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1	Is it a turn off to women if a man lives with roommates? Depends on the location, depends on the culture, depends on the roommates, and most especially, depends on the woman. I'd say many people 30+ who live somewhere with reasonable cost of living will have some expectation of prospective partners living independently, but not all. 25-35 is a stage where people vary really widely in terms of where they're at. Some have been working professionals for a decade or more, some got off to a slower start and are finishing their degrees. Some women will alre…	/r/ExRedPill	18/04/22 02:08 AM
1	Skipped most of the Redpill and went straight to blackpill. How do I recover? The problem is when its the ONLY reason men interact with women. I said nothing negative about men wanting sex or partners.	/r/ExRedPill	15/04/22 04:14 PM
5	Skipped most of the Redpill and went straight to blackpill. How do I recover? You need to fully accept that women are people. So are men. Neither are biological or hormonal automatons. All are incredibly varied and complex. Some women like soft men, some don't. Some women find looks very important, many don't -- and even those who do have wildly differing tastes. In my experience, the men who have the most dating options are the ones who have their own shit in order (hygiene, finances, mental health, self-respect) and treat women like people. they treat women like people,…	/r/ExRedPill	15/04/22 08:41 AM
3	How does female attraction work, or rather how does a man become attractive? Yeah, this guy is telling you more BS. There are women into all kinds of shit.	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/22 02:13 PM
1	How does female attraction work, or rather how does a man become attractive? This is just not true. Maybe on a population level, but on that level its true of men too. Plenty of women go for the shy, plain guys. Most people date within their own spheres, socioeconomically and hobby wise.	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/22 02:12 PM
3	How does female attraction work, or rather how does a man become attractive? Oh wow, how convenient, I am a scientist in training. And I can cite plenty of scientists who think the entire field of evolutionary psychology is more or less crock. (You can do your own research, sci hub is great if you lack institutional access to journals!) Psychology as a whole has issues with reproducibility, falsifiability, testability, models used for study design not actually proving what their authors say they do, p-hacking, etc. Evo psych is even more prone to these issues. It is incr…	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/22 02:53 AM
10	How does female attraction work, or rather how does a man become attractive? It is absolutely not "money and status". Think of what you want in a friend. Nice and respectful is probably first, right? Then maybe cool hobbies in common. After that, you'd probably prefer a friend who had his shit together vs one who smelled like onions and was constantly asking to "borrow" $20. You don't need a potential friend to be the richest or coolest, but having basic life skills is good, right? This applies even more if this is not just a potential friend, but a potential roommate. N…	/r/ExRedPill	14/04/22 02:29 AM
17	How does female attraction work, or rather how does a man become attractive? This is more weird toxic self help pop sci bullshit. Maybe one step removed from RP. There is no magic formula to make any woman (or person, but this should go without saying) like you.	/r/ExRedPill	13/04/22 05:43 PM
73	How does female attraction work, or rather how does a man become attractive? This is the answer, not any self help shit. The things that make a good partner are generally the same things that make a good friend. Aka, THERE IS NO MAGIC FORMULA TO MAKING WOMEN LIKE YOU. Some will, some won’t — just like men. To have the best chances, make yourself into someone you’d want as a friend or partner. Take care of yourself, your home, your finances. Have things you’re passionate about. Be respectful both to yourself and other people.	/r/ExRedPill	13/04/22 05:41 PM
20	Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size. Toupee fallacy. Guys with average dicks are more likely to have shame and not talk about their size. Fr tho, no one cares about dicks more than men. Men being obsessed with dicks is a meme among women, most really dgaf.	/r/ExRedPill	10/04/22 03:28 PM
34	Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size. This. Oral skills will trump dick for the vast majority of women. And by “skills” I really mean asking her what she likes and being game to go down often. For most women there is just so much on the list before dick characteristics. Intimacy, respect, communication, foreplay, oral, etc. Go to a female-owned sex shop. The most popular products will probably be non-penetrative vibrators. After that, relatively small vibes and dildos. Like ~1.25 across and ~5-5.5 long (and dildos need extra length …	/r/ExRedPill	10/04/22 03:25 PM
1	What if I don’t want a “traditional woman”? Redpillers always forget that traditional marriage sucked for men too. Constantly working, intense pressure to keep working, never getting to see your wife and kids, no time for hobbies, etc. Women and men were both fucking miserable in traditional nuclear family marriages. The redpill is a total fantasy.	/r/ExRedPill	07/03/22 03:08 PM
3	I'm never going to be in a relationship, which is okay I guess, what ways are there to enjoy life regardless? You’re so young. Drop the redpill and start working on yourself, inside and out. Get a therapist, work on your self-loathing. Try to be as healthy as possible. Once you stop hating yourself so fucking much, socializing will become easier. Get into your hobbies, get new hobbies. Find reasons to leave the house and talk to other people. Focus on making FRIENDS. Male or female, doesn’t matter. Have boundaries and self-respect (therapy comes into play here) and you will end up with people who like Y…	/r/ExRedPill	27/02/22 10:47 PM
13	As a Red-Pilled Guy, I had no Idea it was this Bad, and My Story You weren’t saved by the Red Pill. You benefited from basic coping strategies and trauma information you could have gotten many other places. You were saved in spite of the Red Pill being how you found this information. Basically, you narrowly escaped.	/r/ExRedPill	14/02/22 03:20 PM
6	Thanks to this sub, a man and a woman somehow fell in love with each other and we thank you for it existing I know what its like. Due to past experiences, I've struggled with misandry and distrust for men. My solution has been to have a zero tolerance policy for the type of behavior you describe in your male friends. Ones social circle tunes itself to what you tolerate. I now have male friends who I know aren't like that. One of them was my friend for a year or so, and has been my boyfriend since 2020. There ARE men who are free of toxic masculinity and redpill bullshit, who genuinely see women as peo…	/r/ExRedPill	06/02/22 02:54 AM
9	I just realized how useless looks are TBH I don't even think most incels are truly below average in looks. I think they just have exceedingly low self esteem which draws them to TRP in the first place, and then the RP misery spiral kicks in and makes them think they are hopeless hideous abominations. Every time I've looked at pics in threads where dudes talk about looksmaxing and skull shape or whatever bullshit, they're almost all just average dudes. They think they're hideous but they're truly just average and could easily find pa…	/r/ExRedPill	05/02/22 04:07 AM
1	I posted here 5 months ago and I still can't get unmired from blackpill thought. Yeah this is what I'm talking about. Your mindset is poisoning you so bad you don't even realize you're poisoned. Most people don't fucking care that much about how other people look, including women. Seriously. Go to a mall or something and start looking at all the couples, most of the guys are average at best, most look like thumbs. Guys with severe disabilities can find girlfriends and happiness. If you do nothing, the worst that could happen is being miserable for years or potentially hurtin…	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/22 08:51 AM
2	Curious to know what y’all think of this statistic? men are just like female birds, its fine. in my experience (as a bi AFAB nonbinary person) women just care way less about looks and more about other factors. i find women just unbelievavly gorgeous and am rarely visually attracted to men. am still happy with my male partner. he's my little brown feathered bb -- doesn't mean i don't appreciate the bright plumage of females.	/r/ExRedPill	01/02/22 05:45 AM
8	I posted here 5 months ago and I still can't get unmired from blackpill thought. This sounds like OCD and/or body dysmorphia. Please, please seek help. Don’t let this shit rob you of your youth, don’t try to go it alone. It’ll take time but as someone who previously suffered from an eating disorder, it can absolutely get better.	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 05:15 AM
31	are men even attracted to women? This sounds like deep, deep internalized misogyny/self image issues/possibly even a sign of lurking gender issues. And just general mental health issues/maturity issues if you're going around constantly thinking other people look disgusting. Just anecdotally, I struggle with gross misogynist thoughts directed at myself, but not other women. It's how my gender dysphoria manifests at times. I've always thought women are gorgeous and beautiful, but when it comes to talking about my own female trait…	/r/ExRedPill	31/01/22 04:47 AM
4	Im sick and tired of being perceived as cute and non-threatening Insane amount of people in this thread generalizing women and giving horrible advice that will make your life worse. Don’t change yourself for anyone but you. Be yourself, accept that women are diverse and some won’t wanna fuck/date/marry you, but if you’re a decent human being some absolutely will. There really is someone out there for everyone. If someone says something that hurts your feelings, speak up. You don’t have to make a big thing of it, don’t have to change the tone of the conversati…	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/22 05:48 PM
1	24 (f) redpill ideology has left me confused and scarred by past relationship If you have health insurance, you can often go on their website and see what providers in your area accept it. You can also just google therapists in your area and start calling around and asking. Specifically you would be looking for a therapist/counsellor, usually with psychology and/or social work credentials. A psychiatrist is who you would see for medication. You may also be able to ask your GP for a referral to therapy, which may help the insurance process in some cases. If you do not have…	/r/ExRedPill	27/01/22 08:01 AM
2	24 (f) redpill ideology has left me confused and scarred by past relationship OP, you did nothing wrong. You were barely an adult when he preyed on you. I am so sorry this happened. For your child's sake, please seek therapy. You are not "used up" or anything of the sort. He abused you, and when we are abused we often take it out on ourselves. If you were stupid and naive, then so are millions, possibly billions of women the world over. But, you need to talk about this in therapy and work through it so you can see your younger self with more sympathy, and learn to trust a…	/r/ExRedPill	27/01/22 07:53 AM
4	"A key that opens many locks is a master key, but a lock that opens to many keys is a shitty lock" Great apes (esp bonobos) actually use sex as a tool for social cohesion. Don’t sully their name by associating them with incel ideology. :(	/r/ExRedPill	11/08/21 01:51 PM
7	Redpillers claim that women will spend their youth having sex with attractive men, only to later settle for an unattractive “beta provider”. Can anyone refute this? Importantly, men do this too. No one knows what they’re doing when they’re young.	/r/ExRedPill	05/08/21 12:18 PM
15	I've fallen into the thinking of AFBB, it seems somewhat true. So why is it not true? This is all bullshit. Please go outside and actually look at some couples you see. Grocery store, the park, etc. Most people date within their socioeconomic sphere. Many people date coworkers. I am female and I never heard any woman seriously talk about looking for a rich dude. But I have heard many, many tales of women putting up with boys who play videogames all day and have to be taught how to do laundry, pay bills, etc. Seriously, go outside. You will see women working their asses off in eve…	/r/ExRedPill	19/07/21 03:26 PM
3	I feel like shit As another person that happened to be assigned the female sex at birth... yeah. I feel you. It is so hard going through life knowing that with every man you encounter, there’s a chance he thinks of you as a subhuman piece of meat. Or isn’t an aggressive, committed misogynist but doesn’t fully understand that women are just as human as men. Or who doubts your capability and will attribute every mistake you make to your gender/sex. It’s exhausting, and it’s normal to be upset and frustrated.	/r/ExRedPill	02/04/21 06:19 AM
1	Reminder: Ex-RedPill doesn't have to mean blindly accepting opposing viewpoints and completely rejecting your old beliefs I think a lot of feminists would accept you, since it's pretty clear you've made a significant effort to educate yourself and change for the better. Particularly offline. I, for one, accept you. :)	/r/ExRedPill	22/03/21 02:16 AM
11	Study suggests that not knowing how to flirt is the main reason behind involuntary singlehood. Next on Reddit: people taking a low-quality survey in a questionable low-impact journal with a single author seriously. The researcher seems to publish mostly completely baseless evopsych speculations. Ugh.	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/21 06:09 AM
1	I am disturbed by the RedPill So...first off, take a deep breath. It'll be okay. Second off... It is a good thing that you've realized men can be like this. To be honest, a lot of dating men is knowing what dangerous red flags to look for, and getting out as soon as you see them. If you ever feel like he's using RedPill tactics on you, get out. If you don't feel loved and cherished, or you only feel like that when he's in a "good mood" and the rest of the time he treats you like shit, leave. The good news is, there are good …	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/21 04:42 AM
7	TRP/PUA caused me to have an unhealthy obsession with sex that ruined my childhood. It makes me really sad that TRP/PUA and toxic masculinity affected you so deeply from such a young age. :( But I'm really happy that you've at least recognized the damage and begun the process of deprogramming yourself. I hope you have a lot of great friendships and relationships with women in the future. Not only that, but that you can stop competing with other men and start bonding with them. Good luck! Imo, it definitely helps to consider history when trying to deprogram yourself. Once you've…	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/21 02:53 PM
14	RP advice is mostly about gaming trauma dynamics - agree or disagree? Yup. 100%. This is why RP techniques completely fail on most women.	/r/ExRedPill	22/01/21 06:14 AM
3	I'm very happy about how much I've grown! These are all great insights. Patriarchy is so harmful to men. As far as your life still being difficult...yeah. :/ Part of the appeal of TRP is its magic pill nature. It sells itself as The Way to fix your life and get what you want. I can understand how vulnerable people can fall for it -- just like people fall for cults, fascism, etc. Life is just hard, and the only way to improve it (or your perception of it) is a combination of deep introspection, hard work, and honestly a bit of luck. Bein…	/r/ExRedPill	16/01/21 12:04 PM
1	Feel like I'm tricking girls when I am social. Is confidence a trait or something you display? Think about what you’re saying when you say “friendzoned”. So, you’re afraid of...having a friend? The point here is to make friends with people for reasons other than potentially getting laid. If you ask a girl out and she says she’d rather remain friends, you haven’t lost anything unless you were never actually interested in being her friend to begin with. Basically, don’t invest time into people you wouldn’t want to be friends with. Don’t be disingenuous.	/r/ExRedPill	05/09/20 03:28 PM
16	Feel like I'm tricking girls when I am social. Is confidence a trait or something you display? This. Find people you’d be friends with and can be yourself around.	/r/ExRedPill	24/08/20 06:51 PM
2	disgusted and afraid of the sexual fantasies of my girlfriend and women in general Lol, would you carry out EVERY fantasy you have and take every opportunity to have sex you could? If you wouldn’t, why would she? Women are people. Also, your repeated assertions that “women need/have more sex than men” are just not founded in reality. In my experience, women have, on average, lower libidos than men. Not to say they don’t enjoy sex, they just tend to be less preoccupied with it and leas desperate for it than men. For most women, casual sexual experiences aren’t even particularly…	/r/ExRedPill	17/08/20 06:49 AM
3	Evolutionary Psychologist who popularized "Ovulatory Cycle Shifts" on which TRPrs (claim to) rely on to justfify their crap theories admits it's all BS. Mandatory Read. They know exactly what it means. If you can think of it, there are women who like it.	/r/ExRedPill	25/07/20 07:35 AM
8	Not sure I'm part of the redpill (advice) Very well said. And to be clear, most women will leave rather than deal with this shit. It only works on those who are already vulnerable. So, you’ll be further damaging an already fragile person, and chasing anyone with healthy self esteem away.	/r/ExRedPill	23/04/20 06:30 PM
1	whats wrong with red pill. Yeah, except that’s...not actually reality. It’s a myth designed to shift the blame onto women and make you feel hopeless so you think you need TRP. It’s all bunk.	/r/ExRedPill	06/04/20 12:40 AM
1	Feel like I've wasted my twenties. I've missed out on so many chances and hints that I want to slap myself. Lmao. I did give advice, it just isn’t what you want to hear. Work on being the best version of yourself you can be, making yourself happy, and learning to like and respect yourself and empathize with others. And yes, if a girl says no, it’s no. This shouldn’t be a fucking revolutionary concept or the end of the world when it happens. It’s not a fucking puzzle to solve when someone isn’t into you.	/r/ExRedPill	30/03/20 03:01 PM
5	Feel like I've wasted my twenties. I've missed out on so many chances and hints that I want to slap myself. Congrats on rejecting TRP and misogyny and doing things the hard, but worthwhile way. I suspect that dropping the asshole act will get you far.	/r/ExRedPill	29/03/20 08:51 PM
5	Feel like I've wasted my twenties. I've missed out on so many chances and hints that I want to slap myself. Oh, ffs. This is r/exredpill, stop peddling this shit. OP, all women are different. Just like all men are different. Work on your self-esteem the healthy way, don’t just use cheap tricks to fake confidence. That only leads to shallow relationships where you can never be yourself. Respect yourself, respect other people. You don’t have to be an asshole or a pushover. Just be honest and upfront. If she says no, take it in stride and accept it. Seriously. There are no quick fixes for confidence. The…	/r/ExRedPill	29/03/20 08:49 PM
18	It is true that one's personality does not change after loosing thier virginity. But if that is true, why is there such a stigma on adult virginity? It’s the flip side of slutshaming. Men are supposed to be sexual conquereds, women are supposed to be virginal and chaste. Traditional gender roles suck for everyone. But also, do observe that the types and degrees of shaming are different. A 30yo man discovered to be a virgin might be considered a bit odd. A 30yo woman discovered to have done porn out of necessity could lose her job, relationship, or custody of her kids in certain scenarios. Regardless, anyone who shames people for their amount…	/r/ExRedPill	26/03/20 03:02 PM
7	Autism, TRP and alternatives Oh my god, there are plenty of women into paper notebooks and fountain pens. And there are quite a few who are into programming. These are relatively normal special interests. I’m a single woman on the spectrum. I’ll be blunt. TRP might be succeeding for you, but you know why? Not because all women are basically fuckable children and can be manipulated into sex by following a script. It’s likely because of a couple things. 1. NTs don’t know how to interact with autistic people. And yanno what? T…	/r/ExRedPill	15/03/20 05:03 PM
0	Insecure about penis size Don’t take stupid penis pills or whatever. Most women don’t really care. Don’t forget, the vast vast majority of women cannot come from penetratjon alone. The other things you do, like communicating with her to figure out her needs and wants, are far more important. Even if you really are incredibly small, there are plenty of women who would be fine with that if you were communicative and open minded. Sure, a minority of women want a bigger dick. But a lot of women can’t even handle dicks beyond…	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/20 05:17 PM
4	Male vs Female Psychologist for Red Pill Detox? Honestly, your psychologist doesn’t really need to “relate” to you the way you want a friend to relate to you. They’re there to listen and challenge the negative thought patterns that are hurting you. In this case, I suspect learning to have a positive, respectful relationship with a woman would help. Also, it can take time to “click” with a therapist, but you can also be subconsciously self-sabotaging and avoiding therapy by telling yourself you’re just not clicking with any of the therapists y…	/r/ExRedPill	18/02/20 03:08 PM
18	Lost an acquaintance to rp and am pretty mad about it. If a guy is willing to openly admit to misogynist views directly to your face...there’s also probably even worse things he thinks but doesn’t say. I suspect he was always redpill and has just opened up to you more.	/r/ExRedPill	14/02/20 04:47 PM
1	RedPill has made me depressed. A chaotic post Lol, at every turn of the wheel of progress toward a better future, there’s been people whinging about traditions and superstition. So which point in the past was perfect? Cuz the conservatives of 20, 50, 100 years ago would likely consider your life and beliefs revolting if you do any number of things considered normal and harmless by the conservatives of 2019. You say “cultures” but which cultures are you even talking about? You know there’s more than one, right? And they’ve all experienced “u…	/r/ExRedPill	19/12/19 02:40 PM
1	RedPill has made me depressed. A chaotic post I mean, conservatism is kind of defined by discrimination without solid rationale. “Traditional values” don’t hold up very well to intellectual scrutiny.	/r/ExRedPill	18/12/19 11:14 PM
1	RedPill has made me depressed. A chaotic post Occam’s razor. Either there’s a global conspiracy forcing a leftwing agenda into academia (for what reasons, who knows...) or... The people who spend decades studying these things and have an excellent grasp on the concepts and context have reached a logical consensus that replaces beliefs based on bigotry with beliefs based on actual knowledge of the subjects.	/r/ExRedPill	17/12/19 11:39 PM
12	RedPill has made me depressed. A chaotic post This, this, this. All statistics have to be framed in the wider context of scientific consensus and the context of culture and history. One study does not an objective truth make. Not only that, but there’s a reason the vast majority of actual biologists, psychologists, and social scientists working professionally are leftwing and/or feminists. The people who actually understand these statistics in context see that even when they appear to paint women in a bad light or whatever (which is subject…	/r/ExRedPill	15/12/19 11:27 PM
3	Advice for people that just escaped? Listen to women. Read about their experiences, learn about their lives. Listen to the science — no, I don’t mean evolutionary psychology bullshit. I mean the fact that women are half of all humans and that you really have to be looking to find differences between men and women outside the obvious. And definitely cut yourself off from redpill communities. Consider: is redpill actually a safe space for you? Do these people legitimately care about you? Or is it an echo chamber of negativity and hat…	/r/ExRedPill	04/11/19 09:11 PM
23	Imprinting women is legit? Lmao, fucking no. Women are human beings. It worries me that you even have to ask this. Do you think it’s possible to imprint any human? Cuz yeah, no. Neither men nor women can be imprinted.	/r/ExRedPill	03/10/19 05:24 PM
2	The manosphere has ruined my dating life I think the problem is thinking of it like a competition at all. This is a pretty toxic cultural thing — men are taught that women are to be competed for and won. Do you think about friends that way, even though pretty much the same could be said? When you fell in love, were you weighing your options like you were buying a car? Im guessing the answer is no. You met someone, and even though they maybe weren’t the richest or smartest or most successful person you ever met, you clicked with them. I…	/r/ExRedPill	05/09/19 01:27 PM
2	The manosphere has ruined my dating life How many women have you dated? Yeah, no matter how experienced you are, that’s an incredibly small sample size. Not to mention, your attitudes are reflected in the people drawn to you. If you think all people and especially women want stoicism, you’re more likely to attract women who want stoicism. I know many women personally who either wish their male partners were more emotionally available, or who date men PUAs/incels would consider “soft” or beta cucks or whatever and those women are very m…	/r/ExRedPill	03/09/19 11:27 PM
2	The manosphere has ruined my dating life Wow, that’s a shitty, condescending way to think about half the world’s population. People in general aren’t always the best at communicating or understanding their needs, but that doesn’t mean one shouldn’t listen to what they say. Delineating this on gender lines and claiming women don’t even have an internal concept of their desires is pretty gross.	/r/ExRedPill	03/09/19 11:22 PM
10	The manosphere has ruined my dating life This isn’t true at all. There are plenty of women who want their men to be emotionally open.	/r/ExRedPill	02/09/19 02:16 PM
3	Red pill and incel related sites/blogs will only fuck you up, even give you nightmares. All it does is make you bitter and can even destroy your personality. I’m glad you pulled yourself out of that bullshit. The stuff they believe about both women AND men is gross and just factually incorrect. Generalizing negative impressions of huge swaths of humanity is a surefire way to be miserable.	/r/ExRedPill	20/07/19 12:49 AM
6	My descent (and rebirth) I’m really happy for you! Keep working on the misogyny though, holding onto that is like holding onto the one ring from LoTR. It’ll ruin everything if you let it. I’m constantly in awe of the women I meet at uni in my STEM major, both professors and students. They’re all absolutely rocking it. If you’re at uni, you’re likely surrounded by hardworking, intelligent, passionate women as well. Start paying attention to that. Actively dismantle that shit.	/r/ExRedPill	21/05/19 07:24 AM
1	How can I stop worrying about my height? You’re seeing what you want to see. Mismatched couples are normal. Try being bi on tinder. Like 9/10 matches are cute girls with absolute toads for boyfriends.	/r/ExRedPill	23/04/19 10:12 PM
11	How can I stop worrying about my height? Who is “women”? I doubt all women are saying men under 6’0” should die. Or even anything close to a majority. Write those women who do say unkind things off as shitty PEOPLE and move on. There are kind/unkind men and women. It’s a fundamental error of logic to ascribe behavior to a whole group based off the behavior of one or a few members of a group. Remember, women are half the population and are just as diverse as men. We aren’t some monolith. How much do you relate to “men”? I’m guessing the…	/r/ExRedPill	20/04/19 12:01 PM
2	Scientific proof of female hypergamy Humans as a whole are NOT monogamous. Monogamy is a cultural invention. Humans form generally temporary pair bonds for various reasons. This isn’t a reason to be hopeless — anyone who has been in multiple healthy long term relationships will likely say it was worth it even though they eventually end. I gather you’re very hung up on the idea of ‘forever’. Learn to live in the now and appreciate your lovers for who they are and what you have with them in the moment. Also, it’s terrible practice to…	/r/ExRedPill	22/06/18 05:52 PM
2	Friend maybe going redpill Drop him. It's not your job to save him, and from your comments he sounds like he's already gone full asshole and doesn't respect you, or anyone really.	/r/ExRedPill	15/06/17 10:18 PM
1	Incel on the fence It's good you have the self awareness to know what is wrong. And that it's mostly internal. I eould say your greatest enemy is you depression. Work on that and the rest will also improve. Make it your highest priority to do things that help depression. Know that there's nothing wrong with needing professional help, and that no legit professional is going to judge you. When you seek a therapist, consider the first session a trial run. If you don't click somewhat, try another.	/r/ExRedPill	23/09/16 12:29 PM