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In my experience, you gotta apply to a lot of places until someone gives you a chance. I live in the U.S.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 01:23 PM
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😆🤣
/r/MensRights30/08/23 01:15 PM
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Men, in general, are discriminated against, not just white.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 09:35 AM
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Feminists keep proving to me that they are all misandrists.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 09:18 AM
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Yeah.
/r/MensRights29/08/23 08:40 AM
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No, I don't complain.
/r/MensRights28/08/23 06:31 PM
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I have certain mechanisms in my mind that limit my loneliness.
/r/MensRights28/08/23 04:04 PM
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Right, I wouldn't have sex with her until marriage. She would also have to want the same thing.
/r/MensRights28/08/23 03:57 PM
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Yes, by choice.
/r/MensRights28/08/23 03:53 PM
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I'm a virgin. I believe in waiting for marriage. I don't think they would feel better.
/r/MensRights28/08/23 03:49 PM
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This experience is perfectly normal in dating. I don't think she was trying to be disrespectful.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 08:03 PM
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I agree. They were just incompatible.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 07:49 PM
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I think calling it parasitic behavior is too extreme. They weren't compatible.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 07:45 PM
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I'm sorry, bro, but this seems like a normal dating experience. You shouldn't give up just because some girls don't have chemistry with you.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 07:39 PM
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Yes, I believe in marriage. You gotta vet the woman properly.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 07:22 PM
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Literacy and nutrition are good things, but feminism is not needed for that. Good for you!
/r/MensRights27/08/23 12:47 PM
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blackpill or redpill Good post! I want to address these two concepts. I've watched some videos of Rollo Tomassi, who is the founder of the redpill. I think his worldview is pretty nuanced. Left-wing feminists assume that it is very black and white. The blackpill seems more black and white to me.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 07:40 PM
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You saw a few posts like that and assumed all posts are like that?
/r/MensRights25/08/23 05:10 PM
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No, I don't feel any hate. Your interpretation of some comments might be wrong. I don't generalize women.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 11:52 AM
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No, you're just ignorant.
/r/MensRights25/08/23 10:50 AM
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Men are disadvantaged in many ways, which can be interpreted as oppressed.
/r/MensRights24/08/23 04:40 PM
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Feminist morons continue to say men aren't oppressed.
/r/MensRights24/08/23 04:02 PM
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I think all feminists are misandrists. 😆
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/08/23 09:35 AM
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There are some women who know what they want.
/r/MensRights22/08/23 05:21 PM
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I don't agree with most of what you're saying, but whatever.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 05:42 PM
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People confuse compatibility with other stuff. It's better not to get divorced and potentially lose half your wealth.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 04:26 PM
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I think the elites have an agenda to get people divorced. They encourage premarital sex and promiscuity through the media. That increases the probability of divorce.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 04:17 PM
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I'm not against people having premarital sex. I believe it is self-destructive.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 04:08 PM
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But why? I don't know.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 04:07 PM
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I recently read a study that says premarital sex increases the probability of divorce for both genders.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 04:06 PM
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Promiscuity is feminist bullshit. They want people to get divorced.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 04:02 PM
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I wouldn't call it grooming. I agree with other stuff Jedidiah says.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 03:41 PM
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Your whole comment is bullshit. 😆🤣
/r/MensRights21/08/23 03:36 PM
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It's easy to figure out that the top 20% is subjective. There is no guy that most women find attractive. Actually, Rollo Tomassi said it's subjective. It's not my opinion.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 02:44 PM
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You're wrong about broke men, not being players. I don't give a fuck about how much sex others have.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 02:11 PM
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The top 20% is subjective for each woman.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 02:06 PM
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How could you be manipulated by the elites? By having premarital sex.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 01:29 PM
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I don't think people have to have sex first to know what they prefer.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 01:25 PM
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They encourage men to have a few partners.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 10:26 AM
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That's their loss.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 10:24 AM
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She is married, and she had premarital sex. I believe in waiting till marriage myself.
/r/MensRights21/08/23 09:31 AM
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You should also post this on LWMA to see what they think.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 08:50 PM
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I think Pearl is correct about the facts. I don't agree with her solutions.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 04:16 PM
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It's fucked up, they only tell men that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/23 01:55 PM
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Yeah, she is anti-manosphere. She believes a man should get married.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 12:19 AM
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There's always that right-wing woman or anti feminist woman they target. Feminists don't like Chloe Roma either. She is a left-winger and anti-feminist. Leftists appear to prioritize equality of outcomes whereas conservatives tolerate inequality of outcomes more. I am more conservative in this sense. liberate women from men I think they want to separate men and women. It's about power.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 11:15 PM
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There's always that right-wing woman or anti feminist woman they target. Feminists don't like Chloe Roma either. She is a left-winger and anti-feminist. Leftists appear to prioritize equality of outcomes whereas conservatives tolerate inequality of outcomes more. I am more conservative in this sense. liberate women from men I think they want to separate men and women. It's about power.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 11:15 PM
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I thought it was a woman. Lol 😆
/r/MensRights19/08/23 02:51 PM
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Another good post!
/r/MensRights19/08/23 02:37 PM
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Yes, that is true on dating apps.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 12:36 PM
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There's no evidence that 80% of women sleep with 20% of men.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 10:05 AM
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Oh yeah. We have to pretend everything is okay.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/23 07:56 PM
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That's so wrong!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/23 07:55 PM
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I'm also cautious around women I don't know. In person, people are more empathic with these issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/23 07:54 PM
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It's a misandrist sub like nothowgirlswork.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/23 10:54 AM
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It sounds like the commenters were assholes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/23 09:19 AM
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It's okay to insult misogynistic men with any words. However, most of the men in those groups are not misogynists. The left ignorantly believes they are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/23 10:20 AM
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It is only harassment if one persists after getting rejected.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/23 08:50 AM
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I'm currently seeing a male psychologist. I don't know how helpful it will be. I might have a mental illness.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/23 09:47 PM
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It's worth asking why people can't just ask "hey, you wanna fuck?" Most people are socially programmed to be risk averse and they don't wanna get their ego bruised. You might even get in legal trouble, especially if it's done uncouthly. I think that depends on which country. Alan Roger Currie made a video: MeToo demands that men should be more direct not less. In the U.S., it's not illegal to tell a woman you want to fuck her.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/23 11:52 AM
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How so?
/r/MensRights06/08/23 11:28 AM
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Yeah, I don't think most adults get drunk from 1 bottle of beer. They can still consent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/23 10:00 PM
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Yeah, that too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/23 05:33 PM
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I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/23 03:20 PM
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It depends on how drunk the person is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/23 11:17 AM
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Yes, putting women on a pedestal.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 11:14 AM
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She is confusing benevolent sexism with misogyny.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 01:00 AM
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I like the idea of getting off of social media. A loud minority of misandrists are here. I doubt most women in reality hate men.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 07:55 PM
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Both feminists and incels feel like victims. Feminists have told me there is a difference between them and misandrists.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 07:54 PM
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Feminists told me there's a difference between Feminists and misandrists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/23 10:43 AM
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Yeah, there is no way to guarantee a woman won't feel uncomfortable in the first approach.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/23 11:07 PM
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Some feminists study their ideology and wake up. Most don't.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 10:50 PM
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It's not your fault, fellow Indian.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/23 08:19 PM
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The real definition of harassment is continuing to persist after rejection. Even if a woman feels uncomfortable the first time, it's not harassment in my opinion.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/23 06:17 PM
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They don't know about that either.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 05:07 PM
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Most feminists don't know anything about feminism.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 03:58 PM
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No debating feminists and no dating them.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 03:40 PM
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I'm angry, too, and a lot of men here are probably angry, too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/23 09:33 AM
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Why do morons think anti-feminists are far right?
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:18 AM
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I might watch the movie when it comes out on streaming.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:12 AM
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According to Pew Research, about 60% of American women are feminists. Only 12% identify as strongly feminist.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:01 AM
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No, in his interviews, he clarified that some incels were not on forums.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/23 10:23 PM
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Yes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/23 10:16 PM
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I posted a link to William Costello's research in another comment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/23 09:37 PM
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Yes, involuntary celibacy causes mental illnesses.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/23 09:37 PM
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I'm not generalizing incels. The data says they have mental health issues. Misandry is a part of the problem.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/23 05:49 PM
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Sure, some men are unattractive, and they will never get laid. I don't believe in the "black pilled" bullshit that only good-looking men get laid. The successful men don't have mental illnesses, incels do. They have to take responsibility for their mental health. Women are not going to change their standards.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/23 10:37 AM
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Really? I am seeing a psychologist who doesn't seem anti-male.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/23 09:45 AM
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about a subject you know little about I know all the struggles men have in dating.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/23 12:29 AM
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Yes, men's mental health is not taken seriously.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/23 07:31 PM
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Exactly, it's a shit test.
/r/MensRights29/07/23 07:09 PM
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Some people make distinction between incel and involuntarily celibate. Incel is short for involuntarily celibate. Some women are mentally ill because most of them have been raped or assaulted What is the evidence for this?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/23 02:42 PM
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I'm sorry, I meant to say some men are lonely. I agree that lonely men are functional.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/23 02:34 PM
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I like the definition William Costello used in this abstract. To the average person, incels are misogynists because they only know about them through the media. In debates, "incel" means misogynist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/23 01:39 PM
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I said incels have mental illnesses that need to be addressed. Average guys are in relationships too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/23 01:03 PM
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He said he got banned.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/23 11:37 AM
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We don't think women are terrible. Feminism influences people's attitudes towards men and boys.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/23 12:11 AM
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Brilliant comment 👏!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/23 11:25 PM
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I agree with feminists that misogyny exists. I disagree with feminists about how to solve men's issues. Some feminists also deny the existence of misandry. I'm sorry for assuming you thought I was misogynistic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/23 11:19 PM
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Yes, there are genuine psychology tests for misogyny. Feminist psychologists developed them. You're implying I'm misogynistic for not spotting misogyny.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/23 11:02 PM
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If you think I'm a misogynist, you're wrong. I have taken a psychology test for misogyny and scored 0%.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/23 10:44 PM
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I notice misogyny when I see it. Some comments on that sub are mildly misogynistic. However, that doesn't prove the commenter is truly misogynistic or not. Feminism is an ideology that demonizes men nowadays. It used to be about getting equal rights for women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/23 10:24 PM
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There are a few egalitarian aspects to feminism. I disagree with most of the ideology.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/23 10:09 PM
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One of the mods of that sub is a regular participant here. He's also a leftist. He would remove misogynistic posts if there were any. It's okay to criticize women for toxic behavior. Feminism has made the world more toxic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/23 10:01 PM
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Well, some articles are legit like teachers raping students. The title says sex instead of rape. That is a real issue in society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/23 08:54 PM
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I haven't seen too many misogynistic comments at r/mensrights. It seems like you're seeing what you wanna see.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/23 07:46 PM
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Dumb feminist argument! 😆 Both men and women have misandrist views towards men.
/r/MensRights28/07/23 10:51 AM
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I'm not Christian. I heard from somewhere else about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 08:19 PM
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In the past, both men and women were expected to be virgins. It's contradictory to expect women to be virgins, while men sleep around.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 06:46 PM
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Society expects men and women to settle down. I am aware of the purity stereotype for men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 06:38 PM
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I don't think traditional stereotypes are about sleeping around for men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 06:12 PM
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Nope.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 05:31 PM
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hookup scene is reliant on traditional gender stereotypes Traditional gender roles are about getting married.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 05:29 PM
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There were some feminists who demonized men's sexuality like Andrea Dworkin. Overall, I don't think feminism wants men and women to be monogamous. Individual feminists will have different views. Feminists are the ones who use "incel" as an insult the most.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 05:20 PM
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I think feminism encourages both genders to be promiscuous.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 05:06 PM
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I acknowledge that some people become emotionally attached through hookups. I don't think every person does. The example of the 6'3 guy was inappropriate. Not all women will think it's creepy. Creepy is totally subjective.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 04:58 PM
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Yes, hookups cause emotional connection too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 04:46 PM
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Oh, she thought you rejected her. You weren't really being creepy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 04:15 PM
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The act of hooking up is supposed to be emotionless. Relationships are about forming emotional bonds. It's possible to develop feelings for someone you hook up with.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 04:03 PM
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Why would women think you're "creepy" if they were flirting, too?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 04:00 PM
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Yes, I can talk to women in public without them thinking I'm creepy. They don't have to be attracted to me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 03:55 PM
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Hooking up is objectifying because there's no emotional attachment. There's a difference between objectifying and treating women badly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 03:52 PM
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I agree 👍!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 03:22 PM
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These double standards are upheld by left wingers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 03:05 PM
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I was called a misogynist for saying I prefer not to date anyone older than me. I don't care. 😆
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/23 02:56 PM
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Maybe they got that vibe from you. I haven't seen the whole thread.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 06:45 PM
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That's why people called you racist. Preferring Indian women is not racist.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 06:43 PM
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I hate white women It is wrong to hate them.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 06:38 PM
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Karen Straughan was called an incel. 😆
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/23 06:04 PM
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Yes, it's an unpopular opinion. I think you should make the link np because the mods don't want brigading.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 05:36 PM
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I'm Indian-American, and I get upvotes for saying I prefer Indian women.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 05:29 PM
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Your post might get removed. Where are you from?
/r/MensRights26/07/23 05:24 PM
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I don't know about title XI. I'll have to look it up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/23 05:16 PM
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Why is "incel" used as an insult?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/23 04:53 PM
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I don't think there should be a MeToo movement. If women feel they were sexually assaulted, they should just report to police directly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/23 04:06 PM
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Yes, it's real and many feminists are misandrists.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 01:27 PM
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Yeah, when I was at the party, the girl didn't think I was creepy at all. Feminists on social media think everything men do is creepy for some reason.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/23 01:10 PM
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I thought they wanted both genders to be promiscuous. 🤔
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/23 11:32 AM
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Tinder is for hookups. Hooking up is objectification of the other person. Promiscuity is a liberal value.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 11:13 PM
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I think men and women have different ideas of what is creepy. Women find a lot more things creepier.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 09:53 PM
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Actually, at least according to the very broadly written laws in Canada, I've been non-seriously sexually assaulted a couple times in my life. One time, back when I was working fast food, we were goofing around, and a colleague of mine jokingly patted me on my butt with a spatula. If he had patted me on my arm, we would all recognize that as a non-serious assault, and no one would think it appropriate for me to go to the police or something. If you knew he was goofing around, I wouldn't consider…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 08:49 PM
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My comment was directed at everyone in general. There might be feminists lurking here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 08:43 PM
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It's creepy if high status men touch women without consent, too. As a good-looking dude, I wouldn't touch women without knowing she is attracted to me. When I went to the party, I was able to tell the girl was okay with it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 05:54 PM
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I think that law can be misused. What if you tap someone on the shoulder to tell them something?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 05:48 PM
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You quoted me but responded to the other guy. Your girlfriend thinks muscles are creepy? No, the guy in the Tinder experiment was not toxic because Tinder is for hookups. Feminists use toxic masculinity to downplay men's issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 05:43 PM
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Not creepy: A 6'3 gym bro saying "why don't you come over to my house and sit on my d*ck, b*tch" I don't think height automatically makes a man less creepy. If he does inappropriate things, he will be seen as creepy. For most women, creepiness is totally based on how "high value" she considers the guy based on traditional gender role characteristics, which is a very flawed system. Yes, it's based on being "high value", but not necessarily traditional gender roles. I already said in my post that …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 01:31 PM
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my perception of modern straight dating is that women just think men are naturally threatening, I think that depends on how much the woman has bought into the "men are rapists" stereotype. Many feminists don't have a nuanced view about rape.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 01:03 PM
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Feminists are not aware of their own bigotry. It's important to let them know about it. Criticizing feminism is not the same as hating women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 12:44 PM
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Creepy just means scary. If a woman thinks a man is intimidating, it's creepy to her.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 11:14 AM
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Exactly, it's their job.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 11:07 AM
1

Most millennials also go for it.
/r/MensRights25/07/23 11:07 AM
5

"creepy" is subjective I agree. Sometimes, people project it and make it seem objective.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 11:04 AM
1

Looks are definitely important. I follow a dating coach who is handsome. He said looks are only 1 factor, which allowed him to get laid. Most good-looking guys would also say the same thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 01:19 AM
0

Not creepy: A 6'3 gym bro saying "why don't you come over to my house and sit on my d*ck, b*tch" This indicates to me that you don't know what women are attracted to. My guess is that they picked up on the fact that you are not a "gigachad" kind of guy from your writing style or something They assumed that I touched the girl without her consent. They didn't know she gave me non-verbal consent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/23 12:26 AM
1

I agree.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 07:45 PM
1

Smiling doesn't necessarily denote consent or that there isn't discomfort. I agree.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 07:45 PM
4

I do think the example above could have been creepy, especially if the women looked The actress was smiling.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 06:54 PM
1

That's what porn does all the time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/23 11:34 AM
8

🤮
/r/MensRights23/07/23 07:38 PM
1

We understand feminism pretty well here.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 07:00 PM
2

Yeah, exactly! It's wrong to be paranoid and think everything is misandrist. Feminists did that with misogyny, and it lost its meaning.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 06:49 PM
1

Everyone will have different opinions about the movie. As an MRA, I don't think it was misandrist. I haven't seen Barbie and I don't want to.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 10:59 AM
0

I have only seen the remake of I Spit on Your Grave. Maybe that old one is different.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 10:46 AM
88

Misandrists think misandry is normal. 😆
/r/MensRights23/07/23 09:50 AM
-4

Yeah, that type of movie wouldn't get released. However, I Spit on Your Grave is not a misandrist movie.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 09:49 AM
7

I have seen the movie. The girl gets raped in the woods. Then she kills the men who raped her.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 09:29 AM
-6

I Spit on Your Grave This movie is not misandrist.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 09:11 AM
0

become hostile to women I haven't seen that here. Mods delete those posts. feminists absolutely do not hate men Yes, they do.
/r/MensRights23/07/23 09:02 AM
2

I meant to say it shouldn't be exclusively left or right wing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/23 11:10 PM
1

I don't cross the street when I see a woman on the same side as me. If I'm walking on one side, it's because I have to go to a restaurant or store.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 06:36 PM
5

Yeah, many people think it's less harmful when women do it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/23 06:13 PM
1

They want you to stop supporting men's rights and become a feminist. In other words, you shouldn't care about men's issues.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 05:59 PM
5

Yeah, a feminist accused me of hating women because she read my posts here.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 05:48 PM
6

I was downvoted on a "progressive" sub for saying two girls groped me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/23 05:40 PM
13

Yes, and the media acts like rape only occurs to women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/23 01:45 PM
17

The feminist media wants to garner more sympathy for women than men. The sexual assault is definitely horrible, and those people should be punished. However, it's also a tragedy that those men died trying to protect the women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/23 12:41 PM
1

Yeah, thank God I don't live in India, bro. I'm Indian-American.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 09:11 PM
1

Yeah, but I think this sex trafficking is even worse. These women are psychopaths.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 09:10 PM
1

So did I, but it's not easy to lie on it like you implied with your previous comment.
/r/MensRights17/07/23 01:19 AM
1

No, it's not easy.
/r/MensRights16/07/23 09:52 AM
1

https://www.idrlabs.com/ambivalent-sexism/test.php
/r/MensRights15/07/23 07:58 PM
1

I disagree, I think she is sincere. She's just going about it differently.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 07:52 PM
1

crossing the street and avoiding eye contact I never cross the street because I have to go to a store or restaurant on that side.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 07:47 PM
5

I care about women's rights, too. Feminists exaggerate some of the issues women face.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 07:35 PM
6

I agree.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 03:07 PM
2

I don't internalize what they say.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 02:08 PM
2

I don't listen to them.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 02:02 PM
16

Some feminists believe women are capable of rape, but they do it less than men.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 01:34 PM
1

Here it is.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 12:19 PM
8

You want us to comment on redditrequest?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/07/23 12:58 AM
1

Oh ok.
/r/MensRights14/07/23 09:15 AM
12

Misogyny is not systemic.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 11:47 PM
1

Exactly, he's just a feminist simp. Lmao
/r/MensRights13/07/23 10:49 PM
1

It's sex trafficking.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 10:10 PM
1

I'm Indian-American. My aunt told me all Indian women are perfect angels. You're shattering my worldview.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 10:06 PM
2

It's sex trafficking.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 10:03 PM
49

Misogyny is a word used by misandrists to hate men. I recently took a misogyny test and scored very low on it.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 09:57 PM
35

My advice is not to post on Reddit for support. Talk to people in real life.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 09:17 PM
6

Sorry, but that's a weird analogy 😅.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 09:12 PM
41

Yeah, feminists ignorantly believe that.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 11:20 AM
1

In what ways?
/r/MensRights08/07/23 10:22 PM
18

Reddit has a misandrist bias.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 07:56 PM
2

I don't think it's always superior. Some people from South Asian cultures stay in bad relationships. Some western couples break up for minor reasons. Both cultures have their own sickness. I think a healthy divorce rate would be 10-20%.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 04:27 PM
3

According to the data, there isn't much difference between how much love couples experience in arranged marriages vs love.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 04:24 PM
1

Yeah, but therapists aren't supposed to inject their values into you.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 02:42 PM
1

You think patriarchy exists in the east?
/r/MensRights08/07/23 02:39 PM
2

What type of therapist says that?
/r/MensRights08/07/23 12:24 AM
2

You're totally right!
/r/MensRights07/07/23 08:56 PM
1

They comment on my posts. I don't go out of my way to argue with them. It's important to discuss whatever we can with them.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 08:24 PM
6

They're trying to make men feel insecure.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 01:25 PM
2

This is Reddit, we're here to discuss moron.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 08:51 AM
18

Karen Straughan (married woman) was also called an incel.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 11:49 PM
122

Arguing with feminists.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 10:31 PM
5

Are you serious?! HAHAHAHAHAHA! Thanks for making me laugh.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 10:30 PM
1

I was thinking about whether I should tell my future partner that I'm not a feminist. I think it's best to say you believe in equality but you don't identify as a feminist. Don't commit suicide over this. It's better that she left you. She doesn't believe in equality.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 10:22 PM
1

I heard from Simon Baron Cohen PhD that autistic people have more emotional empathy than cognitive empathy. That is why they have trouble reading social cues. I don't know how masking would work in that.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 12:36 PM
2

good to support feminists that oppose double standards in feminism. I haven't seen any of these.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/23 10:14 AM
28

Most feminists are normal people who are misguided. Some of them are narcissists and psychopaths.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 12:36 AM
1

Yeah, but they still wouldn't genocide men. They want men to be their simps.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 05:35 PM
4

I didn't know about this. Cool!
/r/MensRights30/06/23 05:13 PM
1

You're an incel... By using "incel" as an insult, you're implying men should be valued for their sexual prowess.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 01:10 PM
2

They opposed gender neutral rape laws in some countries. They also don't think men are disadvantaged in many ways.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 12:57 PM
2

I do acknowledge that women have struggles presently. I don't have to believe in a patriarchy to acknowledge that. Feminists are already addressing women's issues. They also undermine men's issues. They look at the men in the top 1% and believe men don't have issues.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 12:39 PM
2

I support women's rights, too.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 12:31 PM
2

I have no "incel" views. I hate most feminists because you guys have abhorrent views about men. It gives me more reason to remain voluntarily celibate.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 12:26 PM
1

Not an incel, but nice try!
/r/MensRights30/06/23 12:22 PM
2

We also can't assume most women are "good."
/r/MensRights30/06/23 12:14 PM
6

We can't assume most women love men.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 11:07 AM
4

Yes, but the chances are pretty low because men wouldn't sit back and take it.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 11:05 AM
1

Though it's hard to say which gender is treated worse, I would say neither have it too good. It's not hard to tell which gender is treated worse. All the data says men are treated worse in most aspects.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 11:01 AM
7

No feminists aren't going to do anything. Men, in general, are stronger than women. Let these women bitch online.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 12:13 AM
3

Good post!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/23 03:52 PM
1

I can show you data about men being disadvantaged in certain aspects. Women are also disadvantaged in some aspects. I don't have to believe in a patriarchy to know that.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 03:40 PM
1

So women being forced to marry young isn't the patriarchy? That is very rare nowadays. It's not patriarchy. Women being forced to bear children in America without rights to abortion (which was mostly voted for by men) isn't the patriarchy? No. The massive domestic violence rate against women is all just a massive coincidence, right??? The domestic violence rate is almost equal between men and women. And of course masculinity can be toxic just like femininity can be toxic. Neither is toxic.
/r/MensRights27/06/23 09:21 PM
1

The keywords are "women's rights." Feminism doesn't care about men.
/r/MensRights27/06/23 09:17 PM
1

It's an ideology that demonizes men.
/r/MensRights26/06/23 04:59 PM
1

Masculinity can never be toxic, but some men do bad stuff. They are just toxic men. The average man doesn't have more power than the average woman. That's why patriarchy doesn't exist.
/r/MensRights26/06/23 04:58 PM
1

That's egalitarianism, not feminism.
/r/MensRights26/06/23 09:17 AM
3

No, they don't exist.
/r/MensRights26/06/23 12:46 AM
1

I'm a member of that sub. I was talking about other left wingers.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 05:45 PM
2

Because men are plain bad at presenting their cause (quality posts here are rare, most content is just incoherent rambling inside an echo chamber "women bad"), No, there are lots of good posts here.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 05:35 PM
2

Okay.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 03:30 PM
3

Everyone who gets married is following traditional gender roles to a certain extent.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 03:27 PM
4

While liberals may pander to feminists more, neither party has proven a supporter of equal rights for men overall. Yeah, that's why I think the MRM should be apolitical.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 02:48 PM
23

You'll find very few MRAs that don't believe in equality. You'll find very few feminists today that do. Feminism now is all about power and revenge. Exactly!
/r/MensRights25/06/23 02:47 PM
1

Regarding the domestic violence issue, most women are probably not taught to not hit men.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 12:03 PM
1

Some people still believe that if a man sees a woman in revealing clothes, he will be tempted to rape her.
/r/MensRights23/06/23 04:42 PM
6

where women have to cover themselves up in black bags It might limit women's freedom, but it demonizes men's sexuality. They are implying that men cannot control their sexual impulses.
/r/MensRights23/06/23 10:38 AM
1

Oh, I see.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 09:43 PM
2

I didn't know you also follow Rollo?
/r/MensRights19/06/23 09:06 PM
3

They think you're entitled to sex if you complain. However, loneliness is experienced by everyone.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 09:01 PM
1

I haven't read his books, but he does claim to cite sources in them. Sometimes, he does cite sources in his podcast. When it comes to dating, I think redpill is the most accurate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/23 10:20 PM
1

Hahahaha 😆! I just go by what the data says.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/23 04:01 PM
11

I'm a left winger as well, but now I only identify as an egalitarian. Yes, feminists are pretty vicious.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 12:41 PM
8

Good data, unfortunately feminists will remain delusional.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 08:56 AM
-3

According to Rollo Tomassi, it's a praxeology.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/23 07:35 PM
0

RP is not an ideology.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/23 01:27 PM
1

I don't think they will ban us.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 09:35 AM
2

Yes, they are toxic.
/r/MensRights12/06/23 11:37 AM
1

I never diagnosed them.
/r/MensRights12/06/23 10:26 AM
3

The women who do that are the real narcissists. Narcissists run smear campaigns. Lol 😆
/r/MensRights12/06/23 09:28 AM
8

The enemy is people in power.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 01:29 PM
11

Yes, but misandrist women demonize men.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 01:22 PM
13

I think there are more women who hate men.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 01:02 PM
13

If men hate men, it is also misandry.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 12:57 PM
21

There you go with the feminist talking points.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 12:52 PM
4

Thanks!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/23 10:44 AM
18

I agree! Misandry also causes men to commit suicide.
/r/MensRights10/06/23 08:05 PM
8

You probably think it's funny to come here and manipulate us.
/r/MensRights09/06/23 05:32 PM
7

You're speaking a bunch of nonsense. You're probably just a feminist pretending like you're not.
/r/MensRights09/06/23 05:24 PM
1

I identify as 80% red pilled and 20% blue pilled, but not a MGTOW. I don't think it's anti-egalitarian.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/23 09:10 AM
1

Wow it's crazy they made boys apologize to the girls.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/23 11:34 PM
1

He doesn't promote MGTOW. He said MGTOW is black pilled.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/23 11:28 PM
1

My current psychologist is a man.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 12:11 AM
3

I wanted to start a discussion focusing on the idea that women are still largely expecting and pressuring men to live up to toxic and outdated gender roles. I think the emotional aspects of the gender role are toxic. Not all aspects.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/23 11:38 PM
4

I agree.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 09:39 PM
0

No, family conflicts.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 08:13 PM
0

Yeah, but psychologists are not supposed to brainwash people, are they? Maybe some of the therapies work better for women than men. I don't have mental illnesses, but I go to talk about other stuff.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 06:20 PM
2

Sorry about your friend. I go to a psychologist right now. He doesn't use any feminist stuff.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 06:08 PM
1

Nope, they're still feminists.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 10:25 AM
0

I learned from another source that emotional empathy requires experience. Cognitive empathy doesn't require experience.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/23 10:21 PM
1

Yeah, but some feminists do hate men.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 10:15 PM
6

“ Forget about American/Uk women, let the Chads/Tyrone’s/Chapos do them all! Save your money, stay healthy in all aspects of your life, and travel abroad. I have done it myself. Dating in South America is a life changer. Do it” A lot of subs don't allow incel terminology. Your advice is also kind of bad.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 10:11 PM
1

Yep.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 09:48 PM
1

It is. Empathy is based on past experiences.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/23 04:57 PM
1

Men and women have different experiences. To have empathy, they have to experience the same things we do. They can have sympathy, though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/23 04:33 PM
0

😆
/r/MensRights05/06/23 04:21 PM
3

She was implying that cooking for a man is slavery.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 01:26 PM
1

Yeah.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 10:18 AM
0

Yes, there are women who will share the chores.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 10:46 PM
3

No only straight relationships.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 03:59 PM
20

There are some women who sympathize with us. We should trust them. Most good women are nice and avoid conflict. They don't say bad things about men, but they don't fight misandrists either.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 02:00 PM
8

That is idealistic dating advice. It looks good on paper, but doesn't work in reality. Then again we can't rely on others to give "good" dating advice.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/23 12:39 PM
5

Exactly!
/r/MensRights04/06/23 12:27 PM
3

🤣🤣
/r/MensRights04/06/23 11:31 AM
5

Yes, there are fewer female incels. I have seen femcel used as an insult, but it's probably not going to offend them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/23 10:09 AM
10

Yes, we need women's support. I think a lot of women already understand men's issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 11:03 PM
12

Yeah, people who use incel as an insult are ignorant. There's no point in discussing anything with them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 11:00 PM
1

Incel is a gender neutral word.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 05:52 PM
38

I made a post on men's rights about the "incel" word being a type of gaslighting. They want us to believe something about ourselves which isn't true. A feminist said I must be a bad person, and that's why women don't like me. I told her that her assumption is totally wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 05:09 PM
2

Yes, by emotional, I mean them having more freedom and rights makes them feel good and powerful. They were given rights by egalitarianism not feminism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 03:22 PM
1

A few weeks ago, one coworker said my haircut is nice.
/r/MensRights03/06/23 12:51 PM
51

I don't try to make women understand men's issues because I don't need their validation. They should understand men's issues without us telling them. We as men should support each other, but some men keep fighting other men. I've been mocked by other men for having some flaws.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 12:00 PM
1

Some men become misogynistic after getting treated badly by women and vice versa for women. It's a negative cycle of hatred.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 12:58 AM
12

That Facebook group is allowed because we live in a gynocentric society. Women's experiences are seen as more valid. Are some of the guys on there toxic? Probably. Many of the guys they talk about are probably normal dudes. I think it's wrong to lie about normal dudes, just because they didn't like the date. It's a type of public shaming.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/23 12:18 AM
1

Yeah, there are some MRAs who say misogynistic stuff. Most of us are just normal guys.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/23 11:19 PM
1

Right, but I don't think that comment shows prejudice against women. It is kind of ignorant.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/23 10:21 PM
1

Yet I have to bend over backwards to show I'm not of the RedPill/MGTOW/Incel variety. I am learning about the "red pill" from Rollo Tomassi. I haven't read his books, but he says it's based on data. I don't agree with everything he says.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/23 10:19 PM
1

I think that comment is a generalization, but it's not misogynistic. He should've added the word some.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/23 08:54 PM
3

I have a friend who seems to be a left-wing feminist. I haven't asked her what her political views are. I think most women who identify as feminists do so for emotional reasons. It just feels good to them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/23 08:42 PM
21

Most people who are against feminism were feminists at one point. Then they realized it's not about equality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/23 05:44 PM
5

Hahaha, those feminists made bad arguments. 😆
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/23 05:40 PM
0

Feminists come here to downvote all the posts.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 03:23 PM
1

I meant to say all the women who know me think I'm a good person. Do you think men who don't believe in feminism are unable to get laid?
/r/MensRights02/06/23 01:27 PM
3

Are you saying men who don't believe in your religion (feminism) are unable to get laid? What definition of incel are you using?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/23 12:17 PM
1

Most of the downvotes are from feminists.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 09:22 AM
1

Sorry to hear that! I'm not on dating apps.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/23 04:21 PM
8

These stats make me feel sad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/23 10:18 PM
1

No, your assumption is wrong. Most women I met like me.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 06:35 PM
6

I haven't talked to her about men's issues. She doesn't seem to be a misandrist.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 09:27 AM
8

I already am friends with a feminist.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 09:13 AM
1

The more susceptible you are to those messages, the more likely you are to not be comfortable approaching a woman. I agree with you here. It takes people ignoring the messages to have people do the approaching. The first people those messages impact and have change their behaviour are the people who are not OK ignoring messages. The messages are created by misandrists, and most women are not misandrists. If good men want to get laid, they would have to ignore the messages. Quote me one, and anyo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/23 11:32 PM
1

Yeah, I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/23 05:02 PM
1

In America, we don't have those messages on the walls. We do have metoo and "toxic" masculinity, though. How do people in your country get into relationships? Dating apps?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/23 04:36 PM
1

I prefer to ignore the negative messages and take the risk because it's better than remaining single forever. There are non-creepy ways of expressing interest.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/23 04:27 PM
2

You are correct! The "incel" word offends me because I am not a misogynist. Nowadays, it is synonymous with misogynist. My self-esteem is not tied to how many women I sleep with. It wouldn't offend me if someone made fun of me for being celibate.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 04:16 PM
1

The men who are the most receptive to the message that any interactionwith women are harassment will refrain from interacting with women. We shouldn't assume all women will think it's harassment. We don't what know they're thinking. There are some misandrists who believe that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/23 12:31 PM
1

The best place to discuss this is MRA groups. Academia has a lot of censorship. I would avoid talking about these issues at work. The last woman I dated from the same social background, at some level, I think, simply antagonised all men, found them evil. I have a friend who seems to be a left-wing feminist. She claims to be raped by her ex. She doesn't hate men. I haven't talked to her about men's issues yet.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/23 11:37 AM
24

I would tell them, "We can focus on both gender's issues at the same time."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/23 11:15 PM
1

I partially agree with you. This kind of societal message does deter normal men from approaching. I think young girls only want hot guys to approach them. On the askfeminists sub, they have a rule that says you should only approach women who give signals first. If they look at you with lust, they think you're hot.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/23 12:41 PM
1

Yeah, I've watched notsoerudite. It's crazy that the left hates incels and criticizes men who take agency. I think it's better to take agency because women are not going to take initiative.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/23 12:03 PM
1

We had a discussion about involuntary celibates (which the left hates) on this sub. Autistic men are more likely to be involuntary celibate unless they learn good social skills.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/23 11:41 AM
2

I think most people are still sane, and they wouldn't think approaching women is harassment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/23 10:59 AM
1

The left also criticizes men for blaming things outside their control in dating. For example, they will say you can get a girlfriend even with autism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/23 10:51 AM
0

Most PUAs manipulate women. Indirect verbal game is manipulation. It's pretending that you want to be a woman's boyfriend and ghosting her after you fuck her.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/23 10:44 AM
2

If a woman asks me, I would be honest about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/23 12:33 AM
2

I also have some minor disagreements with Alan. For example, he says you should give women the impression that you have options even when you don't. I think you should be honest about not having other options. I also don't believe in the alpha/beta dichotomy. Mode 1 is definitely not for all men. It requires a lot of courage, confidence, and practice. I've heard of Nick Notas as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/23 11:16 PM
4

I follow Alan Roger Currie. He passed away recently, but all his teachings are out there. His Mode 1 approach is about being straightforward and honest with women, about your intentions. He was never accused of harassment even though he is black. Another good dating coach is Rom Wills. Left wingers probably have a disdain for male agency in dating, because some men have sexually harassed women. It doesn't mean all men will do that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/23 11:01 PM
10

I follow a dating coach who I trust and respect. It's not because I have bad social skills, but I enjoy learning from him. The best advice is to listen to someone you trust. Ignore other people. The definition of sexual harassment is vague. It says 'unwanted' sexual advances. How is a man supposed to know his advances are unwanted? The woman has to say no.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/23 04:42 PM
2

Personally, I think the MRM should be apolitical. There's nothing special about the left wing perspective. What is your understanding of the "red pill"?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/05/23 09:16 AM
13

It's funny that most feminists are gullible enough to fall for it. 😆🤣
/r/MensRights25/05/23 09:09 AM
9

Why do feminists say it is?
/r/MensRights25/05/23 08:56 AM
1

Some feminists might believe that. However, I don't think men are treated equally in society. Some feminists also opposed gender neutral rape laws in some countries. I'm not gullible enough to fall for the "feminism is for equality" bullshit.
/r/MensRights25/05/23 08:51 AM
3

That usually doesn't happen. Men don't call those women whores.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 05:48 PM
3

How do we know who they think is ugly?
/r/MensRights24/05/23 05:46 PM
2

Yes.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 08:32 AM
2

Some traditional women still do.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 11:52 PM
1

Yeah, some women have flirted with me at work. I didn't react to them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/23 11:35 PM
1

According to society, all incels are misogynists. Feminists group MRAs, misogynists, and incels together. They don't see any difference between them. How do you define misogyny?
/r/MensRights21/05/23 07:40 PM
1

Most people against feminism are normal; they just have a different worldview from feminists. I don't think most feminists are misandrists, but the prominent leaders are. Feminists on social media, vilify everyone who is against feminism. There is a YouTuber named Kidology who identifies as a feminist and a femcel.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 12:41 PM
2

You sound delusional, and you're not here to learn anything.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 10:54 AM
1

I made posts that talk bad about feminists. Feminists and women are not the same. There was only one post made by an incel here.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 10:53 AM
2

Haha, you're not here to learn anything. 🤣
/r/MensRights20/05/23 10:46 AM
1

Yes, I'm friends with a feminist. She is a good person.
/r/MensRights19/05/23 01:27 PM
34

Systemic misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/23 12:42 PM
1

Found the misandrist.
/r/MensRights19/05/23 10:44 AM
1

Yes, some of them are.
/r/MensRights19/05/23 10:43 AM
1

I don't know what an incel is anymore.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 01:18 PM
5

Thanks for sharing!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/05/23 12:09 AM
1

Yep.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:47 PM
1

I have watched interviews of women saying they don't prefer virgins.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 09:45 PM
1

Good data!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/23 09:06 PM
2

Yes.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 02:30 PM
21

People don't really understand what this sub is about. They think being antifeminism is against women's rights. 🙄😆🤣
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:37 AM
1

I agree.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 10:27 AM
1

There is research being done on it.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 05:05 PM
2

Yes, I've never denied the existence of involuntary celibate men. I believe some men will never get laid, unfortunately.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 04:22 PM
7

I'm just showing people what I've observed, not riled up.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 02:54 PM
10

It can become gaslighting if it's repeated. I agree with you though.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 02:51 PM
-17

I saw my mom naked when I was 7. I don't know if that was sexual abuse.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/23 12:17 AM
3

This is not a dating sub. Dating is harder for men, but it's not a men's rights issue.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 01:19 PM
5

There are definitely female incels.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 12:11 PM
2

When a feminist calls you an incel, it doesn't mean you are one.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 12:09 PM
1

It's a fundamentalist religion.
/r/MensRights11/05/23 12:11 AM
7

All feminists seem ignorant to me.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 11:57 PM
0

Hahahaha 😆 😂!
/r/MensRights10/05/23 11:40 PM
0

Most feminists are ignorant.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 11:25 AM
16

I want to get married eventually.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/23 11:30 PM
1

Yes, the parents are toxic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/23 12:44 PM
4

Yes, men should have more empathy for each other.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/23 01:11 PM
1

No, they don't call out their own.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 11:58 AM
5

I was slightly shamed by my cousin for crying. I just ignored him.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 11:28 AM
5

Yes, I'm not white either.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 09:57 PM
3

Some of them might do it because of that. I don't think most of them think that far ahead. They are trained to believe anything against feminism is "misogynistic."
/r/MensRights06/05/23 04:21 PM
-1

I don't think every man who struggles with dating should identify as an incel. Both are involuntary celibate, but an "incel" is more extreme in the eyes of society. Some men who struggle with dating also become MRAs. Some men who are misogynists identify as MRAs. The MRA movement is not misogynistic. MRAs are a diverse group of people.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:25 PM
2

It's also funny she said I could be a misandrist too. 😆🤣
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/23 02:16 PM
6

Yes, but it is offensive to normal men.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 12:34 PM
9

I can't tell you which sub.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 12:25 PM
3

This is a comment I received from a feminist on another sub: "If you're not a feminist, you're either a misandrist or a misogynist. It's pretty concerning that you're talking about feminists as a separate thing from what YOU are.... men's rights is actually part of feminism, by definition. So like"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/23 11:46 AM
1

I don't think every man who struggles with dating should be called an incel. Incel meant involutary celibate in the past. Now, it refers to misogynists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/23 11:39 AM
4

No, feminism doesn't care about men and has nothing to do with equality.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 11:35 AM
3

Most men who complain about it are not incels. The ones who participate on incel forums are toxic. To feminists, any man who complains is an incel and MRAs are conflated with incels on purpose by them. They generalize all MRAs as misogynists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/23 11:29 AM
1

Women want a man who is hot and a good provider. I'm not sure if it's because of the assumptions you're talking about.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 11:13 PM
3

I was shamed by a younger woman on Reddit because I said I wouldn't date women who are more than 1 year older than me.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 09:59 PM
1

I haven't heard of that stereotype.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/23 09:00 PM
2

I didn't know that "feminist who need to get laid" is seen as a bad thing by society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/23 05:53 PM
0

I understand men's dating struggles. According to society, not every man who struggles with dating is an "incel."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/23 09:31 AM
4

I feel offended when they call me an incel because it's not true. I'm not a bitter and angry misogynist who feels entitled to sex. They want me to believe something that is false.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/23 09:31 AM
3

Those women are bad. They can't speak for all women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/23 03:15 PM
3

Yes, some women do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/23 03:13 PM
-3

Creepy is sexual harassment, stalking, and other unpleasant behaviors.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/23 01:17 PM
1

Maybe he means opening up to a woman would make you seem less creepy?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/23 09:28 AM
4

I think loneliness is a bigger issue than sexlessness. Friends can reduce loneliness. For dating, men would have to find help from someone they trust.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/23 12:20 AM
5

There are probably lots of men who aware of men's issues. They don't know how to solve them yet.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 12:00 AM
10

That's good, you should be cautious. I've seen a lot of women walking around by themselves at night. Maybe not all of them have the same fear as you. I think most rapists would use alcohol and drugs on you. They wouldn't rape you in the streets.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 11:01 PM
11

By someone they know, not strangers.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 10:43 PM
2

Hahahaha, you feminists say a lot of ignorant shit!
/r/MensRights02/05/23 10:16 PM
16

Men are more likely to get killed on the streets than women. You are ignorant!
/r/MensRights02/05/23 10:01 PM
7

Good information! I think equality can be measured by how the genders are treated.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/23 03:29 PM
1

It shouldn't be done on baby boys.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 10:42 PM
5

It's probably money issues for younger men. Things are expensive nowadays.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/23 06:28 PM
3

Yeah, I would never use any robots.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/23 04:39 PM
3

People do care about men, they are related to.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/23 04:31 PM
1

I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/23 01:48 PM
0

The op is upset about hypergamy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/23 10:39 PM
1

Of course, the gaslight on this is the anecdotal evidence of "well, I know a man who is with a very beautiful girl and he is quite ugly"; but exceptions do not live the rule. That's not gaslighting, that is just someone disagreeing with them. I don't agree with incels about dating. I don't think society can help incels because dating is an individual thing. However society should stop demonizing them. However, one realizes that most incels don't hate women, but themselves. Women are not attracte…
/r/MensRights29/04/23 10:08 PM
0

Exactly!
/r/MensRights29/04/23 08:34 PM
1

Loneliness and sexlessness are individual issues. Society cannot solve them. Women can date whoever they want.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/23 07:28 PM
1

I disagree with this sub about dating. I don't think there's anything wrong with hypergamy. Nowadays, women have more options because of dating apps.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/23 07:22 PM
1

I've read comments from incels on other subs. They don't believe they can attract women. Some do hate women, but not all. They also don't believe anyone can help them.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 01:03 PM
1

Actually incel is synonymous with misogynist now. That's how the word is used.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 11:19 AM
2

Yeah, if he invalidates you, find a new therapist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/23 01:25 PM
8

Incel is synonymous with misogynist now. It has nothing to do with sex. People believe what the media tells them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/23 09:22 AM
2

As a man, he should be able to relate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/23 12:28 AM
3

It seems like you are already talking about dating by talking about social skills. Talk about it as your individual issue. I'm sure he won't mind.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/04/23 10:21 PM
1

It's definitely sad!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/04/23 10:11 PM
3

According to this article, 63% of young men are single and only half of them are seeking a partner. It doesn't specify if the men who are not seeking partners, are voluntarily or involuntarily celibate. I don't think 31% of men are involuntarily celibate. I think it's much less than that. There's no way to know the exact numbers. I think men's mental health is more affected by demonizing men. The concept of "toxic masculinity" and false accusations cause fear in men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/23 10:21 PM
3

One guy in my class assumed I had a small penis. He had never seen me naked. Women never body shamed me. 😆 I don't think the op is saying women shouldn't have preferences.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/23 09:13 PM
2

Oh wow, your friends' parents are toxic. Hopefully, they will come around and admit their mistakes. Some parents do force their children to marry certain people by emotionally blackmailing them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/23 09:04 PM
2

I am Indian American. I'm familiar with how western dating and "arranged" marriages work. I think you're confusing arranged marriage with forced marriages. If I want to get an arranged marriage, I could opt for it. There's always consent involved. I don't think that's the solution for the West.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/23 01:28 PM
2

I don't automatically believe what mentally ill people say. Some women who fear walking the streets are paranoid. They can feel whatever they want.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/23 09:31 PM
-8

Most women I've met didn't have unrealistic standards. Maybe some do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/23 08:06 PM
3

The comment I replied to said that. It is factually incorrect.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 01:00 PM
3

Yes, because I'm shy and picky about who I date. That has nothing to do with what we're talking about here.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 11:24 AM
2

Yeah, and rape laws need to be gender neutral.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/23 10:20 PM
2

Yes, men are afraid to report it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/23 08:58 PM
1

I had a friend in college who believed men are rarely raped by women. He was a leftist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/23 08:48 PM
2

Narcissists hate and look down on everyone. Yes, they do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/23 02:37 PM
5

Yeah, the propaganda got increased when the metoo movement started. When I was younger, I didn't feel like a misogynist for existing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 05:07 PM
4

I only started hearing these messages as an adult. If I was a child, I would feel worse.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 11:53 AM
2

I'm Indian, but don't live in India. I didn't know that kind of stuff happens. Thanks for sharing!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 11:48 AM
4

I only hear misogynist as an insult on social media.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 11:34 AM
3

According to Professor Sam Vaknin, some narcissists are misogynists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 10:31 AM
6

That's true.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/04/23 12:58 AM
1

Oh I see.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 10:21 PM
7

Yes, feminism is misogynistic.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 10:15 PM
24

They shouldn't be gaslighting. We shouldn't internalize what they say.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/23 08:36 PM
2

I agree that sexist women use that as an excuse.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/23 10:27 AM
2

I think most people are unaware of the data.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/23 06:38 PM
4

Lots of people believe women are at greater risk, but that is incorrect. I don't like live in fear.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/23 05:09 PM
13

It is okay to be cautious around strangers but too much fear is bad. It means they suffer from mental illness.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/23 04:54 PM
25

Yes, it is ignorant to say men are safe to walk around at any time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/23 04:53 PM
13

I think these are factually incorrect. Maybe we should call celibate people celibate, regardless of whether it's involuntary or voluntary.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 05:39 PM
15

Actually, it was on an Indian sub. I'm Indian American, so I browsed one of the subs. Then I came across a post that said "incel" in a derogatory way. I argued with the OP. I took screenshots of the conversation. I used to participate on a sub filled with south Asian Americans. They were majority left wingers and they also used incel in a derogatory way. The mods allowed the women to talk shit about men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 04:19 PM
6

Yeah, I do think they are virtue signaling. I don't know if they would stop caring if the narrative didn't sell.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 12:39 PM
25

Someone used the word "incel" on another sub, and I totally destroyed them. Most of the time, I ignore them. I felt like arguing with that person. 😆
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 11:38 AM
30

I'm not white, so I don't know what type of discrimination white men face. You're allowed to have an opinion on anything. It's your mind and no one can tell you what to feel or think. Most people (left or right) don't care about men's issues. We are a minority here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 11:28 AM
8

A woman on Reddit told me I don't have to hate women, to be a misogynist. I don't know what misogyny means anymore.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 10:43 AM
0

Women are more caring 😆🤣😆!
/r/MensRights17/04/23 06:50 PM
4

I don't go on dating subs. I follow a couple of dating coaches I trust.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 11:52 PM
1

I went to another sub.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 08:17 PM
2

I posted this because most people here are against using "incel" as an insult. higher suicide rate, false allegations, and feminist doctrine conditioning lads to disillusion themselves with Masculine Dating Strategy. I'm passionate about those issues too. If the mods want to remove my post they can.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 08:11 PM
0

Prostitution has to do with men's rights, doesn't it?
/r/MensRights16/04/23 08:01 PM
2

Sometimes fat people don't have much control either. Doesn't obesity have genetic components?
/r/MensRights16/04/23 06:43 PM
74

Feminism was a victimhood movement that became authoritarian. The left supports it because they think women are victims.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/23 10:28 PM
1

They just think it's funny, huh? 😆🤣
/r/MensRights14/04/23 10:13 PM
2

I have been called an incel too. I don't identify as one. I don't have trouble attracting women and I'm not a misogynist either. Why do people call random strangers incels?
/r/MensRights14/04/23 10:05 PM
2

I think there is a difference between misogynists and real incels. Sometimes, there is an overlap. I don't care about what misogynists think.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 08:41 PM
2

I don't care about what they think.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 11:44 AM
1

Did you downvote me?
/r/MensRights14/04/23 11:32 AM
0

No, I haven't.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 12:23 AM
-1

Yeah, some of them say hateful stuff.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 12:20 AM
7

Yes.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 12:13 PM
6

Yeah, we have to ignore them.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 12:12 AM
16

Incel is synonymous with misogynist now. These are just lonely men.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:59 PM
22

Incel is synonymous with misogynist now. It has nothing to do with sex.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 11:52 PM
11

What is wrong with people?
/r/MensRights12/04/23 08:49 PM
3

Hahahaha, 😆🤣😆!
/r/MensRights12/04/23 06:31 PM
2

You're a liar bro! 😆🤣
/r/MensRights11/04/23 08:57 PM
15

They should recognize incel as a misandrist slur. I saw people using it there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/23 08:53 PM
1

70%? Wow!
/r/MensRights11/04/23 08:48 PM
1

Reddit is filled with left-wing feminist morons. I'm a left winger, too, but I hate most other left wingers.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 05:59 PM
5

Sorry to hear that!
/r/MensRights11/04/23 05:55 PM
5

I'm Indian too. Are you a man or a woman?
/r/MensRights11/04/23 05:52 PM
5

It's actually bad for women that their problems are blamed on outside factors.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/23 04:00 PM
1

Not too long.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/23 10:36 AM
1

Some feminists do want equality, but feminism is still a toxic ideology. It doesn't matter what individual feminists want. What matters is what is actually occurring in the world. Most feminists on Reddit are misandrists. I don't have to know a lot of feminists in real life. I am also friends with a feminist.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 08:58 AM
0

Oh yeah? I didn't know that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/23 12:38 AM
1

Yes, that stuff does happen to women. I'm not denying it. Here is some data that says most women don't worry about getting murdered. You're right, I shouldn't have called the woman a misandrist. Maybe there was something else to the story. I also have to worry about the same things women worry about.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 10:37 PM
0

Well, the traits men have naturally would be limited to the body. Behaviors are learned, so women can have similar behaviors as men. I don't think men are naturally more confident or less emotional than women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/23 09:41 PM
1

Then world collapses!
/r/MensRights10/04/23 09:37 PM
2

I agree!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/23 06:24 PM
3

Feminism is not really left wing or right wing. Any ideology taken to the extreme can become authoritarian.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/23 06:02 PM
4

To feminists, incel equals misogynist, which would be "toxic" masculinity in their minds.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/23 05:37 PM
4

Masculinity is an abstract concept.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/23 03:32 PM
15

No, people on Reddit shame random guys for stating their preferences when asked. For example, I was shamed for saying I wouldn't date older women. I don't tell women why I rejected them directly.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 10:31 PM
8

You're right! I was called a misogynist for saying I wouldn't date older women.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 09:00 PM
13

Nice assumption 🤡!
/r/MensRights09/04/23 08:58 PM
11

Hahahaha, you just embarrassed that dude! 🤣 😆
/r/MensRights09/04/23 08:57 PM
2

Hahahaha, everyone in your close family is assaulted? 🤣😆 You're such a good liar! Women like you are the reason that many of us think ALL of you feminists hate men. All of you are toxic as hell. Why would any man date an ignorant woman like you? 😆
/r/MensRights09/04/23 03:19 PM
1

You're correct! 🙂
/r/MensRights09/04/23 02:24 PM
3

Yes, Islamic countries do have a patriarchy.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 09:23 PM
34

It's hard to ignore feminists because they sometimes get in the way of men getting equal laws. In some countries, they prevented gender neutral rape laws. If feminists kept to themselves, we can ignore them.
/r/MensRights08/04/23 01:10 PM
2

Wow, horrible 😢!
/r/AntiFeminists08/04/23 12:25 PM
27

Yeah, I agree. This double standard needs to go away.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/23 01:25 PM
1

Paranoia is bad, but being cautious is good. Men have a more rational reason to be scared. We get attacked more than women do.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 09:18 AM
1

Yes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/23 11:14 PM
1

He provided evidence, and you still ignored it? Hahaha fucking delusional!
/r/MensRights06/04/23 09:26 PM
1

Hahahaha, ignorant bitch! 😆
/r/MensRights06/04/23 09:22 PM
2

I agree with the analogy in the sense that is harder for men to sleep around. The "shitty" lock part doesn't mean a promiscuous woman is bad. It means she lets anyone inside of her which is dangerous to certain extent. I don't think the analogy is slut shaming. I don't think it glorifies it promiscuous men. We just see the analogy differently.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 11:20 PM
3

Being less selective can be dangerous for women. However it doesn't mean they are bad.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 11:15 PM
6

I don't think feminism is about equality. Feminism is about giving women power over men. I don't want either men nor women to have power over the other. I made a post on this sub about feminists generalizing all men as being bad. Why would they do that if they want equality?
/r/MensRights05/04/23 11:02 PM
2

Well, I don't think the analogy is saying promiscuity is good or bad for either men or women. It's saying women can have sex more easily than men. The "bad lock" part is a value judgment.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 10:50 PM
1

I don't think being promiscuous is good or bad.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 10:32 PM
3

Where does it say the "bad lock"? Both promiscuous men and women are less selective.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 10:27 PM
2

The key (man) which opens many locks (women) is attractive to many women. It's just an observation. It is harder for men to be promiscuous in reality. For attractive women, it is easy. It doesn't say a woman who has lots of sex is crappy.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 10:19 PM
3

The analogy does not say women are promiscuous. It implies that being promiscuous is harder for men than women. Don't you think being promiscuous is harder for men? A penis is not a key. It does not get better with the number of sexual partners. A vagina is not a lock. It does not get worse with the number of sexual partners. The key represents the whole man, not just his penis. The analogy is not saying having more sex makes a man "better." It also does not say having sex makes a woman "worse."
/r/MensRights05/04/23 10:09 PM
5

It has already been explained to you, but you choose to be ignorant on purpose. The analogy is not shaming women because it says one man is having sex with many women.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 09:54 PM
1

I have a screenshot of the conversation.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 09:35 PM
5

Hahaha, you're speaking nonsense! 🤣😆 The analogy is valid, and it's not shaming women.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 09:13 PM
13

TikTok narcissistic misandrist feminist.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 05:38 PM
7

Hahahaha, what an idiot you are! 🤣
/r/MensRights05/04/23 05:33 PM
15

I don't understand feminists' logic. I asked a feminist, "How does being against feminism make someone an incel?" Then she proceeded to call me an incel. She couldn't argue properly.
/r/MensRights05/04/23 05:14 PM
1

It's irrational, but they can feel whatever they want. It's bad when women invalidate men's feelings.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/23 09:21 AM
24

I believe in egalitarianism, but I'm conservative in some ways. For example, I don't believe in sleeping around. However, I consider myself to be "sex positive." I don't like the misandry of the left. It has become female supremacy now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/23 03:18 PM
14

There are also consequences to speaking against feminism. You can get fired or called an "incel" or "misogynist." It's a blow to the ego and reputation for some people. Once the men's rights movement becomes stronger, that will be limited. Feminism will not go away anytime soon.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/23 12:17 AM
28

Story: I told my coworkers that I was being honked at by a driver behind me one night. My female coworker said she was scared to be a woman. She thought she might get randomly attacked from walking alone. Then my other coworker said he might've shot someone if he was a woman. I was shocked to hear that. Many people blindly believe women are unsafe. In reality, men have more reasons to be scared. We are more likely to be attacked. Criminals probably get a bigger ego boost by killing a man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/23 11:51 PM
14

The media probably gets more funding from feminists to promote their propaganda. Men's rights movement is not as big as feminism yet.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/23 11:00 PM
1

Oh I see.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 08:24 PM
2

If you don't demonize men, I think you're an egalitarian, not a feminist. My post is about feminists who demonize men.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 08:17 PM
2

I live in the U.S.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 08:11 PM
2

Yes, you should have the same rights and respect as men.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 08:08 PM
10

Yep, it's all fear mongering.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/23 07:42 PM
1

I agree!
/r/MensRights02/04/23 11:33 AM
4

I trust women after getting to know them.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 10:58 AM
20

You're right!
/r/MensRights01/04/23 07:02 PM
9

Yes, not all feminists are bad, but it's a toxic ideology. It can cause some to hate.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 06:38 PM
10

Yes, people do generalize us.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 06:32 PM
0

You said it's not okay to approach women in parking lots. The woman in the video was approached in daylight. If it was at night, I would understand her fear. The man wasn't posing any threat. There shouldn't be any silly rules that men shouldn't approach in parking lots.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 01:09 PM
0

Oh okay, you meant in a parking lot. This woman was scared in broad daylight. I don't think she was afraid. I think she was just a misandrist.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 11:54 AM
30

It seems like they want us to be isolated on purpose.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 11:20 AM
0

You said most women are afraid but that is not true.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 11:18 AM
3

I was approached by a woman in a parking lot. She wanted to convert me into Christianity.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 10:42 AM
2

Most women don't show choosing signals, even if they are interested. I think it's important to look at a woman's body language. If her body language is open, it's okay to approach.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 10:40 AM
10

This was misandry, not fear.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 10:30 AM
7

I agree, King!
/r/MensRights01/04/23 10:26 AM
1

They don't understand other people's situation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/23 08:14 PM
5

We have to rebel against the elites.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/23 09:09 PM
9

Janice Fiamengo also said early feminists demonized men. Her YouTube channel is Studio B.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/23 08:38 PM
21

They want revenge for being "oppressed" in the past.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/23 03:51 PM
15

The denial of misandry is misandry. I don't think we can fight misandry by being nice.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/23 11:52 AM
2

There is no systemic misogyny, you fucking moron!
/r/MensRights30/03/23 10:39 AM
2

Yes, it is unhealthy because many incels do have mental illnesses. The mental illness is involuntary, and that makes them think negatively.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/23 09:09 AM
3

According to this article 64% of men under 30 are single. Some of them might be involuntarily and some voluntarily.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/23 08:32 PM
2

Yeah. I don't feel offended by it, but why are people online if they don't want to debate?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/23 05:02 PM
4

You don't think there are real involuntary reasons someone can be celibate?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/23 04:55 PM
3

Some men will date more than 1 woman, huh? I agree. I can think of several involuntary reasons that a man might be celibate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/23 04:53 PM
15

Most people don't believe there are genuinely involuntary reasons a person could be celibate, besides misogyny.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/23 09:13 AM
2

I don't know if they were a he or she. That comment was from last year. I stopped visiting IncelTear.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/23 09:11 AM
1

Oh I see.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/23 05:03 PM
9

Many feminists deny their misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/03/23 01:23 PM
0

Yes, men are seen as privileged. Therefore misandry is less harmful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/23 10:59 PM
6

Okay, I thought you meant something else.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/23 09:08 PM
3

What do you mean by not useful to women?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/23 08:48 PM
15

You might be correct. I don't know.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/23 07:46 PM
19

Honestly, they won't stop using it any time soon. We just have to ignore people who say that. It's easier to ignore strangers online.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/23 07:45 PM
15

You mean they don't care? Okay.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/23 07:41 PM
116

I think it's weird that the left is not aware of their own misandry. They can recognize racism, misogyny, homophobia, and all other types of bigotry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/23 06:32 PM
40

I was on IncelTear, and someone said, "I am an incel but I don't hate women." Someone replied, "Then you're not an incel."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/23 06:25 PM
3

Yeah, but most of society doesn't think like us.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 05:16 PM
3

Yes, misogynist is overused by misandrist feminists.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 04:46 PM
10

People use the word to mean misogynist.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 01:05 AM
15

I just ignore people who say that.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 12:50 AM
10

Search for evidence.
/r/MensRights26/03/23 11:50 AM
27

People have some weird beliefs about men. I posted on other subs about being groped by a couple of girls in 8th grade. I didn't get much sympathy for saying that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/03/23 02:32 AM
1

To most people, "incel" means misogynistic man who is unable to find a partner and feels entitled to sex. They don't think of a lonely man who doesn't hate women. The media has brainwashed people.
/r/MensRights25/03/23 10:06 PM
1

The real number of misogynistic "incels" is probably 0-5%. I estimate "incels" are 1-5% of the total male population.
/r/MensRights25/03/23 07:10 PM
4

Yeah, Asian feminists view men the same way as American feminists do.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 10:31 PM
3

All feminists are similar regardless of their race.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 10:27 PM
4

If a man is promiscuous, some people will hate him. If a man is celibate, some people will hate him. We can't win. Lol
/r/MensRights23/03/23 10:06 PM
3

I don't use it because I can sympathize with men who struggle with dating.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 10:02 PM
3

There are some women who identify as involuntarily celibate. One of them is Kidology. People use the word as a gender slur against men.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 09:29 PM
6

Originally incel meant involuntarily celibate. It was coined by a woman. Now, it means a misogynistic man who is entitled to sex.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 08:11 PM
1

I meant to say undesirable is not the same least desirable.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 07:52 PM
3

Interesting! I didn't know that.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 07:36 PM
7

Psychology Today is garbage.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 06:54 PM
9

Exactly! They don't have any logical argument.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 10:04 PM
3

Let them come here and try to change our minds. It's funny 😁!
/r/MensRights22/03/23 09:02 PM
3

When women are asked what they prefer in a man, they respond with logic. They don't always choose a man based on logic.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 06:50 PM
1

Here is the data for it.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 03:36 PM
2

No, this isn't an "incel" sub. 🙄 It's funny how people like you use that meaningless word as an insult. 😆🤣 The OP said it was his friends who do that.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 10:34 AM
-2

In your case autism is the main culprit. Race does matter to a certain extent. Height matters too, but you're not too short.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 09:11 AM
1

I think the real number of incels is much lower than 20%.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 09:01 AM
1

The link doesn't work for me. Maybe the website has blocked my region.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 11:55 PM
1

Some guys on this sub think looks are the only thing that matters.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 11:17 PM
-3

Those studies are conducted in the west. Most Asian women living in Asia would probably prefer Asian men.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 11:13 PM
1

I never get angry when women reject me.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 11:01 PM
-2

Attractive is subjective.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 10:55 PM
2

It seems like your friends are paranoid and psychotic.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 10:31 PM
15

Isn't that how feminism always was?
/r/MensRights21/03/23 10:25 PM
17

We don't have psychic powers. 😆
/r/MensRights21/03/23 10:20 PM
-2

Your comment made it seem like it.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 09:27 PM
-4

Race alone doesn't make anyone an incel. It's a combination of factors.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 08:44 PM
-2

That is people on dating sites. In the real world, most people can date fine within their own race.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 08:17 PM
-1

No race is undesirable.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 08:13 PM
1

Exactly!
/r/MensRights21/03/23 07:41 PM
2

I learned about feminism but I didn't identify as a feminist. Some of it, I believed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/23 05:53 PM
3

It's misogynistic to generalize all women as being bad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/23 04:01 PM
2

The left wing ideology is good in theory. Some people call themselves left wingers, but they hold bigoted views. That's just how politics is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/23 03:49 PM
3

I agree with you. I don't take advice from women. I'm not qualified to give men advice either. They have to find someone they trust and listen to them.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 11:08 PM
3

I ignore most people. There is no dating advice that prevents rejection. Every man will get rejected by some women.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 09:11 PM
2

I just ignore people who give shitty advice. If I listened to them, I would remain single forever.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 09:06 PM
4

Those contradictory statements are silly. It's best to ignore anyone who says that.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 08:47 PM
9

The left doesn't see men as victims of systemic misandry. Whenever men complain, they think it's the individual man's fault.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/23 07:52 PM
1

Well, people who construe everything as sexual misconduct are crazy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/23 03:25 PM
12

I asked a feminist, "How does being against feminism make someone an incel?" She proceeded to call me an "incel." Lmao
/r/MensRights19/03/23 10:52 PM
3

Here it is.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 10:07 PM
4

He's says in the interview I linked.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 07:46 PM
1

Yes, men are vilified more. I think it's great that a woman talks about men's issues.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 07:43 PM
7

Yes, I read that. Other studies contradict it.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 07:38 PM
10

William Costello said only about 10% of incels were misogynistic in his research. There are more misogynistic men in relationships than misogynistic incels.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 07:36 PM
1

I'm just illustrating that a diverse group of people can identify as incels. Most people tell her she's not an incel. If she wants to identify, she can.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 07:05 PM
1

I agree. Men have it worse. However, she has good talking points about men's issues. She is also a left-wing feminist.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 06:47 PM
54

They won't stop using it any time soon. They know some men are insecure about it. It's their way of having power over them. Don't let them have power over you. Don't waste your time trying to change their minds.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 06:23 PM
0

No, I disagree. A real woman will always be better than AI. If incels avoid women, they would become voluntarily celibates.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 01:40 PM
4

Because we go against their agenda.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 01:17 PM
3

I listened to a lot of PUAs and dating coaches. I wanted to see who gives the best advice, in my opinion. I disagree with most of them because I didn't resonate with them. Some men can get laid by using their advice. Ultimately, I think every man should do what they feel comfortable with. Is there a risk of getting accused of harassment? Yes, but there is a risk in pursuing anything. Most men know what sexual harassment, rape, and consent are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/23 12:25 PM
2

The ones on "incel" forums are misogynistic men. Misandrist feminists are more accepted than misogynistic men.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 11:18 AM
9

Did you tell her after she called you an "incel"?
/r/MensRights19/03/23 10:58 AM
17

They don't give a shit about lonely men. They are fear mongering.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 10:49 AM
12

Most of the "manosphere" is not incels.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 10:45 AM
1

This woman identifies as a femcel.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 10:15 AM
5

Yes.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 09:36 PM
10

Exactly!
/r/MensRights18/03/23 09:36 PM
3

I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/23 08:05 PM
3

So true.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 05:48 PM
6

Yes, there are lots of things men can do to improve. There are lots of factors outside our control in dating.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 05:09 PM
9

This sub is not about red pill. The fact that lots of men are lonely is a societal issue.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 04:24 PM
4

It is a men's rights issue. Men are demonized for being virgins.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 03:35 PM
5

Who said anything about owing sex?
/r/MensRights18/03/23 03:15 PM
7

Aren't there a lot of lonely men now?
/r/MensRights18/03/23 03:01 PM
9

I think it's important not to internalize society's messages.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/23 02:12 PM
10

Maybe they assume virgins have a mental illness or something else. However, lots of mentally ill people are in relationships. Everyone has flaws, but there is nothing inherently wrong with being a virgin.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 01:22 PM
6

No, I think most people who identify as feminists are gullible and foolish. A few feminists leaders are narcissists and psychopaths who manipulate the masses.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 01:11 PM
8

I was encouraged by peers to date and have sex. Everyone thought it was normal. I'm only 32.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/23 01:07 PM
2

They hate you for not acknowledging their victimhood.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 01:00 PM
72

This stuff was not as common when I was growing up. I don't know why they are demonizing male sexuality nowadays.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/23 12:33 PM
3

I was walking to my workplace from the parking lot, one block down. It was early morning before sunrise. There was a woman walking towards me. I could see fear in her eyes and body language. The women who know me don't think I'm intimidating. It was probably because I was a stranger. I'm not very strong. Men have a more valid reason to be scared. Maybe criminals get more of an ego boost by attacking men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/23 09:05 PM
6

If women have a right to feel scared, men should too. Those double standards are fucked up!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/23 08:06 PM
5

I live in a safe neighborhood, so I don't feel as scared. I don't think men who are scared are weak. They have a right to feel whatever they want.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/23 08:05 PM
3

I don't know why feminists think that. There are a few people who prefer virgins only. I'm a virgin because I prefer to wait till marriage.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 06:45 PM
4

Feminists believe in all kinds of counterfactual stuff.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 05:48 PM
19

I listen to anyone I resonate with. They don't have to be a left winger. I don't feel loyalty to the left.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/23 05:12 PM
6

Yes, I don't think most women can empathize with men's experiences because we are different. I can't empathize with most women's experiences either. I know men are more likely to be attacked than women. However, I don't feel scared walking alone at night. Women feel scared because of feminist propaganda.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/23 05:08 PM
41

Most feminists on social media are narcissists. They won't have any constructive discussions.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/03/23 12:50 PM
7

It was another woman, and the feminist was a male. Lol 😆
/r/MensRights16/03/23 11:27 AM
4

Maybe some feminists are using it for sadistic reasons. They want to drive some men to suicide.
/r/MensRights16/03/23 10:35 AM
5

Yes, most feminists don't have any logical reason to be feminists. Lol 😆
/r/MensRights16/03/23 12:13 AM
5

Yes, but if they don't have arguments, they should stop identifying as feminists. Lol 😆
/r/MensRights16/03/23 12:05 AM
9

If they have no arguments, they shouldn't identify as feminists. 😆
/r/MensRights16/03/23 12:04 AM
93

Reddit administration are misandrist feminists? I'm not surprised.
/r/MensRights15/03/23 08:00 PM
5

Purple hair or blue? Lol
/r/MensRights15/03/23 07:50 PM
1

Men are shamed for everything nowadays.
/r/MensRights15/03/23 12:33 AM
1

Liar.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 05:44 PM
5

I don't know. I think we still have a long way to go.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/23 05:12 PM
3

Yes, feminism is worse than religion because it's not separate from the state. All the feminist leaders are psychopaths who manipulate people on purpose.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/23 03:14 PM
4

Yeah, he was arrested. I don't know if they found him guilty yet. In the interview, he didn't say anything misogynistic. Maybe in other videos he does.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 06:12 PM
2

I don't believe there is any toxic masculinity. I was answering from the feminist point of view.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 06:10 PM
2

I'm a traditional person, so I believe marriage is good for myself. I understand there is more risk involved for men. Any woman can take advantage of the system.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 04:54 PM
1

I listened to an interview of Tate. I don't think he's as bad as most left wingers say. I would have to listen to more of what he says before I form an opinion on him.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 04:43 PM
3

Oh man, that's crazy!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/23 04:26 PM
2

I think it's funny when feminists call random strangers online "incels." 😆
/r/MensRights12/03/23 04:32 PM
2

He called a woman incel. 😆🤣
/r/MensRights12/03/23 11:51 AM
1

From what I heard, blackpill is about being bitter and misogynistic. I don't identify with any of the "pills."
/r/MensRights11/03/23 11:49 PM
2

I saw the video of that in another sub. People were justified in cursing the men who did that. You're right about men being ignored.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/23 10:11 PM
28

I don't know. Some feminists probably think they really are victims, and feminism is the solution for equality. I don't think anyone hates men at birth. Most people are brainwashed to hate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/23 12:11 AM
69

I don't know. I think the situation is pretty hopeless at the moment. We have to hope more people will open their eyes in the future. The masses have been brainwashed to hate men. Most feminists identify as feminists because that's what they are taught. It takes a long time to remove years of brainwashing. All of us are manipulated to a certain extent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/23 11:41 PM
0

I think masculinity is about being active. Positive masculinity would be going for what you want without harming others or yourself. Toxic masculinity would be harming others.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/23 10:28 PM
3

This is funny! 😆🤣
/r/MensRights10/03/23 11:33 AM
1

Women have equal rights and more privilege than men.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 11:59 PM
5

Yes, but he shares interesting information. Lmao
/r/MensRights09/03/23 09:43 PM
2

A coworker asked me if I had a girlfriend before. I told her no. She was shocked to hear that. I was surprised that she was shocked. I've never had a girlfriend because I was poor and haven't found the right person yet.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 09:38 PM
5

I think people demonize lonely men because they are insecure themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/23 07:55 PM
3

I don't think society should demonize lonely men. However, I don't think society can help lonely men with dating either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/23 06:02 PM
2

It's very dangerous to silence men.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 02:32 PM
2

Not to mention, all the fucking feminists who come here to change our minds.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 02:24 PM
1

Yes I am aware.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/23 08:12 PM
4

Some "black pillers" pretend to be "red-pill." I would consider myself "red pill" because I'm aware of misandry against us. I think the "red pill" is similar to being "woke."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/23 09:11 AM
4

You can't speak for all women. There are some women who might not like it, and they will reject you. That's fine! My dating coach (Alan Roger Currie), has picked up many women from grocery stores. You can't say it's not possible for any man. Ultimately you should do what you're comfortable with. Good luck! 👍
/r/MensRights08/03/23 01:26 AM
4

What?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/23 12:59 AM
3

I didn't know that.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:11 AM
1

Yes.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:01 AM
-1

I disagree with most of what you said.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 11:46 PM
-8

I disagree.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 11:44 PM
13

I haven't watched the video yet. I'll watch it later. Loneliness is a lack of intimacy. You can be surrounded by lots of people and still feel lonely if those people are toxic. For example, being in a relationship with a narcissist or psychopath can cause loneliness. Redpill asshats Redpill is about being realistic. Bluepill is being idealistic. Blackpill is bitter and misogynistic. It seems like people on Reddit confuse blackpill and redpill. Those are subjective labels anyway. nobody knows wha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/23 11:28 PM
-13

Good looking and ugly are subjective. What matters is how you approach women.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 10:54 PM
1

That probably depends on which therapist. I told my therapist my secrets.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 09:49 PM
11

Yeah, only a few subs are compassionate to men.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 09:32 PM
5

There was a post here that said therapists have a bias favoring women. Men probably don't feel comfortable sharing their issues. I just recently started therapy. My therapist is a woman. I've only had one session so far. I won't see any improvement for a while.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 09:19 PM
2

Nonsense.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 09:12 PM
54

Most of Reddit is misandrist. It's a bad idea to post those stories here.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 08:52 PM
-7

That is total bullshit! You can definitely approach women at the supermarket. My dating coach said you can approach women in any public place. Edit: Maybe your friend did something else besides the compliment. It's not harassment to give a compliment. Maybe the woman was crazy.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 08:40 PM
1

They don't think men should be complaining about anything.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/03/23 10:24 AM
2

All men are victims of some abuse.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 06:59 PM
1

I think to myself she is attractive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/03/23 05:18 PM
4

I think feminists do this because they don't care if an innocent man goes to prison. I think it's funny when some women accuse a man of rape, many years later.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/03/23 12:46 AM
9

Men can understand each other's issues the best.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 12:16 AM
8

Women are becoming more narcissistic and psychopathic. Narcissists want a perfect partner.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 12:12 AM
1

It's inappropriate to say in the workplace.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 11:39 PM
1

I don't believe anything feminists say anymore.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 11:28 AM
7

I was on a sub with lots of feminists. They all complained about this imaginary misogyny. The sub wasn't r/AskFeminists or r/Feminism.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 11:27 AM
7

Yes, I agree. It doesn't take me 60 hours to keep my apartment clean. A house wouldn't require 60 hours to maintain either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/03/23 11:18 AM
1

Ok, I'll delete this post in a couple of hours.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 12:30 AM
2

Yes, it's used as an insult on social media.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 12:08 AM
1

Yes, depressed women are affected too.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 12:00 AM
1

I don't use it as a slur.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 11:33 PM
4

Not off the top of my head.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/03/23 04:23 PM
6

Of course.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 02:53 PM
68

Some women who complain about that are ungrateful. They don't notice things their husbands are doing. Men do things such as mowing the lawn, fixing things, lifting things, cooking, and other things too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/03/23 02:43 PM
0

Wrong assumption about me.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 01:40 PM
1

I don't understand what you mean.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 01:25 PM
1

Feminist is not misused.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 01:24 PM
0

No, most of those men are not involuntary celibates.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 01:07 PM
2

Not dating, only having sex.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 01:01 PM
4

Some men are choosing to be single because they don't want toxic women.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 12:59 PM
0

I wouldn't date managers either.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 12:54 PM
2

Yes, erectile dysfunction is still a problem. What if they meet a woman who wants sex?
/r/MensRights04/03/23 12:09 PM
4

Nice.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 12:06 PM
5

It's normal to look at others in public, regardless of what they're wearing. Those gym girls were trying to get views. One time, a coworker told me to stop staring (I wasn't). I said to her, "You're joking." She said, "Yes, I am." Then I laughed. 😆 I don't stare at women, but I glance at them to see if they will make eye contact with me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/03/23 12:04 PM
2

I know.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 11:54 AM
18

I think excessive porn makes men less inclined to have sex. I used to watch porn more often than I do now. I had issues like erectile dysfunction. I don't think it should be outlawed.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 01:04 AM
10

Men use porn as a masturbation aid.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 12:09 AM
63

Professor Sam Vaknin talks about why we are lonely here. He also says our culture is narcissistic.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 12:07 AM
119

I disagree with the article. I don't believe in nofap, but I do think too much porn causes those issues.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 10:37 PM
6

It's not justice to send an innocent man to prison.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/23 08:57 PM
5

Exactly!
/r/MensRights03/03/23 07:52 PM
2

Yes, swastika is still a symbol of divinity.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 07:51 PM
16

Men should only be shamed if they sexually assault, not for looking. I objectify all women I'm attracted to, in my mind. I don't think it's immoral. I think women would get attention even if they wear conservative clothes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/23 07:46 PM
12

Yes, that's why I don't debate feminists.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 01:10 AM
6

No, people call random men online incels for disagreeing with them.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 12:20 AM
4

Exactly!
/r/MensRights02/03/23 11:56 PM
12

I think they are shaming them for disagreeing, not for a low body count. It doesn't offend me but it's immature to use in debates.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 11:41 PM
92

I don't date coworkers, so no flirting. I only talk about work and neutral topics with my female coworkers.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 09:54 PM
3

Thanks!
/r/MensRights02/03/23 02:19 PM
1

I know I can cry around certain people. I agree that most of society doesn't care about men.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 12:55 AM
3

Don't give them power.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 10:50 PM
3

It's important for a diagnosis.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 10:38 PM
14

I agree.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 10:34 PM
14

I started therapy recently. It is going well so far. My narcissistic uncle fucked up my mind. I might have a mental illness too.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 10:16 PM
1

Some women are jaded by dating those men. Good men appear boring to them.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 10:14 PM
1

The men who don't have emotions are narcissists and psychopaths. That is bad for women.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 09:21 PM
1

I wasn't taught to suppress my emotions.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 09:14 PM
4

Yeah, I was also called an incel by an ignorant feminist.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 01:22 AM
35

If they don't recognize men's issues, they don't have egalitarian values.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/23 03:20 PM
5

Most guys in relationships are not assholes but they aren't overly nice either. There is a happy medium. MRWFS do generalize all men as being bad, but it's not the same as "nice guys syndrome."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/02/23 10:06 AM
1

I agree with you.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 10:35 PM
1

Yes, society thinks there's something wrong with celibate men. That's why they shame incels.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/23 07:36 PM
2

I totally agree!
/r/MensRights27/02/23 07:22 PM
5

There are lots of leftists here. Most left wingers support feminism.
/r/MensRights27/02/23 06:12 PM
2

I don't think loneliness by itself causes men to be violent. Men can become violent if they are being treated badly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/23 05:38 PM
5

😆🤣😆
/r/MensRights27/02/23 05:23 PM
1

Yeah.
/r/AntiFeminists27/02/23 02:29 PM
19

The top 1% of men probably don't need dating apps or websites. They can meet women in person through friends or cold approaching. Most attractive women don't need apps either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/23 08:51 PM
17

True.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/23 04:52 PM
48

Reasons men might be single: Lack of money for dating Lack of time for dating Haven't met the right person Fear of rejection, shyness Social anxiety Depression or other mental illness Autism Content with being single Bad luck
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/23 03:50 PM
5

I am looking for a girlfriend, but most women don't match my preferences for a relationship.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 01:18 PM
26

I know why I've been single all my life. I am looking for a girlfriend now, but most women don't have enough in common with me, for me to date them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/23 12:09 PM
3

Yeah, I live alone and do most things alone. I have friends and family I can talk to and visit. I don't hate most people, and I have no intention of harming anyone. Being alone has nothing to do with anyone's character or even their social skills.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/02/23 03:31 PM
8

Yeah, most loners are not violent. They shouldn't be bullied for being loners. The media likes to stereotype loners as bad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/02/23 11:30 AM
2

Yes, it depends on the definition of oppression. I don't believe women are oppressed in most cultures in modern times. There are a few places like Afghanistan, where they oppress them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/02/23 11:23 AM
3

The elites want to reduce the population.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 12:40 AM
106

Many feminists are racists too.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 12:31 AM
9

Yes, but patriarchy doesn't mean all women will be oppressed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/23 11:08 PM
14

Yes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/23 07:53 PM
30

Patriarchy doesn't exist currently.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/23 07:23 PM
4

An incel is someone who is unhappy about being celibate. Anything else associated with them has nothing to do with being an incel.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/23 09:52 AM
2

Yeah, they excuse toxic women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/23 12:17 AM
1

You did the right thing!
/r/MensRights22/02/23 10:06 PM
2

Maybe they think casual sex is dating?
/r/MensRights22/02/23 09:46 PM
2

A lot of women use apps for attention. They don't plan on meeting any guys. It's an ego boost. Chads can meet women in person, too.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 09:44 PM
1

I'm single because most women don't match my preferences for a relationship. I prefer a vegetarian like myself. I am looking for a girlfriend now, but previously, I wasn't. I'm not a mgtow.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 09:30 PM
2

Most attractive women don't need apps to find a partner.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 09:26 PM
-7

The article said 34% women and 63% of men are single. That doesn't make sense.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 09:16 PM
15

Exactly 💯!
/r/MensRights22/02/23 07:55 PM
4

Most incels probably don't hate Chads and Stacies.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/23 07:43 PM
2

They are idiots.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 02:26 PM
1

You shouldn't care what people think about you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/02/23 10:18 AM
2

I don't agree with all of society's ideas about masculinity.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/23 10:26 PM
2

Each culture and individual has their own idea of how a "man" should be. Some people believe a man should never cry, a man should be earning more than a woman, a man should be muscular, a man should be 6ft tall, and other things. Not everyone will agree on those things. I don't know. I'm just confused now because I've been shamed too much by feminists. Lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/23 09:39 PM
3

They do care about women victims.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/23 06:46 PM
1

The definition was in the search engine, from a different source.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 05:39 PM
8

I think each man should define what it means to be a man for himself. I agree that masculinity is useful.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/23 05:19 PM
3

Being a "man" varies from culture to culture. Masculinity doesn't have any objective meaning.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/23 03:52 PM
11

To feminists, the female gaze is harmless and probably doesn't exist. The male gaze is dangerous. Feminists wouldn't care if men were sexually abused by women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/23 03:06 PM
16

I have no problem with traditional gender roles as long people choose to play them. Feminists have a lot of double standards for men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/23 02:49 PM
2

I don't want to touch random feminists' shoulders. Lol
/r/MensRights21/02/23 12:52 AM
-1

Maybe he might ask you to tell him your story. Since he sent you home, I don't know what he will do.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 12:41 AM
3

It's an ad hominem attack.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/02/23 10:57 PM
2

https://youtu.be/Y1xrHxkp1rE
/r/MensRights20/02/23 06:53 PM
5

I saw a video of a girl in a gym. She was filming some guy "staring" at her. He only glanced at her for a few seconds.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 06:39 PM
5

Exactly! Harassment is repetitive.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 05:36 PM
5

I agree with the unwelcome part. It's not possible to know if something is unwelcome unless the person says so.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 05:06 PM
1

Yes, but 40% who aren't feminists is a lot.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 03:11 PM
1

About 60% of American women identify as feminists, according to Pew research.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 03:06 PM
2

It doesn't surprise me.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 03:03 PM
5

Yes, it was.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 02:50 PM
3

I think few men are violent. Most men are not violent, but they become violent in dangerous situations.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/02/23 10:38 AM
3

It's used against antifeminists and MRAs too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/02/23 10:24 AM
4

Yes.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 11:09 AM
4

No, it's the equivalent of misogynist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/23 10:30 AM
4

Well said!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/23 10:24 AM
3

I think people who use incel as an insult are immature and narcissistic, maybe full-blown narcissists. They want to feel grandiose by insulting others. Incel is said to shut down discussions about men's issues. There's no point in discussing anything with them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/02/23 10:01 AM
2

Unfortunately, attraction isn't logical.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/23 11:56 PM
2

That's my post bro! Lmao
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/23 11:12 PM
6

This article talks about why Narcissistic Personality Disorder is diagnosed less often in women. I believe there are equal numbers of male and female narcissists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/23 11:06 PM
2

Yes, testosterone might be associated with outward aggression. Some women are narcissists and psychopaths. How much testosterone do they have?
/r/MensRights17/02/23 09:38 PM
2

No, that is only one study that correlates testosterone with dark triad. Studies can be manipulated to fit the feminist agenda. It's common sense that men and women will have equal numbers of dark triad members. Feminists are the ones who deny facts, not me.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 09:20 PM
1

Yes, high testosterone is correlated with those traits but correlation is not causation. You can find studies that fit your worldview. I don't care about anything you feminists have to say. I think all of you are liars. Your not going to change my mind by citing biased studies. I have no reason to believe more men are narcissists and psychopaths. End of story!
/r/MensRights17/02/23 08:43 PM
1

Psychopathy is caused by brain abnormality. Psychopaths have a different brain structure. Narcissists become narcissistic through childhood abuse.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 07:07 PM
4

What did I say that indicates I hate women? You don't like facts?
/r/MensRights17/02/23 07:02 PM
9

Abusive mothers contribute to the formation of narcissists, according to Professor Vaknin. Mothers are important during the first few years.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 02:20 PM
9

I can attract women, but I was still called an incel. They call random strangers online incels. Lol 😆
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/23 10:01 AM
1

Yes, there are negative stereotypes of Asian men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/02/23 09:24 PM
25

The guy in the video is fairly handsome. The reason many men are lonely is because society places the burden of initiating relationships on men. Men have to do the pursuing. Women just select. It's hard for autistic and shy men. Society also says men who don't get laid are weird. In reality, there's nothing wrong with being celibate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/02/23 09:13 PM
13

Horrible woman! 🙀
/r/MensRights15/02/23 02:30 PM
75

Men in general, and black men in particular, are perceived to be more dangerous than women by the police. Although women can be equally violent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/23 11:08 PM
1

Hypergamy has always been around. Feminism demonizes men a lot.
/r/AntiFeminists14/02/23 07:31 PM
1

Hypergamy has always been around. Feminism demonizes men a lot.
/r/AntiFeminists14/02/23 07:31 PM
5

The media and government doesn't want people to care.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/02/23 05:31 PM
1

Incel is just a shaming word.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 04:06 PM
3

Yeah, feminists demonize men based on the actions of a few. Most men are taught not to hit girls. It's highly unlikely that a random guy will beat or rape a woman on the streets.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/23 10:29 PM
22

I have no problem with women being successful, but it shouldn't be at the expense of men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/23 10:05 PM
1

Most people believe in this bootstrap method. I don't know how to help those men either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/23 09:55 PM
2

Yes.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 08:37 PM
2

An incel doesn't have to be misogynistic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/23 07:49 PM
1

Yeah, attractive women don't need apps.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/23 07:34 PM
58

I'm anti-authority, so I hate anyone who wants power over me.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 10:05 AM
9

Jealousy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/23 10:15 PM
1

Yes, I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/23 09:51 PM
0

This dude is trolling. 😆🤣
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/23 09:00 PM
4

Women are usually believed more often than men. I do trust women who are not feminists after I get to know them.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 08:47 PM
3

Yeah, women might prefer the top 20%.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/23 06:48 PM
0

Yeah, I made up the figures. I agree women are more selective, but 20% of men screwing 80% of women seems to be exaggerated by the manosphere.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/23 06:38 PM
-1

Well, I think the top 20% of men can fuck 80% of the top 20% of women. I don't know if it can be applied to the general population because our population is increasing. I don't think most women are too picky. I might be wrong.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/23 06:31 PM
12

I was called a misogynist for saying I prefer someone who is 5 years younger up to the same age. I don't give a fuck about what feminists say.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/23 06:26 PM
1

I believe the 80/20 theory can apply to a certain segment of the population, not the general population.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/23 03:56 PM
1

You believe the 80/20 thing is accurate?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/02/23 02:30 PM
7

Actually, I don't trust the biased system that women can use to their advantage.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 10:21 AM
3

There are more men on dating apps than women. Dating apps are useless.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 10:15 AM
7

I don't think all women are bad. As long as feminism is around, I won't be able to trust any woman fully.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 10:11 AM
1

I haven't gone to the gym since 2015. I work out at home. When I went to the gym, I wasn't scared of this.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 04:24 PM
3

I wouldn't say it's rigged against men. It's more riskier and difficult for men.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 04:19 PM
0

Yes, app and website.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 04:18 PM
3

You shouldn't trust anyone without getting to know them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/02/23 02:46 PM
30

Men are more likely to be attacked on the streets. Women are more likely to be afraid of being attacked.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/23 08:36 PM
10

There are individuals who are misogynists, not the whole culture.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 12:39 AM
5

Lol 😆
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/23 04:06 PM
2

I agree.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 02:22 PM
4

Old cat ladies?
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/23 02:21 PM
1

Yes, incel does mean involuntarily celibate.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 10:35 PM
26

I don't debate with feminists. It does piss me off when people use "incel" as an insult.
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/23 10:28 PM
1

The women who falsely accuse, know they can get support, because there is no evidence. I don't think most women think ugly men are creepy. I don't think men should be scared of this.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 08:46 PM
12

They imported feminist ideology, it caused misandry to increase. There is misogyny in India too.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 08:03 PM
68

Feminist media bias.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 06:01 PM
3

They have no arguments.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 05:29 PM
1

Maybe they think femcels are rarer than incels.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 05:08 PM
3

Google is using the wrong definition of incel.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 05:00 PM
5

No, you're still pretty young.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 12:36 PM
1

Yes, it's wrong for them to exclude that in rape statistics.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/23 10:56 AM
1

I don't know how attractive this guy was, but the woman took it too far by having him arrested. I don't think only attractive men should ask women out.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 10:53 AM
2

If people weren't brainwashed and manipulated, they would care more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/23 09:08 PM
3

"Made to penetrate" rape is equally as bad as regular rape.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/23 09:03 PM
2

It's the misandrists who do this. They're just psychotic.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 08:50 PM
1

I've never been able to tell if someone is a virgin by looking at them. Maybe some people have psychic powers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/23 04:42 PM
1

Bingo, it's about the money.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 10:33 AM
8

My coworker at work said, "Stop staring at me." I said, "You're joking!" She said, "Yes, I am joking."
/r/MensRights04/02/23 10:26 AM
1

Same with me.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 10:21 AM
23

I agree with you about men supporting each other. We can spread awareness about men's issues and educate people. Not everyone will listen, but some will.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/23 12:04 AM
1

Yes, feminists do all that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/23 10:06 PM
1

I agree.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 07:52 PM
3

Women can be incels.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 07:30 PM
2

Feminists have misused incel a lot. I don't care about what they say.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 04:30 PM
8

Sorry to hear that! Yes, it can lead to this kind of behavior.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/02/23 02:17 PM
2

Progressive feminists are wrong.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 10:23 AM
5

People generalize incels based on the actions of a few.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:39 AM
6

I don't like misogynistic men. Being misogynistic is not a requirement to be an incel. People associate misogyny with incels because those are the loud ones.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:26 AM
7

The research says only 10% are misogynistic.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:11 AM
6

According to the research, only a minority of incels are misogynistic and violent. https://youtu.be/-4fQ4hhv-es I don't call people incels, until they self identify as one.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:08 AM
9

Not all celibate people are the same. Virgins can be voluntarily celibate or involuntarily. The same is true for non-virgins.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:02 AM
10

A virgin can be an incel, if they are unhappy about their celibacy. I use the literal definition of incel as involuntary celibate.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 11:48 PM
34

I disagree with the first sentence of that article. An incel doesn't have to be against feminism. Many male feminists are probably also incels. An incel is anyone who is unhappy about being celibate, in my opinion. They can be any gender, and they don't have to be misogynistic either.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 11:42 PM
17

I agree!
/r/MensRights02/02/23 09:36 PM
1

Yes, exactly!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/23 05:12 PM
3

I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/23 05:03 PM
1

I'm not offended when people call me that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/23 01:11 PM
3

I'm not offended by the word. It pisses me off when people use it to shut men up. Feminists have misconceptions about what anti-feminists believe.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/23 09:39 AM
13

They are misandrists.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 09:32 AM
22

It's also funny how some feminists think calling a man an "incel" is going to change his mind and make him join their club. No, it doesn't work like that. People don't like being shamed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/23 11:16 PM
2

I agree with you. A woman regretting sex, is not rape. I definitely believe women can rape.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 11:00 PM
1

You might be correct. It depends on how rape and consent are defined. I think it's important to get a yes from a woman before sleeping with her. She can still accuse (falsely) me of rape.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 10:54 PM
5

The woman who recorded herself is living in an alternate reality. 😆
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/23 10:48 PM
21

Ever since I got on Reddit, my tolerance for feminist perspectives has gone down. Maybe Reddit is just toxic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/23 09:46 PM
6

Those are all pretty bad excuses. It's bad that men are told to shut up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/23 09:21 PM
3

Exactly, they can lie and people believe their nonsense.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 06:14 PM
5

It seems like all of you feminists are liars! 😆
/r/MensRights01/02/23 02:47 PM
3

U/Solid_Connection875
/r/MensRights01/02/23 02:26 PM
6

She commented on my post with a different account. Lol 😆
/r/MensRights01/02/23 11:47 AM
0

The feminist who replied to OP mentioned Elliot.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 12:23 AM
-4

Elliot Rodger.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 12:04 AM
38

Misandrist feminists don't have to shoot schools to be dangerous. Their manipulation is dangerous enough.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 11:51 PM
1

Yeah, many incels are autistic. However I don't think autism, mental illness, or misogyny are requirements for being an incel.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/23 10:27 PM
2

Maybe your female coworkers didn't like you for some reason. That's why they filed a complaint.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 09:30 PM
1

Okay, I believe you.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 08:59 PM
3

The vast majority of people I meet immediately know I'm KHHV just by looking at me. I highly doubt this man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/23 08:53 PM
1

Nonsense.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 08:51 PM
1

No, mental illnesses cannot target one gender over the other.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 08:45 PM
1

Whatever source you are using for that is probably biased.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 08:44 PM
0

I don't believe most dating coaches and PUAs are lying about their experience with women. I know most PUAs and dating coaches lie to women in order to fuck them. However I don't think you should be generalizing all of them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/23 08:33 PM
1

That was true in the past. Nowadays it's 50/50. Women weren't diagnosed as often in the past.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 08:19 PM
4

I agree, those are nonsense.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 06:51 PM
3

I haven't had issues in men's rights.
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/23 06:41 PM
3

Yeah, women can accuse men whenever they feel like it.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 06:39 PM
3

I don't know how prevalent false accusations are.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 06:00 PM
2

You don't have to tell strangers that you lack experience. Most people probably won't ask you or notice. You can lie if they ask. If a girl you date judges you, she's not the right one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/23 05:20 PM
2

What percent of women care about that?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/23 05:10 PM
0

Now it means anyone who disagrees with feminists.
/r/MensRights31/01/23 04:39 PM
2

I don't agree with most PUAs and dating coaches. I think there's a difference between dating coaches and PUAs. Now I only follow one dating coach.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/23 04:24 PM
2

I think neurotypicals can also be incels because anyone who is unhappy about their celibacy is an incel.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/23 12:54 AM
28

I don't want to lose half my shit in a divorce. If I find someone I trust, I will get married.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/23 12:03 AM
3

Some profiles might also be bots.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/23 11:07 PM
2

Oh I see.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 10:23 PM
11

Some men who are single have mental illnesses or autism. However all single men cannot be generalized. Some single women might have issues too. Feminists don't like to acknowledge that women can have flaws. It's their manipulation technique. 😆
/r/MensRights30/01/23 08:54 PM
8

You're right! I don't know why the double standard exists.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 08:41 PM
5

Lower taxes?
/r/MensRights30/01/23 06:54 PM
0

I think it's funny that guys on this sub think all dating coaches are bad. That's similar to people assuming all incels are bad or any group. Most incels need mental help before any dating advice. Dating advice wouldn't help until they get more confidence anyway.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/23 06:45 PM
18

Yeah, a couple of girls grabbed my ass in 8th grade. They said it's nice. I wouldn't care if my gf did that, but I wasn't dating them. Then one of those girls harassed me again in high school. She thought she could change my mind by persisting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/23 05:33 PM
16

Most good looking guys have probably experienced this at some point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/23 05:05 PM
1

I think it's okay to lie about your experience to strangers. It's important to be honest with a girl you're dating.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/23 04:53 PM
3

Yes, there are some men who will never attract a woman. If a man is 5'3 and 400 lbs, his chances are very slim. Most men are average looking so they might be able to attract an average woman. They can't attract Victoria's Secret models. An average woman cannot attract a model-like dude either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/23 10:15 AM
1

Society played a part in fucking them up in the first place, why shouldn't it have a responsibility to them and the rest of society to prevent them from becoming malignant actors through disenfranchisement? Not all of society, but there were probably some people who abused them. I don't think society can help them get laid. However society can stop demonizing them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/01/23 12:01 AM
6

I'm celibate right now. I don't feel pressure. Most strangers aren't going to ask me about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 11:42 PM
3

I don't see them through the feminist lens. However I think it's hard to relate to their negativity. I don't think it's wrong to be celibate for any reason. If they're an incel, they are unhappy about the celibacy. If they're unhappy, they have to change something. Society is not going to do that. Society can help a little bit. Maybe more women should ask out men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 10:29 PM
6

I agree, but it seems like some incels are not open to receiving help even if people show them empathy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 10:11 PM
1

I learned gender roles are learned from socialization.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 08:13 PM
0

If by con-artist, you mean their advice doesn't work for any man, I disagree. You can't generalize. I don't agree with most PUAs and dating coaches, but their advice works for some men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 08:11 PM
-10

No, it's because they are jealous. I don't have autism or mental illness. I'm not an incel either. I still follow a dating coach who I trust and respect. I think it's okay to learn from someone with more experience than me. I'm not saying all incels have to listen to a dating coach. They can develop their own dating methods if they want. I think there are some incels who are capable of getting laid and some aren't. What do you think is the solution for incels?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 07:54 PM
1

You think gender roles are partly biological?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 07:42 PM
1

Yes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 06:29 PM
-9

I know there are men who struggle. I made an observation about some men who identify as incels online. Some of them hate dating coaches and others who are successful in dating. They aren't open to receiving help.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 04:30 PM
-17

I believe most men can attract a woman. Most can mean any percentage over 50%. I believe very few men are true incels. I haven't met too many men who I thought would be totally repulsive to women. There is one thing I noticed about some "incels" online. They think they know more about dating, than dating coaches do. I mentioned a dating coach to a redditor and he called the dating coach a con-artist. He didn't know anything about the dating coach, but he just assumed that. That implies he thinks…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 02:00 PM
45

Western society thinks there is something wrong with a man, if he is not in a relationship and having sex by a certain age. Most people start dating in high school and they take their ability to attract a partner for granted. It's just something they can naturally do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 11:45 AM
2

I think porn is degrading for both men and women. However I don't think having casual sex is degrading.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 10:57 AM
42

I think two things can be true at the same time: Men can take action to find a partner. Some things outside of men's control, can prevent them from being successful in dating.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 10:41 AM
2

Isn't 6 true?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/01/23 10:09 AM
1

Only 40-50% of men reproduced? Wow!
/r/MensRights29/01/23 10:04 AM
1

Yes, some progressives are probably pretending to be more tolerant.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/23 11:38 AM
5

I agree.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:27 AM
2

I agree. I just think it's funny when feminists accuse someone of misogyny for disagreeing with them on Reddit.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:25 AM
4

I already made a post here about most feminists not being radical. People didn't react negatively.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 11:24 AM
2

Yes, especially if she calls people "incels" online.
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/23 11:28 PM
5

A woman called me a misogynist for having similar preferences.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 09:10 PM
19

The feminist leaders don't care about facts, only their agenda.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/23 09:09 PM
6

We need powerful organizations for men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/23 09:08 PM
1

The world is a feminist shit hole.
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/23 11:24 AM
2

Yeah, feminist leaders are evil. The average feminists are also pretty narcissistic. I don't talk about politics or men's issues with my friend.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/23 09:32 AM
2

Most feminists on social media seem like narcissists and psychopaths.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 12:42 AM
1

She doesn't know the difference between glancing and staring. Fucking psychotic bitch!
/r/AntiFeminists27/01/23 12:14 AM
2

I have good experiences with women in real life.
/r/AntiFeminists26/01/23 11:43 PM
2

I don't have evidence, neither do you. I understand your bitter from your bad experience. Maybe get some therapy?
/r/AntiFeminists26/01/23 10:27 PM
1

Why do you think we are losers?
/r/AntiFeminists26/01/23 10:14 PM
2

No, it's probably a lot less than 80-85%.
/r/AntiFeminists26/01/23 10:09 PM
0

Yes, you are wrong for hating women. Not all women cheat. It's okay to hate radical feminists.
/r/AntiFeminists26/01/23 10:01 PM
2

Lots of people throughout the world are anti-feminism. They come from all walks of life. Not everyone is bitter, misogynistic, or incels.
/r/AntiFeminists26/01/23 09:39 PM
2

How many feminists do you think are good?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/23 09:16 PM
5

I agree, there are good and bad people on both sides.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/23 06:21 PM
2

I don't want to generalize them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/23 03:41 PM
4

I think most left wingers don't understand why using incel as an insult is bad. Hopefully we can educate them. I give the YouTuber a break. She's probably a good person.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/23 02:31 PM
8

I think most left wing feminists have biases against men, including the YouTuber I watched. However they are not full blown misandrists. They are brainwashed to think a certain way. I have friend who is probably a left wing feminist. She's a good person. We don't talk about these issues.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/23 02:22 PM
1

I agree, but that is weird. 😆
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/23 12:47 AM
5

Men in general have become punching bags. Women can say nasty things about men without getting banned online. Double standards!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/23 09:13 PM
4

Incels are just sexually frustrated people. A small minority of them go online and talk shit about women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/23 09:06 PM
1

I like Janice Fiamengo.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 06:49 PM
3

There are no predators here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/23 06:02 PM
2

Misogynist is also a shaming word. All of these shaming tactics are silly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/23 02:23 PM
1

It's easy to recognize weird behavior.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/23 02:19 PM
3

Yeah, people who use incel think all celibate men are bad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/23 10:56 AM
3

The average man does not have more power than the average woman.
/r/MensRights25/01/23 12:09 AM
1

I don't think you should tell strangers, only people you want to be friends with. That way they will have more patience for you. Your example of the bike isn't all that offensive in my opinion.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/23 09:58 PM
1

Do you tell people you are autistic when you first meet them?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/23 07:51 PM
1

Most people can't tell if someone is autistic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/23 06:12 PM
1

Yeah, it depends on how severe it is. I only know a few things about autism which I learned from experts.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/23 06:01 PM
2

I haven't heard people say all celibate men are incels. I only hear it when feminists lose debates.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/23 10:55 AM
8

I haven't seen autistic men harassing women. It's psychopathic and narcissistic men who harass women. Some feminists have distorted the meaning of harassment. Some things that are normal can be misunderstood as harassment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/23 10:40 AM
1

And since everyone assumes all guys want to have sex all the time, they assume all virgin guys are incels. People know there are voluntarily celibate people. that very promiscuous men are more likely to be misogynistic, and to have assaulted or raped a woman. Yes, research says that but we shouldn't generalize promiscuous men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/23 01:48 AM
25

Story: I watch YouTube videos of a woman, who seems to be a left wing feminist. In one of her videos, she said some "incel" complimented her by saying she is cute online. He didn't say anything vulgar. It was just a normal compliment. Her channel is about movie reviews. I was shocked to hear that because I thought she was a good person overall. I felt like commenting on the video and telling her not to use "incel" as an insult. I also felt like asking, "Should all men stop complimenting you?" Lm…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/23 11:53 PM
20

Autistic people can learn social skills, but it's harder for them. You're right, people look at superficial things more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/23 11:03 PM
28

I don't understand why people hate autistic men. They can't control it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/23 09:54 PM
14

Incel is short for involuntarily celibate. It's used as an insult to shame men for disagreeing with feminists on social media.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/23 09:52 PM
1

I like your skepticism. Good for you!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/23 09:42 PM
2

I think you might've misunderstood my original comment. I said men can step in, if there is no danger to their life. Most of the time men break up fights.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/23 09:33 PM
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