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| 1 | How to convert FWB to LTR?You mistake me, I'm not trying to ask her to be my girlfriend. I want the situation to change into more of an LTR rather than FWB so she brings it up. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Does this girl want to be plated?This is a thing? | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How to get girls to chase? Especially if you want to change the dynamic from you being the one chasing?You mind If I PM you? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | How to get girls to chase? Especially if you want to change the dynamic from you being the one chasing?And what does a lack of interest look like to you? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 08:28 PM |
| -3 | How to get girls to chase? Especially if you want to change the dynamic from you being the one chasing?I just did. I want more perspectives. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Is soft nexting a good way to test interest?How do dudes get girls to chase them then? If they have so many options? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 03:32 PM |
| 1 | I get predictable (texting girls the same time each week to set something up) so they stop initiating. How do I flip the script?What if they're more than a plate? Like a girl you fuck twice a week and you guys are FWB? | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 03:49 PM |
| 1 | I get predictable (texting girls the same time each week to set something up) so they stop initiating. How do I flip the script?I gotcha. Basically if theyh are invested in you they will wonder why you're not hitting them up like normal and will shoot you a text. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 03:38 PM |
| 1 | I get predictable (texting girls the same time each week to set something up) so they stop initiating. How do I flip the script?Bull. When a girl is interested she texts you some bullshit and you as the man arrange a meet up. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | What effect does steady fucking with women have?What I mean is if they are emotionally invested in you and fucking you frequently and you're not turning beta, wouldn't they be slower to drop you for another dude than if they had only fucked you for a couple of weeks? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 10:31 PM |
| 4 | What happens when a man brings up commitment rather than waiting for a woman to do it?Why would they assume that you're monogamous? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 04:05 PM |
| 1 | What to do when they suddenly go cold?Look at my reply to the first comment. I don't know if the dynamic between us would change the fact that I soft next, or if I initiate after going no contact for a week or two. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | What to do when they suddenly go cold?Will do. The dynamic between us is that I always initiate but she always agrees to hang out (except now of course). Does this change the fact that I should soft next, or should I hit her up in a week or two because that is our dynamic? | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Telling a girl to text you whenever she's hornyWhat about ultra submissive girls? I have a hard time believing they would initiate that. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 12:52 AM |
| 5 | Lifting's hormonal benefitsSo then why do people say that lifting is good for raising testosterone in general? | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | What happens if you break frame? Will you ever be seen as alpha again?Thanks for this. Reading TRP has got me into a sort of do or die mindset, and it's got me thinking that one little fuck up can end it all. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Can you NEVER show weakness?She ended up texting back a couple of hours ago. I plan on taking a week off or so and then hit her back up. How does something like this affect you in a woman's eyes? Will she see me as a bitch from now on? | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Can you NEVER show weakness?Therapy? I already meditate. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Can you NEVER show weakness?I had bad social anxiety but I've mostly conquered it. It only flares up in situations where I have to wait to take action (i.e. waiting until the event was over to meet her parents). In all other situations I'm fine. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Can you NEVER show weakness?The parents were cool and nice, she was raised traditionally and had zero red flags that I could identify. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Can you NEVER show weakness?What I meant by that is I was always confident around her, and it was natural. But I had one bad day and her perception of me just plummeted. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you all deal with panic attacks?Yeah they only happen when I take time off from the gym (this time my hip was hurt so I had a reason). You think if I'm lifting 5ish days per week my testosterone will stay elevated and I'll feel better? | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Not meeting enough girls in small city to spin platesWhat do you do then? | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Not meeting enough girls in small city to spin platesIf you read my post you'd see that I said I can't move to a big city you fat bastard | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Found girl I've been dating for a couple of months on Tinder. No more LTR potential?And I don't have a problem with that as we are not exclusive. I'm just wondering if her having a Tinder while we are not exclusive matters when evaluating her as a possible LTR. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Found girl I've been dating for a couple of months on Tinder. No more LTR potential?I don't. I'm asking if her having Tinder should be part of the equation when considering her for an LTR. I have heard some guys say that a girl having Tinder is a red flag. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Found girl I've been dating for a couple of months on Tinder. No more LTR potential?No. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Found girl I've been dating for a couple of months on Tinder. No more LTR potential?I still live with my parents while in college so not that type of shit. She pays for me sometimes when we go out (I never pay for her), she is submissive, affectionate, fun to be around, and I can have sex with her literally any time I want. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Found girl I've been dating for a couple of months on Tinder. No more LTR potential?I feel you. The reason I ask is she is treating me more and more like an LTR lately, for example asking me to come to one of her pageants. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Found girl I've been dating for a couple of months on Tinder. No more LTR potential?You're right. If she does begin seeing me as an LTR, should I disregard this situation? | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Main plate with LTR potential wants me to attend a pageant that she will be at.What do you mean by your first sentence? | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 07:17 PM |
| 1 | How easy is it to have a good, healthy LTR when applying TRP concepts and having a TRP mindset?Not sure how this is relevant. I didn't even mention spinning plates. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Is this considered chasing?Do you suggest I send them a text or snap once in a while that doesn't involve logistics? | /r/askTRP | 28/01/18 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Would this work?Truth. I'll just wait for them to contact me, and if they don't, they weren't very interested in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/18 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Would this work?What about women who never initiate but always agree to hanging out and try to reschedule if they can't? I've dealt with a couple chicks like this, and they are very affectionate and all over you in person, but rarely initiate contact. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/18 12:40 AM |
| 1 | How to handle this situation?She rarely contacts me in between dates (usually one date per week), so I won't be really "ignoring" her. Won't re-initiating in a couple weeks make me look like a bitch if she never contacts me before that? | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Girls don't initiate contact with me even though we keep seeing each other?This looks good on paper, but seems dumb when I think about it. Wouldn't I miss out on a lot of opportunities to fuck girls because I'm waiting eternally for them to initiate if they want to meet up again? Wouldn't this lead to huge gaps in between hangouts? I like fucking, so if I can initiate with a girl and fuck her often then that seems like the better strategy. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Girls don't initiate contact with me even though we keep seeing each other?So how do I get them into the habit of initiating? | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Will they always come back and initiate during a soft next if they're interested?That's what I've been thinking. What could I be doing wrong? I'll give you an average day. Meet up somewhere, do something active or have them come to my house, fuck them multiple times, I do a lot of push/pull and only contact them for logistics a few days after hanging out. At the beginning they initiate for 1 to 3 of the first weeks, then stop initiating after that even though my way of doing things doesn't change. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Will they always come back and initiate during a soft next if they're interested?Is a soft next a good way to test interest then(obviously if a chick has warranted a soft next)? | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Will they always come back and initiate during a soft next if they're interested?So for soft nexting is it a dumb idea to wait for them to contact you? Like you should just hit them up after a while? | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Will they always come back and initiate during a soft next if they're interested?I understand that not all of them will come back obviously. I'm asking if they're still interested will they come back. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 12:07 AM |
| 1 | No response after seeing a girl for about 7 weeksIf I hit her up again it just solidifies me being in her frame. Why wouldn't I just let her hit me up or not ever hit her up again? This would ensure that I maintain the frame of the situation. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/18 06:53 AM |
| 1 | No response after seeing a girl for about 7 weeksWell a lot of the time I don't respond to her, but I'm wondering if she didn't like that I didn't respond to her text that she got home safely. Should I just hit her up in a couple weeks? Or soft next? | /r/askTRP | 21/01/18 04:07 AM |
| 1 | No response after seeing a girl for about 7 weeksWill do. Can you give me any explanation why her interest would plummet so quickly? It's fucking with my head because I haven't been clingy at all and just two days ago she was all over me and calling me daddy while I fucked her. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/18 02:31 AM |
| 1 | No response after seeing a girl for about 7 weeksYeah, on Tuesday I told her "We're hanging on Thursday cancer girl," and she responded with "Okay :) ." Then we hung out like normal and fucked. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | No response after seeing a girl for about 7 weeksYeah, texted her at about 10:30 am, she responds within an hour usually. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/18 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How to get a girl to fall in love with you?I read that thread. The guy said that you can come off as a little blue pill if I recall correctly. Wouldn't that turn a girl off? Even if you were only blue pill in person? | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | How much hanging out is too much?Yes, considering it. Why would that make it okay? | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How prevalent are false rape accusations?So do these accusations come from regret? As in your game was shitty so they regret fucking you? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How prevalent are false rape accusations?Can you elaborate on this? My game is super tight, but I'm not sure how that would help. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | How to do well in college?Can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not. Also would be helpful if you actually contributed something numbnuts. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Any of you not need actual abundance to be "abundant"?I know, I've just seen it defined as having multiple plates. I haven't seen people talk about getting abundance mentality just from liking their own company and being alone. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 01:59 AM |
| 42 | Beta logic: Because of your age you should just settle/give upHe has "simp" in his Twitter handle. You can't make this shit up folks. | /r/MGTOW | 28/12/17 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Texting young girlsAnd if she doesn't initiate? Then do I just initiate once a week to set up a date? | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Texting young girlsSo how often do you text them? Do you initiate? | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Weird Tinder girlI assumed so. If I was to suggest doing something different, would I just come off as a bitch because I'm entering her frame? | /r/askTRP | 18/12/17 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Weird Tinder girlHow do I proceed? All I said was "Ok." | /r/askTRP | 18/12/17 06:43 PM |
| 1 | How to set up a meet-up through text.What if I want them to come over? Just say come over at X time X day? | /r/askTRP | 16/12/17 06:08 AM |
| 1 | How to set up a meet-up through text.I do this and while I feel it's assertive and non-needy, I don't know what to do if they can't come at that specific time. Do I offer another time/day at that point or ask them when they're free? | /r/askTRP | 16/12/17 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Girl agrees to date, but doesn't confirm.Makes sense. Should I stay silent and message her on Saturday seeing if she's still down? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Girl agrees to date, but doesn't confirm.Do you suggest that I text her on Saturday and ask if we're still on for that night? Even though she didn't respond | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Got sent this after first date sex. How to respond?Told her we'd watch a movie at my house after I get back and she said she's down. I figured I might have been being too boyfriendish when it came to the second date in this situation and the last. Thanks for the advice brethren. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Got sent this after first date sex. How to respond?Sneaky fuck is a no go, but I guess we could watch something while my parents are home and then say we're driving somewhere. Any other adventurous ideas? | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Got sent this after first date sex. How to respond?Okay I went longboarding with her last time which was pretty informal and fun. I was going to go anyway so should I ask her to tag along after I'm done at the mall? Or will it make me look like a bitch to try to set up something else. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Got sent this after first date sex. How to respond?This keeps fucking happening to me and I think I'm going insane haha. Look at a recent post of mine and the same shit happened. What the fuck am I doing wrong? A lot of the time these girls hit me up on snapchat after the date, and in this case, she did twice. All I did was ask over text a day later when she would be free, she responded Saturday, then I said I'd confirm today and left her on read. Then I hit her up today. I don't think it's an attraction issue because I fuck the shit out of thes… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble keeping encounters to strictly sex-related after first date sex.This seems like a good idea. Should I just make sure to invite them to things that aren't stereotypically "couple" activities like dinner or a movie? For example, I was going to tell this girl to come help me Christmas shop at the mall, then most likely smash her in the car after. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 01:23 AM |
| 5 | How to get them to initiate?What about initiating contact i.e. texting, snapchat? I assume a high SMV would cause this also. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Am I doing something to make these girls lose interest?My SMV is high. I think I may be coming off as needy. I would tell them to come over but I live with my parents still while in college. I usually fuck in my car. What should I do about my logistics? I don't want to go on dates. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Any of you have good results telling women to text you?Since I'm young, they'll usually send me a Snapchat. The last girl sent one like an hour after our date, and then one in the morning. I replied to both, but I didn't really know how to transition to asking for a date again, so I just texted her the day after | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Any of you have good results telling women to text you?What happens if she can't do proposed time? Keep throwing out different times? That would seem like you'd get a chain of no's and get her used to saying that she can't. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 06:57 AM |
| 3 | Any of you have good results telling women to text you?How do you set plans personally? Even though I'm just asking when they are free, I still feel like it comes across as needy. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Texting in early 20s.If I was to shoot a girl a text once in a while, what would I talk about? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Texting in early 20s.That makes sense. I think I'm trying too hard to control things that I can't control. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Texting in early 20s.Definitely solid IOI's. On 9/10 first dates I hook up with them in some regard. It's just difficult to hole their interest afterwards. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Texting in early 20s.Meeting in person. How can I build more rapport? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Sex on first date. What now?If I did that, should I be trying to fuck on every date? Would it hurt me in the long run if I did end up wanting to LTR with her? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Sex on first date. What now?Possibly want an LTR. What's my course of action? | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 07:26 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to this message? What's going through her head?Why would she reach back out? Seems like she's not attracted. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 04:22 AM |
| 1 | How to treat women?What do you suggest I do then? I just don't want to turn into a nice guy. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Things I should be doing to transform radically?Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Things I should be doing to transform radically?Obviously the goal is to improve SMV and mindset to get more money and women. Doing above average with women at the moment. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 02:13 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to this message? What's going through her head?I held hands with her for a while and cuddled also. Is this the kind of shit that would make me look needy? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 11:12 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to this message? What's going through her head?Okay, how can I get the tingles back? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Can't cum during sex or BJs.Will do, thanks brotha. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/17 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Flakiness and decreased interest after a couple of dates?That's probably the case. If it is the case, how can I make myself stand out more so this doesn't happen? I am good looking, dress well, and have a great physique, but I am short. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/17 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Did I handle this correctly?It turns out she was trying to set me up with her friend who isn't as hot. Fuck. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Did I handle this correctly?Will do. What do you mean repeat back to her what she said to me? And also, how do I transition from talking about her boyfriend to us doing something/meeting up? | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Did I handle this correctly?I agree on apologizing for blowing her off, but saying that my date didn't go well because of her situation seems like it would make me sound like a bitch. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Did I handle this correctly?Anything I can do to salvage it? | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Did I handle this correctly?Thanks for the response. Is there anything I can do to salvage the situation? She seems cool, so ideally I wouldn't let this one fall through. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Did I handle this correctly?Explain? | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Your opinions on LTRs?So your advice is to enjoy it while it lasts, but expect a breakup/branch swinging? Therefore protecting yourself from being hurt? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/17 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Why does this keep happening to meHaha relax, I'm not whining, just trying to figure out the root of the problem. Obviously I am creating investment if they are contacting me first, no? | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 06:12 PM |
| 1 | How to help a girl complete her branch swing to me?Entry level job, doesn't matter, I've done it at this job before | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How to help a girl complete her branch swing to me?Shitty entry level job, not an issue. I'm going to do it either way. So how do I proceed | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 04:34 PM |
| 1 | How to help a girl complete her branch swing to me?I've escalated physically in the past, and she's been completely into it. However, it was at work (the only time I ever see her). Therefore, I told her we should hang out and she brought up that she had a boyfriend so I took that as a rejection. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 04:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I know if a girl is into me or not?Elaborate? | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Looking edgy?I lift, have a top 10 or 5% physique, have good style, very confident and funny. I'm dying my hair silver | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 05:06 AM |
| 1 | How to differentiate between attention-seeking and actual interest? Any things you can do to find out?Will do. At what point in escalating do you normally know for sure that they are interested? | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 05:58 AM |
| 1 | How to differentiate between attention-seeking and actual interest? Any things you can do to find out?Physically? For example, I touch a girl I know a lot and she is receptive, and she initiates touch a lot. Does this show that she is interested and not seeking attention? | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Should I apologize?What specific part of the sidebar, there's a shit ton of material. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 07:19 PM |
| – | Girls that have boyfriends but show IOIs and let you physically escalate on them.Nothing happened between us because I asked her out and she said "nice try," but it turns out she was just busy when I asked her to hang, she wasn't rejecting me. I found this out when talking to my brother who works with us too because he talked to her, and she told him that she would go on a date with me if I asked again. I found this out after they got back together. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 02:04 AM |
| – | Girl agrees to date, but doesn't confirm.I gave her a time of day so that we would have definite plans. If she doesn't respond to confirm, why would I not assume she's not interested? | /r/askTRP |
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