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| 1 | Share your facial skin care productsI notice that it usually only ever happens when I have just ovulated or when I am about to start my period. Usually it's just 2 or 3 of them that appear, but they are extremely painful and they make my face swell up like a balloon and I often find I need painkillers. I am pregnant at the moment and I barely get them. I will maybe notice one now every 2 months. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Share your facial skin care productsI like clean and clear cleanser. I suffer from cyclical cystic acne, and if I use it on my face every day it lessens it somewhat. I find that harsh menthol products are best for controlling the problem I have. I don't have particularly oily skin so I top up basic moisturizer afterwards. I don't use anything expensive, the cheap ones work too. I find that the clean and clear reduces any inflammation on my face. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 11:17 PM |
| – | Low SMV and YouThere is medication for an underactive thyroid. If it's taken correctly then weight will come off with sensible eating habits. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 11:01 PM |
| – | Low SMV and YouObesity isn't the best example of someone being stuck with a low SMV. It's static and weight can be controlled by monitoring calorie consumption. My weight has yoyoed massively throughout my life. I have been underweight and obese and everything in between. If someone doesn't like being fat then they can always change it. To answer your post, I think this is where compatibility comes in. There are always some outliers in personal taste as well. Some men genuinely find obese women attractive. The… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 10:14 PM |
| – | A small request from a new redpiller regarding petsSometimes positive reinforcement isn't direct enough. People have to hear the cold hard truth to really see reality. I personally have trouble with positive reinforcement. It doesn't work on me. I have to hear things exactly how they are to understand them. Maybe that's just the way I communicate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 09:42 PM |
| – | A small request from a new redpiller regarding petsThis is a forum for self improvement and general enlightenment. It's not a safe space. I thought the term red pill meant accepting truths even if they are uncomfortable. My aim is not to make people happy or lighten their mood. My aim is to help people see things for what they truly are and to learn to make the best of it. Sometimes these sorts of discussions can feel uncomfortable. I do generally have empathy for people, but I am not going to save face and I am not going to lie to them. If some… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 09:31 PM |
| – | A small request from a new redpiller regarding petsYeah, it's not the first time I have been mistaken for a man online. This is a common one. Just because I won't kiss other women's asses and I call them out on their BS I am defying some sacred girl code that never gets defied by a real life woman ever. Lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 09:15 PM |
| – | A small request from a new redpiller regarding petsWhy would you think that? Any time I ask someone why they think that they never answer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 07:56 PM |
| – | A small request from a new redpiller regarding petsThe problem with these dogs is that they can pass all the tests and still attack. I wouldn't want to risk it. There are certain breeds of dogs I really don't trust. I remember in the news several years back, a 14 year old girl got ripped apart and died at a friend's house by some Mastiffs. This was in the UK. I just think to myself, that girl died, albiet horrifically, for the sake of owning some dogs. I think humans are above animals, and I would not want to risk human safety for the purpose of… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 07:45 PM |
| – | The Five Faces of the Perfect WifeI believe this is only the basics. I think compatibility plays a good part in this as well. I have some some personal boundaries, one is that I don't like anything other than vanilla sex. Anal is something I would never do, and I am not interested in fulfilling a man's kinks. Bisexuality in women is something I am also very against and i find the idea of two women together repulsive. Never will I have a mff threesome, ever. I have walked because men said they must have these things with me if I … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 07:32 PM |
| – | A small request from a new redpiller regarding petsI'm sorry but I think recuing a fighter dog is completely dangerous. If an animal was used as a fighter dog it should be destroyed for the safety of humans. What if that animal hurt someone? Bully breeds are particularly dangerous. They don't always attack, but when do they don't just bite, they lock their jaw and they don't let go. In no way on God's green earth would I trust one of those things and I do not want them at large in my community where children are outside playing. Children are the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 06:29 PM |
| – | A small request from a new redpiller regarding petsI cannot stand it when people treat their pets like human children. It's an animal, get over yourself. It will likely be dead from old age long before you are. It's nearly always women who do this, and defective women who have issues building a relationship with humans because they need constant validation and control. One woman I knew some years ago springs to mind. She was one of the worst people I ever met and I kept away from her after the first few meetings. She was a social worker, and she… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 05:54 PM |
| – | INTJ personality and datingIt sounds like he may quite possibly have issues of his own regarding trust. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 02:26 PM |
| – | True Life: I've been single for years because I'm only attracted to masculine men.If you really are 7 like you say you are then you won't have a problem because being a 7 would mean that you were 2 points above average. Try dating sites. They really work. I am surprised people don't try them more often when they cannot find someone compatible by going out into the community. Not to be rude but you are also 25, and about to hit the wall. I would make it my main focus if you want a quality man. Maybe choose someone 5-10 years older. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 02:17 PM |
| – | Where are all the good men?Good men per se dont exist, no one is purely good or bad. Some people are more of one than the other, it's true, but even mostly good people will have their own superficial preferences. After the age of 25, if women are not that physically attractive, or after they have children, women lose much of their sexual monopoly. If they are not married by the time they are 30 or they end up as single mothers who wish to date again, they are going to see men's behavior towards them change from how it did… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else have an ADHD captain?Your argument is obviously emotionally fueled and has no real basis. Because you know someone dear to you with an apparent diagnosis of ADHD, my post upsets you, so you have gone on the personal attack route in the hope of shaming me for my argument, which actually brings up valid points. ADHD is fake. Our education and 9-5 society has created it. Anyone who colors outside the lines apparently has something wrong with their mental state. People diagnosed with ADHD tend to have more eccentric per… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 01:23 PM |
| – | RPW SexualityI don't particularly want to become emotionally invested in a man that I don't have serious future plans with. Personally I am not one for cheesy romance either. I like men who are direct, practical and straight to the point. I have had casual relationships in the past and I never let myself get emotionally involved, unless the man played that game where he pretended we were more and I genuinely liked his personality and not just his looks. That's the only time I have actually felt hurt after be… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/17 01:52 PM |
| – | The most beautiful woman in the world!I like the male context of the red pill better. I find it much more candid. I think women could really use it to their own advantage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/17 09:24 PM |
| – | My siblings do not like my fiancé.You sound like a very sensible girl. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/17 09:20 PM |
| 9 | My siblings do not like my fiancé.A lesbian and a single woman. There we go, both cat ladies. AVOID allowing them into your dating and family life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/17 05:46 PM |
| 3 | My siblings do not like my fiancé.I think you should keep your siblings at arms length at the moment. They seem to have started a witch hunt in regards to your fiance. Simply refuse to discuss anything related to him with them, and if they don't like it, they can sod off. These are not caring sisters, they are exploiting you and your fiance because they enjoy a nice bit of drama. They do not have your best interests at heart. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/17 05:45 PM |
| 1 | How does one be more social..The internet is your best friend when it comes to dating. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/17 05:37 PM |
| 3 | The most beautiful woman in the world!So a life as a single mother on welfare, or with a crappy job, who is exposed to all sorts of dangers from the outside world is? Even if I had to share my DH, I would still get a lot out of being with him and it would still benefit me and my children to stay. It's better to have a man on my side that does lots of heavy lifting, allows me and my kids to live a comfortable and privliged life, gives me safe sex and pays the bills. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/17 05:29 PM |
| 1 | The most beautiful woman in the world!50% was a figure I read somewhere, but this is an article with an even higher figure http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2083692/Why-men-ALWAYS-cheat-love-partners-dont-want-leave-them.html | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/17 05:15 PM |
| – | The most beautiful woman in the world!I think it's better than being left for another woman under many circumstances. I personally would rather share my man than not have him at all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/17 05:14 PM |
| – | The most beautiful woman in the world!I think more often than not this is a female pipe dream. Selling this dream to women gives them unrealistic expectations and makes them believe in a perfect prince charming. Truth is your man is always going to fantasize about other women. 50% of men in self reported studies admit to infidelity at some point. Monogamy is not a natural thing for most men, however, our society shames harems, and most men only have the resources and means to support one woman and a couple of kids. This isn't a real… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/17 04:03 PM |
| 0 | Why are white women seen as being such high value when they age the worstI didn't know that. I guess I will have to create a new account. Back to having to wait 5 minutes to post again. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 04:53 PM |
| 0 | Why are white women seen as being such high value when they age the worstI don't expect any privileges and I know I'm certainly not going to get them here. If I wanted that I could always just go and post on every other part of the internet. I don't want to create a new account because I have trouble remembering login detas and when you have limited karma your account gets restrictions. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Taking a girl out to eat at a fast food joint (McD's, BK, Wendy's). Opinion?Depends on what kind of girl she is. If she seems low maintenance then she probably won't mind. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Wtf is Twoxcrosromes?It's a community where women go to validate themselves and to talk praise of their menses,giant black dildos and saggy piss flaps. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth banging a fatty so she'll tell her friends?If her and her friends are sluts they might be open to giving you a mff 3 way. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 02:36 PM |
| 1 | She's 12 years older than me. Proper frame?Make sure you wrap it up and bring your own condom. Dont finish inside her at all if you can help it and put the condom in your pocket, take it home and dispose of it yourself. If you find carrying it with you gross then in the baby section of the shops you can find fragranced disposable diaper sacks. Put it in one and tie it up. Point is you don't know this woman. Have fun but be safe. If she is 37 and well established then she could be looking for a guy to knock her up. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 02:30 PM |
| 1 | What do you honestly do if you have a small dick?That's not small. I have noticed a pattern of people who are average complain about being below average for validation. It's like the girl who is 5'4 and 130lbs complaining about how obese she is. Everyone validates her. You want people to tell you that your manhood isn't small and you know that they will. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls brag about their slutty adventures?Many women are fooled into thinking that being able to get casual sex validates them as being attractive to men. In reality it doesn't. When men are desperate enough they will fornicate with chicken carcasses. My mother used to say 'why look at the stove when you are poking the fire?'. She wasn't exactly red pill, but this was the most red pill thing she ever said. Because these girls will only have sex with men they find attractive, they project that onto men and think that the men they are hav… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Girl called me ugly, how should I respond ?If a negative comment hurts you so much then you need to learn to grow a thicker skin. Ignore her and move on. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Please help. A woman I know has accused me of filming her without consent, and is now making all kinds of claims on Twitter. We have common friends, but they all think she's nuts. How can I stop this? Do I call her?This is harassment and slander. Block her and talk to someone at your local police station. Get there before she possibly does. Keep all her screenshots as evidence. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 02:04 PM |
| 1 | committing suicide over her?If you want to commit suicide over a girl then you have other issues in your life that make you unhappy. Unless the two of you were married or had children together, then really, what is the issue? Get your head together and when you feel ready get back on the market you will find someone else. If you are able to get one attractive girl you are able to get more. Why would you want to end your life just to make someone feel guilty? What purpose would that achieve? You will be dead anyway, you won… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Damned harpy friends of ex are assaulting me. What course of action to take?This really is a non issue. Simply delete the chat and don't talk to them again. Problem solved. Unless they are able to hurt you in meat space, then what the hell is the problem? | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 01:57 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend has cancer and will likely die in the next half year.Have you tried any of the alternative treatments? I think they are worth a shot. I know in Mexico there is an alternative cancer therapy that has apparently cured a lot of people who claim to have terminal cancer. There is a place called the gerson institute and it uses a form of light therapy to treat cancer. If you have any money spare I would give these things a try. Pharmaceutical drugs are not always helpful, and any treatment that cannot be patented is shunned by the mainstream medical com… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 01:54 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend has cancer and will likely die in the next half year.Have you tried any of the alternative treatments? I think they are worth a shot. I know in Mexico there is an alternative cancer therapy that has apparently cured a lot of people who claim to have terminal cancer. There is a place called the gerson institute and it uses a form of light therapy to treat cancer. If you have any money spare I would give these things a try. Pharmaceutical drugs are not always helpful, and any treatment that cannot be patented is shunned by the mainstream medical com… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/17 01:54 PM |
| 1 | My Mom is AbusiveIt sounds like your mom has some anger, ego and control issues and it can be impossible to set down boundaries with these sorts of people especially if they hold the cards in something that can potentially destroy your life. I have an ex boyfriend like this, and I won't go into detail but when I left him he took a lot from me. Because I happen to be a more passive and complacent person I always found it hard to fight back. I have a sister like this also and it took me years to finally zone her o… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/17 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Should i hard next ?She probably has more men on the go. Quite often girls who are open to casual relationships see more than 1 guy. Never assume you are the only one. When she feels in the mood you probably aren't her only option. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/17 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Awkward women want to fuck youMe personally, I am awkward around most people. I'm sure however if the girl isn't normally awkward and there are other signs like you have mentioned then she probably does like you. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/17 01:30 PM |
| 5 | Should I be suspicious of this guy?You don't find this man attractive. Move on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/17 01:27 PM |
| 1 | The effect of color on femininity!I tend to enjoy pastel colors. Pastel pink and lilac are my favorites. My natural hair color is really dark and I tried bleaching it myself once and it was ruined. By the time I got it light enough to tone it fell out in clumps. This was several years ago. It felt like wet lettuce for months afterwards and most people would have just cut it off but I chose to hold onto it and repair it. I am a sahm and i don't have my own means to go to a salon and my DH won't pay for the upkeep it would take fo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/17 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Can we have a conversation about friendships with women?My SO is not exactly popular with women. I mean I find him cute, but I have pretty eccentric taste in men. It's a relief really that I don't have any hot competition surrounding me, because I am pretty sure if I did I would lose. I am happy I don't genuinely have to deal with jealousy. Just being honest. I really don't know how to approach your situation. I would say choose better friends. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/17 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Makeup & clothing in regard to SMVI also badly need a labiaplasty and a clitoral hood reduction. When I say need it's not an exaggeration. I have needed these things done since I was in my teens. It's very difficult getting too intimate with a new partner. You can usually only keep the lights off and wear a nightie to bed and keep their hands off your girl parts and stop them looking for so long before they start arguing about it and asking you what the issue is. This also made dating really hard. Then there is the expectation f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/17 04:11 PM |
| 5 | Makeup & clothing in regard to SMVI'm so glad someone else pointed this out. People would always ask why I never got braces, and it was because I never had the money it would cost. My teeth a very crowded and my mouth/jaw is too small for them and they are very deformed. My parents could have gotten me braces when I was under 18 for free, but they never did. I ended up with a man with enough money but he won't get my teeth fixed and I am busy looking after kids and I don't have any income of my own. It certainly won't happen in … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/17 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Seclusion and sexual tension. A lesson from the wisdom of old.I'm not married. I live with the man and have kids with him, but we have never had a wedding ceremony. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/17 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Casual sexYou can find the sources yourself. I don't know why people always want to be directed to them when they themselves have the internet. I don't bookmark every study I read. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/17 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Casual sexThat's why the pill is a good thing. It can lower a woman's sex drive so she doesn't feel the need to do that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/17 02:44 PM |
| -1 | Anyone else have an ADHD captain?CFS is actually a physically tangible disability where a person is excessively tired all the time, even after sleeping and it has a physical effect on their day to day life. This is when blood tests and whatnot have ruled out other problems. ADHD is not tangible. The diagnostic criteria is very vague and seems to be stamped on any child who doesn't do well at school. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/17 02:37 PM |
| 6 | Makeup & clothing in regard to SMVWomen's financial status does matter. Without money women cannot maintain their appearance. Straight white teeth, a good diet, nice hair, cosmetic procedures after kids and with aging, a good wardrobe, body hair removal, good skincare ect. These things all cost a lot of money. Virtually any woman can be beautiful and can have high SMV with enough of it. Men also want someone educated, regardless of what many of them say. Men don't like air heads or poor women for serious relationships, at least … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/17 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Seclusion and sexual tension. A lesson from the wisdom of old.I am pretty much invisible to the opposite sex. Hardly anyone finds me attractive. Guys will sleep with me but finding a man willing to have kids with me and play house with me took years. Because of this I think I am an exception and I can have male friends successfully. In fact I have one that I have known for 10 years. We still meet a few times a year and we have dinner together. He doesn't like white women. You could show him the most attractive white woman in the world and he would be aptha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/17 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Don't attractive women reach "The wall" at older ages?Black women in America have obesity problems because many of them eat too much. Weight is extremely controllable. You don't see too many fat black women in Senegal. Aging is something that is even harder to control. I guess I have always envied other races of women for their skin that never seems to age. I only learnt the sun screen trick after I noticed wrinkles so by that time it was too late. I don't smoke, drink or do drugs and I drink plenty of water and I am only 28. I am already starting … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/17 02:42 PM |
| -1 | Anyone else have an ADHD captain?It doesn't. I was diagnosed with it myself as a child. I was also diagnosed with aspergers, which I think is BS as well and is just an excuse for introverted people to claim victim and special snowflake status. I spent years as a child medicated up to my eyeballs and at age 14 I said no more. People use these fictional medical problems to make excuses for their behavior and they often make it a part of their identity. In some circles it's even seen as trendy to have these psychiatric problems th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/17 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Casual sexA study I read look for it on Google. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/17 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Casual sexLook it up online it's in a study taken from the UK. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/17 02:28 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else have an ADHD captain?Look it up online and find the studies yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/17 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Casual sexHats off to you. I could never do an LDR. I wouldn't be able to cope with it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/17 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Casual sexI don't think masturbation for a woman is a substitute for having another person around. Only about 30% of women actually enjoy masturbation. I think this is because for women it's more than just a physical release. It's about being with a man and getting intimate with a masculine presence. Also, a lot of women don't like the idea of putting their fingers up there. It's a wet smelly hole just like your butt. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/17 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Casual sexHave you tried the pill? That should lower your sex drive so you can focus on other things. I found the pill really helped me for a while. It's actually normal to feel like this and it's in no way an indication of higher than normal testosterone levels in a woman. 84% of women in the west are on hormonal birth control, so most don't feel as interested in sex as they would be in their natural state. I don't think this is a bad thing because it helps women avoid casual sex. If you are already on h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/17 12:37 AM |
| -1 | Anyone else have an ADHD captain?I don't actually believe ADHD exists. Its a con so that companies can sell their pharmaceuticals. I think all these personality disorders and psychiatric illnesses that have popped up in the last 20-30 years are a load of bull. Nowadays 25% of American adults are on psychiatric drugs. How did we ever cope 100 years ago? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/17 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else have an ADHD captain?I don't actually believe ADHD exists. Its a con so that companies can sell their pharmaceuticals. I think all these personality disorders and psychiatric illnesses that have popped up in the last 20-30 years are a load of bull. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/17 12:27 AM |
| 5 | Do you think hypergamy can ever be a positive thing?Ok I must have misunderstood what it meant. Sorry. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 01:50 PM |
| 0 | This totally worked for me.Yeah that's harsh even by standards and i can be a blunt bitch. I don't condone verbal abuse. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 01:21 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend has had lots of sexual partners and I'm still a virgin. It makes me really insecure and makes me feel bad about myself. Should I leave him?You need to tell him that talking about it hurts your feelings and that you would rather not know about his past sexual experiences. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 01:11 PM |
| 7 | Don't attractive women reach "The wall" at older ages?Asian and black women age a lot slower than white women. White women usually have fine lines by the time they are 25 and these are visible even with good makeup. This is because white skin is far more susceptible to sun damage and has lower collegan levels. Smoking and drinking further exhaberates this effect. You can slow down aging a lot if you wear factor 50 on your face and neck every time you go outside or are exposed to sunlight. Even on cloudy days and during the winter. However you have … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Meal MondaysYou want to be careful with diet coke. Aspartame is the artificial sweetener used and it's poisonous. I would use regular coke instead, or buy an off brand diet cola that has any sweetner in it that isn't aspartame. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Mildly NSFW* Help! I don't know how to properly respond to this:It sounds to me like your friend is trying to bring you down to her own level. It's not your responsibility to patch up her insecurities or to get involved in her relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 03:32 AM |
| -1 | This totally worked for me.You are probably making things too easy for him. Are you acting like his mother? If he's not putting out then stop doing this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/17 10:58 PM |
| -3 | This totally worked for me."He was in prison for a year and does manual labor for work" Yeah, that's a low quality man. I'm not trying to be rude, but he's probably a bit rough around the edges and exactly the type I am thinking of. However, you obviously like him. I think you need to communicate with him. Tell him sex is something you require in a relationship and that you and him will have problems if he doesn't put out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/17 10:56 PM |
| -8 | This totally worked for me.Point is, whether you are married or not, you are a single mother and he is 6 years younger than you. Being a mother and having a post partum body highly decreases your SMV. Also, many men will use that excuse for not wanting marry, but in reality they just don't want to make that commitment. I have personally been there and done that. Generally the type of man that goes for women with children is of poor quality, as men of good quality can afford to turn women down. I also would not trust him. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/17 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Mildly NSFW* Help! I don't know how to properly respond to this:This sounds like quite a vapid friendship. I think you need to revaluate who you hang out with and reflect on yourself a little. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/17 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Advise on dealing with pregnancy and SAHW statusYes my DH was like that at first too, but when he saw that I just couldn't get anything done, he eventually caved. Drinking a monster is really no different from drinking a coffee. None of the ingredients are tetrogenic, and one can a day doesn't have enough in it to cause any problems. If your husband doesn't allow you anything that will increase your energy and make you more productive, then he only has himself to blame if you are too tired to do anything and he has to pick up slack. Pregnancy… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/17 10:32 PM |
| -9 | This totally worked for me.I am going to be blunt here. Your relationship is hardly in the best circumstances. I wouldn't expect too much from it. Any man you end up meeting as a single mother is always in some way a lost cause because your own SMV is highly reduced. You are also 6 years older than this man and you had his baby out of wedlock. He probably isn't going to stick around forever, if he does he will be an exception to the rule, even more of an exception if he is remotely good quality. You obviously don't have h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/17 10:27 PM |
| -1 | Advise on dealing with pregnancy and SAHW statusMen look at porn. There really isn't anything you can do about it and it's something you will just have to live with. As for the tiredness it's hard to say whether or not it will get better. During my pregnancies I get very tired, and with my son it never got better. I find that drinking 1 monster drink a day helps. It says not to drink in pregnancy but that's just to protect against lawsuits because it contains ingredients that are not FDA approved. A can of monster has 162mg of caffeine, that'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/17 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Study: Chads are more likely to end up with high n-count womenRelying on self reported studies for information is usually misleading. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/17 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Not new to RP but struggling with feeling truly feminine on the inside.I think there are subtle ways of looking feminine. I own lots of frilly socks, and my waterproof coat and my hat and gloves are pink. However, I am not about to wear something that makes me feel uncomfortable. My hair is also long, down to the middle of my back. I tend to like being in leggings/yoga pants and hooded jumpers. I also love sneakers. I wear dresses in the summer sometimes but always with flats and they are always jersey cotton dresses. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/17 03:08 PM |
| 29 | I cannot be a true RPWRed pill is about understanding truths, whether they are politically correct or not. You can be red pill and not follow any of the advice, just understand where that will lead you and don't lie to yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/17 03:04 PM |
| 6 | Not new to RP but struggling with feeling truly feminine on the inside.I have pretty much the same issue, i always find that I am too candid and practical for other women, and I can't stand frivolity. I find it really hard to feel enthusiastic about fashion or makeup and I highly value functionality in things. I feel that if I acted feminine it would all be fake. I find that a lot of behaviors that come naturally to other women just don't come naturally to me. I found something interesting, do you have a masculine finger digit ration by any chance? I did some resea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/17 05:00 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with rap musicI hate popular music with a passion. Everything about it annoys me. It's just a vapid autotuned mess nowadays. I suppose when it comes to music I like metal bands like opeth and paradise lost, and I like gothic synth pop and electric body music, although it's not a huge part of my identity and I don't desire to stand out and I don't like alternative fashion. When I listen to my music it's almost always with earphones. My DH doesn't like my music and I don't really have any desire for other peopl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/17 04:10 PM |
| 2 | How to gauge your SMVI am one of those women that looks fat even when she isn't. I have a really solid bone structure and really wide shoulders and a big ribcage and my bones are never really that well defined. I also have a really round face. I could be 125lbs and still look a bit porky. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/17 04:06 PM |
| 2 | How to gauge your SMVI can attest this. My chest is disproportionately large and it's more of a novelty than something guys specifically want in a relationship. It's a bit like a girl in a wheelchair, or a midget, guys are interested I knowing what it's like to sleep with you, but apart from that you are just a freak. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/17 05:44 PM |
| 0 | Can you change what you are attracted to?I don't see small breasts as a negative thing. I think it's such a stereotype that men love big breasts. Mine are an F cup, and they haven't made me any more interesting. I used to be friends with a girl who was a B cup, and she turned far more heads and got much more attention than I ever did despite this. I also have a lot of loose skin on my boobs, when I bend over or roll to the side they look like parchment paper and when I take off my bra they are almost down to my belly button. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/17 10:34 PM |
| 0 | Can you change what you are attracted to?It's not a weight loss problem. I don't know why people are assuming this. Even at a good weight, my body is terrible. Mostly because of things that cannot be changed without money at least like big shoulders, a wide ribcage, droopy boobs with a huge space in between them, really big nipples, needing a labiaplasty, having bad teeth, loose skin on my boobs and belly after children (my belly is all wrinkly and has stretch marks and a big scar across it), scars everywhere. I self harmed as a teenag… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/17 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Can you change what you are attracted to?I don't expect to get a better guy at all in terms of looks or personality, I would be happy with him if he didn't keep trying to cheat on me/find someone else whilst still with me. That's the only problem I have, is his sheer lack of commitment towards me. He keeps his dating profiles open and he messages other women. I saw him on his work phone and there were Ukrainian women on his WhatsApp. I just want him to be faithful. Whenever I pay him a compliment, it turns into a pity party, and he say… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/17 09:19 PM |
| 0 | Can you change what you are attracted to?Yeah, I have been treated like a backup my whole life, apart from by one guy, who happened to be a tall white man, with blonde hair and blue eyes who was 3 years younger than me I dated him in my early 20s and he was in his late teens when we met. He thought I was the best thing in the world, he constantly complimented me, he would buy me gifts with whatever money he had, he would fiercely defend me if anyone said anything slightly negative about.me, he even asked me to marry him, and I said no.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/17 09:05 PM |
| 0 | Can you change what you are attracted to?I am not asking for a life of luxury, I just have physical and emotional needs, and they are not being fulfilled by the type of man I unfortunately, happen to find physically attractive. I think asian men are the main problem. They are generally not decent guys, and that has just been my honest experience, and why many women of their own race are probably turning to white men. I just wish I didn't have urges to have sex with them any more, it's like an illness and it's making me really unhappy. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/17 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Can you change what you are attracted to?It's not like I am lazy and I have just let myself go. I already do those things to the best of my ability. My DH doesn't let me buy nice clothes and he doesn't let me get my hair done, so that is not really an option. He says he shouldn't have to spend his hard earned money on those things. Plus, men can see through fakery, so it's not going to work miracles. Everything that needs improving about my appearance is beyond what I can achieve without money. I accidentally wrote you another reply, b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/17 07:29 PM |
| – | Can you change what you are attracted to?I generally take care of my physical health anyway. What makes you think I don't? I excersize as much as my disability will allow me to. I also eat a good diet, and I calorie restrict to maintain a pretty reasonable weight. None of that advice applies to me, because I already do it, I still have a droopy body, horrible teeth, scars all everywhere ect, ugly face, big shoulders. You say 'its 95% about looks' but then you answer my post again, like hardly any of that matters. I have reached the phy… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/17 07:15 PM |
| -2 | Can you change what you are attracted to?How do you expect me to make that sort of money with 2 young kids? Especially when I am not qualified in any area (iq of only 85, I didn't do well at school) and i have a physical disability? Who do you expect is going to care for my kids when I am working? It's not only my teeth that need fixing, I need a tummy tuck, a breast lift, an areola reduction, a labiaplasty, laser hair removal and scar removal (I used to have a cutting issue and I have excess body hair as well). I also need glasses, an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/17 06:37 PM |
| 7 | Having hard-time finding the right manYeah, I second all of this. I ended up meeting a man who was completely no nonsense from the get go. He said he liked that I made things easy for him. We actually spoke about our life goals before even meeting. He was 29, incredibly cute and attractive, but had never been in a relationship with a woman prior to me. I hate all these social mind games people play, and how everyone is just extremely manipulative in their social interactions. I don't get it. This probably isn't very red pill, but a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/17 02:58 AM |
| 2 | How much male attention did you get in high school?I went to a special education school and as a teenager I was very frumpy and overweight. I was in the high functioning autistic department, and I was surrounded by boys. There were absolutely no other girls in my class. I frequently got hit on by creepy old men in public, but boys my own age didn't often like me and if they did I found they were the scary type who was really, really forward and aggressive. I didn't date until I was 18, and the first boy I dated turned out to be gay. I never real… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/17 02:20 AM |
| 8 | Hard time trusting other womenI am in the uk and my issue is that I find British women often really hard to identify with. I just find most of them really closed minded and bitchy. I can't really act like myself around them most of the time. Everyone who has gotten to know me has also tried to encourage me to leave my DH. I have had big trouble caused by other women getting very involved in my life without my say so. I tend to get along with women from more traditional cultures. I think their attitudes are much nicer and the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/16 04:24 PM |
| 5 | Feeling down - could use some adviceSome of the problem is certainly you, but the guys you are seeing sound like just as much of an issue. A lot of men today don't want commitment under any circumstance, they just want casual relationships. Nothing you can do or say will get these men to put a ring on your finger, because they simply don't have that on their agenda. You need to start vetting better and next any guy who only seems interested in a casual relationship. You are having sex with men too soon and getting to attached to t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/16 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Respect.You don't necessarily have to marry in the west. Maybe move to a country with different divorce laws if trust is an issue for you. I completely understand, and as much as every woman wants a man who will commit to them, current family and divorce law has made this a frightening prospect for a lot of men. There is never any guarantee that someone you feel you can trust now will not show their true colors over time and turn out to be someone completely different and will stab you in the back. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/16 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Advice on maintaining hair down there...I trim mine so that it's just a few cm long. If I remove all the hair and make my lady parts completely bald I always end up with bacterial vaginosis for some reason. My DH prefers it bald but he understands that my health is more important and BV can cause pre term labour and I am probably going to be pregnant a lot in the next 10-15 years. If you find shaving it all off uncomfortable then why bother? I suppose that's easy for me to say as me and my DH don't like female oral sex, and most coupl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/16 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Debating motherhoodMy body didn't bounce back after pregnancy, either and I have had horrid pregnancies so far. I rapidly gained a lot of weight, and got a lot of loose skin and really bad stretch marks. I also ended up having issues with my pelvis, legs and feet because my pelvis became tilted and I was wheelchair bound in the last few weeks. I ended up having a placental abruption, I lost a lot of blood and my son was delivered by emergency c section. Because of the blood loss and the operation I began losing my… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/16 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Engaged and getting lazyYou don't specify what it is you believe you are getting lazy about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/16 06:06 PM |
| 2 | PTSD and comfort tests.It helped me get over my anxiety when I did some long winded research on what other people around the world have to go through. I noticed a lot of my problems really do pale in comparison to the problems of others, and that the world in general is a very tough place and there are millions of people suffering every day for many different reasons. Your problems are never unique, there is always someone out there going through the same thing, and there are many more whose problems are much worse. Y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/16 06:03 PM |
| 1 | PTSD and comfort tests.As someone who had a very far from ideal childhood, my best advice to you would be to get over it. That may sound insensitive but you can't indulge in self pity for things that no longer are a part of your daily reality for the rest of your life. What happened to you was unfortunate, but it's over. There is no chance of it happening again because you are an adult. It's time to move on. The best thing you can do is understand what it is that happened to you. What happened was not your fault and a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/16 05:50 PM |
| 2 | How does a RedPillWoman react to someone seeking revenge against her?If I couldn't avoid them I would do whatever I could to protect myself. People can be nasty. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/16 05:38 PM |
| 1 | What Attracts Women: Looks, Money, StatusSure, many teen girls would date plain looking rich guys, but it would merely be prostitution. They would only be in it for the money. Women are not sexually attracted to money. Women want the lifestyle that comes with it and they are willing to forgo sexual attraction to prostitute themselves so they can enjoy a comfortable lifestyle, possibly at the expense of the person with money because they will have to pay huge sums of alimony should there be a divorce. You hear of rich men being taken to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/16 05:34 PM |
| 1 | What Attracts Women: Looks, Money, StatusYes this is true. I only like Asian men. It doesn't matter if a miracle happens and a white man way above my league in looks comes along in a Ferrari, I would rather be with an average looking Asian man. I also dislike loud mouths, men who are too confident, or flashy dressers. It's not a deal breaker for me because so many people wear them, but I hate those big plastic glasses. Any man wearing them gets a few points knocked off, as opposed to if he was wearing a sensible looking wire frame. I a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/16 02:56 AM |
| 2 | What Attracts Women: Looks, Money, StatusWomen are not sexually attracted to wealth. It's a myth that they are. Women will have sex with and marry wealthy men for the lifestyle, not necessarily because money gives them the tingles. If wealth was truly sexy, don't you think teen girls would all be crushing on bill gates? Just to point out, a wealthy ugly old woman can also get young hot guys with her money too. Look at the Dutchess of Alba and who she is married to. That doesn't mean that men generally find her sexually attractive. Peop… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/16 02:43 AM |
| 4 | Advice on limbo relationship, injuries and him hitting rock bottomSounds like you scared him off when you talked about commitment. This is all part of the vetting process. A man who doesn't want to commit to you for whatever reason is a waste of your time. Time to move on. I will say though that you could have handled it better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/16 02:36 AM |
| 1 | What Attracts Women: Looks, Money, StatusIf this is true, then why don't attractive teen girls, the females most in their prime, have pin ups on elon musk and bill gates on their walls? Why do they love Justin Bieber, who is a complete thug? Same with men, you don't see them jerking off to goody Ann widdicombe or safe Susan Boyle. What you are saying is rubbish. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/16 02:33 AM |
| 2 | What Attracts Women: Looks, Money, StatusSo looks do matter. You rarely see the most attractive women with terrible looking men and vice versa, given there is a wide dating pool and people have plenty of options. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/16 02:16 AM |
| 1 | What Attracts Women: Looks, Money, StatusBut I am sure you still have standards when it comes to a man's looks that you won't go below, even if he had an attractive personality. If not then you are the exception rather than the rule. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/16 02:05 AM |
| 2 | What Attracts Women: Looks, Money, StatusI don't agree with this. This sort of advice puts men in the friendzone. Women usually know pretty soon after meeting a man whether or not they are attracted to him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/16 01:51 AM |
| 3 | What Attracts Women: Looks, Money, StatusMost people have to settle to some extent. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/16 01:50 AM |
| 1 | What Attracts Women: Looks, Money, StatusI think attractive people usually pair off with attractive people and vice versa. I think average and below average women are often happy to be with awkward or not so handsome men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/16 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Very tidy woman dating man who is not...needs help!Pokemon got me through my teens lol. I was also a gamer growing up, but I lost interest when I had other responsibilities, because like we both agree, these games take up more and more of people's time. Now I have a kid and another on the way I don't think it would be possible. You cant even push a pause button on most of them these days. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/16 02:30 PM |
| 12 | Housewives vs working wivesI prefer to stay at home. I want as many children as possible. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/12/16 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Doesn't want me to do laundry? Help!It doesn't seem like a big deal to me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/16 09:15 PM |
| 4 | Very tidy woman dating man who is not...needs help!A guy who plays a lot of video games to me is always a red flag. Men who play a lot of video games are often trying to escape reality and they often get wrapped up in fantasy worlds. Especially nowadays with these online MMRPGs. When I was growing up a video game used to be an activity that people did casually because games had an ending. Now they endless platforms where you can interact with other gamers and excelling at the game and competing with other plays takes up an awful lot of a person'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/16 03:45 PM |
| 2 | My husband doesn't want sex very often... I feel alone in thisDo you have kids and does your husband work long hours? These are things that make it difficult to find the time to have sex. If this is not the case then your husband is being unreasonable. Either he is lazy, and he can't be bothered to work on his marriage, or he isn't being honest with you and is too much of a coward to tell you the truth. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/16 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Number of PartnersThis is why I think women should have the option in western countries to be circumcised, infibulated even, but only with the woman's consent. I don't think female sexual pleasure or desire is very important, and if anything it's a hindrance to society. You can't expect people to tell the truth about everything, especially if they can get away with it. If a lie would make my life or someone close to me's life better, I would rather lie than tell the truth. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/16 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Number of PartnersThere is certainly a difference, however to a woman, if she can't find a relationship and and really wants male physical contact, then casual sex may be her only option until she finds someone. For most women, remaining celibate for years is just too much. Future partners really don't have to know about it, although the situation isnt ide. Why do you think that they infibulate women in many Muslim cultures? Because contrary to what you believe women do desire men and they do desire sex even when… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/16 12:08 AM |
| 5 | What is that you love about being a woman?I am a very nervous and squeamish person and being female confidence and bravery are not things that are really expected of me. I am also not ambitious at all. I think I had a lucky escape being female because if I were a man people would probably think I was pathetic. I think men have it tough when it comes to proving themselves to people. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/12/16 12:06 AM |
| 1 | SpearmintI have had my bloodwork a few times, and my androgen levels are in the very normal range. In fact nothing was higher or lower than it should be, despite the fact that I struggle with acne cysts and excess body hair. The excess body hair worsened in my pregnancy and has never went away. The acne cysts only seem to happen during my menstrual cycle prior to ovulation and my menstrual bleed, they disappear for the most part during pregnancy and throughout the rest of my cycle. I have also always had… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/16 04:02 PM |
| 5 | Halfway between loving The Red Pill and getting bummed out about itJust because you acknowledge the red pill, it doesn't mean you have to follow every bit of its advice. You just have to understand what it means if you don't. There are a lot of men who care a great deal about a woman's personal accomplishments. My own experiences would tell me that. I have been turned down in the past for not having any further education. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/16 03:59 PM |
| 2 | New to red pill (Virgin, 20, Woman)I'm way older than this girl and pretty experienced. I have seen it for myself. I don't think that all men think and behave exactly like the men do in PUA circles, and if you want a good committed relationship, RP men should be avoided. I think this is where the importance of a stable protective father comes in. In times past womens dating prospects were screened by fathers and other male family members, and I think this was a good system to avoid having women learn the hard way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/16 06:44 PM |
| 3 | SpearmintI don't understand how you can get rid of excess body hair though? I thought that once a hair turns from vellus to terminal, it cannot be reversed? I have excess body hair, not from PCOS or any medical condition, it just runs in my family. I have found that an epilator works better than anything else. I tweeze the hairs on my chin and upper lip and some have even stopped growing back. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/16 06:40 PM |
| 7 | New to red pill (Virgin, 20, Woman)You don't sound very mature and you seem very impressionable. I wonder if you are just not ready for a serious relationship yet. You care too much about what other people think and not enough about what makes you happy. You need to get over peer pressure and learn to do what makes you happy. If you give into peer pressure you will regret your choices. You sound like you are not happy following the same path as your friends. Real friends won't put pressure on you. I am concerned that this group y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/16 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I'm wrong?Yeah my DH is like this. It's certainly not ideal. I tend to just do my best to ignore him. It sounds like your boyfriend has become the placating one in the relationship because he just wants peace. I can empathize with that. You need to learn to take a step back and learn to allow him to do things his way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/16 05:30 PM |
| 2 | I'm wrong?Well then that's a whole different situation. Sorry I misunderstood you. I think your problem is that you need to learn to communicate differently. Not only that but you mention getting in the way of his career aspirations because you don't want him gone too often. I think you have a problem wkth controlling others. This is not so much a gender issue, as both men and women can be controlling people, but you can use the red pill to change your behavior. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/16 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Alpha widowing and hypergamyI don't claim to be a NAWALT, but I just couldn't screw a man over in that sense. even if he left me in the worst possible way, I wouldn't want the further drama and upset of battling with him and I would put my children first. I would rather make an informal agreement with a man than go to court and screw him over and if it had to go to court I would want to make things fair. I think plenty of women exist like this. It's just the nasty ones you hear about with no integrity, and there are men li… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/16 05:02 PM |
| 3 | I'm wrong?It sounds like you don't respect this man and you need to move on. I can't say I blame you. He sounds lazy and lack of work ethic in a man would turn any woman off. A man without work ethic is like the male equivalent to a bossy feminist who hates children. You have a naturally more dominant personality than he does and he doesn't sound like red pill material. I mean, you financially support him. A woman can never respect a man she financially supports. You and him have no real ties to one anoth… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/16 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Question about RPW, TPR, and rapeThis is why I don't think women should share that they have been assaulted with any of their family. Many men in particular have their own insecurities like this Chris guy, and they will be unable to handle it emotionally and it will cause drama. If you tell other family members it may also upset them too much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/16 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Question about RPW, TPR, and rapeNot all men like women with big breasts. I know a lot who don't. In fact I would say that very thin women with average or even small ones are more popular. A lot of women with big breasts are very out of shape. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/16 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Question about RPW, TPR, and rapeIt really don't think a woman's future husband needs to know she was raped. Personally I would rather leave something like this in the past where it belongs. If an experience like this still effects your marriage or future relationships, then you need therapy. If it was to happen when a woman is already married then it may be more difficult to hide, but not impossible. The police have an obligation to keep this sort of thing confidential from the woman's family. Personally I don't see any point … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/16 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How to be more empathetic?I find that men can take advice from women, it's the way you deliver it. Be calm and rational and explain it in simple terms, remain polite. Don't sound anxious, angry or upset. Men often cannot cope when women show displays of emotion. They are simply not programmed for it. Men are programmed to solve problems, and I have noticed when even as a woman, if I have a rational and helpful solution and I focus on the solution itself instead of how I am feeling about it my DH will often listen. He nev… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/16 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Not sure what to do...You don't say what you may have done to emasculate him. it might be that this is who he really is. A lot of people put up a facade in the beginning to impress their partner. Don't be too disappointed if he never reverts back to his old ways. The may problem may well be you, but you cant say that until you try. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/16 06:13 PM |
| 0 | Having trouble feeling loved.It sounds like you have a great relationship with him and you are just looking for things to complain about. This is your problem, not his. Maybe he just isn't a romantic person, a lot of us aren't. I think you are making a big deal out of nothing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/16 06:07 PM |
| 3 | I'm very new here, so please bear with me. RPW and eating disorders?One day you will probably have kids. Everything will possibly sag and go south, and you will dream of your old body again. I have never particularly had a good figure, I have always been built like a brick and I am square and stocky, but since having my son everything is droopy and I am covered head to toe in stretch marks. I dream of my old body again and I want to slap myself for hating it so much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/16 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Advice for Alpha WidowsI am lucky to have never been in this situation myself. All I can say though is move on. I have fallen for men who didn't want much to do with me and because there was nothing serious there I moved on fast and got over it within a few weeks. I guess if it was a serious relationship especially a marriage or where children are involved it could be very hard to get over. My DH certainly isn't an alpha but he has a very unique personality and hes the only man I have ever fully clicked with. If anyth… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/16 05:51 PM |
| 9 | Number of PartnersNot all women can find a relationship easily. Many women spend years single even when they are actively looking for a husband. Some women have an smv that is too low for them to find a stable man and they still desire male contact and having sex outside of committed relationships is the only way they can have this until they actually manage to find someone. Women have sex drives and needs for physical affection just like men do, it's just that attractive women with a good smv are bombarded with … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/16 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else find themselves behaving in a way to show other men you are of high worth?Studies have shown that women actually prefer more egalitarian friendships, unlike men who bond under competition and hierarchy. Women only do this when they are insecure and such behavior doesn't create bonding. Trying to create hierarchy in your friendship group is a very masculine trait. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/16 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else find themselves behaving in a way to show other men you are of high worth?I read your post earlier and it sounds like a great way to lose friends. Female friendships do not thrive well under competition and hierarchy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | So..How do you make a man improve himself without nagging him?It's important to vet these men before you get serious. Find out more about them before you assume they are telling the truth about themselves. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/16 03:10 AM |
| 1 | So..How do you make a man improve himself without nagging him?I think this sub advises against dating men who are lazy and unmotivated in the first place. With these men you can't really have a red pill dynamic because they are not captains. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/16 03:08 AM |
| 3 | How to set boundaries and not be a pleaserThat sounds exactly like me. People are always taking advantage of me and I often find it hard to say no to people. I am better than I used to be, but I still need to improve. I have a female friend who is very much like the girls you describe as being demanding and not giving much in return. I have been able to stand up to her, and she hasn't wanted to hang out with me any more. I am currently pregnant and not feeling well, and she expected me to get two trains to see her, I asked her to come a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/16 03:04 AM |
| 7 | How to set boundaries and not be a pleaserIf he's asking you to pay for his stuff he's not an alpha. An alpha would be ashamed to ask a woman to pay his way. I think you are looking at this guy with rose tinted specs. It sounds like it won't be a bad thing if he does leave. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/16 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Issue with being a millennial RPWCollege campuses are crawling with authoritarian liberals. I have found that around some people it's better that I just keep certain views to myself to avoid bullying. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/16 02:34 AM |
| 3 | He dumped meAccutane is an extremely harsh drug with a lot of really unpleasant side effects. It can really screw with a person physically and mentally. Many people who have had no previous history of mental illness have ended up committing suicide on it. He may be in a really bad place. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/16 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Boyfriend said he doesn't want to be with meAnxiety is never really one of those things that goes away, it's just something you can learn to cope with. I would suggest taking time out from people if possible when you feel that way. If your boyfriend isn't tolerant of that then he's probably not the perfect match for you. You can have really strong feelings for a man who isn't the best match. Maybe breaking up with him will help you find someone who is more sympathetic. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/16 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Insight from an unexpected place (slightly nsfw)I think gay relationships have a lot of differences to relationships between men and women. The dynamic is just completely different and I dont think homosexuality or lesbianism really has a place in the romantic side of the red pill. I'm not saying this to be rude or anything, and I have nothing against people being gay, but the dynamics between two women and two men can never really be compared to a heterosexual relationship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/16 02:13 AM |
| 1 | I need you ladies to tell me everything will be okayThere have been guys in the past I went on dates with, who I had sex with who I fell hard for but they didn't feel much interest in me. You eventually get over it and you move on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/16 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Question.My ideal man would be emotionally open to me and sensitive to other people's feelings but he would also be able to hold himself together through times of stress. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/16 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Not all of us can do well even with self improvementI didn't get my makeup, hair and clothes right until I was around 23 or so. I still found it really hard to find a decent guy who wanted anything more than sex. I also have mild speech issues. I stutter badly, cannot pronounce a lot of words and my voice is naturally quite harsh. I have had men talk to me on the phone then not want to speak to me again. Because of my physical disability I find certain forms of exercising really hard. Because of this I have a really flat butt and very poor muscle… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/16 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Fiancé seems to want to go into "Cave". Should I withdraw too to give him space? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/16 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Not feeling "sparks".. Should I settle or keep searching?If most of the men where you live are delinquents then you need to look elsewhere. I don't think any woman should bother with a man unless he is sensible and mature. A man who is chronically unemployed, acts like a bad boy or has substance issues simply hasn't earned the right to be with a woman. Expecting a man to be sensible and mature is the bare minimum in standards to me regardless of your own smv. I can second that most of the men I grew up around were not worth it. They were violent, cras… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/16 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Quick question for you all.I would do it to make my man happy, but its not my favorite activity. I can't say I really like blowjobs all that much, I have a small mouth and crowded teeth so they are awkward for me. I have hurt my DH accidentally because some of my front teeth are in a really awkward position being behind the others. I pretty much tolerate them because the man I am with likes them. I much prefer piv sex over any other type of sex. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/16 09:55 PM |
| 0 | Fiancé seems to want to go into "Cave". Should I withdraw too to give him space? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/16 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Need Advice on Two Minor ThingsIt can be normal for electronic communication to slow down at some point. Maybe he doesn't like texting all that much, and he was just doing it after the first date because he wasn't as comfortable around you and felt like ge needed to make more of an effort . After the business trip maybe he saw that you felt comfortable with minimal texting so he stuck with it. Really its very early days, and I dont know if this is the case or not. It's all well and good trying to guess his behavior but only t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/16 08:33 PM |
| 1 | 24(F) seeking advice on how to bring up my needs to man I'm dating in a rpw mannerI would just casually suggest that we go out and do other activities as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/16 09:02 PM |
| 3 | If you got pregnant and your boyfriend/husband wanted you to get an abortion, would you do it?I know a girl personally who got pregnant when she was 21 and the father was 18. At first the father was really unhappy about it, and said that if she didn't abort he would leave. They had been together for about a year. They are still together several years later, and the young man in question really loves being a father and he works a job to support his family. It could turn out that this is the case, but then it might not. An abortion is something I couldn't go through with either way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/16 08:08 PM |
| 11 | How can I support my boyfriend to become more alpha?People always put up a front at the start of their relationships. It sounds to me like this is who your boyfriend really is. He's given up trying to impress you because he feels comfortable in the relationship, and you are seeing his true colors. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/16 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Your self worth.I think the feeling of dropping out of the sexual market has liberated me from caring. I am 28 and a mother and I just don't feel sexually relevant anymore to any man other than my DH. If something were to happen to him it would just be me and my children. I wouldn't be open to finding someone else and it simply wouldn't appeal to me. If I was young and childfree and still on the market I most likely would feel insecure. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/16 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Lost and wanting to give up.your post was very poorly constructed and I couldn't make sense of it properly. Next time you post something please use paragraphs and don't write such long sentences. As for losing your grandparents I am sorry to hear about that. Maybe you can take comfort in the fact that almost everyone outlives their grandparents. This is a loss that happens to most people at some point. You are certainly not alone. As for your boyfriend I don't know much about you or him but it sounds like a bad relationshi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/16 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Your self worth.Over the past year my appearance and how I compare to other women have began to matter less and less to me. I still groom and make an effort to be neat, clean and tidy but I really don't care anymore about how I compare to women in the street. I have always been very plain looking and it used to bother me. I thought men were only with me because they were 'settling'. Then I learnt more about the red pill and realized that this isn't necessarily a bad thing. We all settle to some degree in life. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/16 05:57 PM |
| 3 | What does sex mean to men?A few times a year? Sounds as though you have a problem with your libido. Are you on the pill or any other medications? Have you had a traumatic experience? You are going to run into relationship difficulties with how low your sex drive is. Most women want sex way more often than that. A man is going to pick upon the fact that you are not enjoying it. Men love to be desired, just like women do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/16 05:38 PM |
| 8 | In the midst of my first argument as a RPW, I need the wisdom of this community.It sounds like the honeymoon period is over and this guy is showing his true colors. He sounds like a generally argumentative, high conflict person. The initial excitement has worn off and he can't hold back his desire to create drama any longer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/16 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Did I [25F] do the right thing by breaking up with him? [23M]It sounds to me like the honeymoon period ended and he couldn't be bothered to make an effort with the relationship any more. I mean, a guy who is too lazy to eat even and just lives on powdered shakes? From what you have said he sounds like a man child. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/16 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Good quality/value foot wear?I personally like ugg boots in the winter. I always buy mine pre owned off of eBay for a fraction of the original price. You can often find them hardly used. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/16 12:37 PM |
| 1 | "The right person" vs. " a man who's secure"Ideally you want a combination of both. A relationship won't work with a man unless you find him physically attractive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/16 11:54 PM |
| 2 | In need of advice.It seems to me like this man can't handle conflict. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/16 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Seemingly alpha BF (23) turning beta as relationship progresses?It seems to me like he's gotten comfortable enough to reveal his true colors. People don't 'change', you just get to know them better. It sounds to me like when you first met him he was putting up a front. This is who he really is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/16 11:48 PM |
| 4 | I'm seriously starting to believe women are better off dating men that are a little "out of their league" physically..I can second this. I am personally about a 4. I am short and dumpy with bad teeth. I have gone for guys in my league and they were not open to a relationship with me. The only men who have actually been open to a relationship with me are the nicest looking ones I have dated. My DH and the father of my kids is cute and Asian and is about a 7. He just has the most handsome face and the hottest body. He's very awkward and shy in his personality though and never had a serious relationship prior to m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/16 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Am I imagining things or should I call it off now?You are 22, have no kids with this man, have no other connection to him other than the fact that he is your boyfriend... I think little can go wrong from calling it off. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/16 08:03 PM |
| 2 | I'm a lazy undereducated trust fund baby....how can I become a RPW ?To be honest, if I had all that money I wouldn't bother complaining about anything. I would just live life to the fullest and do whatever the hell I wanted. I suppose it's all you know so you take it for granted. Just be a pleasant person. Don't be a bitch. Guys will like you. Maybe find a guy who has lots of money also. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/16 07:54 PM |
| 5 | RPW opinions on plastic surgery?I think it's great if you can personally afford it. It just goes to show how much beauty is often linked to wealth. Anyone with plenty of money can in fact look beautiful. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/16 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Is my mindset too controlling here? Not sure I want to necessarily pick this battle but I thought I'd pick your brains to see if there is anything I can do other than bottling it upHe's friends with a guy who tries to hit on his girlfriend? I think you know this guy is bad news. Honestly though, there is nothing you can do to prevent your boyfriend from seeing him. Luckily he doesn't see him too often. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/10/16 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Is there any hope?I think you need to broaden your age range, what if for example you meet a guy who is 25 or 50, who is a perfect match? If you live in the UK I feel sorry for you. The UK is a radically far left country. If you want to raise kids in any way that is unconventional, I wish you luck, because the UK authorities watch parents like hawks and there is a tonne of domestic violence, child abuse and rape hysteria. I don't have a lot of positive things to say about British men, either. They are either chav… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/16 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Which comes first, the marriage or the children?I'm from the UK. The USA is bad enough, but at least in the USA there is a strong traditional community and there are red states where people believe in family values and stand up for their personal freedoms. In the UK almost everyone is a far left nut who supports government fascism. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/16 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Advice for GFs in their Late 30sIf she wants kids, this is probably her last chance. I feel really bad for women who leave it too long. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/16 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Advice for GFs in their Late 30sUnless she wants children, her age probably doesn't matter. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/16 12:44 PM |
| 5 | Which comes first, the marriage or the children?I think as a society we have become far too child centric and not to the benefit of children and their families, it's become a big industry. Any negative interaction between parents and their children is deemed as abusive and there is an awful lot of surveillance from various professionals when it comes to raising children, at least where I live. My country has it pretty bad. Parents are no longer seen as the authority figures of their own children. The last few generations are all special snowf… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/16 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Male-Female FriendshipsExceptions to the rule do exist. I have a very close male friend who lived with me at one point. We used to top and tail in the same bed and watch tv together. No attraction whatsoever. I am white and he explicitly only likes indian and asian women. Hes not my type either. Me and this male friend go way back. We have been friends for 10 years. When one of us needs someone to confide in we always call each other. He has gone to dinner with me and my own family and I have lived at his mothers hous… | /r/RedPillWives | 24/10/16 01:12 AM |
| -4 | Overreacting when BF doesn't want to have sexNot everyone enjoys masturbation. Some women feel funny about their own lady parts and don't enjoy touching them. Masturbation is essential for men but not for women because women don't get the same kind of release from it. I think its unfair on the op to say these things. The red pill always bashes women for turning men down, so why the double standard? | /r/RedPillWives | 23/10/16 08:10 PM |
| -1 | Overreacting when BF doesn't want to have sexIf you are thinking about other men and you want sex more than he does, then maybe its time to call it quits. There are plenty of men out there who want sex everyday. You are obviously unhappy with this arrangement and I assume you don't have kids with this man. What reasons do you have to stay? If you are an attractive young woman you don't have to settle. | /r/RedPillWives | 23/10/16 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Losing weight and keeping it off; what helped me and what might help othersIf you think you need to lose weight with a bmi of 19, you have an eating disorder and you are not mentally healthy. If you got any thinner, you would clearly be underweight. This is not a pro ana thread. This is a thread about healthy weight loss for people who are overweight or obese. I think you need to see a doctor if you are feeling this way because you could make yourself very ill. I would suggest watching documentaries about women who have fully fledged anorexia. You don't want to be like… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/16 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Too soft a place to landIf hes working 60 hours a week then he really doesn't have a lot of time off to relax. It's probably the case that he's so busy and tired with work he wants to come home to you and relax. He cant really do that when he wants to go and see his friends. Where I am from the maximum work week they are allowed to ask you do to do is about 48 hours but people can choose to do overtime of they want. 60 hours is a lot and must be exhausting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/16 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Non Traditional Friend About to Leave Her HusbandIf your friend wants a divorce, then she has likely grown miserable with her husband and is most likely bored of him. That's the reality of it all. Women don't divorce if they feel close to their husband, regardless of whether or not they are happy wih other parts of their lives. I don't think your friend is telling you the full story, and to be honest she doesn't have to because it's her business. I get that you care about her and her family, but there is nothing more you can do but give her ad… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/16 06:40 PM |
| 4 | Post-Break-Up Depression (3 months in)Some men are genuinely not looking for commitment. It sounds to me like this might be the case in your situation. A lot of men actually enjoy being bachelors and always keeping their options open. Be wary of this when looking for a ltr. A man who doesn't want a steady girlfriend is not likely going to change his mind until he personally decides that's what he wants. I think it's important that every time you enter a new relationship you ask a man what his intentions are. This will weed out any m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/16 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever pretend to enjoy sex with your so?We have a toddler together and a baby on the way. It's not that easy. Yes he has said those things to me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/16 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Are black guys the only minority group in the USA that can pull hot white girls?I guess I can only give you my perspective. I'm a white woman who only dates Asian guys, and I am not really what many people would consider attractive. Many of them have a really tough time with attractive white women. A few might have an easier time if they are tall and good looking and have a good build. I have actually asian, Pakistani and Indian guys with attractive white women, but they were all tall, well built and handsome. If you are an average or below average looking Asian, Indian and… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/16 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Tempted to make him a projectDon't get with someone expecting to change them, and then get disappointed if they are content with how they are. You may think he needs to improve himself, but maybe he is happy enough the way he is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/16 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Wanted my ex back update, why sex matters and tips if you have low libido.Maybe you didn't find the men you were with hot enough. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/16 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Women are controlling by natureI never said women are evil. Just that some women are evil, and the way that they express their controlling nature makes or breaks them. You obviously didn't read the whole thing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/16 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Wanted my ex back update, why sex matters and tips if you have low libido.I wasn't speaking for myself, I don't take birth control, and I have a very good sex drive, just from my observations of other women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/16 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Have you been "objectified", as feminists say? Did you dislike it?Those types of men show interest in any female. It's really not a compliment. They can't afford to be choosy. My mother has been approached by creepy old winos and she is fat and in her 50s and looks like Erin pizzey. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/16 02:17 PM |
| 5 | Have you been "objectified", as feminists say? Did you dislike it?I can't say I enjoy being cat called at all. I'm not pretty, and it hasn't happened to me much in my life, but when it did happen it felt embarrassing and like a complete invasion of my personal space. I am a very shy person who hates talking to strangers. I remember it happening to me as a teen. a group of older dirty looking men in scruffy clothes approached me in the street and made comments about my breasts, which have always been disproportionately large. I went home and cried. I didn't rea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/16 01:44 PM |
| 6 | Wanted my ex back update, why sex matters and tips if you have low libido.I think most women who have low libido have it because of birth control or menopause. It's a catch 22 because many women need birth control for their own personal reasons. In the west around 85% of women between the ages of 18 and 43 are on the pill or some kind of other hormonal method. These cease ovulation, thus lowering any testosterone production a woman has and in return dampening libido. It's the same with menopause. Women lose testosterone, which controls libido in both men and women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/16 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Not Having Success with Coffee DatesI can now see why your marriage failed. Your husband sounds very high maintenance. I am a person who likes a simple life, so I can relate. I don't think i could handle a relationship with a high maintenance man. Are you maybe attracting men similar to your husband? Sometimes we subconsciously attract a particular type of person. Maybe you need to look for a relationship that has more of a companionship element to it. I once saw you mention you were quite submissive, and submissive women often ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/16 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Serious LTR-seeker's notebook: Reasons I'd reject your dating site profile.For me, personally, I hate it when men put group pictures with their friends on their profile. Especially when you can't tell which guy in the picture is the one messaging you. Men do that a lot on dating sites, and it's very annoying. I don't have a problem with men showing pictures of their kids. If you are willing to date a single parent then the kids are part of the package. I have kids myself, and if I was to ever be in a situation where I was dating again,I would probably put pictures of m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/16 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Not Having Success with Coffee DatesI went through your post history and you have my condolences. What happened to you must have been very traumatic. I admire you for doing what is best for your kids and keeping it together. Dating in your 40s is tough. As a woman your smv will have declined and most of the men left over will have a tonne of baggage as well. That doesn't mean that you won't find someone, but the search may take longer. My advice to you is as long as you are physically attracted to a guy, and you get along reasonab… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/16 03:20 PM |
| 15 | is it possible to find a "pretty boy" kind of alpha or am I just deluded?I can relate to not liking big, hairy macho men. I am only visually attracted to Asian men, despite not Asian myself. I like most Asian men, but I would pick a small quiet Asian man in practical clothing over a big tall one with muscles and tattoos and lots of confidence. If I am honest I prefer betas and men who can have female friends. This goes against what this forum says, but it's what I like. I like a man who I can joke and gossip with, and who is hands on with our kids. I cannot imagine h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/16 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Advice on finding a husband?You can find all that online. Sign up to as many dating sites as possible and write what you want in your profile. I met my boyfriend on pof. I did however get 100s of messages every day from men I didn't like and who didn't bother reading my profile, so I set my profile to private and sent loads of messages to men I was attracted to. Only they could see my profile and no one else could message me. I specifically stated that I only liked Asian men. I couldn't meet one easily offline and I met an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/16 03:40 PM |
| -1 | How to improve?First thing is first, let anything that happened in your childhood go. You are an adult now and you need to move on and make the best of yourself. Adults who wallow in negative childhood experiences need to let it go. 1. You were just a child, there is no way you can blame yourself for anything. 2. Adults have their own trials and tribulations and we all have a breaking point, they don't always know or do what is best. Don't make this a part of your identity any more. Learn to understand yoursel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/16 01:07 AM |
| 5 | When is enough, enough?When the cons of a relationship outweigh the pros. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/16 03:46 PM |
| 20 | 13 Female QualitiesHow is anyone supposed to be helpless, confident and independent all at once? This article doesn't make a lot of sense. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/16 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Need help with my hairThanks. That's a lot of helpful advice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/16 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Have any women here had a labiaplasty or do they know someone who has? NSFWI am his only girlfriend. I don't think`he feels he has luck with anyone else. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/16 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Have any women here had a labiaplasty or do they know someone who has? NSFWAbout 2-3 times a week. He works long hours. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/16 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Have any women here had a labiaplasty or do they know someone who has? NSFWIt probably isn't, but it's ruining my life now he has said those things. I have even had fantasies about performing one on myself, although I know that isn't an option at all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/16 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Have any women here had a labiaplasty or do they know someone who has? NSFWProbably more trying to please him and to keep our relationship together. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/16 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Have any women here had a labiaplasty or do they know someone who has? NSFWHe has a good job and he's sensible. He has that going for him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/16 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Have any women here had a labiaplasty or do they know someone who has? NSFWThe government funds them all the time. He can afford it, he just won't pay for it and I am a SAHM. He says our money can be invested in more productive things. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/16 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Have any women here had a labiaplasty or do they know someone who has? NSFWI don't know, he's said a lot of hurtful things about the way I look. He's said that he prefers round butts, and mine has always been flat, he said he likes long blonde hair, and mine is very dark and gets easily damaged so being blonde and having long hair will be difficult, he also said he likes tall women, and I am only 159cm tall. He also commented that I have droopy boobs. When we have sex he often wants to look at porn, and the women he looks at look nothing like me. To be honest, he has n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/16 06:37 PM |
| 5 | Have any women here had a labiaplasty or do they know someone who has? NSFWWhat I don't understand is why he had to say something. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/16 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Have any women here had a labiaplasty or do they know someone who has? NSFWHe is 30 and I am his first girlfriend. Before he was with me he saw escorts and prostitutes and he said most of them had innies. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/16 06:24 PM |
| 4 | Have any women here had a labiaplasty or do they know someone who has? NSFWYeah and he tells me to shut up, and says that it doesn't matter what he likes more, as long as he is OK with it, but I don't want him to just be 'OK' with my body, I want him to find me attractive. I also don't understand why he had to say it in the first place if he doesn't want me to change it. He says he is not willing to pay for it privately and if I want one I can either raise the money myself or try to have it done government funded. I am a SAHM. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/16 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Have any women here had a labiaplasty or do they know someone who has? NSFWWell, if I'm going to spend the rest of my life with this man and have more of his children, then I might as well make it easier. He's a good catch in many ways, and I don't want to break up with him. The pros of being with him outweigh the cons. I don't want to spend the rest of my life changing in the bathroom and hating sex. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/16 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Have any women here had a labiaplasty or do they know someone who has? NSFWNone of my previous partners ever mentioned it in a negative way at least, and up until now I haven't really been exposed to porn. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/16 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Need help with my hairI'll give this a try. Do you use sulphate free? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/16 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Need help with my hairHow do you manage to keep the shampoo away from the rest of your hair when you rinse? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/16 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Deciding to Monk Mode. How long is recommended for an ex-party girl feminist?And there are a lot of differences in Asian culture when it comes to sex. Their idea of sex is a lot less pornographic than most western people, since a lot of them don't have access to porn and its not talked about so much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/16 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Deciding to Monk Mode. How long is recommended for an ex-party girl feminist?I didn't understand a word of that. What do you mean by having sexy stuff done to me? I was a willing participant. And what do you mean by consequences? I don't remember there being any. I was very careful. You sound offended by something. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/16 04:12 PM |
| 0 | Long-term boyfriend doesn't want to marry me (yet) but leaving isn't an option.As a woman your smv will decline with time. sometimes the only way to wake people up is to give them an ultimatum. Either he takes things to the next level or you split and you find someone who will settle down with you. It sounds to me like your boyfriend is naturally just an argumentative person. Instead of discussing things that make him feel uncomfortable in any way he jumps straight into a battle. These sorts of people usually don't realize that they have a problem and they always have thei… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/16 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Deciding to Monk Mode. How long is recommended for an ex-party girl feminist?I only date Asian men. Asian men tend to be more sexually conservative and in China porn is illegal. For me sex is about intimacy, even if it's with a stranger, it's about being with a man, because I just love men, especially Asian men. I don't really focus too much on the ins and outs of what we do, and most of the men I have been with have been happy with that. I also like to take a more passive role. If I'm on top of a guy bouncing up and down or I'm there trying to do somersaults or whatever… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/16 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Deciding to Monk Mode. How long is recommended for an ex-party girl feminist?Wow you made a lot of incorrect assumptions there. Not all people want a sex life that reflects porn movies and that goes for both men and women. Me and my boyfriend only like sex in the missionary position and I have met a lot of men that way, I only date Asians and in China porn is illegal, so most dont know anything else. My boyfriend watches porn but he only likes couples having piv sex. I also have chronic fatigue, and I struggle with anything that gets my heart rate up. I think that sexual… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/16 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Deciding to Monk Mode. How long is recommended for an ex-party girl feminist?Dont assume all women who have been with lots of men are good at sex. I have quite a high n count and I am a starfish in bed and I'm very nervous. Sometimes you really can't tell. I could easily get away with lying since most of my hook ups have been with Chinese uni students. A woman who gives good blowjobs though probably wouldn't fool anyone. I really am not experienced in blow job or hand job giving myself. Most of the sex I have had over the years has just been piv sex in the missionary pos… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/16 12:40 PM |
| 1 | I am a post-fattie looking to get into my first relationshipOnly so much. Irregardless of what you do it will never look like it did before. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/16 02:45 PM |
| 3 | A Discussion on Family BedsIt hasn't stopped me and my bf from having sex. We just leave the bed and do it in the other room, or wait until the kid is fast asleep. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/16 12:48 PM |
| 6 | I am a post-fattie looking to get into my first relationshipMost of the ladies here are not going to like my advice, but I have parts of my body that look subjectively bad and my partner just doesn't see, simple as that. I wear a nightdress or a top at all times including during intimacy and I go to the bathroom to change. My partner doesn't even mention it and he doesn't seem bothered. You are probably not going to get the best quality guy with loose skin and that's just an honest answer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/09/16 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Are there any women here with a much more educated and intelligent spouse or partner?Not a spelling and grammar nazi... Me and you are going to have problems. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/16 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Are there any women here with a much more educated and intelligent spouse or partner?When people first meet they never completely know each other and they tend to idealize each other. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/16 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Are there any women here with a much more educated and intelligent spouse or partner?I have always been a bit ditzy. My IQ is around 90 or 95 or so and his is 145. When it comes to things he is interested in, such as politics or economics, I don't understand any of it. Even when I ask him to explain something to me, I just don't understand him. Like for example, he was trying to talk me last night about world finances and I always hear him watching videos about it or at least that's what I think it is. I had no idea at all what he was talking about. I much prefer simple gossip w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/16 12:17 PM |
| 0 | Partner wants to try polygamysadly if my son ends up in a dangerous situation I will have no choice but to leave at least until the situation is rectified. That's a big if though, he hasn't even found anyone yet and if he does its not guaranteed they will be trouble just yet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/16 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Partner wants to try polygamyI'm actually perfectly ok with it, but only under certain conditions. I want to be able to have a say as well in who he chooses and I want to make sure it's someone I am friendly with. I have argued about this because i don't want it to be someone who doesn't know about me at fir and someone who could find out and cause trouble. I dont see any reason why one man can't commit to more than one woman, should they all know about each other and be ok with it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/16 02:46 PM |
| 1 | I'm shocked by the immaturity of these feminists.You have to admit, those names are funny. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/09/16 11:24 AM |
| 6 | Meatless Monday?If you want to drop extra weight it would be a better idea to count calories. It's the only way I have ever successfully lost weight, ever. Get some weighing scales and some measuring cups and measure out your food and stick to 1,500 calories a day. You can eat 1,800 and still lose weight if you are physically active or overweight. My diet is virtually all vegetarian, apart from chicken and fish every once in a while. My favourite is vegetarian cottage pie. Mashed potatoes and soy or quorn mince… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/16 01:43 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Actually trusting your man means not checking up on him.I think it's fine to check up on someone if you have reason to be concerned. My boyfriend has admitted falling asleep at the wheel on the way to work in the past so I always text him and make sure that he's OK when he's out in his car and I know that he's had little sleep. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/08/16 01:37 PM |
| 1 | How to handle an argumentative man?I am not the most confident of people. I think this gets on his nerves sometimes. I guess it's something I need to work on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/16 10:21 PM |
| 2 | How to handle an argumentative man?He can make fun of himself, and he knows how to laugh at himself, but he can't handle criticism when having a serious conversation. His IQ was tested professionally by mensa and by a psychologist. He is very intelligent but doesn't have a lot of insight into how to behave socially. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/16 04:18 PM |
| 11 | Need advice - on the verge of a breakup unless something drastic changes. I think RPW might be it and I need helpI'm going to chime in here because my boyfriend works 12 hours a day every weekday (including travel time). I am a housewife and I stay home with the baby. The number one thing is to be considerate that he's just had a tiring day. Don't bombard him with your problems. He's probably exhausted and he doesn't want to listen. Be open about how much you love him. When he comes home offer him a hug. Compliment him, tell him what you like about him. Initiate sex with him. If you are in a bad mood confi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/16 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Advice on my plan for the next few monthsWhere are you from out of curiosity? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/16 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Advice on my plan for the next few monthsI think you have trouble stepping out of your comfort zone. University is not the only place you can meet people. Most guys in uni are not looking for a long term thing. Most of them want to have fun. I am not saying that marriages and long term relationships don't happen at uni but the majority of guys there are too busy establishing themselves and enjoying their free time to think about commitment. There is nothing wrong with meeting someone online, there are a lot of dating sites and aps wher… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/16 12:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with jealousyI thought psychosis was when people had delusions without self awareness? Correct me if I am wrong. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/16 12:10 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with jealousySome of the uncomfortable thoughts are more about my boyfriend leaving me because one of these women may like him. I think these women are better than I am, and I am scared that he will leave me as a single mother and all these men will be snapped up by women better than me and I will stay single. It all makes me feel just so pathetic. I think some of these insecurities I have come from the fact that he was single for his whole life, and when I met him he was desperate for a partner and a family… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/16 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Tips on dealing with severe jealousyI have bad teeth also and some old self harm scars on my arms and chest which are really bad. I would get things done to fix this but I don't have a job, my boyfriend wants me at home looking after our children which is understandable (we have a son and are currently trying for another), and he doesn't want to pay for me to have any work done because he says that it's not important. He doesn't like spending money on things that are not essential, which I accept because it's his money and I can't… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/08/16 08:03 PM |
| 2 | New, very lost, and a bit scared.I would suggest online dating if you find it hard to meet men. It's become pretty mainstream these days, almost anyone who is looking for a relationship is on these sites waiting to meet people. I would suggest joining a site like pof. You can find men local to you and it's a very popular site. You can also add filters to search results so your preferences are met. I met by boyfriend on pof. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/16 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Found out she is a camgirl. Why do I attract these type of girls ?(details inside)Objectively speaking, the type of people you attract is a reflection of you. What did you have in common with these girls that made you both hit it off? Why can't you go and hit it off with conservative church girls who won't do this type of thing? If you don't like the kinds of people you attract, then you need to work on yourself and find out why you keep running into this type of girl. Maybe you come across as having no sexual boundaries, and the type of girl you want wants a man who is a lit… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/16 10:45 AM |
| 1 | How can the rpw not want to kill themselves?I am a woman. Look at my screen name you numpty. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 07:50 PM |
| 1 | How can the rpw not want to kill themselves?Are you a rpw yourself? This lacks the cynicism that comes with the rp | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 07:49 PM |
| 0 | Don't last long in bed. I come from 1-3 minutes. How can I fix this?I thought that 1-3 minutes was normal. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 10:43 AM |
| 1 | How can the rpw not want to kill themselves?That didn't stop Donald Trump and elon musk. There is a term called 'first wife'. Plus many of these women are aging and don't have kids and are not married or in a long term relationship. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do my own experiences go against the red pill philosophyEven if he was it wouldn't be completely relevant, the bigger question is why would he even bother with me in the first place and go so far as to spend money on me and take me out in public? | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Why do my own experiences go against the red pill philosophyDo I know you? Back in my single days I used to hook up with a chinese student on wechat who used the name 'edwardwhite' although that wasn't his real name. I couldn't imagine him using the red pill, though. He was far too mild mannered. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 06:22 AM |
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