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Yes. Source: I am a woman and I can truly love
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:18 PM
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The premise that casual sex happens because of "ultimate attraction" and not alcohol, drugs, validation, boredom and horniness is laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:09 PM
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Every crush, let alone a relationship I had in my life happened because I developed feelings after spending time with this person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:32 PM
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So what was I at 11? How was I not a child? If a 30 year old pursued that 11 year old me wouldn't you think he was a pedo who pursued children? It's biological reality to start thinking about sex at a certain age, that doesn't mean you stop being a kid. I actually started having sex at 15, and I don't think it changed my personality in any way or had any impact on my "innocence"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:40 PM
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Long-ish hair, kind eyes, blue eyes, nice smiles, broad shoulders Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:34 PM
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Kinder Maxi King (I hope you guys have it)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:43 PM
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When they're penetrated by a man, and even worse, ejaculated in by a man, it degrades them. Men defile people just by touching them. Why do men have such a dark and disturbing view of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:38 PM
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It's because men have a dark and disturbing view of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:38 PM
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I had sex with my boyfriend on the first date because I've known him for over a year prior to that date. If god forbid I had to date again, and I went out with a stranger, there is no way in hell I'd sleep with him on the first few dates. Also, it depends on the time in the cycle. Ovulation makes us horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:34 AM
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I started puberty at 11 (and by default thinking about sex), but I was obviously still a child. Psychological maturity and physical maturity aren't lerfectly in sync. Also, "innocence" and "sex" being polar opposites also rub me the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:25 AM
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Most people (men and women) hate doing chores. I know I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 12:14 PM
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If I was single, definitely A great relationship still beats out casual for me tho
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 01:57 AM
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She's lowk fat rn
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:37 PM
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I don't judge them for it, I don't care about other people's sex lives. I just don't think we're compatible to date
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:16 PM
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How do you even know that they are virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:15 PM
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This series was very loved in Croatia and the whole ex Yugoslavia! It's actually still going on one Croatian tv channel
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:55 PM
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It sill hasn't set in But I just finished law school!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 12:43 PM
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How do you describe those
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:19 PM
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If he doesn't want to sleep with me, it's a big red flag for me. If I need more time to sleep with him because I don't know him that well yet, I wouldn't mind him sleeping with other people as we're not exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:16 PM
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So the answer is "suck it up because your husband will be attracted to young girls more than to you, no matter when you get together"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:01 PM
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Literally the stereotype is that a man want to open it and then gets surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:01 PM
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Me too, and I also started in high school. Nowadays, I open and scroll Reddit more than the news sites, although I do still open the news at least twice a day. My bf is also currently a news addict.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:19 AM
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It's always anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:07 AM
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Lmao no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:07 PM
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I lowkey get Lana. Benny Blanco is one of the ugliest men in the industry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:06 PM
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but if you're planning on going to multiple dates in multiple places it's bad without your own car. You are not from Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:59 PM
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Stealing is stealing, why exactly is sex that goes on between other people bad? Guys still get off to porn so im not sure by your point And still feel the need to insult those women for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:47 AM
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I said nothing about dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:32 AM
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I mean as far as evil shit people do goes, "fucking a lot of men" seems pretty benign. And I said nothing about dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:31 AM
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Why do men hate porn stars/sluts so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:55 AM
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It happens to me mostly while studying. It's like there is a voice in the back of my mind reminding me of that thing and I can't turn it off or focus on other stuff. It's like the more I try to ignore it my brain feels like: "You know what would be really bad to think about now- this". And it's really hard to control.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 12:08 AM
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I feel so weird about this, but Chat GPT has been so good at calming my intrusive thoughts and helping me heal my emotional trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 11:28 PM
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So that means low libido. Sex is very important to me and it needs to be important to my partner as well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:29 PM
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What if they just havent get around to it? What does this even mean? I think you’re a really bad person who has caused a lot of harm Because I personally would be incompatible with a virgin right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:23 PM
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I told you in the comment. The reason for being a virgin at this age is a red flag by itself. That and also the fact that I'm not a virgin and I don't want an insecure man to put me down because of it, or to realize he has FOMO because he didn't sleep with anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:20 PM
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I personally just didn't see sex as this otherwordly, cosmic powerful experience before having it with my current boyfriend (I had two partners before him, one of which was a relationship of 4 years). It was just a normal physical activity I did to get off or to get my ego up. I don't relate to your description of sex at all (regarding the sex I used to have before).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:18 PM
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Or if you're not having sex with someone you're in love with
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:08 AM
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Not who you're responding to, but I disagree. Sex can be a very powerful experience but it doesn't have to be. It deoends on who you're sleeping with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:49 AM
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Most of the guys that I know definitely don't struggle with dating, but I would say only a few of them coulf be descrived like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:27 AM
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Personally for me, yes. It means he's either ugly, shy and anti social, unpleasant to be around, has a low libido, religious, or has vastly different views on sex than me. I want someone with similar experiences. I also think it isn't anybody's business and you don't have to broadcast it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:24 AM
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We actually measured it together
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:47 PM
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The first time having sex with someone is very rarely the best sex with that person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:46 PM
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How do you guys not understand that sex in a relationship is much wilder (and it happens way more often) than hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:10 PM
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Insane
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:08 PM
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Problems start at least from 7.1 in my experience (I'm not short nor anorexic)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:07 PM
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There is also the shaming..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:03 PM
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If you're a woman, sleeping with a man almost always means that you want a relationship with him. Absolutely not and it's a bit embarrassing to think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:02 PM
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It actually happened to my male friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:02 PM
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It was just shockingly big to me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:36 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 01:16 PM
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Sorry, i responded to the wrong person!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:55 AM
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What does a gender wanting something more/less on average have to do with a specific individual who wants to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:28 AM
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Around 18cm made my jaw drop as that was visibly bigger than my previous partners. The thing is, I don't orgasm from penetration anyways, and he has to be extra careful in certain positions because he can actually hurt me. Him being the best sex of my life isn't really a result of his size.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 09:45 AM
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Because he's doing strenous physical activity and she's just getting pleased?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:27 PM
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Do you not know what preference means?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 07:17 PM
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So if you're sweating like a horse and doing all the work and I'm chilling like a princess and enjoying it, isn't that a little bit submissive on your part?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:23 PM
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You're doing all the work and pleasing her, sweating like a horse while she gets to enjoy and just lay there. Who is really the submissive one here?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:17 PM
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I would feel submissive because I’d be getting penetrated. I don’t get penetrated when I do oral with a woman. So it's not about the active or passive role at all. Because you are passive when she's giving you oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:15 PM
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Honestly I believe you and many others associate vulnerability during sex with the receiving role purely because that's the female role. I would say that any encounter with the opposite gender feels more vulmerable for a woman because of the strenght difference, but on its' own having something in me vs putting the most precious/valuable part of me into something.. those feel about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:11 PM
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He wishes I was taller lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 04:03 PM
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"Blue pill" means "I don't agree with red pill"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:42 PM
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Super tall men often prefer very tall women
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:41 PM
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A blind person can touch your face and feel the differences between different physical characteristcis?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 01:26 PM
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The funny thing is, let's say he had sex once a day, having sex with a random woman 3.5 times a year results in incredibly low chances of pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:34 AM
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Because India is notorious for being a friendly place for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:50 PM
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Absolute bullshit. This has the same energy as that retared speech in the Barbie movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:00 PM
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How do you actually know the accusation was false? Reading into the story, I actually don't believe he's innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:58 PM
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Tbh almost everything in interpersonal relationships is on a case to case basis. Personally I know literally nothing about my ex since I blocked him almost 4 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:30 PM
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Honestly in my opinion shorter guys look better skinny (with wider shoulders and a bit tone in the arms area), with alt styles (oversized clothing, long hair, skater/punk vibes) while taller guys look better with more muscle and sporty styles. Definitely aim for toned, build chest arm and shoulder area.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 02:13 PM
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You literally already do that and that is a mainstream opinion. Women are basically waxing or shaving or lasering their whole bodies below their eyes. Hairy legs and pits are considered masculine for some reason even though all women grow hair there. A lot of men prefer hairless private parts as well. And don't even get me started on the fact that a lot of women, especially of certain ethnicities grow a bit of a mustache.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:51 AM
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Female interests are openly mocked, people are asceiving moral and psychological descriptions to being penetrated and being the penetrator, with those not being so positive for qomen, "gay", sissy "you throw like a girl" all being top insults for men..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:00 AM
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Faces look better without beard and beard sting while kissing. There is no agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:56 AM
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Don't use them then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:26 PM
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I'm not saying physical attraction is the only thing women need to want to be in a relationship with a man, I'm not talking about wanting to be in a relationship with a man. I'm talking about any type of attraction to a man. I don't feel aroused by any of those men. I'm not attracted to any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:25 PM
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I didn't even say that. Physical attraction is only one part of attraction. I see physically attractive men everyday, that's just not enough for me to become attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:58 PM
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About half of guys my age in my city pass the looks threshold for me and could become attractive to me if there was a right combination of their personality, vibes, I was not already crushing on somebody else etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:49 PM
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My male friends broke up with multiple gfs because they wanted to have a fuckboy phase, I felt like I wanted to explore sex with other people during my first relationship... I'd say this is a pretty common young person thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:36 PM
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Most women are attracted to their boyfriends and husbands. A man doesn't have to be a "chad" to be attractive to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:27 PM
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telling tales of parents hoping their child to be born a girl, since if it is born a boy he would get drafted to build the Great wall of China, and likely never live to come back. ...and yet they have a problematic surplus of men because they opted to selectively abort their girl children...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:26 PM
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I would not want that, as I just said.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 11:07 AM
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Obviously, I wouldn't marry a man I wasn't attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:00 AM
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Why would I want to make less than my husband that never made sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:59 AM
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Hybristophilia is not a common or normal female experience
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:02 AM
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Tbh he was objectively good looking, proof that for many incels their looks are not the thing holding them back Anyway I hope he rests in piss
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:00 AM
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Yes. I wouldn't date someone who earned much more or much less than me tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:51 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/4zcudzd4lleg1.png?width=1080&format=png&auto=webp&s=857d74227f83648a823a8ced3f3fabeaff3a49d8 Looks like they are just incompatible in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:32 AM
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Can you show us the source?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:25 AM
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Or you know you actually want to spend the rest of your life with this person?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:24 AM
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Blue pill is literally not an ideology, it's a term that exists solely as an opposite of the red pill. It encompasses millions of different strategies and beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:34 PM
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A boy that my friend set me up with kissed me and stuck his tongue in my mouth without me expecting it after our first date and I ran off without even saying bye and ghosted him after that That was actually my first kiss lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:16 PM
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It's not a crime. Hating half of the population seems like mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:10 PM
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TRP are not chads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:08 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:03 PM
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She still knows there is a chance. If she doesn't at least independently check the paternity for ther own peace of mind and the kid's future, it might as well be as if she's passing it off. It's not the same because if she's innocent, you're accusing the person who risked and sacrificed so much of being a monster (not only cheating, because there is a whole other person- the child, involved). If there is no child, you're just randomly paranoid and checking if she's a cheater.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 09:01 PM
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If you fucked multiple men during the same cycle, you know that kid potentially has a different father
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:49 PM
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I have no idea what goes on in the brain of some people I have never met and don't know anything about. All of you could be bots for all I know
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:30 PM
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But who said he is bad at sex? Maybe they have a perfectly satisfactory sex life. Who is even saying she's not attracted to him? He could literally be better looking than the other dude. Are you under the impression that she would be happier with the other guy or that she would love him?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:27 PM
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Honestly yeah The other thing also accuses her of trying to pass off the child as his and lying to child about their origin
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 07:23 PM
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He's the best for her in the metrics that matter to her. She doesn't seem unhappy. Do you feel the same about men who fuck sluts in their youth, "sowing their wild oates" or whatever, and then find a nice wife material woman to cherish and love and have children with? There is literally a saying "can't turn a hoe into a housewife".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:38 PM
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Imo that is not even remotely comparable, as her situation involves her extreme contribution and sacrifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:32 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:30 PM
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I'm assuming it's some kind of an in joke between us or something, if not I'd assume he's trying way to hard to be edgy because who actually talks like that irl lol (and in that case I'd also find it funny). Do they expect a relationship from a hookup? There is a huge gap between wanting a relationship with someone and treating them like a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:29 PM
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How do you feel about your woman randomly going through your phone?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:30 PM
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Imagine risking your looks, health and life, not to mention tying yourself for life to a man and to the biggest obligation in the world (for an average woman), for him to accuse you of fucking another man behind his back and trying to pass of that man's child as his without any reason whatsoever. All that while you've had a normal, nice relationship, you've never cheated and there is no suspicion of it. The DNA test paranoia is completely unknown to the normal person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:26 PM
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Isn't that the same girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:21 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:20 PM
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So she pumped and dumped that guy to be with her husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:18 PM
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Laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:17 PM
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Idk ask them why do they do it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 03:18 PM
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No?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:17 PM
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Yes, absolutely. That would be the case if I was single, it's not like I have a specific acquaintance in mind that I would have sex with. One is the behavior when I'm in love and in a relationship, but if I was single I don't see why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:23 PM
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No I didn't say that, I could have casual sex with acquaintances Currently I don't want to have sex with anyone other than my boyfriend with whom I hope to spend my life with. Is that cause you need to know someone to want to have sex with them? I need to be familiar with their vibe to feel attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:48 PM
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Yes although I only had it once And I'm not attracted to random men I don't know and I would never use a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:29 PM
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Oh cool But I wanna add that labia doesn't count because that's literally just skin, you can use it to stimulate the clit with it but by itself no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:27 PM
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At least I had sex in that case? just used you for sex I don't personally believe in this, I wouldn't have sex with someone for any reason other than wanting to have sex with them, so I don't see how I didn't also get something I wanted out of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:24 PM
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Remind me pls
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:03 PM
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Because I at least got to have sex with somebody I wanted to have sex with? Isn't it self explanatory? Plus the added ego blow if a man didn't even want to have sex with me...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:58 PM
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As I said, I've never actually heard of that happening irl, except to a male friend who got rejected after sex but I guess the stereotype exists for a reason. People reject each other all the time and for all the different reasons, everyone has faced some heartbreak in life. Personally, I'd rather be rejected after sex than before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:25 PM
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I'm a woman you don't have to explain how my sex drive works. Most sex doesn't give women orgasms or pleasure, Thankfully not true in my experience. Arousal in women is the desire to have an orgasm Yes, but personally I also crave penetration. and we generally give ourselves that better Masturbation and sex are not even comparable to me. Yes, sometimes I just want a quick orgasm alone, but the craving for my man is also always here. Our attraction to men is more platonic, intimate, and romantic …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 10:43 AM
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In my experience men care about way more than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:57 AM
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This is not an advice sub, this is a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:47 AM
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You want someonr to be monogamous to you before meeting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:44 AM
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So why do we crave sex for the entire month, and feel attraction independent from a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:43 AM
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Probably yes. Sometimes men also get rejected after sex. Sometimes they both ghost each other. Sometimes thet mutually agree not to see each other anymore. I've never acrually heard of someone getting "pumped and dumped" irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:36 AM
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Then that's not genuine desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:35 AM
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What a healthy and wonderful relationship that would be, him just willing to be with anyone who will give him 5 minutes of attention, and her choosing a partner based solely on his income. I would rather kms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:05 PM
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None of us know what either that woman or those men looked like, what she actually finds attractive and why exactly did she not want those men. And being ugly is not a behaviour or a moral standard. So yes, you are an illogical hypocrite. Before anyone asks, I feel the same way about lazy women who want a rich man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:01 PM
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I don't have that problem personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:10 PM
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You can speak of your own preference, I can speak for the preference of men I've been with. There is no right or wrong answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:09 PM
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Yes men are typically socialized to carry the entire sexual act by themselves, that's not rare. And some men actually like that. The stereotype didn't come from nowhere. Compatibility is key. Look for a more dominant partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:34 PM
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Catholics outside of the US are generally pretty chill about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:50 PM
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Any word of condemnation for those "bad men"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:48 PM
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I'm not flexible enough to perform cunnilingus on myself. I wish I was but those pesky ribs get in the way. Also I am very grateful to have a man who loves to make me orgasm, has no trouble maintaining an erection with me and actually likes to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:45 PM
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We're talking about my own definition here, and I'm talking about men who ABANDON their kids and aren't present in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:42 PM
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Men would fuck anything. I need to know that he wants exactly me, that I'm the personification of his fantasies, that he would choose me in the room full of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:41 PM
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Women absolutely do face challenges in life. Fucking a few men is usually not the cause of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:47 PM
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I don't demand empathy or sympathy from men specifically. I think in very gender neutral terms. I expect the same civic respect and normal human empathy from men and women that I personally don't know, I expect my male and female friends and boyfriend to sympathize with my problems, and I try to give the same energy back. I wouldn't say that most of my issues/problems/worries in life have anything to do with my gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:39 PM
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You're basing "genuine desire" only on whether or not he wants to fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:55 AM
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Think of it like this: Some women have a 4th, 5th, 10th, 15th child... somebody has to fuck them to get there. If women have functional vaginas after birthing 14 kids, what makes you think a dick makes a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:31 AM
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Vaginas don't change with sex either. It's a muscle. It expands and shrinks back based on arousal and age. a 50 year old virgin woman has a "looser" vagina than a 22 year old who has sex every day. Your penis shapeshifts everytime you get aroused too. Your balls also sag with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:24 AM
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How does that even correlate with the definition of "whore"? You just took two different terms and said "Duh, A is because B" without elaborating. That is literally the same thing as me saying: "Men are whores because they are the ones that are fucking"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:06 AM
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A cute guy that fucks good who is also my best friend and we have aligned values and life goals. Nice person who has sex. Most men have way higher standards than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:00 AM
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The end result is the same - having sex with each other. Anatomically one of them penetrates and the other one receives, but you are the one trying to ascribe psychological meaning to this. So, when she's riding him, do any of those things apply? A man having sex with a woman is a completely different feeling than what a woman experiences having sex with a man. THey aren't "the same" at all. You have 0 idea about what it's like to have sex as a woman. Two different men and two different women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:57 AM
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I'd focus my attention on arguing about other ragebaity topics and politics
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:51 AM
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He can stsy active in the kid's life by calling and texting regularly, the kid coming to visit and visiting the kid. Also by paying child support. Also, doesn't mean that parent doesn't have shared custody. The other parent just has primary physical custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:41 AM
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In the end of the day, both the female and the male individual have the same desire. How is it fair to restrict one of them from acting on it and not the other one? I disagree with your premise. The only people who get to decide if they should have sex are the people involved in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 02:44 AM
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Except that sex actually doesn't really have much to do with vaginal tightness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:55 AM
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In this context obviously We are talking about policing one gender's behavior towards casual sex and not the other's
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:46 AM
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1000 times having sex is like an average 7 year long relationship. Do you think the sensation changes for the bf or what
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:46 AM
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In that case, there is a dad in the picture. Idk about your country but in mine shared custody is the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:42 AM
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I have 3N. My friend has 15N. I probably had sex 400 times more than her. Or better yet, when my N was 1 hers was around 6, and I still had sex hundreds of times more than her. Whose vagina changed more lmao And how exactly do you think it changes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:25 AM
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It is different because men and women are different. How
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:17 AM
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I have an unattractive male acquaintance who is a steward
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:14 AM
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I had a covid prom and it was really lame, the only good thing about it was my dress
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:11 AM
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Most aren't even catchy tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:06 AM
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She's not single
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 04:48 PM
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You've won ut 5 comments ago
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 04:00 PM
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I'd imagine a lot of people wouldn't throw away their entire life together for one mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:59 PM
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You can take the L it's alright. I've handed out a lot of them on Reddit so it's not like you need to be ashamed of it I am laughing at your ignorance from the comfort of my home. Lmao goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:11 PM
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Learning about it my whole life and understanding the specific nuances that led to everything. I am actually really interested in this topic and I can safely say I know more about it than you do. I don't have enough time to explain the entire history of my nation to you. Plus technically I'm sticking up for your people more than you. Your ancestors probably prefer me anyways 🇭🇷 Considering the current climate in my country, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 02:56 PM
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Jesus Christ you didn't know we even had fascists, you don't know what they were called (not "utase") you researched the topic for 20 minutes, and you're trying to explain my country's history to me? Congrats brother you won the ragebait war.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 02:37 PM
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About half of Croatians were fascists and half were in the resistance. My ancestors that were involved unfortunately.. And the Russian part is true for all Croatians
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 02:02 PM
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My ancestors were actually Nazis of the Croatian variant And Russians have literally nothing to do with our history whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:40 PM
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Your ancestors died in their millions not too long ago I'm pretty sure the same number of our ancestors died
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:31 PM
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Marrying widows is encouraged in the Bible. your Eastern European ancestors are looking at you like My grandpa was a ragebaiter as well. I'm sjre they understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:13 PM
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Yuck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 01:00 PM
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No, I'm not saying this at all. Sometimes I personally also just want a quickie. I'm just saying that when you and your woman are in the mood and want her to cum (let's be real, that's more often than not), there is a pretty reliable way to make her cum. Guys act like it's rocket science to make a woman orgasm, it's so hard, you need to do 1718181 stuff, blabla.. when we literally have a whole organ designed to make us cum. So the safest thing to try out with a new partner, if you want tk make t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:56 PM
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Marrying single moms is a very biblical thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:50 PM
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If you abandon YOUR OWN CHILD because you disagree with their mother YOU ARE A MONSTER
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:49 PM
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Who do you think is paying? Not the girls. lmao Also. There is always guys in a girls career too. What does this even mean
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:47 PM
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Absolute bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:46 PM
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Women here are mostly in relationships and there aren't that many man-haters here. On this specific subreddit, I'd say way more men hate women then vice versa. This doesn't mean that some feminists don't hate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:43 PM
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He knows I like to argue with redpill and incels on Reddit, but I'd be mortified if he actually found my username. Never ask a person their Reddit username.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 12:41 PM
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So every man that has sex is a chad got it..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:26 PM
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Women aren't having sex with men to reward them. We're having sex with men for selfish reasons (because we're horny and want to get off), the same reason men want to have sex with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:22 PM
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She can't have self control? That is too much to ask? Why would she neee the self control? She's single, he's single, she wants to fuck, he wants to fuck. Why wouldn't she do it? How would I know what its like to be bombarded by the attention of women who are better than me? Thats something women have to figure out, its not the male experience. Imagine a hypothetical where a hot woman wants to have sex with you. Would you do it or would you not do it? Women are the ones who fuck superior men who…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:03 PM
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So um, what is she supposed to do? Not fuck a hot guy because incels on the internet are saying so? If a hot 8/10-10/10 woman wanted to sleep with you, wouldn't you do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 09:48 AM
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Because that's the only purpose a clitoris has on our body? We have an organ whose only function is to make us orgasm, logically most women enjoy clitoral stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:16 PM
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There is a lot more criticism of women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:14 PM
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Of course some don't. But the majority of women like that, and that's the most reliable way to make a woman cum. If you need to try something out to make a woman cum, this is the thing you should try first, not the things that you keep mentioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:12 PM
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Licking the clit doesn't involve a penis. It's still a part of sex between straight people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:10 PM
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Just eat them out, that works for the vast majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:57 AM
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Of course not. Some men also don't like blowjobs. But most do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 10:56 AM
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Topanga was beautiful wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:13 AM
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It unfortunately means "without limbs"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:55 AM
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Tell the joke
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:55 AM
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Lmao the percentage of women who will orgasm solely from nipple stimulation and solely from clitoral stimulation is not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:52 AM
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Yes, there quite literally is a magic button for the majority of women. You don't have to invent new shenanigans, for most of us it's the clit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:50 AM
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Clitoral stimulation. Ideally before penetration. Just do it and be patient.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:27 PM
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Let me entertain this as a serious question for a moment: No.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:42 PM
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Hopefully most of my countrymen. Then again, I am European.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:36 PM
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Name examples
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:14 PM
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I highly doubt that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:57 PM
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Sauna, metal, weird language, introversion, Lapland (where Santa lives), Kaarija-Cha cha cha...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:46 AM
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Waist to hip ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:53 AM
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23, almost 24 F, 3N his best friend was dating my high school friend's neighbourhood friend, together 15-19 we went to high school together, hooked up at 19 we met through mutual friends when I was late 18, first time hooked up 1 day after my 20th birthday, together since then
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 08:46 AM
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What is high N and what is low N?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 05:57 PM
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Some men like it when their girlfriend looks hot (obbiously not naked) and they are the only ones who get to touch her and sleep with her. Source: my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 03:49 PM
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1.5 months after my first time, 1.5 months during covid, 1.5 months post-breakup and 1.5 months during my exchange program in a foreign country. No I don't believe I relate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:09 AM
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PIV isn't the only type of sex. While I personally enjoy it very much, I don't orgasm from it. I still have an orgasm pretty much every time we have sex. Your man should make sure of it. And penetration feels heavenly after an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 11:07 AM
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In what ways? oh this is gonna be good
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 10:55 AM
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If I believe cheating is wrong and don't want a partner who cheats, but I still take pride in cheating, am I a hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 09:02 PM
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Because it's unusual to willingly and joyfully partake in a behavior that you wouldn't want your partner to partake in? It's hypocritical and frankly morally wrong to view the same act as good when you do it and bad when somebody else does it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 06:40 PM
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I'm applying your own standards to your own behavior. I don't personally believe being a virgin makes you a better partner in any way, and might even make one a worse partner. The majority of people have sex in romantic relationships, that's obviously what I meant by "having a boyfriend". Her choice worked for her. Personally, marrying the only man I've ever been with doesn't sound like something I'd prefer. Not to mention having a sexless relationship, or not having sex in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 06:34 PM
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Not at all. I don't struggle with either as I'm in a relationship. I just feel like my ego would hurt way more if a guy didn't even want to sleep with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 11:09 AM
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That's your opinion. I would be way more crushed if he didn't even want to sleep with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:32 AM
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I'm trying to imagine a reality in which I know the details of how my boyfriend's exes' vaginas looked and felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:25 PM
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More Women on the planet would choose that lifestyle than not Would men choose it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 06:36 PM
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It's not harder to feel sexual attraction over a coffee than in a fancy restaurant. And neither of those things makes me horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 09:52 AM
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It's not really only to attract men. The whole society, even people without any sexual interest in you, treats you better if you're esthetically pleasing or "pretty" by society's standards. So it's not exactly about attracting a potential partner (which I don't have any interest in, since I'm happily partnered), I also want to be pretty to other women, old people, children.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:49 PM
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Do people actually call out their partners name during sex? That feels a bit performative and cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 06:12 PM
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How is it dysphoria if it's normal for men to lose hair and go bald? It's literally such a normal, ordinary regular thing. I wish I didn't have to suffer from cramps and bleeding every 27 days, but oh well, I didn't choose to be a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:37 PM
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Why would somebody want a man's commitment if she doesn't even want to have sex with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:32 PM
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I mean yeah, she mops the floor he cleans the windows. She cleans the bathroom he cleans the kitchen. She irons he vacuums. That's a pretty normal housework distribution, why are you weirded out about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:20 PM
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It's about what I expected, maybe a bit lower than I thought before things got serious with my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:23 AM
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This is why dating apps and cold approaches suck. How is anyone supposed to feel a spark in these circumstances? Nothing beats a warm approach from the same social circle where you've already interacted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:22 AM
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I can only speak for myself, but I seriously don't understand what's so "mysterious" or complicated about a female orgasm. Just stimulate my clitoris for a few minutes and it will happen. It might not happen if I'm really overwhelmed or stressed or something, but if he doesn't even try, then yes he's selfish. Also, that's quite an antiquated view of casual sex- I wouldn't say most women who have it want aomething more with that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:49 AM
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With a virgin you can idealize it like sex with her is a rare privilege because it's so amazing. And what if it isn't amazing? At one point she isn't a virgin anymore, she's just your low libido wife/gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:11 PM
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I might be wrong but lowkey whenever a woman on Reddit talks about her big boobs and mentions "D cups" I picture a man writing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:34 PM
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Why would you buy a wedding dress?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 09:22 AM
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It's not that men have to pursue us. They just do it. I was literally never even in a position to do that because men voluntarily pursued me. It's probably because of their higher sex drive. When I'm out in public I never feel the urge to approach men with romantic intent, not even when I was single. Proposing levels out the uneven burden women will take on during pregnancy and for the first year of the child's life a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:24 PM
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It's not that men have to pursue us. They just do it. I was literally never even in a position to do that because men voluntarily pursued me. It's probably because of their higher sex drive. When I'm out in public I never feel the urge to approach men with romantic intent, not even when I was single. Proposing levels out the uneven burden women will take on during pregnancy and for the first year of the child's life a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:23 PM
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It's not that men have to pursue us. They just do it. I was literally never even in a position to do that because men voluntarily pursued me. It's probably because of their higher sex drive. When I'm out in public I never feel the urge to approach men with romantic intent, not even when I was single. Proposing levels out the uneven burden women will take on during pregnancy and for the first year of the child's life a little bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:23 PM
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Anal is way less likely to happen with a random one night stand, especially in a public bathroom or whatever, and way more likely to happen within a committed long term relationship. Same as BDSM experimentation, fetishes etc..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:05 PM
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Why? Last time I checked, the baby has two parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:04 PM
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And then you marry her and she barely wants to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:46 PM
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Most experimentation happens in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:45 PM
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Why should a husband help change his wife’s baby’s diaper Why should she change her husband's baby's diaper? That baby is not hers more than it is his.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:41 PM
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As if men don't choose who they want to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 02:07 PM
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In the end, I'm only going to have a child with one man. Does that mean I view all of the other men that I filtered out and didn't procreate with as subhuman? All women? All other children?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:58 PM
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Yes, you know exactly what I think. Maybe you're projecting, but I personally don't only value the lives of people I want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 01:38 PM
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Not wanting to fuck someone is not the same as taking away their rights or thinking they are subhuman ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:11 AM
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South Korean men sound super lame
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:56 AM
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23 and like 7 (5 of those happened when I was 13-15), and 2 second dates
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 06:05 PM
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She picked her prettiest picture for both years. Sometimes you smile in your prettiest picture sometimes you don't. It's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 06:01 PM
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I’ve already said that I’m an outlier. So yes but no. I was lucky enough not to have bonding issues, etc. You're not an outlier. Many, if not most people can bond with their partners after a reasonable number of previous partners. You're not special at all. Then why do you feel bad she has this only with me and not one prior? I don't feel bad and I never said anything like that. You wouldn't seriously date the woman you supposedly love if she had a boyfriend before she knew of your existance. If…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 05:54 PM
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Women's bathrooms are generally pretty positive spaces lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:22 PM
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How did she deceive him? He's her friend, why can't she fuck other guys? Unless he was deceiving her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 08:18 PM
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Yes it does. Many of us take pride in our work. I would probably commit suicide if I was forced to stay home
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:13 PM
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Nobody is saying this. I think stay at home wives are lazy. I literally don't know any women who stay home.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:11 PM
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And what if he was just plain old fucking, not commiting any crimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 03:08 PM
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That’s kinda the point of me taking her virginity. I enjoyed sex with my bf since the first time we slept together. You can lose it to the person you marry Do you feel sad you haven't lost yours to her? Studies have actually shown that people who married their first loves or had really low n counts tend to stay married longer and are happier in it. People who marry after being promiscuous tend to divorce faster. You know you're describing yourself, right? Do you feel sad about the fact that you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 07:28 PM
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So you made this post to debate only about your own relationship? I was talking about generalities. I would consider your point or at least look it up if my wife was insecure, but she’s not, so I’m not worried about it.) Your wife is not the only virgin woman on the planet. too many casual partners strawman. Non virgin does not automatically mean any, let alone many casual partners. Idk what these anecdotes have to do with the OP Sex feels better when you're not a virgin. We value each other mai…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 06:39 PM
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If we have a child together or I'm pregnant, yes. Otherwise, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:49 PM
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My bf bought me my first (and only) vibrator lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:49 PM
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It still happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:17 PM
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What good comes out of it for Muslim women? I absolutely understand why men love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:19 PM
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Christian societies are mostly secular. A nun is like a job, wearing a habit is not a normal part of a christian girl's outfit. How much of a choice do those women even have? Why do the women have to cover up? I'm not a christian btw
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:16 PM
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Inheritance laws. How much is a woman's testimony worth? Burkas, hijabs. The rights of women in islamic society compared to christian societies. Your prophet raped a 9 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:27 PM
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You know what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:18 PM
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I hear you. Just don't pretend anything in islam is for the "shared good"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:00 PM
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Idk what you just wrote here, but yes, some women (and men at an equal rate) are hung up on their exes and still pining after them for years. I've met an equal amount of men and women who behaved like this. I've never met a girl still hung up on a guy who is only a fuckbuddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:22 PM
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Your claim is based on absolutely nothing but vibes. Think this way, if you date a 10 out of 10 good hearted man, he will never cheat, even if you throw maddison beer at him. But for Women its different. She maybe wont act on it but she will zone out from her relationship. As a Woman you can protect yourself off getting cheated on by chosing the right guy, my claim is as a Man u cant, because off hypergamy base. What are you basing this off of?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:17 PM
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In islam a man can take up to 4 wives. He also gets to fuck translucent virgins after he dies. for your shared good lol and lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:13 PM
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I don't know any male lawyers dating women who clean toilets for a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:11 PM
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Personally no. I don't want to plan to earn less than my partner, obviously I want to succeed too. His career offers more flexibility than mine when it comes to location, so no. And alimony could not be awarded in my country under the circumstances that you listed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:39 AM
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She's nkt the only one that gets sick. He becomes a father, she becomes a mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:36 AM
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He wanted the dairy too! He is equally responsible!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 07:17 PM
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No lol I'm not sure if I would ever dump him, I just wouldn't feel comfortable participating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 05:52 PM
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Exactly... they don't seem to realize this. With my first I was really curious and wanted to try out what sex with others would be like. Currently with an N of 3 I don't have that same issue anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:49 PM
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Then he would have still been in that situation, wouldn't he? This chef is unlucky because EVERY! customer of his suffers from the same allergy and has roughly the same chance of getting sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:46 PM
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"bonding better" is a completely subjective metric. I bonded to my 3rd partner like I never could with my 1st. Being a virgin past your early 20s can be a sign of unresolved trauma, insecurity and complexes and low libido Sex feels miles better when you're not a virgin. The first couple dozen of times, not to mention the first first time, I didn't enjoy sex as much as I did later on. With my 3rd, the first time was already fucking great. You cannot appreciate his size and skill as much when he's…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:40 PM
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That's not really my thing, I'm quite submissive and wouldn't enjoy humiliating my bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:34 PM
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Only one person can get pregnant. Only one person's orgasm can make someone pregnant. If a child is born, both of those people are responsible for it. Your body, your choice. You can decide where you cum. Her body, her choice. She can decide if she wants yo continue with the pregnancy or not. The kid= both your responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:37 PM
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He chose to cook it and didn't have to. He could have also asked her not to use it. Because unlike her illness, parenthood equally happens to both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:20 PM
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If you make a dairy based meal for a person you absolutely know is allergic and has a chance of getting sick... Why should this be on women? That child is not hers only. It's equally yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 05:09 PM
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Two people make a baby. It's not her baby, it's their baby. Both of these people are responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:16 PM
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My number is not high And I know multiple girls who lied that they were NOT virgins to their first partners
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:26 PM
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To you maybe, not to me. For the record I trust his number and it's similar to mine, but I don't really care
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:16 PM
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I mean I did tell him my true count but like I have no interest in verifying his number and I don't think that it's my business
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 07:06 PM
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If I'm not attracted to a man, I'm not attracted. It's equally gross. Him being a man doesn't do anything for me in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:28 PM
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I have no idea what different sizes actually look like, I've never brought a tape measure to bed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:21 PM
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1-3 is high N lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:19 PM
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Yes It's nobody's business
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 05:18 PM
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oral sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:08 PM
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This shit made the evening news in Croatia lmao is it really that important
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 06:27 PM
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Tbh the whole situation was insane. It isn't anybody's business of someone's is having an affair or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 05:45 PM
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I decided that she felt like she’d be settling if she was with me and I made the determination to move on. Maybe you were wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:39 AM
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None of these things are toxic masculinity, except maybe one or two.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 07:36 AM
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Those are two different things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/25 12:26 AM
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I love sex and I have a liberal viee of sex. I don't support sex work, I don't believe it's real work, I consider it shameful and I would never fo that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 03:56 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:25 PM
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Thank you <33
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:25 PM
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Ugh it's the worst...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:25 PM
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Thx I feel much better!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:24 PM
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Trip to Italy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:24 PM
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Trying to get better, my flight is in 5 hours lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/25 05:24 PM
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Fuck fuck fuck I got a fever the day before a trip wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 05:28 PM
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50-50
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:38 PM
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I mean it's not like this never happens, but most of the times she also just wants to hook up for unrelated reasons and he happens to be thr best currently available option
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:44 PM
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I love to plan date nights, trip itineraries and other activities. Do you think this is a more masculine or feminine trait and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 11:55 AM
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Whoops I guess most hookups wouldn't have happened then
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 07:39 AM
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Zero reproductive rights I would take that over the biological reproductive reality of being a woman. More likely to be homeless How does this affect the average man? Given more prison time for the same crimes as women How does this affect the average man? More likely to commit suicide This is the unfortunate reality. Unfortunately, it's not like women are immune to suicide. And it's not like the average man is at risk. More likely to die at work I would have the same job I have now. No longer b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 11:28 AM
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Thosr two are not mutually exclusive at all, but "friend" sounds morr fun and interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:28 PM
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Eh not rrally, since anal is typically an even higher "base" than PIV. But oral and hand stuff, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 01:04 PM
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It's not that hard of a concept tbh. Your opinion is not as popular as you think. women It's not only women, many men, including my boyfriend and male friends, including the men in this very thread... they inherently know adding bodies devalues them. I literally have no horse in this race as my number is the same either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 12:09 PM
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Honestly everyone around me has always counted only PIV for straight people. So you would consider yourself not a virgin if you gave oral to a girl, even ig nobody had ever seen or touched your penis? Or if you just fingered her? You could be a non-virgin who has never seen a vagina + his penis was never seen by a girl? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 10:01 AM
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Tbh I read it as him being in thr 8th grade without mentioning her age
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:59 AM
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So a woman loses her vitginity if she gives a BJ to a guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/25 08:58 AM
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She is a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:08 PM
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nooo :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 08:25 PM
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Absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 04:58 PM
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Americans are sooo weird In my culture you decorate the Christmas tree on the 24th
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:31 PM
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Another girl also said she rejected him because of his height and wished she didn’t now that he’s famous Was that ever confirmed or is it some rage-baiter who went viral?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:29 PM
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low sexual-chemistry relationship What a bunch of assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:28 PM
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A negligible amount of people live like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 11:00 PM
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No lol it should be legal but everyone can still view you as a fucking creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:49 PM
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Bit I don't want to get engaged yet, it's cringe to get engaged before you're ateast 25
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 02:06 PM
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How do you deal with your periods? How many stitches will you require after childbirth?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:37 PM
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No, "icky" is the word that adequately describes my feelings towards dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:37 PM
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What do you think about partnered men watching porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 08:34 PM
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You have to cum to get a biological offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:54 PM
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Now compare our bodies and parenthood. Friendships are about equal, I don't think you can realiably measure that. Fathers have an undeniable career advantage over mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:53 PM
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Men have it easier in other aspects of life, women have it easier in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:34 PM
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Both matter tbh. I don't even think some of those women develop actual attraction to those guys, everything is superficial and weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:16 PM
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Mostly in social cricles or through mutual friends, but also in uni, in bars and clubs, going out to the same places multiple times, through hobbies...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:14 PM
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How not? It's even easier to see and verify someone's height in person lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:06 PM
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I honestly don't know. I believe a lot of people are just doing it because it's in right now and "everyone is doing it". And in my country and age range most people are still meeting organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:04 PM
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No lol you absolutely can't, at least not like talking in person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:19 PM
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It's like you're shopping for a new coat or kitchen appliance and going through the ads. Human relationships (I'm not talking strictly about LTR, I mean all human relationships and interactions) are so much more complex than this. You're much more than a picture and a listed ste of characteristics. * vibes * are crucial for a woman to feel attraction to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:11 PM
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Yeah this entire thing is insane and unbelievable to me. The best sex for me is obviously with a guy that I'm crazy about, it's not about the technical aspect. Like if I fucked the best pornstar in the world right now that sex could not even be compared to the sex that I have with my bf. That feelong when you want to lick, kiss or touch every inch of their body, when their natural scent drives you crazy...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:05 PM
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I never used online dating and the entire concept is very icky to me, so yes, why not, it's 100% in the spirit of online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:00 PM
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I absolutely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:13 AM
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Just kiss her most people have that virus anyways lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:12 AM
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Look at it this way- a penis is actually a big clitoris
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:11 AM
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How lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 11:09 AM
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We rarely have arguments as we're both quite rational and coming up to issues in good faith, so everything resolves easily. your partner doesn't have one annoying habit that you've had to work through? I can't think of anything that bothers me about him that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:20 PM
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Everything is subjective I never contradicted this claim. You brought up the subjectivity of the first listed definition. Are you familiar with the Munchausen Trilemma? I am. I already went over the reason I wouldn’t marry a woman like you mentioned. If you didn’t read it, that’s on you. What makes you think I didn't understand your response? I quoted it back to you the way that you wrote it. I also specify why promiscuous is a lot worse than someone who’s discriminate but a non-virgin. Why does…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:27 PM
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You said it yourself- you prefer virgins (and married one) over women who AREN'T promiscuous but aren't virgins either. So the entire rant about promiscuity and its negative effects on people isn't the reason you wouldn't marry a non-virgin. Promiscuity is a very subjective term with multiple meanings and interpretations. "Indiscriminateness" is also a subjective term.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:01 PM
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So, why even bring up the promiscuity stats if it doesn't matter to you anyway? The definition of promiscuity includes “indiscriminateness.” You need to learn how to interprete dictionary definitions. Indiscriminateness is included in the second definition. The first one refers to the number of sexual partners. "Promiscuity is the practice of engaging in sexual activity frequently with different partners OR being indiscriminate in the choice of sexual partners".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:31 PM
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I am in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:09 PM
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Not really, if you're well matched and like each other it's very easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:49 AM
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Most women don't describe a hookup as the best, unforgettable sex of their lives... most of the experimentation and discovery happens in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:29 AM
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You said you never had a problem getting a fuck quickly. That sounds prmiscuous. What's your N? I never said it was =. You’re making assumptions. You're presenting your argument as it is. So, you would marry a woman with a 2 N who wasn't promiscuous?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 07:13 AM
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Not being a virgin =/= being promiscuous. damage a person’s ability to make connections and keep something long-term alive. So, you're unable to connect to your wife? You're incapable of maintaining a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:50 PM
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Personally not being a virgin made me appreciate my bf even more, as he is comparably better than both my past partners
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:45 PM
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Americans lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:44 PM
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She did that for a year, couldn't do it, broke it off, advises OP NOT to do it. Every comment that I've seen is advising her against doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:45 AM
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Where are your stats
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:58 AM
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Did you even read the thread that you linked? The OP is asking whether she should do it and literally all top comments say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 08:31 AM
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My lived experience tells me this is not true. Who would want to be in a relationship with someone they don't find sexually attractive? Like it could happen once when you're intoxicated and sad, but waking up every day next to your cringy shameful hookup sounds like a nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:49 AM
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Agreed, I absolutely find that weird as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 11:37 AM
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It's about giving up variety in favour of monogamy...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:27 AM
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Relationship standards are higher than hookup standards..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 10:27 AM
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He is a borderline genius, an electrotechnics major solving equations for fun in his free time. STEM fields aren't my strong suit. I'm a soon-to-be law school graduate, and I believe you need to be way more intelligent to do what he does than what I do. When it comes to general knowledge, pop culture, history etc, we're about equally matched, I might even be a bit better as I'm on a hc trivia team and enjoy playing and watching quizzes. But he's not the stereotypical STEM guy without any interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:15 AM
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I could find any boyfriend in about a month. A guy who could match my current boyfriend? Never.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:09 AM
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When a (male) player settles down with one girl to start a family with, he gives up being a player for her. What's not clicking?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:12 PM
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I mean sure, that is the stereotype for a reason, although you might be surprised at how many "normies" use reddit too. I'm not even introverted.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:13 PM
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There is absolutely nothing wrong with using reddit regularly lol and my bf also uses it. I think it's way healthier and a better use of your time than instagram or tiktok. Also we're both neurotypical with an active social life, like I imagine most people who use it also are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:08 PM
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Yes, I'm not a hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:35 PM
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It's not a big deal, I'm just saying it's not normal or usual to be a virgin at that age in south slavic culture, which you ascribed her viriginity to...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:54 PM
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I'm pretty much obsessed with him and haven't been truly attracted to another man since we first got together. I have absolutely no desire to touch another man. Technically perfect sex with a guy who I'm not crazy about could never be better than sex with this man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:46 AM
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Flirting is cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 10:39 AM
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I would accept it if it was perfect, but tbh I'm glad my perfect man was not my first, because knowing myself I'd start wondering about it..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 07:49 PM
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So if it's not an orgasm, how should I call my orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 10:01 AM
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Both of them are most likely working.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 10:22 PM
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Because I'm a south slav girl that's actually living in a south slavic country. Girls aren't staying virgins here. Serbian popular music, movies, tv shows, reality shows... chaste and pure are the last adjectives you'd describe it as. Sex is everywhere. Belgrade is one of the party capitals of the world ffs. Her parents make her come home to them every night she can't randomly stay over at a mans home. I live with my parents too and I'm not a virgin. Most of us live with our parents in our early…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 12:43 AM
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Why would any woman (or person) accept that? Why wouldn't you let her stray too?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:59 PM
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You literally said these girls were from cultures that valued things like that. they have sky high standards and just haven't liked any of the men enough who have approached them. This was the reason some of my friends who remained virgins past 20 did so, and it's a more likely case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:50 PM
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Stop embarrassing yourself, you obviously know nothing about Serbian culture if you believe it values purity and virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:24 PM
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Everywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:27 AM
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It's not my place to say anything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:26 AM
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Statistically I would be more confident if I was my brother, as men are consistently shown to have higher self esteem than women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:48 AM
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That sounds like a cope, if she's the one that is indeed making those decisions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:53 PM
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Who gets to decide these things in the house that you share together?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:52 PM
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A friend whom I trust and is reasonably attractive but I wouldn't want to date for objective reasons and don't have a crush on
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:24 AM
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It's not rational or explainable, it's just a guy who makes you do cartoon googly eyes everytime you look at him
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:47 AM
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I never felt prepared enough, especially in college (although I passed almost every time)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:46 AM
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<image> and no
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:49 PM
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I'm not offended because neither of these things apply to me. It's just funny how this is not recognized as racism and sexism the way microaggressions towards black women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:29 PM
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men who elicit immediate strong sexual urges within women (the top 1-10% of men). It has NEVER happened to me. I've NEVER been attracted to a guy the first time I saw him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:25 PM
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through an inane checklist Every man does. I'm never attracted to a guy just because of the way he looks. It never happened to me in my life to become attracted to a man the first time I saw him. even though Chad will never commit lol) What is a Chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:23 PM
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He passes the threshold, which means I could start to find him attractive after getting to know him and spending time in his proximity if he was funny, charismatic, intelligent, interesting, cool...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:42 AM
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It's so ironic how all intersectionality and tolerance from Democrats goes out the window when it comes to stereotyping and making offensive remarks about Slavic women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:09 AM
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Over 96% of offenders of child sexual abuse are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 07:22 PM
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The only trait out of the ones you listed that has anything to do with female looks is body fat distribution, and that is also a trait influenced by both parents, as well as environmental factors. And what does your current point have to do with your original point? Just admit you didn't know how genetics work. Since men only pass on male traits from the y chromosomes Dick size, height, baldness, muscle definition, build are all inherited from both parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:13 PM
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There are female only characteristics that can only be passed down through females Such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:52 PM
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Pedophilia is also a well documented phenomenon. How is this obvious deviancy related to normal healthy male sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:33 PM
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Brother, you do realize that (most of us) have 46 chromosomes, and 44 out of those are neither X nor Y? And half of those are from your mom and half are from your dad. And those are the chromosomes responsible for passing on the genes that determine the way you look. Did you think women were not related to their paternal gradfathers or what? Also, the X chromosome is not "female", as every man also has an X chromosome. Notice the "X" in "XY".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:26 PM
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I do it entirely subconsciously/ it comes naturally to me. I hate stupid dating games such as the rules of texting/timelines of sex/dates etc, I just did what felt right to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:48 PM
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This doesn't sound like she likes him that much tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:46 PM
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Therefore IF men were only having sex with beautiful women/sexually attractive women. Only sexually attractive/beautiful women would remain. Or at least a majority. You do realize that a man is responsible for 50% of the daughter's genetic material? If a beautiful smokeshow woman has a kid with an ogre of a man, their daughter will likely get the ogrish genetics as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:43 PM
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I don't like playing games, if we want to, why not do it? And why would I have to be the one responsible to put a stop on it, why are men never given this advice? In my personal experience, having sex with my bf the first day we were both able to did nothing to minimize the emotional connection and love that developed. Also, not every sexual encounter has to be special or meaningful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:21 PM
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I'm sorry about your religious trauma. That sounds bad and nobody should be made to feel that way because of something normal and natural. I also grew up quite religious but I personally never felt affected by sexual shame. Catholic majority countries tend to be surprisingly chill and relaxed about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 11:28 AM
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I know, but it's honestly so hard not to fall into the loop of tracking everything I'm eating. On one hand I believe that it is keeping me healthy since I often refuse sweets and unncessary snacks (I only indulge when I'm really craving it, and I'm not really a sugar person anyway, my weakness are fried and italian foods), but on the other I am having a mini battle inside my head almost everytime I'm about to eat something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 10:10 AM
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No why
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 10:03 AM
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didn’t know about pleasuring themselves or how to get there, let alone most men. I find this very hard to believe. To me it seems more likely they didn't feel comfortable sharing that with others. “did herself” during piv Tbh this does nothing for me so I don't do it although I have no problems with orgasms, masturbation or sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 07:56 AM
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In Croatia it is an option. I once ordered a glass of milk just cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:36 PM
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- A nose that compliments your facial features No :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:49 AM
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exclusive before I sleep with them Relationships often develop from hookups be looking for commitment Sometimes it just happens if you like a person someone I made friends with first That does seem like the most common way to meet partners in hs/college
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:48 AM
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Yeah this sounds like bullshit. Just have sex whenever you feel like having sex. It's not like women are having sex for men, we have sex because we want sex too...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:45 AM
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Conservative women don't view abortion as a "woman's healthcare right" they view it as murder. Roughly the same number of men and women are pro-choice and pro-life. Fathers also tend to be very misandrist when it comes to their daughters. No surprises there, people tend to have a blindspot for their kids and see nobody as worthy of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:19 PM
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I weigh 57-58 kg on a 170cm height but I'd like to have 55. I know my weight is not the problem, my eating habits are. I eat like a prehistoric human, some days I can basically go on minimal food and some days I feast on huge unhealthy meals. And then I feel bad about myself for eating that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:40 AM
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In my opinion it's dumb to spend more than 250 EUR on a phone if I don't have to. I'm not the one to take pictures so I don't need the best camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 07:44 AM
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It's fucked up but I sometimes wish I had enough willpower to develop an ED, I feel so good when I don't need to eat a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:08 PM
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Some of us don't
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:22 PM
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It means she likes to take walks and he has to be able to keep up and he has to like to walk as well
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:15 PM
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I've been told many men prefer the way they look
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:11 PM
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Feeling insecure and needing validation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 12:08 PM
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21 year old men (and women) very rarely get married in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:26 AM
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Do men prefer big or bulbous noses? Fat arms? Undefined waist? Apron bellies? Hairy bodies? Acne? Wrinkles?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:25 AM
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She suffered two aneurysms, one in 2011 and one in 2013...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:22 AM
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It would be very, very rare for an attractive 21 year old man to marry fixed it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 07:03 AM
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It's still obviously vibes in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:09 AM
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Depends on if she considers trans women to be women or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:59 AM
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interesting conversations like the jump back from the Samarodnia Vintovka tokerava 40 to the Mosin nagant? all what you saying are very subjective concepts with no clear minimum or goal Obviously this is subjective, you're looking for a partner that suits yourself the best, so obviously interesting conversations are the ones that are interesting to you. how do you know if a conversation is interesting enough? When do you know your values are similar enough? how do you know that this expectations…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:56 AM
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That man will jump on the opportunity the second it presents itself. If the only reason you're not cheating is because nobody wants you, you're not loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:42 PM
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Lmao the tightness is not the problem, it's when it hits your cervix or your stomach hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 09:39 PM
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Jesi naš?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:40 PM
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Both men and women are capable of manipulating and being manipulated. That's not a gender thing, that's a personality thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:26 PM
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What's your argument here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:24 PM
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You're exceptionally wrong. Women often describe their crushes as '"cute", we love it when our men are being cute. My bf is soo cute and I love that so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:07 AM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 11:05 AM
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ChatGPT couldn't help you pass at my college
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 10:10 PM
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What is low N?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:40 PM
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What do you get out of that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:38 PM
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If the only reason you're not cheating is because you have nobody to cheat with, you're basically a cheater
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:35 PM
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Literally their most famous song is so breedercore
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 05:34 PM
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In conclusion, a woman's role can be identical to a man's role after the first year of the child's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:09 PM
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We're talking about a potential unmarried 35 year old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:01 PM
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Which NBA player? I wouldn't do it just for the sake of him being an NBA player, I would have to find him attractive and vibe with him. But that goes for any profession. I would NOT date him in any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:00 PM
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Says a man unmarried at 35?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:35 PM
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Hot and funny + a nerd is a dream combo
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 10:29 PM
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Why do you think most men don’t want primary custody of their children? Because they don't file for it? Less than 4% of fathers fight for custody... 91% of parents mutually agree for custody without going to trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 08:33 PM
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Men statistically remarry sooner and more often after a divorce. you’re on the hook for child support as well Common sense that you should be paying for your own child. Are you arguing against that? half your resources What makes them your resources? Your wife should have a career too. and the kids too. Shared custody is absolutely the norm. Do you think that most men even want to have primary custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:46 PM
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I'd ve 6'0. Why would my male equivalent have 25%more wealth? He'd be in the exact same boat as I am rn, as a law trainee. I don't see why I'd struggle dating as a guy. I'd date someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 03:44 PM
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Judging by the messages, this was a recent thing and he didn't get her by employing RP tactics, he just "woke up" now and she's leaving him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:16 PM
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Her N could literally be one for her to feel this way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:15 PM
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It's an ex boyfriend not a hookup in this case
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 01:13 PM
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The original poster that I replied to said low N women view sex as an extremely emotional thing. She says she and many other low N people need emotional connection to have sex. That is in no way the same thing as being in distress and needing a distraction or an ego boost. Would you say the period where you hooked up to be a highly stressfull, emotional period? Yes, the only month in my life that I had been single happened to be very fucked up.The sex, however, was not an emotional experience, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:46 AM
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A lot of men are into legs and thighs
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 11:14 AM
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I'm 100% loyal to my boyfriend and I have 0 desire for any other man and I'm also high libido within that relationship. But keep in mind that I'm only 23, I have no kids and I don't work a high stress job with long hours (yet), so God knows what it will be like in a few years lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:37 AM
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That kind of lifestyle doesn't appeal to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:23 AM
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Not specifically because I'm taken but because I'm in love with him and happy. In my past relationship I would sometimes get crushes on other guys. a lot more guys Maybe not a lot but some surely would.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:22 AM
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She said "more than likely" which is a valid statement from a logical perspsctive. Fair enough. I just wanted to offer a different perspective. are you sure you're not retroactively changing the narrative about your previous ltr? I've talked about this topic with other people during that relationship. During it it was all fine and dandy Considering I wanted to break up for 2 years out of the 4.5 that we were together, and everybody around me knew that, including him since we talked about it mult…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:19 AM
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Depends on your definition of a hoe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:01 AM
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Her point waa that low N women view sex as extremely emotional and not just for physical pleasure. My first relationship was pretty terrible (we were teenagers) and looking back on it I wasn't even in love with that guy. I was always confused by people describing sex as some deeply connecting emotional activity, mentioning feeling love and souls and whatnot, because for me, the point of sex with him was to get off. I had a hookup with an old friend between my two relationships and that changed a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:37 PM
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Maybe you fell in love with someone early. Maybe you want to fuck a lot people but nobody wants to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 12:26 PM
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Low or no N doesn't reliably indicate anything about your views on sex or intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 10:57 AM
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I mean not really, I definitely don't think all sex has to have an emotional component and I'm able to have sex without love or feelings present, and my body count is 3. It's just that I've been in two 3.5 + years long relationships si ce I was 15
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 09:10 AM
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If I felt trapped I wouldn't be with my boyfriend for the past 3.5 years with marriage plans lol I'm crazy about him and literally nobody else is sexually attractive to me right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 12:54 PM
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My N doesn't say anything about the amount of sex I'm having lol It makes sense that people in relationships have way more sex than people who do casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 08:13 AM
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Absolutely not lol there hasn't been a crush-free day in my life since I was about 8
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:04 AM
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How come lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:40 PM
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Anything between my N (3) and 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:33 PM
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If I like him I'm going to date him anyways and I definitely won't be okay with him fucking other women lol I'm not saying I wouldn't date him, I'm just saying I prefer it this way. My bf has like 3 more bodies than me, it's not that big of a difference. I'd also prefer not to date a fuckboy or a manwhore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:31 PM
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I've also never been with anyone with an N smaller than mine, and I prefer it that way because men can get awkward about your history if they haven't been with more people than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:22 PM
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Good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 06:35 AM
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Having a career and being a great professional fulfills people
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 03:54 PM
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Relax bby can't you take a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 06:05 AM
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If he knowingly spread disease or filmed it without my consent
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 08:35 AM
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I also wouldn't date non-Croatian white people. And as for attraction, I need to vibe with a guy to become attracted to him, and I just haven't met and vibed with many non-white guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:39 PM
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What if you just don't find other races attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:09 PM
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Idk Croatian men are hott
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 05:08 PM
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I'n the least slavvy slav out there lol none of this applies to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:59 PM
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I don't hate them but I find them sleazy and a bit gross
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:58 PM
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Western Europe is way more progressive than the States.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 04:53 PM
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Ive never felt this for a random man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:04 AM
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sick
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 06:03 AM
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N is 3, can I participate as a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:54 AM
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6 times a week. I also need a lot of cuddling, hugging, kissing and physical touch in general, as well as quality time, nice conversations and doing other best friend activities
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:51 AM
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A lot of people just want to look their best and love the process of getting there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:10 PM
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Jusging by their reactions, it was not enough to be worth it. Besides, I'm perfectly satisfied with the way I've been treated by men. Young pretty girls receive preferential treatment from men anyways, but big boobs also bring in exponentially more creepos.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:08 PM
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We can't wear hoodies and sweatpants either, yet those are even less revealing than office clothes. Also, in some workplaces women need to wear makeup and heels as standard office dress code
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:02 PM
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Like I'd make them maybe one or two sizes bigger, but I definitely wouldn't make them noticeably big big. If my PMS size would be my non-PMS size and then the PMS size scaled up proportionally, that would be the best case scenario lol. But if I had that wand, my boobs would not be on the top of the list of the things that I would change. How do you think men treat them worse? It's not like I've never been sexually harrassed, but generally, men have always treated me very well. I feel comfortable…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:00 PM
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He will also be her worst. And it's not like inexperience will magically make her think you have an enormous penis
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 12:45 PM
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That's a bit icky to me, to have foreign material inside of me at all times. Also, I'm satisfied with my boobs as they are and they are not an insecurity of mine the way my nose is. I also have a personal theory that men actually treat women with big boobs way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 12:43 PM
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It's neither really lol just has a bump (well maybe that would be girth lol) I'm not doing it to get guys I have a bf, I'm doing ut to become closer to the objective beauty standard
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:07 AM
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For a hookup: - he needs to look good, be safe and interesting, and most of all, I need to be in a specific space For a relationship: - he needs all of the above + plans for the future comptabile with mine, similar vibe to me, similar interests and taste in media, similar background, I need to find him sexually attractive on his own and not only because of circumstances like for a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:06 AM
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Yeah we mention it sometimes if it's notable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:01 AM
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Not at all, I just want to get my nose done
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 06:51 AM
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Why, if you have dated other women then you know how little your past matters to you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:49 PM
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We talk about our history and experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:52 PM
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Idk I talk about bodycount with my girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 09:19 PM
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Yes I'm sure my friends who I've known for 9 years since we were 14, most of whom either have girlfriends or are dating other girls, who are also friends with my boyfriend only tolerate my presence in hopes of fucking me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:28 PM
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What parallel reality is this comment from? I don't expect my male friends to "take me out and then pay for me", and neither do any of my other friends, we go out normally, usually as a group, and it's not any different based on gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 03:08 PM
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Those are completely different sensations
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:12 AM
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I don't understand what is one supposed to get the ick about lol there is absolutely nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:07 AM
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Was reading a Pick Up Manual and the author says eating pussy is one of the worst things you can do as a man because, "it gives a woman too much validation which will make her look down on you." Wtf don't listen to them this is the most untrue thing I've ever read
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:03 AM
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Newsflash: sexual behavior from men you're sexually attracted to is fine and sexual behavior from men you're not sexually attracted to is not fine. Men magically get it when we tell them to imagine a gay guy behaving like that towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:53 AM
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I would want to date way less guys than I would potentially think about fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 12:26 AM
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She's clearly white and they are clearly looks matched lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:33 PM
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Most people split rent and bills..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:30 PM
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she'd make your dick bigger and you taller. absolutely not He wouldn't touch my waist and eyes but boobs maybe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:50 PM
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What are your arguments for holding this position?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:42 PM
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I don't have big boobs but I'm very satisfied with my stomach, waist, leg and butt areas lol I like to show off my midriff, my bf also likes it when I dress that way. I like to look good. Maybe it's different for big boobs specifically lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:33 PM
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Premarital or extramarital sex is also a sin in those same religions..
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:36 AM
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Russia's birthrate before the war was 1.50.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:34 AM
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eastern europe In what countries?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:24 PM
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Mexican countryside definitely sounds like a place with a lot of virgin shaming lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 08:34 AM
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other than people ...obviously with yourself? And which religion is okay with men fucking prostitutes but not okay with masturbation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:46 AM
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Oh yeah lol I forgot you guys can punch a hole in the wall, that is impossible in Croatia lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:14 PM
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Oops meant to say 30, but still very late lol scared of them hearing it and that's not really a problem for us because of the aforementioned floor, but if that was the case no parents would ever have sex hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:59 PM
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My bf has a whole floor in his parents house to himself, with his own bathroom, and a king size bed. The average age people move out in my country is 39 btw, but that includes a lot of people who never even move out per se, they just get their own floor and their partner moves in with them. ****edit:30
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:47 PM
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How does one even respond to this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:44 PM
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Anal sex sounds worse if it's a big dicked guy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:42 PM
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I don't know, I had sex with my bf the first day we were both single so technically the first night we were "dating", but we've known each other and been friends for over a year at that point. There is no way I'd be comfortable sleeping with someone I've just met. With my first bf I waited for 5 months of dating (3 months of a relationship) but we started dating after just meeting each other. Ideally I just wouldn't start dating a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:38 PM
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Twice a week sounds like it's not often enough but I'm young so idk
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:33 PM
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I genuinely don't understand the hype about her. Then one girl told me I'm not a "girl's girl" because I don't vibe with TS ahahha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:12 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 02:22 PM
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On the contrary, as I stated, I never felt this type of attraction to anyone before, and I never felt love before at all (although I thought I did before we got together). And I obviously was attracted to other men (to a lesser degree than to him, but I still did) before- I am a heterosexual woman and I have eyes, of course I was attracted to boys even when I was a virgin. What was I supposed to do to not experience this, lock myself in solitary confinment from birth? The intensity of my romanti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 06:26 PM
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My N is 3 and before the current relationship I've been in one prior long term relationship. Before my boyfriend I've never felt this type of attraction for anyone, although I slept with two people. I've never felt this type of love before, although I've had a 4.5 year long relationship. I even if there had been more people before him, I don't think I'm capable of feeling this way for any other man on this earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:01 PM
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That's the product of your sick society where having sex before marriage is the worst thing you can do. How is it her fault that her ex shared revenge porn of her? (that's a crime btw) And trust me there’s no comeback when someone says ‘I scored your wife.’” The fact that she didn't want you anymore and is now sleeping with another man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:56 PM
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Majority of men have premarital sex. Majority of men would not be on board with this concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:45 PM
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practically never plays sometimes joins us So she's not playing for the first time ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:29 AM
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They don't exist in my culture, we are able to find our own partners
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:04 AM
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I mean I do it with my closest friends
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:02 AM
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It's fun to talk about. I personally share only positive things about someone that I'm in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:01 AM
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bad problem solving skills or can't handle pressure I mean if she's playing ut for the first time of course she's going to suck
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:58 AM
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What makes you believe that those polygynous situations happened because women all wanted a piece of chad, rather than safety reasons/were semi-consensual in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:39 AM
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They don't want relationships with those guys either. Some people just want to fuck. they're having sex with those who don't really find them attractive that sounds like those guys' problem, I could never
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:54 PM
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Do those quotes sound like they are from someone who feels this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:44 PM
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Those women are not used, being pumped and dumped etc. That's what they are offended by. Having casual sex =/= automatically being used
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:32 PM
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Just don't have sex, why do you care if somebody else does. made children mandatory There is nothing better for kids than growing up in a home where they are unwanted, or with parents who hate each other, or are horrible people in general..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:18 AM
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I thought that was him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:13 PM
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Those are the women you surround yourself with, I don't know anyone in a gang or dating someone in a gang
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:29 AM
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I missed that thread, just chiming in to say I'm dating my best friend
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 06:32 AM
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I think you missed the point. You don't see any of them, grower or shower, before you sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:43 PM
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Yes, there are absolutely some sexy outfits
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 04:55 PM
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I've heard "boyfriend dick" being used online. It doesn't mean "average sized dick" btw, but larger than average but still not so big that it's uncomfortable (pleasurable for use multiple times a week), while "holiday dick" probably means a monster dick that would be too big to have sex with more than once or twice. Bigger isn't always better. I've never heard anybody say this irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 04:29 PM
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What's absurd about this? I know many men who fit this criteria..
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 03:17 PM
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ex started dating the guy that kept hitting on her immediately post breakup making you wonder if she ever was loyal to you or secretly always had feelings for him and the last year of your relationship was just Stockholm syndrome. whoops
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:33 PM
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Do you think every woman thinks their first sex partner is awesome by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:29 PM
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I've met mutiple
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:20 PM
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As a Pisces woman I'm def the most comoatible with a Cancer man
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 01:16 PM
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But one of those losers is getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 12:01 PM
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One of them is still a bigger loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:59 AM
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I'd prefer to be with a hot peasant with good dick over a random king. It's not about money, it's about sexual satisfaction, I wouldn't be happy devoting my life to someone I personally consider just "average" and I'm not crazy about, even if that person was a king and even if I was his only one. I don't want to be "provided for" So I'd just have sporadic fun with the king in this case, without considering it really serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 11:57 AM
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3.5 years
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 11:04 AM
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It makes sense that men should be resposnible for their own offspring
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:34 AM
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absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:32 AM
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I believe they are true on average, not for every man, and it's definitely not the first thing that comes to mind when I see a black or asian man. Personally, neither are really my type, and I haven't met a lot of them anyways so it makes 0 difference in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:31 AM
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Yes, in my previous relationship. In this one I'm basically repulsed by the thought of another man touching me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:26 AM
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Of course! My prequisite for really loving a man is that I lust after him and the prerequisite for really lusting after him is that I love him haha
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 08:21 AM
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Don't spread your legs for multiple women you don't know, take some responsibility for your choices!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/25 06:11 AM
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the male complaints are largely true about women as a whole, such as?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:35 AM
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Absolutely not if you're straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 11:39 PM
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Giving respect to a woman who has a high body count is like giving respect to a man for being stronger than a woman. I understand why she is not praised for it. But why is she shamed for it then? Why are you not shaming a man for being stronger in that case?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 10:01 PM
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Do you usually fuck and cuddle your roommates to sleep? Do you share your life with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:56 PM
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I have no use for a woman that spends 8+ hours a day at her job/career. Most women do
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 11:20 PM
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No Kamala supporters raided the Capitol. And many, many Trump supporters whined online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:29 AM
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She's the one that should know better in this situation, don't fuck your students I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:38 PM
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Tbh for me tall guys look better when they are built (muscle, broad shoulders) and short guys look better if they are the skinny type (but still with broad shoulders). But none of these things matter if he doesn't have a pretty face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:00 PM
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How is he bullying her lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 03:57 PM
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And I'm not even an American lmao, you're the one mentioning women whining after Kamala lost as if the same thing didn't happen 4 years prior to that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 11:56 PM
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You do realize this goes both ways, right? He's the one that mentioned women whining after Kamala lost lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 11:54 PM
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Bro don't even mention Kamala after what y'all did when Trump lost
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:10 PM
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Then you should be the one that's staying home
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:59 AM
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Low divorce rates don't indicate that your marriages are good or have any love in them. It's just a difference in mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:58 AM
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Doesn't take a genius to see why. Also, that says nothing about love
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:53 AM
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She an adult not a child she can handle it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:53 AM
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People were arguing with me last week that a 5'10 man is "tall" because that's one inch taller than the average. So by that logic 5'8 is also short.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:27 AM
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I mean if it's an arranged marriage of course she doesn't love you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:18 AM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 08:14 AM
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you can't feel those, there is only "aesthetically pleasing". If it is as I think it is, women do not have much of what you and I would call a "sex drive". Looking at a hot woman was like looking at a particularly pretty but meaningless landscape. That's what we mean when we say looks aren't everything. This is where charisma and chemistty come into play. If you are not really driven to anything sexually, is it even a sexuality? We are, it's just not only looks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:23 PM
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Overexposure to others' lives and business and compariosn that comes from that We live much better lives than our ancestors
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 07:16 PM
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6/8
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:59 PM
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women do not feel sexual attraction instantly when they look at a random tall guy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:05 PM
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Mine will be in 2030 when I turn 28
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:03 AM
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I mean I'm not saying he has to date someone he doesn't want to date, I'm just saying you're misrepresenting his argument
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:37 AM
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But he's the one that put up an arbitrary rule that every man who has ever gotten casual sex must be different from him. If a woman had one casual encounter with one doofus who fot lucky, she's automatically disqualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:30 AM
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It's not about different views on sex. He would have casual sex if he could, but he can't, so that's why he doesn't want her to have had it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:27 AM
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His point has nothing to do with sociosexual orientation. He would have casual sex if he could. That's why it's nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:26 AM
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Every doofus has a chance of being at the right place at the right time, that's why they call it "getting lucky" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:16 AM
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None of us have ever seen Timothee Chalamet in person. Seeing his pictures, does he look tall to you? How can someone who is one literal inch (2.5 cenimeteres!!) taller than average be considered tall ? He is a guy of normal, average height and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. He is very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:50 AM
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I hate buzzcuts and my type are guys with long hair actually lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:44 AM
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He's hysterical and overlt emotional and a danger to society. Some who gets so violent based on verbal provocation has no place among the people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:14 AM
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I've never even met a healthy adult man that short.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:11 AM
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Just because I have bigger boobs than most men, doesn't mean I have big boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 10:09 AM
1

Are we usually discussing non-western dating dynamics here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:44 AM
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One inch taller. That's still within the average spectrum, especially if you're just eyeballing him. And also I'm not saying anything offensive, it's not a negative thing not to be tall, nor am I calling him short. I don't have any arbitrary "height standards" and I found multiple shorter guys hot. I'm just pointing out that I wouldn't say a person within an inch of an average has a certain quality. Like, I'm not even considered tall where I'm from, and I'm and inch and a half taller than the av…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 09:16 AM
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5'7
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:30 AM
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The reality is that most of the population (I'm not talking about non-western parts of the world) wouldn't perceive a 5'10 man as tall
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:26 AM
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178cm is below 180cm, and 180.4cm is average in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:24 AM
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It's average. Nobody would describe a 178cm man as "tall". Croatia average height *5'11/ 180.4 cm***
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:23 AM
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It's considered short and it's below average where I'm from. And it's literally average in the States too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:16 AM
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It's literally one inch above the US average, and below average in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:15 AM
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In what world is the heighr of 178cm considered tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:53 AM
1

No amount of money can buy the feeling of genuine attraction towards someone
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:16 AM
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I like male humor and how they are not afraid to make a fool of themselves, there is always something entertaining going on. But other than that, I'm friends with my friends because we share interests and enjoy talking to each other. I'm dating men because I find them attractive, in addition to all of this. Like women, men are also all different and not a hivemind. I don't like all men, but I don't get along with all women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:11 AM
2

How did they not see something was wrong when she was 30 and never had a period?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:05 PM
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I hooked up with my current boyfriend before we were a couple. I had one ex before him. I started dating him when I was a 15 year old virgin, so no, I wouldn't have just hooked up with him at the time. Although I obviously did somehow find him attractive at the time as I wasn't a virgin by the end of that year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:10 PM
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Other characteristics of a person also make people less or more similar, such as age/generation, location, socioeconomic background, interests... arguably, even more than gender. Men and women aren't vastly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:09 PM
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I don't view same sex kissing as cheating and neither does my bf.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:34 PM
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Maybe you wouldn't even know you had a virgin I have two friends who never told their first that they were virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:31 PM
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That's not a requirement to be a good boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:27 PM
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You have to cum to get a biological offspring. She has to suffer through monthly cycles, pregnancy permanently changing her body for worse and the horrors of childbirth and postpartum. The least you can do it pay for a ring lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:49 AM
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Women are not a reward, they are people with their own sexual wants and needs. Sex is not a reward, it's simply the result of two people's matching sexual wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:30 AM
2

What are the specific actions and examples of you treating and not treating your partners well?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 06:24 AM
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Paying my credit card lmao what world are you living in More like hanging out with your best friend who you are in love with and having sex with whenever you want Have you ever been in love? That usually means enjoying the time you spend with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:42 AM
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Because you're not having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:00 PM
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Mr. Future Husband and I also hooked up before being in a relationship first.. and then we experienced that most intimate part over 500 more times... and he actually loves being in a relationship with me, it's not like that's punishment for him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:08 PM
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My ego was bruised and I needed to fuck lol I didn't say he was ugly, I just wouldn't want to date him or fall in love with him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:44 PM
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I've seen the clips, that was the weirdest thing I've ever seen. How Howard Stern had the nerve to mention anyone's looks is beyond me. This girl has an actual pretty face and a 10/10 body. I'm glad shit like this doesn't exist anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 03:55 PM
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Why oh why would any of us fantasize about marrying a guy we don't find hot? For a guy to be "husband material" we obviously need to find him attractive, it makes no sense otherwise. I know multiple girls, me included, who have hooked up with at least one embarrassing guy we would never think about dating seriously. Yet I know of no girls who are seriously dating a guy they don't want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:55 PM
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My bf was completely unskilled and awkward while talking to girls when he was in high school. It's very cliche but he started going to the gym, watched youtube tutorials hahah and then finally met a cool bunch of guys (my friends, through which I eventually met him too) when he was 19. As a result, he became more confident and relaxed around that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:52 PM
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It's off putting to hear someone describe the person they are dating as "mid", "unattractive", "not that hot", "plain".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:59 PM
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He's my best friend, the person I have the most fun with, the smartest person I've ever met.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 08:03 PM
1

A real soldier isn't afraid of getting his sword bloody
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:52 PM
2

Electrolytes, it's what the plants crave
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:45 PM
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Absolutely not. Anecdotally I'd even say they are higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:41 PM
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Pizza Hut if that counts.. thst's not lizza and I'm sorry for Americans for thinking it is
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:42 AM
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Why would I ask him about the sex he had with his exes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:32 PM
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Dicks are funny. Flaccid dicks are not really sexual to me, it's like they are a totally different organ than a hard dick. My bf is an extreme grower and I find his flaccid dick adorable, I like to poke it and joke about holding it while he pees. I find it fascinating how big the difference in size is and it's hot to watch it grow Your flaccid size is not important for sex at all, no woman cares about that
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 09:31 PM
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A guy is either attractive to me or not But I also know if my bf ever breaks up with me I'm going to struggle to fall for other men again (and mostly not even because of his looks)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:08 PM
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yes (also how tf would I know this?)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:03 PM
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Gym is expensive for me rn but I work out at home
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:02 PM
1

Tbh we would def try this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:00 PM
1

I find moaning names a bit awkward personally lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:58 PM
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For me personally jawline + cute face (eyes and smiles) + no facial hair is actually the best combination but idk And narrow shoulders are a dealbreaker shouldnt having a strong physique signify the natural ability to protect/etc vs just the face? I don't think anybody is actually consciously thinking about this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 07:56 PM
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How does one know if they can bear children with minimal complications?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 12:02 PM
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Sex can be an emotional action but it doesn't have to be, depending on who you're having it with and your outlook on that person outside of bedroom. And having emotional sex hundreds of times with one man doesn't make those emotions any lesser.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:37 AM
2

Depends on the person you're having sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:32 AM
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Male and female sexuality is obviously different. Men are not the blueprint for sexuality nor is their sexuality automatically the right one. Yes, it doesn't make any difference if the person is a man I'm not attracted to or a woman. I don't feel anything for either. And I feel no disgust that you've described.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:30 AM
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Noo I can't open it anymore :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:21 AM
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Because emphaty and being nice to someone has nothing to do with wanting to fuck someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:14 AM
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If I'm not attracted to a person, I'm not attracted to that person, and it doesn't make a difference if thst person is a man or a woman. Also, I don't feel the disgust that you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:10 AM
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I mean isn't she the mkst qualified one to answer if she's able to pair bond or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:24 AM
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It's very cute
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:10 PM
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Stop with the slander, Croatian men are the hottest in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 04:12 PM
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Pretty much everyone I knew growing up had a working mom, it's the norm in my country.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 03:23 PM
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5'7, 125 lbs with good waist to hip ratio and small boobs skinny, but he needs to have broad shoulders
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 09:55 AM
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That's a high N but a low number of men she's met in her life overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:12 PM
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It's absolutely stupid. Therr is no reason they should be paid anywhere close to NBA players.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 09:30 AM
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Zayn Malik, specifically in this MV https://youtu.be/AbPED9bisSc?si=LdIvB70GIj5c3Myz
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:06 PM
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Unless I'm literally on my last dying breath, we would probably start having sex anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 11:00 PM
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You cannot ask if you have no one to ask. The woman chose him as well. Not to mention if she says no she literally chooses not to marry him. If she says yes, she chooses to marry him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:57 PM
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What was the girl wearing? Lmao this entire thing sounds a bit unhinged
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:03 PM
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Definitely A, and I'm currently in that relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 05:45 PM
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No way. I wouln't date this person either. Sex is a necessity in a relationship for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:10 PM
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No, that's not the kind of lifestyle that's appealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:01 PM
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Men are absolutely still approaching.. I don't know how much it happened before tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:06 AM
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Every woman in a free society still chooses who they will marry. She chose to date that man, and then she said yes to his proposal (chose to marry him).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 10:35 AM
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I'm not aware enough of my surroundings to actively avoid them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:13 AM
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Me and my bf each basically had a 5 month long girls/guys trip abroad so I can't say anything against it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:10 AM
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Sex doesn't happen without a woman's consent. A man has to want it to for it to happen. Men in large part do not get equitable treatment as victims of sex crimes. That's a completely separate (but very real and fucked up issue)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:03 AM
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I mean if someone fucks only 10 men they have ever met that is still a really low number of men, yet a high N for many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 02:01 AM
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Is every man raped every time he has sex? No? He chooses his sex partner too. And don't even let me start on women choosing who they want to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:58 AM
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When men approach women So you're choosing those women. Unless somebody rapes you, you chose to fuck that person. We want to fuck. And in the large number of cases, we want to fuck too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:57 AM
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And men choose who they will have sex with, and women choose who they will marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 01:54 AM
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What she says out loud and how she actually feels are two different things. I'm betting good money women are way more insecure than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 08:10 AM
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Neither but closer to binary attraction. I can obviously recognize when someone is objectively good looking but that doesn't really say anything about my attraction to that man. A percentage of men don't pass the looks threshold no matter what their personality and vibes are. A certain percentage passes the looks threshold and have potential to become attractive to me once I get to know them and their vibes and personality. A select small number of men passed the looks threshold + I got to know …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:05 PM
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Easier than it is for guys in these echochambers, but harder than for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 01:00 PM
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"Being a community dick" and "not being a virgin" are not synonyms at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:02 AM
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Can't relate, my dad is great
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 10:42 PM
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When you are infatuated with someone, they will by default be the best you've had unless something is seriously wrong (micro, selfish, impotent or into some weird shit)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:22 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:18 AM
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Currently working an 18 hour shift lets goo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 04:33 PM
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Get married at 30, kids at 32 and 34 For a woman the ages are 28, 30, 32
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 06:58 AM
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If it was the situation like in my current relationship (we knew each other for a while before dsting) I would just be flattered. If we were strangers at that point I'd be creeped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:16 PM
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You're on reddit flexing about how you spent 42€ that your dad gave you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:37 PM
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Do you agree with the statement that feminism is an ifeology that stands for equality between the sexes and of you support equality between the sexes you are a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:46 AM
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New wave, post punk, prog, psychadelic, ex-yu rock, disco, pop before the 00s.. My parents' taste definitely influenced my taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:39 AM
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Clubs in Madrid are almost never sausage fests
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:47 AM
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Grandparents and parents are different. I had sex with my bf at his grandma's funeral reception
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:45 AM
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Not really just like women probably never have days in which they don’t think about acquiring access to power, resources, or material things that they want at least a little bit. lmao we think about sex way more often thsn these things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:03 PM
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That's a weird formulation.. I wouldn't call it an urge, drive or an instinct. I know what a sex drive feels like, I feel it too. I'm not even thinking about rejecting men or something, I'm just focusing my sex drive on one/a smaller number of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:43 AM
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My 3 categories: 1) Irredeemable- these men do not pass the looks threshold, doesn't matter what their vibes are, I couldn't sleep with them ever 2) Men who pass the looks threshold- if the vibes, personality and circumstances are right, I can potentially become attracted to them, otherwise I'm neutral about them and not attracted 3) Men that I'm attracted to- pass the looks threshold+ all of the aforementioned criteria- I'd sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:37 AM
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My boyfriend is my best friend. I also have other male friends, none of them are gay or girly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 11:22 AM
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That sounds like the ideal schedule for me tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 11:21 PM
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I mean every woman is growing hair on their legs and arms, we have to maintain that too lol and some ethnicitites are also blessed with a bit of a mustache and we have to remove that as well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 07:17 PM
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Women do this to be perceived as more beautiful in society by men, women, old people and children. It's not about attracting a specific mate and it's not sexual. Visually attractive people are treated better, especially women. And men absolutely love women in makeup, and even some surgeries.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:34 AM
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hala madrid y nada mas but anyways it's not about thr club it's about the city, I've been here for 5 months and I'm going back home in 5 dsys..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:39 AM
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I love you Madrid
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:31 AM
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Jesus Christ men here would sell their mothers to have a shot of touching that woman irl, are you somehow trying to imply she isn't gorgeous here?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:05 PM
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Vibes are part of attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 11:54 AM
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I don't think I've ever seen a woman this beautiful irl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:27 AM
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Good for you, unfortunately many men wpuld not react as peacefully as you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:46 AM
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I'm wearing contacts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:41 AM
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I don't have a brother and I don't call my dad by his name anyways so I don't think I'd have an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:44 AM
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It's my last week in Spain :( so hopefully I will make the most of it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 01:40 AM
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The two earthquakes in 2020
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:15 AM
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Yup lol you're "dating" gold diggers and sugar babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 11:12 AM
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It's gonna be 39 degrees (C) this weekend in Madrid :/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 01:44 AM
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No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:18 AM
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<image> amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 01:18 AM
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I actually didn't want my boyfriend the first time he made a move on me. I was taken and not looking for other men. I fell in love with him after being friends for a year. I just think those women are desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:05 PM
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I'm not desperate. I just never needed to do that. If she has to make the first move, he doesn't want her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:03 PM
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I thought he was a basic jock and my type were (and still are) alternative guys. After getting to know him, it turned out I thought wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 01:45 PM
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I prefer to split the bill with my boyfriend (we mostly take turns treating each other). I would never ask a man out though. Men who want you make that known. I lowkey look down on women who make the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:03 AM
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I genuinely don't find any other men attractive, let alone "a lot more attractive than my partner". I mean, I can obviously notice when somebody looks good, but they aren't doing anything for me. Being loyal to my bf is not a chore at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:00 AM
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Do you think women aren't bioligically driven to want sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 10:48 PM
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Honestly that just means qe view sex in a completely different way- not as two people lusting after each other but as something that can be bought. That being said, if he did it once when he was young amd stupid and views it as a bad thing, I could move past it. I don't see why I'd have to knwo about it tho
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:36 AM
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lol I absolutely wouldn't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:30 AM
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conclealer, blush, mascara, lip pencil, lipstick eyeliner depends on the occasion at night all of this + foundation + eyeshadow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 02:27 AM
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Preach I'm at the pool in Madrid
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 04:42 PM
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Not really, I know multiple who met through a friend group like that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:04 AM
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He initially wasn't my type, that's the only point. Not being somebody's type doesn't mean that person isn't objectively good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/25 12:01 AM
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I was two months away from my 19th birthday when we met and two days after my 20th birthday we had sex for the first time
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 09:07 PM
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What a load of bullshit. I have never felt attraction the first time I've seen someone in my life. Every crush I've ever had has developed after I saw the vibes of the person. Somebody being good looking doesn't mean I'm attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:08 PM
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Who is bad lmao, this is such a basic and normal thing to happen- friends fall for each other all the time, and that usually leads to some of the most normal and healthy relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 04:06 PM
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Men simply can't do what you did He literally did the same thing as me lol When we met he maybe wanted to bang me but thought nothing special of me, then fell in love with me after we started hanging out. I was with my ex at the time and he was dating multiple girls during our one year of knowing each other and being friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:58 PM
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What does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:54 PM
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No, I always got an orgasm before penetration so I was fine with 2 minutes of that. In retrospective, it's kinda funny to think about the different approaches I had to sex with my ex and current boyfriend. With my ex, it was just about getting off, I was happy that it wasn't prolonging. Now, I crave the entire journey aa much as the orgasm, and actually understand what the big deal about sex is. The experiences are not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:52 PM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:48 PM
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You literally responded to the question about my individual subjective experience with something that is completely untrue for my individual subjective experience. Do you not see the irony?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:46 PM
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My ex always finished in under 3 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:17 PM
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I'm literally physically crazy about him, and as for your other points, we were literally 19 when we met and 20 when we started dating
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:11 PM
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they suddenly inhabit a different corporeal form. I literally became physically attracted to him overnight. When we met I was in a relationship with another guy. I'm never attracted to someone just based on physical apperance
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:09 PM
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I became attracted to him after getting to know him. I realized that he actually is my type. He has always been objectively a good looking man but after realizing how funny, interesting, intelligent and cool he is I became physically attracted to him. I literally cannot keep my hands off him. I guess men cannot relate to the distinction between recognizing someone is physically attractive and actually being attracted to that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 03:08 PM
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"Initially wasn't my type" doesn't mean "he isn't objectively attractive" My boyfriend wasn't initially my type, although I always could acknowledge that he's objectively physically attractive. Then I started hanging out with him more and realized he's not only my exact type, but the most perfect match for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:01 PM
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The concept of a guy whose had dozens and dozens of hookups is not that appealing to me, but if I fall in love I know I wouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:53 AM
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Now he just wants a nice stable housewife Then I'm definitely the wrong choice for him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:52 AM
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Holy fuck that's a lot of assumptions
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 11:47 AM
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Some women find guy-on-guy acrion hot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 10:16 AM
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No. Combining the genes from the two of us is a big appeal in having kids for me and my bf. If one of us can't have a biological kid we won't be using donor sperm/eggs (we'd asopt), because it would be heartbreaking for both of us for the other to make a baby basically with another person. The thought of making a baby with another man actively disgusts me. But personally, I'd be okay with a surrogatw carrying our child. We haven't mentioned this yet but based on his other thoights, he would be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 10:13 AM
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Hide in my basement from the grenades
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 09:21 AM
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She's married to a man she's been with since they were teens
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 01:59 PM
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Would You Date A Man With The Following Qualities? Would you date a man who uses marijuana at least once a month? yes Would you date a man who considers himself to be a devout christian? -no Would you date a man who dislikes physical exercise? -no Would you date a man who doesn't believe that gay marriage should be legal? -no Would you date a man who believes that abortion should be illegal? -no Would you date a man who watches porn at least 3x a week? -3x yes, every single day no Would you date…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 11:19 AM
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It indicates she likes her name that people have called her by since she was born
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:20 AM
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I would like to hyphenate
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 10:18 AM
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Electrical engineer <3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:56 PM
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No no we went to the bedroom and they were in the living room, but they were still in my house and I wanted to have full control of the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 10:44 AM
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Ecstasy makes me super lovey dovey and cuddly but sex feels a bit numb, also it can make a guy not able to get it up Acid sex was was freaking me out a bit, but probably because 5 of my friends were in my living room while we tried
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 01:03 AM
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I loveee liver
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:59 AM
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Obviously yes But we need to define flirting too- banter with a person of the opposite sex is not flirting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:58 AM
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Do we have the same hobbies? Do we have the same interests? I mean yes, the men I'm friends with have the same interests as me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 08:06 PM
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The concept itself is problematic to me. Why would the man have to pay for me? If I make it, there is no reason anorher adult should pay for me? (obviously, surprises, birthdays and us taking turns treating each other make sense)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:16 PM
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So what exactly does your comment mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:12 AM
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This woman is me in a Slavic font 😂 Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 09:04 AM
1

I think it's the case of "if you cannot perform one of these two amazing things, at least get really good at the other", which is compensation. But just by itself it's not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 11:39 PM
3

So, by that logic, OP has literally nothing to worry about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:22 PM
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Congrats!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:14 PM
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It's not compensation for a lacking package, it's a completely different sensation to PIV and it's awesome! I could not go without either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 08:09 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 12:18 AM
3

You presented your claim as an objective fact. I'm just telling you that it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:53 PM
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Yes both of us asked each other and answered truthfully
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:02 AM
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If this was the case, sex with my first boyfriend would have been more emotionally intense and special than sex with my current boyfriend, and the first times I've had sex with my current boyfriend would have been more emotionally intense and special than the last times I've had sex with him. None of this is true for me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:58 AM
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Lmao I'm an Android user and I believe Iphone is a big waste of money, at least it would be in my case. I couldn't care less which phone my lover has.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:46 AM
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Do you realize that a man who is the same height as me will also be way stronger than me and able to overpower me with ease? Do you realize that men are on average 5 inches taller than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/25 10:03 AM
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That's not called "alternative hippie van lifestyle", that's called being homeless and those dudes are not doing it voluntarily
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:14 PM
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In my personal opinion, this is just not true. I'm 23 and the vast majority of my peers date guys our age.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 09:30 AM
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So you openly believe men are more important than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 09:15 AM
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No lol I'd be proud I wouldn't even mind if he bought it from a pawn shop, and I believe diamonds are a huge waste of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:44 AM
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Civil (mostly land registry, inheritance..) and corporate Are you in law as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:40 AM
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Yeah criminal law is known for the hectic schedules, but it's not a field I'm interested anyways. I'll do civil and corporate law, mostly land registry law
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 09:39 AM
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Brother, obviously my family and my partner are a part of my lifestyle. How was that not clear from my wording?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:23 AM
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There is nothing wrong with that decision, everybody should live their life the way they see fit. Personally I wouldn't be able to find fulfillment in that role and I believe it's unncessary, but I don't care if anyone else wants to partake in that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:14 AM
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Are you in law school rn? I am! I'm technically in my last year, but because of my semester abroad I'll have to pass two exams and write my thesis when I get home, so it won't be possible for me to graduate before next spring (I've been working at a law firm back home for the past year and I plan to continue when I come back, so I'm not an unemployed freeloader or something lol). We don't have an undergrad for law, you start it right after high school at 18/19 years old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:09 AM
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Most people in my country, including me and my boyfriend don't. Would you like to be a stay at home parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 01:05 AM
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5 and then two years of internship also pretty much nobody finishes in 5 years, people take much longer
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:57 AM
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I don't care about the amount of money, but I do care if he has a job. I would definitely not mind if I was making more than him, but both of us should be employed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:57 AM
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would you support this? No, I honestly feel like "stay at home parents" of both genders are lazy and that it's a useless concept. Both parents working and taking care of the child works just fine and it's the norm in my country. has he proposed to you yet? Lmao no we're way too young for that right now
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:43 AM
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min $ value on the income I literally do not care. I don't have a set figure. And anyways, I live in Croatia, where 30k euros per year (per person) can get you a really nice comfortable middle class lifestyle, so my numbers would mean nothing to you. How do you feel about my opinion? I went to daycare and so did pretty much every kid in my city. I don't think it creates a disconnect between a child and a parent at all, if anything, I believe it's a good thing for building social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:36 AM
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This would be my dream life and it is actually pretty doable. You never know where life will lead you but hopefully my "potential future husband" is my current boyfriend of 3 years (we have talked about the future and are both on board with getting married and having kids together). We are both 23, he's 8 months older than me. He's 6'5 and in my humble opinion the most attractive man in the world. We're both currently doing a semester abroad (in different countries) so we will finish our studies…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:24 AM
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Pass the bar exam at 26 and get engaged to my boyfriend, get married at 28, have 2 kids between the ages of 28 and 33 (take 8 months of paid parental leave with each kid but otherwise keep working), open my own office by 40
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:11 AM
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15
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:36 PM
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2, at 30 and 32
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:23 PM
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Going to a wedding as a 4 year old was probably one of the happiest days of my childhood, I wish I had a larger family so I'd have been at more
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:16 PM
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If I like him a lot every insecurity is workable. Insecurities about the fact that I have male friends, like to party and am not a virgin (although my N is low) would be hard to get past.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 10:08 AM
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I currently live in Madrid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 04:09 PM
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I have never physically cheated, but I cheated emotionally on my ex with my current boyfriend. I don't feel one ounce of regret, the asshole had it coming. He was like a cartoonish caricature of a horrible person/boyfriend and I only stayed with him because I had low self esteem (I was 15 when we got together and 19 when we broke up).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:09 AM
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One thing I will add to this list is taking walks at night. This really depends on where you live. I often take night walks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 09:01 AM
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Happy because I'm very much afraid of being carried like that. Don't even get me started of sitting on his shoulders that's a big nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/25 11:54 AM
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Good for her :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 09:37 AM
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I might be ignorant but retirement homes if you have money and don't end up in some social one sound so cool. It feels like a student dorm. Gossip, social activities with peers, romances...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 11:38 AM
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I can confidently say no woman has ever cared about the size of a flaccid dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:57 PM
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I said nothing about your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:56 PM
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Me and my man will both have an active role in raising our kids. And we will both work. Just like my parents did. And just like every other kid's parents in my city did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:54 PM
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Ew you're old
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 05:22 PM
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Circumcised
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 04:30 PM
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Men thinking we don't know about growers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 03:36 PM
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I sat my real name because I'm super awkward in situations like those
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:41 AM
1

Nothing wrong with that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:27 AM
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I wouldn't avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:25 AM
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I wholeheartedly agree. I always knew I didn't want to try only one man for the rest of my life. I had FOMO during my first relationship and I was wondering what it would be like. Currently my N is 3 and I have no desire to add to it. I'm 100% content with being only with my boyfriend for the rest of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:20 AM
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Hypocrites who want a high earning man without being a high earning woman should give up on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:14 AM
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So deep
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 10:43 PM
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At least they are having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:17 PM
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The electricity blackout (although it's lowkey exciting)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 07:16 PM
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An egalitarian one- both of us work, both of us take care of the kids, both of us do chores, both of us pay and we take turns in having a final say in major decisions according to multiple factors
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 10:12 AM
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a traditional marraige is a 49-51 partnership. The wife has a lot of in-put that is respected and appreciated. However, the husband has the last word in major decisions. This doesn't sound logical at all. Why would he have this kind of authority for every decision in every topic? It makes absolutely zero sense to entrust him with this. She will be more knowledgable in certain areas and he will be in others. Could you please explain to me the logic behind one person having the last word in every …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 10:10 AM
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I absolutely couldn't be celibate. The longest I've been celibate since losing my virginity was 1.5 months. Sex is a big part of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:53 AM
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I 100% agree with that approach, there is no reason why a woman you're just fucking should know your body count
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 02:18 AM
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Go to a big partyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:57 PM
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I don't see how those two sides are at odds with each other. I'm pretty sure my bf brings out both in me and I'd argue both of them represent the same thing (two sides of the same coin).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:44 PM
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Women consistently say "sex is awful" Who? Where? To answer your titular question: no.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:38 PM
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I would not date a virgin man. I'm not a virgin. There is a high chance that he will have FOMO because of his virginity, resentment and retroactive jealousy of my past sexual relationships, cheat the first tike he gets an opportunity, and break up because he wants to experience more pussy after gaining confidence from losing his virginity to me. It's not a common or usual thing to be a virgin at 25. So I'd also wonder what was wrong with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 01:37 PM
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Miss girl has never masturbated in her life, I don't think him being an "oofy doofy beta" really makes a differemce
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:23 PM
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I usually let people know individually and then create a group chat for the event with everyone who told me they can come
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:14 PM
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It's normal to masturbate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:59 PM
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I'm 23, my boyfriend is 23 as well (8 months older than me) If I was single again, my age range would be 22-26, but with a strong preference for my exact age.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 07:57 PM
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Some people are willing to look past it. If I was married and we had a kid and he was really apologetic, I would just cheat back on him once and stayed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:01 PM
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I agree. It's not a need but people still like it. Which means they will not stay in a rleationship without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 02:33 PM
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I cannot relate to this at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:55 PM
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What's your point? Sex is not needed for survival either. I need sex in a relationship though, and I would leave the relationship if my boyfriend just didn't want to fuck me anymore. However, "sex" cannot exist with only one willing participant. You will not die without sex and I don't really care if you cannot get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:54 PM
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I love planning!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:50 PM
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Also how would one get an STD when they don't even fuck their husbands lol Last time I checked men and women who fuck their husbands and wives also get cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:43 PM
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If they aren't hiding it it's an open relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:42 PM
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Of course it's not a "need" in a survival sense. But it's a requirement for a relationship to work. I would break that relationship if there was infidelity. So it's kinda the need for a relationship because the relationship will die without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 01:41 PM
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He is not a good looking man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 03:41 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:47 PM
1

hot scenarios
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:46 PM
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lmao no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:44 PM
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They are definitely looksmatched
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:44 PM
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Someone of equal or similar stats
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:41 PM
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No I've never heard of that pls explain it to me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:18 AM
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And of course this had to start happening just when I moved to Madrid.. That and the horrible weather
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:30 PM
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fuck arsenal
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 08:43 PM
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Yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:17 AM
1

California Dreamin, Dancing Queen and Don't look back in anger
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:11 AM
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Wtf does any of this even mean in real life? Why do all of you talk like edgy tumblr teenagers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:07 AM
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He's 6'5, muscular and objectively facially attractive (and subjectively he's the best looking man on planet earth to me)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:05 AM
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I mean neither do I
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/25 08:00 AM
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Looks-wise, men peak in their mid 20s as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:12 PM
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So are men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 12:08 PM
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I would probably kill myself after an abortion so no
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 08:51 AM
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I LOVE it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 04:29 PM
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When I have sex with a woman for the first time, I feel like I’m meeting someone for the first time. I mean it feels the same with a guy. A horny man is not acting the same way as a non horny man. Most men do not cat call or harrass women in public. I make sexual jokes and talk about sex with my friends openly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:28 AM
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I definitely don't go "most of the month" withlut thinking of sex, and sex is on my mind pretty much every day. The thing is, I feel tgose urges entirely towards my boyfriend and nobody else. No shit women behave differently in a sexual context and a non sexual context. So do men! I've thankfully never seen my male family members in this context. Men are doing their jobs normally wuthout being sexual. Men are able to be normal and non-sexual members of society. Personally, I don't feel shame for…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 08:19 AM
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My bf likes it when I wear croptops and tells me I look hot when I'm wearing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:44 AM
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I'm not her, but I agree with her comment. And yes, I am an atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 08:33 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 11:45 PM
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This is going to sound so incredibly stupid, but the concept of a war (including actual battles, killings, rapes etc) existing in 2025 kinda baffles me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:34 PM
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I have 0 filter with my bf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 04:31 PM
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This was the first movie I've seen in cinema :) My dad took me. It will always have a special place in my heart because of it, even though it is objectively one of the worst Disney movies of all time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 10:00 AM
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If I'm in love with a man, I'm simply unable to acknowledge any other man as "better". He is literally the only one I want. If I'm in a relationship or dating a guy but I'm not in love with him, there is a possibility that I find someone else. But it doesn't happen because of instantaneous thinfs like "his career" or "his looks". It happened to me when I got to know my current boyfriend as a friend over the course of one year during a horrible past relationship and our chemistry, humor, style of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:58 AM
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Surprisingly, pretty much not at all. I was raised quite religious and I was still religious myself when I started masturbating and having sex. I've decided at the time that sex is too awesome, and why would a god have a problem with me and my boyfriend expressing our love for each other that way? It was completely illogical to me. I never felt an ounce of shame for losing my virginity young and having sex. Sex has always been a positive experience for me. I became an atheist very soon. The only…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:43 AM
1

Don't get in the car if I'm driving
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 09:30 AM
1

Spanish eggs have this color as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 10:01 AM
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You forgot young women. We're generally not fans of the whole thing either. It's extremely creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 09:18 AM
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Women hate trmselves way more than men do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:12 AM
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There is nothing really different about a virgin or a non virgin. Many non virgins lie that they are virgins and many virgins lie that they are not virgins. You could be tricked extremely easily. I want someone who sees me as special Being her first is not a guarantee at all that she will see you as special. And not being her first doesn't mean that you aren't her only love or the special one for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:45 PM
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This is legit unnerving and scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:41 AM
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I've always hated kids who cried to their mommy when they had a fight/disagreement whatever with a classmate/friend/peer. I've especially always hated parents who intervene in kids' business.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 12:17 AM
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Why do I give valuable time to people who don't care if I live or die
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 04:06 PM
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He nutted in her. Doesn't sound like a man who is clear and consistent about not wanting kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 03:39 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 10:12 AM
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If you have to say that about her, what do you have to say about the buyers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:59 AM
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I see multiple men passing my looks threshold every day. I'm not sexually attracted to any of them, really. Irl I'm pretty much hooked on my bf and cannot fathom fucking another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 05:57 AM
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I truly don't understand what you are saying. Obviously men can be sexy and handsome and cute on their own. Objectively attractive men absolutely exist. Attractive men exist and they are not rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 10:24 PM
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Like... I've had an orgasm. Fourteen of those in a row sounds like the opposite of pleasurable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:21 AM
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Idk why exactly but this post is so virgin coded lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:04 AM
1

Bosniaks are 100% white
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:10 AM
2

I often feel like my life is a tv show
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:07 AM
1

Why do you want a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:04 AM
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I mean I'm actually super glad that I can compare my bf to my previous partners because he comes out on top without any question lol With my first partner I wasn't unsatisfied per se, but I was always wondering what sleeping with other men would be like
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 01:02 AM
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But they view those guys as husband material- they obviously wanted to marrt them and have their babies. You don't want to marry the guy who you view as only good for a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 12:55 AM
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Hot without bangs means she's still hot with them oof I disagree as someone who can't pull off bangs (except curtain bangs)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:32 PM
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I plan to be married and expecting a kid #2 in 2035. And I think not masturbating or listening to music for 10 years is weird, so either way no
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:12 PM
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Yeah I'd kill myself on day 30
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 09:18 AM
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Why wouldn't she hang out with guys??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:36 AM
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Bullshit. If a guy wants something with you, he'll definitely approach. If he doesn't, I'd 100% assume he doesn't want me that much, and I'm not going to throw myself at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 11:31 AM
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I met both my ex and current bf through mutual friends, but not in a dating context. In both cases we were all hanging out and I happened to vibe with person, it's not like it was a set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:47 PM
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As a young adult in my early 20s, the early 20s cannot even be compared to your high school years (as in, they are way better).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 01:45 PM
1

only netflix, we're pirating everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 05:20 AM
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She's just having fun with her friends stop dramatizing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:37 AM
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But she posted herself drinking with a bunch of dudes and one girl in an apartment at least .. what's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:36 AM
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Hahah ty for this :) but I'm more anxious about missing the flight, especially since this is my first time flying alone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:31 AM
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From Madrid to Austria to visit my bf on his student exchange
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:30 AM
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Ty for this :) I'm not really afraid of a plane crash, but rather of something going wrong which results in me missing the flight lol Especially since this is my first time flying alone
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:28 AM
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I would def not wake up in time in this case lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:32 AM
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I have to wakw up in 5 hours for my flight so not possible rn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:31 AM
2

how does one stop being anxious before a flight
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 12:28 AM
1

Very much
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:04 PM
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This analogy doesn't work. It's against the fishes best interest to get caught, it doesn't want to get caught. Straught women, however, want to fuck and date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:58 PM
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What does a penis even have to do with an orgasm gap? I cannot orgasm solely from penetration, yet I still do every time I have sex. And he's circumsized.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:00 AM
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So is she giving you her body and mind or just mind? There is a big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:58 AM
1

Ramanujan, and I'm serious
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:07 PM
1

I've just always wanted to be a mom. I can't imagine my future without kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 09:02 PM
2

Took me about one month
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 08:51 PM
1

lol sorry I just woke up during the time of writing my response
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 10:30 AM
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I hope that I do. I'm currently on a 5 month long student exchange and I could live abroad for a max additional 2 years, but I want to build my future career and raise my future children in my city <3.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 09:02 AM
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That's the country
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 08:58 AM
4

What's a high body count to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:41 PM
8

"when my marriage ends" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:40 PM
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What a cute girl!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:36 PM
2

It's way more normal to fool around with peers at 15 than get married at 12 like in some "non-western" cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:11 AM
1

Do you even know what these terms mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:50 AM
1

Condoms are way more confortable than hormonal birth control. And I say this as someone who hates condoms lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:37 AM
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She isn't his first, they started dating at 19
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:36 AM
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A few of my friends just never told the guy that he was their first. One of them is still in a relationship with him and he doesn't know he was her first
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:52 AM
4

Condoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 05:14 PM
2

a little bit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 08:07 AM
2

https://preview.redd.it/ev62ad5zl3oe1.png?width=1080&format=png&auto=webp&s=04ed27f1de4227bcff1af2fe4a1d7bdaf783c4a0 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 05:49 PM
19

Men have lower standards for casual sex than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:28 AM
9

Because we still want it despite the risks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 07:26 AM
1

I can't wait to pay to make my goddess nose go away forever
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:34 AM
2

each point just represents a 10% of human population to me but I find it hard to rate on a 10 point scale anyways, men are either a yes or a no for me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:16 AM
2

First boyfriend, first sex and first love don't have to be the same person, and for a lot of people they aren't. And observing the people in my life, including me, your hypothesis seems more true for men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:38 PM
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Tbh I think that a lot of priests and nuns aren't celibate anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:30 PM
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I don't. It feels degrading.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:00 AM
3

I wouldn't even visit those countries, let alone live in them for years. If your husband insisted on taking the job, and you did not want to be there even for a year, would you divorce him over this? Long distance relationship. Although I suspect he wouldn't want to live in those countries either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:37 AM
1

Is somebody breaking into your home a realistic worry?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:10 PM
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What is your favorite animal?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:02 PM
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Makes sense. I don't feel as if me and my family are unsafe or need a gun at all. That thought hasn't crossed my mind, ever. On the other hand, the thought of everyone around me potentially carrying is fucking scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:01 PM
1

Where are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:57 PM
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There is absolutely no need for that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:51 PM
1

We don't pick a specialisation while graduating. You graduate law school with the same diploma regardless of which field you're going to work in later. I'm currently on student exchange abroad and I'm solely studying EU law for 5 months. Back at home I did an internship in a law office that mostly does civil law - contracts, inheritance, family law, property law, .. but the office can do any type of law they want, so they also had some administrative cases, company and commercial law... They are…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:51 PM
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Not the common citizens, it's about our military
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:42 PM
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Hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:36 PM
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Poor baby :( she's so cutee
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:29 PM
1

hehe cute
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 02:01 PM
1

The guy on the right is pretty much exactly my type
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:39 PM
1

Commitment to share my entire life with someone before ever living with them sounds horrible. Marriage is not only a romantic union, it's also a domestic, financial and practical obligation. Testing how you two function in such conditions is in my opinion necessary before you legally bind yourself to that person for the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:19 PM
1

I'm currently on a path to becoming a lawyer, but I wish I had an inclination for STEM subjects.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:14 PM
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I'm 5'7, 5'8-9 in boots, and currently in Madrid. I feel like everybody is finally shorter than me and it feels fucking great lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:01 PM
2

I'm cute no argument here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:39 AM
1

My bf gets way better treatment than my bosses lol. And if in front of him I had to act the way I do in front of my boss, I wouldn't be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:30 AM
1

High school was pretty great, retail sucked
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:22 AM
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LMAO mine was on March 2nd (it was also the 3rd anniversary)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:45 PM
3

100% absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:39 AM
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My celebrity crushes are all either dead or old. I also don't think a man more perfect for me than my bf exists. And also, dating a celebrity sounds like hell. So hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:31 AM
1

I personally find it fucking disgusting, but I'm also not interested in finding out my partner's exact sexual history, I don't think I'd ever need to know about this. If he told me this I'd see it as disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:28 AM
4

I would do it for him if he wanted to <3
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:03 PM
5

It's the least logical thing in the world. There is no collective "women" who have done anything to you. Hurt and get revenge on the women you actually have a problem with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:56 AM
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They are quote important to me. The most fun parts of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:23 PM
1

Passes my looks threshold but I'm not attracted to him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:20 PM
1

Have my bestfriend completely reject me "Hey, do you want to go out with me?" "Hey, do you want to fuck me?" Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:18 PM
1

Committment and monogamy don't need to stop you from doing any of these
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:30 PM
1

I hax many fucked up mightmares but I don't remember ever getting killed in a dream
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:46 AM
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Lmao you're insane. My boyfriend is my best friend, I get along with him mote than with any woman. I have male friends as well that I enjoy spending time with. We're not that different. They aren't some different species from us. We mostly want the same things and we feel almost all the same emotions. In fact, if women liked men at all, then they would pursue men just as much as men pursued women, but that is clearly not the case. No need to do that if he's already pursuing me. Doesn't mean I li…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 08:40 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:49 AM
1

guy buying sex isn't as bad as a woman selling it How so? I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 11:48 AM
2

Thank you!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:26 PM
1

Thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:26 PM
1

20, 21 and 22 had the same vibe for me- you're still obviously super young and basically a kid but way more independent- like a best of both worlds. 23 feels like actual adulthood. Doesn't help that me and the girls that I came here with are among the oldest people on this exchange program and most people around us were born in fucking 2005
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:22 PM
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I will get drunk tonight and I did go celebrating last night as well. The problem is I'm in a foreign country, with my boyfriend, family and real friends.The girls that I'm here with and that I've met here so far have been great and super nice, but none of them are into the same vibe as me. This is the first time in three weeks that I've missed my city since I got here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:17 PM
1

23
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:14 PM
2

first existential dread birthday
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 06:11 PM
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oh not while watching porn, but while first started feeling sexual urges I actually saw a first porn after I lost my virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 03:29 AM
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it takes effort for them to think about it. ...Are you arguing that women don't get horny? NOT THINKING ABOUT MEN IN GENERAL (yes, not even for sex Yeah lmao no. Maybe those women exist but it's not every woman for sure lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:52 AM
1

My male friends are straight but they all kiss each other sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:48 AM
1

He doesn't have to be packing when he's flaccid, that's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:47 AM
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That's literally banned even in competitive men's sports, let alone women's But that person needs to piss and change somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:44 AM
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So even the most undesirable women like me can get a 6'5 ripped chad to commit to them, never settle ladies!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:41 AM
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I would not have an abortion. I also don't plan to raise that baby by myself under any circumstance. Two people made that baby, two people will parent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:02 AM
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I did not say that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:00 AM
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I was younger than 12
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 02:00 AM
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Don't know how to answer this question without attracting pedos, but I started getting sexual urges the same year I first got my period, but I was ready to actually have sex at 15.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 04:53 PM
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No lol I'm saying if you have to buy expensive stuff for a woman to make her go out with you, she isn't into you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:22 AM
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I never said he should :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:20 AM
1

Lmao where did I say that please. I literally said the opposite, it has nothing to do with the date and everything to do with the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:15 AM
1

She wouldn't go to a michelin star restaurant with you either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:13 AM
1

People actually fall in love with each other. And you actually have no idea what this woman even looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:12 AM
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I'm not sure what you're not getting, it's not about the date, it's about the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:07 AM
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I would love to go for a walk or a coffee with my bf. I would not go to a 5 star spa resort and a michelin restaurant with a random nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:06 AM
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No because it's not guaranteed that she'd be into you, what kind of question is that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:04 AM
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I just find it funny how he thinks calling women cum guzzlers is the peak insult lmao Yes, I'm a straight woman. Why would that offend me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:03 AM
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Just a friendly reminder that raw attraction doesn't have to be instant and it can develop for some people after getting to know them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:59 AM
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I had one prior fwb/casual experience with a guy I've known for years. I had sex wuth him because I really wanted to have sex with another man because of my severely bruised ego, he was cute enough and I trusted him. I had sex with the man I want to become my husband the first day we were both single at the same time. I have sex with him because I feel a magnetic attraction between us and my body physically feels like it needs him anf him only. The sex is not even comparable between the two. Sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 07:24 AM
1

If you have a good job it's actually a really nice place to live in, I don't feel as if I'm lacking anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:45 PM
1

Croatia
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:32 PM
1

Not a realistic worry for me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:32 PM
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Are you in Europe I'm from the safest country in Europe to walk alone at night
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:30 PM
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I'll walk outside whenever I want without the guns
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:00 PM
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It's not lol I'm actually lowkey proud of those, they feel like battle scars and remind us of our sad recent history.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:59 PM
1

I remember the exact picture of him that made me admit to myself that I'm actually attracted to him, and then about a month later he had a whole look that made me totally lose it and realize that he's the most handsome man in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:56 PM
1

For a first date, none. For a date for myself McDonalds because I'm an addict
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:52 PM
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How much college debt do you have and do you feel like taking a walk at midnight?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:49 PM
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Wtf your country is a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:31 AM
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Health, wealth and attractiveness are mroe important than gender in determining the easiness of one's life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:27 AM
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Oh I agree completely. I'm just saying his kids are mostly IVF and not the result of unprotected sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:12 PM
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His kids aren't the result of unprotected sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 11:03 PM
3

I don't know I fell for mine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:23 PM
1

Alternative early-mid 20s long haired guys with a lot of general knowledge Yes I am
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 05:17 PM
1

I don't need a million bucks tbh, I'd rather him not have a baby with anyone else than have a million bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 10:08 AM
1

One of us is surely coping.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:14 PM
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Some people are just not trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:02 PM
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It's not a gender specific scenario. And it doesn't apply in this case either.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:02 PM
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Obviously, how would you feel if your collegue donated sperm to your wife? It's a gross thing to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:00 PM
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He does not want babies with multiple women. He's not trashy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:43 PM
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For me it's not true
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:33 PM
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I want to be the only one to have his babies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:32 PM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:28 PM
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Not a native speaker, it's just a word to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:27 PM
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Yeah not to be a pick me but I'd actually be embarrassed if I had to ask my boyfriend for 25 euros for nails wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:26 PM
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Literally no
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:22 PM
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Literally no if I want to be with someone, I want to be the only one to have his babies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 10:12 PM
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Penises are the reflection of male nature. They just stop getting hard at some point. They just give up and go on vacation. Be wary of commitments made with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:38 PM
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No way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:34 PM
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Watching the game in Madrid! We didn't get the tickets but we went to watch in a bar nearby
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:31 PM
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<image> <333 what a great night
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:27 PM
2

I know, Mr. Mind. My only point was that you misunderstood the other poster's question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:54 PM
1

I used it to jokingly encompass EVERYTHING that I want to do with this man. Women are a meme. Everything that we do in the bedroom he desires as much as I do. Are "men" a meme too? The three things you mentioned actually weren't the top things I had in mind while writing this, but ok. And I fucking hate spit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:51 PM
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Clean shaven
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:49 PM
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30 and 32
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:47 PM
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Her question is how would you even know how she was with her exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:18 AM
1

Slobodno obavijesti njih u Splitu da su dio Srbije i javi kako je proslo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:27 PM
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Jel vam toplo more u Srbiji sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:35 PM
1

Koji kurac
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:31 PM
1

A bit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:31 PM
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It's definitely nurture and learned beliefs. If it were primal, it wouldn't be so dependent on the culture and background of the woman experiencing it. I view sex as a positive thing and I don't feel any sexual shame or guilt afterwards, nor had I with prior partners. When I was very young used to feel shame after masturbating because I thought I was the only one doing that and that there was something wrong with me. Upon finding out that pretty much everyone is doing that and that it's normal, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:34 AM
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Miss girl, respectfully wtf. i see the rise of feminism Is this the 60s? You are free to work part time or not work at all. I enjoy my profession and I can't wait to establish my career. My education and career are not less important than my bf's because I happened to be born as XX (although his profession is arguably more important for unrelated reasons). I also want to have at least one child. My future children are not mine more than they would be his. I don't believe a mother is more importa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:01 AM
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Ngl not at all. I wouldn't want to marry a man that I'm not 100% sexually satisfied by. I want to do a lot of unspeakable things with him but that doesn't tarnish him in my eyes in any way. And around those acts I also want cuddles from that same guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:15 PM
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Ok. I have never felt like that for anyone after just meeting them or seeing a photo. I have felt uncontrollable lust and horniness for a man however, and the only man I feel this way about right now is my boyfriend. But it was always only after getting to know them and their energy. You're applying male patterns of attraction to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 09:05 PM
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I mean sure, but it's also pure lust and horniness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:58 PM
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Cheating, STDs and divorce are actually preferable to the kind of life being led in Muslim-majority countries, especially Saudi Arabia.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:01 PM
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How is having sex with a man less gay than having sex with a woman for these people, I can't believe this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:37 AM
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I had never in my life just seen a random man and wanted to rip his clothes off and fuck then and there. I feel exactly that way about my boyfriend. I started feeling that way about him after we knew each other for some time. I went from indifference to "I want your babies". Is that raw attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:35 AM
1

I thought she would look so much worse, she doesn't even look bad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:31 AM
1

hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:29 AM
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I explored Madrid, and now I'm going to the club with my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 09:33 PM
1

It literally has nothing to do with looks. I've had instant connection with platonic female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:59 PM
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With a woman, no doubt. I'd doubt myself much more and I'd be eay more insecure. I'd compare myself to her to death. I don't even see same sex kissing as cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:07 AM
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And frantically pack!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:17 AM
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Damn I unexpectedly passed an exam, now I can go to Madrid with a clear head. I can't believe I'm going this Saturday, 5 months is a loooong time
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:11 AM
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It's literally ugly I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:08 AM
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When a guy receives oral sex he’s literally having sex with her face. He’s fucking her visage with his penis. Of course that is more degrading What's degrading about that? It's hot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 09:26 AM
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I would also think a woman is psycho if she behaved this way, it's not gender related for me. Anxiety and obsessive thoughts should be treated, not encouraged as something normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:27 PM
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