ivebeencaught Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Start Making Awesome Goals	ivebeencaught	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/04/15 09:38 PM
4	I know this is a test, but I am having a hell of a time figuring this one out.	ivebeencaught	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/12/14 12:41 AM
2	If you could get your LTR (Potential LTR) to take a polygraph test, what would you ask?	ivebeencaught	/r/askTRP	28/01/15 12:04 AM

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3	Two years into the Red Pill. Tips for young redpillers and mistakes to avoid The biggest risk to FOREX is that while you are trading on the same data as everyone else you aren't necessarily trading with the same advantages the big banks are. And all they want to do is use those advantages to take your money. The spreads your broker lists can kill your profits, not properly protecting your position and a trump tweet can cause you a massive loss in minutes, forgetting a SL or not accounting for drift, proper lot size and TP pips. FOREX is not a passive income (that's what …	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/19 09:28 PM
14	Two years into the Red Pill. Tips for young redpillers and mistakes to avoid As someone who actively trades FOREX and is about to be able to quit my day job so I can trade full time. I highly urge you to exclusively trade with a demo for a long, long, long time before you put in any real money. I traded a demo exclusively for over a year, and I had years experience trading the US stock market and options market, before I was making any positive REGULAR progress. I also found out after moving live that the data is different, spreads are different and I spent a month getti…	/r/TheRedPill	25/01/19 08:55 PM
23	Millennial Women and the Wall - Evidence and Implications Allow me to quote some of the better lines from the articles. A dearth of marriagable men has left an “oversupply” of educated women. What is a Marriagable man? Experts said “terrifying” demographic shifts had created a “deficit” of educated men and a growing problem of “leftover” professional women because they could not find a partner to settle down with, amid a “dearth of educated men”. many professional women now struggled to find a partner that felt like an equal match. This group, now in t…	/r/TheRedPill	18/10/17 08:40 PM
6	UK: Man with NO convictions must notify police 24 hours before he has sex. He should start sending them multiple requests daily.	/r/TheRedPill	15/07/16 06:43 PM
2	Need some tips (various) I would have gone with. "Watch yourself, Martians love bondage and doing anal probes."	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/04/15 02:00 PM
2	Request: When I Say No I Feel Guilty PDF Try your local library or if they don't have it you can use Open Library	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/04/15 02:17 PM
4	Field report, dread night results and question on gifting. Oh and BTW good job on taking over your finances, however, I think you should be the one to pay the bills for the foreseeable future. Even if you just set up auto pay with all your utilities and shit. If she needs to go shopping give her cash and demand she follow a budget. If she needs to have a card, set up a prepaid one, like you can give to a teenager, and you transfer money into the account. You are not her gravy train and if she wants spending money she can go get herself a job.	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/04/15 02:05 PM
2	Field report, dread night results and question on gifting. It is not that you are pathetic. You are still in an emotional whirlwind of reactions and confusing feelings. Many men feel less affected by a woman having a lesbian interaction. Possibly because we know that there is no chance we will end up raising someone else's spawn? Or there is a comparison of what did he give her that I can't, which we feel less in regards to a woman..... Either way, you are here now and working hard to make improvements in your life. You may find that as you improve, gro…	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/04/15 01:55 PM
6	TRP says not to be boring. But what if I'm a boring guy? I was drinking a coke when I read your reply... That is really painful when it comes out your nose. I do not recommend it.	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/04/15 01:10 AM
5	TRP says not to be boring. But what if I'm a boring guy? Remember that few women are able to self validate. They require an outside opinion to build their self confidence and even that outside opinion has a hierarchy of value. As much as this doesn't make sense, a strangers opinion carries more weight and value than someone that has a long term, deep intimate knowledge of them. "I just met them and they think I'm pretty. It must be true. You've know me for ever, seen me at my worst and still tell me I'm pretty. Meh, you have to tell me that, so I don'…	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/04/15 11:08 PM
62	Redpill truths mirrored in discussion on a female sub about lowering birth rates. It's not just what they look like. It is how they act, talk, think... hell for some even how they breathe. (Nose flaring, raging, wheezing, shallow breaths) I've seen 8-9's go to a 2-3 with minutes of them opening their mouths. Great for a pump and dump but I would never want my kids to share DNA with her. In other words, women have long bitched how they deserve a prince. But I have rarely met a girl that deserves to be called a princess.	/r/TheRedPill	14/04/15 07:05 PM
2	[FR] The conjugal visit Most people will react in a predictable way when presented with stimulus. You make a sudden loud noise in a quiet room most people will flinch, duck or act surprised, one or two may not react at all. Your wife sounds like one of those people to me. You would expect a person to need to be with you after months away, you would expect a person to have a positive reaction to your surprise hotel layout, you would expect a territorial guarding response to other women flirting with you. My thoughts bas…	/r/MarriedRedPill	07/04/15 07:06 PM
1	If I were to get married, and one day, I get divorced, what are some necessary measures I will need to protect myself and my assets such as 401K, such as prenup/postnup, from spousal entitlement? It really depends on how legal/ethical you want to be. If you want to stay legal... A prenup is only useful for the protection of assets and income that were acquired before marriage. In most places, anything earned or increase of income after marriage are considered joint property and can be split 50/50 regardless of fault. You also must have the prenup reviewed by her lawyer before signing, including a FULL disclosure of assets. After marriage there are a few things you can do to protect yours…	/r/askTRP	07/04/15 12:49 PM
2	I think I am in denial about not being in the anger stage. After i had gotten out of my anger phase I sat down an looked really hard at myself as to what was the cause of my anger, rage actually. I came to the conclusion that I was angry because i was still getting shit, even though I was working so hard on being better. "What is wrong with you woman? Can't you see that I am trying, I am actually making improvements that will make things better for both of us? Cut me some slack this won't happen overnight?" Then I was ashamed at myself because I was suc…	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/04/15 05:23 PM
2	Start Making Awesome Goals Thank you for your input. I do have my goals much more refined and in the process of being accomplished than what I posted here. I have created short term, medium and long term steps to accomplish them. I think I posted this because it was important for me to realize that the small steps would never have happened if I didn't create an amazing overall goal. That I was so focused on the short term, insignificant ideas that I was unable to be motivated enough to accomplish even the small ones. When…	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/04/15 07:16 PM
2	I finally told the girl who used me all year for school work I wouldn't help her anymore. I hope you got the true lesson from your story. No it isn't AWALT, you were being used, you avoided that whore and whatever STI she probably is or will be carrying or even welcome to TRP. The real lesson here is: Listen to the people that have nothing to gain from telling you the truth and possibly everything to lose by pissing on your perfect snowflake. Congrats on getting this albatross off your back.	/r/TheRedPill	04/04/15 07:51 AM
3	Start Making Awesome Goals He actually posted this as a newsletter and I found it in his newsletter archive here	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/04/15 01:42 AM
4	I am at a loss for where to start Many people don't realize how much of our emotional status is affected by what we fill our bodies and minds with or how is can be changed/purged by how we use them. With this in mind the following is the order I would start my plan. Clean up your shit. Clean your house, make your bed every day, don't leave dirty dishes around, do your laundry, shower and shave. You can do this now and it has immediate results in attitude and anxiety. Change to better clothing (If you can't afford to change what …	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/04/15 08:50 PM
2	Shit Testing - A view from my experience (Much easier to read) From my experience. I married a woman that was doing everything, just short of begging, to get me to clutch up and lead my family. The nagging, lists, negotiating, yelling, silent treatments, no sex.... all of it was to try and get me to do what I should have been doing all along. The funny thing was, was that we were both in a negative feedback loop. Everything she was doing to get me to do something/anything, was having the opposite effect of me wanting to do less and les…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/03/15 06:12 PM
2	Shit Testing - A view from my experience Don't disagree with what you said. ping... 44 times.	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/03/15 01:41 PM
8	How have you handled cell phone interruptions? You've said it once, never say it again. Show with actions. In my opinion she loses your attention not only for the length of the phone call but for twice as long after it is over. She grabs the phone, I would call a friend with her in the room and say, with excitement, my night just freed up! Meet me at the bar/gym/game, plan the whole night. Grab your keys and wave to her on the way out the door. No one is free? Take your book or two and go read at the library or a cafe. Don't be there when sh…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/03/15 08:01 PM
3	Reddit story of wife wanting RP coworker over BP hubby. Don't let this be you! The thing I found truly amusing about this story is actually her husband hitting it off with Shane's girlfriend Courtney. A good question in the comments and her response that shows why she hasn't swung to this branch yet. Would you be upset if he felt the same way about Courtney that you do about Shane? Deep down I think my husband actually probably does have feelings for Courtney, to some extent. They like a lot of the same things and get along very very well. Not to mention she's drop dead go…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/03/15 07:10 PM
5	How do I take my pseudo red-pill marriage to the next level? AH, First world Married Red Pill Problems. How does it feel to be the 1%? 99% of the people that come here for help would kill to be having the complaints that you are. Congratulations on all the work that you have done. I know that getting to where you are hasn't been easy and has taken a lot of work. Here is the root of your wives issue as I see it. She feels a hint of dread but an overwhelming sense of security. In other words she knows that you are desired by others and that you have options…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/03/15 06:49 PM
1	Questions about how to send the right signals to improve sex with my wife If she really is very submissive and accommodating you may have a difficult time getting her to do any of these things without some heavy encouragement. It just isn't in her personality to come out and do them on her own. Her inner voice is screaming that she would feel too stupid and insecure if she was in any way rejected. The only way she might is if you raised your SMV so much above hers that she thought doing them was the ONLY way to keep you. I mean we are talking 5-6 levels above her, Mov…	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/03/15 02:19 PM
1	An interesting problem to have Hydrate! Also if you plan on going oral or using fingers, switch them out in the middle of sex in order to give you a break instead of a fall back when you are done. Change positions	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/03/15 07:43 PM
0	Any way to protect assets earned AFTER marriage? Cash, precious metals (this can function as a hedge in you retirement) and a safety deposit box, not in your name. A highly trusted relative perhaps. Don't own anything, lease your cars. Rent. Especially if what you rent is owned by a trusted relative under a corp. Put assets that you decide own into trusts in your kids names, with you or your trusted lawyers as the sole executor. If you suspect a divorce is upcoming, do everything you can to delay the divorce. Reduce your income and use the exc…	/r/TheRedPill	16/03/15 03:48 PM
6	This is why we have MRP I always laugh at the "I swallowed the red pill yesterday and all I am getting is shit tests from her. Why isn't she giving up yet?" or "I took the pill a week ago and now I am Alpha king, hear me roar." All I can think of is you're a pup pissing on the floor, now go get some proper training and come back when you learn how to sit and shut up.	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/03/15 06:11 PM
4	My wife is lazy Even in my most beta days a clean house was something that I needed in my life. My wife hates to clean. I finally had enough and told her that if she is incapable of cleaning her stuff up then she has too much of it. (Same thing goes for my kids). I let her know that if I have to clean her shit up it will get cleaned my way. My way is with a garbage bag. Everyone in my home knows that if I have to clean it, the stuff is going into a bag and dropped off at goodwill. Every Friday at 5:00 I check r…	/r/MarriedRedPill	10/03/15 09:21 PM
6	70% of men aged 20-34 aren't married. 50% never will Here is the summary of AWALT that you will need, from the comments. I wish every beta orbiter could hear this. One female friend offered me this advice: "All you have to offer a woman is love, and she can get that from her dog without having to date a man who is so repulsive." Repulsive, that is what they see you as.	/r/TheRedPill	10/03/15 07:04 PM
2	took a girls virginity last night m[31] f[19] xpost from r/relationships & r/relationshipadvice Flair request: How the Fuck did this get posted here?	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/15 08:19 PM
8	Red Pill ideas not Working One Day???? You are worried about one day? Stop trying to manipulate her into changing. Go and make fundamental changes to better yourself, forget about doing this to change her. Start lifting, there is a reason you will hear this a million times and when you do it you will find out what that reason is (hint: it rhymes with jingles.) WAX ON/WAX OFF just do it. Don't expect any serious changes in her until your results from lifting are observable, this can take months. (one day....pfffft) Frame i…	/r/askTRP	07/03/15 12:25 AM
5	She says I need to show her I realize when she is upset. In my experience with my wife I have found out that she often doesn't know what her feelings truly are. She is reacting to an event or physical change and part of her frustration is the inability to define it. Remember, women are extreme social creatures and define and interpret their world through the eyes of others. So much of my wive's problem is the inability to define or understand her own feelings. Part of holding frame and being strong for her is to define her emotions. When you wife is u…	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/03/15 01:16 AM
3	Did I handle this correctly? Are you lifting? If not, start now. If so be patient with yourself and her. Physical changes do not happen overnight and until she can see them, touch them and embrace your new physique she will continue to do what she is doing. In the mean time you can do cosmetic changes that can help a lot. Dress better, haircut, groom well, hygiene, skin. On the plus side she is sexing you, spend the time and effort on foreplay. Think of it this way, If she is turned on you end up having better sex.	/r/MarriedRedPill	05/03/15 01:00 AM
5	Did I handle this correctly? I read this and all I heard was covert contract. You expected her to act a certain way during sex. What did you want from her? Moaning, screaming, scratching your back up, earth blowing orgasms? What EXACTLY was she not doing that you wanted? (Don't go into what she was doing, what wasn't she doing that you thought she should) Then answer for yourself, does she know that is what you wanted? There are times when I have had sex with my wife and we have been joking and laughing through most of it. …	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/03/15 11:00 PM
2	Fighting a change in the dynamics I have heard some women consciously express feeling this way. However, most wouldn't be able to put what they are feeling into words. Only that they are confused. They are with him because he was safe, but she settled. Now she is getting tingles, that can't be right because you either get tingles or you don't, you can't develop them. Something is wrong and it scares her.	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/03/15 10:44 PM
7	Fighting a change in the dynamics Be aware that what she is fighting may not necessarily be the change in you. She has stated that she is afraid of losing control in your relationship. This is a very scary point for a lot of women, especially ones that have been told their whole lives that they need to be in charge, they are better than men, men are bumbling idiots, men are babies, you are the strong ones, men would die in childbirth... ect. Years and years of having this pounded into their heads and us having acted in a way tha…	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/03/15 08:14 PM
-8	Caveman Fail [FR] "How can I enjoy sex if it injures me?" When my wife complains about being sore the next day, my response is, "You are welcome." When she was having problems after I would start stretching her as part of our foreplay, she didn't know I was doing this. She just thought I was extra gropey and wanted to hold her in different positions while kissing parts. It worked well. Second, a hard banging isn't the only way to give her earthshaking orgasms. Controlling her mind is as useful as controlling her body. In fact, in rereading your comment…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/02/15 09:42 PM
14	Being a Family Alpha I've always told my daughter to become the type of person she wants to marry. If she wants to marry someone that can take care of her, she better damn well better be able to take care of herself. If she wants someone that will help her clean in the house, she better be out there mowing a lawn and cleaning out gutters. I know she understands this when I overheard her telling my wife a few months ago that she had a 'wicked crush' on a boy but she wasn't even going to talk to him because he smoked.…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/02/15 08:35 PM
17	The Jagged Pill I remember when this happened to me, it happened somewhere between anger and depression. That gut wrenching feeling that I have been used, abused, betrayed, denial, guilt and the worst thing of all... knowing that I had no one to blame be myself. This is when I got moody and lost frame multiple times and set back a lot of progress that I had made. Because why do I care if I am an oak for her? I don't even like what I am looking at right now. Divorce is better than staying here and putting up wit…	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/02/15 08:16 PM
3	PMS: How do you guys deal with it Camping	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/02/15 03:22 PM
7	xpost from askTRP: Getting Divorced, would rather keep the wife. She called at 2am I ignored. What should I text You will hear a lot that the only thing text should be used for is logistics. I agree mostly with this statement. 90% of my texting is logistical, however, I have also found that it can be very useful for maintaining arousal that was established before leaving. Forcing my wife to keep thinking about me instead of getting distracted by her day. It sucks as a way to establish, show or maintain frame. It allows her voice to much freedom to shape what you are trying to say. If you are going to text …	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/02/15 06:29 PM
7	What if you do not like what you find I get a feeling that your wife is using the fact that she is the primary earner in the home to maintain control of you. No matter how hard you try to hold frame she is always thinking," I am the one doing all the heavy lifting around here. If I quit this house would fall apart. Why can't you be better." You may be doing everything else right but until you get your finances in your control you will loose to her. You have spent too much time as a beta for her to want to let this go. If I were in y…	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/02/15 11:04 PM
2	Lost frame and acted like a pussy. Comments on how bad I did, please. Good luck, remember you took the pill because it was the best thing for both of you.	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/02/15 12:14 AM
3	Lost frame and acted like a pussy. Comments on how bad I did, please. I know the little things that cause my wife to get mad, her peeves. One of them is not putting my clothes directly into the hamper after I take them off. Sometimes, right in front of her I will not put them in the hamper. She will instantly react, I love how cute you get when you are annoyed. Walk over and start attacking every sensitive spot I know she has. She has forgotten why she was reacting and when I am done (this doesn't always mean sex, sometimes I am teasing her for hotter times later)…	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/02/15 11:33 PM
4	Lost frame and acted like a pussy. Comments on how bad I did, please. I never mock my wife. I will tease her to build sexual tension. I will intentionally raise her emotions and then divert it to sex. I will expose irrational behavior and readily admit when I do the same. But not mock her, to me that has an intent of malice. She needs to learn that you refuse to engage her covert contracts.	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/02/15 10:18 PM
7	I am an Aplha married to a strong feminist What we do aren't tricks to fool a woman into staying, obeying, wanting or worshiping you. They are life changes that you make that create a new framework that you can live with. One in which you are happy with yourself, proud of your accomplishments, and excited (see fucking thrilled) with your future. A framework for your life that she is invited to stand in, but will exist wither she is there or not. Men love and respect a woman that is willing to stay in his strong frame, we view them as str…	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/02/15 10:05 PM
5	Comfort Tests The comfort tests i have experienced are almost always about her self esteem issues. Often focusing on a test to see if I am still committed to her or am out looking. These have ranged from "I hate when other girls flirt with you", to "what would/will you do when I die?" My response to the first "You don't hate it, you like the competition and you love it when you win." She giggled and said "Yes I do" (Sexy times were had) "What will you do when I die?", I responded."Hold auditions." Comfort tes…	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/02/15 09:46 PM
5	Lost frame and acted like a pussy. Comments on how bad I did, please. The more you react to her tantrum the more she will try to draw it out. I ask what is wrong once. If she says nothing, my response is "Glad to hear." Smile, hug, kiss and I don't ask again, regardless of how pissy she may be. It's not your job to figure out her covert contracts. Treat her responses as if they are the final truth and fact. She will have to learn that if she wants to share how she feels then she has to come out and say it. You will not be digging into her sighs and acting angry to…	/r/MarriedRedPill	18/02/15 09:25 PM
2	Some questions from a married beta loser. [X-post from r/askTRP] This is actually quite easy so sum up. - Men: I have something someone else wants and I think they will take it away so I will guard it jealously. Women: Everyone else wants something that I don't want I think I might loose/not get it, so I will guard it jealously.	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/02/15 05:42 PM
4	I just lost it To uncover my covert contracts I had to do some serious introspection. Every time I was feeling butthurt over something that she didn't do I had to stop and ask myself why? Is this because I expected something from her and didn't get it? Did I tell her what I wanted before I did my part or did I just expect a specific response because I said or did something? Example: She didn't say "I love you" back after I told her that I love her. Outcome Independent me says I don't need to hear it back to ex…	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/02/15 06:22 PM
3	How do I share this golden nugget without blowing cover? If there is something that I REALLY think I need to share with my wife, I will copy/paste it to her in an email. If you think you need to add more legitimacy to the info you could run a free wordpress site and paste it there, (giving credit to the OP) and direct her to the site.	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/02/15 05:50 PM
2	Unbetafying sex (did I fuck up?) Embarrassment is a very strong emotion and motivator, my experience is to use it sparingly and intentionally, I make sure she knows that I am trying to get her to blush. Only you know your wife and have any idea when you may have gone to far with either action or words. I try to put my wife a little outside of her comfort zone frequently and with a lot of foreplay I will occasionally push her even further.	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/02/15 07:57 PM
2	Unbetafying sex (did I fuck up?) My wife tried Are you cheating on me? Once. I responded with "Not yet." Her hamster went nuts after that.	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/02/15 01:12 AM
4	Unbetafying sex (did I fuck up?) Shit test are usually unconscious in a LTR, I think of these as a quality control test in manufacturing. Taking a random item from the batch and running a series of controlled tests on it to make sure the whole batch is up to snuff. If it fails you, get more and see if they also fail, if they do you start to look for a failure in the system. Shit tests are her doing quality control on you to verify the functionality of the marriage. Loyalty tests are almost always conscious. This is your LTR try…	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/02/15 12:13 AM
3	Unbetafying sex (did I fuck up?) Remember becoming outcome independent, in this case, means that whither your wife has an orgasm or not is no longer your concern. Stop treating an orgasm like it is the end all goal of your love making, just because it may be the finish line for you, doesn't mean that is what your wife needs/wants. The whole caveman isn't about fucking her body until she orgasms, it's about fucking her mind until she lets go of control and releases it to you. Women are so afraid to loose control, control of you,…	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/02/15 11:21 PM
8	Children and Married RP From someone that actually has three children I can tell you: Children are only as expensive as you make them. One of the most important aspects of RP is the ability to manage your finances. This means that you know how and where every dollar is spent in your family. You create and follow a budget and you make sure that EVERYONE, wife and kids, are following that budget. If you aren't in control of you money you don't control anything in your house, it is also the fastest way to loose frame. Say…	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/02/15 10:35 PM
5	Preparing for, "I miss the old you" "I miss the old you." Use a disgusted tone "Why?"	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/02/15 07:14 AM
2	MRP thoughts on open/poly marriages? I hope you will indulge me to answer couple of questions I am trying to understand your relationship dynamic. Hypothetically, if your wife wanted to end the open relation and asked you to cut off all your plates and gf immediately, would you do it? Second question, when your wife was cheating on you and you both agreed to an open relationship how RP were you then?	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/15 10:39 PM
2	MRP thoughts on open/poly marriages? I am asking you to be honest here. Is it possible your wife views you as a beta? I read that you have a couple of plates and an extra GF so you obviously think you are alpha. But she is getting her alpha fucks outside your marriage and coming home to your support and security (emotional and physical). Do you really think she views you as her alpha?	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/15 09:01 PM
6	Dealing with Wife's Rage Issues While she is gone install some cameras in the common areas of your house, tell her you put them up in case your house is robbed. In the future when she is going insane you move her tantrum to where it can be recorded. Cover Your Ass. She needs to know that if she is going to throw tantrums and run away like a child you will be treating her like a child. Until she chooses to grow up she doesn't get her emotional needs fulfilled by you. Amused Mastery and Agree and Amplify can work very well to di…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/15 08:51 PM
5	MRP thoughts on open/poly marriages? I will state up front that I am not in favor of an open marriage, now let me tell you why. You will hear over and over in TRP how you should never LTR a girl that spent her 20's riding the carousel. One of the many reasons stated for this opinion is that women that have experienced a larger number of cocks has difficulty bonding to any one individual. You can debate whether this is caused though chemical, emotional, or physical changes. But what ever the cause there appears to be a correlation b…	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/01/15 07:55 PM
2	[FR] - Breaking out of the Blue Pill Story I am actually curious what the dress was. Do you have a copy of the photo you sent to your wife?	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/01/15 11:39 PM
2	Using dread on me. Help. YES!!! YES!!! The rage, it feeds me. More, MORE!	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/01/15 12:40 AM
2	Using dread on me. Help. Don't forget - Who is also a hot, nice millionaire. Because you would dump someones ass who is loving, loyal, watches the kids while she goes out with the girls, works hard, doesn't demand she be home before midnight, who is a little worried she may have been a little disrespectful towards him and their marriage, to to be with a millionaire. Run for me hamster, run, run.	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/01/15 12:12 AM
1	Using dread on me. Help. Interesting, at no point did I say the millionaire was ugly. Yet, from the description you interpreted that as him being ugly. Can you now imagine how a woman sees a beta? And I would love to date a hot female millionaire, but I wouldn't dump my wife to get it. I will make my own millions, thank you very much. edit: spelling	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/01/15 11:51 PM
2	Using dread on me. Help. Then over time he is goes full beta.... Every time you see him you get a little more disgusted with that belly, have you seen the way he preens, how he is so insecure he has to tell EVERYONE that he is a millionaire, OH GOD!!! Even hate the way he flosses. How quickly you are going to loose your erection. But Ramone..... and then one day, oops, you are takin' it doggy from the pool boy. (Who is neither nice nor rich, but oh the tingles).	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/01/15 10:58 PM
1	Using dread on me. Help. I guess everyone has their price. If a million is all it takes for you to swing the other way or is it just nice?	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/01/15 10:46 PM
13	Using dread on me. Help. As a general rule of thumb a girl will freely admit to actions taken that were several levels below what actually happened. What she says: He was flirting with my friend and I observed the whole thing. What really happened: He was coming on to me really heavily and I was actively flirting back. (Twirling my hair, laughing, physical contact) She said: He ate an appetizer with us. What happened: He picked up on them as soon as they came in the bar. Sat with them for most, if not the whole meal, bo…	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/01/15 10:34 PM
1	Happy to see I am not the only one in this TRP boat. My reactions to your response. maybe she will have hit the wall. LOL, she hit the wall almost 15 years ago, at 49 the wall will have fallen on her.... wait 15 years ago, that is when you got married and she was looking for a nice bb to support her for the rest of her life. That also means that at 7-8 years into your marriage when she cheated she was around 34 - 35. Bored with her beta she went looking for more Alpha Cock. She is following a rather predictable path here. (6 more years). I hope th…	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/01/15 08:32 PM
2	Happy to see I am not the only one in this TRP boat. There are a few things that I would do if I were in your position. 1st - Get DNA tests on both of the boys. Her actions have proven to be adequately questionable to justify doing this. 2nd - Don't stay together for the sake of keeping your family together. Children don't want to be the reason their parents are miserable. (which only makes them miserable) 3rd - Every choice you make should be towards improving yourself and your boys (gym, hobbies, skills, frame, experiences). 4th - Your emotional…	/r/MarriedRedPill	21/01/15 10:25 PM
1	Could use some help processing... Well I hardly want the starfish that I've been getting but I haven't led on that I was bothered by it, I just took it when I needed to get off. I have been rejected seldom recently, and when I don't get rejected it's hardly enthusiastic sex. So lately, I haven't been smacking her ass, touching her or "escalating" during the day and have pulled back from touching her really even kissing her. Does she know this is why you have pulled back on the escalations? Or are you silently punishing her? Have…	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/01/15 11:00 PM
2	Frame: Where's the literature? (Questions&my MAP) Frame is maintaining control over yourself, especially your emotions. You don't just react to your emotions, you don't let someone else control how you feel. Holding frame is that if you get angry it is because you chose to get angry. Not because she goaded you to anger. You choose to be happy, to be satisfied,.... whatever and nothing/no one is going to control you.	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/01/15 01:08 AM
5	I know this is a test, but I am having a hell of a time figuring this one out. But poking is my favorite activity.	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/12/14 06:49 AM
3	I know this is a test, but I am having a hell of a time figuring this one out. How would you have avoided the direct challenge without losing frame? That is the part where I was caught.	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/12/14 06:48 AM
3	I know this is a test, but I am having a hell of a time figuring this one out. Since she escalated my escalation I'm not sure an apology is in order. I am going to make sure that she knows that I love her, respect her, and am truly grateful for what she does for me and our family. I will watch and see is she is going to try and win this bet. If it looks like she is trying to trounce me then I will give her a run for her money. If not, then I think I will casually earn a little extra and we will go on a really nice vacation, just the two of us.	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/12/14 06:45 AM
5	I know this is a test, but I am having a hell of a time figuring this one out. After reading your comment it got me thinking that she is in need of comfort. Even the terms of winning the bet seem to say she needs comfort and reinforcement. Perhaps making sure she feels safe is in order.	/r/MarriedRedPill	23/12/14 06:37 AM