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important consideration: you can be "blackout drunk" (no memories the next day) without being "passed out drunk"
/r/AntiFeminists10/03/22 09:46 AM
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The medium is the message. If she was really in love, she’d be organising trips for the two of you. That’s how committed loyal serious women act. On the other hand, she might be holding back if she feels that you’re not serious. In that case, why do you even care?
/r/askTRP09/06/21 01:20 PM
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Clothed? Gay bff. Naked? Prostitutes.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 09:57 PM
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Jeffrey Epstein would disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 12:09 PM
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If you texted him about potential self-harm as a way to get his warmth and support, then he’s not your biggest issue. Hint: it’s you & your mindset. If you had texted me that, I would text you something similar back, and in parallel I would be on the phone with your parents staging an intervention, and also thinking about how to let you go without triggering further self-harm or similar.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/20 10:37 AM
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Um... you seem hellbent on villifying men and pedestalizing women. (1) Men that don’t respect their partners are trash. Women who date such men obviously don’t respect themselves and are thus also trash. (2) yeah I agree, as I wrote above, there’s other reasons she might feel that way. But I, not being able go read her mind, only able to listen to her words which could be lies, have to assume the worst case scenario to be safe (or else make assumptions based on her behaviour, not just her words)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 11:23 PM
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The problem is that “I don’t like anal” can mean two things: He tried sticking his pinky in my ass, I said stop and we never tried again. He pressured me, I relented because he was so hot and I didn’t want to lose him, we kept doing it for 2 years until I got dumped, but you’re not hot enough for me to endure that again. (In case you’re wondering, (2) is a real-life example.) A man should assume the worst (in absence of other information).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 09:17 AM
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No “controlling” is based on intent. Entitlement to impose your wants and values on other people. Whether you’re successful or not is a different issue. Even entitled people who don’t get what they want are still trash
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 09:13 AM
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A lot of it is about seeing (though not sleeping with) as many women as possible initially, Good advice, except this part. Most people are fake pre-sex, so you need to sleep with them first before they start dropping the mask.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 08:14 AM
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Slut. Whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 11:51 AM
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The rich don’t get praised for being rich (often hated), they just get richer nevertheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 11:50 AM
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Ladies, listen to this guy. I’ve mostly dated virgins (unintentionally) but the one girl that wasn’t, I never even cared about the sex she had before me... because she made me feel like a king. “Oh my god”, “what are you doing to me”, “please fulfill my fantasy and fuck me in the ass” (which also happened to be my fantasy), “can I please suck your dick” (she initiated sex on the first date), “slow down you’re stretching me” and so on... she was insatiable, and I had all reason to believe that I …
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 09:39 AM
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The same argument can be said for men who are visiting prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 12:57 PM
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Personally, any surgery or even makeup is deception and hence lowers SMV / RMV, but I think many men disagree... Having said that, I often think surgery and even makeup are a cope. Second order optimisation that sounds easy and allows you to avoid doing the hard work. Are you doing all the first-order stuff? you’re healthy weight (whatever that means to you... I like flat stomach, some women & men prefer big butts... stomach hanging out of your pants is definitely too fat) working out (running, …
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 12:13 PM
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They lie that they’re not hookers. /thread
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 11:24 PM
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Read the webpage Kill Your Inner Loser. The guy, Andy, has a LTR that is half-open, he’s having threesomes with his bisexual girlfriend and other girls. They discussed this “hypocrisy” (not really, if they’re both happy) on their podcast as well.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 09:05 AM
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”I believe in equality, I’m happy to let you fuck other girls as well.”
/r/askTRP09/09/20 09:02 AM
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> something is obviously wrong for her to be looking for a guy my age Well, obviously. But this is also an easily solved problem. You just make sure she’s not actually looking to LTR with a guy over 30. You’re just her fuckboi. Amazing sex. Then you start being awesome outside of the bedroom and slowly make her reconsider. She should still be very reluctant of course (“he’s so amazing, I’m 100% in love and he'd be a great dad, he’s just so old!”). Then you convince her that pills are bad (“hormo…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 10:06 AM
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Bad idea. Way too risky. She could badmouth you, accuse you of rape, violence, etc. You need to be strategic. Get some recording (audio, video) equipment, record these episodes - particularly ones that has her violent against you (throwing stuff), threatening suicide, or threatening any lies (“I’ll call the police and say you hit me”). Then talk to a lawyer, so that you have a witness and a written record, and then stage an “intervention” - call her parents or something, tell them that their dau…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/20 10:44 PM
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Don’t be insecure. She wouldn’t be on a date if she didn’t want your dick. If you feel insecure, don’t show it. Best if you don’t believe it at all. You’re better than her because you can evidently attract girls officially “out of your league”. Fuck her well. And remember, she won’t be looking down on you when you’re both horizontal.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 04:59 PM
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I think this is just plain stupid logic. Anything that doesn’t work if both people apply it - i.e. if both just let go and wait for the other person to come back - is a bad idea as a general rule.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 10:47 AM
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Short-term thinking.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/20 10:41 AM
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I don't want to talk to you, I want to fuck you. Talking is just a way to get there, but it's tailored to what women want, it's just 100% superfluous to men. How do gays flirt? They look each other up and down, and either nod and leave the club together, or turn around and find someone else. That's the male way of flirting. But if you want to seduce women, that just doesn't work... you need to be more like a peacock.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 01:13 PM
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The general problem with your partner having dated losers before you is that clearly they're attracted to losers, and they're attracted to you, I'm sure you can put two and two together...
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/20 12:48 AM
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You make a good point but it's not entirely obvious that women are in a better negotiating position. It basically comes down to, do incels need sex more than the cat ladies need children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 12:34 AM
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"truth" isn't "You're ugly" "truth" is "looks matter to women". men are smart enough to make the basic conclusion from this fact, but they don't see into women's brains so must rely on the words women say it's like a fat girl asking for advice. She knows she's fat, she's just too delusional to admit that to herself so she'd rather protect her ego. She doesn't need someone to tell her "you're fat", she needs to be told "take control, be proactive, do what you think is best, stop fallowing and fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 12:22 AM
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Only to the extent it impacts women and their dating options.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 12:18 AM
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Emotional infidelity = "will he care about my children?" Sexual infidelity = "are the children mine?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 12:38 PM
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Our genes die without sex just as they die without food.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 12:36 PM
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As someone who is rich and never starved a day in my life. I have been there. So I say this with experience and compassion... Some of you have become obsessed with and had your self worth tied to chasing money and food. Food is fun sure. But some of you have made it your sole focus. Working for food and money is not working. You are still enslaved.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/20 10:54 PM
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I prefer girls who don't think they're ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 08:26 PM
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No. Not being able to have kids with a real family (mother+father) is too big of a downside. But I'd be bi 100% if I could!!! Wife+kids+marriage & tons of dick on the side.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:02 AM
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“I know you work out hard, but you were BORN like this. You were always like this.” She could not fathom that I had to build myself up to what I am now. No, she was talking about your mind. You were born with this drive to improve and the willingness to work hard, that got you to where you are. (Although being a loser in school might also have something to do with it, though again, it's mostly mindset - some people, when pushed down, stay down, others jump back up harder.)
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 02:14 PM
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Just because some women kill their own babies, poison their husbands, ostracize their friends and fuck dogs and horses doesn't mean that all women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 04:29 PM
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She's not a "broke waitress", she's a world-traveling socialite social media influencer mid-famous UN ambassador person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 04:25 PM
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I'm OK with fucking => kids; what I'm not OK is fucking => woman decides => maybe kids; equal rights for everybody!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 01:26 PM
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Breaking your dick is another potential consequences. Face it, living is a risk, and we all die. But the main consequence of sex, being a mother, is exclusively the woman's choice (we're talking about the Western world, not some uncivilized country where abortion is illegal), so, yeah, she can easily avoid it, while the man cannot (or rather, it's not his decision). Basically, the woman is driving a truck, the man is standing in front of the truck, and she has the decision to brake or not; well …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 01:05 PM
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consenting to the risk of conception, and all the consequences that come with it unless you're a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 12:21 PM
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The patriarchy was a natural consequence of biology. Lol, then why do there exist non-patriarchal primitive tribes? In reality, patriarchy was one of the greatest inventions of mankind; you could even call it a technology, a social technology that enabled people to organize in bigger groups and condense their effort into achieving extremely long-term goals, while containing violence and making sure that every man (a.k.a. short-term productive member that isn't incapacitated or killed by birth) i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 06:45 AM
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You mean the same way as the feminists have been teaching women to respectfully live with men, instead of making up false accusations, lying about wage gap, and hysterically proclaiming all masculinity "toxic"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 03:39 PM
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I’m open to the idea of people being able to change over time, but the general rule is, when someone says “I used to be bad but I changed”, they’re just saying that to boost their own ego and/or reap the benefits of not being “bad” in other people’s eyes. To actually change, you need to first examine why you do/did something. The first step to doing that is completely owning your actions. I gather from OP’s post she didn’t do that, I might be wrong but I think a person that actually changed (wha…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/20 10:37 PM
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sure, systemic racism is the problem. whites are invulnerable to police bullets (but not to criminals' bullets)
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:56 PM
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Wow, someone pro-herd preaching against herd animals.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:49 PM
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You haven't changed, you're just sorry because you realized it was a short-term strategy resulting in (potential) long-term loss. First step is not lying to yourself. Then you can make a (more) informed decision that you'll be able to own up to in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/20 04:47 PM
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Then make it clear. don't be like a feminist who counts every instance of touching as rape, but in reverse
/r/askTRP04/06/20 12:36 PM
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um... yeah? I'm sure literally every girl has had their asses & boobs grabbed, those that frequent clubs probably are used to this treatment. but is it really that surprising? I've had my ass grabbed as well, probably not just by girls but by guys as well, either gays or as a joke...
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:11 PM
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I waited even longer once. Then, finally, we did it... and the sex sucked (and she had low libido!). But I didn't want to just dump her immediately because I was already too emotionally involved... bad times, 0/10, would not do again :/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:17 AM
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plyaing hard to get =/= waiting for sex. playing hard to get means not being proactive, waiting for his calls, not putting in any effort to plan dates, blowing him off ("he should try harder") etc. you can be very into a guy and wait for sex he dumped the girl because (1) she signalled she was a slut (lowering her value), and (2) she was otherwise not high-value enough to overcome being a slut
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:08 AM
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JS is literally the worst language for a beginner to learn. It breaks all the principles of decent programming languages (even of dynamic languages, compared to PYthon) and will make you think in all the wrong ways. Probably an awesome second language (after Python / Java / C++ / something functional) especially if you want to go more into frontend (and even for backend devs, it's useful - as grandparent said, pretty much everyone needs to learn HTML/CSS/JS eventually)
/r/TheRedPill31/05/20 04:00 PM
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guy's opinion here: I think there's two parts of this scale, maybe you can imagine it as a pyramid attractive / \ / \ unattractive slutty I think it's a good idea for women to go from "unattractive" to "attractive" - a lot of it is physical (fit, not wearing baggy clothing, long washed hair, dress above the knees with flowers), some of it is more internal (smiling, being optimistic, positive, good spirit, putting effort in a relationship), some is just general "life advice" and making good life …
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/20 01:19 PM
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Number of children who go to bed hungry in America: 1 in 5 7 out of 3 American children are fat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 07:41 PM
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Don't compare yourself to Instagram. From my own personal experience, walking around, even in places with stereotypically "hot" women (i.e. not the UK), there's very few women with long healthy (and washed) hair, clear skin and fit bodies.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/20 11:30 AM
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then another example - investing in a startup or hedge fund
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 10:15 PM
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So you think most (i.e. all but some) women are so incompetent that they can't figure out how to get to a clinic, so emotionally weak that they can't make a rational decision ("mentally unable to have an abortion" means "doesn't want an abortion") and so poor that they need taxpayer (i.e. men) bailout? That's like saying "it's not freedom because I'm not free to fly in an airplane because I'm too poor to buy a ticket" well you're free to organize your life how you want (including earning money) …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 10:03 PM
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In the first world, the vast majority of women have final say in procreation. There might be some exceptions (Poland?) but saying "some" is really a mischaracterization.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 09:03 PM
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The sexual liberation as no point was "go be like men and try to have as much casual sex as possible!" You can't be serious. Sex and the City? College hookup culture? Slutwalk? All feminist inventions, all promoting promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 05:31 PM
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This. Men also have a problem with being lied to. Emma Watson proclaiming "he for she" and feminism and "good guys" while ~dating~ getting nailed by the college jock.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 05:00 PM
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Most women aren't club sluts. They're Tinder sluts. Plausible deniability, total anonymity, you'll never know about Chads she fucked on a Tuesday evening straight from app to his penthouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 04:57 PM
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we're talking about the first world here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 04:54 PM
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remember, friends: correlation does not equal causation guys who are happier, eat well, ear more money, have a good social circle, are more likely to get married
/r/TheRedPill23/05/20 04:06 PM
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Not all of us love to play sports, are interested in hanging out with girls "as friends", or want to groom (beyond basic hygiene of course). All of these are specific behaviors that, unless you actually enjoy them (some men seem to enjoy sports, but IME many more enjoy being lazy and drunk and watching sports), are done in pursuit of some goal. That is what young men need to know - "do this in order to get that" - for various things as "this" and "that".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:38 PM
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Up to you what you want. Personally, I think life's too short for not getting blowjobs.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 08:33 PM
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the baby was sent sprawling across the floor LOL Did the baby even survive? Will it next time? Did you even think this through before posting? You made a huge mistake not calling the police (or you're exaggerating in your post for dramatic effect). Next time this happens, call the police, have him jailed, then divorce him. Maybe that would be enough proof?
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 08:28 PM
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"She didn't really want to get married."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:14 PM
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So what's your prescription if she comes 3-6 times every time but then takes 2-3 days, or 6-7 if she's stressed, to get horny again? I don't know, women are complicated. And different. And obviously I'm not perfect either, and probably I could be doing more (if I knew what). But regardless, it's not the porn that's the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 12:30 PM
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There are guys out there who see their once girlfriend as Mother once they have children You mean as a MILF?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:39 AM
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But why? I've been watching porn all my life. Literally started before I knew what sex was. Spent years downloading it via torrents when it was still less available than today. Figured out different genres (I like teen, anal, homemade, and dislike "fake" stuff like big tits or fancy orgasms). etc. basically lots of porn. I still want sex (in a 7year LTR) almost every day. I'd probably be up for daily if she initiated it. But she doesn't, she often rejects it (lower libido than me). Then I watch …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:23 AM
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7 years in, still going strong(er than her). For me, sex is a physical need. Like food. I just get horny every few days, or more often if I think related things (which I often do, as I'm interested in sex, in the same way I'm interested in Reddit). And she's still extremely attractive and thus my preferred way of satisfying the need. But, make no mistake, the need itself is innate, physical, not caused by her. If I were single, I'd just be jerking off to satisfy the need instead of having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 02:10 AM
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Visas aren't an issue, as long as you're giving them to skilled, highly educated people. Problem is visaless people, definitely in Europe with immigration from MENA, and possibly in the US as well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 01:42 AM
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also it's much easier for them to get what they want, attention likes and sex from (white majority) boys. "exotic middle-eastern beauty" vs "terrorist-looking brute" I'm guessing it's even way worse than for white men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 01:41 AM
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thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 10:18 PM
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I find your comments interesting (I've "friended" you a while ago, so you username is highlighted), so I'm interested in knowing more! In particular, how does what you do differ from "standard" TRP principles - is it just being genuine "I would actually like to have sex with you tonight but I don't mind if you're not feeling it"? Also more about high quality women that you wrote above I could immediately tell you what it is about them that's repulsive to higher-quality women what's the main feat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 08:38 PM
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What is this, FDS?! The real red flag is, you were with him for 3.5 years. Why would you put up with "low value boyfriend" for so long? I suggest you work on yourself, your self-worth, and your view of relationships (how things should work) before you jump into the next one... Edit: ah, saw your comment below, you admit to "low self-esteem and a history of family abuse" so at least you're not deluding yourself about it. Nevertheless, your post suggests you're focused on finding a HVM man, a goal…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/20 04:27 PM
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the "bitch" ain't crazy, the bitch is pretty normal the problem is that these multinational megacorporations with treasure troves of data and an army of data scientists figured out how to hack people's brains and hijack our internal reward mechanisms... casinos porn social media validation it's all the same
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:19 PM
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this. there's a reason your body puts on only so much muscles. joints and ligaments are way more important long-term and grow/strengthen much more slowly
/r/askTRP14/05/20 12:14 PM
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No, unless she's in actual physical danger, much better if she acts. She slaps the guy - she's gonna have 10 white knights immediately around her defending her. You slap the guy - you might be going down or having the police called on you.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:26 AM
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THe problem isn't someone hitting on your girl - you can't control that (and neither can she). The problem is your girl's reaction - does she immediately cut him off, nip the approach in the bud, or "entertain fucking him". She can control that, as can you - by nexting her.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:25 AM
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Personally, I find very discreet chokers very sexy... the kinds of what you get if you type "ribbon choker" into Google Image search. Plus it's basically "classy" so she can also wear it in public.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 01:45 PM
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I did a bit of MMA and japanese sports and disliked both. Eastern martial arts are too impractical for my taster, too much theory and not enough practice (at least things like Karate, it's all scripted, like a dance...). MMA - I don't like hugging sweaty dudes (or masculine women). Boxing, however, is real. You get to practice actual punching but limited contact with other guys.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/20 05:52 PM
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Same if you're a skinny guy in a tribe, if you see yourself stronger than you are and challenge a powerful guy, you'll likely get crushed. Physical strength has never been very important in our evolutionary history since humans split from chimpanzees. Other apes are much stronger. Human strength is our mind, and our social skills.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/20 11:33 PM
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She can't seriously say "you're different from other men" and then fuck someone else a few days later. She's clearly at least lying, to herself and to him.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 11:13 PM
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The political beliefs of the average politician during Coronavirus.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:00 AM
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wow you're really bored during the quarantine, coming up with all this amazing content!
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 09:09 PM
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We strive for fairness in objective matters. Matters of taste have never been, and never will be, fair (poor tomatoes!)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:10 PM
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Even gays know there's a difference between "top" and "bottom" guys. Heterosexuality is unfair by definition. (No idea about lesbians. Do they even fuck though?)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:09 PM
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Ok, that's pretty shitty of the dads. But I guess I was right to doubt MRA screaming. (Don't worry, I doubt all feminist statistics and pain points as well.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:58 PM
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Yeah, 100% agree. that subreddit might be a bit too focused on safety, although I guess it makes sense. It's not like anyone's gonna get jacked (not even AthleanX) with just bodyweight (well, ok there might be a few exceptions, but generally...)
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 05:40 PM
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This is the post - it was a while ago so I forgot the specifics: http://archive.is/KNiCP there was some praise too (which spurred the above review): http://archive.is/rpWhD
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 04:23 PM
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healthy men are more likely to marry (because it's easier for them to attract women) and live longer. correlation does not equal causation
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:53 PM
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What I mean is a woman has to be incented to give her best to her children and her home. No, that's loserthink. A person (man, woman, whatever) should want to give his/her best to his/her children because they're his/her children! Don't you want your children have the best possible childhood ever? If you don't get married, will you be more incentivized to leave? If "yes", personally I think you shouldn't bother having kids. It's a firm "no" for me. Having said that, indeed a "contract" can bring…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:52 PM
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Roosh might be "good looking" but he has loser written all over his face & his attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:51 AM
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diplomats nuclear weapons that can keep two countries from shooting at each other
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:15 AM
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I don't mind stupid girls, I mind stupid moms. I don't want my kids to have half stupid genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:14 AM
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Civilization progress happens in the periods between strong leaders (Hitler, Gingis Khan, ...) when the weak leaders cause sufficient stability for the nerds to get shit done.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:09 AM
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Exactly. Then she realizes that while she wants his dick she doesn't actually want his cum, so she "smartens up" and starts chasing after top % geeks, gets impregnated, and still creams herself thinking of low-life thugs in bed after hubby and the kids are asleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:56 AM
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I do have social skills. I can make people like me and manipulate them to get what I want. But I consider that borderline unethical, and, most importantly, boring. People are boring. And stupid. Social skills are boring. Not intellectually stimulating. And people are so so stupid. Organisations that promote non-competent people into management, on anything except (technical) merit, eventually fuck up (hint hint Boeing, Volkswagen, etc.). It's a stupid game to play.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:48 AM
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The difference is, with most other kinds of contracts, it's way more specified what happens in which scenario. With marriage, the government can arbitrarily change the terms any time it wants. That's the part I'm not OK with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:43 AM
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How many of those were shared custody vs. one-parent custody? Of the latter, how many mothers vs. fathers? Of those, in how many did the other partner even want custody? Feminists and MRAs are always bullshitting regarding these stats... "women take children from men" vs "men don't even want their own children". I wonder what's the reality...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 09:37 AM
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If you do that, you immediately realize that best case scenario, investment is losing value, worst case scenario, it explodes and fucks up your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 08:55 AM
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r / bodyweightfitness weren't very kind to AthleanX's "perfect home workout" workout.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/20 08:42 AM
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how many women did you fuck? In my experience, last few women I dated, experience bought me exactly 0 - I had to explore and find new triggers for pussylicking & fucking for each separately, they all got off in very different ways
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 09:25 AM
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Most women are ok with once a month
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 09:24 AM
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definitely true. also 145% of men rape each woman 3 times a day. proven by statistics by feminist university research teams!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:50 AM
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do they need to be raw or can they be cooked/roasted?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:42 AM
2

You probably don't want to reveal your own Insta, but can you give some good examples of "non-full-time" influencers/photos that could gather 40k followers (i.e. I don't mean those that travel 100% just to take photos, but rather "normal" guys, jobs, some sports, some socializing, etc.)? I can think of some variety of photos (food, sports, clothing, social gatherings, art, music - I guess that's more for stories though not posts) but is that enough these days?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 02:44 PM
1

technology is scale. why not both?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/20 02:40 PM
1

who said mandatory? I just want to protect myself from idiots like you!
/r/TheRedPill30/04/20 08:12 AM
2

Ok, this makes it seem more reasonable, yes.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/20 10:41 PM
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I could easily go three rounds a day and it's rare that men can keep up. The ones who can keep up can only do that for the first couple weeks, maybe the first month or so. The key is not ejaculating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:22 PM
3

Depends on where you are and your job. Engineer earning 100k in NYC is probably below average.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/20 09:49 AM
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Why are you being a dick? I understood everything Kara wrote (and I agree with her).
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/20 09:48 AM
0

Virtue & success are connected. A virtuous rich man can buy a Ferrari (and should if that's what he wants). A virtuous poor man shouldn't buy a Ferrari, even though he wants.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/20 07:23 AM
1

Sounds like a bit of a knee-jerk reaction on your part. Did you react like this just because he triggered something in you, some hangup from your past? Or is he actually controlling, in other aspects as well? IMO drinking coffee is bad (I'm against all addictions), so I'd definitely encourage someone close to me to do that (and adopt other healthy habits)... does this count as controlling? Maybe? But I don't care. I'd do the same with my children, leading them towards a good life, while at the s…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 11:39 AM
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because you would rather have the man than the marriage That's the best thing about denying marriage - it basically tests the woman, what she wants and why she's with you. She wants marriage? Next, thx, bye. She wants me? Let's do this (have kids)!
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 11:27 AM
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you're not really taking a man's perspective into account... decrease the chance of the woman leaving him no babies automatically assumed to be his not really a benefit to be honest
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 11:24 AM
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How I spent my money, did my hair, who I spent time with (females) was not his to dictate or have an opinion on. Why would that change after you're married?
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 11:24 AM
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Men wish women were smart enough to not want Chads in the first place. Father's best strategy is to ingrain in her daughter that Chads are bad and she should want a hard-working good guy instead. A single guy's best strategy is to assume father failed, daughter still wants Chad (even if she presents him as "good guy" to her father) and act accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:10 AM
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Also: the contract can and will be changed/renegotiated over time as our lives happen and things change, but it will not be arbitrarily modified by a third actor (state) with perverse incentives (tax, court fees, indentured servitude, ...).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:01 AM
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1000 dolars for changing your life is still very cheap If $1000 could change a person's life, the world would be completely different than the one we live in today. Can it happen? Sure. Reliably for most people? Not really. It's mostly a matter of luck...
/r/TheRedPill26/04/20 10:57 AM
1

A guy that I really want to be in a relationship with would be super attractive and I’d probably hold out on sex with him. Unless I'm reading this incorrectly, you're saying that you'd sleep with the relationship guy later (worse treatment) and with the fuckboy sooner (better treatment).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:47 AM
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High school never ends, people just become better at backstabbing and pretending.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:42 AM
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A guy that I really want to be in a relationship with would be super attractive and I’d probably hold out on sex with him. If anyone is wondering, this is why guys are "assholes" sometimes, and this is why PUA/TRP advice works. Have her see her as a fuckboy (AF), and she'll treat you better than if she sees you as a potential life partner (BB).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:36 AM
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IANAL but this heavily depends on the country / legal framework. I'm guessing you're talking about the US, AFAIK most European countries you don't get tax benefits by marrying (except if spouses earn massively different amounts).
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 06:15 PM
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you mean societal instability? I mean, literally the point of marriage is to have a party and get drunk. otherwise it's no different than cohabitation, I know plenty of people that have kids like that, they don't have the same surname but who cares, like married couples do these days :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:40 PM
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You should keep yourself attractive for yourself - it's healthy. If you're complaining about things like shaving, well you probably shave your armpit hair for society, shaving your nether regions is minimal additional effort. If having sex is an effort, you're in the wrong relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:51 AM
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find a loser with a lot of potential, groom him appropriately - teach him to be assertive & dominant, make him go to the gym & do some sports (kickboxing, MMA, crossfit, whatever), blow him daily & motivate him via sex getting increasingly more kinky as he improves, etc. all the while being mindful of his incelness (you don't want a "nice guy" just a weak non-assertive underutilized potential good guy) and ambition - basically, you want someone who wants to succeed (not be a loser) but doesn't k…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 07:54 AM
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don't enter marriages believing it's going to be a 24/7 fuckfest What's the point then??
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 07:19 AM
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haha I think she's pretty as fuck... how preferences differ, and thank god they do!
/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:56 PM
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Feminism ruined a lot of words that were used for social shaming, such as "creepy" or "nazi" - now basically any straight white male is a creepy nazi so it literally doesn't matter any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:38 PM
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Um... do you know anything about men? We're visual, we think old wrinkly women are yucky, and we project (like all of us, it's human nature) our own preferences onto others, so of course we think young women aren't attracted to old men... But then we look around, and see young girls fawning over Clooney, DiCaprio, Keanu Reeves, Mick Jagger, etc. and, well, the proof is in the pudding. Watch what she does, not what she says.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:22 PM
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No, decide what you want upfront and then call her out when she's not respecting your boundaries. What you want doesn't necessarily have to be "fair" or "equal" (e.g. you want to fuck her in the ass but you also want her to leave your ass alone). Women aren't "fair" even (e.g. "I want a guy taller than myself") but they're very good at pretending.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 01:13 PM
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Meh, women still get a lot of "correct" information (a.k.a. slut shaming) and often from men themselves! Technically, women/feminists are women's worst enemy. On the other hand, men are being actively mislead by women, and the only real (red pill) information comes from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 12:50 PM
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Not all of this is the same though. Pedophilia is attraction to children - like being straight or gay, it's not something that you can voluntarily change. Scat and/or bestiality, probably it's more like lack of aversion to certain things (like, why wouldn't you fuck anything with a pussy? why wouldn't you be OK with anal/shit (I read a comment on Reddit by a gay guy once, saying that he got conditioned into being aroused by the smell of ass/shit)). Similarly, in the old days it was normal to fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:34 AM
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That's like saying: women prefer tall men who can protect them wait until you hear about guns Logic can't undo millions of years of evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:16 AM
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You're seriously comparing unborn children with animals?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 12:35 PM
2

euthanasia requires consent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:31 PM
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Parent comment's words, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 02:56 PM
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So killing a child is "fair for the kid"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:10 PM
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You could give the same ability to mothers - after birth, they could "financially abort" the baby and the father gets custody and obligation to provide for the child. Oh wait, something similar already exists - baby boxes - mother can just dump the unwanted baby, and the state will take over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 01:09 PM
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The problem with being upfront (and "playing games" in general) is that the society treats breaking social rules much much worse than "white lie" dishonesty. Asking for sex is breaking social rules just as much as farting is. Would you fart loudly on the first date? If not, aren't you just playing games and being dishonest? After all, you likely will fart loudly when you're lying in bed with your partner at 65 after 30 years of marriage, so why not be upfront and dishonest? Unfortunately, "vetti…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 12:53 PM
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If your idea of "value upfront" is getting paid dinner, you're selling yourself short. A man's true value is his genes, his drive, his ability to succeed and dominate. You want that for yourself, your family, your children, not some beta that can pay for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:52 AM
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Dudes here say all the time that all that matters is sex and what gets their dick hard. Yeah but the point is, there's much more diversity in what guys like, so a woman can be thin, fat, tiny, tall, big boobs, small boobs, ... and there will always be a lot of men attracted to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 09:07 AM
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all mental illnesses are a big no no, it's just that people often find excuses for eating disorders or don't take them that seriously (especially bulimia, which has no obvious short-term effect on the body)
/r/askTRP13/04/20 09:47 PM
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Technically this is your failure, you failed to vet her, all aspects of her (including doing crime in the past). Now you'll be having a baby, I think you owe it to the child to be the best father possible. Also, it's likely that she doesn't consider that such an issue as you do (e.g. I think piracy (copying movies etc.) is OK, even though it's illegal, so standards differ), she might still be a "good person" you just disagree about one specific thing (for good reason on your part, as it's a lega…
/r/askTRP12/04/20 10:04 PM
1

Silver is a well-known antibacterial agent (used in e.g. sweatshirts etc.), the main downside is that you literally start looking blue if you take it too much/too long. The issue is, I lost the list of his recommendations, hence my question... if you have a source, I'd be very grateful!
/r/seduction12/04/20 02:39 PM
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It's the general theme of self-improvement, being your best self, maintaining good (mental & emotional) state, ...
/r/seduction12/04/20 02:37 PM
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Wait another 20 years, many of those "secure relationships" will be no more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:05 PM
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So if women don't want their husband fucking other women, is that just insecurity? What if it's just sex, he's fucking prostitutes? Insecurity!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:43 PM
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So (1) what's your n-count, and (2) will you be sharing it with your future partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:38 PM
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We accept that it can happen, it's just that you can't ever be sure, so you need to maximize your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 07:32 PM
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That's simply because most people don't marry in university / before they get real jobs, so age of marriage is also correlated with educational attainment (which is itself correlated with intelligence and non-impulsiveness / future-orientation). I wonder if what you say would still be true if you take that into account
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 06:54 PM
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Do you tell them any other ways other than "sell courses about making money online"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 01:15 PM
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I think we grew to see sex as like, a social activity for two sexually mature ppl and nothing much beyond that inherently. So when people get married, do they still think of sex just as a social activity? Or do they put a lot of meaning and expect things like monogamy like the rest of the society?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:36 PM
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you misunderstand the problem. men are not "hypocritically" accusing women of af/bb strategy while employing their own madonna/whore strategy. That's not what the core problem is about. Men are (rightfully) accusing women of lying about not pursuing af/bb strategy - that's why BBs never learn about all the AFs she fucked before, she's lying about n-count!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 08:53 AM
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He can become attractive, but he won't even try, because he doesn't know she's not attracted to him, because she started off lying and keeps lying to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:23 PM
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Sure, agreed. It's just that the first statement was "men are worse than women". Now I'm not sure whether this was an honest mistake, a misunderstanding (maybe you think that "nice" and "worse" are opposites?) or an intentional bait-and-switch
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 08:16 PM
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Men don't lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:57 PM
1

Not sure I see being "agreeable" as better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:50 PM
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Typical female view. Probably comes from fucking dildos. As a man, I've never had sex with an object, sex is the most non-objectifying experience to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:38 PM
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There's always a possibility of violence when interacting with a man. Men can never really be "people" to men. /s wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:34 PM
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2 things I never understood: 1) Asking for permission to live your life 2) Obeying when someone tells you that you can't sleep in your bed Castration is no longer necessary if you've got men (people) who do this
/r/askTRP10/04/20 07:23 AM
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If this is an option, tell her parents, let them know where to be and when to pick her up, you take her there (under a pretense, so she doesn't suspect anything), then let the parents do an "intervention" and cut her out of your life. I mean, that's what I would do. Even for smaller issues, e.g. her threatening with suicide. But then I'm not attracted to broken people like you seem to be, ignoring all the red flags and all...
/r/askTRP09/04/20 10:33 PM
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There shouldn’t be a word in my opinion. Exactly, because the whole idea is damaging to your ego, because (1) you recognize yourself in it, and (2) you know that being a slut is bad (despite your post claiming it's fine).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:44 PM
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Which is why I'm asking you, what other word would you use to denote this concept? You're not a n***r, you're black or an African American (or maybe just African, idk). You're not a slut, you're a ______ (please fill in the blank).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:33 PM
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Jeffrey Epstein did a lot of work in that area.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:29 PM
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But the word slut is very derogatory. What would be a non-derogatory alternative to "slut"? Admit it, you're not offended by the word, you're offended by the concept itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:21 PM
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You think women who have a lot of sex are sluts? Common mistake, but no. Women who have sex with a lot of men are sluts (by definition, not a value judgement).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:20 PM
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If a woman fucked 30 Victoria Secret models (women), we'd look up to her as well
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:17 PM
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Noone is going to praise or respect a high n-count man that fucks only fatties and prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:16 PM
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I have sex with my dick a lot, but it would be a turn off for my partner to also have a dick. Standards & desires don't need to be symmetric
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:09 PM
0

that's not really actiionable advice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 09:36 PM
1

The only real message men get, is "famous men have groupies". But fame is by definition unachievable for the majority of them, and extremely random achievement for the few.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 09:33 PM
3

This is probably reposted all the time, but IMO best post ever, the foundation stone of Red Pill: Men Are Not Happy
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 03:02 PM
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WOMEN DON'T WANT TO BE A FUCK-BUDDY. Don't generalize please. Plenty of women want to be a fuck-buddy / ONS. We want to be such men that are picked by such women (even if we don't then act on it).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:36 PM
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But what person ever said, “I’d be fulfilled if I could get many random strangers to nonstop compliment me (and of course, what else can a stranger remark on except appearances then?) Noone. Absolute noone. Except some rabid feminists like Jessica Valenti (I linked to the archived version, because they changed the title afterwards to make it more fake and more in line with the feminine imperative.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:06 PM
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um.. yeah all women are desired by men. That's the reason why the "femcels" subreddit went private after receiving to many sex offers from male (actual) incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:01 PM
1

All Leonard di Caprio girls were under 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:32 PM
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they made you go through 50 technical tests just to be sure you were fit for the job, and then the job is just some average job that's not super exiting. Going through the 50 technical tests didn't make you improve, it was just useless bullshit. Sounds like a liberal arts university degree :D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:30 PM
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No idea how men got that idea. "Just be yourself." "Bring her flowers." "I'd have more sex if you did the dishes." "Just be a nice guy." "Open the doors for her." "One day you're gonna make some girl really happy." "No means no." etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:28 PM
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Finally someone who gets it. Another one I can't stand is, "virgins suck in bed, I prefer sluts" ... um ... do you even realize that each of the "amazing in bed" sluts was a virgin once? And she learned to fuck well by fucking a lot and wanting to learn to please? There's probably some extra skill to be learned by fucking different men who want different things, but the vast majority is learned by fucking a lot, which honestly is more likely to happen in a relationship (easy to have sex every da…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 12:00 AM
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It's a thread about luck. Yeah it's not deterministic. Most of us are fucked, and even the "winners" will die. I'm simply telling you hot to increase probabilities, now get your ass off the couch and start improving your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 11:33 PM
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even if your'e shorter than average, still many girls are shorter than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 10:54 PM
1

Women are slut-shamed. Men are incel-shamed. If that doesn't make it clear to you, nothing will...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:57 PM
1

I don't condone the sentiment, I'm just using it as an analogy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 06:07 PM
1

Ah, I keep trolling you because you don't seem to get it. Explicitly: Judging a random person just because one of their immutable characteristics matches some tiny minority of "bad people" is, fundamentally, unfair. Many call it "bigoted".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:36 PM
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2 strategies for winning in games of luck. (1) increase the odds in winning in each single game; (2) increase the number of games you play. As a guy: be attractive - body/fitness, social skills, sex skills, clothing, body language, ... - for (1), got out & meet people & optimize online dating photos for (2).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:24 PM
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Women are more likely than men to commit infanticide. Inb4 "women kill babies". there is no absence of a fulfilled need that causes rape inb4 "sex is not a biological need"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:22 PM
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It's a big deal. That's why women lie about it. Exactly. Why are we even having this discussion? She knows it's wrong. I happen to leave the worst part out. Yeah, she knows. Maybe some men are different, they don't mind or even value sluts, but if you're a slut, at least own up to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:21 PM
1

Not having a phone and/or weights is no excuse. Yoga with Adrienne on Youtube, and r / bodyweightfitness and/or some channels on Youtube (AthleanX, FitnessFAQ, ...) What's your next excuse, losers?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/20 01:43 PM
1

There is a difference between experience (data) and arguments. Reasoning ability, tainted with emotion, is pretty worthless. Best you can do, is share your data with others (without presenting arguments/judgement) and let them reason about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 09:23 AM
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Any emotional appeal makes a voice in a discussion less valid than an appeal to logic/reason. In addition, it's often useful to inspect the biases of debaters. There's a reason we don't trust smoking studies funded by tobacco companies even if there's no apparent deficiency in their design/methodology! Drilling down into the details of each argument, verifying each assumption and reasoning step, is extremely costly, so finding out if there's any bias that would imply the conclusion ("men are bad…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:56 AM
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It's not a binary choice. Being bisexual is obviously the best, you get the benefits of both (good sex + understanding from the same gender, kids from the other gender). I regret not being bisexual every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 10:15 AM
1

I guess there's tradeoffs... Bars might be safer (you're meeting him in public and can do some vetting before going home) but you're more exposed to slut-shaming (people see you, they might talk).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 10:02 AM
1

It doesn't? How about Plenty Of Fish? I mean I never used it, but I thought it's free and requires long profiles, so there's still a barrier to entry... In other words, you're still paying, just not money, but time & effort to write your profile, which is more directly correlated with your success in getting matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 10:00 AM
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Blue pill advice = 2) "just bring her flowers" "just buy her a drink" "just be a nice guy" Red pill advice = 1) "be attractive" "don't be unattractive" almost nobody talks about 3)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 10:16 PM
1

What do you expect people to do? Attack them? That's a recipe for jail... It's a free country, freedom of speech and all!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:41 PM
1

10% of all reports turn out to be false reports That's just because most reported rapes aren't investigated. About 10% of reported rapes are also convicted. So that's 50-50 of resolved cases. The other 80% of reported rapes are left in limbo...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:39 PM
1

Only 11% of women had sex when drunk? :D There's something wrong with this statistic...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:32 PM
1

Everyone I know has been assaulted or raped or born.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 09:29 PM
1

What game concepts do you think helped you the most after you intentionally started doing them again?
/r/seduction04/04/20 08:12 PM
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So have you ever undressed yourself because a guy said he's good at giving head? Have you ever decided to not dump him because he said he's gonna go down on you more? I'm gonna guess, "no". Also, most women give head wrong in porn.
/r/seduction04/04/20 08:09 PM
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No that’s just the propaganda, that’s what they want you to think. Sure, maybe Jesus and Buddha and Marcus Aurelius and a few yogis were “truly” spiritual... but the rest of them? Mindless sheep, or to use the modern term, NPCs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 05:02 PM
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Infidelity seems to be a rare occurrence and a massive social scandal when it does happen. Rape seems to be a rare occurrence and a massive social scandal when it does happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 09:41 AM
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men don't know what you want - we might eventually learn, but the biggest learning is that different women want different things so it helps if you let us know (this refers to everything, and to sex in particular) many men will lie in order to get laid; many more will not tell the truth ("lying by omission"); getting laid is hard for the vast majority of men (even for Chads and fuckbois, compared to the generic attractive woman) it's easier to have it all for men than for you, because we don't h…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/20 09:15 AM
1

Don't be too eager to generalize based on your own preferences and opinions. I don't generally do very BDSM stuff, but I've fucked some chicks' asses and faces. Makes me respect them no less (more, probably). Same for the porn of more hardcore stuff I watch. People differ, for me, "degrading" is not a feeling, merely a description of some action.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 01:43 AM
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It's just a game. It's not actually degrading. Just like a shooting game (either computer, or paintball) isn't actually shooting and killing each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 01:12 AM
1

do you follow world news, elections, etc? I wouldn't describe most 30 or even 50 year olds as "mentally mature"...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 11:44 PM
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Oval, round, square, heart, rectangle Ok, but now seriously, does anyone expect a warm-blooded heterosexual man to study "face shapes" until they can determine their own? Why not just get a haircut by a stylish gay guy or hot chick at an upscale salon?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 07:13 AM
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If you haven't noticed, porn is usually full body & face shot of a woman, and barely any man - usually only the dick, in which case it's fairly easy to imagine yourself in the man's place...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 02:48 PM
1

Both men and women have the choice to conceive or not before sex, so both are responsible. Only women have the choice to give birth or not after sex, so only women are responsible. That's unfair, laws should be changed to make things equal (either make abortion illegal, or allow for legal / financial abortion; I prefer the latter).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 02:42 PM
1

Mick Jagger? Ugly. The Beatles? Below average. Seth Rogen. Not even on the scale. Joe Pesci? Fat midget (literally, his hot-as-fuck wife was taller than him). Nick Vujicic? His dick might just be his longest limb (also hot wife). Smart men know that women find other things (confidence, status) attractive than men (face, body).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 01:38 PM
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I don't care about ass and boobs. I care about flat stomach (indicates that the person values exercise & health) and a beautiful face (but that is very subjective, different people find different faces beautiful).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 01:26 PM
7

The "spirituality" of past ages was little more than a facade, people believed whatever the authorities told them to believe. Is that real spirituality? They weren't "seekers" seeking "answers" going through some spiritual "journey", they just adopted answers (and lifestyle and pretty much their whole life stories) from the set menus presented to them by institutions. Fake spirituality, if you ask me. Real spirituality is more of an a-la-carte menu, you need to actually explore - yourself, your …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 12:59 PM
3

majority of domestic violence is against women You sound a bit brainwashed. This is not true. Majority of domestic violence is reciprocal, the rest is about 50-50 women attacking men and men attacking women. It is true, however, that women get injured more (and more seriously), but that might simply be down to men being stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 12:47 PM
1

if she's into MMA she's probably into BDSM as well... soooo bratty!
/r/askTRP24/03/20 04:42 PM
1

Yeah I don't quite get guys like this. Like, the nominal problem of Red Pill is guys getting caught in Beta Bucks reality, and lacking Alpha Fucks. So we need to up our attraction and downplay our relationship value... looks like this guy was overdoing the latter part a bit (basically being a terribly shitty boyfriend) but then, I thought that's mainly for guys that don't actually want relationships (i.e. want to spin plates). Oh well, I've no idea... some men (people?) are just shit I guess. Pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 07:17 PM
2

Yeah, sounds like you were dating a Grade-A asshole. Why didn't you dump him immediately again? Sympathies!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 06:26 PM
2

Ah, just the usual "emotional labor" strawman then. you would want to help them if you see they are struggling About as much as I want to help a hamster "struggling" on the struggling wheel. It's for their own benefit! The men would be happy to have a family gathering with just some beers and meat on the grill, it's the women that want to run around and make some elaborate meal or something. Remember, women thrive on drama!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 06:04 PM
2

Women are usually the ones making major sacrifices and doing most emotional labor. Sits around ignoring her. Ignoring her is emotional labor! The alternative is exploding in anger after being nagged the 958237423rd time that day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:53 PM
2

Not sure about this one... some of the most feminized professions are still going strong (nurse, doctor), as are some of the most masculinized (truck driver, warehouse worker). It's 50-50 in my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 05:44 PM
1

Maybe standards aren't getting higher, just the people are getting shittier. If I was in the US, where the average person is obese and the 90th percentile is still fat, I wouldn't be dating either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:49 PM
1

But they monopolize all the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 03:46 PM
1

She shouldn't feel pressured, but hopefully she's open to rationally reconsidering her beliefs - beliefs should be pragmatic, not dogmatic. You tell a cute personal story, but the deeper point is, you were swinging between two extremes: "sex after marriage" vs. "have sex with a man I barely know because of peer pressure". Neither of these is sensible IMO, and they're definitely not the only options. A middle ground makes much more sense, and is less likely to result in catastrophic outcomes that…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/20 02:40 PM
1

We respect them less because we (mostly correctly) reason that if she gives it up that fast for me, she does the same for others as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 02:28 PM
-1

It's gonna be difficult. Especially in a liberal country like Germany. You're swimming against multiple currents, not only against the sex-positive one, but also against the never-getting-married one. Personally, I'd never date someone like that (family is extremely important to me, so the only way I'm ever getting married is after pregnancy is confirmed), so I'm guessing you'll be reducing your dating pool significantly. Personally, I'd recommend having long LTRs instead; that satisfies most of…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/20 02:03 PM
-5

Instead in my mid 20s now I am self hating after having been cheated on twice - to know that I have given myself to terrible men despite waiting/vetting makes me want to kill myself. I fail to see how waiting until marriage would have changed this. It's not as if men who get married are guaranteed to not deceive / cheat / divorce...
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/20 01:57 PM
35

These video posts are annoying. Can we get some [Video] tag in the title, along with a TL;DR: comment?
/r/TheRedPill23/03/20 10:18 AM
1

gonna train my right arm primarily
/r/askTRP17/03/20 02:13 PM
1

in the meantime, maybe take some sunshine pills (Vitamin D)
/r/askTRP16/03/20 11:24 PM
1

YaReally goes into a lot of detail here. TL;DR: it's not about being introverted (which he calls "laconic", low-energy, like James Bond) vs outgoing (which he calls "verbose", high-energy, like Russel Brand), but about being passive (reactive, following) vs pro-active (leading the conversation, influencing the environment, pushing the interaction).
/r/askTRP16/03/20 11:29 AM
4

^ biggest downside of being strictly straight :*(
/r/TheRedPill16/03/20 11:13 AM
1

It’s pretty real, matches mostly 100% with my personal experience. But then I only watch homemade porn. I can’t stand fakeness and makeup. Strongly recommended.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 08:26 PM
1

When looking for an LTR Found the bug! TL;DR: when you're not hot enough for sex, but still good enough for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 12:42 PM
1

They think they're ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 12:37 PM
4

what's the difference between honest and sincere in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 12:26 PM
1

truthful, doesn't wear make-up, honest about her emotions (none of that "what's wrong" "nothing" bullshit) - can't build an intimate relationship with someone who's not honest high libido, loves blowjobs, anal, into experimenting, BDSM, outdoors sex - we're not friends, we're lovers intelligent, driven, educated - don't want stupid kids self-sufficient (can cook, kill spiders, drive), responsible, history of sensible life decisions - needs to be able to take care of the kids if I'm not around (b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 12:25 PM
1

it disproves your claim _"physical attractiveness to the exclusion of everything else"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 04:34 PM
3

Pitt got fucked. Bezos fucked up himself
/r/TheRedPill13/03/20 02:36 PM
3

r / bodyweightfitness recommended routine - start there, move on when you get some experience bar, rings, some weights... a lot can be done even with just floor - AthleanX has some amazing suggestions on YouTube - e.g. "dive bomber pushups" are hell, as are "sliding floor pullups"... a single weight (can be book, water bottle, backpack filled with water bottles) can do miracles, there's tons of exercises - pulling, pushing, legs - especially if done asymmetrically (e.g. lunges with weight in one…
/r/askTRP13/03/20 10:27 AM
1

What's your point here? Even if you want a single monogamous LTR from your teens with your highschool sweetheart until your death, it's way better for your and for her sake if she's genuinely sexually attracted to you (as she would be to a manwhore). The manwhore skill is useful to any man, for any (heterosexual) goal he might have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:33 AM
1

physical attractiveness, almost to the exclusion of everything else, determines short-term mating opportunities Mick Jagger just smirks ... Science studies what it can study. The incentive is to publish, not be right (i.e. bang women). PUAs have the right incentive, the right methodology (going out, trying new things and getting rejected, finding what works) and some results (frame/dominance, leadership, emotions/push-pull, sexual fantasies, ...).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 10:42 PM
0

Research shows women do more of the social and household labor Feminist SJW research. In reality, this "labour" is worthless to men and only has value to women, so it's more of a hobby really; the women could stop doing it if they wanted to and noone would care (except themselves).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 12:14 AM
1

don't seem to be working They're working all right; they allow women to slut it up without being branded as sluts. You just misunderstand them - someone writing "no ONS" on Tinder is about as believable as NSA saying "we're not spying on everybody".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 09:34 PM
0

So does TRP. The funny thing is, both TRP and FDS are reactions to women slutting it up - TRP to exploit that (to become the man she sluts it up with), FDS to counter that (and reverse the decline in the market value of pussy).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 09:30 PM
1

men do this too, but they don't do it under pretense ("no sex until 26th date" after "suck dick in bathroom").
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 03:58 PM
1

Yes, not Indian - in theory I'd be OK with it but I find most of them just ugly. M / white / 30s / straight. Also, I prefer thin with thigh gap - I imagine there's less women like that of certain races (e.g. Latin / black) so that might skew my selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 01:47 PM
1

married 3 times to 2 women, do your math
/r/askTRP06/03/20 01:34 PM
4

You think your life sucks, but definitely better than being attracted to low quality men (fat, smelly, bad higiene, violent, ...) Simple solution: figure out what the priorities are (what you consider "quality" e.g. might be career + height but you don't care about muscles and social skills? no idea... personally, I don't care much about extraversion and big boobs (actually prefer introversion and smaller boobs) so picking those kind of girls would be my "comparative advantage" vs most guys)., t…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/20 12:49 PM
1

Um... what?! You're saying that is he says "no" she's guaranteed to remain faithful? If anything, this is a good quick way to figure out what she's made of. "Ok let's fuck another girl together." afterwards "so you want to fuck another guy?" "yes" -> "k thx bye"
/r/askTRP06/03/20 12:45 PM
4

Having money/sex/food isn’t everything. Not having money/sex/food, is.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/20 08:08 AM
1

You need to write more about this. How did you phrase it? How did she take it, did she need much convincing? What’s your relative SMV / RMV?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/20 08:54 AM
2

IMO there's women who take responsibility (e.g. for drunk sex, but also for other things in life) and women who don't. Why would you want to keep associating yourself with the latter kind of women? Or do you disbelieve the existence of the former?
/r/askTRP25/02/20 09:08 AM
6

You're (mistakenly IMO) assuming that he (or any rational male) would want to keep being with her... the only reasonable path forward is dumping her ASAP - the only remaining question is how
/r/askTRP25/02/20 09:04 AM
1

Read and learn, kids. This is what lack of options being married gets you.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:40 AM
1

She's a cunt, that's for sure. None of my gfs ever did that to me, and I'm not some super-masculine guy... just a normal guy dating smart hot chicks.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 01:38 AM
2

I wanna prefer virgins (I'm viscerally disgusted by the thought of her being fucked by any other guy) but in my (admittedly fairly limited) experience keeping your virginity over 18-20 correlates with a fairly low-libido (or at least normal, maybe mine is very high instead). So there is some reason to not prefer a 20-something virgin.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/20 08:48 PM
7

4) Ever having been pegged: yes/no.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 11:08 PM
2

Yes... there’s a stain..
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:08 AM
1

I was just pointing out that your reasoning is bad and wrong and you need to refine it a bit for it to make sense. Like "your past matters because it's the best possible predictor of the future, absent very strong evidence of the contrary, which being a born-again virgin trying to catch a decent beta guy after having fucked around in her party years, isn't"... just an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 04:21 PM
1

If your partner judges you for your past, they are not a good partner. I raped 7 kids in my 20s but trust me I changed, I'm a completely different person now!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 12:21 PM
2

feminist, extreme liberal, In fact, blindly following any ideology (including religion) is a red flag, means person can’t (or won’t) think independently and can easily be swayed by persuasive agents in the society
/r/askTRP29/01/20 12:26 PM
2

Two quotes I wrote down recently that are semi-relevant: Everything in your life is going to be really hard at first. And that's where most people give up. It's the hardest in the beginning. and If you don't know which dream to pick, fake one. That's right, a fake goal is better than no goal.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/20 12:49 PM
0

she's in love with you LOL
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/20 06:41 PM
3

been nice or respected women, you were just trying to get laid Your whole argument rests on this false dichotomy. Even us NiceGuys(TM) have feelings sex drives!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:40 AM
1

cognitive dissonance in men who want women to give them casual sex and then say women shouldn’t be out there having casual sex Those are actually two different kinds of men, as CainPrince explained in his post(s)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:33 AM
1

Step 1) be an amazing woman. Step 2) pick an amazing man (that is at the right place and right time to settle down and doesn't deceive you about that)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:29 AM
3

the problem with NiceGuys™ who respect women is NOT the "respect" it's the fact that the only reason those guys are giving them respect is because they hoping to weasel their way into her panties. a real nice guy who legitimately respected women wouldn't get butthurt about this stuff. yeah this is the oft-repeated SJW lie that no real Red Pill man actually believes. mostly because so many of them were ACTUALLY nice guys who ACTUALLY respected women, but didn't get laid... then we switched strate…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:21 AM
4

cause they don't tell the guys their n-counts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:05 AM
1

on par with the rest of psychology then (except IQ of course)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 12:00 AM
5

Do we know this is for real? AFAIK Heartiste migrated from WordPress to gab, there's no link to this "new" heartiste.net page on his gab account. https://gab.com/Heartiste
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 11:46 PM
1

I care much more about my genetic legacy than my country's genetic legacy. So many people in my country are stupid! So I need to marry below-average intelligence woman just to have average-intelligence kids, representative of the rest of my country?! Fuck that, I'm an outlier, maybe my kids will be as well
/r/askTRP15/01/20 10:16 AM
-2

yeah, me
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/20 09:25 AM
3

I don't have a lot of experience with dicks, but I can definitely say that in the range of my few very close guy friends , there is considerable diversity of likes (actively wants / likes / is neutral to / actively dislikes anal; prefers blowjobs / prefers sex; likes / dislikes cunnilingus; I'm guessing there's also a lot of pro-/anti-BDSM preferences though to be honest that's quite a bit inappropriate to talk about that still in our society so IDK).
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/20 09:42 PM
11

You're discounting the reality of (in)compatibility of bodies and sexual desires. His dick is sized such that it hurts you / you don't feel anything? You prefer act A which does nothing for him while he wants to do B which makes you uncomfortable? I mean yeah such issues aren't the end of the world, they can be worked around with enough willpower and effort, but you're in a world of pain where you should be in a world of pleasure instead if you vetted for compatibility correctly.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/20 12:30 PM
2

Yes. Confidence basically means willing, and able, to take life in one’s own hands.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 12:22 AM
1

Even as a mild Trump supporter it’s undeniable that he’s got very thin skin, a bit of a temper problem and is a sore loser. Not exactly marks of high confidence (or he’s a really good actor.)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 12:20 AM
0

Anal can be done in a way that is painless. In fact, most men wouldn't have an issue with her saying "no, not like this, let's try it that way so it's not painful" and "we'll just keep exploring and trying until you're satisfied and it's not painful for me"... instead of "I'll never even try anal again". Most women's (people's) problem is a mental block.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 10:55 AM
1

Good solution. Marginally complicated by sunk costs (i.e. you invest into the relationship, and actually like the person, and only then discover that certain parts of the relationship/person are less-than-ideal (no anal, kids/no kids, mental illnesses, etc.)). It's like saying "if you don't want to be beaten up, don't date people who beat you up" and I mean, yeah, that is the solution, but reality is often a bit more complicated, because emotions...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 10:53 AM
1

Anal is one of those things which either gets a woman of, or it doesnt get them off. Sex is not just about you. Cunnilingus doesn’t exactly “get me off”, but I still enjoy it immensely because it gets her off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 08:41 AM
0

Not really, no. We just subconsciously know something is wrong...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 08:38 AM
0

Why would I believe her? She says she doesn’t like sex. But funny enough, it’s just my bedroom that is dead, not her lover’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 08:29 AM
2

Currently in a LTR so not my immediate concern, but I've thought about it before... I know it's some men's explicit strategy to travel around and impregnate as many girls as possible (without giving her any trace of his real identity). Personally, I couldn't do it, as I want all my actual children to be well-adjusted human beings, which also means being a non-absent father and helping bring up the kid (like, not necessarily being 100% stay-at-home dad, but being around enough to engage with the …
/r/askTRP17/12/19 12:14 AM
0

lesbians also fuck half as much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 09:12 PM
0

There's nobody better than me except the 21 year you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:34 PM
6

What the fuck is this Blue Pill apologism?!
/r/TheRedPill08/12/19 01:24 PM
1

Very good comment! An afterthought (mostly theoretical, I have little practical experience): this game has two (types of) players. What would be men’s strategy? Top men (i.e. hot, fun, successful) can have their pick, why wouldn’t they just go for the youngest women possible (or as soon as they enter adult life, i.e. post-college) and ignore all post-23 non-low-n-count women? From that point of view, playing isn’t entirely free and it’s even easier to lose than you implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 09:11 PM
1

Problem is, good girls and born-again former instathots are virtually indistinguishable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 08:59 PM
1

I’d say we spend 1% of the ten years of our lives before we get married thinking about, wanting or looking for casual sex. So thats 1% of 3650 days, you’d still rack up a n-count of 36, more than but the most prolific of guys...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:38 AM
1

Feeling scared of flying isn’t a choice, but it’s still stupid and illogical (compared to driving).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:16 AM
2

Wow transactional sex even before the relationship actually starts!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:44 PM
1

Am getting naked and being poked by someone you barely know who’s strong enough to kill you AND also expecting much more from the encounter (e.g. a follow-up or a relationship) does sound kinda awful...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:31 PM
1

So Brad shoul marry Becky who really wishes she was banging Chads but doesn’t because she knows it’s bad for her? Literally all I ever wanted in a woman!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:18 PM
2

Motherhood is easy. They invented that shit over 100k years ago. Yet many still fuck it up...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:00 PM
1

As a young highly competent person, I’m actually extremely happy about that. Why should you get a raise just because you’re older? Wages should be driven by market value of skills, if a young kid is more competent than an old fuck, why underpay the kid?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 07:43 AM
22

She dumped you because she thought you were a pathetic bitch... she was right.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 10:07 PM
3

Quite the contrary, people who are in high sexual demand are actually by definition highly valued in the sexual marketplace. That's not what women (that frequent this forum) are aiming for... they want to be valued highly in the relationship marketplace!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/19 07:56 PM
2

Why is this downvoted? I prefer low n-counts but I know not all men are like that... people's opinions vary, they should be able to express them!
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/19 10:20 AM
4

You're putting a lot of morality into people's tastes.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/19 10:17 AM
7

It's hard to date based on green flags, much easier to discard people that show red flags (hence date those that have an absence of red flags, over longer period of time). So, one simple thing you can do, is to just not have sex with guys for some amount of time (1 month? 6 months?) to see which ones stick... dumping you because you don't put out soon enough would likely be a red flag (not necessarily, maybe he's just horny... but if a guy really likes (personality-wise) you he'd be perfectly ha…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/19 09:41 AM
1

Do as much as you can. Also, try different things; not just in/out, not just vibrator, and not just lying on the bed rubbing your vulva against a pillow either... get to know your body ,how it works, what kind of triggers you have etc. will help you a lot when you're having sex with partner(s).
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/19 09:36 AM
1

My non-industry 10 is chilling home with me. She's been in clubs maybe 5 times in past 6 years, and always accompanying me. You won't find top quality girls in night clubs.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 09:24 PM
0

Nah, he was brainwashed by feminism, any dominance and cockiness was beaten out of him by parents and/or school system, you've no idea what could be lurking underneath the nice guy facade... OP give him a book, like 50 Shades, or some manual like The Forked Tongue or Taken In Hand (I haven't read these book, on my TODO list, maybe others can recommend some?) if nothing else that will make it clear what you want, might flip a light switch in his head...
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 06:42 AM
0

This dude should probably be thankful the law isn't involved lol. Either way, he needs a lawyer.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 08:19 AM
8

I said no so many times but he kept going This crosses the line quite explicitly, pretty much by any definition.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 08:16 AM
54

Indeed. No wonder child abuse is much more common with step parents. “Fuck this kid he’s someone else’s spawn.”
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 04:39 PM
3

"It's complicated" (part 2)
/r/askTRP19/10/19 04:46 PM
3

Keep dating down, and eventually you're going to hate it. Keep growing (and your friends and partner(s) not growing with you) and you'll soon be alone.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/19 09:18 PM
26

girls fuck dogs and get turned on by monkeys fucking. don't listed to girls
/r/TheRedPill17/10/19 09:09 PM
-2

No matter how much you rationalize and/or seek confirmation from other men, dumping a girl for no reason is still a dick move. Your choice, your responsibility, but don't fool yourself that you can come out of this looking (and, more importantly, feeling) like a good guy.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 08:56 PM
5

that's shitty data concocted by non-science female studies professors trying to justify their existence. There's also (no better) data that shows the reverse, so now what?!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 12:05 AM
1

especially on the radio and movies like Superbad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 11:04 PM
4

what youve done before doesnt matter, Inb4 OP finds out he used to molest children... used to, he doesn't do that any more, people change, of course they do, what you've done before doesn't matter!!!1one
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/19 06:55 PM
-1

Why would I want to train Ju Jitsu, grappling or other MMA? I never want to go down on a street fight, least of all voluntarily.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/19 11:27 AM
–

how much pussy have you sucked, personally? Some women's clits are way too sensitive (at least at the start) to just "suck it"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 12:57 AM
2

Therefore to be able to recognise good girls, you need to try to plate them.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 11:22 PM
2

Compliance. They follow your lead all the way to the bedroom, being undressed and sex.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 07:39 AM
1

If men want low n-counts or virgins, practice what you preach. Heterosexual relationships aren't exactly premised on equality and/or reciprocity. Men want to eat the ripe fruit (have as much sex with "pump and dump" women) and then settle down with a unripe (or "virgin") one. No, men just don't want to marry sluts. The only way to see if a woman is a slut, is to try and fuck her. Win-win for the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 10:30 PM
2

So your H is smart enough to not believe if you told him your n-count, but stupid enough to believe you saying he's your best? :D
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 10:20 PM
22

No smart (a.k.a. non-blue-pill) man will believe any demonstration that she's "not that person any more". Because she still is. She will always be. OP is wrong in her observation that happy families are happy because they live wholesome lives. Those people are, and because of what they are, they choose to live wholesome lives, and are happy. OP is not that person (which she showed by her lifestyle choices), and if she lived a wholesome life, she'd get bored of it sooner or later and go back to h…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 08:52 PM
2

"Wait, you live here alone?" No, I'm just crashing at my friend's place while he's on a business trip.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:09 PM
5

I've never used the app. Not even the mobile website. Both are overrated...
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 07:24 PM
1

Wow
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 04:00 PM
1

If she is DTF on the first date, then we simply aren't compatible. The only way to know that, is to push for sex on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 03:36 PM
1

Not just choices themselves, but what they learned from them... dates a bad boy for 1 week and never again is different than dating 3 bad boys in a row for 5 years... I cheated before, I learned to never again be in a low-sex relationship :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 03:09 PM
1

Haha, the joke's on you, Napoleon was 5'2'' agree and amplify
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:04 PM
1

took my entire box of condoms and straight up said to me, “it’s not like your ugly ass would be able to use them in the first place”. Your main problem isn't that you're a short ugly balding weird asian. Your main problem is your shitty internal mindset, your self-belief that you're a weak pussy beta boy. It reeks of you so strongly that she noticed it within minutes (seconds?) of first meeting you! I have a few posts on Social media talking about how I look like a short “Troll rapist” of some s…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 05:02 PM
52

Ah, the good old "men manipulating is bad, women manipulating (makeup) is good"...
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 07:36 PM
1

Marriage will turn into a market for lemons. Only medium-quality men will be willing to get married, and risk their wives running away with children and half their wealth. Low-quality men won't get quality partners anyways, only tons of low-quality shared baby-mommas. High-quality men won't marry because it's too risky (better to get shared custody straight at birth), and they'll be able to advertise that they'll be good fathers (by virtue of being high-quality) that won't turn deadbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:53 PM
1

Sharks are slaves to their instincts, so "sharks stop eating people" isn't quite the same as "men stop raping women"... I think a better analogy is, "mothers stop murdering infants" because (1) it's only a tiny percentage of men/mothers who are rapists/murderers, so it doesn't make sense to generalize to the whole population, and (2) that minority is often mentally challenged in some way (either permanently, in case of rapists, or temporarily, in case of mothers (postnatal depression)).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:14 PM
0

she could still break up with you at that point. I'm fine with that. I value truth pretty much above all else, so it's congruent with my principles. That most "normal" women/people disagree with me on this, is completely obvious... just look at how unpopular TRP (and any other truth-providing "service") is!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 10:11 PM
1

Better example is women (mothers) murdering their own infants (more likely than men/fathers).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 08:39 PM
1

These are all common sense precautions that most men have to consider anyways (note: men are more likely to be victims of violent crimes than women, and their outcomes are worse - they're more likely to get killed than women).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 08:35 PM
4

Rape kits prove sex, not rape. You'd still have a lot of work to do to actually jail the (alleged) rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 08:31 PM
0

What's wrong with violent porn ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 08:19 PM
0

Women aren’t initiating 70% of divorces because most men are just so amazing to be around and adding amazing value to their life. Don't blame men. They're clearly amazing enough for the women to marry them... It's women who change their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 08:13 PM
1

Well I'm not gonna marry her if she's wearing make-up, so really it's irrelevant. But regardless, I simply don't lead with it. Similar to not farting in public. I'm more than happy to open up about all my principles and priorities as soon as I build a bit of trust in an intimate relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 07:54 PM
1

guys who think women who wear make up are lying Don't worry, we know that we shouldn't say that out loud. Or that we don't want to marry sluts...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 07:33 PM
2

Harsher than death?! I’m pretty sure even in patriarchal societies a man would face extremely severe consequences for rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 07:06 PM
2

Stupid guy meets stupid girl, they live a fucked up life, the end.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 02:50 PM
-9

Fat women [...] don't like to fuck as much. Seriously? You're analysing the sex life of fat women? Why do you even care how much or in what positions whales want to fuck?! Men in America really are desperate...
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 10:06 PM
5

You can be "alt right" (like Jordan Peterson, oppose feminism (we're on RPW right?), think that unlimited immigration doesn't work long-term, ...) without being the evil monster that the media portrays as "alt right".
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/19 09:04 PM
13

Just one simple comment, regarding your own (alleged) low value and the low/high value of your boyfriends... Your relationships shape you. As do people who you spend time with. You're learn shitty patterns from shitty people (another reason for not watching the news). High value people will teach you better mental models just by you being around them. Even better if you actually date one, who will have high expectations of you (higher that you even have yourself), you'll try hard to live up to h…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/19 01:52 PM
3

Yes. Good guideline to give to any daughters I might have. Another one I came up with (not sure it's relevant though, I definitely haven't followed it from the other side): never have sex with a man unless you'd be willing to have his children.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/19 01:49 PM
1

Do you know any old woman with as many groupies as George Clooney?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 08:53 AM
3

well the real question is, how big is the overlap between the "I keep my hair short because it's my body" and "where are all the good men" demographics..
/r/askTRP10/09/19 07:10 AM
11

I hate going to the gym and always have and I think I always will. I'm also in a 5 year LTR who is still hot and still wants to fuck me and please me, so no need for me to really try hard. I still do it (i.e. workout most days). I do it for me in 50 years. I do it for health. I do it because there are some sports I like (unfortunately I only get to do them a few times a year) and I want to be able to perform. I do it because I don't want to be another one of the old fat fuck who've given up on l…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 07:05 AM
22

people don't like you attacking their life / values / lifestyle choices / ego. News at 11.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 07:19 AM
3

Read YaReally's game strategy for "laconic" (stoic, James Bond) vs. "verbose" (extroverted, Russel Brand) types. https://newlyaloof.wordpress.com/2013/05/02/why-yareally-need-to-learn-game/ Ctrl-F "On The 4 Types of Game" or "laconic" TL;DR: you have to be proactive - actively pushing the interaction towards a lay, trying to fuck her, not just get a number or a “chat”, making your environment react to you
/r/askTRP08/09/19 09:18 AM
1

Indeed. If you're smart and want smart children, you need to find a smart partner. As employers have also figured out, having a university degree is a reliable indicator of (significant, thought not necessarily incredible) intelligence.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/19 02:51 AM
2

Then the problem isn't porn...
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/19 11:59 PM
3

That correlation is probably confounded with religiosity (religious people have low N counts and are morally/socially/culturally discouraged from divorcing). No idea if the correlation persists when you control for religion (i.e. if a non-religious low-N-count woman is also less likely to initiate divorce).
/r/askTRP06/09/19 06:35 AM
1

Hah, not the kind of porn I watch... homemade porn... I can't stand fake factory-produced make-up-and-fake-tits fake orgasms shitty plotline commercial porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/19 08:04 AM
1

probably the famed "tongue twirl". she's not gonna learn just from watching though...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 10:49 PM
2

no but I don't disbelieve they could possibly exist either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 09:58 PM
1

couldn't she learn the same by watching porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 09:19 PM
22

Either (1) she slaps him, or (2) you dump her. “Good” women mate guard themselves.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 10:41 AM
1

Speed (I cum first), strength (I get killed more often), intelligence (disputed by any real feminist), height (doesn’t matter because women gain nothing by being taller, in fact it’s probably detrimental for them)... how exactly does that benefit me?!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 10:06 AM
1

If a women has 10 children by 10 very promiscuous men and only one of those survives (lower chances because of low paternal investment of promiscuous fathers) and if it’s a boy that inherited his father’s “promiscuity genes”... she just hit a genetic lottery (tons of grandkids with her genes).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 09:33 AM
4

I'm sensing a post-worthy dose of quality content here. Don't leave us hanging!
/r/askTRP24/08/19 02:05 PM
3

Girl Friend Experience.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 10:48 PM
1

Cheap sunglasses with bad UV filters will cause long-term damage to your eyes. Bad idea.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 08:25 AM
2

Write down 100 crazy stupid random ideas. 99 will suck, 1 maybe won't.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 07:47 AM
2

She broke up with you when shit was rought and went to fuck other guys. Do you want a girl like that to br the mother of ypur children?
/r/askTRP11/08/19 07:09 PM
6

You just said the same thing as OP but using different words.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/19 05:52 PM
0

Yeah you two each have more problems than US politics. You kind-of deserve each other, neither of you having any boundaries... (1) You don't need to feel bad for not being able to pay, unless either (a) you fucked up your life somehow (i.e. you should be able to pay, but instead spent it on drugs, or didn't finish Uni because you were playing video games, or something similar), or (b) you wanted to live beyond your means (i.e. it was your suggestion to move into a house you cannot afford). If ne…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 07:40 PM
2

Could you and she have a heart to heart? Are you sure that will help? His mother isn't her problem... his mom is his problem, and he is her (OP's) problem... She needs to get him on her side, so that then he can deal with his mom.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 07:32 PM
2

Am I being too concerned due to my past No, you're not concerned enough because of your past. I mean, I don't know ... I definitely wouldn't be spending time with a person like that. But many women seem fine with that and even seek abusive men!
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/19 07:25 PM
1

It's very simple. If you have enough money and you want something, you'll pay for it. If I wanted to go to an expensive restaurant with my friends, but they couldn't afford it, I'd pay for them. Same with girls.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 09:28 AM
1

Is this the second naked girl you've seen in your life? Watch some porn, get other naked women in your head! Alternatively, try to fuck her and burn your relationship to the ground, that's an option as well.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 09:23 PM
6

how do blowjobs compare? do guys give better blowjobs (since they know, intimately, what not to do)?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/19 08:22 PM
2

My preference is same height as myself (5'8''-ish). Standing sex rocks. Looking around me (my friends etc.), I haven't really noticed guys judging women by height... I guess most don't want too big of a gap, and most are aware (or at least believe) that women like taller guys so they (except the most confident ones) won't go for taller girls.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/19 08:29 PM
14

Selection bias. Shittier women crash more relationships, so a shitty woman might have had 5-10 relationships by 30 or so, whereas an amazing woman could be happily married since 25 with one boyfriend before that... If you pick a random woman at 30, you're going to see correlation between shittiness and number of past LTRs. Most people are shitty. Most people never learn. Most people don't grow. TRP has a bit of a selection bias as well (people that want more from life than they're getting right …
/r/askTRP15/07/19 07:57 AM
4

Yes. Blowjob, cum, eat her out while you get hard again for another round, fuck.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 07:54 PM
1

This is the real world. The first one to bring in the big guns (cops) wins. The OP can get beat up by a gang, bring a bigger gang, and then they call the cops... OP's gonna suffer. Better call the police first.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 04:32 PM
6

During sex it’s better, before sex it’s worse (or at least less dread / excitement for her).
/r/askTRP13/07/19 09:53 AM
4

Voluntary auto-castration.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 12:05 AM
1

Many women don't have a sex drive. They have a novelty drive. Once that wears off...
/r/askTRP12/07/19 07:40 AM
15

It isn't that women don't want sex Yeah it is. Lesbian couples fuck less than straight couples. Gay couples fuck more. Draw your own conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/19 01:09 AM
1

Can you expand on (1) why you don’t want to live together before marriage, and (2) what you mean by “childfree married life“ and how is it different from “childfree unmarried life“?
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/19 07:22 PM
1

Having sex for purposes other than procreation is deviant too. Literally devil's work! /s
/r/askTRP03/07/19 08:02 AM
7

He's not going to be King. Just a side branch of the family. In 20 years noone will care about him, or her.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 10:14 PM
2

But help me put it in words as to why being in an LTR with an ex-CC rider is not a good idea. Because it bothers YOU.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 08:21 AM
1

Maybe he just wants to assess how good you are with money, what your spending patterns are and how irresponsible they are, etc. so that he can figure out if you'll be a liability if you get more serious.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 09:53 PM
1

Even blue pills will tell you that passive aggressive, lack of communication, covert contracts is not a good way to lead a relationship. Fix that ASAP!
/r/askTRP29/06/19 09:45 PM
1

Maybe every Chad is fucking the same 1% of sluts..
/r/askTRP28/06/19 07:12 AM
2

More like callingg out the hamster in OP’s argument, which was phrased as “captain doesn’t have time for other women” when what she actually meant is “I don’t want captain to be with other women”. I otherwise fully support honestly monogamous relationships. But yeah I’ll avoid bringing it up in the future. Feel free to delete!
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/19 02:32 PM
2

regarding 2. The problem is that there's no way for you to even assess "where you are"... maybe economically, but definitely not "genetically" - men have no way to accurately assess male attractiveness, and even if you can get an honest woman's opinion (tough!), attractiveness criteria vary widely between women and as we all know from various Tinder, OkCupid and other experiments your physical attractiveness counts little. Potential (both economic and genetic and slaying) is even harder to asses…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 08:21 AM
-8

Literally, who cares?! You can't change your genetics, there's only a little you can do to improve your looks, the rest is game. And frankly, I'm not really interested in average outcomes, I'm interested in outliers (i.e. those guys that get results disproportional to their attractiveness, i.e. ugly slayers), and what it is that they do. Stop reading shit that can't help you.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 12:18 AM
1

can't be bothered spending the time that "free fucks" and secrecy require. A Captain is a busy man The obvious solution is that Captian/him and First Mate/you pick up girls together :) I'm sure you'll save the time and he'll get the variety he desires :D
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 10:47 PM
2

Ross Jeffries, author of Speed Seduction and pioneer of using NLP in Game and originator of the term “sarging”.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 09:38 PM
0

No sex doesn't equal no money. I meant statistically. The two most common sources of marriage problems.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/19 12:03 AM
2

I hope she at least knew the conditions of your love before you took her virginity. She didn’t, because I didn’t. The ol in sickness and in health, for better or for worse until death do us part. If you found out that your partner was a rapist/child molester/white collar criminal/cheater/drug addict/(insert your own dealbreaker here), would you stick with them? People have dealbreakers, and even the most thorough vetting by the most experienced person can miss some red flags. More when you’re in…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/19 10:49 PM
1

Yeah, I think the disagreement is coming from different values / viewpoints... I probably value sex higher than most people, so “staying with someone who’s sexually incompatible” isn’t a viable option for me... nor is “practicing to make it good” if that would entail something like pressuring / trying to convince your partner to have sex more often or to have oral sex (no oral would be a hard dealbreaker for me). To each his or her own. I must admit though that I only realised how much I value s…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/19 08:09 AM
1

That’s the point, you can try, but that doesn’t mean you’ll like it... if one of you really likes it, and the other one really dislikes it, it can become a problem. Although I see that my point of view is partially biased by how much I value sex... not all people seem to value it as much (e.g. no oral sex would be a dealbreaker for me).
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/19 08:05 AM
0

Ideals vs. real world. Adults can manage their ideals vs. achievable realistic goals. And most realize that a virgin fish sex is worth less than low-n-count enthusiastic lover. Ultimately, life's a dice roll ("a box of chocolate").
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/19 05:17 PM
-1

If you're inexperienced (a virgin), you won't even know what's out there to communicate. You've no idea how your body reacts. How many virgins take the time to really explore their bodies (not just plain old vaginal/clitoral/penile masturbation, but things like anal stimulation, deepthroating, nipple pinching, piss play, ...)
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/19 05:15 PM
2

This is a very unhealthy way of looking at it. If he's in love with you he'll like sex with you no matter what. You're being naive. Did you ever have a bad/wrong sexual partner? I have. It's devastating. Simply lower libido than me. Would never initiate. Made me feel like shit, unwanted, undesired. Wasn't satisfying one of my most basic relationship needs. Despite love. It's heartbreaking.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/19 05:11 PM
4

I understand your reasoning but it doesn’t change the result. Of course it does. Who are the people most likely to have few sexual partners? Religious, traditional, well educated, future-oriented, well adjusted, high IQ, smart-life-choices kind of people. Who are the people most likely to have a lot of sexual partners? Prostitutes, drug addicts, uneducated folks, present-oriented, low self esteem, mental issues, ... (TL;DR: avoid red flags) Without controlling for "lifestyle factors" the correla…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/19 04:56 PM
3

The plural of anecdote is not data. For what it's worth, I've read a lot of stories on Reddit about people discovering that their partner is sexually incompatible, after marriage. I'm far removed from the part of the population that abstains until marriage, but from personal experience, the relationship cannot survive (I wasn't a virgin, but she was, I had much higher libido than her) (and it's heartbreaking).
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/19 04:53 PM
1

No. Sex is important (well at least for many people), so making a life-long commitment/decision about only having sex with 1 person, without sampling that beforehand, is foolish... Having said that, you don't lose anything (and, really, gain a lot, including better ways to answer the question your asking, by yourself for yourself) if you wait another 2-6 years. Edit: I don't have kids yet but if I have daughters, my main advice will be something that echoes u/durtyknees's advice... "Don't have s…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/19 04:50 PM
2

Not if the only other option is not reproducing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 09:57 AM
2

No. Men like chastity in women even in theory (e.g. the hot pop star they’ll never meet/fuck who claims she’s a virgin), and women like promiscuity even in theory (e.g. the hot pop star they’ll never meet/fuck who’s well-known to be a manwhore). It’s a visceral reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 09:55 AM
9

Sure, “just be yourself” is obviously the best advice ever. /s
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 09:45 AM
4

Looks like you’ve got built-in drama. Chick crack!
/r/askTRP19/06/19 09:19 AM
1

The one insecurity I had, the honker was gone. had nothing to do with frame or game. Of course...
/r/askTRP19/06/19 09:14 AM
10

The problem isn’t “men are autistic” the problem is “women play games”. There is no way to interpret “we’re not having sex tonight” followed by “why don’t you fuck me already” (personal experience) as sensible in any autistic or non-autistic manner, except by completely disregarding what women say (as long as she doesn’t leave).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/19 08:16 AM
1

You didn’t specify which one is hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/19 04:07 PM
1

None.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 08:21 AM
3

A guy's game is his agency - the ability and drive to make things happen. If the guy is getting top shelf pussy (always hard to believe off anonymous posts online, but I'm talking in principle not this specific post), then he doesn't really need to improve... Or, you can be a billionaire and marry a 4 (Zuck) or a post-wall epiphany phase single mom (Spiegel).
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 09:55 PM
3

Because sometimes it works, and when it does it's worth it.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 09:46 PM
1

THe biggest problem with high-quality girls is finding them.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/19 12:59 PM
1

Lol your reading comprehension is negative. The article was arguing from the viewpoint of the social (society-wide) good. I don’t care either way, but I do care about people arguing in an illogical way.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 05:02 PM
-2

This article is built on 2 premises that just seem completely wrong to me. (1) black pill: that male attractiveness is based solely on visuals. We at red pill know this to not be true; social status, frame, dominance, emotional stimulation, preselection, verbal and non-verbal communication etc. account for a large part, if not majority, of a man’s SMV. But you can’t see any of this on Tinder with just photos. The old stories like Frog Prince mentioned in the article don’t tell woe-is-me tales of…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 11:04 AM
2

Report her to FB for harassment, maybe they can permanently ban her...
/r/askTRP09/06/19 01:19 PM
1

But, Rollo's been banned by 21 Con as well. So... the enemy of my enemy is my friend?
/r/askTRP03/06/19 08:04 PM
2

(Hell check my post history for where women are saying a girl fucking her sleeping boyfriend is NOT rape!) I checked the post. The boyfriend clearly wasn’t asleep, he was just almost alseep and in that state didn’t remember anything. That’s similar to a person being blackout drunk - not remembering anything, but being fully functional (walking, talking, fucking). That’s different from being unconscious (asleep or drunk). Consensual sex cannot be rape, even if you don’t remember it - your partner…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 01:32 PM
58

there were difficult ethical challenges that needed addressing. What “difficult ethical challenges”?! Protecting cheating fraudulent sluts??
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 08:13 AM
5

It's also hard to find a girl that doesn't lie.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 07:22 AM
1

I really miss having random sex and using game. I wonder if my high n-count (100+) has ruined me for LTRs, at least until my sex drive declines. No. Every incel misses sex and variety. It's just part of being a man.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 07:08 AM
3

abundance mentality: If you had a choice of another girl, how bad would she have to be (as in, ugly, stupid, red flags) for this girl to be a worse choice than your ex-8YR-LTR?
/r/askTRP30/05/19 07:07 AM
1

Inspiring lifestyle, thanks!
/r/askTRP28/05/19 09:26 PM
5

Is it an open LTR, or one-sided open (you fuck other girls), or closed “we only fuck other girls together” style? Approximately how old are you?
/r/askTRP28/05/19 09:14 PM
1

I could have written the exact same thing! First two girlfriends were sexual as hell, really set high standards and set me up for a huge disappointment with my third one...
/r/askTRP28/05/19 08:41 PM
2

This is a very interesting comment! You should write a post on your experience and what you’ve learned!
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 04:24 PM
6

Either is OK (whichever fits your personality / mood), as long as you're proactively taking steps to move the interaction forward. Read here more: Why YaReally Need To Learn GAME - search for "On The 4 Types of Game" - discusses laconic (low-energy, James Bond style) vs verbose (high energy, Russel Brand style) game, and then passive vs. pro-active game.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 11:03 PM
2

Meh, you're a bit too black-and-white. I've given ultimatums before. The alternative was to just walk away (as in the post above), but I otherwise enjoyed the relationship, we've both invested a lot into it (but but sunk cost fallacy!), and I believed that she could change... and she did! Ultimatums are awesome, if you're giving them for the right reasons and with the right mindset.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 10:54 PM
3

Haha RSDMax has been in an (open, allegedly) relationship with a blonde Nordic beauty for like 3 years.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 10:25 PM
2

Huh? You don't only text for logistics AFTER SLEEPIGN WITH THEM! You fucking them means you win, it's your game now. Do whatever you want, don't lose frame long term but short term, play more "beta" comfort if you want LTR or keep them at arms length if you want a plate/don't care about losing them.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 09:58 PM
1

Are you one-way open (they’re only seeing you) or completely open, or do you just not ask/care? Threesomes? Excuse me askinng, I’m just really curious about more real-life examples, to build a better mental model of what’s possible and/or likely...
/r/TheRedPill16/05/19 12:30 PM
1

"Women would rather share a good man than settle for a bad one" Not aure that’s actually true... first, unless you’re like a millionaire at 30, you’re probably not that much better than the next beta. In addition, “good” women (educated, healthy, fit) have a lot of choice, so if you won’t commit, she’ll find the next fit ambitious beta that will. This is obviously only if you want kids. I don’t think monogamy makes sense unless you want a family, for either men or women.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/19 11:58 AM
5

Blackdragon is a very specific case. He's "strictly" non-monogamous, which (for him) means a LTR with fucking a girl every so often from online dating. Recently, he revealed he's also using sugar daddy sites - although I guess it's fine for him, as he's older and quite rich (comparatively). In any case, if your goals are similar, definitely do follow his advice!
/r/TheRedPill16/05/19 12:08 AM
3

They are things I would happily do with a ‘slut’, but at the same time I would never turn around and seek marriage with the type of girl who would do those things. You've a massive case of Madonna/Whore complex. Likely she's sensing the vibe from you. You don't actually want her to be a horny "slut".
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/19 11:15 PM
7

Your A&A is bad and you should feel bad.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/19 11:01 PM
2

Student debt (although I hear that's a very hard requirement to satisfy in the US, despite the effort men put into screening for it)
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 10:17 PM
7

This is sad and I'm appalled by how little support free speech has these days, but... let's not make this a bigger deal than it is; people much milder than he is have also been shut down... it's just the culture we live in, conservative / male == bad.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 08:15 PM
2

Ignoring something that has x0% probability is simply immature.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/19 08:08 PM
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And here is a neat graphic. As you can see, you need at least 3 or more children to really get a good marriage stability rate. Correlation does not equal causation. The real question is, how many of those 3+ kids are Mormons, Muslims or others from conservative religious family-centric background that value the sanctity of marriage over their personal happiness.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 06:14 PM
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Flaunting wealth is of course the wrong way to utilize wealth to live a great life or attract great women. If you want to buy sex, pay a prostitute; if you want to buy happiness, pay a drug dealer; if you want to buy love, pay for an orphan child's cancer therapy. Otherwise, use your wealth to get what other people value (hint: it's not money, it's what money can do for them). If you're rich enough to retire, you've essentially unlimited free time (well, limited by death). Travel, work out, part…
/r/askTRP04/05/19 06:10 PM
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No because consent at one moment doesn’t imply consent in the next moment. Unless she’s literally screaming “yes yes yes” throughout it’s pretty much impossible to prove
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 10:58 PM
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No, it's a great sign. It means that not only you have a high SMV, you have a high RMV as well. True abundance. You can literally pick and choose whatever you like, if you know what your goal is. If you want to continue having casual sex, lower your perceived RMV. I remember a story about a rich guy who had an awesome flat, and all girls he took home changed the tune from wanting to fuck to making him wait (in order to not be seen as sluts and making him her boyfriend) after seeing how cool the …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 12:52 PM
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You’re being disingenuous. Intra-family rape does not represent the majority (or any, really) of the cases picked up by the media, and doesn’t feature prominently, or at all, in the criticism of men currently popular with the mainstream media - their criticism of our society as “rape culture” focuses mainly on universities and voluntary consensual casual encounters.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/19 05:08 PM
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He’s a guy. Women prioritise emotions over truth. Men are the opposite.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/19 04:45 PM
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Your religion is your choice, if it’s your priority then you’ll have to accept that it limits you in achieving other goals in life (e.g. meeting a man).
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/19 04:38 PM
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Good answer. Intelligence and its proofs (e.g. PhD) don't diminish a woman's value (but they don't raise it either). What does diminish her value though, is ignoring other qualities while pursuing monetary/educational success (e.g. cooking, being pleasant and supportive, fitness, ...).
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/19 11:48 PM
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Blonde and blue-eyed is more valuable because it's rarer (recessive genes). Not sure about height though...
/r/TheRedPill08/04/19 11:38 PM
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There's nothing wrong with hypergamy, just embrace it. This doesn't sound like hypergamy, simply that you just don't have the hots for your bf. He might be a good friend, but for a relationship you also need awesome sex. Men aren't born dominant, they grow to be dominant. Most dominant men become so in their early teens, almost by chance (do something daring or look a bit better than the rest => get social confirmation => confidence grows => do more daring things), and most that missed that in t…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/19 07:52 PM
1

check out Goldmun Unleashed - blog, Twitter.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:25 PM
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Oh come on, relax, shitlord! It's an awesome April Fool's joke!
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 01:02 AM
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Always open indirect. There's absolutely no excuse to open direct, unless you're so famous (e.g. Brad Pitt) that you're 99.999% sure she's gonna fuck you immediately. Open indirect, joke, comment on the environment, tell a story, ask a question, whatever some excuse. Then calibrate depending on her response - you can either go more direct ("Did you see my chihuahua, it's wearing a pink ... Oh, you're actually really pretty, what's your name?") or keep DHVing indirectly until she's hooked. For mo…
/r/askTRP30/03/19 09:45 AM
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I was always curious about this. I’ve noticed it too, just from anecdotal experience, that most couples are roughly the same age, even when the woman is hot. However, I also wonder, to what extent is that simply because successful older men are just so damn rare? Like, most people are just average, and will remain average, but at 20 that’s a bit less obvious than at 35. So if women date 20-year-olds, they can imagine and hope they’re dating a winner, which is better than dating a proven 35-year-…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 06:36 AM
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What exactly makes you insecure? Looks like she’s gerltting both ehat she wants (alpha seed) and what she needs (motivation to improve, proof he remains alpha). Edit: this is what men were evolved to be, it’s the male sexual strategy, just like you have yours. Not all men think like that (people sometimes want things that are contrary to their evolutionary interests, e.g. homosexuality) but many are simply programmed to think that way, nothing we can do about it (except suppress it).
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:23 AM
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Haha best advice here coming from a girl. OP, this is ehat you need to do. She’s obviously fine enough with you fucking around. In fact, it even motivates her and makes her better! Women don’t know what they want!!! Does she just want exclusivity because it’s the ideal? Is she just buying into her social conditioning? Or does it actually bother her? Why? Maybe she just wants to know you’re serious. Put a baby in her, that’s serious! In other words, it seems that she’s fine emotionally, but not l…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:19 AM
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I don’t understand why a compromise is never even discussed (obviously not in MSM, bit rarely even in TRP). Female ideal is a comitted alpha. Male ideal is spreading the seed. A compromise sounds like a couple where he fucks around, but only has children with her (i.e. emotional & family exclusivity with his primary lover).
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:08 AM
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Haha you’re right I’m retarded! :D
/r/askTRP18/03/19 02:08 AM
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Yeah “anal” was just an example of something people either really like or dislike, and something that is fairly easy to filter for. due to the problem you mentioned about people getting bored. He alternative view of course is that partnership is primarily meant for children, and IMO a father-mother family is the beat structure to raise children in. I’m willing to sacrifice something in order to facilitate that, so maybe you are as well, and you find a man who is as well.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/19 11:33 PM
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Be selfish. Go for what you want. Otherwise you won’t get it. For more concrete advice, if you are his everything he’ll be less motivated to seek others. Do you do anal, or if you don’t like it, did you intentionally pick a man that doesn’t like it? Having said that, there’s more and more research saying that people get bored in long term relationships, both men and women. We want new things, men possibly more in terms of sexual partners. No idea what the long term solution is.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/19 08:24 PM
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Do I know if he was a bad vetting choice? Yes, because of the infidelity. Every cheater cheats the first time once. On the other hand, I cheated only once and don’t plan to cheat again. I cheated because I was sexually frustrated because of my partner’s low libido. It was an incredible learning experience in terms of getting to know myself and my needs in a relationship. I fixed this problem once and for all by finding a more compatible partner.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/19 08:19 PM
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Well there’s 300k people in the US so top 1% of men is 1500. However actors and rich people are concentrated in LA, SF, NYC so elsewhere it’s easier to get into the 1% (but the quality of women will likewise be worse).
/r/askTRP17/03/19 08:02 PM
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This is kind-of similar to the “locker room” point, but to spell it out explicitly: because I like it. Swearing is fun. Moreso when other people get pissed off by it, and act in ridiculous ways!
/r/askTRP17/03/19 07:40 PM
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She started threatening to "knock me out" I’m often wondering, what would happen if you “threatened” (in a nice calm voice of course) the club thugs rhat you’re going to call the police, saying that somebody threatened you with physical violence? Surely they don’t like dealing with police presence in their club...
/r/askTRP17/03/19 07:37 PM
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Why wouldn’t men just “gay up” and move in with their best friends, I mean, boyfriends? Looks like an ideal relationship, the sex wouldn’t decline over the years (it would stay at 0 throughout)!
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 01:49 PM
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AM starts with improving yourself ie having more interest in yourself than in women. Someone +1 this guy please!
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 10:43 PM
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Do you even understand PUA?! She can't see your mission or your SMV or how awesome you are (directly), she only sees your behaviour that lets her assume / deduce your high SMV and whatever (indirectly). PUA is based on the idea that the high-SMV-signaling behaviours can be mimicked (i.e. renting a Ferrari vs buying it, though this is a bad example because money doesn't actually matter for sexual attraction), and then the "nerds" backwards engineered exactly what those behaviours are and how to e…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 10:30 PM
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So 1 push 2 pull. Yeah it's an old PUA concept of "two steps forward 1 step back". Also how you "seduce" a cat (i.e. keep her attention). (Also works amazing for sex; had a girl ask me if she can suck my dick because of this tactic (I was a newbie so I didn't really know anything else) and then want sex the same night after first date.)
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 10:23 PM
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The data you’re getting “in the field” is obviously biased; non-cheaters will rarely be out to be hunted.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/19 06:55 PM
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No, women want an asshole that tells others to bend over and get fucked. But the only way she can see that, is that you make her bend over.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/19 11:17 PM
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Hey Vasya, do you have any guides regarding maintaining OLTRs? The rumor in the seduction community / manosphere (NextASF, BD, TRP, YaReally) is that even if starting open relationships is fairly easy (girls will share an alpha and so on), maintaining them for longer than 6 months or so is really hard (because girls will eventually want exclusivity). And, even if your primary is OK with that, the FWBs won't be (long-term), and it's hard to keep getting new ones (hence BD banging sugar these days…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 10:04 PM
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meh. Common marriage laws. Changing laws. False rape accusations. Paternity fraud. Stealing sperm. Life is a risk. Research it, mitigate it, anticipate it, manage it, face it. Don't be afraid.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 09:49 PM
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Public school is where I think things are going to start going off the rails. For parents without the time/money for homeschooling or private schooling, what are you options for preventing brainwashing? (or minimizing the effects) Move to a (formerly-communist) Eastern Europe country; probably Germany or Switzerland would do as well. Free schooling, fairly little brainwashing, life is not as cut-throat so there's not as much pressure on schools and kids to excel... and the kids can always contin…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 09:44 PM
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from the sexual invalidation I had as a child (12, I hit puberty early) Can you expand on this? Google doesn’t bring up anythjng useful for “sexual invalidation”... what is it, how can parents avoid it?
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 09:21 AM
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I had these thoughts with a girl less than 1 year older. A friend of mine complained the same about his girlfriend (although he then put a child in her). I’m not saying it’s a rule, just putting it out as a caution.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 09:54 AM
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Sure, but whatever amazing their relationship is, he'll always think I could have this with a younger, more fertile girl. There are exceptions, of course, but as a general rule... I'm just saying, tread with cautoin!
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 11:18 PM
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does anyone have a backup of this video?
/r/seduction01/03/19 09:17 AM
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Just take into account that given the age gap, this is unlikely to last.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 08:32 AM
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Talk to a good lawyer, ask him what the actual difference is between being married and having kids unmarried. Then put a baby in her (assuming you want kids, of course).
/r/askTRP01/03/19 08:31 AM
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I hope someone combines this with the recent fat rat story and makes an awesome meme!
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 06:50 AM
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Just for some context... xsplat is a failed PUA who moved to Asia to make it easier for him to fuck women. Tom Torrero, mentioned in the post, is a scam artist with proven (caught on video) fake infield footage. This doesn’t invalidate their points (good ideas stand for themselves) but don’t just blindly believe what they’re saying.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/19 06:46 AM
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Someone you respect. Almost everything (trust, leadership/following/submission, good parent, helps you improve, etc.) comes from that, in accordance with your own values (i.e. regardless of whether you value slutiness or virginity, you'll implicitly respect someone who's at least as good as you are at it).
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 11:50 PM
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The biggesr sin is making a “serious” guy wait longer than a “casual” guy before, irrespective of n count. Havig said that don’t rush into bed - it happens when it happens - but don’t intentionally stretch it out either.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 09:45 AM
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Battling nuclear powers with an army of soldiers doesn't make sense.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 09:14 PM
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Eh, probably availability bias. In many European countries most women (young people, really) are atheists, and even religious ones are often only religious on paper. Obviously there's going to be a lot of crazy/depressed/BPD ones, but also plenty of ok/good/well-adjusted/awesome ones.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 09:14 PM
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Or you can find someone who's not into crazy shit because she's sensible, not because society tells her so, and who's not into CC because it's not fulfilling for her, not because religion tells her so.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 06:03 PM
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They're more likely to be religious than most of Europe.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 06:01 PM
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Meh, I'm from a good high school (i.e. smart students) from medium-developed European country (i.e. not hypergamic West) and I don't know any high-school-sweetheart couple that remain together into their mid-/late-twenties (at least not couples where he is cool and/or she is hot; I never got to know the rest). People grow. People move. People change. People want new things. People break up. Remember something about women... they keep making new ones. A high-quality, family-/monogamy-oriented gir…
/r/askTRP24/02/19 06:00 PM
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Funny, I associate "woke" with "soyboy".
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 08:31 AM
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I wouldn't be seriously considering a girl's request of exclusivity if she was dating anyone else besides me.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 12:44 AM
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It just feels right-wing because everything not extreme left is characterized as extreme right these days. Not a feminist? Nazi! Oh you don't think that men are women? Nazi!! You oppose political correctness? Nazi!!! You think Kavanaugh is a piece of shit and completely disagree with his political views, but you also think that he should be treated as innocent until proven guilty? Nazi!!!! You read internet advice on how to become more attractive to women? Nazi!!!!!
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 01:04 AM
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Rejections of all ideologies is an ideology? Wat?! (That's one possible definition of science, btw.)
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 12:58 AM
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Two immature boys had temper tantrums in relationships in front of their girlfriends. Two immature girls had temper tantrums in front of the whole world.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 12:56 AM
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Tom Torrero is a liar. Not to say that the fact you mention is false, but using his name to support your argument is bad tactics
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 12:54 AM
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No, what matters is whom they fuck, not whom they find attractive. Why do they find Christian Grey attractive if they don’t even know how he looks like?!
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 10:03 AM
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Master PUAs can pick up without speaking. Should you try to seduce girls without speaking? Well, if you want, but you don't need to... You're free to use any tool in your toolbox. Words are one tool. Looks is another. Sometimes, it might be beneficial to avoid using some tool, if you've become too reliant on it ("crutch" - master PUAs often try to improve by limiting what parts of Game they can use).
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 09:20 PM
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Maybe when the replication crisis passes, psychology will be a science. Still unlikely, because (1) 5-sigma experiments involving people are too expensive, (2) many experiments are unethical (e.g. TRP stuff), (3) it's too censored by PC, and (4) people can alter their behaviors after psychology discovers them so that makes it really hard for it to move towards "better understanding of reality" (i.e. reality keeps changing).
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 11:42 PM
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But social sciences inch over that bar. With the seat of their pants just scraping it on the way through. Sure. Overall, 36% of the replications yielded significant findings (p value below 0.05) compared to 97% of the original studies that had significant effects. The mean effect size in the replications was approximately half the magnitude of the effects reported in the original studies. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Replication_crisis#In_psychology
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 11:27 PM
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same circumstances as striking a man. and sex (consensual BDSM) of course
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 11:22 PM
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outcome bias. articulate people that like to read and write are more likely to become top authors.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 11:16 PM
1

Why aren't you endorsed? /u/redpillschool
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 11:11 PM
1

<3 wow literally 90% of political issues would be resolved if people took this mentality seriously
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 11:01 PM
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Although social science is, by the criteria used to define science, perfectly scientific.... it may be wrong... by science doesn't guarantee being right. It just guarantees you follow the scientific method. "Scientific method" requires experiments. That's not something social studies can do (proper, reproducible, controlled experiments). Therefore, they cannot be social ~sciences~, only social studies.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 10:35 PM
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Public Seevice Announcement: You shouldn’t believe women when they’re trying to gaslight you (“Just be yourself.”). You also shouldn’t believe women when they’re seeking attention by confirming your beliefs (“Yeah she’s a slut but I’m a quality woman.”). Form your own opinion based on your own experience. Tits or GTFO.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 09:32 PM
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The problem isn’t that he’s a nanny and you’re the farmer. The problem is that you tried to make him your bitch, and he let you.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/19 01:47 AM
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She’s weong a bit. Women like successful men. By success, I don’t necessarily mean financial success, but rather achievement. The way I understand women so far, they’re atteacted to non-beta men who stimulate their minds. Surfer dude / pothead / poolboy (relaxation + zero fucks given about other men and society), bunga bunga successful businessman (dominance), starving artist (master of emotions + on his own mission), ...
/r/askTRP09/02/19 01:40 AM
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This is retarded. It's like evacuating the area after the bomb goes off. He needs to beta down, be the most obedient boyfriend ever, fuck her again but as slowly as a turtle, and play the too nice guy game until she dumps him. His ego might be hurt doing this, but at least he won't get ass raped in prison.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 11:03 PM
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"Change her mood, not her mind." Treat her like when your daughter/cousin asks you "why is grass green". If you attempt to answer logically, you lose no matter what you say.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:53 PM
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you should post a thread about your experiences, tips & tricks of professional chefs, and maybe even some interesting/quick/complex recipes!
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 11:37 PM
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Hey redpillschool, thanks for posting these articles... Not all of them are going to be interesting for everyone, but I found some unexpected gems (this being the shiniest one) that I would have missed otherwise!
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 11:28 PM
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That’s partially true. However, what also needs to be said, is that your value system is completely your own choice! So for example, instead of believing “the bigger the dick the better” and comparing your cock with other guys in the dressing room (FYI that’s gay... also DO NOT pick up the soap, it’s a trap!), you can instead choose to believe “my dick is the perfect size, if it were any smaller I would not be able to jerk of with my whole hand, if it were any bigger most girls wouldn’t be able …
/r/TheRedPill24/01/19 10:43 AM
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There is 4 as well: “I really want to fuck you, but I’m afraid you/the society will judge me as being a slut.” If you can convince her (logically) that you won’t think of her bad if she puts out, or instead if you increase her desire even more, her “no” turns into “yes”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 08:07 AM
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So, what exactly are your expectations of the man? Celibacy (i.e. you don't want to have sex (for quite some time), and he shouldn't be having sex with other people in the meantime either)?
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/19 12:23 AM
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That ideology is called science. And even in science, some (many?) people invest too much ego into specific theories so they hang on to them even beyond the truth.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/19 08:20 AM
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Don’t fuck women raw unless they’re baby momma material.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 09:55 AM
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Sure about this? I’d say many men desire power to get stuff done, whereas women jsut want to feel “strin. & independent”.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 06:59 PM
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Arguing in the way that most couples do is not normal and not healthy in our view. That's what I was hinting at. If you're arguing bad, you should fix that, for your own sake, as well as your kids'. If you're arguing well, then there's no harm in children seeing that.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/18 11:07 PM
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How will your kids learn that arguing is normal, and to argue well?
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/18 10:47 PM
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The problem (that the MSM have with) with TRP isn’t so much the content, but the fact that the communication is targeted specifically towards men, and explicitly excludes women.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 12:59 AM
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What's an alpha to reply to such a text? "No I'm really in love I want to marry her"? No way he's going to say that, even if he is in love. He just wanted to fuck with OP, that's why he sent a message that would mess with OP's frame.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 02:17 PM
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I think you misunderstood me. I agree that a married couple should respect their vows and not divorce unless in extreme circumstances. However, since having a family with children is a much greater value for me than marriage, so inability to have kids with someone would absolutely take precedence before the sanctity of marital vows.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 11:13 PM
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What do you think about being family minded as opposed to marriage minded? For me, family means kids, and getting married to someone only to discover you can’t have kids together (for whatever reason) would mean a divorce, which is much messier and trickier than just splitting up, as would be the case if you try for kids first and only then get married (if at all).
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/18 09:50 AM
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My current girlfriend of 6 years was like this. It wasn't a red flag (other things were, but we worked through them).
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/18 02:26 AM
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Enthusiasm. Insatiability. Voraciousness. Curiosity. Drive. Taking initiative. Trying new things. Experimenting. Orgasming. Being very wet. Loving blowjobs. Deepthroating. Face fucking. Swallowing. No hang-ups (e.g. "I don't like the taste of my own pussy."). Waking him up with a blowjob. Unexpected oral. Going commando. Sex outdoors. Anal. Threesomes. Drive means the willingness to actually learn/try (most of) these things.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/18 02:25 AM
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chivalrous man he will insult me go away hamster!
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/18 08:50 PM
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Interesting; it's been a while since I've read that book, I forgot about that part. In any case, I think this is a well-known concept also in business - people start that it might be better to start a business without a Plan B, so that you put everything into it. I'm not entirely sure if it's beneficial also compared to the relationship, but it does sound tempting!
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 11:34 PM
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Thanksa lot, this is awesome and very interesting! And here is where you must permit me a little bit of vanity. Haha you’re probably joking but it’s likely you at least subconsciously feel this way... but I see this completely differently - I wish more women were this confident! I don't know where I'd stand if he wanted to go date other women. Dating is a hassle, takes too much time, and for most average men, many more women are fuckable than dateable, let alone for above average men... unless b…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/18 08:32 AM
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This is a very deep and thoughtful post, thanks for this. As I grow older, I'm slowly (potentially) changing my mind from "choose your partner every day all over again" more towards "commitment means burning the bridges". However, I've a question that is slightly taboo on here, but nevertheless seems relevant, and one I'm really curious about. How come you don't include his fidelity into your idea of "commitment" (seeing as you've had threesomes - presumably with other women)? Does it include yo…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/18 12:30 AM
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his girlfriend before me was a virgin when they got together, and he dumped her for me precisely because he wanted a more open, more sexual woman Why do you assume that’s related? Every sexually open woman was once a virgin... so especially if you can get her young, that’s ideal!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 08:55 AM
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I don’t think that study is particularly sound... the biggest correlation is for low numbers, which is also highly correlated with religion (“no sex before marriage” and “you’ll burn in hell if you divirce”) so it’s not reasonable to draw conclusions for the general population.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/18 08:49 AM
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Don't think of it as surrendering "managing", but surrendering "decisionmaking". You manage according to his instructions. He calls the shots, you're just executing. He's the CEO, you're the COO, and a very good one at that. Give him regular reports, and if he doesn't complain, assume you're doing a good job.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/18 09:25 PM
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Have you tried experimenting a bit? Maybe wake him up with a blowjob. Start masturbating when you watch TV. Buy an anal plug, start practicing then tell him once you're in a fancy restaurant that you have a butt plug and that you were thinking of trying something new. Etc. many things to try. Also, how easy is sex for him? Does he spend a lot of time trying to satisfy you (oral, holding back his orgasm, ...)? Your pleasure is not his responsibility, but if he's constantly under pressure then sex…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/18 09:22 PM
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Interesting! Makes me wonder...
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 08:46 PM
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Gal Gadot looked pretty good after having 1 kid (now she has 2, no idea if she's been in bikini in any more recent movies). So yeah, it's possible (if hard).
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/18 12:52 PM
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You’re the prize! Haha that’s exactly what TRP preaches, to men! I cannot but imagine that two prizes sitting down for dinner would turn out to be pretty boring... Interesting enough, the highest level/SMV/RMV people I know are almost always more humble than “I’m the prize”, it’s what makes them pleasant!
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/18 08:17 AM
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she ends up calling me names Does she call you "slut"? LMAO Smile, nod and ignore pseudo-feminists that care more about politics and power games than about actually empowering actual women.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/18 09:49 PM
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Lol how do you explain geeks?!
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/18 06:24 PM
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BPD walk away some kind of personality disorder walk away silent treatment walk away Look, life is too short to deal with bullshit, especially other people’s bullshit that they could easily choose not to pour onto you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/18 10:50 AM
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Yeah, I agree with most of this; except I'd say, it's just as possible that porn is a symptom, not a cause, of relationship/sex problems (as in, if someone is 100% satisfied, they don't need porn).
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 11:24 PM
4

Porn usage There are two types of men... those who watch porn and those who lie.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/18 10:05 PM
15

Drama drama drama. The adult thing is to talk, not to end a relationship because of a day of bad feels. Like, you should only end a relationship when you’re so sure about it, you’ll never get back together.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/18 11:24 AM
1

-1 sounds pretty low...
/r/seduction27/09/18 10:20 AM
1

Was he doxxed too, or just got bored?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/18 06:58 AM
-11

Read online about the warnings about "horse girls" and stop riding (horses).
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/18 07:42 PM
13

Just because you won doesn’t mean you were using a good strategy.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/18 03:42 PM
1

Don't GPs have much lower life expectancy (I imagine it must be because they meet so many sick people). In any case, ophthalmology is another nice, fairly low stress branch.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/18 11:16 PM
1

Wow, this is the first triad I’ve seen with two beautiful women! Way better than Adam Lyons!
/r/seduction12/09/18 07:41 AM
3

Good list. Same should apply to men picking a wife (or gay couples too) or really any long-term intimate relationship (business partner?).
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/18 11:27 PM
3

Because the above quote (and the "slut/stud" paradox) is only surprising for women, not for men. Men know that who a woman has sex with is a much bigger deal than who a man has sex with - they've been dealing with this supply/demand problem their whole lives (unless they're like Brad Pitt lol).
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 10:55 AM
2

but it is for men as well in my opinion because that reduces the value of the women in their lives. Or increases? Like, compare to food. There are many amazing foods, many favourite foods, and even if you have an absolute favourite, if you ate it all the time, you'd get sick of it. Eating many different amazing foods doesn't in any way diminish the value of any single one of them.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 10:46 AM
1

Beauty is more chance than genes. Check out Gal Gadot’s sister.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/18 06:43 AM
16

There are plenty of women who do one or more of those things. There are also plenty of women (and men) who want to do that, wish they would do that, and even try to do that and fail. Being successful is hard. RP theory isn't "preventing" you from being successful (whatever that means in your value system), it's just highlighting that it's really hard, because it's realistic and objective (that's the goal at least). Focus on a single (or very few) thing(s), work hard, struggle, make sacrifices, a…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/18 11:59 AM
1

I guess the safest rule is, that you can’t “cheat” - i.e. you can’t suck dick or have anal just so that you preserve your “formal” virginity/n-count. Other than that, it really depends on your partner and relationship. Personally, I prefer openness and honesty, but I’ve had partners before ask to not share that - which I’m also fine with. Also, I’ve only ever kissed people who I also had, or wanted to have, sex with, and I don’t quite understand those who draw a distinction between different int…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/18 07:28 AM
1

adds nothing of value to this discussion Nor does your reply. Or this whole thread. I'll drop the mods a line to get you banned for a bit if you can't control yourself. Please do, maybe your ego will feel better ;) or it already does when you're posting thinly veiled electronic threats :D Edit: now this reply of yours does add some value, thanks! (Even though it doesn't change my opinion about the whole thread.)
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 08:42 PM
-2

Lives are on the line for the military No one really gives a fuck about military lives lost. Just cannon fodder. If they did, US wouldn't be fighting and losing war after war after war... for oil $$$.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 08:11 PM
9

Admittedly few whites want to go to Haiti, Mexico or Japan (except to fuck).
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 08:08 PM
4

Just FYI, oral sex does count.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 07:44 PM
-1

I’m not sure it’s reasonable or effective to admire a (likely) mentality ill person. “Got a few screws loose, I guess,” he is heard saying in the recording. “Never really knew it until now.” https://www.zerohedge.com/news/2018-08-11/seattle-airport-employee-hijacks-plane-does-barrel-roll-then-crashes-fighter-jets
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 03:51 PM
1

He said as much himself. “Got a few screws loose, I guess,” he is heard saying in the recording. “Never really knew it until now.” https://www.zerohedge.com/news/2018-08-11/seattle-airport-employee-hijacks-plane-does-barrel-roll-then-crashes-fighter-jets
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 03:50 PM
0

Personally, I'd probably go down the "educational" route. Now, I don't have kids so this is just a bunch of keyboard-jockeying. I'd probably ask her, "why do you think that" or something similar, and then develop from there. Also, it's an interesting question, that I haven't thought about a lot, and I'd say as much. I'm guessing it could turn into an interesting discussion about gender norms, social expectations, and, yes, sexist influences in society. But then, I don't have a "social agenda" to…
/r/askTRP11/08/18 03:47 PM
12

Your wife should be STFU-ing. You're not engaging with her, you're directing the upbringing of your children. Take it in your hands, or else it will be in hers, or worse, in society's hands.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 03:12 PM
1

Serious question, how come you enjoy posting nudes so much more than e.g. just masturbating?
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/18 07:36 PM
6

I’m sorry I hurt your ego. I didn’t mean to. If you carefully reread my comment, you’ll realize that I called the boyfriend’s opinion bullshit: He cited a number of reasons, but mostly it boiled down to, as he said, "my music is the last private thing I have, and I don't want you there, I want this to be just for me." This is a bullshit excuse. Why didn’t he just say: I don’t want you to come because I know you don’t really like and appreciate my music.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/18 08:41 AM
5

Trust me, he is fully aware of what you just said. Despite caring about you and loving you, he probably feels bothered on some level that you are not a fan. Why is why he comes up with a list of bullshit excuses? That's not a behaviour of a man's man. Something smells fishy here.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 09:34 PM
8

That's not your hamster, but your spidey-sense. Listen to it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 09:31 PM
6

He would ask me what I thought of different topics (life, parents, business) and drill with me until I was able to express myself clearly and completely. This, he said, would allow me to work with the top .01% of the population. Can you expand on this (maybe in another post)?
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 01:13 PM
5

“Eastern Russian” isn’t “Eastern European”, Russia extends all the way to the edge of Asia (it “borders” Alaska).
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 01:08 PM
36

Don’t believe everything Roosh writes. He’s not exactly a flawless diamond himself so I’m not too surprised if quality women are avoiding him (inb4 AWALT, I mean “quality” in the sense that she cares about her future, intelligent educated successful fit healthy avoids sugar drugs clubs social media dopamine spikes).
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 08:02 PM
4

This kind of shit test isn’t worthy of defusing. Normal humans can discuss issues without nuclear threats. If she brought up something that was bothering her, and her default solution wasn’t “let’s work it out” or “ let’s find a compromise we’ll both be happy with” but instead “let’s break up”, OP did the right thing.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 11:44 AM
10

A girl trying to be a unicorn is like a guy trying to be superman. It's just not going to happen. The most you can do is try. Change the things you can (exercising, personality, hard work, interest, how you interact with people, avoid social media, etc), and don't worry about things you can't change (easier said than done, I know, IME comes with age).
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/18 11:32 PM
14

It's the perfect advice for you. Your experiences reflect your micro-location (small towns), not your macro-location (USA). Change the relevant variable and repeat your experiment.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/18 05:54 PM
14

after you cheated She didn't cheat. But as the guy seems to lean towards bros before hoes, she might as well have.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 11:15 PM
3

Meaning the gf has to want to do it herself, not just to please him. I don't think she's necessarily the kind of woman to go looking for these experiences. Can you expand on this? It seems to me to be slightly contradictory. Although I might be reading it wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/18 05:21 PM
0

"Yesterday I inseminated a cow. Does that count?"
/r/askTRP07/07/18 10:02 AM
3

However, as cultures progress technologically and in standard of living, they have less children. Even in Israel! I don’t think a billion savages can overpower a few millions of highly advanced peoples... and the gap would only grow bigger over time (with technology developing even faster than population growth).
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 12:55 PM
1

Averages are OK for economists, but they fall short in the real world. Tail risk is what matters. This is why you buy insurance - you’re worse off on average, but you avoid catastrophic risks. The risks only get bigger the higher up the hierarchy you are (more to lose, more potential media attention), and that’s also the people that have the most decisive power.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 05:36 AM
1

That's just won't be enough. First, you need some sort of struggle. For some, it's a traumatic experience (e.g. with women), for others, it's just that they're fundamentally unhappy with their position in life. Next, you also need drive - for one can read TRP/self-help/book all day, but without concrete (often painful, at least mentally) action, you don't actually improve. Looking around me, not many people are ready to go down this path. (I'm not even sure I am!)
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 11:04 AM
7

I'm probably arguing against my benefit, but I have to agree with this. People in general are shitty enough that any kind of "success story" like LeftAndRed's above is a complete outlier. Don't expect people to change, it's not a good long-term strategy (but of course you can still be positively surprised if they do).
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/18 11:49 PM
2

I just wanted to write this. "not possible below average" is a common misconception, especially rampant in any kind of political or "appeal to emotion" arguments.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/18 11:45 PM
1

Troll?! One doesn't "download" Tumblr.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/18 08:33 PM
1

sweets are a major trigger for me I don't believe you. Most likely there's something else that's the trigger, and eating sweets is just the consequence. Figure out what is it! Common triggers include: seeing sweets (so remove them from the house), boredom, anxiety, thirst (yeah!)...
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 07:40 PM
13

Does the contract also stipulate, that if you don’t fuck around, your wife can’t ruin you? Otherwise, it’s a rather pointless contract...
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 10:02 AM
7

A relationship is not a job. A relationship should be cooperative, not adversarial. A job is almost always adversarial, because it's either you getting the money, or the company/owners/bosses.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/18 06:28 PM
-4

Hence my quotes. Also, there’s no rational people in politics.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 01:38 PM
30

Communities will automatically oppose those who want to restrict their freedom of speech / association and shut them down. Currently, for TRP, itseems that “liberals” are the bigger threat. But it’s not hard to see the situation reverse in a few years/decades.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 01:27 PM
1

troll post, fuck off. In the tiny chance you're serious, no, you didn't do the right thing. Mate guarding is never the right thing (if she wants to be yours, she mate guards herself). Also, when somebody attacks you, call the police immediately - that's what you're paying them for (literally).
/r/askTRP29/05/18 06:53 PM
4

An interesting comment by YaReally: Far as adaptation goes, I’d say look at who’s happier. All my guy friends are happy as clams. Occasionally they’ll have a bad day here and there but for the most part if they have a beer, wings, and an X-Box they’re loving life. And since a lot of them have taken themselves out of the rat race of chasing the “man up” lifestyle, they don’t beat themselves up about not being “good enough” and are generally pretty happy with themselves. Meanwhile I could probably…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 04:44 PM
1

Only if it was free :D
/r/askTRP17/05/18 10:47 PM
1

How often do you do romantic gestures for him?
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/18 07:42 PM
1

How about Germany? Free university (as long as you stay in the EU...)
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 06:53 PM
3

Additional items for B: she should regularly wash her hair (many girls don’t) and she should wear slim girly clothing after she loses weight (not hoodies and shit).
/r/askTRP04/05/18 07:18 AM
3

If he want you to "not work", he should be willing to promise (legally, prenup or something) to support you indefinitely, if need be. Otherwise, it's perfectly sensible for you to choose what's best for you, not for him/what he wants!
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 10:27 PM
1

Figure out some tasty, quick-to-cook, healthy and low-calorie meals then cook those over and over again.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 07:03 AM
1

Somemore Very low-calorie foods that still pack a lot of taste: 7) cinnamon bark 8) coffees beans 9) hot cocoa (not hot chocolate - that one has added sugar) 10) sundried tomatoes 11) pickled ginger (like the one you eat with sushi)
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 07:01 AM
2

if you don't mind sharing: who initiates the chess? how old were you when you married?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 09:51 PM
6

Law Abiding Citizen. A man's wife gets raped and killed, he revenges against those responsible (the criminals and the legal system that shields them) in the most genius brutal way.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 05:46 PM
8

Stop explaining yourself to women and/or journalists. They don’t want to understand.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/18 09:17 AM
1

rachel bush ah, give me smaller boobs and a thigh gap (à la alexis ren) any time of the day!
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 09:20 PM
5

Finally something to measure my micropenis with!
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:27 PM
5

I was thinking about this a few years ago, when I was looking at a classmate that had a nice face (i.e. clean skin, nice teeth, basically nothing wrong) but was IMO attracting much less attention than she could. The main 3 action points I'd suggest to her, and many other women (feminists hate me): wash your hair - greasy hair doesn't look nice wear fitting clothes - hoodies can look amazing on a woman... if she's not wearing anything else - if fitting clothes make you look worse, you need to los…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 09:03 PM
2

The idea of a (long-term, committed) relationship is to cruise through life together, help and support each other overcoming life's challenges, and keep having amazing sex with someone you respect. It sounds to me that most of the above aren't fulfilled by your current LTR.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 03:57 AM
1

starvation mode No idea. Some people think starvation mode is amyth. Others say that it’s all fine if you’re “resetting” your hormones every so often by having cheat days/refeeds. Recently some have been promoting fasting as a way to achieve autophagy, a process where your own body destroys damaged cells, as a way to slow down aging. Who knows. Experiment and figure out what works for yourself. Personally, I do just what I said above - skip breakfast and lunch. I still snack, but mostly low-calo…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 09:04 AM
1

Exactly. I don’t understand how anyone could think that cereal is healthy... or tasty, if it weren’t for the sugar. In general, why would your “breakfast food” be any different than your “lunch food” or “dinner food”?!
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 08:56 AM
20

Well yeah that's what happens during a cut.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 10:18 PM
-9

Manscape, eyebrows, body hair, pubes, whatever gay I've never had a woman complain that I don't shave down there. And eyebrows, seriously?!
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 08:43 PM
2

What's your risk-management strategy?
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:38 PM
76

I've never needed to eat breakfast. I recently discovered that I don't really get hungry throughout the day if I don't eat. So skipping both breakfast and lunch has become my go-to cutting strategy (we'll see what the longer-term effects are, but so far it's going well). There are so many diets because people's minds work differently. You need to figure out how to hack/train your own mind.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 08:24 PM
2

1) No, a cleaning lady's visit is basically about as much as a restaurant meal where I live, so there's no way it would stretch my budget that much (I prefer to live so that I'm more than a few paychecks away from bankruptcy, and was lucky enough to have been able to organize my life thus). 2) We've decided to split everything when we moved in together (after all, it saves her time as well), but I'd be happy to cover the whole cost if she wasn't able to (again, I'm lucky to be able to afford it)
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 08:12 PM
2

Blame the fringe fraction of feminism that taught you this all you want, but this is definitely better than what most mainstream feminism teaches, which is that women shouldn’t protect themselves from rape in any way, because it’s never their fault.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 07:28 AM
7

Misogyny: “yes means yes” and opposition to prostitution (the belief that women are too stupid to make their own decisions) Misandry: drunk rape (If they’re both drunk, he raped her), presumed guilt of accused rapists Ineffectiveness: MeToo (won’t result in reducion of actual (violent) rape, if anything will result in less men wanting to work with women) Stupidity: the wage gap (doesn’t exist; less skilled people who work less are paid less regardless of gender)
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 07:22 AM
2

It's enough. You're enough. You've made it, you're good enough. Focus on your own pleasure now.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 08:08 PM
10

Buy a washing machine? Slightly relevant, I believe that hiring a cleaning lady was by far the best investment (in terms of money/value) into our relationship (we live together).
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 04:03 PM
0

Shoot porn, watch it, and then decide what you want to do with it? (Delete it, publish it, keep it as private fap material, ...)
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 01:07 PM
2

It’s all the outrage among feminists.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 01:41 AM
2

Generalizing from a sample of 1?
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 09:06 AM
-1

"Extra"? I'm not an expert, but AFAIK that's not how biology works. You can either "gain" muscle (by lifting heavy weights, eating more and keeping a sufficient protein intake - don't worry about looking "too big" as natural women lack steroids (testosterone) to make that happen very easily), become "toned" (by dehydrating yourself - that's what body builders do before competitions, it's not very healthy), or "lose" weight (by exercising more but primarily by eating less - in contrast to gaining…
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 08:43 PM
22

Eat less. People will do anything to lose weight, except eat less. It will be graceful, but not very easy. It will be easier if you eat more protein and avoid sugar & sweets.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 08:02 PM
1

Two interesting points of view: 1) Do you want to keep your husband's name or your father's? 2) It's tradition, just like marriage. If tradition isn't important to you, then why get married?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/18 08:21 PM
2

That depends on the man. My ideal body type is thigh gap, small-ish ass, bikini bridge, flat tummy with abs slightly visible.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/18 01:46 PM
-4

Why? If the money isn't his but technically only belongs to the trust fund, can the divorce court still touch it?
/r/askTRP26/03/18 07:28 AM
2

The difference between hard no vs soft no isn’t stopping vs not stopping, it’s stopping and and getting dressed vs stopping and trying again later.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 09:29 PM
3

Google “spiderman squirt technique” possibly combined with ”david shade” and check websites, images and videos.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 09:26 PM
7

Or you could just say, "we should have less relationship" :)
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/18 05:52 PM
3

Make sure he doesn’t want anything from any woman. Don’t just drain his balls, but also drain hus fantasies and desires.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/18 02:26 PM
7

This is sinply bad logic. He might not care about staying with her but every man should definitely care about whether or not he stays with a cheater. Exactly like paternity tests - you might not care if the kid is yours or not, but you definitely care about being deceived for years.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 12:51 PM
3

So... paternity testing is also “immature and insecure”?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 12:45 PM
1

I've often been deliberating on this... If they'd been together since 22, arguably she "bet" on him when he was a "zero". Assuming he becomes a "hero" in the next few years (hits his prime), he'll never again be able to find such a sincere relationship - never know if the women he meets in his future (after he's already been made) like him for who he is, or just for the money/success.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 08:54 PM
2

I've a friend who's baby-moma wanted to have kids, loved kids, anticipated kids with excitement, etc. but after the kids were born, she became over-stressed, always tired, (possibly post-natally depressed), didn't want to do housework, every little thing with the kids became a chore and her "husband's" problem. Life is like a box of chocolate, you never know what you're going to get. If I were you, I'd make sure to knock her up before having a wedding.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 08:44 PM
3

I'd say that anal is the minimum. Edit: I should have read until the end. She might be disowned or jailed or something if this happens. So not only is she a cheater, but a stupid cheater.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:05 PM
-2

So many stupid comments... She’s simply smarter than you are, and more jntuitive. She doesn’t feel comfortable because she doesn’t trust your intentions, and she’s right, you obviously care more about the sex than about her. If you cannot understand why a 17 year old girl would want to wait longer, ... just put yourself in her skin, or rather her fathers skin - would you want your precious daughter to fuck a horny loser like yourself? So please dump her and get yourself some experienced slut to …
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:47 AM
2

Have you considered masturbating, and/or sleeping with your ex (if you want to stay "faithful" to him)?
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 03:41 PM
4

Not YT, but I really love pretty much everything by SeriousEats, especially their FoodLab section where they basically describe their experiments in figuring out what really matters when you cook.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 03:38 PM
2

Avoid masturbation Is this good advice for women? I understand why (some people think that) it's not advised for men, but IMO many women would benefit from exploring their bodies, learning about their orgasm, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 11:35 PM
2

20 lunges, 20 jumps, 20 squats, 20 jumping lunges repeat 4 times (you probably can't)
/r/askTRP03/03/18 03:55 PM
2

4) Fuck her and have another girl suck your dick.
/r/askTRP28/02/18 09:26 PM
3

I hope you succeed at (1). Even better if we do it together (I’m a programmer who’s into AI / robotics as well).
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 08:25 AM
9

Great line. Both of them. Cut the bitch out of your life. You've got standards. He doesn't live up to them. You did the right thing not fighting him. That would have been stupid, no way to really win for you in the sense of getting a good outcome if you fight. Now you know, for the next time, what can happen if you don't defuse the situation. Some (not many) people can get annoying, violent, etc. and seriously fuck up with your night, if not with your life. If you sense this might happen down th…
/r/askTRP25/02/18 08:50 PM
12

"we split the work equally - he works hard outside the home, and I inside - it makes us both happy and appreciative of the effort the other person is putting in" or some other equalist-sounding bullshit.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 11:19 PM
2

Ah I misunderstood. Yeah partner's IQ is important. Not just IQ but all genes - it's like 50% of your child that you actually can control
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 06:35 PM
2

Ah, IQ. Don't worry about it. It's like the one thing you can't change. Much better to focus on what you can (career, body weight, hair length, having glasses, orgasm skills, education, ...).
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 05:01 PM
5

I really liked this "line" from RSD Max: when he got brutally rejected once (I think it was at a bus stop, in front of other people), he yelled after the girl, "Call me!" to his own (and other spectators') amusement. I find that hilarious. I think it could be used to great effect in situations like your 14 (girl walking past you without even acknowledging your existence), to make yourself laugh and keep your state high!
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 08:55 PM
1

Not books, but I'm looking for RSD's products PIMP and SHIFT (both by Julien) and Natural (by Max). I found some torrents (except for PIMP), but I'm not sure they're seeded 100% yet... Can anybody help?
/r/RedPillBooks10/02/18 11:32 AM
2

Given the choice between women being attracted to my charm, wit and lulz vs being attracted because I’m successful, ripped and well connected, I’d take the former over the latter any day, over and over again. At least then I’d know that I’m not just a tool for her to use just to improve her life and discard.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 11:03 AM
4

When women/feminists shit on PUA/TRP we tell them “ok then you make an effective guide for me on how to seduce women” yet they never do because they’re full of shit. So before shitting all over JBP, why don’t you make a guide that does what Peterson’s videos do, but even better? Btw, I’m not saying TRP (“lift and hold frame”) is shit or ineffective. It’s just that JBP seems to have reached many more people much faster, and his advice cuts straight to the point while at the same time being much m…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/18 12:38 PM
3

I expect her to tell guys to f*ck off if they cross that line. Can someone give me some insight on how to fend off these scabs and keep my girlfriends focus on me and her friends? Don't mate-guard. A loyal girlfriend mate-guards herself... if she wants to.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 08:40 PM
7

Also: (4) sleep, (5) don’t hurt yourself (“good form” as parent said, also start with higher reps and lower weights, maybe even hire a trainer), and (6) experiment (what works for others kight not work for you - that’s why there are so many diets and training programs out there - so if you’re consistently doing something and not progressing, try something else).
/r/TheRedPill24/01/18 01:55 PM
3

Not having to work for a living is a privilege. Not having to go fight wars is a privilege. Being able to stay with your children instead of going to an office or factory every day is a privilege. Having men treat you like a child is a privilege (because children are loved, cherished, and protected). "Benevolent sexism" is a privilege. Being "objectified" (instead of having to pursue men) is a privilege. Being valued for your body (instead of being not valued for your body, like a man) is a priv…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 07:59 AM
3

10 things I hate about you
/r/askTRP22/01/18 11:05 PM
4

lol this is how "vetting for LTR" works
/r/askTRP21/01/18 09:42 PM
4

Agree totally. I can't stand the sore losers who complain about "boastful humble-bragging FRs" - fuck that shit, I like reading about how other people rock their lives, what cool shit they're up to, it's inspiring and allows me to live vicariously through others - because let's be real, life is a series of trade-offs, no matter how optimal your decisions are, you're always leaving a lot on the table - so it's perfectly natural to read books or posts and enjoy stories of other people's adventures…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 02:01 PM
5

I've been reading through YaReally's posts recently. Priceless. These are some of my favourites: James Deen's moves and women are attracted to dominance more on James Deen's mindset on limiting beliefs and abundance mindset video examples of high-energy (Tyler) and low-energy (James Marshall, Liam Mcrae) game how to initiate dominance with a chick changing your beliefs, and muscles don't matter if you're a pussy really all of his comments in that thread are worth reading! low-energy game, creati…
/r/askTRP16/01/18 11:04 PM
4

So, why do you have one? I kind-of understand why women have earrings - mostly to fit in and because it's "normal" and "feminine" and whatnot - although I'd still prefer my gf to be so confident, independent and strong as to not need nor want it. But why do you want to have a navel piercing? Please don't say "it makes me feel more beautiful" - we all know that's just an excuse which covers the real motivations, which are usually intra-sexual competition and inter-sexual attention seeking. Simila…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/18 09:18 PM
6

Partially because it’s very attention-seeking. Partially because piercings and tattoos are indicators of short-term thinking. Part of it is just a subconscious reaction. Having said that, definitely better than a “pig” (nose) ring.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/18 07:12 AM
10

Slut tell.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/18 11:07 PM
10

Women have created a society that offers men a situation where most have nothing to lose. Nothing to lose, and a lot to gain. Last I heard, convicts get laid like rabbits by all kinds of groupies.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 08:58 PM
11

The judge presumes you’re innocent. These days, the important bit of trial is “trial by media”. Recorded evidence (released on YouTube) can’t be ruled inadmissible there.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 09:58 AM
2

Sign a prenup regarding your current situation (e.g. unequal assets, both employed with unequal salaries). Later, if the two of you decide to live a different life (e.g. you staying at home, for the benefit of both of you and your children), you can always renegotiate the terms and sign a post-nup to make sure you’re still protected.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 08:31 AM
1

Studied math, programmer, data scientist at 23? Trust me, until you live in like Iran, your future is bright. Very bright.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 09:41 PM
106

Great feminist. These words were very hard to write.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 07:20 PM
1

Put lentils (dried), water (I forget the amount, Google it or experiment), chicken (can be frozen whole breast) and veggies (onion, carrots, bell peppers, tomatoes / tomato sauce - optional, mainly for taste) into a pot. Cook (boil) for 30 minutes. Eat (low carb, high protein).
/r/askTRP09/01/18 07:43 AM
8

what if the other person never wants to have sex?
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 08:26 PM
2

Thanks this is a great starting point! Also, the detour about politics was educational as well...
/r/askTRP08/01/18 04:58 PM
4

Hannah from Crazy Stupid Love Imogen Poots from that Awkward Moment (maybe) Analeigh Tipton’s character from Teo Night Stand (well, except for the sluttiness) Also, probably not the best idea to seek role models in movies. Movies are primarily drama (duh), you probably want to build a stable life for yourself and your family, not be saving your children from dinosaurs every other Monday...
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 12:54 PM
1

Not really. Basically, “being sexual” and “creating shock without justifiable offence” clearly depends to a large degree on being able to calibrate to the situation. I’m less experienced in this area, so while I’m pretty sure that “do you like big dick” and “MAKE AMERICA GREAT AGAIN!!!” would cross the line massively in most situations, but I can’t quite imagine example statements that would toe, but not cross, the line. Obviously I could/will learn that by trial and error, but if I get the chan…
/r/askTRP08/01/18 11:14 AM
4

This is amazing, sometimes I wish for more theory substantiated by practical advice like this in TRP. Can you expand on 4th and 5th bullets, with some concrete examples of what’s appropriate/effective?
/r/askTRP08/01/18 07:09 AM
7

She's still consider that an achievement.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/18 10:41 AM
5

I'm no bimbo I do have a brain haha.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/01/18 10:38 AM
1

I was working at CERN by the time I was 19 Are you still based in Europe?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 10:32 AM
2

loyalty matters True, but there's another consideration. If you become rich and famous, or just moderately successful (e.g. in business or corporate career), then you can never be sure that any new relationships that you develop are sincere - do they want you for you or for your power, money, connections? You can only ever be sure that relationships you had before that are sincere (or not even that).
/r/askTRP06/01/18 08:03 PM
4

Switzerland. Free, democratic, premium, stable, lots of free space, lots of expats. If you can afford it.
/r/askTRP05/01/18 07:00 PM
1

The problem with using the word “love” is that you avoid specifying the real problem. People cheat because (1) they’re attracted to someone else (2) they’re dissatisfied with their (relationship) sex life, (3) they have low self esteem, (4) they are annoyed by their partner’s behaviour, (5) their partner is ignoring their complaints and suggestions, ignoring problems and avoiding any kind of improvement, (6) their partner has a much lower libido, (7) a number of other things. Saying “they dont l…
/r/askTRP01/01/18 01:19 AM
1

So much wrong... First, "love" isn't a concept clear enough to exist. You can "care" for someone, be "attracted" to them, "enjoy" your time with them... if enough of these feelings coincide, we tend to call that "love" but usually that doesn't mean what people hope, or want, it to mean ("s/he will always care for me and always put my happiness before their own and never be attracted to anyone else). Next, you can live a very intense, high-speed, interesting (and likely stressful) life, while not…
/r/askTRP31/12/17 03:28 PM
1

I hate the conversation “I’m sorry, that triggers me, I can’t talk about it.”
/r/askTRP30/12/17 03:12 PM
5

Get fat, cut and die your hair, and get a pig ring to fit in and make them feel good... Or live your life how you want, righteously by your own principles, and make yourself feel good.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 03:09 PM
10

owns or has owned a horse Wait, what?! What’s wrong with owning a house?? horse Ah, yes, of course.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 08:37 AM
1

I never though about it this way, despite having been through a few LTRs myself! Can you give a few hints to a newbie, what specifically you do to start her up?
/r/askTRP25/12/17 10:34 PM
2

Depends how you’re self-deprecating. If your words are self-deprecating but your tone is dominant and confident, then that’s fine. If, however, you’re acting like a bitch - even if you’re very obviously pretending - people will subconsciously associate you with eing a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 10:14 AM
10

This is an amazing article that explores anovel perspective to the topic of frame/self-dominance/inner game. Don’t listen to haters, thanks for writing it!
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 10:03 AM
1

Why don't you like the book?
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/17 02:06 AM
2

her being both pissed and apologetic is actually GREAT for you. You mean she’s crazy?
/r/askTRP23/12/17 04:14 PM
2

Wow you wrote 7 pages on cleaning your appartment. Are you sure you’re not a woman?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 03:59 PM
5

If she's hot enough for you to fuck, she's hot for thousands of other thirsty guys. It's a buffet, for her...
/r/askTRP16/12/17 01:26 AM
1

Nice! A well-defined, succint and mostly measurable goal!
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/17 06:28 PM
1

You had a sex surgery in the pasr month??
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 07:32 AM
9

"grip strength" - those forearms tho <3
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 07:58 PM
4

Like most other things most of the time, TheRedPill is mostly terrible, boring, and full of bull-shit. But then, this. Makes it all totally worth it.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 06:09 PM
2

Also, eat more protein and dense carbs (like lentils, instead of pasta and rice). They will keep you full even on only 1200 cals!
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 08:42 AM
11

Good post. I feel like mirror advice, that there are OK, healthy, normal, non-vindictive, great women out there, should be posted in TRP sub every so often, but I think the mods out there would be much less appreciative of such posts...
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/17 08:45 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fIaHxQIvy6o Lose the baby fat, stop dressing like a 12 year old geek, and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 12:30 AM
1

You should have invested in Bitcoin then.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 01:29 AM
1

Also, this "pulse" would be much better if you included a summary of each article, outlining the main ideas.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 06:45 PM
8

How much would you like to do anal if she stuck up a dildo in your ass while you were in pain, crying?! You're an idiot, you're treating this girl like a disposable sex doll, no wonder she doesn't trust you. You'll have to work very hard to rebuild the bridge that you've demolished with your stupidity. First, a lot of communication - let her know that she can tell you everything (including that she's in pain), and acknowledge that you've been an ignorant asshole. Then, move very slowly, at her p…
/r/askTRP02/12/17 05:51 PM
21

From How to Crash Any Party - I never thought of that - buy a cheap wine glass and carry a flask with wine, then pour it into the wine glass, pretend you're talking on the phone (like this), and confidently walk right in. Genius!
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 10:54 PM
5

Don't mind the haters, I enjoyed your post!
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 11:21 PM
18

I for one, like personal success stories. Even without actionable advice, they serve the important function of inspiration, of what's possible - a welcome contrast to the usual gloom, doom and anger!
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 11:20 PM
2

It sounds like you might be blaming him (at least in your own mind) for initiating in such an “awkward” way. Did it work on you before, when your sex drive was still higher? If yes, he’s not to blame, he’s just doing what he “knows” gets you running. If/when that changed, you should have told him that he needs to figure out something new...
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 11:19 PM
9

What a terrible article... it keeps repeating the allegations of “abuse” and “manipulation” without being specific in any way. So what did he actually do? Fart in their presence (abuse)? Ask for a blowjob (manipulation)? Disgusting that people jump on the “believe women” bandwagon so easily and quickly.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 09:42 AM
2

the problem with "surrogate" is that you lose a lot of control over your partner - she's 50% of the child's genes, i.e. the biggest influence on your child's life that you can actually change, and possibly worth risking even a divorce for.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 07:03 PM
10

Good links! I wonder if we should start a sub, something like r / trparticles or r / trplinks, with links to similar articles (on the topics that you listed above)
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 09:43 PM
1

Apparently, there are. For what it's worth, all women I've been intimate with (and I've discussed this) preferred pads because they didn't like the idea of old (waste) blood being stuck in their vaginas.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/17 11:52 PM
1

Just an idea my ex came up with. She was normally using pads, but wanted to offer me anal sex while she was on her period, so started using tampons for that. I thought it was brilliant!
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/17 08:12 AM
8

Be willing to try new things. Go a step further, suggest trying new things. Doesn’t necessarily need to be anal, can simply be 69, or a new blowjob technique (circle your tongue just below the head of the penis, or dwell on the frenulum for a very long time) or asking him to cum on your breasts. Go commando and tell him about it. Go braless but not very obviously so. Unexpectedly take his hand and put it in your pussy, showing him how wet you are. Whisper in his ears one of your fantasies when i…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/17 09:19 AM
2

Jessica Biel Timberlake.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:04 AM
1

He should of covered his ass How? (Except by recording everything.)
/r/askTRP15/11/17 12:01 AM
1

Reminds me of this sex game!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 11:36 PM
2

There's a big difference between "community involvement" and "raising your children", and "monogamy".
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 07:38 PM
1

Abby is a generic fat woman name, amirite?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 06:42 AM
3

“naturally bald”? Does that even exist? How old are they, and do they have hair elsewhere?
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 06:18 PM
7

the point is, (legal) marriage doesn't result in stable families, so it's not any kind of solution
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 08:15 PM
3

Are you OK with him protecting his higher income in case of divorce? I'm asking this because many people would say "no", which is very hypocritical if one doesn't also want to share the debts incurred for the education that resulted in this higher income.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 09:49 PM
2

If you’re looking for how to be successful, you’re going about it all wrong. You’re doing it for the wrong reasons. I wonder if this is true, or just some feel-good bullshit. Is there anyone here who's made it mainly by "chasing success" (i.e. doing what's profitable and scalable, not necessarily what they believed in or were internally motivated to do)? I'd love to hear your comments.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 07:31 AM
3

"he is happy with who he is" That's what you're missing, that's what he has going for him. She was a freak Crazy girls have better sex (allegedly, I've no experience personally), but is that really what you want? Well, if it is, you know who's your "target". I just went ahead and said "No worries, I didn't hear anything". Maybe if you didn't lie and asserted yourself instead, you'd actually get what you want out of life.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 09:48 PM
1

Maybe instead of asking her, you could just tell her "tell me what feels good" or "tell me when I hit the right spot" or something similar.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 07:29 PM
5

I agree with your first three points, but I'm not sure if I agree with the fourth one. It's often mentioned here that to keep a man, the wife must keep him sexually satisfied. So at least nominally, the women here are aware of this issue. It's possible that there's some self-deception/dishonesty as this could very well be a "problem without a solution", similar to how TRP guys and PUAs often espouse "AWALT" and "don't get married" and then get married regardless. Secondly, even though this might…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 02:10 PM
5

This is wonderful! Looks like sex is really important to you (and likely to your husband as well), and you automatically (i.e. without him asking you to) put a lot of thought and effort into exploring, improving and experimenting with your sex life!
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 02:03 PM
1

These seem like common sense, but it's good to point them out explicitly and put effort into following them. Something related to points 1 and 2 that I wanted to include in my original post but forgot: sex should be a relaxing and enjoyable activity, not a chore. I think that being "too tired" for sex is often a symptom of the latter (which, unfortunately, stereotypically mostly affects women, but I'm sure it's common in both sexes). I've often wondered why someone would be too tired for sex, bu…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 02:01 PM
5

I'm going to play the devil's advocate: if it was so simple, why is it so often a problem? (Although, admittedly, many common problems have relatively simple solutions, such as "spend less than you earn" and "eat less, mostly plants", but in the end it comes down to (lack of) will-power).
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/17 01:53 PM
2

If you can't beat them Trump them.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 08:24 PM
16

Life is too short to not be getting blowjobs.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 06:03 PM
1

My point exactly. He's not the right guy.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 05:53 PM
0

Please dump her. You're clearly not the right person for her, and she for you. If she was right for you, you'd be willing to wait for her for as long as necessary, and she'd be willing to do it with you when you wanted to.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:49 AM
-2

She was tired and didn't want to have sex with you, yet you stayed with her the rest of the evening, so presumably she didn't go to bed immediately after declaring she was tired? Looks like the only conclusion is that she views sex with you as work. Find someone who thinks it's relaxation.
/r/askTRP17/09/17 07:41 PM
38

Risk being a creep. Do it with irrational confidence and total conviction.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 02:33 PM
1

don't make a switch before you're at least semi-certain that you'd be good, and happy, with coding. It's definitely not a job for the majority of people, but the opportunity is so amazing that you should definitely try it. Just don't burn any bridges. I suggest taking some free online tutorials first, or a free course like this. Then you'll see if it's something you want to commit more time and money to.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 10:16 AM
5

just like men, women compete with each other in two main areas: sex (boobs, make-up, high heels, sluttyness) and money (diamond ring, big wedding, Instagram photos from fancy vacations, big house). why big wedding instead of big house? to appreciate a down-payment on a house, you need brains, which most women (and people of course) don't have...
/r/askTRP12/09/17 10:12 PM
1

Do you like ugly women that might some day become beautiful, or just those that are already beautiful? Same thing. Women are just used to it because it's been happening since they were 12. You only just noticed. (Same thing with money/success, btw.)
/r/askMRP10/09/17 11:35 PM
12

TRP is one of the first things to disappear if the feminazi/antifa/SJWs/alt-left get their way.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 09:12 PM
1

Not "giving a fuck" is a good thing. It means you rely on your own judgement as opposed on other people. However, make sure you're aware about how you can use social status - and then use it to get what you want!
/r/askTRP02/09/17 01:59 PM
1

Small steps. Sleep in an AirBnB in your own city. Then in the next city. Then in a city an hour away. Then in a different country. Stay away for one day. Then two days. One week. One month. And so on.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 10:18 PM
1

Thanks, I'll check them out. The problem is, most people writing about having making money have made money (1) in ways that are almost irreproducible, (2) by being extremely lucky or (3) by telling others how to make money. Sure, some of their lessons apply generally, but you never know who's just selling you snake oil...
/r/askTRP16/08/17 04:09 PM
2

hateful misogynist I think the new word is "scientist".
/r/askTRP13/08/17 01:12 PM
25

Who cares.
/r/askTRP12/08/17 03:13 PM
1

So basically: How to Have a Shitty Relationship: A Guide for Codependent Personalities
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 06:14 AM
2

Do it slowly and gently. It might hurt her or it might not, depending on her hymen. You might start with your fingers to check how ready she is and ease her in.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 09:27 PM
0

85% of all children with behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes (per CDC) Well I'm assuming that fatherless homes are like 95% of all single-parent homes, so this statistic literally means nothing. Absolute percentages like these are useless. You need to show that some trait os overrepresented (or underrepresented) amongst the population compared to the baseline.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/17 11:46 AM
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