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Really not enough information here to tell if he's interested or not, but you can definitely find out. Shoot him a text "Hey got plans Tuesday?" If he's free, say "I'm going to grab a drink at xx, wanna join?". If he is busy that day, and doesn't suggest another time to hang out, he's probably not into you. If he's busy that day, but suggests another time to meet, he's probably into you. Also, all you asked was if he has plans on Tuesday, so you're not really putting yourself out to get rejected…
/r/seduction26/11/13 09:40 PM
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Try making her aware that she does this. I just started dating a girl and she texted me a photo of herself, I told her how great her stomach looks - it's ridiculously toned - and she said "It's just the camera angle". It most definitely isn't. So I texted back "You can argue with my about anything you want. Except when I give you a compliment." I don't give frivolous compliments. When I give one I want it to be heard. If you are true with your words, and only say things of substance or importanc…
/r/seduction17/11/13 06:35 PM
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No we're actually cousins.
/r/seduction12/11/13 01:56 PM
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Remember that at any moment she can go back to her boyfriend. Maybe not get back together, but she probably is still in love with him so she can easily pull away from you and be distant. It's very easy to overcommit when a girl is being distant because instinct would say, if someone pulls away, try to pull them back. Wrong. Show her you can be cool and chill, but aren't looking to tie her down. Any time you spend with her, set a time constraint, and be the one to bring it up. See how she respond…
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:37 PM
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ASAP.
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:27 PM
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Yes, because otherwise sarcasm becomes a crutch for the weak.
/r/seduction07/11/13 02:19 PM
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Asshole = Indifferent.
/r/seduction07/10/13 06:15 PM
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Yup. 2 of my GF's thought I was gay when I asked them out. I asked her why she gave me her number and she said she thought maybe we were going to go shopping together. Used to happen more when I was 19-25, much less now that I'm 29.
/r/seduction30/09/13 08:47 PM
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I think this has to do with girls wanting to polarize men ASAP. The "gayzone" is probably something like the friend zone except "I find this guy engaging and attractive, but: there's no way he would be attracted to me/he's different than other guys/I don't know what to think, so he must be gay". Don't know, just a theory because the same used to happen to me.
/r/seduction30/09/13 08:36 PM
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Hey man, unless you're a natural no one gets good at this shit over night. The only thing that can make you better is more experience. So go back out there and keep doing it, whatever it takes. And only compare yourself to your former self, not to anyone else. If you're not getting rejected you're not trying and worse, you're not learning. Getting better at anything takes mistakes. If you are in a slump or being needy, or whatever, the only way you'll ever find out or correct it is to try again …
/r/seduction19/09/13 01:09 AM
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If you were making a big, glaring mistake, such as texting too much, wrong type of date; everyone would agree and it might be more clear. You seem attractive, intelligent and are good looking. So why are women flaking on you? Well, why have you flaked on women? Plenty of reasons, busy with work, not interested, met someone else. It's kinda human nature, especially for someone who is attractive to the opposite sex. I used to feel the same way you did, that I was getting flaked out on way more tha…
/r/seduction18/09/13 09:31 PM
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You are correct that women are horrible at dating advice. But, once you have gotten the woman, women are great at relationship advice, i.e. things that involve reading another woman's reaction's or feeling's to our actions.
/r/seduction12/09/13 07:52 PM
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Also 3 girls out of 12 is not bad odds. I use the rule of 5. Roughly, 1/5 girls will be "into me". This ensures I approach enough girls before blaming it on my game, the venue or any outside factor. If I've talked to 5 girls and not gotten a nibble, then I start questioning my approach. Statistically, 4/5 girls could: have a bf, find you unnattractive, be a Lesbian, already met a guy for the night. A little rejection doesn't mean you're doing something wrong.
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:37 PM
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Would really love to hear how the date goes and if she is crazy or not.
/r/seduction27/08/13 01:38 AM
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I think the reason they are gaining in popularity is because people are realizing that it really doesn't matter what you say. Henceforth, you can say something stupid or you can say "hi how are you?" and get the same results. What matters is what you say and do after the introduction. If you want to be the guy who opens a girl with a cheesy line, be that guy. Personally that's not my style so I just choose to say hi and introduce myself.
/r/seduction20/08/13 05:36 PM
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This reminds me of a girl I had just started casually dating in college. She had just gotten out of a relationship, and while we were out to eat, she got quiet and sad because the restaurant reminded her of her BF. I acted cool and didn't get bothered. Afterwards she thanked me and we continued to happily date for a few more months.
/r/seduction14/08/13 06:33 PM
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Well said.
/r/seduction12/08/13 02:30 PM
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Yes after rereading my post I realized it wasn't detailed enough to provide relevant information to someone else. I guess it was more me being excited that using some of the techniques I had read off of here recently I was able to quickly escalate things. I guess I don't have these techniques ingrained enough to do a better job of communicating them. Specifically the biggest thing I learned from this encounter was kino early by touching their hands and pulling them into your group. This gave me …
/r/seduction06/08/13 01:41 PM
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She had a plate in one hand.
/r/seduction05/08/13 10:27 PM
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Read the title of my post. Revealing intentions very early on.
/r/seduction05/08/13 10:26 PM
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I gave her my instagram instead.
/r/seduction05/08/13 08:27 PM
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Hahaha. Naw she was just blown away because she had been swept off her feet. Asked for my number afterwards but I wasn't that into her and knew we would never go out.
/r/seduction05/08/13 06:01 PM
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This is actually a relevant question. I crash parties on the roof of my apartment building and once I've made some friends, girls I'm talking to will always ask me who I know at the party. When I tell them I don't know anyone and just showed up it seems like they get a little weirded out. Anyone got a good answer for this?
/r/seduction27/07/13 08:07 PM
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Nice thanks!
/r/seduction18/07/13 01:52 PM
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I can actually relate, especially the part about being hyper, and engaging multiple people at the same time. Sometimes I do this, hogging the conversation and cracking all the jokes, basically being the center of attention. While this is great and shows a lot of your great qualities such as humor, confidence and great social skills, the point of doing this isn't to just show off these skills. It's a means to an end. So once you've established yourself amongst the group, think, what are your obje…
/r/seduction17/07/13 08:20 PM
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Yes, just play the dumb foreigner. People love to play the tour guide. Even in countries where I knew my way around I would always act like I didn't know where stuff was just to start a conversation. Benefit is it also works with fellow travelers.
/r/seduction15/07/13 10:06 PM
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My biggest tip is this: if you fail to approach a girl (or approach and then fail), DON'T get down on yourself about it at all. Immediately move on to the next one. My biggest challenge in overcoming AA was beating myself up with "shoulda's". This will only hold you back. The most useful tool I learned is how to bounce back quickly. Time spent beating yourself up is time you could be spending talking to that cute girl who just walked by me at Starbucks...hold up...
/r/seduction12/07/13 06:15 PM
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Rather than just calling this cringe why don't we offer suggestions? I think OP is getting over AA which is fine, keep doing it. You'll get better. My favorite opener is to approach casually and confidently and say "Hey. How's it going?" Ask it genuinely. Don't focus on what you're going to say next. Focus on what they say next. Having a canned response lowers your ability to listen. If she says "I'm doing ok." Ask her "Why just ok?". I feel like the worst part of AA is that it forces you to foc…
/r/seduction11/07/13 07:03 PM
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If you're not getting rejected, you're not trying.
/r/seduction04/07/13 03:21 PM
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I've often heard it being called a shit test before, if so, it's a very effective shit test because it's about the only thing that will make me walk away. Well, you've got to draw the line somewhere and I stick to it, I've been that guy before and I don't want to do it again. There are always plenty of other options, especially ones who can think of a more effective and creative shit test.
/r/seduction02/07/13 09:46 PM
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Great to hear a female perspective. Game is really just recognizing what females want without sacrificing what we want.
/r/seduction02/07/13 05:34 PM
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TIL /r/seduction sucks at relationship advice.
/r/seduction02/07/13 02:44 PM
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My favorite was 5 words I said to a girl. We were having beers at a bar on the beach in India with some others travellers. One of them was this beautiful but shy French Canadian. She didn't say a word for the first 30 minutes of everyone hanging out while I was being my naturally joking and outgoing self. Every guy was eyeing her and wanting to engage her but she wasn't doing anything to give them openers. Finally, she spoke up and said something. I immediately turned to her and said "Oh, so you…
/r/seduction11/06/13 08:35 PM
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Firstly, congratulations. In response to your 3 questions, your thinking is too narrow. You don't need to adjust your game to each specific woman you meet. If you have inner value, then you are the one who is deciding if these women are worthy of your company, not vice versa. Sounds like you are already doing this with girls 1 and 2. Specific advice: Does she drink too much? Tell her "You seem like you only have fun when you drink. Show me something fun that doesn't involve drinking." Girl 2 has…
/r/seduction05/06/13 08:51 PM
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Does anyone think that less is more? I don't do the typical kino of arm touching, "kiss my cheek" kino that most recommend. I will place my arm on their back when crossing a street or ushering them through a door. Personally I refrain from kino because I fell it builds sexual tension as in "This guy seems interested is making lots of eye contact, but has only touched me twice?". Then, when I make a move, I try to be rather cavemanish and straightforward about it like "I'm a man, this is what I w…
/r/seduction06/05/13 07:10 PM
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Yes. Curl your forefinger, then place it directly under her chin and as you lean making sexy face.
/r/seduction16/04/13 06:17 PM
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It's not a head game if you're being a dick. I think she is saying that if a guy is being overly sexual and obvious, showing an agenda, she will mess with him because he is a dickhead. It's not crazy, she's just teasing.
/r/seduction15/04/13 11:20 PM
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This is actually great. Just use your humor to bring up more serious topics. Ask girls pointed and serious questions about sexuality, dating and relationships. Then break the pall with your wisecracks and add a little self deprecating humor or story about yourself. This will do a few things: a) you'll a lot about them since they are more likely to answer a serious question if it's asked in a humorous way b) it will show you have a funny and a deep side (be revealing in a funny way) and c) you'll…
/r/seduction08/03/13 09:56 PM
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The most forbidding gatekeeper is within you.
/r/seduction20/02/13 09:14 PM
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Check out Charles Bukowski, the man had a messed up face but he killed it with the women. Why? Because he was a poet/author who did not give a fuck what women thought of his looks. Your problem is not your face, it's your self esteem. Learn to add value other than your face, women do not care about looks as much as men do, they care about value, be that confidence, skill, personality or money. Stick with it dude, you'll get there.
/r/seduction20/02/13 09:05 PM
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Yup. I always spend more time talking to the one I don't like, while focusing my mind and body language on the one I do like. Be super nice to the one you're not into, then even make fun of the one you like when she tries to join the convo, this will create sexual tension between you and her because your body language will be telling her Yes but your attitude will not be giving her the reaffirmation she is craving. At least, that's my style.
/r/seduction23/08/12 07:43 PM
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If someone knows why she wanted to do that then please please let me know, but either way I followed her a bit and then just diverted to go do my own thing. Someone addressed why she did this already. Don't focus on the why; it happens and is going to happen again. Focus on how you will handle it. Maybe try this: When she says "Oh let's head back to the party" respond "Yeah you're right, let's go I wanna beer pong/dance/find my friend." Act all excited to go do the next activity. Key is to make …
/r/seduction26/06/12 07:05 PM
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Great tips.
/r/seduction22/06/12 03:54 AM
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Just think: She probably wants you to ask for her number too because she is into you. What girl doesn't want to go home and say "This handsome nice guy asked me for my number on the train today:)".
/r/seduction21/06/12 08:23 PM
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Girls like it when guys take charge. You aren't being pushy, you are just letting her know what she wants. If you are getting IOI's, the next step is to plan a meetup. Hesitating too long will show you are not confident and haven't done this before. It felt awkward for me at first but after a few successes it becomes natural. Just try it... Think about it this way: Say she is really interested in you and wants you to ask and you don't do it out of fear of being pushy. You just missed out on a gi…
/r/seduction21/06/12 07:54 PM
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Just say something along the lines of "Well it was really nice meeting you, we should meet for a drink sometime. Give me your number and I'll call you". I always ask for the number as a command, such as hand them your phone and say "Here put your number in my phone". Always number close, otherwise, why even talk to them?
/r/seduction21/06/12 07:48 PM
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