hapylittlepupppy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
284	As distressing as it is we need to learn about red pill men. Secrecy is part of their MO.	MALE DEPRAVITY	hapylittlepupppy	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/21 04:47 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	This shit has to stop… It doesn't matter what happens out in the world, people in the red pill will find a way to blame women for this and make the red pill the solution. It's only going to get bigger. Early intervention is our best option and men need to be the ones leading the charge.	/r/ExRedPill	25/04/26 03:08 PM
9	“Multiply the number by 3” It comes down to dehumanisation, in both a micro and macro sense. In the micro sense, it allows these men to rank the women they know and treat each one accordingly, e.g. a woman who says five (which means fifteen) can be tossed away the second he's done with her, while a woman who says zero (3x0 is 0) gets to be the Madonna in the Madonna/whore complex. In the macro sense, it's saying that women as a group are liars and whores, and therefore it's okay to treat them badly. It points to a deep-se…	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/26 01:28 AM
7	I've been cold approaching on and off since 2020's autumn... I did have fulfilling relationships though. By your other comments, these relationships ended after a relatively short amount of time and if what you were doing was working, you'd be in another one already. I don't see them so. How did you figure I see them as prospects? Because you lost count of the number of women you've talked to with the sole purpose of gaining a relationship. We all have something to fix, I think, and I don't think we'll be able to fix everything in life. And I've tried the…	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/26 11:12 AM
19	I've been cold approaching on and off since 2020's autumn... Put all your energy that you've put into cold approaching into learning social skills. You're never going to have a fulfilling relationship if you only see women as relationship prospects, which is the impression I'm getting. You may have something that you need help fixing, like social anxiety, in which case a therapist will do you wonders. No one intrinsically knows who to act in soical circles, it's something you learn. Also, this just reads like a red pill field report, not an exredpill post…	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/26 12:14 AM
4	When women actions align with certain claims about redpill Think of your brain like a man walking into the woods, the more you take one path (a way of thinking) the easier it becomes. The human brain loves easy so it will take the easy path which is in your case looking at behaviours with suspicion when there could be a million better explanations. You did it here, you ask why women pick different partners as they age. The answer is that they have matured in the wants and goals and are picking men who align with them. You are not seeing women picking "n…	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/26 02:35 PM
2	I believe that my sixteen year old brother has been red-pilled. Open to interpretation, I’d love to chat. Your concerns are very valid. He needs intervention that you can't give him. You need to bring up your concerns to your mother and explain how dangerous the red pill is, don't pull punches show her clips of men like Andrew Tate talking about women so your mum know what your bother is into. It's hard to say what the future holds, your brother might see sense as he matures and be ashamed of his actions, he might also turn out like your father. Preventing him from repeating history is something tha…	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/26 03:32 PM
2	Seeking Participants for a Research Study on Online Political Communities I'm happy to help out.	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/26 08:09 AM
41	my oneitis You cannot control others, only yourself. Answers to questions like why the relationship continued will come from therapy, we can only speculate because we don't know your all the thing that contribute to staying with a toxic person/in a toxic relationship like upbringing, culture and personal traumas. Using a red pill term like oneitis on an ex red pill subreddit isn't all that helpful because these terms are designed to have a twistable meaning. What do you mean by oneitis? Try to name your ex…	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/26 02:59 PM
10	Self-Improvement Youtuber Hamza has now gone to promoting hurting other people via aggression, specifically women, as a "masculine goal", because "they secretly like it". How far is this going to go? I don't think he ever uses the word woman; it's always girl but he uses the word man. I'm utterly horrified at the video, and I don't have the words to express how scary men like this are. He talks about choking, but that's when you have something lodged in your airway stopping you from breathing; what he's talking about is strangulation, and there's no safe way to do it. I read the comments, too; I wish things were different; I'm scared for the women who are going to encounter men who think thi…	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/24 02:49 AM
1	What's the point of ditching the black/red pill when nothing will change You're committing two logical fallacies, whataboutism and a false comparison. Not wearing clothing, has nothing to do with not getting sex.	/r/ExRedPill	21/02/24 04:44 AM
2	What's the point of ditching the black/red pill when nothing will change Yes if you are in a cold climate. You also legally have to wear it outside, if you don't you'll end up being charged with indecent exposure. What a stupid comparison.	/r/ExRedPill	19/02/24 04:00 PM
22	Red pill tries to strip you of your humanity. The light the red pill paints men in is terrible. You are 100% right; you can't be a human when you're a man in the red pill. I've never once seen any of the main commentators show real joy; Tate basically preaches that you shouldn't be happy as a man because that means you're not grinding. The way they say men are, makes men sound like monsters. The amount of shame I felt and still feel from the red pill is real for having basic human emotions. Shame is an outside force; it's the judgement of o…	/r/ExRedPill	14/02/24 08:45 AM
35	Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights. So many great points. I've noticed a recent uptick of people commenting on this sub that the red pill isn't inherently misogynistic and that it's a small handful of creators, but these people fail to see the origin of the movement and its underlying attitudes. They never question who started it or who's driving it (Rollo is another example) they only go based on the fact that they don't think they see misogyny. Good on you for pointing this out.	/r/ExRedPill	11/02/24 01:24 AM
3	I made friends with girls and I love it. Good for you!	/r/ExRedPill	10/02/24 10:11 AM
17	What's the point of ditching the black/red pill when nothing will change Go back and read my reply again, I did answer it. As long as you stay hung up on other people's lives, you will be miserable, comparison is the thief of joy.	/r/ExRedPill	09/02/24 12:26 PM
17	What's the point of ditching the black/red pill when nothing will change You're not a ten-year-old, this isn't about what other people can get away with. These Chads aren't getting with anything, if they were there, wouldn't be Facebook groups dedicated to sharing the info of local assholes. It doesn't matter about other people do, your morals are only about you. Where do you draw the line? It sounds like it's not about what's right, it's about doing whatever you want. If you could get away with DV or sexual assault, would you do it because you feel other people can?	/r/ExRedPill	09/02/24 12:17 PM
22	What's the point of ditching the black/red pill when nothing will change Maybe because women are people, and the red pill states pretty clearly that they're not. The point of ditching it is because it hurts women, and that's a bad thing.	/r/ExRedPill	09/02/24 08:59 AM
36	What's the point of ditching the black/red pill when nothing will change You will die with food, water, shelter and safety; you won't die if you don't get sex. It's not a need, it's a want.	/r/ExRedPill	09/02/24 08:52 AM
–	16F ..brother who is 30M is a raging nigcel This is a great time to learn that it is not your place to fix the men I'm your life. He's a grown adult and you should be focusing on school, your future and having fun.	/r/ExRedPill	26/01/24 12:12 PM
8	Is any form of algorithmic dating advice generally bad? Using steps to gain a relationship is disingenuous and treats the other person like someone to win rather than a human being. Relationships should be built on connection and genuine affection but you can't do that when you're following a list of things you "need" to do. You also have to take in the wider context of what "getting what you want" means, more often than not this kind of dating advice goes hand in hand with manipulating someone inexperienced or too trusting to see they're not dealing…	/r/ExRedPill	26/01/24 12:49 AM
21	Woman's have a easier life? There is a belief amongst some people that homeless women can offer their company in exchange for housing, think those creepy roommate ads where single men ask for women only applications. Lots of red pill people also use the fact that there are more homeless men than women to point to the fact that homeless women receive more support.	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/24 12:07 PM
14	Women don't see guys. They see worlds At least for me, this is very wrong. Life is rough; it can take a life-changing turn in an instant, and someone's world can be turned upside down, and it's the person that matters. You can have everything going for you, and another driver runs a red light, and that all goes away, and all that's left behind is the person. People age, get sick, lose their jobs, lose family members and friends. Which book and who wrote it? If you're going to use it as a source, people need to be able to scrutinise …	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/24 10:33 AM
46	Woman's have a easier life? Copying and pasting my comment from a thread just like this a week or two ago The leading cause of death of pregnant women is homicide Gender bias in medicine puts women at risk on multiple levels Contrary to popular belief, homeless women don't have it easier, they are sitting ducks for sexual assault Lack of access to period products can increase the risks of poverty Women and girls die because of some cultural practices around periods being seen as unclean. Rape is a common tactic of war wome…	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/24 07:54 AM
5	EX gf going to skiing roadtrip with girls At least one person is going to get windburn and walk around beet red the whole time; someone's going to eat shit at least once, and with any luck, they're going to have a lot of fun. She's your ex; it's none of your business what she's doing with her free time or her body. Life is so much better when you feel happy for other people, if you can't be happy for her, then don't dwell on it because you're going to make yourself miserable.	/r/ExRedPill	19/01/24 09:29 AM
38	I can’t Un-RP myself The brain isn't fully developed until 25, the idea that women peak at 20 is a way of pressuring young women into relationships where they can be manipulated. The line that many women use when talking to younger women about older men is "Women his age won't fall for his bullshit." It's very very true, as we gain experience, many of us learn to spot the the red flags that abusive men have and thus avoid them. If you break the red pill down to its core belief then what you have is a deep-seated hat…	/r/ExRedPill	18/01/24 09:48 PM
6	How many of you dated cluster B women? In helping professions, they use person-first language, so cluster B women become women with personality disorders; while it may be a small change, it makes what you're asking so much clearer. No one is perfect; to be diagnosed with a personality disorder, you have to have multiple traits of that disorder; this is because many people have traits of disorders and are otherwise functioning. This then means that the things you listed aren't the whole picture; someone can be dramatic and always tryi…	/r/ExRedPill	16/01/24 01:41 AM
19	Disengaging from negative thoughts I always agreed about their point of women having easier lives The leading cause of death of pregnant women is homicide Gender bias in medicine puts women at risk on multiple levels Contrary to popular belief, homeless women don't have it easier, they are sitting ducks for sexual assault Lack of access to period products can increase the risks of poverty Women and girls die because of some cultural practices around periods being seen as unclean. Rape is a common tactic of war women are more of…	/r/ExRedPill	12/01/24 05:00 AM
1	I guess the dose makes the poison? Cherry-picking is not the answer to a toxic belief system.	/r/ExRedPill	10/01/24 11:52 PM
1	I guess the dose makes the poison? My actual biggest problem with Redpillers in general: .) Many of them act like and/or want the majority to think that they do not or cannot get feelings for girls/women, let alone falling in love with them, that is especially meant for certain "Redpill-Preachers" on Youtube. If there is one thing I´ve learned in my 48 years so far: Love hits you and there ain´t no "mindset" or online-tutorial to shut that feeling off or making sure it never happens ever again. It is called "Evolution" and there …	/r/ExRedPill	09/01/24 04:01 AM
40	Is escortmaxxing a good way to deal with emotional pain, have fun, and be adventurous in life whenever I’m feeling lonely, will it ruin my chances of finding a long term relationship, and will bragging about it on social media make the women who know me jealous? If you bragged about participating in such an exploitive industry I would never speak to you again. Women are not a rehab for your emotional issues, that's what therapy is for.	/r/ExRedPill	08/01/24 12:32 PM
43	My Dating experience has red pilled me Yeah, that shouldn't make you red pill. You don't get to hate women because she didn't live up to your expectations.	/r/ExRedPill	29/12/23 06:08 PM
32	My Dating experience has red pilled me Women are human, just like men. We have flaws and some of them are pretty big, if your one encounter is turning you red pill, the issue is you.	/r/ExRedPill	29/12/23 06:04 PM
2	Crosspost: Bodytypes women are attracted to Muscles over a certain point are scary, even worse if it's clear they're on roids. I think there's a happy medium with everything physical. However, cleanliness, manners and good behaviour only go one way.	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/23 09:23 AM
20	I have this conspiracy theory about redpill While you're picking up on certain intersections, this isn't correct. The Red Pill came from the fact that the men in it believed that women having rights (power) was oppressing men. The red pill is a countermovement to the women's rights movement and sprung up in various countries online and spread like a contagion. The link to Islam and wealthy Arab regions is both a political and economic issue. Wealthy Arab countries are most often oil-based monoeconomics. This means that they are built on o…	/r/ExRedPill	11/11/23 10:00 AM
4	Question about women's ACTUAL response to seeing a man crying/being emotional I'm a woman, I was raised by a single mother with a boatload of internalised misogyny, I was taught that women cried when they wanted something and that you dealt with your tears in private. This was wrong, I acknowledge that she was never given space for her emotions so she thinks they're bad. I'm telling you this because I know the attitude I was raised with has not helped me, crying is healthy, and when in the right environment is an appropriate way to express intense emotions. For me, it's a…	/r/ExRedPill	20/10/23 12:34 AM
49	This is my list of Redpill/MGTOW beliefs. I need help with challenging them- the world right now seems to confirm them. Nobody meets with each other in person anymore. Dating apps are the only viable way to date. Most people I know from 25-35 who are married met in person, including my older sister, I only know one couple that met on a dating app and they actually met in person first, months before. Because of dating apps and social media, the majority of women now chase only the top-tier guys, whilst easily rejecting even moderately attractive and successful men. I imagine the people saying this don't talk to wo…	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/23 01:08 PM
29	Would you marry a bisexual girl? Reread your post, you've said all these wonderful things about her, and yet you still have this worry. How would you feel if someone sitting next to you said "Don't marry her, she bi so she'll whore around on you."? Or called her a slut to her face for just being bi. What about if they called her a slur? You say there's a stigma of bi girls being whores, but is that your feeling? I also go back to the saying that shame is a landfill emotion, which means that it's given to us like junk. If you do…	/r/ExRedPill	08/08/23 01:54 AM
13	Watching smash or pass face to face videos made me realize being short should count as disability in dating A relationship will not make you whole or happy. It won't make you feel better about your height or your face or anything else that you don't like about yourself. Asking someone to love you enough to replace self-love will make them resentful. Stop watching Brainrot, you are using these videos to reinforce these nasty inside thoughts and it's a form of self-harm. Get some help and stop obsessing about sex. Getting some hobbies that don't involve picking up women might help, even if you think oth…	/r/ExRedPill	19/06/23 01:02 PM
16	I am an incel according to the definition? Relationships and sex isn't something you do to someone, it's something you do with someone therefore, you should be fully ready and invested if you want to be in a relationship. I'm not saying your relationship should be your main focus or priority, I'm saying that you should be sure you want one before jumping in. but I am planning focusing on college Great, you've realised that you have far more important things to focus on, getting into a relationship right now would be unfair to both you an…	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/22 05:07 AM
5	Is it wrong to check and see if a girl gave me the right phone number? We die when we turn men down r/whenwomenrefuse	/r/ExRedPill	05/08/22 08:22 AM
6	The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red Pill I'm done dude. I have better things to do with my time than argue with you.	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/22 04:43 AM
6	The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red Pill Why should I befriend someone if they don't make me feel good? You can be someone's friend without romantic love. If romantic love is the only way you feel good with a woman my point stands. Disabled people and poor children deserve charity, not full grown women who don't find me attractive at all. As a person with a disability, this is fucking gross. Being a decent human being is not charity, you've basically just said you only want to be friends with women who you find attractive. I hope you n…	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/22 04:30 AM
2	The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red Pill You are incapable of seeing women as anything other than providers of love and validation. There will be no changing your mind, you are incapable of seeing a woman's side. You are incapable of handling your own emotions and self-esteem and you believe it's a woman's job to make you feel loved. You've made one point clear, you can't see women as anything other than a vagina because you can't see past what they can provide for you. I give up, you are incapable.	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/22 04:03 AM
4	The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red Pill I'm bi do you know how many times I've done this to me woman friends? ZERO FUCKING ZERO. Why? Because they are my friends and I value their friendship, not their romance or their bodies. The fact is if they didn't want sex, they would be fine with platonic love. If men want love they need to get it from inside first, Gods know women have had to with the way some men act. Your self-esteem is so unbelieve low and it's not going to be fixed if a woman loves you. STOP MAKING YOUR EMOTIONAL WELL-BEIN…	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/22 03:34 AM
3	The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red Pill This is a whole lot of words for "I see women as walking wet holes." It is utterly distressing thinking someone wanted to be your friend when they're just being nice to you to get into your pants. Humans are wired for social interaction, we form bonds but when women try to do it with men, most of the time it's thrown in our faces. It happened it me for the last time this year. I am done trying to make friends with men, this incident had me feel dirty, taken advantage of and stupid. I will not be…	/r/ExRedPill	26/05/22 03:10 AM
56	As distressing as it is we need to learn about red pill men. Secrecy is part of their MO. Ewww! I'm surprised he had the gall to climb out of his neck-beard nest.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/21 10:09 AM
45	As distressing as it is we need to learn about red pill men. Secrecy is part of their MO. In it's most simple form it's making someone constantly afraid of being left. Someone who is lonely or has low self-worth will go pretty far to not be abandoned.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/21 10:06 AM
24	As distressing as it is we need to learn about red pill men. Secrecy is part of their MO. It's not your fault. I'm glad it's not just me, I often feel like my fear is unwarranted because I haven't experienced the level of male violence that other women have.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/21 09:53 AM
103	As distressing as it is we need to learn about red pill men. Secrecy is part of their MO. I don't know if it's just confirmation bias but I'm seeing it more and it's genuinely terrfying. I'm convinced porn and a growing lack of shame has made men worse. I'm in my early 20s and I've heard more foul talk and misogyny in the last 3 years than I have in the last 16 years put together.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/21 08:09 AM
154	As distressing as it is we need to learn about red pill men. Secrecy is part of their MO. I imagine they want to keep it a secret because the steps that lead to red pill style abusive relationships are almost unnoticeable e.g. texting half as much or not as much, subtly talking about other arrangements or dropping going to the gym in a conversation (called dread game).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/21 06:27 AM
153	As distressing as it is we need to learn about red pill men. Secrecy is part of their MO. Yes, his slave. I believe normal people use the word girlfriend.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/21 06:08 AM
15	“Doesn’t like men” My dog Bones was severely abused, I got him at 5 months old and he was I foster care for 2 months before I got him. In the first 3 months of his life he suffered enough to traumatize him forever. He hates strange men, the only men can be be around without any fear is my best friends dad and a man who had multiple abused rescues. He's much better than when I got him because tall women used to scare him as well. He's such a sweet dog, he adores cats and wants to make friend with every cat he meets…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/21 12:34 PM
3	Already done with this hellsite Just finished it, it was amazing!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/21 03:02 AM
19	Chronic illness, CPTSD I'm a chronic migaines suffer and I've been sick I'm some way most of my life. My mother and maternal grandfather were the only people who believe me. My father who left when I was 4 weeks old did his best to discredit my mother every chance he got, he also forced me into sport, made me go camping, let me get sunburnt, didn't look after me when I was sick or in pain and allowed his girlfriend to "deal with my picky eating" which meant I was terrfied every time I ate near her. Becuase of this I s…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 02:15 PM
62	Already done with this hellsite I thought I could in the beginning. My reasoning was that I knew the movement was growing and I was see it more and more. They have this idea "don't talk about fight club" so a man will never say he's that way outright, in fact he will do his best not to show it. But it is important, a lot of their tactics are emotionally abusive and had I not know about them I ccould see myself missing the first stages of being subjected to them. Another reply mentioned a pod cast which I'm going to listen to a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 01:59 PM
45	Already done with this hellsite Thank you so much! I'm trying to know as much as I can about it since I want to be informed. At this rate I know their basic dogma and strategies but other that knowing about some of the men who wrote books I've have no idea where it grew from.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 01:53 PM
372	Already done with this hellsite Have a look at MGTOW and Red pill subreddits and it will shock and terrify you. I've never seen so much hate, in a lot of posts men are talking about women as if they were shit under their shoes rather than human beings. Reddit truly hates women. I can't believe said subs are still up when they are advocating for every kind of abuse on the planet. I've had to stop looking because it stared giving me panic attacks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 12:57 PM
32	Imagine thinking rape and necrophilia are perfectly hilarious material for your shitty bumper stickers. Someone please tell me this is edited. This might be a stretch but a lot of rape survivors who have to see the perpetrator everyday at school end up with failing grades. The way I see it he's saying "my kid destroyed your kid for being a smart girl/woman"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 02:13 AM
4	I found a new turn off for me: men not knowing the female anatomy down there (2:35). You have the internet, look up an educational diagram or read a book for christ’s sake! In Australia you get comprehensive sex ed (years 8 and 10 in highschool) we were given diagrams of both the males and female anatomy. Despite having the resources I was one of the only 3 out of a class of 30 that got 100% on the anatomy part of the test. Lack of education can be blamed for a lot of it but it's also just the fact that people don't give a shit. If you showed a lot of men a well labeled, updated diagram they still wouldn't bother trying to learn.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/21 02:26 AM
1	Is there an elaborate critique of the core red pill theories about how men and women "actually" are? As a woman I find some of the ideas are so far from what I think, feel and act that it makes me think the amount of women that actually interact with with tiny. They say "AWALT" but that can be extended to so many things that are arguable just as wrong but even more hurtful. I don't go into it because I have no desire to sprout racist or sexist lies. We are all unique and are shaped by the lives we have lived and the choices we make instead of what's in between our legs. I would not leave a part…	/r/ExRedPill	26/04/20 01:43 PM
3	This is just sad I think I read the same study for an assignment on community health and what influences drug use, it's what's seen as the accepted statistic even though when the prison population is factored in (at least in the USA) it's men and teenage boys who are at more risk or victimization. It's insane to say that any form of violation is worse than another, when I have had this argument I usually turn it back on them, I say that date rape musn't be bad at all because she wouldn't remember it and violent …	/r/MensRights	04/05/19 11:39 AM
3	This is just sad The 1 in 71 statistic is likely grossly understated as men are less likely to report an assault, not to mention that pressuring a man into sex seems to be far more acceptable than pressuring a woman. I'm female and I wholly belive that anyone can be raped and anyone can be a rapist. People who don't think men can be raped and who don't think women can be rapists have missed the point, rape isn't really about sex, it's about power and control and a deep seeded sense of entitlement that borders on…	/r/MensRights	04/05/19 11:15 AM