liberal political views. Conscientiousness correlates with conservative political views. Agreeableness has no bearing on political belief that is discernable by statistical methods.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/18 01:49 PM
4

Let's avoid the unreliable nature of "voluntary" salary cuts for the 1% and just use the preferred method in your country - heavy taxation. Here's some rough math for you: The threshold Household Income for the 1% in the US, according to 2016 data, is $1,135,421 annually. According to the 2010 census (most recent data) there were 1,170,000 households in the 1% in the US. If we taxed every last household in the 1% at a 100% tax rate, it will produce ~$1.328 trillion in revenue annually. Sounds li…
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/18 01:05 PM
16

Good to have you back, Waterboo. Still alone, I take it?
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/18 08:45 PM
8

Preface: this is not directed at u/girlwithabike, who values my abilities, but at earlier romantic partners, some of whom are still watching Chelsea Handler and Rachel Maddow in their studio apartments. Conscious competence in bending the physical world to my will. I can (and have) cut down a tree in the forest, rough-cut it into boards, plane those boards down, fine-cut them to size, do all manner of joinery, sand them, assemble them into beautiful pieces of furniture your descendants will be a…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/18 06:12 PM
7

Bill Burr actually has a bit about this: https://youtu.be/OAP3sGaKheA And if you think it's just a joke, take a look at the like/dislike ratio and the comments.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/18 05:53 PM
1

From the engine casing that appears to be a Ural, but they make sidecars for our Royal Enfields as well. I will add that to the list of things to get. Or did you just mean the picture?
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/18 02:09 PM
10

Instead of having feelings, you should try having thoughts. It's heavily encouraged here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 11:52 PM
8

Being judgmental is part of being tradcon, which is absolutely their right. Adding to the RP philosophy is your right, if your contributions are consistent and useful. Attempting to subtract from the school of thought, however, is not your right.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 11:50 PM
11

I coughed from laughing so hard with how squarely you hit the nail on the head there.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 08:36 PM
1

Wait a minute - what is "that subreddit"?
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 01:54 PM
5

Take a look at the other subs that have been quarantined. One in particular that caused me to raise an eyebrow is r/WhiteBeauty, on the basis that it is a hate sub. As far as I can tell, it is a sub that posts non-pornographic pictures of White women.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/18 01:45 PM
14

The fact that you're in DC should actually make things pretty easy, since a lot of gatherings there filter by personal views on various issues. If you're looking for men that are interested in traditional marriage, predisposed to monogamy, and have an aversion to sexual impropriety, go to events sponsored by organizations that correlate highly with those views. Any traditional Christian organization is an obvious choice, but if you don't want to be confined by a narrow religious cross-section of…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/18 06:22 PM
5

I can answer that for you: It was a character test to see if she was worth marrying. She dropped out in her last semester the first time through, which was a major cause for concern if that lack of follow-through spilled over into other areas of life. Marriage wasn't even under consideration until she went back, and although we did elope before she graduated, at that point it was clear she would finish. u/Whisper is correct here that the actual degree was immaterial (for the most part - she fini…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/18 12:55 PM
7

That's a good first step. The next step is realizing that the monstrous right-winger wearing a MAGA hat is a fantasy conjured up by the Democratic Party to scare you into voting for them. It doesn't exist. You've only ever seen it on TV. You can't believe what you see on TV. Go out into the real world and see if you can find these people you're so frightened of. I believe you will come up empty-handed. I have a MAGA hat. I rather like the idea of working to make my nation a better place. I'm not…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 07:20 PM
5

I should clarify then: Conservative men like that only exist in the paranoid fantasies of sociology professors. As you have stated, your experience is with liberal males, many of whom are plagued by self-hate and nihilism. You can't get a nihilist to be passionate about anything.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 06:52 PM
3

Lucky for you those men only exist in the paranoid fantasies of sociology professors.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 06:35 PM
1

Misinformation? If you won't take my word for it, how about the word of the Progressive Priest Class at NPR: https://www.npr.org/2018/03/20/593001800/decline-in-hunters-threatens-how-u-s-pays-for-conservation Didn't you just say you were open-minded?
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 06:22 PM
8

Well, then keep doing what you've been doing if you're so certain. I'm sure it will work out fine. After all, "crazy cat lady" and "bitter old spinster" are just myths made up by the patriarchy to scare you. They don't really exist.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 06:14 PM
2

"Bigamy is having one wife too many. It's the same with monogamy." -Oscar Wilde
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 05:58 PM
11

The alternative to our current gender-bending insanity that conservative MAGA types are offering is not a society like Afghanistan. It's actually the extreme progressives offering that kind of society by importing large numbers of Muslims that have that society. The alternative the MAGA types are suggesting is a return to the traditional values we had 100 or so years ago - which is exactly the type of dynamic you say you want. And if that traditional society of 100 years ago was so oppressive to…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 05:54 PM
15

Historically, it's the conservatives that have cared more for the environment. It's the liberals who quite loudly claim that they care. Look at the aftermath of that pipeline protest a year or so ago. It was declared an environmental disaster by the EPA. Walk around the streets the day after a liberal protest. The streets are filled with garbage and discarded signs. The mess the Women's March left behind was absolutely disgraceful. In virtually every state, the bulk of environmental cleanup and …
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 05:46 PM
3

Beyond the sexual strategy aspect, suggesting we descended from bonobos fails to account for certain other aspects of human nature. Namely, every war, ever, since the beginning of mankind. Our aggressive nature is the best indicator that we're more closely related to chimps. Even Joe Rogan knows that.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 04:28 AM
2

"You don't think bonobos could observe less intelligent animals and make comparisons?" No, they cannot. You're describing a cognitive function that occurs in the prefrontal cortex, which is barely present at all in bonobos. Hell, you're describing a level of abstraction that doesn't even occur in all humans. The only other species that engage in abstraction through observation at that level, oddly, are squids and octupi. Beyond that, it seems strange to offer as a behavioral model a species that…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 04:23 AM
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"I can acknowledge we are outliers, that doesn't change squat" What are you on? Do you even know what the word "outlier" means? Do you think following Stephen Hawkings' academic path would be sane advice to give to your average 100 IQ high school graduate?
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 04:04 AM
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NO MA'AM - the original Red-pilled Men
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/18 06:27 PM
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I suspect people are agreeing with you just to end your bitter, nagging ranting. I think you're wrong and foolish, but you're also clearly dense and close-minded, so instead of trying to talk some sense into you I will just continue to invest in cat food companies instead. Women like you are going to guarantee me a comfortable retirement.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 10:36 PM
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I know that there's one person who will always speak in my defense when my back is turned.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/18 03:51 PM
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Point 1: u/girlwithabike is not only a believer in submission, she's a natural practitioner as well. Her position has always been that submission should be reserved for a worthy man. Point 2: There is a broad spectrum of action between the extremes of "smoking cigars in the waiting room" and "shoving the doc aside and getting elbow-deep in your wife yourself", and leading involves being as present as possible and taking responsibility for as many decisions as possible when the mother of your chi…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/18 06:34 PM
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Gifts that show you know him and his interests well - which have the side benefit of being reasonably priced if you put some thought into it (provided his interest isn't luxury yachts). My wife and I celebrated our fifth anniversary this week, and she bought me a branding iron for searing our initials into the furniture I build in my garage. She had it made by some shop on Etsy. It's awesome. It sounds like your man is good with his hands. It will take some research and maybe secretly talking to…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 03:51 PM
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If Peggy was putting spices into her cooking instead of cigarette butts, Al probably would have been more interested in her. Totally agree with you though. I regularly ask my wife to make dinner in nothing but an apron.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/18 05:09 PM
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"it's not an LTR if there are TV shows that have lasted longer than the relationship" -not counting The Simpsons, of course
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/18 07:00 PM
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OP, in addition to whatever other advice you get, you should do everything this woman says.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/18 04:20 PM
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"I don't understand how it's relevant to her character" That's sort of my point, though. Women generally don't understand how men think, how men judge character, and how men prioritize morals and ethics. Which is why there will always be another book to write to explain it to women.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/18 07:38 PM
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Disagree. Whether they were formally married or not is irrelevant. When a man vets, he doesn't check paperwork, he checks character. Whether a "Single Mother" is divorced or never married the baby daddy is completely irrelevant - they both indicate the same tendency towards poor decision-making. Having the father die was outside of her control, and that is the important factor in judging character. The term "widow" does not misrepresent her from the viewpoint of a man vetting for marriage/mother…
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/18 07:05 PM
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Which would be a terrible idea, since it didn't even work for me. I probably tried a dozen different angles with... I guess we're calling her Dagny here... before I found something that worked.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/18 11:17 PM
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Everything you just said is contradicted by the statistics. Single mothers do not raise healthy, well-adjusted, educated, law-abiding children by and large. That is false, and dangerously so. That horrible, destructive lie of feminism is largely responsible for the sorry state of the Black community in America. Prior to 1960, blacks in America had the highest rate of births in wedlock, were continuously improving socioeconomically, and had crime rates on par with White Americans. Then came the w…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/18 03:30 PM
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I've been an Ayn Rand fan since high school, but I met Patrick at the commie-infested university I went to. Conservatives were few and far between, so I decided to make friends with ideologically-opposed people instead of being a hermit. It didn't hurt that he knew a bunch of easy liberal girls, though. Incidentally, I told Patrick back when we were 18 that he'd never convert me to Communism, and I didn't need to talk him into conservatism. I told him that one day gay marriage would be legalized…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/18 10:36 PM
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https://youtu.be/wKjxFJfcrcA
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/18 10:22 PM
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That's your mistaken perception from the playful repartee we regularly engage in. My wife and I are always in agreement. We fit together more perfectly than the stone walls of Machu Picchu.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/18 10:17 PM
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"All this sounds so exhausting" You're absolutely right. You should get a studio apartment and a bunch of stray cats instead.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 11:00 PM
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You wouldn't be my only Alpha widow, and you know damn well there are others out there.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 07:14 PM
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"Furthermore, if you are his plate, then he should also be yours" This is a dangerous line of thought, likely borne from drawing a false equivalency between men and women, and had girlwithabike taken that attitude with me she'd still be my Alpha widow. I can not advise against this attitude enough. From a woman's point of view, it can be hard to distinguish between a player and a high value man at a first glance. I have never been a player. There were certainly times when multiple women were sim…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 07:02 PM
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Who said I would take a drive? Maybe I would just kick the tires a bit... And are you White Knighting for my wife?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 04:46 PM
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None of you people have a sense of humor, do you?
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 04:04 PM
2

Hell, there are even days where you can see the appeal of a '92 Toyota Tercel.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/18 10:18 PM
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Point 1: Children that go to sex-segregated primary schools still learn how to interact with the opposite sex; it's not like we sequester them on an island for 18 years or anything like that. Point 2: It's not like the current arrangement has been working out for intersex relations, so perhaps a change is in order.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/18 10:16 PM
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Those statistics do speak volumes; unfortunately for the idealogues talking about domestic violence the statistics tend to contradict the mainstream narrative. According to a 2010 CDC study: 26% of homosexual men have experienced domestic violence. 29% of heterosexual men have experienced domestic violence. 35% of heterosexual women have experienced domestic violence. 44% of homosexual women have experienced domestic violence. So the experimentally-determined relationship seems to be: If you wan…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/18 06:48 PM
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Your monthly cycle syncs up really well with my most productive days out in my garage. I think I've developed a pretty robust coping strategy.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/18 05:26 PM
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If the only condition under which you would enter into a committed relationship is if it "fell into your lap", then you are not suited for a committed relationship and RPW is not for you. A committed relationship, like anything worthwhile, requires work - on both parts. It also requires the strength of character to positively say, of your own accord, that you want to be in a committed relationship with someone. You appear unable to acknowledge that about yourself without doubt or hesitation. I s…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/18 03:57 PM
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I have a wife who respects me, so I will have a good day. Run back to your safe space little boy, and save your tears for your pillow.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/18 12:00 PM
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SJW feminism has all of the indicators of a religion - or more correctly a cult, since it is incomplete and lacks any kind of balance. Just look at the way they treat heretics - it's no wonder they've cozied up to Islam.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 08:15 PM
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I didn't hear you over the sound of the bacon cooking, so it didn't count.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 01:40 PM
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Your strategy makes you sound like a sanctimonious harpy of a wife - assuming you are even married. I feel very respected and appreciated by my wife, and the behaviors she describes are why I feel that way. If you want your "help" to carry any weight as useful advice, you should see if your husband will publicly state that he feels respected by you. If you can't, then you're probably not being very helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 01:33 PM
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OP is my wife, and we've been together for over a decade, and are both quite happy. She reads a great deal, and has done quite a bit of research and editing for her posts here. She's doing just fine, and the large volume of thanks she receives from the other readers here is a testament to that. If you think you can do better, put up your own writing to prove it, or shut up with your craven nonsense.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 01:27 PM
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I've been an atheist since I was 11 or 12, although I think Christianity is objectively superior to all other religions - judge a tree by its fruit and whatnot. It seems to me that RP philosophy, being based entirely on observed facts, should be a natural fit for atheists. Blue-pilled individuals claiming to be atheists I would posit still worship a god, it's just the false god of progressivism.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 01:22 PM
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I would bet a large sum of money that your long term is going to be a downward spiral of identical situations to this one.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/18 10:12 PM
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I'm not sure constipation would be viewed as a weakness. If anything, it's the opposite. Diarrhea - now that's weakness.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/18 06:29 PM
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The only reason u/kweefer_sutherland cares who I sleep with (you or otherwise) is because incels like him blame men like me for his utter lack of success with women, and he mistakenly believes his scattershot white-knighting somehow improves his odds.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 08:11 PM
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I mentioned this elsewhere, but it's buried at the end of a comment chain, so it might go unnoticed: White Husband/Black Wife pairings have the lowest rate of divorce of any marriages in the US, even lower than Black Husband/Black Wife or White Husband/White Wife. So that's one more factor leaning in your favor if you pursue the life you want.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/18 02:06 PM
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Both my parents are ... more flawed than parental by a wide margin, and my childhood wasn't very happy, but since becoming an adult I've built a very comfortable and happy life for myself. You can too, and it can get better. If your parents aren't living up to your standards as role models, you can always find someone better to emulate. If there aren't any good candidates you personally know, there are plenty of historical figures worth emulating, and sooner or later you will come across a good …
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/18 01:54 PM
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http://www.sheknows.com/community/love/latest-statistics-divorce-rates-among-interracial-marriages According to a 2002 US study by National Council on Family Relations, while a Black Husband/White Wife has a 200% higher rate of divorce than a White Husband/White Wife marriage (which is used as the norm given it is the most common pairing), the divorce rate for White Husband/Black Wife marriages is 44% lower than the norm, which makes it the most stable marriage combination found. I believe other…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/18 01:40 PM
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I don't need to harshly criticize rookie mistakes when it comes to riding - the ground gets the message across better than I ever could. And you made it pretty far for a rookie before taking a spill.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/18 02:04 PM
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Correction: 9 states - PA, NJ, NY, CT, MA, WV, OH, KY, TN, and you put the bike down just 7 miles shy of hitting #10 - NC.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/18 12:26 PM
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As long as the man is me, I will be fine with it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/18 04:29 PM
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The opposition to the word "settling" isn't due to it being an unpleasant but true reality, her opposition is based on it being an inaccurate description.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/18 04:28 PM
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"Passive dread" is consistently behaving in a manner that exudes competent Alpha (the specifics of which varying between women) to such a degree that the woman in question does not even need to see other women's attraction to think there is a constant risk of some other woman making a move on you. You don't have to visibly flirt with or even mention you encounter other women.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/18 12:30 AM
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The answer to this doesn't boil down to a clean and observable difference between male and female behavior; rather, it boils down to two different reproductive strategies that occur both in men and women. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/R/K_selection_theory I believe this has been discussed a bit over on TRP, but I don't believe I've seen it come up here. RP philosophy tends to recommend K-type behavior.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/18 10:56 PM
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{Maintenance is cheaper than repairs} This statement is metaphorically true for relationships as well.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/18 05:26 PM
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It's an app as well as a website, so that is a correct usage of the word.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/18 09:46 PM
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You're welcome. There's a bit of bias against MGTOW types here, combined with a general belief that they either don't exist or aren't the type of men anyone wants anyway (I believe Aesop had a fable on the topic). I'm not surprised by the reaction.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 06:31 PM
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If he got a vasectomy but froze sperm, that means he's open to having (his own) children, but the legal pitfalls concern him. So there is hope.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 05:42 PM
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I can't think of a two-fold solution to your two-fold problem, but I also don't think one is required. Regarding the vasectomy, if he were willing, you still have the options of reversing the vasectomy or extracting sperm for IVF. His testicles haven't been removed or disabled, only disconnected. Regarding his willingness, that is something that may change with time, or may change if the other concerns were to go away. It seems to me that the biggest issue he has is with how much the deck is sta…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 04:30 PM
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So you married this man that you made wait for three months? How long have you two been married now?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 01:38 PM
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I read the better part of the Western philosophical canon as a teenager. Plenty of direction on how to live a life of righteous virtue there. That's about it. Don't sit around whining about how life is hard and the world needs to change for you to succeed. That makes you no better than the feminists. Strive. Persevere. Excel. Laugh.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/18 01:01 PM
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The "Enforced Monogamy" bullshit is part of why I mentioned all of the articles being hit pieces. He brought the idea up as a hypothetical to point out problems with the current state of our society, and the phrase was taken out of context to intentionally trigger the most retarded feminists. The interview Vice did had some similar deceptive editing where they tried to claim he was in favor of banning make-up and high heels in the workplace.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 02:36 PM
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The best objective source is always the source material itself. The man has hundreds of hours of his college course lectures, interviews, and public lectures up on YouTube. Pick some at random and start watching. I cannot recommend them enough. If you want to get an honest hearing of his ideas with an essentially agenda-free interviewer, try one of Joe Rogan's podcasts - he's had JP on 3 or 4 times now. Joe Rogan is somehow as good an interviewer as Terri Gross used to be back before the left co…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 02:20 PM
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There's something hilarious about a person who names themself after a fantasy creature dismissing other people's views by calling them "myths"
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 01:23 PM
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This is some Grade-A new-age hippy nonsense. Don't take advice from people who unironically refer to themselves as creatures from Tolkien rip-offs.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 01:21 PM
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You may not realize this because, as you said, you've never been married, but... Some people do write their own vows. There are also multiple sets of vows in common usage. And occasionally, those vows do not explicitly prohibit the occasional double blowjob, were one to parse said vows for explicit legally-binding verbage, given that the "breach of contract" aspect strangely seems to be your principle objection.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 02:41 AM
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I second this. For the OP's situation, it will yield the best results with the fewest drawbacks.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/18 12:49 AM
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u/girlwithabike has gotten the sex part of our marriage sorted out well enough that I recommend following her advice without adding any commentary of my own.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/18 07:33 PM
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I'm going to start by pointing out that every article written about Dr. Peterson so far has been a hit piece, so reading an LA Times article about him is not going to give you an accurate reflection of his views. They're not exactly a reputable publication anymore - if they ever were. I think the biggest problem with feminism as a movement is that the Male Dominance Hierarchy is far more effective at culling the weak, crazy, ineffective, and malicious from the herd than the Female Social Matrix …
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/18 02:46 PM
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You're not shaming at all. You're just witnessing the Dunning-Kruger Effect in action.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/18 02:37 PM
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Don't give oppressive cultures a pass and try to pass it off as being "open-minded": https://www.hrw.org/news/2017/02/23/libya-discriminatory-restriction-women https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/africa/isis-libya-womens-rights-restricted-sirte-a7040416.html http://www.genderconcerns.org/country-in-focus/libya/the-situation-of-women-in-libya/ https://4genderjustice.org/womens-rights-advocates-libya/ https://reliefweb.int/report/libya/libya-arbitrary-military-decree-highlights-precariousness…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/18 12:34 PM
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Well, good luck with that strategy then. You'll need it.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/18 01:24 AM
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I think the appropriate analogy here would be Normal job = FWB/ONS level of vetting Job requiring a Top-Secret/Sensitive Compartmented Information clearance = marriage-level relationship vetting
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/18 12:31 AM
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https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Lying_by_omission
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/18 12:07 AM
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I believe the way relationships in North Africa typically work is if she were to answer the question honestly, a mob would bury her up to her neck and smash her head with rocks, so the deception is understandable.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/18 12:06 AM
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Whether or not you think being evasive is malicious is irrelevant; the fact is it's dishonest, and moreover it's not your place to decide what someone else's perception of your behavior is. All of the points my wife makes are correct. You will not get the commitment of a high-value man engaging in that behavior, as he will both see right through it and know that he can get better. Your transparent attempts at subterfuge will only work on weak and stupid men - what proportion of the population is…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/18 10:10 PM
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I agree with you on the way things should be, I was just laughing at how the unintended consequence of this latest liberal push might be the birth of more conservatives.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/18 05:08 PM
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I do the same thing to u/girlwithabike right before I tell her a joke I know she won't find funny.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/18 04:31 PM
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It is a terrible thing, the "deconstruction" (i.e. complete destruction and degradation) is intentional and not something done in the interest of story-telling, and the effects of it will not be positive. The same thing has been going on in traditionally male spaces - comic books, video games, the god-damned BOY SCOUTS - for a while now. As a result of now admitting girls into the Boy Scouts, I read that they're going to have to start making condoms available for camping trips. The only upshot I…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/18 04:30 PM
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Wow. Your argument is so devoid of substance that you have the gall to lie in your summary of a source countering your position. No wonder people don't take feminists seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 12:03 AM
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Schadenfreude, backpfeifengesicht, verschlimmbessern... Those Germans have the best words.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/18 03:07 PM
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This right here. This is a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 01:09 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_differences_in_intelligence http://www.dailymail.co.uk/debate/article-1274952/Men-ARE-brainy-women-says-scientist-Professor-Richard-Lynn.html https://www.usnews.com/news/blogs/data-mine/2016/03/07/female-professors-hardly-brilliant-certainly-not-genius https://www.economist.com/science-and-technology/2012/12/22/cleverer-still https://www.forbes.com/sites/eamonnfingleton/2013/12/03/is-equal-opportunity-threatened-by-new-findings-that-male-and-female-brains-are-…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 10:27 AM
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One of the most well-documented findings of psychometric testing is the disproportionate number of male geniuses compared to female geniuses: http://www.educationviews.org/male-geniuses-outnumber-female-geniuses-7-to-1/ So yes, intellectual merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:41 AM
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Again, that view assumes the absence of free will and human agency. The fact that most people don't always recognize the bigger picture or the long-term ramifications of their actions is irrelevant; we still regard adults as responsible for their actions. You personally may be nothing more than a mindless pawn, but I am not, and I don't think that others are either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 09:48 PM
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I am a fan, but his reasoning likely derives from the same source as mine - the red queen hypothesis: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red_Queen_hypothesis Between that and the fact that humans have twice as many female ancestors as we do male ancestors, we can deduce (a) that women are the sexual selectors and (b) that those traits that characterize humans (and masculinity in particular) are the traits women select for. Of course this was never at the level of conscious thought (maybe it is now,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:09 PM
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I actually take it a step further and assert that while men decide to participate in the contest for the top of the hierarchy, it is women that set the rules. Men will abandon contests if they don't have an audience. This idea pops up frequently throughout mythology and literature (a woman creating a contest for men). The Odyssey just happens to be my personal favorite. Since Odysseus is characterized as 'the clever one' of all the heros of the Iliad, Penelope is demonstrated to be his ideal mat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:11 PM
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You have to be a bit inflammatory in order to get people participating in the conversation. Why do you think Trump shitposts so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 07:00 PM
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Men decide who dies, but women have the final say in who lives on. No amount of "Might makes Right" can ensure that an Alpha's (or Beta's, for that matter) offspring makes it to adulthood, getting the opportunity to reproduce again. If things were entirely determined by brutal conquest, humanity would die out in a few generations at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:58 PM
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Geneticists have determined that we have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors. Since the proportion of males and females born is roughly 50/50, that would suggest that women have held the upper hand in determining which males reproduce and which males die out on an evolutionary time scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:47 PM
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Nice to see you, too, but I think you might be in the minority in wanting me around. Women are actually suggesting they have no agency just so they're not on the same side of the debate as me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 06:44 PM
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It's explained in simple pictures in every link I posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:39 PM
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I backed up my argument. All you have as a response is Downvote and Pout. Well done.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:39 PM
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The 0.7 WHR is such a well-documented phenomenon that I can't believe you would pick it to argue against: http://www.uni-regensburg.de/Fakultaeten/phil_Fak_II/Psychologie/Psy_II/beautycheck/english/figur/figur.htm https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/health-what-a-man-cant-resist-the-perfect-waist-hip-ratio-forget-about-breasts-says-jerome-burne-its-1440859.html https://www.today.com/health/ideal-real-what-perfect-body-really-looks-men-women-t83731 https://www…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:42 PM
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Those BuzzFeed writers have gone through puberty. No one in their right mind would call them masculine, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:01 PM
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Well, it's one more concrete piece of evidence than you have been able to muster.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:58 PM
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https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1439-0310.1990.tb00791.x This is the first scholarly article of thousands that come up if you search for "female human mate selection". The only people who suggest that women were devoid of choice in mate selection are women's studies majors and Marxist sociologists. No one doing actual research supports that view. Go see for yourself. Women have historically been defining the terms of mating at virtually any period you look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:40 PM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-scientific-fundamentalist/200908/are-women-always-more-selective-in-mate-choice-men-i https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1439-0310.1990.tb00791.x I could go on, but suffice it to say the overwhelming body of evidence supports my statement that women are the sexual selectors of the human species.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:37 PM
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Apparently not: https://www.dailywire.com/news/22906/buzzfeed-guys-test-their-testosterone-levels-amanda-prestigiacomo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:33 PM
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Who's arguing for determinism? I'm asserting that this is a result of free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:25 AM
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Three paragraphs from a website that looks like it was constructed as a high school project, asserting things that run in contradiction to most of the plays, epics, and philosophy from the era? Wow, that's some thesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:22 AM
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I've cited examples of female mate selection going back ~3200 years. It stands to reason that the phenomenon predates the Odyssey. It is not a new phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:02 AM
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I'm not the only person saying that women drive evolutionary pressure in humans. There's an entire branch of evolutionary biology dedicated to studying the concept. It's called the Red Queen Hypothesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 11:01 AM
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So is he.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:53 AM
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The idea of arranged marriage is something that only existed in landed gentry regardless of the society you look at. Most people were dirt poor and owned nothing. They were free to marry whatever other poor person they wanted, because nothing was ever at stake. Monogamy was enforced ex post facto in order to maintain some level of order among the peasants, but the choice still came first. This idea that no woman in history has ever made a conscious choice is a pathological paranoid fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:23 AM
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No, you really need to do some reading. Everything I have pointed out is plainly written in the text. You keep asserting that women have at no point in history made any choices of their own. Please provide any references to back that up besides your own pessimistic gut feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 10:13 AM
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Yes, of course. It implies that "feminity" as a construct is the result of the sum total of men"s sexual choices over time. My point is that men don't really dispute that. Feminists, however, have demonized masculinity. The level of anger and cattiness I get whenever I suggest that women made men this way would suggest that women deny their own culpability in men's nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:11 AM
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In the final portion of The Odyssey, Odysseus' wife devises a tournament from which to select a potential suitor, from the literal buffet of men seeking her hand. The fact that the tournament she devises is one only Odysseus could hypothetically win is immaterial; the point still stands that she was the individual dictating terms. There are a few astronomical events cited in the Odyssey that were interpreted as omens in the story, the principle one being an eclipse. About a decade ago some astro…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:07 AM
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Yes, of course plastic surgery is driven by a desire to conform to men's preferences. The corollary to that is that any masculine behavior that is intentionally manifested is manifested precisely because it is the behavior women choose in a mate - and women most certainly have chosen their mates throughout time. Even when you take the extreme examples of children birthed as a result of rape, the mother still has to feed the child if its genes and resulting behavior are to propagate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:54 AM
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Because the "sensitive men" women create are their children, not who they reproduce with. For a given group of men with a range of attributes, the men who are selected for mating by women determine which attributes will propagate through time. Note that doesn't just include who actually impregnates the woman. Which children survive long enough to reproduce themselves (ignoring for now the influence of unlucky circumstances) is dictated also by the level of effort the woman puts into her offsprin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:25 AM
1

This is a completely ignorant view of history, many parts of which I refute at various points in this comment thread. Romantic love is not a relatively new invention, it has existed since the beginning of human literature at least. There are only a handful of basic narrative structures that exist, and one of the main ones is "boy and girl meet and fall in love, stuff happens". This whole idea of human civilization consisting of nothing more than brutality and oppression is a perverse fiction, co…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:17 AM
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I was referring to the Women's Suffrage movement in the US, which absolutely was non-violent, both on the part of the women and the men/government. It was lead by Quakers, for god's sake!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 03:12 AM
1

There actually are objective standards of human beauty that persist across cultures and recorded human history. One such example is a hip/waist ratio of ~0.7. Camille Paglia has gone into detail on this stuff in several books. It's been noted by art historians for centuries. There are scrolls from Ancient Greece describing the same female attributes that are considered attractive today.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:56 AM
2

I was really hoping for more sophisticated argumentation here. I'm rather disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:51 AM
2

Your statement contains two non-words and one misspelled word, please clarify.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:50 AM
1

So you admit that they're phallic. Thank you for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:37 AM
2

Yes, and working on cars results in greater physical exertion than sewing, thus building muscles, thus generating the masculine form. Ever one of those factors you cite result in the physical instantiation of masculinity depicted in Classical sculpture.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:30 AM
1

No, you're making a statement that you like to drink milk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:19 AM
1

Of course. Otherwise I wouldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:15 AM
1

Dildos are phallic by definition. "Phallic" is a shape-based descriptor. It's not as though there are dildos shaped like shrubberies and dodecahedrons out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 02:14 AM
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That in no way refutes my larger point. Who gets to reproduce is still largely the result of female selection. Their motivation is irrelevant and in no way negates the fact that it is their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:53 AM
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58.8% of ~13,000 lesbians surveyed used strap-on phallic dildos: https://www.liveabout.com/why-dont-lesbians-have-sex-with-men-if-they-like-dildos-2171877
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:50 AM
1

Because every great (male) thinker that has gotten us to this point has cited the earlier thinkers that influenced them, and said intellectual tradition traces its roots to Greek philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:23 AM
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For the same reason other birth defects crop up in the population, I suppose. Also, Atrazine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:21 AM
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The man makes a pretty strong argument, u/littleknownfacts. I thought you said you understood how evolution worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:20 AM
1

Even lesbians use phallic dildos, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:18 AM
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Literally all of the behaviors described in the Red Pill are a consequence of women deciding who reproduces, including those behaviors that were evolved to hide paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:13 AM
1

And what are they competing for? Shits and giggles? An honorable mention in the Guinness Book?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:10 AM
1

Are you seriously suggesting that blacks in the United States never engaged in or were victims of violence in the arc encompassing slavery to emancipation to civil rights?!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:09 AM
1

Racist much?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:07 AM
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First of all, this is a cannon: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cannon And the Western Canon begins with the works of Socrates, Homer, and the Greek philosophers, 2500 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 01:00 AM
1

Black civil rights did not come about peacefully. Perhaps you missed the firehoses, attack dogs, and riot batons?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:56 AM
1

That has been the observation of biologists for a long time. The PUA term "peacocking" is named after the non-raping mate attraction behaviors of male peaCocks used to attract peaHens. Do you not even science?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:53 AM
2

Romantic love as a basis for marriage and family is persistent in the Western canon for thousands of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:50 AM
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It supports my point that the concept of romantic love predates the 17th Century, and refutes yours. Furthermore, half of Shakespeare's plays were Comedies instead of Tragedies, where the lovers all marry at the end. And I read ~3/4 of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:49 AM
1

I think you're commenting on the wrong chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:47 AM
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No, it refutes your point that romantic love didn't exist until the Enlightenment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:46 AM
1

How about anything related to the topic we're discussing? This is literally a debate on the evolution of human behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:45 AM
1

The black nuclear family survived two hundred years of slavery and one hundred years of Jim Crow intact. It has only been the past 50 years of the welfare state that destroyed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:44 AM
1

Then enlighten the rest of us with more than a three sentence response.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:42 AM
1

Romeo and Juliet was published in 1597. Some of the oldest human stories are love stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:41 AM
1

Name one other example.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:40 AM
1

No, male behavior is innate, and the result of women's mate choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:39 AM
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Please provide some evidence to back up that wild assertion. You're suggesting that all human reproduction has been as a result of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:38 AM
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I don't think you understand how stochastic processes work either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:37 AM
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Not at all. I actually think humans are noble and good on the whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:36 AM
1

Women's Suffrage is the only time in human history that a disenfranchised group was granted a voice as a kindness and without bloodshed, so yes, gift is an appropriate description for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:35 AM
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No, men have choice over their behavior. Bearing and raising children is not "their behavior", though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:30 AM
1

I never once brought morality into this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:29 AM
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Actually, I am suggesting that women have possessed agency in their mate choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:28 AM
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Your assertion would suggest that women did not possess agency and free will until the advent of feminism, when it was gifted to them by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:27 AM
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I already pointed out in an earlier post to you where I was unclear, and clarified. At this point you're being obtuse. One of the principle complaints of feminists is the result of women's choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:26 AM
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That's not how statistics work, and evolution is the result of stochastic processes. For a stochastic process, a "prime determinant" is indistinguishable from a "sole determinant".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:24 AM
1

That a bold assertion to make without evidence, notwithstanding the incredibly dim view it takes of women by implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:21 AM
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I'm sorry, that wasn't clearly worded. My point is that feminists take issue with a phenomenon that is the result of women's choices, yet they direct the criticism at men, ignoring the fact that men are the way they are as a result of women's historic choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:19 AM
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That's a pretty pessimistic view of reality. If mankind were really that evil you wouldn't be in a position to leisurely post on the internet right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:11 AM
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Why are you using quotation marks around the word "choices"? Do you not think that women are capable of making their own choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:10 AM
2

The plural of anecdote is not 'data'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:08 AM
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I'm saying that the inbuilt behavior of men is the result of it being selected for evolutionarily, and since women are the mate selectors for the human species, masculinity in its current form exists as a result of women choosing those characteristics in the men they mate with. If women really wanted men that were sensitive and in touch with their emotions, then that is how men would already be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:08 AM
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Statistical data suggests that they do. https://theblog.okcupid.com/tagged/data
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:04 AM
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Because it implies that the overwhelming majority of human mating throughout history is the result of rape, which is abhorrent suggestion to make. I was curious if that resulted from their personal origin.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:02 AM
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In the Western world, arranged or forced marriages are virtually non-existent, so that is ~half a billion examples of female mate selection. All of the evidence suggests that female mate selection was the primary cause of reproduction for the past few thousand years in the Western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:58 PM
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My point is that one of the principle arguments of feminists today is with a phenomenon they are wholly responsible for.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:56 PM
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I believe it's been pretty well defined for quite some time: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conspiracy_theory
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:53 PM
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That doesn't contradict the assertion that it is the result of women's selections, though. If anything, it paints women as erratic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:51 PM
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Did your mother choose your father, or was she forced into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:50 PM
2

So they need a conspiracy theory to explain their lack of work ethic and productivity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:43 PM
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I guess the possibility that men have ruled for 1000's of years through merit hasn't even crossed your mind, has it? Is it all just a patriarchal conspiracy, Alexa Jones?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 10:23 PM
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Why? That hasn't been the case with Jewish or Asian male immigrants to America, who had been systematically repressed to a far greater degree. How can you insist women are equal to men in intellect on the one hand, while insisting on a far more lax standard on the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 09:37 AM
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Whenever I look in on the Blue Pill I thank fucking Christ that women are the weaker sex, because if that kind of maliciousness had the physicality to back it up all of human history would be a worldwide Auschwitz smeared across time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 03:59 AM
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If women were as inventive as men, you would expect to see a doubling of the rate of invention since women first started entering the workforce ~70 years ago, and a roughly 50/50 distribution of patents granted between the sexes over that period. Yet nothing even approaching that has been observed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 03:32 AM
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Yes. I detest the men that are too weak to handle even the constructive criticism on TRP. They come here for refuge, and I will not let them find it here.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 09:29 PM
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I read your post history; calling you a weak bitch isn't ad hominem, it's an objective assessment. And if you want to know how awesome my marriage is, you don't have to speculate; my wife is a regular poster here, you can read all about it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 08:41 PM
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What difference does that make here? These women are discussing an alternative to something you clearly think is a problem as well. Why would you shit all over that? You may not have the capacity to pursue a prestigious career or pull in a lot of money, but I'm certain you could turn yourself from the whiny, pouting bitch you are right now into something remotely resembling a man. What's being discussed here is a situation where you'd still be in the game, provided you nut up.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 08:17 PM
4

Exactly. That is just you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 07:57 PM
2

I guess you're lucky that I'm even better than you had imagined then.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 03:40 PM
2

I will add the male perspective here: u/girlwithabike stuck by my side when we were broke, we were still struggling, and life was harsh. I know her love is true. I'm much more dedicated to staying with her because of that. Had we not gotten together until after I had achieved success, I would not be able to trust her nearly as much as I do. The only way you can be certain a woman isn't just after you for her own gain is if she chooses you at a time when there isn't anything to gain.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 03:02 PM
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There's no such thing as an "ultimate solution". There are only multiple independent factors adding up to a sum. Most of these factors are within your power to fix. Moreover, the process of losing weight, getting fit, and dedicating some of your time to improving your appearance will cause your self-esteem to rise naturally, as it should.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 02:54 PM
1

Your advice is optimistic when optimism is in no way warranted. Both pre-op and post-op transsexuals represent a miniscule fraction of the population. Hopeful advice is not going to benefit them. It's not pleasant, but it is true. Trying to sugar-coat reality for them is irresponsible. That can normally be attributed to naivete on the part of the person giving advice, but if they insist they're not naive, that only leaves malicious intent as a motivation. You wouldn't tell someone with a bunch o…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/18 05:08 PM
2

The porn argument you're making has some serious logical flaws. Those statistics are not taken from a test group that is randomized and representative of the population as a whole, they are taken from the number of times porn videos are accessed over the internet, and a lot of that data is anonymized by passing through VPNs before it's even collected. If 95% of men are only interested in run-of-the-mill porn and only watch it occasionally, but a small portion of the population is addicted to por…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/18 04:11 PM
2

In my opinion, no. Such a world would be very different from the one we inhabit, and the nothing about the men in it would be "traditional" in any sense of the word. Progressives want to completely destroy every aspect of the society of the world we inhabit to create an imaginary utopia, yet retain those aspects of the older, traditional society that they value or desire. You can't keep those positive aspects while destroying the environment that created them. It's completely illogical.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/18 04:01 PM
2

After reading the rest of the comments here and thinking about my initial response a bit, I think I have two optimistic White Pills for you that might help with the side effects of your Red Pill: -Kicking Gloria Steinem's ass actually might solve your romantic woes in addition to being cathartic. It would certainly make the news, and you'd likely receive thousands of offers of marriage on that basis alone. -You recognized your mistakes in life late, but not too late. There's still time for you t…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 08:22 PM
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There is a fundamental logical fallacy that lies at the root of your (and many, many other's) predicament, and it is that your intelligence is "intimidating" to men. I can understand how this mistaken belief might come about for intelligent women, who are genuinely smarter than nearly all of the men they supposedly intimidate, and due to female social dynamics, you're clearly going to reinforce this belief for each other. Part of this reinforcement process likely involves dismissing the few outl…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 07:30 PM
2

The "women don't need men" propaganda. If you look at all of the seminal figures in feminist thought from the 60's onward, their lives are all absolute horrorshows of dysfunctional relationships at every level. Observing the outcomes of those individuals that maximized the application of feminist philosophy should tell you all you need to know about its validity.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 06:40 PM
4

Simply put, yes you are. That nephew of mine ate an entire box of cereal out of a casserole dish just because he couldn't find any bowls in what couldn't have been more than 10 minutes. Then he ran outside and jumped on a trampoline for a while. Then he was asking about dinner an hour later. Boys grow a lot as teenagers. That has to be fueled by something. The only upside is if you do things right for the first decade of their lives, you get to have them burn off some of that energy pushing a la…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 01:23 PM
5

$50/week averages out to about $7/day. Whatever you think a normal human eats, triple it for a teenage boy. I would be surprised if his daily food cost comes to less than $30/day.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 01:14 PM
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No. She doesn't.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 03:30 PM
3

I think the first thing to realize is that education level and intelligence are not necessarily correlated, and with the way the universities are going, they're starting to have an inverse relationship. My father never graduated high school (signed up for 'Nam instead), but he is far, far more intelligent and intellectual than my mother, who has a Master's degree. Don't be so quick to dismiss a man over a piece of paper - besides it being a logical fallacy, it's also a pretty unbecoming attitude…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 10:05 AM
2

And you enjoy your house full of cats
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/18 03:54 PM
3

Even worse, it could be something like this: "There's been a number of burglaries and armed robberies in the neighborhood the past few months. This is the third time the alarm went off out in the garage. It's your turn to go check it out." If we really push for complete equality, you may end up finding out the hard way that it's a false premise.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/18 12:35 PM
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u/okayestwifey is correct, and you are doing just fine with your current strategy. When your husband gets home from work, the last thing he wants to talk about is the stress he left at the office. I've been in a similar situation at work. I'm an engineer, and without getting into too much detail, when North Korea was launching ICBMs last year, I was working on blocking them. The last thing I wanted when I came home was to dwell on that further. My wife (who posts here frequently) was doing every…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 07:51 PM
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And I will be watching so I can see your trickery coming and order take-out instead!
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 06:30 PM
2

You realize you're talking to two separate people, right? If you missed something that obvious, what else might you have gotten wrong?
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 10:01 AM
1

If you don't have anything intelligent to say, it doesn't really matter what you are. One thing's for sure, your negative attitude is why you are alone in this world.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 12:01 AM
1

If you don't understand why that's such a great gift, it's probably because you don't look as good as she does.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 08:24 PM
2

Huh. I didn't know trolls had a gender.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 08:22 PM
1

Those are some great websites, I am adding them to the bookmarks folder. If you want to spring for something pricier, there's also http://www.upscalestripper.com/
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 07:13 PM
3

With a charming outlook like that, I bet you're a real hit with the ladies.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 05:59 PM
1

Sounds like the meme of a bitter pansy to me. I don't fool myself into thinking that just because my wife likes my brains and my career, she doesn't want some muscles, too. That's why I lift weights and make furniture in the garage after work. It's not just men who have simple-minded desires, and that's nothing to be ashamed of.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 05:43 PM
3

Anyone that uses the phrase "dangerous way of thinking" is up to no good. There is no danger in thought. You're attempting to use social shaming tactics in order to convince women to not be suspicious of your creepy behavior. Cry me a river, Romeo. You're trying to pass off your weakness as morality. Grow some balls, grow some teeth, and quit your whining.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 05:38 PM
3

Of course. You're all vultures. Sexy, delicious vultures. There would be an even longer line of women hoping to have a statue made of them instead.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 03:39 PM
4

I didn't say I'd never sleep with another woman again, just that I wouldn't take another wife. I'm only human.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 03:11 PM
4

Sarah Huckabee Sanders Married with 3 kids B.A. in Political Science Doesn't take crap from tabloid journalists, but rebuts them without being crass.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 02:42 PM
1

I'd like to thank the Academy and Anthony Hopkins' character in The Edge.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 02:28 PM
5

I'm glad I could help. I'm surprised women haven't realized this already. Sexy calendars are never filled with shirtless doctors and lawyers. It's always fireman, lumberjack, construction worker, etc...
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 02:07 PM
8

If you died, not only would I never remarry, I would take up sculpting and make statues of you from blocks of marble.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 01:04 PM
1

When I young and foolish and would leave things up to chance, it always seemed to work out that I was very unlucky. That's a mentality that will land you $100k in debt in Gambler's Anonymous. Make yourself stronger, make yourself smarter, make yourself better, and make your own luck. And stop petting the f*cking unicorns. Go tame your own.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 12:28 PM
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I second what you and several other commenters have pointed out - men are entirely indifferent to women's careers when evaluating for a mate. Numerous studies back this up. Beyond that, here's my anecdotal observation: I went to an internationally recognizable university for engineering, and am still in touch with several ambitious, accomplished women I studied with. All are pushing 40 and unmarried with a string of failed relationships behind them, except for one. The lone exception is happily …
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/18 11:27 PM
8

I've always paid on dates as a rule, both because it's customary and because I realized very early in life that he who pays the check sets the agenda. I don't mind paying the price that being in control entails. I've never been bothered by gold-digging behavior when it's directed at me personally. I'm incredibly intractable, and you're not getting anything from me unless I make the decision to give it up. It is a behavior I look down on in general though, as I have a number of friends that are e…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/18 05:49 PM
3

Clarification on those "reasons" because I know the synopsis makes me sound insane: I have a sandblasting cabinet in the garage, and because my crappy air compressor leaks droplets of oil and water into the airline, over time the sand will get damp and clog the sandblasting gun. Periodically I put all of the sand in a crab pot to cook off the moisture, and it makes the house smell like burning oil for a bit. Every once in a while my handyman activities intrude on her kitchen, but in the interest…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/18 03:37 PM
1

No, you can't. I fail to see how your death camp example proves that point at all. Are you suggesting the guards were moral?
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/18 09:08 PM
2

That's quite the unfounded conclusion you're jumping to, Mr. 'Nice' Guy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/18 07:05 PM
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I'm going to agree with both my wife and Nietsche here - that "nice guy" is just trying to pass his cowardice off as morality, and doesn't want to recognize the wretch underneath.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/18 06:46 PM
2

There are reasons besides narcissism to explain my infallibility.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/18 04:04 PM
3

When you ask if I'm upset, it's implied that you mean upset with you, and not the lazy union guy on the assembly line at work. So yes, it is a bit nutty to think it's you who is pissing me off, especially when all you're doing is sitting on the couch looking pretty.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/18 04:02 PM
2

Have you asked any of them if they think hugging women they're friends with is acceptable or normal? Because I'm certain that it's a standard social interaction. There's an RPW on this board that I hug every time I see as a hello or a goodbye. It's a common greeting between friends, that does not necessarily signal romantic intent. It would be awkward if it did, as I was the best man in her wedding. I think your view on this might be a little out of the ordinary.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/18 11:52 PM
1

Sorry, I gots nuffin to offer.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/18 06:34 PM
0

Wah, this is because I'm Asian! Wah, this is because I'm a woman! Get over yourself and your victim mindset. I can think of at least one Asian woman I've spoken with on this board who, based on her post history, is an exemplary human being and will one day make a fine wife and mother. Don't slander her or any of the other decent woman out there by lumping you and your psychotic behavior in with them. Your problems are the result of your choices.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/18 06:05 PM
-1

Well, you shouldn't move to the US. Don't you know we have a rape culture here?
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/18 05:08 PM
3

"can u not judge me" Too late.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/18 04:57 PM
8

Either you're trolling us, or your husband is trolling you. If it's the latter, I believe that is grounds for divorce in most jurisdictions.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/18 10:48 PM
1

• Does my man spend time on self-improvement pursuits (gym, productive hobbies, networking) or does he spend his free time playing video games/smoking weed? Suppose (hypothetically) he smokes weed while lifting weights - would you count this as a net negative or a net positive?
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 09:58 PM
9

I would avoid taking advice from anyone that uses "yo" in their sentences. Personally, that particular sign of low intelligence will result in immediate firing if I see it at work. There's an obvious conflict between a man not wanting to commit prior to getting sex, and a woman not wanting to give up sex prior to getting commitment. Realistically, either something has to give, or some compromise position has to be reached in good faith in order to move forward. I don't think any universal advice…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 08:06 PM
1

Yeah, I think that's just u/ownedandloveit 's shtick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 02:32 PM
8

Lauren Southern is a good one to emulate - she's not just smart, but morally brave as well. I was impressed by her front line coverage of the Antifa rioting. I also thought her sneaking into the UK like a "refugee" was a clever way to prove a point.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 11:48 AM
2

You absolutely wrote an entire paragraph focusing on women in your original post. If the purpose of this board is for women to improve themselves and their relationships through a better understanding of men, then your attempt to shift the focus of this discussion is an exercise in bad faith argumentation.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/18 05:54 PM
2

Your self-indulgent attempt to shift the topic to how women feel isn't going to offer anyone reading any insight into what actions they can personally take to improve the state of their own romantic relationships - which is the explicit purpose of this board. Moreover, engaging in focus-shifting of the discussion, which you just gave a textbook example of is with your navel-gazing, is an excellent strategy for deflecting much-needed criticism and avoiding of taking responsibility for one's behav…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/18 05:26 PM
2

You are concern trolling.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/18 01:00 PM
2

You are concern trolling.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/18 01:00 PM
2

Or he could just be some shit poster making it all up. You do know you're on the internet right now, right?
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/18 12:55 PM
2

Relax, man. This entire post is simply her hamster in action.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 10:42 PM
1

What you are observing isn't an argument, it's the hamster in action.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 10:32 PM
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Look, normally I agree with your points, but your Jedi-master-level sex life breaks the logic of this discussion. When we talk about outliers not telling us useful information about the average, that definitely includes that time you made some orgasm solely through hypnosis.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:12 PM
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It doesn't really tell you much about men in general to base your judgement on how men on TRP talk. You're talking about a specific subset of men who in some cases were baffled by women's behavior into their 30's. Of course you can lie to men like that and get away with it. I can spot a liar though. I would intentionally ask uncomfortable questions out of the blue of women just to knock them off balance. Either I would get the truth, or I would get an opportunity to see whatever subconscious beh…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 03:03 PM
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I asked both my wife and all of the girls I dated seriously before her. The actual number wasn't the primary reason - u/Fleetingwish is correct about men inferring a lot, and my ballpark estimates were always accurate - I was asking as a character test to see how they responded. It's one of those questions you can ask a woman where her behavior in response to it is far more informative than the actual number.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 07:23 AM
1

I think you're forgetting one of those RP truths that doesn't come up here much but incels are painfully aware of: Women would rather share a high-value man than have a low-value man to themselves. How things would play out in practice won't follow the same kind of static script that a traditional marriage does. Each instance will be unique, will be an obviously bad idea from an objective viewpoint, and will be enforced by liberally interpreting laws in a way that ignores their initial intent.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/18 02:19 AM
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There is no reason to believe this cultural change will not come with corresponding government coercion through liberal interpretation of the law. https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/world/2018/05/03/german-man-child-support-ivf/576077002/
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/18 01:41 AM
2

Oh, I knew it would ruffle some jimmies. I mentioned this theory about a year ago to some friends - which included another poster on RPW the wife and I know - and the other RPW was outraged at the idea. It makes perfect sense, too. Sharing the high-value men when there aren't enough for everyone sounds great - to the women on TwoX, and r/whereareallthegoodmen, and r/datingover30. But to the women that actually put in effort to get a decent man, of course they're going to have a problem with it. …
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 11:17 PM
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I've hypothesized for a few years now that the natural next step for feminist activists to take is to swallow the red pill themselves while never openly acknowledging that they have. The form I think this is going to take is a strong push by the radical Left to first normalize polygamy, then push for legal recognition of polygamous marriage. How they decide to rationalize this is largely irrelevant - there is an infinite number of possible permutations for the feminist logical pretzel - but it s…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 08:14 PM
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You seem to have a misconception that having a low/no n-count and marrying a nice man automatically results in having kids and settling down into a boring, sexless life. There is no reason this has to be the case. You don't have to immediately have kids, and in many ways being in a committed relationship gives you more leeway to let your freak flag fly if you pick the right partner. Most party girls have more negative sexual experiences than positive ones, but they rarely give the negative ones …
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 11:34 PM
1

I wouldn't worry too much about the musical taste thing - that's a weird and personal topic for pretty much everyone. I read once that whatever your musical tastes are in your late teens/early 20's will stick for life. I can confirm this from personal experience - all of the Baby Boomers at work are still listening to the same 20 "classic rock" songs on loop that they did 40 years ago, and there is a radio station in every market in the country to serve them. I just put on my headphones and list…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 06:28 PM
4

The "Good Man" title is not open to a married man that cheats, even for "diversity" (a retarded concept, no matter the subject). You can leave, or you can be upfront about what you're doing (or if you're a fully-realized High Value Man, there's a good chance cheating won't come up because your wife will want to join in). When you get married, you take a lifelong vow - to your wife, but also to yourself. If you can't keep your word, you don't deserve the title of "Man", nor do you deserve the res…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 02:42 PM
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"The thing is, the captain-first mate paradigm that was characteristic of this relationship, provided such a potent sexual kick that I find hard to get back, since it just doesn't align with self-truth anymore." Pardon my language, but it sounds like your pussy is trying to tell you something, but your hamster is shouting it down.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 01:00 PM
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You are wrong that you are left to fend for yourself if a man impregnates you and leaves you. The government will pay you a stipend for the rest of your life for having a child out of wedlock, on a per-child basis. It will also jail the man and garnish his wages in perpetuity. And that's just a taste of the benefits in store for you. The fact is that marriage is a shit deal for men, and a fantastic deal for women no matter how things work out. It's no wonder that few men are interested in even t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 12:43 PM
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Well, the only person you engaged in extended conversation with on a women's board is one of the few men here (conveniently pre-vetted by one of the Endorsed Contributers here, which saves effort). You have hundreds of comments on r/Asktrp and r/Askmen. Call it a hunch.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 09:01 PM
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If that's the case, the proper venue would be r/purplepilldebate. If you were seriously looking for insight into adult relationships, that would be one thing, but the world has any number of places for teenage girls to get attention and validation. The last thing it needs is one more.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 08:37 PM
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Right, how foolish I was to doubt your infinite wisdom. So why are you even here? Clearly you have all of the answers to life - as all pre-wall women of course do. This sub has nothing to offer you. Go engorge your hamster on all of the fleeting pleasures in life, secure in the knowledge that "consequences" are something that happen to other people. And there are quite a few red-pilled men out there cough that do engage in harem-building on occasion. It takes a lot of self-improvement to get to …
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 07:27 PM
1

Right, I always forget how strong an argument against traditional marriage can be found in Norwegian whale hunting. If I roll my eyes any harder I could end up detaching a retina. "If no one is unique and different, then why are some personality types less common than others?" You could have simplified your response to "why are there different personality types at all?" or "why aren't we all identical clones?" There are ways in which all people are unique - every person in the USA has a differen…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 06:17 PM
2

I wasn't suggesting you were a bad employee at your actual job; it was a metaphor. It seems like you've missed the point of every comment made thus far. That's largely irrelevant though, as it will only impact your life. You may think you're unique and different, but you're not. Almost no one is. While we may have different personality types, you and my wife do not - as she notes further up in the thread. As headstrong as she is, she still manages to follow my lead, and is happier for it. Most p…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 04:50 PM
2

"Also it can be argued that all humans are inherently flawed" I think this is where the core of your problems lie. This is a facile argument that is often latched onto by those that are young, immature, and lacking in self-assurance. There are two main problems with it: The first is that it can be used as an argument against any human endeavor. It contains absolutely no insight into any problem you could possibly be dealing with. Do you realize that humans had achieved permanent residency in out…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 03:56 PM
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How old are you, 19 or 20? Because it shows. Have you never had a job, played a sport, or taken a class in your life? Because in any of those situations you would be suspending your criticism and deferring to the wisdom, knowledge, and judgement of a superior. This is the principal process by which we grow as individuals. You don't sound particularly mature, so it's doubtful you have a concrete, practical life plan. You should consider lurking here regularly. The women on this board are in the p…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 01:13 AM
3

Did you try r/AskAnEscort yet? Because that sounds more your style...
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 08:52 PM
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/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 03:04 PM
1

If you didn't want to know what men really thought about you, you probably shouldn't have gone poking around a male-dominated internet forum dedicated to sexual strategy. Maybe you could direct your concern towards how we all came to be in this situation. That sub has over a quarter-million subscribers. How badly do women have to be fucking up for something like that to happen?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 01:07 PM
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"So many regular guys leave their wives..." Over 70% of divorces are initiated by women. I think you may be a little blue-pilled regarding who is leaving who.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 12:56 PM
1

You should keep pouting about it then. That's sure to attract the man of your dreams. There's no way that will result in you dying bitter and alone, surrounded by cats. That's just an evil myth propped up by the patriarchy.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/18 03:48 PM
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If you're looking for a trade school concentration that is compatible with your temperament and interests, but still offers good job prospects and pay, take a look at being a technician/assembler in the fiber optics field. I'm an engineer in the defense industry, but years ago I worked in fiber optics, and nearly all of the best technicians and assemblers were women, and specifically mothers with traditionally feminine interests. The reason I think it worked out that way is fiber optic cables ar…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/18 01:48 PM
3

I can't speak for all men on this one - I suspect it depends on the mixture of alpha and beta traits in the particular man. I don't keep track of displays of affection with my wife, nor do I hold back or ration them. We've been together over a decade though, and she's a red-pilled domestic queen, so I don't really have to. Early in our relationship I suspect I regulated my affection in response to her behavior, albeit unconsciously most of the time.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/18 11:36 PM
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My wife had a boyfriend that she dated through high school and college. They've known each other since they were 13 or 14, were in theater together, and have many friends in common. They still chat online, and get together once a year or so for dinner (the amount of contact has been decreasing over time, but that's irrelevant). They're old friends at this point, and I've never felt the slightest jealousy over him. He's no threat to me in any way. He's been demoted from Beta Bucks to Beta Orbiter…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/18 06:13 PM
5

NASA keeps announcing that they've found another Earth-like world, but I have yet to hear the discovery of a sane world.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/18 03:45 PM
3

Simply put, it's the male equivalent of not putting out on the first date.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/18 03:43 PM
3

Do men only count other men towards a woman's n-count? Intellectually, their answer may vary depending on how they've been... inculturated. But in terms of visceral, instinctive response - yes, only the other men add to the n-count. Keep in mind that a lot of issues with n-count all trace back to uncertainty regarding paternity in a man's mind and the mental calculations involved with making a good mate choice for the purposes of reproduction. No amount of carpet-munching can impact the outcome …
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 08:55 PM
1

I think you might be wrong there. You can pull a 6-figure salary in most states just by going to trade school, so some factory jobs (welder, machinist) can easily support a family of five if you manage your finances well. It's the college-educated white collar jobs that don't offer the value they used to.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 08:38 PM
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Or they have to come to terms with the need to Bring Home More Bacon. That's the conclusion I arrived at. I want a more traditional family structure. My wife works as a financial advisor - which satisfies my desire for an intelligent, accomplished woman - but she found a job where she only has to work 20-30 hours/week, and can dedicate more time to maintaining a household. In order for this to work though, I had to be willing to sacrifice more of myself to my career to afford it. A traditional f…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 04:10 PM
1

Speaking of present cultural norms, let's consider the question of "Where are all the good men?". It's a common and growing refrain from women that they don't know where to find good men. It's a common theory around here that feminists have been suppressing masculinity and generally trying to hunt good men to extinction. That probably accounts for some of the problem. But suppose that - whatever the actual cause - if you did a full accounting somehow it actually turned out to be true that there …
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 04:02 PM
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I've been reading this thread for a day trying to make sense of the OP's circular reasoning, petty shaming tactics, and general hamstering. It's a lot of incoherent anger without a definitive philosophical underpinning, positive statement, or even any actionable suggestions. I think u/durtyknees got to the crux of the matter with this response. Would the elderly divorcee claiming enlightenment please lay out a coherent summary of her philosophical position and its underlying rationale?
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 03:49 PM
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We've been together 11, and we're actually still together. Fancy that! It almost seems like being formerly but no longer married might reflect poorly on your ability to give sound relationship advice.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 08:55 PM
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Most things related to biology and instinct don't change, huh? Kind of like how harems are a common feature throughout the animal kingdom, all the way through the primate family, which includes humans? Sort of how the very concept of an "Alpha Male" derives from zoological study of animals that socialize in a pack structure where the largest and strongest male mates with most or all of the other females? Like those biological truths?
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 02:11 PM
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Let's say, hypothetically, you want to screw every woman in a group of friends. Like any group of women, that group will have an unspoken but intuitively understood ranking of... basically anything and everything women argue over. For any given group of women, there is one whom you could screw first which would result in the least possible cumulative effort for sleeping with all of them. Why? The main reason is because women want what other women have, regardless of what it is. That woman that i…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 11:43 PM
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Perfect. You understand completely and have no psychological or developmental issues that need addressing for you to grow as a human being. You will have no trouble finding the perfect man at the perfect time and getting him to conform to your every idiosyncracy. You have nothing more to learn here. Go confidently forward into the world with the knowledge that you've never once made a mistake or misstep. I hereby validate you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 05:41 PM
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Speaking not as a man but a mathematician and physicist here - your equation is retarded and needs some serious work. It would give Melania Trump a negative score - that's an easy indication of a faulty calculation. Hit the books some more, kiddo.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 11:15 AM
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"What you say essentially would advise me to lie" That's not what he's saying. What he's saying is you're an adult, this is reality, and sometimes you will be faced with a decision for which none of the options are palatable. Maybe the decision arose as a result of your past foolish actions, or maybe it didn't - that makes no difference at all (although there is value for you in contemplating and acknowledging your level of responsibility for the state of your life. Regardless of the particulars…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 11:05 AM
3

That's an accurate assessment, yes.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 10:48 AM
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"lucky to have each other" is a very different statement in tone and deeper meaning than "he's lucky to have me". The latter is far more likely to result in marital strife.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 04:44 PM
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"The best thing you can do is give her behavior-altering hormones, slap her on the back, send her into the world unprepared, and hope for the best" Top-notch advice right there.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 02:49 PM
3

I nominate u/durtyknees for the RPW flogging tribunal.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 07:47 PM
3

I second what my wife says. I can't get sex off my mind when I'm working out regularly, and I'm pushing 40. At the age of 20... Let's just say your boyfriend's diagnosis is wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 05:54 PM
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I suggested this board to her a few months ago. I never actually frequented TRP or any of the manosphere blogs. I'm what they refer to as a 'natural'.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 01:50 PM
2

Yes
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 01:34 PM
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There is a world of difference between wanting a man that is taller than you and wanting a man that is taller than most other men. Your wording makes it sound like you only want a man as a prop for the purposes of competing with other women. That's not good or healthy, and probably merits some introspection.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 01:28 PM
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Nice refutation there, Ms. Post-Wall.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/18 03:00 PM
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Here are a bunch of links containing statistics culled from large datasets proving that u/girlwithabike is correct and you are incorrect: https://theblog.okcupid.com/the-case-for-an-older-woman-99d8cabacdf5 http://www.budrich-journals.de/index.php/zff/article/download/5733/4860 http://faculty.chicagobooth.edu/guenter.hitsch/papers/Mate-Preferences.pdf
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/18 12:41 AM
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What were you up to at 18? How about 19? 20? All of the subsequent years leading up to your current point, which reeks of desperation and entitlement? You were worrying about what you wanted in that moment, with no thought to the future, weren't you? Why would any worthwhile man waste their time on a woman who thoughtlessly squanders their youth and beauty? It's certainly an indication that you will take for granted anything he puts into the relationship in the future. Why should your "perfect m…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/18 02:33 PM
5

I would definitely condone violence for this situation. I can't stand the platitude of "violence never solves anything". I can't think of a statement more obviously and demonstrably false than that one that is so frequently repeated. If violence wasn't effective for solving disputes it wouldn't be such a common solution for every form of life that has ever existed. The husband of the OP is as much to blame as the friend for the drunken passes if he hasn't made some sort of threat already. It's l…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/18 07:54 PM
2

My only regret is that I have but one upvote to give this comment.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/18 04:01 PM
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When a woman states (and more importantly believes) that her man "is lucky to have her", she's implying he has her not through merit but by chance, and therefore is not deserving of her - for whatever reason, decided by her of course. It is implicitly insulting and belittling to the man, and sooner or later he will catch on to that fact. If he's really lucky, he'll catch on before he makes a serious commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/18 12:52 PM
1

And the agenda behind this "scientific" research starts to become clear...
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/18 08:58 PM
2

It's difficult to objectively assess the report as it is paywalled (interesting thing to do with taxpayer-funded research, seems suspicious...), but nothing about it even sounds scientifically rigorous or valid. It seems more like a dishonest attempt by the study's authors to get their spouses to wash the dishes by a hamfisted attempt at appealing to authority, which mainstream propagandists are trying to make widespread in their perpetual effort to push an agenda. How about a compromise? I'll t…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/18 03:07 PM
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I have no idea what point you are trying to argue. Your comment is vague and all over the place.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/18 09:50 PM
10

This post needs to be archived. It's an excellent object lesson on bitter entitlement.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/18 12:57 PM
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I'm going to second my wife here. If you follow the advice of your mother, particularly the spirit of it, the marriage is already as good as over. Don't start things off by planning your escape. That's cruel to your fiance and dishonors you as well.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 11:51 PM
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"It's hard to interpret that any other way than being childishly silenced..." It sounds like those liberal feminists didn't raise you to be very open-minded, then.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 08:34 PM
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We don't see a lot of conservatives downvoting women on RPW simply for wanting to be good wives and mothers. There are regular brigades of left-wing feminists engaging in that behavior though - as if the mods didn't have enough nonsense to deal with. Your false equivalence isn't even remotely balanced.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 08:19 PM
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The Vice Chair of the DNC called for the repeal of the Second Amendment to the US Constitution just last week. The left is pretty unanimous in vocally condemning all gun-owners as the greatest threat to life on Earth. You are out of the loop if you really believe what you wrote.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 07:31 PM
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It is a common behavior among left-wing ideologues to silence people when they are unable to provide a cogent counterargument to a viewpoint. On Reddit this takes the form of people mashing the downvote button while muttering something about Donald Trump under their breath. Don't take it personally. Anti-gun fanatics don't recognize your personhood anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 07:27 PM
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Don't you live in a country that will drag you in front of a Human Rights Tribunal for misgendering someone? What would you know about freedom? The only reason the US hasn't colonized you is we haven't run out of pine trees yet.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 07:22 PM
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I think you should try to understand his point of view more on this issue. It's a fundamental part of American culture, and it's why the US is only truly free nation on Earth. It's the responsibility of every free citizen to exercise their rights responsibly if you wish to keep them. Moreover, if you end a promising relationship now over this and then later come to see the wisdom in the Second Amendment, you'll spend the rest of your life regretting the possibility you threw away. I personally b…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 12:40 PM
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"He liked my idea better than his" If you're enthusiastically proffering an alternative to his idea, I suspect that will be the case every time you try it. The operative word here is "enthusiastically". That's the key ingredient for a man irrespective of the particular fantasy.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 05:04 PM
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I have both a six-pack and six patents. It's possible for a man to simultaneously cultivate multiple virtues. That's pretty much the definition of a high-value man.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 02:11 PM
2

By properly manifesting my masculinity, I don't even have to request them. It's a win-win scenario. Some (u/durtyknees and mathematician John Nash) might even call it the Dominant strategy for a recurring game.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/18 05:12 PM
2

^ apparently he came here to win the argument, since you can only muster feigned incredulity as a response.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 06:40 PM
1

I'd prefer we had Gomez and Morticia's marriage...
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 01:04 PM
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If you're looking for a masculine man with a positive view of marriage to go to for advice as a counterpoint to u/Rian_stone , that would be me. I've been happily with my wife for over a decade, and she's a regular fixture on this board. That being said, everything u/Rian_stone said is spot on and merits serious consideration. Giving him an ultimatum or pushing the issue too hard will more than likely result in the first of a recurring series of failed engagements.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 12:59 PM
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"When watching TV..." There hasn't been a TV show made in decades that portrays marriage as a positive thing from the male point of view. Every married couple on TV features a useless shlub of a husband constantly mocked by his wife for his inferiority. That strategy is likely to backfire unless the only channel you watch is Nick at Nite.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 12:52 PM
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I have a feeling that will backfire horribly and hurt her ability to do her job well in the future. Even saving her husband's job for a little while will reek of nepotism and foster resentment amongst all the lower-level employees that remain.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 02:08 PM
2

Whether or not you think the perception that women take marriage vows less seriously than men is immaterial; the statistics bear it out. Roughly 50% divorce rate in the US, initiated by the woman in more than 70% of cases. That's more than double the rate of men.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 09:37 PM
1

"he's looking for something more sensual" That's why I suggested pairing the t-shirt with thigh highs and nothing more. There's a bunch of varieties on Amazon for pretty cheap when you consider that you'll never leave the house in them. I've bought so many of them for my wife at this point that I can't tell if she's wearing a new pair or an old pair at this point.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 02:48 PM
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u/girlwithabike has some experience here and in my opinion has figured it out really well. My favorite selection from her lineup is nothing but thigh highs and one of my old t-shirts. Give that one a shot.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 02:05 PM
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Hey lady, my point of view ain't crude. I take great pains to ensure any smut I write is articulate, expressive, and mellifluous when read aloud.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 01:25 AM
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I doubt u/Hillary_for_Prison (infowarsdotcom) meant it as a comprehensive list. My personal preferences are different, but the spirit of the statement is spot-on. I'm surprised that's not obvious to you. More importantly though - this ain't about you, lady.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 01:01 AM
3

This guy's on the right track.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 12:39 AM
5

Tedious to you, maybe. But it's what men want. That's kind of the point of the whole forum - understanding how men think in order to keep your man happy.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 12:34 AM
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That was how it sounded to me, too.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/18 12:09 AM
5

Great post, but you shouldn't be calling this strategy a trick. It's probably the only course of action that men don't consider trickery. It works, too. I buy presents for u/girlwithabike sometimes just because browsing Amazon is more interesting than the meeting I'm sitting in.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/18 12:39 PM
5

I think you're still missing the bigger picture. If your boyfriend has been considering a more serious, long-term commitment with you (especially in light of his friend being an expectant father) then how you handle being friends with this woman is probably a test of how deserving you are of commitment. Taking a self-centered approach is a good way to fail that test.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 05:19 PM
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The stripper detail seems like the sort of information that should have made it into your first post. That being said, you shouldn't be concerned and this girl's ulterior motives aren't malicious, nor are they directed at you. Put yourself in her 6" platform heels for a minute: a guy she just started dating got her pregnant and they decided to keep it and try to stay together. She's not going to be bringing home any more bundles of singles once she starts showing. She's going to really need this…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 02:39 PM
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Your arguments are why responsible, accomplished women like u/girlwithabike still face sexism. You glossed over every legitimate argument she made with snide hand-waving and asserted without evidence that providing free universal birth control is a cost-effective moral imperative (bypassing any other medications we could make free that produce an even better net benefit). You sound like a petulant child demanding your parents buy you whatever you want in the grocery store checkout lane. Sadly, y…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 01:56 PM
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I have an idea, which may sound flippant but is actually intended as a serious suggestion: You should try smoking weed before sex next time.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/18 11:41 PM
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For starters, Pew Global Research http://www.pewforum.org/2013/04/30/the-worlds-muslims-religion-politics-society-beliefs-about-sharia/ http://www.pewforum.org/2014/01/14/religious-hostilities-reach-six-year-high/ http://www.pewforum.org/2012/11/21/laws-penalizing-blasphemy-apostasy-and-defamation-of-religion-are-widespread/ https://www.centerforsecuritypolicy.org/2015/06/23/nationwide-poll-of-us-muslims-shows-thousands-support-shariah-jihad/ http://www.pewglobal.org/2010/12/02/muslims-around-th…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/18 03:53 PM
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She's right, it's a garbage ideology followed by the most reprehensible "people" on the planet. Slavery, sex slavery, rape as a tool of war, rape as a form of genocide, female genital mutilation, and outright lying/deception are pervasive in the Muslim world and codified into law. There is nothing in the religion worth preserving. Jihad is supported by the majority of Muslims worldwide. They are fundamentally incapable of peacefully coexisting with others or each other. Red-pill philosophy is ab…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/18 03:20 PM
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Except those policies as they currently exist are exclusively for women. Men don't take the pill. Men don't get abortions. Saying you support something that doesn't even exist is irrelevant, and only makes your argument sound more self-centered. The fact is that these demands are fairly new, unprecedented, and are literally welfare. When the bulk of "women's issues" consist of a collectivized complaint of "buy me more stuff", it should come as no surprise when you get even less respect than in t…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/18 06:19 PM
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If you support the idea that women have their own agency, free birth control and universal maternity leave should be anathema to you. Access to these things is something that isn't really opposed by conservatives, but forcing taxpayers to fund it is obviously a very different issue. Mandating that the public provide a welfare system exclusively for women in these areas makes it impossible to view women as equals; it codifies their status as "less capable" into law.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/18 04:25 PM
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All of the male Instagram accounts I follow feature selfies taken with dead animals. Sure, they're satisfying a psychological drive, but it's not narcissism.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/18 03:01 PM
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Social media is not an ocean, that's an illusion intentionally built into apps - it's no different than the "hall of mirrors" effect that makes a fish tank look like an endless sea when viewed from the inside. A couple different dating apps have been caught red-handed over the years intentionally manipulating the results you see and performing various psychological experiments on their users. It's foolish to think it doesn't happen far more frequently than is noticed. All of these social media a…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/18 01:56 PM
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There may be plenty of fish in the sea, but most women today are fishing in a private lake with a 'catch and release' policy.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/18 01:19 PM
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She states early on in her post that he has struggled with addiction his whole life, and that moderation is not his strong suit, so arguments like "it's not as bad as heroin, dude" and "moderation is key" come off as tone-deaf and are completely unhelpful. She states that he has struggled to find work in the past, just started working at a good job, and she admires the changes it has caused in him. Smoking weed will sap that motivation from him. Full stop. She stated that testing positive for ma…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/18 01:28 PM
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Well, that's just like, your opinion, man. This is a legitimate problem. He should be putting the interests of his children first.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/18 11:56 AM
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"Once a woman is an alpha widow she can never give you up. You become a part of her operating system and she has no desire to excise you from her life." This is true and accurate, and there is a prime example of it floating around YouTube. Watch an interview with Donald Trump's first wife which was filmed post-divorce. She has nothing but good things to say about him to this day. Consider all of the people the Dems were able to pay off to trash Trump during the campaign, but they couldn't get an…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 05:09 PM
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More than a decade together here, and I'm far more enamoured now than in the beginning. She keeps getting better and better.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 01:26 AM
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I concur, this is a thoughtful response - particularly where your focus on the "true self". I've always found the "true self" advice to be inane and nonsensical, especially given how young and naive the type of people who spout it off are. At the stage in your life that people typically date you aren't even fully developed neurologically. Your "true self" has not even had a chance to form, much less be well understood. That sort of self-knowledge requires deep introspection and life experience, …
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 01:14 AM
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I think we're on the wrong board for this discussion. Which way to The Black Pill?
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/18 01:03 AM
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I suspect the advice to men is going to have a far larger receptive audience than the advice to women. I agree that any intentional effort to "roll things back" is doomed to fail - the level of repression required to pull it off just isn't practically feasible, particularly with society functioning so poorly as it is. I'm banking on civil war and strife worldwide for a period of at least a decade within my lifetime; with the collapse of civilization the only options left will be return to a func…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/18 01:01 AM
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Yeah, I know that wishing won't make it so. And I've been bothered for a while that I have yet to hear a single cogent rebuttal to any of your points. The Baby Boomers have fucked us all, and at this point I would prefer the collapse come as soon as possible so they spend their golden years in abject fear, desperation, and suffering. Young women will happily destroy the world around them with their self-centeredness and pin the blame on men and the world at large without a second of self-reflect…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/18 07:18 PM
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After many years, we've worked out how to cohabitate harmoniously in spite of these differences, but it took work. I think the "why" of this situation can be understood from the way Dr. Jordan Peterson describes the rationale behind his mantra of "Clean Your Room" - in part because in what manner and to what degree and to what purpose your room is in order is directly related to how your mind is in order. I view the rest of the house as an extension of my garage and workshop; she views it as an …
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/18 05:40 PM
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Well if we're going to nitpick, I guess he taught me to not sink. I doubt anyone is using my statement as specific instructions, though.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/18 04:58 PM
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I don't see it as an either/or decision. There are always sidecars...
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/18 02:44 PM
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I think you're being naive there. There are a great many people that wish to see the world burn, and they are quite open about their desire.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/18 02:42 PM
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With 50 years of a women's movement that is pathologically resentful and misandrist, it is the only response that is fair.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/18 02:37 PM
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The increased proportion of single mothers from the 60's through today is a pretty obvious explanation for the abundance of juvenile adults today. It makes me deeply sad for our society.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/18 02:34 PM
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While it may be part of my inherent temperament, I do try to keep it in check. It's at least worth recognizing that you can do some good in the world should you so choose.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/18 04:06 AM
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"A separate peace" - I commend your literacy. I tend to agree with your view, but I still stubbornly hold out hope that we can avoid a literal civil war in this country, and I believe the current feminist hysteria will play a role in bringing it about. I don't want to see the world burn.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/18 04:03 AM
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I couldn't tell you; I don't know enough about you to guess what you might personally could add. I do know what you could do without if you went over there - the petty snark. When I read the comments on that board I see a mass of men that have been forgotten, discarded, disrespected, patronized, condescended to, and dehumanized - and nearly all of that treatment on a personal level has come from women. The "fairer" sex. The "gentler" sex. The "compassionate" sex. Their anger is entirely justifie…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/18 02:48 AM
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You are not new to Reddit. You are lying. You recently created this particular account so you could come here and start trouble. I suspect that it was something you thought up with some other posters in a circle jerk on one of the angry feminist subs. Because someone is upvoting your catty comments, and it sure as hell ain't the fine Women here.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/18 01:38 AM
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Really? You can't think of any advice to offer men over at r/TRP other than tips on a pump & dump? Is the problem lack of ability, or lack of inclination?
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/18 01:19 AM
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I don't think you're reading it wrong; I actually think you haven't been reading it at all. As my username would suggest (and my flair) I am already in a relationship - with an endorsed contributer on this board. I comment here regularly, and when I do I make an effort to maintain a tone that will be well received by women, and put thought and effort into my advice. This can be verified by a perusal of my post history and their replies. There are a number of other male commenters here that regul…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/18 01:17 AM
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The real benefit I see from having r/TRP around (and MGTOW, and PUA) is they are starting to turn the Battle of the Sexes from a route into a fair fight - but it is still a battle. RPW and MRP are an attempt at peace negotiations, which is the best result for everyone. A clean victory in the battle of the sexes isn't possible anyway; too much fraternizing with the enemy for that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 10:02 PM
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Regarding how much affection he's showing your son: while that sounds harsh from your perspective, I'd be interested in hearing his take on it before giving my opinion. I will grant that it does sound cold from the way you wrote it, but it could very well be a matter of perspective. Concerning his handling of your son when he had the flu, I absolutely agree with the way he handled it. Your son may have felt hurt by it at the time, but as he gets older he will reflect upon these things and apprec…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 05:39 PM
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It sure beats a race to the bottom.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 05:00 PM
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If it's any consolation, your post implies that your man must be operating on hard mode as well if he's still held onto you. You wouldn't remain enamoured with him otherwise. u/girlwithabike works in finance, so I always keep in mind that she's going to be interacting with people that could potentially compete with me. I try to embody as many different High Value Men qualities as I can manage. I've been working a white collar job and wearing dress clothes to work for a long time, but I'm proud t…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 03:14 PM
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We've covered 9 states together so far https://imgur.com/a/4ar6i
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 04:32 AM
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It may be the region of the country. We live in the epicenter of the rich liberal arts university SJW-movement in the Northeast. I actually know a couple of older millennial/younger Gen-X people that have been popping up in the news in the last few years from my college days. The rabid misandry is particularly notable here, and unlike on the west coast, the nearby suburban and rural areas are quite conservative. The culture clash has been really noticeable.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 03:33 AM
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I'll add to my wife's point here: I'm a senior engineer, and I've worked at several multinational corporations in both R&D and Operations. This is the probably the most male-dominated field after bricklayer and lumberjack, and all of those men are very high earners, very stable in their day-to-day life (no drama at all), and they excel at performing the quick mental math involved in cost-benefit analyses. These traits make them excellent candidates for marriage, but it also inclines them to logi…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 02:38 AM
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"It's a bit ironic in my case because his standards are actually a step above mine for the most part" I'm glad you brought this up; I was tempted for a little while to post a bunch of pictures of the garage. I don't want the whole internet thinking I'm a slob.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 02:20 AM
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This idea stems from r/K-selection theory, both of which are found to varying and competing degrees in every living species which reproduces sexually, although there are many that are almost exclusively r-selective or K-selective. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/R/K_selection_theory The name derives from the two variables found in the equations for exponential growth and decay, which is one of those mathematical phenomena that is so frequently encountered that it is essentially a fundamental uni…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 02:13 AM
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"The world is now safe for a western woman" You must be posting from the US, then. The artificial "migrant" crisis has largely erased that safety in Europe. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rotherham_child_sexual_exploitation_scandal https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Year%27s_Eve_sexual_assaults_in_Germany http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5238497/Somali-migrant-sexually-assaults-Italian-woman-labour.html It can be difficult to appreciate just how tenuous that safety is up until the point…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 11:59 PM
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All of the points bunniebell makes are accurate, and unfortunately the particular stressors you're both facing can only get fixed with time and patience. Someone else in the thread pointed out that high stress releases cortisol, which interferes with testosterone and estrogen production. This is correct, but it also points in the direction of a solution. The weather is starting to get nice again. Tomorrow when you both get home from work/school/etc, put on some gym clothes and go for a run toget…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 04:45 AM
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Yes ma'am.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 01:55 AM
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RP philosophy is amoral regarding judgements on what particular dating strategy is advisable. It's not amoral in an absolute sense. Your stance would suggest that pedophilia, cannibalism, human sacrifice, slavery, and vampirism are perfectly acceptable behaviors in a High Value Man. There is a distinct difference between being working class in the socio-economic sense and being low class in the sense of general criminality and anti-social behavior. Furthermore, you're drawing a false equivalence…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 09:35 PM
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...Which is legal for ~40% of the US population. Shoplifting is illegal everywhere on Earth, and bragging about it on a dedicated internet forum is just trashy and low-class.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 08:47 PM
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What possible definition of "High Value Man" would include petty criminal?!
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 08:40 PM
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Pro-tip: regular commenters on r/shoplifting are unlikely to be sources of good advice for respectable RP women. No High Value Man is bringing a petty criminal home to meet his family.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 07:47 PM
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I think one of the aspects of RP philosophy that trips people up about the Captain/First Mate analogy isn't close-mindedness (except for the feminists - it's definitely close-mindedness there) so much as it is ignorance of the structure of military chains of command. It's not just women that are ignorant of the details of these structures, it's a lot of men as well - which clearly has had negative consequences for gender dynamics. The First Mate is not a helpless child, or someone relegated to s…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 07:44 PM
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I'm not generally considered "kind" either. I've taken a couple "Big Five" psychometric personality tests, and I've tested in the 3% percentile for trait agreeableness when compared against a mostly American data set, and the 0% percentile when tested against a Canadian data set. With my wife though, I make a conscious effort. If you're going to try with anyone... Just because I try not to sound critical on this board doesn't mean I'm holding back; I'm just mindful of my tone. This is a woman's …
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 01:41 PM
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I would say I'm the exact opposite in how I behave around others. I'm abrasive to the rest of the world, but I save my kindness for my wife. At the end of the day, if you're taking care of your health, you're probably looking at another 60 or 70 years of sleeping next to this person every night. They're probably not doing annoying things with the intent of annoying you, so going into the conversation with an accusatory attitude has no real benefit to you. I'm not pointing this out to be critical…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 11:28 AM
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You may want to avoid opening with "having to pick up after you..." First of all, no one is forcing you to do so, and it's pretty self-centered to think all of a man's behaviors center around what he expects you to do. In this particular case, probably 90% by volume of the stuff I leave on the counter is KFC that I couldn't finish in one sitting, and I leave it out with the intention of snacking on it later in the night. I just can't bring myself to waste any of the Colonel's Original Recipe - i…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 05:16 AM
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I think the moral and ethical imperative goes beyond just what is good for the individual and the family though - it is vital for society at large as well, for a number of reasons: The breakdown of traditional marriage is causing men to retreat from the institution as a whole, and we desperately need them to stay. Married fathers are more productive because they have a driving reason to be, and the rapid advancement of the West was powered by that drive. It is literally what keeps the lights on.…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 04:40 AM
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For the sake of argument, my views here are restricted to those marriages which result in children. The structure of childless marriages are irrelevant to anyone not in the marriage itself. I'll start with my views on the alternative: Both my mother and all three of her sisters were radical feminists of the late 60's/early 70's who all eventually destroyed their marriages one way or another and proceeded to stubbornly insist they could "have at all" and be single working moms. They refused any a…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 03:43 AM
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I apologize if that came off as snarky, rudeness was not my intention. It's not that you're wrong per se, it's that the only men abandoning relationships with women that will be visible to you are the weak (and noisy) betas. All of the worthwhile men that are abandoning women will become invisible to you because in their estimation women have nothing at all to offer them anymore - emotionally, psychologically, or even conversationally. You may look in on TRP and see only men that you would never…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 07:29 PM
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Thank you and it's not creepy at all. It means we've been objectively doing things right and we're not just kidding ourselves.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 07:13 PM
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The friends of High Value Men will almost universally be other High Value Individuals. u/girlwithabike and I have been together for over a decade, yet three of these women I have remained close friends with to this day. We're actually going on vacation in April with one of them, along with her husband (who is my fishing buddy) and their two children. All three have at some point come through for me when I was in a real bind long after any romance had fizzled out. All three are admirable, intelli…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 03:03 PM
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Engineer here bringing an engineer-type solution. I've seen a number of bicycles in my life that have auxiliary power - either an electric motor and a battery or a small gasoline engine about the size of a weed whacker motor. The gas-powered variety always looked home-made at a glance, but many of the electric ones appeared to be mass-produced. I don't know any brand names off the top of my head (I went straight for motorcycles and never looked back) but I'm sure Google knows. You could look int…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 02:30 PM
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No, you are apparently not good reading men's cues. There are plenty of women who frequent this board who seem to fare just fine when interacting with men, just as there are ample men out there that have learned to divine the far more mercurial signals from women. The proper and mature way to handle this conundrum is to STFU, read and listen, and think on the statements of women that have successfully navigated these waters, which is the stated purpose of this forum, NOT to get pissy at men for …
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 02:51 AM
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Look, you can either rail against human nature and lament the sad fact that men do not cater to every woman's wants or needs, or you can accept the world as it is as an emotionally mature adult and learn to work within that framework. There is no third option, and as the friends you've mentioned as well as many other women are quickly learning, men writ large will not simply cave to the increasing demands of women ad infinitum without considering their own interests or adjusting their dating str…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 02:46 AM
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A woman's ideal window of fertility is short relative to a man's, but let's be realistic here - it's still approximately 15-20 years. That's not exactly the blink of an eye. If you squander a sizable portion of that window engaging in the type of promiscuity encouraged by feminists and the media alike, that's no one's fault but your own, and it certainly doesn't place any responsibility on men in general to commit in a shorter time period than they deem fit.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 01:43 AM
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It is certainly a dilemma and I didn't mean to come off as callous or snarky in my response; I wrote it shortly after someone had been getting under my skin at work. I apologize if my post has a negative tone. That being said, life is full of unavoidable dilemmas, and we are all working on a deadline. The best we can do under the circumstances is to improve ourselves as best we can, have an honest view of the state of the world, and try to navigate through it with the tools we have available. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 01:33 AM
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Jordan Peterson is fantastic. I really hope the media keeps trying to trash him. He's so genuine, sensible, and thoughtful that every attempt to character assassinate him backfires, and wins more people over to the side of traditional values and self-improvement.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 10:05 PM
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"All this guesswork is dangerous for women." And with that statement, every man on Earth laughed out loud in unison. It is certainly less dangerous than the situation men face regularly, trying to differentiate between "this woman is interested in sex with me", "this woman is interested in sex with one of the guys I'm friends with", "this woman is interested in sex in general", and "this woman is just fishing for free drinks". But hey, this is the fun, exciting part of dating! What are the corre…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 08:42 PM
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After many years, we've settled on a middle ground where she dresses like a slutty 16-y/o at home and a respectable adult when she leaves the house. That was always my goal, but your opening bid has to be an extreme position if you want the negotiation to have a favourable outcome.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 07:04 PM
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As to your first point, I don't think the duty sex and dead bedroom issues on MRP apply here as that board pertains to people who are already married, and here we are discussing the courtship phase which precedes a formalized and legally-binding commitment. A wife may have sex with her husband just to shut him up for a while, but it seems doubtful that a woman would do that on a first date simply to avoid some strange man's complaints. As to your second, I will use an example from our own relati…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 05:37 PM
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I disagree. A woman can state her intention to sleep with a man, but the statement lacks credibility whereas the act most certainly does not. Similarly, a man can say whatever he likes in order to get laid, but if he has no genuine intention to commit then the lie will cost him nothing in the long run. His actions, however, are far less ambiguous when attention is paid to the proper actions. The main source of confusion and miscalculation for women is they often judge men by the significant acti…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 01:47 PM
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This is a good post, and an apt analogy. I don't really have anything else to add.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 03:22 AM
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It is well worth following u/girlwithabike 's advice on this topic. I was well aware of how intimidated she was by my female friends even before she stated it explicitly, and her displays of trust and emotional maturity were definitely factors in deciding that she was wife material. Your absence of jealousy will not go unnoticed. Moreover, I believe the fact that I am on good terms with my exes is a credit to me (and a credit to her in the case of her high school sweetheart) and not a detriment,…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 01:18 AM
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I'm happy to be of help. I wish you and your man both the best of luck together.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 12:04 AM
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Since the post has been deleted I can only see the portion quoted by the moderator, but I think I get the gist. I'd like to counter with a challenge to u/annarellaa: Explain the prevalence of French Maid costumes when shopping for lingerie. It's probably one of the top three fantasy costumes out there, along with nurse (which is closely related) and schoolgirl. However, I don't think I've ever seen an outfit that replicates the "Bonnie" character.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 05:15 PM
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I think this might hit closer to what he's really asking for. There's a possibility what qualities he's looking for are "eager to point of losing self-control" and "insatiable", which are qualities that are more apparent in "dominant" women.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 05:09 PM
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Don't cook or clean for the other men in the house - it will cheapen it for your boyfriend. If you want to project the feeling that he is special and more worthy than other men, those behaviors need to be reserved for him. The only exception would be if he is playing host at some event - inviting people over for a party or something that is his idea primarily, where the event would include his roommates. Essentially, if he is engaged in some activity that demonstrates the qualities found in a le…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 04:03 PM
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The whole coy act and playing games to make a man jealous comes off as supremely juvenile and is the sort of behavior that must be outgrown if you want to be regarded as a woman instead of as merely a girl. It's undignified and immature.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 02:07 PM
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^ This right here. Any man worth his salt is going to value his own mental qualities more than his physical qualities. It pays to notice them, respect them, and appeal to them.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 12:31 PM
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Wife goggles. All of the Red Pill rules apply when dealing with interactions between single men and women, but a weird thing happens in a man's head when he decides to marry a woman he's in love with - he always sees the young, beautiful bride going forward when he looks at her. Now, it is possible to break wife goggles, but it takes some work. If you triple in size, or turn into a nag, or a shrew, or a bitch, eventually he will re-evaluate his situation and start seeing you as your older, decli…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 12:24 PM
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This is definitely a troll - just not a particularly good or imaginative one. But what the hell, I'll bite. Women aren't inferior to men, they're different from men. Feminists are idiots, because for 50 years they've been insisting that women are exactly equivalent to men, then they go about trying to prove it by having women compete with men on men's terms. Then they get pissy when you point out that women aren't measuring up, and they hand-wave it off by insisting societal expectations are at …
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/18 11:56 AM
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Two of my college girlfriends pursued me. It was not because I was shy and beta in any way - the tone of my posts should confirm that for you. It was because there were multiple women in our social circle that were giving me IOIs, and both of those women wanted to be my first pick, so they took the initiative. This in no way resulted in me being "henpecked" by them. Given how much one enjoyed being slapped, I don't see any way I could have been the submissive partner in that relationship. Any ma…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/18 02:51 AM
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My 2¢ - based on the tone in your writing, it's probably not you. You sound like a perfectly delightful woman to be around. You've already described the sisters as rather bitter and hard to be around - it is highly unlikely you are the source of that. More generally, being bitter and angry at everyone is going to be the natural consequence of being blue-pilled. Being blue-pilled means they have a version of the world in their head that is based on how they think things should be, not how they ac…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/18 02:35 AM
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"only the most beta of males have given up on women completely" If more women understood just how wrong this statement was, you'd be burning feminists at the stake as though they were witches.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 07:21 PM
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The plural of "anecdote" is not "data". The statistics do not support that assessment. They support the RPW negative view on single motherhood, and they support the stigma that in the past was placed on single mothers. Do you want a basis for comparison of how bad single motherhood is for children? It's a stronger statistical proof than the evidence that cigarettes cause cancer. It's that bad. I say this as the child of a radical feminist/borderline communist/single mother, whose three sisters a…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 07:17 PM
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You know, if I (as a man) went around telling women what women really think I would be laughed right off the board.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 07:03 PM
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Are you a man?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 07:01 PM
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The reasons you just layed out for not wanting to be the pursuer are precisely the same reasons men aren't bothering to pursue women anymore. It's a societal Catch-22.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 06:47 PM
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In the rural parts of the country, they absolutely are. I grew up in a rural part of the south, and the church my granny most frequently took me to was a black Methodist congregation. However, most blacks in the US live in urban centers (and according to the media, they are the real black culture) - and there are about as many churches there as there are credit unions and libraries. Thanks, Democrats.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 05:32 PM
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No, they were not the result of asking a girl out. They were the result of feminists devoid of skepticism and critical thinking elevating the entirely fabricated delusions of mentally-ill and vindictive women to the level of national discourse. They demonstrated to every man in the country that it doesn't matter if you've acted incorrectly but innocently, it doesn't even matter if you didn't act at all, if a woman so much as knows your name they can upend your entire life and face absolutely no …
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 05:14 PM
1

I disagree with your sentiment, but appreciate your correct use of grammar and diction.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 05:01 PM
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I'll be sure to pass that along to the other 160 million men in the US. I'm certain your reassurances will ease any concerns they might have. I'll start with that frat at the University of Virginia, and the members of the Duke lacrosse team.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 04:51 PM
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It doesn't matter that no one has been arrested yet for MeToo explicitly. The chilling effect on men as a whole resulting from the past decade of toxic feminism cannot be understated. In response to ravings about "oppression" in my company by one particular SJW, I informed the head of HR the other day that under no condition will I work alone with a woman, and that I intended to record any conversations between myself and three other (millennial) self-proclaimed feminists in the office as a self…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 04:36 PM
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Well, how bad of a president are we talking here? Jimmy Carter bad, or James Buchanan bad? Kidding aside, there is a perfectly acceptable RPW way to ask a man out without actually asking him out: "You know, if you wanted to ask me out on a date, I wouldn't mind that at all." Bonus points for looking sweet, innocent, and doe-eyed when you do it. Feminists and the MeToo psychos have made even simply approaching a woman a potential prison sentence. Giving a clear indication that you are not one of …
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 04:02 PM
3

I can think of no better goal for us to share in life.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 02:58 PM
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Based on your attitude, I think you're going to do just fine at it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 02:23 PM
3

Actually, you should get married for your children's sake. Life outcomes for the children of married parents are so much better than for every single other family arrangement that it's absurd anyone could not be married and claim they're doing everything they can for their children. The statement often made by single mothers that they "provide the love of TWO parents" and "they do everything for their kids" is not only provably factually incorrect, it is selfish, delusional, and malicious.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 02:15 PM
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Societies with a high rate of monogamous marriage are stable, peaceful, and prosperous - universally, across time, with very few exceptions. These characteristics are also present when you look at demographics within a society. The black community in the US has a rate of single motherhood that was 72% in 2011 and a marriage rate of 29% - they account for 52% of murders despite being only 12% of the population, with every single other quality-of-life measure being equally dismal. The rates of sin…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 03:45 AM
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Based on your comments, you probably consider yourself MGTOW to some degree - but it's only you that sees it that way. If you're coming to a board specifically created by and for women just to pout, you are by definition not going your own way. You didn't answer the OP's question, you just made a bitchy little comment that added nothing to the discussion. Your statements ooze "bitter beta incel" and make your claim of being an 8 not particularly credible.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 02:03 AM
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Women collaborate and men compete. They compete with the intention of winning, and thus climbing the various hierarchies that constitute our society. They devise their individual strategies for winning using logic and reason - not emotion. Emotion (in the general sense, so including lust and passion) may dictate who a man wants to sleep with or who they're fond of, but it doesn't sway the conscious decision to marry. The only reason a man seeking to advance himself would marry is if he reasonabl…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 01:14 AM
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For the record, I always know when you're engaging in positive conditioning. I had assumed the (particularly good) BJ was for rescuing you twice and getting you jewelry and finishing another piece of furniture for the dining room. I was really killing it in the manhood department this weekend. Some advice for the OP - when you're vetting a man, keep an eye on how he treats the things he's already attached to. He says he loves his car? Does he change the oil regularly and keep it clean? Does he h…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/18 06:54 PM
5

I have a suggestion that might help ease your mind - u/girlwithabike and I both have a GPS-tracker app on our phones (not for reasons of infidelity, we both ride motorcycles and it's a way to quickly make sure the other isn't mangled on the side of the road). It may be worth suggesting to your husband. Being able to see where he is when the hamster wheel starts up would be good for you both, and I'm sure he would find some comfort in knowing where the mother of his child is. I know this comes of…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/18 01:52 AM
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I couldn't have missed the mark by much if you know how to properly address me - regardless of the sarcasm. You can't have much of a feminine mystique if you're this transparent.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 07:40 PM
5

You appear to have the concept of Red-pilled Woman confused with what the BDSM community calls a "brat" - and even those in the BDSM community find brats insufferable. Pro-tip: No one can give you the slap you so desperately want over the internet. You have to find that in real life.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 07:33 PM
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This is an effective strategy. Start sending dirty pictures at lunchtime, and by mid-afternoon your husband will be telling his boss he needs to leave early because of a "headache". Porn gifs work even better. Tumblr is an excellent source for them. They're worth a thousand dirty words.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 03:20 PM
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As an addendum to what u/girlwithabike noted, you can follow a course of action that allows you to accomplish multiple goals at once. Once you have articulated in writing the type of man you'd like to meet, you can put yourself in situations that will help you cross paths with him. You're probably going to end up working a part-time job at some point when you're in college. If your ideal man is well-read, get a job at the library. If your ideal man is good with his hands, get a job working the r…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/18 06:36 PM
2

Very harsh, but absolutely correct. She didn't just do wrong by her husband, she did wrong by her children too. It's her responsibility now to make the marriage work, and to figure out how on her own if that's what it takes.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/18 08:36 PM
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You probably shouldn't read too much into it - you weren't dealing with a racist so much as you were dealing with a Philly sports fan. They have a reputation as everything terrible about human beings all rolled together, which they have earned many times over. The Daily Mail has an article up today that features pictures of an Eagles fan on all fours in the street eating a police horse's sh%t. I say this as someone who has lived in the Philly area for decades, and has a great appreciation for it…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/18 06:45 PM
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ITT: u/soulofbuddha claims to be "dominant" while being relentlessly mocked and emasculated by a group of women who self-identify as submissive. SAD!
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/18 09:29 PM
3

As the official referee on this thread, I find that u/littleknownfacts won that argument. Bigly. It was both brutal and funny. Also, serving in the Swedish military falls just below the Girl Scouts in the US as far as masculinity goes - so consider us unimpressed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/18 08:49 PM
2

Kid, you're shit-posting needs some serious work. Maybe this is what passes for edgy banter in Swedistan, but if you're looking to talk shit with the grown-ups on a US-dominated board you've got a long way to go. Besides, shouldn't you be busy working to support a bunch of Somali-Swedes?
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/18 08:13 PM
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The only way you could make such an incoherent post so devoid of articulate argumentation and still be on the high end of the IQ distribution would be if you had Asberger's Syndrome. Given your numerous failings in grammar, diction, and spelling that is most likely not the case, and you're just a garden-variety example of the Dunning-Kruger effect.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/18 08:06 PM
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How much time 20 minutes is would depend on how effectively you are able to utilize your time. If you believe 20 minutes is not a lot of time, it indicates how unproductive of an individual you are, and how little your time is actually worth to the world. For some of us, 20 minutes of our time is worth days of yours.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/18 07:54 PM
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"feminist quotation systems" Do you mean quota systems? I think I know where you fall on that bell curve...
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/18 07:41 PM
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Does he know about the "future husband" you're hoping to find one day, as mentioned elsewhere in your comments? Tsk tsk. Making up an imaginary husband to fit in with the respectable women? SAD!
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 11:30 PM
1

After checking against your other comments in this very thread, the lie detector test determined that was a lie. Did you create this account solely to troll women far classier than yourself in a poorly-executed attempt to get them to "break frame"?
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 11:27 PM
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Moreover, so what if it is a double standard? Double-standards exist everywhere. Life isn't fair. I have to register for Selective Service, as does every other American male at 18, while women have no such obligation. That's just the way it is, and it's no coincidence that "the way it is" dovetails perfectly with the RP truth that women desire a strong protector as a mate. Similarly, women don't put too much importance on how many women a man has been with, while no man alive wants his children …
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 08:57 PM
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He's been on Joe Rogan's podcast a few times now; they're long but definitely worth watching. Joe Rogan does an excellent job as an interviewer. His style is very similar to Terry Gross, as strange as that is as a mental image.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 04:17 PM
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You should place at least some emphasis on raising your SMV because the truly high-value men have too many options for you to want to disadvantage yourself. If you think you get a lot of attention as a hot 22-y/o woman at a night club, you should see what it's like being a tall, attractive 35-y/o man with a solid career, no debt, and your own home. If you want that guy's attention, you will need to really stand out from the herd.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 03:43 PM
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While the interviewer seems specifically engineered to be cringe-inducing, it's worth watching just to listen to the man she's interviewing. Dr. Jordan Peterson is a brilliant and world-renowned clinical psychologist, and an excellent resource if self-improvement is your goal.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/18 03:30 PM
1

Wow. I think you just won. All we had to deal with was a cramped space, a useless kitchen, and a broken heater.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/18 12:32 AM
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"Make sure you are willing to live with this man in the crappiest apartment in existence." She's speaking from experience here folks, and when she signed the lease on that craphole is when I knew she was in it for the long haul.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 12:39 AM
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u/RubyWooToo with the bantz!
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/18 08:32 PM
3

"born in the Philippines" Well that explains how you got into Stanford - "diversity" admission.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/18 08:31 PM
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"Just like our u/guywithgirlwithabike - possibly your man" No kidding. Did you put the pieces of that together yourself, little miss Stanford, or did your husband help with the tough parts? "Justified slavery" "didn't guarantee healthcare" Defining healthcare as a fundamental right is de facto legalisation of slavery, unless you've discovered a new plant that produces colonoscopies instead of fruit.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/18 08:12 PM
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You're welcome. "I regret ever taking hormonal birth control." I have heard that from a growing number of women. I suspect due to its tight association with the second-wave feminist movement there has been reluctance in the medical community to give the negative side effects their full due. "and I still don't feel 100% like the old me." Whether you gained 30lbs while on birth control or after you stopped, I suspect the weight gain is as a result of the birth control. It's not unreasonable to sus…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 06:30 PM
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As long as your behavior and appearance are feminine, having masculine interests - especially those particular interests - won't work against you. On the contrary, I think those particular interests will make you more appealing to a high-value man climbing the social (or some other) ladder. My wife is a voracious reader and as a result she can engage in thoughtful conversation on a broad range of subjects, which is something I consider an asset for my own career advancement.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 05:06 PM
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Based on your description, your boyfriend is the type of man I would respect. I don't say that lightly; I'm hard on women but I'm brutal on men and generally disappointed in what passes for a man these days. Don't be so quick to cast him aside. He sounds like he will make a fine captain; you need to accept that he will become a captain a couple years later than you want right now. His educational path demonstrates the kind of foresight that will serve you both well in life. I think the effects o…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 03:38 PM
2

Regarding your sense of feeling like a child surrounded by adults - if you just finished your first year of college, both you and all of these people you perceive as adults are, in fact, children. I don't say this to be insulting, I say it because it is factually true: you and all of your classmates have at most a year of experience as actual adults at this point. But wait! There's an upside to this! If you perceive your classmates as being more adult then you, it's probably not because they act…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/18 10:46 PM
1

The ability to see value in others is a necessary precondition for leadership, and more broadly, "Alpha-ness". This board is primarily composed of males either forcing or faking Alpha-ness, so it's not surprising that this fact isn't implicitly self-evident in the RP body of thought. However, it is a piece of wisdom that has been well-known since antiquity. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Diogenes_and_Alexander "But truly, if I were not Alexander, I would be Diogenes."
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 01:46 PM
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You don't understand the concept of free speech in the slightest, and you have no business lecturing people on what it means. If you want to engage in repressive practices, go back to the backwards wasteland you were born in. Your concept of free speech has no place in the West. We don't base our principles in "feeling" or "intent" or "concern" here - or any other soft, manipulative garbage you can come up with. In the West we base our principles in logic and reason - this is why we enjoy a leve…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 04:39 PM
3

Technology has changed, but human beings have not. In evolutionary terms the people of ancient Greece are indistinguishable from people today. The distilled wisdom of thousands of years of civilization's most respected thinkers deserves more than your casual dismissal. That kind of simplemindedness is how you find yourself working an entry-level factory job for twenty years.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 04:01 PM
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It's Alpha to build something that outlives you. Dynasties endure because great men invest their time and knowledge towards creating more great men like themselves. I don't see myself as "staying with" u/girlwithabike - I see myself as "keeping her as mine in perpetuity". That's not a "beta" motivation by any stretch of the imagination. I'm not keeping her because she's a model either - although she is very attractive - I'm keeping her because she is wise and prudent and loyal as well. She is ed…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 03:42 PM
1

I absolutely do not think married is "beta", and I would never consider Donald Trump beta. These terms originally come from descriptions of the hierarchy in a wolf pack. The way they seem to be used on TRP is inconsistent and often contradictory. The male alpha wolf in a pack has a female alpha he is mated with, who often outranks the beta males. He stays with both his mate and his pack, and is closely involved in the raising of his young. Donald Trump is married and clearly a provider for his f…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 11:27 AM
2

On the topic of pre-nups, I do not. On the topic of Western thought, Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, Marcus Aurelius, Dante, John Milton, Francis Bacon, St. Thomas Aquinas, Thomas Hobbes, John Locke, Benjamin Franklin, Thomas Paine, Alexander Hamilton, and Nietchze would be a good start.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 11:19 AM
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Don't confuse the past 50 years of history with Western Civilization. Feminism and Socialism are completely antithetical (and intentionally so) to the cultural and economic roots respectively of Western Civilization. I doubt you've ever even been taught the foundations of Western thought in an unbiased way, given what a large percentage of primary school "teachers" there are that are vocal proponents of Marxism. Hit the books for a bit and see for yourself - the current zeitgeist regarding marri…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 11:57 PM
3

Sweden is not Libertarian. Its government calls itself liberal and progressive, although I fail to see how rape statistics rivalling war-torn Africa as a result of massive importation of Somalis is "progressive". It seems closer to a Social Democracy rapidly transitioning to neo-Marxist authoritarianism, but shifting gears to an Islamic Caliphate doesn't seem far-fetched either. Libertarianism (or what was classically considered Liberalism) is characterized by low taxes and a non-intrusive gover…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 11:46 PM
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Kid, if you think the problems in society today and how they relate to intrinsic human nature are some uncharted territory, which old farts can't possibly understand but you're far enough out into the frontier to grok, then you have a lot of learning to do. You might want to start with the foundational philosophical texts of all of Western Civilization, and work forward chronologically from there, instead of drawing all of your worldly knowledge from internet message boards put together by peopl…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 10:45 PM
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I've noticed some of the slower edgy teens parroting TRP talking points have a poor understanding of what "alpha" and "beta" behaviors refer to regarding social animals. You often seem to use terminology devised to describe the pack behavior of wolves and other pack predators, but apply it to the behavior of prey animals (you are the rabbit in this analogy). Tell me: would you describe Donald Trump as an "Alpha" or a "Beta"?
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 08:34 PM
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In all seriousness though, if masculine and dominant is what you're after, move somewhere in the Southeastern US, and listen for guys with a country accent.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 01:37 AM
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I encourage you to come as fast as possible then, and bring your friends too. If more people emigrating to the US were young Swedes looking for a husband, liberal women would be beating down Congress' doors to get immigration reform passed. Even if you don't make it here, in the next 5-10 years the US may need to rescue Europe for a third time, in which case you'll have plenty of American GI's to choose from. It'll be like Tinder merged with Amazon Prime.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 01:26 AM
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Fiona from Burn Notice. Nothing says "stand by your man" quite like following him into a gunfight.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 05:41 PM
3

East coast of the US. I was attending college in the US when I was hired at CERN.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 02:17 PM
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Bullshit. Just because you're too weak to climb the dominance hierarchy doesn't mean other men can't either. You just have to not waste your time on trivial garbage, grow a pair, and try and make something of yourself. I know trust fund kids - they were chumps when I met them at 18 and they're still chumps today. I'm not a high-value man because mommy and daddy gave me money (I was born in a trailer park). I'm a high-value man because I'm smart, driven, and fearless. I was working at CERN by the…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 05:16 AM
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It is amazing. Amazing. I am not normally a pasta guy, but I will eat this dish until I can't move and ask for seconds.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 04:11 AM
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Yeah seriously, STFU. I am not normally a pasta fan, but this dish is f-cking amazing. u/girlwithabike regularly uses it both as a bribe and a reward, and it works every time. Your input isn't adding anything here. Edit: I seem to be getting a lot of downvotes on this comment, presumably from thin-skinned TRPers. The type of woman who would bother to cook for you in the first place is the type of woman who will endeavour to cook well for you and cook to your particular taste. There's no value in…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 04:09 AM
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https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/9244342 Unfortunately, that does not solve the problem. The courts do what they do regardless of how high-class you believe yourself to be. Decades of lobbying and legal pressure from overzealous feminist activists have made all women low-class scam artists unless they prove otherwise. You think this is a shit hand you've been dealt, being lumped in with Jerry Springer guests? Probably, but that doesn't change the facts. Look on the bright side though - at least y…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 04:00 AM
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Married men cheat, but the cheated-on wife doesn't ever end up on the hook financially for a decade or more if the instance of adultery produces a child. The potential downsides of marriage for men have grown so significantly and disproportionately over the past 50 or so years that it would be insanity for any man to simply give the woman the benefit of the doubt anymore. Treating all women as adulterous and viciously self-interested unless they voluntarily go to great lengths to prove otherwise…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 12:20 AM
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According to this article, the rate of paternity fraud is about 1 in 25: https://www.theguardian.com/society/2005/aug/11/childrensservices.uknews I've come across other studies with higher proportions, in the 10% - 30% range. That's just the cases where the man is unaware he's raising someone else's child. Make a profile on Tinder as a man and look around; you will see a shocking number of women with children under the age of 5 explicitly stating they are looking for a man to be a provider for "…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/18 10:25 PM
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I'll add another aspect here that is one of the reasons I'm appreciative of my wife u/girlwithabike - a regular poster here, and that is career advancement. I'm fairly well-positioned at a Fortune 500 company, and am already quite successful in my career. However, there is a ceiling on the level of promotion achievable by some of my peers due to their bachelorhood - contrary to popular opinion on TwoX, there are quite a few successful, educated, high-salary men in their 30's who are MGTOW, it's …
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/18 08:28 PM
1

"Because once upon a time you would get married in the event of a pregnancy (shotgun wedding). That happens less often now." Gun Control strikes again!
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 01:04 AM
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The MGTOW movement is often derided by women who claim that they're all losers anyway, but who will then turn around and without a hint of irony ask "Where have all the good men gone?". Everyone sees the bitter ones bitching on the internet, but you (or women, rather) never hear from the desirable, successful examples - probably because they have better things to do with their lives and whine on the internet. The only way women can become aware of this phenomenon is by noticing their absence - t…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 11:45 PM
3

Jesus Christ, you sound weak. "Men are the symptom", "you can't change anything individually", you need some testosterone supplements to go along with your red pills, bucko. The decline of women couldn't have occurred if a reduction in the number of strong men hadn't immediately preceded it. There's nothing we can do about past generations of noble men being claimed by world war, but if we (as a civilization) are going to right this ship the broken men of this generation are going to have to fix…
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 02:04 PM
5

I vetted well.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 07:11 PM
0

Whether or not you see value in being submissive is largely irrelevant in your case, based on your post. You need to accept the role and dedicate yourself to it. Like it or not, you don't sound like you have it in you to be either dominant or a leader. If you did have it in you, you certainly wouldn't be whining this much.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/18 05:50 PM
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TheRedKeepx. Her post history seems to consist entirely of nasty, petty comments. She seems profoundly unhappy with her own life, and is not the type of person to seek guidance from.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 02:35 PM
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You might want to steer clear of this woman's advice. I actually thought she was a /pol/ or TRP troll at first, but then I took a look at her post history. I suggest you take a look at it yourself and draw your own conclusions as to her character...
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 03:09 AM
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You have to ignore the /pol/ troll To get into that girl's soul
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 03:23 PM
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This list is fake and gay.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 01:55 PM
1

It's not explicitly in his biography, but it's heavily implied in the second chapter.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 02:12 AM
2

That's a pretty spot-on assessment; I only use the phrase "rape scene" in the interest of brevity. I always thought it was clear that Dominique wanted Roark from the context and it therefore didn't constitute rape; the fact that the author is a woman and they end up together just reinforces that conclusion.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 02:10 AM
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If only I had been born 20 years earlier... Sigh
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 07:33 PM
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The progressive movement has been chasing its tail for the past year over a reality TV star that took up politics as a hobby at the age of 70 and beat a former Senator and Secretary of State for the presidency. If that ain't failing, I don't know what is.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 02:59 AM
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Based on the upvotes, it would seem it turns women on in practice as well. Why you would think sexual preferences translate directly into a coherent political treatise, I have no idea - such an absurd notion is one of the many reasons the "progressive" movement has been falling flat on its face.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 01:34 AM
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There's at least two women on this board getting worked up from you quoting that section right now, and very likely more than that.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 11:53 PM
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The "philosophical and literary community" is a dogmatic left-wing monolith at this point. The phrase itself betrays a collectivist mindset.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 11:40 PM
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With (among others) Alan Greenspan in his younger days. I personally wouldn't trust anyone to run the Fed who hasn't first fucked Ayn Rand.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 11:36 PM
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First of all, I didn't make that logical leap, you did. If you take issue with my "70%" statement, the most likely reason is that you are in the other 30%. And if you think my "70%" statement is bullshit, then you need to find another explanation for why 50 Shades of Gray was the fastest selling book of all time, and why Google Analytics has shown that violent porn is far more popular with women than men - a finding that is consistent across multiple countries. The best explanation for why the r…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 11:32 PM
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You may not be able to get behind the rape scenes, but ~70% of women do - a proportion that has held constant over several decades of study in the Western world. It's a pretty common fantasy for women, but they're also usually fantasizing about a man they'd say yes to if asked first, which is why male feminist allies typically aren't aware the fantasy exists.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 10:06 PM
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Ignore the people that claim to hate Ayn Rand. In the 20 or so years since I first read The Fountainhead I have yet to meet an Ayn Rand hater that has actually read her work. Some I have spoken to have claimed to have read her, but all were revealed to be lying when pressed. Her abilities as a fiction writer are often criticized, but it's important to remember that English is her second language, and she emigrated here as an adult. Her books are mostly a vehicle for her economic and political ph…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 10:01 PM
1

Absolutely. Example: Ann Coulter
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/17 04:41 PM
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😁
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/17 02:08 AM
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Other things that are "just pieces of paper" -the title to your car -the deed to your house -a college diploma -a restraining order -a stack of $100 bills Good luck getting ahead in life while insisting these "pieces of paper" don't matter.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 04:12 PM
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First of all, nothing GayLubeOil says in that post even touches on women's tendency to value inclusion. Second, in my experience, girlwithabike is about as disagreeable (in the clinical psychology sense) as a woman can get, so I wouldn't worry about her placing inclusion ahead of all other considerations. Third, if anyone is going to turn around the shitshow that is feminism, it's the ~10% of women that the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator test would classify in with "The Rationals". To that end, the…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/17 03:42 PM
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Maybe some women are ignorant of "Red Pill realities", but I doubt those are the women populating a board called Red Pill Women. If all you're doing in stewing in your own bitterness, at least take it over to TwoX where you'll fit in better.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/17 09:31 PM
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"it's complicated by the fact that many women live in denial of The Wall" Buddy, if you think any woman alive is ignorant of the effect aging has on their looks, then you know precisely nothing about women.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 02:30 PM
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For the record, I am that great.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 06:23 PM
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