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| 6 | "Light switch effect" vs Splitting (BPD) | morescoobysnacks | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 02:59 AM | |
| 4 | Not sure how to handle vacation situation | morescoobysnacks | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 09:15 PM | |
| 2 | How to find a wing? | morescoobysnacks | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 07:43 AM | |
| 1 | Tonight is the night of pussies | morescoobysnacks | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/19 11:04 AM | |
| 1 | How long to get over oneitis? Heart is smashed | morescoobysnacks | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 10:37 AM |
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| 3 | Ditch "cold approach" in favor of "learn how to initiate conversations with strangers" without having a goal other than the initiation itself.generally, numbers at night are worthless. most guys approach at night venues because they're poor and have day jobs. just go for gold. numbers during the day are the only choice you have usually. sometimes insta dates or going back to fuck will work if the stars align. i quit posting in this sub awhile back. truthfully, looks are 90% of the game these days. lift, work with a photographer, and put in effort. not much else to it. don't gotta talk to every idiot you come across. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/20 09:36 AM |
| 7 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?I got laid when i was active in music community more so, just going to the gym and being a gym rat doesn't get girls wet. for some reason creativity does that more so Just going to the gym doesn't do anything if girls don't know you exist, correct. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 06:11 PM |
| 6 | Tinder date, never been to a bar beforeso don't go to a bar | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 04:48 PM |
| 2 | What are some popular things from TRP that you dislike or disagree with?but if your actual face is not attractive everything else will only be icing on the cake. so what? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 04:45 PM |
| 3 | I ghosted a girl that looks like she was going to friend zone me, now I'm feeling guilty or did the wrong thing. Is this a normal feeling?decide what you enjoy, and do that | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 04:30 PM |
| 1 | LTR being coldi'd act cold too if my boyfriend's existence revolved around how fast i txt him back | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Perpetual red pill rage: are some men better off MGTOW forever?most men are better off not circle jerking about theory in this faggot ass forum. no body told u to to get married dawg. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 04:01 AM |
| 1 | LMR - “I dont have sex with guys I just met”After a while of getting hot she gave me a bj and i fingered her. so take a short break and chill with her. keep agreeing with everything she says about not having sex and keep turning her on and escalating. back off again if it's not working again and chill and go right back to escalating again. over and over and over. it can take awhile if you really want the lay. if you've been doing your lifting homework, you can experiment with just forcing them. overpower them and rip their clothes off and… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Silent treatment in LTRit usually means her attraction to you is low Okey babe, tell me what's wrong? this is needy and would lower attraction. however, if giving her attention is leading to sex everytime, maybe i'm off. I dislike the fact of her disrespecting me like that instead of just adressing the concerns immediately like a normal human being. she's not disrespecting you, you're just needy and butt hurt | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 12:06 PM |
| 1 | How to have success with women when everyone around you is red pilled?if you leave your house more than once a month you'll quickly realize the opposite is true. there is no competition at all. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Sad tinder realities for men in the WestThis shit is grotesque and apocalyptic man. that's an entirely different topic. of course it's apocalyptic. "enjoy the decline" is the mantra around here, where have you been? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Get your vitamin D levels checkedit's always going to depend on the person. upper limit is 40mg/day according to https://ods.od.nih.gov/factsheets/Zinc-Consumer/ so yea what i'm doing is probably stupid | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/19 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Sad tinder realities for men in the Westgood looking women on tinder only match top 10% of guys. he isn't even top 20%. you don't understand the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/19 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Get your vitamin D levels checked50mg/day is the upper tolerable limit i believe. get a bottle that has copper included (important) and take it for a week. if you feel positive benefits, keep doing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/19 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Sad tinder realities for men in the Westhe's fat and weak. his elo score is tanked. tinder is shit anyway though we didn't need another post about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/19 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Get your vitamin D levels checkedmy zinc levels were normal too. now i take 50mg/day with copper and i'm horny as all fuck. what's strange is i've been cruising (~1500) for awhile yet zinc still has a profound effect in my libido on top of that. i'm not smart enough to know what the reason could be, but there's something else going on there. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/19 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Social anxietybeating social anxiety is so difficult that most sufferers appear to never overcome it to any significant degree, giving up and settling for a shit life. akin to most men being unable to cold approach women and never having a sexual life worth a fuck. 90% of the incel community exists because of social anxiety disorder. might be safe to say 90% of the redpill community exists because of social anxiety disorder too. we have 5,000 ways to teach game, when all you really have to do is memorize a fe… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/19 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Reward or Punish Plate?make her go to your place | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Saw something suspicious on LTR’s phone... how to proceed?dating an attractive girl for 9 months now. Have only gotten in one minor argument, everything else has been very pleasant. Sex whenever blah blah blah the usual stuff in a good relationship. grats, she's putting out and not causing drama. let's ruin that by being a needy, co-dependent faggot that gives a fuck. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | What does "you act so full of yourself and make everything about you" even mean?you need to stay out of her frame. married redpill talks about fogging when women bitch about anything and i like that strategy a lot. it's essentially a way to dismiss and change frame without ignoring her concern which will simply amplify it (the elephant in the room). all of their acronyms are pretty great for relationships in my opinion. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Post Sex Beta Transformationi don't see that you did anything especially wrong in anything you wrote. bonding with her post-sex isn't bad at all. building a connection and letting her feel that she knows you well isn't bad. you should throw in some qualification and teasing too of course. couple shit tests saying my humor was very dad like i'd take that shit as a compliment. girls all like daddy | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 02:12 AM |
| 1 | How to keep day gaming despite getting rejectedit takes me something like 20-30 day approaches to get laid. i close numbers a lot better than that, but most fake or are getting rid of me. and this is typically on a campus or a street in a mall area. my numbers are probably pretty good. but even if it takes you 100 approaches, you can do that in 2 to 4 weeks if you schedule your time properly. keep in mind that girls that end up fucking you from a broad daylight cold approach really like you. there's no shenanigans going on, no alcohol fuelin… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Give a # or ask for one?i take my phone out and open new contact as i'm saying "let me get your number" too. a little car dealership pressure goes a long way with these kinds of requests. even if she isn't into you necessarily and she's giving it up because of this, she may change her mind later because she's a th0t | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 11:59 PM |
| 1 | I'm unsure of myselfgo out to a bar and open by touching every girl on the elbow and any opener you want. then tell them to compare hands and put yours up against theirs or touch a different part of their arm for some other excuse (jewelry is good). do this all in the first 2 sentences. physical screening is a great way to open during the night depending on the set, and it'll get you used to touching. if you can't go out 1 night and open even 1 girl like that, you know your real problem. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | LTR isn’t sexually attracted the way she used to be. I know it’s because of familiarity. Can anything be done?every faggot on reddit has been gyming at least 3 years. still not jacked | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 05:43 PM |
| 1 | LTR isn’t sexually attracted the way she used to be. I know it’s because of familiarity. Can anything be done?realize physical attraction is a bigger deal than you think it is and get jacked. thing with being jacked is, if your girl lost attraction, you'd go out and replace her same week (if not same night). the dudes posting on mrp are weak as fuck and they wonder what the problem is. the dreading and not deering and all that is definitely relevant, but i think being fucking fat (if not worse) is the biggest problem. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 07:11 AM |
| 1 | What's the best way to win back my ex?this is oneitis and it's all on you bro. stay home on weekends (because i have no mates) i go out alone wherever i happen to be. it's difficult to do at first, for sure, but you get over it. having to depend on anyone is bullshit. you don't need wings. you need big ass tris, pecs, and ideally abs, and you'll do great. I'm also getting uglier (hair receding etc) get a hair transplant. the best fue transplant surgeons don't charge too much and they look amazing. will probably never have such an ex… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 10:57 AM |
| 1 | How has your week been re:women?i'm stuck in a 20k pop city for a couple weeks. creeping around indian casinos, walmarts, and sausage fest podunk bars trying to get laid. had some overweight mexican chick approach me and i was like nahhhhhhhhhh. regretting that decision now. for the first time in 2 years i'm considering installing tinder. i'm getting horny enough, i'm gonna start fucking going door to door. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 10:53 AM |
| 1 | What's the best way to win back my ex?The bond and the link is still there in my mind that's the problem the smart thing to do is to completely block her and accept you'll never see her again. then the countdown for your freedom begins. but no body is ever smart when it comes to this. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 10:41 AM |
| 1 | What's the best way to win back my ex?i've done it, before i got into pickup. raise smv and wait for the other guy to fuck up which he will. i don't see any issue with trying if she was actually a good girl and you're accepting responsibility for being a bitch. of course, you're going to cause yourself a lot of extra pain if it doesn't work. every second you consider being back with her, you're extending the bond. use your time wisely and cold approach a lot and lift. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 10:21 AM |
| 1 | The Number 1 Turn Off I Keep Hearing From Womenif a girl matches you on tinder, she's super attracted to you. in those cases the hardest parts are already over and you're just building comfort so it's not as bad. but you leave the internet and you'll have a lot of girls on the fence. this is where you need game. and txting them for anything but logistics ends up working against you. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/19 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Uninterested girlno girl is showing up on a date because she feels bad. take your shot | /r/askTRP | 18/07/19 01:29 AM |
| 1 | why does the red pill say that looks matter so much?it doesn't have anything to do with money. it's just conveying that you're a cool guy that has a fun lifestyle they'd wanna be a part of. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | why does the red pill say that looks matter so much?all my dhvs are lies. most of the shit i say to women are lies. this one girl thinks im a drug dealer because i have a stack of connected iphones sitting on my desk and she thinks theyre burnersi'm not gonna ruin the intrigue though lol | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | why does the red pill say that looks matter so much?google it and you'll see a lot of the original examples given in mm and other books. for daygame i typically talk about how i travel to miami and throw parties and shit, but it's really subtle. if it comes off as bragging, it works against you. put any amount of people in a room and have them interract and anyone observing will feel that some of them are higher value than others. it's a perception that can be manipulated through tonality, body language, and language. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | why does the red pill say that looks matter so much?it's your position in any social hierarchy whether it lasts 10 seconds or 10 years. it's a mixture of physical attractiveness and social dominance. with words... dhv stories and frame controlling are very common and taught in mystery method. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Ex keeps trying to contact meblock that hoe. mind rape is their fuel. they all say the same fucking shit too. they're like robots. i get the creeps everytime it happens. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 03:56 AM |
| 1 | why does the red pill say that looks matter so much?you can change women's perception of your objective attractiveness with game. i've seen this happen too many times on too many approaches. she hates me, i dont have attraction, im challenging, build value, eventually she starts to come around and be submissive, and im in. does this work all the time? obviously not. not even most of the time. but some signficant % it does work. and i've had girls that i'm with tell me their girlfriends all think i'm average looking, but she doesn't understand how… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Are white women less approachable?you're gonna have attraction less often with attractive white women so physically screening and compliment openers are gonna work against you | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Favorite US cities for meeting women?manhattan has the best daygame in the world for sure. factory line of 10s. vegas is more fun at night, but i wouldn't wanna live there personally. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Advice for cheating on GFit's not about morality or guilt bro. it's about never dealing with drama. you're asking for problems to offset the fact you're not confident that your smv is high enough to do this the easy way. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Advice for cheating on GFif you give a shit how she feels, you will be honest, because the alternative is she finds out later and you literally crush her fucking soul. if you don't give a shit how she feels, you will be honest, because if you're actually as cool as you think, she'll deal with it and in time not necessarily even mind it. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Advice for cheating on GFbe honest and keep it one-sided or open it. that's a far more successful strategy if you want both. cheating will be found out eventually. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Some questions...don't try to make out unless you have isolation. it's far from optimal. if you can't pull her to your place or something before escalating to that, then it's not gonna happen. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Some questions...when I tried to make it a bit sexual she got away. what's this mean? | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Girls i asked out responded with a questionshe's shit testing because she isn't attracted. gotta pass that. qualification comes later. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Girls i asked out responded with a question"I want to see if you're worth my time." this is a qualifier and it won't work without attraction | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Online dating is making me realize how out of touch these girls are....you're competing with tren, sarms, photoshop, photoshoots, top tier genetics, and 49 other messages coming in front other guys, for some dreg 6s and 7s that are probably going to ghost you because they already assume you're a faggot having to meet women on apps. you're no more than a dildo. is that fine if you can bag one every single day? sure. but you won't. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 11:41 PM |
| 1 | How do I proceed?that bitch is creepy as fuck. definitely give it another shot though she's trying pretty hard | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Where do I go from here? 44 yo, 5'3", $1.6M, in NYCnet worth close to $1.6M nice | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Year Long Field-Report, Shit LTR, and moreyou're fucking gps tracking her. jesus | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Year Long Field-Report, Shit LTR, and moreIf a girl told you something that you know as a rational person is bullshit it's not rational to think her telling you she's going to bake means she's cheating. what's rational is 1) she was literally going to bake, 2) she was shit testing you. if she was going to cheat, she wouldn't have told you anything. her saying she slept with her ex is super convenient lie considering your actions. she probably cried on her couch. redpill causes too much paranoia in men. it's one thing to understand that … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Gallery of dating profiles showing women's Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks strategy.if you're giving up because you can't have pussy magically appear in your lap thanks to some cuck in san francisco you had no chance anyway | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | How would you respond to a friend, in front of you, telling a girl, "He was saying how fit/hot you are"?your first reaction is to care if something is douchey rather than if it gets you pussy | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | How would you respond to a friend, in front of you, telling a girl, "He was saying how fit/hot you are"?"yea, but you're probably just another thot" (or looking at him, "you think she's just another thot?") you could pull out some mystery too, "thats true. what do you have going for you other than your looks?" anything that implies her natural beauty isn't enough | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Huge introvert and not sure how to improve sociallythat sounds boring. why don't you talk to girls you like and try to pull? | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 03:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with my GF's constant disagreeable comebacks? (disagrees for the sake of disagreeing)pinch her nipple really hard everytime she says something negative | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How to sexualize the conversation?gotta increase her perception of your value. read magic bullets. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | How to sexualize the conversation?they're bored because you don't have attraction yet. you need to learn to build attraction. this is 90% of the point of game. and sexualizing the conversation is never necessary. it's just 1 way to break rapport. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Is this the ideal marriage setup?"you're my beautiful... pretty girl" they're all lesbians right? | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Should I apologize?if you're constantly around her, no reason not to try again. but the fact you'd ever consider apologizing is a major problem that's going to fuck you at every step. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Should I apologize?txt = logistics (sometimes comfort) 2) going sexual is usually a harsh rapport break. don't do it unless you have a plan 3) you can't win a girl over by supplicating or apologizing for who you are. i honestly don't know how to try and bring this back over txt. some clever tease that very, very subtly implies you're giving her a second chance for being boring. or something. txt is hard because you just don't have any room. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Should I apologize?what exactly was the joke | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Should I apologize?don't shape your personality to appease women. if you thought it was funny, she can go fuck herself. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | 99% of PUA and Self-Improvement coaches are scammers(Evidence Inside)I also find it hard to believe that someone that looks like RSD Tyler can pull girls at all off cold approach at all, especially with them being so receptive to him off the get go. because he knows game. this is why a major reason why game was figured out to begin with. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/19 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Holy fuck theres so much conflicting advice in the book this sub recommends... Which one is actually the most useful for a 21 year old dude....?m3 model is from mystery method. it describes the phases that any interaction between a man and woman takes leading to sex. magic bullets is written by mystery's partner savoy. he made it more concise mostly. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Holy fuck theres so much conflicting advice in the book this sub recommends... Which one is actually the most useful for a 21 year old dude....?magic bullets is the only book worth reading. m3 solved game for all intents and purposes and mb patches it up nicely. everything else misses too much or botches huge parts. rsd videos aren't game. i wish game were that exciting. it's just flashy marketing. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | 25 Year Old Kissless VirginTake a girl back home? You've got to be fucking kidding. go out and cold approach 10 women. if you can't, forget wasting your time on the rest and stop worrying about it. 99% of this sub is wasting their time trying to get jacked when they'll never be able to overcome that basic first step. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Confidence tips for under-endowed meni thought gains from doing that shit were permanent. u gotta do that shit for the rest of your fucking life? | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Is TRP direct or not?if you're good looking enough that most women are sexually attracted to you by default, you get to skip a lot of steps. building attraction is the most difficult part of game by far. if you just have it by default a lot, you'll never really understand what game is about, or you'll think it's a bunch of bullshit. statement of intent for example. calling a girl cute if you have attraction (she views you as higher value) will excite her. she'll even qualify herself sometimes. this is great. but if … | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Old Female-friends hate me after raising SMVnice | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with toxic people who wouldn’t shut up?you move away from them. but if you want to dominate them, the basic idea is that the person that reacts less is higher value. he's imposing a frame that you're a fat piece of shit. by "laughing it off" you're reacting and accepting it. he's a good person to practice with. don't laugh or smile at anything he says. never react or supplicate. if he tries to put you in a negative light, toy with him. be like, "say that again", "one more time" say it really earnestly so he complies as many times as … | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do feminists/ far left women date feminine men?who else would date a feminist | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 03:03 AM |
| 1 | I don’t have a problem getting girls attracted to me but I suck at escalating.don't kiss without isolation. it accomplishes nothing. once you escalate that far you should be in a place you can fuck imo. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | 2nd Post with Further Clarification: I went up to a girl and asked her out on a date.pretend you know what? you need to study game. the fact you're getting attraction right off the bat, and you're arrogant enough to believe what you thought she implied, means you won't need much. but you should know the basic phases. everyone in rp should. mystery m3 or magic bullets or something that's about value game. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/19 12:21 AM |
| 1 | 2nd Post with Further Clarification: I went up to a girl and asked her out on a date.attraction > qualification > comfort shit tests tend to imply we're in attraction. so i would simply ignore her (set a new frame) and start qualification. "are you a fun person?" if she qualifies (yes/anything positive), that probably means she's attracted to you. reward her and continue, "see? i knew it. i'm always right. what do you like to do for fun?". if she doesn't qualify (no/something negative), she probably isn't attracted yet and you're going to have to learn how to build attraction. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 11:36 AM |
| 1 | 2nd Post with Further Clarification: I went up to a girl and asked her out on a date.what's the context of the approach? what did you open with | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 10:23 AM |
| 1 | 2nd Post with Further Clarification: I went up to a girl and asked her out on a date.read my response to your first one | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 08:50 AM |
| 1 | I don’t have a problem getting girls attracted to me but I suck at escalating.always hug when first meeting. immediately afterwards, you can pretend to brush something off their shoulder or out of their hair, or once you're baller grab their hand and spin them or pick them up and spin them or even carry them wherever you're going (if there's a railing, 100% scare them). be bold. if you're sitting, "give me your hands" and hold her hands and rub them exactly like you see a fortune teller do it. "cool", and then she'll ask what's cool and you say whatever. or look for jewel… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Girl giving me uncertainty excuses"yea i feel you" and then ask to hangout. always be overcoming objections. a lot of the time you do that by acknowledging and then immediately dismissing. and always throw in false time constraints. they are god tier game. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 12:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you advanced guys stay in LTR's after knowing what we know?celebrity level larping. no body fucking 400 women writes this dumb shit on reddit. they either never go online, make helpful posts, or become failed youtube puas. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Why is Trump held up by TRP as Alpha when he seems to have really strong Beta traits? (insecurity)Caring about what others think is a signature beta trait you're incredibly stupid if you think it's that black and white | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 10:01 AM |
| 1 | How important is building size from the gym?from the man himself https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/what-every-skinny-guy-should-know.60002/ | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 09:35 AM |
| 1 | What is it like being an attractive dude?Your average male has no Tinder matches, mate. hahaha. so easy to spot the naturally good looking guys trying to downplay their looks to feel better about their game. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible she just has a low sex drive?I don't really have a follow-up if she gives a negative response. I just go do something else. try being forceful. if she says she's tired and pushes you away, ignore her and keep going. if she does it again, grab her throat and tell her sternly, "stop", and go back to what you were doing. if she keeps resisting, tell her, "you're getting fucked" and keep going. we either want compliance (sex) or we want her to get scared and/or mad. those should be the only two outcomes. some middling outcome w… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible she just has a low sex drive?i'll give you the benefit of the doubt then and believe you when you say you're attractive, have a lot going on, etc. so how do you initiate sex? what's her initial reaction? what's your follow-up? embarass yourself with details. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible she just has a low sex drive?my girlfriend doesn't fuck me, is she attracted to me? no | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Judge my text game.we already set the hangout. no reason to say anything. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Judge my text game.Me: Gotchya baby low value/awkward M: I'll pick you up around 6/630? don't ask for permission My plans involve tying you up to be my fucktoy for the night low value/dorky | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 02:51 AM |
| 1 | 20yo LTR of 7 months father has a history of hitting her and has started hitting her again after some time. What do I do?i don't agree with dumping free sex, as long as you don't have to take on the weight of her and her parents bullshit. not sure if that's possible in your case. an otherwise perfect redpill girl LOL | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 01:32 AM |
| 1 | 20yo LTR of 7 months father has a history of hitting her and has started hitting her again after some time. What do I do?But I’m not the standard redpiller in that I have no use for fucking around and would much rather have a single girl you're in denial. listen to cain or go ask your dumb shit on relationship_advice | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Make outs but no second dateyou took her out and wasted an hour of her time. of course she doesn't want to see you again. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Holy shit... I think I'm slowly actually getting it.After 1-3 years her sexual interest will drop is there strong evidence for this? men generally get committed in about the same timeframe (possibly causing the drop in sexual interest) this would be my best guess. the act of proposing for marriage is by far the neediest thing a man can do. she'd have to perceive you as much, much more valuable than her to not see this as a negative impact attraction-wise. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Shit test “are we going out as friends?”i disagree with every comment in here. this is all bad game. the only answer is the answer that gets her out. whatever she says via txt and whatever she feels in that moment is irrelevant once the game starts. and especially once she gets alcohol in her. so tell her your friends. sure. "oh what, we're not friends now you fucking asshole?" who cares. get her OUT. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Fat ugly buddy of mine put on a master class in picking up women last night - my notescompanies like rsd sound like this because telling fat guys they can get laid with game is a great way to make money. pickup community has always known being a fat lard works against you. and op's fat friend ran literally 0 game. this community is tanking. biggest larp fest on this faggot website. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/19 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Should I say this?women infer much of how valuable a man is (in relation to themselves) by how many fucks the man gives about them. so you saying that to a girl so early on in a relationship implies you're lower value than she is. it's too much. you could say something like, "tell your dad i said happy father's day, and to teach his daughter to [do something better]"... like floss better if she had something in her teeth. entire books get written trying to explain basic attraction mechanics like value and how it … | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | BP friend drunken cryingcaring enough to read your live-in vagina's phone. you retards never learn. you still think the problem is these women. jesus christ. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Starting day game tomorrow, plan on being absolutely honest - no fake clowning, no bullshit. Still have some nerves, however. Welcoming all advice.the mall is fantastic if that's a convenient place to go for you. don't give a fuck about inconveniencing others. they'll manage. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Starting day game tomorrow, plan on being absolutely honest - no fake clowning, no bullshit. Still have some nerves, however. Welcoming all advice.If you get a mmmmf and a dirty look, don't push it any further, just walk away and on to the next one. daygame requires being pushy. it requires overcoming objections non-stop. those openers are bad too and your last paragraph is the reason why. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Ex-gf trying to keep me as a backup boyfriend, how do I proceed on?are you a chick? because giving a fuck about all this label bullshit sounds like a chick to me. and why do you perceive yourself as a backup? why not perceive her as a backup? you ask her to hang out and you fuck, or you don't. there's no other guy, theirs no labels, theres none of this bullshit. none of it matters. my only assumption about this level of giving a fuck about some random whore is that your life is so miserably boring and uninspired that you have nothing else to think about. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | She Never Cared? Advise Neededholy fuck you're 6'3! | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 02:49 PM |
| 1 | [serious] can body language be too "dominant"?what's being in a good mood and smiling have to do with being dominant | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I convince my FWB to have sex with me again?sex should never be mentioned. ever. one thing lead to another and you both fucked. that is the only narrative that's arousing to most women. She said she wants a break from sex because she thinks it is making me fall for her "that's not a bad idea. a break is what i need too." if it's a shit test, this handles it. if it's not a shit test, this will comfort her enough to forget about whatever the the reason was. if you can't handle that without frustration in your tone or body language on-demand… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Can't cum during sex lately.stop watching porn and stop fantasizing entirely. if you masturbate, use lube and just focus on it feeling good and that's it. might take months to fix. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/19 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Rejection is better than regret. I chose to regret and now feel like shityou shouldn't be stopping conversation to escalate unless it's to kiss. and even then you just pickup where you left off, rejection or not. as far as k-closing... you either get rejected pulling or you fuck. "k-close" implying you kissed and then left isn't good game and it never was. imo kissing without isolation is poor game. accomplishes nothing that your hands can't, and makes it a lot harder on the girl without isolation. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Rejection is better than regret. I chose to regret and now feel like shitdont try to kiss her or she will reject you and you wont be talking ever again and there she is inviting you to some fun shit this isn't true even if you did take a shot. what matters is how you roll with the rejections. just don't point it out or get in your head. focus outwardly and keep conversation moving. having game means you get rejected non-stop. some of it's temporary, some of it's not. you can't avoid it. also time in set doesn't correlate to success whatsoever. 5 minutes or 3 hours ma… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 10:39 AM |
| 2 | What do you do if your father hits your mother?the larping in this place is mind blowing. talk to them 1on1. if he's not going to change, help your mom get out of the situation. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Alone in my journeydownload and read chapters 7 and 8 if you want an example. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Is this the best way to become more sociable?Is that a waste of time? approaching is great I read somewhere on here that women are attracted to guys that know a lot of people. women are status-aware, but i wouldn't say they're sexually attracted to it. knowing arbitrary people won't help you get laid no. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 06:37 AM |
| 7 | If I'm an alpha in a relationshipwhy do you care if you're alpha or beta? start there. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 06:35 AM |
| 2 | I automatically think any man who has a girlfriend is a beta provider?it's not fair thinking at all. you'd have to know the circumstances behind his decision to be with her. is it because he's not improving himself and as a result has no other options? ok. if he has her around because she's dedicated to improving his life and helping him succeed in his life's mission(s) like any high quality woman has to by definition, he's winning in my opinion. however, probably 99% of the first group would lie to themselves about being in the latter. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Alone in my journeymeet someone else to go cold approach with then. i used to go out with a group of really fun guys when i first got into pickup and it helped me tremendously... we'd all chill afterwards if we didn't pull and talk about approaches, weaknesses, what made us insecure and what to do about that, etc. way of the superior man is one of the most grounded books i've ever read. magic bullets is by far the best book on pickup (probably that will ever exist in my opinion). | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 05:00 AM |
| 0 | She wants to nap by herselfeveryone here is as stupid as you because you all agree that anything that bitch is doing matters. it doesn't. who cares if she's hiding something or not? why the fuck are you invested enough in some hoe to even blink? wanna nap by yourself? that's cool. peace. c'mon man. this sub sucks. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Is there a way to train your split second wittiness? Especially responses to shit tests.Girls laugh at literally everything any dude says that they want to fuck. Believe what you personally want to, but everyone learning needs to let it go and focus on what matters. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to train your split second wittiness? Especially responses to shit tests.I coach pickup part-time and I've been going out running daygame for 3 years. Almost every student I have talks about how they need to be funny. It's just not true. But a lot of guys that do get laid are also funny and attribute it to that so everyone gets confused as fuck. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to train your split second wittiness? Especially responses to shit tests.Don't be dumb... one witty response isn't going to have you bending random girls over within 3 minutes. 1,000 witty responses won't either. Being funny isn't a necessary part of getting laid. Humor is the best way to build comfort, in my opinion, but that's it. And there are plenty of ways to build comfort. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way to train your split second wittiness? Especially responses to shit tests.and no need to insult them. Rapport breaks are very successful, but you need rapport. Without rapport, you're just creating a negative feeling. With rapport, you're creating sexual tension because she's being dominated by someone she's comfortable with (more or less). | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 07:25 PM |
| 6 | GymYou should be hating your life. You aren't even trying. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Losing interest after winning girl overTL;DR: Anyone else enjoys the "hunt" more than the actual "girl"? It's called having a dick. We require variety like women require alpha dick. And every single woman alive is fine with her man fucking around if he's high enough SMV, but most dudes don't want that full time job. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Going to the club this weekend. Don't know how to dance.Guys who actually dance at clubs are faggots. Who the fuck does the salsa in a club. You just approach and be a silly asshole and pull. Just walk through and observe until you get it. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Girl implying she's okay with me being with multiple girls. How to respond?Every answer here is autistic as fuck. Of course you're going to be with multiple girls. You're you. Girls want this. They just want to be special during it. edit: Vasiliy's answer is also how you convince your wife to | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Wife gets overt and angry when I pass shit testsTo be fair, it only fails because she can call 911. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Is low testosterone responsible for approach anxiety ?Gives you a lot more energy and makes you care a little less. But if you have social anxiety as a disorder, you're going to need therapy no matter what your levels are. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Is it better to learn game, cold approach etc or become a champion and have women chase you?Just become a famous basketball player bro. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 02:56 AM |
| 1 | How do I stay mysterious in a LTR?You don't. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 02:54 AM |
| 1 | I put myself in a rought spot and I need some advice.Girls all want commitment at some point. If she's really that great, and improves your life that much, commit. Approach on the side. Maybe she'll let you sleep with other girls on the side. Maybe she's bi and will fuck girls with you on the side. You can't turn that drive for variety off, but you can mange it in ways that will keep a really good catch around. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 05:56 PM |
| 1 | I put myself in a rought spot and I need some advice.Most of your value will come from your behavior. None of the shit you just mentioned about her means anything at all. Every girl can go post ass pics on instagram and have 100k followers. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Started cold approaching today. Questions/Notes insideAny dude in an LTR where the girl doesn't let him game on the side is getting played. Straight up. That retard has a brain and the internet and he's still getting played. Fuck feeling bad for losers. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Started cold approaching today. Questions/Notes insideHer frame is "leave me alone". Our frame is "we're your best bet". It's not qualifying in the traditional sense. It's displaying a ridiculous amount of dominance. 99.999% of women have never had a dude do this. We're essentially taking her from her partner verbally. It's primal on some level. It works. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | I put myself in a rought spot and I need some advice.So LTR her. If you're value is high enough, she'll let you game on the side. Otherwise, be happy with what you got until your primal brain drives you over the edge. You aren't accomplishing shit by wanting her while also not approaching new women. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Started cold approaching today. Questions/Notes insideeew, go away, im busy You're going out, not getting laid, but not getting rejected either. This is just her default response to get rid of trash. You gotta go harder. Lot of options here, but I usually say something like, "I bet you're really cool when you're not being a brat. [pause a bit] Are you?" Playful, cocky smile. If that fails, I'd just keep fucking with her, "You should take time to talk to cooler people than you, it would help with personal growth a lot more than the bullshit you're p… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | I have been approaching more women but with baby steps.Maybe she did, maybe she didn't. Stop her. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 08:16 PM |
| 5 | Plate breaks - good or bad idea to say she can get back in touch if things change?"I get it" isn't meant to come off as passive aggressive. It's literal. We really do get why she's doing what she's doing. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 08:04 PM |
| 1 | I have been approaching more women but with baby steps.The core of any good opener is to create basic comfort in a socially acceptable and familiar way so you can transition to a conversation. "Excuse me. Do you have any idea how to get to X from here?" could be the only opener you ever use during the day. "I have to stop by the library but bye." I just said ok nice to meet you bye. Now i'm sitting in the dh and i see her by herself but feel weird re-engaging. "Wait wait wait. Come here for a second." Always plow low-effort rejections. See it as not… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Plate breaks - good or bad idea to say she can get back in touch if things change?"I get it" | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Advice needed : overcoming feeling of dread over Gf's sexual pastN count doesn't matter. Don't be insecure or bitter about it either. Let them all know you like that they're whores and you are too. Be one of them. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to go about things if you have money and you are successful?Having money on top of game is a sure-fire way to keep them chasing forever so it's not a bad thing. Just don't ever give up exactly what you do- tease about being in the sex slave industry or something. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 07:14 PM |
| 2 | I want to follow the red pill rather than its more bleak splinter group, the ‘black pill’, so please help me out by telling me why this following argument for it is wrongLooks increase your odds of getting in the door, but can be overcome by volume. Behavior is what's valuable. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to go about things if you have money and you are successful?Keeping mystery and intrigue will always help your case. Don't show all your cards. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | I suck at dealing with toxic people that are of the aggressive kind looking for conflict and love to get under people's skin. Anyone here good at it have some advice?You don't owe anyone an answer even if it's just 1 word. Look at them, see who it is, and back turn a bit. They either get physical, which is rare (I've never personally seen it to being ignored), or they get louder and more obnoxious in which case they just fuck themselves. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Mark Manson - Models - Is this true?I agree with you that it can build rapport, but it's a horrible way to do it. Not good game. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 10:42 AM |
| 1 | Mark Manson - Models - Is this true?Yea let's quote a dorky blogger who has a body count of 10. Pickup has figured everything out years ago. Vulnerability is not a part of the equation. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Mark Manson - Models - Is this true?Voluntarily disclosing a vulnerability is a sign of strength and confidence. No it's not. That's not a real thing. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | When did you realize the "honey moon phase" was over and you were now her beta bucks?This isn't braincels. Nothing about either of those is high value as far as the sexual marketplace goes. Lot of bullshit in this sub. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Mark Manson - Models - Is this true?It says at the beginning of the book that he wrote it trying to get men from below average to "average" Does it really say that? It's been awhile since I've read it. The chapter about vulnerability is terrible. It's so unclear and arbitrary that he's written like 3 blog posts trying to clarify and he just makes it worse. Nonsense trying to sell to mass aud. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | When did you realize the "honey moon phase" was over and you were now her beta bucks?Nothing changed about me. I'm decently attractive (I lift and despite being in my 30's everyone says I look like I'm 25 which is a big plus with my body) and I have a good job. Shut up you're a pussy. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Is TRP mimicking high testosterone behaviors?High value behaviors are the result of abundance, "natural" or otherwise. Mystery figured all of this out a long time ago. High testosterone doesn't have anything to do with it. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Mark Manson - Models - Is this true?Models is a shit book. Muchlike RP, it gets some things very right, and some things very wrong (or just leaves shit out entirely). The author of that book was a well known PUA back in the day under Entropy. He tried to become a pickup guru, failed, and re-invented himself as a dating guru. He knows way more than that book puts on, and it's seriously watered down. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | What were your biggest mistakes in seduction/game that you have fixed and how did you fix them?Negs are disqualifiers. Indicating you're earnestly disinterested in a girl conveys to her that you're higher value than she is. You know that. Everybody knows that. That's what all this bullshit about delaying txts, not buying stuff, cutting out supplication, is about--that you're not really that interested, until your dick is in her stomach. Most typical approach question regarding this, "how do I appear to be disinterested when I'm the one approaching?" You use what you know against her. From… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Any advice for an introvert who doesnt have the energy to talk to people?just dont have the energy to think of what to say, deal with these shit tests and the witty responses, and maintaining their interest. You're in luck. Women have 0 interest in fucking a dancing monkey who thinks he has to maintain their interest. The only women who fuck dudes who supplicate are rebounding alpha widows and I'm not failing shit tests so some fat bitch likes me. Stop being a whiny ass vagina and go lift and approach more. All your beliefs and thoughts are shit. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 05:41 AM |
| 1 | How to respect women if they’re incapable or understanding logic?she does something selfish 10 times and I accept it/keep frame. What's she do and how do you react? Those are the only specifics anyone can help with. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Is this older woman trying to trap me?She told me im best she ever had and all this bullshit too Man, stop downplaying yourself. Most of the dudes out there are pathetic as fuck. Girls' histories are plagued with sad, pathetic faggots. The simple fact we're all here in a never-ending struggle to self-improve is evidence we are some of the best. So accept. Internalize it. Be the best. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Witty response or no response?Say nothing. Hoes don't deserve your brainpower. Stop supplicating. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 04:35 AM |
| 1 | what does this meanShe likes you. Retard. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 04:22 AM |
| 1 | My first time alone at a baratticus advice is really solid. This whole thread is a fucking mess though. Read Magic Bullets. Read Juggler (his list of openers is fucking hilarious). If you just want to socialize, opening with false time constraints helps a lot ("You guys look like you're having fun. Can I hang out for a few minutes before my friends get here?") Literally the most basic request ever, but the false time constraint takes all guards down. False time constraints are responsible for a lot of my lays... from pulli… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Talking about red pill related stuff with womenAll the time. Women love these topics. I wouldn't mention RP specific language though... that'd be awkward as fuck. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Bringing up other guys? Is this an attempt at gaining SMV?Girls love to talk about people and sex. If they see you as a high SMV dude who doesn't judge them, they open up. Is it some spooky nonsense called dread that a skinny, married blogger made up because he ran out of shit to write about that day? Fuck my life. What I can tell you is that worrying about what some girl thinks of you puts you in her frame. Get out of it. And if she traveled 4 hours to fuck, you might be the best she's ever had. Don't downplay yourself. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | If women like alpha, masculine men, what does Red Pill theory have to say about women who date beta males?Most women can't get a relationship with a high SMV guy, but they still want affection and love. Younger girls don't even know what being with a high value guy is like so they "settle" (they don't really know they're settling, like a color exists they've never seen). Older women have tried and failed 100x and they just know it doesn't work. Some get lucky and get to be live ins. Some women don't need that much dominance, but they're few and far between. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Why did you leave your woman?didn’t want marriage or kids but wanted to raise her dog. Literally treated the dog as a human dressing him up Are all crazy cat ladies BPD? Hahaha. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Share your success percentage in cold approach.All marketing is faked for efficiency. That doesn't mean anything. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Why did you leave your woman?What started to stand out? | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Share your success percentage in cold approach.Where are you seeing that? I've watched many of his infields and always thought he looked short. Could be wearing lifts. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Share your success percentage in cold approach.There's a lot of truth to what the incel community believes, but it's only on the frontend. Women literally start to perceive an ugly man as gorgeous if he runs the fucking street. That's that old primal programming. Better love the alpha or you aren't going to make it. Just look at Tom. He looks like a short lady boy. He's got tight fashion sense and tight game though. Same thing with a lot of short PUAs. Tyler too... go look at his old videos with Mystery back in the day. Not very masculine at… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Is going on date after having sex with the girl essential if I want to retain the girl ?Tyler is short, small, and doesn't lift, and he's one of the best PUAs in the world. Not my problem you suck. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Share your success percentage in cold approach.I've tracked most of my daygame approaches for the last two years. Dates about 1/20 approaches (ASU/NYU/malls), and I've closed the vast majority of dates. Daygame dates close at a much higher rate because of the circumstances. My game is not as good as Tom or Mystery. Not even close. But I look a lot better than them and looks unfortunately matter a lot on the front end. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Is this true? How’s THIS for a red-pill theory?First of all, marriage isn't about being happy. Stopped reading. Marriage is a mistake. Don't do it. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Is going on date after having sex with the girl essential if I want to retain the girl ?Bring them along for stuff you do anyway. For example, I take girls with me when I go to wash my car or make quick runs for work, or see a barber, or hang out with friends, or go to NYC to get some good food, or go for a night drive to find some new music, shopping for car shit, whatever. Once in awhile if I AirBNB somewhere. They don't want to be the center of attention. They want to be along for the ride. You gotta remember that attention from a high value dude is the most valuable thing to a … | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Cuddle PartyShe's asking you to hang out in a fun way. You mother fuckers have autism. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 11:51 AM |
| 1 | how are you all still attracted to women even after knowing the kinds of stuff they'll do for "alphas"?Lifted a couple years. They see the blacked out BMW and 20 phones lying around and get the picture. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 11:50 AM |
| 1 | how are you all still attracted to women even after knowing the kinds of stuff they'll do for "alphas"?In 40 years I'll be tired of smashing pussy anyway. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | how are you all still attracted to women even after knowing the kinds of stuff they'll do for "alphas"?I'm living with 2 married bi chicks that are "on vacation" at my apartment for the last 20 days. You tell me. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 06:02 PM |
| 1 | So many green flags but sex is just baaaad10 partners at 23 is high. She's been around. It's probably higher than that too. What didn't she do that you like? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | how are you all still attracted to women even after knowing the kinds of stuff they'll do for "alphas"?When you're the one they're cheating and slutting with, no. Of course not. Everyone bitches about companies scamming idiots out of their money too. The horror. Until they're the one profiting from it. Everybody is a fake fuck. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on Craig Ferguson as a very good example of an Alpha?Burr and Seinfeld are solid examples of comedians specifically. If you watch their normal interactions, they rarely supplicate to anyone, and their demeanor is a rapport break in itself-- they believe they're better than others as a core belief. Women smell that shit. Not sure about their marriages, but then again even the best get fucked by that shit. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Tempted to hit up ex due to not being able to enjoy other females. What should I do?You can sleep with 20 girls after an ex and still not be over her. It's new girls + time. You just have to wait. Don't look at her pictures. Don't fantasize about her. Write down the worst things about her and read it everytime you can't turn your brain off. Lift lots of heavy shit. Unfortunately, we all pair bond with certain people really hard and there's no simple answer. Lots of famous PUAs had fucking mental breakdowns over like 1 stupid girl. It happens to the best of us. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How to politely tell my girlfriend that she is too fat and need to change?I question what was real and what wasn’t with her. Yea. Say one thing one day, the next lose their shit swearing they didn't say that and you're the crazy one. Rather deal with paranoid schizophrenia. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | How to politely tell my girlfriend that she is too fat and need to change?Women with BPD all share common traits. The worst part is the splitting. Doctors call it idolization and devaluation; one day you're the best thing in their life, and the next you're dog shit and the past is re-written entirely. You'll notice they do it with their friends and family too, not just their mates. The "light switch effect" article that everybody circlejerks about is describing BPD, not women in general. And they always have eating disorders, overweight or not. Their ability to manipu… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 01:26 PM |
| 1 | If you're doing fine with looks and frame, does getting a high-status job really boost your SMV as much as some say?Money helps for LTRs tremendously. Girls will fuck you if your game is tight, but they don't want to stick around if you're not also a provider (this doesn't really mean beta, just means they can dream about the potential with you--it's real). | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Married WomenMarriage doesn't mean anything to anyone in the game. Women are all in the game. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Bought a girl a Christmas present...Not a mistake at all. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How do alpha males flirt vs how beta males flirt ?That's a pretty solid long version. It's "easy" to be good at approach in comparison to just being high value as fuck on the reg. But if you don't care about LTRs, it really doesn't matter- of course, the proof for this is everywhere, every dork at a bar gets laid from time to time, but they couldn't keep a 10 around for 2 days. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | If women need to be more selective about who they have sex with, what explains female promiscuity?However, what explains this phenomenon? Birth control. Abortions. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | How do alpha males flirt vs how beta males flirt ?Nope. They can't. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | How do alpha males flirt vs how beta males flirt ?From a place of higher value than her (e.g. teasing/patronize) versus from a place of lower value than her (e.g. supplication/compliments). Women are hard-wired to filter out lower value men. Game teaches you how to convey high value behaviors (men of abundance), while RP teaches you to be high value. You don't really need the latter to get laid, but it's not debatable that you'll live a more fulfilling life. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | How should I react on this? Don’t know if ltr crossed a boundary or I’m just insecureWhack shit... disappearing for arbitrary amounts of time, sleeping at other peoples house randomly, basically ever doing something and changing her story under pressure/later. But if she's giving you a reason why she'll be somewhere she isn't normally, it doesn't matter. Girls don't announce when they're going to cheat. They'll just fuck in their employer's bathroom. You can't stop it and caring is suicide. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 06:36 AM |
| 1 | How should I react on this? Don’t know if ltr crossed a boundary or I’m just insecureThere's literally no reason to ever mate guard or give a fuck. Any type of jealousy destroys your value, destroys your mental health, and you can't really know anyway. If the girl is doing whack shit non-stop, just replace her. That's really all you can do. MRP has shit about this non-stop with girls going on "girl trips". Let her do whatever she wants. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 06:13 AM |
| 1 | As a male, is having a shy/reserved personality pretty much a disaster?The only thing that matters is that you can cold approach and close. How you act outside "time to approach" is completely irrelevant. Sometimes I go out with friends and literally just stand sort of in the back and say nothing for 2 hours straight. I just like listening and observing sometimes. Does that make me unattractive? No. I'm just not getting any because I'm not approaching. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 02:20 AM |
| 1 | She wants to get married after a week...I mean I usually only go that far with girls I actually like. But yea. Hotel room. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 01:57 AM |
| 1 | She wants to get married after a week...I usually talk about having babies and running away and getting married and shit. It shouldn't be scary. It's stuff they grew up dreaming about. Fantasize with them. That's fun. Get a hotel room. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 01:53 AM |
| 1 | She wants to get married after a week...Sounds like fun to me. Have sex. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 01:43 AM |
| 1 | "You're too slow"Can you explain why cutting her off when she's talking works? It's a rapport break. You have to tease or cut off or do something to get your value above theirs. RP doesn't teach the technical stuff like oldschool game used to, but it helped me a lot. If you do those things overtly, what does it convey to her? Won't she take it as being needy? Example? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl doesn't want to be exclusive - but she's jealous at the thought of me with anyone elseYou're cocky, arrogant, and don't appear to act jealous. Seems to me like you're playing the game right. Just keep her around. I'd of probably txt'd back something like, "There's nothing wrong with dating gay guys. They can feel really safe." Safe rebounds don't deserve pussy. Disgusting. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 06:22 AM |
| 1 | "You're too slow"Increase your sexuality on first date. The second you meet her, give her a big hug. Comment on her hair and grab it and caress it down with your hand a bit. Then grab her hand and take her inside. Alternatively, hug her, then pick her up and carry her into the venue (or spin her while picking her up). Anything that's fun and forward. Convey that you're pre-selected. Ask how dating has been going for her. Say you've been with a lot of girls recently, but no body wants the same things you do, that… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 06:03 AM |
| 1 | If prostituition became legal in the future, do you think we would see more men preferring to pay for sex instead of playing these "games" with women just to sleep with them?I never said to marry these hoes. Absolutely not. It's enjoyable because you can walk when you need to. Just enjoy it while it lasts. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Any good books on body language?Body language isn't that important. There's not enough to know to put into a book as far as attracting women. A good YT video would cover anything I'm forgetting. Tonality, for example, is far more important and far more difficult to nail down. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 07:25 PM |
| 1 | If prostituition became legal in the future, do you think we would see more men preferring to pay for sex instead of playing these "games" with women just to sleep with them?I'm surprised to see this upvoted more than Whisper's post. Seems disconnected from reality and/or lacking in experience to me. There's nothing better than genuinely connecting with your type and getting high off of eachother. Money can't buy you that. Prostitutes and low value trash off fatlife can't come close to that. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 07:13 PM |
| 1 | 'I've got a 100 different women what makes you so special?'Right. It's how a pre-selected man behaves. You can't fake it. You definitely can say things like that and it will work, but if you're faking it or lying, they sniff it out anyway. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Passed shit test or fucked up intent?That's fine is a weak reply His reply was fine. Shit tests have nothing to do with wittiness. They're value gauges. I'd need an army of pickup artists to counter the dumb shit you mother fuckers say on this forum. All of this theory was invented over a decade ago. Read a book. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 02:52 AM |
| 1 | What to do if girl suggests meeting up with her and kid? My gut said bad idea cause you can't like.. escalate and shit ya know?It's not an attempt at anything. I've dated multiple women with kids and never had a single issue. My only issue in one case was I really liked the fucking kid and didn't want to get any closer to him. You're confusing how value works. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 02:49 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW?Who wants to invest in my condom shredding company | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Made an appointment with an Endocrinologist to get my testosterone levels checked. What should I tell my doctor?I'm on TRT and my natural levels are low 600s. Not being on it is stupid. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Something happened at work...Also when you see all the People you consider friend turns against you, realize how jealous they were of you is eye opening I wish I realized this when I was younger and not give a shit about anyone rather than myself That's another angle I haven't even considered, but it's true in that type of environment. Don't become cautious though. Don't shell up. There is no consequence anywhere else. The absolute worst thing I can do to a girl on a cold approach might end up with me having to talk to the … | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Something happened at work...An engineer I'm acquaintances with at a company you're all familiar with took an intern out for lunch and touched her a bit on her hand and arm and told her he was interested in a relationship with her. She reported him to HR after some of her colleagues convinced her that was sexual harassment because he's married, and he was fired almost immediately. Lost his 6 figure career and it probably destroyed his family, but I haven't asked. Ultimately, entirely his fault. He's a dumb cunt. You can mee… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Can you be a Chad in your 30s?Are you happy with the HT? I'm not sure what to do when that shit starts. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Dressing well without looking like a nerd or fuckboyWhat did you do when the girl rolled her eyes at you? | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Be honest. Should i get a chin implant?The good news is you're fine, the bad news is you have body dysmorphia. This must be trending because I see this kind of shit non-stop and I don't know if I'm being trolled or not. Record the audio of ~10 cold approaches and I'll tell you what's wrong with you. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Dressing well without looking like a nerd or fuckboyYou're worried too much about arbitrary values you've read about online. You need to turn your fucking brain off and start cold approaching. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Dressing well without looking like a nerd or fuckboyDon't look like you're trying too hard and don't look like you're poor as fuck. Aside from that, a high value guy is a high value guy. Pussy doesn't care what it has on. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 09:51 PM |
| 1 | being pale and having wrinklesI tan regularly. Being pale looks fucking terrible on top of making you look skinnier. I've read all of the studies on your chance to get skin cancer. Very, very low. The benefits outweigh the risks. Get in the sun. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Sigma male?There's enough treatment to go around. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Sigma male?No way you're not an alpha male. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Sigma male?No but there's treatment for autism. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to come to terms with extreme beta behavior in previous LTR.Any advice on an approach for someone who's just starting out? Watch bradicus infields to get started. You wouldn't peg him as somebody with an n count in the hundreds. I think his game sucks ass, but his approaches are so fucking whack that you get to see a lot of awkwardness and rejections and that's perfect for a beginner. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Day game approaching with a reason or coldhey were young, at first they looked weird at me, then a girl kinda smiled a little but her friend ignored me. And I left because they looked high school, still I felt I should have continued the convo. This is common with young 2 sets and an obvious opener. Don't shy away. Push. Have fun and plow like your life depends on it. You don't always need to annoy the shit out of your targets, but you need to light your comfort zone on fire. If you've never gotten cussed out for being too aggressive or… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Struggling to come to terms with extreme beta behavior in previous LTR.She's probably not BPD. Most guys in here saying that are probably wrong. Women just appear to all have the ability to "split" (devaluation and idealization) when branch swinging as a survival ability. The light switch effect article is sound. This is relevant because you shouldn't be offloading the blame onto some arbitrary diagnosis that you aren't qualified to make. Accept that your behaviors suck and start the journey to enlightenment. How do i move forward and approach women / start spinnin… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | I always think of a better comeback after the convo?Doesn't sound like a shit test to me, but in any case a man's value to a woman isn't correlated to witty comebacks whatsoever. Mocking is just one way to frame control. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | "you always flee from disagreement"That's absolutely her personality. I've dated some career women in their 30s and they tend to be annoying like that sometimes. The whole pushing you to answer their nonsense when you dismiss them is extra annoying- just flip it on her and ask her if she's ever fantasized about pegging you or some bullshit lol | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I continue bulking or cut?OK well I still don't see the need to eat that many calories. Wouldn't 3k or less be enough? He's weak as fuck. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 09:06 PM |
| 1 | "you always flee from disagreement"She sounds annoying as fuck. I wouldn't talk to her about any subject that makes her start. No game advice to give. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Should I continue bulking or cut?PHUL is great. I'd recommend you hit ~180lb protein and don't bother bulking until you absolutely need to. Is 6' 155 skinnier than I'm thinking? I don't know. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Red pill politics?The fact you know what I meant and still went out of your way to win a neckbeard award makes you a faggot. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 08:37 PM |
| 1 | "you always flee from disagreement"I'd want to see the actual conversation to give any specific advice, but in general all you have to ask yourself is if she's still fucking you how much/often you want and leave it at that. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Should I continue bulking or cut?Just eat normally and lift. You don't need to bulk until you need to bulk. Just make sure you've got tons of accessory work. Don't do one of these faggot programs like stronglifts. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Psychiatrist said I should take a break from trp, as I'm overthinking and complicating things in a sense.Yep I have to say I'm very surprised at how sound his advice was. Sounds like a great doctor. Listen to him. Too much RP can fuck you up. Balance it out with a lot of real life. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Red pill politics?Red Pill is a bunch of copied concepts from the pickup community with lifting and self-improvement thrown in. Nothing novel has come from this community. The value is that it has organized the core concepts men need (mostly) into one place better than pickup ever did, and the community is pretty good. But you have theories like Hypergamy which is absolutely useless to know but everyone can't shut up about it. You either stop being a pussy and go cold approach, in which case it's just a boon, or … | /r/askTRP | 27/11/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people NOT work out?Because they just don't know. Guys need successful, dominant leads to teach them what's possible, and that that striving to better yourself is the path to fulfillment. I have no doubt if I was raised by a single mother I would be a lazy piece of shit like all my friends, completely content with mediocrity. That's not a slight against women. My lack of a mother gave me other weaknesses. Even now, with all my successes, part of the reason I read this sub is to see the perspective of men like vasil… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 09:24 AM |
| 1 | What do you do after fucking a girl?I plan on making her a plate I see again. Cuddle and talk. Fuck again. Cuddle and talk more. Qualify deeply during all this. If you want her to bond to you (create problems for yourself), this is how you do it. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Any positive LTR stories?Long list of studies showing kids that grow up without a father have a high chance to turn out "bad". Ideally you have enough options that you can pick the girl with a good father and lower your chances of nonsense. That's what I've gathered. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 08:14 AM |
| 1 | “I don’t like white guys”We don't like fat white girls so everybody's happy. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 05:25 AM |
| 1 | 5/3/1 vs ppl?If you can put in more volume, put in more volume. That's all there is to it. But a lot of lifters think they can do 6/7 days a week and end up doing 4 or 5 and then what the fuck is the point of being on PPL for when you're not working everything and you hate yourself for skipping. Etc. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Where did i go wrong? And path from here.So it got pretty awkward after a few moments. Why did it get awkward? What happened? You didn't tell us anything. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Last night I got into my first real dispute with a total stranger; did I hold frame or act like a cuck?This has nothing to do with him and everything to do with your ego and insecurities. I would have said, "I didn't mean to get off on the wrong foot with you man. I'm trying to get [exactly what you want]". And I'd say it earnestly. Maybe that doesn't disarm him and we just find a venue with cooler people. But maybe it does disarm him and resolves some misconception he had of us so we can get what we want. There's nothing objectively valuable about frame control or acting more alpha. Nobody gives… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 04:52 AM |
| 1 | How many times did you get oneitis before you had a breakthrough?It doesn't end man. You're supposed to fall in love. I do it all the time. Just have to make sure it doesn't rule your life; that you keep lifting, keep going out, keep working hard at your career/business, etc. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 05:34 AM |
| 1 | girl from tinder wants to fuck and hit me with this shit test? (pics inside)"you're not a hard worker?" or just "haha" and not say anything for a bit then logistics | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 05:32 AM |
| 1 | Girl keeps pulling away during kisses?If she's isolated in your or her place it's totally normal. You're just not used to it. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Girl keeps pulling away during kisses?I tell her to kiss me. don't ask. take. as I try get more passionate she pulls away moment a girl starts to pull away from any physicality, push her away first. this spikes interest/questions so be ready to accuse them of hallucinating or being needy or whatever. We spent hours on my bed cuddling. you need to escalate harder and faster. if you aren't fucking in the first hour of being isolated something is up. even an hour is a long ass time. 3 hours.. what the cuddles, man. Just practice more | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 04:50 AM |
| 1 | girl from tinder wants to fuck and hit me with this shit test? (pics inside)"if you earn it" Keep it simple | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 04:47 AM |
| 1 | What's a good response to "I'm not that kind of girl" context included!"shut your dirty non-sex-having whore mouth." i dunno | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Good response when a woman asks "Do i know you?""You've dreamed of me. I'm here to save you from all the thirsty beta males of the world." Anything cocky and goofy usually works great. If it falls flat, do the typical routine where you tell them you bet they're always cold towards strangers, but once they warm up they're awesome blahblahblah. That works quite a lot. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 04:43 AM |
| 4 | What are some green flags on a woman?Has all her teeth OK dad. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 04:38 AM |
| 13 | What are some green flags on a woman?The IG test is real. New girl I'm seeing has an IG with 100s of pics and all of them are of her friends, her family, places she wants to visit, stuff she wants to cook. Literally 2 selfies. Most easy going chick I've hung out with in a long time. Has handled the fact I won't be exclusive more gracefully than most other girls. Is a joy to travel with (took her to a couple AirBNB spots already). Never seen her lose her cool even when some shit she didn't like happened. She won't budge about having… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 04:36 AM |
| 1 | High value menWomen shit test as a way to gauge relative value when they're otherwise unsure. In many cases, it can seem like a guy is high value, but he's really not and there isn't enough information otherwise. Imagine a scenario where you have to gauge how secure and confident a random guy in a gym is with himself. How do you do it? Knowing he drives a nice car and has big muscles doesn't help you. Asking him doesn't help you. You have to poke him a bit. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 04:24 AM |
| 4 | How to be when LTR is sweet and loving?RP has a lot of value, but it's dangerous in that it's too easy to misinterpret without a lot of experience. Probably more relationships needlessly ruined from this information than all of our guesses combined because everyone does appear to start out thinking they have to be this knuckle-dragging stoic ape (Chad)... but that's a meme. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Response to " you could do better with compliments"I'd personally just ignore it. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Dreaded too much a LTR. Now it's an ex. She's dating someone, how to reconnectJust be cool and ask her to hang out every once in awhile. Could ask her questions about how to handle some issue with other girls you're fucking and try to spike some preselection shit, but trying to get girls back is a major waste of time. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 11:13 AM |
| 1 | How to be when LTR is sweet and loving?Singing isn't beta. Neither is being lovey dovey. You guys have some fucked up perceptions of what's attractive behavior. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Dreaded too much a LTR. Now it's an ex. She's dating someone, how to reconnectSo she had a real concern (to her), but instead of teasing her about being bossy, or conveying disappointment, you straight up ghosted her. And you're surprised she moved on? There's a reason she gave you shit for going out with a friend without telling her. That didn't come out of no where. You always used to tell her before or something. You can't just make big changes and expect girls to come around. They don't adore your cock that much. They have more abundance than you do in their pinky fin… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Dreaded too much a LTR. Now it's an ex. She's dating someone, how to reconnectMaybe she liked you until you misapplied some "RP" bullshit and came off like a retard. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Dudes over 30 where do you meet younger women?You guys are so serious. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Would this gift be too much and too early?Disagree with every single comment. The act of giving a gift isn't inherently going to affect attraction. It's like buying a drink for a girl--are you buying her time or are you buying it for her because you guys vibe and it feels good to surprise someone you vibe with? It's very obvious to the girl which it is. In your case, you aren't buying her time so it's fine. All said and done, do it because it makes you feel good. You're not buying future loyalty points. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Which Roosh V book is better- bang or game?Study and then go out and use what you learned to cement it. I used to have a blackboard I'd write lines and routines and concepts on. I use RP concepts as opinion openers all the time. Women love talking about this shit more than the dorks that blog about it. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Are mistakes unforgivable?It's not about one or two specific actions so in that regard there is plenty of room for mistakes to be made. It's about the overall picture and what that picture says about you. For example, my first take of most other men is almost always wrong. I peg guys as being very beta or very alpha and find out they're the opposite or somewhere in between. Because I need more information to get the full picture. It's like that for women and why, if you have good game, you generally want more time with a… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Response to " you could do better with compliments"Small, quick shrug. Don't move your head. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Which Roosh V book is better- bang or game?Yea it does. Approach count and looks matter a lot more than game for 99% of guys. I know more technical game than any guy ever needs to know and I use almost none of it in the field. I just approach and say stupid shit. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Why does trp workWomen can't find that combination so money is irrelevant. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Every girl i meet tells me i’m very calm & relaxed.Is this a bad thing or a good thing? Do you enjoy being calm, relaxed, and composed? | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Does having a kid make a male more or less attractive?Makes no difference whatsoever to them. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Dudes over 30 where do you meet younger women?You're so old.. that's creepy. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 06:13 AM |
| 2 | How do you handle mistakes that make you look bad?The coolest people make embarrassing mistakes in public non-stop. They just get edited out in the videos you see. Chad isn't a real person and plenty of women wouldn't fuck him if he was. IG isn't real life. Action movies are fictional. Girls don't care about small mistakes. They care if you're insecure and whine about them though. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/18 06:11 AM |
| 1 | The GameModernized version of Mystery Method. I've read a lot and never come across anything as complete. It's a book you have to read a few times. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 05:20 AM |
| 1 | The GameThe Game and Mystery Method were seminal, but they got a lot wrong. TRP isn't a good place to learn game from either. It's a good place to ask specific questions once you know more. Start by reading Magic Bullets. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 02:04 AM |
| 18 | Is it bad game to straight up tell a girl that she’s cute? Too much validation?I deliver lines of intent on almost every approach and always within the first 30 seconds. Conveys sexual interest, gets their attention, gets them to start filtering, prepares them mentally for my flirting and asking for their number. GOOD- "You're sexy as fuck. Where are you from?" BAD- "You're sexy as fuck." [pause] GOOD- "You're cute. Did you see that fat guy like 10 seconds ago?" BAD- "You're cute. Want to hang out?" Kind of same theory as false time constraints, taking 1 step at a time, pl… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 01:30 AM |
| 4 | I got the girl of my dreams, everything else is falling apart.http://archive.is/agtCP, http://archive.is/FaeIe It's OK to fall in love. I do all the time. It's a powerful drug. I'm a business owner as well and girls do affect that. But I also don't want my entire life to be about money either. I want to waste time just chilling with girls all day, doing nothing, talking about their bullshit. It's fun and it feels good sometimes. You just have to keep a balance. It's a never-ending struggle. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 01:10 AM |
| 5 | General Question Regarding Shit-TestsNo body really knows. I think your theory is as sound as any. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Haven't been out for years.. how bad is it?subscribe | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Managing “you only do that because I did something you like”Right because you're mocking her frame which is all A&A is. You could also deliver any wrong line while fake crying. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Should I pack a bag for the night?Throw on a tshirt and jeans and get to work. Who packs a bag? Are you traveling across Alaska to fuck this bitch? Hahahahaha. You're cute as fuck dude. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Managing “you only do that because I did something you like”you only do that because i did something you like Right answers: Ignore it "You better keep it up then." "You're right." "I hate you. Don't ever talk to me again." "You smell like a homeless person." Wrong answers: "That's not it. I just love you." "Why do you always say that? Can't I do something just because I care?" "Do you really think that?" Have to agree with vandaalen about your presumption. Women are rewarded by simply being with a high value man. You don't have to condition them to do s… | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Why do most people find the Red Pill misogynistic or "morally reprehensible" ?They want a real alpha, not some beta who studied some RP book and has learned how to act like one. I can guarantee all of you that women have never thought about this at all. They just like what they like. Fatties on reddit that have an opinion are barely women. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Did I react too emotional?the problem is that when we were going back she wanted to go back by the exact same way we came [..] I told her I know you wanted to take that route because of him The real problem is you lack the experience of abundance. Having other options isn't the same thing. Everyone always says, "just remember you're the prize" but we never have real examples of it. This is a real example. If you believed you were the prize, there's only one perspective on what really happened, but apparently we'll have t… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/18 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Can cold approach and number close all day, but ends there.You guys need to qualify every single set. Even if it's just a little. Your game will change dramatically. If there was ever actually "just one little secret that blahblahblah" it's qualifying. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | How often to expect rejection? Cold approachesOn average, most guys say it takes about 50 approaches for your first lay from daygame. I think that's about right. My first 3 took about ~20 each, but I was already an intermediate lifter that had done nightgame for a bit. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/18 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Now that I'm jobless again, need a 6 day gym routine.My first 12 months was reddit's favorite PPL. After about 3 months I started going every single day and just doing pecs and calves and stupid shit on the 7th. Eat like a fat fuck. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 11:17 PM |
| 1 | How to fix low testosterone?Wasn't lifting disproven for raising t permanently? | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Saying positive things to other menComplimenting men is a great move as long as you're earnest about it (as a rule of thumb). I compliment guys on shoes and watches fairly often. Some of us spend inordinate amounts of time and money on them. Then follow it up and say you've been trying to find something similar, but don't really know where to look or how much to spend. See where it goes. I can't count how many times I've said something nice about a guys watch and he lights up like a christmas tree. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Is a shit test or IOD?Move 1 step at a time. Jumping ahead adds too much pressure. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Hard next LTR?I maintained it wasn’t a big deal for the two weeks, ignoring it and tryna Katana my way into her logic and calm her the f down. She was on repeat saying that she doesn’t want to share me and sex should be a special thing reserved for just the two of us, together. This isn't how you deal. Don't maintain anything. Be there for her by giving her your attention, agree with her points, and shut the fuck up. That's it. MRP is a good place to learn this kind of LTR game and so is Way Of The Superior M… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 01:58 AM |
| 1 | LTR liking every single picture of a guy on instagramWe could all circlejerk about what's actually going on, but that's the reason I don't read the main sub. You need abundance. You need to go get a new girl to sleep with. You're over-invested and now you're starting to care what this person does on IG. Save yourself bro. Fast. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Awkward as fuck, need adviceWatch infield approaches on youtube and memorize lines and topics that you like. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Telling me about another dude she is messing with.This is super normal. It has nothing to do with branch swinging or whatever other retarded reason some virgin in this forum thinks. They just like talking about relationships. I'm on the fence because while learning about how fucking beta other guys are makes me feel good, it's also a pretty big turn off. Just whatever you feel like. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Stoic vs. Fun?Stoicism is more to do with LTRs-- you shouldn't show weakness too often. It has nothing to do with attraction. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | How can I fake social proof without friends?Forever. No body makes you prove anything and it'd be comical if they did. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 11:00 PM |
| 1 | How can I fake social proof without friends?You have 0 social proof in daygame for example. If you go out alone, always lie and say you're with friends. Dunno what else you mean. Just meet people. Shit isn't magic. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Was directed here: (25M) dealing with first big breakup with (25F)My GF works at an oil refinery which she refers to as a plant normally. I accidentally called it a plantation. Upon realizing the error, I immediately apologized, felt terrible and told her dozens of times that I thought the word plant stood for plantation. (Interracial relationship) Apologized for fucking what? That was hilarious. Fraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaame. Get some. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Those that started their business, how did you do it?Just keep starting businesses and studying. Read some John Caples and/or whoever the modern John Caples is, read a good web analytics book and know how to run tests, learn unbounce or an alternative, know how setup basic non-dev dog shit like wordpress for your landers (kinsta + cloudflare makes life easy), read some Paul Graham stuff (like http://www.paulgraham.com/die.html), read a good sales book, figure out how to hire a Filipino for $300/m that speaks and writes fluent English, obviously be… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Have I fucked my chances or is there a way to pull through?I had fun and hopefully we get to hangout again Super low value first txt. If you're going to hit a girl up after a date, which you shouldn't, at least be specific about something you liked about her and then follow-up by qualifying her (or just qualify her to begin with). "You looked sexy as fuck tonight. Most girls don't have good fashion sense." wait a bit to see if she responds but either way qualify her "Are you a good cook?" The timing isn't perfect, but the value of the message is high. D… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Dont feel like having sexand things were getting hot but she made some excuses in order not to have sex( im feeling sleepy, not in the mood) It could be a shit test, it could be you acting unattractive a myriad of ways that you aren't aware of... she might just not be warmed up. My default to these kinds of situations is to push the girl away. So I may have said, "That's a relief. Honestly, I'm really not that into you and wasn't sure how to tell you". I say this shit 100% seriously and then just act like nothing happen… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Why not just live the nightlife lifestyle? Someone explain to me where my logic is fucking up on this.What am I missing here? What's the downside to their lifestyle? Having to listen to annoying fucking music to get laid sounds like a pretty major downside. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Cure for premature ejaculationI have the opposite problem. Always have. Unless the girl is a smoke show and I'm talking mad shit, I just can't cum. I don't even masturbate or watch porn. I've fucked on adderall, kpins, bars, mollys, eveything. Just makes it worse. Tilts the shit out of me because in my big fucking heart I'd smash fatties and everything that walks, but my dick won't let me compete with Genghis Khan. Like my dick's heart is just a natural beta dick heart. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 07:48 PM |
| 4 | while i understand not to argue with women/looking butthurt or enter their frame, at what point does "setting them straight " one of those?This is the best advice you'll get. Cocky/funny/playful. You could be serious about it too, but it can get misread as butthurt and then you're going to spike mother fucking inquiries into the state of the situation blahblahblahblabhalbhablh fucking give me a rope. At some point, with some girls, you should be walking out. You should have standards because you have abundance. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 07:43 PM |
| 2 | do college aged women really sleep around as much as they are made out to?Oh I see what you meant. You can always find time to daygame a little between classes or whatever. You can daygame campuses until you're 50 years old so don't stress about it. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | do college aged women really sleep around as much as they are made out to?You can do something like SS or stronglifts with very limited time. I'd at least look into it. But yea I think focusing on studying like you said is your best bet. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | How to establish dominance over other high status guys?Hierarchy is mostly established through frame control, but you don't need to be the top guy to get laid. Or even the 2nd or 3rd. These structures are ephemeral too so you don't want to waste time bothering. You shouldn't bother interacting with other males. It doesn't help you. Juggler figured all of this out a long time ago. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | do college aged women really sleep around as much as they are made out to?If you lift for 2 years you're as high SMV as it gets by college standards. SMV is relative. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | I will never be satisfied, or feel correct.Great post man. There are videos of white guys cucking black dudes... white dudes cucking asian dudes is apparently popular (apparently stats say Asian women are turncoats?).. probably some Japanese dudes cucking Chinese dudes.. everything you could want. That fetish makes perfect sense--another tribe dominating yours and taking your women. About as primal as it gets. Locking your nuts in a cage on the other hand makes absolutely no sense to me, but I hate vanilla ice cream so we all have our pr… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 04:45 PM |
| 2 | If a girl asks me out, do I let her set the time and place or do I take charge?It doesn't really matter. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Those that started their business, how did you do it?Would you ever go back to working if your business failed or start another one? Always start another one. Very few entrepreneurial guys can do day jobs. You hate yourself too much knowing you're donating your time so some asshole can fuck and party 24/7 on your time. Plus it's a rush building businesses no matter how many times you do it. It's just fun as fuck. How did having/starting a business change your life and the way you interact with others? The largest benefit every successful business … | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Update about the woman who kicked me out of her house because I said she was more street smart than book smart.Sweet. Don't dodge parents man. Parental/friend approval is super good to have. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/18 02:45 PM |
| 1 | I did the mistake of opening up about how I feel to my girlfriend. Now she's distant. How do I recover?RP generalizes a lot because you have to start somewhere. In reality, sharing your feelings about a bad situation is fine as long as you come from a place of confidence to overcome--you're always on top of shit.. always hopeful and always winning. So big difference between, "I can't believe my sales guy quit. I have no fucking idea what I'm going to do now. Jesus Christ, can't I get a break. I'm so tired of all this. Can we ask your mom for a loan maybe?" versus "This shit really sucks. Might pu… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Update about the woman who kicked me out of her house because I said she was more street smart than book smart.I apologized for implying she wasn't book smart. Punch yourself. "what do you mean, you're my boyfriend, aren't you? [..] I'm gonna have a hard time forgiving you this time if you do this again like before" Just tease her about being needy. Very playfully. And when she gets upset, smile and grab her hair and kiss her neck. Cocky/funny/playful. Emotional rollercoaster that ends in a dicking. If she pushes you away, remember that you're a fucking boss, you love this shit, and you're going to fuck … | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Switching from Dom to sub and vice versa in sexgood that you don't feel shame about it too. i see a lot of threads here about sub kinks (cuck specifically) that guys beat themselves up about. lot of unnecessary worrying. shit doesn't matter. do what the fuck you wanna do. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Switching from Dom to sub and vice versa in sexmost feminine women aren't turned on by sub fetishes, but you should have tight enough game to find ones who are if that's what you want. that's the whole point of abundance. find what you like when you want. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 02:12 PM |
| -1 | LTR gives me out of the blue random shit test barrage, why?She asks me what I do pretty much every day "Stop asking me stupid questions you goddamned degenerate. Send me a pic of your ass." she gets hit on alot "Nah you ugly." Just fuck with her. You guys taking this stuff seriously is your downfall. It's a result of you giving a fuck. Of not having abundance. Of fear you might lose that precious oneitis pussy. Don't talk about anything you don't want to talk about. Have some goddamned frame. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Dancing or fighting? Which to learn?If you want to get laid, beginner dance nights are absolutely bonkers. But they're really, really, realllllllllly boring. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 06:21 PM |
| 5 | Average women are harder to date than beautiful women.This is extremely dependent on where you live though. If you're jacked and tan and have tight game, you are the best option most hot women have in any non-major city. That's a lot of places with a lot of 10s. No body even lifts outside major cities. No body lifts outside the US. I went to Sicily for a vacation and saw a bunch of skinny dudes. Italian women slay me anyway, but if I spoke that language I'd just move. Don't even need game. Don't need internet or gym either. Give me some heavy rocks… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 05:57 PM |
| 3 | 31 yr old out on students nightYea it's great. He's frame controlling--they're jumping through his hoops--and little games like that are a lot of fun in those environments. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 05:06 PM |
| 1 | 31 yr old out on students nightwhat u normally say when they ask how old u are ? Look at them with a condescending smirk for a bit and then ask them how old they think you are. Never give up info to girls without making them work for it and teasing them about it. I can watch two people ask simple questions like this and immediately know the value of the guy in the interraction. Gotta frame control. P.S. I've learned a lot from Tyler... but fuck RSD. Dumbest videos ever. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Question what you think of thisThe only married guys I know got plenty growing up. They just got a girl pregnant and tied the knot to keep the family together. At least two of them will end up divorced and are hating life. Standard. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 10:07 PM |
| 1 | I have a NEED that is not being fulfilled. It's messing with my mood and productivity.If you're going out and approaching, you shouldn't feel like shit. That should pick you up. Even if you can't push yourself to approach, just be around other people. Sit on a bench at a mall. Talk to the Walmart greeter. Seriously. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 05:12 PM |
| 1 | I have a NEED that is not being fulfilled. It's messing with my mood and productivity.You just keep chipping away at it. There's nothing else anyone can tell you. You should feel weird. Everything should feel off. You're literally becoming a different person. And that's good. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Shit tests are normal and expected, but don't they turn you off sometimes, or is that just me?Eventually you should pass shit tests passively if you cold approach enough. My guess is most guys here are either still uncomfortable with being dominant (afraid you'll lose her/piss her off) or simply don't know how to frame control. There isn't really an alternative. Because any girl that's in my apartment too much eventually gets on my nerves and I tell her to stop doing "it" or leave my apartment. There's nothing more to it. But if you lack abundance--more importantly, lack the tools and ex… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do they like me dumb?Yea but business is still super boring to most women. Honestly, it's boring to anyone that's not entrepreneurial, which is obviously an extremely small segment of the population. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 04:35 PM |
| 3 | What do I say?Be careful with taken women if it's too close to home. They get caught, admit who it was with while placing blame, and now your butt is on the line. The smaller your city, the bigger the risk. That's my only advice. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 06:33 AM |
| 2 | Not putting a hb10 on a pedestal works and now she's giving IOIs, but I'm not experienced to know how to proceedOne time she gave me a hot chocolate instead of cappucino. I told her that I ordered a capuccino but she insisted that I said a hot chocolate. The beta me would be intimidated by her looks and would say "ok no problem capuccino it is", but I didn't back down and insisted that she made a mistake. The next day I ordered a cappucino again and said jokingly "make sure it's not a hot chocolate". Hahaha. Nice. You're rapport breaking her in a calibrated way (teasing, disagreeing). You have frame. You … | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Why do they like me dumb?Women don't want to talk about the bullshit that piques your interests. This doesn't have anything to do with intelligence. Women enjoy discussions about people- sexual, cultural, whatever. You can go to any bar in the United States and open a two set with, "What do you guys think about polygamy?" and they won't shut the fuck up for two hours. Save your dork topics for other dorks. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Did I fail a shit test or did I do the right thing?If you truly believed you are the prize, you'd only ever assume attraction. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 06:15 AM |
| 3 | I feel like a fraud an impostor applying the red pill in real life!!!Becoming successful with women in particular feels surreal at first. Enjoy it because once it normalizes it's just the same thing over and over and over. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Question what you think of thisI'd need examples specifically. I peg guys wrong all the time because most naturals do a lot of beta shit for example, but they're still very alpha. They just aren't self-educated like some of us on all the minutae. I don't think marriage is beta or alpha in any case. It's a preference (albeit, a flawed one). | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Question what you think of thisBasically, in lack of better terms a complete pussy, but he does have his shit together. How is he a complete pussy? Most retards in this sub think alpha has something to do with how jacked you are. It doesn't. Alpha is a set of behaviors and abilities a man conveys, like leadership, frame, etc. This is why skinny dorks like Tyler and Mystery have fucked more women than this entire sub combined and would make all of you cry in a set. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Why The Hell Won't My Jaw Muscles Grow?You're not fucking yourself bro. You need to go outside and do approaches. You need to find a girl that can't get enough of your dick. It will help you overcome some of that. And stop reading toxic ass shit that fucks with your head on the internet-- no incel sub, no mtgow sub, no redpill main sub if I'm honest (for different reasons), no YouTube shit about girls. Just approaches, studying, and more approaches. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy, how real is it?Read Magic Bullets so you understand core game mechanics and memorize as much material as you can. Your brain will break it apart and it'll come out on your approaches in different ways. It's gold. All of it. Read Mode One too. Then find a daygamer that fits your style on YouTube. Find someone arrogant and cocky with a good sense of humor. I don't want to recommend anyone in particular, but you'll find someone good if you look hard. Then break apart their approaches. Write down lines they use, w… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 05:48 AM |
| 2 | I don't know why my number closes largely flakeYep absolutely. Some of the worst work out. But in the long-run small optimizations make a big difference. Getting good at qualification, for example, changed my game entirely. Making the goal mini-dates and getting girls to promise to txt back also changed a lot. Small stuff. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/18 05:39 AM |
| 1 | I don't know why my number closes largely flakeDaygame is hard. Your approach has to be good. Read some of my older posts. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Red Pilled books for those suffering from mental health issues and negative loopsFeeling Good: The New Mood Therapy. Book on CBT which deals with maladaptive thinking (negative loops). | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy, how real is it?It's real in the sense women prefer to have the highest value guy. What's over-exaggerated is how easy they'll branch swing. Alcohol is always a factor in the typical manosphere examples.. well, yea, a girl who's out drinking at a club is looking for new dick already. That's not a real example. I've done more day approaches than most and the vast majority of the girls I end up fucking are single (or hit me up weeks later post-breakup and probably not because of me). I've had a handful that told … | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 11:17 AM |
| 3 | HB7 I know complemented my "jeans". I didn't escalate. Is it too late to?Is it too late to escalate from there now? no | /r/askTRP | 15/10/18 10:32 AM |
| 1 | How/Should you tell your gf you cheated on herYou cant understand women and love them at the same time. This is some straight bullshit virgins in this sub perpetuate. I understand women fully and love them because of it, not in spite of it. I love the game and appreciate that I was lucky enough to be a part of it. I do both. Whatever i feel like doing. That's cool, but most guys take pride in their word carrying weight and not carelessly hurting people they love and care for. I guarantee you're a skinny little bitch. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 03:24 PM |
| 1 | How/Should you tell your gf you cheated on herThere is truth to the fact that if you cheat and come clean with it unapologetically and unashamedly, it can create a fuckload of competition anxiety and spike attraction ("dread", whatever). There's about as much truth to the rest of it as me calling you a little bitch for having to sneak around. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/18 02:50 PM |
| 1 | I don't drink or smoke, where is a good place to meet upAnyone who thinks Starbucks isn't fancy/trendy enough is a super hipster. It's a popular coffee shop that's very casual. Basically exactly what you want on an initial hangout. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 09:05 AM |
| 1 | I don't drink or smoke, where is a good place to meet upStarbucks is trendy as fuck. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Finished my date tonight. What could I have said to ended with a lay?Yea you fucked up at the part where you thought a sober chick wants to fuck somebody she doesn't know well in a car. You need better isolation. Use false time constraints mixed with real reasons to get to your place (like talking about tv shows you both like on the date and then inviting her back to watch an episode). You have to become comfortable at overcoming objections too. e.g. when she said, "no I got to go home and study" I would just go get in the back anyway and wait. Let her sit in som… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 08:49 AM |
| 4 | I’m pretty sure I failed this shit test... what to I learn from it?girl: some stupid question or statement that doesn't advance the seduction you: set a new frame girl has 3 options: insist on her frame and get teased about being a brat, comply, or leave. next | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 10:23 AM |
| 4 | How to spy on LTR's phone ?Jesus christ | /r/askTRP | 03/10/18 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Openers, and favorite lines/canned material.Read magic bullets like 3x. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 04:54 AM |
| 3 | Do I need to see a therapist over this breakup?Did the usual TRP stuff, go out bang girls Nah. I don't believe you. Learn daygame. First cool girl you pull that's into you will erase 95% of your ex. Fucking fat hoes off okcuck or w/e app you faggots use isn't going to do shit. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 04:51 AM |
| 1 | What is the best workout to gain muscle and weight if you are skinny?He's probably referring to the 5x5 advice. If you just want to get strong, certainly nothing wrong with that. Going to assume anybody in a RP sub wants something like metallica ppl. GOMAD is still dope as shit though. I'm pretty sure you could get jacked just doing GOMAD and supplements for 2 years straight, but that'd get old. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Feeling cuckedYou guys front non-stop. When you have real abundance, you don't give a fuck about any of this. If she's a cool girl and you're going to enjoy some event, take her along. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 04:39 AM |
| 2 | What do you say if you next someone and they ask “why aren’t you talking to me”"Who are you?" | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 01:24 AM |
| 1 | made out with friends girl but didnt knowJust be honest and tell Jim you want him to peg you. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 01:21 AM |
| 6 | Eyes don't lie, right?Lot of girls are disinterested in me on the first few seconds of an approach. I don't give a shit about IOIs. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 01:19 AM |
| 7 | So I was put in one of the most difficult situations I've been in with a woman last night...I stopped to talk to her for a bit and she started saying things like: Make sure the topics are fun if you're going to open your mouth. Try to keep it sexual. Compliment her tits while you play with them or something. That kind of shit goes a long way to build more comfort before sex. I don't know if you actually like me or just want to use me "I'm starting to like you the more I get to know you I think. And I enjoy sex. Duh!" Cocky/funny. Just basic LMR. Run more qualification and do it well. S… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 01:17 AM |
| 1 | New potential plate, can’t find the courage.Is she already going to lose interest if I haven’t fucked her after two times together? Nah it just depends on the girl and where she's at. If she just wanted to fuck, she'd have moved on already. Seems like she wants to feel close to someone. But I'd get to fucking already. Just make out, kiss her neck, kiss down to above her bra, pull her bra down and suck on her tits, take bra off, suck some more, kiss further down... you get it. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/18 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Is this a shit or comfort test?Not at all, bitch. Being around you was like dental work. Hahahahahahaha | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Do majority of men prefer to date girls that are 18-21?I'd rather date women closer to my age (30ish) that are hot as fuck, have no baggage, and won't badger me about wanting kids and marriage tomorrow. It's just really hard to find. Really, really hard. There's a lot of value in having the person you're fucking not be a hollow sack of meat like every 20 year campus thot is. But as far as n count and increasing your game, that's where it's at. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/18 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to get over oneitis while still seeing that girl?Few days apart until I get back on my schedule. I start to unravel if I don't lift or exercise 6/7 days a week. Lethargy kicks in hard. No clue how fat people do it. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Why would a FWB tell me she did something I don't like?She doesn't understand the gravity of what you've been through and even if she did she may not understand that what she did was wrong. Most people are incredibly immature. They haven't had to overcome anything. They haven't struggled Everyone here is just a little too paranoid about women in general. I try to inject some normalcy once in awhile. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 06:13 PM |
| 3 | She fucks me when drunk?What would you have done differently? "Oh oh, right, right... but friends can tickle can't they?" and tickle the shit out of her. Lick her face. Let her get mad if she wants. Spin her around. Slap her ass. Let her stomp off in a huff is she wants. Enjoy this shit. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to get over oneitis while still seeing that girl?oneitis is kind of like social anxiety- everyone has it to a degree, but you only have a problem if it stops you from accomplishing your goals. So like you said, the second a girl interrupts your scheduled programming and your lifting suffers, eating suffers, meeting new women suffers (if that's what you want)... you have to change something. Could mean removing the girl entirely. My red alert is when I start to skip gym to hangout with a girl. Have to regroup hard. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 05:44 PM |
| 2 | French girl French Kissing like a robot - how do I match her tongue?Kissing is usually a little off with someone new. Dunno what else to tell you. I do exactly what she does once in awhile. Sometimes the girl matches it, sometimes she doesn't. It's not a competition. The "awkwardness" and laughing about it is part of the experience. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 05:31 PM |
| 4 | How not to feel intimidated by high SMV women?Just need more experience. A virgin 18 year old and a 40 year old CEO are both the same at the core- they need masculine energy to feel right. And they're both little girls when it comes down to it. One just makes more money doing some bullshit she probably doesn't want to for reasons she half regrets. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 05:12 PM |
| 1 | She fucks me when drunk?no we're friends, we don't do that stuff This is a really standard shit test. In fact, it's so standard that I use this on girls all the time, "hey. we agreed we're just friends. no sex stuff! what's wrong with you.." really seriously. It's a fun game to see a reaction. Of course, if you don't know it's a game, and you don't treat it as a game, you aren't in the fucking game. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Why would a FWB tell me she did something I don't like?Let me propose a crazy idea. Maybe she just enjoys drinking and wanted to share it with you because she likes you and that's what's on her mind. Doesn't have to be trickle truth or shit tests. There are normal human interactions that don't have to fall under pickup/RP theory. Life isn't that black and white. If talking about drinks really bothers you, tell her you can't talk about it. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | I am not popular and in high school.Lift 6 days a week, eat a shit load of food, do your homework, play some video games, chill the fuck out. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 09:09 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with assholes disrespecting you and your date in public? I'd like advice from some older guys 30+ years of age.Should have told him you're her brother and her boyfriend just dumped her. Making situations awkward as fuck for everyone feels real good. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 09:08 PM |
| 1 | The mysterious card.OK so I lie a lot on approaches and dates. Her: that's my dream, and seeing the world "If you had all the time and money in the world, what's the first place you'd visit?" > blahblahbalh > "Good choice. I've been there a few times on business." And just change the subject immediately and play it off if she asks about it. Now you have mystery and intrigue. Stuff like that can give you a gigantic edge in getting laid. You have to be careful not to self-qualify though. Don't ever brag about it even… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Discrete plates/LTR. How do I maintain discretion and loyalty?Basically it's a good thing if they see you with another girl. But you're gonna get tested about it. I'd wait for them to find out on their own or bring up LTR on their own. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Discrete plates/LTR. How do I maintain discretion and loyalty?Telling girls you won't commit will spike tests. Not worth doing it for no reason on the off chance they randomly see you with the other one or what the fuck ever. Girls wanna fuck guys that are fucking other girls. They'll just never admit it. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 04:01 AM |
| 1 | The mysterious card.In your case I don't think this applies. But in theory girls fill in blanks with fantasy dog shit because they're stupid. So if a girl that likes you asks what you do for work you can say, "I have to be careful who I share that with. Maybe if we get to know eachother I can tell you a little more" can go a long way in your favor. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 03:58 AM |
| 12 | Why do girls like to try and rub other guys in your face?Yea don't react. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls like to try and rub other guys in your face?Girls just wanna have fun dude. Making people jealous is fun. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Is this a typical alpha widow?Finding a guy that's fit, ambitious, has tight game, that you have chemistry with, that also wants a LTR, is a lottery that 99.9% of women will never win. Takes years of drive to have all that and no fucking hoe out there deserves it to herself. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 03:32 AM |
| 2 | How do you make peace with a girl's history?Damn. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you make peace with a girl's history?Not a very good sample size. We're in a big echo chamber around here. Everyone should try to be more objective. I'm going to check myself because if there is any real evidence that's obviously an easy flag to check for. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 03:39 PM |
| 9 | I will soon become a BDSM Bull to one nerdy couple (already am online) but they are now in different city but they want to "start" already. I was thinking that I could order them to have condomed sex from now on and I get rawdog her. Is this too cruel?There is not a thing more alpha than the guy who makes much more than you having a raging boners as you fuck his girl. Not having to depend on a cuck fetish to get pussy is arguably infinitely more alpha. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 03:29 PM |
| 1 | I will soon become a BDSM Bull to one nerdy couple (already am online) but they are now in different city but they want to "start" already. I was thinking that I could order them to have condomed sex from now on and I get rawdog her. Is this too cruel?Fucking ugly girls while some retard watches you. Seems pretty fulfilling. You could learn game and stop being a degenerate. Was that too cruel? | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Questions About Wearing Silver Cross PendantTalking about religion when you're trying to plate a girl for casual sex isn't shooting yourself in the foot? I'm wondering if it'll make me seem beta or not alpha fucks material? lol no. You have a silly idea of what alpha is. If I started discussing why I wear the cross, etc, it might lead to me talking shit about feminism, our feminine-primary society, and, by extension, the modern-state of women, hypergamy, and their sluttiness. So I should try to keep it very superficial? Topic of discussio… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Girl who came thru now making false claims about our interaction. (I've linked old post about the night).She thought you were alpha. You rejected her. She found out you are actually beta when you jumped through her frames 100x via txt and then she realized she was rejected by a beta and lost her fucking mind. That's my theory. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Questions About Wearing Silver Cross PendantI wear a chain with a cross too. Was a gift from a family member that passed. I sometimes ask about religion on dates and show it or whatever. I always get grabby with girls that have jewelry and do show and tell shit. That type of familiarity is really good for comfort too.. let's you share something about yourself and your family, values, past, whatever. Important to have the girl learn about you too, despite them wanting to talk about themselves non-stop. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you make peace with a girl's history?Don't LTR a girl raised without a father around. Do we have any actual studies on this or did that dork Rollo blog about it and we can't resist his dick? | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 02:06 PM |
| 5 | How do you make peace with a girl's history?n count doesn't mean anything for multiple reasons.. 1. you'll never know the truth, 2. CDC data says it's a virgin or nothing. Alternatively, STOP FUCKING ASKING ABOUT THEIR N COUNT. My friend does this to himself non-stop and then complains to me about it. Stop self sabotaging. But you can pick up cues about how she treats people, how she interacts with family, all the little red flags, tendency to deceive, etc... [..] OP I know it stings, and what the sting tells you is that you are getting o… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Girl who came thru now making false claims about our interaction. (I've linked old post about the night).You might enjoy the wait, but girls don't. They want to get fucked. It's so rare that a guy would say no that they believe it's rejection and feel bad as fuck. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Had a threesome with LTR, lost frame for a momentYea I agree that his response was great. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Girl who came thru now making false claims about our interaction. (I've linked old post about the night).I'm so confused. Did you fuck her or not? If not, why not? Don't argue with girls. Don't try to figure them out either. It doesn't work like that. They aren't guys. Their realities, both past, present, and future, are based on their current feeling. So nothing will ever be objective. So don't bother. That entire txt conversation is you coming off as the biggest vagina she's ever txt'd with. FRAME. Have some. Cain has really good advice usually. I don't agree with him fully on his comments there,… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on creatine?Search /r/fitness about all your questions. Usually the top comments aren't total dog shit when it comes to calories in calories out and creatine. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Is PUA/Game techniques a load of crap? Don’t “just be yourself”.If youre naturally introverted then trying to be outgoing, fun of the party kind of guy, & using PUA techniques its going to come off as super fake & girls are going to sense it. This is bait and you're a fucking retard. A girl doesn't know I'm asking a question to make her qualify herself. She doesn't know I'm rapport breaking her to value shift. She doesn't know I'm making up bullshit to relate to her to build rapport. She doesn't know that my time constraints are false. Girls sense failed shi… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | I'm a virgin trying to fuck an experienced girl. Don't want her to know.Girl's don't give a shit that guys are a virgin or not. I'm 100% confident I could tell any girl I pull back to my place that I'm a virgin and she wouldn't give a shit. She wouldn't believe me, sure, but that just proves my point. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:49 PM |
| 4 | Where did I screw up? Recoverable?You had a bunch of sex. You didn't fuck up. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | LTR started dressing more slutty and socialising more, staying out later - how should I respond?we agreed to one-way monogamy I laughed. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl in a relationship fucks me without my knowledge of a boyfriendI tend to dislike some behaviors like this but I guess I haven't unplugged fully yet. This isn't about unplugging. Having empathy and standards are good things to have. Find a girl who isn't a fucking piece of shit. This is all besides the point that if you fuck with the wrong girl's dude you'll get shot and I think it's more likely a cucked beta blows your head off than a dude that can get new pussy too. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 10:08 PM |
| 4 | Had a threesome with LTR, lost frame for a momentWe're all manipulated by the media. We're never shown the failure that leads to success. We have to accept that we're going to fail non-stop. We have to become comfortable failing. Comfortable that we're not the best and never will be. Comfortable that our ego is going to try to tilt us and that's OK. You're going to act beta sometimes. Some other dude will steal your set sometimes. You'll say cringy shit sometimes. You'll cry sometimes. Don't beat yourself up. Ever. And give yourself credit. Yo… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Had a threesome with LTR, lost frame for a momentYou're insecure about not being perfect. You aren't James Bond bro. Neither am I. It's all a big learning experience. Next time that happens you'll be "quick witted"... because you have experience. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Doing well just with older male friends. Good or bad?For men, age is really just a number. Doesn't mean shit. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | She ignores me on the internet, and is a sweetie IRLTop of my bookmarks- http://archive.is/agtCP http://archive.is/FaeIe | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 12:23 PM |
| 1 | confirm what i already knowTry some easy qualification and relation. Ask her if she can cook. Can she? Ask her what her favorite dish is. Ask her if her grandma used to cook that for her when she was growing up. "That's awesome. My grandma used to cook corned beef and cabbage for me growing up. So good. I miss it so much. My ex fiance tried to make it for me, but nothing can match gma. I miss her a lot. This is getting weird. Shit." Whatever. Maybe we get a number because on the approach we spiked attraction, but the girl… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 12:21 PM |
| 9 | Less happy cities potentially better for LTRs and other relationships?Nah you're not going to notice a big difference across cities like that. If you want to raise a family, find the youngest, cutest, least annoying chick you can, and learn to build an igloo somewhere very, very cold. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:47 AM |
| 9 | Sleep ScheduleIt's unhealthy to not be on a normal schedule. But I haven't been for years. I'll go to bed at 5am one week and 5pm the next week. I don't work so I'm either at a bar, at a mall, at a campus, just doing random shit. It hasn't stopped my gains in the gym, and I really don't notice negative effects either... but I've had a neurologist (sleep specialist) tell me I'm shaving ~10 years off my life. What he doesn't know is that by the time I'm 50 I'm going to have Elon transfer my brain into a robot. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:39 AM |
| 1 | She ignores me on the internet, and is a sweetie IRLShe's a bipolar bitch for having sex with you but not txting enough? Get a grip. You need to find those posts on neediness management and read them 100 times. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Need tips on dread gameYou haven't even taken your beginner gains yet. That's your dread potential, man. Try to live in the gym if you have time for it. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Ex contacts current girl I'm talking toI wouldn't say it under normal circumstances. These were thots. If you haven't meant a thot before, I can understand the confusion. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Best Friend Got Sick Of Me Being A Cocky TwatSome dudes just don't seem to have an ambitious bone in their body. So boring to be around. That's why I like this place. Everybody is on a mission of some kind. Feels real good. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Plate sent a snapchat of her and another guy in bed togetherWhat if we're secretly a cuck and it's the hottest thing we've ever seen? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Best Friend Got Sick Of Me Being A Cocky TwatYou should be yourself and only yourself, except when it comes to your work. I've had that problem with friends though. I try to have a heart to heart about it. Maybe admit that you realize you've changed and have noticed people get offput by it sometimes. See what he says. One of my closest friends from highschool ignores me these days. Super salty about my success. I even offered him to come out and live with me for free for awhile to learn programming or marketing or whatever. He's probably t… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 07:23 PM |
| 8 | Do you guys go full RP on girls from more conservative/traditional backgrounds (ie: virgins, East Indians, etc)?Never go outside and blog about hypergamy full time. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Nightclub and non verbal gameAny group of people with your target. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Need tips on dread gameHow much do you bench, bro? | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Nightclub and non verbal gameIf by nightclub you mean loud dance floor where you can't talk, there's no game. You just get close, try to get eye contact, dance in front, spin her around and grind, spin her back around, try to make out, and then grab her hand and drag her wherever you can talk. Just keep doing that until you get compliance. Don't spend more than 5 minutes with any set that doesn't comply. I've read nightclubs are a lot different there so maybe I'm wrong in that case. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 06:28 PM |
| 5 | Falling fast. Please some advice.Whisper's is the only advice here. Decide if he's worth potentially wasting time to see if he'll come around. You sound like you're enjoying yourself so why ruin a good thing based on a bunch of people that don't have a clue what they're talking about? (Exactly.) Here's a little logic-- No dude in pickup is going around trying to fuck every girl possible while also telling them he won't commit. I've been in the community for many years. That's not a thing. That's the kiss of death. You'd do that… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Ex contacts current girl I'm talking toThe magic line is that there is no magic line. She liked me anyway. Shit test. It's just frame control. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | "Hi, Can I practice flirting with you for 10 minutes? I'm following this online guide on how to pick up chicks."Women use tests to gauge value in relation to their own when they're otherwise unsure. Not the same thing as a rapport break. Good post. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/18 06:51 PM |
| 8 | If You're Here, You're On Your WayI like the term sexually successful or not. Alpha/beta is too ambiguous. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | What should i do, confusing interaction?Amused mastery/grin when she rejects escalations, not necessarily to shit tests. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | What should i do, confusing interaction?I don't play the ignore game. I'd just try to get with her again ASAP and move on if it's not easy. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | What should i do, confusing interaction?I've been rejected for a full hour trying to fuck. On more than one occasion. Mattress wars are necessary sometimes. She just took my dick, after i was fingering her, we were both nude. We continued this for several hours Continued for several hours masturbating eachother? Is that what you wanted? Christ. Otherwise, grab her hair and put her into doggy and fuck her. If she says no, spank her lightly and just say, "put your face down, sweetheart". Ignore her nos and be a little forceful. Dominate… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Any Advice to max out my Tinder success.6'2 unlike these 5'9 liars Show don't tell. Don't supplicate. I also say im fitness minded Show don't tell. More supplication. What age range should i put? All ages? Its 18-21 atm Why restrict yourself? What types of pics are good? Pic of me in the gym? Nature? Selfies? Social proof first. Hobbies second. The best bios are a lot like R/L behavior... they'll convey that you are the prize. I'd just put some goofy shit about needing your dishes or laundry cleaned... "My maid is gone for the weekend… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 04:00 PM |
| 1 | What should i do, confusing interaction?When i asked her why You failed. Hard. There's probably no coming back from this. Some girls will even be done with you if your face flinches. It's really important you're non-reactive. Being amused is a good way to deal with it.. just grin quickly and drop it and move on. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How to treat my GF?They're incorrectly ascribing their personality traits to their success with women when in reality they just share the common behaviors that women filter for. That's called game. Read recommended books only, do approaches, ask questions about your approaches. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 08:42 AM |
| 1 | How can I handle this situation? (VENT)Start practicing frame control. Do something like this: why don't you have a girlfriend? Look at the person presenting the question (don't move your head or body towards them--just your eyes), shrug your shoulders just barely, look away at someone else and turn your body away from that person. No flinching in your face. Completely nonreactive. Observe what happens. If they ask again, ignore it completely. Don't even look. Because of your position in their hierarchy, the "bullying" might get wors… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 08:36 AM |
| 1 | How to treat my GF?I know a lot of info, but now i mostly watch Alpha Male Strategies videos. I dont text my girl, didnt buy anything (even chocolate bar) for my gf yet, kiss and hug her. There's nothing inherently wrong with txting or buying things for your gf. Stop watching YT dog shit. Most of those guys are virgin dorks copy/pasting shit and fucking it up in the process. We have these amazing things called books. Read them. A lot of them. They're life changing. I'd say start with The Way Of The Superior Man si… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 08:07 AM |
| 8 | I could not escalate tinder girl while in bedroomIn highschool a girl asked to fuck me. I didn't get the hint. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 07:43 AM |
| 9 | From being bullied as a kid I still have this maladaptive mindset that persuades me not to 'believe' a girl who is attracted to me.Find a well-reviewed male psychologist of your own race and go. He'll be able to teach you a few strategies to get rid of those permanently. Don't fuck around. Do what he says. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/18 07:42 AM |
| – | I actually did itThrowaway is the only real PUA left in this place. He's the man. AA is mostly to do with worrying about running out of shit to say. Not walking up and saying hi. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 08:23 PM |
| – | I actually did itFirst approach of the day/night is always dicey. But the rejection sting goes away entirely. Enough success and you just accept that it's a matter of time until the next one happens and you literally don't feel it. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Beginning DayGame by Nick Krauser and Tom Torero - Your Thoughts and OpinionsYea it'd be useful. Qualification is a very important game mechanic. It gets girls to invest, builds attraction, conveys higher value and preselection. I like girls that are fun and can cook well so usually I ask very light qualifiers like, "can you cook?" or "are you fun?" Alternatively, you can turn these into statements, "you look like a good cook/fun person" (theory being it's less interviewy and won't put her on the defense as much). Then you want to take her answer and try to relate someth… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Lost my job. Should I tell my new LTR?I turned a couple good girls into mommy because I was going through hard shit (loss of family and career). Result was always the same. I'd rather die alone in a cabin in the woods than experience that shit again. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Lost my job. Should I tell my new LTR?Attraction cannot be built based on what job you have. Dudes losing their gfs over a job is because they turn into mopey little bitches about it. I guess if I knew I had something tough I was gonna go through and wanted to keep the girl, I'd tell her I have some shit to take care of and disappear until it was handled or something. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 06:04 PM |
| 7 | As a red piller, what's the goal of pursuing a LTR if there are no unicorns?Outside of "pussy and tits", game and big muscles really can't tell you what you enjoy. But speaking for myself, having abundance didn't fulfill me too much. I just don't have to waste too much time to get laid anymore. Just another mountain in an endless range. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Does having a threesome in the past with two guys automatically disqualifies a plate for LTR promotion?Sounds like she more likely wanted to fuck this other dude and fanagled her BF into thinking it was threesome or somehow persuaded him that it would be fun for him to watch her get pounded by this dude with whom she wanted to cheat. Why does everything around here turn into a cuck fetish? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 12:36 PM |
| 2 | How should I act when a lot of guys are hitting on the same girl?I've done most of my daygaming around NYU and ASU. Quieter bars can be really great too. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 12:20 PM |
| 2 | How should I act when a lot of guys are hitting on the same girl?I'm definitely not Tyler, but I've had a lot of competitive sets. I mostly do daygame though and you're right. You shouldn't have to know how to deal with sets like that. It's a complete and utter waste of time. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 12:16 PM |
| 1 | How should I act when a lot of guys are hitting on the same girl?Christ, now I'll feel responsible when some poor fuck actually follows the shit I post. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 08:21 PM |
| 1 | How should I act when a lot of guys are hitting on the same girl?So ultimately you fast-forward and go for a quicker pull based on sexual IOIs? she was trying to bust my balls but of course, I am impervious Haha. Get it. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to rip on yourself whilst using A&A?Bingo. Self-deprecating humor from a position of higher value warms/melts hearts. Very endearing. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Does having a threesome in the past with two guys automatically disqualifies a plate for LTR promotion?This sub is such a circlejerk. Girls have no agency, but if they had a threesome it means they initiated it. Listen retards, she was with a guy that put her in that position and she's submissive like all girls are. That's all it means. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 05:15 PM |
| 26 | Running into men with hostile body language but act nice and politeGood posture and taking up space is kind of the basics of high value body language. Has nothing to do with being aggressive and it's not about you. You're just noticing it more. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | How should I act when a lot of guys are hitting on the same girl?How do you pay attention to buying temperature? Real examples please. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 05:10 PM |
| 3 | People at Bars Ignoring me when I am talking even though there is no way they could possibly not have heard me...AMOGs will help you fuck the thots in their group as long as you help ensure they stay at the top. Convey that you're not challenging him somehow. You could do that by asking him if you can share a story with the group- he might even help you do it. So I'm supposed to stand there and listen while he talks about his boring office life Hang around someone else if you can't get along. I don't know what to tell you. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 05:01 PM |
| 1 | People at Bars Ignoring me when I am talking even though there is no way they could possibly not have heard me...so I decided I'm just gonna say something else over him and louder He's the AMOG. He has value. You're just a dork trying to be alpha and everybody can see it. The AMOG is not your enemy. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 04:46 PM |
| 5 | At what point is a shit test not really a shit test and you give in? Especially with LTRsComplying with a request from another person lowers your value in relation to their own. This doesn't mean you can never do something, but you have to be aware of how frame control and value work. The fact she's asking you in the first place means your value is not that high in her eyes. Girls I'm dating bitch non-stop about how demanding I am, but they comply with everything I ask, and they never ask me to do simple bullshit like this. But my old LTRs when I didn't know anything? Yea. Of course… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Need Advice On Condom/Exclusivity Situation With PlateWhat solution is there aside from seeing fresh test results or wrapping? My friend got hep c and something else from some bitch and has to take meds for the rest of his life. That's what you get for raw dogging club/tinder sluts. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | How should I act when a lot of guys are hitting on the same girl?Go really hard. Put your arm around her immediately on the approach if someone hasn't yet and ask her who her favorite guy is so far. Tell her you'll wing for her and find her a good guy if she wings for you. All the while, try to value fuck the other guys by mocking their game playfully ("Damn that's a great line man! I'm gonna take notes. You go.") Throw small qualifiers at them regarding how much money they make, what kind of car they drive, how much they can bench... super easy way to have n… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Ignoring shit tests: Can this be seen as not standing up for yourself and being a doormat?This isn't a shit test. You guys have shit test paranoia to the max. She probably has a personality disorder or she's a spoiled brat that needs to be spanked more. Either way, I'd just stand there and be entertained. I wouldn't tell her not do to it again though, I'd just never bring her out with me again. Ignoring shit tests never comes across as a doormat. You guys need to understand that shit tests are about frame control and value, not comebacks. If you never accept her frame, you pass by de… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Is there a risk of showing too little interest?Oh yea... I meet a lot of girls through daygame on campuses that turn me off with those types of beliefs. A 9 can turn into something I can't fuck if she starts running her mouth about equality. It's unfortunate. But when you do find a girl who absolutely loves men, understands equality is irrational, is proud that she "just" wants to be a mom and raise a family and knows the inherent and irreplaceable value in that... can rock a sundress and cook a good meal... loving that type of girl fills a … | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Male responsibility for female behaviorDepends what you define as malaligned behavior. Every girl tests us. It's obviously in their best interest to ensure our fitness is consistent. And every girl loses her shit at times and acts like a brat. Just normal girl shit. You hold frame. That said, being a Man isn't going to fix schizophrenia or borderline. You need to stay on the lookout for red flags and seriously treat them like it's life or death for yourself and move on. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Is there a risk of showing too little interest?Next time you come across a feminist hoe, ask her what it's about. Tease her about going to manhating rallies. A lot of the time those girls aren't really that bad, they're just fucking lost as the rest of us and trying to fit in. Don't talk to fatties for a lot of reasons. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | New here, seeking some adviceYou're lvl 1 in a video game that has 1,000 levels. All level 1s have to experience ONEITIS over an overweight 6 that eventually breaks their heart. It's just part of the process. Don't beat yourself up. Be happy you're progressing. Read the sidebar. Start to read books- no more mr. nice guy, way of the superior man, book of pook, mode one, the attraction code are good starting points. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Is there a risk of showing too little interest?That's certainly another reason. Rage phase shit. That goes away when you accept that we're the problem, not our women. Women are a reflection of their men and their men ain't doing so hot. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 01:20 PM |
| 3 | I Can't Bring Myself to Cold Approach Anyone and I'm FrustratedMatty hit it on the head. You need slow, consistent, exposure. Too much at once and you'll regress because it's too stressful. David Deida describes it as always living just outside your comfort zone, in a constant state of manageable fear, until you're comfortable with fear. Always. In everything you do. That's how you know you're progressing. You're a great example. By struggling with this, by posting here, by going out and failing, you are on your way. Eventually, something is going to give, … | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Is there a risk of showing too little interest?Ultimately, people have to benefit from your frames to consistently accept them. Women accept our frames because we make them feel good and safe. Employees accept out frames because we ensure their future. Friends accept our frames because we accept theirs and we'd take bullets for eachother. Women cherish compliments from men of perceived higher value. They're neutral or disgusted by compliments from men of perceived lower value. So guys new to the game think you should never buy girls shit, ne… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Do women lose respect for men who eat their pussy?Hell no. Women seriously go hard for dudes that'll do it for them good. That's part of laying good pipe. It's just too risky to do with a lot of these girls is the main issue. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 06:40 AM |
| 8 | Why am I made to feel as though her orgasm is my responsibilty?If sex was just thrusting in silence, I'd stop doing pickup. No clue how all these comments are about that. If you aren't choking, pulling hair, dominating physically in 100 different ways, you're missing a huge piece. If you aren't getting in their head talking shit, you're missing the other huge piece. One thing that I do a lot is that I start going off about babies... telling them they're going to have my babies (if it's a dark skinned chick, mixed babies). On and on. Then I tell them to tell… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Patting a woman on the shoulder after you hug herPatting a girl on the shoulder is just awkward IMO. She either perceived it as you trying to dominate her, but doesn't perceive you as higher value..... or she perceived it like I do and your value took a dump. The fact she kissed you doesn't tell me much without knowing how the pull attempt went. But you shouldn't be making out with a girl for 10 minutes on a date. Try to isolate first, then go for the kiss, get it, be the first to pull away, and act unimpressed. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Almost all "high SMV" men I know are married before the age of 30, so what really happens to the high SMV men who stay single after that age?Yea that's true, but I'd be fine paying child support if we brokeup. I make a lot of money. Maybe my opinion would be different if not. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 04:29 AM |
| 1 | How to challenge my mind-set? Got a clear chance to put into practice.Seriously do this because it's what you need. Next date you go on, the very first thing you do when you see the girl is give her a hug. Tell her, "you look sexy as fuckkkkkk" (lower voice a little when you say "sexy as fuckkkk") while tilting head and grinning a little. Then immediately break it and tell her you don't want coffee. You have a big heart and you don't care for the way coffee beans are treated. Tell her you'll bring her to a secret spot instead. Grab her hand and take her to literal… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Ex contacts current girl I'm talking toI don't use steroids, I don't get complimented for my physique, I'm pale as fuck, my hairline is receding, my jaw makes my face asymmetrical because I talked shit to the wrong dude, I'm not that tall. I do dress well though and I brush my teethies and smell good. I just got back from gym. Two 19 yo thots bragging to front desk about having sugar daddies buy them shit, how they only fuck black dudes, all this nonsense. Basically my conversational ballpark. Teased them a little, didn't smile or la… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 01:42 PM |
| 1 | When to set up 2nd date?So, if you divide the π number by 2 Started laughing. Exactly. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Ex contacts current girl I'm talking toI was going to help, but since you're so secure, uncaring, self-validating, and self-assured, I guess I don't have to. Lmfao. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 06:57 AM |
| 7 | The fuck kinda test is thisI read previously a few months ago of the same situation and it explained in depth of how and why this is a test. Most shit posted in this forum is wrong. 99% of anything said about shit tests here is absolutely wrong. You feel that something a girl txtd is important enough to warrant thinking about it enough to post here. That probably comes from a place of neediness and/or jealousy. I only see a girl putting effort in. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Is There a Verdict on Paying for Women?Don't accept a frame regarding you paying for time. Inversely, only pay if it's not being proposed. So if you're vibing with a girl and you feel like having a drink, or you feel like having a hot dog, or whatever, and you like this girl, fuck yea, offer her something too. Take care of her. That's positive masculinity and she'll love you for it. But. If a girl proposes you pay for her time in any fashion? Tease to pass any potential tests. If she insists, demean her because she deserves to be shi… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Ex contacts current girl I'm talking to5'9.5" That's your problem. You don't even get it. Girls can smell it. Your game sucks ass too. Learn day game. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 06:31 AM |
| 1 | The fuck kinda test is thistell her she'd be one of the sweetest little girls if she brought me coffee in the morning. "be the sweetest and pick up a coffee on your way" seems less awkward, but that might just be personal preference. Long ass wall of why she can't because her bus drops her off too far away OK so she's real effort (lol 2018) to explain why she can't. You're good. Sounds like you're needy and jealous as fuck. There's no test. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Anyone not that into sex?You're comparing sex in general to a great movie or a great video game. The first time you fuck a chick that can fit 3 bananas in her vag or has horrible sounding moans, you wish you were watching a great a movie. I want a refund on that opportunity cost, you nasty bitch! But meeting someone that's an awesome person, that blows both your heads up, that gets you off right. You'll be into that. You just haven't had it yet. It took me quite a few girls before I found what I liked. I thought I knew … | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Almost all "high SMV" men I know are married before the age of 30, so what really happens to the high SMV men who stay single after that age?I want to have kids one day. Doesn't mean I'll get married. I'd probably look at Married Red Pill. I've learned some things there that help me handle girls I'm just dating even. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Wanting more than sexHow interested can a girl truly be in a guy that has to use a dating app to meet girls. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Recently got into PUA. Having moderate success, but hooked by how empowered I finally feel. Besides approaching everyday what's the best way to improve?I can't approach girls in front of other people/when other people are around. Like at coffee shops. This is why I mostly approach girls on the street.. Maybe it's the social stigma of just randomly hitting on girls, or the potentially embarrassing myself in front of more than 1 person (if there's other people around)? I'm not sure why, but approaching in public is really nerve wracking for me. It's more nerve wracking for most girls than it is for you. You won't close if she's nervous. This is w… | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 07:41 AM |
| 2 | cologne for younger guysSurprised to see this. This is the only thing I've worn since I got into pickup. Get compliments on it non-stop. | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Almost all "high SMV" men I know are married before the age of 30, so what really happens to the high SMV men who stay single after that age?Really well said. Naturals don't know game well. They're confident because their looks gave them abundance early on, but that won't give you abundance or quality later. They also miss RP's most valuable piece of knowledge--never, ever, under any circumstance, marry. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 05:37 AM |
| 1 | How to make yourself look more mature?when this dude(nerdy Indian guy, beta as fuck) decides to talk to me. First asks me where I was studying because I look young. Fucking random. He maybe thought I worked there? Idk. It was weird in a gay way so I kinda paid no attention to him What's wrong with you? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Wanting more than sexIt has nothing to do with being beta or alpha. Masculinity desires femininity and vice versa. Her behavior is not feminine. She's acting like a guy. It's gross. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Is "I'm married" a shit test or not?When you drop a line of intent on a girl it creates intense pressure for her. You have to bust that pressure up. So you could have said, 'man, you are really cute' (man up and own it super hard, super sexual) and immediately break it, "where are you from?" Same thing when you ask to hangout- "hey let's hangout some time. have you ever been to x? have you ever tried y?" Tell her whatsup and take the pressure off her by continuing the conversation. Typically when girls tell me they're married or h… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys eat pussy on a one night stand? Why or why not?Oh yea. I test a lot on dates. I can tell who's a hoe or not when they're in the 18~20 range. Older women can probably lie well enough. It's still a risk obviously. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 04:13 AM |
| 2 | My RP journey: Initial stage game plan for a man in my unique circumstances?Find a couple good daygamers on YT that you like and take tons of notes. Anything that fits your personality, memorize it. Record your approach audios and post them on a daygame forum (fb group maybe) to fix tonality, vibe, game. From there it's just going to be a numbers game. You're going to have to do more approaches than if you didn't have the scoliosis obviously. Your first actual date will take a long time. It's going to be frustrating as fuck. You can't cheat daygame.. there's no alcohol … | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 09:10 AM |
| 4 | At what point do you tell your plate that you are non exclusive?Girls bring it up with me early on because they find out I have money when they see my car or pad. I always lie on approaches and say I work at McDonalds just so I know they're attracted to me and not something else, but I can't stop them from finding out when we go back to my place. It's never affected anything though. Control the frame, pass the tests, lay good pipe, and they're not going anywhere. If they do, they come back a lot. I don't see a point in bringing it up early unless you want to… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Ended LTR of three years, life’s good but where to now?Learn daygame. REALLY. FUCKING. WELL. It is the premier league of pickup. I've met such amazing women from street game (lot of gym and grocery store approaches too)... hard working girls with strong relationships, low n counts, extremely giving, no drama, no bullshit etc. I keep telling dudes to stop going to clubs, but we all have to learn the hard way. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys eat pussy on a one night stand? Why or why not?I do with girls I meet from daygame that are quality chicks that I want to plate. Wouldn't touch any girl I meet during the night regardless of anything. Not a fucking chance. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/18 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Mood swings issuesFind a well-reviewed male psychologist of your own race and see what he says. Get a couple opinions. If you're isolated most of the day, that can seriously fuck you up. You need to be socializing with strangers daily. You've gotta be exercising hard as fuck. Daily. I'm not qualified to talk about diet. I've eaten horrible for the last 3 years, but I have more energy than I've ever had. I also check blood levels for anything that's off on a monthly basis. Hard to say. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 07:23 AM |
| 10 | Plate caught feels and this was her shit test. What’s the reason for it?It's not a shit test. She wants commitment. This is her way of asking for it and this type of strategy isn't unique to women. Warlock's theory is good I guess. Ultimately, because we stay in our own frame, the outcome is the same regardless of what we think about girl brains. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Lifting injuriesPay for someone that knows their shit to teach you form. Go multiple times to see them until you get it down. If you don't bench properly, you're fucking done. And I tore part of my shoulder doing lateral raises wrong. So I'd learn that too if you're going to do them. Have to get surgery, but that's literally the only lift I can't do so I never bothered with it. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 06:59 AM |
| 13 | Date with actual model, tips?Take her wherever you want to go. You gotta do you. She's along for the ride. Read my last long comment. Read Book of Pook. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Is TRP really that bitter?Your comments are always really solid Cain. This is some shit straight out of Way Of The Superior Man. I've read a lot of books. That book struck a lot of really deep chords about what it means to be a man. Maybe the most important book I've ever read. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/18 06:44 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome the need to give incentives or trade gifts for attention?You don't believe you're valuable to women. You may not even know what that means. It's that simple. Because if you did, buying them anything wouldn't make any sense. The line is thin. You go from not getting it to getting it pretty quickly if you put the time in. You see enough girls turn into little kids in your arms and eventually it clicks that your energy, your vibe, your masculinity... is highly valuable to them. Pook told us that a long time ago. I feel like bragging so I'll give you an e… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Anyone studying psychology/ counseling?Gonna have a lot of psychiatrists in need of jobs soon huh? | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Tried to start a conversation with a girl on the sidewalk at night but opened with a question and she shut it down.Fat girls are insecure and mean as fuck as a result so you're safe. The only women that have ever called me creepy or gave me issues are fatties. I used to approach fatties because weight doesn't bother me that much, but I just don't do it anymore because of the low success rate. It's the exact same thing with women not wanting to date short guys because they all act like twats. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Girls text...You get your needs met by leading. But while leading, you have to make her feel that she's working for it at every step. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 04:57 AM |
| 1 | What look to go for? 21 maleListen to Calvin OP. My add-on advice would be to images.google.com male celebrities and find someone you like and try to imitate. Orlando Bloom used to always have some shit on that I liked and I even bought exactly the pieces he had at a few events. I'm less worried about fashion these days, but when you go through phases, learn as much as you can while that phase is in full force. Then, when it ends, you'll be ahead of the curve. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Girls text...Me: honestly, I think I need to meet you. I enjoy talking to you Change that first txt to "what us?" You have to just barely show women they need to work for it. Constantly be disqualifying them, pushing them a way a bit, qualifying them. The second you let them know you "need" anything, especially them, you're fucking done. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 04:50 AM |
| 1 | You’re a nice guy/too soft in the workplaceAnd for some reason it pissed me off. Gotta dig deep man. That reaction alone was enough to tell me that maybe I hadn’t fully escaped the nice guy BP phase. Awesome. Any converted nice guys want to weigh in? You seem self-aware and got your ego in check. Just keep on keeping on. You could ask her what she meant and see if there's any truth to what she says. But I'm with you about acting meek in a female-run environment. Fuck drama, let them think what they want, make $ and get out. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls agree to dates if they’re just gonna flake?I've gotta disagree with this. I've run daygame nearly full-time for 2 years. There are a lot of very well mannered women out there. High quality girls that, despite their probably high n counts (~10+), will not do this. AWALT, but there are too many burned pussies around here that want to make everything out to be bad. Not implying that's you rebuilding. But you have to hustle your ass off to see the good. And it's worth it. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 10:48 PM |
| 5 | Why do girls agree to dates if they’re just gonna flake?The D word is definitely bad. It's like telling a girl you're going to get drinks and go back to your place. Too much pressure, no plausible deniability, girls can't move more than 1 step at at time.. lot of other shit. Meetup.com advice is great too. I've gotten some solid lays from tennis and singles professional events. Not sure about the meetup with friends part, rather just hangout alone, but yea I feel it if you've got plans already. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Is "Depression" Blue Pill Beta BS or Genuine Medical (Bio Chemical) Condition?A friend killed himself over it (depression and bipolar). He was a jacked alpha mother fucker and he tried hard to beat it himself. We'd stay up nights just txting about it. He owned a successful web development company and owned his own gym where he taught classes. Beautiful wife. But it didn't matter. He wouldn't get help and in the end he lost. So no it's not some bluepill shit. Any keyboard dork who wants to say they could overcome it doesn't know what "it" is. There's nothing wrong with get… | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Im 17 and I cant stop eating unhealthy/junk food. Please help me on how can i start eating healthyMan the fuck up and stop putting it in your mouth. You sound like a fat girl. You got PCOS too hon? | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Women = still no dice for me. Destined to lift heavy objects.Being strong and looking strong are only one piece of the puzzle. The rest of it is behavioral. Your current behavior is going to either land you in the ER with a 20k bill and bolts in your jaw or you'll kill yourself from the rejections you're going to have to endure. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 11:24 AM |
| 1 | is it bluepill AF to (both during and afterward) communicate about what a girl likes in sex, what's good for her too etc?Read some books. Sex god method, the way of the superior man, sperm wars, my secret garden, forbidden flowers, guide to getting it on, etc. They'll all give you different perspectives on sexuality, what women fantasize about, what you want, what's possible, on and on. RP and game can't tell you how to enjoy sex. You're already too focused on what the girl wants though. Women enjoy what you enjoy. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Women = still no dice for me. Destined to lift heavy objects.there was this one girl Throw yourself into the nearest dumpster. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Aren't men really the choosers?Women can always get more quality sex because of apps. But men can get more quality relationships if they run game often and learn to filter well (no club sluts, no drugs issues, no mental disorders, et al)... women are really fucked when it comes to relationships these days but they're too incapable to do anything about it. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 10:32 AM |
| 2 | Did I fuck this up? Just trying to smashThat is the most off-putting shit I've ever read. Fucking hoes acting like guys. That kills my dick. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Came across some old photos of my ex and me..Is the new girl a lot younger than the ex? Send her a porn vid. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 10:11 AM |
| 1 | What's your "body count"? How many girls have you been with? How to handle this.This is the best line because it implies multiple things- 1. preselection, 2. intent, 3. sexual confidence, 4. her reputation is safe if she hangs with you. You can tell women this line on its own with no context completely out of the blue and it sticks. Jon Sinn taught this a long time ago. I tend to get negative responses (rolls eyes, frustration) when I deliver this line. So I'm looking for something more humorous and uplifting. You're going to get negative responses for saying a lot of shit … | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do I always end up with Red Pill guysBecause women are all attracted to the exact same behavior and guys with that behavior have no reason to settle for you. The only advice is to learn pickup so you can identify players from naturals. Then learn to identify mental disorders and personality flaws to filter the naturals. Then go out a lot and approach because a lot of naturals won't cold approach. This is where we can stop pretending a girl would put effort into anything meaningful. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 09:54 AM |
| 1 | "Light switch effect" vs Splitting (BPD)Well, a lot of guys here are out of relationships with BPDs. It wouldn't surprise me if that article is describing splitting and specifically BPD behavior. I've been with girls who left me for other guys that didn't ghost or cause drama and were well mannered about it... so the article doesn't apply to everyone. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 05:26 AM |
| 8 | Rejection is better than RegretThis post is a poor re-write of Pook's original post (with the exact same title IIRC) on SS. Should give credit where it's due. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/18 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Serena Williams has a meltdown at the US Open - and the rest was expectedI bet you he's actually fairly alpha in general or when it comes to business. He isn't nervous in front of the camera. He's confident. His beliefs about how a sexual relationship work are just fucked and he'll pay the price like the rest of us. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/18 02:56 AM |
| 3 | How do I start dressing better without dressing like a fruitcake?Yea there are some screws loose. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 05:30 AM |
| 1 | FR Hotel Bar Hypergamy Direct Game ONSRight. And actually I put the phases in the wrong order. Attraction comes before comfort, at least in M3. Attraction produces desire. Comfort produces familiarity. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 04:38 AM |
| 1 | FR Hotel Bar Hypergamy Direct Game ONSIt has nothing to do with LTRs. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Serena Williams has a meltdown at the US Open - and the rest was expectedI watched some video about them. He's such a doting fucking soyboy and she's disgusted by his presence. Thoroughly enjoyed it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 03:04 AM |
| 1 | FR Hotel Bar Hypergamy Direct Game ONSMystery Method is outdated for sure. Magic Bullets is the modernized version without the 7 hour rule and a lot less of Mystery's magic horse shit. Being in a lot of different places with the girl still builds familiarity though. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | FR Hotel Bar Hypergamy Direct Game ONSThe lesson is that any success worth having doesn't come without repeated action in the face of tremendous fear. All we ever see is success this, success that, and that makes a lot of us feel awful--where's the failure? Are we just inferior? OP went out, he was terrified, he had to hide in his room for a breather, he got some harsh rejection, felt awkward, maybe felt like he was garbage, didn't know what to say or do, but kept at it, kept fucking going, kept walking through the storm, went full … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 02:09 AM |
| 1 | FR Hotel Bar Hypergamy Direct Game ONSMode One is a helpful reminder that you can just be a cave man and tell girls you want to fuck them (not necessarily overtly) and that it will work rarely. Most oldschool game teaches from an extremely optimized point of view- you need to go through approach, opener, transition, comfort, attraction, rapport, before you ever get to just telling her you want to fuck. And it's correct, in general, but it's also an extremely demotivating way to learn game. Feels like you have to get a PhD in vag bef… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/18 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How do I start dressing better without dressing like a fruitcake?I had literally like 40 pairs of jeans at one point. Mostly high fashion. Some miserable fucking cunt stole about 6 pairs of dior jake jeans and some of my favorite tom ford black labels that you can't buy anymore. Was worth like 10k. The rest, including most of my ysl, had the crouch or something else wear out. Then my legs got too big and I couldn't wear what was left. But now I have my sanity. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 12:08 AM |
| 1 | How do I start dressing better without dressing like a fruitcake?My history with pants is complicated. I have to keep it simple for my sanity. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 11:51 PM |
| 1 | How do I start dressing better without dressing like a fruitcake?During the day I wear black nikes, black jeans, and a particular brand of tees that fits my build without needing tailoring. During the night I wear some dior sneakers, same black jeans, sometimes a black shirt or just the same tees, but I throw on jewelry (chains, bracelets). Never had a problem. KISS. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 11:33 PM |
| 5 | Ghosted after 9 monthsYou didn't do anything wrong, no one's damaged, and it's not personal. Womens' options are driving their antiquated programming fucking insane. Go take advantage of it and stop worrying about one chick. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | FWB suddenly went cold out of nowhere, where did I fuck up?Not going to be enough info for something like this for anyone on a forum to tell you. Could be you, could be she met someone else, could be she's fucking married. I'd keep doing what you've been doing, keep studying, lifting, whatever, and if this keeps happening with other girls then you may have to consider you're the problem. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 11:43 AM |
| 0 | Can't closeNeed more rapport. Qualify more too. On dates, I always talk about movies and/or TV shows, find out what they like and if I've seen it, vice versa, and invite them back to watch an episode. That's real plausible deniability... not "come see my fish tank" | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 11:37 AM |
| 0 | Did anyone read RooshVs book "Game"?Magic bullets and YT infields is all you need. There are good paid programs, but I'm not going to vouch for anything. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 03:21 AM |
| 3 | How do you get over a oneitis?Start doing day game ever single day. Find a YouTuber that posts a lot of infields and just copy whatever they're doing to start out. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 05:05 AM |
| 1 | [M25] Advice for immigrants on forming/joining a social circle?Join local RSD group on FB and just start txting people or post and ask who's going out. Easiest way to make friends if you want to do that. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 05:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you not give upam skinny OK shut the fuck up and stop being skinny. I can't read all this incel shit. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Successful cold approach, text failure after?she actually invited me to the art show but [blahblahblah] you fucked up | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Something I misunderstand about the Redpill (looks and money VS game?)Numbers are usually garbage by themselves. If these are during the day, you need to try to set a date on the initial interaction or at the very least get the girl to promise to txt you back (literally tell her to promise to txt you back). | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Women telling me about texting a old hookup guyWhy are you such a gigantic whiny pussy? Tell her to stop being an annoying cunt or you're blocking her. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Something I misunderstand about the Redpill (looks and money VS game?)Better looking you are, less hard rejections you'll face. Better game you have, more closes you'll get from non- hard rejections. Money is irrelevant for getting laid, but it makes you LTR worthy if that's what you want... | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Developing a plate, right or wrong choicesYou went into her frame by whining about her canceling on you. Just ghost her. She'll hit you back if she cares. You need more options and shit like this won't matter. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 12:21 PM |
| 0 | A hypothetical RP theory question that tries to overcome my BP trainingAlpha doesn't have anything to do with the attributes you listed. B wouldn't agree to go back to his place. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Women telling me about texting a old hookup guy"Make sure to wear a condom" Or ignore it.. or tell her if she mentions another dude she's banging again you're ghosting her. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 12:10 PM |
| 2 | What are the biggest things that set you apart from other men at 31.Approach more. That's it. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 09:52 AM |
| 1 | "I don't want to lead you on... I'm not looking for a relationship or anything right now."She wanted to fuck and you wanted to talk. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Why does this always happen to me?Set a date in person or get the girl to promise to txt you back. That will increase your close rate tremendously if you actually start running consistent game. I turn girls down on numbers all the time because they refuse to do one of those two. Just a complete waste of my time. Not even taking my phone out. I legit just walk off. Another 50 thots down the street. Also the time spent in set doesn't matter at all. There's virtually no difference between 2 minutes or 10 minutes during the daytime.… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Why women find tattoos so hot?It implies promiscuity in the minds of a lot of people. Which is why women that have visible tats kill my boner. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 11:07 AM |
| 1 | 10mins into the date, she said "we're going to be friends...i just know it"Ask blogging neckbeards for dating advice. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 10:22 AM |
| 1 | LTR refused sexASD is reputation management, not "feeling used damage control" (Especially in an LTR wtf) Absolutely wrong. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 06:51 PM |
| 1 | LTR refused sexDisagree with both of you. He's threatening to leave her if she won't put out, which makes her feel used, ASD kicks in, her emotions flare up, he loses frame and throws more fuel on the fire, and she starts to feel that the entire relationship was a lie. Whatever he's admitting to on a forum was probably 3x worse in reality too. Running qualification in LTRs has been taught in pickup long before "Red Pill" was even a thing for this very reason. Women start to wonder why you're even with them... … | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Monk Mode since JulyYou can. You can shrug. "Oh yea". Anything that's aloof. "You'll get there someday." If you have balls, you could tease her and kino-- "I'm also a tickler person" and go for it. Just control the frame. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Is there any way I can use a female friend to my advantage?You have to read the book. It defines the phases you go through and how to handle each one. It's a modernized version of M3 model (Mystery Method). | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 09:18 PM |
| 0 | Is there any way I can use a female friend to my advantage?That's a good observation. He states that himself so he definitely feels like he's low value probably in comparison to most women. I'm sure that comes off in his tonality and he probably supplicates a lot (smiles/laughs a lot at shit she says). Hard to say. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Monk Mode since JulyWell, you look like you're a sociable person, I like that Don't take compliments from girls like that. This is essentially a qualifier as a statement--it comes from a place of higher value. Don't bite. Tease, ignore and/or change the subject. The other advice you got about sexualizing the conversation isn't bad, just keep in mind that the initial time you bring up sex is a rapport break. Women feel it strongly. You should learn what having comfort, rapport means first before you do that. It's so… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Is there any way I can use a female friend to my advantage?If you read magic bullets you'd know what to do. Re-read my reply. Money doesn't have anything to do with how women perceive value. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Cold Approach - tips request for first stepsI always recommend magic bullets, but it's mostly focused on night game. I've never found a good guide for day game. All I know from personal experience is that you have to be pushy and overcome objections, run qualification, always end with a very specific date/time/venue date being planned or her promising to txt you back (just numbers are mostly worthless), and tonality and supplication have to be calibrated well. Body language doesn't matter as long as you're not shaking and your posture isn… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Is there any way I can use a female friend to my advantage?I don't have the skills to make it happen and that's extremely frustrating. Read magic bullets or dicarlo's book attraction code for an easy warmup. A big part of attraction has to do with how she perceives your value in relation to her own. If she feels above you, it doesn't really matter what you do. This is where rapport breaks and qualification come in. I'd try breaking the rapport you both have and see how she reacts-- just cut her off when she's talking and change the subject is an easy on… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Engaging women at clubs! HOW-TO!Clubs are trash. That said, get near the girl, make some eye contact, dance in front of her a bit, if she's cool with that, turn her around and grind a little, turn her back around, you can try to kiss her if you want. Either way, tell her "come to my secret spot" and isolate her somewhere you can talk. edit: No reason to say anything on the dancefloor so hearing doesn't matter. Nothing she says matters. Don't introduce yourself. Don't say she's cute. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 07:18 PM |
| 0 | Is touching always an IOI?I would have put my leg under hers and lifted hers up, or put it over and held hers a little, and just see how she reacted. You could also whisper something like "you can put your legs on mine" and see what she does. You could squeeze her side... tell her to keep her legs off the merchandise... pretty much anything that begins the process. I'm not going to share if I think it was an IOI or not because it doesn't matter. Act on your sexuality irregardless of indicators from the girl. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach - tips request for first stepsThat's a pretty awful guide. Bunch of platitudes and out-right bad advice. Don't be pushy if the girl doesn't easily give you her number? Introduce yourself and shake hands as an opener? It's like he did 5 approaches and decided to become a blogger. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 07:03 PM |
| 3 | friends grab and stop a girl while hooking up w meWas her friend stronger than you? Does her friend have legal guardianship over her? What did she want? Don't be afraid to be dominant. Just keep some playfulness to it so you don't scare anyone. Alternatively, walk away and come back a little later and re-engage. You could give the friend some attention. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Shit test pass or failIt's explained a little differently in every single book/blog you'll find. But it essentially means the interaction. So in this case it's the topic of conversation- you're weak. It's a test because it's designed specifically to see if you crack under a little pressure. Even the way you turn to look at her will be judged. Did you look fast and smile? Look slowly while aloof? Ignore completely and re-engage her later? Etc. But you can convey low value in any interaction. Had she told us we're real… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Shit test pass or failNot necessarily about emotions. She's trying to gauge who has higher value by seeing if you comply with her challenge- "you're weak". We ignore it completely and set a new frame. If she complies, we've established dominance and value. Sometimes girls won't go along with it and keep harping on their original question. In this case, I almost always pressure flip and ask if they're always this awkward/annoying, or just back turn and try to make them feel like dog shit. You can agree and amplify, bu… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 05:11 AM |
| 0 | FR: Insta date in NYCGoogle them. Maybe search for Captain Jack's PUA notes (Sinn's wing)... he may have the routines in there. It's been 2 years since I've studied their stuff. His notes are an excellent read anyway. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Shit test pass or failLook her up and down, "you're cute" (own it hard), and ask her where she's from. She opened, take it away. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Workout diet?Add protein so you're getting ~160g a day. Whey and whole milk is what I do. Take creatine. Keep eating like you have been aside from that. You have a long way to go before you'll need to bulk if you're a beginner. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 03:35 AM |
| 1 | FR: Insta date in NYCI asked her if she knew why i approached her and she was like 'because i looked lost' and i was like 'not really, i thought you were cute.' her reaction was kind of defensive to that I wouldn't do this. Tell the girl you think she's cute or you think her eyes are gorgeous or whatever early on. But don't build this long interaction up as spontaneous and then shatter it. That's going to startle her. Setup a date when things are winding down. Numbers are garbage by themselves. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | FR: Insta date in NYCThey're routines to sexualize interactions and build a narrative that makes it easier to pull. Jon Sinn used to (probably still does) teach that you lead a girl through sexual frames to make her believe she's independent, will act on her sexual desires, will do it despite what anyone else thinks, and that you can both be trusted to keep secrets. Like you'd go from running rings on fingers to strawberry fields to some other shit. For example. You can use them standalone just to sexualize the conv… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Shit test via text, what to reply?Me: Hmu if you still down to get ice cream one day Be specific. Date, time, location. There's not a single girl on this earth that will hit you up later about something in this situation. And as far as approaches during the day, setting the date up before even asking for a number is a big secret most guys don't know and why they get frustrated. It's similar to this. You have to set concrete specifics and get her to agree. Then it's on 90% of the time. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Best way to respond to thisMy only advice would be to run deep qualification or just straight up tell her why you think she's special when she does something nice for you. Be very, very specific. She has to feel that you enjoy her for who she is, not what she was born with. It cuts down on all objections. Married guys should be doing it too. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 06:07 PM |
| 15 | Can girls be scared of getting approached by a guy even if they’re attracted to himYes. It's called 'being approached anxiety'. Tons of girls have it. I'd say 80% of the girls I approach during the day have noticeable social anxiety. Some girls have it so bad that they start physically shaking and stuttering and apologize for it. They're not even necessarily into me, they're just not used to it. Which is why you need so much comfort during the day and you have to lead the conversation almost entirely for the first few minutes. The internet fucked everybody up. So go into it wi… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | [18m] absolutely terrified of going on my first date with a girl I don't know. What should I do?You have to experience awkwardness with women to grow. So stop trying to prepare. Give it up. Go on the date, have nothing to say, shake the entire time while you talk, get real sweaty, touch her super awkwardly because you're in your head, and be that girl's #1 most awkward date ever that she shares with all her friends. Then post the FR so I can laugh at you. And then do another one. And another one. And in 20 you'll be getting laid because this shit isn't a big deal. Your brain needs proof, n… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 05:46 PM |
| 5 | Cancelling trip with FWBI'd let her pay for it and reward her with my time. Whenever women become super emotional about nonsense, and you hold frame and don't throw fuel onto their fire, usually they'll come around and apologize. That means you did a good job. The light switch article describes the opposite--they lose their cool, guys freak out and throw wind into their swirl, instead of handling it and being a rock, and the girl essentially associates the aggravated negative emotions on the guy and disconnects. That's… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | After first date girls say that I'm weird but that she likes me"Yea I am kind of weird. You love it." I'd say it a little quieter like I'm telling her a secret. Weird isn't bad. Like Pook said, perfect is boring. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Tips on Conversation Mastery.YouTube day game infields. They're all boring and you can learn to open strange people and strike up conversations a million different ways. Write down the stuff that you personally find appealing and use it to cement it. Most of it applies to any normal scenario. Once you have enough lines and routines and topics in your head... you get to a point where it's literally impossible to run out of shit to say. Then you can focus on tactics and strategies. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Stay with suffocating but smart and ambitious long term partner, or go it alone?Get your hobbies back and start traveling irregardless of her. If the fact you're 1 girl from being a virgin is the real problem here, start going out and learn to cold approach. Tell her or don't. Doesn't matter. Get some numbers. Turn some of those into dates. See if the problem is an inner confidence issue regarding a lack of game. You might find that once you can actively get new women, you don't care so much anymore and you'll be able to relax and enjoy her more. Nothing wrong with that, an… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 09:21 PM |
| 2 | RSD real approchesLook for infields of rejections specifically. Those can teach your brain a lot. The RSD infields are always successful because their whole company is built around flash marketing. Those don't teach you much. Real approaches aren't like that. They're more boring. Shit gets awkward more often. Watching Tyler and literally the other 3 very best PUAs in the world just doesn't help. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | First time dating for a while, felt like i got loads of shit-tests. Possible red flags? Next step..Read my comment. It does seem awkward when you're not used to it. Just as long as you don't flinch, you're fine. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Stronglifts 5x5 questionhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CnBmiBqp-AI | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Are women conscious of their meta-game?Read Sperm Wars | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 01:14 PM |
| 1 | When is a good time to ask her to come back to your place? (College)Most women do drink at night, but it doesn't matter that much. What matters more is closing time. You can't pull a girl who just walked into the place to have a good time. Just won't happen. Run your game, let her have her fun, come back closer to when things are dying down and try then. You can also number close earlier on and hit her up after the place closed/she's home. edit: Didn't see your first sentence. Spend at least an hour. Try to move her around... take her outside, take her back in, … | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 01:11 PM |
| 1 | First time dating for a while, felt like i got loads of shit-tests. Possible red flags? Next step..i didn't get an indication that she wanted to kiss. You won't. There's not always this magical moment where you both connect and it's obvious. Just go for it. Hand on her face somewhere, whatever. Do it. Again, we sat down and i pulled my arm around her, but she didn't react. Didn't sit closer to me or anything and she seemed almot distant. It's normal. Some girls are nervous. Some girls want to see if you're man enough to keep going. This sounds dumb maybe, but remember to look at her. Look how… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 11:49 PM |
| 2 | First time approach tips (small town)Get her attention before you start this. Don't ever startle the target. "Hey. Whatsup. How are you?" doesn't matter what she says "You're cute. Are you from around here?" doesn't matter what she says "Ah OK. Cool. Yea I'm from..." Keep asking her questions that build familiarity and answer your own question after her.... where we're from, where we live, where we work, [I lie and ask if they know names of made up people at their work saying I dated such and such]). Tonality and sexual intensity i… | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 11:33 PM |
| 2 | How to transition from the friendly, likable "jokster" to the charming, seductive "suave"?Yea I misread. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | How to transition from the friendly, likable "jokster" to the charming, seductive "suave"?ask a bitch if she rather have funny buff boyfriend or just plain buff boyfriend she’ll probably go with the funny one because he’s fun to be around Said every skinny dork ever. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 10:36 PM |
| 3 | gave random girl at gym a card with my name and numberCain's right. She's not LTR material. What she did is how "it just happened" happens. One thing leads to another. But you're right too. She may be genuinely just letting him down nicely with no ulterior motive. Nature doesn't give a fuck about verbal contracts and feelings though. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend says ex wants to get back with her.You guys run into a lot of 18~25 year olds that don't msg their ex from time to time? Where can I find these unicorns man. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Gender Suicide ParadoxBecause you can't kill yourself by ODing on SSRIs but it's a typical girl thing to do. Use google dumb shit. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Getting over a LTROutside of that, can someone give me any other advice on what I can do to help myself through this process? Do whatever you can to be outside of your house/apartment. Go out and talk to people. Anyone. Socialize. Tell them about your breakup and that it's doing a number on you. People love talking about that shit. Let it out. Approach some girls too. New girls help a lot. If you had 2 other girls you were seeing, you'd still feel bad--that's a long time to be with someone--but it'd be far less p… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 08:45 PM |
| 6 | So a girl whose number I have I believe has lost her phone - Shall I fb her?It's not illegal. Go for it. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Gender Suicide ParadoxTrying to OD on SSRIs is not a real suicide attempt. They're desperate for attention. If you really want to die, you buy a gun and blow your head off like a real man. What else is there to discuss? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Just read "managing bitches"--should I tell girls I'm not looking for anything serious?just so you know, I'm not really looking for anything serious... but I think you're cute and like hanging out Seems like a really childish thing to txt. She's already fucking you. Stop fucking yourself. If she wants commitment, she'll tell you. This is only going to flare that shit up. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 07:51 PM |
| 4 | My gf exhibits inappropriate behavior around homosexual menI don't like being a contrarian in these spots because I don't do LTRs. And Vasiliy and Gary are very experienced guys so their advice shouldn't be ignored. What I'll say is that if you're going to be in an LTR, you need to set your boundaries early on. You didn't. She didn't go there alone to fuck you over. She went there with you and was just having fun in your presence. I don't think it's a big deal. Just physicality isn't going to lead to anything so you don't have any worries. If one of the… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong?That's still failing. It's not about the words. She's presenting her frame in the form of a bullshit question-as-a-statement and you took it. She controlled the frame. You're lower value. Her attraction goes. Do you have a girlfriend? / You have a girlfriend. Are you jealous? / You sound jealous. We'll see. So far you're doing OK. Christ, yea, one too many. It's fucking exhausting. Do you like ice cream? My balls itch. Do you ever get that? [change the subject] [shrug and change the subject] On … | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for hot girls to not be attracted to guys who have a similar skin color and hair color as them? Especially among whites?Legit fetish stuff though, like saying "Breed me you dirty nigger" I don't mess with that You've run into this? That's fucking hilarious. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal for hot girls to not be attracted to guys who have a similar skin color and hair color as them? Especially among whites?I don't even know how guys survive without game. They become MGTOW, incels, shoot up schools, or suffer alone lol. I guess. Yeah most interracial stuff isn't fetish but I've only been with white girls so I've met quite a few that I suspect to be "queens of spades". I'm a bit more wary as a result Why only white girls? Black girls too off-putting? I keep reading that. The only black girls I've met are really friendly and sweet, but I've only hung out with a few. I had a black roommate when I was … | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 10:37 PM |
| 4 | How badly did I fuck up this possible F-close?Props for being a cool, confident dude that went the out alone and approached. That's baller. You also handled the friend stuff outstandingly. Everyone here overreacts to any mention of "friend". Friends fuck. Friends is fine. I don't know what her saying it 20x means, kind of like Cocaine said, but it doesn't matter. You rolled with it. My suggestions... Read Magic Bullets. It will get you up to speed on game. Read this: http://coldmanpua.blogspot.com/2011/10/50-rule-by-mark-manson-aka-entropy.… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 10:24 PM |
| 5 | Making male friends?Small example from my own life. I'm new to the area I'm currently in for work and don't know anyone. Walked up to this gigantic dude squatting a good bit and asked him how long he'd been lifting. He really wanted someone to talk to as well because from there it was just bullshit about gym, work, women, whatever. Offered to buy him a beer. Bought him a beer. He goes to some church and he's big into god because he's an ex-addict and whatever. So I asked if I could tag along one time to see what it… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Shit test or IODYea it could be she's just legitimately asking you to tone it down. That's up to you man. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong?From now on, you have a lot of girlfriends. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal for hot girls to not be attracted to guys who have a similar skin color and hair color as them? Especially among whites?If you're the only dude running game, you're the dude that'll get the girl. That's just how it works. I've known plenty of white girls that have slept with black dudes and it wasn't a fetish for them. They just happened to be the guys that approached and did a good job. The fetish is a male thing. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 06:31 PM |
| 1 | If desire cannot be negotiated why do we have to learn Game?Game teaches you ways to convey that you're higher value than her. Negotiating desire is one of many ways to convey that you're lower value than her. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers, Whats your take on weed?I've heard of people committing suicide after bad shroom trips. Probably means we shouldn't try anything else hahaha. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 04:34 PM |
| 2 | I am able to go on dates and/or kiss girls on partys but can't go any furtherMagic Bullets helped me a lot. It's the updated version of Mystery Method which basically is what everything else has come from (even RP, minus lifting and circlejerking about hypergamy). | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | I am able to go on dates and/or kiss girls on partys but can't go any furtherYea that's another thing about touch that's hard to understand if you just read, like, DiCarlo's kino ladder without also reading his book. The second you feel a girl not into your touch, take it away first. All kino is pull. It's needy. So to balance it out you throw in takeaways (rapport breaks). Stop kissing first. Stop holding hands first. Push her hand off of you before she pulls away (sometimes you can feel her grip loosen or it's getting sweaty). The girl will actually comment on it somet… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 03:15 PM |
| 3 | Girl rejects me, I move on, she sees someone else, 2 weeks later she wants to meetEvery girl forces commitment at some point. Don't worry about age because someone else says you should. Plenty of gorgeous 30 year old women that will hang out while they try to find something more permanent. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 02:52 PM |
| 1 | I am able to go on dates and/or kiss girls on partys but can't go any furtherHow long are you with them? Are you escalating properly or just going for the kiss? How much time have you spent talking to them, do you rapport break, do you qualify? When you qualify, do you dig deep and reward her for it? Does she feel that she had to win you over? This is like going to the club, dancing with some slut for 2 hours, making out, and think you're getting some. You probably aren't. The second the's outside or gets a txt from you later, she doesn't know who the fuck you are, she d… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 02:42 PM |
| 0 | Got her number, now what?She was going with her friend as well That doesn't mean anything. Girls take their friends along to sit on the couch while they fuck. Bitch shield implies during your opening. You're way past that. She's either a cunt or you're perceiving something weirdly. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 02:37 PM |
| 9 | The TRP fallacy - why don't most men need TRP?Your friends are going to lose those girls one day and if they don't have anyone else at work that likes them, then what? They're fucked. They're dorks who have nothing going for them and online won't work unless they date fatties. TRP/pickup is more about having options to the vast majority of men. Very, very few guys do 20 approaches a day consistently. Usually they find a girl or two they like and do other stuff. Once you get good enough to pull, it's literally the same thing over and over an… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers, Whats your take on weed?Weed gives me nightmarish panic attacks. Like, I'll feel like my heart is going to stop or my arms don't belong to me or something. I can't even explain what happens, I just disconnect from reality in a bad way. Not sure what that says about my brain because I've never known anyone that experienced the stuff I did, but whatever. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/18 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Indirect Daygame Cold Approach, Good way to open girls?"Hey, whats up, how are you?" very chill. "Oh, I think I confused you with someone else. You seem really familiar. Do you go to X/Y/Z?" blahblah "Oh, ok. Cool." "You're really cute. Are you from here?" I open with this 90% of the time. The only thing that matters during day game is that you are opening in a way that she feels is socially acceptable so she can relax (this includes not startling them walking up from behind or just being like "wow hey you're cute want to hang out?") Then move into … | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who found TRP years ago, why are you still here?Feels good to help people that want to help themselves. Lot of good, motivated dudes in this sub going through some really hard shit. The game is not easy. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 07:02 PM |
| 2 | How to deflect the L bomb?i love you a little less and smirk | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 06:15 PM |
| 1 | I don't really view girls as desirable anymore...Being able to consistently cold approach is like being able to consistently go to the gym. That's actually 90% of it, but no body can manage it because somewhere we all forgot what hard work is. And the first week is absolute hell. First month is almost as bad. But then it gets easier, and easier, and easier.. eventually, the movements become habits and the mental stress is replaced by enjoyment. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 11:34 AM |
| 0 | Very lost with this girl.my intentions are not to be friends with you This entire sub. Being friends does not exclude the possibility of sex. BEING FRIENDS IS FINE. Friends have comfort. Friends have rapport. That's 2 big steps on the way to............. fucking! Say it 10 times. BEING FRIENDS IS FINE. cause that’s not my intentions, I’m attracted to you more than just friendship "I'm insecure and don't want to be friendzoned because I read reddit too much... please have sex with me" You just filtered your way off the e… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Is rotten personality something that you just have to accept with majority of HB8+?It just has to do with how much the girl has been hit on in her life. Not how objectively hot she is. Ex-fat girls can be really nice even if they're 9s for example. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Dumped my ex, found out I was wrong about her. Want to get her back. What to do?Yea I don't understand what you mean about the phone. The thing is, if you tell the truth you're a jealous little bitch (low value trash). And any other excuse you come up with will be poor too probably. Unless it's about a family member dying or something, but even that is weak. But fucking another girl? Preselected. Other girls want you. Alcohol and feelings get mixed up. Girls are the first to forgive other girls for falling for old loves like that too. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 11:30 AM |
| 8 | How do I deal with my LTR's white knight ?He basically said i didnt really care about her, was in the relationship just for the sex, was probably going to cheat on her since i flirt with other girls, i dont treat her right etc etc You actually gave this retard your time? I'd look at him, shrug, and back turn. He's out. We argued about it Here we go again. Stop being in other peoples' frame. Some random idiot said something, she's giving you shit about it, and you're entertaining this? "Babe, I'm not going to talk about this tonight." Th… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Dumped my ex, found out I was wrong about her. Want to get her back. What to do?What do you mean? Maybe I missed something. I thought he told her he's done and ghosted her. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Are these situation “shitting where you eat”?How would you get in trouble if you're a store manager? Who would even do anything? And for what? You're not allowed to talk to people? | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Dumped my ex, found out I was wrong about her. Want to get her back. What to do?I don't know how old you are or how you know her so you might have to change this up. Tell her your highschool sweetheart messaged you out of no where and you met up with her just thinking it'd be platonic but you both kept drinking and one thing lead to another. Then just say you fucked up and made a mistake and you're so sorry. You better win an award for realistic earnesty. Then shut your fucking mouth and agree with everything she calls you and everything she says. She'll likely need some ti… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Wedding Vow Help?Is there a sidebar link to something that explains what a "greater beta" is and what this abusive father/dominance threshold is? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/18 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Are shit-tests basically indicators of interest? And why do they make me lose interest?Tests are how women gauge your value in relation to their own. They're weak and helpless and this is one of their only ways to figure out if they're about to potentially have a kid with a loser. You pass their test and they may feel that you're above them, which is really all it takes sometimes, and thus sex is on the table. If they don't test at all, it means they already believe they know your value in relation to their own. Strange hoes believe they're above any random guy approaching them so… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 10:47 AM |
| 1 | 36 and I am the weakest guy at the gym. What's the point for me?https://bookofpook.neocities.org/#ch-19 | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Advice on double penetrationThe connection is you guys thinking there are girls who are "LTR worthy". She's cheating on you with a dude that approached her at Walmart and you're worried about her double penetration kink that she got from watching too much porn. That's the least of your worries. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend said I'm weak and left. Massive change needed.How do I stop being weak and become strong? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZWUcHKAj_tc started changing my routine for her It's like your girl putting on pounds. I did this with one of my LTRs. I'd stop gyming or put off hanging out with friends to see her. She was a little more patient than yours and would tell me she didn't like when I did those things. I didn't "get it", thank god. Probably one of the most self-aware posters I've seen in this sub. You're gonna make it. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Advice on double penetrationYou can't beat hypergamy. Brad Pitt can't beat hypergamy. As a result, no woman is LTR worthy. That's everyone's first mistake. I don't think having a kink means a girl is anymore likely to cheat or be a shit mother though no. I'm not suggesting you gangbang her with your pet Labrador if you're not into that. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Game: Divorced 32 yo - I'm lost!I used to read guys like Mystery, Bad Boy, Neil Straus and so on… authors from the first wave of PUA… I guess they are pretty much outdated by know. Everything about M3 is still how you get from stranger to sex. Everyone moves the phases around and pretends they invented something to be the new faggot blogger on the block, but Mystery got it first. Magic Bullets is the updated version and I recommend it. I love that book. Use a lot of routines out of it for night game. No such thing as LTR game.… | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Advice on double penetrationno ltr material girl would be that kinky, kinky maybe, but double penetration? hell no Based on your, what, 5 girl sample size? Going to find that virgin that likes nothing but missionary? You guys make me giggle. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP exaggerate the smv of older guys?You're wrong about almost everything you said, but I'm not here to coach your ass. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 12:34 PM |
| 1 | When a girl asks do you find me attractiveshe asks me out of the blue if I find her attractive "I'm still on the fence. [pause, tilt your head like you're curious] Are you an adventurous person?" Always keep them guessing. And qualify because qualifying implies you're infinitely better than you actually are. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Nervous about a meet upThe best solution is to go do cold approaches earlier in the day. Get there 1-2 hours early and just start warming up. Might even meet a hotter girl. But you want to get that adrenaline and cortisol out--that's your anxiety, that's what's going to fuck you. Burn it off. Then run a fucking train on the date. You can also lift super heavy to burn the adrenaline off and it makes you feel good as fuck too. But I have a garage gym so dunno if that's possible otherwise. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Do you guys do dates?In my experience, it depends where you meet the girl. Tinder is same-day sometimes without a date because it's normal to hookup off Tinder like that. Their friends do it. They see it happen in movies. ETC. Depends on the girl's circumstances. Day time almost always requires a date because women view daytime cold approach as weird. They have no reference or context for it. There's not always enough time to build rapport and get your value above hers. They also have other stuff on their mind that … | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Does TRP exaggerate the smv of older guys?Yea. Day game has been as good for me as bar game once I got good at establishing comfort in day situations. Granted, you have to go on a date, but the pool of girls is much higher quality (for me that means younger). Been fucking around with meetup.com shit lately too and it's been sick. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 09:54 AM |
| -4 | 99% chance that my gf cheated on me. How do I approach this with dignity?It depends how butt hurt you are about it. Can you just shut up about it and keep fucking her? If not, obviously cut communication. You should only be making verbal contracts with these hoes to string them along... they don't honor them, they never have, they never will. Gotta have other options and care less. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Does TRP exaggerate the smv of older guys?How is day game vs bar game for you at that age? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Does TRP exaggerate the smv of older guys?You have significantly less success with bar game than day game at your age? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Does TRP exaggerate the smv of older guys?That said, I reckon guys who are 35 HAVE TO have something going on as unlike their 25 year old counterparts Nope they don't. None of this shit matters. Building sexual attraction is the same if you're 18 or 60. It doesn't require all of this. RP likes to copy and re-label pickup concepts like frame, but they fuck up whenever it comes to this bullshit about life experience and hobbies. That stuff is for your own confidence, not turning a woman on. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 06:31 AM |
| 1 | How can I stop feeling sad about never getting male interest?Most guys won't approach during the day because it's viewed as creepy and/or too unorthodox and also most numbers from day approaches flake which pisses the remaining guys off who do try it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/18 04:06 PM |
| 2 | I just choked in front of everyoneThat's not that bad man. Really. Some girls would relate and you'd have immediate comfort with them on that commonality. Your problem is you don't know how to build attraction in the first place. Check my comments for past book recommendations. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Is /r/TRP really going to waste?Nah /u/zalhix is correct. Everything has already been figured out. You want to learn pickup? It's been figured out 100%. You want to learn lifting? Figured out 100%. /r/asktrp and places for FRs are valuable, but 99% of the stuff on the main sub is dog shit compared to the original sources of that material. It's all just copy/pasted and re-written for karma, and usually very poorly. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 03:22 PM |
| 0 | Help!"uh oh, somebody hasn't gotten enough dick today" | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Is Oneitis deeper than just showing attention ?It's some bonding process that makes you view a girl in a very warped way. If you fuck an ugly chick exclusively for long enough, you'll start to think she's pretty. Enter my first LTR. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Losing focus after break upGirls do that as a bluff out of desperation. There would never have been an attempt. If there was, it would have been her paper cutting herself or something. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 02:51 PM |
| 1 | me (31m) and my LTR (24F) Guy is flirting with her at work.I'm not a relationship guy anymore, but I thought you did great, minus "I said " cool, who is it" ( not giving a fuck)" being a little contradictory. It's pretty normal for co-workers to go out to bars after work and shit. One thing I've learned from RP that pickup didn't teach me was to not mateguard. So I think you just shouldn't ever give a fuck until you find out she cheated and then obviously continue to not give a fuck with her being on a street corner somewhere. Infinitely easier said tha… | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Update on my revenge against my exYou're not getting revenge by "wasting" her last years. She'll be able to fuck dudes until she's 70. And she's a chick so you aren't stopping her from meeting anyone. Stop wasting time on that thot bro, she isn't worth brain power. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Where is the middle ground between a high quality girl not giving away sex too easily and a girl who is making you wait for sex?Is this like Rollo's sub or something? The dude is a skinny dork. He's wrong about plenty of shit. There's no correlation here. If you don't want to wait, don't wait. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 06:58 AM |
| 4 | I will go on a date with you if you shave your armsNot too rude. Hilarious rapport break. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/18 06:55 AM |
| 3 | Hitting on a two set solo is challenging as it is but what about during the day ?Great advice. I'd just add... don't do anything too sexual during day approaches. There's literally no social context for hitting on girls during the day and it's weird as fuck so you need to focus on comfort comfort comfort, show intent pretty quickly, throw in qualifier or two for value shift, and close. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | "A woman's sexual prime is in her 30's" <--myth?Are there any studies on this? | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 03:41 PM |
| 1 | I’m Willing To Take The Red Pill - Where Do I Start?I don't really want to write about them because it'd take too long. Every girl will test you, but some are just more cruel about it, going after deeper insecurities if they can sniff them out (of which I had many). | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | I’m Willing To Take The Red Pill - Where Do I Start?I approached one girl after 30-60 minutes of hesitation. Ended up meeting her a couple of times and she said ‘We aren’t having sex’. Went to my house and had sex. I didn't get laid until like my 30th approach. I had such mean shit said to me a few times in bars I'd quit for weeks at a time lol. You're on that run good. Go do more approaches. Hit up that friend and ask him to come out with you. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Feeling insecure after sex."Maybe I'm making this shit out to be a bigger deal than it is. Maybe it doesn't matter at all." and do something active. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 06:08 AM |
| 2 | I have facial tattoos. What does this make normal people think of me and how does that affect my attractiveness?I have a sleeve that's like a narrative of major life events. I usually refuse to talk about them much. Mystery is good because women fill in the blanks with their own fantasies. So if I were you, I'd just lie and say it's some really bad shit, and that you're a different person from those times, and change the subject. Let them think you're Los Zetas or something. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 06:04 AM |
| 8 | How to spin plates with concealment?Don't let anyone go through your phone. What the fuck kind of question is this. I wouldn't even let my wife go through my phone. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Friend's girlfriend constantly tries to offend meShe's drinking (unfiltered) and she's extremely unhappy with herself. I used to talk mad shit on everyone non-stop because I was so bitter that everyone else was having fun and not only was I not having fun, but I had no clue how to even have fun to begin with. And I hated myself for it. Now it's so easy to recognize it in other people. She asked me to do a little show and so did I. Try not to comply with any requests made without making them first doing something for you. Super important in the… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/18 05:53 AM |
| 20 | If I ever catch my LTR cheatingBeat the shit out of yourself for committing to a thot. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Do you agree with this downvoted comment?If you open by offering to do something for a girl in exchange for her time, you're demonstrating that you are lower value than her and she's not going to be interested. Fucking doesn't generally happen if the girl doesn't perceive the guy to be higher value than herself. That's mostly what game is about. Buying drinks for girls is fine though once they've invested in the interaction with you a little (complied with whatever you've done/not left). They've all grown up watching movies with the al… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 03:14 PM |
| 3 | How do I set the tone with this new girl to let her know that I'm not opposed to a relationship if things continue to go well (without being beta / doing beta stuff)?Eventually all girls push for exclusivity if you're their best option. You don't have to worry about it until then. Why would you? What benefit comes from making a verbal contract for genital exclusivity? Snap out of it. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Why do I keep hearing that "too much muscle" is bad?It's true that an aesthetic physique is more pleasing to the eye, but evolutionary talking the biggest caveman had more chances to kill the "aesthetic" caveman, and rape his woman. Or am I wrong here? You didn't have jacked cavemen walking around. Whey and gyms weren't a thing back then. Humans are tribal. Influence over other men was power. That's what social status and dominance is about. What I'm trying to understand is, would women really prefer a lean guy instead of a big strong guy? Or are… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Netflix is a joke. What is this shit?There's this movie that came out called The Kissing Booth where this thot has a promise with her friend not to fuck his older brother. You won't guess what happens next. Highly recommend. Me and my guy friend watched it together. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 02:04 PM |
| 5 | WTF just happened.... Give some input heresorry but I thought we were hanging out as just friends Look at her like that's obvious, "Of course we're friends." and change the subject as fast as you can. Continue doing what you're doing. It could happen again, "But friends don't kiss" "Oh really? I kiss all my friends." change subject .. Rinse and repeat. Don't spend all night with the same girl. Fast and early- kino, compliance tests, qualify. Learn how to break rapport in case you don't do it naturally (cutting her off mid sentence, take… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 06:36 AM |
| 4 | “Texting for logistics only”and I don’t wanna mess this up You're fucked. No contact until the date. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Im trying to get with this girl but she hit me with the "not really looking for a FWB though" when i asked her to come hangout at my place. Need some guidance on how to proceed.Two weeks ago I had this girl tell me she can't just come to my place without going on a date. I replied with, "fuck I have to return the rope and duct tape now" and waited and she actually agreed to just come over. It doesn't matter what you txt really as long as you dismiss the concern. You need to isolate. Don't be overt about isolating though or you'll always be in this spot. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 05:08 PM |
| 1 | How to stop my gf from being a bitchWait for her to answer what? You're in bed with her, not fucking her, not planning to do anything fun, bitching about being bored, and getting butthurt that she thinks you're implying she's boring. You have to realize how fucking stupid you sound. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Im trying to get with this girl but she hit me with the "not really looking for a FWB though" when i asked her to come hangout at my place. Need some guidance on how to proceed.shes not really looking for a fwb and she's doesn't know exactly what I want I'd ask what FWB means and then I'd ask what benefits means and then I'd accuse her of treating me like a sexual object. But I wouldn't txt anything overt like that to begin with... that's always going to result in this kind of shit. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How to stop my gf from being a bitchGirls don't lead. Men lead. Girls hate guys who don't do anything with their life because it means they won't get to do anything either. So this is all on you my friend. Get up, plan something, and tell her to put something cute on. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Where the heck do I start? Noob seeking advice.For just getting laid, read minimal game (sleazy) and attraction code (dicarlo). They both tell you the absolute basics in as simple a way as possible. Attraction code teaches you from the viewpoint of some loser who's friend fucks his girlfriend. It's pretty funny. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 03:47 PM |
| 5 | Fellas, I need help - I can't attract girls my age, only older women. What is wrong with me? Please click30 year old women are getting desperate and they're more aggressive. Lift more. Approach younger girls. There's nothing else to it. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Help with moving on...I disagree with monk mode. Go out and start doing cold approaches in your free time. Shock your ass. Get some new pussy. Meet new people. Isolation is the worst possible thing post-breakup. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me or......One of my ex's stole my favorite pair of dior jake jeans. You guys don't know pain. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend fell out of love?Whenever girls you're dating say shit about your relationship, just tell them, "I understand how you feel babe." and continue on like it never happened. Most of the time, if you deal with all their nonsense calmly and like it doesn't phase you, but that you understand, they don't even remember they said or felt like that the next day. However, once you start to get upset, or defend, or explain, or try to convince, you cement that feeling and make it real. Then chronology goes out the window and … | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 11:33 AM |
| 1 | How far would you drive for pussy?All these ballers in here won't even put on their shoes to walk down the street. I've flown to other cities to get laid. Definitely going to do 2 hours. Make a trip out of it and explore some shit you haven't seen before. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 11:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Thoughts & Advice?If your aim is getting a date, try to schedule the date in the moment. Actually schedule it down to the exact time right there on the spot. That's something that made a very large impact on my closes during the daytime. Once the interraction is winding down, I'll start asking what they're doing tonight, tomorrow, say we should hang out, ask if they've been to x/y/z, ask if they wanna go to x/y/z at a/b/c. It doesn't always work, but when it does they usually show up. I couldn't tell you why that… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 11:07 AM |
| 1 | How do i become happy with being alone by myselfHonestly, you have to get out of the house and socialize. Nothing makes me feel better when I'm in a slump than going out and approaching girls. You don't have to go to a bar or club or anywhere intimidating... go to a grocery store, walmart, mall, anywhere... at one point a year ago I was on a night schedule for work and I'd go to this area where 5 major hotels were in like walking distance of eachother and just walk back and forth looking for girls that were traveling. Uhhhh, it works. Incredi… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 10:29 AM |
| -2 | Rollo has listed traits that determine attraction. What are the traits that determine arousal according to him?Nearly all literature on sexual attraction is a re-labeled copy of Mystery Method or Magic Bullets (the updated version of MM without Mystery's retarded 7 hour rule and magic horse shit). I wouldn't look to these gurus for advice. They're just retards copy/pasting shit and making up new names for it. Go to the material I linked. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 12:40 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with everyday social anxiety?Walk around the mall and ask for directions. Once that's boring, extend the conversation. If they know where the venue is, ask how long they've lived in the area. If they don't know, ask if they're not from the area. Once that's boring, extend it more. Watch YT infields and copy shit that fits your personality. Etc. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 12:30 PM |
| 1 | What to doYea... get out of town. I grew up in a town of 2,000 people in the woods (black bears eating our garbage and shit). No opportunity for anything. If my brother didn't let me move in with him in Brooklyn when I turned 18, I'd probably be a virgin working at Walmart right now. Run as fast as you can out of there. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 11:34 AM |
| 8 | Ex hit me up after 2 years. Oneitis developped.How many times did you try to kiss her on the first date? Sounds like 0. I'll give you a tip if you're just anxious- go out to the date location an hour or two early and knock out a bunch of cold approaches. You'll burn through all your adrenaline and cortisol and warm up socially. It'll make the date a piece of cake. Then it hit me. She just sees me as a random guy hitting on her, not the special guy she was talking about. Don't do this to yourself. Actively notice yourself thinking about worth… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Help with this girl and how to kiss when your are unsurewhat I am thinking, when we hold eye contact "That if we were alone, I'd bend you over this bar and take care of business" Night is about sex. Sex, sex, sex. Talk to her like 30 minutes, number close and go to a different set. Or try to pull if it's getting late. It's fine to just talk to whoever if you're learning to socialize, but you will waste weeks of time trying to get laid spending so much time with 1 girl. You only have a few hours to work. how to kiss when your are unsure Grab chin or s… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 01:02 PM |
| 0 | Do women ever admit to cheating ?You gotta dig deep on shit like this. Why the fuck do you care if she slept with some other guy? Get other shit to do man. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Do women ever admit to cheating ?The funny part is that she wasn't lying. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Is comprising a movie your girl wants to watch but you dont want to, beta behaviour?He's bending because he's afraid of losing her. He's afraid of losing her because he doesn't have the skills necessary to replace her. He doesn't have the skills necessary to replace her because that would mean facing the monsters under the bed. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 11:58 AM |
| 3 | How asshole can you go if the girl THINKS you're the best she can get ?Start by fucking her first man. Invite her to your place. I could answer your question from a theory standpoint, but she doesn't think you're the best she can get just based on wanting you back. That could mean a billion things. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 11:47 AM |
| 1 | My LTR wears (very) sexy underwear at work. Does it mean anything?I fuck her pussy and ass like an animal for 2-3 times a day, sometimes until she can't walk properly. Worry about your needs being met and nothing else. Is she fucking you how you want and as much as you want? She is. Is she causing drama? Sounds like she isn't. Don't waste anymore time on what ifs. If you start giving a shit and let this fester, you're going to ruin what you have. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 11:40 AM |
| 7 | Knee hurts during doggyI'd make an appointment with an ortho. Don't let pain ride. You never know what the hell it is. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 11:23 AM |
| 1 | How asshole can you go if the girl THINKS you're the best she can get ?Are you fucking her as often as you like and exactly how you like? Then keep doing what you're doing. No clue what you're asking. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Just how young/old is 27?Charles Manson had a farm in the middle of no where and a literal harem of teenagers that lived on it full time. They cooked, cleaned, and had to fuck any man that stayed there. They'd have drug orgies and shit. A couple of the Beastie Boys and some other famous people would go there to fuck the girls and hang out. Funny enough, he was a frustrated chump through out his 20s (might have been a virgin, it's been awhile since I read his book), but he had some kind of epiphany after having a couple … | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Just how young/old is 27?I've seen 50 year old guys in suits running daygame near NYU on their lunch break. Girls don't care. Half of them fantasize about older guys fucking them. You think some 18 year old isn't gonna fuck Athlean X? Give me a break. I'm 31 with gray hairs and I've number closed 17/18 year old cashiers many times. I should start a YT channel. Old dude running daygame on teenagers. Get rich pissing off post-wall whores. Get blacklisted from grocery stores and have to start my own farm to survive. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 11:30 AM |
| 1 | How to proceed with this one..I've gotten this a few times. Wasn't a shit test. What makes you think it's a shit test? | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 11:02 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up my FWBs careerLiving a life that is sexually fulfilling with minimal mind rape is the goal of TRP. OP could provide her comfort if he wanted without breaking any RP truisms. He apparently thinks providing comfort is breaking frame. It's not. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to rent pussy?Is Bradicus 6'1, well built, and easy on the eyes? He's fucked more girls than I have. I'm sure he's into the hundreds. He's a total dork, but he's alpha as fuck. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to rent pussy?thats it i don't want to put effort in getting laid Universe doesn't give a shit. i hate clubs and super noisy environments I have a pretty high n count. I'll pass 100 this year if I don't drop a barbell on my head. 70% of it is from daygame. Last girl I fucked I met at a super walmart at 11pm. "Is that whole milk?" was my opener. She was reaching in to get a gallon of it. I've got some really baller lines. Anything to start building comfort without startling the girl works perfectly. Outside I … | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 12:50 PM |
| 2 | I don't know what the fuck I'm doing wrong anymore.All of a sudden I must have said or done something because its like she just went COMPLETELY cold Maybe she thought of a family member that passed and it upset her. Don't beat yourself up. Post a FR with conversation and behaviors. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Game, where to start?Game is the mechanics behind attraction. You can't compare it to RP. RP is just a community that copies (poorly, in my opinion) many things from game and mixes it with self-improvement. The real value of this community is helping men in desperate need that have no where else to turn (and think pickup is this evil thing). But to answer the question, just read Magic Bullets and youtube the concepts to see them in action to cement them in your mind. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 12:11 PM |
| 2 | I dont know how to get started with working out?Don't worry about diet or literally anything else until you've gone consistently for a month. Stronglifts.com is the best place to start. Use allen thrall videos to supplement form. Retract scapulas properly for bench or you will die. Most of the posts in /r/fitness are by retards over-thinking shit and never even starting. Start. Be consistent. The rest you can learn on the way. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Why is it wrong to rent pussy?I learned pickup with a group of indian and asian guys so I have the experience to tell you you're just wrong. The shit you believe, and what all these irritating Incels believe, is absolutely false and does not reflect reality. It's like believing the world is flat, except instead of thinking you'll fall off the planet if you roll down the wrong hill, you're fucking miserable your whole life. Really think about that. It's not an incurable problem though. I used to believe that people hated me. … | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 10:47 AM |
| 1 | I need help, fastCheck my past comment about book recommendation and pairing with YouTube. You'll have a lot of epiphanies. And lift because big guns sexualize night interactions on their own sometimes. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 10:36 AM |
| 1 | This is my first post, I'm in a rut.My opinion is that women are mostly reactionary children when it comes to sexual relationships. You have to lead. The second you don't, they start to wonder why they're fucking you and the idea of being submissive to you becomes nausea-inducing. I'd say after a year and having the first half of a relationship where you're having sex each day to only having sex once in the month of July is something different than just initiating, being rejected and trying again. [...] and yes, intimacy is a two … | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 09:55 AM |
| 1 | This is my first post, I'm in a rut.Sex is close to none, I don't beg.. after a few days she'll complain of the lack of physical intimacy. How many times are you initiating? Initiating, being rejected, and trying later, is not begging. It's part of the game. She's clearly not going to do it for you. Are you a fat fuck? I'd blame this entirely on myself if I was in that situation and figure out what to change. Today I wouldn't move out of her spot on the bed (I was tired and comfy) when she asked.. I said no and told her to go to t… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Was this a shit test? Short details inside.Everybody here has massive shit test paranoia. She just wants to get a tattoo. You asked her to have sex and she agreed because she's attracted to you and likes sex. Girls test to gauge value--do I make you nervous? Will you jump through my hoops? Do you say what you think I want to hear? Are you careful not to upset me? This isn't it. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 07:48 AM |
| 3 | Know I need to pull the plug but don’t know if I can take her responseMy advice is to chill. Start practicing daygame without telling her. Don't cheat if you have an issue with that, but begin the process of learning pickup. Once you're able to get new girls, you may realize the itch is gone and you want to try to make it work with this girl. If not? You won't suffer alone for long. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach QuestionApproach and then take a moment to look around and see who's looking. The result is that you'd have to be mugging someone for them to pay attention to anything you're doing. But you can't logic your way out of an anxiety by knowing that. You have to prove to your brain that there's no danger a few hundred times. This concept is very well studied (exposure therapy). You could try watching YouTube infields of guys approaching in crowded areas. You'll realize the same thing. I have no idea if that … | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 06:47 AM |
| 2 | 25M Virgin Serious Escalation IssuesPickup a copy of Magic Bullets and read through it quickly once and then slowly a second time. It's the pickup bible. As you're reading through the phases of seduction, search them on YouTube and look for infield examples-- so e.g. one big thing you have to learn is kino so look for infield examples of that, another is rapport breaks so watch some videos on that. There's really no better way to learn. Tinder is sort of cheating you past the opener and comfort (questionable) phase, but you don't … | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Business partners BBC fetish is causing problemsI'd speak with the investors and backstab him. Not acceptable behavior. Find someone else to replace him. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Girl at the gymYou don't know what a neg is dude. You're describing teasing. And yes Mystery did coin negging theory in MM. Savoy (took over Mystery's company) said it's outdated in Magic bullets and doesn't teach it anymore so your virgin ass suggesting it isn't good advice. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 08:47 PM |
| 2 | I cant leave my psycho gf, feel guilty for sone of her problems. Help me trp! God help me...I disagree that your girl is especially psycho. This is just AWALT if you act like a little bitch. Some women will mentally rape a guy into suicide if he acts like a bitch non-stop. They're little kids. I've had LTRs try to crack me saying crazy shit, going after every insecurity I have one after another after another--staring at me waiting for a crack. Women are hardcore as fuck. Their programming has absolutely no mercy. The fix is very simple. She say something you don't like? Ignore her. She… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 11:07 AM |
| 1 | FWB comfort test: She thinks I'm not as interested in her as she is, thinks I'm indifferent. How to respond?Not a test, she's just bored and wants attention. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Girl at the gymA lot of Mystery's material is outdated. There's just no reason to neg during the day. You can run game without it. You're probably just teasing. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 02:41 AM |
| 1 | I still have a strong desire to fall in love with someone foreverSigning a piece of paper that fucks you is not important. It's retarded. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 01:43 AM |
| 4 | What does it mean when I girl that’s into you stops giving you shit tests?Shit tests ramp up a lot in LTR in my experience. The more weaknesses a girl finds out about you the more reason she has to test. Just out during the day or night I generally don't notice so much anymore because I can ignore everything women say (to an extent), but in a LTR it's much more complicated. tl;dr You're too hyper-aware of shit tests. It doesn't happen as much as you think. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Girl at the gymYou didn't make a day approach work because of a neg. That's not what negs are for. Day is all about comfort and intent. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 10:42 PM |
| 1 | I still have a strong desire to fall in love with someone foreverBuild a family and have kids then. Doesn't require marriage. Doesn't require you being exclusive either, although that's asking for problems. If she wants to have a ceremony and take your last name, that's all possible without you signing anything. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Anyone live in NYC or surrounding area?You don't need shit in NYC. Go out by yourself during the day. There is a never-ending factory line of 9s and 10s. You don't even have to look at an 8. You don't even need to know game with conditions like that. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Favorite plate broke down crying after sex"Long distance relationship" means he's her txting buddy and possibly touched her titty once. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Is this straight out of cuck 101?> She pays the full rent and most other bills Sounds like he's cucking her. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 12:44 AM |
| 1 | What career should I choose at 25 if I'm an Aspie with ADD?I have no idea about software engineering in general, but I have plenty of web development guys in my company that make good money and they don't use any crazy maths. It's mostly supporting other teams getting data they need, connecting APIs here and there, whatever. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 12:34 AM |
| 1 | I accidentally kinda cucked myself. How to damage control?It's a status fetish. Black guys are the lowest on the totem pole by a long stretch. Jacked, homeless Indian guy on white girl porn would be huge if there were enough actors lmao. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/18 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Plate withheld sex - here’s how I handled it - please critique and give me advice moving forwardWe text almost every other day. Shit gets boring when you do this. Try really hard not to txt too much. I say hah ok and start to walk away. She says you’re not going to give me a hug or anything. I say nope. Read my last post about ASD. This isn't exactly that, but it's similar. Just roll with the punches and stay cool when she does this. Not every girl will fuck every time, but you're fucking up your next chance when you act like a little butthurt bitch. That said, she should be more horny by … | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | I accidentally kinda cucked myself. How to damage control?So you're watching a guy fuck a girl and that's fine, but when the guy is black you feel bad? LOL. Watching the high status chick get railed by a low status dreg is a classic. Don't hate. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Are you mad if we don't have sex tonight?It's just typical ASD. "Did you expect me to have sex with you tonight? " > "Nah. Just seeing where the night goes. Did you expect me to?" > "Blahblahblah" > "I've been with girls that expect it or try to schedule it even. Super weird. If it happens, it happens." Chill, conversate some more, throw in some qualifiers, escalate again. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 01:34 PM |
| 1 | News of EX effecting eatingPublic place during day, approach a girl cuter than ex, ask for directions to something nearby, ask where she's from, tell her she's cute, have a short conversation, ask if she's free tonight/tomorrow, set a date or get a number. At the very least, go out with friends and family. Isolation is insidious. And that dude was never your friend, just another frustrated chump taking anything he can get at any cost. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so bad to feel?It's not bad to feel. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/18 04:37 AM |
| 1 | The more I lift the more girls treat me like shit ?Practice grinning a little when you catch a girl's eye. You can just grin while standing there too. Being welcoming is good. Watch some Ryan Gosling shit he murders it. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 02:19 PM |
| 1 | I saw gf on a date with some guy. Did i handle this correctly?Unless they live together, nothing necessarily has to change. It's just a matter of him managing his jealousy. Jealousy is managed by having an active life and other women. If he had an active life and other women, he wouldn't be here. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 01:56 PM |
| 3 | I saw gf on a date with some guy. Did i handle this correctly?That's because you aren't banging anyone else. Get involved with someone else and you'll detach enough. Maybe it's different for each of us but that's how it is for me. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | I saw gf on a date with some guy. Did i handle this correctly?Who cares. Tell her you forgive her, bang her, and just start banging other chicks. All this ghosting talk is retarded. You weren't married, she didn't take your house, it's not so emotionally tough that you just can't do it. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 07:04 PM |
| 14 | Are men also hypergamous?Women are hypergamous because they can only pop 1 out at a time so they need to get the good shit. Men can go full Genghis Khan. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Gf old ex calls 3am?Every girl I've been with has needy ex's calling or txting super weird, needy shit non-stop. This sounds like a drunk call or that. Your paranoia about small stuff is going to eventually hurt you though. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 12:02 PM |
| 0 | Gf old ex calls 3am?This is especially problematic considering her past. She has already been engaged? Veeeery fishy. What's fishy about that? | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 11:57 AM |
| 1 | LTR letting me cheat to continue relationshipThere are some women who will do it for awhile. It'll always fall apart at some point because doing what Whisper said isn't worth the effort. It's a full time job balancing that. You can just fuck multiple women and not commit and not have to deal with any of this horse shit. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Fight with GF led to stalemate - Advice on maintaining frameReally it's been about how much time I don't have to spend on her. If it's pure bullshit, /u/VasiliyZaitzev has it spot-on. The time thing is just a temporary insecurity. Just listen and agree that you'll make more time. It doesn't matter if you make more time or not, the point is that you help her through her emotions in that moment. Or at least that you don't make it worse by blaming her for feeling a certain way. She hates feeling that way as much as you hate hearing that bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 12:46 PM |
| 1 | What is this shit?logistically it's impossible to isolate to escalate her Obviously it's not impossible. Try harder. Or move on. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Older guy at my gym recently "casually" brought up in brief conversation to me that he pays $2300 a month child support. What the fuck is this serious?> There's a documentary called "Divorce Corp" on youtube that goes into how fucked divorce is in the states Some real netflix and chill material | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Getting shit tests by LJBFed oneitus. Don't know what to make of it.How do you subtly tell a guy you're trying to flirt with him "I only see you as a friend, [name]" Uhm? I'm not interested in you. "Haha OK" She either going to block you (thank god) or become interested at why you're such an arrogant shithead all of a sudden. Something else you can do is just ignore everything she txts and make up a bunch of stories about fucking other girls and some crazy shit you got into and ask for advice about it (blah blah I fucked these two girls at some event and one is … | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 12:18 PM |
| 1 | How to tell difference between girls at barDon't approach and offer to buy a drink though. You aren't paying for her time. But if you've been vibing with a girl, it's fine to buy her a drink or coffee or whatever. I don't know what chode started this idea that buying a girl a drink suddenly makes her want to cuckold you and take your house in a divorce. Every movie any girl has ever seen since she was 10 years old has the alpha dude buying the girl a drink. It's not that big of a deal. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 09:37 PM |
| 2 | I keep blowing up to LMRBefore you go 3 steps back and start building comfort and rapport again, try dismissing what they say by agreeing ("yea babe we can talk") and continuing to make out or do whatever you were doing before you escalated, and then try to get the panties off again really soon. Over and over and over. I've had some serious mattress battles. Either they eventually get turned on enough to stop caring, or they're trying to fulfill a rape fantasy and you dismissing their 'no' and fucking them anyway is th… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Newbie here, I guess I’m a plate. Now how do we turn this around?I don’t feel like I’m being desperate either. (“Oh I was doing my laundry anyway so I threw your pants and socks in too”) How is that desperate? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/18 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Newbie here, I guess I’m a plate. Now how do we turn this around?You remind me a little of my last LTR. She used to clean my apartment all the time, do meal prep for me, buy me gifts, massages non-stop, leave me notes... anything she could do, she was doing it. She'd even tell me she'd marry me and take my last name, but I wouldn't have to sign any papers. She was born and raised in some bumblefuck town in Italy so that might explain her perspective. I've never been with a girl that was so good at trying hard. You're on the right path. I came very, very close… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/18 01:46 PM |
| 3 | A little drunk girlfriend kissed another guy's hand out of a challenge with her friendsyeah right, why would that be a dare, she kissed the man on the lips OPs paranoia intensifies | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 12:15 PM |
| 3 | How to pass test"No hitting on me until I've had at least 2 drinks" | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 12:12 PM |
| 1 | How to raise SMV with bad skin and scars?Go walk around a campus or mall and just have conversations with girls. 20 approaches in and you'll never think about your skin again. No body cares. You don't need a dermatologist or witty comebacks. And delete these pictures because you don't want your identity tied to RP. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/18 11:40 AM |
| 3 | got into a fight, did i do the right thing?Was getting punched worth a kebab? Don't engage with drunk guys at all. Straight up ignore them. When I'm in sets and a drunk dude comes around I'll legit just pretend he doesn't exist and after a little just tell the girl this dude is a creep and move her. If you want to fight, join a boxing gym or something. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Withrawed attention from LTRIt's not wrong if it feels good. I don't trust women by themselves around alcohol no matter what anyway. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Withrawed attention from LTRSo you make decisions based on what you think is beta or not? Would you let the dude fuck your girl in front of you too? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Withrawed attention from LTRIf some guy just grabs her and puts his hand over her mouth I'd tell him not to touch my girl again. Not that I condone her not pushing him off, because I don't, but at some level you have to want to compete and beat the shit out of him and not going with that somewhat would eat away at me. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Withrawed attention from LTRWhat exactly did she do that you're so upset about? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 02:21 PM |
| 13 | Book or resource that teaches women to be feminine?Yea it's called the cooking channel. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 02:18 PM |
| 4 | Do women have to work for looks too?Women don't need 90% of men. That's the point. Aside from the genetically gifted, the rest were self-made and not born valuable. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Do women have to work for looks too?I was replying to his implication that women are born valuable. Men are not. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Do women have to work for looks too?Exist and live. They're born valuable. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Is picking a girl up (not literally) at the gym in line with “Don’t sht where you eat”?Yes you can talk to girls at the gym. You're welcome. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 07:23 AM |
| 20 | How to stop living in my head in social situations?Brain needs proof not promises. Go into social situations and practice relaxing in the situation. Over and over and over and over and over again. No amount of thinking will overcome social anxiety unless you do this 100s of times. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Can't understand what's my problemYea so you're ejecting early. Everybody does this early on. I spent like 1 month solid ejecting out of night sets because I was too afraid of running out of shit to say. Most day interactions are short. Approach, build some social comfort, one or two qualifiers, little teasing, and then don't ask for a number... instead, setup the date if you can right away... date, venue, time for that night or the next day. Then once she's agreed or is considering it, tell her to add your number and txt you. I… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Can't understand what's my problemI'm confused as fuck too. There's no way you've done 60 cold approaches and not gotten a single number. Did you forget to get a number every single time? > After having read a shitton of theory it seems like I got worse instead of better. When I approach women I look too energetic and it seems like it comes off as needy/beta behavior (Actually energetic behavior (showing too many positive emotions) is feminine so it makes sense.) When I used to be more aloof/asshole/silent I got way further with… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Night game adviceStop comparing yourself to other dudes. That's a one-way road to misery without exception. You'll find plenty of women that'll fuck your brains out once you get gud, regardless of height or skin color. You need to find a girl who's DTF and escalate fast. Go up, test for compliance doing anything you want... high five, grab hips, poke her, ask to dance, whatever you want. Spend a little time dancing. Then just say "come with me" and isolate. This usually won't work unless it's 1am+ because chicks… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Shit test: "I'm done with casual sex, I want to build a connection first, if I have sex with a guy early on I probably don't like him etc etc"Yea exactly. These comments are dog shit. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/18 10:30 AM |
| 3 | Shit test becoming boringNot true at all based on game theory and my personal experience. Congruency and shit tests are about value. She's imposing a frame on us and we pass by not caring, proving that we may be more valuable than her. This is the reason some guys rarely get tested while others get them non-stop--HB7s treat us all differently depending on our SMV. The point is that amplifying takes effort, can fail really easily, and does not get us into a frame that progresses us towards sex. If you look at any shit te… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Shit test becoming boringYou can just ignore them. Amplifying doesn't do any better than ignoring. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 11:08 AM |
| 2 | How can I kill the negativity inside my head?Cognitive Therapy (CBT) was created to rid thoughts like that. It's serious shit. Lots of science backing it up. That's like social anxiety 101. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 11:25 AM |
| 4 | Chick clearly denied we had sex"She friendzoned me" I've told girls I don't kiss and tell within the first 3 minutes of an approach and it's worked. There are a lot of pickup routines that are centered around showing the girl you can keep a secret. It's a big deal. And you just fucked it up. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Was a complete beta. Maybe still am. Struggling to let go of a woman. Any suggestions and ideas?Make your life revolve around lifting. It may sound stupid, but it fixes you. And muscles wing for you. And he had raped her apparently Calling dudes abusive is women's favorite way of absolving themselves of any blame or guilt for leaving or cheating or whatever. I've never experienced a real case of abuse from these types of women not once in my life. There are obviously alcoholic assholes that beat the fuck out of their wife and kids, but I'll just assume girls in those situations probably ne… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 12:58 AM |
| 0 | How unleash the frenzied slut within a girl?Yea I'm not very kinky and I've only tried it with a handful of girls in the past few years. The prep some girls require takes way too fucking long. Takes away from the experience for me personally which might come off bad. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Last Minute Resistance?Yea of course keep escalating. No never means no, unless it means no. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Are you a virgin/you look like a virgin. How do you respondIt passes because you don't give a fuck. Girls with a sense of humor will love it. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Last Minute Resistance?It's a shit test in the sense that if you were like, "uhm so you want me to waste my time going on more dates with you?" that you are now, positively, dog shit in her eyes. But it doesn't fit the normal criteria like, "you look like a player" does. So whatever that is worth to you. When women bring up having issues with things moving too fast or needing time, just agree and change the subject. We agree because we want to change the subject and that'll require calming her worry. We change the sub… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:31 AM |
| 1 | How unleash the frenzied slut within a girl?Most women I've been with don't like anal. I'd worry if she won't do it even once, but if she doesn't want it every single time that's just her. It's not because you don't look like a silverback guerilla lol. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 09:50 AM |
| 1 | How to get into an LTR and not be emotional and beta?Showing negative emotions is OK as long as they're followed up with action to overcome. This is assuming you're already high value. Letting a girl in once in awhile makes her seem like you care. Mark Manson, although I hate his book for pickup, nails vulnerability with this topic. The emotions just can't be this dragged out thing or then it is over yea. It's like if your girl put on 30lb because of some medical reason.. if she's putting her fat ass in gym 7 days a week, you'll wait a little and … | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Is it really as bad as I understand it?No. RP makes it seem like women cheat an inordinate amount because everyone comes here as a fat chump. If you lift and stay ambitious in life, she won't leave unless it's a drastic jump. She might cheat if she gets drunk at a club and is with her whore friends that egg her on. Yea. Don't let her do that. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 11:34 PM |
| 1 | What does top 20% SMV look like?Nah that's not true at all. I learned pickup with a group of indian and asian guys that were not top 20% and they all pulled. And this was all night game. Day is really easy. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 11:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you properly ignore in order to regain frame?I'd lie my ass off if I was in a marriage. Literally all my dread would be made up. I'm lazy as fuck. But who gets married. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 09:50 AM |
| 1 | What does top 20% SMV look like?Who cares what top X% of SMV is when cold approaches during the day are all isolated with no competition? Work on your game. Tinder is only to be used between sets and approaches. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Breakup with LTR - 1 Month Later she's still messaging me?If you were her first, I'd keep her around. She'll be more loyal to you than other hoes if you want an LTR. If her shit sucks, make her change it. Women will change anything if they really like you. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 09:36 AM |
| 2 | How many pounds do I need to gain to be ideal?If you lift 6 days a wk and eat and sleep well, you'll look good in 12 months. Won't be Tinder-ready but if you can bear leaving the house you'll do great. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Any good pieces on the Incel / TFL experience?There are endless videos on YT of dorky guys being coached infield. Incels won't accept those because the guys in the videos aren't disfigured Indian dwarves. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/18 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Why so many fitness bunny moms married to dough boys?Was she wearing her ring? You just asked her for her number despite it and she was cool? I've had some really good approaches with women that had rings on. I've never been able to get digits. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 01:31 PM |
| 1 | 2 HB9 Blonde Snowbunnies VS 2 Chocolate BoysMaybe I'll use some of that on a black chick one day. Get knocked the fuck out hahaha. Pickup magic bullets. It'll take you to the next level. /u/strifeprevails mentioned investment which is what I was hinting at. Without knowing how to build rapport, break it, get girls to qualify themselves... you're just going to waste massive amounts of time and get nothing but flakes and lmr ruining your time. Qualification does away with a lot of it, but you have to have an actual conversation to get that … | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | 2 HB9 Blonde Snowbunnies VS 2 Chocolate BoysYea I figured you'd say something about kino, but you get it about isolation so it is what it is. You can run lines on white girls like "have mixed babies with me" and shit to amp it up while you're dancing with them. Ask them if they're going through a black phase. Play the interracial card. It won't always hook, but when it does hook it'll hook hard. It'll be new and interesting and fun to girls who haven't heard it before if nothing else. I'm white so I don't get to have any fun here. still h… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 12:26 PM |
| 1 | What have you experienced first-hand sicne taking the red pill that has shocked you?I had this one chick ghost me while she was ovulating. Had to double the deadlifts hahaha. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 11:56 AM |
| 1 | 2 HB9 Blonde Snowbunnies VS 2 Chocolate BoysThis is my opinion as someone who hates dancing. Dancing is a waste of time. She's going to flake like she did because those feelings are gone 10 minutes after she leaves the club and you aren't there to keep them going. You had an awesome night and felt baller, but to her it was just one of a million. She has no idea who you are. If she's going to let you fuck her in the nearest bathroom, you can get there quicker isolating her and running game off the dance floor. If the outcome of all your ef… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Got my girlfriend pregnantShe could get a judgement for child support and garnish wages/bank account/maybe tax returns. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Why are women facinated at my natural pokerface?It's good to not laugh or smile too much at first. Keep them wondering. I like your line and a perfect time to escalate--pull her into you when you say that, then push her away. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 10:23 AM |
| 0 | What is the story with height?Women become sexually attracted to men that display alpha behaviors (game), even if they they initially thought the men were ugly. That's how RL works. But this process is cut out with online dating. Men can understand this process actually--we've all met other guys that, initially, we peg as low SMV dorks because they are short and skinny or whatever... but after observing them interact with us and others, seeing them with a hot girl that was all over them or whatever, we realize, wow, the dude… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 10:06 AM |
| 8 | Plate break and i feel sad.The easy choice is to "upgrade" her so you can keep banging her and feeling good. But it's an insidious one. It's a horrendous opportunity cost. You're going to donate a potentially large chunk of your life and sexual energy to this girl... for what? Some pussy? Do you even both do anything significant together? Are you both curing cancer? Are you even traveling together? Those are the only exclusive relationships worth having. You could spend 12 months playing house, not improving, or you could… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 08:40 AM |
| 3 | How did Patrice O'neal(RIP) know so much about how women think, act, psychology, and interplay with men.Read magic bullets. It's probably the most well-respected book in the pickup community. Game is all about conveying alpha behaviors (copying behavior from naturals was how Mystery, Neil, and the other crew started the whole thing off). | /r/askTRP | 15/07/18 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Did I have an absolutely terrible sex experience, or is something wrong with me?Omg I fuckin died when you said “a smooth pig” holy shit this has me lmfao at work in tears I skipped to the TLDR, but your comment saved me. That is some Hannibal Lector shit. I'm saving it. Don't know for what. Comical. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/18 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Are there women out there who won't ever disrespect you?Each time she says some disrespectful shit I tell myself that that's the last straw, but here I am stil You don't need MRP. You need pickup. Learn daygame or nightgame, pay a coach if you have money, go to some hot seats. You knew this before you even posted. Everyone here knows this but they want the easy way out, which *seems* like making it work with the current girl. That's the hard way. By far. A lot of the experienced guys here would far rather replace the current bitch... but they can't. … | /r/askMRP | 12/07/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Boundary Solution?That may be true, but I have 3 years of her behaving well so far. This is the first thing that's bothered me. The fact is, she sucks and fucks as much as I want, cooks, cleans, makes 100k of her own and pays for everything equally (she buys me gifts a lot so probably pays more in the end). As long as that doesn't change, maybe stressing over rare events like this is just a waste of time. | /r/askMRP | 26/05/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Boundary Solution?I guess you're talking about my post. So here's the result, which I'm not totally satisfied with, but I fucked up by being a bitch in the first place so this is how I'm going with it: She came out last night that she'd cancel the trip but only if we split some insignificant cost of her friend's plane ticket that was non-refundable because she didn't want to burn that relationship and her friend wouldn't go alone. But I decided that she'd just resent me for being a bitch about it, the way I handl… | /r/askMRP | 26/05/18 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Not sure how to handle vacation situationHaha touche. | /r/askMRP | 25/05/18 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Not sure how to handle vacation situationNot sure what having balls has to do with it. It seems to just comes down to if you believe AWALT includes fucking random dudes in any given bathroom at any given time of day. Boundaries don't matter then. | /r/askMRP | 25/05/18 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Not sure how to handle vacation situationOK I appreciate the longer reply. But setting a boundary is mateguarding behavior... I don't see how you're differentiating the two. Telling her she can't do certain things is telling her how to behave. | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to handle vacation situationYou're describing mateguarding behavior which half this sub suggests is beta, and you married, but my foundation is weak? Sure. | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to handle vacation situationThat sounds like she can go fuck anyone she wants and we'll still give her attention when she gets back. | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to handle vacation situationI'm trying to see if you're all congruent about this or just making it up as you go. Every comment is either let the chick do w/e the fuck and don't care (why the fuck are you married then?) or disallow. Trying to figure out where this dudebro's line in the sand is. | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to handle vacation situationI looked it up. What am I DEERing about? Is she fucking the milkman in the gym bathroom? Try to communicate my dude. | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to handle vacation situationSo you'd let your girl go to the club without you all the time, no problem? | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to handle vacation situationHow do I frame it as the overall trip is a boundary? I mean, what else could it be? I'm afraid the plane will crash? | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to handle vacation situationYou gonna tease me like that? | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Not sure how to handle vacation situationCan you clarify if you'd give a shit where she was going and who with? I mean, if she was going to cancun with some cheating sluts, would it change anything? | /r/askMRP | 24/05/18 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How long to get over oneitis? Heart is smashedYou know that's actually how I've been treating it. We were exclusive, then I broke it off and she'd always come to me when the pussies she went on dates with couldn't close or whatever. But this whole "im in so much pain around you i cant bear it and need space/i don't want to see you anymore" act makes me think she finally found someone she really likes. But maybe I just was too much of a prick for too long... if that's even a thing. Losing frame has been the last 3 months of my life so I acce… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/18 04:27 AM |
| 1 | How long to get over oneitis? Heart is smashedI'm not drinking or taking much. Low doses just so I can sleep. I have to sleep or I'll get fired. I'm able to manage these things well, not an addict or anything like that. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 05:20 PM |
| 1 | How long to get over oneitis? Heart is smashedI'm an intermediate lifter, but I never got good at pickup so I am focusing on that and will keep going out every night (or as much as I can). Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 10:53 AM |
| 1 | How to find a wing?you don't have to post when you don't know anything. fuck off. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 04:16 PM |
| 1 | How to find a wing?i already gym and box. i don't know what the hell you think goes on at these places. "quality friends" is what i already have. i want someone who's serious about game. you guys are absolutely worthless. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How to find a wing?the majority of guys i've met at bars won't cold approach muchless wing or do anything else... i want someone to actually do it fulltime with not just provide entertainment | /r/askTRP | 05/04/18 07:54 AM |
| – | What's "Roll Off"?The way Lovedog explains how most guys just kino and keep kinoing as being horrible leaves me a bit confused. That's what I've been taught to do-- kino and just keep kinoing. Anything up on YouTube or something I can read? Lovedog also said in one of those that he probably has about 30-40 kino interractions leading up to sex. I definitely don't have that many because I never stop the kino, like I mentioned above. Any opinion on that? This shit is frustrating. I know I've lost girls over-doing it… | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 11:25 PM |
| – | What's "Roll Off"?This is the first time I've seen someone advocate for creating plausible deniability on each escalation. They also seem to be advocating for iod (rolling off/pushing her off/throwing her hand) after every escalation. How important are these things? I've read models, attraction code, book of pook, but none of those ever directly described these techniques. At times I have definitely felt like I invested too much with kino (holding hands too long, or whatever). Should I be incorporating these conc… | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 06:29 PM |
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