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Photofeeler I'm kinda on the fence about: https://killyourinnerloser.com/tinder-guide-faq/#can-i-use-photofeelerother-sites-to-rate-my-photos Can I Use Photofeeler/Other Sites to Rate My Photos? Sure – a few of my mates do. Just take the results with a grain of salt. The girls on there are judging you for different criteria than they would on Tinder. On photofeeler, it’s more like “Is this guy attractive?” On Tinder, it’s more like “Would I have sex with this guy?” Those are similar, but not-exa…
/r/seduction26/07/20 10:25 AM
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Yeah - TanTan and Badoo especially, and also Hinge. Not me personally, but I've managed a few guy's profiles for them (one guy in Singapore, one in Malaysia), and also have a mate who lives in Singapore. My Singapore mate also tried Paktor but didn't really like it much. Tinder seems to do well too - but Tinder is good pretty much everywhere in the world. Just play around and try a few different apps - experiment and see what works for you.
/r/seduction26/07/20 10:24 AM
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You're entitled to your opinion.
/r/seduction24/07/20 10:51 AM
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^ All of this. Solid advice.
/r/seduction24/07/20 03:47 AM
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One word answers - I usually don't bother. It's too hard to keep a conversation going if you're basically only talking to yourself. If she's only giving 1-word answers, she may as well not even be there.
/r/seduction24/07/20 03:47 AM
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Then go be loved, I'm not stopping you dude.
/r/seduction24/07/20 01:36 AM
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Yeah it's in that article I linked to - or just google "goodlookingloser approach anxiety program". Some of the program is a bit outdated, but who gives a shit, it works.
/r/seduction24/07/20 12:49 AM
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Pretty fine, although I fell for a oneitis again. Thought that would never happen again, but I guess I still have to improve a lot about myself. Don't beat yourself up, nobody's going to be 100% perfectly red pill all the time. It's a self-improvement process, not a "be perfect" process. Being outcome dependent and having an abundance mindset with girls is easy to understand in theory, harder to do. Yeah my LTR is cool. RP as hell, very self-aware, very feminine and submissive and extremely cari…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 06:08 PM
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Yeah, I'm the same. Have had a lot of casual sex/short term relationships in the past and it always felt like "just sex". And that's all sex is - it's just sex. Feels fucking great and it's fun but it sounds like you're expecting it to be more than it is. It's like eating, playing video games, going to the gym, etc - just something you do. Some men are naturally going to love having (casual) sex. Some men aren't. Neither is right or wrong. If casual sex feels meaningless to you, don't overthink …
/r/askTRP23/02/15 03:32 AM
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Have thought about the shared flat idea a few times, but I'm living with my LTR. Your housemate sounds like a legend, I'm glad you've got her around. I sat down with my LTR yesterday and we wrote a list of "ground rules" for improving ourselves. Things to work on every day so I/we don't slip into lazy habits. It's so frickin' easy to fall into complacency, especially when you're in a relationship. How are things for you these days?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 02:12 AM
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Man, I'm in the same place as you right now. So much of what OP wrote is my life, including the bit about working in retail and being happy because of the social aspect. I used to have a retail job and loved it, now I work from home and it's slowly killing me. Heard of meetup.com? Pretty easy way to make new friends based on hobbies/interests.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 09:36 PM
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You're confusing protein and fat ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) (Your point still stands, fat has more calories than protein)
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 07:26 PM
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Yeah, took me a while to realise that. My own version of solipsism, I guess. I couldn't imagine wanting to be a victim, so I assumed others wouldn't want to be a victim either.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:45 PM
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Not advocating this He's been told to stay away from her on campus. Nothing about "accidentally" bumping into her around town. (Not that you'd want to.)
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:20 PM
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Shit bro, you look EXACTLY like this guy who owes me $50. Can I have it now? Thanks
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:18 PM
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It sounds like a cry for help. You see the same thing with the "fat acceptance movement" and Healthy At Any Size movement. I see both of those as a cry for help. But try and help them, give them genuinely helpful, caring advice and you get torn down for "hating women", "fatshaming", "blaming the victim". They are so invested in being a victim they don't WANT your help and in fact hate you for offering it. In my bluepill days I had a female friend who complained about EVERYTHING. I offered her so…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:16 PM
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Yeah and THOSE are the people who deserve support, help, love, etc. The, you know, actual victims. But they get less support than the SJW "regret rape" idiots who steal the spotlight all the time. The squeaky wheel gets the oil. Sometimes it takes ALL the oil, leaving none for any of the other wheels.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:10 PM
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And how long do you think it would stay divided? Women love invading male spaces. They see men having fun without them and want in. Rollo's take: http://therationalmale.com/2014/06/03/male-space/
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:06 PM
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1 million dollars says she wasn't even raped in the first place. (Man, I'm cynical. Thanks feminism for diluting the meaning of the word rape.) Also, why the fuck don't these "victims" or "survivors" or whatever they're calling themselves these days get counselling? It's like they WANT to keep their PTSD and be triggered all the time. It's a badge of honour that makes their dull life meaningful in a twisted way.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 07:11 AM
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Define "emotionally abusive"
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 04:27 PM
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Yeah, the loss of attraction in a relationship that was previously sexual is the hardest thing for blue-pillers to accept. In my blue-pill days I was a needy, overweight, pathetic loser with no friends and no life. For all intents and purposes, I was an omega who somehow found anotheromega. My ex definitely stopped being attracted to me after a while, but I couldn't see that the problem was me. I kept making pathetic attempts at sex, tried to negotiate desire, tried begging, tried emotional mani…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:32 AM
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Yeah, the effort is what counts. At the start of our relationship, my LTR really wanted to cook for me. But she didn't have a whole lot of practice, so ended up ruining a LOT of meals. She was always embarrassed, apologising over and over. I'd always say "I don't give a shit if we have to toss this out and order takeout - the fact you made this for me is fucking amazing." The other benefit of saying thanks and encouraging your LTR even when she fails is eventually she'll get damn good at it. My …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 11:48 PM
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Good reply. Something even more important to keep in mind: it's HOW she turns down sex which is what's important. Two scenarios: You initiate. She pushes you away rather coldly, barely looking at you. Doesn't give any explanation, ignores you for the rest of the night. Doesn't seem to acknowledge or care about your needs/desires. You initiate. She apologises and says she can't tonight. Snuggles up to you and says she feels bad for not being able to have sex, starts kissing you then goes down and…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 11:36 PM
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Yeah, this. My girlfriend is a fantastic listener but things that blow my mind tend to only mildly interest her. Gotta learn to overcome that "Wow I have to share this with her!" instinct. That Lincoln stuff is interesting as hell, by the way.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 01:42 AM
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Even better: Throw her down and fuck her brains out, then afterwards when she's panting and catching her breath, "I know."
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 08:04 PM
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Good man. I started stronglifts myself 3 months ago. Just like you, started with the empty olympic barbell, could barely do that. Embarrassing as hell. Just know it gets easier the more you do it. You'll be amazed how quickly you progress if you follow the plan properly and have solid diet + sleep. Keep us updated, you fucking legend.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 07:53 PM
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You're right, men hate competition
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 11:25 PM
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The "REAL men" cliche can be unhelpful; we get enough of that from women screeching the "man up!" crap. What you mean is a "good man", not a real man. Dark Triad psychopaths are still real men, they're just not "good" men. Read Jack Donovan's "The Way of Men" for more on men who are good vs men who are good at being men. I get the point you're making though.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:05 AM
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Cheers for the update. I'm thinking she won't learn her lesson, some beta guy will get hard over her snapchats and let her sleep in his bed (while he takes the couch, of course) in the hopes she'll sleep with him. She'll rationalise all this as your cousin being a mega asshole who used her and dropped her when she "needed him the most". That's not important though. Your cousin now has evidence of his own self-worth and strength and is on the path to full red pill awareness. He will approach life…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/14 07:01 AM
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What the hell is he going to do with a bunch of clothes, makeup and 50 pairs of shoes?
/r/TheRedPill30/10/14 04:31 AM
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