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Great post. Another reason to drop the weights and hit the jujitsu mat. Edit: You guys act as if it's all or nothing. Of course hit the weights from time to time but jujitsu will give you huge gains as well, especially in day-to-day functional strength. Not to mention it's great cardio and you learn how to fuck shit up.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 09:15 PM
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This is a frightening realization.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 08:35 PM
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This is exactly why I insist that while I'm in a relationship that we both not drink while apart from one another. And yes, I abide by this myself. It doesn't take a fucking rocket scientist to see when willpower and logic breaks down. Going out to the club drunk with your friends is guaranteed to end in disaster, especially when it's a regular occurrence. It's like playing with gasoline and fire. Everyone is always shocked and surprised when someone gets burned. Morons.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 05:01 PM
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True. Nice dinners are intended to be rewards for sex/being cool
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 05:55 PM
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Lol @ the intro. At one point we got into a pretty fiery debate. The pre-TRP OP would have let her just believe she was right, however not only did I disprove her retarded theory on a legal issue we were debating I mocked her for even taking the stance. I started cringing at this part as it is usually best to avoid intensely logical conversation on a first date but you saved it by mocking her. Infusing humor into the discussion is the best way to crack her out of that rigid headspace and suck he…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 06:28 AM
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How many other guys do you think she fucked between the time you met her and the time you took her to bed? Do you think anyone cares? Are we supposed to never hook up with hot girls because they have sex? I'm not looking for a wife. I was looking for a hot sexual experience. Notice I stated clearly in the FR that I was seeing many other women in the meantime as well. This girl was never a priority. Pursuing a woman for months to get a first date is extreme. Her actions are very clear that you're…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 05:58 AM
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Clearly you get off on power, you've just gone full keyboard warrior. You literally don't know the first thing about me and you're telling me I don't have any self-respect and that I'm an idiot? You must be fun at parties. The reality is the amount of investment I put into this girl was minimal. The only reason I texted her once every few weeks is because I can pick up on something called a VIBE. It requires social intelligence to detect and read properly, which I obviously did. It's pretty stra…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 02:16 AM
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It was honestly fun man. This is the shit you need to learn to deal with when you're dating really young/hot girls. It instills confidence like a motherfucker. Also, it was more like 3-4 hours.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 01:05 AM
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Thanks. I've written a lot of FRs.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 01:00 AM
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Absent-mindedly sending off a text once or twice a month for a few months isn't time consuming. Sure she was flaky, but what hot college girl isn't? Like I said we really clicked and there was never a bad vibe. Think about it realistically: My investment? A couple dozen texts and a three hour date costing $11. The result? A belly full of my favorite food in the world, watched Will Smith fight evil robots, and banged a smoking hot college girl. That's a pretty high ROI, IMO. Yeah, the LMR is anno…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 12:59 AM
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Great post. Not many are able to pull themselves out of such a low place. I'm happy for you!
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 01:43 PM
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Unbelievable. For all the shit I've heard about the recording, THIS is what it actually was? He simply said that women rarely if ever stop or put up resistance to his sexual advances. He is saying how he's surprised by the privelage his stardom affords, that they do not reject his advances. Incredible that in this day and age it is spun as sexual assault. What he said was way more innocent than what I was expecting.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:45 PM
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Plan your escape and execute said plan. Leave India or move to a more progressive area if that exists. Sounds like a living hell.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 12:22 AM
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Self-esteem is a stepping stone to developing character. You cannot have one without the other.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 10:10 AM
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Props for nailing an 18 year old at 34. Most guys wouldn't have the balls. I hope to be doing the same into my 40's just to laugh when society tells me I shouldn't be.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 09:25 AM
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"There are no such thing as good girls. Only girls who haven't been caught." - Rollo Tomassi
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 09:17 AM
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Good for you, coming to terms with various imperfections at an early age. I'm also 5'6", 135lbs. I've dated stunning girls who are 5'11". I've also dated girls who are 5'3" and are genuinely happy I'm not taller because of how well we "fit". My phone is always getting hit up by various girls to the point I don't remember to text half them back. Women will beg you for sex and commitment if you just get out of your own way. As much as height may matter, you need to have an iron-clad frame that HEI…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 08:59 AM
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That hurts to read man. Fuck.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 08:12 AM
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I was laughing so hard through this post I almost didn't make it to the comments. In all seriousness, thanks for posting this. It's shit like this that reassures me of the necessity of our community.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 06:10 AM
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I've been lifting for 10 years, currently deadlift reps of my body weight and do DB incline reps with 35s. I run marathons.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 06:09 AM
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Stay tuned for episode two
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 03:13 AM
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The only rational thing to do if you're not a cuck.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 03:09 AM
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Don't think I've given up
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 03:02 AM
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(This should have been a warning sign in my head maybe that a quality girl doesn't just fuck a stranger the second time she's met him and to not pursue a relationship with her, but hindsight is 20/20). Not a big deal really. To be honest the faster a girl fucks me the more I like her. If I met myself I would fuck me quickly too. The faster she does it, the more I know she likes me. I don't like having to play games when we both know what we want. I shit you not, a week after we started dating it…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 03:17 AM
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On the plus side, winter gives you an excuse to stay in and catch up on reading.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 02:17 AM
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Can confirm. Had a friend in high school who's girlfriend cheated on him with 5+ guys. Every time we'd tell him he'd get angry and never believe us...though he finally did after his best friend fingered her just to prove what a whore she was. Good times.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 05:57 AM
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You're spot on sadly. But if you continue to improve you'll be able to build them higher and the ones you lose often come back, though you probably won't want them. You can argue there's no point, but you can also argue there's no point to anything. Eventually the Sun will blow up and after that there's always the heat death of the Universe. Live a life you'll be proud of and have fun doing it. Maintain strong personal boundaries/integrity and you will never regret the relationships you forge wi…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 05:55 AM
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And that's what this sub is about. Learning to put yourself first and minimize your downside with the opposite sex.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 10:44 PM
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Not only is your time important, so is the time of others. Being a man of your word and following through on what you say is imperative. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 07:11 PM
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To be fair, if you're a man who had to work on himself to become a badass, you're not likely to find a badass girl who got that way by herself. You usually need to start with a good prospect, good raw material if you will, and shape her into a partner you'd be proud to walk next to. Just know it's never forever.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 07:05 PM
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Because of shameless hypergamy and the free pass women get for a broad range of fucked behavior. They become angry and depressed because of how badly they want to provide a beautiful woman with an exciting and comfortable life but know that no matter how hard they try they will almost definitely get deceived, used, taken advantage of, and cheated on. It's very hard to come to terms with initially. I'm not saying it's a one-way street, that many men aren't complete fuckheads sometimes, but with h…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 07:01 PM
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It's fucking brutal to experience, but it's necessary. We grow from this shit while they squander their youth riding the CC. Invest in yourself and the tables will turn.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 06:13 PM
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You call having sex with 50-90 guys in a span of 2-3 months casual sex? Harmless fun? I am very pro-casual sex but holy shit.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 05:48 PM
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I get tested regularly and 100% always wear condoms with plates.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 05:43 PM
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For a one-time occurrence, perhaps it's lower. Her going on vacation like that is symptomatic for a much larger issue, one that will 100% fuck you over in the not so distant future.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 05:42 PM
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Swearing and insulting people doesn't make you TRP. I didn't get a "act like me and you'll get laid" vibe at all from this post, it was just his observations. It sounds like you're just jealous.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 11:40 AM
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I have 3 plates right now that I can call up and have riding on my dick any day or time of my choosing, and other girls that hit me up for sex that I have been denying lately. I don't give the slightest shred of a fuck that they are probably all fucking other guys. I would be shocked to learn that they aren't. The fact is these days I'm so focused on marathon training and my studies in school that I mostly ignore women and only hit a particular girl up occasionally if I need a release. Many of t…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 11:36 AM
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Part of taking TRP is relearning what love is and what to expect from a relationship. Most men want to be loved unconditionally by their partners, like how our mothers loved us (or didn't). Your #1 projection of love should be towards yourself, towards your purpose. Whatever is left over should be directed towards your partner and children. There is such a thing as love between a man and woman, you just need to be at peace with the fact that it won't last forever and it sure as hell is not uncon…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 08:34 AM
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You sound like a moron. Yeah, the dude sounds young and inexperienced. You don't need to be a cunt. The kid learned some important lessons. Masturbation and harnessing your sex drive isn't the same for everyone. Different strokes for different folks. Get off your high horse.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 08:20 AM
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Did you not read my whole post, or understand the primary reason men come to this sub? Yes, I do know countless women who cheat and do so with close to zero guilt or remorse.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 08:11 AM
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That post perfectly encapsulates my experience and the reason I posted this. +1
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 06:33 AM
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Agreed, good article. In my head it's not a matter of issuing an ultimatum though. I would simply drop her because she is already lost.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 05:31 AM
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I had the exact same experience as you. It's part of becoming disillusioned. I went through what you're feeling for about 6 months until I started becoming happier with myself. I see the world and women through an entirely new lens and things have never felt so easy and clear. It's a journey my friend. Pump your brain and body with good influences and you will grow far stronger.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/16 05:15 AM
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Thank you. This, along with OP's post, was the final kicker I needed to get off of Tinder. Sometimes I'm in shock when a girl won't give me her number or doesn't respond. The ratio of success approaching in person and messaging online is massively tilted in favor of doing it in person. Not only that but you can CONSISTENTLY pull hotter women more often than online dating. It's just scarier in person. Better fear than stress and confusion, though. Plus stooping to Tinder girls' level is humiliati…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 07:17 AM
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Good post. I'm 23 and was lucky to find my inner Chad during my last year of college. The shit I did was legendary. But I've started feeling like I'm on a downwards slope now that the college dream is over. The reality is I simply moved out of a liberal college beach town into a small conservative area in the midwest. Of course people and women are fucking different here. I need to get out of here and push myself back into the unknown.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/16 07:05 AM
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Keep with your naturally humorous self. Just work on spreading your jokes out more often, make more vaguely sexual jokes, and try using puns. Teasing works great as well. Too much joking and they definitely lose respect because they feel like you're putting on a front or over compensating. Being edgy unapologetic, and bold in your humor is very helpful in seduction. I'd also add to make sure you're not reaction-seeking in your jokes, but rather self-amusing
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 06:46 AM
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Can confirm. Lived in a SoCal college town for a year. This is exactly the situation.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 06:22 AM
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Great post, but I think it could use a bit of clarification to prevent this from being interpreted as hateful or disrespectful. A woman's development of an accurate perception of the reality she lives in is vastly slower than that of a man's in most cases. Woman are oblivious and ignorant for a lot of their adult lives because they avoid virtually all negative social, financial, and legal feedback. It's almost always between the ages of 29-45 they finally get a more accurate view of how the worl…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 02:00 AM
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It's fucking brutal to drop a stellar chick like that but there isn't a woman on the Earth that is cut from a different cloth. It hurts me to even say it because of how firmly I believed my ex was an exception to this TRP shit, but: She will cheat. How often and how seriously, and how far her relations go with these men is up in the air, but she will cheat one way or another. The most important thing to remember is that there are no such thing as good girls, only girls who haven't been caught.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 05:24 AM
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You go on dates with 7 girls and you jump into a relationship? cringe
/r/seduction21/02/16 07:43 PM
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If I was going to lie anonymously I assure you I could do better than this. She'll probably be a flake. It was just a really cool insight.
/r/seduction21/02/16 05:17 PM
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Some girls are extremely angry and belligerent when they get drunk. Some people are just shitty people. They are rare but you run into them when you go out regularly. I'd have straight up ignored her, pretended like she doesn't exist. If you deem it necessary, maybe ask your girl, "Do you know this girl?" Ask it with a slightly amused tone of voice. Hold your frame. She was the weird one in this situation, not you.
/r/seduction21/02/16 04:56 PM
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Don't get high, talk more, flirt more, escalate boldly.
/r/seduction21/02/16 04:52 PM
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You have no idea what this community stands for.
/r/seduction21/02/16 04:50 PM
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Hitting him back definitely isn't the right idea. Instinctually you want to but if you do it's a lose-lose situation. If the club staff didn't throw him out, I'd have walked away to find and inform the club staff of the fucking drunk retard they have in their club, then watch with a grin on my face while he gets his ass thrown out. That's a shame this happened to you, though I can assure you we've all been there or close to there many times. Brush it off as "random bullshit". It happens frequent…
/r/seduction21/02/16 04:46 PM
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Likewise if you are a loud douchebag Judgmental and presumptuous much? LOL
/r/seduction21/02/16 04:42 PM
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approach sequence There is no sequence. Approach is the appropriate word. I got a magical night with hours of sensual dancing and making out Was it the same girl the whole time? Did you get her number? Did you end up chatting? Did you try to pull?
/r/seduction21/02/16 04:36 PM
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It's easy to say that you choose to be a virgin or that you don't date a lot of girls if you simply don't have the skill set. If deep down you'd like to have more women in yourself, but you lie to yourself and say things like, "I'd rather work on XYZ than get girls, getting laid is so shallow", it's fucked up. Deeply examine your motivations.
/r/seduction10/02/16 09:13 PM
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Don't worry about this stuff too much until you've got your fundamentals covered. This is just icing on the cake. When you've got a high volume of women moving through your home, these are things to really consider.
/r/seduction05/02/16 08:12 AM
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You don't text between dates. Keep your texting logistical.
/r/seduction04/02/16 07:39 PM
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Guys who aren't socially smooth wouldn't know to be this prepared. Being prepared will help you feel more confident, entitled, and ready for striving to improve. I said this is a supplement. I can't give you every single thing you could ever want. Either take the value in the post or don't. I have lots of other posts.
/r/seduction04/02/16 10:07 AM
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Go pee or whatever, then yeah, wash your hands and wet a towel while the water is running. Give yourself a scrub down with the wet portion of the towel, dry yourself with the dry portion. Throw the towel over the shower curtain or in the tub when you're done. It's simple.
/r/seduction04/02/16 05:41 AM
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Hot girls are simultaneously the most secure people on the planet, and the most insecure people on the planet. They are just as human as you. Good post.
/r/seduction04/02/16 05:39 AM
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I go to the bathroom right away, wet a bath towel with just water, and then vigorously scrub my genitals, sometimes my ass. Sounds funny, but those are areas of the body where odor develops the quickest. Giving them a quick rub down with a wet towel doesn't make you minty fresh, but it will make things WAY better. I'd avoid using soap or wet wipes because you don't want her to taste those chemicals.
/r/seduction04/02/16 05:37 AM
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I get where you're coming from with this question, and I understand it's hard to build rapport with people when you're new to this thing, but going into a date with scripted questions is only going to put you into your head and prevent you from developing a good connection. When I go to meet a girl for a date, the only thing on my mind is that I hope it's an interesting experience and that I'm slightly aroused. Whenever I catch myself getting nervous or thinking I need to rehearse conversation t…
/r/seduction04/02/16 05:26 AM
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Textbook. Good job man.
/r/seduction01/02/16 08:02 PM
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I use pics from my travels. Never selfies. I use pictures that I look the best in and that show my form. One or two shirtless pics too (I'm doing a cool activity in a cool setting so it isn't douchey)
/r/seduction31/01/16 05:35 PM
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Selfies are a no-no.
/r/seduction31/01/16 10:41 AM
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This guy spends his entire life learning a set of skills and puts out a free two and a half hour video packed with insights, lessons, and anecdotes...and you want a summary. Unbelievable.
/r/seduction30/01/16 06:19 PM
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I've been laying groundwork on a girl for a few months now This tells me everything I need to know. You're needy and in scarcity. Forget about her and meet other women. Edit: She told me that she wanted me to take her out to dinner and I agreed Not sure if she's playing hard to get or just extremely inconsiderate, but she's a catch It's clear you have zero self respect or personal boundaries. Your behavior is an invitation to treat you like shit
/r/seduction30/01/16 06:07 PM
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Having sex yesterday was a factor, but definitely not the leading factor.
/r/seduction30/01/16 04:17 PM
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Interesting take on it, but I'm pretty sure it's because I'm burned out. Too many dates/partners after a recent breakup. My brain just hurts and wants to be left alone. Usually I need a couple days of me-time after I sleep with a new girl to feel normal again. I'm very weird, but I didn't get it in this case and it bit me in the ass.
/r/seduction30/01/16 08:31 AM
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The amount of value this guy puts out there for free is unfathomable. Automatic upvote.
/r/seduction29/01/16 07:21 PM
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Haha, yeah, both. Corey Wayne is a good dude to learn from for setting up dates and being able to navigate logistical puzzles
/r/seduction29/01/16 06:34 PM
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Yeah, he mentioned there being a lot of sexual tension. I'm assuming lots of flirting and pre-existing attraction. As a rule of thumb dating coworkers is stupid, but if it's a mediocre part-time gig it's no big deal
/r/seduction29/01/16 06:32 PM
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You're welcome
/r/seduction29/01/16 04:34 PM
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I live with a relative and bring girls home all the time. It isn't uncommon for me to have 4-5 different girls over in a week. My relative barrages me with questions and there are often moments of awkwardness, but I'm able to have a healthy sex life. Suck it up and pull anyways. Also, check out local parks and what not that you could take a girl for a date once the weather warms up. Scout the area for private spots with some kind of view. Girls are really into public sex from my experience. Just…
/r/seduction29/01/16 04:27 PM
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Good anecdote. If I were you I'd refrain from telling her about dates. Simply telling her that you're seeing other people if she asks is sufficient.
/r/seduction29/01/16 04:21 PM
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You're welcome
/r/seduction29/01/16 03:20 PM
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This is a borderline AskSeddit post but okay. You want to get into her house? Try any of the following: Ask to use her bathroom (least desirable, IMO) Tell her you're starving and make food together. A pizza would be easy. While you're talking with her in the car and arrive at her place, ask if she wants to hang out for a while to continue the conversation. Have her show you pictures from a trip she's mentioned before or an item in her house she's mentioned. Once you're inside just flirt and clo…
/r/seduction29/01/16 08:57 AM
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Yup. Just have a brief and positive explanation that shows you're making steps forward already.
/r/seduction29/01/16 05:47 AM
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Ask how their day/weekend was, what they did. Branch out the conversation using the various conversation threads his response creates. Use a warm, confident, and seductive tone of voice.
/r/seduction29/01/16 05:37 AM
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Yes. Source: Have done exactly that.
/r/seduction29/01/16 05:27 AM
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My nightstand: On top: Stack of books, a lamp, a candle, a lighter, and a box of tissue. Top drawer: Condoms and sex toys.
/r/seduction29/01/16 05:09 AM
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How would you feel if women you dated stuffed their bras and wore corsets? When you got her home it turns out she's fat and has no tits. What you're doing is deceitful.
/r/seduction29/01/16 05:05 AM
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I almost gagged. You're qualifying yourself massively and beating around the bush. This is so cringey. Keep your texting logistical. Use your phone only to set dates. Stay the fuck off it otherwise.
/r/seduction28/01/16 08:54 PM
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Don't waste your time. During the time you spend trying to "change her mind", not only will I have picked up 4 other girls. Focus on the process, not a specific girl. Girls that think a great LTR will land in their laps and begin immediately instead of blossoming naturally over time are delusional. Ignore them.
/r/seduction28/01/16 08:52 PM
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You don't need shoe lifts. Stop saying you need them. You don't. I don't care how short you are.
/r/seduction28/01/16 08:48 PM
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You need to practice showing intent. (Direct openers, going for the number, kiss, and pull). Do it until it isn't a big deal anymore. You'll fuck up a lot and feel like a moron but you need it to learn.
/r/seduction28/01/16 08:42 PM
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I used to spend all my time at home playing RuneScape. I did this from 8th grade until the year after I graduated high school. There was no doubt in my mind, I was an introvert. Then I discovered game. Now I feel like my mind is rotting and I feel like shit if I can't go out with friends and socialize. I love to laugh and have a good time with friends and strangers. It can be mentally exhausting for sure, but it feels good. It feels like I'm shedding layers of dead weight off my brain, like I'm …
/r/seduction28/01/16 08:40 PM
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All women, regardless of physical appearance, have different preferences and kinks. The single best thing you can do is not walk into the interaction with any preconceived notions. Secondly, be your best self. Have your life handled. Be happy with who you are and have a good time.
/r/seduction28/01/16 08:34 PM
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Community advice would be to keep texting logistical. Generally, when you invest a lot of time talking//texting over the phone, you will find that 9/10 times you actually "Talk her out of sleeping with you", aka things don't go anywhere. Spend the time that would have conversing with her over the phone to go out and approach/date new girls. This is called being process-oriented rather than results-oriented.
/r/seduction28/01/16 08:32 PM
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This was I'd say the 7th girl I've asked so I don't know anymore. Lol. I've approached 1000+ women. You don't get every one. Keep trying.
/r/seduction26/01/16 11:17 PM
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You're taking narcotics before a date to calm dude? Dude. Not cool. You're not going to learn anything that way.
/r/seduction26/01/16 11:12 PM
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How did it come up? A lot of girls lie, yes, but I could tell she wasn't. Her friend was telling about some guy she was dating and was going about guy problems (she had feelings for a guy and was trying to go home with him, even flat out saying that she wasn't interested in my friend and ignoring him all night). This led to my girl's friend telling me she had been with 3 guys. My girl was asking me, "How many girls have you been with?" She kept pressing me for an answer, but I told her I only te…
/r/seduction26/01/16 04:58 AM
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You're way too intense about this. Instead of cramming your brain with theory before you go out, try meditating or listening to standup comedy. It helps me a ton to schedule dates or hangouts with friends prior to going out so I'm in a social mood. I'd advise listening to premium pickup products and seminars after you approach to help you make sense of your night. Posting here with a FR will also help. Too much theory and your brain shuts down man.
/r/seduction26/01/16 03:21 AM
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They were in the bar (not really a big one) so they could see us all the time, but throughout the whole interaction they weren't there. Is that still a no-no? If so I guess pulling her to a table or to a table/counter on the other side of the bar was the right thing to do? Still a no-no. Token isolation is not good enough. She needs to actually be out of sight from the friends. Go outside with her for a few minutes if possible or drag behind a crowd of people and turn her so that her back is tow…
/r/seduction26/01/16 03:12 AM
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If you have good enough game you don't need to bother picking up girls from Instagram.
/r/seduction26/01/16 12:29 AM
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The conversation goes on and I'm using kino to escalate as we talk with her friends giving us a few looks here and there. Generally you should avoid escalating in front of the friends. This is to avoid the social pressure and slut shaming that girls deal with as a result. Then out of nowhere I just stopped talking and looked her straight in the eyes. She was talking and stopped midway through, with that "what's going on?" look on her face. I just said "I really wanna kiss you right now", lifted …
/r/seduction26/01/16 12:27 AM
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I think I have a girlfriend now Slow down dude, jeez.
/r/seduction26/01/16 12:12 AM
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ignorant prejudices What would you call what men do, ruling girls out for height, weight, breast size, etc? It's okay to have preferences. While it's important not to hide your physical attributes, it's also okay not to advertise them. Some girls prefer a guy who's 5'7", other girls would be disgusted, others don't give a shit either way. Putting it in the bio serves no purpose because like you said, being awesome and charming (having game) will win over almost anyone anyways.
/r/seduction26/01/16 12:08 AM
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A very good question and a question I had to ask myself a few times. There were a couple red flags: She was 23, yet claimed only to have slept with 6 people. The fact that she'd discuss this with me could be interpreted a number of ways, but I think she may have subtly been trying to hint that she doesn't put out often. This could mean one of two things, either that I'm special for her wanting to go home with me that night, or that it would take work for me to fuck her. It turned out to be the l…
/r/seduction26/01/16 12:05 AM
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Don't be passive aggressive, it's fucking lame. You could have responded with a tease, something along the lines of "That's the spirit. You don't need no man." or "Wow, a girl with her own sense of identity. A true unicorn." or "You're right. You just won't be as aroused."
/r/seduction25/01/16 11:56 PM
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I'm 5'6". Don't put it on your profile. Don't hesitate to tell girls if they ask. All you need to do is have a brief but interesting bio and have good form revealing photos. Specifying your height screams insecurity. Either you think you need to advertise your height to attract a girl, or you need to put your height on your profile as a weird kind of a confession because you're ashamed of it. Don't worry about it unless a girl asks. She's probably not worrying about it either. 5'7" is a great he…
/r/seduction25/01/16 09:42 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eYBzIMFPP2E RSD Max made a vid on this exact topic the day you released yours. Coincidence?
/r/seduction25/01/16 09:40 PM
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Everything sounded great until you went for the kiss inside the venue. By the sounds of it, the interaction was fairly low energy. A low energy approach might get you a phone number, but usually not much more in a bar, especially when her possessive friend might see her and slut shame her. I'd have suggested getting food or a drink when she's done with her friend. Otherwise just shoot her a text after the weekend. In this context, the kiss sounded like too much too fast.
/r/seduction23/01/16 10:04 AM
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I lived in Isla Vista, about 3 blocks from UCSB. Fucked 18 chicks my first 6 months there. That was on top of balancing a full-time course load and a part time job, mind you. The shit was dirty. I've done things in that town that world-class pickup coaches have a hard time doing. Having said that, it wouldn't be impossible for me to top that. The thing with game is that if you're intelligent about learning it, you only get better. Banging chicks only gets easier and easier and your social circle…
/r/seduction23/01/16 08:24 AM
2

Read Conquer your Campus by Mark Redman.
/r/seduction23/01/16 08:14 AM
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You don't swallow negative feeling or ignore them. You learn from them. Take the lessons, allow the negative emotions to sear the lessons into your brain.
/r/seduction22/01/16 06:59 PM
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I don't compliment the most beautiful women. They know they're beautiful and it drives them crazy that you won't tell them. They chase after your validation. That's part of how you seduce them.
/r/seduction22/01/16 06:02 PM
1

My go to line is "When are you free to get together?" I've been on 10 Tinder dates in the last two weeks.
/r/seduction22/01/16 05:54 PM
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So the date happens I see her and shake her hand I buy us both coffee. Hug the girl when you first meet unless she's trapped behind a table and a hug would be awkward. Establish familiarity from the get go. A handshake doesn't establish the "I'm a sexual guy" vibe very well. Also, do not pay for the first date unless she drove a long way to meet you. This is the 21st century. She can pay for her own shit. I will only pay for the date if the girl has to drive 20+ miles to meet me. Fair is fair. S…
/r/seduction22/01/16 05:42 PM
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You don't need to state directly that you think she's cute. If you're using good vocal tonality, squaring up with her (body language), holding eye contact, and chatting with her in a playful and vaguely sexual way, she will know with 100% certainty why you're talking with her. This is how you subcommunicate intent. It's the most confident and natural way to do it. Telling a girl directly that you think she's cute is generally just an awkward unnecessary comment and kills the natural flow of the …
/r/seduction22/01/16 08:49 AM
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Watch more RSD videos.
/r/seduction22/01/16 06:52 AM
1

All I hear are excuses and rationalizations. Follow the process.
/r/seduction22/01/16 06:43 AM
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It shows you it's possible. Stop complaining about other people's success. Learn from it.
/r/seduction22/01/16 06:41 AM
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Opening up to her and being flat-out honest with what's going on is what's called being vulnerable. It's a key concept in Mark Manson's book Models and it is truly the only way to deepen human connection. Texting her or seeing her in person and saying something like "Hey GirlsName, it isn't easy for me to just come out and say this, but I feel like I haven't been acting like myself lately and figured you deserved to know since we've hung out a few times and I've enjoyed getting to know you. My g…
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:52 AM
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most of my gaming was done via text after exchanging numbers I understand things worked decently for you this time, and I give you props for making it into her bed and fooling around, but I'd strongly urge you to keep texting to a bare minimum, especially sexual texting. Keeping conversations with girls to only logistics will allow you to manage your time way better when/if you've built a rotation. Not bringing up sex with also add to your allure if you can sub communicate your intentions throug…
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:43 AM
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Great FR. For future reference, use the tag [FR] In the front of your Field Reports. It will tag them green so that they are more easily spotted in the sub by guys who enjoy reading them. You did a lot of things right. Well, everything right from what I read going over it once. What I found most interesting from this FR was that this was definitely a social-circle lay. These a rare and I think posting it was fucking awesome because we don't see these in the community as much as we should. Leadin…
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:26 AM
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Great FR. Note to everyone: Public sex is the best sex. Just don't get caught lol. I've actually noticed it's way easier to hook up in public than it is if you take her to your bedroom. It's more spontaneous and exciting and chicks just go for it. Seems like you've got it down pat. The only part I raised an eyebrow over was that it seemed like you guys were doing a fair amount of texting/talking before the date. Generally this isn't a good idea, but you obviously successfully walked that line. H…
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:17 AM
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Glad I inspired someone to go out. Every bit of socializing helps. Just work on approaching a couple more girls next time. Nice job man.
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:06 AM
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Some guys are busy, yes. If you're getting success in the field but choose not to share, that's fine. It's your choice to share experiences or not. This post is directed at the people responsible for the other 197 posts of utter nonsense.
/r/seduction21/01/16 08:14 PM
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Keep posting man. Let's take this sub back. I'd love to read future FRs.
/r/seduction21/01/16 08:13 PM
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I'll look for it. Feel free to message me as well. FRs are always welcome if they are well-written and formatted decently
/r/seduction21/01/16 08:12 PM
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Thanks?
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:50 PM
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Notice how I said I got a girlfriend afterwards. I picked a badass girl from abundance. That's the proper way to go about things.
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:10 PM
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Yesterday, when I decided to come back to this sub. It details a close from last weekend.
/r/seduction21/01/16 06:02 PM
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The theory is coming from clowns who go out rarely if ever. Hence no field reports in this sub.
/r/seduction21/01/16 05:18 PM
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Even a brag thread is better than the circle jerk shit in this sub. It gives readers an opportunity to ask OP How and Why questions.
/r/seduction21/01/16 04:42 PM
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Declining it elegantly served as social proof for a 9/10 bystander Great job man. That move was very socially intelligent.
/r/seduction21/01/16 04:26 PM
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I wish I could upvote your comments to the fucking top. This is spot on. Thank you.
/r/seduction21/01/16 04:12 PM
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This is one of the problems. A success story is not brag! Two years ago posts about closing multiple girls in a day or pulling a threesome would explode and be celebrated on this sub. Nowadays if you post something like that, people scream out in a jealous rage that the post is brag, without even bothering to search for lessons or insights. God forbid they ask questions about why or how OP did what they did. How are you going to keep successful guys around in this sub if you shout them down for …
/r/seduction21/01/16 04:09 PM
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I've had the same experience with posting field reports. And that's a large reason why they don't get upvoted when they are posted. Guys are jealous and take a success story as brag, instead of learning the valuable lessons and insights from it and thanking OP. It's extremely self-sabotaging when people hate on others in this community when they have success. Another big reason why advanced guys don't stick around here.
/r/seduction21/01/16 04:01 PM
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You don't need how-to books. You need to change your inner beliefs. Books like The Game will give you background on the community and will ingrain in you that this shit is possible to get better at. Books like Models by Mark Manson and The Manual by W. Anton will help you to adopt proper beliefs about women. These books will go over the tiny amount of how-to material you need to know.
/r/seduction21/01/16 03:48 PM
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In some ways, yes. However true a lot of trp material is, there is a pretty toxic energy in that sub, an energy that you don't want to permeate your brain. It's easy for advanced guys to go that route because of the multitudes of bullshit that the journey throws at you, but at the end of the day it's toxic and borderline hateful. Surrounding yourself with those beliefs will make you resent women at best, and hate women at worst. That isn't fair, to them or to yourself. Edit: Very true. There is …
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:40 AM
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Point taken. There is a difference between "lurk" and "contribute" though that should be observed.
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:35 AM
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Some guys that have been in the game for a few years and have had huge success and results often take satisfaction in returning to their roots and helping the little guy, just how they were helped in the beginning. I'm one of those guys. I recently broke up with a girlfriend of 8 months and am getting back into the game with a wealth of knowledge. Three years of knowledge, knowledge and experiences from closing over 20 women just in the year before I got my girlfriend. I wanted to share it with …
/r/seduction21/01/16 07:33 AM
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Read the best books published on the topic, then go out and try the shit. You will fail miserably an unspeakable amount of times, but you make slow steady progress. None of the pointless bits of theory on this sub will help you even remotely. Communities like this were originally formed to share techniques and ideas to go try, then report back your experiences to have them critiqued mercilessly by other guys with experience until you get it down. Glory ensues.
/r/seduction21/01/16 06:43 AM
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DATE OTHER WOMEN. Have you ever read the community literature? The Game, Models, The Manual, etc?
/r/seduction21/01/16 05:21 AM
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This question should be posted on AskSeddit. But yeah, move on. I'd do a takeaway then never look back. "Oh, I see. Sorry, but I'm not interested in being just friends. If things change feel free to text me." Then NEVER contact her again unless it's to respond to her. If she contacts you, assume she wants to see you and try setting a date. Be explicit about it being a date. Repeat takeaway process if she doesn't want to go out.
/r/seduction21/01/16 04:44 AM
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To make this as simple as possible: If you're an attractive person and have good game, you practically don't have any competition. Competition is a null subject. The problem is it takes a lot to be attractive and have good game. Follow the process of becoming the hot guy with good game and you won't have anything to worry about.
/r/seduction21/01/16 04:01 AM
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Some girls don't like it. It's an exceedingly small fraction of the female population, but it exists. I slept with a new girl earlier this week who explicitly told me, "I don't like touching" and "I don't like to kiss". I said "So, instead of any kind of foreplay, you'd rather me strip your clothes off right now and fuck you?" She responded with, "Yes." I'll post the FR in a couple days
/r/seduction21/01/16 03:45 AM
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