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Also: if you assume a rejection is a shit test and just keep on making moves, you'll be the asshole 99% of the time. It's not worth the 1% to bulldoze on, no does mean no.
/r/seduction06/02/19 02:40 PM
12

Also a lot of women actually getting raped. Sure there's a chance of false allegations but in the real world it's not that widespread.
/r/seduction09/12/18 02:39 PM
34

Once you have eye contact: hi, I'm...
/r/seduction24/02/18 12:40 PM
4

Hooking up with another girl in front of the fwb is usually a bad idea. That being said, flirting is always fine and getting a phone number subtly is what I usually do if I know I can't hook up that same night.
/r/seduction30/10/17 05:49 PM
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It will always affect you at least a bit. This mentality can help you process it but it'll still suck at the time. In time you'll get better giving it a place faster and one day someone is rude to you while you're being normal and you can tell them, "Wow, you seem like a bit of a shitty person, have a good night".
/r/seduction03/09/17 08:30 PM
10

Keep dating and fucking other women, that's the easiest way not to develop feelings imo. Also, make sure that she's aware that you're not exclusive so that she can do the same if she wants to.
/r/seduction14/07/17 09:07 AM
9

Nope, the woman is OP's (video OP) neighbour. The guy that's with her is her best friend who she sucked of about 6 years ago although he wasn't allowed to eat her out. Source: video.
/r/seduction30/06/17 10:06 AM
20

If you're having sex the same night you met or very quickly on the first date then there's no need to mention that it's casual. If you have a couple of dates before you sleep together then I always say that I'm not looking for anything exclusive. I've never had girls that felt like I led them on.
/r/seduction12/06/17 12:36 PM
13

It might get you laid a couple of times but it'll be shallow. If you can manage to get consistently laid using your real life, the end result is something much more satisfying even if they're just fuck buddies or even one night stands.
/r/seduction10/05/17 05:48 PM
1

Isn't that pretty much explained in the second half of the game?
/r/seduction26/04/17 11:46 AM
9

Why not? We've talked about inner game and being comfortable with who you are. I've fucked plenty of girls who others wouldn't find attractive. Guess what? I don't fuck girls because others find them attractive. I do it because I like the girl and have fun with her. I've been dissed a couple of times for sleeping with an "ugly girl" and it pisses me off. She was beautiful in her own way and if others can't see that then they've blinded themselves. If I have fun on my moped then I'll tell people …
/r/seduction09/03/17 09:56 AM
2

Try to filter those PUA-tricks. Some have some fun pick up lines or conversation topics. There's a five-question game from niel Strauss that's pretty much a bar bet. Those are always fun and I don't feel weird using them because it's like memorizing a joke. PUAs also overanalyse social interaction and reduce it to certain aspects. They can give some insights into what you're doing but doing the same can make you a robot. Remember: live in the moment and Analyse it after it's done. Find the littl…
/r/seduction09/02/17 12:44 PM
1

Ugh, spent like 3 minutes scrolling cuz I was high
/r/seduction06/02/17 08:54 PM
1

When approaching a girl I almost never use a wingman. I do however like to have a "home-base" to go back to if I get rejected. Friends are best for that. If I go out alone it's hard to create that place. I usually end up using the smokers area for that.
/r/seduction31/01/17 03:21 PM
1

It might work on some girls but very few. It's better to be open about who you like. If you want to be sneaky about it then you should open with a question about relationships or something to the group. Then you can isolate her. This works better in a bar though so taking the direct approach (top voted reply to the one you replied to) is better for daygame
/r/seduction06/01/17 01:07 PM
2

With zoning in I mean isolating her and actively try to get her home with you. Basically exclusively flirting.
/r/seduction24/11/16 08:29 AM
4

In public you just flirt with the group but hold back on "zoning in" if that makes sense. Flirt with girl B but do it as a sport. You can sleep with B in private but making the flirting more like a sport you're less likely to be accused of ditching A.
/r/seduction23/11/16 02:20 PM
5

When a girl hasn't seen your dick, it's in a superposition of big and small. Every guy jokes about having a big dick and many girls have found out that that wasn't true and will often see it as overcompensating. If you make a little dick joke it shows that you're not insecure about your dick size and makes her more likely to be curious about your dick. They'll be pleasantly surprised by it. The size of the dick is usually less important than chemistry with a girl. A man with a big dick shouldn't…
/r/seduction31/10/16 01:54 PM
7

I disagree. I go with groups so I can go to hit on girls and when I strike out or need a change of scenery I'll go find my group again and dance a bit with them. When I get bored I'll go make a round to see if I know other people or can meet some new ones. Repeat this a couple of times and I have an awesome night. If I just go with 1 friend I feel obliged to stay with him.
/r/seduction31/10/16 12:07 AM
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You need people who look like your friends though. Instant friends are also fine but you need friends
/r/seduction22/10/16 08:59 PM
2

I hold out both hands expecting them to grab on to them. Once they've latched on, I give them a spin and I'm in.
/r/seduction30/09/16 02:56 PM
1

The base? So you have the balls and the bottom of the shaft? Doesn't seem so Sexy
/r/seduction11/08/16 05:14 PM
3

I prefer to go for the odd relevant funny picture.
/r/seduction02/08/16 03:18 PM
3

At many raves 90% of the girls that are dancing alone are on drugs and just want to be 1 on 1 with the music. I always extend my hands with a smile to ask her if she wants to dance. I'll often get rebuffed by the girls that are alone. I have much more success with the girls that are in groups.
/r/seduction01/08/16 11:13 AM
2

Well sometimes they just want the attention and not to really pick them up. Anyway I definitely agree that that's a shitty thing if she's enjoying it.
/r/seduction26/06/16 10:39 PM
2

Sometimes she enjoys to be hit on or likes the conversation even though the guy is hitting on her a bit. That is fine if you're cool with it, trust her and get to go home with her at the end of the night.
/r/seduction26/06/16 10:31 PM
2

After you've fucked them ask them what made them make a move. You could get some good info.
/r/seduction26/06/16 01:01 AM
1

Coming on too strong is never bad (if that means asking for a date). Just talk to her a bit, have fun and then say: "Hey we should talk more over coffee some time"
/r/seduction12/05/16 01:29 PM
3

For most women being heard is more important than having a solution. Start with listening and sympathizing. Say things like, "wow, you must have been angry" or "that really sucks". Wait until she's finished with her story and all the emotions are out and then ask what she's going to do about it. Then you can suggest a way to deal with the issue. Be on her side but don't overdo it. She knows that she might have been partly at fault but you pointing that out while she's still angry and wants to ge…
/r/seduction04/05/16 11:33 AM
4

Are you using light kino? It's hard to attract using just conversation. Use conversation to establish a connection so you feel you know each other. Use kino when teasing her or joking around. The opener leads into a conversation in which you build attraction. Make the conversation personal and talk about stuff you find interesting or stuff she's passionate about. Make a lot of eye contact and try to get closer to her. Also: assume attraction and escalate.
/r/seduction03/05/16 11:15 AM
1

Tell them but give them a chance to say no. Tell them "I'd like to have a drink with you sometime, when are you available?" They can still say no but the phrasing is more in your favor.
/r/seduction02/05/16 01:11 PM
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Her - "I have a boyfriend" Johnny Bravo - "you look like the kind of girl who could use 2"
/r/seduction20/04/16 12:11 PM
1

It's only weird if you make it weird. Just do it and don't worry about it.
/r/seduction07/04/16 04:16 PM
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This is stupid. Seduction is about going after what you want and making her want the same thing. Increase romance and she might bring it up but if she doesn't then it's fine to do that yourself.
/r/seduction29/03/16 11:37 AM
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How is this a useful FR? You just told a story to brag. There is nothing useful to learn here except that it happens that women are horny as fuck.
/r/seduction23/03/16 12:16 PM
2

Say that you never really got into the social media thing and now just use it to keep in contact with people but never post things. It's useful to have Facebook because if you tell them your name then they can add you and you can message them through Facebook. I use it fairly regularly when trying to get dates off girls on the fringes of my social group.
/r/seduction29/02/16 02:36 PM
1

Set up a safe word. That being said, in a one night stand environment you often don't go all out. A bit of light bondage and some aggression is more suitable.
/r/seduction20/02/16 01:38 PM
1

Being nice is fine just don't be a pushover. Be assertive and maintain your frame. Be clear about your goals and respect others. That's how you get laid. Some people think being aggressive is the way to go, that's just assertiveness taken too far.
/r/seduction17/02/16 02:50 PM
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This is why people think that seddit is basically TRP. Leave them better than you found them, be a man and be clear about intentions. If she wants to fuck: great! If she wants more and you can't offer that: fine, let her decide. The goal of this community is to break through the messy social norms of sluttiness and making the woman feel like she's on a crazy high all the time she's with you. If and when you decide to break things off, she should look back and smile.
/r/seduction05/02/16 03:01 PM
3

Make out with her, have a drink at the bar and talk a bit, make out some more. Ask her if she wants to get out of there, invite her over for a cup of tea. Escalate and get sexual, forget about the tea.
/r/seduction05/02/16 02:56 PM
1

It's in your head. That being said, it can be hard to get out of the cycle. If you can get your hands on some Viagra it can definitely help. A couple of times with Viagra and you won't associate sex with ED anymore. You create a new pattern that helps you break the cycle. Make sure you really like the girl and don't worry too much about the sex but just have fun with it.
/r/seduction31/01/16 02:08 PM
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You don't want to fight but you don't want him to disrespect your girl. Solution: ask him politely but firmly not to do that again. If he starts picking a fight tell him you're not looking for a fight, you just don't want him to do that again. If he keeps on escalating then just calmly move over somewhere else. There's no need to get aggressive but it's a good thing to make your opinion known.
/r/seduction31/01/16 01:46 PM
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Although being clear about this can be good, it feels less organic and isn't the best for seduction. Girls like to be swept up in the moment and assuming attraction and escalating works better for getting a girl into bed. That being said, you can eliminate buyers remorse after having sex by being direct. I personally never do it unless I've already slept with the girl or if I think that she might regret it.
/r/seduction28/01/16 03:24 PM
3

A hobby that will help socially and "romantically": magic! Learn a couple of tricks with rings, elastic bands and maybe some cards and you're in.
/r/seduction26/01/16 02:16 PM
1

Congrats! You made out! High five yourself and be happy. She realises you're shy and made the move herself. She wants you buddy and all you have to do is show up. Before you go to sleep text her something along the lines of: "Hey, I had a really nice time tonight! Sleep tight kiss emoji". When you see her again in the library ask her playfully "so when's our next date?". If you want to kiss her when you're in private go for it. Make sure you cop a feel on her butt, hips and back. Also for more e…
/r/seduction24/01/16 02:35 PM
1

Congrats dude! Have fun ;)
/r/seduction23/01/16 12:16 PM
1

If you have fun planning then do it but it can make you overly invested in something that isn't there yet. Make sure you focus on having fun.
/r/seduction22/01/16 07:18 PM
1

What do you think? It doesn't really matter. Just suggest something that YOU like and if she doesn't like it tell her to let you know. If you want a suggestion: your place, Wall-E, inside out or a nature documentary. That's just my preference. Also, don't worry and just have fun with it. You don't need to plan everything ahead, just enjoy the time together. If at her place, look around a bit and ask her about her stuff. It's really fun. Also, let me know how it goes, I've become intrigued.
/r/seduction22/01/16 07:07 PM
1

If you end up making out then have fun with it. See what you like, see what she likes. Stroke the parts of her body you would get aroused by. Grab the back of her neck and feel her hair. Lose yourself in the kiss. If you want to you can keep escalating but if she's shy and inexperienced then making out is plenty for the evening. You can even talk about what you like and shit. If you've made out then you're pretty much in. She might not want to have sex the first night and maybe only after half a…
/r/seduction22/01/16 04:18 PM
1

If she does any of those things, she's crazy. She probably won't but it's always a possibility. If she does, tell her you don't appreciate it and that you feel attracted to her and that if she's uncomfortable with anything she can just say no and you'll stop. Be respectful but also clear. Sure, you're hitting on her and if she doesn't want you to she should tell you. She's already said yes to a movie together, what did she expect? She should have said: yes, but just as friends. You're not expect…
/r/seduction22/01/16 04:13 PM
1

You can take it slow but kissing her on the first date is not forward whatsoever. Only yesterday there was a girl who was completely obvious to my "subtle" hints. It was only when I kissed her that she realised something was up. She decided she liked it and went with it. If I hadn't kissed her she would have friendzoned me. Basically the rule is assume attraction and escalate. That means that you don't look for signals that she wants you to kiss her. You touch her knee, put your arm around her, …
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:55 PM
1

Yeah, your idea, while cute, is stupid. Don't put effort into a girl who your not yet invested in. Imagine doing a massive over the top proposal for a girl in your class: It's not romantic, it's creepy. The reason? No attraction yet. Save the romantic gestures for after you've started dating and have made out. Here's what you do: invite her over for a movie you both like. After the movie (or before or during a quick break) tell her come here (she's sitting next to her) and stroke the hair behind…
/r/seduction22/01/16 01:51 PM
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Average dudes need to get social proof. You become the life of the party and dance with plenty of girls. You become instantly hot even if you're averaged or even funny looking.
/r/seduction21/01/16 01:00 AM
1

Primary goal: have fun! Secondary goal: find a girl to accomplish the primary goal with.
/r/seduction11/01/16 02:41 PM
1

Sure but you need a lead in. During a walk this is easy. During a conversation not so much.
/r/seduction08/01/16 02:59 PM
12

Could you guys list some ways that you go for the kiss? I often go for the hair behind the ear move or the something at the end of the date. Sometimes, however, you are sitting next to a girl and it feels that you have to wait for the moment. How do you create the moment?
/r/seduction08/01/16 02:19 PM
4

Sounds like an asshole thing to say. I prefer to enjoy time with a person I love and who does the same with me. We both try to have our way and find a fun way to compromise. I like my women to be as strong in personality as me.
/r/seduction03/01/16 04:23 PM
1

Learning how to text is important. Either be good at it or just use texting to meet up in real life. Tinder has made approaching much easier on Internet. Day and night game is pretty much the same though.
/r/seduction28/12/15 11:14 AM
1

First friends and then fucked or the other way around?
/r/seduction27/12/15 11:40 PM
7

Wow, now I want to become a bartender.
/r/seduction26/12/15 10:18 PM
4

Make it a fun picture then! The picture isn't so she can look at you, it's so she remembers a fun moment you had together everytime you message her
/r/seduction25/12/15 11:32 PM
9

Also: a lot of girls put effort into their eyebrows. The combination of this and the fact that most people don't mention it makes it work.
/r/seduction23/12/15 11:43 AM
0

"Hey, I haven't tried the weed you gave me yet. Wanna help me break it in?"
/r/seduction21/12/15 07:02 PM
7

As long as you don't spike them, they know the consequences and you don't force them to do anything they don't want to it's OK in my book.
/r/seduction21/12/15 11:45 AM
4

Hoes that cheat? No, that's kinda the definition of being faithful: you don't cheat. Edit: am I missing something? Are these lyrics?
/r/seduction24/10/15 04:48 PM
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Prepare for the worst, hope for the best. Expect her not to cheat and trust her. If she cheats then break up. I tell my girlfriend that if she wants to make out with another guy then she's at liberty to text me she wants to break up and then do what she wants.
/r/seduction24/10/15 03:38 PM
9

You need to be attractive, not handsome. These are 2 very different things and mixing them up is killing for seduction. Being physically attractive is a part of it but being unreservedly yourself and proud of it will get you so much farther with a woman. Being interesting, sociable and a great all around person is more important than looks. I know plenty of high value women who really don't care about looks. The obsession with looks mainly exists in the minds of men. I'm ignoring the girls who a…
/r/seduction21/09/15 02:29 PM
5

I understood it as being outcome independent so you don't expect anything back. If you do something nice, then make it a gift. If you get something back then great, if not also great! I think your interpretation makes more sense but I like mine more.
/r/seduction10/08/15 09:38 AM
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I feel like you're a spambot who baits people with good advice and then spams the comments.
/r/seduction09/08/15 10:21 PM
2

It's important that they at least eventually know this and that you isolate her. In the beginning, I like to engage the group. It gets your social juices flowing, it shows you are a fun person who can connect to a lot of people, it makes you less desperate and it gives the girl who you're hitting on the approval of the group. If all the girls at the table like you then they might even wingman you if your intentions are clear. Personally I would engage the group and if I didn't have a wingman I w…
/r/seduction31/07/15 07:10 PM
37

Women aren't moths! Citation needed
/r/seduction25/07/15 07:57 AM
3

I don't know where you live but here in the Netherlands we have party plugs from a bunch of different brands for about 10 or 15 euros. I also bought some from the action for a couple of euros. They reduce noise slightly but not so much it sounds muffled. You can still have conversations with them in and you won't end your night with tinnitus. Make sure you put them in before entering the club so it's easier to get used to them. Putting them in halfway through the evening sucks becaus the you alr…
/r/seduction24/07/15 09:27 PM
70

Do a couple of these things, if you do all these things you become a depraved pervert
/r/seduction13/07/15 01:12 PM
0

Most attractive guys are used to trying again because they want to see if after 5 minutes of talking, touching is now ok. If you tell people you aren't touchy that's a wide area. Does that mean that you don't touch people but people can touch you? Does it mean you don't touch total strangers but people that you got to know for 5 or 10 minutes? Does it mean that you don't touch at all? Does it mean you don't make out, hold hands with people who you don't have a deep connection with? If in your ca…
/r/seduction05/07/15 10:25 AM
1

You underestimate the sluttyness/horniness of the rest of the world.
/r/seduction05/07/15 10:11 AM
-1

Oops, I was thinking about bra stuffing and pushup bras.
/r/seduction01/06/15 07:53 AM
-6

And both significantly become smaller when the clothes come off.
/r/seduction31/05/15 10:23 PM
25

Apparently medschool doesn't teach geography
/r/seduction26/05/15 01:11 PM
2

i would take out "until rejection" just assume attraction. some times they reject u just to test how u react as a shit test and other times they truly reject u Incidentally, an excellent way to rape somebody! You know it wasn't a shit test if after you knocked the pepper spray out of their hands, pinned them down, pulled down their clothes and put in your penis they're still crying. If that happens: remember your new motto: doesn't matter, had sex!
/r/seduction23/05/15 09:17 PM
2

Omegle game is vastly different from ordinary game. If you want to see naked girls on the Internet the by all means do so but don't bother if you want a real girl: there is (almost) no benefit. I suck at omegle game and am proud of it.
/r/seduction23/05/15 09:03 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/djla0/advanced_antilast_minute_resistance_lmr_tactics/ The guy has a lot of bullshit so skip to the 1. Of the list. Basically the classic way is to give her the cold shoulder when she says she doesn't want to have sex. Say that it's OK but go check your phone. Don't give her the satisfaction of the rest.
/r/seduction12/05/15 02:59 PM
5

Investing in a woman isn't a problem, over-investing is. How do you know the difference? Basically, don't expect anything you might not be able to get from her. If you expect her to be exclusive after a ONS then you'll probably be expecting too much. If you ask her for exclusivity and she agrees then it becomes fine no matter how far you are. It helps being clear from the start what she means to you. Basically, just communicate!
/r/seduction12/05/15 11:18 AM
2

Also tell them that you are the best at making that specific food and try to get good at it
/r/seduction30/04/15 02:22 PM
2

I've had girlfriends through the friendzone (I thought so at the time but we were teenagers) so it can work. The problem is if you get one-itis for a girl when you're in the friendzone.
/r/seduction21/04/15 10:03 PM
110

Be friends with a hot girl: get all her hot friends! Social proof Yo!
/r/seduction21/04/15 05:34 PM
3

There is some good and bad advice here in this thread! I would say that any situation is approachable. You are however right in seeing that these girls are preoccupied. You don't know how much they want to do what they're doing now. What I do in those situations is I approach, talk to them a bit and try to read her body language if she enjoys it or not. If she doesn't seem to be into it I'll just say "but I don't want to keep you from your music / studying / workout, I should probably leave you …
/r/seduction17/04/15 01:15 AM
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Sorry I don't agree! I can get (enough) girls but I like to make things a game. I like interesting little routines. Give me a couple of those old-time Neill Strauss pickup lines from The Game. Inner game is great and will get you girls but I want to have fun and test out new lines, bartricks etc.
/r/seduction14/04/15 12:08 AM
4

I find that it works against me. If I jack off, I'm don't NEED her at that moment. I become less pushy and more playful, I choose better partners and enjoy them more. If I strike out, I don't care because I'll just jack off later.
/r/seduction11/04/15 01:23 PM
3

Don't pick the girls that are craving attention, badmouthing others or behaving in a shitty way. You should be fine. If you encounter a rotten apple, reflect on how you can avoid the same apple rot the next time and break it off. Try to be the best person you can and find somebody like-minded. Also: asking if women should be avoided in a seduction subreddit? Kind of an obvious answer isn't it?
/r/seduction08/04/15 09:35 AM
1

To me that wasn't the teller. For me it was the dry spell on tinder and suddenly 10 matches, 2 of them directly down to fuck an American in Berlin. Americans aren't very popular in Europe anyway and suddenly just because of a change in attitude the Tinder hits start pouring in? Tinder is pretty consistent over a time period. Sure you might suddenly get 2 or 3 matches but 10 matches in one night after none for 3 weeks? Attitude can't change pictures.
/r/seduction08/04/15 12:06 AM
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justhumblebragthings
/r/seduction06/04/15 09:17 AM
2

Colognes also fit into your natural pheromone balance. They complement it and become a part of your natural scent. I prefer diesel only the brave. I also have a favorite washing liquid and a favorite deodorant. This, combined with my natural scent gives me a certain scent profile which is always present in a certain way and unique enough to recognize. I often go for the longer game and so it's useful for me to smell the same every time to gain a sense of familiarity. Taking a girl with you is a …
/r/seduction03/04/15 11:51 PM
3

First of all: communicate. The other tips are pretty shit in my opinion. Another thing I haven't seen yet is just relax and make her comfortable. Take your time, don't expect to have sex and just enjoy being together in varying states of nakedness. When she wants to talk, take the time to talk and enjoy that. When you've talked for a bit go back to kiss her and restart the escalation in a more intimate manner. You seem like you might be putting pressure on her which can be very uncomfortable for…
/r/seduction03/04/15 11:06 PM
7

Yeah, take the old Nike approach on that one ;)
/r/seduction03/04/15 10:53 PM
6

I would say the advice is always: assume attraction and escalate. It's pretty much the same idea but I prefer it.
/r/seduction23/03/15 08:27 AM
4

It's "probably could've", not "probably would've". He's saying that it's likely that there's a chance. Also probably sounds better!
/r/seduction12/03/15 10:42 AM
11

A small addition: if you're talking and somebody asks you how you know each other, always tell them you know each other from preschool. You used to kiss behind the shed for a year until she dumped you for the cool kid of the class. Pretend to be a little bit hurt about it (obviously in a joking way). She'll likely play along and now you share a secret from the group and it gives you and excellent excuse to isolate her without her group wanting to protect her.
/r/seduction25/02/15 11:40 AM
14

If you enjoyed the eye contact then break out a smile, give a wink and look away at whatever you were doing before. Especially in clubs this is gold.
/r/seduction16/02/15 01:05 AM
5

To be fair: it's a different kind of talking. You can't have a proper conversation but it kind of feels like texting each other. One person shouts something in to others ear without eye contact and the other person shouts back. There's no interplay, changing of tones etc.
/r/seduction16/02/15 12:44 AM
3

In a very loud club you can't talk but you can ask simple questions and answer them. This is the part where I ask them what they study. I might ask some more questions but it's not to escalate, only to find out if I would find them attractive. At that point I just start dancing with them. This is pure flirting. Look her in the eye, smile, spin her around, do a couple of goofy moves together: whatever feels right. After some dancing ask her: Hey want to go somewhere we can talk? And take her to a…
/r/seduction16/02/15 12:42 AM
16

I hate your philosophy. It takes all the fun out of it and makes it a big task for the guy. Maybe this might help some people to get girls in the beginning. If so: go for it! Dating and seduction, however, shouldn't be a chore. It should become a fun way to relate to people whether you end up fucking them or not. This gives you an edge in the long run. Instead of consciously trying not to be a creep and pushing and pulling her away, you'll do it naturally and won't go too far because you're just…
/r/seduction27/01/15 08:37 AM
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It depends what you want. If you just want to get laid you can do whatever you want and as long as you keep approaching, you'll get laid. Seduction is more however. This community is about having a positive impact wherever you are. We want to use this to get women but if the women say no we want to leave them better for the experience of talking to us. That's why we should reflect and care about what the other people think about us; not because we want to change until we fit into their idea of p…
/r/seduction23/10/14 09:51 AM
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Is it OK to grab her boobs on the streets without talking to her? This answer is only good for people who don't escalate enough. I was recently out with a friend and under the motto of outcome independence he made a LOT of girls VERY uncomfortable. There is a difference between outcome independence (what the outcome does for you) and reading the situation (what does she think about what you just did). I realise that giving off a rapey vibe is not the problem of most people of seddit but if you r…
/r/seduction27/08/14 08:59 AM
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If you need to locate a cute girl in a bar you could ask your wingman or otherwise ask another random guy to point you towards a hot/nice girl. Tell her "Hi I'm blind so when my friend told me you were hot/cute I had to find out if you were beautiful in other ways as well". Go from there as usual.
/r/seduction09/08/14 02:14 AM
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Obviously the "blind talk" will come up. Once you've established rapport with a girl get them to close their eyes to find out what it feels like. Tell her you use your other senses of touch (move closer to her and touch her intensely), sound (whisper in her ear), smell (smell her hair) and taste (go for the kiss). Also talk about the movie ray Charles how he chooses his attractive women based on their wrists. Addition: if making a conversation sexual talk about sex with the lights off, how you d…
/r/seduction09/08/14 02:08 AM
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Why? Because of the implication?
/r/seduction30/07/14 11:04 PM
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Just adding a counterpoint: hobbies that they won't experience won't matter, a hobby that they do experience will carry extra value. I'm mainly thinking of magic in this case. Every girl I've met has liked a couple of magic tricks. It doesn't close the deal in any way but it's a good way to intensify feelings of awe.
/r/seduction26/07/14 10:48 AM
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Church has been said which is a good one. The girls who aren't all party-party in college and classes are a possibility. Some kind of group sport like volleyball with a mixed team or even dancing. Just picture your ideal girl and try to remember where you saw her (type). Kudo's on knowing what you want! This is seduction, not "have sex with wild crazy girls". Who you seduce is your choice. You want HB9.5's to have wild sex with? Go for it! You want a HB7.5 to bond with and forge a deep and meani…
/r/seduction05/02/13 01:32 PM
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Hot Babes
/r/seduction05/01/13 11:54 AM
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Good point, it is an asshole thing to do when you put it like that.
/r/seduction04/11/12 12:38 PM
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Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime. Or do you need me to copy the link contents into a comment for you?
/r/seduction03/11/12 04:19 PM
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Oh come on, be at least a bit arsed! Superthrust had no problem getting it. Walk up to girl. You: Hey, how's it going? Her: Fine You: Cool. What are you doing later? Her: I'm not sure. You: Would you like to come home with me? And then do nothing. Maintain silence and tension. Proceed to either face shameful rejection, or to take a girl home after a 3 line exchange. The idea is to throw the sexual tension in there straight away. Usually in the field, people don't accept directly so you move past…
/r/seduction03/11/12 02:20 PM
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I feel you, but this thread was made for a couple of laughs. I was hoping to have really crazy routines like the naked man backfire brilliantly showering us all in the glow of embarrassment of that one guy.
/r/seduction03/11/12 02:03 PM
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I thought it was a joke but I didn't want to call bullshit if he was serious. Thanks for confirming!
/r/seduction03/11/12 01:24 PM
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If so, tell us how it went! How did the first two react? How dit the last one turn you down?
/r/seduction03/11/12 01:12 PM
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http://lmgtfy.com/?q=the+apocalypse+opener Edit: TIL lmgtfy is for assholes. http://www.theattractionforums.com/field-reports/94447-apocalypse-opener-fr.html is probably the best link to explain.
/r/seduction03/11/12 01:08 PM
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Yes, I know the origin of the move. I tried to find a video but decided seddit would know about it. For those who don't: http://how-i-met-your-mother.wikia.com/wiki/NakedMan(move) I don't know the exact story as I had a bit to drink when he told me but he had a bet with his friends that he would try the naked man. He had 3 dates which all went bad and invited himself into the apartment and got naked. 1 girl threw him out of the apartment and his clothes behind him (like barney stinson but with h…
/r/seduction03/11/12 12:37 PM
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Such a civilised comment. Good on you!
/r/seduction03/11/12 11:03 AM
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She wanted to have sex with you at one point, there's a good chance that she still wants to but thinks you don't want to. So go have a drink or something and if it comes up, play it off as something you did on purpose because you're not such a slut. Also: /r/askseddit is a perfect place for these kinds of posts.
/r/seduction03/11/12 10:49 AM
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Initiate again around monday (without reference to the previous setup) to drink something somewhere but don't pick a date until you discuss it with her. If she's busy a lot, place the ball in her court and specifically tell her to let her know when she's free and that you'll see if you're free then.
/r/seduction03/11/12 10:46 AM
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Upvoted for calling your dick a short joke... EDIT: dick =/= dock
/r/seduction24/10/12 12:03 AM
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Yes, but you also play with crocodiles and spiders for fun. In my country the spiders formally apply to come into your house and the crocodiles just stay away.
/r/seduction23/10/12 09:15 AM
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I get why and all but the shouting really scared me... I think I'll hand in my man-card and go sit under the desk a while.
/r/seduction23/10/12 07:25 AM
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I'd rather die getting bj's than give bj's! FTFY
/r/seduction19/10/12 11:30 AM
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Nice work on the insulting comment but as an explanation of 'closing the set' it really sucked. Next time, try to at least answer the question even if you're going to 'bad-mouth' seddit. For instance: The terminology 'closing a set' is used when said geeks use their hacking skills to gain a phone number, a kiss or a fuck (#-close, K-close and F-close respectively).
/r/seduction19/10/12 11:03 AM
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Not exactly sure but I would downvote because he's badmouthing the boyfriend as a super needy bitch and the whole 'sleeps with girls with boyfriends' thing. In my opinion that's a pretty bad thing to do. If you're good at something, don't be an asshole about it. That goes for anything in life in my opinion. If some guy's a big strong jock, then he shouldn't use it to bully people. If you're great at seducing women, don't do it to girls who have boyfriends. If a girl uses that as a line to get yo…
/r/seduction15/10/12 03:52 PM
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What you could also do is introduce yourself to him and say "but if you want to talk to me you'll have to catch me later on, I'm having a pretty sweet conversation with Eve (or whatever her name is)" If he continues, you can go for a "dude, I just told you, if you really want to talk to me, find me later" This frames him as a guy who wants to talk to you although everybody knows he doesn't. When he's gone you can continue on this with: "I wish I was more ugly, I wouldn't get hit on so much" with…
/r/seduction02/10/12 09:40 AM
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The whole point is feeling good about yourself. The approach doesn´t matter at all but it's about having fun. If OP likes doing this then this is much better than skipping steps!
/r/seduction01/10/12 11:25 PM
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That's pretty cool actually! Forget chicks, I love that shit!
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:38 PM
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I meant yourself. So "Good point, I shouldn't have any myself, I'm fat enough as it is" It works best if you're not fat at all.
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:33 PM
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Be romantic and fun. For instance: take her out to a romantic meal when she's not expecting it and go for a walk after dark. This is where the fun part comes in. Do something a little bit illegal together. Climb on top of a private roof together, break into an old factory. Do something that won't get you into too much trouble but is exciting enough. At that point you have wild sex with the extra thrill of being discovered. You could also do stuff like lasergaming/paintball or other competetive s…
/r/seduction13/09/12 08:35 PM
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